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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 1: podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to another episode

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Speaker 1: of Reasonably Shady. I am Giselle Bryant. What's up? What's up? Everyone?

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Speaker 1: This is Robin Dixon. Thank you. Yes, people have been listening,

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Speaker 1: and thank you so much. Oh my gosh. We have

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Speaker 1: these meetings with Black Effect and they tell us our

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Speaker 1: numbers like how may people download? And like y'all be

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Speaker 1: listening in I totally appreciated. I feel like, um, y'all,

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Speaker 1: y'all must like us or something. Somebody likes us, clearly,

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Speaker 1: somebody I don't know, a lot of people hate us though,

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Speaker 1: but somebody likes us. Yes, indeed. Okay, First, thanks, First

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Speaker 1: November twenty six is our live show in in y C,

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Speaker 1: New York. Yes, I'm so excited for New York City. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Reasonably Shady live show. The reason why I'm bringing up

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Speaker 1: again is because we've just found out that there was

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Speaker 1: like a glitch with buying our tickets. So if you

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Speaker 1: try to buy the tickets and it set sold out,

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Speaker 1: it's not it's about to be, so you can go

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Speaker 1: back and get your ticket, get your tickets City Winery. Yes,

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Speaker 1: and the live show. If anyone is like, well, why

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Speaker 1: would I want to just sit and watch someone like

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Speaker 1: do a podcast, It's not what you're imagining. I mean,

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Speaker 1: like you know, it's it's not just Gisell and I

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Speaker 1: sitting on the couch talking like. It's very interactive. Clearly,

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Speaker 1: we have the meet and greet option. Yes, um, we

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Speaker 1: want to meet everyone. We want to take a picture

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Speaker 1: with you, we want to fill your energy. We might

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Speaker 1: you know, definitely allow you all to ask questions in

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Speaker 1: the audience. We're gonna have the games. Um. Just it's

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Speaker 1: gonna be very lively and exciting and entertaining. Additionally, if

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Speaker 1: you can't come to New York City, if you're not

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Speaker 1: in New York City, UM, for people outside of that area,

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Speaker 1: you can also purchase the live stream the digital experience.

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Speaker 1: So we're having the reasonably Shady digital experience. You can

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Speaker 1: live stream it. Um. You can also purchase the option

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Speaker 1: for a virtual meet and greet with us. How do

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Speaker 1: how do they get to that? How do they buy that?

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Speaker 1: That is on moment dot co, moment, dot ceo, slash,

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Speaker 1: reasonably shady, yes, moment dot co, not Calm dot com

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Speaker 1: dot co, um so Moment dot CEO slash Reasonably Shady.

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Speaker 1: You can go there and sign up for the digital

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Speaker 1: experience UM and there's a different a few different options,

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Speaker 1: whether it's the meat and greet, a merch bundle yes,

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Speaker 1: merch yes, and the actual streaming experience Yes. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: love all that. So November, get your life with me

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Speaker 1: and rob it and and be clear if you're coming,

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Speaker 1: if you're in the building, you might be called up

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Speaker 1: on stage like that's just how we're doing That's how

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Speaker 1: we're doing this. Absolutely, and I wish we could, you know,

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Speaker 1: what we need to find like some feedback from our

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Speaker 1: first show, Like our first show in Maryland, Silver Spring,

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Speaker 1: it was like amazing that everyone had such a good

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Speaker 1: time that left. They were so happy like people. The

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Speaker 1: feedback was awesome. So you know, hopefully we need we

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Speaker 1: we might need to dig that up and read some

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Speaker 1: some feedback. Yes for sure, for sure. All right, it

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Speaker 1: is time for our Reasonably Shady Moment of the week.

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Speaker 1: I'm first, first, Okay, I'm first, okay, So okay, I

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Speaker 1: have to like paint the picture. Okay, So if you

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Speaker 1: are Bravo talent, I can just speak for Bravo UM.

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Speaker 1: By the way, before I get my reasonably shady moment.

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Speaker 1: I do want to shout out my daughter, Grace Giselle

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Speaker 1: Bryant her birthday. Yeah, her real name is Giselle. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I wanted somebody else to be named Giselle. Her birthday

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Speaker 1: just passed, and I just want to wish her happy birthday.

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Speaker 1: She turned eighteen. Oh my god, I I know it

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Speaker 1: makes me sad you having to do. And I did

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Speaker 1: tell her. I was like, Grace, you're like, you're old

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Speaker 1: enough now that you can legally leave my house and

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Speaker 1: So she's going nowhere. Happy birthday, Yes, happy birth So

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Speaker 1: crazy because I just recently saw a clip and they

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Speaker 1: showed flashbacks to like season one. Yes, they were so little,

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Speaker 1: They're growing up um in front of everybody's eyes, and

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Speaker 1: it makes me sad, and let's move on. It's to see,

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Speaker 1: all right, So I'm gonna give you my reasonably shading

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Speaker 1: moment of the week. I'm gonna trying to make it

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Speaker 1: as quick as possible because it irritated the f out

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Speaker 1: of me. So, um, if you're a Bravo talent, right,

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Speaker 1: and let's say they want you to come to New

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Speaker 1: this is kind of how it goes. Right. There's car

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Speaker 1: service that picks you up from your house, takes you

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Speaker 1: The car service the next day, we'll you up and

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Speaker 1: then take you where you need to be. Right, that's

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Speaker 1: a lot of car service, but that's just it is

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Speaker 1: what it is. So last week there was a Bravo

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Speaker 1: talent who was traveling and it was not me, but

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Speaker 1: the car service had my number for her. So they

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Speaker 1: were calling me telling me that they were at my

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Speaker 1: know who was connected to all night long, Like what

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Speaker 1: I found out it was for Alexia. I was coming

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Speaker 1: in from Miami. Alexei as a housewife on the Housewives

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Speaker 1: in Miami. She was going into New York. I guess

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Speaker 1: she got in like around eleven. I knew her whole

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Speaker 1: in the city. So um. Finally it's said when they

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Speaker 1: texted me her name and I was like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: this is Alexey. I call Alexey. I'm like, girl, you

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Speaker 1: for two days and I don't appreciate it. We're laughing.

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Speaker 1: So the shady moment is, I think, to the production

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Speaker 1: numbers mixed up, Like, yes, your names aren't even anywhere close. No, No,

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Speaker 1: I mean we we do. We are on this show

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Speaker 1: that we did together. But like it was a good

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Speaker 1: and she's probably like in New York wondering like, wow,

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Speaker 1: this car services not calling me because the car services

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Speaker 1: they call you when they're like the cars dispatch or

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Speaker 1: all of that and it's not for you. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: was angry, frustrated, Alex See. Yeah, I hope you traveled safely. Honey. Yes,

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Speaker 1: y'all ruin Gizell's beauty sleep. She's ugly today, y'all. I

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Speaker 1: All right, what is your shady moment? Okay, so my

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Speaker 1: shady moment? You know, I shared this on my Instagram.

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Speaker 1: I feel like we talked about this all the time

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Speaker 1: because it doesn't stop. But um, you know, okay, So

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Speaker 1: let's first say, the Real Housewives of Time, it gets

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Speaker 1: back on eight o'clock on Sunday. What you're talking about?

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Speaker 1: I know what I'm saying now that we're back on

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Speaker 1: thing you know, the social media giants? Yes, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: I thought you were like doing a promo for the show. No, no,

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Speaker 1: y'all know we're back on eight o'clock Sundays. Yes, so yes,

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Speaker 1: So now that the show is on and people are watching, um,

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Speaker 1: you know, we're getting everybody in their mama and their

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Speaker 1: opinions coming at us on social media. And Okay, it's fine.

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Speaker 1: If you don't like me, fine, that's you know, what

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Speaker 1: can I do about it? If you think I was wrong? Fine?

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Speaker 1: But like this woman literally, Lee literally told me she

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Speaker 1: hoped I die. I want you to read it? Can

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Speaker 1: you read it? I'll read it. It's first of all,

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Speaker 1: people are like, what what what is she saying? Because

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Speaker 1: because she can't even put so this is the funny part,

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Speaker 1: because she's censoring the word bitch right by writing uppercase

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Speaker 1: what that is? I don't know, but I'm assuming just

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Speaker 1: giving what she's saying that she's censoring the word bitch right.

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Speaker 1: So it's like, you are holy enough to not curse

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Speaker 1: at me, right, censor the word bitchy, but then tell

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Speaker 1: So are we giving her name? Okay, what's her name?

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Speaker 1: Her name is Nicki Edwards? Oh my gosh. And then

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Speaker 1: I read it? Huh, someone comment I posted this on

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Speaker 1: my Instagram and someone commented that they grew up with her.

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Speaker 1: Oh lovely, I grew up with her. I cannot believe

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Speaker 1: that you know whatever? Anyway? So I mean, do you

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Speaker 1: want to read this? Yes? So Nikki Edwards's gonna read

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Speaker 1: this in Nicky's voice? Yes, reading in Nicki's voice said

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Speaker 1: not inviting Wendy and her kids? What you what do

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Speaker 1: you have against her? Because she dark skinned? And how

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Speaker 1: the hell you gonna as another bit to bring her kids?

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Speaker 1: I hope you die, bitch? How crazy is that? How

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Speaker 1: are you writing that? Who writes that? Who actually? Like?

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Speaker 1: I just need I need an explanation, right from people

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Speaker 1: who do this, from people who like send hate on Instagram,

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Speaker 1: for people who even like spew negativity, Like why why

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Speaker 1: there's so there's so many questions there? First of all,

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Speaker 1: there's thousands over the time that I ignore. Right, Also,

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Speaker 1: one hate, No, and I'm and I'm upset about it.

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Speaker 1: But when you tell me I hope you die, That's

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Speaker 1: when I'm like, all right, your ass is going on blast. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I got to show the world that this

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Speaker 1: is the crazy ship that I received, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean, and that I received too. Yeah, And I

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Speaker 1: just like, enough is enough? Um? So, question number one?

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Speaker 1: When you watch these shows and so so people out here?

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Speaker 1: Who are who are listening? Um? You know, if you

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Speaker 1: have these emotional reactions to a reality show and you

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Speaker 1: feel they need to go on social media and you know,

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Speaker 1: go to someone's page and call them out their name

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Speaker 1: and or whatever, or even go on like these sites

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Speaker 1: and just speaking negativity? Um. Question number one, do you

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Speaker 1: realize that when you're watching a show that this stuff

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Speaker 1: has happened months and months and months ago? Right? That's

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Speaker 1: number one? Number one? Number two? Question number two? Are

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Speaker 1: you not a human? Because what human is perfect? And

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Speaker 1: you don't does what you consider the perfect thing? You are?

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Speaker 1: I'm saying so so for me, she according to your standards? Right,

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Speaker 1: But I'm like, who how do I And I always said,

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Speaker 1: like what are y'all watching? Like? How do you not

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Speaker 1: see people argue? Like literally argue? And who in they

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Speaker 1: write mind turns around to someone they just argued with

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Speaker 1: and nicely speak to them. I don't know. I don't

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Speaker 1: there any human that can do that, especially if it's

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Speaker 1: someone that like you have like argued with over for

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Speaker 1: We can't you can't even go to a bowling alley.

420
00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:36,480
Speaker 1: I mean, and I know, you know, the investigation is

421
00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:39,040
Speaker 1: still going on. We're still getting the details of what happened.

422
00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:44,840
Speaker 1: Apparently there was some words exchange, but like a bowling alley,

423
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:48,320
Speaker 1: a bowling alley, And it's like, why do we need

424
00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:50,600
Speaker 1: to carry around guns? Right? Why do we need to

425
00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:53,280
Speaker 1: do that? Right? Why do we need to kill like

426
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 1: so because somebody said something, you don't like you want

427
00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:59,879
Speaker 1: to kill him? I don't. It's just like in a

428
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:03,120
Speaker 1: like who were the shots intended for? Too? Like that's

429
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:04,439
Speaker 1: that's a good question, you know what I mean, like

430
00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:08,200
Speaker 1: you really intended to kill this person? Because I I've

431
00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:10,920
Speaker 1: seen videos where like it's like a group of people,

432
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 1: and they're around and they're you know, just kind of talking,

433
00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:16,840
Speaker 1: and it's so weird. It's like, how do we go

434
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:20,440
Speaker 1: How do we skip the the fist part? No one

435
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:23,480
Speaker 1: fights anymore like their fists that doesn't happen how anymore?

436
00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:25,640
Speaker 1: How do you literally go from words? They weren't even

437
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:29,200
Speaker 1: screaming like they weren't. It didn't sound like an argument

438
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:30,600
Speaker 1: to me. It was just kind of like some like

439
00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 1: hey man, get on out here with that, you know,

440
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 1: stuff like that. How do you go from that? Two gunshots? Right?

441
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:39,480
Speaker 1: Like where's the fist? The cut? The pulling out of

442
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:43,480
Speaker 1: hair to kicking or something something? If you really are

443
00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 1: are you know that upset? I just I just it's

444
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:49,160
Speaker 1: just gotta end. We gotta do better. There's no reason

445
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,160
Speaker 1: for people to be walking around with these guns. Everybody

446
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:53,960
Speaker 1: is strapped up. Why. I don't know. Can we just

447
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 1: go back to living our lives peacefully? Yeah? I don't know.

448
00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 1: I know one thing. Like the more of the stuff happens.

449
00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:01,960
Speaker 1: I feel sorry for my kids because they're not going

450
00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:06,639
Speaker 1: to have anywhere near a childhood or you know, like

451
00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:09,720
Speaker 1: memories like I had, you know what I mean? There,

452
00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:13,439
Speaker 1: their father is not letting them go anywhere. I know

453
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 1: that for sure. Okay, you know what I mean. Let

454
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 1: let the boys leave the house a little bit. It's

455
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:20,600
Speaker 1: scary though. It's scary, but you know, honestly, my kids

456
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:22,960
Speaker 1: probably don't want to leave the house. They see the

457
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:25,760
Speaker 1: stuff and they and they don't. They want no parts. Yes,

458
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:28,919
Speaker 1: And on top of that, shoot Lebron James Son was

459
00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:32,840
Speaker 1: in Maryland recently playing a basketball games, like a high

460
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:37,400
Speaker 1: school exhibition game, and folks started running because apparently there

461
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:38,840
Speaker 1: was a gun. I don't know, I don't know if

462
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 1: it's there or whatever, but you know, someone saw it.

463
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:46,640
Speaker 1: Someone saw the gun and people start running like that's scary.

464
00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:48,359
Speaker 1: It was a two day tournament and they had to

465
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:52,240
Speaker 1: cancel the whole thing for two days. So like, you

466
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 1: don't even give these boys apportunity to play do something

467
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:57,639
Speaker 1: that they love to do because people have guns and

468
00:25:57,640 --> 00:25:59,680
Speaker 1: they potentially might shoot somebody. Like this is a mess.

469
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:03,160
Speaker 1: Everybody stopped. Yeah. I've literally been in a youth basketball game.

470
00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 1: I think this was my kids were in. I think

471
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:08,120
Speaker 1: Corey was in fourth grade. We were at a tournament,

472
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:10,639
Speaker 1: local tournament and it brought like a lot of teams

473
00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:15,480
Speaker 1: from all over New York, New Jersey, you know, Georgia, Virginia, whatever,

474
00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:20,920
Speaker 1: And literally one of the coaches gets into it with

475
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 1: um a spectator and pulls the gun out the coach.

476
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:28,920
Speaker 1: The coaches strapped out. Yes, it was like an assistant

477
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:34,280
Speaker 1: coach pulls a gun out. What yes, where was this?

478
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:37,200
Speaker 1: This was right down in jessip and that it was

479
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:42,159
Speaker 1: a big, huge basketball tournament. The people playing it was

480
00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 1: fourth graders on the court playing. Okay, that's insane because

481
00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:50,880
Speaker 1: at a basketball game, nothing is that that stressful or

482
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,640
Speaker 1: upsetting that you need to end it with a gunshot.

483
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 1: But imagine so much happens, like with referees, Like people

484
00:26:57,320 --> 00:27:01,119
Speaker 1: get mad at referees and the referees and then shoot

485
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 1: the referee might go to their car and get their guns.

486
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:06,240
Speaker 1: Like it's just it's horrible. I just I don't understand.

487
00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 1: I wish it would stop. But you know, my condolences

488
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,639
Speaker 1: to take off his family and friends and everyone in

489
00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 1: the music industry morning this. It's like, but I don't

490
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:17,199
Speaker 1: want to hear it. I just I don't want to

491
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,680
Speaker 1: hear this anymore. No, it's it's got to stop. But okay,

492
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:23,679
Speaker 1: but on another note with offset, because right before this happened,

493
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:28,800
Speaker 1: I was actually intrigued with Offset and just I don't

494
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:31,960
Speaker 1: think I've ever heard him talk, right, I know, you know,

495
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:36,439
Speaker 1: and it kitden't like all of that. I know the songs, right,

496
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:40,439
Speaker 1: I knew one word out of that whole lyric, but

497
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:42,440
Speaker 1: I wanted to hear him talk. So I was scrolling

498
00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:46,240
Speaker 1: through HBO and he has a show called The Hype, Carli,

499
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:48,160
Speaker 1: have you seen the Hype? I haven't seen it? Okay,

500
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:52,480
Speaker 1: So The Hype is similar to Project Runway, and it's

501
00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 1: a competition show in which kids are not kids, but

502
00:27:55,920 --> 00:28:00,639
Speaker 1: like designers are making streetwear. Okay. Now I didn't know

503
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:03,200
Speaker 1: street where it was the thing, right, Okay, but streetwear,

504
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 1: I mean I knew streetwear it was the thing, but

505
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 1: I didn't know it was like a thing like think thing,

506
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 1: Like we got competitions over who has the best streetwear.

507
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 1: Streetwearing my mind is like baggy cargo paints and a hoodie?

508
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:15,760
Speaker 1: Right yeah, so what is streetwear exactly? So you need

509
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:19,359
Speaker 1: to watch. So Offset is one of the judges. It's

510
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:24,560
Speaker 1: actually I think his show Marnie who Martie Stopped Something

511
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:28,520
Speaker 1: isr is Beyonce. I can't pronounce her last name, and

512
00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:32,359
Speaker 1: I love this woman. Hi My name is Martie Santa Fonte.

513
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 1: I'm a stylist and costume designer. She is Beyonce stylist,

514
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:39,240
Speaker 1: and Martie is the one that always has like a

515
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 1: top knot, white lady blonde hair, top knot. And I'm

516
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:46,280
Speaker 1: talking about that was stalin Michelle Obama years ago. Um,

517
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 1: I don't know how you go from Michelle Obama to Beyonce.

518
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 1: I mean she did the whole homecoming white lady was

519
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 1: I know Michelle Obama had heard style. This was a

520
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 1: white lady, blonde hair with top knot. She's not Michelle

521
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:01,959
Speaker 1: Obama's vibe, but I can be then, yes, they can

522
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:04,360
Speaker 1: switch off. But she did the whole Coachella thing, the

523
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:08,360
Speaker 1: whole that whole thing anyway. Um, and and another girl

524
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 1: who I don't I don't know who she is anyway,

525
00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:15,160
Speaker 1: long story short, Offset is smart artick you lit. I

526
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 1: mean he does say the word um yeah, man, that's

527
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 1: real hard. Yeah, that's that's that's fire. Yeah. I mean

528
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 1: he does a lot of that. But like, I am

529
00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 1: very impressed with him, and I see now why him

530
00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 1: and CARDI are married. Yeah, oh really I do, because

531
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, he got some swag with him

532
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 1: he's cleaned himself up. He's a nice looking guy and

533
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 1: I see it. Yeah. Yeah. And and you know Marnie,

534
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 1: I like her too, so you know she's also intriguing

535
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,200
Speaker 1: for the whole show. Okay, Yeah, I don't know a

536
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:49,840
Speaker 1: lot about the Mean Goes either, but outside of their music. So,

537
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:54,120
Speaker 1: but but I'm sure they're all extremely intelligent. I feel

538
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 1: like anyone to be First of all, can you can

539
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:00,080
Speaker 1: you rap? Like? You know what I'm saying, Like I

540
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 1: just try to in the kitchen, right, that's not it's

541
00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 1: that actually requires a lot of not just talent, but intelligence, yes,

542
00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 1: to be able to wrap. Um, and I think people

543
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 1: don't give them credit for that. Um. So I'm sure

544
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 1: they are all quite intelligent. But um, it's good to

545
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 1: see them do like see him doing something other things. Yeah,

546
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:22,719
Speaker 1: and they're on I think season two now. Um, I

547
00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:24,960
Speaker 1: just I started watching it. I started from the beginning

548
00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 1: season one. I'm actually loving the designers. They're all pretty young.

549
00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 1: They're on their grind, you know. It's it's nice to

550
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 1: see that they they're honing their craft, like they know

551
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:40,680
Speaker 1: how to sew all that. Okay, so what is streetwear? Yeah,

552
00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:43,680
Speaker 1: I'm still confused as to what exactly streetwear is, but

553
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 1: it consists of some sort of hoodie, a a baggy pant.

554
00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:53,600
Speaker 1: For the girls, you might get a hoodie that's like cropped,

555
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 1: or you might get a tank top. Situation, um, you know,

556
00:30:57,880 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 1: when they have challenges or whatever. But it's I'm enjoying it.

557
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 1: So it's more just okay, street where actually a category

558
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 1: of clothing or are we just saying it's just it is? Okay, Carly,

559
00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:10,680
Speaker 1: So it is. Yes, it's most definitely, and you have

560
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 1: to be like relevant, you know, sometimes they have to

561
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 1: like rep for their um where they're from. One girl

562
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:18,880
Speaker 1: who's from Kentucky, she decided to make a band a

563
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:23,280
Speaker 1: red bandana jacket there in l A. Well, no, no,

564
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 1: you got sent home as soon as she made it.

565
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 1: I was like, you're going home? Yes, first of all, girl,

566
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:33,240
Speaker 1: you're from Kentucky, Like, how does it make no sense?

567
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 1: But anyway, I'm enjoying it. Thank you. Offset. I totally

568
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:40,680
Speaker 1: appreciate who and what he is. And Marnie, anytime you

569
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 1: want to, like give me a Beyonce styling of the day,

570
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 1: feel free Okay, yes, all right, I'm gonna look her up. Yeah,

571
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 1: she's a bad one, so Julia Roberts posted something the

572
00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 1: other day and she said, and I'm gonna read what

573
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:08,160
Speaker 1: she posted. Are you ready? She revealed that the late

574
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 1: Martin Luther King Jr. And his wife Coreti Scott King.

575
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 1: But we love paid the hospital bill for her birth

576
00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 1: when her parents couldn't afford it. So I said to myself,

577
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 1: But I had so many questions. First of all, how

578
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:30,920
Speaker 1: old is Julia Roberts? When was she born? Ji, I

579
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 1: don't know. Carl is gonna tell us? Okay, what's what's

580
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:36,080
Speaker 1: the story on this? Okay, No, I'm she I don't know.

581
00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:40,240
Speaker 1: For whatever reason, she decided to tell this to us. Now,

582
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:45,080
Speaker 1: Julia Roberts and pretty Woman was twenty years ago. You

583
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:47,720
Speaker 1: didn't want to lead with that when you first came

584
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 1: into relevance. You didn't want to say, hey, by the way,

585
00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:54,959
Speaker 1: the great Martin Luther King and Coreti Scott King paid

586
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 1: for me to be born. Basically, you didn't want to

587
00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 1: lead with that. That that is so interesting. It's random. Yes,

588
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:06,080
Speaker 1: it's very random, so interesting, and I want to know, like, Okay,

589
00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:08,680
Speaker 1: where were she born? I guess it's Mississippi. Is something

590
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 1: I don't know. And the question is who was how

591
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 1: did that happen? Like is it was that Corretta and

592
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:20,680
Speaker 1: Martin's like uma? Was that their their charity that they

593
00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:24,200
Speaker 1: were in hospitals helping out new newborn moms. It was

594
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:26,280
Speaker 1: a charity. Okay. So we just got the story from Carl.

595
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:28,840
Speaker 1: If y'a couldn't here, we're gonna tell you I'm a story. Okay.

596
00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:33,800
Speaker 1: So Julia Roberts mother had a theater school and she

597
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 1: would let Martin and Coretta Scott King's children participate in

598
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:43,320
Speaker 1: the theater school. So in order I guess to pay this,

599
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:45,720
Speaker 1: maybe they couldn't. Maybe the black kids couldn't go to

600
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 1: theater school because they were black. Okay. So when she

601
00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 1: was pregnant with Julia and this was a giftback, So

602
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:54,720
Speaker 1: Martin Luther King decided, Okay, I'm gonna give back because

603
00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:56,440
Speaker 1: you helped me. You you allowed my kids to go

604
00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 1: to theater school and they're black, and I'm gonna help

605
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 1: you by paying for Julie Roberts birth. That's insane, it's amazing,

606
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:09,880
Speaker 1: it is beyond amazing. Yes, but like, why, Julia Roberts

607
00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 1: did you save this story? Why didn't I know this

608
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:14,840
Speaker 1: a long time? She might have said it before and

609
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 1: when she didn't, she did not say this it's new information.

610
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:21,680
Speaker 1: This is t okay. She spilled the tea and we

611
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:24,960
Speaker 1: know who paid for her to be brought into this world. Wow,

612
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 1: is special. She is like, she's like a treasure. She's like, yeah,

613
00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 1: a U s treasure. Yes. So, if if any white

614
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:37,239
Speaker 1: actors actresses have any tidbits of information about Martin Luther King,

615
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:39,879
Speaker 1: tell us now, don't let me wait twenty years for this,

616
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:44,160
Speaker 1: okay and the end. That's awesome to know that like

617
00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 1: Martin Luther King, you know, he was a black man

618
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:50,799
Speaker 1: fighting for equality for black people. But they also, you know,

619
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:53,719
Speaker 1: just because Julie Roberts parents were white, they weren't like,

620
00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 1: oh no, we're not gonna you know, so they were

621
00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:59,360
Speaker 1: just you know, I feel like he lived by the

622
00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 1: principles by which he preached. Yes, injustice anywhere is justice,

623
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:10,480
Speaker 1: injustice everywhere? That it injustice somewhere is injustice everywhere? Yeah, okay,

624
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:14,759
Speaker 1: so black girls and black boys, yes, a little white girls. What?

625
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 1: I don't know what? So we have I have a

626
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Speaker 1: diep up on our I have a dream. Yes, we got,

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Speaker 1: we got, We're gonna do some homework. Wait, wait minute,

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Speaker 1: we'll be ready for February black January, we'll be ready

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Speaker 1: for quotes in January. Oh my god, speaking of so,

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Speaker 1: first of all, y'all like elections, Yes, let's not forget

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Speaker 1: to talk about that. No, we're not. Okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: If you haven't voted early yet, then like, um, time

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Speaker 1: is running out and the big day is tomorrow tomorrow, yes,

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Speaker 1: big days tomorrow, November eight. Please vote. There's no reason

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Speaker 1: for you not to vote. Why are you not going

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Speaker 1: to vote? Right? I saw a woman on TV talking

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Speaker 1: about she wasn't want to vote. This was Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: it was. It was DC. They were talking about the mayor, um,

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Speaker 1: the election for the new mayor, whatever's going on in DC.

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Speaker 1: And they're like, you know, what are your issues with DC?

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Speaker 1: And she's like the crime. You know, everyone is like

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Speaker 1: the crime, the crime, the crime. And she's and they're like, well,

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Speaker 1: are you going to vote? She's like, I'm not going

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Speaker 1: to vote. I'm not going to vote because it never changes,

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Speaker 1: nothing changes. Okay, I just want to let y'all know.

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Speaker 1: I just Bryant took her daughter, Grace Bryant, to vote,

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Speaker 1: so we did early voting. It was Grace's first time

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Speaker 1: that she was capable and able to vote, and um,

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Speaker 1: it was a celebration up in there. They were so

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Speaker 1: excited that it was Grace's first time. They gave her

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Speaker 1: a standing ovation and everybody was super happy. I did

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Speaker 1: have to have poor with her ballot, but that's not

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Speaker 1: the point. She You know, she felt like she contributed.

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Speaker 1: She felt like a person. Yeah, I feel like I

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Speaker 1: remember the first time I voted, and it was definitely

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Speaker 1: significant and I felt, you know, like I was doing

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Speaker 1: something right. But that's nice that they acknowledged that they did.

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Speaker 1: They were they were so excited, and um, we have

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Speaker 1: a significant governoratorial governor ratep goobernatorial race here in the

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Speaker 1: state of Maryland, and we are pulling for Westmore. So

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Speaker 1: when I see west when he wins, because he's going to,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell him that Grace's first vote was for him.

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, that's really nice. Yeah I think so. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: So with that being said, if you're in Maryland, please

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Speaker 1: vote for Westmore. Okay. He's an amazing, amazing, amazing person,

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Speaker 1: you know, I mean, and I know we need more

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Speaker 1: than just an amazing person to run our state. Um,

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Speaker 1: but I know that he's super qualified and capable to

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Speaker 1: do it, and he has great people around him. So

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Speaker 1: please vote for Westmore. It's very important. And I know

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Speaker 1: a lot of people are like, oh, yeah, what's this

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Speaker 1: going to get it? What's this going to get it? Like,

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Speaker 1: you know, it's want to take cannot take it for granted,

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Speaker 1: because I really I felt like years ago we took

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Speaker 1: it for granted that Hillary Clinton was going to win.

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Speaker 1: And we all, you know, we all the Democrats received

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Speaker 1: the shock of our lives when Trump won. So so

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Speaker 1: let's not take it for granted. And please show up

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Speaker 1: and vote for Westmore, um if you want to sport

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Speaker 1: the Democrats. And and a little bit on that note,

681
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Speaker 1: and I I hate to bring this up, but we

682
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Speaker 1: have to bring this up because we can't stick our

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Speaker 1: heads in the sand. Speaking of Trump, one of these

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Speaker 1: Trumpers decided to go to Nancy Pelosi's house in San Francisco.

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Speaker 1: She was not there, but her husband was, and this

686
00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:31,239
Speaker 1: man beat Peter Pelosi with a hammer practice skull. I

687
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:36,920
Speaker 1: think um injured his torso horrible. This has got to stop.

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Speaker 1: Just because you have different political views than somebody else

689
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Speaker 1: does not mean that they should be harmed. We have

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Speaker 1: to respect each other's different views the end, it's disgusting.

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Speaker 1: It's beyond disgusting, disgusting. Yeah, and I can't. I would

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Speaker 1: hate to think. And you know, I'm gonna speak for

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Speaker 1: my children, my um for us, or for our children

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Speaker 1: to fee feel like they're going to be hurt physically

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Speaker 1: because I have different political views than the next person.

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Speaker 1: Like that should never happen like that, That's not what

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Speaker 1: America is about. No, that's not what our country is about.

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Speaker 1: That's what other countries are about. Like, that's not what

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00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 1: That's not what this country is about. It just so

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Speaker 1: it's heartbreaking. It's heartbreaking to see where we are. It's

701
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Speaker 1: so crazy. You I I know when I was like younger,

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Speaker 1: maybe in high school, and when I thought about the future,

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Speaker 1: I didn't envision this. I didn't envision our country being

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Speaker 1: like I feel like we're we've gone so far backwards.

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Speaker 1: And I did not picture that as an adult I

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Speaker 1: would be seeing times like this in America. Now. It's

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Speaker 1: it's it's bad. Okay. So on another note, happier note, Robin,

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Speaker 1: We've got to talk about our toxic traits. It's a

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Speaker 1: people pull a question. And if you have a toxic trade,

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00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:55,440
Speaker 1: please send us a little email as to what it is,

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Speaker 1: because they're typically very funny. Is your toxic trade? So,

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00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:02,319
Speaker 1: so what is your toxic trait? Okay? So, but like

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Speaker 1: what might be toxic to someone else, right, might not

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Speaker 1: be toxic. Okay. For instance, you probably hate the fact

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Speaker 1: that I'm like energetic and happy like most of the time. No,

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Speaker 1: that's yes, that's not toxic. No, okay, So I don't

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Speaker 1: have any toxic traits. No, I'm just going to tell you,

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Speaker 1: like sounds perfect, you don't have any? Yeah, okay. So

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Speaker 1: so first, also funny, somebody commented on one of my

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Speaker 1: um on Instagram posts. It's like not related to the post,

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Speaker 1: but it was like, by the way, Wan's toxic traite

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Speaker 1: is walking away from difficult conversations. Oh and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: you're absolutely right, Like that's that's what he does. Like

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Speaker 1: when he doesn't want to talk about something, he just

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Speaker 1: walks away. He walks away. That would irritate the heck.

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Speaker 1: So they said that because they saw him do it

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Speaker 1: on the show. They actually we've seen him do a

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Speaker 1: multiple time, maybe four over the seven seasons. Yes, okay,

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Speaker 1: so wait, so I have a question that wait, has

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Speaker 1: have you all had a conversation. He was walking away

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Speaker 1: and you got up and you jumped on his back.

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Speaker 1: You will not leave, and you tackle him and you

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00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:15,919
Speaker 1: throw him on the ground and you head to him.

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Speaker 1: You're a bad less than to me, No, because I

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Speaker 1: know how to so, so I know how to deal

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Speaker 1: with it, right, how do you deal with it? So

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Speaker 1: the way I deal with it, I let him walk away. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I let him stew in his thoughts and his feelings,

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Speaker 1: and then I just wait, how wait? How long we wait?

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Speaker 1: Rob like days? It could be it could be the

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Speaker 1: next day, it could be it could be that, you know,

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Speaker 1: hours later, it could be the next day, because I

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Speaker 1: know he's always going to come back around. Oh, and

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00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:48,719
Speaker 1: then we like so you know when you said and

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Speaker 1: I can't believe you. You know what I'm saying. So

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Speaker 1: he always brings it back up. You don't have to

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00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:57,080
Speaker 1: bring it back up. I just ignore it. Wow, that

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Speaker 1: is okay. So my toxic trade is I would be like,

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Speaker 1: oh hey, oh no, you ain't walking away, right, and

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00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:06,719
Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about this right now. That's my toxic right. Yeah. Yeah,

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00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:08,920
Speaker 1: Like I know how to do like the reverse psychology

752
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:12,239
Speaker 1: where I'm just and then I just wait and then

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00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:14,280
Speaker 1: come back. So what so what happens in the reverse?

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Speaker 1: What if he says something to you that you don't

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00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:21,320
Speaker 1: want to talk about. Um, I don't, Yeah, I don't. Um,

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00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:23,399
Speaker 1: I don't walk away like I try to like talk

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00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:26,640
Speaker 1: it out. I try to talk it out. But another

758
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 1: toxic trade of his is he cuts me off all

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Speaker 1: the time. So like you know, even if I'm talking

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Speaker 1: and then he cuts me off, and I'm like, you're

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00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:37,440
Speaker 1: cutting me off, and then and then I try to

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00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:39,440
Speaker 1: talk again and I'm like, you're cutting me off and

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00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:41,520
Speaker 1: then and so he walks away and then he walks

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Speaker 1: So he does do things wrong, okay, and that's what

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Speaker 1: Like I cannot stand being cut off, Like no, like

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Speaker 1: when I feel like I'm I'm trying to that I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to have a civil conversation, like I'm literally just

768
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Speaker 1: trying to explain what's going on, and then I get

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Speaker 1: cut off in the person like they cut you off

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Speaker 1: because they don't want to hear what you have to say,

771
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:11,760
Speaker 1: that because you're gonna hear what I have to say,

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00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:15,399
Speaker 1: right wow? So so yeah, So anyway, so I thought

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00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:17,840
Speaker 1: that was funny that it was like um on stocks,

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00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:22,160
Speaker 1: I'm like you're so right. It is. Um, I think

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00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 1: my toxic traite and I think you kind of have

776
00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:33,120
Speaker 1: a same similar trait is like is it's weird. It's like, um,

777
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:35,399
Speaker 1: it's like good and bad. It's like good for us,

778
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:38,239
Speaker 1: but it can be bad for the people in the

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00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 1: receiving end. Like I literally just don't care, like I say,

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Speaker 1: I say the words I don't care often because I

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00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 1: really like, like I don't care about what someone thinks

782
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:51,759
Speaker 1: of me, or I don't care you know, okay, like

783
00:43:51,800 --> 00:43:55,880
Speaker 1: if you call me, you know, fifty million whatever words

784
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:57,719
Speaker 1: up my name, like I don't really care. But is

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00:43:57,760 --> 00:44:00,839
Speaker 1: that a toxic traite? No, that's like survival, that's like

786
00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:04,399
Speaker 1: how we handle the bullshit. But for me, I think

787
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:06,719
Speaker 1: it gets toxic when, like say I do have a

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00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:12,200
Speaker 1: disagreement with someone because I don't care, like my I

789
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:15,279
Speaker 1: become emotionally detached. So maybe the maybe the toxic trait

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00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:19,800
Speaker 1: is that I am capable of becoming emotionally detached. Yes,

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00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:23,080
Speaker 1: and I that's my toxic trait and I love it, right,

792
00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:25,480
Speaker 1: I think it's amazing. Right, It's like it's great, And

793
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:27,759
Speaker 1: that's the thing I'm like, I wish I tell people

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00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:31,840
Speaker 1: I'm like I wish you could like have this toxic

795
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:35,760
Speaker 1: trait because then you won't like stew and like stress

796
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 1: over things all the time. You're not gonna sit around

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00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:39,920
Speaker 1: you know why she say that? Why does she do that?

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00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:41,440
Speaker 1: Why do you do that? Blah blah blah. Like I'm

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00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 1: literally type like I can emotionally detach and like I

800
00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:45,839
Speaker 1: would never have to speak to you again in my life.

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00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:48,799
Speaker 1: I never see your face. Yeah, Like I don't need

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00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:51,759
Speaker 1: the explanation. I don't know you said what she said? What? Okay? Bye?

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00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:54,520
Speaker 1: We can okay, like in the story By and good.

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00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:57,840
Speaker 1: But I think that becomes that can be toxic because

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00:44:57,880 --> 00:45:01,920
Speaker 1: the person on the receiving end who may care and

806
00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:04,759
Speaker 1: they want to see that you care. It's like you

807
00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:07,640
Speaker 1: make it worse because you don't care because you literally

808
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:09,840
Speaker 1: just cut them off and act like they never existed,

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00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:12,960
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I think it's better just

810
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:15,640
Speaker 1: to cut them off, act like they didn't exist. That's yes,

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Speaker 1: I like that. It's been working for me very well. No, right, right,

812
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:22,040
Speaker 1: but I just but I do think that that it works.

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Speaker 1: But then you have to like think about I don't know,

814
00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:28,919
Speaker 1: just to a degree, like you gotta show some sort

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Speaker 1: of emotions somehow. Okay, We're only gonna show emotions to

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Speaker 1: our reasonably shady listeners. We absolutely love you guys. We

817
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 1: think y'all are amazing. That is actually our show. I

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Speaker 1: don't ever figet to live your life either reasonable or

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Speaker 1: should you or both? Is it both or both? Bye? Bye?

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