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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject I'm in love by default. Dear

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Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I'm a thirty nine year old single female

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Speaker 1: and I'm being pressured to be with a man that

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Speaker 1: saved my life. I had a crazy accident and my

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Speaker 1: SUV flipped twice after I swerve to avoid hitting a

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Speaker 1: small dog. I was shaken up and I had pieces

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Speaker 1: of glass in my arm, but I was fine. I

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Speaker 1: was crawling from the window of the SUV when it

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Speaker 1: started smoking. I couldn't see what was going on because

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Speaker 1: of the smoke, but an a nice guy, had come

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Speaker 1: over to help me get out. Minutes later, a fire

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Speaker 1: started under the hood of my suv. Everyone started praising

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Speaker 1: the man for saving my life. The man sat with

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Speaker 1: me until the ambulance came, and he drove behind the ambulance.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't believe he was being so sweet. I didn't

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Speaker 1: have my purse when I got to the er, but

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Speaker 1: he did. He had grabbed it out of my vehicle

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Speaker 1: for me. He was basically like my guardian angel. We

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Speaker 1: exchanged numbers and he continued to check on me for

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Speaker 1: a few days after I got out of the hospital.

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Speaker 1: I got worried after he sent flowers to my house.

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Speaker 1: He sent me flowers to my house. I texted him

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Speaker 1: and called him a stalker. He called to explain himself.

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Speaker 1: He apologized for scaring me and said he got my

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Speaker 1: address from my driver's license. He said that he's a

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Speaker 1: loaner and it's hard for him to meet new people

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Speaker 1: because he's shy. I researched him and we have a

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Speaker 1: lot of mutual friends, and we went to the same college,

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Speaker 1: so I'm no longer afraid of him being a serial killer.

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Speaker 1: Everybody knows the story of how we met, and they

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Speaker 1: all think that God sent this man to me. I'm

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Speaker 1: in love by default, and I feel pressured to stay

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Speaker 1: with him. What if he's not Heaven sent. Would I

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Speaker 1: be wrong to dump him?

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Speaker 2: What? Okay, who's pressuring you to be with this man?

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Speaker 4: First?

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Speaker 2: Let me say this.

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Speaker 1: You are blessed to be alive, for sure, and thank

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Speaker 1: God this man was there to help you. This was

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Speaker 1: a real life miracle, and the last time I checked,

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Speaker 1: only God can do miracles.

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Speaker 2: You could have died for real.

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Speaker 1: This was a serious, serious accident, and you should be

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Speaker 1: very grateful. I'm not hearing gratitude though. I get it

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Speaker 1: if you don't want to marry this man or be

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Speaker 1: in a relationship with him. But you've done the research,

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Speaker 1: and you know quite a bit, really a whole lot,

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Speaker 1: about this guy, and you actually have a lot of

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Speaker 1: things in common. You said you're not scared anymore, and

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Speaker 1: everyone around you is grateful to him for helping you,

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Speaker 1: and said God must have sent him to you. And

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Speaker 1: the man is still around. I mean he's calling you,

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Speaker 1: he went to the hospital with you, he's been checking

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Speaker 1: on you. He sent you flowers. I don't think you

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Speaker 1: know what you want here. I don't think so, because

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Speaker 1: everyone sees him, but you. I think you're just unsure

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Speaker 1: about how you're supposed to feel about this guy. And

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Speaker 1: that's Okay, that's okay, but please don't let if you're

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Speaker 1: feeling guilt or any sort of obligation, don't let that

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Speaker 1: make you feel like you have to be with this man.

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Speaker 1: Because listen, if you don't want this nice man, as

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Speaker 1: you called him, this kind man, this gentleman, this thoughtful man,

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Speaker 1: this strong man, this considerate man, this man you yourself

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Speaker 1: called guardian angel, well it's simple. If you don't want them,

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Speaker 1: let him go. That's it, no pressure. But personally, I

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Speaker 1: think you should allow yourself to explore this situation, because

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Speaker 1: what do you have to lose?

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Speaker 5: Steve, all Right, I'm gonna just get to it right quick.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna tell you something something wrong with this lady.

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Speaker 5: There are some things wrong with this lady. I've seen

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Speaker 5: people like this before, and I'm gonna help you understand

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Speaker 5: what I see when I read the letter. I'm in

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Speaker 5: love by default is the title of the letter. After

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Speaker 5: having heard Shirley's response, and listen to this whole letter,

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Speaker 5: this lady say, did Stephen Shirley, I'm a thirty nine

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Speaker 5: year old single female.

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Speaker 3: Oh I know that, Oh I know that.

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Speaker 5: And after reading this letter, it is clear why you

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Speaker 5: are single, lady, you all over the place, and I mean,

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Speaker 5: you don't I don't know if you assess information, well,

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Speaker 5: I don't know if you you don't know how to

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Speaker 5: process stuff at this point, what is it recess? Assess

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Speaker 5: what you say?

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Speaker 3: Right? I don't know what you're doing. But what's the

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Speaker 3: matter with you?

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Speaker 5: I'm being pressured to be with a man that saved

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Speaker 5: my life. What did you hear it? I'm being pressured

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Speaker 5: to be with a man that saved my life. That's

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Speaker 5: that sounds crazy, But Ritta, I had a crazy accident.

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Speaker 3: Now listen to this, y'all. And my s U V flipped.

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Speaker 5: Twice after I swerve to avoid hitting a small dog.

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Speaker 3: Now right here, the title of this letter would be

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Speaker 3: different for me.

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Speaker 2: And what would it be?

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Speaker 5: They man talking about I smashed they dog. That's that's

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Speaker 5: what this title would be.

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Speaker 3: I'm not swerving.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna just tell you right now, I'm not swerving

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Speaker 5: and flip my truck over twice for this doll.

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Speaker 2: Focus, Get back to the letter.

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Speaker 5: Everybody gonna learn a lesson. I'm not flipping my call anyway.

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Speaker 5: Let's just get off of that. Yeah, I swear to

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Speaker 5: avoid hitting a small dog.

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Speaker 2: It's not about you go ahead.

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Speaker 3: The car flipped twice?

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Speaker 2: What does swear?

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Speaker 3: What is his dog? There? No? No? Okay, alight, here

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Speaker 3: we go. I was shaking. Now listen to this. I

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Speaker 3: was shaken up and I had pieces of glass in

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Speaker 5: What, lady, you flipped the car twice? I had pieces

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Speaker 5: of glass in my but.

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Speaker 3: I was fine.

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Speaker 5: Then I was crawling out the window of the suv

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Speaker 3: Lady, you ain't all right?

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Speaker 2: Hold on, I'm gonna come back.

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Speaker 3: And I'm gonna show you that there's just something wrong

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Speaker 3: with this. Lady, I'm just turnRight.

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna have part two of your response coming up

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Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter

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Speaker 1: title is I'm in love by default. We'll get back

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Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 4: the Swiffer power mop. All right, come on, Steve, let's

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Speaker 4: recap today's strawberry letter. The subject is I'm in love

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Speaker 4: by default, y'all.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you something.

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Speaker 5: I got to try to see if I can get

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Speaker 5: to the end of this letter, because it's something wrong

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Speaker 5: with this lady right here. And it's just a lady

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Speaker 5: that she doesn't know how to process information, or she

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Speaker 5: don't know how to analyze. She's not analytical skills. Something's

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Speaker 5: wrong with her because she's off to me. I'm a

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Speaker 5: thirty nine year old single female. And as I read

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Speaker 5: this letter, you gonna see why she's single. You'll see

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Speaker 5: exactly why she's singing. I'm being pressured to be with

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Speaker 5: a man that saved my life.

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Speaker 3: All Right, here we go. I had a crazy accident

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Speaker 3: and my SUV.

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Speaker 5: Flipped twice after I swerved to avoid hitting a small dog. Now,

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Speaker 5: there are several titles that this letter could be. I've

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Speaker 5: come up with another title. My first title was they

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Speaker 5: mad at Me? That would be the title of this

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Speaker 5: letter order. Another title would be Steve, how do you

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Speaker 5: call me on the email bag and say Steve and

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Speaker 5: with press and stuff like that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well quit right there putting my name in the letters.

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Speaker 3: The shirt.

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Speaker 5: I swerve to avoid hitting a small dog. I was

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Speaker 3: In my arm, but I was fine.

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Speaker 5: What, lady, what are you talking about this? She said,

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Speaker 5: I was crawling. I was crawling from the window of

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Speaker 5: the suv when it started smoking. Your car there on fire.

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Speaker 5: You done had to crawl out the window. You upside down,

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Speaker 5: You got glass.

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Speaker 3: In your arm. You was fine? Something wrong with this lady.

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Speaker 5: When it started smoking, I couldn't see what was going

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Speaker 3: But you was fine. Though.

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Speaker 5: You don't y'all understand it. But a nice guy had

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Speaker 5: come over and helped me to get out. Minutes later,

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Speaker 5: my Everyone started praising the man for saving my life.

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Speaker 5: That's because that's what he did. Because that's what he did.

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Speaker 5: Then he sat with me till the ambulance came, and

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Speaker 5: he drove behind the ambulance. I couldn't believe he was

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Speaker 5: being so sweet. This is a good dude, This is

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Speaker 5: a good human being. I didn't have my purse when

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Speaker 5: I got to the er, but he did, you mean

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Speaker 5: tell me? He then crawl back up in there and

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Speaker 5: you got your purse. You know how many people would

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Speaker 5: the day. I'm at the AE t IM trying to

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Speaker 5: figure out your pin number. You see how this could

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Speaker 5: have went anyway? He was basically like my guardian angel.

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Speaker 5: We exchanged numbers. He continued to check on me for

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Speaker 5: a few days after I got out the hospital. Wait what, lady,

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Speaker 5: You was in the hospital for a few days? Glass

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Speaker 5: in your arm, crawling out your window, car smoking, fire

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Speaker 5: broke out, man, bring your purse to the hospital.

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Speaker 3: All this hit you? I got I got worried after

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Speaker 3: he sent flowers to my house. See something wrong with

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Speaker 3: this lady.

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Speaker 5: You wasn't worried when you was crawling out that window

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Speaker 5: got some flowers into the house and your Nettie is

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Speaker 5: wear now. I text him and called him a stalker.

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Speaker 5: The dude that saved your life, that then followed you

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Speaker 5: to the hospital, that recovered your purse that stayed with

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Speaker 5: you sent you flowers, checked on you. You didn't text

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Speaker 5: the man and called him a stalker. That's why she's single.

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Speaker 5: I'm telling y'all if this whole letter explains why she

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Speaker 5: thirty nine and sing here he called to it. I

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Speaker 5: text him and he called to explain himself. He apologized

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Speaker 5: for scaring me and said he got my address from

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Speaker 5: your driver's license.

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Speaker 3: He told you that.

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Speaker 5: He said that he's a loner. It's hard for him

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Speaker 5: of him being a serial killer. Okay, lad, that's well.

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Speaker 5: That was smart. Everybody knows the story of how we met,

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Speaker 5: and they think that God sent there.

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Speaker 3: This man tell me.

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Speaker 5: I'm in love by default, and I feel pressure to

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Speaker 3: What if he's not heaven? Sid?

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Speaker 5: Would I be wrong to dump him? This is why

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Speaker 5: This man has done nothing wrong or negative to you. Now,

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Speaker 5: obviously he's attracted to you. I don't know what he

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Speaker 5: I'm just telling you how men are this, How men this,

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Speaker 5: saw what he needed to see. You You, you've never

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Speaker 3: Never he's obviously attracted.

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Speaker 2: To you, never mentioned it.

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Speaker 3: You've never said that is he handsome? And he's a loner.

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Speaker 3: Would I be wrong to dump him?

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Speaker 2: On? Today's be a single?

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Speaker 3: Because that's what you're good at.

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