WEBVTT - From the Vault: Before You Could Remember, Part 1

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, you welcome to Stuff to Blow Your Mind.

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<v Speaker 2>My name is Robert Lamb and I'm Joe McCormick, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's Saturday. Time to go into the vault for an

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<v Speaker 2>older episode of Stuff to Blow Your Mind. This one

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<v Speaker 2>originally published April fourth, twenty twenty three, and it's part

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<v Speaker 2>one of our series called Before You Could Remember, about

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<v Speaker 2>the age at which we start forming permanent memories or

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<v Speaker 2>memories that we can access later. We get into all

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<v Speaker 2>the nuances there in the episode, so we hope.

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<v Speaker 1>You like it. Yeah, these were a lot of fun

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<v Speaker 1>and they generated a lot of listener commentary. So if

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<v Speaker 1>you have fresh thoughts on this episode and the ones

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<v Speaker 1>to follow, write in. We'd love to hear from you.

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<v Speaker 3>Welcome to Stuff to Blow your Mind, production of iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey you welcome to Stuff to Blow your Mind. My

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<v Speaker 1>name is Robert.

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<v Speaker 2>Lamb and I'm Joe McCormick, and today we're going to

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<v Speaker 2>be talking about that hole in your memory before the

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<v Speaker 2>earliest one you can produce, also known as infantile amnesia.

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<v Speaker 2>And hey, listeners, you were promised you would be getting

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<v Speaker 2>some baby looked at Me topics this year. My wife

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<v Speaker 2>and I had a baby this past October, and I

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<v Speaker 2>think many of you have been practically daring me to

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<v Speaker 2>embark on indulgent dad topics. But here we've arrived at

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<v Speaker 2>one because so I think the way I got here

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<v Speaker 2>was recently we have started spending a lot of time

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<v Speaker 2>trying to make a five month old baby laugh. Rob,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know how much experience you have with this,

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<v Speaker 2>like the parent comedian routine.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, a lot of hours clocked on

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<v Speaker 1>that particular stand up game.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, sometime recently Rachel figured out what our baby's favorite

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<v Speaker 2>genre of comedy was, at least for that day, and

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<v Speaker 2>it will a textile gravity comedy. It was. The act

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<v Speaker 2>was you hold a cloth up in the air and

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<v Speaker 2>then you drop the cloth on the baby, and when

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<v Speaker 2>the cloth falls down and hits the baby, this is hilarious.

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<v Speaker 2>It was creating these storms of laughter from another dimension,

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<v Speaker 2>truly riveting experience, at least for us. But I started

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<v Speaker 2>to wonder, like, why is this funny? And of course

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to ask her, but she's a five month

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<v Speaker 2>old baby, not talking yet, she can't explain why it's funny.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was thinking, one day will I be able

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<v Speaker 2>to ask her. You remember when we were dropping the

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<v Speaker 2>cloth on you, and you thought this was so funny.

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<v Speaker 2>Why was it funny? What was going through your mind?

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<v Speaker 2>But I just know that's probably never a conversation that's

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<v Speaker 2>going to go anywhere, because is she really going to

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<v Speaker 2>even remember this by the time she can talk about it,

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<v Speaker 2>Because I certainly don't have any memories that I can

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<v Speaker 2>bring up now from being five months old, or even

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<v Speaker 2>from being one year old, or even from being two

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<v Speaker 2>years old. I'm not sure, honestly what my earliest memory is,

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<v Speaker 2>but I know I don't have any memories I feel

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<v Speaker 2>confident about from the first several years of my life.

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<v Speaker 2>And it turns out this is not unique to me.

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<v Speaker 2>This is pretty common. Most people feel this way, that

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<v Speaker 2>they don't have any really solid memories from the first

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<v Speaker 2>several years of their lives. And so I just got

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<v Speaker 2>really interested in the question of why that is.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, unless you are biological mother partook of

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<v Speaker 1>the waters of life, she was pregnant, you're probably not

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<v Speaker 1>pre born like that. You're not gonna You're not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>remember these things. And we'll get into some there is

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<v Speaker 1>a certain amount of subjectiveness to all of this, and

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<v Speaker 1>we'll get into some of that, and certainly we'd love

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<v Speaker 1>to hear from any listeners out there who are firm

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<v Speaker 1>on this or feel firm and are like, yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>do remember being under the age of two that sort

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<v Speaker 1>of thing. But most of the research seems to point

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<v Speaker 1>in a different direction that most. It seems like most

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<v Speaker 1>of what we remember is after a certain point in

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<v Speaker 1>our development, and that certainly your daughter has not quite

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<v Speaker 1>reached that point.

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<v Speaker 2>Which is not to say that she is not capable

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<v Speaker 2>of memory, because I mean several things I can notice.

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<v Speaker 2>She recognizes faces, and she is forming associations and routines.

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<v Speaker 2>There's learning going on at this point in a baby's development,

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<v Speaker 2>and learning is to some extent based on memory. So

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<v Speaker 2>it's not that the brain is not capable of any

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<v Speaker 2>type of memory at this point. But it seems that

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<v Speaker 2>most people's brains at this point are not producing episodic

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<v Speaker 2>or autobiographical memories. Episodic memories meaning memories of specific events

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<v Speaker 2>or experiences, not producing sort of narrative memory of that

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<v Speaker 2>type that can be retrieved later in life. I guess

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<v Speaker 2>it's a question whether memories of that type are formed

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<v Speaker 2>at all, And so I don't have any memories like that.

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<v Speaker 2>From infancy. Most people report the same, and I cannot,

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<v Speaker 2>honestly from my memory, tell you a story about anything

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<v Speaker 2>that happened before I was probably like four or five

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<v Speaker 2>or so. You do bring up the idea that there

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<v Speaker 2>are a small number of people who claim they can

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<v Speaker 2>remember like being born or being a baby. But even

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<v Speaker 2>in those cases, while you can't say, well, you're just wrong,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't remember that, I think it's reasonable to be

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<v Speaker 2>skeptical about whether those are real memories or just later confabulations.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, And on this note, I think it's important

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<v Speaker 1>to remind listeners that fabricated memories are by no means

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<v Speaker 1>necessarily intentional. They are numerous ways that we've discussed in

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<v Speaker 1>the show before, numerous ways that false memories may be encoded.

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<v Speaker 1>There are plenty of examples of cases where attested early

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<v Speaker 1>childhood memories can ultimately be attributed to stories one is

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<v Speaker 1>told about one's younger years and or something formed out

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<v Speaker 1>of say longing or desire for a certain framework. A

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<v Speaker 1>lot of stuff like that out there. And again, we,

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<v Speaker 1>as we've touched on many times before, like we alter

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<v Speaker 1>memories every time we draw them out, every time we

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<v Speaker 1>get them out of the storage. We get our fingerprints

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<v Speaker 1>all over them, and we change them. And then ultimately,

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<v Speaker 1>the memories that are most dear to us, the ones

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<v Speaker 1>that we pull out the most are the ones that

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<v Speaker 1>are potentially the most altered.

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<v Speaker 2>Right because the form in which they are stored in

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<v Speaker 2>memory is ultimately the form in which you rehearse them.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, it's not a videotape. It is a it's

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<v Speaker 2>a constant sort of like rewriting over the same document.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah. And and to your point, though, it is

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<v Speaker 1>kind of ironic that when you have a young child

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<v Speaker 1>in the house like this, for parents, this is or

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<v Speaker 1>or even you know, other people in that infant's life,

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<v Speaker 1>these are some of the dearest moments. You know, you're

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<v Speaker 1>experiencing these moments and you're like, this, this is you

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<v Speaker 1>can feel it in you can you know this is

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<v Speaker 1>something you're never going to forget. And then on the

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<v Speaker 1>other hand, you have at least a very strong suspicion

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<v Speaker 1>that the child is not going to remember it the

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<v Speaker 1>way that you remember it. Uh And and it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>so it's something that I know that we my wife

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<v Speaker 1>and I talked a lot about with our son when

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<v Speaker 1>he when he was much younger, and sometimes my son

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<v Speaker 1>will come in on this, because when your jow gets over,

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<v Speaker 1>you're always like, well do you remember this? Do you

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<v Speaker 1>remember that? Or I remember when this happened, but I

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<v Speaker 1>know you don't remember it. And so there are a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of conversations like that. And then sometimes we'll be

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<v Speaker 1>on a trip and our son, at this point, who's

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<v Speaker 1>almost eleven, he'll comment like, oh, well, that baby's not

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<v Speaker 1>even going to remember that vacation, seeing like a you know,

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<v Speaker 1>another couple with an infant on a trip, but.

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<v Speaker 2>It might as well not even take it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, you know that's that's kind of the joke, right,

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<v Speaker 1>Like just go and put your baby in a closet

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<v Speaker 1>for a few years because they're not going to remember

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<v Speaker 1>these expensive trips. But of course you can't do that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not how it works. You have to have these

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<v Speaker 1>moments and these trips, and and just because the baby's

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<v Speaker 1>not recalling it the way an adult recalls something later

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't mean that it's not quote unquote remembered.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, those I mean those instead of say having autobiographical

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<v Speaker 2>memories that can later be retrieved in narrative form. Instead,

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<v Speaker 2>the effect of those experiences might be say structural impacts

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<v Speaker 2>on the development of the brain.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, there's a great quote that came up in a

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<v Speaker 1>paper I'm going to source here in a bet where

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<v Speaker 1>they said something that you know, it's quite simple, but

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<v Speaker 1>I think is important to keep in mind in this

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<v Speaker 1>context and memory context in general. The brain remembers what

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<v Speaker 1>it needs to remember, you know, and and the memory

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<v Speaker 1>demands on say a five month old baby or a

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<v Speaker 1>one year old child one and a half year old

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<v Speaker 1>child are different. And therefore, again, it's nothing bad about

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<v Speaker 1>not having not being able to recall when you were

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<v Speaker 1>two or three or four or five. It's just it's

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<v Speaker 1>just what your brain needed to do. And as we'll

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<v Speaker 1>get into, there are different reasons for this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, So that's what we're going to be exploring in

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<v Speaker 2>this series. Questions like why don't most people have specific

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<v Speaker 2>autobiographical memories of being a baby. Do we have episodic

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<v Speaker 2>memories of infancy which get like erased from the brain

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<v Speaker 2>for some reason, or do we never form episodic memories

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<v Speaker 2>of babe life in the first place. Obviously there's some

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<v Speaker 2>kind of memory going on in very young childhood and infancy,

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<v Speaker 2>but maybe it just like it doesn't have an episodic

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<v Speaker 2>memory component. Maybe it can remember associations and images, but

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<v Speaker 2>maybe not like sequences of events. Or maybe is there

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<v Speaker 2>some weird third option, like we do form memories and

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<v Speaker 2>they're not exactly erased later, but they're sort of fuzzy

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<v Speaker 2>or hard to retrieve for some reason. That that's what

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<v Speaker 2>got me really interested in this exploration today. But of

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<v Speaker 2>course I also got very interested in the question of

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<v Speaker 2>before people could do experiments on this, they must have

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<v Speaker 2>observed childhood development firsthand and had all kinds of questions

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<v Speaker 2>of this sort and probably come up with answers whether

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<v Speaker 2>or not those answers were accurate.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So yeah, let's get in a little bit into

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<v Speaker 1>just sort of some of the history of some of

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<v Speaker 1>some sort of pre modern infant opinions, and also a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of cultural variation. I think one of the

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<v Speaker 1>things to keep in mind about pre modern and pre

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<v Speaker 1>scientific beliefs about infant memory is that a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>it is going to come down to older beliefs about

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<v Speaker 1>what human infants are and what they are not, And

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<v Speaker 1>so this is all a mixture of things based on

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<v Speaker 1>cultural tradition but also based on observation. I think it

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<v Speaker 1>goes without saying that no matter what may have been

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<v Speaker 1>ultimately recorded in literature ancient people, you know they would

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<v Speaker 1>have applied different insights and different ideas to the experience

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<v Speaker 1>of babies, but some things were obviously going to be

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<v Speaker 1>the same. Babies evoke strong emotions in us. That's just

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<v Speaker 1>part of the way we're hardwired. Babies require a great

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<v Speaker 1>deal of care. Babies cry baby is inherently can't communicate precisely.

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<v Speaker 1>And also, human memories of early childhood or the lack thereof,

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<v Speaker 1>would have been identical more or less to what we

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<v Speaker 1>have now, or at least any differences are not going

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<v Speaker 1>to be based merely on say the timeline, and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>get into some of that in a bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Right. For example, I would really not say that the

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<v Speaker 2>current characteristics of infantile amnesia or memory formation and very

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<v Speaker 2>young children are say, a result of the Internet or

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<v Speaker 2>some other kind of like technological context, especially because we

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<v Speaker 2>know people have been in the more modern era doing

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<v Speaker 2>research on this going back more than one hundred years,

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<v Speaker 2>so before a lot of the sort of like communications

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<v Speaker 2>and technology context we live in today, people were asking, Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>when are people's first memories and what do they remember

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<v Speaker 2>about childhood? And the answers were largely the same as

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<v Speaker 2>what we get when we ask that today.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, So it doesn't seem like there's any expectation

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<v Speaker 1>that there's been significant variation in this, aside from variation

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<v Speaker 1>that occurs for cultural reasons and so forth. But again,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of this is going to come down to

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<v Speaker 1>how we think about babies. And again it's interesting because

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<v Speaker 1>on one hand, yes, we have this inherent draw towards

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<v Speaker 1>our own young and to the young of our community.

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<v Speaker 1>But at the same time, you know, you often hear

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<v Speaker 1>people talk about older kids, and you'll hear them say, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you remember what it was like when you were that age.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, there's a certain relatability in that. But generally

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<v Speaker 1>they're not saying this about infants or very young toddlers,

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<v Speaker 1>because by and large, we don't remember what it was

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<v Speaker 1>it was like to be that age. We only remember

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<v Speaker 1>the stories of what we were like at that age

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<v Speaker 1>and so forth. Now, examining how people in ancient times,

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<v Speaker 1>for example, thought about babies, thinking about pre modern and

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<v Speaker 1>pre scientific thinking into all of this, you also have

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<v Speaker 1>to take into account infant mortality rates, which were often

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<v Speaker 1>high in ancient times, and I realized that infant mortality

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<v Speaker 1>is not exactly a fun topic. But some of the

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<v Speaker 1>attitudes of the ancient world surrounding the nature of infants

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<v Speaker 1>is more sharply expressed over the subject, or so it seems.

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<v Speaker 1>So we are going to touch on it a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>at least in passing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's sort of unavoidable for most of human history,

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<v Speaker 2>for most people, just a major fact of life.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So I looked at a few different sources about

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<v Speaker 1>the understanding of infants in ancient Greek and ancient Rome.

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<v Speaker 1>In Childbirth and Infancy in Greek and Roman Antiquity from

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<v Speaker 1>twenty eleven, author Varonech Dawson points out a number of

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<v Speaker 1>interesting things about how these ancient people seems to seem

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<v Speaker 1>to have considered young children based on the evidence we

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<v Speaker 1>have to go on today. And so I want to

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<v Speaker 1>outline some interesting points that they bring up. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>most of what we know relates to elite children rather

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<v Speaker 1>than the lives of those born into lower classes or

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<v Speaker 1>to enslaved people. Also, we have to think about the

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<v Speaker 1>terminology here. This is fascinating. So you know, basically the

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<v Speaker 1>infant toddlerdynamic and duality. It's interesting and potentially telling in

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<v Speaker 1>that changes in terminology may indicate changes in cultural understanding

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<v Speaker 1>of young children. So you know, certainly there's a difference

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<v Speaker 1>between an infant and a toddler, and we tend to

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<v Speaker 1>sort of we tend to mark that transition point. But

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<v Speaker 1>to what extent is that transition point born out in

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<v Speaker 1>a people's language, and at what point does the language

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<v Speaker 1>potentially shift, etc. Basically just sort of a larger background

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<v Speaker 1>topic to keep in mind, but the big point here

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<v Speaker 1>is that it's most helpful to think of childhood as

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<v Speaker 1>a journey, one that hits different milestones, goes through different stages,

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<v Speaker 1>and that in this in turn alters the way that

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<v Speaker 1>adults view the child and the degree to which they

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<v Speaker 1>can be integrated into society. Also, Dawson points out quote

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<v Speaker 1>in times of high infant mortality, these stages represented steps

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<v Speaker 1>for hope of survival and increasing parental bonding. We'll come

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<v Speaker 1>back to exactly what is meant by that, but basically

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<v Speaker 1>it comes down to, like, how does a culture deal

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<v Speaker 1>with the fact that there is a high infant mortality rate.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there more of a sort of pushing away kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like a ultimately a stoic reaction sort of distancing

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<v Speaker 1>of the infant from the society or making it kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a marginal state, or is there indeed still a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of bonding going on and so forth. Now, with

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<v Speaker 1>the Greek and Roman viewpoints, specifically, what we think of

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<v Speaker 1>as infancy would have probably ended at age two or three,

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<v Speaker 1>with full weaning, increased ability to speak, and at age

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<v Speaker 1>three integration into practiced religion at least at some degree. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>Medically speaking, it was previously supposed that there was next

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<v Speaker 1>to nothing in the literature of ancient Greek and ancient

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<v Speaker 1>Rome to suggest that physicians were concerned with babies except

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<v Speaker 1>in exceptional circumstances. It was thought that babies in general

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<v Speaker 1>were left to the midwives and the mothers. However, Dawson

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<v Speaker 1>stresses that this is no longer really a correct viewpoint,

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<v Speaker 1>based on numerous examples of writings that have come up

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<v Speaker 1>about say, essential diet and hygiene for babies. So I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's interesting, representing a shift in our modern understanding

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<v Speaker 1>about ancient views on infants.

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<v Speaker 2>That they were actually sometimes a more relevant object of

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<v Speaker 2>what was considered medicine.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there's sort of this, and we'll get into it

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<v Speaker 1>more in just a second. Here but there was this

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<v Speaker 1>understanding of the ancient world based on some significant evidence

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<v Speaker 1>that basically the ruling male elite were saying, like, babies

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<v Speaker 1>that don't not even worth your time, not worth my

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<v Speaker 1>time anyway, call me when it is old enough for

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<v Speaker 1>me to care about it, or if there's if it's exploding,

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<v Speaker 1>then yes, a physician may come and check out the child.

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<v Speaker 1>That sort of thing. Without a doubt, there seems to

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<v Speaker 1>have been far less of a view of baby superiority

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<v Speaker 1>in ancient Greek and ancient Rome. Dawson writes the following

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<v Speaker 1>this is great quote from Hippocrates. To late antiquity, babies

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<v Speaker 1>and toddlers are defined as a category of beings with

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<v Speaker 1>a special morphology and physiology. These characteristics are on the

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<v Speaker 1>whole negative. Newborn babies are generally described as imperfect, weak,

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<v Speaker 1>and ugly.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow perfect yes, oh no. This reminds me of the

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<v Speaker 2>story you've shared many times of your son calling the

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<v Speaker 2>cat a stupid baby or just a baby.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe when it was just baby, like baby is an

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<v Speaker 1>adjective baby mochi and just a solid burn. As a toddler,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like.

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<v Speaker 2>Peak insult, imperfect, weak and ugly.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yee toddlers get it, and so did the grown

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<v Speaker 1>learned men of ancient Greece. So Dawson points a few

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<v Speaker 1>specific authors to underline these views. So Aristotle wrote that

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<v Speaker 1>babies quote are born in a more imperfect condition than

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<v Speaker 1>any other perfected animal, and also that they have poor eyesight.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh well, it depends on what Aristotle means by that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not sure the full context, but if he's making

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<v Speaker 2>a distinction between human beings and other animals, I think

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<v Speaker 2>that's a fair observation that human babies are more helpless

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<v Speaker 2>than the newborns of most other animal species.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Absolutely, I think that's what he's going for here.

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<v Speaker 1>There's another work on colors that is sometimes attributed to Aristotle,

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<v Speaker 1>and in this it's pointed out that babies are ugly

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<v Speaker 1>because or well, it's I'm not sure it says ugly,

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<v Speaker 1>but it points out that they're's Essentially, they're ugly because

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<v Speaker 1>they have red faces and little hair.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you ever get the feeling that like Aristotle might

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<v Speaker 2>have been writing about human babies the same way he

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<v Speaker 2>was writing about like stingrays. It's just like this is

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<v Speaker 2>something he's observed a couple of times and made a

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<v Speaker 2>few notes about.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean I've seen some pretty hairy little babies before,

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<v Speaker 1>so I mean they think it ferries. Yeah, but yes,

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<v Speaker 1>on the whole they tend not die guess half of

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<v Speaker 1>like a full head of hair or certainly a proper beard. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>Galen was one of numerous physicians to comment on the

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<v Speaker 1>seeming wax like malleability and weakness of the baby. Weakness

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<v Speaker 1>of the baby. Babies are so weak. They're they're weak,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're they're basically made out of wax. Like if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't handle them too much or you will change

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<v Speaker 1>their form completely. They do tend to be doe.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's true. But also Galen, I can just tell

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<v Speaker 2>this guy did not spend much time holding a baby because,

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<v Speaker 2>like especially Galen, probably at a beard. I've got a beard.

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<v Speaker 2>When when you feel the baby, grab the beard and

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<v Speaker 2>just not leg this. This is the handle for the adult,

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<v Speaker 2>and it will pull until it has a fist full

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<v Speaker 2>of beard hair. You do not walk away with the

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<v Speaker 2>impression of how weak babies are.

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<v Speaker 1>Aristotle also recorded that many babies die within the first

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<v Speaker 1>week and are therefore not named before this period passes.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is a kind of approach to the first

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<v Speaker 1>week or so of a child's life that you see

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<v Speaker 1>reflected in various cultures in various times. Meanwhile, Plutarch just

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<v Speaker 1>wonders if babies are in fact animals, because they're more

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<v Speaker 1>like vegetables. They're more like a plant.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, yeah, plants cry at midnight, plants poop where

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<v Speaker 2>they want to. That's exactly what a plant is.

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<v Speaker 1>Dason adds this line here quote a mineral metaphor substitutes

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<v Speaker 1>for the vegetable one in Chronos's myth, who ate his

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<v Speaker 1>children as soon as they were born and thought a

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<v Speaker 1>stone to be a swaddled nursling. So you know, is

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<v Speaker 1>it a baby is it a stone? Like anyone can

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<v Speaker 1>tell the difference?

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<v Speaker 2>I guess yeah. Is that supposed to be a comment

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<v Speaker 2>on how featureless and uninteresting babies are? Or is that

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<v Speaker 2>myth supposed to be like a joke about Chronos being stupid?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, granted I was as a modern English speaking human,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not the intended audience, I guess for the myth,

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<v Speaker 1>but I always interpreted it as being like he's just

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<v Speaker 1>so consumed with this need to destroy his young. You

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<v Speaker 1>know that he's just like just gobbles them up without

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<v Speaker 1>really tasting them, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, Yeah, more like he's more machine now than man,

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<v Speaker 2>almost like a he's a baby eating machine. He barely

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<v Speaker 2>notices or has cognizance of what's going in his mouth.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So, after expressing some of these, again aristocratic male

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<v Speaker 1>opinions on babies recorded in the literature, I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>a good time to stress something that another author drives

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<v Speaker 1>home as well. And this is from the work of

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<v Speaker 1>Marine Carrol in Infant Death and Burial in Roman Italy

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<v Speaker 1>from twenty fifteen. She points out that we base a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of our understanding of this topic on the writings

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<v Speaker 1>of stoic male, aristocratic literary elite, and also the arguments

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<v Speaker 1>that the remains in Roman cemetery seem to bear this out.

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<v Speaker 1>The I think, quote unquote invisibility of the young child

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<v Speaker 1>in Roman cemeteries.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and unfortunately this is true about a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>things in the ancient world. When you have to consult

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<v Speaker 2>literary texts to get a flavor of ancient life, that's

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<v Speaker 2>necessarily going to be leaving a lot of stuff out

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<v Speaker 2>because of the sexism of like who could receive literary

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<v Speaker 2>education and who was writing texts and stuff at the time.

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<v Speaker 2>You're going to get a lot of aristocratic male perspective.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and certainly in a factor in stoicism, and then

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<v Speaker 1>also the fact that maybe some of them did not

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<v Speaker 1>know how much hair baby had. On the on average,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's it's it's it's well worth taking into account.

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<v Speaker 1>But on the other hand, you do have this this

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<v Speaker 1>argument that lines up with things with the writings of

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<v Speaker 1>say Plutarch, who said that infants quote have no part

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<v Speaker 1>in earth or earthly things, and therefore they don't require

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<v Speaker 1>any of the rites normally performed for the day. So

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<v Speaker 1>you know, there's just kind of this push and pull

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<v Speaker 1>over like what is the status of the infant? And

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<v Speaker 1>we can understand like this like stoic approach that's like, look,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a chance that things aren't going to go well,

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<v Speaker 1>and then therefore one should be prepared for that by

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<v Speaker 1>not fully integrating them into life essentially. But Carroll points

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<v Speaker 1>out that these views do not necessarily represent those of

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<v Speaker 1>of course other classes or certainly mothers during the time period.

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<v Speaker 1>So the seeming invisibility of young children in Italian cemeteries

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<v Speaker 1>of the time period is something that requires like further

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<v Speaker 1>examination and perhaps a little more understanding. As opposed to

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<v Speaker 1>just like well, they weren't considered real things. Also of note,

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking at a paper from twenty twelve, Child

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<v Speaker 1>Exposure in the Roman Empire by W. V. Harris, published

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<v Speaker 1>in the Journal of Roman Studies, pointing out the child

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<v Speaker 1>exposure like the leaving of a child, you know, in

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<v Speaker 1>the wild or out in the open, away from humans,

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<v Speaker 1>that this was widely practiced in the Roman Empire, often

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<v Speaker 1>when quote physical viability and legitimacy were in doubt, but

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<v Speaker 1>that not everyone agreed with the practice. Stoics in particular

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<v Speaker 1>tended to believe that infants should live at the very

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<v Speaker 1>least if they're healthy and legitimate. And certainly there's plenty

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<v Speaker 1>of room for hypocrisy in something like that, But I

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<v Speaker 1>also wonder to what extent it backs up or counters

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<v Speaker 1>the idea that babies in general were considered only halfway real.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's another great chunk going back to from Dawson, going

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<v Speaker 1>back to her paper quote for Aristotle, infants were defined

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<v Speaker 1>as a lower category of beings physically weak, mentally and

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<v Speaker 1>morally inept, with uncontrolled appetites, physical disproportions associate them with animals.

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<v Speaker 1>A heavy upper part explains why children move like quadrupeds,

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<v Speaker 1>says Aristotle. Quote that is why infants cannot walk but

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<v Speaker 1>crawl about, and at the very beginning cannot even crawl,

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<v Speaker 1>but remain where they are, but remain where they are.

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<v Speaker 1>This paper from Duston doesn't really get into memory all

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<v Speaker 1>that much. A lot of it is again we're dealing

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<v Speaker 1>more sort of the overarching views of young children and infants,

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<v Speaker 1>But Dustin does such on memory as well in this part.

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<v Speaker 1>Quote disproportions also explain mental incapacities. The heaviness of a

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<v Speaker 1>large head impairs the impulses of thoughts, and the infant's

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<v Speaker 1>memory is bad. Children are further associated with inferior categories

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<v Speaker 1>of human beings, such as old people physically weaker with

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<v Speaker 1>a poorer memory and less hair, with the insane and

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<v Speaker 1>the drunk with a similar irritable temperament and a disorderly behavior,

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<v Speaker 1>with women irrational, changeable and weak, and even with dwarfs.

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<v Speaker 2>So you ask what did ancient Greek philosophers think about babies?

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<v Speaker 2>And the answer is just a conglomeration of offensive opinions.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, a lot of that is it seems to

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<v Speaker 1>remain in the literature, But that's and also stresses that

0:26:04.359 --> 0:26:06.239
<v Speaker 1>while a lot of this may just sound like, you know,

0:26:06.440 --> 0:26:09.040
<v Speaker 1>babies are gross and the worst, there's also plenty of

0:26:09.040 --> 0:26:12.879
<v Speaker 1>evidence that the seeming deficiencies of babies were also very

0:26:12.960 --> 0:26:16.359
<v Speaker 1>much enjoyed. That it wasn't just like, oh, man, this

0:26:16.480 --> 0:26:18.600
<v Speaker 1>baby's like an old man. It's more like, oh, this

0:26:18.640 --> 0:26:22.440
<v Speaker 1>baby's like an old man, and the bonding still occurred

0:26:23.040 --> 0:26:26.440
<v Speaker 1>even in times of high mortality. Their smiles and their

0:26:26.480 --> 0:26:30.679
<v Speaker 1>skin were written about as being irresistible. And also, I

0:26:30.680 --> 0:26:33.960
<v Speaker 1>thought this was neat quote. Myths of baby heroes transcend

0:26:34.200 --> 0:26:38.080
<v Speaker 1>children's deaths, and this is something perhaps we're thinking about.

0:26:38.240 --> 0:26:39.399
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, we might get in this in the

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<v Speaker 1>second episode. We might come back at a later time,

0:26:41.520 --> 0:26:44.119
<v Speaker 1>but you do have a lot of baby heroes and

0:26:44.280 --> 0:26:49.399
<v Speaker 1>child gods and godlings and various myth and folkloric traditions

0:26:50.400 --> 0:26:54.040
<v Speaker 1>from the likes of baby Krishna to the Christ Child.

0:26:54.359 --> 0:26:56.200
<v Speaker 1>But anyways, sticking on the topic of memories of the

0:26:56.280 --> 0:26:59.359
<v Speaker 1>lack thereof and small children infants, it would seem that

0:27:00.040 --> 0:27:02.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, of course, the lack of memories from one's

0:27:02.600 --> 0:27:05.919
<v Speaker 1>own infancy was very much a known factor, and that

0:27:06.080 --> 0:27:08.600
<v Speaker 1>it would make sense within a viewpoint that babies are

0:27:08.680 --> 0:27:11.760
<v Speaker 1>unfinished and imperfect. They have yet to cross through all

0:27:11.800 --> 0:27:15.119
<v Speaker 1>the stages of becoming truly human, becoming you know, truly

0:27:15.160 --> 0:27:19.440
<v Speaker 1>a part of a family unit, truly a part of society,

0:27:19.880 --> 0:27:22.919
<v Speaker 1>even if they still amuse us and we still have

0:27:23.080 --> 0:27:35.600
<v Speaker 1>a lot of emotions about them. Now, we mentioned earlier

0:27:36.000 --> 0:27:41.159
<v Speaker 1>cultural differences that could impact just how early one remembers

0:27:41.240 --> 0:27:44.000
<v Speaker 1>one's life are what one's earliest memories happened to be,

0:27:44.640 --> 0:27:47.360
<v Speaker 1>and I was looking at an article titled the Culture

0:27:47.400 --> 0:27:52.240
<v Speaker 1>of Memory by Leo Winterman, published by the American Psychological

0:27:52.280 --> 0:27:55.600
<v Speaker 1>Society back in two thousand and five. The author here

0:27:55.640 --> 0:27:58.960
<v Speaker 1>points to research that shows that quote the average age

0:27:58.960 --> 0:28:02.520
<v Speaker 1>of first memories up to two years between different cultures,

0:28:02.760 --> 0:28:04.919
<v Speaker 1>and it seems to come down to the weight and

0:28:05.040 --> 0:28:09.520
<v Speaker 1>importance of memory within a specific cultural system. According to

0:28:09.640 --> 0:28:14.040
<v Speaker 1>Michelle Leichtmann, PhD, cited in the article quote, people who

0:28:14.080 --> 0:28:17.720
<v Speaker 1>grow up in societies that focus on individual personal history,

0:28:18.119 --> 0:28:21.440
<v Speaker 1>like the United States, or ones that focus on personal

0:28:21.560 --> 0:28:25.600
<v Speaker 1>family history like the Maori will have different and often

0:28:25.640 --> 0:28:29.080
<v Speaker 1>earlier childhood memories than people who grow up in cultures that,

0:28:29.280 --> 0:28:33.760
<v Speaker 1>like many Asian cultures, value interdependence rather than personal autonomy.

0:28:33.960 --> 0:28:37.240
<v Speaker 1>So a key nineteen ninety four study from psychologist Mary

0:28:37.320 --> 0:28:40.440
<v Speaker 1>Mullen published in the journal Cognition as more than seven

0:28:40.520 --> 0:28:43.920
<v Speaker 1>hundred Caucasian and Asian or Asian American undergrads to describe

0:28:43.920 --> 0:28:47.600
<v Speaker 1>their earliest memory. On average, Asian and Asian American student

0:28:47.680 --> 0:28:52.360
<v Speaker 1>memories happened six months later. A subsequent study and Know

0:28:52.400 --> 0:28:57.200
<v Speaker 1>there were many subsequent studies that examined different slices of

0:28:57.240 --> 0:29:01.320
<v Speaker 1>all this. In this case from and found a sixteen

0:29:01.400 --> 0:29:05.960
<v Speaker 1>month gap between Caucasian Americans and Native Koreans. These studies

0:29:06.040 --> 0:29:08.560
<v Speaker 1>led to a host of others, and it seems to

0:29:08.600 --> 0:29:12.720
<v Speaker 1>follow the basic social interaction model. Quote. According to this model,

0:29:13.000 --> 0:29:17.320
<v Speaker 1>our autobiographical memories don't develop in a vacuum. Instead, as children,

0:29:17.600 --> 0:29:20.440
<v Speaker 1>we encode our memories of events as we talk over

0:29:20.480 --> 0:29:23.360
<v Speaker 1>those events with the adults in our life. The more

0:29:23.400 --> 0:29:26.600
<v Speaker 1>those adults encourage us to spin an elaborate narrative tale,

0:29:26.880 --> 0:29:30.080
<v Speaker 1>the more likely we are to remember details about the

0:29:30.120 --> 0:29:31.000
<v Speaker 1>event later.

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<v Speaker 2>This absolutely details with much of what I've been reading

0:29:35.040 --> 0:29:40.080
<v Speaker 2>that sort of an interactive rehearsal of memories helps make

0:29:40.120 --> 0:29:43.440
<v Speaker 2>those memories stronger. But sort of the paradox of memory.

0:29:43.440 --> 0:29:45.600
<v Speaker 2>And this is true not just of childhood. I think

0:29:45.640 --> 0:29:47.920
<v Speaker 2>this is true of adult memory as well, is that

0:29:48.040 --> 0:29:54.440
<v Speaker 2>while that produces a stronger memory consolidation and you are

0:29:54.480 --> 0:29:57.240
<v Speaker 2>better able to retrieve that memory later, it also makes

0:29:57.280 --> 0:30:02.200
<v Speaker 2>the memory more subject to contamination by whatever input you're

0:30:02.240 --> 0:30:04.280
<v Speaker 2>getting from the person you're rehearsing it with.

0:30:05.040 --> 0:30:09.560
<v Speaker 1>Or even from outside sources such as advertising. I don't

0:30:09.600 --> 0:30:11.640
<v Speaker 1>know if this is still the case, but many years

0:30:11.640 --> 0:30:14.239
<v Speaker 1>ago I went to the Coca Cola Museum here in

0:30:14.320 --> 0:30:18.520
<v Speaker 1>Atlanta with my mother and there was some bit of advertising.

0:30:18.520 --> 0:30:21.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure if it was current advertising or past advertising,

0:30:21.120 --> 0:30:24.680
<v Speaker 1>but the gist of it was Coca Cola. We've always

0:30:24.720 --> 0:30:27.720
<v Speaker 1>been there, like we were a part of your essentially

0:30:27.760 --> 0:30:29.600
<v Speaker 1>saying we were a part of all those memories that

0:30:29.640 --> 0:30:33.800
<v Speaker 1>you hold deer and I often think think of that

0:30:33.840 --> 0:30:37.080
<v Speaker 1>when I'm encounter branding from this company, because I'm because

0:30:37.200 --> 0:30:41.520
<v Speaker 1>it's good, it's really infectious. It does a great job,

0:30:41.560 --> 0:30:43.320
<v Speaker 1>but it is it is kind of like trying to

0:30:43.360 --> 0:30:45.400
<v Speaker 1>worm its way in there, Like do you remember that

0:30:45.640 --> 0:30:47.480
<v Speaker 1>that great memory from your childhood? I bet there was

0:30:47.480 --> 0:30:50.520
<v Speaker 1>a Coca Cola on the table. And even if there wasn't, bam,

0:30:50.760 --> 0:30:52.080
<v Speaker 1>there is now Well.

0:30:51.960 --> 0:30:54.640
<v Speaker 2>You could say it's genius, maybe even insidious, the way

0:30:54.680 --> 0:30:58.920
<v Speaker 2>that they insinuate their branding into inherently nostalgic imagery. So

0:30:59.040 --> 0:31:01.800
<v Speaker 2>like the Santa Claus with the Coca Cola, Yeah, I

0:31:01.880 --> 0:31:04.160
<v Speaker 2>think that's not an accident. That's like to try to

0:31:04.200 --> 0:31:09.000
<v Speaker 2>integrate the brand with your earliest and best feelings from childhood.

0:31:09.040 --> 0:31:12.400
<v Speaker 2>Oh boy, Christmas is coming, here's Santa. And what Santa

0:31:12.440 --> 0:31:14.800
<v Speaker 2>got in his hand a coke? Of course, that's just

0:31:14.880 --> 0:31:16.000
<v Speaker 2>part of the Santa lore.

0:31:16.600 --> 0:31:20.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, so so yeah, there's a you could really

0:31:20.040 --> 0:31:24.360
<v Speaker 1>get into into advertising and so forth and all of

0:31:24.360 --> 0:31:28.160
<v Speaker 1>this as well. But yeah, so even within a given culture,

0:31:28.160 --> 0:31:30.600
<v Speaker 1>and they're gonna have this sort of different cultural leanings

0:31:30.960 --> 0:31:35.840
<v Speaker 1>based on what sort of emphasis you place an individual experience.

0:31:36.320 --> 0:31:38.480
<v Speaker 1>But also there's gonna be there are gonna be differences

0:31:38.520 --> 0:31:42.400
<v Speaker 1>even within a culture based on high elaborative and low

0:31:42.440 --> 0:31:45.480
<v Speaker 1>elaborative mothers. And I take this to mean you could

0:31:45.520 --> 0:31:48.600
<v Speaker 1>basically mean any person in an individual's life, but they're

0:31:48.640 --> 0:31:51.160
<v Speaker 1>using mother it's the main example. So basically the question

0:31:51.280 --> 0:31:54.400
<v Speaker 1>is is a child routinely ask for detailed stories about

0:31:54.440 --> 0:31:59.280
<v Speaker 1>their daily life or they ask mostly closed questions. And

0:31:59.320 --> 0:32:01.760
<v Speaker 1>this is interesting think about like yeah. Is the child

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<v Speaker 1>asked to like fully explain their day or is it

0:32:04.600 --> 0:32:06.320
<v Speaker 1>just like did you eat lunch today? Yes? Did you

0:32:06.320 --> 0:32:08.920
<v Speaker 1>eat your snack? Yes? That sort of thing, and not

0:32:08.960 --> 0:32:13.200
<v Speaker 1>to say either approach is better than the other. Life

0:32:13.280 --> 0:32:15.240
<v Speaker 1>is busy and sometimes you just got to make sure

0:32:15.320 --> 0:32:17.480
<v Speaker 1>that your child ate a snack and you don't need

0:32:17.480 --> 0:32:20.160
<v Speaker 1>the full story. But it is interesting to think about,

0:32:20.200 --> 0:32:22.920
<v Speaker 1>like perhaps the necessity for that balance, you know, to

0:32:24.080 --> 0:32:26.600
<v Speaker 1>get a full account of what the day was like,

0:32:26.640 --> 0:32:28.720
<v Speaker 1>as opposed to just like did you do the things

0:32:28.760 --> 0:32:29.520
<v Speaker 1>that were acquired?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, this also connects to some things I was reading

0:32:32.600 --> 0:32:37.480
<v Speaker 2>about how very young children can in fact answer questions

0:32:37.640 --> 0:32:40.320
<v Speaker 2>about things that happened to them recently, or at least

0:32:40.320 --> 0:32:43.720
<v Speaker 2>they typically can. This has been studied, but one thing

0:32:43.720 --> 0:32:46.520
<v Speaker 2>I was reading was that how well, say, I don't

0:32:46.560 --> 0:32:47.880
<v Speaker 2>know a you know, a two and a half year

0:32:47.920 --> 0:32:52.680
<v Speaker 2>old can describe a memory of a recent event depends

0:32:52.800 --> 0:32:56.040
<v Speaker 2>very much on how you elicit the memory from them.

0:32:56.520 --> 0:32:59.600
<v Speaker 2>And you might have seen parents doing this. You know,

0:32:59.680 --> 0:33:02.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm not at that stage yet in parenting, but I've

0:33:02.040 --> 0:33:04.120
<v Speaker 2>seen other parents doing this kind of thing. It's like,

0:33:05.280 --> 0:33:07.600
<v Speaker 2>what did we do on your birthday? You know, did

0:33:07.640 --> 0:33:10.520
<v Speaker 2>we go somewhere? Where did we go? And so you

0:33:10.560 --> 0:33:14.480
<v Speaker 2>can kind of like talk the child through the memory

0:33:14.520 --> 0:33:16.880
<v Speaker 2>in a way that it seems like the child may

0:33:17.000 --> 0:33:20.960
<v Speaker 2>not be able to produce the details and connect them spontaneously.

0:33:21.480 --> 0:33:22.560
<v Speaker 2>Did that make sense or was that?

0:33:22.680 --> 0:33:24.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Yeah, no, no, It makes me think of other

0:33:24.400 --> 0:33:28.760
<v Speaker 1>memory exercises where like if one is having like the

0:33:28.760 --> 0:33:31.440
<v Speaker 1>tip of the tongue scenario, where if someone is having

0:33:31.560 --> 0:33:36.560
<v Speaker 1>if you're having difficulty remembering a particular name or whatever,

0:33:36.680 --> 0:33:38.719
<v Speaker 1>like it's better for your memory for you to keep

0:33:38.760 --> 0:33:41.320
<v Speaker 1>trying to guess, or for the person on the other

0:33:41.400 --> 0:33:44.120
<v Speaker 1>end of the conversation to encourage you to guess and

0:33:44.160 --> 0:33:46.040
<v Speaker 1>not to just give it to you. That sort of thing,

0:33:46.120 --> 0:33:50.240
<v Speaker 1>like making the brain work for those details.

0:33:50.480 --> 0:33:52.840
<v Speaker 2>That's true. That was a finding at that episode we did,

0:33:52.920 --> 0:33:55.680
<v Speaker 2>wasn't it that? Like you're more likely to remember the

0:33:56.240 --> 0:33:59.600
<v Speaker 2>detail you're searching for next time if somebody gives you

0:33:59.640 --> 0:34:02.320
<v Speaker 2>a hint. Can you make the connection yourself versus if

0:34:02.320 --> 0:34:04.120
<v Speaker 2>you just look up the answer? Yeah?

0:34:04.200 --> 0:34:06.640
<v Speaker 1>Absolutely. Anyway, and all this, I think it is important

0:34:06.640 --> 0:34:09.560
<v Speaker 1>to mention something that Michelle Likeman points out here, and

0:34:09.600 --> 0:34:13.520
<v Speaker 1>that is again that there's not a wrong direction in

0:34:13.560 --> 0:34:16.880
<v Speaker 1>any of this, the brain remembers what it needs to remember.

0:34:16.920 --> 0:34:20.160
<v Speaker 1>We remember what we need to remember. Social pressure contributes

0:34:20.200 --> 0:34:23.239
<v Speaker 1>to this, but it is what it is now.

0:34:23.280 --> 0:34:26.600
<v Speaker 2>One question I thought we should look at before we

0:34:26.760 --> 0:34:30.000
<v Speaker 2>wrap things up today is like, Okay, we keep talking

0:34:30.160 --> 0:34:33.600
<v Speaker 2>in more general terms about like, well, there's an earlier

0:34:33.640 --> 0:34:37.520
<v Speaker 2>period where most people can't really produce any memories from

0:34:37.560 --> 0:34:39.640
<v Speaker 2>that period of their lives, and then a later period

0:34:39.719 --> 0:34:42.000
<v Speaker 2>where they can. But what are the actual numbers, like

0:34:42.040 --> 0:34:44.719
<v Speaker 2>when does that kick in? This is something that has

0:34:44.760 --> 0:34:49.279
<v Speaker 2>been studied extensively. There are certainly different methods, and I

0:34:49.280 --> 0:34:51.279
<v Speaker 2>think we might be able to add some nuance to

0:34:51.360 --> 0:34:55.000
<v Speaker 2>this answer later on, but it seems to me like

0:34:55.080 --> 0:34:59.840
<v Speaker 2>the sort of magic age is like three to four years.

0:35:00.080 --> 0:35:03.960
<v Speaker 2>About three and a half years is what most studies

0:35:04.000 --> 0:35:07.200
<v Speaker 2>have converged on. And to be clear, also, when we

0:35:07.239 --> 0:35:11.400
<v Speaker 2>talk about childhood amnesia in the scientific literature, it seems

0:35:11.400 --> 0:35:14.280
<v Speaker 2>often to refer to two different things that are related.

0:35:14.440 --> 0:35:18.560
<v Speaker 2>One is the loss of all memories as far as

0:35:18.560 --> 0:35:22.480
<v Speaker 2>we can tell, from before the earliest memory we can produce.

0:35:23.000 --> 0:35:27.040
<v Speaker 2>And then the second thing is the relative scarcity of

0:35:27.120 --> 0:35:31.960
<v Speaker 2>memories from the early years of childhood compared to equivalent

0:35:32.040 --> 0:35:35.640
<v Speaker 2>spans of time from later in life. So, for example,

0:35:35.719 --> 0:35:41.480
<v Speaker 2>even though you have some autobiographical memories from ages six

0:35:41.520 --> 0:35:44.520
<v Speaker 2>to seven, if you are like most people, you will

0:35:44.560 --> 0:35:48.239
<v Speaker 2>have a fewer number of spontaneous memories that you can

0:35:48.280 --> 0:35:52.480
<v Speaker 2>recall from that period than from say, sixteen to seventeen.

0:35:53.880 --> 0:35:56.000
<v Speaker 2>And I thought it was also interesting to just look

0:35:56.000 --> 0:35:58.480
<v Speaker 2>at the different experimental methods for trying to find out

0:35:58.480 --> 0:36:03.000
<v Speaker 2>what people's earliest memory are. There are a number of

0:36:03.040 --> 0:36:05.640
<v Speaker 2>ways to approach this. Sometimes it's done by, say, just

0:36:05.840 --> 0:36:09.120
<v Speaker 2>asking people to describe their earliest memory and estimate at

0:36:09.120 --> 0:36:11.680
<v Speaker 2>what age it took place. That is, of course a

0:36:11.719 --> 0:36:14.520
<v Speaker 2>perfectly good place to start, but putting aside for a

0:36:14.520 --> 0:36:17.280
<v Speaker 2>moment the question of like the accuracy of these memories,

0:36:17.719 --> 0:36:21.279
<v Speaker 2>you could imagine reasons why just asking somebody what is

0:36:21.320 --> 0:36:25.120
<v Speaker 2>your earliest memory might not actually produce their earliest memory.

0:36:25.239 --> 0:36:29.560
<v Speaker 2>For one thing, most people don't keep their memories indexed

0:36:29.600 --> 0:36:31.880
<v Speaker 2>in a sortable form. You know, it's not an Excel

0:36:31.960 --> 0:36:35.360
<v Speaker 2>sheet that has a sort by column for date. And

0:36:35.719 --> 0:36:38.040
<v Speaker 2>so you may have a memory that occurs to you

0:36:38.120 --> 0:36:40.600
<v Speaker 2>in one moment as the earliest you can remember, but

0:36:40.800 --> 0:36:43.359
<v Speaker 2>how do you know in another circumstance, you wouldn't think

0:36:43.400 --> 0:36:45.319
<v Speaker 2>of an earlier one that just didn't occur to you

0:36:45.360 --> 0:36:45.959
<v Speaker 2>at that time.

0:36:46.280 --> 0:36:49.919
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Plus, I guess it's worth considering that in many,

0:36:50.040 --> 0:36:53.640
<v Speaker 1>but certainly not all cases, you have sort of a

0:36:53.680 --> 0:37:02.160
<v Speaker 1>stability to early childhood. Certainly that is desired that there

0:37:02.160 --> 0:37:03.799
<v Speaker 1>would be sort of a sameness to a lot of

0:37:03.800 --> 0:37:06.759
<v Speaker 1>the early memories. You know, it's like you know one

0:37:06.840 --> 0:37:12.239
<v Speaker 1>or both parents are there, perhaps the immediate physical surroundings

0:37:12.239 --> 0:37:15.319
<v Speaker 1>are the same. So, like, what is going to be

0:37:15.520 --> 0:37:18.080
<v Speaker 1>present in a memory to distinguish it and set it

0:37:18.160 --> 0:37:21.040
<v Speaker 1>apart in the timeline again, unless you go back later

0:37:21.120 --> 0:37:24.120
<v Speaker 1>and then you have encoded it and then you identify it,

0:37:24.200 --> 0:37:26.960
<v Speaker 1>maybe falsely, and say, oh, well, this is a memory of,

0:37:27.000 --> 0:37:28.880
<v Speaker 1>say when we lived at this house or when we

0:37:28.960 --> 0:37:29.719
<v Speaker 1>lived in this town.

0:37:30.360 --> 0:37:34.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And that raises important questions about like the characteristics

0:37:34.840 --> 0:37:37.880
<v Speaker 2>of what counts as a memory, Like I wonder if

0:37:37.920 --> 0:37:40.560
<v Speaker 2>there's a sort of boundary being established by the terms

0:37:40.600 --> 0:37:44.760
<v Speaker 2>of the demand for recall. For example, an autobiographical memory

0:37:44.800 --> 0:37:47.440
<v Speaker 2>needs to be something you can put into words and

0:37:47.480 --> 0:37:50.680
<v Speaker 2>explain to somebody else. But do you ever get that

0:37:50.719 --> 0:37:55.480
<v Speaker 2>feeling that you're experiencing nostalgia, but it's not for a

0:37:55.840 --> 0:37:59.000
<v Speaker 2>thing in the outside world. Maybe not for an image

0:37:59.080 --> 0:38:02.680
<v Speaker 2>or an event, but something that isn't really something you

0:38:02.719 --> 0:38:06.239
<v Speaker 2>can put into words. It's like nostalgia for an internal

0:38:06.360 --> 0:38:09.880
<v Speaker 2>state or a feeling that's kind of strange thing. I

0:38:09.960 --> 0:38:13.680
<v Speaker 2>sometimes have that sensation. Of course, when I have that feeling,

0:38:14.040 --> 0:38:18.200
<v Speaker 2>it's totally possible the memory component of the sensation of

0:38:18.239 --> 0:38:22.160
<v Speaker 2>nostalgia could be illusory. But sometimes I wonder if maybe

0:38:22.400 --> 0:38:25.560
<v Speaker 2>feelings like that could be based in really old memories

0:38:25.640 --> 0:38:28.080
<v Speaker 2>that can't be put into words or something.

0:38:28.719 --> 0:38:33.319
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm having trouble remembering a specific example of this,

0:38:33.440 --> 0:38:37.319
<v Speaker 1>but I think some of my early memories definitely have

0:38:37.400 --> 0:38:39.960
<v Speaker 1>this component to them. Even if I do remember like

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<v Speaker 1>a basic setting or event around them, there is like

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<v Speaker 1>a there is at least as strong the feeling of

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<v Speaker 1>what it meant. Like. There's one particular early memory I

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<v Speaker 1>have of like running around in circles in a living room,

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<v Speaker 1>around like a dinner, like a dining room table in

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<v Speaker 1>a living room or a dining room that just seemed enormous,

0:38:57.560 --> 0:39:00.640
<v Speaker 1>you know, like a cathedral, And so part of it

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<v Speaker 1>is like these vague memories of what this space looked like,

0:39:05.200 --> 0:39:08.799
<v Speaker 1>but it's also equally met by the exhilaration that is

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<v Speaker 1>remembered of just kind of like this, you know, this

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<v Speaker 1>running around And it is hard to really explain, like

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<v Speaker 1>give what that means, because if I were to run

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<v Speaker 1>around in circles right now, it would certainly not be

0:39:17.680 --> 0:39:21.319
<v Speaker 1>the same feeling. You know, it doesn't relate to other

0:39:21.840 --> 0:39:24.600
<v Speaker 1>memories of physical exertion from other points in my life.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh. But then, to come back to other methods to

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<v Speaker 2>study early memories, another one that seems to be used

0:39:30.440 --> 0:39:34.040
<v Speaker 2>fairly often is the word Q test. So this one's

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<v Speaker 2>pretty interesting. I say a word to you, and then

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<v Speaker 2>I ask you to tell me a memory associated with

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<v Speaker 2>this word. Just any memory. We could try it right now, rob,

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<v Speaker 2>do you want to do it, cheer, let's do it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>tell me a memory associated with the word jar.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, that's easy. I have an early memory of trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get a jar of Maraschino cherries out of the

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<v Speaker 1>refrigerator by myself, and I dropped it and broke it

0:40:00.080 --> 0:40:01.320
<v Speaker 1>or spilled it. I'm not sure if I broke it

0:40:01.400 --> 0:40:05.520
<v Speaker 1>or spilled it, but that is a strong early memory of.

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<v Speaker 2>Mine, Okay. And then from here in the experiment. I

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<v Speaker 2>might ask you for some subsequent details, like you know,

0:40:11.000 --> 0:40:14.759
<v Speaker 2>who was there, did anybody else witness this memory? Et cetera,

0:40:14.800 --> 0:40:16.960
<v Speaker 2>et cetera, And then I would also ask you estimate

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<v Speaker 2>what age you were when this memory happened. But what

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<v Speaker 2>age do you think it was?

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<v Speaker 1>I would say maybe maybe three, But that's just a

0:40:27.280 --> 0:40:30.600
<v Speaker 1>real that's a huge guess. And I think I've actually

0:40:30.640 --> 0:40:33.839
<v Speaker 1>asked my mother about this memory before. And you know,

0:40:33.880 --> 0:40:35.759
<v Speaker 1>this is the kind of thing where like kids have

0:40:36.160 --> 0:40:38.560
<v Speaker 1>things like this happen all the time, they don't necessarily,

0:40:39.040 --> 0:40:41.920
<v Speaker 1>it's not necessarily something a parent is going to specifically remember.

0:40:42.680 --> 0:40:45.000
<v Speaker 1>It makes more of an impact on the child than

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<v Speaker 1>the parent. So I have no idea exactly when this occurred.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but this is a good answer. Jar of cherries

0:40:50.600 --> 0:40:53.160
<v Speaker 2>on the floor, maybe spilled, maybe broken. You think you

0:40:53.200 --> 0:40:55.719
<v Speaker 2>were around three? So I keep doing this. I do

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<v Speaker 2>this for a big list of words, maybe with a

0:40:58.440 --> 0:41:01.080
<v Speaker 2>big sample of people, and then you can sort of

0:41:01.480 --> 0:41:04.000
<v Speaker 2>cross reference all of the answers. You get to look

0:41:04.000 --> 0:41:08.000
<v Speaker 2>at what ages the memories tend to come from. And

0:41:08.560 --> 0:41:11.040
<v Speaker 2>you could see by this method that of just making

0:41:11.080 --> 0:41:15.040
<v Speaker 2>up random numbers here, but say by randomly associating memories

0:41:15.040 --> 0:41:17.200
<v Speaker 2>with words, we end up with people telling us about

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<v Speaker 2>twenty percent more memories from ages sixteen to twenty than

0:41:21.200 --> 0:41:25.000
<v Speaker 2>from ages six to ten or something. So I think

0:41:25.040 --> 0:41:27.880
<v Speaker 2>that's a pretty clever method. But anyway, what this research

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<v Speaker 2>tends to converge on is that a really important time

0:41:31.680 --> 0:41:34.759
<v Speaker 2>is roughly the age three to four, or like three

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<v Speaker 2>and a half. Generally, the earliest memories that adults can

0:41:38.480 --> 0:41:42.080
<v Speaker 2>produce are around the ages of three to four, and

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<v Speaker 2>there is not much or nothing from before that, and

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<v Speaker 2>then after that there is a gradual increase in the

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<v Speaker 2>quantity of autobiographical memories from each year of age up

0:41:54.239 --> 0:41:58.120
<v Speaker 2>until maybe like seven or eight, when the autobiographical memory

0:41:58.160 --> 0:42:01.400
<v Speaker 2>stores starts to look more like that the rest of adulthood.

0:42:01.640 --> 0:42:05.160
<v Speaker 2>So for most people looking backwards, memories tend to start

0:42:05.200 --> 0:42:07.520
<v Speaker 2>around three or four, and then you get more of

0:42:07.560 --> 0:42:10.160
<v Speaker 2>them at five, more of them at six, more of

0:42:10.200 --> 0:42:12.719
<v Speaker 2>them at seven, more of them at eight, and then

0:42:12.760 --> 0:42:16.240
<v Speaker 2>you start to reach a more kind of complete adult

0:42:16.320 --> 0:42:20.840
<v Speaker 2>memory set. Now, this doesn't necessarily mean that children before

0:42:20.920 --> 0:42:25.400
<v Speaker 2>the age of three or four produce no autobiographical memories. Instead,

0:42:25.760 --> 0:42:28.120
<v Speaker 2>it seems like there may be a sort of period

0:42:28.280 --> 0:42:32.319
<v Speaker 2>of forgetting, and I thought this was very interesting. Just

0:42:32.480 --> 0:42:35.920
<v Speaker 2>one study I wanted to mention quickly that gets at this.

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<v Speaker 2>It was published in the journal Memory in two thousand

0:42:38.520 --> 0:42:42.960
<v Speaker 2>and five by Dana Van Abama and Patricia Bauer, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's called Autobiographical Memory in Middle Childhood Recollections of the

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<v Speaker 2>Recent and Distant Past. Now, I was looking for the

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<v Speaker 2>full text of the study and I couldn't find it

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<v Speaker 2>before we recorded today, but I did find a summary

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<v Speaker 2>of the findings in a Psychology Today article by an

0:42:59.680 --> 0:43:03.880
<v Speaker 2>author named Vitelli. And basically what happened in the study

0:43:04.000 --> 0:43:08.759
<v Speaker 2>is that children were interviewed about autobiographical events along with

0:43:08.800 --> 0:43:11.600
<v Speaker 2>their mothers at the age of three, and they produced

0:43:11.680 --> 0:43:14.600
<v Speaker 2>details about those events. So something they did, you know,

0:43:14.880 --> 0:43:17.760
<v Speaker 2>a trip out to do something, and they could recall

0:43:17.920 --> 0:43:20.959
<v Speaker 2>things about their own past, so they had some form

0:43:21.000 --> 0:43:24.200
<v Speaker 2>of episodic memory. They could be prompted to retrieve details

0:43:24.239 --> 0:43:27.920
<v Speaker 2>about these episodic memories. But those same children were brought

0:43:28.120 --> 0:43:32.680
<v Speaker 2>back years later at ages seven, eight, and nine, exactly

0:43:32.719 --> 0:43:35.879
<v Speaker 2>the range at which there seems to be a profound

0:43:36.080 --> 0:43:40.919
<v Speaker 2>forgetting of early childhood memories. So from vitelli summary here,

0:43:41.719 --> 0:43:45.120
<v Speaker 2>the seven year olds could recall sixty percent of the

0:43:45.160 --> 0:43:48.840
<v Speaker 2>same autobiographical events they were called at three, but the

0:43:48.880 --> 0:43:51.959
<v Speaker 2>eight and nine year olds could only recall thirty six

0:43:52.040 --> 0:43:55.920
<v Speaker 2>and thirty eight percent of events, So there seems to

0:43:55.960 --> 0:43:59.880
<v Speaker 2>be a major drop off of memories from this early

0:44:00.280 --> 0:44:03.440
<v Speaker 2>period around the ages of seven, eight, and nine.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think this kind of matches up with some

0:44:06.320 --> 0:44:10.600
<v Speaker 1>stuff I've observed with my own son, mostly in talking

0:44:10.680 --> 0:44:13.479
<v Speaker 1>about things that we watched together when he was in

0:44:13.520 --> 0:44:17.600
<v Speaker 1>like one age group versus another, so and and it

0:44:17.680 --> 0:44:19.520
<v Speaker 1>varies I think from picture to picture, Like there's some

0:44:19.600 --> 0:44:22.920
<v Speaker 1>movies that maybe we've we've talked about more that have

0:44:23.040 --> 0:44:26.040
<v Speaker 1>become more like of sort of a regular part of

0:44:26.120 --> 0:44:27.839
<v Speaker 1>one's life, and then there are other movies where you

0:44:27.920 --> 0:44:30.160
<v Speaker 1>like watch it, forget it, and then maybe truly forget

0:44:30.200 --> 0:44:32.240
<v Speaker 1>it and then come back and experience it again.

0:44:33.320 --> 0:44:35.839
<v Speaker 2>Now, why patterns like this emerge is something I think

0:44:35.880 --> 0:44:38.080
<v Speaker 2>we'll have to get into more when we come back

0:44:38.120 --> 0:44:40.160
<v Speaker 2>in subsequent parts of the series. I'm not sure how

0:44:40.200 --> 0:44:41.680
<v Speaker 2>many we're going to go to. We'll have at least

0:44:41.680 --> 0:44:43.480
<v Speaker 2>one more part, maybe maybe a couple more.

0:44:43.760 --> 0:44:45.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there's certainly going to be a plenty to get

0:44:45.560 --> 0:44:49.000
<v Speaker 1>into for a part two, possibly a part three, But

0:44:49.600 --> 0:44:52.239
<v Speaker 1>as we often have pointed out, we're we're hesitant to

0:44:52.520 --> 0:44:54.600
<v Speaker 1>say this will definitely go to a certain number of

0:44:54.600 --> 0:44:58.040
<v Speaker 1>episodes because we're often just a little unsure where we're

0:44:58.040 --> 0:45:00.520
<v Speaker 1>going to cut it off. Well, how about you, Joe's

0:45:00.520 --> 0:45:03.279
<v Speaker 1>we close out this episode. What's what comes to mind

0:45:03.320 --> 0:45:07.000
<v Speaker 1>is your earliest jar related memory? Jars only, please, and

0:45:07.480 --> 0:45:10.239
<v Speaker 1>if it even if it's from the last five years,

0:45:10.239 --> 0:45:10.839
<v Speaker 1>that's cool too.

0:45:11.160 --> 0:45:14.000
<v Speaker 2>Well to bore you with dreadful cliche. I think catching

0:45:14.040 --> 0:45:17.960
<v Speaker 2>fireflies in a jar that is very early. We did

0:45:17.960 --> 0:45:19.239
<v Speaker 2>that a lot when I was a kid in our

0:45:19.239 --> 0:45:22.400
<v Speaker 2>front yard. We had lots of them. I think I

0:45:22.600 --> 0:45:29.640
<v Speaker 2>also have very early memories of pickle jars, because I

0:45:29.719 --> 0:45:34.319
<v Speaker 2>recall from early childhood being really into pickles pickled cucumbers,

0:45:34.360 --> 0:45:36.359
<v Speaker 2>like a like a Clawson's pickle jar.

0:45:37.120 --> 0:45:39.880
<v Speaker 1>Oh oh yeah, that's interesting. Yeah, clearly I had more

0:45:40.040 --> 0:45:43.239
<v Speaker 1>I guess the sweet tooth as a child, but my

0:45:43.280 --> 0:45:46.520
<v Speaker 1>son has always been super into pickles of all different varieties,

0:45:46.520 --> 0:45:51.160
<v Speaker 1>from the the little cornishans to the big dill pickles,

0:45:51.200 --> 0:45:54.400
<v Speaker 1>to the big bread and butter pickles, to the slices,

0:45:54.520 --> 0:45:54.960
<v Speaker 1>all of it.

0:45:55.719 --> 0:45:57.520
<v Speaker 2>Though with both of those, I guess those are just

0:45:57.560 --> 0:46:02.400
<v Speaker 2>sort of like ambiguous continue states of childhood. Catching fireflies

0:46:02.400 --> 0:46:04.839
<v Speaker 2>in jars. It's just something that happened often. I don't

0:46:04.880 --> 0:46:08.759
<v Speaker 2>remember a particular instance of it. Same with admiring the

0:46:08.800 --> 0:46:12.759
<v Speaker 2>pickle jar and wanting its contents. If I had to

0:46:12.880 --> 0:46:17.440
<v Speaker 2>produce a more I don't know, a direct autobiographical specific memory,

0:46:17.440 --> 0:46:20.000
<v Speaker 2>it'd probably be a more recent one. I don't remember.

0:46:20.040 --> 0:46:22.080
<v Speaker 2>If I think you asked me for my earliest but

0:46:22.120 --> 0:46:25.280
<v Speaker 2>if I were just doing the wordqu test, i'd probably say, oh,

0:46:25.360 --> 0:46:29.560
<v Speaker 2>from when I was thirty five and I made and

0:46:29.600 --> 0:46:32.040
<v Speaker 2>I made kim chi and a large jar on my table,

0:46:32.160 --> 0:46:34.239
<v Speaker 2>and I remember how it smelled and all that.

0:46:34.760 --> 0:46:39.799
<v Speaker 1>Oh nice. Well, you know, I think it's worth telling everyone, like,

0:46:40.080 --> 0:46:42.960
<v Speaker 1>go out now and create some positive jar based memories

0:46:43.000 --> 0:46:47.680
<v Speaker 1>with your children, even if they're grown now. It's never

0:46:47.719 --> 0:46:50.560
<v Speaker 1>too late to create a jar based memory. All right. Well,

0:46:50.560 --> 0:46:51.880
<v Speaker 1>on that note, we're going to go and close up

0:46:51.920 --> 0:46:54.760
<v Speaker 1>this episode, but we'll be back with more on this topic,

0:46:54.800 --> 0:46:57.840
<v Speaker 1>and in the meantime, certainly right in with your thoughts

0:46:57.880 --> 0:46:59.600
<v Speaker 1>on all of this, and yeah, if you want to

0:46:59.640 --> 0:47:02.799
<v Speaker 1>share some of your earliest memories with us and sort

0:47:02.800 --> 0:47:07.799
<v Speaker 1>of attempt to define when these memories occurred, and if

0:47:07.880 --> 0:47:10.400
<v Speaker 1>you have any, if you've been able to dig around

0:47:10.680 --> 0:47:13.520
<v Speaker 1>and to ask other people to sort of prove them out,

0:47:14.040 --> 0:47:16.360
<v Speaker 1>to see if they are in fact largely authentic or

0:47:16.400 --> 0:47:19.239
<v Speaker 1>if they've been augmented in any way. Yeah, we'd love

0:47:19.280 --> 0:47:19.600
<v Speaker 1>to hear.

0:47:19.520 --> 0:47:22.680
<v Speaker 2>From everyone throughout these episodes, but this is going to

0:47:22.719 --> 0:47:24.960
<v Speaker 2>produce a skewed sample because we're going to hear from

0:47:25.000 --> 0:47:27.640
<v Speaker 2>everybody who's like, I can remember being one, But people

0:47:27.680 --> 0:47:29.399
<v Speaker 2>aren't going to write in to tell us I don't

0:47:29.400 --> 0:47:30.279
<v Speaker 2>remember being one.

0:47:30.880 --> 0:47:32.880
<v Speaker 1>No, right, you can write in with that if you're like,

0:47:33.000 --> 0:47:37.240
<v Speaker 1>my earliest memory is being you know, five or older whatever,

0:47:37.760 --> 0:47:40.000
<v Speaker 1>right in. Like we said, there is no wrong answer here.

0:47:40.280 --> 0:47:43.960
<v Speaker 1>The people who claim to remember being born, it doesn't

0:47:44.000 --> 0:47:47.719
<v Speaker 1>mean their brain is better, their memory is better than

0:47:47.760 --> 0:47:51.080
<v Speaker 1>another individual. Again, we're going to continue to discuss this

0:47:51.160 --> 0:47:56.759
<v Speaker 1>as as we explore this topic. No wrong answers, all right, Yeah,

0:47:56.800 --> 0:47:58.279
<v Speaker 1>so we close it out. Will just remind you that

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0:48:04.680 --> 0:48:07.000
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0:48:07.040 --> 0:48:09.319
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0:48:09.400 --> 0:48:13.759
<v Speaker 1>talk about a weird film and oh and this week,

0:48:13.800 --> 0:48:15.239
<v Speaker 1>I think it's going to be a pretty fun one

0:48:15.280 --> 0:48:18.799
<v Speaker 1>that will tie in with early childhood memories for many people,

0:48:18.800 --> 0:48:21.040
<v Speaker 1>because I think we do form a lot of early

0:48:21.120 --> 0:48:24.920
<v Speaker 1>childhood memories based on movies we're exposed to. So perhaps

0:48:24.960 --> 0:48:26.759
<v Speaker 1>we'll get into a bat a little bit as we

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<v Speaker 1>discussed this week's title.

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