WEBVTT - Holiday Cheer

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<v Speaker 1>Find Down with Dandy Kramer and Michael Coffin and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a radio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>And we're back again.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's always I never know what to say

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<v Speaker 3>when we hey, good, I never know what to say.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe with the intro line should maybe we should.

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<v Speaker 2>Have people emailing on what we should say every the

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<v Speaker 2>start of every show, like an like an entrance, like

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<v Speaker 2>good morning America.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's I don't know what Hey, jack ass, how

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<v Speaker 3>you doing Happy Monday?

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<v Speaker 2>You know?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it just happy Monday? I mean you think?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, yeah, sure, sounds like somebody has a case

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<v Speaker 2>of the Monday. You know. It's off of space Honey,

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<v Speaker 2>Come on, I don't watch.

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<v Speaker 3>That was the I'm like, don't get that humor, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Before we got show. It's funny. Jana was calling into

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<v Speaker 2>the room where we podcast at home, and she was like.

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<v Speaker 3>Joy Chase, anyway, Mike, And it's so I cannot get

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<v Speaker 3>their names.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so funny because I used to give my parents

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<v Speaker 2>so much crap for always doing that with me and

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<v Speaker 2>my sister and my brother, and my dad would even

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<v Speaker 2>even call me like his brother, his brother's name, like

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<v Speaker 2>my uncles. He'd be like Paul Tara, Jack Mike, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>you're looking at me. How do you not say my name?

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<v Speaker 3>I literally called Jolly Waffles today after I called her Jason.

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<v Speaker 2>She's But what's funny is I've even had that moment

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<v Speaker 2>at times where yeah, I'm like Jack, Jase, Jolie, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's just so hard.

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<v Speaker 3>There's so many games.

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<v Speaker 1>You're always why is it so hard? And you're not

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<v Speaker 1>just like me, like I'm just thinking about myself, but

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<v Speaker 1>like you're thinking about every once you got everyone's name,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, is.

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<v Speaker 3>That what it is? So I know, I don't think

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<v Speaker 3>it's such a good topic because why is it that?

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<v Speaker 3>Because truly, I was like, Waffles, Joline's.

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<v Speaker 1>Going a million hours a minute, a million miles a minute, because.

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<v Speaker 2>We have four mouths defeat, we have four little codependents,

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<v Speaker 2>little dependence Chance, Waffles, Jolie, Jace.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess true.

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<v Speaker 3>But I've never called I've never called one of the

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<v Speaker 3>kids your name. I've usually called I've called, I've called

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<v Speaker 3>Jase Jolie.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel like that's easy. With the Jay's, you're

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of like throwing a name out there and

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<v Speaker 1>hoping it stick.

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<v Speaker 3>But I haven't been like, hey, Mike, why is it

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<v Speaker 3>why is it the kid's name that we get confused with.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, man, because you're saying the same things

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<v Speaker 1>to them.

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<v Speaker 2>Mark, you do that? Have you ever?

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<v Speaker 4>Definitely do that? And I'm trying to do some research

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<v Speaker 4>as to why we do that right.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, because you're saying the same You're saying, like, Megan,

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<v Speaker 1>pick up your clothes, what's another M name? Why can't

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<v Speaker 1>I think of another M name?

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<v Speaker 4>But it doesn't matter this it's about keeping You keep

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<v Speaker 4>your children's name kind of in the same section of

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<v Speaker 4>your brain, so when you say it wrong, like when

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<v Speaker 4>you're going for your son, you're more likely to say

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<v Speaker 4>your daughter's name than a different male in your life

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<v Speaker 4>because they're kind of stored in the same party.

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<v Speaker 1>And you mark at them.

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<v Speaker 3>It's interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like you're reaching in your the same pocket. You

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<v Speaker 2>don't know you're reaching for gum, but you grab a coin.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, sure, you like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I just can't remember that.

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<v Speaker 3>We love your luck in America.

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<v Speaker 2>Mark, and I love it.

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<v Speaker 4>You're absolutely I'm still like.

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<v Speaker 3>You're reaching for gud, but I kind of get that

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<v Speaker 3>it's in the same pockets.

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<v Speaker 2>It's in the same pocket of your.

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<v Speaker 4>Brain, So I do understand times you can even take

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<v Speaker 4>a pet's name by accident, because it's kind of the

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<v Speaker 4>same sort of maternal love that you feel for them,

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<v Speaker 4>paternal love my dogs.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Sophie, Sophie.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's so interesting. That makes sense.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, thanks for that. It does make sense. I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>losing my mind because I really truly thought I was.

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<v Speaker 1>No, you're not. Don't worry. You got a beautiful house.

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<v Speaker 1>Your house is like all decorated and.

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<v Speaker 3>Cute, and we're so fastive over here, so ready for Christmas.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like November first we had. Even though we

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<v Speaker 2>celebrate Thanksgiving, we just kind of go from Halloween straight

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<v Speaker 2>to Christmas.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not going to be a popular opinion, but I

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<v Speaker 1>do not like Thanksgiving. I don't care for the food.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't. I just not into it, I know.

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<v Speaker 3>I So you didn't have a good Thanksgiving?

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<v Speaker 1>Then, oh no, like it's always great, but I just

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<v Speaker 1>like my countdown is it goes countdown to birthday, so

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<v Speaker 1>I just could care less.

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<v Speaker 3>So what did so? What did you eat then? For things?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I always just have like turkey, gravy and bread.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just like not into it, you know, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know why. I don't ask I don't bake anything. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't cook anything. Maybe that's why I just love Christmas

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<v Speaker 1>so much. But literally I've been listening to Christmas music

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<v Speaker 1>for a month, which actually I'm a questioned, like really,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm actually serious, wouldn't like I need Christmas music

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<v Speaker 1>from you?

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<v Speaker 5>Me?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I really do?

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<v Speaker 3>I actually have one out? Oh I'm doing an album

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<v Speaker 3>next year.

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<v Speaker 1>Spoiler alert, Yay, I'm doing I'm doing a Christmas album.

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<v Speaker 1>I know because literally obviously coming out of I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>listening and it was like Laura and Lena and like

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<v Speaker 1>George and then like Jesse Deck, I'm like, okay, any Jana,

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<v Speaker 1>like I need like Janet.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, there is one that I did with Straight No Chaser. Well,

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<v Speaker 3>I guess what we were going to talk about this

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<v Speaker 3>next week, but since you brought it up, I think

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<v Speaker 3>we should do it. Sorry, okay, oops, so no, that's okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I just since we're early on Chris was good. But

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<v Speaker 3>I did do a song with Straight No Chaser and

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<v Speaker 3>it features me on there do you guys want to

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<v Speaker 3>hear it? No, I had no idea.

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<v Speaker 6>It's like I'm so excited, ready go.

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<v Speaker 5>In and hang down.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's it. So Straight No chaser, there we go, guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Spotify right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I'm excited.

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<v Speaker 3>I have another one, but it never it's not on Spotify.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, like, how does that like?

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<v Speaker 7>When? Where?

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<v Speaker 3>How?

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<v Speaker 1>When?

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<v Speaker 3>Like? I need that? What that song? That song's on Spotify?

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<v Speaker 3>You just go straight, chaser, Jan Grammar, That's yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 3>on Spotify right now, people. And then I did one

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<v Speaker 3>with Todd chrisly too, so look up his album Todd.

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<v Speaker 3>But so, Michael, the other day we were talking about

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<v Speaker 3>you look at wait on a second, I mean not

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<v Speaker 3>to like a Christmas memory sore we go and Todd

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<v Speaker 3>sings on this too.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I'm so there you go, you asking you shall

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<v Speaker 1>receipts I just received and I need like one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>more of those because that was glorious.

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<v Speaker 3>But no, Michael, we were going to bring this up

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<v Speaker 3>next week for next week's podcast, but he was like, Hey,

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<v Speaker 3>what are your favorite Christmas songs?

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<v Speaker 2>You're top three, three to five Christmas.

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<v Speaker 3>So I've been making my list, so I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>we should play them, Michael. Why don't you play well

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<v Speaker 3>our number one.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't have to play them.

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<v Speaker 3>Why it's so good, Let's play one of them? You

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<v Speaker 3>want me to sing yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Better, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh really, can you not play those things on there?

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<v Speaker 4>You can play a certain amount a few seconds, I

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<v Speaker 4>think is fine. Like what you just did is okay.

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<v Speaker 4>And plus it's over your phone, which adds another gray

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<v Speaker 4>area to it. But it's weird. Playing music on podcasts

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<v Speaker 4>is weird, which is why you podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, well, here we go list you didn't listen to

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<v Speaker 3>a couple of weeks ago podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Then do we go down the music lane?

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<v Speaker 2>I heard the whole thing, all right, So I'll say

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<v Speaker 2>like my top probably three individual Christmas songs, okay, in

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<v Speaker 2>no particular order. Okay, uh, Little Drummer Boy by Pentatonics,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh we're doing okay. That song is so good by them,

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<v Speaker 2>their version of it pretty much anything.

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<v Speaker 3>Michael will blay, but he's like King of Christmas.

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<v Speaker 2>Have yourself from Erily Christmas or I'll be home for

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<v Speaker 2>Christmas Michael bou Bley. And then of course, my boy,

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<v Speaker 2>hold on, I'm gonna play a.

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<v Speaker 3>Second every We're gonna give you one second, five seconds

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<v Speaker 3>smart just clo second five seconds of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Get to the good part.

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<v Speaker 3>Chris Brown, you know my boy, Chris Brees, Chris Christmas Christmas.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so good.

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<v Speaker 1>That's funny.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, like my top three.

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<v Speaker 1>Gret Sky okay, so mine. This has always been a

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<v Speaker 1>favorite song, but I listened to it like a month ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Laura and Elena's version of Holy Night. Oh literally no

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<v Speaker 1>no no, no, no, no no no, like oh it

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<v Speaker 1>was she brings him like a choir s at the end,

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<v Speaker 1>it was I'm not going to sing it, but the

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<v Speaker 1>part where you go sing it coas and you really

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<v Speaker 1>draw out the fall.

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<v Speaker 3>I no, yes, you can, you know, It's like, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>do it? No no.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that one. And then I like the one

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna have to sing it because I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>the name, but I'm not gonna sing it. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's a Mariah Carey one, but I don't care who

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<v Speaker 1>sings it. I love every Chris that I like that one,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's not that one. It's the one where they

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<v Speaker 1>goes this sing in deck the hole.

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<v Speaker 4>Christmas Chris is maybe please come Home.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that one because I love like every version

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<v Speaker 1>of any and then she goes, I love.

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<v Speaker 4>That and that's originally Darling in Love. But you too

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<v Speaker 4>had a big hit.

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<v Speaker 7>With this one.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that one. I love that one and then

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<v Speaker 1>I really like, oh, oh my god, how can I

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<v Speaker 1>forget rocking around the Christmas Tree? Like, no, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>good Wenesday you will get when you're here. I love

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<v Speaker 1>that bar is normally Okay, there you go.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, so Tennessee Christmas by Amy Grant, it's so good,

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<v Speaker 3>have yourself and Merrily Christmas by Sam Smith incredible, he's

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<v Speaker 3>so good. Hallelujah by Pentatonic?

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<v Speaker 4>Is that a Christmas?

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<v Speaker 3>Hellaliah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I just love that talking.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a good it gives giving you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I want to choose that. Okay, that's a Christmas,

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<v Speaker 1>isn't it?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the broke again.

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<v Speaker 4>Huh yeah, there was a secret chord that David played

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<v Speaker 4>and it please the Lord?

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<v Speaker 1>No, yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't know that that's Christmas

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<v Speaker 1>r it is.

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<v Speaker 3>It's on the Christmas Spotify album.

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<v Speaker 2>I think, Yeah, it's been used a lot of different ways,

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<v Speaker 2>but when it's played at Christmas, it's definitely.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that song. And then are you ready for this?

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<v Speaker 3>Ariana Grande?

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<v Speaker 6>This next?

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<v Speaker 3>That's a jam. That's the one we were talking about

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<v Speaker 3>that night that I couldn't find. But then that and

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<v Speaker 3>then ninety eight degrees Christmas Silent Night breaks my heart. Lisa,

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<v Speaker 3>I love out there knows what I'm talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think maybe it's like the spirituality of it.

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<v Speaker 1>I just love Christmas music, and I just like when people.

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<v Speaker 2>See it, it just makes me like, oh, we just

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<v Speaker 2>played around the household day now, all day long.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's been happening since like the second we November

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<v Speaker 3>actually the first, No, it was the day after Halloween

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<v Speaker 3>is when I started. Sorry, but it's just Mark, do

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<v Speaker 3>you do you have a fave?

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<v Speaker 4>I've got it all ready to go obviously not Halloween.

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<v Speaker 4>Breaking it into three categories. One is uh contemporary, oh

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<v Speaker 4>love it, one is traditional, and one is original.

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<v Speaker 1>You tell them.

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<v Speaker 4>My favorite contemporary Christmas song is Happy Christmas.

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<v Speaker 1>John Lennon, Oh, interesting, so this.

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<v Speaker 4>Is Christmas that one?

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<v Speaker 2>You've heard it?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, a good one.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually said that the other day, Mark, and I wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to add that to my top.

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<v Speaker 4>It's all a peace of love and it's it was

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<v Speaker 4>relevant then and it's sadly still relevant.

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<v Speaker 2>Great great song.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm helping war is over twenty twenty. My favorite traditional

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<v Speaker 4>is a Holy Night, which Sarah mentioned that one. There's

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<v Speaker 4>that no who I'm not going to do it Mariah

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<v Speaker 4>and it can be a church, it could be anywhere.

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<v Speaker 3>Because that's wait, that was the ninety degree one. It's

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<v Speaker 3>not Saturday Night Holy Night. Yeah, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 4>Yep, there's oh no, dear goosebumps every single time, and

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<v Speaker 4>then original I figure, do you know One Republic's Christmas

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<v Speaker 4>Without You? That's a beautiful song.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I know, really One Republic.

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<v Speaker 4>One Republic has a great It was on one of

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<v Speaker 4>the very special Christmas albums. It's really good. So I

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<v Speaker 4>recommend that check that out Spots Without You, and I'll

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<v Speaker 4>throw in there just because of the country vibe. The

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<v Speaker 4>piano at the beginning of where are You Christmas? Makes me,

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<v Speaker 4>oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>I listened to that last night from him the Great Hill.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>Are You?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>It is so.

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<v Speaker 1>Incredible, so sad so Christmas music?

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<v Speaker 3>Why is it so sad?

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on?

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<v Speaker 3>I got then there's like santas So it's great that.

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<v Speaker 4>I just love that this holiday has its own genre

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<v Speaker 4>of music like no other holiday can claim that.

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<v Speaker 5>Bud Yeah, oh man, well my favorite is probably my

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<v Speaker 5>only wish this year by Britney Spears Sancho You why

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<v Speaker 5>didn't I say that?

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<v Speaker 3>I have been so good this year.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, that is a jam good for Christmas?

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<v Speaker 3>That one?

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<v Speaker 4>That's what?

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<v Speaker 5>Then I love a Winter Wonderland. That's a favorite of mine.

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<v Speaker 5>Scotty McCurry's version.

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<v Speaker 1>Is is when I block all of these what am

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<v Speaker 1>I doing? Picking three?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? Yeah, because you could say it about like every

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<v Speaker 2>Christmas song They're all good.

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<v Speaker 3>But seriously, to your point, Mark, I mean to have

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<v Speaker 3>its own genre. Yeah, music is so awesome. I what

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<v Speaker 3>if you met someone that said they didn't like Christmas music?

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<v Speaker 3>Can they? Can you like trust that person?

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, they probably don't like it for a sentimental maybe, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>for like a traumatic reason. That's true.

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<v Speaker 4>You have to be understanding that's true. Like d Dean Ungler. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I love Deanungler from The Help I Second dating. He

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<v Speaker 4>hates holidays, he hates Christmas. But I get he's got

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<v Speaker 4>some very negative It brings him back to family, it

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<v Speaker 4>brings back to his mom who he lost at a

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<v Speaker 4>young age. The messages so much so I respect that

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<v Speaker 4>and I.

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<v Speaker 1>Empathize with you well, and I feel like it's not

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<v Speaker 1>that they hate holidays. Maybe they hate.

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<v Speaker 3>One or you know, holidays are lonely and when you

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<v Speaker 3>don't have your family or a loved one. That's what's

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<v Speaker 3>I mean? What do they say? You know, that's when

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of deaths happened too, because people are depressed.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, and you have to listen.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't have to play this.

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<v Speaker 1>We got to listen to this. Lauren a Landam part Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>is this the climax of the song?

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<v Speaker 3>It's so good?

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<v Speaker 1>Some in choir coming in.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wow, Yeah, she's incredible. I was a little emotional.

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<v Speaker 3>I just say something frozen two not appropriate?

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<v Speaker 1>WHOA really? That just took me by a wild surprise.

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<v Speaker 3>That's not age appropriate that I almost wanted to leave.

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<v Speaker 1>Please tell, please tell, not app appropriate for who?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it's a lot of comments have been made about it.

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<v Speaker 3>What's I went, this is a couple of weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's Oh, Mark, we pulled that up situating.

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<v Speaker 4>I would think, what is it?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, I don't know, can't lasting.

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<v Speaker 1>Guidence PG is correct?

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<v Speaker 3>But what age? Did they technically say PG is four?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh they don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, right, I think, Well, I thought parentally, this was

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<v Speaker 3>a couple of weeks ago. Obviously I saw the movie,

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<v Speaker 3>and we haven't talked about it. I forgot about it.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it's good to let me say it before any

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<v Speaker 4>spoilers come out.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it's been out that people are upset.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh really, I mean, I don't know any of this,

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<v Speaker 1>so please like EDU.

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<v Speaker 3>Came basically, Disney said, this is for their ten year

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<v Speaker 3>old princesses, And I'm like, you should have warned the

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<v Speaker 3>four year old princesses that are seeing this movie. And

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<v Speaker 3>you hear death and dead about twenty times in the movie.

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<v Speaker 4>In the original Frozen, the parents.

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<v Speaker 3>Die right kind of, but they didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>They didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Lost at Sea, Lost at Sea, Well, they said the

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<v Speaker 3>word dead and death at least ten times, and there

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<v Speaker 3>was a few people that died and said they died.

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<v Speaker 3>And maybe I'm just being overly uh sensitive to that,

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<v Speaker 3>but I did not. I was really upset that we

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<v Speaker 3>didn't have any warnings about how because there was there

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<v Speaker 3>was people close in that story that died, and my

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<v Speaker 3>child was sad and scared and asking about death.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, sorry, I was kind of okay, I get it,

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<v Speaker 1>so like okay.

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<v Speaker 3>And they kept they were making jokes about that person died,

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<v Speaker 3>that person's gonna be dead. That's not funny to joke about.

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<v Speaker 3>And I did the movie was there was a joke

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<v Speaker 3>about death, and I was just like, do they just

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<v Speaker 3>say that.

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<v Speaker 4>Kids? But we're going to see this over Christmas with

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<v Speaker 4>my niece who's four. You think this is problem now?

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<v Speaker 3>I think it is to be cool. I mean, but again,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm I'm a very I'm not a helicopter parent. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>in the middle. I just don't think it's I don't

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<v Speaker 3>like it. Like Jolie's coming off from school, she's just

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<v Speaker 3>learned this war and she's like, this car is dead.

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<v Speaker 3>It's I'm like Jolie, please don't say that, baby, like

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<v Speaker 3>you don't do you know what that means? We can,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, but she doesn't understand. She thinks dead is

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<v Speaker 3>funny and when they're joking about death and Frozen two,

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<v Speaker 3>that's not funny.

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<v Speaker 1>What is it like pertain to like?

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<v Speaker 3>And there's also like it was a very sad movie.

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<v Speaker 3>There was a few people that died.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm I'm out, so I don't need to be

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<v Speaker 1>crying in a children's film.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was very like the energy. It was just tuvvy.

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<v Speaker 3>Not only was it scary at certain parts, like she

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<v Speaker 3>had to come sit in my chair, and she's not

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<v Speaker 3>a scared kid, like she doesn't get scared easily, but

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<v Speaker 3>not only was it, it was just I was like, wow,

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<v Speaker 3>this is this is a lie for almost four the

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<v Speaker 3>first one.

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<v Speaker 2>So everybody did. Even when I asked Jolie when Jana

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<v Speaker 2>and Jolie got home from the movie, which I was very.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a girl's thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I was very jealous that she had the girls went.

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<v Speaker 2>But I asked Jolie, how's the movie? Was it amazing?

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<v Speaker 2>She was like, oh, it was scary. I think that

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<v Speaker 2>was the first thing that she said, so it was scary. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>And then me and my girlfriend Nicole and I were

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<v Speaker 3>talking about the and Dre, who came to the movie

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<v Speaker 3>with us. We talked afterwards because I was there with

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<v Speaker 3>you know, my other two girlfriends who have older kids,

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<v Speaker 3>and I know they're not as you know, they probably

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<v Speaker 3>weren't as sensitive to that. I know they weren't, so

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<v Speaker 3>I probably wouldn't have gotten that same reaction are They

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<v Speaker 3>probably like, oh, whatever, it's a kid thing. But I

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<v Speaker 3>just it really bothered me. And so I called Dre

0:23:12.400 --> 0:23:14.280
<v Speaker 3>and I was like, were you because we had kids

0:23:14.320 --> 0:23:15.440
<v Speaker 3>are on the same age. I was like, did that

0:23:15.520 --> 0:23:17.159
<v Speaker 3>upset you at all? And She's like, yes, just like

0:23:17.200 --> 0:23:18.119
<v Speaker 3>that was so depressing.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, this might be a weird question, but like

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<v Speaker 1>what age do you kids go to movies?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just like, but I mean there's nothing they don't

0:23:24.960 --> 0:23:28.600
<v Speaker 3>joke about death or saying dead and right and any

0:23:28.640 --> 0:23:29.760
<v Speaker 3>other films that might.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't Aladdin, but I don't have a kid, so

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like, I wouldn't be paying attention to that.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know, but huh.

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<v Speaker 4>Mean possible to separated? Can you tell me is it

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<v Speaker 4>a good movie if you didn't have if you didn't

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<v Speaker 4>go with your daughter and you went, would you have

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<v Speaker 4>enjoyed it?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

0:23:48.560 --> 0:23:50.240
<v Speaker 1>Really, Like I watched the first one all the time

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<v Speaker 1>by myself.

0:23:51.760 --> 0:23:54.320
<v Speaker 3>It's because it was so mark it was. It was

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<v Speaker 3>It's just the only parts were good were all off.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh he's the best.

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<v Speaker 3>This is just again my personal pay So I you know, well,

0:24:01.880 --> 0:24:04.640
<v Speaker 3>people people said they loved it, like was It's just.

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<v Speaker 1>What was the point of this film? Like why was

0:24:06.840 --> 0:24:08.720
<v Speaker 1>it so sad? Like is there like a I mean.

0:24:08.800 --> 0:24:11.440
<v Speaker 3>I can't even tell you because it's the major spoilers people,

0:24:11.600 --> 0:24:12.520
<v Speaker 3>I haven't seen the ideot.

0:24:12.560 --> 0:24:14.960
<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, so Mike does not want to be spoiled.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I don't, so I just for me personally, it

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't a very uplifting film.

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<v Speaker 1>Weird, especially like around Christmas and like yeah huh, and all.

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<v Speaker 2>The anticipations from like six years ago.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I was gonna say, it's just it's older, so

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I would just be careful. And there

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<v Speaker 3>was a few scary parts for I think, I think

0:24:30.359 --> 0:24:32.440
<v Speaker 3>a four year old. But then again, I'm the parent

0:24:32.480 --> 0:24:34.280
<v Speaker 3>that got upset when I saw a parent bring a

0:24:34.320 --> 0:24:36.679
<v Speaker 3>four year old to see Jurassic Park and seeing a

0:24:36.760 --> 0:24:39.720
<v Speaker 3>kid being eaten by like that bothered me saying that

0:24:39.920 --> 0:24:43.520
<v Speaker 3>a kid was watching that. But again, I'm just.

0:24:43.520 --> 0:24:45.960
<v Speaker 1>Already really scared in the Lion King when I was little.

0:24:46.760 --> 0:24:48.760
<v Speaker 3>Just well, yeah, those hyenas are terrified.

0:24:48.760 --> 0:24:51.199
<v Speaker 1>Well and scar really scared me, like he really scarred me.

0:24:51.280 --> 0:24:51.720
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't know.

0:24:51.720 --> 0:24:54.000
<v Speaker 1>Maybe Jilly will tell you in fifteen years. Mold Frozen

0:24:54.040 --> 0:24:55.280
<v Speaker 1>two really freaked me out.

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<v Speaker 3>Great, I've already screwed up my kid by taking her

0:24:59.000 --> 0:25:00.679
<v Speaker 3>to a that's interesting.

0:25:00.680 --> 0:25:02.600
<v Speaker 1>I haven't heard anything about it. I mean also, I

0:25:02.600 --> 0:25:05.920
<v Speaker 1>don't really know a lot of mom friends.

0:25:06.000 --> 0:25:10.399
<v Speaker 3>But I'll keep I'll keep that and maybe China we'll

0:25:10.440 --> 0:25:11.639
<v Speaker 3>go see it. So yeah, I just keep it in

0:25:11.680 --> 0:25:13.359
<v Speaker 3>the back of your mind. Mark, if the people that

0:25:13.359 --> 0:25:15.560
<v Speaker 3>you're going with don't care about that, my sister and

0:25:15.680 --> 0:25:19.480
<v Speaker 3>or what, Yeah, it's true to care about the Dean.

0:25:19.840 --> 0:25:21.840
<v Speaker 4>Have a choice is obsessed with the first one.

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<v Speaker 1>YEA, I was going to say, how do you say?

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<v Speaker 7>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:25:24.480 --> 0:25:25.960
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's just sad.

0:25:34.720 --> 0:25:35.000
<v Speaker 7>All right.

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<v Speaker 2>We're very excited about our next guest doctor Are you

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<v Speaker 2>with us?

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<v Speaker 7>I am?

0:25:40.200 --> 0:25:43.399
<v Speaker 2>Hey, how you doing? This is Mike and Jana and

0:25:43.440 --> 0:25:45.840
<v Speaker 2>we also have our other co host Sarah with us,

0:25:46.560 --> 0:25:48.800
<v Speaker 2>and so doctor, I'm gonna say a little bit about you,

0:25:48.840 --> 0:25:50.080
<v Speaker 2>and then I'm going to have you give like your

0:25:50.080 --> 0:25:53.600
<v Speaker 2>elevator pits to our listeners. So you're trained in uh

0:25:53.680 --> 0:25:57.480
<v Speaker 2>psychiatry and practicing, and you also practice in emergency medicine,

0:25:57.560 --> 0:26:00.240
<v Speaker 2>and you're major proponent of the power of routine and

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<v Speaker 2>currently working on a book called Routineology, Discovering the Art

0:26:04.359 --> 0:26:08.160
<v Speaker 2>and Science of Routine. So explain to our listeners what

0:26:08.200 --> 0:26:09.119
<v Speaker 2>that all means.

0:26:09.280 --> 0:26:14.359
<v Speaker 7>Well, you know, in today's time, which is a little

0:26:14.359 --> 0:26:16.639
<v Speaker 7>bit disruptive in the world, you know, it seems that

0:26:17.119 --> 0:26:21.480
<v Speaker 7>routine became important. I decided in our studies when I

0:26:21.480 --> 0:26:23.720
<v Speaker 7>started to look at longevity of people that were high

0:26:23.800 --> 0:26:27.159
<v Speaker 7>performers and even care of the young, that it seemed

0:26:27.160 --> 0:26:29.640
<v Speaker 7>that maybe doing things in a regular basis and doing

0:26:29.680 --> 0:26:32.600
<v Speaker 7>things in a routine and particularly in a stable environment,

0:26:32.960 --> 0:26:36.320
<v Speaker 7>we're really a very important part of our world. And

0:26:36.359 --> 0:26:38.600
<v Speaker 7>as I started to look back at the physiology and

0:26:38.640 --> 0:26:40.880
<v Speaker 7>the end of chronology and kind of how we're wired,

0:26:41.280 --> 0:26:43.359
<v Speaker 7>I began to realize that really, for the purpose of

0:26:43.400 --> 0:26:47.360
<v Speaker 7>survival and otherwise, routine is a very very important part

0:26:47.359 --> 0:26:50.119
<v Speaker 7>of what we are, and so are the rituals that

0:26:50.160 --> 0:26:52.560
<v Speaker 7>we performed and really the way we live.

0:26:53.280 --> 0:26:55.280
<v Speaker 2>I heard something I don't remember where I read or

0:26:55.280 --> 0:26:57.480
<v Speaker 2>where I heard it some years back, that it takes

0:26:58.200 --> 0:27:01.600
<v Speaker 2>doing something twenty one days consecutively to become a habit.

0:27:01.680 --> 0:27:02.280
<v Speaker 2>Is that true?

0:27:02.640 --> 0:27:05.080
<v Speaker 7>Well, I'm not sure that there's an exact science to

0:27:05.160 --> 0:27:07.720
<v Speaker 7>that twenty one days. There was a few studies done

0:27:08.160 --> 0:27:10.479
<v Speaker 7>early on on mice that kind of pointed to that

0:27:10.560 --> 0:27:14.040
<v Speaker 7>kind of habit. A habit is an automated behavior, an automated,

0:27:14.119 --> 0:27:16.000
<v Speaker 7>automated thing that you do where you don't have to

0:27:16.040 --> 0:27:19.600
<v Speaker 7>think about it, you know, just like sometimes brushing your

0:27:19.640 --> 0:27:23.280
<v Speaker 7>teeth at night, or things that you do kind of regularly.

0:27:23.320 --> 0:27:26.240
<v Speaker 7>Sometimes your behaviors like you scratch or something of that sort.

0:27:26.720 --> 0:27:29.200
<v Speaker 7>So habits can be good or habits can be bad

0:27:29.280 --> 0:27:29.960
<v Speaker 7>for you, right.

0:27:30.000 --> 0:27:35.159
<v Speaker 2>So, absolutely so, with a holiday season coming up upon us,

0:27:35.160 --> 0:27:37.320
<v Speaker 2>which is a very stressful time across the board for

0:27:37.520 --> 0:27:38.200
<v Speaker 2>majority of.

0:27:38.200 --> 0:27:40.919
<v Speaker 3>Us, and our topic of today's show, with all the

0:27:41.000 --> 0:27:41.960
<v Speaker 3>music that we talked.

0:27:41.760 --> 0:27:46.480
<v Speaker 2>About, what kind of things can we take into this

0:27:46.520 --> 0:27:49.919
<v Speaker 2>holiday season to help destress and kind of normalize our

0:27:49.960 --> 0:27:54.080
<v Speaker 2>experience and manage our expectations.

0:27:54.520 --> 0:27:59.159
<v Speaker 7>Well, and thanks for thanks for that question. So one

0:27:59.240 --> 0:28:02.440
<v Speaker 7>of the things about the holidays and let's talk about

0:28:02.440 --> 0:28:06.720
<v Speaker 7>Thanksgiving for example, or you know Christmas, is that they're

0:28:06.760 --> 0:28:10.960
<v Speaker 7>actually rituals, and these rituals have kind of developed because

0:28:10.960 --> 0:28:14.600
<v Speaker 7>of routines. There's things that we do very regularly. They've

0:28:14.640 --> 0:28:16.560
<v Speaker 7>become kind of part of our culture and they're kind

0:28:16.560 --> 0:28:19.920
<v Speaker 7>of a moment in time where we can have something

0:28:19.960 --> 0:28:22.919
<v Speaker 7>that's kind of certain, something we can depend on that

0:28:22.960 --> 0:28:26.400
<v Speaker 7>we're going to be doing throughout that day. And obviously

0:28:26.440 --> 0:28:29.679
<v Speaker 7>the type of routines what people do in those particular days,

0:28:29.720 --> 0:28:32.320
<v Speaker 7>whether they're with family or friends or acquaintances or even

0:28:32.400 --> 0:28:35.639
<v Speaker 7>on their own, become a little bit different. But that

0:28:36.200 --> 0:28:40.760
<v Speaker 7>sense of regularity, that sense of doing things give us

0:28:40.840 --> 0:28:44.280
<v Speaker 7>a sense of really certainty in times where today if

0:28:44.320 --> 0:28:48.800
<v Speaker 7>we're just in our everyday lives, looking at outside the

0:28:48.800 --> 0:28:52.720
<v Speaker 7>political world, there's a lot of the sense of instability.

0:28:52.880 --> 0:28:56.520
<v Speaker 7>And what routines do and the routine and as rituals

0:28:56.720 --> 0:28:58.800
<v Speaker 7>are actually built to give us a certain sense of

0:28:58.840 --> 0:29:03.000
<v Speaker 7>certainty kind of come together in the sort and you know,

0:29:03.080 --> 0:29:07.400
<v Speaker 7>people they can't be traumatic times, but you know, people

0:29:07.440 --> 0:29:09.880
<v Speaker 7>do want to get together. People do want to feel

0:29:09.880 --> 0:29:14.560
<v Speaker 7>like they belong and being able to start thinking about

0:29:15.240 --> 0:29:17.520
<v Speaker 7>how does that happen or why are those Are they

0:29:17.520 --> 0:29:19.960
<v Speaker 7>those people? You probably know quite a few of your

0:29:20.120 --> 0:29:22.920
<v Speaker 7>own experiences where there's people that are kind of disruptive

0:29:23.360 --> 0:29:25.400
<v Speaker 7>when we get together in the sort. So there's a

0:29:25.440 --> 0:29:26.920
<v Speaker 7>little bit about all the back that I.

0:29:26.840 --> 0:29:29.360
<v Speaker 2>Could talk to absolutely.

0:29:29.600 --> 0:29:29.720
<v Speaker 7>You know.

0:29:29.760 --> 0:29:32.360
<v Speaker 2>I'm reading some here on your rundown kind of things

0:29:32.360 --> 0:29:35.760
<v Speaker 2>that you preach on here, and I read one and says, creative,

0:29:36.160 --> 0:29:39.800
<v Speaker 2>create a decorative sign declaring your homemade politics free zone.

0:29:40.400 --> 0:29:44.560
<v Speaker 2>And I love that because I'm not. I'm not really

0:29:46.120 --> 0:29:48.480
<v Speaker 2>I don't really lean anyway politically, and I kind of

0:29:48.480 --> 0:29:50.280
<v Speaker 2>stay out of it for the most part. My wife

0:29:50.360 --> 0:29:52.640
<v Speaker 2>Janna here is more the politician of the family.

0:29:53.080 --> 0:29:55.000
<v Speaker 3>Zero, I know nothing. I just like a debate.

0:29:55.080 --> 0:29:56.840
<v Speaker 2>I love to do it more than me and so.

0:29:56.960 --> 0:30:00.840
<v Speaker 2>And I really contribute that doctor I to honestly my

0:30:00.920 --> 0:30:04.320
<v Speaker 2>experience at holidays with my dad's side of the family.

0:30:04.400 --> 0:30:08.360
<v Speaker 2>It's like politics was that one subject that created a

0:30:08.440 --> 0:30:12.040
<v Speaker 2>valto environment that got everyone, you know, heightened and raised

0:30:12.040 --> 0:30:13.920
<v Speaker 2>their voices. And I'm like, man, I don't if this

0:30:14.040 --> 0:30:15.840
<v Speaker 2>is what they're how they're acting on politics, I don't

0:30:15.840 --> 0:30:18.200
<v Speaker 2>want any part of that. I really feel like the

0:30:18.240 --> 0:30:20.920
<v Speaker 2>two are connected in that sense of why I'm not interested?

0:30:21.560 --> 0:30:23.240
<v Speaker 3>But isn't there something to be said though about a

0:30:23.280 --> 0:30:23.960
<v Speaker 3>healthy debate?

0:30:25.120 --> 0:30:28.200
<v Speaker 7>Right? Well, it's it's good, but you know, sometimes the

0:30:28.280 --> 0:30:30.880
<v Speaker 7>holidays are probably maybe not the best time to debate.

0:30:31.000 --> 0:30:33.240
<v Speaker 7>And it's it's kind of funny because it's like you

0:30:33.240 --> 0:30:35.880
<v Speaker 7>see these red you see these little round red signs

0:30:35.920 --> 0:30:39.680
<v Speaker 7>of across across to like whatever, no bozos, no smoking,

0:30:39.840 --> 0:30:43.000
<v Speaker 7>you know, and probably a no politics sign or a

0:30:43.000 --> 0:30:46.960
<v Speaker 7>no religion sign or probably pretty good good topics to

0:30:47.080 --> 0:30:49.680
<v Speaker 7>kind of try to stay away from. And it's kind

0:30:49.680 --> 0:30:52.440
<v Speaker 7>of interesting, you know, you probably you probably can guess

0:30:52.440 --> 0:30:55.000
<v Speaker 7>that some of these the types of people that show up,

0:30:55.920 --> 0:30:59.080
<v Speaker 7>and a lot of it is the personality types and

0:30:59.280 --> 0:31:03.000
<v Speaker 7>why do people have these kinds of stresses as they

0:31:03.000 --> 0:31:06.040
<v Speaker 7>get together, let's say, with family, your friends, and you know,

0:31:06.080 --> 0:31:08.960
<v Speaker 7>there's a couple of little categories. You know, maybe you

0:31:08.960 --> 0:31:10.680
<v Speaker 7>guys can guess a little bit at some of them.

0:31:10.720 --> 0:31:14.080
<v Speaker 7>But I'll give you the first one is what I

0:31:14.120 --> 0:31:17.760
<v Speaker 7>call the reverters, the people that revert back to childhood

0:31:18.120 --> 0:31:22.200
<v Speaker 7>when they're together. You know, they look back at what

0:31:22.240 --> 0:31:25.600
<v Speaker 7>it was like when they were a child. Their relationship,

0:31:25.680 --> 0:31:29.560
<v Speaker 7>they're pecking order within the family kind of or relationships

0:31:29.560 --> 0:31:32.400
<v Speaker 7>that they had with friends, and they bring up those

0:31:32.480 --> 0:31:36.800
<v Speaker 7>old memories, you know, they bring up old wounds, old

0:31:36.880 --> 0:31:40.120
<v Speaker 7>childhood wounds, and don't kind of recognize as you're sitting

0:31:40.120 --> 0:31:42.600
<v Speaker 7>around the table that in many cases many of us

0:31:42.640 --> 0:31:46.400
<v Speaker 7>have all grown up already. So reverters are kind of

0:31:46.440 --> 0:31:50.520
<v Speaker 7>like one type of disruptors kind of personality because when

0:31:50.520 --> 0:31:52.760
<v Speaker 7>you're putting it together, you've got to kind of know

0:31:52.840 --> 0:31:55.920
<v Speaker 7>your audience a little bit, right, and if debate is

0:31:56.000 --> 0:31:57.920
<v Speaker 7>part of what your routine is going to be, there's

0:31:57.960 --> 0:32:01.200
<v Speaker 7>going to be a moment to debate. Maybe that's that's

0:32:01.240 --> 0:32:04.360
<v Speaker 7>okay too, because the routine and the process are important,

0:32:04.360 --> 0:32:07.920
<v Speaker 7>And there's a couple other types of people that are

0:32:08.000 --> 0:32:11.080
<v Speaker 7>kind of disruptive. Sometimes there's what I you know, what

0:32:11.120 --> 0:32:14.640
<v Speaker 7>I call sometimes relevant seekers, people who want to be heard,

0:32:14.680 --> 0:32:17.160
<v Speaker 7>they want to remain relevant, and maybe people that are

0:32:17.200 --> 0:32:20.160
<v Speaker 7>out of work and searching to still be heard, or

0:32:20.200 --> 0:32:23.760
<v Speaker 7>someone who's retired or uncle. You know, family dynamics and

0:32:23.880 --> 0:32:28.640
<v Speaker 7>some friend dynamics can be can be quite quite complex

0:32:28.680 --> 0:32:32.200
<v Speaker 7>in nature. But there's people that are kind of relevant seekers.

0:32:32.200 --> 0:32:36.400
<v Speaker 7>And then sometimes there's people that just have a personality

0:32:36.440 --> 0:32:39.080
<v Speaker 7>that you know, I kind of call them personalizers, you know,

0:32:39.160 --> 0:32:41.600
<v Speaker 7>people that you guys can give you some examples if

0:32:41.600 --> 0:32:44.880
<v Speaker 7>you've had, if you've encountered, because I'd be curious to

0:32:44.960 --> 0:32:49.240
<v Speaker 7>understand that like people who just need to convert you

0:32:49.280 --> 0:32:52.720
<v Speaker 7>to their ideology, to their they feel so strongly about it.

0:32:52.760 --> 0:32:55.040
<v Speaker 7>It gives them a lot of meaning and purpose and

0:32:55.120 --> 0:32:58.000
<v Speaker 7>they want others to hear them and to join them.

0:32:58.040 --> 0:33:01.760
<v Speaker 7>And they're thinking, so those you're a couple of the uh,

0:33:02.240 --> 0:33:06.680
<v Speaker 7>you know, simple basic, kind of disrupted personalities that happen

0:33:06.920 --> 0:33:11.360
<v Speaker 7>in families and friends when we all get together for dinner.

0:33:12.200 --> 0:33:15.400
<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, and I think we all know people that fit

0:33:15.480 --> 0:33:17.960
<v Speaker 2>under those categories. And doctor, I think you just single

0:33:18.000 --> 0:33:22.680
<v Speaker 2>handly described my my wonderful grandfather. I think he checked

0:33:22.680 --> 0:33:25.240
<v Speaker 2>all the boxes for all three God bless them. I

0:33:25.320 --> 0:33:28.440
<v Speaker 2>love him and I can't wait to experience all of

0:33:28.480 --> 0:33:32.440
<v Speaker 2>these personality traits this holiday season. What's before we let

0:33:32.480 --> 0:33:34.680
<v Speaker 2>you go? What's something that you do just from a

0:33:34.760 --> 0:33:37.000
<v Speaker 2>routine standpoint, since your whole book is kind of talking

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<v Speaker 2>about that, What's something that you do and you're on

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<v Speaker 2>a daily basis that kind of keeps you in your

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<v Speaker 7>Well, you know, that's the interesting thing about routine is

0:33:47.160 --> 0:33:49.920
<v Speaker 7>that with your routine, if you look at the psychology

0:33:49.960 --> 0:33:52.960
<v Speaker 7>and actually the physiology of it is something to builds

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<v Speaker 7>upon itself and to get started, you just have to

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<v Speaker 7>your bed. But as you start to do any routine

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0:34:09.480 --> 0:34:12.839
<v Speaker 7>it's not so important necessarily the content. Not to say,

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<v Speaker 7>content isn't important today, whether it's die, if there's sleep,

0:34:17.400 --> 0:34:19.879
<v Speaker 7>or even you know, the routine of how you're going

0:34:19.960 --> 0:34:23.799
<v Speaker 7>to do your Thanksgiving meal, do it and do it

0:34:23.840 --> 0:34:26.759
<v Speaker 7>in a regular way. Planet have it organized, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>awake early and begin to execute and prepare that food,

0:34:30.440 --> 0:34:33.280
<v Speaker 7>plan and organize. If you're the host, I'm saying, organize

0:34:33.320 --> 0:34:34.800
<v Speaker 7>your schedule.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely so much.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and our listeners they can find you at your

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<v Speaker 7>Correct, that's correct, and you pronounced that great. Thank you

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<v Speaker 7>so much, yes.

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<v Speaker 2>Sir, thank you so. Your book Routinealogy Discovering the artis

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<v Speaker 2>All make Mark, we have any emails?

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<v Speaker 3>I just called. I just called Mark, Mike and Mike

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<v Speaker 3>Mark Mike.

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<v Speaker 2>The same pocket.

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<v Speaker 3>How does a fel.

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<v Speaker 4>Taylor Taylor's Taylor is very sweet say his first off.

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<v Speaker 4>I wanted to say Christmas and Louisiana was awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>I love by the way Easton, Thanks for your like

0:38:31.960 --> 0:38:35.960
<v Speaker 3>play by play too, What a fun time. She's like,

0:38:36.680 --> 0:38:38.279
<v Speaker 3>He's like, I wanted to know what happened? Did you

0:38:38.320 --> 0:38:42.960
<v Speaker 3>guys end up together without a clipphanger? I went back

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<v Speaker 3>to Boston.

0:38:44.360 --> 0:38:46.200
<v Speaker 4>She loved that you kept everybody up on your inst

0:38:46.200 --> 0:38:48.040
<v Speaker 4>of stories with the movie, and it's so funny you

0:38:48.080 --> 0:38:49.759
<v Speaker 4>take your fans and listeners along with you. So that's

0:38:49.800 --> 0:38:51.439
<v Speaker 4>very sweet. But she does have a question for Mike.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, I understand it's just a movie and acting

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<v Speaker 4>as Jana's job, but just seeing her acting as if

0:38:57.840 --> 0:39:00.880
<v Speaker 4>she's in a relationship with another man bother you at all,

0:39:00.960 --> 0:39:04.200
<v Speaker 4>especially knowing some about your insecurities. I would love to

0:39:04.239 --> 0:39:07.040
<v Speaker 4>hear more about your feelings when watching the kissing scene.

0:39:07.160 --> 0:39:10.720
<v Speaker 4>Especially if I saw my boyfriend kissing some guy on TV,

0:39:11.080 --> 0:39:13.440
<v Speaker 4>even if it was his job, I'd be bothered. It

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<v Speaker 4>was great seeing you in Chicago.

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<v Speaker 2>Ah well, Taylor, thank you for coming out to Chicago

0:39:18.080 --> 0:39:24.239
<v Speaker 2>and supporting us. And a great question. So honestly, it uh.

0:39:26.400 --> 0:39:26.600
<v Speaker 8>Sure.

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<v Speaker 2>The short of it is no, it doesn't bother The

0:39:30.840 --> 0:39:34.960
<v Speaker 2>short of it is no, it doesn't bother me. And

0:39:35.000 --> 0:39:37.520
<v Speaker 2>a big part of that is because anytime Janna goes

0:39:37.560 --> 0:39:42.120
<v Speaker 2>to film something, I always come to the shoot and

0:39:42.120 --> 0:39:44.560
<v Speaker 2>come on set at least and travel to wherever she's

0:39:44.600 --> 0:39:46.920
<v Speaker 2>shooting at least for a week or ten days, so

0:39:46.960 --> 0:39:49.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm able to get comfortable. I meet her co star,

0:39:49.840 --> 0:39:53.080
<v Speaker 2>I you know, get to know the people around the set,

0:39:53.160 --> 0:39:55.879
<v Speaker 2>so I'm comfortable with everything and that makes me feel

0:39:55.880 --> 0:39:59.200
<v Speaker 2>a lot better. And you know, right now, with the

0:39:59.239 --> 0:40:02.279
<v Speaker 2>stuff that she's been doing since we've been together has

0:40:02.320 --> 0:40:05.560
<v Speaker 2>been lifetime or Hallmark, So it's a lifetime or Hallmark

0:40:05.640 --> 0:40:11.799
<v Speaker 2>kind of kiss. So there are bridges that we have

0:40:11.920 --> 0:40:13.000
<v Speaker 2>not crossed yet. Taylor.

0:40:13.080 --> 0:40:14.640
<v Speaker 1>That's actually that good point.

0:40:14.480 --> 0:40:20.440
<v Speaker 2>We can discuss when we cross them, because you know,

0:40:20.600 --> 0:40:25.400
<v Speaker 2>and just I'll never want to be a reason why

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<v Speaker 2>Jana doesn't take a job opportunity.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, and like you kind of signed up, you know

0:40:31.320 --> 0:40:32.319
<v Speaker 1>when you met her, you right.

0:40:32.760 --> 0:40:35.640
<v Speaker 2>Exactly kind of sign up for it. So I knew

0:40:35.680 --> 0:40:37.759
<v Speaker 2>Jannah was an actress and a great one at that.

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<v Speaker 2>So thanks, I know she's going to have her opportunities.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just one of those things where.

0:40:42.400 --> 0:40:44.160
<v Speaker 3>I like that one show I'm auditioning for right now,

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<v Speaker 3>it says simulated sex scenes and lots of news.

0:40:46.320 --> 0:40:48.880
<v Speaker 1>It was just about first start about to say until

0:40:48.920 --> 0:40:50.160
<v Speaker 1>she has her first sex scene.

0:40:51.200 --> 0:40:54.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so that that's that's just something that you know,

0:40:55.680 --> 0:40:58.319
<v Speaker 2>we will have to talk about. We'll have to talk

0:40:58.360 --> 0:41:02.440
<v Speaker 2>about there be boundaries there, you know, and.

0:41:02.160 --> 0:41:06.040
<v Speaker 3>And I totally get that, and you know, empathy, empathy

0:41:06.080 --> 0:41:09.279
<v Speaker 3>and have empathy for you for that. I will just

0:41:09.360 --> 0:41:12.200
<v Speaker 3>say from this side of things, like when I had

0:41:12.239 --> 0:41:15.680
<v Speaker 3>the scenes with you know, Stephen COLLETTI and Alex and

0:41:15.760 --> 0:41:17.520
<v Speaker 3>Chase were making out and rolling around a bed and

0:41:17.560 --> 0:41:21.200
<v Speaker 3>I was an underwear, it's uncomfortable for us because it's

0:41:21.200 --> 0:41:23.440
<v Speaker 3>like you have all these people well you always it's

0:41:23.480 --> 0:41:26.120
<v Speaker 3>not I'd say, it's like it's not hot, it's not

0:41:26.239 --> 0:41:29.400
<v Speaker 3>had at all, it's zero because it's literally routine. The

0:41:29.440 --> 0:41:31.480
<v Speaker 3>second we were done kissing and I was on we

0:41:31.560 --> 0:41:33.080
<v Speaker 3>rolled off and I'm like, hey, so what are you

0:41:33.080 --> 0:41:35.600
<v Speaker 3>eating for lunch today? You know, like there's and we're

0:41:35.640 --> 0:41:38.920
<v Speaker 3>on our phones. There's not there's not that through watching

0:41:38.960 --> 0:41:43.160
<v Speaker 3>you again, there's crew watching. So it's just there's nothing intimate,

0:41:43.239 --> 0:41:46.520
<v Speaker 3>and nobody's getting a those things right.

0:41:46.920 --> 0:41:49.640
<v Speaker 2>It's one of those things that people don't know unless

0:41:49.640 --> 0:41:52.440
<v Speaker 2>you're in that profession and have experienced it, you know

0:41:52.480 --> 0:41:52.839
<v Speaker 2>what I mean.

0:41:52.880 --> 0:41:54.680
<v Speaker 4>It's just the other side of the coin is how

0:41:54.719 --> 0:41:56.239
<v Speaker 4>many actors and actors have.

0:41:56.360 --> 0:42:00.080
<v Speaker 1>Developed broad and Angie all theestions.

0:41:59.200 --> 0:42:02.200
<v Speaker 4>After those scenes. So you know those scenes aren't hot

0:42:02.239 --> 0:42:03.640
<v Speaker 4>there's some sort of connection.

0:42:03.800 --> 0:42:06.239
<v Speaker 3>Well, and that's the line. No, no, but it's not.

0:42:06.480 --> 0:42:09.200
<v Speaker 3>It's not even just about those scenes. It's the line

0:42:09.200 --> 0:42:12.440
<v Speaker 3>that you cross behind the scenes, behind the scenes, before

0:42:12.480 --> 0:42:14.640
<v Speaker 3>the scenes. It's not because it's like you're spending so

0:42:14.760 --> 0:42:17.279
<v Speaker 3>much time with this person, like a month, especially if

0:42:17.280 --> 0:42:18.799
<v Speaker 3>they're in a lot of the other scenes with you,

0:42:18.880 --> 0:42:21.960
<v Speaker 3>So it's about what you're doing before and after. It's

0:42:22.000 --> 0:42:25.920
<v Speaker 3>not during those scenes. Really truly good point because it

0:42:26.200 --> 0:42:27.160
<v Speaker 3>really truly.

0:42:27.160 --> 0:42:29.480
<v Speaker 4>Okay, But okay, and I believe I do believe that,

0:42:29.560 --> 0:42:32.000
<v Speaker 4>But you don't know what is in the other actors

0:42:32.000 --> 0:42:33.080
<v Speaker 4>head that's bothered.

0:42:33.160 --> 0:42:34.799
<v Speaker 1>What if you like something and all of a sudden

0:42:34.800 --> 0:42:36.879
<v Speaker 1>you're like, hmm, that felt good.

0:42:37.560 --> 0:42:39.600
<v Speaker 3>Well, but here's here's the problem though, If you have

0:42:39.680 --> 0:42:42.680
<v Speaker 3>a kissing scene. Let's say, you know, week two into

0:42:42.719 --> 0:42:44.720
<v Speaker 3>the movie, and you're starting to have these like feelings

0:42:44.760 --> 0:42:48.080
<v Speaker 3>for the other actor and you're probably maybe anticipating that

0:42:48.280 --> 0:42:51.400
<v Speaker 3>because who knows you've been cultivating these you know, feelings

0:42:51.400 --> 0:42:53.279
<v Speaker 3>because you're hanging out with them twenty four to seven.

0:42:53.520 --> 0:42:55.200
<v Speaker 1>Well, then you're just not a good actor because you're

0:42:55.200 --> 0:42:57.080
<v Speaker 1>not acting. Think you're getting feelings.

0:42:58.920 --> 0:43:01.640
<v Speaker 4>But my wife, we're in bed with another man for

0:43:01.719 --> 0:43:05.879
<v Speaker 4>an acting scene, wearing little or nothing. It would drive

0:43:05.960 --> 0:43:06.440
<v Speaker 4>me insane.

0:43:06.760 --> 0:43:09.800
<v Speaker 3>But again, your wife isn't an actress though, well, but

0:43:09.920 --> 0:43:12.160
<v Speaker 3>even if she was, like but then you wouldn't have

0:43:12.320 --> 0:43:13.800
<v Speaker 3>see the shre sure.

0:43:14.719 --> 0:43:17.839
<v Speaker 2>And that and that's the thing. Mark, I don't Again,

0:43:18.040 --> 0:43:21.040
<v Speaker 2>if if Jana is ever in a situation like that,

0:43:21.920 --> 0:43:27.680
<v Speaker 2>then it's I don't honestly, it's going to be ignorance

0:43:27.719 --> 0:43:30.719
<v Speaker 2>is bliss. I don't want to see it. I don't

0:43:30.719 --> 0:43:33.960
<v Speaker 2>want to know about it. I don't want to be

0:43:34.120 --> 0:43:38.040
<v Speaker 2>on set that day. I just want to know.

0:43:38.440 --> 0:43:40.719
<v Speaker 3>But you're going to watch it, though, No, no, and

0:43:41.480 --> 0:43:41.719
<v Speaker 3>watch it.

0:43:41.880 --> 0:43:43.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, you'll tell me. If you're in a movie

0:43:43.680 --> 0:43:45.759
<v Speaker 2>and it has that, you'll say, hey, it's coming up soon.

0:43:46.280 --> 0:43:47.239
<v Speaker 2>I will leave the room.

0:43:47.719 --> 0:43:51.040
<v Speaker 3>Wait, so time out really fast though, because in Christmas

0:43:51.080 --> 0:43:56.240
<v Speaker 3>and Louisiana, when like the kids part happened, he goes.

0:43:56.200 --> 0:43:59.120
<v Speaker 1>Oh, you did the head grab, Like I.

0:44:02.280 --> 0:44:05.080
<v Speaker 3>Put my hand like behind his head, and I don't

0:44:05.120 --> 0:44:06.200
<v Speaker 3>think he was exciting that.

0:44:07.800 --> 0:44:10.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. The other ones that I saw were just kind

0:44:10.000 --> 0:44:11.879
<v Speaker 2>of like face to face, out the mouth like kind

0:44:11.880 --> 0:44:14.960
<v Speaker 2>of more of like nice. I was like they even

0:44:15.200 --> 0:44:16.560
<v Speaker 2>she went in for the head gap and they did

0:44:16.600 --> 0:44:18.879
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0:44:18.960 --> 0:44:22.560
<v Speaker 1>I was like, yo, really really funny.

0:44:23.320 --> 0:44:24.520
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So did that bother you?

0:44:25.640 --> 0:44:25.680
<v Speaker 1>Not?

0:44:25.880 --> 0:44:26.640
<v Speaker 2>It didn't bother me.

0:44:26.680 --> 0:44:30.240
<v Speaker 3>It is surprised me, just like weird, Like I bet.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm able to compartmentalize. And that's just because we've been

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<v Speaker 2>together long enough and coming from my own version of

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<v Speaker 2>entertainment world. Granted we didn't do anything like that, but

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<v Speaker 2>I understand the demand that you have to do for

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<v Speaker 2>your job.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And so I would never want to again get

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<v Speaker 2>in the way of Janna pursuing her career. I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>be able to live with myself.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 3>But now if Michael if roles were reversed and he's like, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>I want to be an actor, Hell, that would be

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<v Speaker 3>very hard for me to watch him. We're gonna go

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<v Speaker 3>with the know on that one because I've dated other

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<v Speaker 3>actors and had had zero because I know what it

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<v Speaker 3>is like, you know. But if he was to all

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<v Speaker 3>of a sudden become an actor, I'd be like, uh,

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<v Speaker 3>I would have a very hard time with that. It's

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<v Speaker 3>something you really wanted to do.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a Disney star.

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<v Speaker 2>He's gonna be Tanner. Thank you, Jar great great topic, Mark,

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<v Speaker 2>thanks for stirring that pop producer.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm fascinated about that because we can't even imagine. Most

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<v Speaker 4>people can't imagine like that. Amanda says, our son just

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<v Speaker 4>turned nine months on Thanksgiving and we're trying to introduce

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<v Speaker 4>soft table foods to him, but I am so terrified

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<v Speaker 4>of him choking. It flares up my anxiety. What foods

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<v Speaker 4>were Jason Joe Lee eating at nine months?

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<v Speaker 3>Good question. I'm equally as the same, and I've cut

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<v Speaker 3>up probably smaller than I've had to because I get nervous.

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<v Speaker 3>But at nine months avocado, bananas, but blueberries, we gotta

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<v Speaker 3>cut him in force.

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<v Speaker 2>Blueberries is what I would grapes all again.

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<v Speaker 3>Cut small, small, smashy things, so like, but I would

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<v Speaker 3>start with avocados and bananas. That would be my Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>talk to your doctor obviously.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, those are the easiest smushy ones that we definitely

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<v Speaker 2>start off.

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<v Speaker 3>With and cut him in force. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, and just watch them just.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, especially when you first started. When we started

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<v Speaker 2>Jay's a couple of months ago. We you know, it's

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<v Speaker 2>not like like now we can kind of put stuff

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<v Speaker 2>on his plate, turn our back, make something else. But

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<v Speaker 2>when we first started him, we're sitting there watching him,

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<v Speaker 2>helping him. M hm.

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<v Speaker 4>So I mean my kids were like ten and seven,

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<v Speaker 4>and my wife was like, why are you still cutting

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<v Speaker 4>their grapes?

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<v Speaker 7>At happened?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if they broke.

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<v Speaker 2>That much big because it used to be just have it.

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<v Speaker 3>That's so funny.

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<v Speaker 4>Also, a man does a follow up, well unrelated actually,

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<v Speaker 4>but another question. Since her son was born, our sex

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<v Speaker 4>life has fizzled out. I'm so tired. I literally favors

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<v Speaker 4>sleep over sex, but I do miss the connection. What

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<v Speaker 4>can we do as a couple to bring the spark back?

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<v Speaker 2>So Jana and I just did this the other night,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's it's something we did and it's just I

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<v Speaker 2>just it was fun and it was connected. And we've

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<v Speaker 2>we've played we played cards in bed.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, we got a huge fight out doors,

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<v Speaker 1>all right.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, I know, but I'm saying, but I'm saying

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<v Speaker 2>that the moment though, like even we weren't we didn't

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<v Speaker 2>go and sit at the poker tape and play cards.

0:47:31.040 --> 0:47:33.840
<v Speaker 2>We like laid in our bed, played a game together.

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<v Speaker 2>It was just like nice to not just to get

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<v Speaker 2>into bed in your usual position under the covers watching TV.

0:47:40.960 --> 0:47:43.160
<v Speaker 2>We were on top of the covers kind of talking,

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<v Speaker 2>playing a game. And I think that invites because the

0:47:46.320 --> 0:47:50.120
<v Speaker 2>bedroom has almost like an expectation to it. Maybe sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>when you walk in and you guys go to bed

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<v Speaker 2>together where it's almost like, hey, use the bedroom for

0:47:54.640 --> 0:47:56.800
<v Speaker 2>something else, use it for something fun, as like a

0:47:56.880 --> 0:48:00.320
<v Speaker 2>neutral ground pressure instead of pressure, and then just you

0:48:00.560 --> 0:48:03.080
<v Speaker 2>might automatic at least in that moment, I felt relaxed,

0:48:03.680 --> 0:48:05.520
<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean. So I don't know, just

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<v Speaker 2>something to try either.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I like that, but I think that's a good

0:48:08.239 --> 0:48:11.320
<v Speaker 3>a good thing. And then I also just say not

0:48:11.520 --> 0:48:14.560
<v Speaker 3>having expectations, like hey, I just we just cuddle with

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<v Speaker 3>me tonight because they always say like to get back,

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<v Speaker 3>and when we did Tantra therapy, it was just like

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<v Speaker 3>just holding and with the excitation of not having sex.

0:48:22.480 --> 0:48:24.759
<v Speaker 3>And usually when you're holding someone and you say you're

0:48:24.800 --> 0:48:28.760
<v Speaker 3>not gonna have sex, you end up really wanting to. Yeah, okay,

0:48:28.840 --> 0:48:30.520
<v Speaker 3>and so excited. We only have one more week together

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<v Speaker 3>before Christmas.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I'm so excited.

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<v Speaker 3>I think we need to end this episode with Sarah

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<v Speaker 3>taking us out on a song.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I agree, Oh okay, they get to think what

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<v Speaker 1>I know? Okay, I don't know, Easton, can you sing

0:48:49.600 --> 0:48:53.560
<v Speaker 1>with me? Well's do the breath. I don't know all

0:48:53.560 --> 0:48:55.320
<v Speaker 1>the lyrics, so it'll you'll okay.

0:48:55.239 --> 0:48:57.120
<v Speaker 3>Santa, can you hear me?

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<v Speaker 1>I have been so good this year, and all.

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<v Speaker 3>I want is one thing you guys know you're saying

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<v Speaker 3>along right now?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, hold on, only need my Christmas tree?

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<v Speaker 3>All right, Mark, that's the cutestuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Because all right, yeah, I don't remember.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that song though, because all I wanted I

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<v Speaker 1>can't think of it