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Speaker 2: Four.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to mess.

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Speaker 2: You're doing it? Hey, Sidney, what's going on today? Today's today?

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Speaker 2: Drain me? For sure? Yes, three pm? Yep, today, drain me.

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Speaker 2: But before I before I do that, are you I

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Speaker 2: appreciate that. I think I'm good. Yeah, I'm good. Are

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Speaker 2: you good or not? I got a new hat on?

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Speaker 2: You got a new hat on? What's the problem?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you took a pause like I'm good, well,

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Speaker 1: because I feel like, you know, you about to get

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Speaker 1: there's a lot of stuff in my life that's not

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Speaker 2: He's in the back of my mind. But ultimately I'm good. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: My sister sent me something today that was like I

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Speaker 3: And it's like, essentially like success as an adult?

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Speaker 1: What that?

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Speaker 2: What that looks like? And it was like it was

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Speaker 3: which I don't do, traveling every year, spending time with

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Speaker 1: It was like stuff like that that, Like, you know,

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Speaker 2: I like that. I'm my sister. Yeah, I love that.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes the Internet is amazing.

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Speaker 2: This is your time, and it's like, yo, when are

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Speaker 1: Like I don't have to post a fuck Trump or

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Speaker 1: Like it's crazy work just to be on social media,

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Speaker 1: So it's like, yo, we deserve to have some joy

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Speaker 3: If so, nothing that you guys are texting and tweeting

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Speaker 1: Look at your little raggedy uncle who voted how he voted,

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Speaker 1: The way that you've been playing games with Kanet is

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Speaker 2: You have been You've been hopping around, girl.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, no, I mean I had like three addresses

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Speaker 2: I have three, three Brooklyn addresses. Three Do you have

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Speaker 2: Well they shouldn't have done this, they shouldn't have resist.

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Speaker 2: What You're a cop. You know a lot of murder people.

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Speaker 1: It's judge Jerry, executioner. You are not all of them,

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Speaker 1: None of them think I just want to make sure

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Speaker 1: Not that, but what is it? What is it when

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Speaker 1: thank you for some good news. Well, I've been watching

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Speaker 1: I show Speed in Africa. He's a streamers. He just

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Speaker 1: So it's like it's a good thing because it's like

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Speaker 1: they got right, yes, yes, yes, y'says, they all got rights,

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Speaker 3: I thought it was a really cool thing that he did.

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Speaker 1: Why you chest out like that, I don't know, because

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Speaker 2: He is, he's tiny.

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Speaker 2: And I don't know. I think it's a cool way

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Speaker 1: Lot of these streamers just be in their house, you know,

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Speaker 1: Streamers arguing with Doci about being a plant show people

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Speaker 1: I just I don't know. I really, I really like

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Speaker 1: love that too. How do I sign up? How many

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Speaker 1: followers donna have to do to get that to happen

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 1: On his on his dreams, he hit fifty million in Africa,

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Speaker 2: Oh, I got a long way to go.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, I'll just be rubbing myself down with

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Speaker 1: Shade Butter thinking about Nigeria. Hey friend, I'm gonna get

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Speaker 1: you some Shade Butter for your birthday And are you

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Speaker 1: gonna rub me down? I'll, I'll, I'll take that, Okay.

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Speaker 1: So my mess is that I have two messages.

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Speaker 2: Great.

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Speaker 1: So the first man is I got a UTI and

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Speaker 2: The sex or the uti.

442
00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:30,399
Speaker 1: The sex, but also the uti. It was like that

443
00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:33,080
Speaker 1: girl is on fire.

444
00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:37,280
Speaker 2: Every time ID It was crazy.

445
00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:42,440
Speaker 1: That year I got tendonitis tendonitis in my uh, like

446
00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:49,240
Speaker 1: in my calf or like it's it's basically like I

447
00:20:49,320 --> 00:20:53,160
Speaker 1: pulled a tendon or something like that, but I couldn't walk.

448
00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:57,520
Speaker 3: The alliteration or irritation of a tendon causing pain, tenderness,

449
00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:59,959
Speaker 3: and swelling near joints like the shoulder, elbow, or ankle.

450
00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:01,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I could not walk.

451
00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:03,879
Speaker 1: I literally was trying to walk and I had to

452
00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:07,280
Speaker 1: call the school van to pick me up and drive

453
00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:08,480
Speaker 1: me two blocks because I couldn't.

454
00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:10,720
Speaker 2: I couldn't even get to my bro was you working out?

455
00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:11,320
Speaker 2: How did you get?

456
00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:13,960
Speaker 1: I don't know how I pulled the tenda nightis, but

457
00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:15,720
Speaker 1: I went there. I had to go to you know,

458
00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:17,880
Speaker 1: this school nurse and they was like, hey, we gotta

459
00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:19,560
Speaker 1: put you on some crutches. So then I don't know

460
00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:21,560
Speaker 1: how to It's not easy to use a crutch. I'm

461
00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:22,879
Speaker 1: using a crutches, So I was like, you know what,

462
00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:25,000
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna be laid out So soon as I

463
00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:28,119
Speaker 1: got better from the tendonitis, that's when I got to EUTI. Okay,

464
00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:30,800
Speaker 1: so you was laid up in your room on your

465
00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:32,440
Speaker 1: twin excel bed.

466
00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:35,720
Speaker 3: Horny as soon as you got out? Who is this guy?

467
00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:38,680
Speaker 3: This freshman? He was a freshman too, No I wasn't.

468
00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:39,600
Speaker 3: I was a junior.

469
00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:45,000
Speaker 2: Oh wow, Yeah, no, I've made some mistakes. Okay, college cougar. Yeah,

470
00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:48,080
Speaker 2: you can't be a college sugar. How dare you? It's

471
00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:50,160
Speaker 2: implied that one is old and one is young.

472
00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:52,240
Speaker 1: But college baby, she's really gonna do that next to

473
00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:55,720
Speaker 1: my birthday, College cougar, babe, that is so mean. I

474
00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:57,880
Speaker 1: thought you were going to be nice to me today. Anyway,

475
00:21:57,960 --> 00:22:02,000
Speaker 1: I didn't say that. I then the next time I

476
00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:03,640
Speaker 1: went to the nurse, she was like, oh you love

477
00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:04,639
Speaker 1: you love coming here.

478
00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:05,320
Speaker 2: Huh?

479
00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:09,080
Speaker 1: And so had the UTI have the antibiotics and all that,

480
00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:12,280
Speaker 1: and so I knew exactly what it felt like this

481
00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:16,679
Speaker 1: time around. It didn't feel like a UTI because you

482
00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:20,600
Speaker 1: didn't have crushes a week before. That's why your brain

483
00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:24,600
Speaker 1: didn't make the correlation, because you were like, I'm walking great. Yeah,

484
00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:27,360
Speaker 1: you were like this pe is on fire.

485
00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:30,639
Speaker 2: So yeah, he was not burning.

486
00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:34,520
Speaker 1: So and you know when sometimes you say he is burning,

487
00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:38,919
Speaker 1: people think like the clap or gone rhea or whatever. No,

488
00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:43,639
Speaker 1: sometimes you can have burning p from a UTI. And

489
00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:48,920
Speaker 1: so I did not have that, but something felt off right.

490
00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:52,080
Speaker 2: So it took it.

491
00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:55,840
Speaker 1: Took me a week. Took me a week to figure out. Yeah,

492
00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:57,760
Speaker 1: I got it. I had something. I went to urgent

493
00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:02,280
Speaker 1: care and okay, here how UTI affects the body. Fever,

494
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 1: nausea or vomiting, pelvic pain, cloudy or colored urine.

495
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:11,480
Speaker 2: I had cloudy urine. Oooh but you that could have

496
00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:13,160
Speaker 2: been from any day girl.

497
00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 3: No, I've been doing this okay, chills, back or side pain,

498
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:21,040
Speaker 3: frequent urination, doing this.

499
00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:26,320
Speaker 1: O say sorry, I'm sorry that you have a UTI

500
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:30,560
Speaker 1: and your pea is no longer clear. And for accusing

501
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:32,520
Speaker 1: you having cloudy p because you don't drink enough water,

502
00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:34,440
Speaker 1: I've been drinking water.

503
00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:37,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, so what was the symptoms?

504
00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:42,280
Speaker 1: The abdomen that that kind of pain and pelvic pain

505
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 1: and then uh, the cloudy pea.

506
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:45,600
Speaker 2: And peeing a lot.

507
00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 1: Oh, I was pain like every minute or two. It

508
00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 1: was crazy. And I thought and I was like, oh, well,

509
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:56,080
Speaker 1: I've been drinking water for real, and this just makes sense.

510
00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:58,080
Speaker 1: But this was something different, and it took a week,

511
00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:00,879
Speaker 1: and she's like, when's the last time you didn't? She

512
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:02,919
Speaker 1: was asking me, when's the last time you had your period?

513
00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:04,600
Speaker 1: I was in the urgent care asking you.

514
00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:06,680
Speaker 2: I text you. I said, when don'd you have your period?

515
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 2: Because we have it around the same time, you know.

516
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:10,879
Speaker 3: So I did that to you. And yesterday I checked

517
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 3: my period is coming tomorrow. No, I thought I had.

518
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:16,280
Speaker 2: It two weeks ago, but it's coming. Oh my god.

519
00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:21,200
Speaker 2: That means I might get mine this weekend. No, that's

520
00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:23,000
Speaker 2: why I was text Well, that's another reason why I

521
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:26,520
Speaker 2: was texting you. Yeah, I'm not aware of my body.

522
00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 2: I think it's you. You.

523
00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:30,479
Speaker 1: I think you threw minds off and now because you're alpha,

524
00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 1: so I'm now I think my period is now on

525
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:34,240
Speaker 1: your track.

526
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 2: B We ain't ever really been hanging out like that.

527
00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:37,360
Speaker 2: We have been hanging.

528
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:42,639
Speaker 1: I've been in the house eating my storm snacks and

529
00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:48,120
Speaker 1: you're telling me that my period is affecting. Yes, it's

530
00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 1: such a librid thing of you to do.

531
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:53,400
Speaker 3: WHOA that sounded like, what are you aquariuss?

532
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:56,680
Speaker 2: Yeah? Well the mess was I go to one urgent

533
00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 2: care and I go up.

534
00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:01,680
Speaker 1: I'm on the phone with AMNA and speaker or FaceTime,

535
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 1: and I said him, I'm here, I need to see

536
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:05,879
Speaker 1: a doctor.

537
00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:08,639
Speaker 2: And she's like, what do you need to see the

538
00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:09,119
Speaker 2: doctor for?

539
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 1: And I look at her and I was like, that

540
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:14,000
Speaker 1: was kind of weird, but you know, I'm bad at lying.

541
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:16,160
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm here for a u TI Amina

542
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 1: starts crying.

543
00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 2: I'm just saying for a ut Yeah. She's like, girl,

544
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:22,520
Speaker 2: I don't think you need to say all that like

545
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:27,640
Speaker 2: this loud, and I know you didn't have your headphones.

546
00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:32,040
Speaker 2: Oh no, it was just just no. Yeah. So and

547
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:33,600
Speaker 2: it was packed in this urgent care.

548
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 1: So you said, in front of everybody at the door

549
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:41,000
Speaker 1: or the lady at the lady at the desk, did

550
00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:42,400
Speaker 1: you whisper UTR No?

551
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:46,480
Speaker 2: I just I said it with normal room room voice.

552
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:49,480
Speaker 1: I'm here for you to go down. No, I didn't

553
00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 1: whisper it. I said I have a UTI And then

554
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:55,600
Speaker 1: she was like, scan that over there, and I was.

555
00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:57,359
Speaker 2: Like, well, why did I just why don't you just

556
00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:59,199
Speaker 2: tell me to scan that? Like? And then I went

557
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:01,840
Speaker 2: to the next urgent care because that one didn't take.

558
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 1: My uh my my health insurance. I went to the

559
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:09,480
Speaker 1: next one, which was completely empty. The guy didn't even

560
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 1: ask me.

561
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:11,880
Speaker 2: Why I was there. He was like, just just scan

562
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:14,200
Speaker 2: the sign. It's fucking crazy.

563
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:16,840
Speaker 1: It was like tool Agent Urgent tool Urgent cares and

564
00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:19,880
Speaker 1: they don't take your insurance. No one one doesn't take

565
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:22,280
Speaker 1: United Healthcare like community.

566
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 2: Got United Healthcare. What the hell do you have? I

567
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 2: don't have that? Well, what do you have? I don't know,

568
00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:29,720
Speaker 2: but it's not that. What's wrong with United Healthcare? You

569
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 2: know that's the one with the ceois. What do you have?

570
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:34,680
Speaker 2: You don't have? No Blue Cross Blue Shield?

571
00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:37,119
Speaker 1: I don't not know more, but you know I'm you know,

572
00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:41,000
Speaker 1: I'm a When did you have it? My birth chart

573
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:43,520
Speaker 1: is in the rafters for Blue Cross Blue Shield.

574
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:46,359
Speaker 2: They know me. Excuse me? I was on Blue Cross

575
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:49,160
Speaker 2: Blue Shield as well. Sure I don't have it no more.

576
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:51,480
Speaker 2: You don't have it blob twenty six.

577
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:53,280
Speaker 3: No, no, no, because remember I was going to the

578
00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:56,240
Speaker 3: doctor as my little sister until she turned twenty six,

579
00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:58,000
Speaker 3: so I did have it after.

580
00:26:57,840 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 2: I turned twenty six. Don't even do me like that.

581
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 2: So you went, they saw you, it was empty. They

582
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:04,359
Speaker 2: gave you antibiotics.

583
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:07,160
Speaker 1: How long you guys take them for for five days?

584
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:11,359
Speaker 1: So I'm taking them and you know, I'm pill or

585
00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:14,560
Speaker 1: liquid pills. You gotta take two pills every day, every

586
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:16,719
Speaker 1: twelve hours. So I've been taking it.

587
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 2: It's good.

588
00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:18,840
Speaker 1: Can't do it on an empty stomach, so it's great.

589
00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:21,960
Speaker 1: But I feel like after the antibiotics the way everything

590
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 1: is just going to be so like reset you.

591
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 2: I'm like, what's the pill they give you after chlamydia?

592
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:36,440
Speaker 2: Allegedly I was, and I was like, that's techno. Yeah,

593
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:39,600
Speaker 2: I've had that as well. Anyways, I mean.

594
00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:44,120
Speaker 1: So or aerythra mycin.

595
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:49,760
Speaker 2: I think that's what they give me zip from icing.

596
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:55,400
Speaker 2: It might have been. It might have been you never

597
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:59,400
Speaker 2: had an STD or an STI are you having sex? Yeah,

598
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:02,520
Speaker 2: I'm not going I'm not gonna say.

599
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:04,720
Speaker 3: Having an STD or an STI it's fun, but like

600
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:08,200
Speaker 3: it is fun. Fun was had, Fun was had, Fun

601
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 3: was had. It's not fun to get it, but fun,

602
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:11,879
Speaker 3: fun happened.

603
00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:14,160
Speaker 1: But if you're gonna get one, these feel like the ones,

604
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:15,720
Speaker 1: the safe one, very safe.

605
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:19,960
Speaker 2: They're the most common. Yeah, you don't want trickonomus tritcha,

606
00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 2: what is it? Trick trick? I had that? Oh my god,

607
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:25,440
Speaker 2: I know it sounds like I'm a slore.

608
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 3: You said the last time you had a uti was

609
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 3: in college, yes, yes, that's twice.

610
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, triconomous.

611
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:33,920
Speaker 1: I think I was twenty seven, twenty eight, But yeah,

612
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:36,000
Speaker 1: I got it from a guy. And it's a parasite

613
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 1: and it's nasty, nasty mass. It does not it felt

614
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:43,720
Speaker 1: like I don't know if you've ever been to well,

615
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 1: I'm sure you went to Mexico or whatever. When I

616
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 1: went to Cuba, I drank the water. And you know,

617
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 1: when the parasites was tearing your fucking stomach up, when

618
00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 1: they having like a hometown buffet on your inside, that's

619
00:28:55,160 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 1: basically what this parasite was doing in my uterus.

620
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:03,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I've been watching the Pit.

621
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:07,160
Speaker 1: I I've been watching I've been watching the Pit.

622
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 2: And somebody had.

623
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:13,600
Speaker 1: Worms, yes, and like passed the worms through his body

624
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 1: like the big worm. And then they had he had

625
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:18,840
Speaker 1: like little he had larva in his brain. Oh girl,

626
00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 1: who Yeah, it's nasty. It is nasty. Shout out to

627
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:25,880
Speaker 1: the pit. I do feel like I work the shift

628
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:27,640
Speaker 1: every time I watch the damn show. Though I could

629
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 1: see you on the show. You would be so unseerious, though.

630
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, they got resident doctors, they got you know,

631
00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 1: they got the people who work at the front desk

632
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:40,280
Speaker 1: that talk about the people who work there. You would

633
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 1: be good, Yeah, you would be good at the front

634
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:45,280
Speaker 1: desk talking shit. I can see you like.

635
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 2: Or or as a as a patient, oh, a patient.

636
00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 1: But you gotta stay alive the whole time. You gotta

637
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:54,120
Speaker 1: be one of the real current patients. There's one guy

638
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:58,040
Speaker 1: he's like, I think he's an alcoholic and he was

639
00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 1: about the older black guy. Yes, yeah, is reoccurrence. So

640
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 1: I feel like you don't have to have the alcoholic

641
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:04,719
Speaker 1: like issue.

642
00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 2: But oh no, no, no, I don't have to. Let me see.

643
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 1: Let me see what the side said when they send me. Yeah,

644
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 1: when I get you off. Okay, let's put that out there.

645
00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:14,480
Speaker 1: Murray on the pit season three.

646
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:15,320
Speaker 2: I can see it.

647
00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 1: Girl.

648
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:17,560
Speaker 2: Let me tell you what my mess is. Were you

649
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 2: done with your mess? Yes, I'm done.

650
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:23,040
Speaker 1: So the other day I went, I was out shooting

651
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 1: content for this brand. Now they told me it was

652
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 1: gonna take us like an hour of shooting and then

653
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:30,520
Speaker 1: I could go home.

654
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 3: That's obviously not what happened. It is never an hour, Okay.

655
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:36,720
Speaker 3: So it was like a vibrator. Oh yeah, I was

656
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:38,920
Speaker 3: giving away I was giving away vibrators. I don't have

657
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:40,520
Speaker 3: no more left. Please don't ask me for a five.

658
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:43,480
Speaker 3: They sent me six. I kept one.

659
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 2: I gave away five, right, Okay.

660
00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 1: So we were walking through We started in Dimes Square

661
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 1: and we were walking through Little Italy because I was

662
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 1: gonna go meet Carolina, Carolina and Melissa. And I was like, oh,

663
00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:00,400
Speaker 1: Little Italy, like I've kind of I'm in the like

664
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 1: a hot chocolate, maybe a canol, you know whatever whatever.

665
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:07,000
Speaker 3: And the people I'm with were like, oh, we could,

666
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 3: we could go down, we could be into that. We

667
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:13,720
Speaker 3: got this one place. The guy's like super welcoming. He's like, oh,

668
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:16,960
Speaker 3: come in, sit down. He's like how many people in it?

669
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 3: He's trying to connect tables. I'm like, no, it smelled.

670
00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 2: Really bad in it. It was like a I don't know,

671
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 2: like dirty mop.

672
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:27,120
Speaker 1: Yeah when they when it like old Fabuloso or with

673
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:28,680
Speaker 1: Fabulosa on a dirty rat.

674
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:29,480
Speaker 2: Ye dirty.

675
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 3: It smelled really bad. And I was like, yeah, I

676
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 3: don't like the way it smells in here. But I

677
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:35,040
Speaker 3: didn't say that to the man. I just was like, oh,

678
00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 3: I think our friend is next door. Because I was

679
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:40,239
Speaker 3: looking for a very specific canol spot that i'd been

680
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 3: to before.

681
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 1: I was like it's not it. So we went into

682
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:46,040
Speaker 1: another spot, the one next door, and they were everybody

683
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:47,920
Speaker 1: was just eating dinner. We were like, do you guys

684
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:50,720
Speaker 1: have hot chocolate here? They were like no, and we

685
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 1: were like, oka say, list turn corner. There's this big

686
00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:57,480
Speaker 1: ass there's this it's called like conol King.

687
00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 2: I'm sure you've seen it. It's like you know, Rytauristy

688
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 2: or whatever. But it's like in little Italy. So we

689
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 2: go in. I'm like, this is the spot that I've been.

690
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 1: I had a cannoli here before, Like it's a nice

691
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 1: little you know, let's have let's have a hot chocolate,

692
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 1: let's eat our cannoli.

693
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 2: Whatever.

694
00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 1: Now I'm with these people who I guess technically work

695
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 1: for me, oh, because you know they are my it's

696
00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 1: like my brand managers like whatever. So I had to

697
00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 1: found out how much they get from the commission that

698
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:25,520
Speaker 1: they make for me, and I was like, oh, they're

699
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 1: doing bad.

700
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:28,960
Speaker 2: I got it right, Okay, but you guys said, I'll

701
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:30,560
Speaker 2: get a hot chocolate. What do you guys want? But

702
00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:32,840
Speaker 2: you put it, you put it on your business card.

703
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 2: I did not put it on my credit card. I

704
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 2: put it on my regular card. But I was like

705
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 2: your business card.

706
00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 3: No, that's not the part of business. That's my credit card.

707
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 3: But I didn't put it on my credit card. But

708
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:45,080
Speaker 3: let's business. She was doing business. But let's talk. Okay,

709
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 3: we get there. The waitresses like you guys staying in there,

710
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:51,720
Speaker 3: you guys leaving. We're like, oh, we're gonna leave. They're like, okay, great.

711
00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 3: The lady behind the desk, the behind the counter is

712
00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 3: being real short, abrupt. I'm like, oh, rainbow cookies. I

713
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:01,320
Speaker 3: love rainbow cookies, which is a rainbow cookie. She's like,

714
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:04,920
Speaker 3: thirty two for a pound. I was like, they're not

715
00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:05,880
Speaker 3: two for a pound.

716
00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:10,800
Speaker 2: Thirty two dollars for a pound of cookie? They are

717
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:13,960
Speaker 2: they selling crab legs too? Like what a pound? Right?

718
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 2: It was getting a pound of cookie.

719
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:17,239
Speaker 1: Yeah. I was like, I just want one cookie. And

720
00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 1: the guy that i'm was like, I'll take a cookie too.

721
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:21,440
Speaker 1: So now I'm like, ooh little mini canol's because they

722
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:23,040
Speaker 1: have you know the big ones that are like that big. Yeah,

723
00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 1: they have like the little ones. I said, I want twenties.

724
00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 1: And then like everybody else ordered stuff, I go to

725
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:29,720
Speaker 1: the bathroom before I pay, I go to the bathroom.

726
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 1: I hear the lady from the counter. You guys can't sit.

727
00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:36,600
Speaker 1: You said you weren't gonna sit it, okay, And they're like,

728
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:37,160
Speaker 1: oh no, no.

729
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 3: No, she's in the bathroom, like she'll be right out,

730
00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:39,960
Speaker 3: she's gonna pay and we'll go.

731
00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:42,360
Speaker 1: But I'm like, why is she yelling at my friends

732
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:45,200
Speaker 1: about sitting. It's not like we were like taking up

733
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 1: seats that they needed. It was like six people in

734
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 1: this whole big gas place. So I come out, I'm like,

735
00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 1: what's the total? They say forty dollars or like forty

736
00:33:56,040 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 1: four dollars for cookie? Right, for cookies, canolis and hot

737
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:01,479
Speaker 1: chok and a hot chocolate.

738
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 2: I mean, how many people it was three of us eating?

739
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:10,240
Speaker 2: I said, I don't know. That's feel a little bit high.

740
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 1: That feels that feels maybe not on a cookie part,

741
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 1: but if you think about the hot chocolate, the hot

742
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:20,920
Speaker 1: chocolate is probably fifteen dollars, No Sidney, fifteen dollars for

743
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:22,160
Speaker 1: three hot chocolates.

744
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:25,439
Speaker 2: I know only I got a lot. She was getting

745
00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:25,839
Speaker 2: hot choking.

746
00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:27,719
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't you get a hot choklate for everybody else

747
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 1: because they didn't want to?

748
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:31,799
Speaker 2: Oh okay, I was like, that's rude. I do I

749
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:34,359
Speaker 2: think maybe one other person got a hot chocolate. Okay,

750
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:36,200
Speaker 2: but okay forty dollars.

751
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:38,120
Speaker 1: So if two people get a hot I feel like

752
00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:40,480
Speaker 1: that hot chocolate is like seven dollars.

753
00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 2: I feel like the hot chocolate is four dollars and fifty.

754
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:45,840
Speaker 1: Cents the same amount as coffee. I don't believe that.

755
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:49,840
Speaker 1: You don't coffee should be more. You think coffee costs less.

756
00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 1: I think coffee should be less.

757
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:55,759
Speaker 2: No, I think hot chok coffee more hot chocolate. I

758
00:34:55,800 --> 00:35:00,359
Speaker 2: think chocolate. Yes, And they hit me with a little

759
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 2: swissness back. Yet they grinding you go because I went

760
00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:09,920
Speaker 2: to like a fancy like wait a minute, So when

761
00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:10,239
Speaker 2: I went.

762
00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:13,279
Speaker 1: To Central Park for snow day and it was like

763
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:14,360
Speaker 1: a fancy.

764
00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:17,440
Speaker 2: Yes, dogs chocolate was eight dollars. This was not that.

765
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:18,319
Speaker 2: This was not that.

766
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:20,640
Speaker 1: I asked for oat milk. They didn't even have oat milk.

767
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:23,479
Speaker 1: So you can't you I already know. I was like, oh,

768
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:25,480
Speaker 1: So he was like, we have almond. I tasted the almond.

769
00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 1: I said this is nasty.

770
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:28,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, he swapped it. I said, let me just do

771
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 2: the regular milk. That's how bad the oak. The almond

772
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:34,399
Speaker 2: taketecause you too good for whole milk yep. Well, yeah,

773
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:35,760
Speaker 2: I said, I don't want to be on the street.

774
00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:41,080
Speaker 2: That's my style. That's not my stylo.

775
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:51,440
Speaker 3: Damn no, No, It's like it was like it was

776
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 3: two hot chocolates and I want to say four Canol's

777
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:58,360
Speaker 3: and like a black and white cookie.

778
00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:01,440
Speaker 2: So what happened? So I was like like what? I

779
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 2: was like, why is this so bad? Mindrew?

780
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:06,239
Speaker 1: She when she told me was thirty two dollars for

781
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:08,480
Speaker 1: a pound of cookies. I was like, you're insane. I'm

782
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 1: not spending thirty two dollars in a year. I thought

783
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:12,440
Speaker 1: I was gonna spend I don't know, twenty five hours,

784
00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 1: twenty five hours. We were like, whoa mind yourew? This

785
00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:20,239
Speaker 1: lady has an accent. She's been short with us the

786
00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:21,439
Speaker 1: entire time that we've been in there.

787
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:23,200
Speaker 3: I was like, I just I'm just gonna give him

788
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:25,440
Speaker 3: my card so you know, I can pay and be

789
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:25,879
Speaker 3: out of here.

790
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:29,120
Speaker 2: But I'm still I'm still arguing with her. You already

791
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:31,399
Speaker 2: swiped the card. She says, welcome to New York.

792
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:33,880
Speaker 1: You can't say welcome to New York to me and

793
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:37,760
Speaker 1: New Yorker with that accent, Yeah, you welcome to me, right,

794
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:41,879
Speaker 1: So now it's a thing. Now it's a it's a thing.

795
00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:46,399
Speaker 1: She's mommy, I'm scared. I'm scared, Mommy. No, now it's

796
00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 1: the thing. She's arguing with us. She's like, I want

797
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 1: to go get the manager. I'm like, go get him.

798
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:52,239
Speaker 1: She goes to get him.

799
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 2: He comes in.

800
00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:55,000
Speaker 1: He says Italian man. He's his name is Big sal.

801
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 1: He's like, what can a zoo for you? He looking

802
00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:00,600
Speaker 1: at us, and I you know, I'm I'm I'm done

803
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:02,400
Speaker 1: up because I'm shooting content. So it's not like I

804
00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:04,040
Speaker 1: showed up like a raggedy bum.

805
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's like, what happened? What happened?

806
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 3: Because she was also like if you wanted to stay in,

807
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:10,759
Speaker 3: it would have been cheaper then if you if you

808
00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 3: ordered it to go, I said, but we're still in here,

809
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 3: and also why wouldn't.

810
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 2: You say that when we got here?

811
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:18,879
Speaker 3: Oh, she's like, well it's cheaper if you sit down.

812
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:20,279
Speaker 3: We're like, well show us them men, you show ust

813
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 3: them and you it's a different price on the menu.

814
00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:24,279
Speaker 3: It sounds like you're lying. Yeah, it sounds like you're

815
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:26,439
Speaker 3: just charging us whatever you feel like charging us. Yes,

816
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:28,880
Speaker 3: I'm like, how much is a conola? She's like five dollars.

817
00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 3: I'm like, we had five cannols, right, yeah, So she

818
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:37,799
Speaker 3: quits the manager. He comes in. He's trying to like

819
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 3: play kat us. He's like, the customer is always right.

820
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 3: She's still arguing with us over his head. A friend

821
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:46,480
Speaker 3: of this girl that was with us but came a

822
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 3: little bit later is trying to like explain and de escalate.

823
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:52,319
Speaker 3: She's like, you shut up. He's like whoa. He's like,

824
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 3: you can't talk to my customers like that. He's like,

825
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 3: the customer is always right. She's like, they don't have

826
00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:00,400
Speaker 3: any money now. My friend behind me is like, we

827
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 3: don't have any money. Mind you, I've already paid. I've

828
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:07,319
Speaker 3: already paid. She's saying, we don't have no money. We

829
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:10,399
Speaker 3: can't afford to eat there, babe, you've already ran my car.

830
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:13,399
Speaker 3: You're telling people to shut up that I'm with now,

831
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 3: it's like everyone's voices are raised.

832
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 1: They're telling you to shut up after they swiped your

833
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:22,719
Speaker 1: Chase Sapphire carn't. Don't they know you gotta have some

834
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:24,439
Speaker 1: kind of money if you gotta chase fire.

835
00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:26,439
Speaker 2: It's just a regular chase card.

836
00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:32,880
Speaker 1: Girl, girl, all the points you got on Delta, you

837
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:34,920
Speaker 1: don't have the Delta not no, I don't have a

838
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:36,920
Speaker 1: Delta cards. It's my I gotta raise my credit by

839
00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:37,399
Speaker 1: any point.

840
00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:43,360
Speaker 2: That's right. That doesn't want nothing to do with me.

841
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 1: If you talked about that uptip that was so long ago?

842
00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:55,359
Speaker 1: Was an hour ago anyway, anyway, whatever, He's like, well,

843
00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 1: what happened?

844
00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:58,040
Speaker 2: He's like, what did you guys get charged? What did

845
00:38:58,080 --> 00:38:59,799
Speaker 2: you buy? He says she.

846
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:01,960
Speaker 1: He was like, she's new, she's only been here for

847
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:04,160
Speaker 1: a week. I said, this better be her last week.

848
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 1: She's yelling still. He's like hey, He's like, take a walk.

849
00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:11,880
Speaker 1: He like sends her away. I'm like clock out for me, sweetie.

850
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:14,279
Speaker 1: He's like, he's like, stop talking her like that. Like

851
00:39:14,360 --> 00:39:16,839
Speaker 1: so he's trying to wrangle a bunch of kittens.

852
00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:20,240
Speaker 3: And he was like, all right, well she it seemed

853
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:22,240
Speaker 3: like she did overcharge you by a couple of dollars,

854
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:24,359
Speaker 3: he said, let me, he said, let me see, let

855
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 3: me see the receipt I had it gave me.

856
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:29,759
Speaker 1: He gave me back like eight dollars. But then we

857
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:31,640
Speaker 1: walk out. Mind you, there's people inside.

858
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:33,240
Speaker 3: There's like I told you, there was like six people

859
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:34,640
Speaker 3: in there, just like kind of watching all this go

860
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:38,360
Speaker 3: down and He's like, you know, does he go like this,

861
00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:39,880
Speaker 3: come back anytime, beautiful.

862
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:41,920
Speaker 2: I'm like, first of all, sala, I don't want you

863
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:44,560
Speaker 2: touching off my face. He come back anytime?

864
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:49,120
Speaker 3: I was like, but yeah, girl, And then we and

865
00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:50,920
Speaker 3: then the canoes wasn't that great?

866
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 2: And now how chocolate wasn't that good?

867
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:56,640
Speaker 1: So I spent all this money on something and then

868
00:39:56,800 --> 00:40:00,239
Speaker 1: raised my blood pressure for something that ultimately was not

869
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:02,000
Speaker 1: worth You should have tasted it right in her, and

870
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:05,040
Speaker 1: you were like you got nerve. I should have not

871
00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 1: even good cornoli. I should have put the cookies back.

872
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:09,160
Speaker 1: I should have been like, hey, we don't even want these.

873
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:10,960
Speaker 1: That's what I thought you were gonna do. I thought

874
00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 1: you were be like, because this is what happened sometimes,

875
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:16,360
Speaker 1: not you, but just in general, somebody will you know.

876
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:18,759
Speaker 1: I'll get to the register and they were like, it's

877
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:22,040
Speaker 1: forty dollars. I'm like, hey, I'm walking all the.

878
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:24,200
Speaker 2: Way back Homer Simpson in the bushes. I was like, yeah,

879
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:25,560
Speaker 2: that ain't for me. And then you walk out.

880
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 1: I know I had already taken a sip of the

881
00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:28,840
Speaker 1: hot truck.

882
00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:31,920
Speaker 2: Lib Oh. I still gotta box of cookies open, just

883
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:33,319
Speaker 2: to look at them, to see what was in there.

884
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:37,200
Speaker 1: But yeah, don't go to Conoli King if that's if

885
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:38,759
Speaker 1: that's what it's called Conoi King.

886
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 2: Y'all are y'all are on.

887
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:43,359
Speaker 1: The list, Mama, Soal, we like, we like you, Sal,

888
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:47,480
Speaker 1: but over all the business there's no business, big Sal big.

889
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:50,880
Speaker 3: The fact that she was welcome to New York, I said, WHOA,

890
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 3: don't uh huh no, no, no, don't talk to.

891
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 2: Me like that. I know here. I mean I don't

892
00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:58,760
Speaker 2: know Little Italy, but I know here. She's like, so welcome.

893
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:02,200
Speaker 1: This is for New York prices, said, girl, you're the

894
00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:04,240
Speaker 1: only one that complained all the people that I've had

895
00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:06,880
Speaker 1: since I've been working here, you've been here for a week.

896
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 2: Come to find out you've only been there for a week. Also,

897
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:12,080
Speaker 2: the people who are saying yes to those prices, dumb,

898
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:14,399
Speaker 2: du dumb, dumb dumb, Like.

899
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 1: I think we need to stand up. That's again, we're

900
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:19,479
Speaker 1: bringing it right back. You know, it's always full circle.

901
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:23,400
Speaker 1: We got to stop just being okay with whatever anybody

902
00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:23,799
Speaker 1: give us.

903
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:24,439
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

904
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:27,319
Speaker 1: If something, if the price for the apartment is four

905
00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:30,560
Speaker 1: thousand dollars and we're like this don't make sense. Just saying, right,

906
00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 1: if nobody gets the apartment, they bring the apartment down.

907
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:36,120
Speaker 2: That's just how it goes.

908
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:39,279
Speaker 1: If everybody says, no, I'm not gonna take this, then

909
00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 1: they gotta have no choice but to bring it down.

910
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:43,719
Speaker 1: And this is what they do. That's why it's better

911
00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:47,239
Speaker 1: to get an apartment towards the end of the year,

912
00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:50,680
Speaker 1: because they they want to roll over and they want

913
00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:55,280
Speaker 1: to make sure everybody is have apartments before the beginning

914
00:41:55,280 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 1: of the year, so they start bringing it all. If

915
00:41:57,480 --> 00:41:59,799
Speaker 1: something's on the market for more than a month or two,

916
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:02,200
Speaker 1: it goes drastically down.

917
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:06,000
Speaker 3: Not in my building, my landlord kicked the people downstairs

918
00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:08,040
Speaker 3: out after raising the rent by like seventy percent.

919
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:11,799
Speaker 2: It's like, you can't do that. She gets the lawn,

920
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:14,359
Speaker 2: and yet she did it. She's done it.

921
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:18,359
Speaker 3: She's trying to she's trying to charge six grand six

922
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:21,920
Speaker 3: k for the apartment below me and it's been empty

923
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:22,759
Speaker 3: since October.

924
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:26,360
Speaker 1: Marie, you have we have to put her in the

925
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:29,719
Speaker 1: there's like a like a bad landlord side or something.

926
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, did you send that to me?

927
00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:31,759
Speaker 1: Yes? To me.

928
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:34,400
Speaker 2: It's because somebody message es it's like you have to

929
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 2: report her.

930
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm a report she's got a lot of aliases.

931
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:39,640
Speaker 1: When you got her, you gotta report her some more.

932
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:43,239
Speaker 1: Am gonna report her support all the aliases. This is insane.

933
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, but she's not bringing nothing down. It's staying the

934
00:42:46,560 --> 00:43:07,319
Speaker 2: same price. Oh and I have my other mess. Are

935
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:07,760
Speaker 2: you finished?

936
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 1: Yeah?

937
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:11,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm done. I ate the canoli was trash.

938
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 3: I will never go there again. I have a Connelie

939
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:15,400
Speaker 3: spot in the West.

940
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 2: Village that I like. There is is it when it

941
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:19,840
Speaker 2: starts with a V? Near the ice cream place? Yes? Yeah?

942
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:21,560
Speaker 2: That place is bo Yeah. I love that.

943
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 1: And their rainbow cookie is amazing. Yes, yes, okay, and

944
00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 1: the price is not bad. It's really good hot chocolate

945
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:31,239
Speaker 1: as well. Okay, So today I had a meeting at

946
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:33,839
Speaker 1: eleven and I said, boom, let me get up, let

947
00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:35,799
Speaker 1: me wash my ass, let me have my boiled egg,

948
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:38,120
Speaker 1: let me let me start my day. Let me take

949
00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:43,160
Speaker 1: my zitro max. No, it's uh. I have been a

950
00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 1: flexen form. No no, no, I'm talking about that.

951
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:48,799
Speaker 2: Oh my anti No, my antibiotics.

952
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:50,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't know what it's called, but I'm taking

953
00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:52,719
Speaker 1: it yice to day. Yeah it is it is you

954
00:43:52,719 --> 00:43:55,320
Speaker 1: want to see? No? No, no, no, okay, it's working.

955
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:58,320
Speaker 1: So you took your pills, you wash your ass.

956
00:43:58,160 --> 00:43:58,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's your eggs.

957
00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:00,680
Speaker 1: And so I was like, oh, I have to go

958
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 1: drop off my newly and I need to pick up

959
00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 1: my package that was missed the day before. Okay, So

960
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:12,680
Speaker 1: I go to the spot and this is this is

961
00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:13,920
Speaker 1: my problem with Flatbush.

962
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:18,520
Speaker 2: I love y'all down. Hey, whatever the hours are, y'all

963
00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:22,319
Speaker 2: got to stick by that you open from ten to eight.

964
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:25,359
Speaker 2: You're ten to eight. Why do I get there?

965
00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:28,080
Speaker 1: I'm there at ten thirty because I was like, it's

966
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 1: only gonna take me four minutes to go back and forth.

967
00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:36,719
Speaker 2: Why it's ten thirty, y'all still not open? Gate is dowt.

968
00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:38,640
Speaker 2: It wasn't even nobody.

969
00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:41,640
Speaker 1: It wasn't even anybody in there, right, So then so

970
00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 1: I got my newly packaged, I got my ticket for

971
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:47,399
Speaker 1: to pick up my UPS. So now I go back

972
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:49,719
Speaker 1: and I said, wait a minute. UPS was in front

973
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 1: of the building, so that means he gonna come and

974
00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:53,600
Speaker 1: I could give him my newly at least that. So

975
00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:56,879
Speaker 1: I'm way in outside and I'm way in I'm waiting.

976
00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:58,799
Speaker 1: I'm like, what is this man coming out?

977
00:44:59,000 --> 00:44:59,120
Speaker 2: Like?

978
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 1: It can't be that many packages to be delivered. It's

979
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:05,759
Speaker 1: like Wednesday. So I'm waiting. I'm waiting.

980
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:06,120
Speaker 2: I'm waiting.

981
00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:11,240
Speaker 1: My dumb ass waits for like fifteen minutes, sixteen minutes.

982
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:14,959
Speaker 1: I'm freezing. Shut up to Solomon's shoes, sneakers or whatever.

983
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:17,640
Speaker 1: If y'all want to, you know, partner with me. My

984
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:21,640
Speaker 1: feet were warm up until the twenty minute mark.

985
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:23,800
Speaker 2: Twenty minute mark. I was like, you get from for

986
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:26,440
Speaker 2: UPS for twenty s I was like, they're right here,

987
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 2: but this.

988
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,200
Speaker 1: Is at ten thirty, so you gotta be laid for

989
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:32,799
Speaker 1: this call. So now it's it's ten fifty two.

990
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:34,799
Speaker 2: I call, I call the people.

991
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:36,960
Speaker 1: I say, hey man, I'm telling them pushing back by

992
00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:39,640
Speaker 1: fifteen because I gotta get I got some UPS drama

993
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:43,839
Speaker 1: right now. So then UPS guy comes out and he's like,

994
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:46,000
Speaker 1: I say, hey man, I've been waiting for you.

995
00:45:46,080 --> 00:45:48,560
Speaker 2: He said, what's up. I said, I need to drop

996
00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:50,439
Speaker 2: this package off. He said, I'm full. I'm full.

997
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:52,720
Speaker 1: I got too many packages. I said, you just dropped

998
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:54,319
Speaker 1: some packages off. You can't be that full.

999
00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:54,919
Speaker 2: He said, I'm full.

1000
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:57,240
Speaker 1: Man, to the brim, to the brim, go to thirteen

1001
00:45:57,280 --> 00:45:59,759
Speaker 1: whatever if you need to draw, I said, I went there.

1002
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 2: They're close close. I said, yes, closed. He said, I

1003
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:05,399
Speaker 2: ain't got no room. I ain't got no room.

1004
00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:09,879
Speaker 1: I was likely not even that big. I said, aw man,

1005
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:12,520
Speaker 1: I said that. He's like, all right, all right, give

1006
00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:13,799
Speaker 1: it to me. You know, next time going to the

1007
00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:16,719
Speaker 1: I said, I went there, they were closed. Sorry, next

1008
00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:18,239
Speaker 1: time I'm going to I was like, whatever, Oh he

1009
00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:21,439
Speaker 1: wasn't full, he was he was he wasted my time.

1010
00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:23,640
Speaker 1: And then I said, you know what, Then I get

1011
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:27,000
Speaker 1: a message from UPS that my package is there, that

1012
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 1: it was dropped off. I guess they had just opened

1013
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:31,600
Speaker 1: their gates, and UPS to have been waiting for his

1014
00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:33,279
Speaker 1: ass too, because they had to drop a whole bunch

1015
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:34,799
Speaker 1: of I'm on the phone with him, I say, hey,

1016
00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:37,759
Speaker 1: you have a package for Sydney. Washington's Washington, I said,

1017
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 1: City was just looking through the back. But I'm convinced

1018
00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:44,200
Speaker 1: that when they say the name back to you, they're

1019
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:45,880
Speaker 1: not looking. They just repeating it, so you think they

1020
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:51,040
Speaker 1: looking at But I hear him going through the back

1021
00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 1: like this, So do you watch you do? He's moving

1022
00:46:57,239 --> 00:46:59,200
Speaker 1: sever around, and I was like, I could tell he's

1023
00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 1: having some problems. I said, I'm gonna going back later.

1024
00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:03,879
Speaker 1: He said no, no, no, no, let me look. He's

1025
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:06,360
Speaker 1: still on the phone. He's still on the phone. I

1026
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:08,400
Speaker 1: was like, you know what, I'm gonna walk over there

1027
00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:10,480
Speaker 1: right now. I walked all the way. I walked to

1028
00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:12,600
Speaker 1: the place that's not that far. He's still looking to

1029
00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:15,239
Speaker 1: the back. I said, hey, yeah, I was the one

1030
00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:18,279
Speaker 1: on the phone. I'm looking for my bag, and so

1031
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:22,239
Speaker 1: I give him the He said Sydney. He could he

1032
00:47:22,239 --> 00:47:25,040
Speaker 1: don't know how to pronounce Sydney Sidney Washington. He's like, okay,

1033
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:27,759
Speaker 1: let me look through this. I see my package right there.

1034
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:30,640
Speaker 1: I swear this man made me wait for three four

1035
00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:32,200
Speaker 1: minutes for him to be like, oh, I don't see

1036
00:47:32,200 --> 00:47:32,800
Speaker 1: Sydney Washington.

1037
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:35,640
Speaker 2: I said, the box is right there. Give me my

1038
00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:41,040
Speaker 2: fucking box. I was so bad, God damn box. He said, oh, you.

1039
00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:42,319
Speaker 1: Have to sign, you have to sign. I said, I

1040
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:44,759
Speaker 1: thought you couldn't find my name. Pretend you couldn't find

1041
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:47,319
Speaker 1: my signature as well. Yeah, so it's just you know.

1042
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:50,360
Speaker 1: And then I got to I got to the meeting

1043
00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:52,320
Speaker 1: and they were like, so you had you had to

1044
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:54,399
Speaker 1: run in with the ups And I said, what would

1045
00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:55,960
Speaker 1: could they tell them that?

1046
00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:59,880
Speaker 2: Oh? Your people really that? Yes, just tell him I

1047
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:01,520
Speaker 2: need to push back to fifteen minutes.

1048
00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:03,920
Speaker 3: Imagine if you said I have I'm having a bathroom emergency,

1049
00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:04,480
Speaker 3: they would have been like.

1050
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:07,880
Speaker 2: So you had diarrhea, yeah, or you know, my uti

1051
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 2: is flaring up.

1052
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:13,960
Speaker 1: Imagine if I would have just said that. That's like

1053
00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:17,640
Speaker 1: when someone used to call the house phone to talk

1054
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:20,239
Speaker 1: to my mom, or someone calls to speak to your parents,

1055
00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:23,160
Speaker 1: and your parents like I'm not here, and you, as

1056
00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:25,799
Speaker 1: a child, are like, she said, she's not here, and

1057
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:27,160
Speaker 1: the person on the phone is like, well, I hear

1058
00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:29,080
Speaker 1: them in the background, and your mom or your dad

1059
00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:30,200
Speaker 1: is in the background.

1060
00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:31,839
Speaker 2: Like why would you tell them my son I wasn't here?

1061
00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:33,640
Speaker 1: And I was like, well, why would you tell me

1062
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:35,959
Speaker 1: to tell them that she was here? Like she said,

1063
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:39,520
Speaker 1: she's not here. I used to get in trouble for

1064
00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:41,040
Speaker 1: stuff like that all the time.

1065
00:48:41,239 --> 00:48:44,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, me too. Yeah, I'm not good at following directions.

1066
00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 2: That's time.

1067
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 1: I mean, like you know sometimes when you go to

1068
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:48,399
Speaker 1: the to the cashier and they're like, do you want

1069
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:51,480
Speaker 1: to round up to donate to Saint Jude's or whoever.

1070
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:54,440
Speaker 2: My dad would always be like I just got laid off,

1071
00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:55,759
Speaker 2: oh dad, And I'd be.

1072
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:58,120
Speaker 1: At the cash re just they're like, yay, you say

1073
00:48:58,160 --> 00:48:59,400
Speaker 1: that every time.

1074
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 2: As a kid, I was like, yeah, my dad can't

1075
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:03,520
Speaker 2: keep it.

1076
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:06,359
Speaker 1: He'd be like, I have a job, I just don't

1077
00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:08,719
Speaker 1: want to pay, and they'd be like, why did you lie?

1078
00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:12,080
Speaker 2: I just tell them every time actually I can. At

1079
00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:14,760
Speaker 2: this time. Meanwhile, I'm ringing up three hundred dollars.

1080
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:15,839
Speaker 1: Like yeah, I can't round up. I'd be like every

1081
00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:19,279
Speaker 1: dollar I actually went over. This is over budget. I

1082
00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:21,040
Speaker 1: really shouldn't be spending this money. And so since i's

1083
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:23,839
Speaker 1: the return policy here, have you ever been paid for

1084
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:27,600
Speaker 1: something and you asking in real time what's the You said,

1085
00:49:27,640 --> 00:49:29,040
Speaker 1: I need to be back by wednesday?

1086
00:49:29,200 --> 00:49:31,279
Speaker 2: Okay? Is it store credit?

1087
00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:33,760
Speaker 1: Or will I get my money back? Because I actually

1088
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:35,960
Speaker 1: don't really like this store that yo. If they say

1089
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:38,400
Speaker 1: store credit, I'm like, I gotta leave it at I

1090
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:40,960
Speaker 1: gotta a And then do the Homer sensors like I'm

1091
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:43,360
Speaker 1: out of here. I'm out of here. Yeah, this is

1092
00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:45,920
Speaker 1: a store that I spent three hundred dollars at last year,

1093
00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:50,160
Speaker 1: and after I paid, they were like, no, I didn't

1094
00:49:50,160 --> 00:49:50,520
Speaker 1: try it on.

1095
00:49:50,600 --> 00:49:51,800
Speaker 2: I think that's what I didn't.

1096
00:49:51,560 --> 00:49:53,239
Speaker 3: Try it on before I left, And when I got home,

1097
00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:54,840
Speaker 3: I tried to I said, oh, this is what was

1098
00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:56,840
Speaker 3: I think? And I went to bring it back and

1099
00:49:56,840 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 3: they were like, yeah, we can only give you back

1100
00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:02,120
Speaker 3: store credit. And they're like, but it never expires. What

1101
00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:04,839
Speaker 3: that's the That's a terrible sign. That means people don't

1102
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:05,759
Speaker 3: want to shop here.

1103
00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:10,320
Speaker 2: Never expires. Now I have three hundred and something dollars

1104
00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:13,319
Speaker 2: worth of store credit. Did you ever go back? No, baby,

1105
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:13,759
Speaker 2: let's go.

1106
00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:16,720
Speaker 1: You know, maybe I'll find something. Maybe you don't like it.

1107
00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:19,080
Speaker 1: Another person's trash is another person's trus.

1108
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:24,160
Speaker 2: I'm squeeze mask forty dollars.

1109
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:27,040
Speaker 1: I thought that's what you were gonna do when it's

1110
00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:30,719
Speaker 1: at forty dollars, y'all. It was like that forty five.

1111
00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:35,840
Speaker 1: I was like, justice, I love that. Who says forty dollars?

1112
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:40,399
Speaker 1: Remember there in the hair salon and you know no

1113
00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 1: not oh no, baby boy, baby boy, baby boy. He

1114
00:50:42,760 --> 00:50:46,879
Speaker 1: comes in Teresa's is selling the closer to the gay guys,

1115
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:51,319
Speaker 1: like for you forty and then it's this little tiny thing.

1116
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:55,160
Speaker 1: He's like, well, let me squeeze my little ass, Like, yeah,

1117
00:50:55,400 --> 00:51:00,200
Speaker 1: I love that, Okay, I love it it.

1118
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:01,560
Speaker 2: Do we have any messages? Do you want? Should we

1119
00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:02,000
Speaker 2: read something?

1120
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:04,879
Speaker 1: I guess we should read one message and then get

1121
00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:07,279
Speaker 1: on the hell out of here, right the.

1122
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:15,920
Speaker 3: Hell out, get me alone, pack your bags and get

1123
00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:16,680
Speaker 3: the hell.

1124
00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:19,080
Speaker 2: That's long.

1125
00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:23,760
Speaker 1: Woo oh my god, you will really be writing.

1126
00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:24,680
Speaker 2: I love y'all.

1127
00:51:25,160 --> 00:51:27,600
Speaker 1: This is nice. Wow, all right, I'm gonna read this

1128
00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:29,839
Speaker 1: one right here. Thank god you can read.

1129
00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:32,439
Speaker 2: Marie, this is hey, I can read everything.

1130
00:51:32,440 --> 00:51:35,560
Speaker 1: It's at the price of a Canoli's forty five.

1131
00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:36,440
Speaker 2: Dollah.

1132
00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:39,960
Speaker 3: Okay, my lesbian friend has taken the U haul trope

1133
00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 3: a bit too seriously.

1134
00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:43,360
Speaker 2: Hi, San and Marie.

1135
00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:47,000
Speaker 3: First off, want to say love the pod. It truly

1136
00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:49,839
Speaker 3: is my favorite thing to look forward to on Thursdays.

1137
00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:52,560
Speaker 3: I saw Sydney open for Bob the drac Queen and

1138
00:51:52,640 --> 00:51:55,480
Speaker 3: Austin and just had to see what else she was

1139
00:51:55,480 --> 00:51:58,160
Speaker 3: on because she's hilarious, and it brought me the mess

1140
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:00,799
Speaker 3: who shout out to Sydney and Bob the drag war

1141
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:03,719
Speaker 3: kaway from Marita be in Austin this year.

1142
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:07,600
Speaker 1: Yes, I'll be there in April. Oh, we'll be there

1143
00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:09,440
Speaker 1: in April. We'll be there in April, and then I'm

1144
00:52:09,480 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 1: gonna be in Dallas as well, so.

1145
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:11,640
Speaker 2: Come see me.

1146
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:15,480
Speaker 3: So back to this mess, I just want to clarify

1147
00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:17,560
Speaker 3: that I'm also a lesbian, so I'm not calling my

1148
00:52:17,600 --> 00:52:20,680
Speaker 3: friend out for being gay, but just a bit of messy,

1149
00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:24,840
Speaker 3: hopeless romantic. So back in April twenty twenty four, my

1150
00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:27,840
Speaker 3: friend we'll call her Elle, met this girl from Florida,

1151
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:28,920
Speaker 3: we'll call her Fiona.

1152
00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:30,640
Speaker 2: She met her on Instagram.

1153
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:33,560
Speaker 3: They hit it off and we're almost non stop talking

1154
00:52:33,600 --> 00:52:36,279
Speaker 3: for weeks until they officially met in person in May.

1155
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:37,320
Speaker 2: Okay.

1156
00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:40,520
Speaker 3: Elle was head over heels for this girl, and since

1157
00:52:40,520 --> 00:52:43,320
Speaker 3: this was her first real relationship with a woman, me

1158
00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:46,640
Speaker 3: and all that friend grew were supportive of her. Fast

1159
00:52:46,680 --> 00:52:50,080
Speaker 3: forward to July twenty twenty four, and Fiona is moving

1160
00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:52,320
Speaker 3: all the way from Florida to move in with l

1161
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:55,920
Speaker 3: the Scheck de Mat. They started talking in April, they

1162
00:52:55,960 --> 00:52:59,760
Speaker 3: met in May, she moving in July.

1163
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:01,760
Speaker 2: That feels about right. Okay.

1164
00:53:02,360 --> 00:53:04,640
Speaker 3: Now, we're all a bit skeptical about this because they

1165
00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:06,480
Speaker 3: had only known each other for a few months, but

1166
00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:09,000
Speaker 3: again we were supportive because it's not our life or

1167
00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:11,920
Speaker 3: our decision to make. Once Fiona moved here, we started

1168
00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:14,680
Speaker 3: to see less and less of LL, which I talked

1169
00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:17,000
Speaker 3: up to her being in the honeymoon phase and spending

1170
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:20,320
Speaker 3: time with her partner who had just moved here for her. Okay,

1171
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:22,960
Speaker 3: this is when we should have known something was up

1172
00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:27,319
Speaker 3: in August. So literally a month later, one of our

1173
00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:30,440
Speaker 3: mutual friends will call her Ka, went to lunch with

1174
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:32,960
Speaker 3: Ell and Fiona and all, and at that lunch, Fiona

1175
00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:35,640
Speaker 3: basically talked a bunch of shit about our friend group

1176
00:53:35,680 --> 00:53:39,800
Speaker 3: to k She questioned why everyone, why everything we did

1177
00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:43,480
Speaker 3: and invited her to was gay. She was saying this

1178
00:53:43,600 --> 00:53:46,360
Speaker 3: about my wife that was inviting her to queer events

1179
00:53:46,400 --> 00:53:49,359
Speaker 3: around town because she's a lesbian. This was especially weird

1180
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:51,759
Speaker 3: to us because Elle and Fiona had already started a

1181
00:53:51,760 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 3: couple's page on ig together.

1182
00:53:53,280 --> 00:53:57,960
Speaker 2: Oh but we're too gay for inviting her to queer events. Okay, weirdo.

1183
00:53:58,400 --> 00:54:01,040
Speaker 2: She also made comments about how her and I.

1184
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:03,080
Speaker 3: Were the least likely to get along because we were

1185
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:05,760
Speaker 3: both very opinionated. Now she thought I had a problem

1186
00:54:05,800 --> 00:54:08,880
Speaker 3: with her, despite me almost never interacting with her one

1187
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:12,040
Speaker 3: on one because I never saw her or my friend

1188
00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:13,000
Speaker 3: once they moved in together.

1189
00:54:13,520 --> 00:54:16,080
Speaker 1: Obviously, Kate bought this conversation back to us. Kay, is

1190
00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:18,719
Speaker 1: miss I love k Hey, come on to the pod.

1191
00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:19,839
Speaker 1: We don't need you to sit down?

1192
00:54:19,920 --> 00:54:21,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, kay down?

1193
00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:24,200
Speaker 1: It didn't sit right with her that this person was

1194
00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:26,480
Speaker 1: openly talking about our friend group without.

1195
00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:29,640
Speaker 2: Even getting to know us. Once I heard about the conversation.

1196
00:54:29,400 --> 00:54:32,319
Speaker 3: I immediately took it to Elle and expects expressed to

1197
00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:35,239
Speaker 3: her that I didn't know or understand why Fiona had

1198
00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:38,840
Speaker 3: this animosity towards us, as we had almost been nothing

1199
00:54:38,880 --> 00:54:41,640
Speaker 3: but accepting and inviting. But I'm not interested in being

1200
00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:42,520
Speaker 3: around that energy.

1201
00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:44,880
Speaker 1: From that point on, my friendship was with Elle was

1202
00:54:44,920 --> 00:54:48,279
Speaker 1: severely strained, and I just didn't interact with Fiona at

1203
00:54:48,320 --> 00:54:52,000
Speaker 1: all period over the past year, and I have Elle

1204
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:54,759
Speaker 1: and I have repaired our relationship, although it never got

1205
00:54:54,800 --> 00:54:55,719
Speaker 1: back to what it was.

1206
00:54:56,200 --> 00:55:00,359
Speaker 3: However, it still fucked Fiona because she's a weirdo. Fully,

1207
00:55:00,480 --> 00:55:01,120
Speaker 3: Lle broke up with.

1208
00:55:01,080 --> 00:55:04,520
Speaker 1: Fiona in November of twenty twenty five, but now Elle

1209
00:55:04,560 --> 00:55:07,160
Speaker 1: is already bowed up again and telling us about this

1210
00:55:07,200 --> 00:55:10,680
Speaker 1: new girl she's with. Mind you, Fiona is still currently

1211
00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:14,359
Speaker 1: living with l until the end of January. I'm just

1212
00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:17,800
Speaker 1: nervous because clearly she moves very fast, and I feel

1213
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:19,080
Speaker 1: like I just got my friend back.

1214
00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:21,400
Speaker 3: So should I tell her to take this relationship slower?

1215
00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:23,360
Speaker 3: Because the fast track clearly didn't work out with the

1216
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:25,799
Speaker 3: last one or should I not say anything? I know

1217
00:55:25,880 --> 00:55:27,640
Speaker 3: you like pictures, so I included a picture of my

1218
00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:30,279
Speaker 3: cutie little friend group pre Fiona and a picture with

1219
00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:31,600
Speaker 3: Fiona and our friend group.

1220
00:55:31,719 --> 00:55:32,160
Speaker 2: Let's look.

1221
00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:38,520
Speaker 3: Oh, come on, sirus, Okay, this is her, this is

1222
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:39,640
Speaker 3: l oh Elle, it's ocute?

1223
00:55:39,880 --> 00:55:42,640
Speaker 1: Oh I say, Kay's promised?

1224
00:55:43,120 --> 00:55:48,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, Kay Elle? And Kay? Okay?

1225
00:55:48,360 --> 00:55:48,520
Speaker 1: Kay?

1226
00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:51,440
Speaker 2: Wait? Kay is the one who was talking? Okay, is

1227
00:55:51,480 --> 00:55:53,040
Speaker 2: the one that was talking? Okay? Where's Fiona?

1228
00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:54,000
Speaker 1: Oh?

1229
00:55:55,920 --> 00:55:59,000
Speaker 2: Okay? So what's you pick? The problem is Sidney as

1230
00:55:59,040 --> 00:56:04,400
Speaker 2: the resident, as the lesbian. Let's be honest. What's the problem.

1231
00:56:04,920 --> 00:56:07,360
Speaker 2: First of all, you know lesbian's pillow talk. You know

1232
00:56:07,400 --> 00:56:09,480
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, because it's like we're pillow talking.

1233
00:56:09,360 --> 00:56:12,719
Speaker 1: Because it's a girl, and it's like, well, it just

1234
00:56:12,840 --> 00:56:17,560
Speaker 1: feels let's portrayal. But they probably this person was probably

1235
00:56:17,600 --> 00:56:19,319
Speaker 1: talking shit and they don't even know about the friend

1236
00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:21,040
Speaker 1: group because your friend.

1237
00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:27,640
Speaker 2: Was talking shit with Kay? Right, No, Fiona, Fiona? But

1238
00:56:27,760 --> 00:56:31,600
Speaker 2: why wait? Why was Kay coming back? Kay? Was Kay?

1239
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 2: Is he is their friend? Okay?

1240
00:56:33,440 --> 00:56:37,520
Speaker 1: She had lunch with Fiona and Elle Okay, and Fiona

1241
00:56:37,560 --> 00:56:39,759
Speaker 1: was talking all this shit. So Kay brought it back

1242
00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:41,919
Speaker 1: to the group. Oh, Fiona was talking on this shit.

1243
00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:43,400
Speaker 1: Fiona's the girlfriend from Florida.

1244
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:44,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but.

1245
00:56:45,040 --> 00:56:48,719
Speaker 1: I'm saying Fiona was talking all the shit because Elle

1246
00:56:48,960 --> 00:56:51,960
Speaker 1: was probably telling her all that stuff. Oh and that's

1247
00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:54,160
Speaker 1: why she felt comfortable saying this because this is what

1248
00:56:54,320 --> 00:56:57,120
Speaker 1: Elle is saying to her, because it's like, you don't

1249
00:56:57,120 --> 00:56:58,840
Speaker 1: even know the group, how are you getting this information?

1250
00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:01,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, but she was saying, I feel like we wouldn't

1251
00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:03,560
Speaker 3: get along because we're both opinionated. I feel like, y'all

1252
00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:05,960
Speaker 3: just keep inviting me to gay ass events. I don't

1253
00:57:05,960 --> 00:57:06,800
Speaker 3: want to go to gay events.

1254
00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:10,080
Speaker 1: I mean, it looks like a bunch of lesbians, a

1255
00:57:10,120 --> 00:57:11,640
Speaker 1: bunch of lesbians trying to have a good time. It

1256
00:57:12,280 --> 00:57:17,080
Speaker 1: looks very very gay. Also, I think in most of

1257
00:57:17,120 --> 00:57:19,640
Speaker 1: our friends' lives, it's a canon event. There's nothing you

1258
00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:21,840
Speaker 1: really could do, even if you're like, hey man, I

1259
00:57:21,880 --> 00:57:23,720
Speaker 1: don't really think this is the right thing to do,

1260
00:57:24,200 --> 00:57:26,600
Speaker 1: or I got one eye open on this girl like

1261
00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:29,880
Speaker 1: lesbians are gonna do. With the heart says with the

1262
00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:32,439
Speaker 1: heart says sometimes it's not It don't even be about

1263
00:57:32,440 --> 00:57:34,400
Speaker 1: the coach. It's really the heart, and the heart is like,

1264
00:57:34,520 --> 00:57:36,840
Speaker 1: this is my person. I'm gonna be with them forever

1265
00:57:36,920 --> 00:57:39,760
Speaker 1: and they gonna make moves like that. So I mean,

1266
00:57:40,080 --> 00:57:44,200
Speaker 1: unless you don't like listen, seventy percent of a lesbian's

1267
00:57:44,240 --> 00:57:47,440
Speaker 1: life is being in relationships and then the other percent

1268
00:57:47,600 --> 00:57:49,800
Speaker 1: is being with your friends. If you want more of

1269
00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:52,200
Speaker 1: your friend, then you might not need to be with

1270
00:57:52,280 --> 00:57:54,360
Speaker 1: a lesbian. You might not need to be friends with

1271
00:57:54,400 --> 00:57:56,520
Speaker 1: a lesbian. I'm just gonna get because Marie, isn't that true?

1272
00:57:56,840 --> 00:58:00,200
Speaker 1: Most of our friendship what I've been Buddha, Buddha.

1273
00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:04,360
Speaker 2: This is true. But also I remember the first girlfriend

1274
00:58:04,440 --> 00:58:06,800
Speaker 2: you had that I knew you.

1275
00:58:06,960 --> 00:58:07,000
Speaker 1: It.

1276
00:58:08,240 --> 00:58:10,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, we would hang out and you would bring her

1277
00:58:10,320 --> 00:58:12,720
Speaker 3: to almost all of the functions, and it was like, well, I.

1278
00:58:12,760 --> 00:58:15,320
Speaker 2: Thought I was hanging out with my friend, Okay, Marie.

1279
00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:16,880
Speaker 2: I wasn't bringing her to everything.

1280
00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:18,720
Speaker 1: It felt like she was coming to more things than

1281
00:58:18,760 --> 00:58:20,840
Speaker 1: she wasn't Marie, she was djaying our show and that

1282
00:58:20,960 --> 00:58:21,880
Speaker 1: was every Sunday.

1283
00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:24,240
Speaker 2: That's not before she was djaying Sydney. She was popping.

1284
00:58:24,320 --> 00:58:28,560
Speaker 1: You were bringing her around a lot a lot, and

1285
00:58:28,600 --> 00:58:31,200
Speaker 1: it'd be like, oh, and I liked her and she

1286
00:58:31,360 --> 00:58:32,960
Speaker 1: was cool like to hang out with and stuff, but

1287
00:58:33,120 --> 00:58:36,520
Speaker 1: like it did feel like sometimes I would think it

1288
00:58:36,600 --> 00:58:38,280
Speaker 1: was just gonna be us hanging out and she would

1289
00:58:38,280 --> 00:58:40,320
Speaker 1: also be there with you, and it was like I

1290
00:58:40,320 --> 00:58:40,680
Speaker 1: would just.

1291
00:58:40,840 --> 00:58:41,880
Speaker 2: I would not just bring her.

1292
00:58:41,920 --> 00:58:44,080
Speaker 1: I would be like, hey, you know such and such

1293
00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:47,880
Speaker 1: is coming. Sometimes you would just bring her and you'd

1294
00:58:47,920 --> 00:58:48,880
Speaker 1: be like, you guys are cool.

1295
00:58:48,960 --> 00:58:51,000
Speaker 2: You guys get along, Like what's the problem. And it

1296
00:58:51,120 --> 00:58:55,320
Speaker 2: was like, okay, girl, all right, I don't remember. I

1297
00:58:55,400 --> 00:58:55,960
Speaker 2: don't recall.

1298
00:58:56,200 --> 00:58:58,080
Speaker 1: So you were literally we're literally talking about how you

1299
00:58:58,120 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 1: said seventy percent of a lesbian relates relationships and thirty

1300
00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:02,640
Speaker 1: percent of you.

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Speaker 2: Try to mush the two. To god, when we were

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00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:10,480
Speaker 2: hanging out, your person was with you all the time. Yeah,

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00:59:10,520 --> 00:59:12,240
Speaker 2: and then she's like, ya, gotta pick my way over.

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Speaker 2: I said, I sure am.

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Speaker 1: Even though it was only thirty percent of you, I

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00:59:16,680 --> 00:59:19,080
Speaker 1: mean it's one hundred percent, like literal me. By myself,

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00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:21,000
Speaker 1: I was more than thirty percent of me.

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00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:27,840
Speaker 2: It was seventy percent me and like fifty percent her.

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Speaker 2: You really smushed them, you, Oh.

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Speaker 1: No, girls, Sometimes y'all just gotta be blended. It's a

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Speaker 1: blended family.

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Speaker 2: Why think you should talk to your friend? I think

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Speaker 2: you should be like a siss.

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Speaker 1: It feel like you're moving kind of fast, especially if

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00:59:39,480 --> 00:59:41,000
Speaker 1: Fiona is still living with her.

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Speaker 2: Yo, that is fucking yo. Throw everybody away, everybody gotta go.

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Speaker 2: This is great.

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00:59:46,560 --> 00:59:51,000
Speaker 1: They're young, they're very young. They're like twenty six, twenty six,

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00:59:51,360 --> 00:59:54,880
Speaker 1: and this is Austin twenty seven. Yeah, this is young behavior.

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00:59:55,360 --> 00:59:58,320
Speaker 1: And because ain't no way, ain't no way we're gonna

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Speaker 1: be broken up with and like you still dating while

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01:00:01,920 --> 01:00:04,439
Speaker 1: you in the house. They broke up in November, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: no way, and she's leaving at the end of January. Hey, sis,

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Speaker 1: happy black history money. Yes, it seemed like you about

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01:00:10,480 --> 01:00:14,680
Speaker 1: to get your papers, your freedom. You can't wait till February, right, Oh,

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01:00:14,760 --> 01:00:16,479
Speaker 1: because you know what, you got a pre date before

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Speaker 1: you actually date.

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Speaker 2: That's how that's how we're doing it. Yes, bro, you

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01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:21,200
Speaker 2: because you dusty, You.

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01:00:21,320 --> 01:00:23,640
Speaker 1: Like you don't really you have known are like you

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01:00:23,680 --> 01:00:27,320
Speaker 1: don't really know how to approach somebody's you rusty.

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01:00:27,800 --> 01:00:30,000
Speaker 2: But I think it's dust as well. No, when I

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01:00:30,080 --> 01:00:31,880
Speaker 2: think dust I think of that guy that didn't have

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Speaker 2: electricity at.

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Speaker 1: His Oh no, girls, that's that's unhoused. Like he had

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Speaker 1: a house, but it was unhoused, inered.

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Speaker 2: It's like having a home with no wall. Yes, Oh,

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Speaker 2: but that's an open concept, isn't it.

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01:00:44,600 --> 01:00:51,000
Speaker 1: No, that'side outside open floor concept. Is that what it is?

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01:00:51,160 --> 01:00:54,320
Speaker 2: Not an open floor plant. I'm talking about the actual

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01:00:54,360 --> 01:00:57,560
Speaker 2: structure of a house. But there's no walls. Oh I

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01:00:57,760 --> 01:01:01,240
Speaker 2: love the open concept. You see this.

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Speaker 1: This is lesbian mad because I was like, I can't

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Speaker 1: take somebody who don't have no walls, and the city's like,

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01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:11,880
Speaker 1: oh the god said, But as somebody who dates men,

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01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:14,000
Speaker 1: I'm just assuming the house ain't got no wall.

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01:01:14,360 --> 01:01:16,040
Speaker 2: You don't want to date somebody who doesn't have walls.

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01:01:16,160 --> 01:01:19,520
Speaker 2: You have all the walls in your heart exactly. So why.

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Speaker 1: If my heart can have walls your home? Why you're

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Speaker 1: on mess you are here, You're in the hot seat

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01:01:29,360 --> 01:01:33,000
Speaker 1: of mess. Yeah, I mean listen, it is what it is.

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Speaker 1: This has been a has been a mess. No, this

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Speaker 1: has been a magnificent mess. Magnificent mess.

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Speaker 2: And thank you. Thank you for being such a message

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Speaker 2: with me. Messy.

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Speaker 2: We're going to do it. What are we going to make? Shirts? Riders?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Sadny hat sucks you all, Decals, Plan b we

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