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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Oh hey kat oh Hi, Hi, how's la. It's really gloomy?

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Speaker 3: Oh is it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because like June gloom Oh yeah. So I packed

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Speaker 2: like sun dresses and baiting suits, did not look at

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Speaker 2: the weather before I came. And it's been like the

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Speaker 2: high of sixty five.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow.

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Speaker 2: But it's been so great though. Filming has been really

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Speaker 2: fun and the kids are having a blast, like so

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Speaker 2: much fun. And then after today we're going to hit

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Speaker 2: up Universal. We're gonna with Aquarium tomorrow and then yeah,

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Speaker 2: and then we say our goodbyes and then I head

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Speaker 2: off to the middle.

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Speaker 4: Of nowhere and they'll go home and you go, ye yeah.

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Speaker 2: Because they've they've got a time with their daddy beach Tuck. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so they'll have fun. So it's been a great it's

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Speaker 2: been a great time. Yeah. And I only almost puked

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Speaker 2: one sunset.

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Speaker 4: Hey, that's not bad.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I need cheese and they're like ooh,

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Speaker 2: because I was like, I just have one small request,

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Speaker 2: like can we just get to have like some string

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Speaker 2: cheese on set? And they're like, yeah, no problem. And

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Speaker 2: then I asked for cheese and they're like, oh, the

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Speaker 2: crew ate it and I was like, it's been so fun. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's been really fun.

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Speaker 4: Yeah I'm so glad. So that's good.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, wait no, not stop right now. I need

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Speaker 2: to hear about the Bahamas and the Nick day. I

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Speaker 2: need to know everything. What happened? Did you give it

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Speaker 2: to him? Tell me?

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Speaker 4: Now? Okay, Well it was great. It's great vacation.

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Speaker 5: It's kind of anything but relaxing at Atlantis, just because

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Speaker 5: it's a lot of walking.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's also kids. It's like a family vacation isn't

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Speaker 2: truly relaxing exactly.

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Speaker 5: So it's like the water park. All that was all great,

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Speaker 5: but he gets his day.

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Speaker 4: Okay. I mean a lot of days I was just

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Speaker 4: like whatever y'all want to do.

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Speaker 5: I didn't really care because it was like beachpool, water park, whatever.

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Speaker 5: But this one day I was like, okay, you get

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Speaker 5: your day, Like what do you want to do? And

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Speaker 5: he was like, I want to go into town. He's

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Speaker 5: like I just like want to go and like see

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Speaker 5: like get regular clothes on and just like go to town.

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Speaker 4: I'm like okay, great.

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Speaker 5: So he goes up front to the thing and he's like,

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Speaker 5: where would be a good place to go, and they're like, well, here's.

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Speaker 4: Like our downtown spot. Go there. He's like all right,

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Speaker 4: So we get in a cab.

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Speaker 5: We go, and you know, he's got like a certain

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Speaker 5: amount of cash on him. You know, it's like forty

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Speaker 5: bucks to get like two minutes away, and then he's

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Speaker 5: got a certain amount of cash he's going to give

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Speaker 5: the kids to spend.

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Speaker 4: While we're there.

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Speaker 5: Well, we get there. It's the most touristy spot ever

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Speaker 5: because all the ships, all of the cruises right shop thing.

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Speaker 5: So first of all, he hates crowds. He doesn't really

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Speaker 5: love being around a lot of people. So anyway, so

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Speaker 5: we get there, it's really hot. We find this straw market,

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Speaker 5: which is like his version of hell because it was

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Speaker 5: literally like ever, like a hundred three hundred people selling things,

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Speaker 5: so like the kids are something, every little thing, wanting

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Speaker 5: to buy everything.

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Speaker 4: Anyway, it ended up being like probably one of the worst.

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Speaker 2: Us So lesson, don't give your husband then to pick

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Speaker 2: a day.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so the next day I was like, what do

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Speaker 5: you want to do? He's like, I make bad decisions.

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Speaker 2: Just side just pick guess who just walked in?

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Speaker 1: Who Mark Hi?

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Speaker 3: Here is.

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Speaker 1: Hikin? How are you.

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Speaker 4: I'm jealous.

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Speaker 5: I'm good.

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Speaker 4: I wish I was there.

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Speaker 1: I was I thought you might be, and I'm sad

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Speaker 1: that you're not.

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Speaker 2: Oh, and here comes Katy.

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Speaker 1: Oh to talk.

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Speaker 4: I have a bone to pick with you in a minute,

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Speaker 4: but let's let's talk to you. Oh.

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Speaker 2: I love it.

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Speaker 6: Hi, Mom, guys, she's here. We got a girl. A

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Speaker 6: lot can happen between Wine Down episodes.

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Speaker 2: Yes, thankyo. How are you feeling?

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Speaker 6: I feel good. I mean the fact that I know

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Speaker 6: what day and time it is makes me feel like

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Speaker 6: I might be winning.

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Speaker 2: Sweet. This is Baby's first podcast those delivering Everything went good.

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Speaker 6: Yes, it went really well. I mean hashtag blessed because

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Speaker 6: it can be crazier. But I labored a lot longer

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Speaker 6: with her than I did with the other two. So

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Speaker 6: it just my body is really hurting still, which is

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Speaker 6: I feels so lucky. I've bounced back pretty quickly with

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Speaker 6: the other two and this one I'm definitely having to

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Speaker 6: like pay close attention and list in my body. But

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Speaker 6: it's probably meant to be that way anyways, because that's

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Speaker 6: what you're supposed to do. Well.

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Speaker 2: Apparently Catherine has a bone to pick with us, so.

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Speaker 4: Maybe probably does.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, why am I out?

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Speaker 6: Well, you're actually out because you've been a really loyal.

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Speaker 2: Oh because I didn't say the name.

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Speaker 4: You told her not to tell?

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Speaker 2: No, No, I just actually didn't.

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Speaker 6: This is the first time I counted on her telling

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Speaker 6: and she didn't tell.

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Speaker 4: What's the date? June fourteenth?

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Speaker 5: Okay, so about the thirteenth, I was like, man, like,

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Speaker 5: there's no way she's still pregnant. I heard nothing. No

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Speaker 5: one said a word. So I like, send her a

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Speaker 5: little message on Instagram. I'm like, are you still pregnant?

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Speaker 5: And then in the middle of the night, she was like,

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Speaker 5: Jane didn't tell you.

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Speaker 4: It's like all the stuff.

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Speaker 6: Listen that cat's not even like how are you or

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Speaker 6: how are you feeling? She's like, are you still pregnant?

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Speaker 6: What's happening?

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Speaker 4: I knew nothing.

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Speaker 2: Here's the deal. I thought you would just text Queendom

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Speaker 2: and be like, she's here, so that's your thing to tell.

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Speaker 2: So you know, I guess.

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Speaker 6: Now we are making big progress.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 6: Let me agree.

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Speaker 4: She was like, Jana really didn't tell you.

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Speaker 5: I was like, do I seem like someone that knew

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Speaker 5: that you had a baby in like any of the information?

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Speaker 4: No, she did not tell me.

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Speaker 2: Well, Hey, so KB Mark's here in the in the

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Speaker 2: in the house.

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Speaker 1: Hi, congratulations, that's beautiful. What are we allowed to know?

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Speaker 1: Can I know her name?

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Speaker 6: Your podcast? Grand baby Mark?

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Speaker 1: That's weird. It's getting into a weird The metaphor is.

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Speaker 6: Getting a little to podcast dad.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, I get that.

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Speaker 3: I get it.

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Speaker 1: I do understand it. It's just getting weird. Yeah, what these.

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Speaker 4: People already think it's a little weird.

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Speaker 1: What is her name? Can I know that? Or No?

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Speaker 6: Her name is Lion l I O N Wow. We

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Speaker 6: went for it. Yeah, and middle name is Lockhart, little

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Speaker 6: Lion Lockhart.

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Speaker 1: Lockhart's a family name.

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Speaker 6: It is not. It actually comes from this trip we

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Speaker 6: took to Paris in August. Last year was just a

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Speaker 6: harder year on marriage for us, and we took this

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Speaker 6: trip to Paris and we did the lock Bridge and

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Speaker 6: like working super hard. So we felt like she is

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Speaker 6: the redemption story for a lot of that. So she

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Speaker 6: just carries a big meaning.

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Speaker 1: Lion Lockhart is a hell of a name, if.

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Speaker 6: I may say, I mean, it's it's badass.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it is.

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Speaker 2: She's going to be a singer or something in lights.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, watch this one, watch this one. Be like you

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Speaker 6: know what, I think, I'm just going to be a dola,

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Speaker 6: a doctor, so legend sweet, like we give her this name.

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Speaker 6: That's like like just be like the sweetest thing on

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Speaker 6: the base of the planet.

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Speaker 2: But it well, there's a lot of babies happening. Mark

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Speaker 2: just saw Mark here. Check out the baby.

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Speaker 1: Wow a look at that. Wow.

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Speaker 6: That third one comes in hot, doesn't.

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Speaker 1: It's coming in so hot, all right, because the body's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: we get this, we know how this works. Bam.

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Speaker 2: I have a question for you. Oh please, when you

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Speaker 2: were doing did you know it all?

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Speaker 1: I knew nothing, really, no, I knew nothing.

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Speaker 2: So like when I got engaged, really she's probably pregnant.

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Speaker 1: No I didn't. I mean I know. I mean when

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Speaker 1: you were saying announcements and we were brainstorming, that was

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Speaker 1: pregnancy was an option that came up. You said engagement.

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Speaker 2: How I do it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah it is?

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Speaker 2: Don't you call it?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Thank you you too?

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Speaker 1: Thank you? No, you look great, thank you. It's great

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Speaker 1: to see you. It's been years. I think since we've

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Speaker 1: seen each other. Yes, yeah, you look fantastic.

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Speaker 6: Thank you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, all.

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Speaker 2: Right, we'll get to have far longer, you know, sixteen seventeen.

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Speaker 2: Well when this air seventeen.

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Speaker 6: Yeh that's crazy. Yeah so fast?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well it doesn't feel that way. But I'm like,

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Speaker 2: can I just stop being nauseous? Please?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Is this a rough one?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Have they all been rough?

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Speaker 4: Yep?

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Speaker 1: Just kind of your thing we.

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Speaker 6: Just did going back?

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Speaker 2: No, we are done and we're done.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you can say that.

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Speaker 2: Oh with this?

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Speaker 3: Yeah done?

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Speaker 2: This is it one, like gazillion percent. I got my

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Speaker 2: boob thinking I was done a year two.

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Speaker 1: What I'm saying you thought you were done? Then you

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Speaker 1: think you're done now you might not be done.

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Speaker 2: No, No, I'm like take every organ out you possably

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Speaker 2: can when you're in there?

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Speaker 1: Is he gett?

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Speaker 2: No, I'm having heard all done? Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Oh I guess that's final. That isn't it?

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Speaker 2: It's final?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Because I always say delivery Yeah, tye, whatever you got

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Speaker 2: because kat you didn't do that, did you.

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 4: She gave me that option and I didn't.

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Speaker 2: And I'm glad because she gave me the option too.

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Speaker 2: Well burn, KB.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, the third baby is really something that.

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Speaker 2: Are But I'm very excited. I'm very happy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, with all of your decisions, you're happy.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely not, no one percent? Are you kidding me? That

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Speaker 6: I would like to advocate for this, like I'd like

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Speaker 2: No, I've traumatized people to now not have kids because

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Speaker 2: of my delivery on podcasts. Why did I do that?

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Speaker 2: I did too many stupid things.

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Speaker 1: Don't I love that say that, Yes, you're all in

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Speaker 1: I mean, how cool that is all in on a podcast.

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Speaker 1: We do a lot of podcasts here, and it's like

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Speaker 2: Well, let's do it. Thing, twist my arm, let's do it.

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Speaker 2: One million percent. And you know that I most likely

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Speaker 2: how are you feeling?

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Speaker 6: How are you feeling? Speak louder right here?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 2: Maybe I am, though, gonna see if remember that I

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Speaker 2: The feeling of not feeling my legs gives me such anxiety.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I can't even imagine that. Plus they're slicing into you.

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Speaker 1: I think it's all high anxiety.

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Speaker 1: I know I'm helping, but I think I'm trying to empathize.

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Speaker 1: I think she's I would have this anxiety too, is

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Speaker 6: Yeah, take hey you guys, so Mark is take off.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 2: It was funny because I told my doctor, I go,

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Speaker 4: Did they just give you like drugs or do they

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Speaker 2: They didn't act. I mean, I was like I was awake,

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Speaker 2: but like loopy okay, yeah, but I would like to

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Speaker 2: that I want to be like I would like to

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Speaker 2: go under?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, good go.

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Speaker 6: This is very la. I'm not I don't like this.

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Speaker 2: Well, They're like, don't you want to? Like you know,

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Speaker 2: I was like, I'll I'll see her for him right.

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Speaker 1: After a lot for the next twenty years.

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Speaker 2: I want to do this.

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Speaker 1: My wife got the epidural. Yeah, and it didn't take.

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Speaker 1: It was a it was a trainee being taught by

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Speaker 1: it was just a bad deal. No, yeah, she felt

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Speaker 2: Wow, yeahs her anxiety.

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Speaker 1: You know what, it's so much better. It's still it's

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Speaker 1: She's more but sure now. But we're so much better

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Speaker 1: It's really good.

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Speaker 2: I love it. This is great because I.

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Speaker 1: Realized at a certain point that, you know, she's never

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Speaker 6: I want to put this on the things I wish

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Speaker 1: Mark, Oh, well, I have said that to her, So

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Speaker 6: That's really wonderful and responsible, and just like that ownership

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Speaker 1: We just weren't we We would see the flame and

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Speaker 1: we would just throw gasoline on it. Yeah, we were

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Speaker 2: I remember with Jace, I was like, what it is like,

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Speaker 2: just put the shirt on because of the SPD. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I didn't understand that the tags were ching him in this.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, well, I don't understand. Just put your shirt on.

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Speaker 2: Being calm and being like, all right, what shirt would

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Speaker 1: You don't know. You've never been through this. I never

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Speaker 1: dealt with it, My wife never dealt with it. Ourselves

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Speaker 1: we just didn't know what to do. Sure, now we do. No,

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Speaker 1: you do, No, We're better.

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Speaker 2: Oh, there you go, guys. Let's take a break and

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Speaker 2: then we're gonna get Kendra Wilkinson on. All right, So

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Speaker 2: we have Kendra Wilkinson coming on the show. She is

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Speaker 2: on a show right now called Kendra Sells Hollywood Season two.

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Speaker 2: It's out now on Max. You might know the name

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Speaker 2: because she was one of Hugh Hefner's girlfriends and she

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Speaker 2: Did you guys watch that?

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Speaker 6: I was a loyal watcher and I watched Kendra on top.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I watched both of them too. I loved Kendra

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Speaker 2: because she was just out of all the girls, she

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Speaker 6: That's why I was like, it's weird because I'm not

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Speaker 6: in my life. Yeah, she's very sweet. I have an

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Speaker 2: Oh, no, did you liked did he have like a

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Speaker 2: Playboy magazine or over an x an ex lover? Have

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Speaker 2: a Playboy magazine with Kendra on the front.

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Speaker 6: No, it's my current husband. He did a music video

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Speaker 6: with Kendra long before me. It was back when they

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Speaker 6: were Low Cash Cowboys. But I remember likes.

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Speaker 2: Is literally pulling up the picture right now.

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Speaker 6: It's it's when the first time I ever googled my husband.

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Speaker 6: I was like, let me just get like whatever dirt

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Speaker 6: how does one date someone who's like been around someone

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Speaker 2: I mean, wait, what's the headline? Say Easton? Because I

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Speaker 2: Kendra Wilson Kendrick Wilkinson clears up rumors about going topless

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Speaker 2: and low Cash Cowboys video.

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Speaker 6: So I just want to welcome everyone to my life.

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Speaker 2: Wait, so she was topless in the video.

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Speaker 6: I don't I didn't watch the whole vendeo, but now

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Speaker 2: I don't think now's the time you're holding your baby's.

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Speaker 4: It sounds like she wasn't topless.

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Speaker 6: You're holding your baby, your postpartum and fragile. Let's not

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Speaker 6: google that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and Easton's gonna watch it, so we'll let you know.

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Speaker 2: We'll give you the updates. In about two seconds, I'll

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Speaker 2: report back. He's always needed, always got. I'm sure nothing

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Speaker 6: Wow, they were low cash cowboys.

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Speaker 7: I mean, I'm just kind of skimming it. It seems

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Speaker 7: I think it's I think it's all good.

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Speaker 6: They were in their Bachelor era. It's fine.

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Speaker 2: I think it's I mean, yeah, because again, you didn't

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Speaker 2: even know. Now if he was to do that something

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Speaker 2: like that, now, what would you say.

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Speaker 6: Oh that would not be happening now, No, ma'am nope, nope,

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Speaker 6: times there changeing. We're all set there.

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Speaker 2: So did you guys know about her relationship to with Hank? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: her husband, Okay. In twenty fourteen, news broke that Hank

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Speaker 2: Bassett had an affair with a transgender model while his

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Speaker 2: So and then they did the show, right, they were

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Speaker 2: I caught like an episode of two or two of

448
00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:38,480
Speaker 2: The Girl on Top.

449
00:19:39,440 --> 00:19:44,119
Speaker 6: So Kendra on Top was when they were married, and.

450
00:19:44,080 --> 00:19:47,760
Speaker 5: I think it probably happened probably while they were.

451
00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:49,600
Speaker 4: Filming the show.

452
00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:50,840
Speaker 6: Hank was on the show.

453
00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:53,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, they were together on the show Kids and Everything

454
00:19:53,520 --> 00:19:57,359
Speaker 5: for years, though, I mean it was several seasons, but

455
00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:59,080
Speaker 5: I don't know like the whole timing of when it

456
00:19:59,080 --> 00:19:59,960
Speaker 5: happened during the show.

457
00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:03,479
Speaker 2: But well, we've got some questions we're going to ask her,

458
00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:05,159
Speaker 2: So let's take one more break and then we'll Getkendra

459
00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:20,520
Speaker 2: Wilkinson on. All right, Well, we're so excited to have

460
00:20:20,600 --> 00:20:22,679
Speaker 2: Kendra on. And I was just pre chatting with the

461
00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:27,240
Speaker 2: girls back home in Nashville. But basically what I was

462
00:20:27,280 --> 00:20:31,480
Speaker 2: saying is, you know, I the reason I have always

463
00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:34,280
Speaker 2: loved you and liked you, especially from the show that

464
00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:37,160
Speaker 2: you were on on E was because, out of everyone,

465
00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:40,720
Speaker 2: you've always seen like the most authentic person, like the

466
00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:42,960
Speaker 2: only person I could really like relate to, and you're

467
00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:46,840
Speaker 2: just you say it like it is. And the girls

468
00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:52,280
Speaker 2: completely agreed. KB. Down there is guys, she loves you.

469
00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:55,160
Speaker 3: Thank you for having me.

470
00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:57,440
Speaker 6: Do you love you? I don't even like reality TV.

471
00:20:57,720 --> 00:20:59,840
Speaker 6: I did a little tiny shorts and an MTV show

472
00:20:59,880 --> 00:21:01,720
Speaker 6: and I kind of like left a taste in my mouth,

473
00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:05,480
Speaker 6: and so I never reality TV until there was Kendra

474
00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:07,840
Speaker 6: Wilkinson in my life and then I followed you on

475
00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:10,880
Speaker 6: all the shows like you're just a fun chick.

476
00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:13,639
Speaker 3: Oh thanks, and you know not, it's it is an

477
00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:18,800
Speaker 3: authentic journey. So it's you know, some I've noticed fans

478
00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:21,480
Speaker 3: will like me one year and hate me the other

479
00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:23,159
Speaker 3: and come back another and you.

480
00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:27,720
Speaker 6: Know it's, well, Janna knows nothing about that.

481
00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:29,840
Speaker 2: Not at all. But it's interesting is you actually did

482
00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:32,400
Speaker 2: a music video with her husband low cash cowboys.

483
00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:36,480
Speaker 3: Oh my god, oh my no way.

484
00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:40,280
Speaker 6: Yeah, Preston the one that was say a grand theft

485
00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:42,240
Speaker 6: during the time was that's my.

486
00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:46,400
Speaker 3: Husband, Oh my god, small world.

487
00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:49,960
Speaker 6: Tiniest world, cutest blonde. I was just like I remember

488
00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:53,280
Speaker 6: googling him for the first time and being like, oh great,

489
00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:54,919
Speaker 6: like I can deal with a lot of history. But

490
00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:58,280
Speaker 6: then I was like, this is a freaking video with Kendall,

491
00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:00,000
Speaker 6: Like that does one even follow up?

492
00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:04,159
Speaker 3: Oh my god, that was a fun experience doing a

493
00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:07,040
Speaker 3: country music video. I think I liked that more than

494
00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:12,920
Speaker 3: a rap video. At the rap video, I was like country.

495
00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:17,080
Speaker 3: I was just I could be very dirty and wild

496
00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:20,480
Speaker 3: and wild in mud. I was rolling around and really

497
00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:22,000
Speaker 3: was that the music video?

498
00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:24,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, it was thank you for saying in mud because

499
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:27,840
Speaker 6: for a minute, I was like, okay, alright, But then.

500
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:32,119
Speaker 3: I've been in nickelback video and that was the Actually

501
00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:34,280
Speaker 3: low Cash was really fun. That was the Yeah, that

502
00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:37,479
Speaker 3: was the main chick in that. But that was a

503
00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:40,280
Speaker 3: fun experience. We flew out. I flew out to Nashville

504
00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:45,240
Speaker 3: for that music video. I spent like a few weeks

505
00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:49,119
Speaker 3: there and I just had the best time. It was

506
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:51,879
Speaker 3: so much fun. I spent my birthday there and I'm like,

507
00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:58,320
Speaker 3: where's the moonshine? All I wanted was moonshine and it's

508
00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:01,640
Speaker 3: like a thing, you know. So then we just got

509
00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:04,359
Speaker 3: we we had just got done filming the music video

510
00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:08,679
Speaker 3: rolling around in mud, and next thing you know, we

511
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:14,840
Speaker 3: had a nice, authentic bottle of moonshine. Good. Yeah, So

512
00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:17,240
Speaker 3: when were you were you in the picture at that

513
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:18,480
Speaker 3: time or no?

514
00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:21,360
Speaker 6: Tell me no, I wasn't think I think this is good.

515
00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:23,920
Speaker 6: I'm getting nervous about where the story keeps going.

516
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:27,560
Speaker 3: Oh no, no, no, trust me. I don't you said on

517
00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:30,119
Speaker 3: my own brand, I don't go and dating or looking

518
00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:30,760
Speaker 3: or anything that.

519
00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:31,399
Speaker 1: Stuff like that.

520
00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:33,479
Speaker 6: No, I love you. No, I was way after that.

521
00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:35,680
Speaker 6: We've been married. We've been together for almost nine years.

522
00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:39,840
Speaker 6: Oh cool, congratulations, had a little baby, our third baby

523
00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:43,359
Speaker 6: last week. So we're really just like we're just really

524
00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:45,280
Speaker 6: mom and daddying up over here off the road for

525
00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:46,480
Speaker 6: a minute, which is nice.

526
00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:48,199
Speaker 3: Congratulations.

527
00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 2: Do you still talk to the girl the girl's next door.

528
00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:55,960
Speaker 3: No, No, we fell out of touch a long time ago.

529
00:23:57,400 --> 00:23:59,600
Speaker 2: I feel like, was it just like too much, like

530
00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:02,400
Speaker 2: too much of a sorority?

531
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:05,080
Speaker 3: Yeah? You know I was there from the ages of

532
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:09,920
Speaker 3: eighteen through twenty three, and can you remember those years?

533
00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:11,720
Speaker 3: I mean it was like ateh.

534
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 2: I got married, I got divorced, I met a guy

535
00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:16,280
Speaker 2: for like a week and got married to Yeah. Like

536
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 2: those ages, you're just yeah crazy.

537
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:22,920
Speaker 3: You're just kind of entering life not thinking, and you know,

538
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 3: people are going to college, like you said, going to sororities.

539
00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 3: It was like the time I struggled as a teenager bad, badly,

540
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:36,159
Speaker 3: you know. So when I got invited to live at

541
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:40,239
Speaker 3: the Playboy Mansion, it was like, oh my god, I

542
00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:44,640
Speaker 3: get to live here. Like and go crazy and party

543
00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:47,919
Speaker 3: and just get what. Oh my god, I used up

544
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:50,840
Speaker 3: every minute of that place and just enjoy it and

545
00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 3: just partied my ass off, right, And that's what I

546
00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:58,240
Speaker 3: was there for, nothing else, And so you know, if

547
00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:01,400
Speaker 3: nobody was partying, I didn't really care who what else

548
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:05,080
Speaker 3: was going on? Sure, and I had boyfriends outside the

549
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 3: mansion the whole thing, and.

550
00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:08,200
Speaker 2: He half was totally fine with all that.

551
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:10,240
Speaker 3: I just did what the fuck I wanted to do.

552
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:10,479
Speaker 6: Well.

553
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:12,280
Speaker 2: I think again, that's why people like you, because you

554
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:13,200
Speaker 2: just were like.

555
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 6: Gender for president and saying it.

556
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:18,239
Speaker 3: I you know, I just did what I wanted to do,

557
00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:19,800
Speaker 3: and I no one ever said anything.

558
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 6: That's a cool experience though, too. I mean, like eighteen,

559
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:24,879
Speaker 6: I know it's like hard because it was documented, but

560
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:28,440
Speaker 6: like really incredible that you just like lived your life.

561
00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:32,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was a wild time. And you know, again,

562
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:35,080
Speaker 3: I struggled as a as a teenager.

563
00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:36,600
Speaker 2: I what did you struggle with?

564
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:40,439
Speaker 3: Just oh my god, I was suicidal. I was in

565
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:44,120
Speaker 3: psych wards. I was like, you know, I quit selling

566
00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 3: cocaine at the age of fifteen. I was a runaway.

567
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:54,800
Speaker 3: I mean I had a really rough, rough teenage years,

568
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:58,639
Speaker 3: but I pulled myself out of it, got better, chose life,

569
00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:01,119
Speaker 3: and next thing you know, I'm at the Playboy Mansion

570
00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 3: and it was it was it was fun for me too,

571
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:08,640
Speaker 3: and it was a safe place for me coming out

572
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:11,840
Speaker 3: of where I was. I mean, I was selling coke

573
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:12,920
Speaker 3: at the age of fifteen.

574
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:14,520
Speaker 2: You know, where did that come?

575
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:14,840
Speaker 4: Like that?

576
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:16,919
Speaker 2: Where did that stem from? Was that just? Was it

577
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 2: the upbringing? Because I don't know much of your early upbringing.

578
00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:20,360
Speaker 2: Life was that?

579
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:23,000
Speaker 3: I mean, it had no one's to blame for anything.

580
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 3: Life just happens, you know. I just I'm like just.

581
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:26,879
Speaker 2: The crowder that you were.

582
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 3: I didn't really blame anything. Like I'm a free spirit,

583
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:36,120
Speaker 3: and sometimes free spirits can can become lost souls. And

584
00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:38,680
Speaker 3: I am It's either I'm a free spirit or I'm

585
00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:41,480
Speaker 3: a lost soul in some and to this season of

586
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:45,760
Speaker 3: my of my show at Kendrisseall's Hollywood, I was battling both.

587
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 3: I was a free spirit, lost soul, free you know.

588
00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:50,240
Speaker 3: So you see a lot of emotions this season on

589
00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:53,720
Speaker 3: my show because I didn't know who I was this year,

590
00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:55,840
Speaker 3: I was like, God, what does God want for me?

591
00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:59,600
Speaker 3: Like what? It was so hard to transition from how

592
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:02,720
Speaker 3: the world once knew me into a whole new world

593
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 3: of real estate. So it was so hard to transition

594
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:10,880
Speaker 3: and change that because you at the end of the day,

595
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:15,320
Speaker 3: I don't care what people think, but what how people?

596
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 3: You know, people weren't picking up that I was really

597
00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 3: doing real estate, and it really took a huge toll

598
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:24,200
Speaker 3: on me. They're like, oh, you're just that girl from

599
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:28,399
Speaker 3: that mansion. It was so bad and it's not okay

600
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 3: that we do this to each other, like we you know,

601
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:33,680
Speaker 3: we have a right to grow out of phases and

602
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:36,880
Speaker 3: we have to support each other, like.

603
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:39,200
Speaker 2: Like, you shouldn't be typecasted in just the one thing, yeah,

604
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 2: or the one headline or the one role or that,

605
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 2: like you you know, you've found love for real estate.

606
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:46,560
Speaker 2: It's like you want to be taken serious.

607
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 3: For yeah day totally. And you know, I'm known on

608
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:54,440
Speaker 3: one hand, I'm known to be a fun personality and

609
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:59,680
Speaker 3: a show biz expert, and now you're taking a fun

610
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 3: while free spirited person and you're putting that personality into

611
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:08,119
Speaker 3: real estate now where it's professional and clean cut and

612
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:10,919
Speaker 3: you have to be an expert at everything you know,

613
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 3: and I you know, so it takes a second from

614
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:18,119
Speaker 3: going from wild to professional and class and clean.

615
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 6: Right.

616
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:23,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I'm balancing both worlds right now because sometimes,

617
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 3: you know, I'm I'm who I am, and what you

618
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:31,159
Speaker 3: saw through all these years is real. It's just that

619
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 3: now I have to, you know, in front of the world,

620
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:38,360
Speaker 3: clean it up and just really get serious in business.

621
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:42,720
Speaker 3: You know, I don't want to be just a personality anymore,

622
00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:46,680
Speaker 3: and it's important for myself and my kids to you know,

623
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:50,440
Speaker 3: get this going and really enter the real business world.

624
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 2: So why real estate too, Like, was that just something

625
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 2: you've always loved or like, yeah.

626
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 3: I mean I've always loved real estate, but it all

627
00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:02,840
Speaker 3: happened when I found myself years out of work. I

628
00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 3: was struggling badly alone with two kids, and I had

629
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:11,600
Speaker 3: all these friends, but no one's gonna hold my hand

630
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 3: and say, here you go, here's some money. So I'm like,

631
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:18,840
Speaker 3: I think I should start to figure out what I'm

632
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 3: gonna do next. I had applications into colleges and stuff

633
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 3: like that. I was looking into pharmaceutical sales. So TV

634
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 3: never really influenced, you know, all these shows never really

635
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 3: influenced my decision to do real estate. So people like

636
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 3: to think that, but it is so far from the truth.

637
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 3: I don't even want I don't not turn my TV on, right.

638
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 2: Well, but I think it's cool though that you're showing

639
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:44,720
Speaker 2: on the show, you know, again, the real life. And

640
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 2: then I mean, you know, we talked and you were

641
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:48,720
Speaker 2: just like I'm closing a deal today, like it's high stress,

642
00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:53,160
Speaker 2: high anxiety, and you know, you're you're busting your butt,

643
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 2: like this isn't just some like Okay, show up to

644
00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:57,960
Speaker 2: set and like, let's pretend to sell this house. You're

645
00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:00,479
Speaker 2: like no, no, I'm like, oh I am selling, and

646
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 2: I'm oh, yeah, I feel like some of some of

647
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 2: those shows, right, they're not like I've been told there's

648
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:06,400
Speaker 2: some fake deals.

649
00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 4: Right.

650
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 3: Well, all I know is I cannot fake sh right.

651
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:15,840
Speaker 3: I'm the worst actor ever. And so I said to

652
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:18,960
Speaker 3: the production, you know, I started Real Estate with no show,

653
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:21,400
Speaker 3: and the show asked me to do the show. And

654
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:23,480
Speaker 3: then it all came back, which was really exciting. So

655
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 3: then we started to talk about it, me and the producers,

656
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:29,200
Speaker 3: and I'm like, you know, there's no way I can

657
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 3: really fake this journey. I cannot celebrate something that's not real,

658
00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:36,640
Speaker 3: or I can't cry over something that didn't happen. So

659
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:39,959
Speaker 3: I have to go through the real journey. So if

660
00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:43,280
Speaker 3: I don't sell a house, that's the story. And I'm

661
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 3: okay with that because I'm not here to fake sit right,

662
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 3: so like, and I don't think that's beneficial in any

663
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 3: way to inspire women, because a lot of women I

664
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:57,520
Speaker 3: know need a fresh start in their lives and they

665
00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:00,720
Speaker 3: don't know how. And so I took one for the.

666
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 2: Especially single moms too with kids. Single moms, Okay, I gotta.

667
00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 3: Support my kids exactly, And they spend their whole lives,

668
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:10,080
Speaker 3: they spend every inch of their energy putting into their

669
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:12,960
Speaker 3: marriages and their kids, and they lose track of time

670
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:16,040
Speaker 3: and they don't know how to, like, you know, get

671
00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 3: back out there and and and and put one for

672
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:23,040
Speaker 3: for themselves anymore. And so I took a risk, and

673
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 3: I said, this is what I'm doing this for. You know,

674
00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:28,240
Speaker 3: I could have easily gone in and said like, oh

675
00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 3: my god, I'm a celebrity in real estate. I'm like, no,

676
00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 3: you know what, I'm gonna play this real. And I

677
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 3: hope to inspire women to know that it's okay to

678
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:45,400
Speaker 3: start something new at any age. You know, we are

679
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 3: told by society, not told, but society pressure that we

680
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 3: are too old to do something that I'm pissed at that. Dude,

681
00:31:56,920 --> 00:32:00,760
Speaker 3: we gotta fight and and know it's a okay we

682
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:04,600
Speaker 3: It's okay for us to start something new and fail

683
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 3: a few times. It's a part of it. And so

684
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 3: that's what I'm doing. I'm showing that it's you know,

685
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:13,320
Speaker 3: that's that's the way it goes, I think, and because

686
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 3: I know that I have what it takes to succeed.

687
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:20,239
Speaker 3: And I'm telling you, I wouldn't do that if I

688
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 3: didn't know I had what it takes to succeed. I

689
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 3: closed a deal today, Yeah you did, girl, and with everything,

690
00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 3: like the show is awesome and it's amazing, but you know,

691
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:38,680
Speaker 3: it's it's a part of it. It's important to be

692
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 3: okay with knowing how to fall. And that's what I'm

693
00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 3: trying to show. I know I'm going to succeed, so

694
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 3: it's okay to show the world that, like, wow, this

695
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 3: is this, this is hard, and I suck right now.

696
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,080
Speaker 3: And I suck at this right now because guess what

697
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 3: now everyone's going to be an expert over So it

698
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 3: takes years. I mean I was just on KTLA this

699
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:10,600
Speaker 3: morning and I was being asked questions that like experts

700
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:12,719
Speaker 3: answer and I'm sitting here on the spot like, oh

701
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:14,360
Speaker 3: my god, how how am I going to answer this?

702
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 3: How am I gonna answer? And I just you know,

703
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 3: it takes so long to just talk. And so I'm

704
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 3: very lucky that I'm very lucky. I'm very blessed that

705
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:27,240
Speaker 3: I have everything going on right now because I spent

706
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 3: years on the ground in the dark end cave.

707
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 2: But I think, I just think that's such such a

708
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:38,160
Speaker 2: good message too, because I know Catherine and Kristen, like

709
00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 2: we you know, we're all in our forties about to

710
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 2: be and it's one of those things where it's like, well,

711
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 2: I just I'm I'm past the point of like it's like, no,

712
00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 2: you're not like KB, go try something society to do

713
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 2: what you want to do. Are you about to say something?

714
00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:55,680
Speaker 5: Well, I was just gonna say with real estate, especially

715
00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 5: like did it take you a couple of years? Like

716
00:33:57,720 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 5: was it hard to get clients? I mean, it's not

717
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:02,880
Speaker 5: just doesn't happen overnight, you know. I Mean it's like

718
00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 5: that's the other thing, like I know a lot of

719
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 5: women in their forties. I have a lot of friends

720
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 5: who are starting real estate now. But I think they

721
00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 5: get frustrated because it's like it's hard. I mean it's

722
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:13,520
Speaker 5: hard clients.

723
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, it in.

724
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 4: A little while.

725
00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:19,719
Speaker 3: It's hard. First of all, you really you have to

726
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:22,800
Speaker 3: you know, it's it's there's a lot of competition out there.

727
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:25,879
Speaker 3: You know, it's not so it's not a long time

728
00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:28,319
Speaker 3: to go to school for real estate. You know, a

729
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 3: lot of people can enter the real estate business. It's

730
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:36,200
Speaker 3: just a lot of competition out there. And every everyone

731
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:39,080
Speaker 3: knows like five people in real estate. So it's it's

732
00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:41,760
Speaker 3: it's it you have to bring something to the table.

733
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:45,200
Speaker 3: You know, you have to do be yourself pretty much.

734
00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:51,520
Speaker 3: Be yourself, you know, build relationships. Uh you know. And

735
00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:53,440
Speaker 3: my first sale that you see on my show, this

736
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 3: was was an amazing relationship. It started before the show,

737
00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:01,800
Speaker 3: so it was authentic. Was a real relationship that happened

738
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 3: before cameras came up and we were able to capture

739
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:08,120
Speaker 3: it on camera, but the relationship started off a camera

740
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:11,239
Speaker 3: and they were and they and the the mom, I know,

741
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:14,239
Speaker 3: she really genuinely just wanted to support me and my

742
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:18,640
Speaker 3: new business, and it was so incredible. So as as

743
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:23,839
Speaker 3: I'm moving forward and breaking down these walls and succeeding

744
00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:26,759
Speaker 3: I'm going to be forming my own way as well.

745
00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:28,919
Speaker 3: I'm going to be reaching my hand out to people

746
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:32,400
Speaker 3: that were in my shoes. I think it's so important,

747
00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:36,080
Speaker 3: you know, we they're they're it's so important to to

748
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:38,799
Speaker 3: look at someone and be like, you know, I want

749
00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:40,920
Speaker 3: to give you a chance. You know, I want to

750
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:45,839
Speaker 3: just offer you a chance because or we continue to

751
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:49,280
Speaker 3: give to one person, and you know, that's the economy.

752
00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:52,960
Speaker 3: We have to support our neighbors, we have to support moms,

753
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:57,160
Speaker 3: you know, people that deserve a second chance, third chance, whatever.

754
00:35:58,160 --> 00:35:59,920
Speaker 3: You know, in real estate, it's a good place to

755
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:02,880
Speaker 3: support other people. Yeah, you know, it's a good place

756
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:04,640
Speaker 3: to look at someone be like, you know what, I

757
00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 3: want to give you a chance. I want it's a

758
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 3: good it's a good place to do that.

759
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree with you on that. I mean I

760
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:14,959
Speaker 2: don't I don't know the real estate market at all.

761
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:17,359
Speaker 2: But what again, what I love is that like you're

762
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 2: showing the different side you're not just like it's not

763
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:24,279
Speaker 2: made up and you bring you know, when we were

764
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:26,600
Speaker 2: talking in the green room, like you have anxiety, and

765
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:28,959
Speaker 2: it's like that's things that people struggle with because again,

766
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 2: like work is hard, the pressure of life is hard

767
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:34,360
Speaker 2: in kids and being a mom, Like, how do you like,

768
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:35,560
Speaker 2: how do you balance your anxiety?

769
00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:35,840
Speaker 6: What do you do?

770
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:37,439
Speaker 2: Because we talk about anxiety a lot on the show

771
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 2: because I've struggled with it for.

772
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:40,879
Speaker 3: Years, but you get it.

773
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 2: What is like, what's your kind of what do you

774
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:45,360
Speaker 2: do to help you walk that path?

775
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:53,359
Speaker 3: Yeah? No, I battle with you know, anxiety depression big time,

776
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:57,839
Speaker 3: big time. I am alone with two kids. I don't

777
00:36:57,880 --> 00:36:59,439
Speaker 3: like to stay I'm saying, because that at all the

778
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:01,799
Speaker 3: gates so and for men to come in out. I'm

779
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:02,440
Speaker 3: not really one.

780
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:07,239
Speaker 2: You're wanting to be single or just you okay right now?

781
00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just too Yeah, I just have too much

782
00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 3: on my plate right now to look at someone or

783
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:17,000
Speaker 3: you know whatever. But you know, I like to flirt.

784
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:21,839
Speaker 3: I still look I'm human whatever, But right now it's

785
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:26,279
Speaker 3: about right now, in my current phase, it's about myself

786
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 3: and my kids. And you know, I did gain some

787
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:32,680
Speaker 3: weight during my birthday week this week, and I'm like happy,

788
00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 3: I feel good, I thank you, I feel good about

789
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 3: doing that. I walked out of yoga yesterday. I'm like,

790
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:41,720
Speaker 3: you know what, this the first time in my entire life,

791
00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:44,399
Speaker 3: I'm just too hot. I just want some cake, get

792
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:46,719
Speaker 3: me out of here. I walked down. I'm like, I

793
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 3: guess this is thirty eight, like.

794
00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:51,840
Speaker 2: A happy birthday. But do you feel that pressure to stay?

795
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 6: Yeah?

796
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:57,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's a lot of pressure for women period, just

797
00:37:57,440 --> 00:37:57,920
Speaker 3: to well.

798
00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:00,239
Speaker 2: I think it's what we were used to too, right

799
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:02,600
Speaker 2: Like what like, I'm sure like you've had a body

800
00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 2: type that you have been used to, right, so, but

801
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:05,560
Speaker 2: we're gonna get older.

802
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 3: Things change, it does, but I'm entering that phase. I'm like, uh,

803
00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:12,239
Speaker 3: you know, I am alone, I have no nothing, and

804
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:15,960
Speaker 3: so like it's I have I can only spend so

805
00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 3: much time doing certain things, and I have a whole

806
00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 3: TV show, I have a whole real estate career, I

807
00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 3: have two kids. I have so much happening on my

808
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 3: plate that the last thing I think about is like

809
00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:32,400
Speaker 3: being on a workout plan right now, it's so hard

810
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:33,439
Speaker 3: I can't.

811
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:35,759
Speaker 2: I'm gonna butcher this saying. But someone's saying, there's there's

812
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 2: four different let's just call them h wells right where

813
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 2: it's like health, there's family, there's work, and then there's

814
00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:48,200
Speaker 2: there's one other. But like if you have to pick

815
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:50,520
Speaker 2: two of them, because only two can survive at the

816
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 2: same time, like you can not all four And I'm

817
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:54,279
Speaker 2: like someone's telling me that on set the other day,

818
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:55,920
Speaker 2: and I'm like, well, but like can't you have like

819
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 2: the health and the relationship and the work. But it's like,

820
00:38:57,920 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 2: if you really want to be good at something, like

821
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:03,080
Speaker 2: you gotta like the only two things you can really

822
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:04,839
Speaker 2: pick from. Like, I don't like that.

823
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:09,240
Speaker 3: I think it's true. I believe that else we're spreading

824
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:11,720
Speaker 3: ourselves way too thin and we're not really being present.

825
00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 3: We can, we're capable of doing that, and more and

826
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 3: more than any man can. We're capable of doing that women.

827
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 2: We are.

828
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:26,759
Speaker 3: But to remain probably mentally like you know, stable and

829
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,959
Speaker 3: peace and mindful, I think that we can probably only

830
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 3: accept two of those things. We can do those things.

831
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:36,560
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, there we go. It's the four burner theory says,

832
00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:38,439
Speaker 2: in order to be successful, you have to cut off

833
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:40,880
Speaker 2: one of your burners. In order to be really successful,

834
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:42,800
Speaker 2: you have to cut off too. So the first burner

835
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:45,279
Speaker 2: represents your family, the second burners your friends, the third

836
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:48,239
Speaker 2: burners your health, and the fourth burners your work. So

837
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:50,080
Speaker 2: when you look at it, you're like, well, health should

838
00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:53,279
Speaker 2: be you should that should be a burner. And then

839
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:55,400
Speaker 2: it's like, but you got your family, but then you

840
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:57,439
Speaker 2: also have to work and then so that's like where

841
00:39:57,440 --> 00:39:57,839
Speaker 2: it's hard.

842
00:39:57,920 --> 00:39:58,080
Speaker 4: Right.

843
00:39:58,120 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 3: Oh, health is gone.

844
00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:02,360
Speaker 4: I feel that so much. I'm like, that's why I

845
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:03,680
Speaker 4: don't have time for help.

846
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:06,480
Speaker 2: Who But I feel like that's what the problem is

847
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:08,880
Speaker 2: is in today's side, because like the mental illness is

848
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 2: on like the skyrocket. So I'm like, that is what

849
00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:15,479
Speaker 2: the burner should be the biggest focus on in order

850
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:17,839
Speaker 2: to then be good for the other burners around us.

851
00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:21,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, Unfortunately, like you know, we're in a probably survival

852
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:23,840
Speaker 3: survival times.

853
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:26,359
Speaker 2: And sure, I mean I get that. Like the other day,

854
00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:28,600
Speaker 2: I'm set even this is a stupid example, but I'm

855
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:30,800
Speaker 2: like I was starting to feel nauseous and sick, so

856
00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:33,000
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh crap, I haven't drank or eaten anything today,

857
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:35,320
Speaker 2: Like I gotta I have to like take care again.

858
00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:38,280
Speaker 2: You're working, so then that burner's like burnt out, Catherine,

859
00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:39,399
Speaker 2: I see you think it over there.

860
00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:42,799
Speaker 5: Well, I was just I literally was thinking about, like

861
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 5: you're really good, Jana at doing all of those, but

862
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:50,640
Speaker 5: you're right, when you're working, you'll just work through and

863
00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:53,400
Speaker 5: not eat right, and that's not healthy either, you know,

864
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 5: because it's like, let's just work through like we got

865
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:56,839
Speaker 5: work to do. We got so I think it is

866
00:40:56,920 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 5: it's really hard to do them all extremely successfully.

867
00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:02,120
Speaker 4: So I think it makes sense.

868
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean, look, if you can if you can think,

869
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:07,200
Speaker 3: in my opinion, if you can think about eating one

870
00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 3: thing healthy a day, in my opinion right now, in

871
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:12,959
Speaker 3: my phase, that's good enough. So if I can get

872
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:15,960
Speaker 3: like a like right for instance, yesterday out I had

873
00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:19,319
Speaker 3: the busiest day and I had some celery and I

874
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:23,680
Speaker 3: had some garlic whip from uh Whole Foods. And that's

875
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:27,040
Speaker 3: literally win it was. And honestly I just shoved in

876
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 3: my mouth real quick and that was health, you know.

877
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 3: And so some green juice if you can every now

878
00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:40,680
Speaker 3: and then, and and if I could just walk, yeah.

879
00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:42,640
Speaker 2: They say, Max, God, I'm gonna do this again East

880
00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 2: and you're gonna be googling this for me.

881
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:44,760
Speaker 3: Max.

882
00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:47,920
Speaker 2: I can never pronounce his last name, leg Lagarve, Lagarve.

883
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:51,400
Speaker 2: He said, if you walk, I'm gonna again and butcher it.

884
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 2: But he just posted about it in his Instagram, like

885
00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 2: if you walk thirty minutes four times a day, like

886
00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:58,000
Speaker 2: what that does for not only like just your overall

887
00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:01,400
Speaker 2: health and your mental like it's everything just thirty minutes.

888
00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:03,279
Speaker 3: Well, i'll tell you. I'll tell you, Like you know,

889
00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:04,839
Speaker 3: I didn't really I don't really open up a lot,

890
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 3: but I will with you right now. I mean, I

891
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,800
Speaker 3: do open up. The whole show is about me being

892
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:15,920
Speaker 3: vomited open. I was really struggling for a long time

893
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:19,240
Speaker 3: after my divorce, Like and you know, we're great co parents,

894
00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:23,200
Speaker 3: everything's really good. But I hit a huge depression. I

895
00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:25,439
Speaker 3: couldn't even get out of bed. It was like four

896
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:28,120
Speaker 3: years of like do I have to wake up? What's

897
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:30,479
Speaker 3: what's today? I didn't have any work, I had nothing

898
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:34,400
Speaker 3: going on, so I'm like, okay, what can I do today?

899
00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 3: And I literally just started like I just need to

900
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:42,080
Speaker 3: just walk out that door right now, So like, come on,

901
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:44,560
Speaker 3: come on. It was so hard to even walk out

902
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 3: my front door. That's how depressed I was. So I said, okay,

903
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:51,160
Speaker 3: come on, you can do this. Start walking. Okay, what's

904
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:53,840
Speaker 3: in the sky. Is there a bird? Yeah, there's a bird. Okay,

905
00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 3: come on, you can keep walking, keep walking. I was

906
00:42:56,560 --> 00:43:01,839
Speaker 3: that depressed, that bad, and I finally start walking. Then

907
00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:04,439
Speaker 3: I start walking up a hill. I'm like, oh my god,

908
00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:08,080
Speaker 3: this feels so good. Start walking, climbing up the sill.

909
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 3: I started kept going, kept going, kept going. Then I

910
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:13,759
Speaker 3: entered the top of the mountain and I took a

911
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:19,719
Speaker 3: look out and I'm like, oh my god, Okay, this

912
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:23,279
Speaker 3: is an accomplishment. That's all I had at that time,

913
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 3: besides my two kids. That's how weak I was. And

914
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:31,440
Speaker 3: that day led to another walk. That day led me

915
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 3: to walk into a real estate office.

916
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:37,759
Speaker 2: Hell yeah, so what I mean? You just had to

917
00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 2: You had to get up, you know. And when you're

918
00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:44,680
Speaker 2: in that divorced you know, it feels like your whole world.

919
00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:47,200
Speaker 2: I means, there's like a death. It's just it's just

920
00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 2: everything that you thought you knew and you know, I

921
00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:54,040
Speaker 2: don't know. I'm so glad to hear that you guys

922
00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:55,520
Speaker 2: are on their side. I feel like I'm the same

923
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:59,359
Speaker 2: with my ex. But having that like that trauma of

924
00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:02,680
Speaker 2: like the fairs, it's like it's really hard and trust

925
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:03,960
Speaker 2: is like, that's a that's.

926
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:06,680
Speaker 3: A well it was. I was so mad at myself

927
00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:08,359
Speaker 3: for a long time. At the end of the day,

928
00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:10,799
Speaker 3: it wasn't even him. I was like, why what did

929
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:12,600
Speaker 3: I do wrong? What did I do what? And I

930
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:15,799
Speaker 3: had to open up my whole life and existence. And

931
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:18,840
Speaker 3: I had to go really get into healing myself.

932
00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:20,120
Speaker 2: Because it has nothing to do with you at the

933
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:21,400
Speaker 2: end of because I did the same thing. I was like,

934
00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:23,279
Speaker 2: was I not pretty enough? Did I not do this?

935
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 2: Or do you know why? Why? But it's like it's

936
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:27,360
Speaker 2: not about us.

937
00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:31,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just you know, I know that, but I

938
00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:32,919
Speaker 3: had to. It really had me open.

939
00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:33,239
Speaker 5: Yeah.

940
00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:36,319
Speaker 3: I spent years just in darkness because I was just

941
00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:39,359
Speaker 3: what did I do? What happened? What what every day

942
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:44,440
Speaker 3: was like? I went back to re opening everything and

943
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:48,120
Speaker 3: and so you know, I just don't want to have

944
00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:53,000
Speaker 3: to go through another phase like that. So I prevent

945
00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:56,960
Speaker 3: myself from opening up to love again.

946
00:44:57,400 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 6: No.

947
00:44:57,680 --> 00:44:59,960
Speaker 2: See that's the piece where I'm like, but I can't.

948
00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:02,799
Speaker 3: I'm happy for you, no, but I.

949
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 2: Just like, you know, when you feel like you're on

950
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:07,319
Speaker 2: the other side of that, the healing and the you know,

951
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:09,560
Speaker 2: I know you said you do therapy and so but

952
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:12,080
Speaker 2: I still like, I would hate for you not to

953
00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:15,479
Speaker 2: feel love again because I feel like everybody deserves love.

954
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:19,840
Speaker 3: I agree, I agree. I just I think that like

955
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:26,279
Speaker 3: I'm finding other things that i'm I'm interested in, and

956
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:28,840
Speaker 3: I think i'm you know, I don't think I'm ready to,

957
00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:32,880
Speaker 3: you know, because I want to ask you. Here's a

958
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:35,560
Speaker 3: question for you. Go girl, now that you're in love again,

959
00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:40,759
Speaker 3: do you feel like when you do you feel like

960
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:44,600
Speaker 3: you have to you're entering this, this, this love and

961
00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:47,319
Speaker 3: this relationship. Do you always have do you have to

962
00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 3: have that part of your brain saying this this? What

963
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:52,040
Speaker 3: if this doesn't work?

964
00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:53,719
Speaker 4: I think that change.

965
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:56,279
Speaker 2: So it's interestingly and Kat and KB know this, but

966
00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:57,799
Speaker 2: like in the beginning, I'm like, well, but if it

967
00:45:57,800 --> 00:45:59,920
Speaker 2: doesn't work, because it's that's a defense for me to

968
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:04,480
Speaker 2: go okay. My track record the men that I've dated,

969
00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:06,799
Speaker 2: they mostly you know, the X, Y and Z, and

970
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:10,279
Speaker 2: so my defense was always right, Catherine, I'd be like, well,

971
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:12,200
Speaker 2: but if it doesn't work, like I'll be okay or

972
00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:17,080
Speaker 2: or But now it's just like, I don't let that

973
00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:20,080
Speaker 2: even come in. And I'm just like, I pray it

974
00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:22,640
Speaker 2: works and I'm not gonna I'm not gonna bring in

975
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 2: the like what ifs, because right now I'm just living

976
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:29,759
Speaker 2: in today and today I know he's loving, respectful man

977
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:30,440
Speaker 2: I've ever been with.

978
00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 3: That's amazing. I'm so happy for you.

979
00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:35,680
Speaker 2: Anything else, I'm like, that's I don't even want to

980
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 2: attract that, and it's like, yeah, it comes. I'll know

981
00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:41,080
Speaker 2: what to do this time, and I'm healthier. It's not

982
00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:44,000
Speaker 2: going to kill me like my divorce was trying to.

983
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:47,480
Speaker 3: Yeah. Oh well, I'm happy that you that you feel

984
00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:49,880
Speaker 3: that good. It's really amazing.

985
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:52,400
Speaker 2: I just would never want to like turn off and

986
00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:55,360
Speaker 2: be like just because my ex and all the stuff

987
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:58,840
Speaker 2: we went through. I I want to believe in the

988
00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 2: goodness yea, and the beauty and.

989
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:04,520
Speaker 3: Well you and you yourself is you are love.

990
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:07,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, and my kids are love and your kids are love.

991
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 6: Yeah.

992
00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:10,839
Speaker 3: And so it's so the get you know, and it's

993
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:12,799
Speaker 3: just a bonus that you have a person in your

994
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:16,160
Speaker 3: life that probably loves you and accepts you for you.

995
00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:16,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

996
00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:18,839
Speaker 3: And you know I have friends like that.

997
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:20,080
Speaker 6: You know.

998
00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:22,399
Speaker 2: You find it in different seasons and different Yeah, because

999
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 2: I found it in my tribe girls over there.

1000
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:30,640
Speaker 3: I just I'm just one. I'm so stubborn, and I

1001
00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:33,600
Speaker 3: just I'm not in the place to really compromise. So

1002
00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:35,960
Speaker 3: like all these opportunities that I have right.

1003
00:47:35,800 --> 00:47:37,960
Speaker 2: Now, all the burners, I got it. You got your

1004
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:40,520
Speaker 2: kinder sells Hollywood, and you got your kids.

1005
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:43,239
Speaker 3: Can you imagine like if I dated someone they're like, oh,

1006
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 3: can we go to go on a date night. I'm like, dude,

1007
00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:50,000
Speaker 3: I'm closing in a house right now, Like, you know,

1008
00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:53,359
Speaker 3: I don't have time to compromise on some dude right now.

1009
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 2: But we're gonna find you a businessman. Girl that doesn't,

1010
00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:59,920
Speaker 2: they'll bring the date night to you. Don't you snip

1011
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:01,680
Speaker 2: your nose up at me with the businessman.

1012
00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:06,399
Speaker 6: We need to find you a brokeer sis.

1013
00:48:08,239 --> 00:48:10,759
Speaker 3: We have to be careful because you know, Oh, I

1014
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:15,719
Speaker 3: on the season of the show Kendrisell's Hollywood, there's a

1015
00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:19,080
Speaker 3: scene where I was on the spot. There was a

1016
00:48:19,120 --> 00:48:21,920
Speaker 3: guy on the show this season, and it was really

1017
00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:26,319
Speaker 3: and it was really awkward because I really had to

1018
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:27,960
Speaker 3: make a decision if I would go on a date

1019
00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:32,719
Speaker 3: with him or not. I'm like, so I agreed only

1020
00:48:32,719 --> 00:48:35,279
Speaker 3: for show purposes. I'm like, I agreed to go on

1021
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:38,200
Speaker 3: a date with him for show, but then but then

1022
00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 3: I never ended up going.

1023
00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:44,520
Speaker 2: It's okay, that's okay, your gut.

1024
00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:47,600
Speaker 6: You know, I know I've got babies anymore, you can

1025
00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:49,960
Speaker 6: you just you know when you know, and you know

1026
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:50,319
Speaker 6: when you.

1027
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:52,160
Speaker 2: Don't exactly, and we don't have time to go on

1028
00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:54,240
Speaker 2: bad dates. I remember when I was doing the Howkral

1029
00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:56,400
Speaker 2: Summer or whatever, I was just like I'd rather just

1030
00:48:56,440 --> 00:48:58,840
Speaker 2: be on the couch or hang with my the queendom,

1031
00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:01,200
Speaker 2: like then go on the date that I know it's

1032
00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:05,960
Speaker 2: not going to be anything. Well, Kendra, thank you so

1033
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:08,799
Speaker 2: much for coming on. Everyone watch Kendra Sells Hollywood. Season

1034
00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:10,520
Speaker 2: two is out now on Max.

1035
00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:14,279
Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you so much.