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<v Speaker 1>life through baseball. You know, when life throws the curveballs

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<v Speaker 1>and knock him out of the park. Sometimes you step

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<v Speaker 1>up to the play, you swing and you miss, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's okay. Or sometimes you're the pitcher and sometimes you're

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<v Speaker 1>the catcher. Either way, you're gonna have a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>Those There are some famous sayings from baseball, and I

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<v Speaker 1>bring them up because the guy on the phone for

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update today his name is Matthew, and

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<v Speaker 1>he met the girl that he wants to call at

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<v Speaker 1>a co ed softball game. What's up, Matthew? How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty good? How about you? Guys? Pretty good? Were

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<v Speaker 1>you the pitcher or the catcher that day? I'm mainly

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<v Speaker 1>bats and h you know, play third base. But man,

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<v Speaker 1>your email said that you met the girl that you

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<v Speaker 1>want to call. Her name is Tricia. Yeah, yeah, she's

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<v Speaker 1>real sweet, okay, And it says here you met her

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<v Speaker 1>at a co ed softball game. How'd that work? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she was on the opposite team. M Yeah, so that's

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a little extra charm as well. Uh, let

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<v Speaker 1>me guess she was pitching to you, she struck you out,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you threatened to fight her. How softball friendly

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<v Speaker 1>softball games go? Yeah, physical violence is that how it

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<v Speaker 1>went down. It was more like when we all went

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<v Speaker 1>to the bar, then you threatened to fight her. There

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<v Speaker 1>was no fighting. No, okay, no fighting during the game

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<v Speaker 1>or afterwards. It's different than any co ed sports league

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<v Speaker 1>that I've been involved in. There's always a at some point.

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<v Speaker 1>But so you met her at the bar, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and had you had your eye on her like all game?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yes, all game for sure. What what about her

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<v Speaker 1>stuck out to you? Oh? I mean her her legs

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<v Speaker 1>just go on for days, you know, one of those

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<v Speaker 1>girls with legs all the way up to her. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so she was really good at the game, and on

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<v Speaker 1>top of it all, she seemed like a genuinely cool Rick.

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<v Speaker 1>So how did you approach her at the bar? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I grabbed her a drink and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>said congrats for whooping her ass, and you know, then

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<v Speaker 1>we just started talking about how long we had been

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<v Speaker 1>playing and then one thing led to another and I

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<v Speaker 1>ended up getting her number and we said it day

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<v Speaker 1>to go hiking. Was the hike? Oh it was great.

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<v Speaker 1>She met me where we were going to start out.

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<v Speaker 1>What'd you say? I mean, I heard you. I was

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<v Speaker 1>just like, what nice she met you? They're awesome. She

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<v Speaker 1>met you where you're gonna start that's better than you

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of the trail, I guess. And she

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<v Speaker 1>was just as awesome as the first time you met her. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>Like she did great on the hike and we were

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<v Speaker 1>able to talk. We weren't winded or anything. And I

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<v Speaker 1>mean at the end, like when we said goodbye, like

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know, if you know, a kiss was feeling

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<v Speaker 1>out but and I mean she was real sweaty. I

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<v Speaker 1>was real sweaty. I didn't know, like we kind of

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<v Speaker 1>just had a quick hug, but like it was still

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<v Speaker 1>like you felt that connection there and we made plants

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<v Speaker 1>for about a week later to go out again. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>so you guys had a second date. No, see, like

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<v Speaker 1>a day before she texted to cancel. She needed to

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<v Speaker 1>cancel for some reasons. But so I don't know. And

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<v Speaker 1>now it's like now I haven't really heard from her,

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<v Speaker 1>so kind of feel blown off. Have you tried to

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<v Speaker 1>reschedule that date that you had planned? I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I sent one or two texts just saying, hey, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>scheduling didn't work. Is next weekend good? You know? And

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<v Speaker 1>I I didn't really get an answer from any of that,

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<v Speaker 1>can I ask? I mean, just looking back at the

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<v Speaker 1>time you guys spend together between like the softball game

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<v Speaker 1>and the hiking, do you think that she also thought

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<v Speaker 1>of this as a romantic date. Well, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>would hope it would be kind of obvious because I

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<v Speaker 1>asked for her number. I said I would love to

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<v Speaker 1>get together. Like to me that that sends a pretty

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<v Speaker 1>clear signal of like, hey, I'm interested in you, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, even if like things go slow or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. Right, So, how long has

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<v Speaker 1>it been since you've heard from her? It's been over

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<v Speaker 1>a week since I talked with her, and she hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>responded to the two texts I sent. Oh, just a

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<v Speaker 1>sweaty hug at the end of the hike, that's all

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<v Speaker 1>you got. Yeah, yeah, right, Well play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>call her and get your second date update. Okay, thanks man?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, hanging rooking jubil in the morning update. I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta say I'm skeptical of you, Matthew Am I suspect,

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<v Speaker 1>yes you are. For what. Well, we do a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of these second date updates, all right, and everything always

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<v Speaker 1>sounds normal until we get the person on the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>and then something weird comes out. Okay, Now, you said

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<v Speaker 1>that you met this girl at a co ed softball game,

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<v Speaker 1>you went to the bar after, asked for a number,

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<v Speaker 1>and you guys went on a hike and had a

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<v Speaker 1>great time, and nothing weird happened. That is all true. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>if I call her and I find out that you've

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<v Speaker 1>been going to all of her games since then, dressed

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<v Speaker 1>up like no, no no, no, no, no, no no, buddy, I

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<v Speaker 1>will be I will Okay. That thought did cross my mind,

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<v Speaker 1>but I denied it. I didn't want to be a creeper.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, good. I picked you in the stands like

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<v Speaker 1>an NFL quarterbacks mom with her name on your shirt,

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<v Speaker 1>sitting there like go tri shot, that's my girl. So,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, you promise me you haven't done that.

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<v Speaker 1>I have not done that. All right, he still doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>trust you. Still, Still I'm a little weird of you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna dial the phone of her right now, though,

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<v Speaker 1>and get her on the phone and find out why

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<v Speaker 1>she's not calling you back. Okay, Hello, Hi is Tricia there? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>this is she. Hey Tricia, how are you? My name

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<v Speaker 1>is Jubil and I host a radio show called Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewel in the morning. Okay, I'm calling because one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners sent an email about you. His name

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<v Speaker 1>is Matthew, and he's sending us an email saying, you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are supposed to go out on a date and

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<v Speaker 1>then you stopped responding to him, and he wants to

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<v Speaker 1>know why he's sent an email about that. Why would

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<v Speaker 1>he do that? Because he liked you and he would

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<v Speaker 1>like to go out again, but you just stopped talking

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<v Speaker 1>to him. So he thought maybe we could help him

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<v Speaker 1>out and figure out the answer. Look, I am not

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable discussing us. If it's something way too personal, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to tell us. But if it's I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he wants to know he liked you a lot. You

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<v Speaker 1>got to put yourself in his shoes. You know how

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<v Speaker 1>frustrating it can be if you feel like you connected

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody and then they drop off. I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I get that. And he's a good guy. I totally

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<v Speaker 1>got that sense from him. Okay, so if he's a

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<v Speaker 1>good guy, then why aren't you calling him back? Look,

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<v Speaker 1>he was really cool. He's just not marriage material? Why

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<v Speaker 1>is he not marriage material? Did you guys get into

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<v Speaker 1>that conversation on your first date? No, No, we didn't

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<v Speaker 1>like talk about it, but like you could just tell

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<v Speaker 1>from the date you see immature or something. I mean, well,

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<v Speaker 1>like here's where I am. I am not getting any

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<v Speaker 1>younger and I absolutely want to get married someday and

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<v Speaker 1>he's just not going to be that guy. That is

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<v Speaker 1>really quick judgment to make after meeting someone just one time.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually we hung out twice. Oh okay, so two times

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<v Speaker 1>is enough for you to know that now you know

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<v Speaker 1>everything about him. How can you possibly know that he's

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<v Speaker 1>not marriage material after two hangouts? Because after the second

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<v Speaker 1>time we hung out, he took me back to his

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<v Speaker 1>car and his car was full of stuff, like piles

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<v Speaker 1>and piles, And are you saying that it was just messy,

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<v Speaker 1>like there was like garbage and stuff in it. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>like I didn't know, so I had asked. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, what's the deal with all your stuff? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you moving or something, and he said no, And he

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<v Speaker 1>said that he lives out of his van. He lives

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<v Speaker 1>in his van. Yeah, and he does it by choice.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean? I like, it's not that he's hopeless,

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<v Speaker 1>it's that he wants to be homeless. Yeah, he chooses this. Really.

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<v Speaker 1>What did he say to you to make you think that?

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<v Speaker 1>He said, Look, it's this really great situation. I choose this.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel it's better, I'm saving money. And I would

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<v Speaker 1>look in there and there is a mattress, there's a

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<v Speaker 1>juggle water hot plate. It's really weird. Normally, when you

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<v Speaker 1>see a van with a mattress in it on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date, that's a good sign. So you're saying you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to see him again because he lives in

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<v Speaker 1>his van. No, I don't know. I've been going back

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<v Speaker 1>and forth over this, like for the past few days

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<v Speaker 1>because like, he lives in a van. H. So you're

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<v Speaker 1>saying you don't want to move into a van. If

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<v Speaker 1>you guys ever got more serious, No, well, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. That's the thing. You don't know if you

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<v Speaker 1>want to move into a van, you might be willing

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<v Speaker 1>to move into a van. No, I definitely don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to live in a van, like that's the problem. But

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, don't you think, Okay, greanted, this is a

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<v Speaker 1>kind of an odd situation, but he has like a

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<v Speaker 1>regular job, right, He has a really good job, and

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<v Speaker 1>he makes like a ton of money, is to say

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<v Speaker 1>of it. All, Right, so the guy just likes to

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<v Speaker 1>live in a van. We seem really in love with

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<v Speaker 1>his a living situation. And if that's the kid, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to mess with it. You don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>make the guy give up his house, you know, exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>his green Vand well, Trisia, I do need to let

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<v Speaker 1>you know that Matthew is actually on the other line listening,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe in his van right now, and he wants to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you. What. Yeah, Matthew there, Oh yeah, yeah, hey, Trisia.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I am not in my van. Just

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<v Speaker 1>to clarify, I'm I'm in my office. I'm at work

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Well that's good now. Yeah, I'm just really

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<v Speaker 1>surprised because like when we went out, I mean, you

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<v Speaker 1>you seem to think it was really kind of cool

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<v Speaker 1>what I was doing. Yeah, I said it was cool

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<v Speaker 1>when I was looking at it, because I didn't just

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<v Speaker 1>want to tell you it was weird. Right off. They Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>now you're just one eighty on this, So I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>I'm confused, Matthew, think about it. I mean, how could

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<v Speaker 1>a girl see a van? I think I want to

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<v Speaker 1>stay the night with him. I'm not sure where I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to go to the bathroom if i have to go.

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<v Speaker 1>But since owning a van and living out of it

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<v Speaker 1>is awesome, I have this freedom that everybody else is

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<v Speaker 1>dreaming about. I say, all this money, it keeps going

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<v Speaker 1>in the bank when everybody else is spending and going

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<v Speaker 1>into debt on these houses that we can't afford, and

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<v Speaker 1>they're never in because they're always at work all day

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<v Speaker 1>for them. I mean, what's the point of it. The

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<v Speaker 1>point is to actually have a place where you could

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<v Speaker 1>hang out, not something that you can like drive from

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<v Speaker 1>point A to point B like your home, traveling everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>That means I can hang out everywhere, Trish, hang out

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<v Speaker 1>like the world is my home, and Trish, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>living in the stone age with this. Like I've got WiFi,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I can run things off this generator, like

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<v Speaker 1>I have electricity. I have the basic things that I

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<v Speaker 1>need and stay connected with the world. I can work

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<v Speaker 1>remotely if I want to like he's got it all

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<v Speaker 1>figured out. Trisha. It just sounds weird to me. I

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<v Speaker 1>never pictured my boyfriend living in a van. But it

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<v Speaker 1>may be fun, Trisha. I mean it's definitely an adventure. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's the word for it. It is an adventure.

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<v Speaker 1>That would have been trying to tell you. I don't know, man.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you have a great personality, You're a really

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<v Speaker 1>cool guy, but the whole living in advancing is just

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<v Speaker 1>a giant turn off for me. Just give it a weekend, Trisha, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>can you're going on a luxurious camping trips two nights

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<v Speaker 1>and I will convince you. I promise two nights. That

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<v Speaker 1>is a big ask, sir. So you want me to

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<v Speaker 1>spend two nights in your van when we've only been

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<v Speaker 1>on one official date together. You're the one who was

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<v Speaker 1>thrown around the marriage word of you know, needing to

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<v Speaker 1>find marriage material. So like, two nights is not going

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<v Speaker 1>to kill you. I mean, I say two nights is

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<v Speaker 1>a drop in the plank. In that case, Tricia, would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to go out with Matthew on a second date?

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for it. I mean, I guess the

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<v Speaker 1>date would be two nights in his van. But whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out with him again? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still kind of on the fence about it. I

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<v Speaker 1>am going to say no to two nights in the van.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just up to hanging out with him again. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you'll go out on a date with him, but

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<v Speaker 1>you won't sleep in the van. Yes, I will go

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date. I will not spend the two

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<v Speaker 1>nights in a van. Well, congratulations, Matthew. That's a successful

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<v Speaker 1>second date. I can work with that, all right, So

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<v Speaker 1>you guys go out on your date. Matthew, you try

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<v Speaker 1>to convince her that living in a van is better

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<v Speaker 1>than living in a house. And I wish you both luck. Tricia,

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<v Speaker 1>freedom is in our future. You got a text it

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<v Speaker 1>at seven eight, five nine two about the second day

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<v Speaker 1>update that just says business in the streets, road trip

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<v Speaker 1>in the sheets. Kind of makes sense if you missed

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<v Speaker 1>today a second date update, Uh, Tricia. This dude met

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<v Speaker 1>Tricia at a co ed softball game and then they

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<v Speaker 1>went on a hike and she wasn't calling him back.

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<v Speaker 1>So we got Tricia on the phone and she said

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<v Speaker 1>that he's not marriage material and the reason why is

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<v Speaker 1>because he lives out of his van. Yeah, it's by choice.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not homeless. He has a great job and makes

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of money. But I guess this dude, his

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<v Speaker 1>name's Matthew by the way, lives out of his van

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<v Speaker 1>by choice. Yeah. He says he does it because he's

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<v Speaker 1>saving a ton of money and he has a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of freedom. Yeah, and he's not tied down by any

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<v Speaker 1>houses or anything like that. He can just move his

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<v Speaker 1>van around wherever, just like a lot of people do.

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<v Speaker 1>Look up hashtag van life all over the place. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure. And I guess they did go out, though

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<v Speaker 1>they agreed to go out uh with She said she'd

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<v Speaker 1>go out with him, but turned down his offer for

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<v Speaker 1>two nights of staying in the van. So she doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to stay in the van, but she would go

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<v Speaker 1>on another date, mostly because he probably has a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of extra money to spend or something. I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to warn her. I dated a guy who lived in

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<v Speaker 1>his car, and after we broke up, we got in

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<v Speaker 1>a fight and he refused to leave. He just parked

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<v Speaker 1>in front of my house. And then I had another

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<v Speaker 1>guy show up the next day to go on on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with him. He's like, hey, there's some guys

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<v Speaker 1>sleeping in the car in front of your house. I'm like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't mind him. I don't know, that's weird. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I am home. Yeah, your home's actually in

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<v Speaker 1>my way right now. Yeah, you're hard to get rid

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<v Speaker 1>of when they can just move their house right in

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<v Speaker 1>front of your house. Yeah, good luck to those two.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh they continue their relationship. Maybe he can actually stay

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<v Speaker 1>in her house once in a while, like an RV

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<v Speaker 1>year a Winnebago. Yeah. Remember, if you want to do

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<v Speaker 1>a second day update, all you have to do is

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<v Speaker 1>email us and we will call the person who didn't

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<v Speaker 1>call you back. Ninety two point five