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Speaker 1: Jebels Second date Update. You can learn a lot about

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Speaker 1: life through baseball. You know, when life throws the curveballs

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Speaker 1: Those There are some famous sayings from baseball, and I

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Speaker 1: a second date update today his name is Matthew, and

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Speaker 1: he met the girl that he wants to call at

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Speaker 1: a co ed softball game. What's up, Matthew? How are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty good? How about you? Guys? Pretty good? Were

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Speaker 1: at a co ed softball game. How'd that work? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: me guess she was pitching to you, she struck you out,

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Speaker 1: and then you threatened to fight her. How softball friendly

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Speaker 1: softball games go? Yeah, physical violence is that how it

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Speaker 1: was no fighting. No, okay, no fighting during the game

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Speaker 1: But so you met her at the bar, yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: and had you had your eye on her like all game?

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, all game for sure. What what about her

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Speaker 1: So how did you approach her at the bar? Well,

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Speaker 1: to go hiking. Was the hike? Oh it was great.

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Speaker 1: What'd you say? I mean, I heard you. I was

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Speaker 1: just like, what nice she met you? They're awesome. She

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Speaker 1: so you guys had a second date. No, see, like

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Speaker 1: she's not calling you back. Okay, Hello, Hi is Tricia there? Yes,

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Speaker 1: and Jewel in the morning. Okay, I'm calling because one

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Speaker 1: is Matthew, and he's sending us an email saying, you

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Speaker 1: That means I can hang out everywhere, Trish, hang out

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