1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,600 Speaker 1: And then Steph walks by any kind of like pinches 2 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 1: her on the butt as she walks by. 3 00:00:16,520 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 2: Hello, Renette, Hello Caitlin. 4 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:18,640 Speaker 3: How are you. 5 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:22,239 Speaker 4: I'm very very good, actually, any particular reason for that 6 00:00:22,400 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 4: or no? 7 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:25,760 Speaker 3: I mean, yes, the enthusiasm is not normal. I'm usually 8 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 3: just very good. 9 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 2: But the year is kind of over as. 10 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 5: Far as a lot of work is concerned. 11 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 3: So I've been on the road, I feel like for 12 00:00:33,640 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 3: about five months, which I. 13 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 1: Think I have been. 14 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 3: I've been to Asian back twice in a month. I 15 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:42,880 Speaker 3: have just watched the New York Marathon, so I feel 16 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:45,559 Speaker 3: like I've sort of run that. So it's just I 17 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 3: had a great burger today. 18 00:00:46,840 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 2: So you know, life is good. 19 00:00:48,159 --> 00:00:48,959 Speaker 1: It's gone pretty well. 20 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:52,879 Speaker 4: You were very recently in Oklahoma City where you finally 21 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 4: track down one of the players coaches analysts Supercars who 22 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 4: I've been begging you to get on the show, Lindsay Davenport. 23 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 3: I did, yes, Lindsay, and I did a charity event 24 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 3: fundraiser in Oklahoma City for the Oklahoma City Tennis Facility. Actually, 25 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 3: so to help you know, some of the underprivileged kids 26 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:16,319 Speaker 3: there do what we love, which is played tennis and 27 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:18,559 Speaker 3: have a lifetime of tennis. So it was really fun 28 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 3: and raise a lot of money and thanks to Lindsay 29 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 3: being there. So yeah, and then I grabbed her and 30 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 3: I said, Linday, we had about an hour up our 31 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:26,920 Speaker 3: sleeve in the day. We were very full day, and 32 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 3: I said, perfect time lends for you to do the podcast. 33 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:30,759 Speaker 3: She was going to do it for me in Singapore 34 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 3: and then instead I grabbed in Oklahoma and it was great. 35 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:34,559 Speaker 1: It was great. 36 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 4: You guys have in a lot of ways, sort of 37 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 4: similar careers. You played at some of the same time. 38 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:41,400 Speaker 4: You talk a little bit about playing each other. You've 39 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 4: had excellent careers. You more story than her in the 40 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 4: commentating booth. That's something that she's been doing the last 41 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 4: couple of years. And now you're both coaches, which is 42 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 4: great because you talk about all of those things. 43 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, it is funny that our lives, our careers were 44 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 3: paralleled for a long time, except hers was. 45 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:01,320 Speaker 1: Way better than mine. I was gonna make you say that. 46 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm glad that you sort of said that. 47 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 3: You know, we had parallel careers, which is the biggest 48 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 3: load of shot I've ever heard. But she won a 49 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 3: lot more than I did and was an incredible singles 50 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 3: player obviously world number one for many many years and 51 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 3: a year number one. And yeah, we played against each 52 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 3: other once at the austra And Open, and we played 53 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 3: against each other in doubles a few times. But overall, 54 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:23,519 Speaker 3: I've known Lindsay for a long long time. And yeah, 55 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 3: both doing coaching and a lot of commentating. She's one 56 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:27,639 Speaker 3: of the best commentators in the game, that's for sure. 57 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 2: She really do enjoy listening. 58 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 4: You both are so technical, which is why like listening 59 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 4: to both of you. You guys really help those of 60 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:36,799 Speaker 4: us good or not, on the couches really understand what 61 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:39,520 Speaker 4: we're watching, which I think is the best possible thing 62 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 4: that a commentator could do. And but you both do 63 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 4: it really well. Lindsay is so funny. She's dropping f palms. 64 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:47,960 Speaker 4: She's a mom of four, and she's so cool. She 65 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 4: seems much more of the relaxed Californian vibe than you 66 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:54,960 Speaker 4: would get when you grew up watching her like I 67 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 4: did just watching her play like the greatest Wimbledon final 68 00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 4: of all time, for example, she's pretty chill and funny. 69 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, she's a southern cowgirl. But yeah, i'll tell 70 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 3: you what. One of the things that she was concerned 71 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:05,640 Speaker 3: about when I asked to do the pod, was You're like, Oh, 72 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:08,639 Speaker 3: I'm not I'm not funny. I want to be funny. 73 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:11,800 Speaker 3: Like you know, I'm like, wait till you hear some 74 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 3: of the stories that she tells. 75 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 1: They're hilarious. You're not gonna believe that. 76 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 4: All right, before we go, we should mention our illustrious 77 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 4: fashion correspondent. You and I have had the great privilege 78 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 4: of hanging out with her while she works on her 79 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 4: off season book. Can we Is she ever coming back 80 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:26,959 Speaker 4: to the podcast? 81 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:29,560 Speaker 3: You know, the Fashion Correspondent has taken a little time 82 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:31,640 Speaker 3: off and it's kind of a little bit annoying actually, 83 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 3: although she is actually quite close to me right now 84 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 3: in New York City, and I think we might have 85 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 3: to demand some further correspondence from her when it comes 86 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 3: to any fashion when it comes to New York. 87 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 1: I'll let that. 88 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 4: I'll let that silence speak for itself. When she asked 89 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 4: me if she could be the fashion correspondent, I said, 90 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 4: only if you're going to do it on a regular basis, 91 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 4: And you know, I'll let that speak for itself. All right. 92 00:03:57,640 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 4: We'll have to get around when she's back into town 93 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 4: giving us a full report on New York City and 94 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 4: the Upstate Writer's Retreat in which she finds yourself. But 95 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 4: until then, I guess you're gonna have to listen to 96 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 4: this Lindsay Davenport interview and laugh here asks. 97 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 5: Exactly enjoyed, everybody. 98 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 2: It's a beauty. 99 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 3: Hi, everybody, Lindsay Davenport is joining me for this episode 100 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 3: of the Racket Magazine. 101 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: From Oklahoma City. 102 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:30,720 Speaker 3: From Oklahoma City, where we are attending an event to 103 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 3: fundraise some money for the Ogahama City Tennis Center. 104 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:38,520 Speaker 2: So Lin's, first of all, thanks for joining me. I 105 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:39,560 Speaker 2: haven't really thought about what. 106 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:41,040 Speaker 3: I'm going to talk to you about, but I figured 107 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:43,120 Speaker 3: that between the tour of us, we have enough history 108 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:45,719 Speaker 3: we'll be able to get treat this without a lot. 109 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:48,279 Speaker 1: Of twenty what is it twenty six, twenty seven years. 110 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:50,960 Speaker 1: My first appro trum I played was nineteen ninety one, 111 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 1: So ninety one ninety two, I'm sure we would have 112 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 1: met for the four time. My first one I played 113 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:59,719 Speaker 1: was there Speer Terminent La Costa, so I was fifteen. 114 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 1: I had won the Nationals that summer in the eighteens, 115 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:05,839 Speaker 1: and they gave me a wildcard into qualities in San Diego. 116 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:08,280 Speaker 1: So played down there fifteen. 117 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:10,120 Speaker 5: God, what year was that? 118 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 1: Ninety one? 119 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:13,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I was, Yeah, I was already playing out there. 120 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 2: I was not long out there. 121 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:15,479 Speaker 5: Eighty nine. 122 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 2: I think it was my first wimbleder. Ninety nine had 123 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 2: been my first US Open. 124 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 3: But basically, what I'm saying and what you were both saying, 125 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 3: what we're both saying, is that we're both old. 126 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:23,599 Speaker 5: And we've known each other along. 127 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 1: We played a really long time ago we did. 128 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 2: I actually played you once in singles, right, is that 129 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 2: it at. 130 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 1: The Australian Open. Was that the only Yeah? I think 131 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 1: that was the only time. Yeah, you stopped shortly after, Yeah, 132 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:36,039 Speaker 1: not long. 133 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 3: After, a couple of years maybe after that. Yeah, it 134 00:05:38,279 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 3: was probably losing to you that threw me into retirement. 135 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:42,159 Speaker 5: Joking. 136 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 1: I remember that match. 137 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:45,240 Speaker 2: I was so freaking nervous playing you because it was 138 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 2: a big stage for me. 139 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:49,320 Speaker 3: Senecor ninety six, No what year it might have been 140 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:53,360 Speaker 3: something like that, ninety six or seven. It was a 141 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:56,480 Speaker 3: year I was playing pretty decently in singles and I 142 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:58,600 Speaker 3: had won my first round and then I played you, 143 00:05:58,640 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 3: and I was shitting myself and rather on rud Live 144 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:04,159 Speaker 3: arena and actually started playing really well, and I thought, 145 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:06,919 Speaker 3: oh my god, am I actually winning this set? And 146 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:09,320 Speaker 3: then I kind of reality really quickly, and you killed me. 147 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:14,360 Speaker 3: I want to know you come from a family of volleyballs, really, 148 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 3: how'd you get into tennis? 149 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:16,120 Speaker 2: And why? 150 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 1: It was a little bit by luck. You know, my 151 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 1: dad was a volleyball player. He met my mom playing 152 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 1: volleyball both. I had two older sisters they both played volleyball. 153 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 1: So I think in my family it was when as 154 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 1: soon as I got old enough, it was just going 155 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:31,600 Speaker 1: to play volleyball. I spent all my weekends at junior tournaments, 156 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:35,679 Speaker 1: which my mom ran. I spent weeknights at college volleyball matches, 157 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 1: which my dad was then officiating. So it was kind 158 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:44,039 Speaker 1: of our whole family's life revolved around volleyball. But you know, 159 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:46,839 Speaker 1: it was five or six and at those times, and 160 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:48,920 Speaker 1: spent even now, you don't start volleyball more to you 161 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 1: or organized volleyball tier nine to ten. Even getting older, 162 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 1: so it was okay, what are we gonna do with 163 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 1: Lindsay Until then, I like to be active, so tried swimming. 164 00:06:58,760 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 1: My hair turned green. I used to be. I was 165 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 1: a blonde when I was little. Uh yeah, yeah, I'll 166 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 1: show you photos of when I was little total toe head, 167 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 1: turned my hair green. I tried soccer and I got 168 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:15,040 Speaker 1: kicked in the shin and had to get stitches. I 169 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:17,760 Speaker 1: can't find the scar, and so I told my mom 170 00:07:17,800 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 1: I never wanted to play soccer again. And so then 171 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 1: it was like, oh yeah. So then it was like, okay, 172 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 1: there's a tennis clinic after school started in kindergarten, and 173 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 1: then just kind of kept going with the tennis. Wanted 174 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 1: to always play, played against the garage, and at the 175 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 1: time my parents really liked it because. 176 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 2: His sisters played against the garage. 177 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 5: Yeah. 178 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 1: I would come home and hit against the garage. Yeah, 179 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 1: that was my version of the wall. 180 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:44,600 Speaker 3: Don't you think that that Like most parents and even 181 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 3: kids to this day, I don't realize like how important 182 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 3: it is to hit against a wall. 183 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 1: And at the club that we had, my mom was 184 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 1: playing a little recreationally, there was also a wall, so 185 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 1: you know, back then, I mean we never had a babysitter. 186 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 1: I mean, I had two older sisters, and you just 187 00:07:57,360 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 1: seemed like in that era maybe more you followed your 188 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 1: parents everywhere and it was okay, we're going to the club. 189 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:04,960 Speaker 1: Mom has a tennis match. And I would just go 190 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 1: against the wall, and they had one at the club. 191 00:08:07,040 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 1: I would then come home and hit against the garage 192 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 1: and you just play and play and play. And that's 193 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 1: kind of just started this whole process of where I 194 00:08:15,320 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 1: separated myself from my family in a different sport. 195 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's I think it's so interesting why people end 196 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:22,560 Speaker 3: up where they are. 197 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 5: Right playing a sport. 198 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 1: You have everyone and I feel like that in tennis too, 199 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 1: there's everybody has this weird different story of how they started. 200 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:33,960 Speaker 1: I love the Williams sisters with Richard seeing it on TV, 201 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 1: it was like, that's what I want my daughters to do. Capriot. 202 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:39,760 Speaker 1: I remember telling a story how her dad was super 203 00:08:39,800 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 1: into it when she was little, had her doing sit 204 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:43,560 Speaker 1: ups at a really young age and started having her 205 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 1: play young and other players get into it accidentally, like myself, 206 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 1: and so I always find it fascinating to see the 207 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:54,160 Speaker 1: origin of why a player started playing. Something draws all 208 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:56,320 Speaker 1: of us crazy people to the sport and we're all 209 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 1: a little bit off and want to hit the same 210 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:02,439 Speaker 1: ball like a thousand times every afternoon. But I think 211 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 1: that's what kind of brings us at the end of 212 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:05,040 Speaker 1: the day altogether. 213 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:07,680 Speaker 3: What do you think is it about like a tennis 214 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:10,079 Speaker 3: or do you have a lot of parents come to 215 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:11,160 Speaker 3: you and go, how do I get my. 216 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 2: Kid to you know, what sports should I pick for them? 217 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:14,720 Speaker 5: Or whatever? 218 00:09:15,120 --> 00:09:16,679 Speaker 3: Do you think that with tennis it is such an 219 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 3: individual sport you have to sort of you have to 220 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:22,160 Speaker 3: have that personality where you're okay being alone a. 221 00:09:22,160 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 1: Little bit totally or a little most most players are 222 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 1: a little bit of a loaner or they're they're not 223 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 1: uncomfortable or afraid to be alone. Anyone who's really good. 224 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:35,440 Speaker 1: There's rare exceptions. I mean, Andre talked about it in 225 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:38,680 Speaker 1: his book. Most players love it because to want to 226 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:41,320 Speaker 1: get out there by yourself, and especially at the ages 227 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:44,439 Speaker 1: between like what do you think thirteen and sixteen, thirteen 228 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 1: and seventeen had time? Especially for I feel like for 229 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:50,840 Speaker 1: girls who maybe are getting more social or they start 230 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:53,000 Speaker 1: getting into other things, or like why would I want 231 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:55,480 Speaker 1: to go be on a tennis court by myself with 232 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 1: maybe getting yelled at hitting the same ball a thousand 233 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 1: times ites. 234 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 3: I think earlier like eight nine, ten, to be around 235 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:05,520 Speaker 3: on the kids on the tennis score oh. 236 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:07,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my gosh, Well you have to be you 237 00:10:07,840 --> 00:10:09,440 Speaker 1: have to be, but there comes a point when when 238 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:11,439 Speaker 1: you want to get better, it becomes a little bit 239 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:14,480 Speaker 1: more focused to just that player individually, and that's when 240 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 1: you see a lot of I feel like a lot 241 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 1: of teenage girls drop out. It's not that much fun. 242 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 1: So I feel one thing off topic is trying to 243 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:25,559 Speaker 1: get it more fun throughout this whole junior process. I mean, 244 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 1: we start the kids at seven years old, eight years 245 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 1: old playing a tournament match like a pro would play 246 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 1: a tournament match, and you're like, oh, what's the score? 247 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:34,839 Speaker 1: Don't And it's like, okay, let's just rethink the whole 248 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:38,960 Speaker 1: junior philosophy again another story, but have it more fun. 249 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 1: We'd keep more people in the sport. 250 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:44,680 Speaker 5: Who were you like pus growing up in juniors. 251 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:48,000 Speaker 1: In the juniors, Oh that's funny. So I remember playing 252 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:50,839 Speaker 1: a junior tournament in Fullerton. I was telling my husband 253 00:10:50,840 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 1: this the other day, and I was in the twelve 254 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:55,440 Speaker 1: and unders. My dad who six ' eight, He was 255 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 1: really big and loud, and he really took me to 256 00:10:58,360 --> 00:11:00,439 Speaker 1: like a few tournaments because you would get so loud 257 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:02,920 Speaker 1: and he would like get frustrated at me, but not 258 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:05,920 Speaker 1: like in a crazy tennis parent way, like oh, my gosh, 259 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:07,839 Speaker 1: how do you miss that? And I could hear him 260 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:10,600 Speaker 1: like three foots down. Yeah, he was really loud. So 261 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:12,560 Speaker 1: it didn't take me long to turn around and just 262 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:15,400 Speaker 1: be like, you're not taking me anymore. But he We're 263 00:11:15,400 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 1: at this one tournament in Fullerton, it's big Southern cal tournament, 264 00:11:18,440 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 1: and he yelled at me to come over and watch 265 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 1: Debbie Graham. Debbie Graham is also six foot two, played 266 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:27,359 Speaker 1: a big game. I think she had already signed with Stanford. 267 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:29,960 Speaker 1: She was like, you know, one of the top players 268 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:31,960 Speaker 1: in the eighteens, and he was like, you need to 269 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 1: watch her play. I don't know if I was. I 270 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:36,080 Speaker 1: don't know how many years between debiane I'm pretty sure 271 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 1: I was in the twelve nine. Yeah, the biggest, big 272 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:41,240 Speaker 1: serve and played a big style of tennis. Now I'm 273 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:44,560 Speaker 1: almost six ' three. I was always really tall for 274 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:47,080 Speaker 1: my age, so it was nice. I mean, my dad 275 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 1: was like, here is another really tall girl. Look at 276 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:52,640 Speaker 1: how well she's doing and how she plays. But funny 277 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:55,200 Speaker 1: I always say, is I was coming through kind of 278 00:11:55,240 --> 00:11:57,680 Speaker 1: making that transition. I mean I grew up with Chris 279 00:11:58,160 --> 00:12:02,480 Speaker 1: and Martina. They played completely different styles. For me, it 280 00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 1: really took Jennifer my same age. We're both born in 281 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:08,800 Speaker 1: seventy six. She broke through in the pro level at 282 00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:12,240 Speaker 1: thirteen fourteen. She was a bigger hitter. Mona Casellis was 283 00:12:12,280 --> 00:12:14,960 Speaker 1: a bigger hitter. Those girls. For me, when they started 284 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 1: breaking through and being successful, that gave me more hope. Okay, 285 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:21,559 Speaker 1: somebody other players that are hitting hard at this level 286 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 1: it's not about making every ball or it's not about 287 00:12:24,440 --> 00:12:27,480 Speaker 1: running everything down. It became more Okay, their hitters, they 288 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:28,040 Speaker 1: can make it. 289 00:12:28,160 --> 00:12:32,440 Speaker 3: How yep, God, you were, I mean for me and 290 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 3: still to this day, I think you are possibly the 291 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 3: purest hitter of the tennis ball I've ever seen. Like literally, 292 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:41,720 Speaker 3: I remember I think you and I played doubles at 293 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 3: one time and you hit oh my actually was in 294 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:45,240 Speaker 3: the aldi, so you know, we had a bit of 295 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:48,680 Speaker 3: an excuse. But if you actually framed a fullhand and 296 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:50,199 Speaker 3: you went, oh my god, I don't think I've ever 297 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 3: done that. I mean, but it's actually true. I mean 298 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:55,079 Speaker 3: for me, that's all I did on my fuehand was 299 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:58,080 Speaker 3: pretty much frame it. So I needed to, like, you know, 300 00:12:58,200 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 3: let you know that it's normal. 301 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:00,959 Speaker 2: But like. 302 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:05,920 Speaker 3: If you had to describe yourself, like what made you 303 00:13:06,559 --> 00:13:11,360 Speaker 3: a great player, Like, what's something that people probably don't realize? 304 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:12,959 Speaker 5: Like, I have my thoughts, but. 305 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 1: That's interesting. Uh, I don't love to self analyze. But 306 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:25,160 Speaker 1: I mean, obviously hit the ball well. I think I 307 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:28,440 Speaker 1: was pretty aware of my weaknesses, which I think you 308 00:13:28,520 --> 00:13:31,440 Speaker 1: have to be as a player, and knew that maybe 309 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:34,360 Speaker 1: covering the court and movement wasn't wasn't a strength. So 310 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 1: how do you then take that away? Got to hit 311 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 1: your targets. You've got to hit the ball well. I mean, 312 00:13:39,320 --> 00:13:41,440 Speaker 1: I grew up with Robert Lansdorp, who was like a 313 00:13:41,480 --> 00:13:43,840 Speaker 1: second father to me from the ages of eight to 314 00:13:43,920 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 1: about fourteen or fifteen, and we'd just spend hours sitting 315 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 1: the same shot, and it would be if I did 316 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:52,240 Speaker 1: not hit this tiny little target on the court, you know, 317 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:54,120 Speaker 1: I'd have to do it for hours until I could 318 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:55,920 Speaker 1: hit it time and time again. And so I think 319 00:13:55,920 --> 00:13:59,480 Speaker 1: it really taught me about placement. I don't know, you know, 320 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:02,480 Speaker 1: I didn't grow with a tremendous amount of self confidence. 321 00:14:02,520 --> 00:14:08,320 Speaker 1: I've always been a little bit insecure. It sometimes puzzles me, 322 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:11,520 Speaker 1: I think, I really, yeah, it puzzles to you why 323 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:14,400 Speaker 1: you were so good? Yeah, yeah, I don't know I 324 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:18,560 Speaker 1: liked playing. I think I took into tactic account tactics 325 00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:21,160 Speaker 1: more than people maybe thought, Yeah I know that about you. 326 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:23,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you were a really great student of the game, 327 00:14:23,160 --> 00:14:23,840 Speaker 2: which makes. 328 00:14:23,640 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 5: You a great commentaor. 329 00:14:24,560 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 1: Now we'll see, but uh, it just. 330 00:14:27,280 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 5: We don't need to see. 331 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 1: We saw I saw anyways, So would I would try 332 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:34,000 Speaker 1: and go out there actually with a really good understanding 333 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 1: of my opponent and what if things were happening maybe 334 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:39,720 Speaker 1: before the match, why that would be the case, try 335 00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:42,920 Speaker 1: to make those adjustments where I wanted to serve, and 336 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:45,720 Speaker 1: I tried to think more than maybe it appeared, But 337 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 1: I don't know. Everything happened much bigger and better than 338 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:52,120 Speaker 1: I ever dreamed. I was always too scared to dream like, 339 00:14:52,160 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 1: oh I'd be a Grand Slam champion. It's like, oh 340 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:56,200 Speaker 1: I like playing, Oh I hope I can go to college. 341 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 1: And so I was always I wish I grew up 342 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 1: with a lot of fear and kind of doubt, and 343 00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:03,520 Speaker 1: I wish I hope I can change that in my kids. 344 00:15:03,600 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 1: And I wish I mean, we were talking earlier today, 345 00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 1: what you could go back and tell your younger self 346 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:10,200 Speaker 1: and immediately thought, Wow, it's it's Okay, you can, you 347 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:12,760 Speaker 1: can believe in yourself, you can dare to dream big. 348 00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:16,600 Speaker 1: You don't have to be so concerned of worst case scenarios. 349 00:15:17,560 --> 00:15:19,840 Speaker 3: Okay, So I want to then go back to just 350 00:15:20,120 --> 00:15:24,680 Speaker 3: discussing that if you could go back, do you think. 351 00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:27,200 Speaker 5: You should have won more? 352 00:15:28,120 --> 00:15:29,840 Speaker 1: You know, people say that, and it's funny. 353 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:32,240 Speaker 2: It took my I'm talking about I'm talking about Grand Slam. No, 354 00:15:32,320 --> 00:15:33,280 Speaker 2: I know, I know for sure. 355 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:37,040 Speaker 1: How many toonents did you in WTS fifty five and 356 00:15:37,080 --> 00:15:39,200 Speaker 1: only three majors? And then you see other players I 357 00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:41,240 Speaker 1: think Muga Rutha, I'm gonna get this wrong, has like 358 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:44,240 Speaker 1: two majors and only six titles or seven whatever it is. Yeah. 359 00:15:44,240 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 2: Oh, there's some players that have one major and know 360 00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 2: other tournaments. 361 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:49,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's a weird combination. I don't know. My 362 00:15:49,920 --> 00:15:52,240 Speaker 1: husband when we when he started to get me know, 363 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:55,040 Speaker 1: he's like, Jesus, it's a fucking miracle. You wont any 364 00:15:55,560 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 1: I so negative and like, I mean, I would go 365 00:15:58,720 --> 00:16:00,640 Speaker 1: out like worried I wasn't gonna get the game, and 366 00:16:00,680 --> 00:16:02,360 Speaker 1: you'd be like in the beginnings, like what are you 367 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:05,000 Speaker 1: talking about? You're ranked two right now? Like what do 368 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:05,360 Speaker 1: you mean? 369 00:16:05,480 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 2: And I believe that was that a defense mechanism. 370 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 1: I don't know. I felt real, absolutely real, and the 371 00:16:12,160 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 1: anxiety about it all. But I mean, you look at 372 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 1: the numbers and you look at the opportunities. Sure I 373 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 1: definitely could have should have, but like at the end 374 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 1: of the day, I mean I couldn't believe that I 375 00:16:22,920 --> 00:16:26,080 Speaker 1: could even win three. And that's that was my biggest weakness, 376 00:16:26,200 --> 00:16:29,280 Speaker 1: was the mental part of it and accepting that or 377 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:33,600 Speaker 1: giving into I should be great or do better or whatever. 378 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:37,120 Speaker 3: Okay, so take me back to the moment that you 379 00:16:37,240 --> 00:16:39,200 Speaker 3: ran up to that ball at the US Open. 380 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 1: That was my first yeah, you know, and of course, 381 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:44,920 Speaker 1: like and now we're getting in, we have to get 382 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:46,480 Speaker 1: off my topics, but not like. 383 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:50,360 Speaker 3: It's the Racket magazine podcast with Lindsay dinneh, let's talk 384 00:16:50,360 --> 00:16:51,080 Speaker 3: about other people. 385 00:16:51,160 --> 00:16:53,480 Speaker 1: But truly, I mean, I guarantee you going through my 386 00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 1: mind is you cannot lose this match. Having match point, 387 00:16:56,800 --> 00:17:01,480 Speaker 1: it's like totally of course. And so I think, you know, 388 00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:03,880 Speaker 1: for me, I remember watching that point a couple of 389 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 1: years ago and it was like I made like ten shots, 390 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:08,680 Speaker 1: which never was the case. It was normally trying to 391 00:17:08,680 --> 00:17:10,280 Speaker 1: get control of the point. But I was like, okay, 392 00:17:10,320 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 1: I'm not going to miss it was the most emotional 393 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 1: one to win their one because I never really thought 394 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:22,240 Speaker 1: that that was gonna happen for me. My family had 395 00:17:22,320 --> 00:17:24,399 Speaker 1: kind of been fractured. My parents had gotten divorced the 396 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 1: year before. Everyone was kind of all over the map 397 00:17:28,640 --> 00:17:31,240 Speaker 1: emotionally about that. We came from a very tight family. 398 00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:35,040 Speaker 1: My sisters flew in the night before for whatever reason. 399 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:38,080 Speaker 1: Back then, I played the Semis Friday. This the final 400 00:17:38,119 --> 00:17:39,840 Speaker 1: was Saturday. It wasn't like I had a day off. 401 00:17:39,880 --> 00:17:42,720 Speaker 1: I didn't have time to think, which was probably good totally, 402 00:17:42,840 --> 00:17:44,960 Speaker 1: but and I didn't know my sisters were flying in 403 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:47,119 Speaker 1: on the Red Eyes with their husbands, and all of 404 00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:48,840 Speaker 1: a sudden, I remember walking out on the court and 405 00:17:48,880 --> 00:17:50,640 Speaker 1: the box was like full, and it was like, oh 406 00:17:50,640 --> 00:17:52,880 Speaker 1: my gosh. And then I you know, everybody was there, 407 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:55,720 Speaker 1: which was obviously really nice. It was my mom's birthday. 408 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:59,639 Speaker 1: But I literally I won and cried like I didn't smile, 409 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:03,080 Speaker 1: couldn't believe it. I was like it was overwhelming to me. 410 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:05,080 Speaker 5: And can you explain that? 411 00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:05,560 Speaker 2: Why you? 412 00:18:06,119 --> 00:18:08,640 Speaker 3: Because you know, I actually had someone ask me one 413 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:10,320 Speaker 3: time why did people cry? 414 00:18:10,480 --> 00:18:11,560 Speaker 5: And I'm like, oh, my God. 415 00:18:11,840 --> 00:18:15,480 Speaker 1: It's just every single emotion comes out like I cannot 416 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:19,199 Speaker 1: believe it. Everything was Yeah, it's hard to explain. I 417 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 1: mean I cried now seeing people win their first I always 418 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:23,919 Speaker 1: feel like the first is the biggest and everyone dreams 419 00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:25,760 Speaker 1: of that and you see it. I mean we saw 420 00:18:25,840 --> 00:18:28,159 Speaker 1: three times this year on the Women's Tour, and I 421 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:31,320 Speaker 1: cried every single time because you you know what they 422 00:18:31,359 --> 00:18:36,440 Speaker 1: go through. It's everybody's dream. When I got the trophy, 423 00:18:36,480 --> 00:18:40,159 Speaker 1: it was from a Usta President and j No, it 424 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:43,520 Speaker 1: was Harry, Harry Marmion and he looked at me and 425 00:18:43,880 --> 00:18:45,879 Speaker 1: I saw he had tears coming down his eyes, and 426 00:18:45,920 --> 00:18:48,040 Speaker 1: so that made me cry more, and he gave me 427 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:49,719 Speaker 1: a hug, and it's like, I've never been a happier 428 00:18:49,760 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 1: to give us to anybody. You know, you get to 429 00:18:51,320 --> 00:18:54,480 Speaker 1: know these people well, and I almost I had a 430 00:18:54,520 --> 00:18:57,600 Speaker 1: superstition also that I would never put a trophy over 431 00:18:57,600 --> 00:18:59,760 Speaker 1: my head unless it was a Grand Slam one. So 432 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:02,879 Speaker 1: for my family and my team, as soon as I 433 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:05,439 Speaker 1: did that, they were crying. I started crying again. Just 434 00:19:05,480 --> 00:19:07,560 Speaker 1: all these things kind of came through and I remember 435 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:09,720 Speaker 1: raising the trophy above my head, grin, I can't believe 436 00:19:09,720 --> 00:19:12,760 Speaker 1: I get to do this, so a lot of little things. 437 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:14,200 Speaker 1: I look back now and wish I could have just 438 00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:16,879 Speaker 1: laughed my ass off, but it didn't happen like that. 439 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:19,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's who you were, and that describes you 440 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:21,800 Speaker 3: and what you were going through as well. I mean, 441 00:19:21,800 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 3: you talk about it was a tough year for you, 442 00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:26,040 Speaker 3: your family, and you know, maybe all the self doubts 443 00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:28,760 Speaker 3: that you have about yourself. I think it's really interesting 444 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:31,080 Speaker 3: that people have no idea about things like this, like 445 00:19:31,119 --> 00:19:33,240 Speaker 3: the things that the secret demons. 446 00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:35,359 Speaker 1: That you find you. Yeah, every player has them. But 447 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:37,200 Speaker 1: and then also you have to remember, you know, in 448 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:39,639 Speaker 1: a team sport, if someone's going through something, you have 449 00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:42,240 Speaker 1: teammates that kind of shield you and protect you and 450 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:44,560 Speaker 1: maybe take over at certain points when they know you're 451 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:47,879 Speaker 1: really struggling. In this sport, people go through an awful lot. 452 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:50,959 Speaker 1: I mean, it's life fucking happens. And yet you know 453 00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 1: then they're out there playing poorly and we're like, oh, 454 00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:55,119 Speaker 1: they're not hitting their forehand that well, But you actually 455 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:57,840 Speaker 1: have no idea what's going on off the court. You 456 00:19:57,840 --> 00:19:59,720 Speaker 1: have no idea what they're going through on a personal 457 00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:02,000 Speaker 1: level day in and day out. They can't hide you 458 00:20:02,119 --> 00:20:05,840 Speaker 1: have to face it, and I think sometimes we lose that, 459 00:20:06,040 --> 00:20:09,760 Speaker 1: like that personal emotional touch with people and what they're 460 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 1: going through. I mean, nobody really knows what was happening 461 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:14,600 Speaker 1: to Novak for all those months. You know, you guess 462 00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:18,800 Speaker 1: and you wonder, but and then you hear years later 463 00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 1: and it's like, wow, I can't believe a person could 464 00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:24,399 Speaker 1: play through whatever. Yeah, is it one. 465 00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:27,760 Speaker 2: Match that shit, there's plenty. I'm sure that you wish 466 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 2: you could go back and change, But. 467 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:32,440 Speaker 3: Is it one match that you that if you could 468 00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:35,080 Speaker 3: redo completely? 469 00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:37,480 Speaker 1: I mean I lost the Wimbledon final and O five 470 00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:39,800 Speaker 1: and had match point. To lose a Grand Slam final 471 00:20:40,160 --> 00:20:43,439 Speaker 1: and have match point is pretty brutal. Yeah, there's not 472 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:46,720 Speaker 1: something I would change on that point. Particular wasn't but 473 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:49,320 Speaker 1: you know that one when you're that close, I. 474 00:20:49,320 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 5: Know what you would have changed. 475 00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:52,040 Speaker 2: You've told me you would have tried to hit it 476 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:52,600 Speaker 2: to him. 477 00:20:52,680 --> 00:20:55,400 Speaker 1: No, No, you know, surprisingly I lost them. I feel 478 00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:56,880 Speaker 1: like I lost the match more. At four two, i'd 479 00:20:56,920 --> 00:20:59,360 Speaker 1: been up, I was up a break, and I think 480 00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:01,159 Speaker 1: I had a game point to hold her two, to 481 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:03,680 Speaker 1: go up five to two. I feel like that's those 482 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:06,679 Speaker 1: Sometimes the crucial moments are a game or two before 483 00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:09,359 Speaker 1: Hingus and I talked about it. Hingus had some match 484 00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:12,439 Speaker 1: points maybe in an Australian Open final, Yeah, and she 485 00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:15,000 Speaker 1: was like, I go, yeah, it was tough. I also 486 00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:19,159 Speaker 1: really wanted to win one married and that I was 487 00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:21,640 Speaker 1: married in two thousand and five. Lost the Australian Open 488 00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:25,240 Speaker 1: final and then the Wimbledon final. Having match point was tough, 489 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:28,280 Speaker 1: you know. And I give shit. I mean, Hall, everything 490 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:29,840 Speaker 1: that she had to go through till she won her 491 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:33,000 Speaker 1: first it's rough. You'd almost rather lose in the semis, 492 00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:35,280 Speaker 1: to be honest and not be as close. 493 00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:38,960 Speaker 3: I not get it. I have to say, though, having 494 00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:42,000 Speaker 3: known you so long and known sort of the arc 495 00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:45,240 Speaker 3: of your career and knowing you as personally, I. 496 00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:47,560 Speaker 2: Still I've told you this that the match that you 497 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:50,640 Speaker 2: lost against Venus was actually I think. 498 00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:55,040 Speaker 3: One of your greatest matches, because I think you would 499 00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:57,159 Speaker 3: be the first to admit that a lot of some 500 00:21:57,240 --> 00:21:59,439 Speaker 3: of your matches that you lost in Grand Slam level 501 00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:01,200 Speaker 3: you kind of mentally shut down. 502 00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:03,920 Speaker 1: Yea, it was it was your defense. I didn't lose 503 00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:07,800 Speaker 1: a lot of matches also playing well and tried my 504 00:22:07,840 --> 00:22:10,000 Speaker 1: ass off from first point to last point, and maybe 505 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:11,160 Speaker 1: that's why it hurt even more. 506 00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:16,000 Speaker 3: That was the first really big match that I saw 507 00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:19,280 Speaker 3: you never give up. Yeah, Like, there was never a 508 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:21,240 Speaker 3: moment where you were like, ah, you know, give the 509 00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:24,639 Speaker 3: hand flick or you know, kind of kind of mentally 510 00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:27,320 Speaker 3: shut down, right. I mean, listen, everybody has their defense 511 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:31,320 Speaker 3: mechanism you seekis off, we see, you know, everybody deals 512 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:33,080 Speaker 3: with it. But that was one match that I remember 513 00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:35,840 Speaker 3: thinking that the reason it had to hurt at the 514 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:38,400 Speaker 3: time was because you felt like you did everything you could. 515 00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:40,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I also think it's probably one of the 516 00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:43,560 Speaker 1: proudest for sure, But you'd still rather still rather have 517 00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:47,000 Speaker 1: four three. Okay, let's get into gas. 518 00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:51,320 Speaker 3: Wait, okay, so then let's come because going back to 519 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:54,359 Speaker 3: the first Wimbledon title you want, yeah, okay, tell us 520 00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:54,800 Speaker 3: that story. 521 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:58,080 Speaker 1: Well, it was a crazy, crazy Wimbledon. First of all, 522 00:22:58,080 --> 00:23:01,160 Speaker 1: it rained all the time. Everyone was backed up days, 523 00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:03,200 Speaker 1: there was there was not a roof on Center Cord. 524 00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:06,520 Speaker 1: There was no plans, so you know, and I was 525 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:09,080 Speaker 1: getting kind of lucky with the schedule. I was first on. 526 00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:12,439 Speaker 1: I would get doubles and mixed and mixed, and so 527 00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:13,320 Speaker 1: I was scheduled. 528 00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:15,520 Speaker 2: You were lucky, Well, I had no choice. 529 00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:17,560 Speaker 1: Yes, So I was always scheduled first. For instance, I 530 00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:19,879 Speaker 1: remember around to sixteen day, I believe I was the 531 00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:22,119 Speaker 1: only match on the whole schedule to finish, and then 532 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:24,639 Speaker 1: it rained for like two straight days, you know, so 533 00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:27,399 Speaker 1: little things like that were kind of happening. But so 534 00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:29,760 Speaker 1: I was in doubles and in mixed, and I think 535 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:34,680 Speaker 1: we were on like the second Wednesday, maybe maybe even Thursday. 536 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:36,480 Speaker 1: And at this point, I think I'm in the quarters 537 00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:39,160 Speaker 1: of singles, the quarters of doubles, and the third round 538 00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:43,720 Speaker 1: of mixed, and we were supposed to play Stephie and McEnroe, 539 00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:46,480 Speaker 1: and I was playing with Todd Woodbridge, and my coach 540 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:49,639 Speaker 1: was like, listen, you have like trying to convince me 541 00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:52,680 Speaker 1: you have a chance here to win the singles. You're 542 00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:56,520 Speaker 1: still in doubles, We're coming into Friday, the weather still sucks, 543 00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 1: like you got to get out of the mix. And 544 00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:01,199 Speaker 1: it was like, oh God, wood Bridge, he's gonna kill me, 545 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:04,520 Speaker 1: Like I feel so bad. And then they're trying to 546 00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:07,480 Speaker 1: get us to go play on center court. Anyways, it 547 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:10,400 Speaker 1: was kind of a mess. So I'm like, okay, I'll 548 00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:13,199 Speaker 1: pull out of the mixed. I literally go and Todd 549 00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:15,879 Speaker 1: is warming up out on his match to play men's 550 00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:19,680 Speaker 1: doubles three out of five sets, and I'm like, oh god, 551 00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:22,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna wait. So then the referee at the time, 552 00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:25,400 Speaker 1: Alan Mills, calls me into his office and there's Stephie 553 00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:28,400 Speaker 1: standing in the referee's office, you know, like tapping her foot, 554 00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 1: hand on hip, like, so, what's what's gonna happen. I'm like, well, 555 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:34,359 Speaker 1: I'm gonna pull out, but hold on. Todd's on the court. 556 00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:37,000 Speaker 1: It's only three to two in the first and she's like, yeah, 557 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:39,320 Speaker 1: but we gotta play. I gotta go out and play. 558 00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:42,159 Speaker 1: And the winners were already waiting, so that the referees like, 559 00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:43,960 Speaker 1: can we're gonna pull you out now? And I'm like, 560 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:45,840 Speaker 1: I have to tell Todd. They're like, He's like, I 561 00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:48,639 Speaker 1: have to play this match. Stephie's still in singles, Venus 562 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:50,200 Speaker 1: was still in singles. The winner played. 563 00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:53,000 Speaker 3: I think, just help me for one second, the fact 564 00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:56,439 Speaker 3: that you and Stephie and Venus are still in singles 565 00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:57,120 Speaker 3: and doubles and mix. 566 00:24:57,200 --> 00:24:59,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, can we just like think about that for a second. Yeah, 567 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:02,719 Speaker 1: Steffie was playing McEnroe too, Venus was still in she 568 00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:04,760 Speaker 1: was playing with Justin So I'm like they wanted to 569 00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:08,080 Speaker 1: play that match badly. So I'm like okay, you know, 570 00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:10,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, fine, go on and play. Well, the 571 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:13,280 Speaker 1: story goes. Todd's now in the second set, and you 572 00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:15,600 Speaker 1: can see the scoreboard from that back court. It was 573 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,359 Speaker 1: like court ten and up now on center court that 574 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:22,280 Speaker 1: scoreboard you could see it was McEnroe Versus. Give will 575 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,760 Speaker 1: stop Venus. He's like, oh great, so that's how we 576 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:26,399 Speaker 1: found out. I pulled out on him in the mix. 577 00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:29,080 Speaker 1: Was not happy after I'd sent a note to the 578 00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:32,800 Speaker 1: locker room apologizing. I tried to explain, and you know, Todd, 579 00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:34,800 Speaker 1: he's a good sport about it now, but he has 580 00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:39,119 Speaker 1: not forgotten and he's not happy with me. So that 581 00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:41,080 Speaker 1: was like one thing that happened. I actually felt bad 582 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:43,600 Speaker 1: about that. Then it rained so much. The final was 583 00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:46,000 Speaker 1: actually on a Sunday, and the men's final was right 584 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:49,399 Speaker 1: behind us. More rain was coming. They're doing everything they 585 00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:51,159 Speaker 1: can to finish this. I was in the singles and 586 00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:55,440 Speaker 1: doubles final women's singles twelve noon doubles to follow immediately 587 00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:57,800 Speaker 1: on court one. Andre and Pete were in that final 588 00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:00,720 Speaker 1: July fourth, right after the women's final, So it was 589 00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:04,560 Speaker 1: like kind of a hustle out there. I do remember 590 00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:06,960 Speaker 1: I won the first set, and it was three all 591 00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:09,160 Speaker 1: in the second set, I believe when the rain came 592 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:11,439 Speaker 1: and we had a pretty short rain delay, maybe like 593 00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:15,000 Speaker 1: thirty forty minutes, and I remember that's right when I 594 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:18,480 Speaker 1: had just begun to start panicking. I'm like, oh my god, 595 00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:21,560 Speaker 1: I'm getting clothes. I'm getting clothes. That rain delay really 596 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:23,800 Speaker 1: helped me a lot. I remember my coach Robert like 597 00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:28,320 Speaker 1: just really subtly, just saying like and it's weird, like 598 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:31,239 Speaker 1: people say things, Oh you got this, you can do it, 599 00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:33,240 Speaker 1: and that wasn't his way. And I remember him just 600 00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:36,159 Speaker 1: looking at me. He was like, you gotta breathe. You 601 00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:38,080 Speaker 1: can win this. And that's all kind of and we 602 00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:41,399 Speaker 1: tucked a little strategy, but like real calmly like and 603 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:44,240 Speaker 1: I remember like kind of resetting like Okay, I can 604 00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:48,000 Speaker 1: win this. I can go out and do it. Ended 605 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:52,119 Speaker 1: up winning. Same thing, like super emotional crying. None of 606 00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:54,440 Speaker 1: my family was there. My mom was working a volleyball 607 00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:56,840 Speaker 1: tournament in the States, and I went down to my 608 00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:59,680 Speaker 1: seat and I was like in shock, I couldn't believe it, 609 00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:02,720 Speaker 1: trying to catch my breath and I'm like, oh, I'm 610 00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:04,240 Speaker 1: going to go to the box, Like, isn't that what 611 00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:05,639 Speaker 1: you do here? And I start to walk and I 612 00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:07,440 Speaker 1: felt like a hand on the back of my shirt 613 00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:10,440 Speaker 1: kind of pulled me back. Yes, and he's like, no, 614 00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:14,320 Speaker 1: you know, no trophy here exactly. Well, and we're hustling. 615 00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,600 Speaker 1: This trophy is not in a bad way. But he's like, 616 00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:18,520 Speaker 1: I think the Duchess was already down on the court. 617 00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:21,720 Speaker 1: He's like, you're too late now, so just sit here, Like, okay, 618 00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:27,200 Speaker 1: no problem. We do this trophy ceremony obviously awesome. We're 619 00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:30,000 Speaker 1: coming off the court and as you know, Bud Collins 620 00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:34,600 Speaker 1: rest his soul would interview us as you were walking 621 00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:36,879 Speaker 1: off the court. Well, they put We walked off the 622 00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:39,560 Speaker 1: court together, Steph and I and they pulled her aside 623 00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 1: first and right there waiting we're Pete and Andre ready 624 00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 1: to come on the court. So it was kind of 625 00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:46,480 Speaker 1: like nerve wracking anyways, like I was the ball of 626 00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:48,840 Speaker 1: adrenaline because I'd won. They're waiting to come out. Steph 627 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:54,439 Speaker 1: is getting interviewed by Bud, and remember standing there and Pete, 628 00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,280 Speaker 1: who I had grown up with in the same town 629 00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 1: he was a little bit older, came walking over to 630 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:01,480 Speaker 1: me a couple of feet and was like like, that's 631 00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:04,520 Speaker 1: so great, congratulations, I'm really happy for you. And I 632 00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:06,800 Speaker 1: remember going, oh my gosh, thank you so much. And 633 00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:09,760 Speaker 1: I remember Andre not saying word no problem. They're getting 634 00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:12,840 Speaker 1: ready to play a women's men's final, right then Steph 635 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:13,400 Speaker 1: finished this. 636 00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:16,320 Speaker 2: She's unusual because he's usual. Of course, it's usually the 637 00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:17,960 Speaker 2: guy that's always like, well done. 638 00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:21,960 Speaker 3: Of course, it feelosophical and congratulations, and he's all of 639 00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:22,600 Speaker 3: a sudden. 640 00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 1: He's like, length, yeah, a little bit, yeah for sure. 641 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:27,879 Speaker 1: But again it's a lot going on right there, Like 642 00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:31,680 Speaker 1: as you walk on the center court. No, I definitely remember, 643 00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:34,840 Speaker 1: like it's like that awkward do I say something? No, okay, whatever? 644 00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:37,199 Speaker 1: And then Steph walks by and he kind of like 645 00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:41,520 Speaker 1: pinches her on the butt as she walks by, and 646 00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:44,920 Speaker 1: I remember I remember going, that's weird. And then I 647 00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:47,880 Speaker 1: did my interview with Bud. Didn't you know the guys 648 00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:49,680 Speaker 1: go out to go play. Didn't think anything of it, 649 00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:51,640 Speaker 1: And it comes out like two or three weeks later 650 00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:54,520 Speaker 1: at a tournament LaCosta and Martine Hingkis is like, hundred, 651 00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:56,480 Speaker 1: I guess he's here, Like I heard he went to 652 00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:59,280 Speaker 1: Stephie's room. I'm like, what is going on? And then 653 00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:01,200 Speaker 1: of course that was open, it like comes out that 654 00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:04,920 Speaker 1: they're dating, and the rest is like tennis legend history. 655 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:07,240 Speaker 1: But I remember standing there at the entrance to Center 656 00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:08,080 Speaker 1: Court being like. 657 00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:10,200 Speaker 2: That, Oh my goodness, what is going on. 658 00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:13,280 Speaker 1: I forgot about it immediately until like about two months later, 659 00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:15,640 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I get it. Do you remember? 660 00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:17,880 Speaker 1: Do you remember? Actually this is from me to know. 661 00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:19,920 Speaker 5: But did Steffie laugh. 662 00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:22,120 Speaker 1: Or was she like? No? She was kind of busy. 663 00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:25,400 Speaker 1: She lost, and she had just told Bud Collins and 664 00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:28,040 Speaker 1: NBC that she would never be back at Wimbledon. So 665 00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:30,960 Speaker 1: I think for her by she wasn't didn't really know 666 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:33,840 Speaker 1: if she was retiring right then she played one more tournament, 667 00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:36,360 Speaker 1: retired and that was the end. But she had just 668 00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:38,240 Speaker 1: made this announcement that she would never be back at 669 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:41,600 Speaker 1: Wimbledon and then had lost and kind of walked off, 670 00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:44,600 Speaker 1: and I think she was kind of she didn't stop. 671 00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:46,960 Speaker 1: The rest is no, she kept walking, but still. 672 00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:49,120 Speaker 2: The ass pins she was the beginning of. 673 00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:51,440 Speaker 1: It made sense two months later at the Open, when 674 00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:53,960 Speaker 1: they kind of were then known to be dating. 675 00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:55,760 Speaker 3: That is such a great story, and you know the 676 00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 3: greatest thing about that. There's only three people, maybe four. 677 00:29:58,520 --> 00:29:59,360 Speaker 3: Maybe Peyton was watching. 678 00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:03,160 Speaker 1: I wonder if he picked up on that, maybe knew 679 00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:03,640 Speaker 1: about that. 680 00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:05,600 Speaker 5: That moment and you're one of those. 681 00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 1: That's so cool went over in my head for a 682 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:08,600 Speaker 1: little while. 683 00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:17,400 Speaker 2: All right. 684 00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:21,600 Speaker 3: So so you win there, you win in Australia, and 685 00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:23,840 Speaker 3: I just want to take a little bit. 686 00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:24,280 Speaker 5: Of credit here. 687 00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 1: Yeah you did, because we joked about it the whole 688 00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:29,720 Speaker 1: tournament ingots had won how many doubles and how. 689 00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:32,920 Speaker 3: Many won three doubles tournaments yea and three singles in 690 00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:36,360 Speaker 3: a row in Australia. Never lost a match in Australia ever, 691 00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:39,400 Speaker 3: in singles or doubles. And you had lost to her 692 00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:40,440 Speaker 3: in doubles a couple of. 693 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:43,960 Speaker 1: Times, lesa one time, I'm sure, and she beat everyone. 694 00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:45,840 Speaker 5: She beat me a couple of times. 695 00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:48,360 Speaker 3: And then Lisa and I won our first Grand Slam 696 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:52,280 Speaker 3: in two thousand, beating Martina Hingers in the final. And 697 00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,280 Speaker 3: after we won that match, you were to play her 698 00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:56,760 Speaker 3: the following day singles. 699 00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:59,360 Speaker 1: And I have to say, hold on. In ninety nine 700 00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:02,040 Speaker 1: I lost semi finals in Australia. I lost it Kancheetah. 701 00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:04,320 Speaker 1: One year I lost to Maresmo the next year. I 702 00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:07,360 Speaker 1: was I think favored to win both of them. Martina 703 00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:11,000 Speaker 1: then went on to beat them easily in the previous finals. Yes, 704 00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:13,480 Speaker 1: I had beaten Jennifer in two thousand in the Semis 705 00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:17,000 Speaker 1: and I remember going like, finally, like get through to 706 00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,320 Speaker 1: get to play her in an Australian Open final. And 707 00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:22,040 Speaker 1: then you guys played the doubles final Friday. We did, yeah, 708 00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:22,560 Speaker 1: and we won. 709 00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:25,200 Speaker 3: Yes, it was the first match she lost in Australia, 710 00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:29,440 Speaker 3: and I'm pretty certain that it's it helped bring her 711 00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:31,880 Speaker 3: confidence level down to the point. 712 00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:33,600 Speaker 1: That it allowed you then to win. You know, that's 713 00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:36,400 Speaker 1: definitely you get some credit. I'll give you some credit there. 714 00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:38,360 Speaker 1: That match, I almost had one of the biggest chokes 715 00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:40,000 Speaker 1: of history though. I was up six to one, five 716 00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:42,840 Speaker 1: to one, and it got back to five all, and 717 00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:44,880 Speaker 1: I'll never forget this point. It was love fifteen at 718 00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:47,160 Speaker 1: five all, and at this point my mind is like, 719 00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:50,520 Speaker 1: I can't believe this just fucking happened. I cannot believe it. 720 00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:52,680 Speaker 1: We were there were Yeah, I hit one shot at 721 00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:55,680 Speaker 1: love fifteen. I hit a backhand up the line, either 722 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:58,000 Speaker 1: for a winner or she maybe touched it. And I 723 00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:00,520 Speaker 1: remember that that point kind of settled me back down again, 724 00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:03,040 Speaker 1: but I was starting to like definitely spiral. 725 00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:05,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, what a great natch. 726 00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:08,040 Speaker 2: God, did you want every Grand Slam that you want 727 00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:08,920 Speaker 2: was in straight sets? 728 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:09,200 Speaker 1: Yeah? 729 00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:09,600 Speaker 4: Yeah. 730 00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:10,600 Speaker 5: When you were good, you were good. 731 00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:12,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, and then when things would start to go awride 732 00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:17,520 Speaker 1: my problem solving skills weren't weren't perfect, had to be 733 00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:18,120 Speaker 1: going perfect. 734 00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:20,840 Speaker 2: You also said to me yesterday that you lost how 735 00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:21,800 Speaker 2: many doubles finals? 736 00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:24,120 Speaker 1: I think I lost? I won three Grand Slam I 737 00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:26,880 Speaker 1: think I lost the finals eleven times. That's just first of. 738 00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:29,440 Speaker 3: All, I want to say, how unreal it is that 739 00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:32,720 Speaker 3: you played so many singles and doubles Grand Slams like that. 740 00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:34,000 Speaker 2: Nobody does that anymore. 741 00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:36,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was. It was so great for me, like 742 00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:40,000 Speaker 1: to learn how to play on a break point in 743 00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:42,200 Speaker 1: a huge match, right, or how to take a short 744 00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:45,320 Speaker 1: played the back end, yes, outside, and you know, stuff 745 00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:47,680 Speaker 1: like that, And so the doubles definitely helped set me 746 00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:50,640 Speaker 1: up for single success. I think that's missing so much now. 747 00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:53,320 Speaker 1: You know, these players get into the position for the 748 00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:56,200 Speaker 1: first time. They some of them are freezing where I 749 00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:58,120 Speaker 1: feel like if you have been there in doubles or 750 00:32:58,320 --> 00:33:01,280 Speaker 1: had a little bit of a experience with it, it 751 00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:03,720 Speaker 1: kind of would help. I mean it shows too. 752 00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:05,560 Speaker 3: I mean you look at someone like a Sam Stozer, 753 00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:07,600 Speaker 3: who you would not think would win a Grand. 754 00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:08,240 Speaker 5: Slam and single, right. 755 00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:09,720 Speaker 3: I mean she was a great singles player when she 756 00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:13,800 Speaker 3: played well, but she had multiple doubles Grand Slam victories 757 00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:17,040 Speaker 3: before she won her singles, and she also had obviously 758 00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:18,480 Speaker 3: results in finals and things. 759 00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:20,320 Speaker 2: But I definitely think that that helped her. 760 00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,840 Speaker 3: Victoria Azarenka won mixed doubles Grand Slams before she won 761 00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:25,840 Speaker 3: singles Grand slams. 762 00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:27,840 Speaker 2: I mean, there's no doubt that for some people it 763 00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:28,560 Speaker 2: really would help. 764 00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:29,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, they did that, I agree. 765 00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:31,480 Speaker 2: Or okay, so cut to. 766 00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:37,440 Speaker 3: What was the catalyst for you to pull the plug 767 00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:39,680 Speaker 3: and retire, because it's such a hard thing to do. 768 00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:41,920 Speaker 1: It's usually when you were still playing. Yeah, I thought, 769 00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:44,440 Speaker 1: you know, I had my son in two thousand and seven, 770 00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:47,360 Speaker 1: and I don't know why, when I was like seven 771 00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:49,800 Speaker 1: months pregnant. I waited till that point to think. 772 00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:53,800 Speaker 3: Did you consciously like go and try and have a baby, Yes, 773 00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:55,360 Speaker 3: you were, like how old were you. 774 00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:56,040 Speaker 2: When that happens? 775 00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:59,640 Speaker 1: So well, I had him when I was thirty one, Okay, 776 00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:02,160 Speaker 1: so yeah. I mean John and I at that point 777 00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:05,000 Speaker 1: have been together eight years, and it was like I 778 00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:09,120 Speaker 1: wanted a baby and he obviously was fine with wanted 779 00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:09,400 Speaker 1: one too. 780 00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:11,480 Speaker 2: I say, did he have a choice. 781 00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:14,360 Speaker 1: Yeah. No, So I really thought I'd be done. And 782 00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:16,960 Speaker 1: then kind of like when I was like seven months pregnant, 783 00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:19,160 Speaker 1: I thought, Okay, I think I'm gonna want to play again. 784 00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:21,360 Speaker 1: I really miss it, and it was no problem. He 785 00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:24,360 Speaker 1: was great with it. Played a year. My knee was 786 00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:27,400 Speaker 1: not great. During that period. I had gone to Germany 787 00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:29,759 Speaker 1: and got stem cells from my back to try and 788 00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:32,160 Speaker 1: from my bone marrow to try and come back. Wanted 789 00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:34,360 Speaker 1: to play the Olympics. It was like a couple of 790 00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:36,680 Speaker 1: things in there. I never played well in the Grand 791 00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:39,280 Speaker 1: Slam stage, which I was a little bummed about. Played 792 00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:42,080 Speaker 1: the US Open in a way. My knee was not good, 793 00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:44,360 Speaker 1: and one match I kind of numbed it up to 794 00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:46,239 Speaker 1: try and play. Was trying to figure out how to 795 00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:48,799 Speaker 1: get through it. Came home and it was like, okay, 796 00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:51,080 Speaker 1: we're gonna I'm gonna take the fall off. I was tired, 797 00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:55,480 Speaker 1: getting tough traveling with then a fourteen fifteen month old boy. 798 00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:57,400 Speaker 1: My husband couldn't travel all the time, so it was 799 00:34:57,440 --> 00:34:59,279 Speaker 1: away from him. So it was just kind of like 800 00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:01,319 Speaker 1: a weird feeling, and I went I was gonna go 801 00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:05,600 Speaker 1: get my knee operated on, had had everything done, and 802 00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:07,360 Speaker 1: the day before it's like, okay, we need you to 803 00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:09,920 Speaker 1: come in and do some tests, you know, like the 804 00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:12,200 Speaker 1: standard stuff. I said, okay, And so then late that 805 00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:14,000 Speaker 1: night I got a call from my doctor. It was 806 00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:16,000 Speaker 1: my friend and it was his cell phone, like, oh Hi, 807 00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:18,720 Speaker 1: He's like, so you're supposed to come in first thing tomorrow, 808 00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:21,600 Speaker 1: but I can't operate tomorrow. I said, oh, okay, what's 809 00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:24,360 Speaker 1: going on. He's like, well, your blood test shows you're pregnant. 810 00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:25,320 Speaker 5: Oh my god. 811 00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:28,160 Speaker 1: Well that was number two and that was not that one. 812 00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:31,319 Speaker 1: We had not been planning. Yes, So then well it 813 00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:33,920 Speaker 1: was you did well. So it was kind of a 814 00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:35,440 Speaker 1: nice segue because I don't know if I would have 815 00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:37,680 Speaker 1: come back from another surgery. I had had foot surgery. 816 00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:40,560 Speaker 1: I'd had a really bad knee injury at the end 817 00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:43,160 Speaker 1: of two thousand and one. So it kind of just 818 00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:45,960 Speaker 1: worked out perfectly, and that there was little Lauren after that, 819 00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:48,640 Speaker 1: a perfect little Lauren. Yeah, ye. 820 00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:50,719 Speaker 2: Wit. 821 00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:53,080 Speaker 3: I wanted to There's so many things that we could 822 00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:56,080 Speaker 3: talk about but because you're such a what what gave 823 00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:56,800 Speaker 3: you the. 824 00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:58,640 Speaker 5: Impudence to want to do commentary? 825 00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:03,320 Speaker 1: It's funny. So that fall, actually you know you're pregnant, 826 00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:05,760 Speaker 1: you don't say anything. For the first two months. Tennis 827 00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:09,680 Speaker 1: Channel in Los Angeles had heard that I wasn't playing 828 00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:11,400 Speaker 1: in the fall, and they asked if I just wanted 829 00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:13,040 Speaker 1: to come in and do some stuff, and it was 830 00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:16,440 Speaker 1: local and so kind of just it started that way. 831 00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:18,640 Speaker 1: It started the Fall of Awight when I was pregnant 832 00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:22,480 Speaker 1: quietly with my second not and excuse me, Yeah, the 833 00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:25,000 Speaker 1: Fall of a eight, and it just kind of grew 834 00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:27,520 Speaker 1: from there. I really have liked it. Listen, I'm not 835 00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:30,480 Speaker 1: shy of like I love the sport given me everything. 836 00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:32,880 Speaker 1: I mean, I met my husband through it. He played, 837 00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:36,920 Speaker 1: We loved playing with our kids. I loved watching it 838 00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:39,279 Speaker 1: like I was a total nerd and fanatic about it. 839 00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:42,879 Speaker 2: You werenis you know you were an analyst when you play. 840 00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:43,440 Speaker 1: I loved it. 841 00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:43,719 Speaker 4: Yeah. 842 00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:46,160 Speaker 1: I liked trying to figure matches out even when I 843 00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:48,000 Speaker 1: wasn't playing. It was hard for me because if someone 844 00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:50,319 Speaker 1: didn't play my game style, it didn't matter to me 845 00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:53,759 Speaker 1: if Amanda coats or beat Kancheetah Martinez. I could never 846 00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:56,800 Speaker 1: play like Amanda Coats or but it, you know, stuff 847 00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:59,120 Speaker 1: like that. I would get really into like will they 848 00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:01,560 Speaker 1: how will they in this match? So I don't know. 849 00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:05,560 Speaker 1: Some players, they they're either they don't really love it, 850 00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:07,319 Speaker 1: but they're so good at it they keep doing it, 851 00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:09,160 Speaker 1: or they're afraid to admit it. I don't know. I 852 00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:12,000 Speaker 1: loved it. I was happy. I'm I feel like I'm 853 00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:13,440 Speaker 1: lucky to still be involved in it. 854 00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:16,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, and you're very very good. I mean no, I 855 00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:17,520 Speaker 5: mean seriously. 856 00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:18,960 Speaker 1: There's listen. 857 00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:22,840 Speaker 3: I'm working television as well, so I appreciate people that 858 00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:26,480 Speaker 3: are good. And you are very good analysts, and that's important. 859 00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:30,120 Speaker 3: People appreciate that about you know, some X players and 860 00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:32,759 Speaker 3: don't really analyze that great, you know, but you do so. 861 00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:35,160 Speaker 1: They I know you're giving me the d edit bad. No, 862 00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:36,960 Speaker 1: I'm giving you the edit that out, but go on, 863 00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:37,759 Speaker 1: go on. 864 00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:41,160 Speaker 3: No, I'm not any people are texting you, jesus. 865 00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:43,319 Speaker 2: No, I'm just it's just a missed informational call. 866 00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:45,160 Speaker 1: Okay. 867 00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:47,360 Speaker 3: So wait, one thing I did forget about, Lindsay is 868 00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:51,080 Speaker 3: the importance of the Olympics to you. Yeah, and maybe 869 00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:53,719 Speaker 3: what people don't know about you is after you won 870 00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:59,520 Speaker 3: your gold medal in Atlanta, Atlanta? Yeah you you you really? 871 00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:01,880 Speaker 5: What do you embraced that? 872 00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:02,080 Speaker 2: Mom? 873 00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:06,440 Speaker 1: I don't get it. What oh my tattoo? Yeah that's funny. Yeah, no, 874 00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:10,160 Speaker 1: you know. My dad was an Olympian. I always say 875 00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:12,600 Speaker 1: the Olympics in oh excuse me, and eighty four were 876 00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:15,359 Speaker 1: in Los Angeles. I was eight years old and my dad, 877 00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:19,160 Speaker 1: who he once He had a horrible accident in the 878 00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:21,800 Speaker 1: early seventies and has not been able to bend Disney since. 879 00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:25,359 Speaker 1: So that took him out of being active. He then 880 00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:29,000 Speaker 1: segued into being an official. So, first of all, I 881 00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:32,560 Speaker 1: grew up with an official in a sporting in a 882 00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:35,560 Speaker 1: sport in my family, it was like nailed into us 883 00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:37,520 Speaker 1: how you treat officials. I would see my dad get 884 00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:37,960 Speaker 1: yelled at. 885 00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:38,560 Speaker 5: Interesting. 886 00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:41,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, and he was big and strong and tough. But 887 00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:43,120 Speaker 1: it's not easy when you're like five or six and 888 00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:46,560 Speaker 1: you're watching your dad get absolutely abused at times. And 889 00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:49,080 Speaker 1: he one time I was in the juniors, his loud 890 00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:51,640 Speaker 1: voice arguing with an official and he's yelling down three 891 00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:55,239 Speaker 1: you know, two courts later, shut up, lanting like go play. 892 00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:57,800 Speaker 1: I mean, he was he was tough, but not necessarily 893 00:38:57,840 --> 00:38:59,680 Speaker 1: about tennis. And I come up with the Gordy. He's like, 894 00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:02,839 Speaker 1: you know, every question and officials. I never knew that. 895 00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:05,520 Speaker 1: That's why you never really came. Not really A couple 896 00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:08,320 Speaker 1: of times I did. One time I wrote an apology 897 00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:12,600 Speaker 1: note to the official. Yeah, like never definitely happened. I 898 00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:15,319 Speaker 1: mean I did argue, and but there was times that 899 00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,880 Speaker 1: it would really it would really hit home. So anyways, 900 00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:20,160 Speaker 1: so in the eighty four Olympics, my dad was the 901 00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:23,680 Speaker 1: referee for representing the Americas for volleyball. My mom was 902 00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:26,359 Speaker 1: working there too, so they literally worked those whole two weeks. 903 00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:28,440 Speaker 1: I never really saw them. I have a sister sixteen 904 00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:31,160 Speaker 1: years older. Took me around to like every event, you know, 905 00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:34,399 Speaker 1: and I saw everything. I remember opening ceremonies she took 906 00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:37,319 Speaker 1: me to and was explaining who lights the torch all 907 00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:39,719 Speaker 1: this stuff, and it really became like ingrained in me. 908 00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:41,839 Speaker 1: I was like, Wow, have my dad played in this? 909 00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:44,399 Speaker 1: This is amazing. Even when I just made the team, 910 00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:47,040 Speaker 1: it was And you have to remember the US. We 911 00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:52,520 Speaker 1: had Monica, Jennifer, Mary, Joe, Gigi. We had really strong teams. 912 00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:55,000 Speaker 1: This was even before Venus and Serena, right, before they 913 00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:57,640 Speaker 1: started breaking through. Only three singles players made it, so 914 00:39:57,719 --> 00:40:01,120 Speaker 1: even just making the team was a huge accomplishment. And 915 00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:04,120 Speaker 1: then I won similar my family flew in it was 916 00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:07,879 Speaker 1: it was pretty awesome. So yeah, shortly after I got 917 00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:09,920 Speaker 1: like a tattoo on my on my back with the 918 00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:11,440 Speaker 1: Olympic rings. Yeah, still there. 919 00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:12,640 Speaker 5: And actually I had more tattoos. 920 00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:15,239 Speaker 2: And people realize actually you and I were together when. 921 00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:18,600 Speaker 1: You go through my initials. Yeah, those two things mean 922 00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:21,960 Speaker 1: the world to me. I mean, as time passes, it's you, 923 00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,240 Speaker 1: it's the Olympics. But and a lot of has happened 924 00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:27,400 Speaker 1: in my life, but the oly winning the Olympic medal 925 00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:30,040 Speaker 1: and having my kids or it's been amazing. I don't 926 00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:31,400 Speaker 1: regret either of those tattoos. 927 00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:34,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, well I was there for the watching you with 928 00:40:34,160 --> 00:40:36,360 Speaker 3: your face like im like I think i'd get the 929 00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:41,200 Speaker 3: writing a little different. But oh well, okay, so you've 930 00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:42,719 Speaker 3: had some amazing rivalries. 931 00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:45,080 Speaker 1: I got to play everyone starting in ninety one, I 932 00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:48,759 Speaker 1: played Nevertelova and singles before she retired, played Graf all 933 00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:52,000 Speaker 1: through the nineties there with Venus and Serena, you know, 934 00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:54,440 Speaker 1: through the bulk of their career while they're playing actually 935 00:40:54,520 --> 00:40:57,000 Speaker 1: ten years since I stopped so for a period of 936 00:40:57,040 --> 00:41:05,160 Speaker 1: their career. Kim just hingus amazing, amazing players. I mean 937 00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:08,400 Speaker 1: even you go like a Rancha Kenchetah, it's been I 938 00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:10,600 Speaker 1: was pretty lucky to play across. I mean I played 939 00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:13,520 Speaker 1: it as a Ranka in Monica Doubles Monica all the time. 940 00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:16,719 Speaker 1: It was you know, is Jennifer of. 941 00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:19,040 Speaker 2: All of those players, what was the one that you 942 00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:19,880 Speaker 2: actually like? 943 00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:23,520 Speaker 3: Not only it wasn't about winning Elzy, it was just 944 00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:25,480 Speaker 3: I really like this mess Stephie. 945 00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:27,480 Speaker 1: I loved it. Yeah, And you know I ended up 946 00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:32,040 Speaker 1: why because I did way better than I thought I could. 947 00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:33,840 Speaker 1: I don't know. I think that the final record, and 948 00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:35,319 Speaker 1: I'm going to get this wrong, was like six and 949 00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:38,239 Speaker 1: four for Graft, But I won some big matches. We 950 00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:41,080 Speaker 1: had really close ones that she won. I really loved 951 00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:45,280 Speaker 1: to play her. Yeah, And why the slice didn't bother 952 00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:49,000 Speaker 1: me too much. I could hit at times hard enough 953 00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:51,640 Speaker 1: to where she couldn't just run me around the court 954 00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:55,040 Speaker 1: with the forehand. And I don't know, it's like one person. 955 00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:57,960 Speaker 1: I just never got negative when I played some players. 956 00:41:58,080 --> 00:41:59,719 Speaker 2: I think it was what you were get, what was 957 00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:00,440 Speaker 2: coming at you. 958 00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:03,560 Speaker 1: What was coming at me? The reputation her history was like, oh, 959 00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:05,719 Speaker 1: I can't act like a baby out here, and so 960 00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:08,920 Speaker 1: it kind of forced me to kind of my shoulders up. 961 00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:11,680 Speaker 5: In the end, like just maybe a total respect. 962 00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:14,480 Speaker 1: As well totally what she of course, Yeah, it's so interesting. Yeah, 963 00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:17,320 Speaker 1: And I thought obviously the world of her, and it 964 00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:19,359 Speaker 1: would be like, Okay, it's no shame if I lose too. 965 00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:20,799 Speaker 1: And two first that I played, I think I lost 966 00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:23,000 Speaker 1: six to zero. I remember being overwhelmed, and then I 967 00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:25,160 Speaker 1: think I lost seven to six, and then after that 968 00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:27,480 Speaker 1: match was like, oh okay, I can I can do Okay. 969 00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:30,640 Speaker 3: So it's so fascinating to me that I think it's 970 00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:33,320 Speaker 3: gonna be great for people to know the insecurities that 971 00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:34,799 Speaker 3: players feel even though they're great. 972 00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:36,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, right book. 973 00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:38,360 Speaker 5: Dominant? 974 00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:40,720 Speaker 1: Yeah no, And I was always a great junior player. 975 00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:43,879 Speaker 1: Like you, you are what you are, and you try 976 00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:47,359 Speaker 1: and fake it, and you should try and portray being 977 00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:50,400 Speaker 1: strong and everything else, but essentially it comes down to 978 00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:54,680 Speaker 1: you know who you naturally are inside, and sometimes it's 979 00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:57,759 Speaker 1: hard to overcome. Sometimes players can sometimes you fight through it, 980 00:42:57,840 --> 00:43:00,360 Speaker 1: but you know, I didn't grow up believing that I 981 00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:03,080 Speaker 1: was going to be great, and I never had that 982 00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:05,000 Speaker 1: self confidence instilled in me. 983 00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:08,680 Speaker 3: Do you, now doing a little bit of coaching with Madison, 984 00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:14,080 Speaker 3: do you see yourself as someone that can go God, 985 00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:17,080 Speaker 3: I have so much to offer somebody because I was 986 00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:19,240 Speaker 3: great and I know how to win. But I also 987 00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:21,240 Speaker 3: know what it's like to be a little bit insecure 988 00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:21,760 Speaker 3: about myself. 989 00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:24,640 Speaker 1: So yeah, for sure, it's very hard for me to 990 00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:28,360 Speaker 1: get close to many people, and so for me to 991 00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:31,000 Speaker 1: have like a significant relationship, I have to be able 992 00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:33,880 Speaker 1: to completely open up and be myself. And there's not 993 00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:36,399 Speaker 1: many people who I'm comfortable doing that with. I mean, 994 00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:39,080 Speaker 1: who knows why With Madison? I mean, I met her 995 00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:44,600 Speaker 1: when she was eighteen nineteen and we just kind of 996 00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:47,480 Speaker 1: developed this amazing bond and whatever. I mean, we don't 997 00:43:47,520 --> 00:43:49,919 Speaker 1: even have roles now. It's like it's just like where 998 00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:53,160 Speaker 1: every day goes by, we exchange some kind of communication 999 00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:55,799 Speaker 1: or whatever, and so I feel like I can help 1000 00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:59,319 Speaker 1: her because I'm not scared to speak out or But 1001 00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:01,640 Speaker 1: that wudn't be the case with anybody. I don't know 1002 00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:04,640 Speaker 1: how to say that, but like a junior player or 1003 00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:06,920 Speaker 1: somebody that I just meet, it would probably be more. 1004 00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:09,360 Speaker 1: Oh no, you can you know more on the surface, 1005 00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:11,560 Speaker 1: where if I really get to know someone and really 1006 00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:15,279 Speaker 1: like them and any question, Yeah you're gonna do it. 1007 00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:15,759 Speaker 2: You're gonna do it. 1008 00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:18,319 Speaker 1: And so she I mean, we I've tried to help 1009 00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:20,200 Speaker 1: her through many things, and there's so many things that 1010 00:44:20,239 --> 00:44:22,479 Speaker 1: have gone on off the court that she's never talked 1011 00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:25,279 Speaker 1: about that she's had to overcome. And so, yeah, people 1012 00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:28,560 Speaker 1: know about surgeries or this, but she's a lot tougher 1013 00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:31,080 Speaker 1: than people give her credit for, and she's had to 1014 00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:32,879 Speaker 1: overcome a lot, and she has a lot of self 1015 00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:35,799 Speaker 1: doubt also, and she's doing a nice job of kind 1016 00:44:35,840 --> 00:44:38,120 Speaker 1: of trying to overcome that. In this age, it's a 1017 00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:40,080 Speaker 1: lot tougher to play also than when we. 1018 00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:42,480 Speaker 3: Play, absolutely, especially with social media, and she's exact great 1019 00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:44,759 Speaker 3: trying to you know, the anti bullying. 1020 00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:47,400 Speaker 1: Exactly with her fearlessly girl. And she has another I 1021 00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:48,759 Speaker 1: don't know when this is going to come out, she's 1022 00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:50,200 Speaker 1: got another huge event coming up. 1023 00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:53,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, but she I did that event for her last year. 1024 00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:55,800 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think the world of her. She's just great, 1025 00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:59,200 Speaker 1: and she's you know, she's navigating a difficult career. It's 1026 00:44:59,280 --> 00:44:59,880 Speaker 1: not so easy. 1027 00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:02,200 Speaker 3: It's not especially someone so good, and there's a lot 1028 00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:03,360 Speaker 3: of expectation on her shoulder. 1029 00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:04,839 Speaker 5: But she'll get there. She'll win us a line, There's 1030 00:45:04,880 --> 00:45:07,839 Speaker 5: no doubt about it. She's so close, all right. 1031 00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:12,359 Speaker 1: Something some fun like stories from Okay, doubles matches, doubles. Okay, 1032 00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:14,800 Speaker 1: there's one kind of crazy story that you know I 1033 00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:16,680 Speaker 1: haven't told much. I mean you would know the story. 1034 00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:19,279 Speaker 1: It's not doubles, but the end of the year in 1035 00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:22,560 Speaker 1: two thousand and one, and I didn't even make a 1036 00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:25,560 Speaker 1: slam final that year, but everyone at the top was 1037 00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:28,400 Speaker 1: kind of doing so well, like every all the points 1038 00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:29,520 Speaker 1: were kind of spread out. 1039 00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:29,799 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1040 00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:34,000 Speaker 1: So it was right after nine to eleven and had 1041 00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:39,320 Speaker 1: to go play in Europe. Starts off in Fielderstad, quick court, 1042 00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:44,120 Speaker 1: played well, won the tournament, and then I'm like so scared. No, no, 1043 00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:46,640 Speaker 1: I was so scared to go to Zurich. We and 1044 00:45:46,719 --> 00:45:49,160 Speaker 1: we had tickets and we're like, okay, we're gonna drive Desserik. 1045 00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:51,240 Speaker 1: A lot of people did, Okay, So we drive to Zurich, 1046 00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:54,960 Speaker 1: end up playing well. It's like getting towards the end 1047 00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:57,400 Speaker 1: of the week, and then there's one week off there's 1048 00:45:57,480 --> 00:46:01,200 Speaker 1: and then the WTA Championships were immunie that year. So 1049 00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:02,920 Speaker 1: my coach is like, do you want to have a 1050 00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:04,640 Speaker 1: week off now that you're doing so well on Zurich, 1051 00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:06,320 Speaker 1: it's kind of hard to go all the way back home. 1052 00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:09,359 Speaker 1: There's a tournament in Lynz next week, and I go, 1053 00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:11,239 Speaker 1: and this is how we decide. I go, how far 1054 00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:14,000 Speaker 1: is Linz? I don't want to fly. I think we 1055 00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:16,160 Speaker 1: could drive it in t double day. I go, okay, 1056 00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:18,000 Speaker 1: well let's go to Linz. Then so I end up 1057 00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:21,239 Speaker 1: winning Zurich, two tournaments, go on to Lynz, drive the 1058 00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:23,920 Speaker 1: six hours over two days. Whatever we did, I can't remember, 1059 00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:26,480 Speaker 1: go to Linz, win Linz. It was kind of like 1060 00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:28,600 Speaker 1: this crazy run. So I've won three tournaments in a row, 1061 00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:30,680 Speaker 1: now going in the WTA finals, and now all of 1062 00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:32,920 Speaker 1: a sudden, I have a chance to finish the year one. 1063 00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:36,840 Speaker 1: Kind of crazy. How it all came about certain players 1064 00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:39,520 Speaker 1: depended on their results. Anyways, I find myself on semi 1065 00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:41,719 Speaker 1: final day. If I win, I finished the year one. 1066 00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:44,560 Speaker 1: If I lose, I don't whatever reason. I'm playing Kim 1067 00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:48,319 Speaker 1: cleisters four all on the third and I have break 1068 00:46:48,360 --> 00:46:51,760 Speaker 1: point and I hit a backhand return line and I'm 1069 00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:53,480 Speaker 1: sure I shanked it late because I could doubt I 1070 00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:56,000 Speaker 1: would step in at that stage for a winner and 1071 00:46:56,080 --> 00:46:59,799 Speaker 1: Kim bounces a racket and the chair umpire goes over 1072 00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:03,080 Speaker 1: old out and I was like, like, so it's not 1073 00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:05,000 Speaker 1: my game now I didn't break serve. I'm like what 1074 00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:08,680 Speaker 1: I argued with Annlessarah Ulrich for forever. I love that 1075 00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:10,560 Speaker 1: you remember her forever. Well that's what I wrote the 1076 00:47:10,600 --> 00:47:14,680 Speaker 1: apology to it. So yelling arguing with her. Whatever I 1077 00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:16,880 Speaker 1: lose the next two point Kim's hold, I spend the 1078 00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:19,680 Speaker 1: next whole change over arguing at four or five now 1079 00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:21,960 Speaker 1: down in the third so much so the supervisor came 1080 00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:26,120 Speaker 1: out and was like you gotta like yeah, and like, 1081 00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:30,160 Speaker 1: which is exactly or the supervisor could have done too. 1082 00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:32,080 Speaker 1: They came out and were like you you've got to 1083 00:47:32,200 --> 00:47:35,399 Speaker 1: like let it go. Yeah. Anyway, So then we get 1084 00:47:35,400 --> 00:47:37,000 Speaker 1: to a tie break in the third set. I am 1085 00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:38,440 Speaker 1: up five to one in the tie break in the 1086 00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:41,880 Speaker 1: third she hits a drop shot. I run up to it. 1087 00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:43,800 Speaker 1: I get to back in in the court and my 1088 00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:46,480 Speaker 1: knee gives out. Ye, she misses the pass. I was 1089 00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:48,440 Speaker 1: on the ground. So I'm now up six to one 1090 00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:50,120 Speaker 1: in the break or six to two whatever it was, 1091 00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:53,160 Speaker 1: holding my knee, crying like oh my god. I can't walk, 1092 00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:55,840 Speaker 1: walk back, lose the next point. I don't know. I 1093 00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:59,239 Speaker 1: make one serve, I win the match, and I do 1094 00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:01,920 Speaker 1: not smile. I put my head down, walked the net, 1095 00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:04,120 Speaker 1: shake her hand. I've now finished the year one, put 1096 00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:05,799 Speaker 1: my rack in my bag. I walked off the court. 1097 00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:07,400 Speaker 1: I didn't play again for an eight or nine months. 1098 00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:10,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like they had to get an exhibition match. 1099 00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:11,560 Speaker 1: Yeh final couldn't play the final. 1100 00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:14,239 Speaker 2: I think had gone out the night before and was 1101 00:48:14,320 --> 00:48:16,000 Speaker 2: hungover totally and they made her play. 1102 00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:20,120 Speaker 1: Yep, I mean it was I knew immediately. They were like, oh, 1103 00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:22,600 Speaker 1: if you play, if you didn't play, they took away 1104 00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:25,480 Speaker 1: like money between the semis and finals. They deducted like 1105 00:48:25,520 --> 00:48:28,319 Speaker 1: fifty percent. And I remember John, my boyfriend, was like, 1106 00:48:28,360 --> 00:48:29,959 Speaker 1: can you just go out there and fake a set? 1107 00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:31,280 Speaker 1: I go, dude, I cannot. 1108 00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:32,760 Speaker 2: There is there a funny story? 1109 00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:35,560 Speaker 1: I didn't play again until, like you said, I. 1110 00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:37,640 Speaker 3: Mean, everyone just one Like Darren k Hill told a 1111 00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:41,200 Speaker 3: hilarious one about his Well, you have to listen to 1112 00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:44,000 Speaker 3: the podcast, But what is there one story that you remember? 1113 00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:46,759 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, there's like a lot of funny things happen. 1114 00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:49,880 Speaker 1: You kind of forget some I remember one year at Wimbledon. 1115 00:48:50,760 --> 00:48:53,759 Speaker 1: I don't think it was ninety nine. I think it 1116 00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:57,880 Speaker 1: was the year before. I was playing Florencia Labot lefty 1117 00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:01,799 Speaker 1: from Argentina, which was okay on grass, I mean, but 1118 00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:05,480 Speaker 1: not great to play lefty, and we were playing on Monday. 1119 00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:10,160 Speaker 1: And I remember on maybe starting Saturday night, like I 1120 00:49:10,200 --> 00:49:12,640 Speaker 1: didn't feel great and you know, not like nerves like 1121 00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:15,160 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I don't feel right. And Sunday 1122 00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:17,320 Speaker 1: like I practiced a little bit, but I wasn't feeling 1123 00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:19,680 Speaker 1: well at all, but didn't go to the trainers for 1124 00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:22,040 Speaker 1: whatever reason. And so my coach Robert was like, Okay, 1125 00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:23,920 Speaker 1: let me see if I can find you something. And 1126 00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:26,440 Speaker 1: again more things were open, yes in the nineties and 1127 00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:28,440 Speaker 1: the eighties, but not everything was open on Sunday in 1128 00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:31,239 Speaker 1: Wimbledon village. So he came back and gave me this 1129 00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:34,799 Speaker 1: medicine for my stomach, like didn't think anything of it, 1130 00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:38,279 Speaker 1: took it and probably took more than I was supposed to. 1131 00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:41,080 Speaker 1: And then we were at dinner and I was like, 1132 00:49:41,160 --> 00:49:45,080 Speaker 1: oh my god, I feel horrible, and like ran out 1133 00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:48,200 Speaker 1: to use the potty or whatever. Anyways, get back and 1134 00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:48,880 Speaker 1: I start reading it. 1135 00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:50,600 Speaker 5: Four kids. 1136 00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:54,719 Speaker 1: At the time, No go back and start reading it 1137 00:49:54,760 --> 00:49:57,600 Speaker 1: and it's milk of magnesia, which was like a diuretic, 1138 00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:01,840 Speaker 1: and I like, literally all night you have no idea, 1139 00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:04,399 Speaker 1: Like there was nothing left in my body. I had 1140 00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:06,919 Speaker 1: to play like burst on and I remember like when 1141 00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:09,120 Speaker 1: I'm like, I, dude, I think you gave me like 1142 00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:11,920 Speaker 1: a like something you're not supposed to. It's like a 1143 00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:15,359 Speaker 1: laxative or something like. I was like, oh my god, 1144 00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:17,920 Speaker 1: and I'm like, I feel so like I have no energy. 1145 00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:20,440 Speaker 1: I feel like I have nothing. And I remember I 1146 00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:22,600 Speaker 1: was up six two five love and then I lost 1147 00:50:22,680 --> 00:50:24,640 Speaker 1: two games and I swear I felt like I'd played 1148 00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:27,040 Speaker 1: like four hours it was, and he was laughing so 1149 00:50:27,320 --> 00:50:29,600 Speaker 1: hard at me, and I was like, I can't believe this. 1150 00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:32,560 Speaker 1: I'm like that. That was like you have to go 1151 00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:34,160 Speaker 1: to the bathroom in the middle. I think I did, 1152 00:50:34,239 --> 00:50:35,600 Speaker 1: which I think that might have been one of the 1153 00:50:35,640 --> 00:50:38,000 Speaker 1: few times I took a bathroom break. It was like 1154 00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:40,480 Speaker 1: we laughed for hours and hours after. But it was 1155 00:50:40,560 --> 00:50:43,400 Speaker 1: like so stressed playing that match because I knew before 1156 00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:45,839 Speaker 1: the match, I was like, oh my god, I have 1157 00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:50,719 Speaker 1: I have nothing left. Literally, oh my god, I can't 1158 00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:53,520 Speaker 1: even oh who that was that was I remember that one. 1159 00:50:53,640 --> 00:50:55,320 Speaker 1: I remember being like so crazy. 1160 00:50:55,320 --> 00:50:57,080 Speaker 3: You know, there was one story one time with me 1161 00:50:57,160 --> 00:50:59,239 Speaker 3: the Francis is a disgusting But now we were talking 1162 00:50:59,239 --> 00:51:03,840 Speaker 3: about poopy. I was before a doubles match with Lisa 1163 00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:06,359 Speaker 3: and Lisa. You know Lisa, she was always so prepared, right, 1164 00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:06,799 Speaker 3: she had the. 1165 00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:08,960 Speaker 2: Two of this and the two of that, and the 1166 00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:10,799 Speaker 2: skirts and the you know soup. 1167 00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:12,080 Speaker 1: Everything's packed really well. 1168 00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:16,400 Speaker 3: And it was outside talking to my fitness trainer and okay, 1169 00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:18,879 Speaker 3: I mean it's kind of gross, but you know when 1170 00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:21,200 Speaker 3: you got a little gas and you're like, I've gotta 1171 00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:25,120 Speaker 3: right and I was no, everyone was down wind. It 1172 00:51:25,160 --> 00:51:26,640 Speaker 3: was fine. I was like, no one was he I 1173 00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:28,359 Speaker 3: was talking to him. He wouldn't have smelled it was. 1174 00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:31,200 Speaker 3: And so I was like, I'm just gonna fight. And anyway, 1175 00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:36,200 Speaker 3: I didn't fight. I something else happened and I was like, 1176 00:51:36,239 --> 00:51:38,640 Speaker 3: I looked at him and I went, Dave, I gotta go, 1177 00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:41,000 Speaker 3: and he goes, okay, I'm gotta get ready for my match, 1178 00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:41,879 Speaker 3: and so I run. 1179 00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:43,880 Speaker 5: I didn't run because I had. 1180 00:51:43,920 --> 00:51:45,120 Speaker 2: Stuff that I didn't want. 1181 00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:46,120 Speaker 1: This is too much. 1182 00:51:46,280 --> 00:51:47,880 Speaker 3: And I went to the locker room and I literally 1183 00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:49,440 Speaker 3: walked up to Lisa, and I go, do you have 1184 00:51:49,440 --> 00:51:50,560 Speaker 3: an extra pair of tennis pants? 1185 00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:51,280 Speaker 5: Because remember. 1186 00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:53,160 Speaker 1: Pants? 1187 00:51:53,760 --> 00:51:54,799 Speaker 2: I go, do you have an extra pair. 1188 00:51:54,680 --> 00:51:55,200 Speaker 5: Of tennis pants? 1189 00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:57,080 Speaker 2: She goes, yeah, why, and I go, I just shipped 1190 00:51:57,120 --> 00:52:03,279 Speaker 2: my pants. That's a true story anyway. 1191 00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:07,320 Speaker 1: Anyway, sorry I had to give that topic. Well you're 1192 00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:11,200 Speaker 1: shitting your pants? Yeah literally, no, no, not literally for me, 1193 00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:14,960 Speaker 1: literally for you. But it was like all night, been 1194 00:52:15,000 --> 00:52:20,400 Speaker 1: like during the match. No, no, it wasn't perfect. All right. 1195 00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:22,600 Speaker 3: So another funny story that you were telling me today 1196 00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:25,040 Speaker 3: was you have four children. 1197 00:52:25,120 --> 00:52:28,560 Speaker 1: Oh gosh, yeah, so four kids. I always knew I 1198 00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:30,680 Speaker 1: wanted to name if I had a boy Jagger. I 1199 00:52:30,680 --> 00:52:32,560 Speaker 1: don't know why. It just was I'm not like a 1200 00:52:32,640 --> 00:52:35,480 Speaker 1: Mick Jagger fan. I like the Stones, but that was 1201 00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:37,600 Speaker 1: always kind of I don't know, I thought it sounded great. 1202 00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:40,520 Speaker 1: So John kind of went along with that. And so 1203 00:52:40,600 --> 00:52:43,120 Speaker 1: the second one came and he was like, oh, I 1204 00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:45,160 Speaker 1: get to choose this one. I was like no, no, no, no, 1205 00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:50,480 Speaker 1: that's too much. He's like, well, you chose the first one, 1206 00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:53,719 Speaker 1: I know the second one, And funny enough, he was 1207 00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:57,040 Speaker 1: like adamant that the second one being named Olympia, and 1208 00:52:57,120 --> 00:52:59,319 Speaker 1: which is super funny now that Seren ended up. I 1209 00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:02,160 Speaker 1: was like, no, I didn't at that time, didn't like it. 1210 00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:04,960 Speaker 1: And I remember actually being in the room trying and 1211 00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:07,279 Speaker 1: my doctors like trying to calm me down because I'm like, 1212 00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:09,880 Speaker 1: we're not naming our daughter that, okay, would you stop? 1213 00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:14,440 Speaker 1: So we kind of after four days in the hospital, 1214 00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:16,080 Speaker 1: we have to have a name that stands alone. I go, 1215 00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:17,960 Speaker 1: we do not have to have a name that stands alone. 1216 00:53:18,440 --> 00:53:22,080 Speaker 1: Were just we're just fine. So we ended up literally 1217 00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:24,920 Speaker 1: settling on Lauren. And it was the best I could negotiate. 1218 00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:28,120 Speaker 1: So it was like he was five names. I can't 1219 00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:32,080 Speaker 1: even it was crazy. So we settled on Lauren. So 1220 00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:34,640 Speaker 1: then we have the third and he's like, I am 1221 00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:36,319 Speaker 1: basically I'm fucking naming this kid. 1222 00:53:36,360 --> 00:53:36,600 Speaker 3: Okay. 1223 00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:39,560 Speaker 1: Me out like, oh my god, I have to get 1224 00:53:39,560 --> 00:53:43,120 Speaker 1: like some approval. He's like okay. So it was like again, 1225 00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:44,879 Speaker 1: I mean, we're in the hospital for a few days. 1226 00:53:44,880 --> 00:53:47,000 Speaker 1: I had c sections on all four. It was like 1227 00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:49,640 Speaker 1: day three and he's like we have to leave. We're 1228 00:53:49,719 --> 00:53:51,560 Speaker 1: leaving the hospital that day. We still don't have a name. 1229 00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:53,960 Speaker 1: We obviously didn't agree on this. He's like, Okay, I 1230 00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:58,319 Speaker 1: really like the name Kaya I'm like okay, like I 1231 00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:01,040 Speaker 1: don't love it, but he's like, please, you owe this 1232 00:54:01,120 --> 00:54:04,000 Speaker 1: to me. And I'm like, okay, fine, just had a 1233 00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:06,719 Speaker 1: third baby of yours. She's ten pounds. I owe it 1234 00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:09,560 Speaker 1: to you. Okay, whatever. So I'm like, okay, it can 1235 00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:11,600 Speaker 1: be Kaya. I get the middle name Emory. It's a 1236 00:54:11,600 --> 00:54:15,040 Speaker 1: family name on my dad's side, so I'm like, okay, 1237 00:54:15,120 --> 00:54:18,160 Speaker 1: Kaya Emory, Okay, okay, I'll go with that. He goes okay, 1238 00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:21,319 Speaker 1: So the you have to sign like the bursts, like 1239 00:54:21,360 --> 00:54:24,800 Speaker 1: the all those papers in the room. So my husband, 1240 00:54:24,800 --> 00:54:28,319 Speaker 1: who's quite clever and quite mischievous and quite smart, he's like, okay, 1241 00:54:28,320 --> 00:54:30,240 Speaker 1: can we get the papers? Like and they're like okay, 1242 00:54:30,239 --> 00:54:31,840 Speaker 1: well do you want them? Are you gonna leave the 1243 00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:33,359 Speaker 1: hospital you want to come back? No? No, we're not leaving 1244 00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:37,200 Speaker 1: until we sign them. I go okay, whatever, sign the 1245 00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:40,319 Speaker 1: papers and he all immediately breaks down to this big 1246 00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:43,759 Speaker 1: grin because now it's done, yeah, done, like Maya is yeah. 1247 00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:46,440 Speaker 1: And it was like and I'm like, why are you laughing? 1248 00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:48,640 Speaker 1: What the what is going on? And he just starts 1249 00:54:48,680 --> 00:54:50,960 Speaker 1: thinks it's the funniest thing. He starts laughing, and he's 1250 00:54:50,960 --> 00:54:53,839 Speaker 1: on the couch. I go like, what he goes, Kay 1251 00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:56,960 Speaker 1: is Bob Marley's nickname for marijuana. That would be just 1252 00:54:57,000 --> 00:55:01,120 Speaker 1: fucking awesome, Like, oh my god, you did not just 1253 00:55:01,200 --> 00:55:03,360 Speaker 1: do that. He just like he's like, yep. 1254 00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:03,719 Speaker 4: I did. 1255 00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:07,280 Speaker 1: And now we're and she's yeah exactly, and you're stuck 1256 00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:09,680 Speaker 1: with it and you can't change it and we're going 1257 00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:13,359 Speaker 1: home now. So then yeah, that was I don't know why. 1258 00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:16,000 Speaker 1: Some people really it like clicks and it agrees and 1259 00:55:16,000 --> 00:55:19,120 Speaker 1: we could never agree on a name. And she's she's 1260 00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:22,399 Speaker 1: but she's like the four kids, she's the only one 1261 00:55:22,400 --> 00:55:27,000 Speaker 1: that's she's like, could you say that? She's pretty mellow exactly. 1262 00:55:27,280 --> 00:55:29,480 Speaker 1: It's like the most loving kid. And I'm like, oh 1263 00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:31,359 Speaker 1: my god, and I'm gonna have to explain to her. 1264 00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:33,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, her dad, but that's her coolest thing ever. 1265 00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:35,799 Speaker 1: So there's just the really coolest kid. A really cool 1266 00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:38,800 Speaker 1: song Kaya. Bob Marley obviously sings it, and it's actually 1267 00:55:38,840 --> 00:55:40,680 Speaker 1: one of our favorite songs. I haven't told them what 1268 00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:43,680 Speaker 1: I've got to have Kaya now means, but the kids 1269 00:55:43,719 --> 00:55:48,520 Speaker 1: all sing it. It's like that, what's the it's the 1270 00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:52,640 Speaker 1: the movie with the movie with the with the pot 1271 00:55:52,760 --> 00:55:55,520 Speaker 1: with the Okay well, that was part of the joke 1272 00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:57,440 Speaker 1: that he thought was so funny. So okay, now I'm 1273 00:55:57,480 --> 00:55:59,880 Speaker 1: forty two years old. I have never even seen marijuana 1274 00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:02,799 Speaker 1: like that. Obviously, never smoked it, never seen it. We 1275 00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:05,040 Speaker 1: were somewhere, like, I don't know, six months ago. I 1276 00:56:05,080 --> 00:56:07,080 Speaker 1: was like, God, it smells. What is that. He's like, 1277 00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:10,760 Speaker 1: oh my god, you're so innocent. He's like, it's Marimonolens. 1278 00:56:12,360 --> 00:56:14,880 Speaker 1: So that was he thought that was really funny, and 1279 00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:18,800 Speaker 1: his twisted sent to humor and the last child Haven 1280 00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:22,200 Speaker 1: because originally my name, my name, my ancestor's name was 1281 00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:26,480 Speaker 1: Davin Haven when they came over from wherever in Great Yeah, 1282 00:56:26,560 --> 00:56:29,600 Speaker 1: no exactly, so it was Davin Haven turned to Davenport 1283 00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:32,120 Speaker 1: once they got over here. So I thought that was cool. 1284 00:56:32,200 --> 00:56:35,840 Speaker 1: I don't know, She's definitely not Haven. You think like Serene, 1285 00:56:35,880 --> 00:56:38,400 Speaker 1: and it's just absolutely the opposite. So we got we 1286 00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:43,680 Speaker 1: got duped on that one. She definitely is not Kaya. 1287 00:56:44,280 --> 00:56:45,719 Speaker 5: No, not definitely not no. 1288 00:56:46,000 --> 00:56:48,000 Speaker 1: What you'll be hearing that name in the future in 1289 00:56:48,040 --> 00:56:55,959 Speaker 1: the wrong pages of the newspaper. Even chudg out, let's 1290 00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:56,880 Speaker 1: go do a kid's clinic. 1291 00:56:56,960 --> 00:56:57,799 Speaker 5: Yeah, let's do it. 1292 00:56:59,239 --> 00:57:01,960 Speaker 4: And that's it for this episode. Of the Racket Magazine podcast. 1293 00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:05,319 Speaker 4: Thanks for listening. Our host is Renee Stubbs. Our co 1294 00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:09,080 Speaker 4: host and producer is me Caitlin Thompson. Music by internationally 1295 00:57:09,080 --> 00:57:12,640 Speaker 4: renowned DJ Stretch Armstrong, Thanks to Tim Or, Jerry, Taylor 1296 00:57:12,719 --> 00:57:15,600 Speaker 4: Dalton and the team at ACAST. 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