1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:02,360 Speaker 1: That's why I kept having to remind them. I'm in 2 00:00:02,400 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 1: a room full of afters. All of you guys chose, 3 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:07,880 Speaker 1: for whatever reason to do some type of plastic surgery 4 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:11,280 Speaker 1: or maintenance on your face, your body, your butt, your titties, whatever. 5 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 1: Don't forget your before body. 6 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:16,240 Speaker 2: Stay tuned. 7 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:19,840 Speaker 3: We'll get into my conversation with Og from Basketball Wives 8 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 3: right after these quick ads. Hey rain drops so on 9 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 3: today's Reality with the King episode, I have the one, 10 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:40,879 Speaker 3: the only Og from season eight of Basketball Wives. Baby, 11 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:45,320 Speaker 3: we get into a lot of stuff. Of course, we 12 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 3: get into the conversations of colorism and how Og felt 13 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 3: that was a big issue that she faced being on 14 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:56,120 Speaker 3: the show. We get in to her an evolence drama 15 00:00:56,760 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 3: in addition to her relationships with Shawnee, Tammy Roman, and 16 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 3: even one of the producers who allegedly did some very 17 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 3: shady things to her. This was a very deep, insightful, 18 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 3: informational and educational conversation with Og, and I cannot wait 19 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 3: until y'all hear it without further ado, here is Og. Well, 20 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:30,319 Speaker 3: Og is so nice to finally meet you. It's funny 21 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 3: because I'm a huge Basketball Wise fan. I love the 22 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:37,560 Speaker 3: show since the inception many many, many, many many many 23 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:41,679 Speaker 3: years ago, Darling, and when you came on, I was like, oh, 24 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:45,119 Speaker 3: they found a good one, because when I look at 25 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 3: reality stars, I look at somebody who is authentically themselves 26 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 3: and who does give to the show what they would 27 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 3: give in their everyday life. And I felt like, job 28 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 3: well done casting Og. And I even tweeted that I 29 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 3: loved me some Og, and the reality fans was like, 30 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 3: Carlos King, create a show for Og. We love her too. 31 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:10,520 Speaker 3: So I was like, okay, so we all love Og. 32 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 3: How did it feel in the beginning of this process? 33 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:16,640 Speaker 3: And we'll go down into, of course, what happened. But 34 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:20,239 Speaker 3: in the beginning, Og, you were one of the fan 35 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:22,280 Speaker 3: favorites on Basketball Wives. 36 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:25,919 Speaker 2: What happened to where you're no longer on the show? 37 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 1: Okay? So I think that for me, as a public figure, 38 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 1: it's imperative that certain things are told from the horse's mouth. 39 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:36,920 Speaker 1: A lot of rumors were sparked from my first season, 40 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 1: Oh OG's not returning, she's fired again. My second season, 41 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:43,799 Speaker 1: OG's not returning, She's fired. I will say this. When 42 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 1: I initially signed my contract, I signed on for five years, okay, 43 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:51,360 Speaker 1: so I was locked in for those five years, and 44 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 1: I was ready, willing and able to work those five 45 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 1: years and then move on to my next step. Come 46 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:00,640 Speaker 1: my third year, it was apparent that they did not 47 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:03,920 Speaker 1: really want me to be the best version of myself. 48 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 1: They were purposely editing it to make me look like 49 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 1: a nightmare, which was not true, which ultimately caused a 50 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 1: lot of behind the scene issues because I think that 51 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 1: it's imperative that when you're having problems at work you 52 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:18,640 Speaker 1: talk to your employers right away, which I did. You 53 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: don't wait till they terminate you. And so as things 54 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:24,840 Speaker 1: were arising, I was telling them, I'm having issues with this. 55 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 1: You guys are doing this. We need to fix this 56 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:30,080 Speaker 1: so that this can be a work environment that is productive. 57 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 1: And ultimately they chose to fire me because I refused. Yes, 58 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 1: I refuse to lie. I refuse to do anything that 59 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 1: was not morally okay with myself, and I stood my 60 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 1: ground and because of that, I was terminated on my 61 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 1: third year of my contract. Now, mind you, when I 62 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 1: signed my third year contract, we do so, we had 63 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 1: a revision. I got a pay increase, and as one 64 00:03:57,720 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 1: of those stipulations, they pretty much said we need to 65 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 1: add two more years and I was like, no, I 66 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 1: just want to do my five years and just move on, 67 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 1: because you guys clearly don't like me. You clearly are 68 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 1: not treating me respectable, you know, in my eyes, and 69 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 1: I think the audience noticed that as well, and they 70 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:16,280 Speaker 1: were like, no, in order to get your pay increase, 71 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 1: you need to add on two years. So they gave 72 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: me seven years in total, and then ultimately fired me, 73 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:24,800 Speaker 1: not allowing me to complete my contract. And I have 74 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 1: to get that out there because I'm not a quitter. 75 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:28,599 Speaker 1: Like listen, I don't care how hard it gets. I 76 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 1: don't quit. I thug it out. 77 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 3: So when you said, okay, so let's back up a 78 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:36,480 Speaker 3: little bit, and it's good you're talking to me because 79 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:39,360 Speaker 3: you know I understand the industry obviously. You know I 80 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 3: have a production company. We create shows, we cash shows, 81 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 3: and we have deals with networks. So for my listeners, 82 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 3: I want to break it down for them og really quickly, 83 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:51,360 Speaker 3: but obviously stop me if I say anything inaccurate. So 84 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 3: you signed on to do Basketball Wives. They had a 85 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:58,160 Speaker 3: five year option on you. When you signed up for 86 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:04,280 Speaker 3: the first year. You did first year and we loved you. 87 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 3: I loved you, the fans loved you, but we also 88 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 3: knew obviously you had a very tough. 89 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 2: Season, and we'll get into that too. But you signed down. 90 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 3: To do a second season, and then what happened your 91 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 3: third season of wanting to do the show where you said. 92 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 2: That you were fired. 93 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 3: Did they fire you because you didn't sign the contract 94 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 3: to have the additional two years? Did they fire you 95 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 3: because are you alleging that they wanted you to say 96 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:35,040 Speaker 3: something that you weren't comfortable with? 97 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 1: Like? 98 00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:38,479 Speaker 3: What what do you think allegedly was the reason behind 99 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 3: you being let go? 100 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:43,039 Speaker 1: Okay, so, first year, like you said, was rough. I 101 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 1: got very horrible at its. They kind of tried to 102 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 1: like cut me out of the scenes and what have you. Okay, 103 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 1: no problem. Second season, every time you saw with you, 104 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: as you know Carlos being a producer, we have wins, 105 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:59,559 Speaker 1: like when you're going against your cast nets, Like certain 106 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 1: cast mets will get w's in certain castmates will take 107 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:06,039 Speaker 1: losses in these combats when you're verbally going at each other. Okay, 108 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:10,440 Speaker 1: So I clearly was having multiple wins against the collectives, 109 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:13,479 Speaker 1: and I had no idea that they were setting me 110 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 1: up every time and failing miserably every single time, and 111 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:19,719 Speaker 1: that was making them uncomfortable. We were shaking the table 112 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:22,600 Speaker 1: too much, myself, my man, my team people who were 113 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 1: team OG were like, dang, they keep putt her in 114 00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 1: these situations. They keep calling her ugly, they keep calling 115 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 1: her this, that monkey gorilla, and yet she still keeps 116 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:34,719 Speaker 1: coming back with facts, facts, facts. I mean, you're searching 117 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 1: to try to see if my real Louiston is fake facts. 118 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:41,120 Speaker 1: Here are my receipts. And they didn't like that, so 119 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 1: they could not get the wins for their favorites like 120 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:48,240 Speaker 1: they wanted to. A big issue on our show is 121 00:06:48,279 --> 00:06:51,039 Speaker 1: that we have an executive producer who is also a 122 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 1: cast member, So anyone who kisses her ass is going 123 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:56,919 Speaker 1: to get access to information they should not have access to. 124 00:06:57,320 --> 00:06:59,719 Speaker 1: They should not have access to my contract, They should 125 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:01,720 Speaker 1: not have access to how much I'm getting paid. They 126 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 1: should not have access to what's happening in my separate 127 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 1: scenes when they're not present, but they did. However, I 128 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 1: did not have access to any of this information. So 129 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 1: when you see me reacting to everything that was done 130 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 1: to me, I was literally caught off guard. Every single 131 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 1: time nobody helped me. Producers didn't take me to get 132 00:07:21,400 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 1: a print in Costa Rica. I didn't get to go 133 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 1: print up receipts. You see me say, let me go 134 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 1: get my phone. That's because I was told by production, 135 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:32,000 Speaker 1: leave your phone in the car. So I left my 136 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 1: phone in the car. You know, we all did, except Jackie. 137 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 1: Jackie had all two of her phones on her and 138 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 1: she was recording on her little and I left my 139 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 1: phone in the car. So when this person was like, 140 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 1: oh oh my ex did okay cool, let me go 141 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 1: get my receipt and they didn't like that. So ultimately 142 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 1: what happened was I got sued. I don't know if 143 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 1: you guys remember I received a lawsuit from my coworker 144 00:07:54,920 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 1: and she sued me because she was making nasty, racist 145 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:02,160 Speaker 1: statements and I called her out on it, and then 146 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:05,240 Speaker 1: I got sued, and then I got a restraining order 147 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 1: that they tried to have issue against me that was 148 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 1: ultimately dismissed. So that's what started the catalyst of an 149 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 1: even more toxic environment. This person sued me to I 150 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 1: don't know if she was trying to not have to 151 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 1: film with me or trying to stop my money flow 152 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 1: by cutting me out of certain scenes if she's present, 153 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 1: but she did not succeed because we are still in 154 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 1: court as of today. 155 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 2: As of today, girl, that lossuit was still happening. 156 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:34,319 Speaker 1: That's that's years ago. 157 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:34,880 Speaker 2: Sis. 158 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:37,520 Speaker 1: It hasn't been settled because what happened was is she 159 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 1: sued me October of twenty nineteen. COVID happened all of 160 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 1: twenty twenty and beginning of twenty twenty one, courts were closed. 161 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 1: When we finally had our first court date where we 162 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 1: had to appear via zoom, that person didn't want to 163 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 1: a pair via zoom because she alleged she feared for 164 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 1: her life, so the judge was not having it. A 165 00:08:57,720 --> 00:08:59,560 Speaker 1: lot of people were like, what is going on? So 166 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 1: we had it continuous. For those who don't know, a 167 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 1: continuous is when you push like trial dates now come 168 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,080 Speaker 1: to twenty twenty two. Our trial date was set for 169 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 1: this December. This person, Lozata, has literally changed attorneys three times. 170 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:15,960 Speaker 1: She had her first attorney who actually used to be 171 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:19,840 Speaker 1: Jen's divorce lawyer. I don't know what happened, but that 172 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:24,720 Speaker 1: relationship dissolved. Then she asked for a document to be 173 00:09:24,760 --> 00:09:27,440 Speaker 1: able to represent herself, so then she was now her 174 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:30,839 Speaker 1: own attorney. That lasted for a few months and then 175 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 1: that was dissolved, and she just now hired a new 176 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:36,320 Speaker 1: attorney and asked for the court date to be moved 177 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 1: to June of twenty twenty four. 178 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 3: Ooh, okay, wow, og, this is a lot. So let's 179 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 3: let's unpack this a bit. So this lawsuit is still 180 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:54,960 Speaker 3: ongoing because obviously, you know, this person alleged that you 181 00:09:55,559 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 3: made comments that she was racist, said these racist things 182 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:08,200 Speaker 3: about you, and allegedly she is saying that she lost 183 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:13,560 Speaker 3: deals because of these allegations. Is that the merit of 184 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 3: the lawsuit from her point of view allegedly correct. 185 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:21,680 Speaker 1: So she's alleging that by me saying you're a racist 186 00:10:21,880 --> 00:10:27,080 Speaker 1: on my Twitter, that that caused her to allegedly lose endorsements. 187 00:10:27,280 --> 00:10:29,560 Speaker 1: And I've already done everything i was supposed to do 188 00:10:29,600 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 1: on my end. I've turned in my discovery, I've turned 189 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:34,120 Speaker 1: in most of my evidence, and I still have more. 190 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 1: And the funny thing is you have to have a 191 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:40,960 Speaker 1: good reputation to lose that reputation. She never had a 192 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:45,040 Speaker 1: good reputation. She lost endorsements because she was counting her 193 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:50,840 Speaker 1: pussy on national TV to millions of viewers. Me, I 194 00:10:51,040 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 1: lost money, I lost endorsements. I've been out thousands and 195 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 1: thousands and thousands of dollars in legal fees to have 196 00:10:57,880 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 1: to deal with this mess because she couldn't just say 197 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:05,320 Speaker 1: take my l and move on. She thought that she 198 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:07,840 Speaker 1: was going to be able to insult me on National 199 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:10,720 Speaker 1: TV and degrade me on National TV, and she was 200 00:11:10,920 --> 00:11:13,600 Speaker 1: very unsuccessful. In fact, she just made it all reverse 201 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:16,319 Speaker 1: on herself. I was not the first person to call 202 00:11:16,360 --> 00:11:20,240 Speaker 1: her racist. Everybody has amnesia. The first person to call 203 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:23,319 Speaker 1: her a racist in my first season, and also her 204 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:26,679 Speaker 1: first season was season seven when she made those nasty, 205 00:11:26,800 --> 00:11:30,200 Speaker 1: disgusting comments to CC. I'm not even gonna repeat them. 206 00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:32,640 Speaker 1: Everybody knows what she calls CC. And that's only what 207 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:34,400 Speaker 1: you guys saw. That's not even what you guys saw 208 00:11:34,440 --> 00:11:37,360 Speaker 1: behind the scenes. What you saw on National TV to 209 00:11:37,520 --> 00:11:42,600 Speaker 1: multimillion viewers was her calling CC nasty racist names, and 210 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:46,200 Speaker 1: CC said in that moment, oh, so you're a racist. 211 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:49,560 Speaker 1: So I always pose the question, why didn't you sue CC? 212 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:52,959 Speaker 1: CC called you a racist, Not that you have any warrant. 213 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:55,959 Speaker 1: You have no reason you can sue her. Everybody's entitled 214 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 1: to their opinion, and if you act in a certain way, 215 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:01,120 Speaker 1: if it walks like a talks like a duck. It's 216 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 1: a duck. Okay. You called her a nasty racial name, 217 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 1: and she called you out on it to millions of yours. 218 00:12:07,280 --> 00:12:11,640 Speaker 1: I called you racists on my Twitter to thousands, if 219 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:14,560 Speaker 1: that not millions. You see what I'm saying, So that 220 00:12:14,640 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 1: in itself proves the colorism. That and itself proves the racism. 221 00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:22,280 Speaker 1: You don't sue the Filipino girl. You sue the chocolate 222 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:25,440 Speaker 1: African girl because you think I'm in the wrong. I'm 223 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:27,840 Speaker 1: not in the wrong. I know what I saw, I 224 00:12:27,920 --> 00:12:30,360 Speaker 1: know what I heard, and I know what I experienced, 225 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:33,480 Speaker 1: and I think that a lot of people they have 226 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:36,840 Speaker 1: fear because when these nasty things are happening to you, 227 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:39,640 Speaker 1: you don't want to shake the table. You don't want 228 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 1: to have to cause a ruckus. But honestly, this stuff happening, 229 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 1: I either had to choose to do the right thing 230 00:12:47,920 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 1: or to act like it didn't happen all for the bad. 231 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 1: And I couldn't do that. It just morally was not 232 00:12:53,880 --> 00:12:57,040 Speaker 1: okay for me to say, Okay, they could be racist 233 00:12:57,040 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 1: in the environment and I'm just gonna get my money 234 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 1: and leave. No, we're gonna talk about it, and you're 235 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:05,439 Speaker 1: going to stop or leave. I'm not the racist one. 236 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:08,120 Speaker 1: I don't have a problem. I like the way I look. 237 00:13:08,960 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 1: I never commented on their parents because I'm not attracted 238 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 1: to females like that. So what's the problem. It's not 239 00:13:14,720 --> 00:13:17,000 Speaker 1: my issue, it's their issue, all of them. 240 00:13:17,440 --> 00:13:21,839 Speaker 3: And do you think this lawsuit issue was the reasoning 241 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:24,600 Speaker 3: behind the two of you allegedly not being on the 242 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:25,200 Speaker 3: show anymore. 243 00:13:25,640 --> 00:13:29,400 Speaker 1: No, I'm not on the show because I was fired. 244 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 1: She's not on the show because I mean and these 245 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:35,080 Speaker 1: are all rumors. Of course I have my own way 246 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:37,960 Speaker 1: of fact checking these rumors. But I was told that 247 00:13:38,200 --> 00:13:40,520 Speaker 1: she wasn't going to come back if they let me 248 00:13:40,600 --> 00:13:43,319 Speaker 1: come back, right, So here we go again. We're playing 249 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:45,520 Speaker 1: these games. I'm not going to go to the reunion 250 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:48,040 Speaker 1: if you show me getting tossed in the bushes, that's 251 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:50,560 Speaker 1: what happened. What do you want to do? This is 252 00:13:50,640 --> 00:13:54,840 Speaker 1: reality TV. If you took an l oh, well take 253 00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:56,439 Speaker 1: it to the chin and move on. But she can't 254 00:13:56,480 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 1: do that because an ego. You're never going to steamroll me, 255 00:13:59,800 --> 00:14:01,880 Speaker 1: never going to get ahead of me. You're never gonna 256 00:14:01,880 --> 00:14:04,199 Speaker 1: outsmart me. You're never going to be able to win 257 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:06,440 Speaker 1: a word battle with me, so all she could do 258 00:14:06,559 --> 00:14:09,280 Speaker 1: was try to affect my money and make these empty 259 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 1: threats behind scenes and say, oh, if OG's in a scene, 260 00:14:12,640 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 1: I'm not doing it. That's what the restraining order was 261 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 1: supposed to be. It was supposed to stop me from filming. 262 00:14:17,640 --> 00:14:19,560 Speaker 1: That wasn't going to happen because she didn't get issued 263 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 1: that restraining order. She was denied the restraining order for 264 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:24,320 Speaker 1: a reason. You know, when you start playing with the 265 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:28,720 Speaker 1: court system, that's very dangerous. It's very dangerous. And she's 266 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 1: been successful with other people because nobody has had the 267 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:35,800 Speaker 1: guts to say enough is enough. This type of stuff 268 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:39,560 Speaker 1: is literally happening right now with our officials, with our leaders. 269 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:42,920 Speaker 1: Not too long ago, a Latina lady was caught on 270 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 1: a recording calling a young black child a monkey and 271 00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:49,160 Speaker 1: also saying that one of our other officials is with 272 00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 1: the blacks. That's the mentality. So we're not going to 273 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:55,040 Speaker 1: pretend like it's not happening. It's how you thug it 274 00:14:55,080 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 1: out and how you address it. I think I addressed 275 00:14:57,840 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 1: it the best way I could, with the best evidence 276 00:15:01,280 --> 00:15:04,600 Speaker 1: I could do it with. And I have no regrets none. 277 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:10,520 Speaker 3: I never understood why you were labeled ugly look. Beauty 278 00:15:10,680 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 3: is in the eye of the behold that we know that. 279 00:15:12,480 --> 00:15:15,160 Speaker 3: But when I look at you and I mean this, 280 00:15:15,240 --> 00:15:17,600 Speaker 3: I'm not just saying this because I'm talking to you. 281 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:22,360 Speaker 3: I think you're a very beautiful woman. I really do you. 282 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:28,120 Speaker 3: You are so smart, you have beautiful skin, you are 283 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:34,200 Speaker 3: a light like and you were always enjoyable to watch. 284 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:38,400 Speaker 3: And one thing about me producing reality television is the 285 00:15:38,440 --> 00:15:40,720 Speaker 3: reason why I like creating shows is because I want 286 00:15:40,720 --> 00:15:43,520 Speaker 3: to show all facets of people, especially black women. 287 00:15:43,880 --> 00:15:46,080 Speaker 2: You know, I have a show called Bill Collective, and 288 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 2: a lot of. 289 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 3: People were so happy that we talked about colorism on 290 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:49,720 Speaker 3: the show. 291 00:15:50,160 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 2: But also one of the starts. 292 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:55,480 Speaker 3: Of the show is a very curvy, dark skinned black 293 00:15:55,520 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 3: woman from the South, and that was a strong man 294 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 3: that's just to sin. So I'm all for us breaking 295 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:06,680 Speaker 3: down barriers. You being on Basketball Wise always felt was 296 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 3: a good look for the show because you were somebody 297 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 3: who didn't look like the cast in a great way, 298 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:17,880 Speaker 3: and like you said earlier, you held your own. Do 299 00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:20,240 Speaker 3: you think the issues happen with you and the ladies, 300 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:28,280 Speaker 3: because on that show, it appears allegedly that the new 301 00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 3: girls get hazed, and it's sort of like, if you're 302 00:16:32,120 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 3: the OG of the show, no pun intended your a click, 303 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 3: But when you're a new bat, you have to like 304 00:16:38,160 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 3: earn your stripes. Do you think they allegedly picked on 305 00:16:42,320 --> 00:16:44,600 Speaker 3: you because they were hazing you? Or do you think 306 00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 3: you really have to deal with you being a dark 307 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:46,840 Speaker 3: skinned black woman? 308 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 1: To answer that question in its entirety is going to 309 00:16:49,240 --> 00:16:51,880 Speaker 1: be difficult because that would require me to be in 310 00:16:51,960 --> 00:16:55,040 Speaker 1: their heads to know what they were actually thinking. So 311 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:58,080 Speaker 1: all I can say is this, when I was around 312 00:16:58,560 --> 00:17:00,800 Speaker 1: and certain girls were not around, we had a lot 313 00:17:00,800 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 1: of fun. In fact, there were many times that scenes 314 00:17:03,400 --> 00:17:05,560 Speaker 1: that were left on the cutting room floor. Where I 315 00:17:05,600 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 1: shot a scene with Jackie and Shannie. Shawnee was extremely late, 316 00:17:08,880 --> 00:17:10,560 Speaker 1: so we had to start the scene because we were 317 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:12,640 Speaker 1: waiting a couple of hours and they had to get going. 318 00:17:12,960 --> 00:17:14,679 Speaker 1: So she was upset that we started the scene, but 319 00:17:14,680 --> 00:17:17,359 Speaker 1: when she got in there, we were laughing. We were 320 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:19,840 Speaker 1: shooting pool. It was fun. Why didn't you guys show 321 00:17:19,920 --> 00:17:23,960 Speaker 1: that I think that they wanted to perpetrate a narrative 322 00:17:24,400 --> 00:17:28,199 Speaker 1: against me for their own insecurities. I don't know what 323 00:17:28,280 --> 00:17:30,520 Speaker 1: their issue is. I don't know why. When I was 324 00:17:30,600 --> 00:17:32,520 Speaker 1: told at reunion that I wasn't going to be on 325 00:17:32,560 --> 00:17:35,680 Speaker 1: the stage. That's when I asked, I said, what is it? 326 00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:37,840 Speaker 1: Is it about my melanin? Is it because I live 327 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:39,800 Speaker 1: in my color and I love it? Like I was 328 00:17:39,920 --> 00:17:44,240 Speaker 1: literally genuinely asking Mark Lamont Hill, who is saying these things? 329 00:17:44,240 --> 00:17:46,760 Speaker 1: And what's the issue. What these girls don't know is 330 00:17:46,840 --> 00:17:51,760 Speaker 1: I'm about relationships. I'm about building and cultivating genuine relationships 331 00:17:51,920 --> 00:17:55,000 Speaker 1: with good people. And I'm very good at being able 332 00:17:55,040 --> 00:17:58,440 Speaker 1: to read somebody and react, and I thank sports for that. 333 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:01,200 Speaker 1: That's what football taught me how to and react. I 334 00:18:01,240 --> 00:18:03,439 Speaker 1: saw these girls for what they were. In my first season, 335 00:18:03,840 --> 00:18:07,720 Speaker 1: I started breaking down every scene like it was game film, 336 00:18:08,119 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 1: and I read and reacted and I was able to 337 00:18:10,880 --> 00:18:15,680 Speaker 1: defeat them every single play because they cannot win with offense. 338 00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:18,080 Speaker 1: That's what they say in sports. It's a known saying. 339 00:18:18,560 --> 00:18:23,439 Speaker 1: Offense wins games, defense wins championships. I was literally playing 340 00:18:23,520 --> 00:18:26,720 Speaker 1: defense all the time in every scene. I didn't know 341 00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:29,360 Speaker 1: who was my allies, and I realized I had no allies. 342 00:18:29,560 --> 00:18:32,640 Speaker 1: Jackie wasn't my friend. She wasn't gonna do shit. CC 343 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:35,119 Speaker 1: did the best she could, but she was already underwater 344 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:37,680 Speaker 1: trying to tread lightly and come out of that. They 345 00:18:37,720 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 1: accepted Kristin. She came the same season as me. She 346 00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:43,040 Speaker 1: came as a package with CEC, and they accepted her. 347 00:18:43,720 --> 00:18:46,600 Speaker 1: It wasn't about hazing. It wasn't about that. It was 348 00:18:46,640 --> 00:18:48,480 Speaker 1: who was going to kiss their ass and who was not? 349 00:18:48,880 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 1: And if I looked different and I act different, they 350 00:18:51,320 --> 00:18:52,080 Speaker 1: have a problem. 351 00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:54,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, because not to cut you off, Kristin's a dark 352 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:58,399 Speaker 3: skinned woman herself. So it begs the question OG in 353 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:01,199 Speaker 3: the beginning of your experience, because you're right, none of 354 00:19:01,240 --> 00:19:03,520 Speaker 3: us are in their heads. So I want to respectfully 355 00:19:04,040 --> 00:19:08,199 Speaker 3: make sure that I honor your experience. So based on 356 00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 3: your experience, right knowing that Kristen is a dark skin 357 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:16,720 Speaker 3: black woman, you are a dark skin black woman, they 358 00:19:16,840 --> 00:19:20,359 Speaker 3: accepted Kristin, as you said, and as a viewer, I 359 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:24,400 Speaker 3: would say Kristin definitely was amongst you know, the being 360 00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 3: a part of the OGS and being being accepted. One 361 00:19:27,520 --> 00:19:30,840 Speaker 3: of the things about colorism is a lot of people 362 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:33,880 Speaker 3: did not know the definition of it. So I would 363 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:36,520 Speaker 3: love for you to define it. Because one thing that 364 00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:40,280 Speaker 3: you said so beautifully is you and Kristin are both 365 00:19:40,320 --> 00:19:43,680 Speaker 3: dark skinned women. But you also talked about how Christians 366 00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:45,680 Speaker 3: features are more westernized. 367 00:19:45,800 --> 00:19:46,960 Speaker 2: You touch on the. 368 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:51,840 Speaker 3: Difference between how dark skinned people are also treated differently 369 00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:53,040 Speaker 3: amongst each other. 370 00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:58,119 Speaker 1: Correct, correct, So that was a big topic amongst the collectives. 371 00:19:58,359 --> 00:20:01,320 Speaker 1: Oh what is colorism? What is racism? There is a 372 00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:05,600 Speaker 1: difference between the two. I don't believe that an actual 373 00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:09,200 Speaker 1: black person has the capability to be racist by definition, 374 00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:11,760 Speaker 1: and what I mean by that is racism is the 375 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:17,840 Speaker 1: suppression of one ethnic group. The suppression right, that is different. 376 00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:22,720 Speaker 1: You can't really suppress yourself. You can be suppressed by oppressors, 377 00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:24,840 Speaker 1: but you can't suppress yourself. So I'm going to shelf 378 00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 1: that over there for racism. When it comes to colorism, 379 00:20:28,760 --> 00:20:32,160 Speaker 1: colorism is within that ethnic group. So this is why 380 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:35,760 Speaker 1: people have to understand. It is about the pendulum of hues. 381 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:40,080 Speaker 1: It is about the features. It's not just about Oh 382 00:20:40,160 --> 00:20:42,320 Speaker 1: she's dark, I'm dark. So we both get treated the 383 00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:45,440 Speaker 1: same or we both get treated differently. What I experienced 384 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:47,760 Speaker 1: and what I witnessed was because I was of a 385 00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:52,600 Speaker 1: more chocolate complexion and I assigned myself as a Nigerian 386 00:20:52,680 --> 00:20:55,760 Speaker 1: woman from the very beginning. My features. You can see 387 00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:58,280 Speaker 1: me and know I'm African all my life I was told, 388 00:20:58,440 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 1: I know you're black, but you're different, good or bad. 389 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:05,080 Speaker 1: It's because I have African features. The reason why Kristin 390 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:07,480 Speaker 1: was treated different, in my opinion, is because she had 391 00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:11,639 Speaker 1: more Western features. A more slender knows what they stereotypically 392 00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:13,800 Speaker 1: say is good hair, even though she wears a weave. 393 00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:17,400 Speaker 1: You know, all those different things are what assigned themselves 394 00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 1: with what colorism is. You are treating me different, and 395 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:24,440 Speaker 1: you can look at it. With slavery, the lighter complexed 396 00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:27,359 Speaker 1: slaves were allowed to go and to be in the house. 397 00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:30,199 Speaker 1: They were allowed to be seen by other white people 398 00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:35,040 Speaker 1: as the acceptable slaves. Even in slavery, everybody's a slave, 399 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:38,760 Speaker 1: everybody's being treated like crap. However, the lighter one got 400 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:42,920 Speaker 1: more favor Okay, the darker ones were forced to work 401 00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:45,680 Speaker 1: in the field. The ones with more chocolate hue were 402 00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:48,520 Speaker 1: forced to be treated worse. Were raped, We're pillaged. We're 403 00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:53,360 Speaker 1: just it's disgusting to say that. You don't understand the difference. 404 00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:56,879 Speaker 1: You have to understand the history of slavery. Colorism is 405 00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:59,439 Speaker 1: done by our own people, and it's done by outsiders 406 00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:02,800 Speaker 1: as well, and it's in tandem with racism. They go 407 00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:05,640 Speaker 1: aligned hand in hand, but they are different with their 408 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:08,840 Speaker 1: own definition. So it's important for people to understand that 409 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 1: you're treating somebody different based solely on the color of 410 00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:14,280 Speaker 1: their skin and how dark they are. 411 00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:15,640 Speaker 2: Thank you for breaking that down. 412 00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:20,360 Speaker 3: I strongly believe you're not only educating people of our community, 413 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:23,800 Speaker 3: the black community, but you're also educating all communities. And 414 00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:26,360 Speaker 3: I'm happy that you were able to break it down 415 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:29,160 Speaker 3: that way because I do strongly believe that a lot 416 00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:32,040 Speaker 3: of people didn't understand the difference. And one thing I 417 00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:35,359 Speaker 3: always tell people, it's okay to not know everything, but 418 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:37,840 Speaker 3: once you do know and have the knowledge and the 419 00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:41,239 Speaker 3: definition of it, then let's do better. We won't make 420 00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:44,000 Speaker 3: these same mistakes again. So thank you for breaking that down, OG, 421 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:48,680 Speaker 3: pod child, I hate Tinterruss, But we'll be right back 422 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:58,080 Speaker 3: with more from OG right after this quick break. 423 00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:02,000 Speaker 2: This is reality with the King, and I'm Carlos King. 424 00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:07,240 Speaker 3: Let's get back into my conversation with basketball wives. OG, 425 00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:11,600 Speaker 3: based on your experience, right, do you think it had 426 00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:15,480 Speaker 3: a lot to do with Kristin allegedly kissing their ass 427 00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:21,240 Speaker 3: versus you not kissing their ass or kissing the ring 428 00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:22,119 Speaker 3: in the sense. 429 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 1: I explained this in the interview. I don't do a 430 00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:26,240 Speaker 1: lot of interviews, but one of the interviews that I 431 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:29,000 Speaker 1: did do with Kendrick g I explained this where I 432 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:33,840 Speaker 1: think that there is acceptable black people in Hollywood, and 433 00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:36,720 Speaker 1: that is their quota. And there's three types, and I 434 00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:39,520 Speaker 1: strongly believe this. I feel like there's the one type 435 00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:41,480 Speaker 1: that they will accept if they are going to be 436 00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:43,560 Speaker 1: the butt of the joke, the gesture, the one who 437 00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:46,480 Speaker 1: everybody gets to rag on and they're just going to 438 00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:48,359 Speaker 1: constantly clown on her. She's always going to have to 439 00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:50,119 Speaker 1: bring that or he or she is always going to 440 00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:52,960 Speaker 1: have to bring that comedic spin. That's the acceptable person, 441 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:55,679 Speaker 1: and that is Jackie Christy, the one who's always going 442 00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 1: to be clowned on, always going to be called crazy, 443 00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:00,000 Speaker 1: always going to be laughed at, and is expected to 444 00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:02,639 Speaker 1: oh a bee's coming, oh oh, act all cooky and 445 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:06,080 Speaker 1: crazy like the sambo. That's her role. Then there's the 446 00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:08,840 Speaker 1: role of the pick me, the role of the follower, 447 00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:11,560 Speaker 1: the one who's gonna yes, ma'am, yeah, no, ma ya. 448 00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:16,400 Speaker 1: That's Kristen. I'm not that person. I'm not her. I'm 449 00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:18,600 Speaker 1: not a person who's going to fall in line with 450 00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:22,040 Speaker 1: that slave mentality. And just do what their masters tell 451 00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:25,040 Speaker 1: them to do. And that's why she was accepted because 452 00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:28,040 Speaker 1: she was that role of the person who's not going 453 00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:31,920 Speaker 1: to really really address things like they're supposed to. She's 454 00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:35,400 Speaker 1: gonna do as she's told and fall in line. And 455 00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:38,240 Speaker 1: that's why I think that they accept their quota black people. 456 00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:40,719 Speaker 1: That it's sad to say, but this is a fact. 457 00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,000 Speaker 1: You work in the industry and you realize things, and 458 00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,560 Speaker 1: you see things from your own experience, and you're saying, Okay, 459 00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:47,879 Speaker 1: how can I survive in this industry If I'm not 460 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:51,199 Speaker 1: gonna be the clown and I'm not gonna be the slaves? 461 00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:53,520 Speaker 1: What am I gonna be? You have to be yourself. 462 00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:56,639 Speaker 1: You have to be you. That way you can sleep 463 00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:59,800 Speaker 1: easy at night. I don't have no problems being myself. 464 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:02,679 Speaker 1: Other people who can't handle me, I handle me just fine. 465 00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,159 Speaker 1: That's why I kept having to remind them. I'm in 466 00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:07,639 Speaker 1: a room full of afters. All of you guys chose 467 00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:10,679 Speaker 1: for whatever reason to do some type of plastic surgery 468 00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:14,040 Speaker 1: or maintenance on your face, your body, your butt, your titties, whatever. 469 00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:18,760 Speaker 1: Don't forget your before body, humble yourself, don't forget what 470 00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:21,080 Speaker 1: your chin looked like. Don't forget what your teeth looked like. 471 00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:24,720 Speaker 1: Don't forget what you asked didn't even exist. Don't forget 472 00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:27,919 Speaker 1: your before body. This is natural and I love the 473 00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,120 Speaker 1: way God made me. But when you're in a room 474 00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:33,080 Speaker 1: full of afters and everybody thinks, oh, I'm this and 475 00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:34,560 Speaker 1: I'm that, and my shit, don't sink. 476 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 3: I will remind you, oh you're saying, you're saying after afters. 477 00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:43,760 Speaker 1: You know how when you get plastid surgery and you 478 00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:45,960 Speaker 1: watch a page and it's the before picture and here's 479 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,280 Speaker 1: the after, and the before they're all blurred out, and 480 00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:50,960 Speaker 1: then the after they show yes, and a room full 481 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:58,000 Speaker 1: of afters. Iron Lion, you know what I'm talking about. 482 00:25:58,440 --> 00:25:58,760 Speaker 3: And I. 483 00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:02,879 Speaker 1: Looked at Hooters for ten years. I saw some of 484 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:06,240 Speaker 1: the best plastic surgery a sugar daddy in a regular 485 00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:09,280 Speaker 1: could buy. And I'm all for maintaining your body, but 486 00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:11,879 Speaker 1: do not get mad at a woman who chooses not 487 00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 1: to go that route. The only surgeries that I've had 488 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:19,600 Speaker 1: broken finger, broken leg, These are athletic injuries. I've never 489 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:23,280 Speaker 1: opted to do any cosmetic surgery because I don't want to. 490 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:26,960 Speaker 1: But don't knock me because I did it. And then 491 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,480 Speaker 1: that's when I have to play defense and remind you 492 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:32,119 Speaker 1: you did and what was your reason? You're still single? 493 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,240 Speaker 1: You married, Richie left you, so you divorced rich You 494 00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:40,200 Speaker 1: had a baby, Richie left you. What was the reason. 495 00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:42,200 Speaker 1: Did you do the surgery for you or did you 496 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:44,680 Speaker 1: do the surgery to put your venus fly trap out 497 00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:47,040 Speaker 1: there and catch your next victim? You have to ask 498 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:48,520 Speaker 1: yourself those questions. 499 00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:53,679 Speaker 2: I forgot you are a great reader and wordsmith. 500 00:26:56,359 --> 00:26:58,280 Speaker 3: But now it goes back to what you said you 501 00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:01,160 Speaker 3: We loved you og because oh g you would. 502 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:05,360 Speaker 2: Read the Girl's dumb Hoddie and you would do it 503 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:06,560 Speaker 2: without being bothered. 504 00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:08,400 Speaker 3: If that's what I love as a producer, I love 505 00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:13,119 Speaker 3: seeing how there could be a conflicted situation. And to me, 506 00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:16,160 Speaker 3: I always say this to people, the best reality TV 507 00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:19,680 Speaker 3: moment is when something is like intense, but you can laugh, 508 00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:22,400 Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Like, I love the fact 509 00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:24,680 Speaker 3: that I don't like when it gets dirty and people 510 00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:27,040 Speaker 3: fighting off, Like I just think that's just whatever. I 511 00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,280 Speaker 3: like it when you can stand for yourself and laugh 512 00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:32,119 Speaker 3: and have a key key I read your girl, let 513 00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:34,520 Speaker 3: me keep it moving, but you got read, and that 514 00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:36,480 Speaker 3: to me is what you brought to the show too. 515 00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:41,680 Speaker 3: So Tammy Roman is somebody who personally a couple of 516 00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:45,040 Speaker 3: years ago reached out to me because when I showed 517 00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:48,000 Speaker 3: you Love publicly and on Twitter, it did go viral 518 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:51,280 Speaker 3: and a lot of blogs and outlets picked it up, 519 00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,520 Speaker 3: and Tammy Roman, who's a friend of mine, she hit 520 00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:56,520 Speaker 3: me up and said, I see you love OG. 521 00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:59,080 Speaker 2: Is there a show you can do for her? 522 00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:00,600 Speaker 3: And I said to her, I said, look, I'm still 523 00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:03,240 Speaker 3: trying to get my bearings with my company. And I said, 524 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:05,640 Speaker 3: but I always know if there's something that makes sense 525 00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:07,919 Speaker 3: for OG, like a brother's down, because I really do 526 00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:10,639 Speaker 3: think you're fantastic. And I was happy to have that 527 00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:15,120 Speaker 3: conversation with Tammy. We had Tammy on this podcast as well, OG, 528 00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:20,399 Speaker 3: and she said something that allegedly a producer on the 529 00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:23,679 Speaker 3: show called you unattractive and said you could not dress. 530 00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:24,560 Speaker 2: Is that true? 531 00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:27,920 Speaker 1: That is true? And I'm grateful for Tammy. I will 532 00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:31,560 Speaker 1: say this because she was somebody who was told nasty 533 00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:34,080 Speaker 1: things about me and chose to kind of go a 534 00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:36,200 Speaker 1: different route. At first, she was like, Okay, I don't 535 00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:38,479 Speaker 1: know her, but as she got to know me, and 536 00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:41,120 Speaker 1: as I got to know her, she realized they're crazy. 537 00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:44,280 Speaker 1: First of all, I will say this, I'm not going 538 00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:48,240 Speaker 1: to take fashion advice from people who don't know fashion. 539 00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:50,760 Speaker 1: If you have to pay someone to help you dress 540 00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:55,320 Speaker 1: yourself every single day, don't tell me nothing about fashion. 541 00:28:55,880 --> 00:29:01,320 Speaker 1: I so I draw, I actually desiged. I'm a creative 542 00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:03,920 Speaker 1: and they knew this with me going in. In fact, 543 00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:06,480 Speaker 1: the producer who made that comment one of the producers, 544 00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:08,760 Speaker 1: because it was more than one producer that made that 545 00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:12,080 Speaker 1: com the one, yes, the one that I know of 546 00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:14,680 Speaker 1: that said it to Tammy specifically, I will speak on 547 00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:18,840 Speaker 1: that producer. That person told me they love that I 548 00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:21,080 Speaker 1: can do all these things to my face. Of course, 549 00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:24,120 Speaker 1: it's always different to my face. To my face, behind 550 00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:27,360 Speaker 1: my back is stabbing me in the back left and right. 551 00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:32,200 Speaker 1: That producer told me that, oh can you sew? I 552 00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:34,480 Speaker 1: shot a scene where I was sewing. They tried to 553 00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:37,360 Speaker 1: have me shoot a scene with Malaysia and her stylist friend, 554 00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:40,160 Speaker 1: and they never aired that scene. You want to know 555 00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:43,240 Speaker 1: why they never aired that scene because I purposely came 556 00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,840 Speaker 1: with an outfit that I made that I cut and sew. 557 00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:49,720 Speaker 1: I drew it, I posted it, and then I wore 558 00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:51,480 Speaker 1: it because I was set. They were trying to set 559 00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:55,600 Speaker 1: me up. You can't teach somebody who teaches you. A 560 00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:58,560 Speaker 1: creative is the one who sets the norm. Not everybody 561 00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:02,560 Speaker 1: dresses the same look Eric Abadu. She has her own style, 562 00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:05,960 Speaker 1: her own way, and when she's wearing it, it's fashion, 563 00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:09,400 Speaker 1: it's high fashion, it's avant garde. It's different, the same 564 00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:13,200 Speaker 1: thing for the next person. But if you're just logo logo, logo, logo, logo, 565 00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:15,680 Speaker 1: like a FORID exchange student, and you just arrived in 566 00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:17,520 Speaker 1: the States and you don't know what to wear and 567 00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:22,800 Speaker 1: what to do, that's not fashion. That's not fashion. And 568 00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:24,720 Speaker 1: I keep trying to explain to them. You can say 569 00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:27,920 Speaker 1: I'm ugly, no problem, you can say I can't dress. 570 00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:32,120 Speaker 1: I've had no problems getting men, okay, especially the ones 571 00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:36,240 Speaker 1: that you guys want. I've had no complaints. Kwame's with me. 572 00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:39,400 Speaker 1: We've been together. It'll be eight years in December. We 573 00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:41,719 Speaker 1: don't have kids that are forcing us to stay together. 574 00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:45,000 Speaker 1: We don't have a marriage that's forcing us to stay together. 575 00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:47,840 Speaker 1: We don't have child support, alimony, none of that shit. 576 00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:52,160 Speaker 1: He loves it here. He loves it here because I 577 00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:55,920 Speaker 1: have everything those women don't have, and That's why they 578 00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:59,840 Speaker 1: struggle in relationships. That's fashion, is that what you think 579 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:02,200 Speaker 1: to get your mare? Is that what you think is 580 00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:07,360 Speaker 1: gonna cultivate friendships, whether they're platonic or romantic. No, what's 581 00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:12,200 Speaker 1: so funny to me, Carlos. Yes, Jen's worn outfits that 582 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:16,400 Speaker 1: I've worn. I wore them first. Malaysia's warn't outfits that 583 00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:19,880 Speaker 1: I've worn. I wore them first. But when it's on them, 584 00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 1: it's because they don't like me. Somebody who doesn't like me. 585 00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:25,760 Speaker 1: It doesn't matter if I'm wearing it or not. They're 586 00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:28,520 Speaker 1: gonna say they don't like it because I'm wearing it, 587 00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:31,600 Speaker 1: not because I'm wearing it wrong. These bitches have copied 588 00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:35,520 Speaker 1: my style, my hair, my phone case. I see it 589 00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:38,280 Speaker 1: because the public doesn't see everything. Where'd you get that 590 00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:40,600 Speaker 1: O G? Where'd you get that O G? They're in 591 00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:42,240 Speaker 1: my room when I'm doing my makeup. I had to 592 00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:44,840 Speaker 1: kick Jackie out, Like, girl, go to your room. I 593 00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:47,280 Speaker 1: just want to see how you con toured. When we 594 00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:49,960 Speaker 1: went to Amsterdam, Shawnie was so mad. I came to 595 00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:52,960 Speaker 1: Amsterdam in a wig, and that night I braided my 596 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:55,440 Speaker 1: own hair. Seanne and I caught each other in the 597 00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:58,560 Speaker 1: elevator and she goes, did you fly in hair and makeup? 598 00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:01,720 Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I did this myself last night. Are 599 00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:03,360 Speaker 1: you mad? Because you're not talented? 600 00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:04,720 Speaker 3: What do you do? 601 00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:09,600 Speaker 1: I even helped Malaysia braid her hair. That's why those 602 00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:12,960 Speaker 1: scenes where like, for example, that classic scene where Malaysias 603 00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:15,480 Speaker 1: making fun of my wig. That scene irritates me, and 604 00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:17,160 Speaker 1: I'm going to give you some tea on that scene. 605 00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:21,640 Speaker 1: That scene irritates me because, for one, my reads were 606 00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:25,960 Speaker 1: all live, okay. I was reading her for filth on camera. 607 00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,840 Speaker 1: She had to read me in a confessional four months later. 608 00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:30,760 Speaker 1: So it took her four months to come up with 609 00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:34,960 Speaker 1: out your wigs in the car. Bravo, babe, bravo for 610 00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:38,000 Speaker 1: taking you four months to come with the comeback. And 611 00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:41,000 Speaker 1: somebody probably gave you that comeback. I came to that 612 00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:44,600 Speaker 1: scene from my full time job as a corporate executive 613 00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:48,880 Speaker 1: after football practice, and I told the producers and this 614 00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:50,760 Speaker 1: is what really pissed me off, because it was a 615 00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:53,200 Speaker 1: female black producer that I told. I said, Hey, my 616 00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:56,360 Speaker 1: wig is not getting tacked down. Does anybody have any glue, 617 00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:59,560 Speaker 1: anything tacking even gel anything? She goes, no, we could 618 00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:01,040 Speaker 1: just pull it a little bit in align it with 619 00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:03,840 Speaker 1: your natural part. Nobody's gonna see it. So then we 620 00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:07,200 Speaker 1: shoot the scene and I see her whisper to Malaysia, 621 00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:10,280 Speaker 1: and she whispered to Malaysia and the Malaysia you know 622 00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:12,400 Speaker 1: when somebody tells you something. She brings her eyes up 623 00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:13,960 Speaker 1: to my way, and I'm like, oh, I knew it. 624 00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:15,640 Speaker 1: I said, this bitch is gonna come for me about 625 00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:19,080 Speaker 1: my hair after I asked you guys for help. It's okay, 626 00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:22,520 Speaker 1: I have naturally long hair under here. It's okay. 627 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:26,440 Speaker 2: That's not a healthy environment to be a part of. 628 00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:29,080 Speaker 3: And I feel so I feel sorry you have to 629 00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:31,280 Speaker 3: you have to go through that because one thing about 630 00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:34,480 Speaker 3: producing reality TV it can't be intense, because you have 631 00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:36,880 Speaker 3: to be vulnerable and show your real life and obviously 632 00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:39,800 Speaker 3: unexpected things happen, like we all get that, but it 633 00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:42,280 Speaker 3: should never be a situation where you feel like every 634 00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:44,640 Speaker 3: time you go to work you're going to be attacked 635 00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:47,920 Speaker 3: by your appearance. Like that is just that's crazy to me. 636 00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:51,080 Speaker 3: And a lot of the fans saw that. A lot 637 00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:54,760 Speaker 3: of the media picked this story up, og about what 638 00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:57,520 Speaker 3: we were all watching on the show, and it became 639 00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:02,280 Speaker 3: a very hot topic so much so so Shawnee released 640 00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:05,280 Speaker 3: a statement and I think maybe also the video if 641 00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:09,640 Speaker 3: I'm not mistaken, where she apologized to you and apologized. 642 00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:09,920 Speaker 2: To what was going on. 643 00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:14,919 Speaker 3: Did you accept her apology and did she ever reach 644 00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:16,000 Speaker 3: out to you personally? 645 00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:19,440 Speaker 1: Are you talking about to sit down with mark La 646 00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:19,839 Speaker 1: mart Hill? 647 00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:20,440 Speaker 2: Yes? 648 00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:27,640 Speaker 1: Okay, So that was for lack of better word, damage control. 649 00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:31,279 Speaker 1: That was not an apology to me. That was an 650 00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:35,200 Speaker 1: apology for what she thinks or alleges I experienced or felt. 651 00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:39,439 Speaker 1: She never once texted me, never once called me, never 652 00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:43,720 Speaker 1: once had a on camera or off camera conversation about anything. 653 00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:47,960 Speaker 1: The problem was is I strongly believe if you really 654 00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:52,200 Speaker 1: genuinely are sorry for something, you apologize for what you did, 655 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:56,080 Speaker 1: not what somebody feels. Because I don't feel anything. I 656 00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:58,839 Speaker 1: haven't even touched the surface on how I felt so far, 657 00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:02,400 Speaker 1: I've only shared my experience. She has never called and 658 00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:04,759 Speaker 1: apologized to me because she doesn't have the guts toll. 659 00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:07,520 Speaker 1: She doesn't have the courage to say I was wrong 660 00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:12,120 Speaker 1: in this entire scenario. Why, because she's evil. That woman 661 00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:14,279 Speaker 1: is evil. You heard it from me. I'm not the 662 00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:16,040 Speaker 1: first person who said it, and I'm not the last 663 00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:19,320 Speaker 1: person who's gonna say it. Shawnee does not have a pure, 664 00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:22,640 Speaker 1: clean spirit about her. I can say this because I've 665 00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:26,160 Speaker 1: been around her. Everything that she does is for fake 666 00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:30,200 Speaker 1: facade cameras. Look at how she did tammy her friend. 667 00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:33,040 Speaker 1: Look at how she does Jackie twenty four to seven 668 00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:37,080 Speaker 1: her friend. She's not cool. And look at how she 669 00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:40,520 Speaker 1: allows her alleged associates and friends to act and then 670 00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:43,840 Speaker 1: co signs it. If you really wanted to have a 671 00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:48,920 Speaker 1: conversation about colorism or a conversation about racism, you would 672 00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:53,480 Speaker 1: have sat down with me, not Mark Lamont Hill, the 673 00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:56,879 Speaker 1: other acceptable black person who's gonna be the puppy dog 674 00:35:56,920 --> 00:35:59,920 Speaker 1: fall in line pick me. Isn't that what I've already explained. 675 00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:02,400 Speaker 1: It's literally right in front of our face. It's just 676 00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:05,560 Speaker 1: so sad. And where is Mark now? Mark has tried 677 00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:07,440 Speaker 1: to reach out to me. I will give him that, 678 00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:12,080 Speaker 1: but I think that he filled all black women in 679 00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:15,000 Speaker 1: that instance because he knew what he was told to 680 00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:19,719 Speaker 1: do was wrong, and he did it anyways. He knew 681 00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:22,839 Speaker 1: what was wrong. So if you know what's wrong, why 682 00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:24,640 Speaker 1: do not have the guts and the curt to be like, no, 683 00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:27,000 Speaker 1: put your foot down Ceec in that moment is like, no, 684 00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:30,880 Speaker 1: if OG's not on the stage, we're not going out. 685 00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:34,960 Speaker 1: The only reason why I came back was because I 686 00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:38,320 Speaker 1: was still negotiating my contract. I had not gotten paid 687 00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:41,239 Speaker 1: one penny for that season yet, because I was still 688 00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:44,080 Speaker 1: negotiating my contract and I didn't want to give them 689 00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:46,960 Speaker 1: any reason to say I reached my contract. 690 00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:48,359 Speaker 2: Now, I'm gonna be real with you. 691 00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:51,239 Speaker 3: Watching that, first of all, was heated that you were 692 00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:54,080 Speaker 3: allowed on stage because you never physically fought anybody. So 693 00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:58,160 Speaker 3: I never understood, like, why is she not allowed to 694 00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:01,919 Speaker 3: be on stage when prior to Og being on the show, 695 00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:05,120 Speaker 3: there's been tons of physical fights on that show and 696 00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:08,080 Speaker 3: people were still allowed to be on the on the stage. 697 00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:10,239 Speaker 3: I didn't like that, and I'm gonna be real with you, 698 00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:14,160 Speaker 3: I was so disappointed when you did come back to 699 00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:18,239 Speaker 3: to complete the reunion. Now I hear your reason, and 700 00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:20,080 Speaker 3: I get it, but I like to be honest and 701 00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:24,719 Speaker 3: talk to you about my thought process because my thought 702 00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:28,560 Speaker 3: process was like, O, G you you're such a beautiful 703 00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:31,839 Speaker 3: woman with the beautiful spirit that God is going to 704 00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:34,799 Speaker 3: protect you and take care of you. And what I 705 00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:38,160 Speaker 3: didn't want Og, and I'm saying this to you personally, 706 00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:40,960 Speaker 3: I didn't want you to give off the impression that 707 00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:43,960 Speaker 3: you needed that situation because you have a lot of 708 00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:47,160 Speaker 3: ride and dies for you, Og, and that was my 709 00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:49,080 Speaker 3: initial reaction. 710 00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:51,520 Speaker 2: I was like, siys, you don't need it, and that's why. 711 00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:55,360 Speaker 3: Look, this podcast is to give everybody an opportunity to 712 00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:56,839 Speaker 3: express their experience. 713 00:37:57,320 --> 00:37:59,400 Speaker 2: And just so the audience, No, I reached out to 714 00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:00,399 Speaker 2: OG person, Oh. 715 00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:01,880 Speaker 3: You didn't reach out to me, I'll reach out to 716 00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:06,799 Speaker 3: OG because I was reminded that this is somebody who 717 00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:10,719 Speaker 3: I felt wasn't given the proper due on reality television. 718 00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:13,560 Speaker 3: And I wanted you to hear from me as a 719 00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:16,080 Speaker 3: black man in this business. I just wanted to give 720 00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:19,319 Speaker 3: your flowers your respect and to let you hear from 721 00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:22,920 Speaker 3: me that I think you are gorgeous. You're beautiful inside 722 00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:25,680 Speaker 3: and out. And one thing I know for sure, Og, 723 00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:30,400 Speaker 3: sometimes God will allow you to go through the fire 724 00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:33,840 Speaker 3: because he knows that you are built for it. And 725 00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:39,359 Speaker 3: we're always not Often we're always used to give him 726 00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:44,239 Speaker 3: the glory, but we're also used to be a messenger 727 00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:47,920 Speaker 3: to other people. And I feel like, based on your experience, 728 00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:51,400 Speaker 3: you have definitely and I'm gonna say this, and I 729 00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:53,160 Speaker 3: don't kill gets mad at me for saying this is 730 00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:57,680 Speaker 3: my truth. You are the first person on reality television 731 00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:00,640 Speaker 3: to open up the conversations about colorism as relates to 732 00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:01,719 Speaker 3: being on reality TV. 733 00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:03,319 Speaker 2: And for that, I just. 734 00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:07,000 Speaker 3: Want to say thank you for having that strength to 735 00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:08,320 Speaker 3: do it on your own. 736 00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:12,680 Speaker 1: Thank you. No, I really appreciate that, because it's been 737 00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:16,440 Speaker 1: a tough journey and a tough road, and not for nothing, 738 00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:20,359 Speaker 1: I've gotten so many positive messages I've gotten. Take out 739 00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:24,040 Speaker 1: the negativity. All the people who have felt what I 740 00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:28,440 Speaker 1: said on any level. Gave me the reason to continue 741 00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:31,600 Speaker 1: the fight, because, like you said, nobody wants to talk 742 00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:34,840 Speaker 1: about it now. After that situation happened. Go and do 743 00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:37,520 Speaker 1: your research to see how many other shows had no 744 00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:41,040 Speaker 1: choice but to talk about this. This is a teachable moment, 745 00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:44,560 Speaker 1: This is a teachable era. We are no longer going 746 00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:47,520 Speaker 1: to be able to get away with having certain types 747 00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:51,359 Speaker 1: of behavior behind closed doors because now people can record things. Now, 748 00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:53,680 Speaker 1: people can bring it to light, now people can address it, 749 00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:58,760 Speaker 1: and the mob the comment gallery, okay, they will stop 750 00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:01,520 Speaker 1: you in your tracks. And people don't like when it 751 00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:05,080 Speaker 1: affects their money. People don't like when all of a sudden, 752 00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:07,920 Speaker 1: nobody wants to mess with you because the truth has 753 00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:11,120 Speaker 1: come out with how you feel about black people. I'm 754 00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:16,560 Speaker 1: gonna say this, black people, African Africans who are assigned 755 00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:18,799 Speaker 1: to know where they come from. Some people don't know 756 00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:20,600 Speaker 1: where they come from, but they know that they're black. 757 00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:25,000 Speaker 1: They know they're African descent, true Africans, Nigerians like myself, 758 00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:28,960 Speaker 1: African Americans, African whatever you want to call it. We 759 00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:33,000 Speaker 1: set the wave and the tempo for how things are 760 00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:36,240 Speaker 1: done in this world. We are the ones who spend 761 00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:38,800 Speaker 1: the money. We are the ones who create the culture. 762 00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:40,880 Speaker 1: We are the ones that tell you what's hot and 763 00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:43,560 Speaker 1: what's not. So you can't get rid of us. You 764 00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:46,400 Speaker 1: can push us down, you can make fun of us 765 00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:48,600 Speaker 1: because of the way we look and the color of 766 00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:52,239 Speaker 1: our skin, but you cannot get rid of the originators. 767 00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:56,000 Speaker 1: You can't. And that's why this conversation was so important 768 00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:59,040 Speaker 1: to have. Now, mind you, I had it, I realized 769 00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:01,240 Speaker 1: I was amongst people who were not willing to learn, 770 00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:04,200 Speaker 1: So then I paused. But they wanted me to keep 771 00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:07,280 Speaker 1: talking about it. But not because they wanted to resolve 772 00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:09,800 Speaker 1: some of these issues. They wanted me to keep talking 773 00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:12,600 Speaker 1: about it to make me look crazy. Once again, a 774 00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:16,680 Speaker 1: part of the problem. We could have moved forward, we 775 00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:19,160 Speaker 1: could have agreed to disagree. A lot of different things 776 00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:22,359 Speaker 1: could have happened. But when you choose to stay in 777 00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:25,080 Speaker 1: your negativity, naivety, whatever you want to call it, or 778 00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:27,920 Speaker 1: your evil way of thinking, that's your bed you have 779 00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:31,000 Speaker 1: to lie on it. I didn't do anything wrong. I 780 00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:33,640 Speaker 1: definitely did not get my just do. Like you said, 781 00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:35,839 Speaker 1: I have a lot of story to tell. I have 782 00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:37,600 Speaker 1: a lot that's going on in my life that people 783 00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:40,040 Speaker 1: aren't even fully aware of, and I would love to 784 00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:43,200 Speaker 1: share it publicly. I would love to You don't think 785 00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:45,600 Speaker 1: I want to do my maternity shoots in my weddings 786 00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:47,560 Speaker 1: and all those great things for the audience to see, 787 00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:49,759 Speaker 1: and then all the other natural drama that happens. But 788 00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:53,719 Speaker 1: when you're fabricating stuff, it's difficult to do that. It 789 00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:54,359 Speaker 1: really is. 790 00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:56,880 Speaker 3: So you haven't closed the door in reality televis. You 791 00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:58,640 Speaker 3: would love to get back in that genre. 792 00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:01,319 Speaker 1: Of course, and it'll happen. It'll happen as long as 793 00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:04,280 Speaker 1: I have some type of creative control. It will happen. 794 00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:07,280 Speaker 1: I know it will, and the audience will be excited. 795 00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:09,920 Speaker 1: The audience will be excited to see something different. You 796 00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:12,120 Speaker 1: don't have to see black people fighting twenty four seven. 797 00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:15,759 Speaker 1: Enough is with my words. My words are like daggers. 798 00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:18,640 Speaker 1: I didn't have to lift a finger. If I did, 799 00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:22,400 Speaker 1: no one would have survived. If I did, no one 800 00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:23,360 Speaker 1: would have survived. 801 00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:25,800 Speaker 2: Og Well, first. 802 00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:28,360 Speaker 3: Of all, them hands, I'm sure are good, but your mouth, 803 00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:30,520 Speaker 3: you are the Mike Tyson. 804 00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:36,040 Speaker 2: Of word because your words. 805 00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:40,080 Speaker 3: Is a tko baby. It would knock a mother baker out. 806 00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:43,080 Speaker 3: I'm just saying, so let's be clear before I let 807 00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:48,120 Speaker 3: you go. We know that you are every You're what 808 00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:52,200 Speaker 3: is it, o G I'm your favorite athletes, favorite. 809 00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:54,120 Speaker 1: Athlete, and don't ever forget it. 810 00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:57,200 Speaker 2: Have you heard from from Chad o Cho Sinko? 811 00:42:57,920 --> 00:43:02,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, chatter, let's listen. Guide to the t Chad and 812 00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:05,120 Speaker 1: I are like this. You know that situation actually brought 813 00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:09,080 Speaker 1: us even closer, which is hilarious to say, because you know, 814 00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:12,719 Speaker 1: I didn't know what was happening. Truly. I didn't know 815 00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:15,120 Speaker 1: if he really gave it to her, like if he 816 00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:17,320 Speaker 1: gave her those deals. I didn't know really what was happening. 817 00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:20,040 Speaker 1: All I knew was if anybody's coming for me, I'll 818 00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:22,640 Speaker 1: give you the facts, and thank God for iPhones, thank 819 00:43:22,680 --> 00:43:25,279 Speaker 1: God for eye clouds, thank God for transferring over text 820 00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:29,040 Speaker 1: messages and backing it up, because through that, Chad and 821 00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:31,239 Speaker 1: I were able to have multiple conversations. And I feel 822 00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:33,359 Speaker 1: for him, you know, I feel for him. I feel 823 00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:36,600 Speaker 1: for a situation. I feel for what happened. Only those 824 00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:39,920 Speaker 1: who see what's happening behind closed doors and see the 825 00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:42,600 Speaker 1: proof truly know how to address people accordingly. 826 00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:43,560 Speaker 3: And I feel for him. 827 00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:47,680 Speaker 1: He lost everything dealing with that person. And you know, 828 00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:50,600 Speaker 1: I'm not an advocate for any form of domestic violence, 829 00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:53,520 Speaker 1: but I'm also not an advocate for domestic violence when 830 00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:56,560 Speaker 1: a woman is the abuser and not just men being 831 00:43:56,600 --> 00:43:58,480 Speaker 1: the abusers. It has to go both ways. You know, 832 00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:02,120 Speaker 1: a lot of times we will side with the lesser 833 00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:04,400 Speaker 1: of the two, so guys get the short end of 834 00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:08,080 Speaker 1: the stick because they're naturally bigger, stronger, and can outpower 835 00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:11,640 Speaker 1: a woman naturally. But that doesn't mean women are not 836 00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:14,360 Speaker 1: verbally abusive. That doesn't mean women are not physically abusive. 837 00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:16,320 Speaker 1: We saw it with the Johnny debap trial. You know, 838 00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:19,560 Speaker 1: it's not okay whether you're a male, female, or whatever 839 00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:22,640 Speaker 1: you choose to identify with domestic violence is not okay. 840 00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:27,160 Speaker 1: But you can't do stuff and be an abuser and 841 00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:30,680 Speaker 1: then cry wolf like. It's just very difficult. You got 842 00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:33,319 Speaker 1: to kind of pick a side. You know, if you're 843 00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:36,560 Speaker 1: if this person is your abuser, don't call them to 844 00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:38,600 Speaker 1: rescue you. If you're in a life or debt situation, 845 00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:41,600 Speaker 1: which we've all seen that other person say, it makes 846 00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:45,000 Speaker 1: no sense mentally. If this person is your alleged abuser, 847 00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:49,919 Speaker 1: don't try to keep tarnishing him. But if he also 848 00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:51,759 Speaker 1: is your alleged abuser, how the hell did you feel 849 00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:54,960 Speaker 1: comfortable enough to ask him about me? That's what I 850 00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:57,520 Speaker 1: want to know. That question is yet to be answered, 851 00:44:57,640 --> 00:44:59,600 Speaker 1: you know so, and I don't need an answer at 852 00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:03,239 Speaker 1: this point because I've talked to Chad. He you know, 853 00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:05,799 Speaker 1: he's a good dude, and that's what I love about him. 854 00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:08,720 Speaker 1: He's kept a positive outlook. He's moved on in his life, 855 00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:11,840 Speaker 1: and that's what he deserves. He deserves to have peace. 856 00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:15,160 Speaker 1: But when somebody won't let go because they're still obsessed 857 00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:19,120 Speaker 1: with that person, you'll see it play out. You don't 858 00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:21,280 Speaker 1: see Chad sitting in a car crying in a Gucci 859 00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:24,319 Speaker 1: hat every two seconds. You don't see that that man 860 00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:26,520 Speaker 1: doesn't have time to do that. He's got endorsements, he's 861 00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:29,359 Speaker 1: got other things, just like myself. I don't always want 862 00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:32,120 Speaker 1: to speak on certain situations, but sometimes you have to 863 00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:35,759 Speaker 1: so that the truth is truly out there. I don't 864 00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:38,520 Speaker 1: want to be sued. I'm not dragging my lawsuit. The 865 00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:41,480 Speaker 1: other party's dragging their lawsuit. So every day when I'm 866 00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:43,440 Speaker 1: getting tagged about it, of course I want to talk 867 00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:47,200 Speaker 1: about it openly. But it's difficult. You know, it's difficult 868 00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:49,640 Speaker 1: because the mob will try to tell you you're dragging it. 869 00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:52,560 Speaker 1: You guys are the ones fueling the fire because I 870 00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:55,880 Speaker 1: know you see what's happening. I just don't get the 871 00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:58,000 Speaker 1: option to have to reply all the time because if 872 00:45:58,080 --> 00:46:01,279 Speaker 1: I do, I become public enemy number one, when really 873 00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:03,040 Speaker 1: I'm just simply defending myself. 874 00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:07,440 Speaker 3: That's why you listen my advice. As the kink of 875 00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:14,480 Speaker 3: reality TV, silence is golden. Not everyone og deserves a 876 00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:19,800 Speaker 3: response because all it does is create more fire that 877 00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:22,360 Speaker 3: could have been put out. So I appreciate you for 878 00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:29,360 Speaker 3: just look, this podcast reaches millions of listeners, and I'm 879 00:46:29,480 --> 00:46:32,080 Speaker 3: happy that you decided to talk to me. I'm happy 880 00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:34,279 Speaker 3: that I was able to give your flowers and to 881 00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:36,719 Speaker 3: do it not just on Twitter, but to your face, 882 00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:39,960 Speaker 3: because I definitely think it's meaningful when you see the 883 00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:42,719 Speaker 3: person and you hear the voice of the person saying it. 884 00:46:42,840 --> 00:46:43,719 Speaker 2: So I appreciate you. 885 00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:47,759 Speaker 3: But before I let you go, tell them listeners where 886 00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:49,360 Speaker 3: they can find you, follow you, support you. 887 00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:51,400 Speaker 2: What you got going on? Sis, Let us know. 888 00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:53,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I have a lot of things going on. I'm 889 00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:54,800 Speaker 1: not going to speak too much on it because I 890 00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:57,120 Speaker 1: kind of like things to happen and be done before 891 00:46:57,160 --> 00:46:59,200 Speaker 1: I talk about it. But you will see me on 892 00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:02,360 Speaker 1: TV again. I guarantee that I've still been making my 893 00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:05,400 Speaker 1: PPE masks. Although covid has slowed down, we still have 894 00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:09,120 Speaker 1: to provide masks for our nurses, doctors, and healthcare officials 895 00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:11,560 Speaker 1: and essential workers. So you can find all of this 896 00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:14,719 Speaker 1: on iheartog dot com. You can always follow me on 897 00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:18,720 Speaker 1: social media, which is also iheartog, and just stay tuned. 898 00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:20,239 Speaker 1: You know, I have a lot coming up, and I know, 899 00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:22,279 Speaker 1: Carlos you said a couple of things that kind of 900 00:47:22,320 --> 00:47:26,400 Speaker 1: sparked my interest. So if we work on something, just 901 00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:29,120 Speaker 1: know that it'll be fired, it'll be successful, and it'll 902 00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:34,040 Speaker 1: God willing sword to the sky, I have no doubt. 903 00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:36,480 Speaker 3: Well, thank you Og for blessing me with your presence 904 00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:38,880 Speaker 3: and for blessing our listeners again. 905 00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:40,839 Speaker 2: You have a huge fan base out there. 906 00:47:40,960 --> 00:47:44,120 Speaker 3: I'm included, and I can't wait to see you again 907 00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:45,480 Speaker 3: in front of the screen. 908 00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:47,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. 909 00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:54,640 Speaker 3: I just want to say thank you to Og for 910 00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:59,480 Speaker 3: being so open and honest about her experience on the 911 00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:01,680 Speaker 3: show and telling her truth. 912 00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:04,640 Speaker 2: One of the things about this podcast. 913 00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:08,400 Speaker 3: Is it truly is an open form for people to 914 00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:11,600 Speaker 3: come on and talk about their experience. We're not here 915 00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:15,400 Speaker 3: to bash anybody or talk down to anybody. I like 916 00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:20,000 Speaker 3: I said in the interview, I like Og. I always 917 00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:22,719 Speaker 3: thought she was a great star on the show, and 918 00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:26,160 Speaker 3: I'm super happy that she felt so comfortable coming on 919 00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:31,239 Speaker 3: my podcast to address her experience. And my hope is 920 00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:34,040 Speaker 3: that everybody can be able to move on from this, 921 00:48:34,560 --> 00:48:38,080 Speaker 3: heal from it, and like you guys, I want to 922 00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:41,160 Speaker 3: see Og back on TV child, I want to see 923 00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:44,959 Speaker 3: Ogi back on Basketball Wise, honey, because she was that girl. 924 00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:52,480 Speaker 2: Just saying thank you for listening to Reality with the King. 925 00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:59,800 Speaker 3: New episodes dropped every Wednesday and Friday, Share, comment, follow, 926 00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:04,200 Speaker 3: and subscribe to Reality with the King wherever you get 927 00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:09,479 Speaker 3: your podcast, visit Reality Withtheking dot com and be sure 928 00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:14,200 Speaker 3: to follow me at the Carlos King Underscore on Instagram 929 00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:18,240 Speaker 3: and Twitter. Tweak me your thoughts and hot takes about 930 00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:25,759 Speaker 3: this episode using the hashtag reality with the King. Reality 931 00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:28,920 Speaker 3: with the King is a production of More Sauce by Stitcher. 932 00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:33,520 Speaker 3: It is exactly produced by Me, Carlos King, and Jasmine 933 00:49:33,520 --> 00:49:37,680 Speaker 3: Heinley Brown. We are also produced by Lashik Lotus Lee 934 00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:43,720 Speaker 3: and La Porsha Thomas. Additional production support by Coarena Wallace 935 00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:45,239 Speaker 3: and Alexis Williams. 936 00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:51,400 Speaker 2: Engineering and music by Marcus Home More Sauce