Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and iHeartRadio Podcast.
Speaker 2: Okay, girls, Hi, I want to just hit this off
Speaker 2: too soon? Too soon? Oh? I was like what Yeah, No,
Speaker 2: let's know, I feel a little low energy here. Kat.
Speaker 2: I'm good, She's not good. I could tell she wants
Speaker 2: to cry. No, I think it's really there. I go,
Speaker 2: are we going into this? No? No, No, I just
Speaker 2: sense an energy. I'm around it. I think I'm going
Speaker 2: to be good for us. Okay, good, go. So it's
Speaker 2: interesting because good feels a little weighted. It's because did
Speaker 2: I do something wrong? Nod drop it? No, No, let
Speaker 2: me diffuse. Thanks the energy. No. I think it's funny
Speaker 2: because so Kat and I. I texted Kat yesterday just
Speaker 2: like a check in, you know, because it always becomes
Speaker 2: something when the comment section gets busy and we're still people,
Speaker 2: And I think, like, it's interesting because I think you
Speaker 2: are better at the comments than we are. Well, she's
Speaker 2: definitely because you've been through the boot camp, right, Yeah,
Speaker 2: so the brutal boot camp of comments. It is not fun.
Speaker 2: You guys feel a little piece of pain from Oh.
Speaker 2: I could never do it, do you know I would never? Yeah,
Speaker 2: that's the thing I don't want to a thousand cuts.
Speaker 2: I'm out and I've never read read it, so so
Speaker 2: there everybody. Maybe you want to say, but it's wild,
Speaker 2: because I was. I just when I checked in with Kat,
Speaker 2: I was like, I think it's interesting that people think
Speaker 2: we're salty with each other. That was funny. And I also,
Speaker 2: I don't I think that having hard conversations or vulnerable
Speaker 2: conversations are truthful conversations is such a rarity now that
Speaker 2: when people witness it, it makes it's very dramatic and
Speaker 2: it's very like we must have left and gotten our
Speaker 2: cars and never spoke to each other, and in fact
Speaker 2: it was quite the opposite. Yeah, and and I love that.
Speaker 2: That's one thing I like thought about last night. I
Speaker 2: was like, I just love how honest we are with
Speaker 2: each other and sometimes too honest here with everyone else, right,
Speaker 2: but like it's our superpower, I think in the space
Speaker 2: that we've created to be honest and also to like
Speaker 2: I wasn't trying to challenge. I don't even want to
Speaker 2: get into it. They're with it unless Jane does. But
Speaker 2: I I just like, I love it that we do
Speaker 2: have those really honest conversations. And I also think they
Speaker 2: just get really taken out of context.
Speaker 1: Well, I think that clip a little bit took it
Speaker 1: out of context, which is okay, and part of it,
Speaker 1: all of it was still said.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I think.
Speaker 1: That was the funny part to me was how everyone
Speaker 1: thought we were salty or whatever.
Speaker 2: And I also think, well, my body language and the
Speaker 2: there was like, you know, for sure, you guys weren't happy,
Speaker 2: you weren't happy. Well, I was trying to get to
Speaker 2: a point to try and save myself a little bit,
Speaker 2: and it kept coming. I was like, okay, so I'm
Speaker 2: like trying to get it back. But I also think
Speaker 2: the other comment about me being super opinionated is I
Speaker 2: am super opinionated, and I don't think people and even
Speaker 2: though I don't have a strong opinion on this necessarily
Speaker 2: at all, I don't think people are used to a
Speaker 2: We're all kind of like we'll say what we think
Speaker 2: about things and move on five seconds later. We've always
Speaker 2: been that way, right, And if I'm gonna like, I'm
Speaker 2: that personality for sure, Like I could literally fight with
Speaker 2: you tooth and nail about something I'm passionate about and
Speaker 2: be fine with you the next second. And I realized
Speaker 2: in that moment that obviously doesn't look that way. Had
Speaker 2: I not been caught off guard, of course, I went
Speaker 2: back and said in my head and I was like,
Speaker 2: I should have said X, Y and Z, and I
Speaker 2: wish I would have. I just a wasn't prepared kind
Speaker 2: of to be in the hot seat, if I'm being honest. Like,
Speaker 2: I knew we were going to talk about it, but
Speaker 2: I didn't know it was going to be put on
Speaker 2: me like, well, you spank, you know, And I just said,
Speaker 2: you've talked because you did. You've already talked about it before.
Speaker 2: It wasn't like a, you know what I mean, We've
Speaker 2: already had this conversation on the podcast about yeah, I don't. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I mean, I know she had talked about the bar soap,
Speaker 2: right right. I just was sorry right back in it
Speaker 2: we are we want to talk about it.
Speaker 1: But all I do want to say is I would
Speaker 1: have said and done things very differently, I think had
Speaker 1: I just had a minute to like regroup myself and
Speaker 1: think through it. And that's where my regret comes from
Speaker 1: a little bit from the last podcast. It's not the
Speaker 1: fact that I have spanked. I don't spank. I couldn't
Speaker 1: tell you the last I mean I couldn't even come
Speaker 1: up with the last time. I mean, I have spanked,
Speaker 1: But that to me was kind of irrelevant in that like,
Speaker 1: I'm not ashamed of that, I'm fine with that. It
Speaker 1: was in the fact that I felt like my body
Speaker 1: language and me responding to you made people think that
Speaker 1: we were always fealty with each other, you know, it
Speaker 1: became that we're always salty with each other. And I'm like,
Speaker 1: I don't know what, I.
Speaker 2: Don't so sad I think we just say I think
Speaker 2: it's a different ainion, Yeah, because we have a lot
Speaker 2: of different opinions, probably on things.
Speaker 1: But that's I mean, I can't I have different opinions
Speaker 1: and probably every single one of my friends on different things.
Speaker 2: You know. Well, and listen, there is a piece to
Speaker 2: where this is a show, right, and it is for
Speaker 2: sure there how boring would it be if we all
Speaker 2: had the same opinion. Absolutely, there needs to be someone
Speaker 2: that has because I always can't be in the hot
Speaker 2: seat my opinions too, Because I'm just going to go
Speaker 2: ahead and say I've got accused for not having an
Speaker 2: opinion on this podcast. Well, yes, I will just shoot
Speaker 2: that right there.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's so funny to me because I'm like,
Speaker 1: my god, I feel like I have to pull myself
Speaker 1: back because I have such strong opinions.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and there was a conversation where it was we
Speaker 2: were there was a chat about a shakeup of the
Speaker 2: seats right and now sat, but it was you know,
Speaker 2: they're like, well, we don't think cas and I'm like,
Speaker 2: it has an opinion. I'm like, that is actually the
Speaker 2: farthest thing from the truth that has a very high opinion.
Speaker 2: I actually think think you you always have an opinion,
Speaker 2: and I love that. It's not I love it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and again sometimes that can be a negative thing.
Speaker 1: I understand that. But if I'm going to be in
Speaker 1: this kind of role, if we're going to get if uncomfortable,
Speaker 1: because this is uncomfortable to me, if we are going
Speaker 1: to have these discussions, what I won't do is not
Speaker 1: be honest, not be myself and not have an opinion
Speaker 1: on something. If I have it, I'll be happy to
Speaker 1: say I don't if I don't, you know. And so
Speaker 1: I just will always be true to myself in that way,
Speaker 1: no matter what people have to say about it.
Speaker 2: I think it's an interesting thing because you had texted
Speaker 2: me yesterday saying There's so many things I would have
Speaker 2: said different, And there's many times on this podcast where yeah,
Speaker 2: I have said that exact same thing to Alan, I'm like,
Speaker 2: why did I say it like that? Because A, that's
Speaker 2: just like what kind of popped out. But if I
Speaker 2: would have been more mindful of how I said it
Speaker 2: and what I said, there wouldn't have either been a
Speaker 2: an explosion over here or you know, that wasn't actually
Speaker 2: my truth. And here's also why I've said that. You know,
Speaker 2: right when you're just talking, sometimes you don't have the
Speaker 2: opportunity to really explain until you think about it. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I mean I thought anyone to be recorded for an
Speaker 2: hour and not say something that they're not sure about. Well,
Speaker 2: if you're just.
Speaker 1: Having a conversation with your friends and it bothers you,
Speaker 1: you later it can be like, hey, I didn't really
Speaker 1: mean how you know whatever, And we don't really get
Speaker 1: that opportunity. I mean, yeah, sure somewhat in the comments
Speaker 1: if we want it, but then it just seems like
Speaker 1: you're being defensive, and so I don't want it to
Speaker 1: ever feel that way. But sure there were I would
Speaker 1: have handled that a little bit differently. I would have
Speaker 1: had a different conversation had I taken the time, and
Speaker 1: it made me think about you because it's it is
Speaker 1: real time. We can't just sit here and think about
Speaker 1: what we're going to say for twenty minutes, you know,
Speaker 1: like and just really be careful. And so I hope
Speaker 1: people understand that sometimes we say things that we might
Speaker 1: not have.
Speaker 2: Said though have said, yeah, we would have said it differently, right, Yeah,
Speaker 2: are you kidding me? And I still want to say
Speaker 2: something about something that I spoke about that I would
Speaker 2: have loved to have said differently, but I don't want
Speaker 2: it to become sing.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, but I think you should have an
Speaker 1: opportunity if it bothered you to come back and say, hey,
Speaker 1: you know what, I would have said that differently.
Speaker 2: I can't because it would be a huge thing again
Speaker 2: and I don't. And it was awful. Yeah, yes, it
Speaker 2: was awful and maybe I will one day, I don't know,
Speaker 2: but I did it. I handled it privately, yeah, as
Speaker 2: it which is shocking for me, but it was you know,
Speaker 2: I think there's reflection moments on here that make you
Speaker 2: go inward or whatever. But yeah, it just made me
Speaker 2: think of that.
Speaker 1: And I will say last thing. I will say, I absolutely.
Speaker 1: At first, when I was like mortified and I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I hate this clip, I'll just be honest,
Speaker 1: like it would just really stressed me out. But then
Speaker 1: I really truthfully enjoyed reading all the comments. You know,
Speaker 1: you were kind of like, stay out of the comments whatever,
Speaker 1: I just treat it.
Speaker 2: Here's the deal. I didn't want to go in because
Speaker 2: I looked like a judge bitch, and I didn't want
Speaker 2: to go in. I want to hear.
Speaker 1: I enjoy hearing both sides of some of subjects in general,
Speaker 1: So I I read every single one and I was like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a good Yeah, that's a good point.
Speaker 2: Oh I hear you, you know, like I just and
Speaker 2: I do. I enjoy that.
Speaker 1: And that's why I do think that conversations like this
Speaker 1: are still so good and so healthy because we can
Speaker 1: have these conversations. Sure, some people were fighting in the comments,
Speaker 1: but we can have these let them fight.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Because Hannah had sent it to me and she's like,
Speaker 2: I'm hesitant, and I was like, I see why the
Speaker 2: clip the clip, And I said, yeah, no, but me,
Speaker 2: I know, but she's like, you know, she's also the
Speaker 2: producer on it too. Right, and so she's like, and
Speaker 2: I'm like, it's going to get a lot of comments,
Speaker 2: but I think it's a good Yeah, it's I think
Speaker 2: it's a good thing to get the comments going in there,
Speaker 2: and and they're not all bad, They're not bad discussion.
Speaker 2: It's a discussion for sure.
Speaker 1: The yeah we're the me and you part and those
Speaker 1: are the two that I responded to.
Speaker 2: I also think that's just funny. Oh, I thought it
Speaker 2: was funny too. I honestly think it's funny because Kat
Speaker 2: and I were not friends until Jana, right, and I
Speaker 2: would say we got closer when we did wind down
Speaker 2: on tour. Would you agree, Yeah, for sure, taking a
Speaker 2: reflection moment for a friendship we would do breakfast club
Speaker 2: and yeah, no. I just so it's like funny to
Speaker 2: me because I I don't know, like I have just
Speaker 2: and maybe here we can stir somethings up, but maybe
Speaker 2: you and Jane have talked about things that you don't
Speaker 2: like about me or whatever. But I have always just
Speaker 2: felt like I just love you, and if we've ever
Speaker 2: had different I I honestly remind well admire and respect
Speaker 2: you so much. And I really mean that. I wouldn't
Speaker 2: say that I think you're well, respect said behind your back.
Speaker 2: Oh no, no, no, no, this is the comments talk like
Speaker 2: it first. Yeah no, but we just did. Oh no,
Speaker 2: but it's not behind backs. It's I don't say about you, Christen.
Speaker 2: Is never anything that's bad. We see, I don't remember.
Speaker 2: I don't like this. I don't like it. I'm gonna cry.
Speaker 2: But can I say it? Because I think it's something
Speaker 2: that could speak to speak to you. She's going to say,
Speaker 2: I don't cry. It's we feel bad because you need
Speaker 2: haer yes, oh say even now, don't tell me. No.
Speaker 1: We talked about after the podcast and I said, I
Speaker 1: feel bad. I feel bad for her. I feel like
Speaker 1: she the scheduling and all that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're never like that's the thing like this. I
Speaker 2: was like, even no, but that's the only thing that
Speaker 2: we would ever say. It's like God, I couldn't. I
Speaker 2: was like, I could not deal with that. I couldn't
Speaker 2: do that. I am well, you guys, first of all,
Speaker 2: A couple of things, A couple things. Okay, no, of
Speaker 2: course I'm not. I'm in perimenopausemic my blood we just
Speaker 2: came back normal estrogens one fifty one five zero. I
Speaker 2: don't know what any of that means. Est level should
Speaker 2: be one fifty. Okay, I'm at a nine to ninety four. Oh,
Speaker 2: I'm real certifiable, So that is perimenopause. Well it's just
Speaker 2: so all over right now. So I'm just trying to
Speaker 2: grain that in. But then there's a couple of other
Speaker 2: things that they also tested that is blocking my regulation
Speaker 2: of getting that. So I'm just I'm starting a health journey.
Speaker 2: Are you okay? Yeah, I'm fine. Yeah. Yeah, Like you
Speaker 2: don't have anything that's like super serious. No, no, just
Speaker 2: a lot of toxins. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, like a
Speaker 2: ton actually, and none of that is whine Did you
Speaker 2: do the plastic because I've got a bunch of metal
Speaker 2: and plastics. I don't have that, which is ironic because
Speaker 2: I also have rods in my back. So I also
Speaker 2: just sometimes wonder, like, you know, you were in metal
Speaker 2: because I got to do a full metal one, so
Speaker 2: that he didn't give you a metal all molds and pesticides.
Speaker 2: Oh interesting, I'm the most organic human being, and so
Speaker 2: I just got really defeated in that information because I'm
Speaker 2: like I'm gardening and I'm you know, like I'm on
Speaker 2: a voyage. It could also be previous exposure, which is
Speaker 2: what he thinks. Preston has some too, But the only
Speaker 2: thing that matches. Have you tested your house? No, So
Speaker 2: the only thing that well, and that's the other thing.
Speaker 2: This leads me into the second point, which I don't
Speaker 2: even know if I can go into his all card.
Speaker 2: But like he doesn't live in our house very often,
Speaker 2: you know, so like he's not there. It still could
Speaker 2: be the house though more tears. He's not there like
Speaker 2: two hundred nints a year. So that's also a thing
Speaker 2: for me right now, I'm just missing him. It's hard.
Speaker 2: Summer's hard, and it's great, it's fruitful, and we have
Speaker 2: great business and we're so blessed. Also he's number home
Speaker 2: and that gets hard. Oh guys, what is wrong with me?
Speaker 2: So anyways, the molds. The only thing that coordinates with
Speaker 2: Preston is something that molds finally, often found in coffee
Speaker 2: and peanut butter. But I don't drink coffee. His coffee's
Speaker 2: common because he drinks. Right, we talked, he switched his coffee,
Speaker 2: Oh we did, yeah, when he tested. It's fine, any
Speaker 2: of that, but none of that can really. I can't
Speaker 2: regulate the hormone piece because all of those are blocking
Speaker 2: my ability to absorb and metabolize hormones and to do things.
Speaker 2: So that's where I'm met, Well, how can we support
Speaker 2: you on your journey? Well, that just took a turn.
Speaker 2: It's all just right at the surface. To No, it's
Speaker 2: all just right at the surface these days, which is
Speaker 2: also I feel like hormonally crazy, like I've kind of
Speaker 2: I've mentioned it here before, but like I literally sat
Speaker 2: down with Nate and I was like, dude, I need
Speaker 2: a change, because I feel certifiable. I feel like and
Speaker 2: I will just speak to this just a tiny minute,
Speaker 2: because I the women that I've said this to are like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, me too. Like I'm exhausted, I'm not sleeping, well,
Speaker 2: I'm not metabolizing. While I can work out, I can
Speaker 2: do all the things, and my body's not really changing.
Speaker 2: So that's also a little frustrating. But I feel like
Speaker 2: I am so hyper vigilant of the words coming out
Speaker 2: of my mouth because I feel like when you drive
Speaker 2: down on what dirt road, and if you get too
Speaker 2: far to the right or too far to the left,
Speaker 2: it takes you off the road really fast. So the
Speaker 2: hypervigilance of like essentially keeping my shit together all day
Speaker 2: and not being explosive or not being dramatic or not
Speaker 2: having tears or whatever. Like, I'm so tired by the
Speaker 2: end of the day, and I think that is just
Speaker 2: the season of life. Sure, it's probably toddlerhood and everything,
Speaker 2: but then it's also hormones just plays such a huge
Speaker 2: role and we just don't give them enough credit. So yeah,
Speaker 2: that's that. I'm really sorry. Sorry, You're fine. I'm going
Speaker 2: to do a couple of treatments that are a little
Speaker 2: nerve wracking to me because I can't do supplements really
Speaker 2: to get rid of these, So that supplement route was
Speaker 2: kind of taken off the table because it's so much
Speaker 2: which which would be for you, Like the ebou treatments. Okay, yep,
Speaker 2: I did one of those. You did do that? The
Speaker 2: blood Yeah, okay, I want to talk about I don't
Speaker 2: talk about that now because I forget we're podcasting, but
Speaker 2: I do. I kind of did forget, but I got
Speaker 2: a little overwhelmed by that. I also don't get medically overwhelmed,
Speaker 2: so that feeling is like new to me too, where
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, hang on a second, and I
Speaker 2: wasn't looking for a plus blood work, but I thought
Speaker 2: for as diligent as I am, and then I instantly
Speaker 2: was like, well, what are my kids exposed to if
Speaker 2: this is me? But then when I sat and talked
Speaker 2: with him, he was like, listen, it could be previous exposure.
Speaker 2: It could be for you know, and I've lived in
Speaker 2: some crazy old places like growing up in Michigan, we
Speaker 2: lived you know, apartments and sorority house based you know,
Speaker 2: like a whatever. Anyways, I think i'll just if you
Speaker 2: guys are good, I'll head out now. I can just
Speaker 2: friend what a time? Well that is that whole podcast
Speaker 2: should probably be. My husband's going to be like you
Speaker 2: cried on the podcast. You didn't tell me it happens,
Speaker 2: It does happen. Yeah, yeah, I wrapped the movie. Oh
Speaker 2: that was a bittersweet. Yeah, I cried on this one.
Speaker 2: I had a good cry. It was also five in
Speaker 2: the morning when we wrapped, like four thirty in the morning.
Speaker 2: That it was a good like four thirty in the
Speaker 2: morning cry, But it was. It was great. It felt
Speaker 2: like a really I've never been on set with you
Speaker 2: and you were so kind to him bite us. Yes,
Speaker 2: And I think that's like worth noting because I don't
Speaker 2: think a lot of people in your position do that.
Speaker 2: You really invited some chaos to the set, but you
Speaker 2: also like enabled big dreams Like Love has wanted to
Speaker 2: do acting in theater and so she got to like
Speaker 2: see it in action and she was like, this is incredible.
Speaker 2: And Jolie really pours into her in that way too,
Speaker 2: And it was fun because she got to connect with
Speaker 2: Ramsey and she doesn't get to see Ramsey very often.
Speaker 2: But that set felt so special, And I'm like, does
Speaker 2: it always feel this special? Yes? And no? This one,
Speaker 2: this one was great. I just so enjoyed the cast
Speaker 2: on this one. I mean, Ben's probably might sorry Austin,
Speaker 2: He's probably my favorite now. Seems like a genuine guy. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I just I just adored him and his family and
Speaker 2: everyone else was great. It was great. I had a
Speaker 2: great connection with the girl that played my daughter, So
Speaker 2: it was just it was just really great. I'm sad
Speaker 2: to I was sad to see it end because it
Speaker 2: was such a summer camp vibe. Yeah, it felt so cozy. Yeah,
Speaker 2: so I'm really bummed, but I'm really excited for it
Speaker 2: to come out in November six in theaters. Everyone go
Speaker 2: check it out. So that's exciting. Yeah, and then I
Speaker 2: talked to my agent. First thing Monday morning was like,
Speaker 2: what's literally I got four hours of sleep literally on
Speaker 2: Monday as a because Roman started his two day preschool
Speaker 2: and so I had to go get some extra diapers
Speaker 2: and some things at the Target and get him a
Speaker 2: little Alan had already gotten in my backpack and a
Speaker 2: little lunchbox, but uh, just to get some other things.
Speaker 2: And I'm just like I had about three hours of
Speaker 2: sleep walking through Target and just calling me being like,
Speaker 2: all right, what's going on? What was next? And I
Speaker 2: wondered if if the RAP for you is ever bittersweet,
Speaker 2: because it's like for ten seconds you're working, you know,
Speaker 2: like you get like this ten second, Like it's not
Speaker 2: it's a couple of weeks. I know you're there for
Speaker 2: a while, but like for your body, I wonder if
Speaker 2: you get like a deep breath of going, Okay, I'm
Speaker 2: working and there's literally no other projects I could be
Speaker 2: doing right now, so like, yeah, there's almost like a
Speaker 2: hypervigilance gets to rest. Yeah, it was nice, but then
Speaker 2: every week to rap is the right the anxiety end.
Speaker 2: But I listen, I told Alan the other night we
Speaker 2: were driving back, I made a joke. I said, oh gosh,
Speaker 2: what if I never work again? And he goes, oh,
Speaker 2: you did it a day sooner than I thought you
Speaker 2: would or something, or like a day later than I
Speaker 2: thought you would. Uh So. But I've had such an
Speaker 2: abundant year with the amount of movies that I've done,
Speaker 2: so I'm very grateful for that. Like this is the
Speaker 2: most I've ever done movies wise, so in a full year.
Speaker 2: So this is great. So I'm like it's the last one.
Speaker 2: I am so fine with that. For this year, I
Speaker 2: don't very clear for this year. For this year, I
Speaker 2: don't think it was like four in a year. Wow.
Speaker 2: Usually I'm lucky to get I'm lucky to get to
Speaker 2: that's great. So I feel great good and I feel
Speaker 2: ready to rest and what's next. And it's like all
Speaker 2: of the things.
Speaker 1: The thing that's so funny to me is you you
Speaker 1: say you're unemployed, but I'm like.
Speaker 2: You're always working. I know you never stop working, like Janna.
Speaker 2: Every needs to know Janna's like a hustler, but it's
Speaker 2: not the like to me, that's the stuff that I
Speaker 2: have to do to keep the thing that you love
Speaker 2: to sing? The lights on right? But what I love
Speaker 2: to me my job is like actress, right, and so
Speaker 2: I feel unemployed when I'm not doing right.
Speaker 1: It's just very important to know why she does not
Speaker 1: just do four movies in a year and sit around
Speaker 1: the rest of the time like that.
Speaker 2: I can promise you. Like ever, That's why I think
Speaker 2: it's wild. But this is also what I love about you,
Speaker 2: like the grit, the hustle. That's like my favorite thing.
Speaker 2: I'm calling yourself unemployed yea, as we say as we
Speaker 2: talk during one of your employments, literally right now we're working.
Speaker 2: You guys know what I mean. Though yes, not technically
Speaker 2: say that. Then no you can no, no, no. I think
Speaker 2: this is fair. And I go through the part is
Speaker 2: I've married you twice, so I go through this at home,
Speaker 2: and I go through it with you because when you guys,
Speaker 2: slow down. If Preston's like I just can't wait to
Speaker 2: be home, and then he gets home for like five
Speaker 2: days and he's like, we don't have any work, and
Speaker 2: I'm like, that actually is not true. You're only Friday
Speaker 2: and I'll see it in a month, you know, But
Speaker 2: like it is, this it's such an inconsistent lifestyle, and
Speaker 2: I think a lot of people probably can relate in
Speaker 2: some ways if they do sales or like things like that.
Speaker 2: But there's a lot of people that I even know
Speaker 2: from home that are very nine to five jobs, and
Speaker 2: so the thought of what we all do and the
Speaker 2: last minute chaos like makes their throat close.
Speaker 1: Yeah, all that to say, I don't think you could
Speaker 1: go get unemployment.
Speaker 2: I think you're definitely employ. If we're Catherine, no quickly
Speaker 2: could I claim unemployed? I'm like, no, I don't think
Speaker 2: you could. Espally, you're talking network. Have you guys finished
Speaker 2: The Hunting Wives? Yes? No? Okay. Well it's funny because
Speaker 2: Ben so obviously he saw in my story and so
Speaker 2: many of you guys from the podcast you know, asked
Speaker 2: me what character I was playing, and uh, he had.
Speaker 2: He wrote me a funny text message about you know,
Speaker 2: you've got great things, you know, come in and it
Speaker 2: was a beautiful text message. And he goes and it's
Speaker 2: not and it's not with a pink strap on dildo
Speaker 2: screwing your husband, your your TV husband, and and I'm like,
Speaker 2: but I would have done if I need to know
Speaker 2: for the role. And I go and I told Alan,
Speaker 2: I go, hey, babe, I said, Scots I'm reading this
Speaker 2: text message to Alan in the car yesterday and I said,
Speaker 2: so he's like dying laughing. He goes, wait, did that
Speaker 2: character really do that? And I said yeah, and I go,
Speaker 2: would you have been upset about that? And he goes
Speaker 2: something about you doing it to them makes it a
Speaker 2: little like, it doesn't make it as bad. And that's
Speaker 2: all I could think about, was Alan than I thought
Speaker 2: it was. I'm not gonna lie because I think Presion
Speaker 2: would be like, are you kidding me? Oh, I can't
Speaker 2: even really dodged a bullet. See. I think it's what
Speaker 2: it's been like I do. And I've gotten so many
Speaker 2: messages and people being like you that it's just not
Speaker 2: your you know, that's not your role and like the
Speaker 2: God saved you on that one, and and I'm like, listen,
Speaker 2: it is. There's not a show right now, but it's
Speaker 2: like the number one show. And I bet you it's
Speaker 2: gonna I bet you because it's it's people are talking
Speaker 2: about it, it's making waves. It is and it's like
Speaker 2: but and for me it's it's I love these wholesome
Speaker 2: roles that I play. I really do. I like the
Speaker 2: last character I just played the most wholesome role ever,
Speaker 2: and as an actress, it's it's fun to just do
Speaker 2: something that is so out of my comfort zone, like
Speaker 2: Alex for anyone listening, I didn't want to audition for
Speaker 2: that role because it was so wildly out of my
Speaker 2: comfort zone. I'd never been drunk, I'd never done drugs.
Speaker 2: I didn't relate to the character at all. Like I
Speaker 2: was like, I don't want she's crazy, she's psycho, Like,
Speaker 2: I don't want to play her. And then I fell
Speaker 2: in love with playing her because it was so fun.
Speaker 2: But you forget you did guess by my husband. But
Speaker 2: still I was too close to home. That was, but
Speaker 2: it was not a cozy role. It was not cozy wholesome. Yeah,
Speaker 2: like you're those roles are still going to find you. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I mean, and I get it. I also I would
Speaker 2: have wanted you to do it too. I wouldn't have
Speaker 2: been able to watch it, but I would definitely would
Speaker 2: have wanted you to do it. Yeah, I don't ever
Speaker 2: want to see you in bed with this drap. I'm
Speaker 2: just me. But also like you have kids, I know,
Speaker 2: but they would have watched it. Well, someday they could
Speaker 2: have saw a clip or I know I know and listen.
Speaker 2: And so that's the part where I think it's not
Speaker 2: just about protecting you. I think God protects your family.
Speaker 1: And it's hard to go on somebody's Netflix and go
Speaker 1: find it if they hear it.
Speaker 2: And I'm pie that piece I did think of when
Speaker 2: I yeah, I saw that. To Alan, I was like,
Speaker 2: I'm kind of glad the reference to.
Speaker 1: Having said that a lot of actors are parents that
Speaker 1: do that, and I'm.
Speaker 2: Sure she's a parent, the girl that got hired. You know,
Speaker 2: there's a lot of no judgment please, because I know
Speaker 2: how that'll go. But I'm just saying, like when I
Speaker 2: logged on to watch that show, I didn't expect to
Speaker 2: get into what I was getting into because Preson's like, well,
Speaker 2: this is good to be great. It's a great cast
Speaker 2: and you know, like he's a hunter, so he's like,
Speaker 2: this is be epic, and I was so fully in
Speaker 2: over my head I didn't. I was confused. Listen, I
Speaker 2: think it's juicy and I would love to be on
Speaker 2: season two. All right, darned, okay, all right? Management and
Speaker 2: spiritual advisor going to therapist is like no, honey, like,
Speaker 2: this is not your role. And I was like maybe
Speaker 2: it's not it. Obviously it wasn't, you know what I mean,
Speaker 2: But maybe there's something else. Yeah, I don't know. There's
Speaker 2: definitely something for you that I do know. There's a
Speaker 2: Hallmark series is coming to Nashville. So you know, I
Speaker 2: like you and Gingerbread. That's the only man I like
Speaker 2: you doing is a Gingerbread. I would love to have
Speaker 2: the girl that plays CALLI on because I think she
Speaker 2: did a great job. And even then when we were
Speaker 2: talking about it, he's like, I don't see you in
Speaker 2: that role. He's like, he's like, and she and here's
Speaker 2: the deal. She plays it obviously, I mean she's she's incredible.
Speaker 2: She's the one that got the job. But you know,
Speaker 2: I would have taken it a different way because of
Speaker 2: how I, you know, take certain characters. It would have
Speaker 2: been like where she's really dominant. I would have been
Speaker 2: too feminine. I believe that that's what president and I
Speaker 2: think I would have been more of the like she's
Speaker 2: so strong and so good, So I would I mean,
Speaker 2: I'd love, you know, see kind of her thoughts on it,
Speaker 2: and it would be really fun. Hannah. Can we get
Speaker 2: her on? That'd be great if we could from Hannah, Yes,
Speaker 2: I'm sure. I think it'd be so fun. But I
Speaker 2: think she's great and I think it'd be fun, all right.
Speaker 2: Headline of the Week, Sophie Turner defends going to Oasis
Speaker 2: concert with friends as a single mom called shared custody,
Speaker 2: so she is not here for the single mom single
Speaker 2: parent shamers. Earlier this week, Turner posted on Instagram a
Speaker 2: photo of her and her friend attending the Oasis concert
Speaker 2: at London's Wimbley Stadium. One social media user commented, insane,
Speaker 2: l m f ao, I think she has forgotten that
Speaker 2: she has two kids. Turner quickly shot back a response, writing, ah,
Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. Sometimes I forget. Some people can't think
Speaker 2: for themselves. So get this. There's this crazy thing called
Speaker 2: shared custody. Maybe just maybe they were there. They were
Speaker 2: with their dad that day. She shares obviously two kids
Speaker 2: with ex husband Joe Jonas. Turner has since been candid
Speaker 2: about her life as a single parent and dealing with
Speaker 2: the on uh slot onslought of mom shaming comments. I
Speaker 2: just cannot, for the life of me get over the
Speaker 2: mom shaming comments from ninety nine point nine percent of
Speaker 2: them being moms. Moms Yeah, and also like, I'll I'll
Speaker 2: get this sometimes if I go on a vacation once
Speaker 2: a year without the kids, do you ever see your kids?
Speaker 2: That's unreal? Those are the comments I get all the
Speaker 2: time when I if I do anything, do anything without the kids?
Speaker 2: Are you ever with your kids? You're always traveling? I
Speaker 2: mean one year I maybe went on I think no,
Speaker 2: it was when Alan and I went on. Are like
Speaker 2: first vacation together? Are you ever with your kids? I'm
Speaker 2: like all the time, thank you very much, and like, yes,
Speaker 2: they also have to be with their father. Like I
Speaker 2: cannot believe people go in in comments like that. It
Speaker 2: just it drives me nuts because it's like I already
Speaker 2: have guilt for being away and not being with my kids.
Speaker 2: Of course that I don't need to be a reminded.
Speaker 2: But also like if it's I I schedule things so
Speaker 2: that for example, what Mike and I do really good
Speaker 2: with and he's great with is I already know kind
Speaker 2: of what he has coming up and vice versa for me,
Speaker 2: So I do the weekends so like when I'm in Wilmington,
Speaker 2: I don't have off right I'm working and I don't
Speaker 2: have the kids, right, it's his weekend. So then when
Speaker 2: i'm home, I have the kids, you know. But when
Speaker 2: i'm or when I have to go to Paris for
Speaker 2: one Tree Hill again, I'm working, and I've blocked it
Speaker 2: so that way I'm not doing double weeks without the
Speaker 2: kids or double weekends without the kids. I make it
Speaker 2: not take in projects before because it would make it
Speaker 2: so that you would be your kids too long. I'm
Speaker 2: also not doing something that I'm supposed to do for
Speaker 2: work because I don't want to miss my daughter's first
Speaker 2: softball game, you know what I'm saying, coming up here
Speaker 2: next week. So there's many things that like happen that
Speaker 2: I mean, always prioritizing the kids. But it's like when
Speaker 2: the moms come in, it baffles me. You owe them nothing.
Speaker 1: She owes those people absolutely nothing. If she got a babysitter,
Speaker 1: who cares if she doesn't see her kids for three days? Okay,
Speaker 1: like it's her parenting. It's that I will never understand that,
Speaker 1: like you having to justify that you go out of
Speaker 1: town and you get your kids immediately, which you do,
Speaker 1: But what if you know I'm coming home and going, hey,
Speaker 1: I want to break I want to take a little nap.
Speaker 2: Okay like that that are like, hey, I could pick
Speaker 2: the kids up from my parents all the way home,
Speaker 2: but I'm a rest for a minute. Yeah, and that
Speaker 2: would be me and take a shower, and like, yeah.
Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with any of that. Like, it's unbelievable
Speaker 1: to me that we think you have an opinion. Okay, fine,
Speaker 1: but to attack people and say do you ever see
Speaker 1: your children like that? Is There's no right of us
Speaker 1: as moms to go after other moms for parenting decisions.
Speaker 2: You probably don't feel this, but I wonder do you
Speaker 2: ever feel the need to parent more publicly because you
Speaker 2: get those comments? Or did you ever to like kind
Speaker 2: of combat it. It's an interesting question. I mean I
Speaker 2: totally hear what you're saying. I just wonder that. Yeah, No,
Speaker 2: I mean for people in the public. I mean I
Speaker 2: have them seventy percent, I know it. I'm like showing Yeah. No,
Speaker 2: I always wonder people because like, I'm pretty confident in
Speaker 2: my parenting of the having them. Now for me, though,
Speaker 2: I I how do I say this, I privately do
Speaker 2: that combat or for me? So for example, when I
Speaker 2: was on the movie, like I I should have not
Speaker 2: have had them a few days because I should have
Speaker 2: allowed myself to sleep in on my off day so
Speaker 2: that I'm prepared for the week ahead, but instead the
Speaker 2: kids were there and then so that I'm waking up
Speaker 2: in the morning as opposed to being like, hey, Mike,
Speaker 2: can you take this day so I can sleep it
Speaker 2: on my day off. But because I feel my own, no,
Speaker 2: I need to I need to get the kids ready
Speaker 2: for school, and I need to do that. So it's
Speaker 2: it's my own private struggle. Yeah, it's not other people's
Speaker 2: to show. It's to show me that I'm a good
Speaker 2: mom and that I can that I can do it all. Yeah,
Speaker 2: right right, that makes sense. Yeah, Like first day of school,
Speaker 2: you did that? Uh huh? I got like three hours
Speaker 2: of sleep, which then set me into the week. Not
Speaker 2: great for my week week of work, you know, but
Speaker 2: how could I how could I not be there for
Speaker 2: my kids on the first day of school and get
Speaker 2: them ready and you know, yeah, and then I got
Speaker 2: shamed for the outfit, so you know, I just can't
Speaker 2: win nobody. It was so cute. What was the shame?
Speaker 2: Did I dress her too old that I can't put her?
Speaker 2: Doesn't anyone talk to nine year olds lately? All they
Speaker 2: want to do is skincare and dress like their moms.
Speaker 2: I mean, and I'm like, she actually picked out the
Speaker 2: office herself, and I thought she was beautiful and I
Speaker 2: thought she had done amazing.
Speaker 1: But you know, let's just go ahead and shame kids too.
Speaker 2: Just shame sorry, feisty, Oh, I trust me. I fired
Speaker 2: back on some comments and then I deleted them because
Speaker 2: I'm like, there is no point, I know, and there
Speaker 2: is zero point, and so I deleteded just like you know,
Speaker 2: two SAIDs like, yeah, I don't know anybody. They are
Speaker 2: going to disagree with anything I do. So whether I
Speaker 2: put her in a sweatshirt on a ninety degree day
Speaker 2: or sunscreen, I mean, you name it. Guys, we've been
Speaker 2: through it all. Or if I tinfoil my thing and
Speaker 2: I'm wasteful, let me just tell all the tinfoil police
Speaker 2: you can recycle tinfoil, And let me tell you it
Speaker 2: twas been recycled. Okay. We bawled it all up and
Speaker 2: the PA took it to a recycler. I would also
Speaker 2: encourages people to look up all the studies on aluminum
Speaker 2: while they're at it, how toxic it is. Yeah, yeahs
Speaker 2: a favor any who. All right, my goodness, gracious, we
Speaker 2: are a fighter. I was like, can anybody just you
Speaker 2: just can't. I'm I wasted all that Reynolds And to my,
Speaker 2: to my, I did comment back on this, I did
Speaker 2: say this. I said, well, I used tupperware, So just
Speaker 2: think of all the tinfoil that I didn't use all
Speaker 2: those years. You just used all years up in one time.
Speaker 2: You're a lot, men, did you? You didn't know there
Speaker 2: was a foil a lot, but if.
Speaker 1: There was, I'll come up with something, guys, no matter
Speaker 1: what it is, I can't.
Speaker 2: So we're all good. We're good, We've been good. We've
Speaker 2: been good. Should we put like signs up? I don't
Speaker 2: even know. I'm really glud of everybody. Well, guys, until
Speaker 2: next week.
Speaker 1: Bye ye