WEBVTT - Hunting Whines

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<v Speaker 1>Wind Down with Janet Kramer and iHeartRadio Podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, girls, Hi, I want to just hit this off

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<v Speaker 2>too soon? Too soon? Oh? I was like what Yeah, No,

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<v Speaker 2>let's know, I feel a little low energy here. Kat.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm good, She's not good. I could tell she wants

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<v Speaker 2>to cry. No, I think it's really there. I go,

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<v Speaker 2>are we going into this? No? No, No, I just

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<v Speaker 2>sense an energy. I'm around it. I think I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to be good for us. Okay, good, go. So it's

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<v Speaker 2>interesting because good feels a little weighted. It's because did

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<v Speaker 2>I do something wrong? Nod drop it? No, No, let

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<v Speaker 2>me diffuse. Thanks the energy. No. I think it's funny

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<v Speaker 2>because so Kat and I. I texted Kat yesterday just

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<v Speaker 2>like a check in, you know, because it always becomes

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<v Speaker 2>something when the comment section gets busy and we're still people,

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<v Speaker 2>And I think, like, it's interesting because I think you

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<v Speaker 2>are better at the comments than we are. Well, she's

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<v Speaker 2>definitely because you've been through the boot camp, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so the brutal boot camp of comments. It is not fun.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys feel a little piece of pain from Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>I could never do it, do you know I would never? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's the thing I don't want to a thousand cuts.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm out and I've never read read it, so so

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<v Speaker 2>there everybody. Maybe you want to say, but it's wild,

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<v Speaker 2>because I was. I just when I checked in with Kat,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I think it's interesting that people think

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<v Speaker 2>we're salty with each other. That was funny. And I also,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't I think that having hard conversations or vulnerable

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<v Speaker 2>conversations are truthful conversations is such a rarity now that

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<v Speaker 2>when people witness it, it makes it's very dramatic and

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<v Speaker 2>it's very like we must have left and gotten our

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<v Speaker 2>cars and never spoke to each other, and in fact

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<v Speaker 2>it was quite the opposite. Yeah, and and I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>That's one thing I like thought about last night. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I just love how honest we are with

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<v Speaker 2>each other and sometimes too honest here with everyone else, right,

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<v Speaker 2>but like it's our superpower, I think in the space

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<v Speaker 2>that we've created to be honest and also to like

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't trying to challenge. I don't even want to

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<v Speaker 2>get into it. They're with it unless Jane does. But

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<v Speaker 2>I I just like, I love it that we do

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<v Speaker 2>have those really honest conversations. And I also think they

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<v Speaker 2>just get really taken out of context.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I think that clip a little bit took it

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<v Speaker 1>out of context, which is okay, and part of it,

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<v Speaker 1>all of it was still said.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I think.

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<v Speaker 1>That was the funny part to me was how everyone

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<v Speaker 1>thought we were salty or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>And I also think, well, my body language and the

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<v Speaker 2>there was like, you know, for sure, you guys weren't happy,

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<v Speaker 2>you weren't happy. Well, I was trying to get to

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<v Speaker 2>a point to try and save myself a little bit,

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<v Speaker 2>and it kept coming. I was like, okay, so I'm

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<v Speaker 2>like trying to get it back. But I also think

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<v Speaker 2>the other comment about me being super opinionated is I

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<v Speaker 2>am super opinionated, and I don't think people and even

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<v Speaker 2>though I don't have a strong opinion on this necessarily

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<v Speaker 2>at all, I don't think people are used to a

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<v Speaker 2>We're all kind of like we'll say what we think

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<v Speaker 2>about things and move on five seconds later. We've always

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<v Speaker 2>been that way, right, And if I'm gonna like, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>that personality for sure, Like I could literally fight with

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<v Speaker 2>you tooth and nail about something I'm passionate about and

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<v Speaker 2>be fine with you the next second. And I realized

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<v Speaker 2>in that moment that obviously doesn't look that way. Had

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<v Speaker 2>I not been caught off guard, of course, I went

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<v Speaker 2>back and said in my head and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I should have said X, Y and Z, and I

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<v Speaker 2>wish I would have. I just a wasn't prepared kind

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<v Speaker 2>of to be in the hot seat, if I'm being honest. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>I knew we were going to talk about it, but

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know it was going to be put on

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<v Speaker 2>me like, well, you spank, you know, And I just said,

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<v Speaker 2>you've talked because you did. You've already talked about it before.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't like a, you know what I mean, We've

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<v Speaker 2>already had this conversation on the podcast about yeah, I don't. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I know she had talked about the bar soap,

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<v Speaker 2>right right. I just was sorry right back in it

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<v Speaker 2>we are we want to talk about it.

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<v Speaker 1>But all I do want to say is I would

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<v Speaker 1>have said and done things very differently, I think had

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<v Speaker 1>I just had a minute to like regroup myself and

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<v Speaker 1>think through it. And that's where my regret comes from

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit from the last podcast. It's not the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that I have spanked. I don't spank. I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>tell you the last I mean I couldn't even come

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<v Speaker 1>up with the last time. I mean, I have spanked,

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<v Speaker 1>But that to me was kind of irrelevant in that like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not ashamed of that, I'm fine with that. It

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<v Speaker 1>was in the fact that I felt like my body

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<v Speaker 1>language and me responding to you made people think that

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<v Speaker 1>we were always fealty with each other, you know, it

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<v Speaker 1>became that we're always salty with each other. And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't so sad I think we just say I think

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<v Speaker 2>it's a different ainion, Yeah, because we have a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of different opinions, probably on things.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's I mean, I can't I have different opinions

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<v Speaker 1>and probably every single one of my friends on different things.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. Well, and listen, there is a piece to

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<v Speaker 2>where this is a show, right, and it is for

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<v Speaker 2>sure there how boring would it be if we all

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<v Speaker 2>had the same opinion. Absolutely, there needs to be someone

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<v Speaker 2>that has because I always can't be in the hot

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<v Speaker 2>seat my opinions too, Because I'm just going to go

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<v Speaker 2>ahead and say I've got accused for not having an

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<v Speaker 2>opinion on this podcast. Well, yes, I will just shoot

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<v Speaker 2>that right there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And it's so funny to me because I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>my god, I feel like I have to pull myself

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<v Speaker 1>back because I have such strong opinions.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and there was a conversation where it was we

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<v Speaker 2>were there was a chat about a shakeup of the

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<v Speaker 2>seats right and now sat, but it was you know,

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<v Speaker 2>they're like, well, we don't think cas and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>it has an opinion. I'm like, that is actually the

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<v Speaker 2>farthest thing from the truth that has a very high opinion.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually think think you you always have an opinion,

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<v Speaker 2>and I love that. It's not I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and again sometimes that can be a negative thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand that. But if I'm going to be in

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<v Speaker 1>this kind of role, if we're going to get if uncomfortable,

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<v Speaker 1>because this is uncomfortable to me, if we are going

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<v Speaker 1>to have these discussions, what I won't do is not

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<v Speaker 1>be honest, not be myself and not have an opinion

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<v Speaker 1>on something. If I have it, I'll be happy to

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<v Speaker 1>say I don't if I don't, you know. And so

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<v Speaker 1>I just will always be true to myself in that way,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter what people have to say about it.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's an interesting thing because you had texted

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<v Speaker 2>me yesterday saying There's so many things I would have

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<v Speaker 2>said different, And there's many times on this podcast where yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I have said that exact same thing to Alan, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>why did I say it like that? Because A, that's

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<v Speaker 2>just like what kind of popped out. But if I

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<v Speaker 2>would have been more mindful of how I said it

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<v Speaker 2>and what I said, there wouldn't have either been a

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<v Speaker 2>an explosion over here or you know, that wasn't actually

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<v Speaker 2>my truth. And here's also why I've said that. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>right when you're just talking, sometimes you don't have the

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<v Speaker 2>opportunity to really explain until you think about it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I thought anyone to be recorded for an

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<v Speaker 2>hour and not say something that they're not sure about. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>if you're just.

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<v Speaker 1>Having a conversation with your friends and it bothers you,

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<v Speaker 1>you later it can be like, hey, I didn't really

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<v Speaker 1>mean how you know whatever, And we don't really get

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<v Speaker 1>that opportunity. I mean, yeah, sure somewhat in the comments

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<v Speaker 1>if we want it, but then it just seems like

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<v Speaker 1>you're being defensive, and so I don't want it to

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<v Speaker 1>ever feel that way. But sure there were I would

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<v Speaker 1>have handled that a little bit differently. I would have

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<v Speaker 1>had a different conversation had I taken the time, and

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<v Speaker 1>it made me think about you because it's it is

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<v Speaker 1>real time. We can't just sit here and think about

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<v Speaker 1>what we're going to say for twenty minutes, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like and just really be careful. And so I hope

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<v Speaker 1>people understand that sometimes we say things that we might

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<v Speaker 1>not have.

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<v Speaker 2>Said though have said, yeah, we would have said it differently, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>are you kidding me? And I still want to say

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<v Speaker 2>something about something that I spoke about that I would

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<v Speaker 2>have loved to have said differently, but I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>it to become sing.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying, but I think you should have an

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity if it bothered you to come back and say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I would have said that differently.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't because it would be a huge thing again

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<v Speaker 2>and I don't. And it was awful. Yeah, yes, it

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<v Speaker 2>was awful and maybe I will one day, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>but I did it. I handled it privately, yeah, as

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<v Speaker 2>it which is shocking for me, but it was you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I think there's reflection moments on here that make you

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<v Speaker 2>go inward or whatever. But yeah, it just made me

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<v Speaker 2>think of that.

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<v Speaker 1>And I will say last thing. I will say, I absolutely.

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<v Speaker 1>At first, when I was like mortified and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, I hate this clip, I'll just be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>like it would just really stressed me out. But then

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<v Speaker 1>I really truthfully enjoyed reading all the comments. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you were kind of like, stay out of the comments whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>I just treat it.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's the deal. I didn't want to go in because

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<v Speaker 2>I looked like a judge bitch, and I didn't want

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<v Speaker 2>to go in. I want to hear.

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<v Speaker 1>I enjoy hearing both sides of some of subjects in general,

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<v Speaker 1>So I I read every single one and I was like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good Yeah, that's a good point.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I hear you, you know, like I just and

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<v Speaker 2>I do. I enjoy that.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why I do think that conversations like this

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<v Speaker 1>are still so good and so healthy because we can

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<v Speaker 1>have these conversations. Sure, some people were fighting in the comments,

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<v Speaker 1>but we can have these let them fight.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Because Hannah had sent it to me and she's like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm hesitant, and I was like, I see why the

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<v Speaker 2>clip the clip, And I said, yeah, no, but me,

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<v Speaker 2>I know, but she's like, you know, she's also the

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<v Speaker 2>producer on it too. Right, and so she's like, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, it's going to get a lot of comments,

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<v Speaker 2>but I think it's a good Yeah, it's I think

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<v Speaker 2>it's a good thing to get the comments going in there,

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<v Speaker 2>and and they're not all bad, They're not bad discussion.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a discussion for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>The yeah we're the me and you part and those

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<v Speaker 1>are the two that I responded to.

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<v Speaker 2>I also think that's just funny. Oh, I thought it

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<v Speaker 2>was funny too. I honestly think it's funny because Kat

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<v Speaker 2>and I were not friends until Jana, right, and I

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<v Speaker 2>would say we got closer when we did wind down

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<v Speaker 2>on tour. Would you agree, Yeah, for sure, taking a

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<v Speaker 2>reflection moment for a friendship we would do breakfast club

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<v Speaker 2>and yeah, no. I just so it's like funny to

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<v Speaker 2>me because I I don't know, like I have just

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<v Speaker 2>and maybe here we can stir somethings up, but maybe

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<v Speaker 2>you and Jane have talked about things that you don't

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<v Speaker 2>like about me or whatever. But I have always just

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<v Speaker 2>felt like I just love you, and if we've ever

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<v Speaker 2>had different I I honestly remind well admire and respect

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<v Speaker 2>you so much. And I really mean that. I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>say that I think you're well, respect said behind your back.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, no, no, no, this is the comments talk like

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<v Speaker 2>it first. Yeah no, but we just did. Oh no,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's not behind backs. It's I don't say about you, Christen.

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<v Speaker 2>Is never anything that's bad. We see, I don't remember.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like this. I don't like it. I'm gonna cry.

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<v Speaker 2>But can I say it? Because I think it's something

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<v Speaker 2>that could speak to speak to you. She's going to say,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't cry. It's we feel bad because you need

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<v Speaker 2>haer yes, oh say even now, don't tell me. No.

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<v Speaker 1>We talked about after the podcast and I said, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel bad. I feel bad for her. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>she the scheduling and all that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're never like that's the thing like this. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, even no, but that's the only thing that

0:11:36.000 --> 0:11:37.920
<v Speaker 2>we would ever say. It's like God, I couldn't. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I could not deal with that. I couldn't

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<v Speaker 2>do that. I am well, you guys, first of all,

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<v Speaker 2>A couple of things, A couple things. Okay, no, of

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<v Speaker 2>course I'm not. I'm in perimenopausemic my blood we just

0:11:57.120 --> 0:12:00.960
<v Speaker 2>came back normal estrogens one fifty one five zero. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know what any of that means. Est level should

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<v Speaker 2>be one fifty. Okay, I'm at a nine to ninety four. Oh,

0:12:07.920 --> 0:12:11.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm real certifiable, So that is perimenopause. Well it's just

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<v Speaker 2>so all over right now. So I'm just trying to

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<v Speaker 2>grain that in. But then there's a couple of other

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<v Speaker 2>things that they also tested that is blocking my regulation

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<v Speaker 2>of getting that. So I'm just I'm starting a health journey.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you okay? Yeah, I'm fine. Yeah. Yeah, Like you

0:12:27.760 --> 0:12:30.640
<v Speaker 2>don't have anything that's like super serious. No, no, just

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of toxins. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, like a

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<v Speaker 2>ton actually, and none of that is whine Did you

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<v Speaker 2>do the plastic because I've got a bunch of metal

0:12:39.160 --> 0:12:41.480
<v Speaker 2>and plastics. I don't have that, which is ironic because

0:12:41.480 --> 0:12:42.880
<v Speaker 2>I also have rods in my back. So I also

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<v Speaker 2>just sometimes wonder, like, you know, you were in metal

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<v Speaker 2>because I got to do a full metal one, so

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<v Speaker 2>that he didn't give you a metal all molds and pesticides.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh interesting, I'm the most organic human being, and so

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<v Speaker 2>I just got really defeated in that information because I'm

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm gardening and I'm you know, like I'm on

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<v Speaker 2>a voyage. It could also be previous exposure, which is

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<v Speaker 2>what he thinks. Preston has some too, But the only

0:13:08.160 --> 0:13:11.240
<v Speaker 2>thing that matches. Have you tested your house? No, So

0:13:11.360 --> 0:13:12.959
<v Speaker 2>the only thing that well, and that's the other thing.

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<v Speaker 2>This leads me into the second point, which I don't

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<v Speaker 2>even know if I can go into his all card.

0:13:16.520 --> 0:13:18.720
<v Speaker 2>But like he doesn't live in our house very often,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, so like he's not there. It still could

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<v Speaker 2>be the house though more tears. He's not there like

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<v Speaker 2>two hundred nints a year. So that's also a thing

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<v Speaker 2>for me right now, I'm just missing him. It's hard.

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<v Speaker 2>Summer's hard, and it's great, it's fruitful, and we have

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<v Speaker 2>great business and we're so blessed. Also he's number home

0:13:40.920 --> 0:13:44.800
<v Speaker 2>and that gets hard. Oh guys, what is wrong with me?

0:13:45.040 --> 0:13:48.800
<v Speaker 2>So anyways, the molds. The only thing that coordinates with

0:13:48.880 --> 0:13:52.840
<v Speaker 2>Preston is something that molds finally, often found in coffee

0:13:52.840 --> 0:13:56.240
<v Speaker 2>and peanut butter. But I don't drink coffee. His coffee's

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<v Speaker 2>common because he drinks. Right, we talked, he switched his coffee,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh we did, yeah, when he tested. It's fine, any

0:14:02.000 --> 0:14:04.040
<v Speaker 2>of that, but none of that can really. I can't

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<v Speaker 2>regulate the hormone piece because all of those are blocking

0:14:07.559 --> 0:14:11.319
<v Speaker 2>my ability to absorb and metabolize hormones and to do things.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's where I'm met, Well, how can we support

0:14:15.320 --> 0:14:17.880
<v Speaker 2>you on your journey? Well, that just took a turn.

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<v Speaker 2>It's all just right at the surface. To No, it's

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<v Speaker 2>all just right at the surface these days, which is

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<v Speaker 2>also I feel like hormonally crazy, like I've kind of

0:14:28.240 --> 0:14:30.680
<v Speaker 2>I've mentioned it here before, but like I literally sat

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<v Speaker 2>down with Nate and I was like, dude, I need

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<v Speaker 2>a change, because I feel certifiable. I feel like and

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<v Speaker 2>I will just speak to this just a tiny minute,

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<v Speaker 2>because I the women that I've said this to are like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, me too. Like I'm exhausted, I'm not sleeping, well,

0:14:46.560 --> 0:14:48.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm not metabolizing. While I can work out, I can

0:14:48.720 --> 0:14:50.880
<v Speaker 2>do all the things, and my body's not really changing.

0:14:50.960 --> 0:14:54.560
<v Speaker 2>So that's also a little frustrating. But I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I am so hyper vigilant of the words coming out

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<v Speaker 2>of my mouth because I feel like when you drive

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<v Speaker 2>down on what dirt road, and if you get too

0:15:01.920 --> 0:15:03.400
<v Speaker 2>far to the right or too far to the left,

0:15:03.440 --> 0:15:05.480
<v Speaker 2>it takes you off the road really fast. So the

0:15:05.560 --> 0:15:09.520
<v Speaker 2>hypervigilance of like essentially keeping my shit together all day

0:15:09.600 --> 0:15:12.440
<v Speaker 2>and not being explosive or not being dramatic or not

0:15:12.520 --> 0:15:14.960
<v Speaker 2>having tears or whatever. Like, I'm so tired by the

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<v Speaker 2>end of the day, and I think that is just

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<v Speaker 2>the season of life. Sure, it's probably toddlerhood and everything,

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<v Speaker 2>but then it's also hormones just plays such a huge

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<v Speaker 2>role and we just don't give them enough credit. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's that. I'm really sorry. Sorry, You're fine. I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to do a couple of treatments that are a little

0:15:35.640 --> 0:15:38.520
<v Speaker 2>nerve wracking to me because I can't do supplements really

0:15:38.600 --> 0:15:41.040
<v Speaker 2>to get rid of these, So that supplement route was

0:15:41.120 --> 0:15:44.080
<v Speaker 2>kind of taken off the table because it's so much

0:15:44.720 --> 0:15:48.480
<v Speaker 2>which which would be for you, Like the ebou treatments. Okay, yep,

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<v Speaker 2>I did one of those. You did do that? The

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<v Speaker 2>blood Yeah, okay, I want to talk about I don't

0:15:52.880 --> 0:15:54.840
<v Speaker 2>talk about that now because I forget we're podcasting, but

0:15:54.960 --> 0:15:57.440
<v Speaker 2>I do. I kind of did forget, but I got

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<v Speaker 2>a little overwhelmed by that. I also don't get medically overwhelmed,

0:16:00.760 --> 0:16:02.800
<v Speaker 2>so that feeling is like new to me too, where

0:16:02.800 --> 0:16:04.440
<v Speaker 2>I was like, okay, hang on a second, and I

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't looking for a plus blood work, but I thought

0:16:06.840 --> 0:16:09.240
<v Speaker 2>for as diligent as I am, and then I instantly

0:16:09.320 --> 0:16:10.800
<v Speaker 2>was like, well, what are my kids exposed to if

0:16:10.800 --> 0:16:13.440
<v Speaker 2>this is me? But then when I sat and talked

0:16:13.600 --> 0:16:16.840
<v Speaker 2>with him, he was like, listen, it could be previous exposure.

0:16:16.920 --> 0:16:19.640
<v Speaker 2>It could be for you know, and I've lived in

0:16:19.680 --> 0:16:22.240
<v Speaker 2>some crazy old places like growing up in Michigan, we

0:16:22.400 --> 0:16:26.880
<v Speaker 2>lived you know, apartments and sorority house based you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like a whatever. Anyways, I think i'll just if you

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<v Speaker 2>guys are good, I'll head out now. I can just

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<v Speaker 2>friend what a time? Well that is that whole podcast

0:16:41.560 --> 0:16:44.320
<v Speaker 2>should probably be. My husband's going to be like you

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<v Speaker 2>cried on the podcast. You didn't tell me it happens,

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<v Speaker 2>It does happen. Yeah, yeah, I wrapped the movie. Oh

0:17:06.800 --> 0:17:09.760
<v Speaker 2>that was a bittersweet. Yeah, I cried on this one.

0:17:10.320 --> 0:17:12.040
<v Speaker 2>I had a good cry. It was also five in

0:17:12.080 --> 0:17:14.800
<v Speaker 2>the morning when we wrapped, like four thirty in the morning.

0:17:14.880 --> 0:17:16.399
<v Speaker 2>That it was a good like four thirty in the

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<v Speaker 2>morning cry, But it was. It was great. It felt

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<v Speaker 2>like a really I've never been on set with you

0:17:21.080 --> 0:17:23.800
<v Speaker 2>and you were so kind to him bite us. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>And I think that's like worth noting because I don't

0:17:26.880 --> 0:17:28.440
<v Speaker 2>think a lot of people in your position do that.

0:17:28.680 --> 0:17:32.000
<v Speaker 2>You really invited some chaos to the set, but you

0:17:32.040 --> 0:17:35.280
<v Speaker 2>also like enabled big dreams Like Love has wanted to

0:17:35.320 --> 0:17:37.199
<v Speaker 2>do acting in theater and so she got to like

0:17:37.240 --> 0:17:39.880
<v Speaker 2>see it in action and she was like, this is incredible.

0:17:39.920 --> 0:17:42.760
<v Speaker 2>And Jolie really pours into her in that way too,

0:17:42.840 --> 0:17:44.280
<v Speaker 2>And it was fun because she got to connect with

0:17:44.359 --> 0:17:46.320
<v Speaker 2>Ramsey and she doesn't get to see Ramsey very often.

0:17:47.080 --> 0:17:49.720
<v Speaker 2>But that set felt so special, And I'm like, does

0:17:49.760 --> 0:17:53.520
<v Speaker 2>it always feel this special? Yes? And no? This one,

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<v Speaker 2>this one was great. I just so enjoyed the cast

0:17:57.280 --> 0:18:01.040
<v Speaker 2>on this one. I mean, Ben's probably might sorry Austin,

0:18:01.080 --> 0:18:04.240
<v Speaker 2>He's probably my favorite now. Seems like a genuine guy. Yeah,

0:18:04.240 --> 0:18:06.520
<v Speaker 2>I just I just adored him and his family and

0:18:07.359 --> 0:18:09.560
<v Speaker 2>everyone else was great. It was great. I had a

0:18:09.560 --> 0:18:11.879
<v Speaker 2>great connection with the girl that played my daughter, So

0:18:12.000 --> 0:18:14.760
<v Speaker 2>it was just it was just really great. I'm sad

0:18:14.800 --> 0:18:16.560
<v Speaker 2>to I was sad to see it end because it

0:18:16.960 --> 0:18:20.560
<v Speaker 2>was such a summer camp vibe. Yeah, it felt so cozy. Yeah,

0:18:20.640 --> 0:18:23.840
<v Speaker 2>so I'm really bummed, but I'm really excited for it

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<v Speaker 2>to come out in November six in theaters. Everyone go

0:18:26.560 --> 0:18:30.840
<v Speaker 2>check it out. So that's exciting. Yeah, and then I

0:18:31.680 --> 0:18:33.879
<v Speaker 2>talked to my agent. First thing Monday morning was like,

0:18:33.960 --> 0:18:39.199
<v Speaker 2>what's literally I got four hours of sleep literally on

0:18:39.240 --> 0:18:43.000
<v Speaker 2>Monday as a because Roman started his two day preschool

0:18:43.280 --> 0:18:45.000
<v Speaker 2>and so I had to go get some extra diapers

0:18:45.000 --> 0:18:47.320
<v Speaker 2>and some things at the Target and get him a

0:18:47.320 --> 0:18:49.960
<v Speaker 2>little Alan had already gotten in my backpack and a

0:18:49.960 --> 0:18:54.000
<v Speaker 2>little lunchbox, but uh, just to get some other things.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm just like I had about three hours of

0:18:56.680 --> 0:19:00.520
<v Speaker 2>sleep walking through Target and just calling me being like,

0:19:00.520 --> 0:19:02.720
<v Speaker 2>all right, what's going on? What was next? And I

0:19:02.800 --> 0:19:05.639
<v Speaker 2>wondered if if the RAP for you is ever bittersweet,

0:19:05.640 --> 0:19:10.439
<v Speaker 2>because it's like for ten seconds you're working, you know,

0:19:10.560 --> 0:19:12.600
<v Speaker 2>like you get like this ten second, Like it's not

0:19:12.720 --> 0:19:14.879
<v Speaker 2>it's a couple of weeks. I know you're there for

0:19:14.880 --> 0:19:16.960
<v Speaker 2>a while, but like for your body, I wonder if

0:19:17.000 --> 0:19:19.520
<v Speaker 2>you get like a deep breath of going, Okay, I'm

0:19:19.560 --> 0:19:21.840
<v Speaker 2>working and there's literally no other projects I could be

0:19:21.840 --> 0:19:24.000
<v Speaker 2>doing right now, so like, yeah, there's almost like a

0:19:24.080 --> 0:19:27.240
<v Speaker 2>hypervigilance gets to rest. Yeah, it was nice, but then

0:19:27.320 --> 0:19:31.199
<v Speaker 2>every week to rap is the right the anxiety end.

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<v Speaker 2>But I listen, I told Alan the other night we

0:19:33.280 --> 0:19:35.520
<v Speaker 2>were driving back, I made a joke. I said, oh gosh,

0:19:35.520 --> 0:19:37.440
<v Speaker 2>what if I never work again? And he goes, oh,

0:19:37.480 --> 0:19:39.480
<v Speaker 2>you did it a day sooner than I thought you

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<v Speaker 2>would or something, or like a day later than I

0:19:41.600 --> 0:19:45.679
<v Speaker 2>thought you would. Uh So. But I've had such an

0:19:47.160 --> 0:19:50.720
<v Speaker 2>abundant year with the amount of movies that I've done,

0:19:50.720 --> 0:19:52.399
<v Speaker 2>so I'm very grateful for that. Like this is the

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<v Speaker 2>most I've ever done movies wise, so in a full year.

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<v Speaker 2>So this is great. So I'm like it's the last one.

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<v Speaker 2>I am so fine with that. For this year, I

0:20:04.080 --> 0:20:06.200
<v Speaker 2>don't very clear for this year. For this year, I

0:20:06.200 --> 0:20:07.960
<v Speaker 2>don't think it was like four in a year. Wow.

0:20:08.240 --> 0:20:10.280
<v Speaker 2>Usually I'm lucky to get I'm lucky to get to

0:20:10.920 --> 0:20:15.960
<v Speaker 2>that's great. So I feel great good and I feel

0:20:16.000 --> 0:20:19.600
<v Speaker 2>ready to rest and what's next. And it's like all

0:20:19.600 --> 0:20:20.080
<v Speaker 2>of the things.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing that's so funny to me is you you

0:20:22.119 --> 0:20:23.880
<v Speaker 1>say you're unemployed, but I'm like.

0:20:23.840 --> 0:20:28.280
<v Speaker 2>You're always working. I know you never stop working, like Janna.

0:20:28.400 --> 0:20:32.000
<v Speaker 2>Every needs to know Janna's like a hustler, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>not the like to me, that's the stuff that I

0:20:34.680 --> 0:20:37.160
<v Speaker 2>have to do to keep the thing that you love

0:20:37.200 --> 0:20:40.240
<v Speaker 2>to sing? The lights on right? But what I love

0:20:40.680 --> 0:20:43.960
<v Speaker 2>to me my job is like actress, right, and so

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<v Speaker 2>I feel unemployed when I'm not doing right.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just very important to know why she does not

0:20:48.119 --> 0:20:50.200
<v Speaker 1>just do four movies in a year and sit around

0:20:50.240 --> 0:20:51.360
<v Speaker 1>the rest of the time like that.

0:20:51.359 --> 0:20:54.080
<v Speaker 2>I can promise you. Like ever, That's why I think

0:20:54.080 --> 0:20:56.280
<v Speaker 2>it's wild. But this is also what I love about you,

0:20:56.320 --> 0:20:58.280
<v Speaker 2>like the grit, the hustle. That's like my favorite thing.

0:20:58.480 --> 0:21:03.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm calling yourself unemployed yea, as we say as we

0:21:04.040 --> 0:21:09.000
<v Speaker 2>talk during one of your employments, literally right now we're working.

0:21:09.200 --> 0:21:12.800
<v Speaker 2>You guys know what I mean. Though yes, not technically

0:21:12.840 --> 0:21:15.560
<v Speaker 2>say that. Then no you can no, no, no. I think

0:21:15.560 --> 0:21:17.960
<v Speaker 2>this is fair. And I go through the part is

0:21:18.000 --> 0:21:20.240
<v Speaker 2>I've married you twice, so I go through this at home,

0:21:20.280 --> 0:21:23.440
<v Speaker 2>and I go through it with you because when you guys,

0:21:23.480 --> 0:21:26.320
<v Speaker 2>slow down. If Preston's like I just can't wait to

0:21:26.320 --> 0:21:27.880
<v Speaker 2>be home, and then he gets home for like five

0:21:27.960 --> 0:21:29.320
<v Speaker 2>days and he's like, we don't have any work, and

0:21:29.359 --> 0:21:31.720
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, that actually is not true. You're only Friday

0:21:31.720 --> 0:21:32.919
<v Speaker 2>and I'll see it in a month, you know, But

0:21:33.000 --> 0:21:36.800
<v Speaker 2>like it is, this it's such an inconsistent lifestyle, and

0:21:36.840 --> 0:21:39.560
<v Speaker 2>I think a lot of people probably can relate in

0:21:39.600 --> 0:21:41.920
<v Speaker 2>some ways if they do sales or like things like that.

0:21:41.960 --> 0:21:44.840
<v Speaker 2>But there's a lot of people that I even know

0:21:44.960 --> 0:21:48.280
<v Speaker 2>from home that are very nine to five jobs, and

0:21:48.359 --> 0:21:50.680
<v Speaker 2>so the thought of what we all do and the

0:21:51.280 --> 0:21:53.440
<v Speaker 2>last minute chaos like makes their throat close.

0:21:53.720 --> 0:21:56.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all that to say, I don't think you could

0:21:56.160 --> 0:21:57.200
<v Speaker 1>go get unemployment.

0:21:57.320 --> 0:22:09.760
<v Speaker 2>I think you're definitely employ. If we're Catherine, no quickly

0:22:09.800 --> 0:22:12.159
<v Speaker 2>could I claim unemployed? I'm like, no, I don't think

0:22:12.200 --> 0:22:17.520
<v Speaker 2>you could. Espally, you're talking network. Have you guys finished

0:22:17.520 --> 0:22:20.440
<v Speaker 2>The Hunting Wives? Yes? No? Okay. Well it's funny because

0:22:20.440 --> 0:22:23.560
<v Speaker 2>Ben so obviously he saw in my story and so

0:22:23.640 --> 0:22:26.399
<v Speaker 2>many of you guys from the podcast you know, asked

0:22:26.400 --> 0:22:29.480
<v Speaker 2>me what character I was playing, and uh, he had.

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<v Speaker 2>He wrote me a funny text message about you know,

0:22:34.080 --> 0:22:37.199
<v Speaker 2>you've got great things, you know, come in and it

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<v Speaker 2>was a beautiful text message. And he goes and it's

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<v Speaker 2>not and it's not with a pink strap on dildo

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<v Speaker 2>screwing your husband, your your TV husband, and and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>but I would have done if I need to know

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<v Speaker 2>for the role. And I go and I told Alan,

0:22:53.920 --> 0:22:55.760
<v Speaker 2>I go, hey, babe, I said, Scots I'm reading this

0:22:55.880 --> 0:22:59.720
<v Speaker 2>text message to Alan in the car yesterday and I said,

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<v Speaker 2>so he's like dying laughing. He goes, wait, did that

0:23:02.000 --> 0:23:05.119
<v Speaker 2>character really do that? And I said yeah, and I go,

0:23:05.200 --> 0:23:06.840
<v Speaker 2>would you have been upset about that? And he goes

0:23:06.840 --> 0:23:09.320
<v Speaker 2>something about you doing it to them makes it a

0:23:09.320 --> 0:23:12.680
<v Speaker 2>little like, it doesn't make it as bad. And that's

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<v Speaker 2>all I could think about, was Alan than I thought

0:23:15.680 --> 0:23:17.720
<v Speaker 2>it was. I'm not gonna lie because I think Presion

0:23:17.760 --> 0:23:20.800
<v Speaker 2>would be like, are you kidding me? Oh, I can't

0:23:20.920 --> 0:23:25.439
<v Speaker 2>even really dodged a bullet. See. I think it's what

0:23:25.520 --> 0:23:28.080
<v Speaker 2>it's been like I do. And I've gotten so many

0:23:28.119 --> 0:23:31.040
<v Speaker 2>messages and people being like you that it's just not

0:23:31.119 --> 0:23:33.159
<v Speaker 2>your you know, that's not your role and like the

0:23:33.200 --> 0:23:35.560
<v Speaker 2>God saved you on that one, and and I'm like, listen,

0:23:35.960 --> 0:23:39.080
<v Speaker 2>it is. There's not a show right now, but it's

0:23:39.080 --> 0:23:40.840
<v Speaker 2>like the number one show. And I bet you it's

0:23:40.840 --> 0:23:43.760
<v Speaker 2>gonna I bet you because it's it's people are talking

0:23:43.760 --> 0:23:46.800
<v Speaker 2>about it, it's making waves. It is and it's like

0:23:47.359 --> 0:23:52.680
<v Speaker 2>but and for me it's it's I love these wholesome

0:23:52.920 --> 0:23:55.000
<v Speaker 2>roles that I play. I really do. I like the

0:23:55.119 --> 0:23:58.359
<v Speaker 2>last character I just played the most wholesome role ever,

0:23:58.840 --> 0:24:01.600
<v Speaker 2>and as an actress, it's it's fun to just do

0:24:01.720 --> 0:24:03.919
<v Speaker 2>something that is so out of my comfort zone, like

0:24:03.960 --> 0:24:08.040
<v Speaker 2>Alex for anyone listening, I didn't want to audition for

0:24:08.119 --> 0:24:10.199
<v Speaker 2>that role because it was so wildly out of my

0:24:10.200 --> 0:24:12.680
<v Speaker 2>comfort zone. I'd never been drunk, I'd never done drugs.

0:24:12.720 --> 0:24:15.320
<v Speaker 2>I didn't relate to the character at all. Like I

0:24:15.359 --> 0:24:18.399
<v Speaker 2>was like, I don't want she's crazy, she's psycho, Like,

0:24:18.440 --> 0:24:21.000
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to play her. And then I fell

0:24:21.000 --> 0:24:23.800
<v Speaker 2>in love with playing her because it was so fun.

0:24:23.960 --> 0:24:27.399
<v Speaker 2>But you forget you did guess by my husband. But

0:24:27.920 --> 0:24:29.760
<v Speaker 2>still I was too close to home. That was, but

0:24:29.840 --> 0:24:33.480
<v Speaker 2>it was not a cozy role. It was not cozy wholesome. Yeah,

0:24:33.560 --> 0:24:36.880
<v Speaker 2>like you're those roles are still going to find you. Yeah,

0:24:37.000 --> 0:24:40.680
<v Speaker 2>I mean, and I get it. I also I would

0:24:40.680 --> 0:24:42.080
<v Speaker 2>have wanted you to do it too. I wouldn't have

0:24:42.119 --> 0:24:43.920
<v Speaker 2>been able to watch it, but I would definitely would

0:24:43.920 --> 0:24:45.560
<v Speaker 2>have wanted you to do it. Yeah, I don't ever

0:24:45.640 --> 0:24:47.520
<v Speaker 2>want to see you in bed with this drap. I'm

0:24:47.600 --> 0:24:52.640
<v Speaker 2>just me. But also like you have kids, I know,

0:24:53.160 --> 0:24:57.680
<v Speaker 2>but they would have watched it. Well, someday they could

0:24:57.720 --> 0:25:00.399
<v Speaker 2>have saw a clip or I know I know and listen.

0:25:00.840 --> 0:25:02.479
<v Speaker 2>And so that's the part where I think it's not

0:25:02.560 --> 0:25:05.040
<v Speaker 2>just about protecting you. I think God protects your family.

0:25:05.200 --> 0:25:07.800
<v Speaker 1>And it's hard to go on somebody's Netflix and go

0:25:07.840 --> 0:25:09.880
<v Speaker 1>find it if they hear it.

0:25:10.320 --> 0:25:13.400
<v Speaker 2>And I'm pie that piece I did think of when

0:25:13.440 --> 0:25:15.800
<v Speaker 2>I yeah, I saw that. To Alan, I was like,

0:25:15.960 --> 0:25:18.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm kind of glad the reference to.

0:25:18.560 --> 0:25:22.440
<v Speaker 1>Having said that a lot of actors are parents that

0:25:22.560 --> 0:25:23.760
<v Speaker 1>do that, and I'm.

0:25:23.600 --> 0:25:25.720
<v Speaker 2>Sure she's a parent, the girl that got hired. You know,

0:25:26.200 --> 0:25:29.479
<v Speaker 2>there's a lot of no judgment please, because I know

0:25:29.520 --> 0:25:31.879
<v Speaker 2>how that'll go. But I'm just saying, like when I

0:25:31.920 --> 0:25:34.720
<v Speaker 2>logged on to watch that show, I didn't expect to

0:25:34.760 --> 0:25:38.520
<v Speaker 2>get into what I was getting into because Preson's like, well,

0:25:38.520 --> 0:25:40.080
<v Speaker 2>this is good to be great. It's a great cast

0:25:40.200 --> 0:25:42.760
<v Speaker 2>and you know, like he's a hunter, so he's like,

0:25:42.800 --> 0:25:46.080
<v Speaker 2>this is be epic, and I was so fully in

0:25:47.119 --> 0:25:50.960
<v Speaker 2>over my head I didn't. I was confused. Listen, I

0:25:51.000 --> 0:25:52.439
<v Speaker 2>think it's juicy and I would love to be on

0:25:52.480 --> 0:26:01.520
<v Speaker 2>season two. All right, darned, okay, all right? Management and

0:26:01.520 --> 0:26:05.960
<v Speaker 2>spiritual advisor going to therapist is like no, honey, like,

0:26:07.240 --> 0:26:09.280
<v Speaker 2>this is not your role. And I was like maybe

0:26:09.280 --> 0:26:11.720
<v Speaker 2>it's not it. Obviously it wasn't, you know what I mean,

0:26:11.840 --> 0:26:16.240
<v Speaker 2>But maybe there's something else. Yeah, I don't know. There's

0:26:16.400 --> 0:26:18.959
<v Speaker 2>definitely something for you that I do know. There's a

0:26:18.960 --> 0:26:22.240
<v Speaker 2>Hallmark series is coming to Nashville. So you know, I

0:26:22.320 --> 0:26:29.520
<v Speaker 2>like you and Gingerbread. That's the only man I like

0:26:29.600 --> 0:26:32.640
<v Speaker 2>you doing is a Gingerbread. I would love to have

0:26:32.920 --> 0:26:34.600
<v Speaker 2>the girl that plays CALLI on because I think she

0:26:34.640 --> 0:26:36.600
<v Speaker 2>did a great job. And even then when we were

0:26:36.680 --> 0:26:38.439
<v Speaker 2>talking about it, he's like, I don't see you in

0:26:38.480 --> 0:26:41.280
<v Speaker 2>that role. He's like, he's like, and she and here's

0:26:41.280 --> 0:26:44.520
<v Speaker 2>the deal. She plays it obviously, I mean she's she's incredible.

0:26:44.520 --> 0:26:46.919
<v Speaker 2>She's the one that got the job. But you know,

0:26:47.920 --> 0:26:51.160
<v Speaker 2>I would have taken it a different way because of

0:26:51.400 --> 0:26:54.960
<v Speaker 2>how I, you know, take certain characters. It would have

0:26:54.960 --> 0:26:57.959
<v Speaker 2>been like where she's really dominant. I would have been

0:26:58.000 --> 0:27:01.679
<v Speaker 2>too feminine. I believe that that's what president and I

0:27:01.720 --> 0:27:04.639
<v Speaker 2>think I would have been more of the like she's

0:27:04.640 --> 0:27:06.399
<v Speaker 2>so strong and so good, So I would I mean,

0:27:06.440 --> 0:27:08.800
<v Speaker 2>I'd love, you know, see kind of her thoughts on it,

0:27:08.840 --> 0:27:10.320
<v Speaker 2>and it would be really fun. Hannah. Can we get

0:27:10.320 --> 0:27:17.040
<v Speaker 2>her on? That'd be great if we could from Hannah, Yes,

0:27:17.080 --> 0:27:19.879
<v Speaker 2>I'm sure. I think it'd be so fun. But I

0:27:19.920 --> 0:27:34.639
<v Speaker 2>think she's great and I think it'd be fun, all right.

0:27:34.720 --> 0:27:37.800
<v Speaker 2>Headline of the Week, Sophie Turner defends going to Oasis

0:27:37.800 --> 0:27:40.720
<v Speaker 2>concert with friends as a single mom called shared custody,

0:27:40.760 --> 0:27:42.720
<v Speaker 2>so she is not here for the single mom single

0:27:42.760 --> 0:27:45.560
<v Speaker 2>parent shamers. Earlier this week, Turner posted on Instagram a

0:27:45.560 --> 0:27:47.719
<v Speaker 2>photo of her and her friend attending the Oasis concert

0:27:47.960 --> 0:27:54.600
<v Speaker 2>at London's Wimbley Stadium. One social media user commented, insane,

0:27:55.240 --> 0:27:58.080
<v Speaker 2>l m f ao, I think she has forgotten that

0:27:58.119 --> 0:28:01.720
<v Speaker 2>she has two kids. Turner quickly shot back a response, writing, ah,

0:28:01.760 --> 0:28:04.800
<v Speaker 2>I'm so sorry. Sometimes I forget. Some people can't think

0:28:04.800 --> 0:28:07.400
<v Speaker 2>for themselves. So get this. There's this crazy thing called

0:28:07.440 --> 0:28:10.480
<v Speaker 2>shared custody. Maybe just maybe they were there. They were

0:28:10.480 --> 0:28:14.600
<v Speaker 2>with their dad that day. She shares obviously two kids

0:28:14.640 --> 0:28:20.560
<v Speaker 2>with ex husband Joe Jonas. Turner has since been candid

0:28:20.600 --> 0:28:22.320
<v Speaker 2>about her life as a single parent and dealing with

0:28:22.359 --> 0:28:26.560
<v Speaker 2>the on uh slot onslought of mom shaming comments. I

0:28:26.640 --> 0:28:31.639
<v Speaker 2>just cannot, for the life of me get over the

0:28:31.680 --> 0:28:35.960
<v Speaker 2>mom shaming comments from ninety nine point nine percent of

0:28:36.000 --> 0:28:40.480
<v Speaker 2>them being moms. Moms Yeah, and also like, I'll I'll

0:28:40.520 --> 0:28:43.120
<v Speaker 2>get this sometimes if I go on a vacation once

0:28:43.160 --> 0:28:45.720
<v Speaker 2>a year without the kids, do you ever see your kids?

0:28:46.960 --> 0:28:49.560
<v Speaker 2>That's unreal? Those are the comments I get all the

0:28:49.600 --> 0:28:53.080
<v Speaker 2>time when I if I do anything, do anything without the kids?

0:28:53.240 --> 0:28:55.520
<v Speaker 2>Are you ever with your kids? You're always traveling? I

0:28:55.520 --> 0:28:58.040
<v Speaker 2>mean one year I maybe went on I think no,

0:28:58.480 --> 0:29:00.360
<v Speaker 2>it was when Alan and I went on. Are like

0:29:00.400 --> 0:29:03.560
<v Speaker 2>first vacation together? Are you ever with your kids? I'm

0:29:03.600 --> 0:29:05.840
<v Speaker 2>like all the time, thank you very much, and like, yes,

0:29:05.880 --> 0:29:08.360
<v Speaker 2>they also have to be with their father. Like I

0:29:08.440 --> 0:29:13.040
<v Speaker 2>cannot believe people go in in comments like that. It

0:29:13.160 --> 0:29:15.760
<v Speaker 2>just it drives me nuts because it's like I already

0:29:15.760 --> 0:29:19.000
<v Speaker 2>have guilt for being away and not being with my kids.

0:29:19.080 --> 0:29:22.720
<v Speaker 2>Of course that I don't need to be a reminded.

0:29:22.760 --> 0:29:26.479
<v Speaker 2>But also like if it's I I schedule things so

0:29:26.520 --> 0:29:29.360
<v Speaker 2>that for example, what Mike and I do really good

0:29:29.440 --> 0:29:32.200
<v Speaker 2>with and he's great with is I already know kind

0:29:32.200 --> 0:29:35.160
<v Speaker 2>of what he has coming up and vice versa for me,

0:29:35.320 --> 0:29:38.520
<v Speaker 2>So I do the weekends so like when I'm in Wilmington,

0:29:38.640 --> 0:29:41.480
<v Speaker 2>I don't have off right I'm working and I don't

0:29:41.520 --> 0:29:43.560
<v Speaker 2>have the kids, right, it's his weekend. So then when

0:29:43.600 --> 0:29:45.760
<v Speaker 2>i'm home, I have the kids, you know. But when

0:29:45.760 --> 0:29:47.160
<v Speaker 2>i'm or when I have to go to Paris for

0:29:47.200 --> 0:29:50.400
<v Speaker 2>one Tree Hill again, I'm working, and I've blocked it

0:29:50.440 --> 0:29:53.120
<v Speaker 2>so that way I'm not doing double weeks without the

0:29:53.200 --> 0:29:55.960
<v Speaker 2>kids or double weekends without the kids. I make it

0:29:56.360 --> 0:29:59.239
<v Speaker 2>not take in projects before because it would make it

0:29:59.280 --> 0:30:01.400
<v Speaker 2>so that you would be your kids too long. I'm

0:30:01.400 --> 0:30:03.560
<v Speaker 2>also not doing something that I'm supposed to do for

0:30:03.640 --> 0:30:05.600
<v Speaker 2>work because I don't want to miss my daughter's first

0:30:05.640 --> 0:30:08.440
<v Speaker 2>softball game, you know what I'm saying, coming up here

0:30:08.440 --> 0:30:11.880
<v Speaker 2>next week. So there's many things that like happen that

0:30:12.200 --> 0:30:14.840
<v Speaker 2>I mean, always prioritizing the kids. But it's like when

0:30:14.880 --> 0:30:20.440
<v Speaker 2>the moms come in, it baffles me. You owe them nothing.

0:30:20.960 --> 0:30:26.120
<v Speaker 1>She owes those people absolutely nothing. If she got a babysitter,

0:30:26.400 --> 0:30:30.440
<v Speaker 1>who cares if she doesn't see her kids for three days? Okay,

0:30:30.680 --> 0:30:34.680
<v Speaker 1>like it's her parenting. It's that I will never understand that,

0:30:34.800 --> 0:30:37.120
<v Speaker 1>like you having to justify that you go out of

0:30:37.160 --> 0:30:39.480
<v Speaker 1>town and you get your kids immediately, which you do,

0:30:39.840 --> 0:30:41.800
<v Speaker 1>But what if you know I'm coming home and going, hey,

0:30:41.800 --> 0:30:43.440
<v Speaker 1>I want to break I want to take a little nap.

0:30:43.760 --> 0:30:47.560
<v Speaker 2>Okay like that that are like, hey, I could pick

0:30:47.600 --> 0:30:49.440
<v Speaker 2>the kids up from my parents all the way home,

0:30:49.480 --> 0:30:51.520
<v Speaker 2>but I'm a rest for a minute. Yeah, and that

0:30:51.520 --> 0:30:55.000
<v Speaker 2>would be me and take a shower, and like, yeah.

0:30:54.360 --> 0:30:58.720
<v Speaker 1>There's nothing wrong with any of that. Like, it's unbelievable

0:30:58.760 --> 0:31:03.480
<v Speaker 1>to me that we think you have an opinion. Okay, fine,

0:31:03.880 --> 0:31:06.800
<v Speaker 1>but to attack people and say do you ever see

0:31:06.800 --> 0:31:09.960
<v Speaker 1>your children like that? Is There's no right of us

0:31:10.040 --> 0:31:13.960
<v Speaker 1>as moms to go after other moms for parenting decisions.

0:31:14.320 --> 0:31:16.680
<v Speaker 2>You probably don't feel this, but I wonder do you

0:31:16.720 --> 0:31:22.280
<v Speaker 2>ever feel the need to parent more publicly because you

0:31:22.320 --> 0:31:25.480
<v Speaker 2>get those comments? Or did you ever to like kind

0:31:25.520 --> 0:31:30.760
<v Speaker 2>of combat it. It's an interesting question. I mean I

0:31:31.240 --> 0:31:34.520
<v Speaker 2>totally hear what you're saying. I just wonder that. Yeah, No,

0:31:34.600 --> 0:31:36.960
<v Speaker 2>I mean for people in the public. I mean I

0:31:37.120 --> 0:31:44.520
<v Speaker 2>have them seventy percent, I know it. I'm like showing Yeah. No,

0:31:45.400 --> 0:31:48.320
<v Speaker 2>I always wonder people because like, I'm pretty confident in

0:31:48.400 --> 0:31:53.200
<v Speaker 2>my parenting of the having them. Now for me, though,

0:31:53.640 --> 0:31:56.760
<v Speaker 2>I I how do I say this, I privately do

0:31:56.800 --> 0:32:00.280
<v Speaker 2>that combat or for me? So for example, when I

0:32:00.280 --> 0:32:03.040
<v Speaker 2>was on the movie, like I I should have not

0:32:03.080 --> 0:32:04.760
<v Speaker 2>have had them a few days because I should have

0:32:04.760 --> 0:32:07.960
<v Speaker 2>allowed myself to sleep in on my off day so

0:32:07.960 --> 0:32:11.000
<v Speaker 2>that I'm prepared for the week ahead, but instead the

0:32:11.080 --> 0:32:13.080
<v Speaker 2>kids were there and then so that I'm waking up

0:32:13.080 --> 0:32:14.840
<v Speaker 2>in the morning as opposed to being like, hey, Mike,

0:32:14.840 --> 0:32:16.880
<v Speaker 2>can you take this day so I can sleep it

0:32:16.920 --> 0:32:20.280
<v Speaker 2>on my day off. But because I feel my own, no,

0:32:20.320 --> 0:32:22.240
<v Speaker 2>I need to I need to get the kids ready

0:32:22.240 --> 0:32:23.840
<v Speaker 2>for school, and I need to do that. So it's

0:32:24.120 --> 0:32:28.880
<v Speaker 2>it's my own private struggle. Yeah, it's not other people's

0:32:28.920 --> 0:32:30.920
<v Speaker 2>to show. It's to show me that I'm a good

0:32:30.960 --> 0:32:34.080
<v Speaker 2>mom and that I can that I can do it all. Yeah,

0:32:34.360 --> 0:32:37.240
<v Speaker 2>right right, that makes sense. Yeah, Like first day of school,

0:32:37.280 --> 0:32:39.640
<v Speaker 2>you did that? Uh huh? I got like three hours

0:32:39.640 --> 0:32:42.040
<v Speaker 2>of sleep, which then set me into the week. Not

0:32:42.160 --> 0:32:44.760
<v Speaker 2>great for my week week of work, you know, but

0:32:45.520 --> 0:32:47.320
<v Speaker 2>how could I how could I not be there for

0:32:47.360 --> 0:32:49.680
<v Speaker 2>my kids on the first day of school and get

0:32:49.680 --> 0:32:52.880
<v Speaker 2>them ready and you know, yeah, and then I got

0:32:52.880 --> 0:32:56.160
<v Speaker 2>shamed for the outfit, so you know, I just can't

0:32:56.240 --> 0:33:00.440
<v Speaker 2>win nobody. It was so cute. What was the shame?

0:33:01.160 --> 0:33:03.760
<v Speaker 2>Did I dress her too old that I can't put her?

0:33:04.640 --> 0:33:07.040
<v Speaker 2>Doesn't anyone talk to nine year olds lately? All they

0:33:07.080 --> 0:33:09.840
<v Speaker 2>want to do is skincare and dress like their moms.

0:33:10.480 --> 0:33:12.120
<v Speaker 2>I mean, and I'm like, she actually picked out the

0:33:12.160 --> 0:33:13.840
<v Speaker 2>office herself, and I thought she was beautiful and I

0:33:14.160 --> 0:33:15.240
<v Speaker 2>thought she had done amazing.

0:33:15.360 --> 0:33:17.880
<v Speaker 1>But you know, let's just go ahead and shame kids too.

0:33:18.360 --> 0:33:22.720
<v Speaker 2>Just shame sorry, feisty, Oh, I trust me. I fired

0:33:22.720 --> 0:33:24.520
<v Speaker 2>back on some comments and then I deleted them because

0:33:24.520 --> 0:33:26.239
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, there is no point, I know, and there

0:33:26.320 --> 0:33:28.920
<v Speaker 2>is zero point, and so I deleteded just like you know,

0:33:28.960 --> 0:33:31.920
<v Speaker 2>two SAIDs like, yeah, I don't know anybody. They are

0:33:31.960 --> 0:33:35.080
<v Speaker 2>going to disagree with anything I do. So whether I

0:33:35.120 --> 0:33:38.280
<v Speaker 2>put her in a sweatshirt on a ninety degree day

0:33:38.600 --> 0:33:42.200
<v Speaker 2>or sunscreen, I mean, you name it. Guys, we've been

0:33:42.200 --> 0:33:46.280
<v Speaker 2>through it all. Or if I tinfoil my thing and

0:33:46.320 --> 0:33:49.320
<v Speaker 2>I'm wasteful, let me just tell all the tinfoil police

0:33:49.880 --> 0:33:54.040
<v Speaker 2>you can recycle tinfoil, And let me tell you it

0:33:54.080 --> 0:33:57.640
<v Speaker 2>twas been recycled. Okay. We bawled it all up and

0:33:57.680 --> 0:33:59.960
<v Speaker 2>the PA took it to a recycler. I would also

0:34:00.320 --> 0:34:03.000
<v Speaker 2>encourages people to look up all the studies on aluminum

0:34:03.040 --> 0:34:08.800
<v Speaker 2>while they're at it, how toxic it is. Yeah, yeahs

0:34:08.840 --> 0:34:12.319
<v Speaker 2>a favor any who. All right, my goodness, gracious, we

0:34:12.400 --> 0:34:15.680
<v Speaker 2>are a fighter. I was like, can anybody just you

0:34:15.840 --> 0:34:19.480
<v Speaker 2>just can't. I'm I wasted all that Reynolds And to my,

0:34:19.680 --> 0:34:21.319
<v Speaker 2>to my, I did comment back on this, I did

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<v Speaker 2>say this. I said, well, I used tupperware, So just

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<v Speaker 2>think of all the tinfoil that I didn't use all

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<v Speaker 2>those years. You just used all years up in one time.

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<v Speaker 2>You're a lot, men, did you? You didn't know there

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<v Speaker 2>was a foil a lot, but if.

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<v Speaker 1>There was, I'll come up with something, guys, no matter

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<v Speaker 1>what it is, I can't.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're all good. We're good, We've been good. We've

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<v Speaker 2>been good. Should we put like signs up? I don't

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<v Speaker 2>even know. I'm really glud of everybody. Well, guys, until

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<v Speaker 2>next week.

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<v Speaker 1>Bye ye