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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and iHeartRadio Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Okay, girls, Hi, I want to just hit this off

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Speaker 2: too soon? Too soon? Oh? I was like what Yeah, No,

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Speaker 2: let's know, I feel a little low energy here. Kat.

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Speaker 2: I'm good, She's not good. I could tell she wants

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Speaker 2: to cry. No, I think it's really there. I go,

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Speaker 2: are we going into this? No? No, No, I just

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Speaker 2: sense an energy. I'm around it. I think I'm going

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Speaker 2: to be good for us. Okay, good, go. So it's

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Speaker 2: interesting because good feels a little weighted. It's because did

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Speaker 2: I do something wrong? Nod drop it? No, No, let

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Speaker 2: me diffuse. Thanks the energy. No. I think it's funny

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Speaker 2: because so Kat and I. I texted Kat yesterday just

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Speaker 2: like a check in, you know, because it always becomes

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Speaker 2: something when the comment section gets busy and we're still people,

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Speaker 2: And I think, like, it's interesting because I think you

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Speaker 2: are better at the comments than we are. Well, she's

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Speaker 2: definitely because you've been through the boot camp, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so the brutal boot camp of comments. It is not fun.

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Speaker 2: You guys feel a little piece of pain from Oh.

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Speaker 2: I could never do it, do you know I would never? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's the thing I don't want to a thousand cuts.

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Speaker 2: I'm out and I've never read read it, so so

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Speaker 2: there everybody. Maybe you want to say, but it's wild,

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Speaker 2: because I was. I just when I checked in with Kat,

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Speaker 2: I was like, I think it's interesting that people think

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Speaker 2: we're salty with each other. That was funny. And I also,

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Speaker 2: I don't I think that having hard conversations or vulnerable

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Speaker 2: conversations are truthful conversations is such a rarity now that

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Speaker 2: when people witness it, it makes it's very dramatic and

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Speaker 2: it's very like we must have left and gotten our

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Speaker 2: cars and never spoke to each other, and in fact

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Speaker 2: it was quite the opposite. Yeah, and and I love that.

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Speaker 2: That's one thing I like thought about last night. I

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Speaker 2: was like, I just love how honest we are with

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Speaker 2: each other and sometimes too honest here with everyone else, right,

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Speaker 2: but like it's our superpower, I think in the space

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Speaker 2: that we've created to be honest and also to like

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Speaker 2: I wasn't trying to challenge. I don't even want to

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Speaker 2: get into it. They're with it unless Jane does. But

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Speaker 2: I I just like, I love it that we do

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Speaker 2: have those really honest conversations. And I also think they

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Speaker 2: just get really taken out of context.

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Speaker 1: Well, I think that clip a little bit took it

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Speaker 1: out of context, which is okay, and part of it,

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Speaker 1: all of it was still said.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I think.

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Speaker 1: That was the funny part to me was how everyone

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Speaker 1: thought we were salty or whatever.

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Speaker 2: And I also think, well, my body language and the

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Speaker 2: there was like, you know, for sure, you guys weren't happy,

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Speaker 2: you weren't happy. Well, I was trying to get to

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Speaker 2: a point to try and save myself a little bit,

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Speaker 2: and it kept coming. I was like, okay, so I'm

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Speaker 2: like trying to get it back. But I also think

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Speaker 2: the other comment about me being super opinionated is I

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Speaker 2: am super opinionated, and I don't think people and even

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Speaker 2: though I don't have a strong opinion on this necessarily

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Speaker 2: at all, I don't think people are used to a

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Speaker 2: We're all kind of like we'll say what we think

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Speaker 2: about things and move on five seconds later. We've always

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Speaker 2: been that way, right, And if I'm gonna like, I'm

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Speaker 2: that personality for sure, Like I could literally fight with

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Speaker 2: you tooth and nail about something I'm passionate about and

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Speaker 2: be fine with you the next second. And I realized

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Speaker 2: in that moment that obviously doesn't look that way. Had

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Speaker 2: I not been caught off guard, of course, I went

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Speaker 2: back and said in my head and I was like,

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Speaker 2: I should have said X, Y and Z, and I

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Speaker 2: wish I would have. I just a wasn't prepared kind

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Speaker 2: of to be in the hot seat, if I'm being honest. Like,

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Speaker 2: I knew we were going to talk about it, but

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Speaker 2: I didn't know it was going to be put on

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Speaker 2: me like, well, you spank, you know, And I just said,

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Speaker 2: you've talked because you did. You've already talked about it before.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't like a, you know what I mean, We've

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Speaker 2: already had this conversation on the podcast about yeah, I don't. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean, I know she had talked about the bar soap,

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Speaker 2: right right. I just was sorry right back in it

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Speaker 2: we are we want to talk about it.

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Speaker 1: But all I do want to say is I would

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Speaker 1: have said and done things very differently, I think had

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Speaker 1: I just had a minute to like regroup myself and

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Speaker 1: think through it. And that's where my regret comes from

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Speaker 1: a little bit from the last podcast. It's not the

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Speaker 1: fact that I have spanked. I don't spank. I couldn't

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Speaker 1: But that to me was kind of irrelevant in that like,

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Speaker 1: I'm not ashamed of that, I'm fine with that. It

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Speaker 1: was in the fact that I felt like my body

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Speaker 1: language and me responding to you made people think that

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Speaker 1: we were always fealty with each other, you know, it

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Speaker 1: became that we're always salty with each other. And I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what, I.

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Speaker 2: Don't so sad I think we just say I think

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Speaker 2: it's a different ainion, Yeah, because we have a lot

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Speaker 2: of different opinions, probably on things.

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Speaker 1: But that's I mean, I can't I have different opinions

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Speaker 1: and probably every single one of my friends on different things.

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Speaker 2: You know. Well, and listen, there is a piece to

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Speaker 2: where this is a show, right, and it is for

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Speaker 2: sure there how boring would it be if we all

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Speaker 2: had the same opinion. Absolutely, there needs to be someone

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Speaker 2: that has because I always can't be in the hot

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Speaker 2: seat my opinions too, Because I'm just going to go

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Speaker 2: ahead and say I've got accused for not having an

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Speaker 2: opinion on this podcast. Well, yes, I will just shoot

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Speaker 2: that right there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's so funny to me because I'm like,

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Speaker 1: my god, I feel like I have to pull myself

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Speaker 1: back because I have such strong opinions.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and there was a conversation where it was we

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Speaker 2: were there was a chat about a shakeup of the

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Speaker 2: they're like, well, we don't think cas and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: it has an opinion. I'm like, that is actually the

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Speaker 2: farthest thing from the truth that has a very high opinion.

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Speaker 2: I actually think think you you always have an opinion,

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Speaker 2: and I love that. It's not I love it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and again sometimes that can be a negative thing.

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Speaker 1: I understand that. But if I'm going to be in

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Speaker 1: because this is uncomfortable to me, if we are going

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Speaker 1: to have these discussions, what I won't do is not

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Speaker 1: be honest, not be myself and not have an opinion

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Speaker 1: on something. If I have it, I'll be happy to

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Speaker 1: I just will always be true to myself in that way,

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Speaker 1: no matter what people have to say about it.

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Speaker 2: I think it's an interesting thing because you had texted

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Speaker 2: me yesterday saying There's so many things I would have

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Speaker 2: said different, And there's many times on this podcast where yeah,

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Speaker 2: I have said that exact same thing to Alan, I'm like,

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Speaker 2: why did I say it like that? Because A, that's

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Speaker 2: just like what kind of popped out. But if I

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Speaker 2: my truth. And here's also why I've said that. You know,

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Speaker 2: right when you're just talking, sometimes you don't have the

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Speaker 2: opportunity to really explain until you think about it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean I thought anyone to be recorded for an

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Speaker 2: hour and not say something that they're not sure about. Well,

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Speaker 2: if you're just.

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Speaker 1: Having a conversation with your friends and it bothers you,

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Speaker 1: you later it can be like, hey, I didn't really

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Speaker 1: had a different conversation had I taken the time, and

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Speaker 1: it made me think about you because it's it is

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Speaker 1: real time. We can't just sit here and think about

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Speaker 1: like and just really be careful. And so I hope

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Speaker 1: people understand that sometimes we say things that we might

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Speaker 2: Said though have said, yeah, we would have said it differently, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: are you kidding me? And I still want to say

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Speaker 2: have loved to have said differently, but I don't want

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, but I think you should have an

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Speaker 2: and I don't. And it was awful. Yeah, yes, it

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Speaker 2: but I did it. I handled it privately, yeah, as

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Speaker 2: I think there's reflection moments on here that make you

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Speaker 1: And I will say last thing. I will say, I absolutely.

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Speaker 1: At first, when I was like mortified and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: like it would just really stressed me out. But then

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Speaker 1: I really truthfully enjoyed reading all the comments. You know,

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Speaker 2: Here's the deal. I didn't want to go in because

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Speaker 2: I looked like a judge bitch, and I didn't want

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Speaker 2: to go in. I want to hear.

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Speaker 1: I enjoy hearing both sides of some of subjects in general,

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Speaker 1: So I I read every single one and I was like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Oh I hear you, you know, like I just and

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Speaker 2: I do. I enjoy that.

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Speaker 1: And that's why I do think that conversations like this

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Speaker 1: have these conversations. Sure, some people were fighting in the comments,

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Speaker 1: but we can have these let them fight.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Because Hannah had sent it to me and she's like,

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Speaker 2: I'm hesitant, and I was like, I see why the

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Speaker 2: I'm like, it's going to get a lot of comments,

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Speaker 2: but I think it's a good Yeah, it's I think

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Speaker 2: it's a good thing to get the comments going in there,

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Speaker 2: and and they're not all bad, They're not bad discussion.

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Speaker 2: It's a discussion for sure.

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Speaker 1: The yeah we're the me and you part and those

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Speaker 2: I also think that's just funny. Oh, I thought it

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Speaker 2: was funny too. I honestly think it's funny because Kat

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Speaker 2: and I were not friends until Jana, right, and I

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Speaker 2: would say we got closer when we did wind down

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Speaker 2: on tour. Would you agree, Yeah, for sure, taking a

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Speaker 2: reflection moment for a friendship we would do breakfast club

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Speaker 2: and yeah, no. I just so it's like funny to

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Speaker 1: The thing that's so funny to me is you you

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Speaker 2: You're always working. I know you never stop working, like Janna.

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Speaker 2: Every needs to know Janna's like a hustler, but it's

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Speaker 2: and I go through it with you because when you guys,

427
00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:26,320
Speaker 2: slow down. If Preston's like I just can't wait to

428
00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:27,880
Speaker 2: be home, and then he gets home for like five

429
00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:29,320
Speaker 2: days and he's like, we don't have any work, and

430
00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:31,720
Speaker 2: I'm like, that actually is not true. You're only Friday

431
00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:32,919
Speaker 2: and I'll see it in a month, you know, But

432
00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:36,800
Speaker 2: like it is, this it's such an inconsistent lifestyle, and

433
00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:39,560
Speaker 2: I think a lot of people probably can relate in

434
00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:41,920
Speaker 2: some ways if they do sales or like things like that.

435
00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:44,840
Speaker 2: But there's a lot of people that I even know

436
00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:48,280
Speaker 2: from home that are very nine to five jobs, and

437
00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:50,680
Speaker 2: so the thought of what we all do and the

438
00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:53,440
Speaker 2: last minute chaos like makes their throat close.

439
00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:56,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, all that to say, I don't think you could

440
00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:57,200
Speaker 1: go get unemployment.

441
00:21:57,320 --> 00:22:09,760
Speaker 2: I think you're definitely employ. If we're Catherine, no quickly

442
00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:12,159
Speaker 2: could I claim unemployed? I'm like, no, I don't think

443
00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:17,520
Speaker 2: you could. Espally, you're talking network. Have you guys finished

444
00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:20,440
Speaker 2: The Hunting Wives? Yes? No? Okay. Well it's funny because

445
00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:23,560
Speaker 2: Ben so obviously he saw in my story and so

446
00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:26,399
Speaker 2: many of you guys from the podcast you know, asked

447
00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:29,480
Speaker 2: me what character I was playing, and uh, he had.

448
00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:33,119
Speaker 2: He wrote me a funny text message about you know,

449
00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:37,199
Speaker 2: you've got great things, you know, come in and it

450
00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:39,040
Speaker 2: was a beautiful text message. And he goes and it's

451
00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:43,760
Speaker 2: not and it's not with a pink strap on dildo

452
00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:48,240
Speaker 2: screwing your husband, your your TV husband, and and I'm like,

453
00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:50,640
Speaker 2: but I would have done if I need to know

454
00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:53,880
Speaker 2: for the role. And I go and I told Alan,

455
00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:55,760
Speaker 2: I go, hey, babe, I said, Scots I'm reading this

456
00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:59,720
Speaker 2: text message to Alan in the car yesterday and I said,

457
00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:01,879
Speaker 2: so he's like dying laughing. He goes, wait, did that

458
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:05,119
Speaker 2: character really do that? And I said yeah, and I go,

459
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:06,840
Speaker 2: would you have been upset about that? And he goes

460
00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:09,320
Speaker 2: something about you doing it to them makes it a

461
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:12,680
Speaker 2: little like, it doesn't make it as bad. And that's

462
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:15,680
Speaker 2: all I could think about, was Alan than I thought

463
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:17,720
Speaker 2: it was. I'm not gonna lie because I think Presion

464
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 2: would be like, are you kidding me? Oh, I can't

465
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:25,439
Speaker 2: even really dodged a bullet. See. I think it's what

466
00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:28,080
Speaker 2: it's been like I do. And I've gotten so many

467
00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:31,040
Speaker 2: messages and people being like you that it's just not

468
00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:33,159
Speaker 2: your you know, that's not your role and like the

469
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:35,560
Speaker 2: God saved you on that one, and and I'm like, listen,

470
00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:39,080
Speaker 2: it is. There's not a show right now, but it's

471
00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:40,840
Speaker 2: like the number one show. And I bet you it's

472
00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:43,760
Speaker 2: gonna I bet you because it's it's people are talking

473
00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:46,800
Speaker 2: about it, it's making waves. It is and it's like

474
00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:52,680
Speaker 2: but and for me it's it's I love these wholesome

475
00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 2: roles that I play. I really do. I like the

476
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:58,359
Speaker 2: last character I just played the most wholesome role ever,

477
00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 2: and as an actress, it's it's fun to just do

478
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:03,919
Speaker 2: something that is so out of my comfort zone, like

479
00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:08,040
Speaker 2: Alex for anyone listening, I didn't want to audition for

480
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:10,199
Speaker 2: that role because it was so wildly out of my

481
00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:12,680
Speaker 2: comfort zone. I'd never been drunk, I'd never done drugs.

482
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:15,320
Speaker 2: I didn't relate to the character at all. Like I

483
00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:18,399
Speaker 2: was like, I don't want she's crazy, she's psycho, Like,

484
00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 2: I don't want to play her. And then I fell

485
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:23,800
Speaker 2: in love with playing her because it was so fun.

486
00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:27,399
Speaker 2: But you forget you did guess by my husband. But

487
00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:29,760
Speaker 2: still I was too close to home. That was, but

488
00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:33,480
Speaker 2: it was not a cozy role. It was not cozy wholesome. Yeah,

489
00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:36,880
Speaker 2: like you're those roles are still going to find you. Yeah,

490
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:40,680
Speaker 2: I mean, and I get it. I also I would

491
00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:42,080
Speaker 2: have wanted you to do it too. I wouldn't have

492
00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:43,920
Speaker 2: been able to watch it, but I would definitely would

493
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:45,560
Speaker 2: have wanted you to do it. Yeah, I don't ever

494
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 2: want to see you in bed with this drap. I'm

495
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:52,640
Speaker 2: just me. But also like you have kids, I know,

496
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:57,680
Speaker 2: but they would have watched it. Well, someday they could

497
00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:00,399
Speaker 2: have saw a clip or I know I know and listen.

498
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:02,479
Speaker 2: And so that's the part where I think it's not

499
00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:05,040
Speaker 2: just about protecting you. I think God protects your family.

500
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:07,800
Speaker 1: And it's hard to go on somebody's Netflix and go

501
00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:09,880
Speaker 1: find it if they hear it.

502
00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:13,400
Speaker 2: And I'm pie that piece I did think of when

503
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:15,800
Speaker 2: I yeah, I saw that. To Alan, I was like,

504
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:18,440
Speaker 2: I'm kind of glad the reference to.

505
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:22,440
Speaker 1: Having said that a lot of actors are parents that

506
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:23,760
Speaker 1: do that, and I'm.

507
00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:25,720
Speaker 2: Sure she's a parent, the girl that got hired. You know,

508
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:29,479
Speaker 2: there's a lot of no judgment please, because I know

509
00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:31,879
Speaker 2: how that'll go. But I'm just saying, like when I

510
00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:34,720
Speaker 2: logged on to watch that show, I didn't expect to

511
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:38,520
Speaker 2: get into what I was getting into because Preson's like, well,

512
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 2: this is good to be great. It's a great cast

513
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,760
Speaker 2: and you know, like he's a hunter, so he's like,

514
00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 2: this is be epic, and I was so fully in

515
00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 2: over my head I didn't. I was confused. Listen, I

516
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:52,439
Speaker 2: think it's juicy and I would love to be on

517
00:25:52,480 --> 00:26:01,520
Speaker 2: season two. All right, darned, okay, all right? Management and

518
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:05,960
Speaker 2: spiritual advisor going to therapist is like no, honey, like,

519
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 2: this is not your role. And I was like maybe

520
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:11,720
Speaker 2: it's not it. Obviously it wasn't, you know what I mean,

521
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:16,240
Speaker 2: But maybe there's something else. Yeah, I don't know. There's

522
00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:18,959
Speaker 2: definitely something for you that I do know. There's a

523
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 2: Hallmark series is coming to Nashville. So you know, I

524
00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 2: like you and Gingerbread. That's the only man I like

525
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:32,640
Speaker 2: you doing is a Gingerbread. I would love to have

526
00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:34,600
Speaker 2: the girl that plays CALLI on because I think she

527
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 2: did a great job. And even then when we were

528
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:38,439
Speaker 2: talking about it, he's like, I don't see you in

529
00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 2: that role. He's like, he's like, and she and here's

530
00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 2: the deal. She plays it obviously, I mean she's she's incredible.

531
00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:46,919
Speaker 2: She's the one that got the job. But you know,

532
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:51,160
Speaker 2: I would have taken it a different way because of

533
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:54,960
Speaker 2: how I, you know, take certain characters. It would have

534
00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:57,959
Speaker 2: been like where she's really dominant. I would have been

535
00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:01,679
Speaker 2: too feminine. I believe that that's what president and I

536
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:04,639
Speaker 2: think I would have been more of the like she's

537
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:06,399
Speaker 2: so strong and so good, So I would I mean,

538
00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 2: I'd love, you know, see kind of her thoughts on it,

539
00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 2: and it would be really fun. Hannah. Can we get

540
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:17,040
Speaker 2: her on? That'd be great if we could from Hannah, Yes,

541
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:19,879
Speaker 2: I'm sure. I think it'd be so fun. But I

542
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:34,639
Speaker 2: think she's great and I think it'd be fun, all right.

543
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 2: Headline of the Week, Sophie Turner defends going to Oasis

544
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 2: concert with friends as a single mom called shared custody,

545
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:42,720
Speaker 2: so she is not here for the single mom single

546
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 2: parent shamers. Earlier this week, Turner posted on Instagram a

547
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:47,719
Speaker 2: photo of her and her friend attending the Oasis concert

548
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:54,600
Speaker 2: at London's Wimbley Stadium. One social media user commented, insane,

549
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 2: l m f ao, I think she has forgotten that

550
00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:01,720
Speaker 2: she has two kids. Turner quickly shot back a response, writing, ah,

551
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. Sometimes I forget. Some people can't think

552
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:07,400
Speaker 2: for themselves. So get this. There's this crazy thing called

553
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:10,480
Speaker 2: shared custody. Maybe just maybe they were there. They were

554
00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 2: with their dad that day. She shares obviously two kids

555
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 2: with ex husband Joe Jonas. Turner has since been candid

556
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 2: about her life as a single parent and dealing with

557
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:26,560
Speaker 2: the on uh slot onslought of mom shaming comments. I

558
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:31,639
Speaker 2: just cannot, for the life of me get over the

559
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 2: mom shaming comments from ninety nine point nine percent of

560
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 2: them being moms. Moms Yeah, and also like, I'll I'll

561
00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:43,120
Speaker 2: get this sometimes if I go on a vacation once

562
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 2: a year without the kids, do you ever see your kids?

563
00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 2: That's unreal? Those are the comments I get all the

564
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 2: time when I if I do anything, do anything without the kids?

565
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:55,520
Speaker 2: Are you ever with your kids? You're always traveling? I

566
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:58,040
Speaker 2: mean one year I maybe went on I think no,

567
00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:00,360
Speaker 2: it was when Alan and I went on. Are like

568
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 2: first vacation together? Are you ever with your kids? I'm

569
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 2: like all the time, thank you very much, and like, yes,

570
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:08,360
Speaker 2: they also have to be with their father. Like I

571
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:13,040
Speaker 2: cannot believe people go in in comments like that. It

572
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:15,760
Speaker 2: just it drives me nuts because it's like I already

573
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 2: have guilt for being away and not being with my kids.

574
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:22,720
Speaker 2: Of course that I don't need to be a reminded.

575
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:26,479
Speaker 2: But also like if it's I I schedule things so

576
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 2: that for example, what Mike and I do really good

577
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 2: with and he's great with is I already know kind

578
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:35,160
Speaker 2: of what he has coming up and vice versa for me,

579
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 2: So I do the weekends so like when I'm in Wilmington,

580
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:41,480
Speaker 2: I don't have off right I'm working and I don't

581
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 2: have the kids, right, it's his weekend. So then when

582
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 2: i'm home, I have the kids, you know. But when

583
00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:47,160
Speaker 2: i'm or when I have to go to Paris for

584
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:50,400
Speaker 2: one Tree Hill again, I'm working, and I've blocked it

585
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:53,120
Speaker 2: so that way I'm not doing double weeks without the

586
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:55,960
Speaker 2: kids or double weekends without the kids. I make it

587
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:59,239
Speaker 2: not take in projects before because it would make it

588
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 2: so that you would be your kids too long. I'm

589
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 2: also not doing something that I'm supposed to do for

590
00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 2: work because I don't want to miss my daughter's first

591
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:08,440
Speaker 2: softball game, you know what I'm saying, coming up here

592
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 2: next week. So there's many things that like happen that

593
00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 2: I mean, always prioritizing the kids. But it's like when

594
00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 2: the moms come in, it baffles me. You owe them nothing.

595
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 1: She owes those people absolutely nothing. If she got a babysitter,

596
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 1: who cares if she doesn't see her kids for three days? Okay,

597
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 1: like it's her parenting. It's that I will never understand that,

598
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:37,120
Speaker 1: like you having to justify that you go out of

599
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:39,480
Speaker 1: town and you get your kids immediately, which you do,

600
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:41,800
Speaker 1: But what if you know I'm coming home and going, hey,

601
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 1: I want to break I want to take a little nap.

602
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:47,560
Speaker 2: Okay like that that are like, hey, I could pick

603
00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:49,440
Speaker 2: the kids up from my parents all the way home,

604
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:51,520
Speaker 2: but I'm a rest for a minute. Yeah, and that

605
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:55,000
Speaker 2: would be me and take a shower, and like, yeah.

606
00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:58,720
Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with any of that. Like, it's unbelievable

607
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:03,480
Speaker 1: to me that we think you have an opinion. Okay, fine,

608
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 1: but to attack people and say do you ever see

609
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:09,960
Speaker 1: your children like that? Is There's no right of us

610
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:13,960
Speaker 1: as moms to go after other moms for parenting decisions.

611
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 2: You probably don't feel this, but I wonder do you

612
00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 2: ever feel the need to parent more publicly because you

613
00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 2: get those comments? Or did you ever to like kind

614
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 2: of combat it. It's an interesting question. I mean I

615
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 2: totally hear what you're saying. I just wonder that. Yeah, No,

616
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:36,960
Speaker 2: I mean for people in the public. I mean I

617
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:44,520
Speaker 2: have them seventy percent, I know it. I'm like showing Yeah. No,

618
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:48,320
Speaker 2: I always wonder people because like, I'm pretty confident in

619
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 2: my parenting of the having them. Now for me, though,

620
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 2: I I how do I say this, I privately do

621
00:31:56,800 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 2: that combat or for me? So for example, when I

622
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:03,040
Speaker 2: was on the movie, like I I should have not

623
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 2: have had them a few days because I should have

624
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 2: allowed myself to sleep in on my off day so

625
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:11,000
Speaker 2: that I'm prepared for the week ahead, but instead the

626
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 2: kids were there and then so that I'm waking up

627
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 2: in the morning as opposed to being like, hey, Mike,

628
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 2: can you take this day so I can sleep it

629
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 2: on my day off. But because I feel my own, no,

630
00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:22,240
Speaker 2: I need to I need to get the kids ready

631
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 2: for school, and I need to do that. So it's

632
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:28,880
Speaker 2: it's my own private struggle. Yeah, it's not other people's

633
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:30,920
Speaker 2: to show. It's to show me that I'm a good

634
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 2: mom and that I can that I can do it all. Yeah,

635
00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:37,240
Speaker 2: right right, that makes sense. Yeah, Like first day of school,

636
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 2: you did that? Uh huh? I got like three hours

637
00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 2: of sleep, which then set me into the week. Not

638
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Speaker 2: great for my week week of work, you know, but

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Speaker 2: how could I how could I not be there for

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Speaker 2: my kids on the first day of school and get

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Speaker 2: them ready and you know, yeah, and then I got

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Speaker 2: shamed for the outfit, so you know, I just can't

643
00:32:56,240 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 2: win nobody. It was so cute. What was the shame?

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00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:03,760
Speaker 2: Did I dress her too old that I can't put her?

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Speaker 2: Doesn't anyone talk to nine year olds lately? All they

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Speaker 2: want to do is skincare and dress like their moms.

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Speaker 2: I mean, and I'm like, she actually picked out the

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Speaker 2: office herself, and I thought she was beautiful and I

649
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Speaker 2: thought she had done amazing.

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Speaker 1: But you know, let's just go ahead and shame kids too.

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Speaker 2: Just shame sorry, feisty, Oh, I trust me. I fired

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Speaker 2: back on some comments and then I deleted them because

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Speaker 2: I'm like, there is no point, I know, and there

654
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Speaker 2: is zero point, and so I deleteded just like you know,

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Speaker 2: two SAIDs like, yeah, I don't know anybody. They are

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Speaker 2: going to disagree with anything I do. So whether I

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Speaker 2: put her in a sweatshirt on a ninety degree day

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Speaker 2: or sunscreen, I mean, you name it. Guys, we've been

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Speaker 2: through it all. Or if I tinfoil my thing and

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Speaker 2: I'm wasteful, let me just tell all the tinfoil police

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Speaker 2: you can recycle tinfoil, And let me tell you it

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Speaker 2: twas been recycled. Okay. We bawled it all up and

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Speaker 2: the PA took it to a recycler. I would also

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Speaker 2: encourages people to look up all the studies on aluminum

665
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Speaker 2: while they're at it, how toxic it is. Yeah, yeahs

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Speaker 2: a favor any who. All right, my goodness, gracious, we

667
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Speaker 2: are a fighter. I was like, can anybody just you

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Speaker 2: just can't. I'm I wasted all that Reynolds And to my,

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Speaker 2: to my, I did comment back on this, I did

670
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Speaker 2: say this. I said, well, I used tupperware, So just

671
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:26,480
Speaker 2: think of all the tinfoil that I didn't use all

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Speaker 2: those years. You just used all years up in one time.

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Speaker 2: You're a lot, men, did you? You didn't know there

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Speaker 2: was a foil a lot, but if.

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Speaker 1: There was, I'll come up with something, guys, no matter

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Speaker 1: what it is, I can't.

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Speaker 2: So we're all good. We're good, We've been good. We've

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Speaker 2: been good. Should we put like signs up? I don't

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Speaker 2: even know. I'm really glud of everybody. Well, guys, until

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Speaker 2: next week.

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Speaker 1: Bye ye