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Speaker 1: we had Bobby Brown on the show during this time,

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Speaker 1: so I wasn't able to say thank you to all

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Speaker 1: the people in Crete who came out to Smokey Joe's

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Speaker 1: for stop number one in the Thank You thirteen tour.

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Speaker 1: We did get a key to the city. Jason has

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Speaker 1: I think he's just right. I think he's decided it

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Speaker 1: you to everyone who came out. Thank you to the

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Speaker 1: village of Crete and the mayor, Mayor Mark and the

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Speaker 1: trustees and everybody who made us feel really welcome. We're

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Speaker 1: moving on, Yes, we're moving on week two of the

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Speaker 1: Thank You thirteen tour. This time it's Riverwoods, Illinois Brunch

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Speaker 1: Factory on North Milwaukee Avenue. We'll have sold out to

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Speaker 1: with the first one hundred people and Avocado Theory in Naperville.

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Speaker 1: After that, we take a week off, and then on

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Speaker 1: Halloween morning, it's Delle Rooster in Chicago in Westtown. But Riverwoods.

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Speaker 1: I've yet to look on a map and see exactly

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Speaker 1: where you are Riverwoods, multiple Woods, but we'll find it

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Speaker 1: in the dark on Friday morning. It's amazing because all

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Speaker 1: these stops are places that I have not been for

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Speaker 1: A lot of them are like in amidst cordon Field,

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Speaker 1: a city here. We are, so hang out with us,

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Speaker 1: Brunch Factory Friday Morning Stop. Two of the Thank You

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Speaker 1: thirteen too, were on The Fred Show.

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Speaker 3: Hey Hey, wake up, you pliched your raw claps?

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Speaker 1: I do in a hotel room, and it is And

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Speaker 1: It's just truly traumatic. I almost would have rather had

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Speaker 1: I just planned out to all the beer drinking, because

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Speaker 1: I didn't have to use it again. Really just an

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Speaker 4: What was the state of the porter potty on a

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Speaker 1: It's effected. It's just all right there, you know. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to get into it as breakfast time,

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Speaker 1: but it's just not a yeah, no blogs, audio journals

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Speaker 1: in just a second. It was just what you said

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Speaker 1: to me reminded me of like it's just sometimes you

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Speaker 5: I always think I'm gonna get pushed over for some reason.

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Speaker 5: I think it's gonna tip over and then I'm trapped.

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Speaker 1: I would almost have read it. I consider it a

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Speaker 1: I thought about it, Yeah, but I didn't think that'd

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Speaker 1: be good for my career. No, SID didn't blogging just

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Speaker 1: Report This Hour, What's in There?

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Speaker 4: A fan learned the hard way when they tried to

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Speaker 4: grab Dua Lipa's butt.

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Speaker 2: Oh so you can't do that.

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Speaker 1: No you're not, You're not supposed to.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they talk better than they sell. These are the

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Speaker 3: radio blogs on the Fred Show, like running in our diaries,

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Speaker 1: We call the blogs Kiki's got one go, dear blog.

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Speaker 5: Shout out to all of the parents, because I don't

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Speaker 5: know how you guys do this whole thing.

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Speaker 1: Like right, Pete, I don't know. Man.

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Speaker 5: I think about you often because you're you're on a

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Speaker 1: My girl like you every day.

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Speaker 5: No, turn it back because I've held raise my nephew Sean,

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Speaker 5: and he really broke my heart the other day but

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Speaker 5: I couldn't. He doesn't know this, but it really did.

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Speaker 5: He texts the family group and he said I want

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Speaker 5: a job, and I'm like.

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Speaker 1: And hell does he sixteen? He's sixteen? Yes, okay, good

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Speaker 5: I don't know if parents feel this or have felt this.

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Speaker 5: You go through like I went through a stage of

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Speaker 5: like grief. I went through like why does he want

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Speaker 5: a job? What are we not providing for you? Is

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Speaker 6: Is it something you feel like you're lacking? Why do

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Speaker 5: Then I go through like what I remember at sixteen

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Speaker 5: that job, right, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, it's always sometimes you'll grow up fast. And I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm not judging anyone whatsoever. You know, this is a

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Speaker 1: judgment free zone. But you got this the job that's

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Speaker 1: really for sixteen year olds, but it's like a thirty

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Speaker 1: that's the one who's buying them booze and teaching them

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Speaker 1: this is this job is for high school kids, but

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Speaker 1: you're still here and that's fine. But that's the one

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Speaker 5: You for everything that to teach you all the bad

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Speaker 5: Yes exactly. Is so I mean, I'm like, oh lord,

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Speaker 5: encounter it do want to work?

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Speaker 6: So he had an interview.

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Speaker 5: He went on his first interview and I'm just boohorn

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Speaker 5: that's his first interview, and then he also applied at

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Speaker 5: just as bad, but it's just like I don't I

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Speaker 1: Good for him. No, I think it's great. And so

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Speaker 5: And I did the same thing at sixteen, literally did

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Speaker 5: Like and I really wish he would do that.

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Speaker 1: You should be happy that he wants to do this.

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Speaker 1: You should be happy that he has the ambition. And

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Speaker 1: I know what this is really about, the fact that

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Speaker 1: I'm in your mind, which is not true. He still

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Speaker 1: needs you a lot, but this is what this is about,

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Speaker 1: is that you are he no longer has to come

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Speaker 5: It's what you want, but it's also what I don't want,

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Speaker 5: because like in my mind, I'm like, who taught your

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Speaker 5: to even put that on application? Like why do you

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Speaker 5: why do you need taxes? I don't need you to

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Speaker 7: I talk about this sometimes we're like, well, when she's

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Speaker 1: Slowly sacrificing something to do this, Like, is it is

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Speaker 8: You know.

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Speaker 1: It's like you just grow up so quick.

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Speaker 5: I want him to slow it down. You don't need

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Speaker 1: Just text me? Because I would say, like, if he

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Speaker 1: Now you got to monitor it, right And who am I?

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Speaker 7: Meets your girl, hook it up right, just counter what

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Speaker 1: Okay, Whitney, good morning, how you doing Whitney?

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Speaker 1: There she is, Hi Whitney, Welcome to the program. What's

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Speaker 1: too monchs. I act like I don't know. I read

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Speaker 1: so you've been dating this guy for two months. You

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Speaker 9: Well, so, first of all, there's no where flags and

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Speaker 9: he's really good at communicating. Okay, I do appreciate that. However,

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Speaker 9: And you know, he's had this put trip planned for

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Speaker 1: He really, where is he going? Is he going to

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Speaker 1: I'm like like Paris, and you know, progue then my

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Speaker 9: I really appreciate him telling me that way. I'm not like,

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Speaker 1: You met his sister. Now is this legit? Is he

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Speaker 9: I haven't met her yet, but you know, they facetimed.

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Speaker 1: I could see this two ways. I mean, if he's

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Speaker 1: I mean, like, Hey, I'm not going to be able

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Speaker 1: Like that that's too obvious. It's too obvious to me.

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Speaker 1: What like, how many people do you know that married

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Speaker 1: I also don't know why in twenty twenty five, we're

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Speaker 1: I'm here having a good time. You know what about

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Speaker 9: No, he's got a big coaster. You really not?

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Speaker 1: So I think this is your little friend's meddling. I

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Speaker 1: it's very possible that this guy wants to be present

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Speaker 1: I don't know if my sister when I was younger,

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Speaker 4: We would travel, yes, but you could also talk to

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Speaker 1: I don't know, do you You guys communicate regularly? Like is

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Speaker 1: it's not no coffee bless you, whatever that was. I

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Speaker 1: And just just know that that that's because we're doing stuff.

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Speaker 1: I'm not present. I'm not enjoying what I'm doing, you

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Speaker 1: Eight five, five, five nine one one oh three five.

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Speaker 1: You know, just what do you think when you hear

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Speaker 1: Whitney talking about this guy two months no red flags,

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Speaker 10: What what?

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Speaker 1: I don't think you're just stirring at me? But what

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Speaker 5: I don't feel like being called insecure today? So I

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Speaker 5: I can't talk to you unless you're going to say

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Speaker 1: That's true. I mean, Shelley's husband does this all the time.

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Speaker 1: Granted this because he's like it has top secret clearances

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Speaker 1: buying that. No, no, none of you. Two weeks you

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Speaker 9: No, he just wanted to, like, definitely let me know

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Speaker 9: Yeah, but I mean like two weeks. Okay, we talk

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Speaker 1: I mean, is there any I don't know how to

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Speaker 1: don't trust him? But is there a way to meet

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Speaker 9: And I've like said hi on FaceTime, like when.

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Speaker 6: I'm over his house, like he going on vacation with

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Speaker 5: No, he's not just you go get you another man, girl,

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Speaker 1: He's not doing that. Like again, I I do you know?

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Speaker 1: Because because cheaters cheaters, I mean, it's people have had

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Speaker 1: But what I mean is he doesn't have to go, Hey,

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Speaker 1: heads up, I'm going on a trip with my sister

436
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Speaker 1: and you can't meet her, nor can you communicate with me? Right,

437
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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think I would go that far.

438
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Speaker 1: I think I would just say him going on a trip,

439
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Speaker 1: and then if you got mad at me because I

440
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Speaker 1: wasn't as responsive because I'm doing some other girl, then

441
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Speaker 1: I would be like, well, I don't know, sorry, have

442
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Speaker 1: wi fi like I'm in the middle of nowhere. Yeah,

443
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Speaker 1: I mean, I just I think there's a way to

444
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Speaker 1: do this without calling your shot. Well.

445
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Speaker 7: They also don't really talk a lot, it sounds like,

446
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Speaker 7: which is another red flag.

447
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Speaker 2: She says.

448
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Speaker 1: We know we've talk.

449
00:19:10,280 --> 00:19:11,480
Speaker 2: We almost talk every day.

450
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Speaker 7: The man that you lie with, you almost talk every

451
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Speaker 7: day for two months.

452
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Speaker 1: And maybe, by the way, Whitney, have you had any

453
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Speaker 1: issue with the fact, I mean, are you upset about

454
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Speaker 1: the fact that your communication patterns? Is it not enough

455
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Speaker 1: for you? See?

456
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Speaker 9: So she's it's the perfect time, like we've been like

457
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Speaker 9: growing like a healthy, wonderful pace I'm if this trick

458
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Speaker 9: didn't what wasn't like in existence, I would feel great about.

459
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Speaker 1: Where we were. Okay, well, let me take some phone

460
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Speaker 1: calls on this, because you've heard our perspectives. But let

461
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Speaker 1: me let me see what people at home have to say.

462
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Speaker 1: And I wish you the best, Whitty. I don't this

463
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Speaker 1: doesn't jump out at me as necessarily a breakupabule offense.

464
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Speaker 1: And I think you'll know pretty quickly when he gets back,

465
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Speaker 1: by the way, I think you'll read it on his

466
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Speaker 1: face if he was up to something, or if he's

467
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Speaker 1: guilty about something, or something developed while you were away

468
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Speaker 1: from each other, then I think I feel like you'll

469
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Speaker 1: sense that. But I don't think we're we're breaking up

470
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Speaker 1: with someone.

471
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Speaker 5: Now Friday breakup, I would just date. Oh God, do

472
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Speaker 5: you say hello?

473
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Speaker 1: All right? Thank you, Whitney, have a good day. When

474
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Speaker 1: your your advice is all over the place.

475
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Speaker 2: Is it not a red flag that they don't talk

476
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Speaker 2: every day? Though I do?

477
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Speaker 7: Yeah?

478
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Speaker 1: But see, you could say that except I just asked

479
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Speaker 1: her if she's okay with them. She says yeah, because she's.

480
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Speaker 2: Just covering her feelings.

481
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Speaker 1: No, you have to, so let's not take people their

482
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Speaker 1: face value because you don't agree the person.

483
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Speaker 7: You're dating, like like boyfriend girlfriend, not like casual like hookups,

484
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Speaker 7: not casual dinners.

485
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Speaker 1: I'm talking about dating BOYFM girlfriend. You don't talk to

486
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Speaker 1: me just to say hey, what's up? But again, that's

487
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Speaker 1: what you need. I just asked her are you okay

488
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Speaker 1: with it? And she said yes, And then your response is, well,

489
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Speaker 1: she's lying to us. Maybe she's maybe she's not, maybe

490
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Speaker 1: maybe that's not what she requires. Okay, Hey, Jessica, Hi, Jessica, there.

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Speaker 6: Go, definitely go.

492
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Speaker 8: I feel like she's in the stage where it's ignorance

493
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Speaker 8: is bliss and she wants so desperately to hold one

494
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Speaker 8: day is actually what you say is that he is

495
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Speaker 8: even though she knows it's not. I feel like she's

496
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Speaker 8: the other woman.

497
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Speaker 1: I will say, Jessica. The part of this that we

498
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Speaker 1: and someone texted this just now, the part of this

499
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Speaker 1: that we didn't really hone in on, is that they

500
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Speaker 1: have not defined the relationship after two months now. For

501
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Speaker 1: some people that would be normal, but I mean, technically

502
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Speaker 1: they are not in a relationship, so he could be

503
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Speaker 1: going with someone else and getting with her. So I

504
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Speaker 1: guess I don't know what the purpose of lying is

505
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Speaker 1: he could be omitting because he doesn't want he doesn't

506
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Speaker 1: want her to go anywhere but two months and they

507
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Speaker 1: are not technically in a relationship, which means that technically

508
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Speaker 1: he wouldn't be cheating on her. He has every right

509
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Speaker 1: to do what he wants.

510
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Speaker 6: He's on vacation with his wife and kids.

511
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Speaker 8: Oh god, that means he's definitely going with another woman.

512
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Speaker 8: I kind of went through a situation, like they know,

513
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Speaker 8: they say people go through things, but you don't have to.

514
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Speaker 2: That's what I know.

515
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Speaker 1: Else, you know he is going with another woman, his sister. Kay, Yeah, Jessica,

516
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Speaker 1: you have a good day. I love you, guys. I do,

517
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Speaker 1: I just I don't. I don't know, Amber High, I

518
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Speaker 1: don't Amber stare go.

519
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Speaker 8: Awesting why it's only two weeks.

520
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Speaker 2: If it's really a big issue, they can both get

521
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Speaker 2: what'sapp and communicate through there.

522
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Speaker 9: But I don't think it's that big of issue, especially

523
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Speaker 9: if he's only going with his sister.

524
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Speaker 1: I do think. I do think it's interesting that the

525
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Speaker 1: whole not defined the relationship thing, But I mean, what

526
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Speaker 1: is the appropriates? I mean, they don't talk every day,

527
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Speaker 1: so is it I mean, is this is it a

528
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Speaker 1: slow burn? Is this. I mean, I don't know what

529
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Speaker 1: it is. It is strange, But then again, he wouldn't

530
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Speaker 1: have to lie to her, you know, he wouldn't have

531
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Speaker 1: to say anything.

532
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Speaker 6: They're not together, Me and lots today sad chicks all

533
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Speaker 6: the time. You don't let you, you don't let you. Sai

534
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Speaker 6: know she is sad chick.

535
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Speaker 1: Okay, Amber, thank you, you're right. I have good day

536
00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:06,480
Speaker 1: this two weeks. Yeah, it's a little strange, but I'm

537
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Speaker 1: not jumping to immediately. You know this other stuff.

538
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Speaker 4: You're courting me, like write letters, get what's app send

539
00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:14,639
Speaker 4: a carrier pigeon, let me know you miss me.

540
00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:17,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, that's fair, and it's too he would.

541
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Speaker 7: And honestly, if you were dating a girl and she

542
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Speaker 7: told you I'm going to Europe with my brother for

543
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Speaker 7: two weeks, you probably won't hear from me.

544
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Speaker 1: You would be okay with that. I wouldn't love it,

545
00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 1: but I guess I'm not necessarily going to all of

546
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Speaker 1: this these other things. Hey, Crystal, good morning, So I

547
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:39,919
Speaker 1: gotta wake up now, you say, okay, wait, so go

548
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:42,160
Speaker 1: right ahead tell them this morning.

549
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Speaker 2: You congress on your engagement.

550
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Speaker 1: Thank you hard.

551
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Speaker 8: You can play this too way, honey, you need to

552
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Speaker 8: find out for him if something happens on the trip,

553
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:54,880
Speaker 8: what does he contact?

554
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Speaker 1: I mean, what do you mean his mom? I don't know.

555
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:01,800
Speaker 1: You mean, who's the emergency cod They're not in a relationship, Crystal.

556
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Speaker 9: She said they've been dating too much, but they haven't.

557
00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:07,119
Speaker 1: Then she did say that, but they have not defined

558
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Speaker 1: their relationship, which I think if any of this is suspect,

559
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Speaker 1: it's that part of it. I guess. I wonder what's

560
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:14,680
Speaker 1: up with that? Yeah, Fred, once you get the good

561
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:14,840
Speaker 1: of this.

562
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Speaker 10: So no, no, no, two weeks?

563
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Speaker 1: So what would you expect every day? He needs to

564
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Speaker 1: contact you every day he's gone.

565
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Speaker 9: No, who doesn't need to every day?

566
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Speaker 8: I know, I get your own vacation, have fun on

567
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Speaker 8: your vacation. But you're not going to say you're going dark?

568
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Speaker 1: Two week? Okay, fair enough, thank you? Crystal. Hey, I

569
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Speaker 1: hear you have a good day. No day. You asked

570
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Speaker 1: me if I would like it, I wouldn't like it.

571
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:37,959
Speaker 1: But I again, how do we know, based on what

572
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Speaker 1: little information we have that he's absolutely lying and he's

573
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Speaker 1: cheating and all these things. This, this is how this

574
00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:47,159
Speaker 1: happens is we're the little friends here and we're in

575
00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:49,400
Speaker 1: we have no idea what we're talking about, and we're

576
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:53,720
Speaker 1: injecting all of our own insecurities into this polo and

577
00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:54,560
Speaker 1: we're saving her.

578
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Speaker 7: Listen, we live in twenty twenty five, Like we said,

579
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Speaker 7: what's app this that there's wine down time when you're

580
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:02,399
Speaker 7: on vacation, you're in your room, you're on the toilet,

581
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:04,959
Speaker 7: you're doing your own thing, like you can call her.

582
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:07,399
Speaker 1: It would be easy enough to drop a text every

583
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Speaker 1: now and again. I agree, I agree. I do you agree?

584
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:15,160
Speaker 1: Leaning tower Pieza here it is it's leaning. So I'm

585
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 1: in the Vedic. Yes, absolutely, I'm praying for you with

586
00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 1: my mistress. Yeah, Carolina, Hi, Hi, Hi, good morning. Just

587
00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:25,920
Speaker 1: to recap here, this woman's been dating a guy for

588
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Speaker 1: a couple of months. They haven't to define the relationship

589
00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:31,359
Speaker 1: she has. She indicated on her own, no red flags

590
00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:32,800
Speaker 1: about this guy. But he's going on a trip for

591
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Speaker 1: two weeks with his sister, he says, and let her

592
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Speaker 1: know that he wouldn't really be communicative during that time.

593
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Speaker 1: What are your thoughts?

594
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:41,160
Speaker 2: Definitely stay.

595
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Speaker 10: I think that unless she sees other red flags, no

596
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Speaker 10: reason to be alarmed. Went through something similar many years ago,

597
00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:52,080
Speaker 10: three week three trip for three weeks, for someone I

598
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:54,639
Speaker 10: was just talking to here and there, getting to know

599
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Speaker 10: and we're married now, and it was all fine. He

600
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Speaker 10: actually did reach out throughout the trip here and there,

601
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Speaker 10: not as often as you typically spoke to each other,

602
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:06,879
Speaker 10: but you know, knew where he was at here and

603
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:12,199
Speaker 10: there every few days and gotten nice souvenirs. Ended up

604
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Speaker 10: picking him up from the airport, So I think that

605
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:16,399
Speaker 10: might be something she can try, picking him and the

606
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:18,680
Speaker 10: sister up from the airport, getting to know her after

607
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:20,240
Speaker 10: the trip, maybe trust a little.

608
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Speaker 5: Bit, yeah, or booking a flight and imagine, you know,

609
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Speaker 5: ended up at the same resort.

610
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Speaker 9: I've only been dating for two months.

611
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Speaker 10: I would say that's also a little I don't want

612
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Speaker 10: to go on a trip with someone I've just stated

613
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Speaker 10: for two months and their sister.

614
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Speaker 1: Yeah, well I get that too. Wife. Yeah, Carolina, thank you,

615
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:44,480
Speaker 1: have a good day. Yeah. There are definitely holes in

616
00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 1: this and it definitely is a little strange. But I

617
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Speaker 1: guess I don't know.

618
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Speaker 5: I mean, why is he You're a good person and

619
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Speaker 5: you give the benefit of the doubt, not always, although

620
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:57,359
Speaker 5: you would not go for this, I wouldn't like it.

621
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Speaker 1: No, I wouldn't like it, But I mean, again, after

622
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Speaker 1: two months.

623
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Speaker 3: Like well Cawin's entertainment report, he's on the Bread Show.

624
00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 4: Family and friends of Celeste Rivas, the teen found in

625
00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 4: a tesla registered to singer David, gathered yesterday in California

626
00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:16,399
Speaker 4: to finally lay her to rest. Remember, her decomposed body

627
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:19,440
Speaker 4: was discovered last month in the trunk of the car

628
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:22,280
Speaker 4: that was abandoned near your house David was renting in

629
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Speaker 4: the Hollywood Hills. It was eventually impounded, and then days later,

630
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:29,960
Speaker 4: maybe even weeks, cops found her thanks to a smell.

631
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Speaker 4: It's just a horrific story. Cops believed that Celeste, who

632
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:37,359
Speaker 4: friends in David's circle reportedly thought was nineteen years old,

633
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:40,920
Speaker 4: had been dead for a little while. She was reported

634
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Speaker 4: missing early in twenty twenty four. In that time since

635
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Speaker 4: her body was discovered, David's been pretty much radio silent,

636
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:51,399
Speaker 4: pulling the plug on his tour, shelving his deluxe album

637
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 4: rollout for Withered, and apparently moving out of the Hollywood

638
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:57,879
Speaker 4: Hills rental home where he was staying, where the lapd

639
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:01,040
Speaker 4: have executed a search warrant and he has not been

640
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:03,040
Speaker 4: spotted in public ever since.

641
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Speaker 2: She was just fourteen years old. So rest in peace,

642
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:07,880
Speaker 2: Just so upsetting.

643
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Speaker 4: Of course, the internet is, you know, everyone's trying to

644
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:14,400
Speaker 4: figure out what happened. Moving on to Dua Lipa, as

645
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:17,679
Speaker 4: new video shows her killing it at the Kia Forum

646
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 4: in La over the weekend posing for photos in the

647
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Speaker 4: crowd with fans when one dude got a little too

648
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 4: familiar with her, sliding his hand or trying to slide

649
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 4: his hand right near her booty before security stepped in.

650
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:30,880
Speaker 2: So the whole crowd saw it go down.

651
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Speaker 4: They couldn't help but laugh out loud because security literally

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Speaker 4: he almost touched her butt and they smacked the hell

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Speaker 4: out of his hand away.

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Speaker 2: People were cracking up.

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Speaker 4: Dua was two in the zone to even notice the

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Speaker 4: butt grab or the almost butt grab. But the clip,

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Speaker 4: of course is going viral really fast, and honestly shout

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Speaker 4: out to her security because they saved her on that one.

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Speaker 4: People online are horrified, let's not grab people's butts, that

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Speaker 4: you can't grab their butt please, you know.

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Speaker 1: I'm supposed to do that. Wesa didn't do that when

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Speaker 1: I met d.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I'm glad you didn't.

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Speaker 1: I didn't do anything like that. No, he didn't grab

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Speaker 1: any boody, No, no, I never have.

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Speaker 5: Listen, I tried that when I met you, but Jason

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Speaker 5: blocked my hand.

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Speaker 1: No, no, actually his hand was already on.

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Speaker 2: It, so that's how he blocked it.

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that wasn't a block, that was him already firmly attached, right.

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Speaker 1: There was no room left for her hands. What did

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Speaker 1: you do wrong in this situation? I didn't stop him though.

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Speaker 1: That was the weird part.

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Speaker 2: He's just so lovable he gets away with it.

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Speaker 4: Charlie Sheen went on Dak Shepherd's Armchair Expert podcast and

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Speaker 4: apologized for being super rude to him twenty years ago,

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Speaker 4: which I mean, that's nice, better late than ever.

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Speaker 2: Charlie said that he was in a really bad mood

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Speaker 2: because he.

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Speaker 4: Was dealing with parenting very young kids on Halloween.

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Speaker 2: He said, try epping with kids, dude.

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Speaker 4: He called himself an a whole five thousand for how

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Speaker 4: he acted, said he carried guilt over this for years.

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Speaker 4: Dak said he didn't even remember the event, but he

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Speaker 4: accepted the apology.

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Speaker 2: Charlie said that.

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Speaker 4: Making amens is very important and that he didn't want

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Speaker 4: to live with regret over misteves that he did years ago.

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Speaker 2: So that's like one example of you carry this guilt

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Speaker 2: for you, I've.

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Speaker 4: Apologized for something and people like I didn't even remember that,

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Speaker 4: but still nice that he did that. And of course

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Speaker 4: he's going on a huge press store over his Netflix

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Speaker 4: documentary aka Charlie Sheen and it's really really good if

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Speaker 4: you have not watched it, And speaking of watching, if

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Speaker 4: you want to, I guess in the hands your listening experience.

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Speaker 4: We are live throughout the show on YouTube Fred Show

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Speaker 4: Radio as well as typing The Fred Show on demand

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Speaker 4: if you want to catch up on anything you missed

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Speaker 4: on the free I Hurt radio app.

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Speaker 3: Do you have what it takes to battle show biz?

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Speaker 3: Shelley in the show Biz Showdown Shelley, Good morning, Jocelynn, Hi, Joscelyn, good.

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Speaker 1: Morning, good morning. How you doing. How are you guys

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Speaker 1: doing doing? Great? Fun fact about you would.

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Speaker 9: Be A fun fact about me would be that I

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Speaker 9: am an Irish twin.

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Speaker 2: Okay, my sister and I are only ten months apart.

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Speaker 1: Oh damn, parents wasted no time, no time. What's her name?

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Speaker 1: My sister's name is Monica and watching there you go,

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Speaker 1: Hi to Monica if she's watching, she's really dedicated on YouTube.

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Speaker 8: Are not watching on so.

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Speaker 1: That's all right? No, we got more on the YouTube. Man,

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Speaker 1: Now we got a little low bunch of TV show going.

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Speaker 1: It's fine. One hundred and fifty bucks is the price.

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Speaker 1: Shelley has won one straight and over one thousand wins,

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Speaker 1: only seventy four losses. Five pop culture questions. Let's go,

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Speaker 1: good luck guys, all right, good luck, all right, Shell

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Speaker 1: We'll do expect you got to get the heck out

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Speaker 1: off to the sound booth, poop. She can not hear

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Speaker 1: the questions. Joscely Number one Southern Charms star Catherine Dennis

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Speaker 1: began serving a thirty day sentence for a dui arrest

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Speaker 1: last May, which network airs Southern Charm three two. I

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Speaker 1: don't know Who's surprised fans during her Austin City Limits

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Speaker 1: set by bringing out Shania Twain to sing that don't

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Speaker 1: impress Me.

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Speaker 9: Much, Oh my girl, Sabrina Carpenter.

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Speaker 1: It says, sign and that that would be impressive if

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Speaker 1: Shania Twain could sign that don't impress me much as well.

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Speaker 1: Speaking of that music festival, role Model also surprised fans

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Speaker 1: by bringing out this singer and Lizzie Maguire star namer

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Speaker 1: Oh Madison Bira spot of kissing her quarterback boyfriend before

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Speaker 1: his game over the weekend. Which NFL star is she dating?

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Speaker 9: Oh, he's from the La Charters three two?

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Speaker 1: Remember you got the team right? And which British talent

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Speaker 1: manager and former American Idol judged her in sixty six

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Speaker 1: a day, cow, that's a three all right? Not bad?

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Speaker 1: Not bad? Shelley will get her back from the boof

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Speaker 1: poof within enter within how to carry her in again?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Again? On her thing the bad thing? Uh? She got

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Speaker 1: a three? Three? Okay, she got a three? Question number one.

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Speaker 1: Southern Charms star Catherine Dennis began serving a thirty day

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Speaker 1: sentence for a dui arrest last May. Which network airs

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Speaker 1: Southern Charm Baravo yep, Who's surprise fans during her Austin

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Speaker 1: City Limits set by bringing out Shania Twain to saying

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Speaker 1: that don't impress me much. Sabria Carpenter Yeah, speaking of

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Speaker 1: that music festival role model also surprise fans by bringing

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Speaker 1: out this singer and Lizzie Maguire's star namer Hillary Duck Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Madison Bierro spot A kissing her quarterback boyfriend before his

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Speaker 1: game over the weekend. Which NFL star is she dating?

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Speaker 1: Justin Herbert that's right, and which British talent manager and

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Speaker 1: former American Idol judge turned sixty six today, Simon Cowell,

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Speaker 1: that's a five. That's a whim. Jocelyn, not bad at all,

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Speaker 1: but you're gonna have to say, my name is Jocelyn,

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Speaker 1: I got showed up on the Showdown, and you can't

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Speaker 1: hang with the gorilla go.

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Speaker 9: My name is Jocelyn.

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Speaker 10: I got showed up on the show Viz Showdown, and

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Speaker 10: I can't hang with Sigarilla.

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Speaker 1: That you Jocelyn, sister de Monica can't hang with the garilla.

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Speaker 7: Cat Cat.

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Speaker 1: Cat yet.

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Speaker 5: Boo boo, boo boo, get cat shut out to all

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Speaker 5: the Irish twas, Hey boot, this.

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Speaker 6: Is cat cat boooo caet cat.

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Speaker 1: That was a good one. Okay. I'm good. I'm good. No,

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Speaker 1: I'm good, I really am. No, I'm good. I just

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Speaker 1: I just need OCUGEN quickly, johns hang on a second,

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Speaker 1: Have a great day, Thanks for listening. Thank you guys

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Speaker 1: as well. All right, stay right there. Nice job, Shelly

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Speaker 1: so to straight two hundred bucks tomorrow win number one

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Speaker 1: thousand and sixty six. So good job and we'll see

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Speaker 1: you tomorrow. All right, sounds good, Okay, goodbye. Waiting by

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Speaker 1: the phone. Why does somebody get ghosted? We'll do that next.

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Speaker 1: Got the entertainer up board, headlines and fun fact all

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Speaker 1: coming up. Stay here more breadshell next