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Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the

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Speaker 1: Then turn the water the water got come? Come on

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Speaker 1: your bad uh huh, I shall will. Good morning everybody,

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Speaker 1: y'all listening to the voice, Come on dig me now,

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Speaker 1: one and only Steve Varvy got a radio show. Man,

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Speaker 1: old Man. Old Man symbolizes just one thing to me. Man,

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Speaker 1: It's just a constant remind of exactly how good God

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Speaker 1: has been to me over the years. And I thank

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Speaker 1: him for it too, because I realize every day that

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Speaker 1: I wake up that I would be nothing without him.

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Speaker 1: owe to him. Now. Have I made some mistakes along

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Speaker 1: continue to make mistakes along the way yep? Not as many,

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Speaker 1: of stuff I know better now. But you're still going

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Speaker 1: to make mistakes. Now. You know, hopefully I've limited the

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Speaker 1: amount of intentional errors in my life. I've wiped quite

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Speaker 1: because we're human, we're going to make a mistake every

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Speaker 1: That's the biggest trick that he uses. He makes you

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Speaker 1: think that if you keep stumbling, that you can't run

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Speaker 1: From time to time I watch him on TV, and

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Speaker 1: And see and then this thing called life, let me

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Speaker 1: I just had this conversation with my son and we

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Speaker 1: the laxadaisical attitude, the lack of purpose, to not understanding

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Speaker 1: God has all the answers if you form the relationship. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you're ladies and gentlemen, it is upon us a new day.

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Speaker 1: To Steve Harvey Morning Show. We are here grateful, full

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Speaker 1: of joy, but mostly gratitude, thanking him for another day,

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Speaker 1: another opportunity, another shot. Come on, man, I shall appreciate

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Speaker 1: the shot. The one and only Charley Strawberry, the Fabulous

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Speaker 1: Calling Farrel, the loud, the resulior mouth of the South Mississippi, Monica,

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Speaker 1: and Junior. This is whatever you Okay, this is tickling

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Speaker 1: you man? What's tickling me? J man? You know I've

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you I was married now, yeah, Drew speed

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Speaker 1: just worried about it. That ain't right. Everything example, though

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Speaker 1: you saying everything, he doesn't know what that is. Steve.

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Speaker 1: First of all, you got to greet her in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Then you gotta make her feel beautiful. Then you gotta

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Speaker 1: Then you gotta be of summer sistance. Yes, help her

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be in last place. You ain't ever in first?

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Speaker 1: Who you better minute stuff in here? Yeah? I love

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Speaker 1: Steve's marriage rule. Oh God, say you ain't ever if

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Speaker 1: it's eighty five fifteen. And your ass got the fifteen

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Speaker 1: Were your stuff at in the bathroom on one side? Uh?

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Speaker 1: In a corner, in a corner, Yeah, packed in tight.

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Speaker 1: She got all the rest of the counterspace everything. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's fifteen. You got fifteen percent of that counterspace too.

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Speaker 1: All right, Hang on, Junior, hang on. Coming up in

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Speaker 1: your morning off with the nephew who is not here,

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Speaker 1: but Junior is. And it's time to run that prank

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Speaker 1: back what you got, Junior? Your check bounced? Your check bounced?

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Speaker 1: Come on, hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach a Monica system.

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Speaker 1: Monica Please, who's calling? This is Brother de Sean. I'm calling.

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Speaker 1: Actually I'm a member Greater Commissionary Baptist Church. How can

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Speaker 1: I help you? Calling you? Actually about the offering? Now?

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Speaker 1: Did you? I know you paid your ties every Sunday? Okay?

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Speaker 1: Now you paid a love offering as well? Right? Yes?

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Speaker 1: I do? Okay, Now this past Sunday. I'm looking at

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Speaker 1: a check that you left us with the bank, right right,

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Speaker 1: I sure did. I wrote a check Sunday. Okay. Now

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Speaker 1: the check, ma'am was two hundred and fifty dollars? Am

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Speaker 1: I correct? Right? Right? I wrote two checks for my

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Speaker 1: wanted to tell you is that I hate to be

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Speaker 1: a bar of bad news. But your check that you

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Speaker 1: wrote for two fifty actually has bounced. And wait a minute,

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Speaker 1: you say, in my check bounce for two hundred and

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Speaker 1: This is Nephew timing from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Donnie and Columbia says, I'm married to a

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Speaker 1: I couldn't find it. Okay, about you? It's about him? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so bold, and I want to talk to her about it.

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Speaker 1: Who's right me or my husband? Well, it's not a

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00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 1: matter who's right or wrong. You have different viewpoints. Your

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Speaker 1: husband don't want to discuss it with his daughter. M

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00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:03,320
Speaker 1: He just don't. Now that you're the mother, y'all got

428
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 1: a different relationship. You probably can't. But he don't want it.

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00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:12,040
Speaker 1: He just you out there letting that board. Come on,

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00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 1: what is it? This is this his daughter? You should

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00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:18,680
Speaker 1: go and talk to her. If that's how you feel,

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00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:25,560
Speaker 1: you go talk to her. But he's not. Yeah, you

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00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 1: can do that, okay with that hey, little girl, because

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Speaker 1: that's how Yeah. But me and that little boy, we're

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00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:37,639
Speaker 1: gonna have a conversation. Yeah, you all appeared my damn pool.

436
00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 1: You ain't got no pool money. All right, thank you, Sielo.

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Speaker 1: Great advice. Coming up at the top of the hour.

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Speaker 1: We'll have some entertainment news for you right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening Stry Morning Show. According to the Black Information Network,

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Speaker 1: calls are being made to the Royal family to return

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00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 1: South Africa's large just clear cut diamond, the Great Star

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00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:07,120
Speaker 1: of Africa. The Clonan diamond is currently mounted in the

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00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:11,240
Speaker 1: royal scepter belonging to the Queen. The diamond was mined

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00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 1: in South Africa back in nineteen oh five, and the

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00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 1: Great Star was handed over to the British Royal family

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00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 1: by the colonial rulers of Africa. A South African activist

447
00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:25,720
Speaker 1: told CNN the Clonu diamond must be returned to South

448
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 1: Africa with immediate effect. The minerals of our country and

449
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 1: other countries continue to benefit Britain at the expense of

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00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 1: our people. So there that's another true statement. Give it back,

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00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 1: give it back, you stole it. Give watch I just

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00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:51,440
Speaker 1: you know what you know when people have an opportunity

453
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 1: to do something decent and they don't do it, and

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00:29:57,000 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 1: they find a justifiable reason to undo a dastardly deed

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00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 1: or an evil act. And you get a chance to

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00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:12,520
Speaker 1: undo it, you should do it. Yeah, just to send

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00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:15,800
Speaker 1: a clear message. If you took that diamond out of

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00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:19,480
Speaker 1: that a scepter, what do that hurts your ass? Yes,

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00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 1: it's really a damn stick. Yeah, right, And you're taking

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00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 1: this incredible, rare resource and put it on a stick

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00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 1: so somebody can you can call it accept It's a

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00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 1: damn cane, right, But accept accept isn't isn't a crown?

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Speaker 1: Is it is? That? Acceptor is a stick? I mean

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Speaker 1: that's all it is. Man, What a great gesture it

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00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 1: would be. But you know, I'm gonna tell you something, man,

466
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 1: people when they commit a dastardly act, what they want

467
00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:00,320
Speaker 1: you to do is wash it away in for get it.

468
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 1: Slavery is a prime example. It's like you want us

469
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 1: to act as though it never happened. You in Texas

470
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:12,480
Speaker 1: trying to get it removed from the history books, but

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00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 1: you can feel clean. You don't want them to teach

472
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 1: black history in this country. They want everybody forget it.

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00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 1: And walk away. But you keep reminding us that we

474
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 1: were bought here as slaves. You don't put us in

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00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 1: the constitution. You don't allow us to participate in the

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00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:38,600
Speaker 1: constitution openly and freely, all of us. And you wanted

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00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:42,760
Speaker 1: to just be okay, man, If I told you what

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00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 1: the Roman Catholic Church owns in terms of property worldwide

479
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 1: as a beneficiary of colonialization, it would alarm you. There

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00:31:56,200 --> 00:32:01,520
Speaker 1: are places in Africa that African countries are not to

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00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:05,080
Speaker 1: build and own land own because it belongs to the

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Speaker 1: Catholic Church, the Vatican. This is a fact. I know

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00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 1: it for a fact, And if you ask them for it,

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00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 1: they act like you're even talking. And when you get

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00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 1: a chance, when it's brought to your attention and listening,

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00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:26,560
Speaker 1: there's this land right here that is in the middle

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00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 1: of an African free country, and it has the paperwork

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Speaker 1: owned by the Vatican, which is a religious organization supposed

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Speaker 1: to be built on Christianity. Can we have this land

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00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 1: back so that people are allowed to live on it?

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00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 1: In FLOORI should do things? No why? And you do

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00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:55,480
Speaker 1: nothing with it? And I've never seen an oppressor do

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00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 1: the right thing, all right? And other entertainment news Steve,

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Speaker 1: Tiffany Hattish and Airy Spears are no longer fighting a

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00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:07,000
Speaker 1: child molestation lawsuit against them because the Jane Doe who

496
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:10,840
Speaker 1: filed the suit has now dismissed it for good. Per

497
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 1: New Court Docks, the plantiff asked the judge to dismiss

498
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 1: the case with prejudice, meaning it cannot be refiled. You'll

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00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 1: you'll recall the case involved allegations the two comedians groomed

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00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 1: and molested two children several years ago. The woman who

501
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 1: sued both of them has also issued a statement saying, quote,

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00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:33,560
Speaker 1: my family and I have known Tiffany Hattish for many years,

503
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 1: and we now know that she would never harm me

504
00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:39,520
Speaker 1: or my brother to help anyone else do anything that

505
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 1: could harm us. We wish Tiffany the best and are

506
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 1: glad that we can put We can all put this

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Speaker 1: behind us. If you recall, Jane Doe alleged that Tiffany

508
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 1: and her film scene where she stimulated oral sex with

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Speaker 1: a sandwich, and also claimed her brother was used for

510
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 1: a skip with Airy Spears in which he was the

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Speaker 1: subject of a pedophile So that case has been dropped, dismissed. Well,

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00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 1: that's good news for timmany berries. That's career saving m hmm, yeah, absolutely,

513
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:16,239
Speaker 1: because that was career ending allegations for yeah, yeah, but

514
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 1: for them, and now just let that be a lesson

515
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 1: to anybody out there that think they please understand just

516
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:27,879
Speaker 1: you know, you know, I mean, man, just check yourself. Now.

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00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:31,120
Speaker 1: I'm glad Tiffany's cleared and all like that. There was

518
00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 1: no mention of Ari, but the case has been dropped

519
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 1: against him too, so you know, they get to go

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00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:40,120
Speaker 1: with their life and hopefully that's that's the case. Yeah,

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00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:44,000
Speaker 1: good for them, Yeah, yeah, very good. Don't get cleared

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00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:47,719
Speaker 1: and then do something else stupid. Yeah, I'll come back

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00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:54,640
Speaker 1: with another skit. We've we've seen this before. Yeah, if

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00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 1: the writer of Chocolate Factor, when he was acquitted the

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00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 1: first time, if he would have just went somewhere and

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00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:09,800
Speaker 1: sat down, he would be free today. If you go

527
00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:11,879
Speaker 1: back and do the same thing, you get to quit

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00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 1: it up a mystical Okay, br come on, man, it's like, hell,

529
00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 1: how many warning shot you need? Exactly? Steve? All right, well,

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00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 1: coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, Why is

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00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:33,839
Speaker 1: laughter good for the soul? We'll talk about that right

532
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:39,359
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to all right, we love us,

533
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 1: We love being black. We know how we do. Steve.

534
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:45,840
Speaker 1: I know you've seen this video of the two guys

535
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:54,719
Speaker 1: laughing at the table, man, you understand this year it's

536
00:35:54,960 --> 00:36:02,160
Speaker 1: my favorite video over the year. The big dudes laughing

537
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 1: at this outdoor place with this little bit ass furniture

538
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:11,640
Speaker 1: that really ain't for them, that little wrought iron furniture

539
00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 1: set from my kill. Yeah, when they started beating on

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00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:19,360
Speaker 1: each other laughing, and then the one failed, but the

541
00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 1: dude kept beating him. But his bick name is sex dog.

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00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:33,919
Speaker 1: The waiting boys was leaning on each other laughing. See

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00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:39,480
Speaker 1: I've laughed at hard before. Yes, I know that it's

544
00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 1: so good for you. Man. I see you know what, man,

545
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:47,160
Speaker 1: people don't realize what a laughter does. But a hard

546
00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:52,200
Speaker 1: laugh absolutely first of all, laughter releases and dolphins through

547
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 1: your body. That makes you feel better. And dolphins are

548
00:36:56,120 --> 00:37:00,520
Speaker 1: the basis behind drugs. They tap into that or in

549
00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 1: a person's body, except illegal drugs taken way too far. Laughter.

550
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 1: You can actually live with laughter and make yourself a

551
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:13,960
Speaker 1: better person versus the drug that message with your enduredents

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00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 1: or laughter Mann Comedian, Oh my god, man, I just

553
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 1: don't even I can't even tell you what it has

554
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:24,600
Speaker 1: been to me. It's like such a gift to have

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00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:27,960
Speaker 1: to be able to make people laugh because I actually

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00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:33,600
Speaker 1: have the ability to cheer myself up. Yeah you know

557
00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 1: what I mean, I can turn some of these jokes inward.

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00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 1: And I'm telling you, man, because I have a different

559
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:42,480
Speaker 1: sense of humor, so I have the ability to laugh

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00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:46,279
Speaker 1: at stuff that most people will not find funny. Because

561
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 1: if I'm having one of those troubling days and your

562
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 1: ass could just be tagged you in and don't even

563
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:56,520
Speaker 1: know why. Yeah, I mean, I'm telling you right now,

564
00:37:57,280 --> 00:37:59,239
Speaker 1: I'll look at you and find something wrong with you

565
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:02,360
Speaker 1: and focus on it, man, and be over here, Holland,

566
00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:06,160
Speaker 1: I'm talking about raking stuff off the tape like they

567
00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:12,640
Speaker 1: were they were times? How many times? Video? Oh, I've

568
00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:15,239
Speaker 1: watched the video prop thirty times. I watched last night

569
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:17,440
Speaker 1: because I got out of work late last night. It

570
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:19,200
Speaker 1: was dark, you know, I go to work in the dark.

571
00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 1: I get off his stark. I was driving home and

572
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:24,919
Speaker 1: a film crew was followed and I just started playing

573
00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:27,200
Speaker 1: that video on them, two dudes last and then I

574
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:30,359
Speaker 1: showed it to them. They were so tired, ass couldn't laugh.

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00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:36,480
Speaker 1: Now coming up at thirty four minutes, after the hour,

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00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:39,399
Speaker 1: we're gonna check your voicemail. Call us eight seven seven

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00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:42,800
Speaker 1: twenty nine. Steve. We'll take your voice messages right after this.

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00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:49,360
Speaker 1: You're listening show, all right, It is time now, guys

579
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:51,920
Speaker 1: to check Steve's voicemail, and if you want to leave

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00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:54,839
Speaker 1: Steve a voicemail a message, call him eight seven seven

581
00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:58,719
Speaker 1: twenty nine. Steve. Here we go, Steve, get ready for

582
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:01,840
Speaker 1: this one. It's a it's a color from Texas. Pretty racist,

583
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:07,320
Speaker 1: very upset about our discussion on voting Texas. Listen to

584
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 1: what y'all saying about all you black Republicans and blah

585
00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 1: blah blah, y'all, some racists like you think voting for

586
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:19,000
Speaker 1: a hair sniffing pool is gonna benefit your race. Only

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00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:23,719
Speaker 1: even if that was true, you're racist completely. That's all

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00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:26,440
Speaker 1: I got to say. Well, my reaction to you is

589
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:31,000
Speaker 1: real simple. If you think I'm racist, my comments are

590
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:34,799
Speaker 1: in reaction to what has been done and being done

591
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:39,400
Speaker 1: to us continually. And you're the bigger racist because you

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00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:42,520
Speaker 1: think we are to be okay and content and you

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00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 1: want us to think the way you think. And if

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00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:48,920
Speaker 1: we don't think the way you think, accept your policy

595
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:51,960
Speaker 1: the way you write it. Out, then something wrong with us?

596
00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 1: Now it ain't nothing wrong with us. Now we have

597
00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:57,440
Speaker 1: every right to feel the way we feel because you

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00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:01,279
Speaker 1: have pushed us this way. I would love not to considerate,

599
00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:04,840
Speaker 1: but people like you won't let me. And then you

600
00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:08,440
Speaker 1: have the audacity to turn the term racist around on me?

601
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:11,879
Speaker 1: Are you for real? And I wish they didn't beep

602
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:14,799
Speaker 1: out what you said because I got some words too. See,

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00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 1: I ain't that dude, careful careful, so your potass ain't

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00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:23,240
Speaker 1: got the appreciate me or understand me. I really don't

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00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:26,279
Speaker 1: give a damn. As a matter of fact, I could

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00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 1: give less than a bleep bleep. No, we have another

607
00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:34,719
Speaker 1: color you know up in here. Call my email back

608
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:37,799
Speaker 1: to straighten me out, and don't think your ass gonna

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00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:42,880
Speaker 1: get some back, all right? This caller's name is walk B.

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00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 1: As we move on, um, he wants to talk about

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00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:48,319
Speaker 1: the Strawberry letter, the one we did last week about

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00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:51,399
Speaker 1: no touching in public. Hey, see Harvard and the crew,

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00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:53,960
Speaker 1: how you're doing this? Walk Beat from Georgia. I just

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00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 1: wanted to leave a comment on this letter about lady

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00:40:58,080 --> 00:41:02,160
Speaker 1: dating her pastor and man, and you said it, Steve

616
00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:06,400
Speaker 1: absolutely right, as we all listening to this, and it

617
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:09,720
Speaker 1: is so disgusting and just so as I'm riding alone

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00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:13,880
Speaker 1: listening man, and it's just you know, I mean, no shame.

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Speaker 1: She has no value for herself and just you know,

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00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:23,480
Speaker 1: no no respect of God him being a pastor, and

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Speaker 1: apparely he can't be called by God, you know, he

622
00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:30,200
Speaker 1: can't be a pastor after God's on all like the

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00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:33,160
Speaker 1: Bible's faith. He probably just put himself in that position.

624
00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:37,400
Speaker 1: Or maybe he may be a naunted but however, I mean,

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00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:41,399
Speaker 1: he just abusing his title, and I mean doing all

626
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:44,880
Speaker 1: the things heat doing. And then she she really acts

627
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:47,680
Speaker 1: as if she's getting a thrill out of all this,

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00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:52,279
Speaker 1: you know. And I pray and hope her husband is

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Speaker 1: listening to the letter, and I hope that pastor's wife

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Speaker 1: is listening to your radio show. And day soon we

631
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:04,399
Speaker 1: found out and fusted for it because it's just so despicable.

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Speaker 1: But I just wanted to say that y'all have a

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Speaker 1: great day, okay, Wal. I appreciate you, man. I agree

634
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 1: with everything you say. Back to the races. One more

635
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:19,960
Speaker 1: letter on the people. People just touch the nerve, no

636
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:23,399
Speaker 1: touching in public. Mellow Yellow had a comment. Steve Hey

637
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:27,879
Speaker 1: Steve mellow Yellow here about the strawberry. Later the lady

638
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 1: with the pastor they both married. I think she wants

639
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:33,400
Speaker 1: her husband to find out. That's why she wrote to

640
00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:36,279
Speaker 1: the letter just say hey, you never know. I don't

641
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:39,800
Speaker 1: know why, but anything's possible. I guess it is what

642
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:43,319
Speaker 1: that anything is possible. Man, It's just uh. I thought

643
00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 1: that letter was just lady, are you hiding your understanding?

644
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 1: There was there was no level of righteousness right inclosing

645
00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 1: to the race. They called back to the first. I

646
00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:02,520
Speaker 1: don't give a damn what you talking about. And I'm

647
00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:05,320
Speaker 1: gonna keep saying what I'm saying. I don't give a

648
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 1: damn how you feel about me. With Joe, racist ass

649
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:12,759
Speaker 1: sitting up in here creating all the situation here, we're

650
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:15,399
Speaker 1: supposed to be all right with it. Well we ain't. Yeah,

651
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:19,200
Speaker 1: and notice a he didn't leave a name, coward ass,

652
00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:23,320
Speaker 1: just like all the rest of the hide behind you.

653
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:27,520
Speaker 1: All right, all right, I think you got it all out.

654
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:29,719
Speaker 1: I think I ain't got all trust me, I ain't.

655
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:33,279
Speaker 1: That's coming up and play the call again if you

656
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:36,400
Speaker 1: want to. I got mote no coming up next. It

657
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:39,120
Speaker 1: is a junior in for the nephew with today's Frank

658
00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:45,920
Speaker 1: phone call. Right after this You're listening show coming up

659
00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:48,359
Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, about four minutes after.

660
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 1: It's my strawberry letter for today, and the subject is

661
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 1: my grown step son has to go. All right, pretty

662
00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:58,759
Speaker 1: self explanatory. Right. We'll get into it though in a

663
00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:01,239
Speaker 1: little in a little while, but right now it is

664
00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 1: time for Junior and for the nephew. And he's got

665
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:08,279
Speaker 1: today's Frank phone called Junior. Yes on the menu, he

666
00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 1: is today nephew left it force. Some people always ask

667
00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:17,040
Speaker 1: this question, guess who moving next door? Oh? I just

668
00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:21,439
Speaker 1: guess you already know. Guess who moving next door? Let's

669
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 1: run it can't hello, I'm trying to reach uh mister

670
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:30,759
Speaker 1: is it Dolphin? Dolan? Dolan Dolan, mister Dolan answer? How

671
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:35,279
Speaker 1: are you doing? My name is uh Clifford Cooper. Yeah,

672
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:37,840
Speaker 1: what can do for you? Mister? Uh? You you you

673
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:42,520
Speaker 1: live at um uh check you out drive? Why do

674
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:45,800
Speaker 1: you want to know that? Well? Actually, I'm at sixteen

675
00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:48,920
Speaker 1: twenty three. I bought I bought the uh, I actually

676
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:51,680
Speaker 1: bought the house that was for sale next door to you. Okay,

677
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:55,160
Speaker 1: well congratulations, but how did you get my number? Actually?

678
00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:58,400
Speaker 1: The realtor told me that he had your number because

679
00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:00,360
Speaker 1: I said I wanted to reach out to the neighbor's

680
00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 1: next door. And he told me that mister Dolan was

681
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:06,560
Speaker 1: actually the person next door and and uh, he didn't

682
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:09,759
Speaker 1: think you would mind me me actually getting the number. Okay, well,

683
00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:12,279
Speaker 1: I'll talk with the real or layer. But what can

684
00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:13,880
Speaker 1: I do for you, sir? What? What? What? I What

685
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:15,759
Speaker 1: I wanted to know is do do you have any

686
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:18,840
Speaker 1: problems like living next door to to to black people?

687
00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, what did you just ask me? I mean,

688
00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 1: like like I you know, like I said, I just

689
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 1: bought the place next door, and I wanted to know,

690
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:28,880
Speaker 1: do you have any problems you know, living next door

691
00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 1: to black people? Uh? No, sir, I have no problem.

692
00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:36,320
Speaker 1: I'm assuming you're a black man, and uh I have

693
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:39,560
Speaker 1: no problem with that. I judge people by their actions,

694
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:41,719
Speaker 1: not their color. Okay, now do you do you do

695
00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:45,160
Speaker 1: you have any any black people experience? Well? Yeah, I've

696
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:48,239
Speaker 1: worked with, gone to school with, has several friends of

697
00:45:48,640 --> 00:45:51,920
Speaker 1: many different ethnicities. Uh but what what is it? What?

698
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:55,000
Speaker 1: What's this? How is this relative? Well? You know, like

699
00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:56,839
Speaker 1: I said, I'm gonna be I'm gonna be living next

700
00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:59,440
Speaker 1: to you, and I'm just making sure that you know,

701
00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 1: you and I can coincide or coexists rather on the

702
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:05,880
Speaker 1: same block and not really have a problem with one

703
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:07,759
Speaker 1: another basis. But what I'm trying to say, well, do

704
00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:10,600
Speaker 1: you have a problem with white people? Uh? No, No, No,

705
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 1: I don't have a problem white people. I'm cool. I'm

706
00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:16,319
Speaker 1: just I'm just trying to make sure you know, I mean,

707
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 1: because we and you already have a bit of a

708
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:22,200
Speaker 1: problem already, you know we do. Yeah, yeah, we have

709
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:25,719
Speaker 1: a problem. I mean, I'm bothering me while on net work.

710
00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:29,279
Speaker 1: What's your problem? Okay? Well my problem is this is that,

711
00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:32,800
Speaker 1: you know, after purchasing the property, I went downtown to

712
00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:36,960
Speaker 1: the city and actually looked at, you know, the layout

713
00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:39,160
Speaker 1: of this entire property. And when I look at it,

714
00:46:39,560 --> 00:46:43,200
Speaker 1: you actually twenty five close to thirty feet over the

715
00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:46,960
Speaker 1: property line. Well, now you look at the wrong map. No, no,

716
00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:50,320
Speaker 1: the fifth that separates my backyard from your backyard. You

717
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:54,600
Speaker 1: have thirty feet over that. That's impossible, you know, listen,

718
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:56,279
Speaker 1: and I know this. Let me let me know. I'm

719
00:46:56,280 --> 00:46:59,160
Speaker 1: gonna tell you. Look at you got a jacouzi in

720
00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:02,560
Speaker 1: your backyard. So you've been giving spine on me. No,

721
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:05,279
Speaker 1: I'm been spined on you, sir. I'm just telling you

722
00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:08,359
Speaker 1: close to that, not far from that fiz line. Don't

723
00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:10,640
Speaker 1: don't you have a jacouzi there well? As a matter

724
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:13,560
Speaker 1: of fact, I do, yes. Okay, So the pool is,

725
00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:16,319
Speaker 1: the pool is all packed. But what if I if

726
00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:19,040
Speaker 1: I pushed that fifth line back thirty and actually get

727
00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:22,879
Speaker 1: the property that I'm supposed to have pretty much own? Yo? Yo,

728
00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:26,880
Speaker 1: you you'll jacouz. You'll have to nacy. Okay, let me

729
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:29,359
Speaker 1: tell you something. I've been in that house for ten years.

730
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:32,360
Speaker 1: We put that fence up when we moved in, and

731
00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:35,000
Speaker 1: it was based on the property line that was that

732
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:38,279
Speaker 1: was the set when ten years ago. I don't know

733
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:41,280
Speaker 1: what you're looking at, but my fence is not moving.

734
00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:46,640
Speaker 1: My jacuzi is not moving, and there's there's no changing that. Okay, well,

735
00:47:46,719 --> 00:47:48,319
Speaker 1: let me let me let me. I'm glad you give

736
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:51,799
Speaker 1: your voice what you wanted. The boy nine none none

737
00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:54,000
Speaker 1: you hear you, hear Old Clifford. I let me tell

738
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:57,280
Speaker 1: you so, Uh, either we're gonna take the fifth line

739
00:47:57,360 --> 00:48:00,600
Speaker 1: and move it where supposed to be. We're gonna put

740
00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:03,960
Speaker 1: a gate between uh two yards, and I'm gonna be

741
00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:06,520
Speaker 1: able to come and get in mis Jakouzy and pool

742
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:08,960
Speaker 1: whatever I want to. All right, let's let's let's let's

743
00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 1: talk about this. First of all, there's gonna not gonna

744
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 1: be a gate, okay. And as far as you just

745
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:17,719
Speaker 1: coming over and getting into Jacuzi at will, I got

746
00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:20,640
Speaker 1: a real problem with that. Uh, you've called me at work.

747
00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:22,960
Speaker 1: I'm on the job and I'm having to listen to

748
00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:29,080
Speaker 1: this on a future neighbor who's making weird claims about

749
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:32,520
Speaker 1: how he owns part of my plan. Get back, I

750
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:35,839
Speaker 1: owned the Jacuzy s No, No, you did not pay

751
00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:39,320
Speaker 1: for that Jacuzi. You did not pay for that defense.

752
00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:41,839
Speaker 1: You just showed up making Ah he called me at work,

753
00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:44,880
Speaker 1: and and and and and then you hand me some

754
00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:49,319
Speaker 1: story with no evidence. I'll go down to city Hall

755
00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:52,520
Speaker 1: and look at those papers myself, because I don't first

756
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:56,399
Speaker 1: word you're saying. I've been there for ten years. I've

757
00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:59,920
Speaker 1: had ten other neighbors in that backyard. You don't cycle

758
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:02,960
Speaker 1: through once a year, I swear, And I've never had

759
00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:07,080
Speaker 1: any problems with him until you come along. This is them. Okay. Well,

760
00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:09,720
Speaker 1: I tell you what, there's something you need to understand.

761
00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:11,920
Speaker 1: You got a new black neighbor, and you got a

762
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:15,400
Speaker 1: new black neighbor that owns party owns your jakouzi because

763
00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:17,680
Speaker 1: you're over the fence line, all right, And as soon

764
00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:19,920
Speaker 1: as I move in, I'm coming and I'm getting in

765
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:23,359
Speaker 1: my jakouzi. You would the man, you know what I mean,

766
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:28,200
Speaker 1: don't move into that. I'm gonna use the jacuzi on Monday,

767
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:31,800
Speaker 1: Wenday and Friday. You get it on Tuesday, Thursday and

768
00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:35,759
Speaker 1: the weekend. That's it because blazons, damn jakouzi belongs to me,

769
00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:38,480
Speaker 1: the jakouzi as a home by a black man and

770
00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:41,480
Speaker 1: a white man, and we're gonna get along. Bladam live.

771
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:44,560
Speaker 1: Look here, let listen hear you for you to dictate

772
00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:48,120
Speaker 1: what days I get to use my jacuzi because it's

773
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:51,479
Speaker 1: not coming over to mynd. Just you don't cry. It's

774
00:49:51,560 --> 00:49:55,160
Speaker 1: our jakouzi because you you built it. That's the only

775
00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:57,759
Speaker 1: thing that makes it yours. It being on my part

776
00:49:57,800 --> 00:50:01,120
Speaker 1: of the property I was making mind. So therefore we're

777
00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 1: gonna share this damn jacouzi and we're gonna try to

778
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:08,480
Speaker 1: get jacouzie. I'm passing your across the fence. I will

779
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:10,840
Speaker 1: be there on Monday's Wednesdays and you ain't gonna be

780
00:50:11,120 --> 00:50:14,320
Speaker 1: I'll be standing out my jacuzie with a shotgun. You

781
00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:17,799
Speaker 1: take one step over to my property, my property line.

782
00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:20,600
Speaker 1: I swear if I jump through this phone, I'd wring

783
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:23,239
Speaker 1: your neck. You know who's gonna be in there with me? Who?

784
00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:25,560
Speaker 1: Who the gonna be in there? I'm gonna have cutting

785
00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:34,239
Speaker 1: hell in the damn jacuz Who cutting hell? My co worker? What? Hey, man,

786
00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:37,400
Speaker 1: this is nephew. Tell me man, you your boy cutting

787
00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:42,720
Speaker 1: hewn got me to plank phone? Call you this? Oh oh,

788
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:48,440
Speaker 1: pay back to it. We got you, man, We got you.

789
00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 1: You running good? Hey, I got one more thing to

790
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:52,799
Speaker 1: ask you, man, What is the baddest and I mean

791
00:50:52,880 --> 00:50:57,360
Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the last the Steve Harvey's

792
00:50:57,680 --> 00:51:08,520
Speaker 1: Radio Shop. Wow, I know I wasn't expecting that much.

793
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 1: He just he'd just be throwing them out here. Still

794
00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:15,080
Speaker 1: he's still walking around with no injuries. I just don't

795
00:51:15,160 --> 00:51:23,960
Speaker 1: understand that. Yeah. Well, you know what is Sickle Cell

796
00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:26,239
Speaker 1: Awareness Month? So tonight I do have a town hall

797
00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:30,040
Speaker 1: tonight I will be discussing with people, uh about living

798
00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:31,640
Speaker 1: with sickle cell We're doing it. You can go to

799
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:35,360
Speaker 1: kers hope dot org slash town hall to register. I

800
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 1: want to see everybody in there. We're gonna start taking

801
00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:40,359
Speaker 1: a change to this thing. Man, I've done something. I've

802
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:42,800
Speaker 1: I've ten x my mission. That's what I did. U

803
00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:46,000
Speaker 1: I ten xt it. I'm gonna start creating a lifestyle

804
00:51:46,280 --> 00:51:48,719
Speaker 1: for people with sickle cell. Man, I'm ten X in

805
00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:50,680
Speaker 1: the game. That's what I'm gonna do. So it starts

806
00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:54,320
Speaker 1: tonight with the town hall. I'll be done. Me just

807
00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:56,759
Speaker 1: have a bigger vision of just growing it ten times,

808
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:59,560
Speaker 1: bigger times. Oh yeah, yeah, man, that's what we're gonna

809
00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:02,080
Speaker 1: be doing. We'll be doing these town halls once a month.

810
00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:06,040
Speaker 1: H I know, excuse me for interrupting. I know you're

811
00:52:06,080 --> 00:52:08,479
Speaker 1: gonna talk about sickle cell and that's a great cause.

812
00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:11,239
Speaker 1: Will you take any questions on your new marriage, because

813
00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:15,160
Speaker 1: you know people want to know. Well, if it's gonna

814
00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:17,960
Speaker 1: talk about me going into a crisis on the marriage,

815
00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:24,440
Speaker 1: didn't that's my it? Well, his spokesperson just said, no, No,

816
00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:28,239
Speaker 1: you're not taking any questions on your marriage because you

817
00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:32,879
Speaker 1: don't know that you're talking about. Right, Yeah, I can't

818
00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:35,960
Speaker 1: take no. I don't know what I'm talking about. I

819
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:42,759
Speaker 1: have probably fifteen. Congratulations Junior on your tight All right.

820
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:45,239
Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is a Strawberry letter and the

821
00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:49,160
Speaker 1: subject is my grown step son has to go. We'll

822
00:52:49,200 --> 00:52:54,080
Speaker 1: get into it right after this you're listening to show.

823
00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:58,279
Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if

824
00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:03,680
Speaker 1: you need advice on relationship, sex, dating, work, parenting, whatever

825
00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:08,239
Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM

826
00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:11,839
Speaker 1: dot com and click that button that says Strawberry Letter,

827
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:14,439
Speaker 1: Submit Strawberry Letter, and we could be reading your letter

828
00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:17,080
Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're gonna read this

829
00:53:17,200 --> 00:53:19,279
Speaker 1: one right here here that you never know it could

830
00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:22,279
Speaker 1: be yours. Yeah, ladies and gentlemen, it is time for

831
00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:26,200
Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter. Well, my great friend Shirley Strawberry. Okay,

832
00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:31,040
Speaker 1: my great friend too, Junior. Thank you. Subject my ground

833
00:53:31,120 --> 00:53:35,279
Speaker 1: stepson has to go. Ju, Shirley and Steve. I'm a

834
00:53:35,400 --> 00:53:38,680
Speaker 1: successful thirty four year old married man and I love

835
00:53:38,920 --> 00:53:42,279
Speaker 1: my wife, but I'm miserable at home. My wife and

836
00:53:42,400 --> 00:53:45,080
Speaker 1: I met just before COVID and we've been married for

837
00:53:45,239 --> 00:53:48,960
Speaker 1: one year. Our marriage was great until recently, and it's

838
00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:51,520
Speaker 1: because of my twenty eight year old stepson that won't

839
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:54,520
Speaker 1: move out of our home. My wife is sixteen years

840
00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:57,520
Speaker 1: older than I am. When we met her man child

841
00:53:57,719 --> 00:53:59,719
Speaker 1: was living with her, and she told me it was

842
00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:04,640
Speaker 1: a temporary arrangement only during the pandemic. By the time

843
00:54:04,719 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 1: we got married and I moved in, my stepson was

844
00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:11,400
Speaker 1: still living there and his pregnant girlfriend had moved in again.

845
00:54:11,680 --> 00:54:14,440
Speaker 1: My wife said that this was only temporary until their

846
00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:18,320
Speaker 1: baby was born. Shortly after I moved in, my stepson

847
00:54:18,480 --> 00:54:21,480
Speaker 1: lost his job and didn't tell us. We overheard his

848
00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:25,600
Speaker 1: girlfriend yelling about him getting fired, and then she moved out.

849
00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:29,120
Speaker 1: I understood that he might be ashamed, so I tried

850
00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:31,480
Speaker 1: to give him a pep talk. He bowed up at

851
00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:35,520
Speaker 1: me and we almost got in a fight. I stay

852
00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:37,839
Speaker 1: on my wife about pushing him out of the nest,

853
00:54:37,920 --> 00:54:42,080
Speaker 1: and she's always she always has an excuse for allowing

854
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:44,799
Speaker 1: him to stay. I hate to come home and see

855
00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:47,800
Speaker 1: another man fixing a plate of food that I've worked

856
00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:50,400
Speaker 1: hard for. I hate to see another man lying on

857
00:54:50,560 --> 00:54:54,439
Speaker 1: my couch watching reality shows instead of looking for a job.

858
00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:57,600
Speaker 1: I'm so glad that I didn't sell my house when

859
00:54:57,640 --> 00:54:59,960
Speaker 1: we got married, because I may have to go back

860
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:03,080
Speaker 1: back to my house and let her manchild run this one.

861
00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:05,480
Speaker 1: The fighting is getting to me and I told my

862
00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:08,680
Speaker 1: wife that I might be moving out soon. She broke

863
00:55:08,760 --> 00:55:11,320
Speaker 1: down in tears, but still didn't have sense enough to

864
00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:14,040
Speaker 1: agree that it's time for her son to leave. Should

865
00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:16,560
Speaker 1: I move out and let my wife figure out if

866
00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 1: she wants me or her son. Well, clearly she wants

867
00:55:21,560 --> 00:55:24,560
Speaker 1: you because she married you. She just doesn't know how

868
00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:28,239
Speaker 1: to handle this situation with her son. As a mom,

869
00:55:28,440 --> 00:55:32,040
Speaker 1: she's struggling with kicking her son out. You know, she's thinking,

870
00:55:32,120 --> 00:55:34,400
Speaker 1: this is my baby and all that. You know, I

871
00:55:34,440 --> 00:55:36,160
Speaker 1: don't want to kick him out. Where's he gonna go?

872
00:55:36,719 --> 00:55:41,960
Speaker 1: And the mom isn't putting her marriage first. But in

873
00:55:42,080 --> 00:55:45,120
Speaker 1: the letter you did say he's twenty eight years old, right,

874
00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:50,359
Speaker 1: so he's good and grown. Normally I would say don't leave.

875
00:55:50,400 --> 00:55:53,680
Speaker 1: I would say don't leave your own home. But in

876
00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:57,600
Speaker 1: this case, since you have another home and just to

877
00:55:57,719 --> 00:56:00,400
Speaker 1: have some peace you don't like the fighting, I say go.

878
00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:04,000
Speaker 1: Your wife will will put her sorry, grown son out.

879
00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:07,600
Speaker 1: She's not gonna do it until you see she sees

880
00:56:07,680 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 1: that you mean business, okay, And if you leave, that'll

881
00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:13,279
Speaker 1: show her that you mean business. You know, you want

882
00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:16,600
Speaker 1: him out of there. I would I think it would

883
00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:18,600
Speaker 1: be a little different and perhaps you'd be a little

884
00:56:18,640 --> 00:56:22,720
Speaker 1: more patient and understanding if he wasn't so lazy and disrespectful.

885
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:25,279
Speaker 1: Not to mention he tried to fight you. You were

886
00:56:25,400 --> 00:56:28,080
Speaker 1: trying to help him. He's not even trying to help

887
00:56:28,160 --> 00:56:31,160
Speaker 1: himself at this point, and he won't because he's got

888
00:56:31,239 --> 00:56:33,680
Speaker 1: it too good at home with mom right now. And

889
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:36,960
Speaker 1: and this is him trying to mark his territory because

890
00:56:37,040 --> 00:56:39,920
Speaker 1: he was there first. He doesn't realize the dynamics have

891
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:43,040
Speaker 1: changed now since the marriage. Your wife should have let

892
00:56:43,120 --> 00:56:45,799
Speaker 1: him know that things would be different because she has

893
00:56:45,840 --> 00:56:50,000
Speaker 1: a husband, you know, a new husband now, things like

894
00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:53,239
Speaker 1: you know, these are the things that change, like he'll

895
00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:55,200
Speaker 1: no longer be the man of the house and that

896
00:56:56,120 --> 00:56:59,200
Speaker 1: he has to respect her new husband. Okay, your wife

897
00:56:59,280 --> 00:57:03,840
Speaker 1: is she continues to enable this boy, this man, and

898
00:57:04,040 --> 00:57:06,360
Speaker 1: he's never going to leave as long as she does that.

899
00:57:06,719 --> 00:57:08,560
Speaker 1: So you got to talk to your wife. I know

900
00:57:08,640 --> 00:57:10,680
Speaker 1: you guys are newly wedg who's been married a year.

901
00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:12,680
Speaker 1: Let her know you want to set a date for

902
00:57:12,760 --> 00:57:15,200
Speaker 1: her son to be gone. Then you guys have to

903
00:57:15,320 --> 00:57:18,240
Speaker 1: talk to the son together, let him know what you've decided.

904
00:57:19,320 --> 00:57:21,760
Speaker 1: If that doesn't work, if he still doesn't leave, let

905
00:57:21,840 --> 00:57:23,919
Speaker 1: her know that you're moving back to your own house

906
00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:27,120
Speaker 1: until her son gets out. I mean, he's not even

907
00:57:27,240 --> 00:57:30,560
Speaker 1: looking for a job, and he's expecting a child. His

908
00:57:30,680 --> 00:57:33,520
Speaker 1: baby mama didn't even stick around for his foolishness, So

909
00:57:33,680 --> 00:57:38,360
Speaker 1: why should you, Steve Wow. We have a couple of

910
00:57:38,440 --> 00:57:43,240
Speaker 1: problems in this letter. First of all, when a man

911
00:57:43,400 --> 00:57:46,480
Speaker 1: writes a letter, everybody, I want you to understand that

912
00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:50,440
Speaker 1: he has reached his foots in me and don't write letter.

913
00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:55,360
Speaker 1: And he wrote a good letter. It's well put. It's

914
00:57:55,360 --> 00:58:00,120
Speaker 1: ain't him being emotional, it ain't some guy crime. He

915
00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:04,959
Speaker 1: got real problem. But there's a lot of things going

916
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:08,520
Speaker 1: on in this letter that some people will overlook, and

917
00:58:08,560 --> 00:58:10,760
Speaker 1: I'm not going to do that. He's a thirty four

918
00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:14,760
Speaker 1: year old married man. I love my wife, but I'm

919
00:58:14,800 --> 00:58:18,720
Speaker 1: miserable at home. My wife and I met before Kovid.

920
00:58:18,760 --> 00:58:20,720
Speaker 1: We've been married for a year. Our marriage was great

921
00:58:20,800 --> 00:58:23,320
Speaker 1: until recently, and it is because of my twenty eight

922
00:58:23,920 --> 00:58:26,480
Speaker 1: year old stepson that won't move out of our home.

923
00:58:26,840 --> 00:58:30,040
Speaker 1: I remember this guy for thirty four. He now has

924
00:58:30,080 --> 00:58:34,320
Speaker 1: a son that's twenty eight. I want you to understand

925
00:58:34,400 --> 00:58:38,960
Speaker 1: that dynamic because it's going to come into play. Here's

926
00:58:39,000 --> 00:58:43,200
Speaker 1: the next thing, because this is an age issue. My

927
00:58:43,440 --> 00:58:46,680
Speaker 1: wife is sixteen years older than I am. Are you

928
00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:51,400
Speaker 1: all listening here? You're thirty four, Your wife is fifty.

929
00:58:53,000 --> 00:58:56,120
Speaker 1: She has a twenty eight year old son, and he's

930
00:58:56,200 --> 00:59:01,600
Speaker 1: now your stepson, and you ain't for thirty four. All

931
00:59:01,800 --> 00:59:10,280
Speaker 1: of this is in the underbelly of the problem. So

932
00:59:10,520 --> 00:59:14,240
Speaker 1: when we met her, man child was living with her.

933
00:59:15,480 --> 00:59:21,040
Speaker 1: See man child, that's another term. So when I come back,

934
00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:23,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be very quick, and I'm gonna point out

935
00:59:23,680 --> 00:59:26,760
Speaker 1: to you everything that's wrong, and then I'm gonna tell

936
00:59:26,920 --> 00:59:32,920
Speaker 1: my man what I think. You're all right? Steve, all right?

937
00:59:33,960 --> 00:59:36,360
Speaker 1: Coming up with twenty two minutes after the twenty three

938
00:59:36,400 --> 00:59:38,640
Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we will have part two of

939
00:59:38,840 --> 00:59:43,560
Speaker 1: Steve's response to today's Strawberry letter. My grown stepson has

940
00:59:43,640 --> 00:59:45,920
Speaker 1: to go is the subject. We'll get back into it

941
00:59:46,120 --> 00:59:51,120
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to Steve Show. All right,

942
00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject

943
00:59:54,240 --> 00:59:59,080
Speaker 1: my grown stepson has to go? Well, he got to go.

944
01:00:00,560 --> 01:00:04,440
Speaker 1: He two damn much, and it's creating a problem in

945
01:00:04,560 --> 01:00:07,240
Speaker 1: the family. This is a thirty four year old man

946
01:00:08,520 --> 01:00:11,480
Speaker 1: that's married to a woman who has a twenty eight

947
01:00:11,600 --> 01:00:16,120
Speaker 1: year old son. That's only a six year difference, and

948
01:00:16,360 --> 01:00:20,360
Speaker 1: his wife is sixteen year old older than him, she fifty.

949
01:00:23,200 --> 01:00:25,920
Speaker 1: All of this is the undercurrent of what's wrong in

950
01:00:26,000 --> 01:00:31,000
Speaker 1: this letter. Now, when we met her man child, that's

951
01:00:31,040 --> 01:00:35,520
Speaker 1: another term that's crazy. Her man child was living with her,

952
01:00:35,560 --> 01:00:38,040
Speaker 1: and she told me it was a temporary arrangement only

953
01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:40,720
Speaker 1: during the pandemic. By the time we got married and

954
01:00:40,800 --> 01:00:44,200
Speaker 1: I moved in, my stepson was still living there and

955
01:00:44,360 --> 01:00:47,600
Speaker 1: his pregnant girlfriend moved in. And then your wife said

956
01:00:47,680 --> 01:00:50,400
Speaker 1: that was only temporary until a babel was born. And

957
01:00:50,480 --> 01:00:53,720
Speaker 1: then shortly after you moved in, your stepson lost his

958
01:00:53,920 --> 01:00:56,720
Speaker 1: job and he didn't tell nobody. Then you overheard his

959
01:00:56,880 --> 01:01:00,360
Speaker 1: girlfriend yelling at him about getting five, and then she

960
01:01:00,520 --> 01:01:09,160
Speaker 1: moved out. Everybody see what's wrong, but the mama, you

961
01:01:09,280 --> 01:01:16,360
Speaker 1: see what's wrong. The girlfriend's he was wrong. Then I

962
01:01:16,600 --> 01:01:19,600
Speaker 1: understood that he might be ashamed, so you went in

963
01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:23,000
Speaker 1: there and tried to give him a pep talk. He

964
01:01:23,200 --> 01:01:27,080
Speaker 1: bowled up at me and we almost got in the fight. See,

965
01:01:27,160 --> 01:01:31,400
Speaker 1: because he don't consider you his stepdaddy. You his peer

966
01:01:32,280 --> 01:01:36,280
Speaker 1: that came in here and scooped up his mama. This

967
01:01:36,480 --> 01:01:40,840
Speaker 1: little young dude in't here got my mama. She sprung

968
01:01:40,960 --> 01:01:43,280
Speaker 1: on this young boy. Now you in here trying to

969
01:01:43,320 --> 01:01:46,040
Speaker 1: tell me what to do. I'm surprised y'all didn't fight.

970
01:01:47,440 --> 01:01:49,680
Speaker 1: I stay all my wife about pushing him out of

971
01:01:49,720 --> 01:01:52,040
Speaker 1: the nest, and she always got an excuse for allowing

972
01:01:52,120 --> 01:01:55,800
Speaker 1: him to stay. She's been enabling this boy his whole life.

973
01:01:57,760 --> 01:02:00,800
Speaker 1: Now the girlfriend frustrated wasn't because I got pregnant by

974
01:02:00,880 --> 01:02:04,960
Speaker 1: this boy. You're frustrated with him because he a man child,

975
01:02:06,320 --> 01:02:08,720
Speaker 1: and she keep it getting making excuses for the man

976
01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:14,280
Speaker 1: child slash boy slash daddy. I hate to come up

977
01:02:14,320 --> 01:02:16,720
Speaker 1: and now his worthy man is right there. I hate

978
01:02:16,760 --> 01:02:19,040
Speaker 1: to come home see another man fixing and play the

979
01:02:19,080 --> 01:02:24,000
Speaker 1: food that I worked hard. That's real. I hate to

980
01:02:24,000 --> 01:02:27,040
Speaker 1: see another man lying on my couch watching reality shows

981
01:02:27,080 --> 01:02:32,000
Speaker 1: instead of looking for a job. That's real. I'm so

982
01:02:32,240 --> 01:02:35,040
Speaker 1: glad I didn't sell my house when we got married,

983
01:02:35,080 --> 01:02:36,880
Speaker 1: because I may have to go back to my house

984
01:02:37,120 --> 01:02:40,040
Speaker 1: and let her man child run this one. See it

985
01:02:40,120 --> 01:02:43,840
Speaker 1: can be but two kings in the castle, see that,

986
01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:46,160
Speaker 1: and that can only be one queen in the castle.

987
01:02:47,960 --> 01:02:50,120
Speaker 1: Most women ain't gonna let another woman come in their

988
01:02:50,200 --> 01:02:56,800
Speaker 1: house and run nothing nothing. I don't care if she

989
01:02:56,960 --> 01:02:59,800
Speaker 1: just visited and a woman ain't even got to be married.

990
01:03:00,400 --> 01:03:02,800
Speaker 1: You're not fit to come in my house and run nothing.

991
01:03:05,280 --> 01:03:07,360
Speaker 1: The fighting is getting to me, and I told my

992
01:03:07,480 --> 01:03:09,880
Speaker 1: wife I might be moving out soon. She broke down

993
01:03:09,960 --> 01:03:12,600
Speaker 1: in tears, but still didn't have sense enough to greet

994
01:03:12,680 --> 01:03:14,920
Speaker 1: this time for a son to leave. Should I move

995
01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:16,680
Speaker 1: out and let my wife figure out if she wants

996
01:03:16,720 --> 01:03:21,720
Speaker 1: me or her son? Well I would. That's what I do.

997
01:03:21,880 --> 01:03:23,880
Speaker 1: I let him make the choice, because I'm not gonna

998
01:03:23,960 --> 01:03:26,640
Speaker 1: keep making the choice. I'm not gonna keep coming home miserable.

999
01:03:27,240 --> 01:03:29,680
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna keep coming home supporting this this boy.

1000
01:03:30,320 --> 01:03:34,520
Speaker 1: I'm not fitting to do that. He's enabling her. Surely

1001
01:03:34,560 --> 01:03:38,640
Speaker 1: you made a statement, you know, and this is what

1002
01:03:39,520 --> 01:03:43,040
Speaker 1: you made that the mother is saying, and you're right.

1003
01:03:43,800 --> 01:03:46,919
Speaker 1: She probably telling the man, well, where is he gonna go? Right,

1004
01:03:47,240 --> 01:03:50,120
Speaker 1: as a mom, you know where is he gonna go? Well,

1005
01:03:50,160 --> 01:03:51,680
Speaker 1: I tell you where he gonna go. He'd go to

1006
01:03:51,760 --> 01:03:57,480
Speaker 1: work that way he needed to go instead of been

1007
01:03:57,520 --> 01:04:01,440
Speaker 1: here laying on the couch watching TV. Is that man.

1008
01:04:01,560 --> 01:04:06,640
Speaker 1: Please look, man, marriage is a contract between two people

1009
01:04:06,680 --> 01:04:09,880
Speaker 1: that have to form a two handed circle. Your wife

1010
01:04:10,000 --> 01:04:13,080
Speaker 1: keep wanting to put her son in the circle. Her

1011
01:04:13,160 --> 01:04:16,920
Speaker 1: son is obviously incapable of running a proper relationship. He

1012
01:04:17,040 --> 01:04:21,400
Speaker 1: can't even keep his girlfriend happy. She gone. Now he's

1013
01:04:21,440 --> 01:04:24,640
Speaker 1: a father to be. What is he trying to do

1014
01:04:24,760 --> 01:04:27,760
Speaker 1: about that? Don't seem like nothing because he watching TV

1015
01:04:27,880 --> 01:04:31,680
Speaker 1: or laying on the couch and make him play. I'm

1016
01:04:31,760 --> 01:04:34,880
Speaker 1: not gonna do that. I'll go to my house stay there.

1017
01:04:36,520 --> 01:04:38,080
Speaker 1: You know. Now you can come over here and live

1018
01:04:38,160 --> 01:04:42,200
Speaker 1: with me and leave your man over there. But then

1019
01:04:42,320 --> 01:04:45,200
Speaker 1: I'm not paying for that house that he's staying there.

1020
01:04:45,960 --> 01:04:48,360
Speaker 1: The twenty pandemic is over with. You gotta go get

1021
01:04:48,400 --> 01:04:53,000
Speaker 1: a damn job. I don't care if you're working clicking

1022
01:04:53,080 --> 01:04:57,160
Speaker 1: zoom buttons or whatever. It's a job out there, but

1023
01:04:57,320 --> 01:05:01,120
Speaker 1: I'm not paying. And that's all I say about this letter.

1024
01:05:02,320 --> 01:05:06,760
Speaker 1: And the woman is dead, Yeah yeah, I mean the

1025
01:05:06,880 --> 01:05:10,800
Speaker 1: baby mama is out. That should let her know something

1026
01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:14,200
Speaker 1: right there. She does not want to be with the

1027
01:05:14,280 --> 01:05:20,120
Speaker 1: trifling twenty eight year old father of her child. Yeah

1028
01:05:21,320 --> 01:05:24,240
Speaker 1: all right, well, Steve, I think you know we said

1029
01:05:24,240 --> 01:05:27,240
Speaker 1: it all for this one You can post your comments

1030
01:05:27,280 --> 01:05:32,120
Speaker 1: on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram

1031
01:05:32,360 --> 01:05:35,600
Speaker 1: and Facebook, and don't forget to please check out the

1032
01:05:35,640 --> 01:05:39,360
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter podcast on demand now coming up at forty

1033
01:05:39,440 --> 01:05:43,600
Speaker 1: six minutes after the hour. Let's see, Junior, what's it

1034
01:05:43,640 --> 01:05:46,600
Speaker 1: gonna be? You got questions? Yeah, yeah, I got a

1035
01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:49,440
Speaker 1: good question about what do you see? Okay, I've heard

1036
01:05:49,440 --> 01:05:54,840
Speaker 1: it's allowed to write down. All right, we'll deal with that.

1037
01:05:55,360 --> 01:05:58,960
Speaker 1: We'll deal with this. At forty six minutes after the hour,

1038
01:05:59,160 --> 01:06:02,800
Speaker 1: the newly married R Junior has some questions for for

1039
01:06:03,040 --> 01:06:09,440
Speaker 1: Uncle Steve. Right after this. You're listening, all right, Normally

1040
01:06:09,480 --> 01:06:12,280
Speaker 1: it would be Junior with sports talk here, but Junior,

1041
01:06:12,360 --> 01:06:16,720
Speaker 1: this is like more like marriage. Yeah yeah, yeah, because yeah,

1042
01:06:16,880 --> 01:06:18,760
Speaker 1: we didn't got our stuff into a little situation that

1043
01:06:19,800 --> 01:06:23,320
Speaker 1: damn this sports Yeah I need him? Hell right. Then

1044
01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:25,560
Speaker 1: you're just saying a lot of because you said just

1045
01:06:25,720 --> 01:06:27,320
Speaker 1: the last segment, you know, I'm just knew it, this

1046
01:06:27,440 --> 01:06:29,160
Speaker 1: marriage thing, and I want to get it right. I

1047
01:06:29,280 --> 01:06:31,520
Speaker 1: really do want to get it right. You're just saying

1048
01:06:32,240 --> 01:06:35,200
Speaker 1: marriage is a two handed circle form between two people.

1049
01:06:35,280 --> 01:06:38,120
Speaker 1: You were saying that it's just a contract. What you

1050
01:06:38,440 --> 01:06:41,080
Speaker 1: mean like just only them to make the decisions. That's

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01:06:41,120 --> 01:06:45,600
Speaker 1: why Marjorie made a commitment to one another. We formed

1052
01:06:45,640 --> 01:06:48,280
Speaker 1: a two handed circle and we don't let nobody in

1053
01:06:48,360 --> 01:06:51,640
Speaker 1: that circle make a decision. Our children don't make decisions

1054
01:06:51,960 --> 01:06:54,520
Speaker 1: me and her, not about us. Now they old enough

1055
01:06:54,520 --> 01:06:57,520
Speaker 1: to make decisions about their own life. But you can't

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01:06:57,560 --> 01:07:00,760
Speaker 1: get in this circle. You don't vote. In hell, we

1057
01:07:00,880 --> 01:07:05,560
Speaker 1: don't have a democracy at our house. We have a dictatorship. Dictatorship. Yeah,

1058
01:07:05,600 --> 01:07:10,520
Speaker 1: we have a dictatorship. And now, Junior, don't think you're

1059
01:07:10,560 --> 01:07:14,520
Speaker 1: gonna be the dictator. Wait a minute. You you just

1060
01:07:14,680 --> 01:07:17,040
Speaker 1: said that we have a dictatorship, but you just now

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01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:24,200
Speaker 1: we have a dictatorship. You the ship with a p Yeah,

1062
01:07:25,240 --> 01:07:30,360
Speaker 1: ship the ship? Yeah, the dictator? Kid is your wife?

1063
01:07:32,680 --> 01:07:36,520
Speaker 1: You the ship? He loaded everything on that and you

1064
01:07:36,720 --> 01:07:41,000
Speaker 1: carry it away. So so so so, like what is

1065
01:07:41,080 --> 01:07:43,040
Speaker 1: your responsibility? Like, what do you have to do in

1066
01:07:43,120 --> 01:07:46,320
Speaker 1: the dictatorship? You tell the kids what they're gonna do. Well,

1067
01:07:46,800 --> 01:07:51,320
Speaker 1: I'm the enforcer. I'm heavy. I enforce the laws and

1068
01:07:51,440 --> 01:07:56,080
Speaker 1: the rules. I am the provider. That's just my job.

1069
01:07:56,600 --> 01:07:59,520
Speaker 1: I honor that I accepted. It's my privilege that a

1070
01:07:59,600 --> 01:08:01,800
Speaker 1: lot of me and don't agree with that, but you

1071
01:08:01,880 --> 01:08:03,600
Speaker 1: mayn't be in a situation. You don't have to be

1072
01:08:03,720 --> 01:08:06,160
Speaker 1: the sole provider, but you're gonna have to be a

1073
01:08:06,240 --> 01:08:09,080
Speaker 1: damn provider, now you got You can't just screwed up

1074
01:08:09,120 --> 01:08:11,720
Speaker 1: to the table. You got to bring something to the table.

1075
01:08:12,360 --> 01:08:15,120
Speaker 1: So I'm not saying that all women need to be

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01:08:15,160 --> 01:08:17,000
Speaker 1: at the house sitting down and let a man take

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01:08:17,040 --> 01:08:19,160
Speaker 1: care of them. That's not what I'm saying. I'm saying

1078
01:08:19,200 --> 01:08:22,200
Speaker 1: a man has to be a provider. You got to

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01:08:22,280 --> 01:08:25,479
Speaker 1: do something though. You can't hear your girl going out

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01:08:25,479 --> 01:08:27,120
Speaker 1: of the house. You're sitting your ass at the house.

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01:08:27,920 --> 01:08:29,960
Speaker 1: Anybody fend to do that and playing this rain deer

1082
01:08:30,080 --> 01:08:33,880
Speaker 1: game with you. Your job as a man is to

1083
01:08:33,960 --> 01:08:36,280
Speaker 1: be a provider. You don't have to be the biggest

1084
01:08:36,360 --> 01:08:40,280
Speaker 1: money earner, but you got to be an earner, okay.

1085
01:08:40,800 --> 01:08:43,439
Speaker 1: And so here's what I do for my wife. I

1086
01:08:43,680 --> 01:08:49,439
Speaker 1: offer her financial security and I offer her security. I

1087
01:08:49,560 --> 01:08:53,040
Speaker 1: am her protector. You don't want to talk to somebody

1088
01:08:53,080 --> 01:08:56,759
Speaker 1: on the phone, give me the phone to me. Somebody

1089
01:08:56,880 --> 01:08:58,599
Speaker 1: say something to you and you don't like it, tell

1090
01:08:58,680 --> 01:09:00,519
Speaker 1: me what they said. Going over there, wait in the car.

1091
01:09:01,600 --> 01:09:04,120
Speaker 1: I got all this that's when I take all that on.

1092
01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:08,519
Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, Thank you guys.

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01:09:08,560 --> 01:09:10,880
Speaker 1: We'll talk about a man who says his brother wants

1094
01:09:10,920 --> 01:09:14,559
Speaker 1: to exume his dad's body. We'll find out why right

1095
01:09:14,640 --> 01:09:23,679
Speaker 1: after this what you're listening to? Okay, Steve so Derek

1096
01:09:23,840 --> 01:09:27,719
Speaker 1: on Facebook wrote a month ago, we held a funeral

1097
01:09:28,000 --> 01:09:32,120
Speaker 1: for my father, whom my brother and I loved so much.

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01:09:32,720 --> 01:09:35,400
Speaker 1: My brother had a Rolex watch that my dad always

1099
01:09:35,439 --> 01:09:39,360
Speaker 1: admired and joked about stealing from him. So at the funeral,

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01:09:39,960 --> 01:09:43,880
Speaker 1: my brother put the watch in the casket and we

1101
01:09:44,080 --> 01:09:49,200
Speaker 1: sent him on his way. So now my brother is

1102
01:09:49,280 --> 01:09:52,559
Speaker 1: having second thoughts and wishes he had the watch back.

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01:09:53,560 --> 01:09:57,360
Speaker 1: And now he's asking me if I know anyone who

1104
01:09:57,479 --> 01:10:00,840
Speaker 1: could exume the casket so he can reach treat his watch.

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01:10:01,720 --> 01:10:05,560
Speaker 1: Not only does it feel wrong on every level, but

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01:10:05,720 --> 01:10:08,479
Speaker 1: I'm not even sure it's legal, and I don't want

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01:10:08,520 --> 01:10:13,720
Speaker 1: any part of it. Okay, I want to I'm out. Well, then,

1108
01:10:13,880 --> 01:10:18,600
Speaker 1: don't you know you can't have regrets about stuff like that.

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01:10:18,760 --> 01:10:21,360
Speaker 1: This is wrong that watch? Man, It's all right, you

1110
01:10:21,439 --> 01:10:25,960
Speaker 1: can get another one you think I want to watch? Now?

1111
01:10:26,280 --> 01:10:30,000
Speaker 1: After doing that with this, I know it's your dad.

1112
01:10:30,040 --> 01:10:33,599
Speaker 1: And I'm not trying to sound disrespectful, but your dad

1113
01:10:33,680 --> 01:10:36,160
Speaker 1: has gone on. That was just his body that then.

1114
01:10:36,360 --> 01:10:39,160
Speaker 1: But you think I want this watch this it now

1115
01:10:39,520 --> 01:10:45,720
Speaker 1: on the on the cofee. Yeah, I got to watch clean. Yeah, yeah,

1116
01:10:46,240 --> 01:10:48,200
Speaker 1: I gotta get this watch clean now because I got

1117
01:10:48,240 --> 01:10:52,519
Speaker 1: all the skin on it. I put this watch on.

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01:10:53,720 --> 01:10:57,280
Speaker 1: I know who it was on or did you lay

1119
01:10:57,320 --> 01:10:59,120
Speaker 1: it in the cast? And man, you must be out

1120
01:10:59,200 --> 01:11:03,120
Speaker 1: your mind. Let a job. It was a moment. Let

1121
01:11:03,200 --> 01:11:07,640
Speaker 1: that gold Man hunt at the moment. Yeah, yeah, absolutely

1122
01:11:08,160 --> 01:11:11,479
Speaker 1: he did the right thing in the moment. How long

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01:11:11,640 --> 01:11:13,799
Speaker 1: is he at that casket? What was he do? Get it? Exumed?

1124
01:11:13,880 --> 01:11:17,519
Speaker 1: Trying to get that watch? What I want to know

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01:11:17,600 --> 01:11:25,240
Speaker 1: who's gonna stick their hand and get yeah, yeah we

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01:11:25,760 --> 01:11:33,639
Speaker 1: do that? Who you mean you finn open that cash? Yeah?

1127
01:11:34,200 --> 01:11:39,200
Speaker 1: Waving hold of women? Yeah. Wait, let me make sure

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01:11:39,360 --> 01:11:45,280
Speaker 1: the DA you talk about what do exume mean? Get clarity?

1129
01:11:46,640 --> 01:11:50,880
Speaker 1: Because I know you ain't. You ain't talking about old man.

1130
01:11:52,280 --> 01:11:56,200
Speaker 1: So you're gonna wait a minute, You're gonna lift the casket.

1131
01:11:56,880 --> 01:12:01,360
Speaker 1: You're gonna knock all the dirt offul then you're gonna

1132
01:12:01,400 --> 01:12:05,040
Speaker 1: pull it out. Yeah, you're gonna use bunch of cards

1133
01:12:05,120 --> 01:12:10,280
Speaker 1: or what. I don't even carer you know home deepo,

1134
01:12:10,360 --> 01:12:14,719
Speaker 1: you gotta go down there and get them straps because

1135
01:12:14,800 --> 01:12:16,639
Speaker 1: mommy never had to get some strap when we move

1136
01:12:16,720 --> 01:12:21,920
Speaker 1: that couch that time on top of your prius. Okay,

1137
01:12:23,040 --> 01:12:24,960
Speaker 1: So now we're gonna get the We're gonna get the

1138
01:12:25,000 --> 01:12:29,280
Speaker 1: casket out right, and then they're gonna it's gonna be

1139
01:12:29,320 --> 01:12:37,200
Speaker 1: sitting there now. The watch is in now right right? Yeah,

1140
01:12:39,000 --> 01:12:46,200
Speaker 1: you mean somebody gonna open that lead. Yeah. So for me,

1141
01:12:46,360 --> 01:12:49,680
Speaker 1: what zumed mean at that point is as soon as

1142
01:12:49,720 --> 01:12:55,880
Speaker 1: they open, I'm gonna exit. That's what that means to me. Okay,

1143
01:12:55,960 --> 01:13:02,800
Speaker 1: now they get it open, right, No, we we still now,

1144
01:13:05,160 --> 01:13:12,800
Speaker 1: we still still standing there and they're gonna daddy. Now

1145
01:13:12,880 --> 01:13:20,840
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, man, uh, he don't look the same.

1146
01:13:23,800 --> 01:13:29,240
Speaker 1: And now that watch did you laid in now and

1147
01:13:29,439 --> 01:13:35,800
Speaker 1: probably slid under. So now you gotta lift lift the

1148
01:13:35,920 --> 01:13:39,639
Speaker 1: bottle of the course. You gotta lift movie. You see

1149
01:13:39,680 --> 01:13:44,840
Speaker 1: where I'm going with just him and who you think

1150
01:13:45,640 --> 01:13:52,080
Speaker 1: gonna move? Daddy? Leg out where you get you to watch? Man?

1151
01:13:52,160 --> 01:13:56,000
Speaker 1: You man, you're gonna be out of here. Man. Bad idea,

1152
01:13:56,200 --> 01:14:01,840
Speaker 1: bad idea. Yeah, coming up in twenty minutes after the hour.

1153
01:14:01,920 --> 01:14:04,240
Speaker 1: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right

1154
01:14:04,280 --> 01:14:08,240
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show,

1155
01:14:10,280 --> 01:14:13,720
Speaker 1: all right, and trending weird news. Guys, Douglas Ramsey, you

1156
01:14:13,800 --> 01:14:16,879
Speaker 1: may not know him by that name, but Douglas Ramsey

1157
01:14:17,080 --> 01:14:21,280
Speaker 1: is the chief operating Officer, the CEO of Beyond Meat.

1158
01:14:21,760 --> 01:14:25,320
Speaker 1: You've had Beyond Meat before. Well, he's been arrested for

1159
01:14:25,439 --> 01:14:29,040
Speaker 1: taking a bite out of a man's face. Okay, he's

1160
01:14:29,080 --> 01:14:32,920
Speaker 1: been charged with terroristic threatening to kill a third degree

1161
01:14:33,120 --> 01:14:36,880
Speaker 1: and third degree battery. Ramsey and another driver escalated their

1162
01:14:37,000 --> 01:14:41,240
Speaker 1: road rage and bumper a bumper traffic leaving the University

1163
01:14:41,280 --> 01:14:45,200
Speaker 1: of Arkansas Razorback Stadium parking lot. Ramsey got upset at

1164
01:14:45,240 --> 01:14:49,559
Speaker 1: the Suparu driver creeping into his exit lane. He jumped

1165
01:14:49,560 --> 01:14:53,200
Speaker 1: out of his SUV, punched through the back windshield of

1166
01:14:53,280 --> 01:14:57,400
Speaker 1: the Suparu, and smacked the driver. The two men fought

1167
01:14:57,479 --> 01:15:00,360
Speaker 1: until the cops arrived. The police report in the kates

1168
01:15:00,439 --> 01:15:04,719
Speaker 1: that Ramsey bit the Superhu owner's nose, ripping the flesh

1169
01:15:05,280 --> 01:15:13,000
Speaker 1: on the tip. So that's what you really call beyond me? Yeah,

1170
01:15:15,920 --> 01:15:19,880
Speaker 1: I guess that damn plant base was no longer good enough.

1171
01:15:19,960 --> 01:15:23,000
Speaker 1: We're gonna and we don't do we don't want to

1172
01:15:23,080 --> 01:15:27,360
Speaker 1: do cow or pork, and we tie a plant base

1173
01:15:29,000 --> 01:15:31,719
Speaker 1: and they're gonna shorten and call it Canna bust Burger.

1174
01:15:33,280 --> 01:15:35,160
Speaker 1: That's gonna be a big seller, though, because they're gonna

1175
01:15:35,160 --> 01:15:38,679
Speaker 1: thank It's Canada coming up in thirty three minutes after

1176
01:15:38,760 --> 01:15:41,360
Speaker 1: the hour. I want to apologize for joke I just did.

1177
01:15:41,439 --> 01:15:46,280
Speaker 1: It was the King of comedy quality level. You know,

1178
01:15:46,320 --> 01:15:48,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna leave it in there, but I'm gonna just apologize.

1179
01:15:53,160 --> 01:15:57,320
Speaker 1: You're listening to the String Show. It is time now

1180
01:15:57,439 --> 01:16:01,360
Speaker 1: for would you rather? Guys? Would you rather there get

1181
01:16:01,479 --> 01:16:04,840
Speaker 1: back together with your ex or have to listen to

1182
01:16:05,000 --> 01:16:09,080
Speaker 1: Christmas songs only for a year? Only Christmas songs for

1183
01:16:09,200 --> 01:16:11,840
Speaker 1: a whole year. Oh I like that, Donny half away

1184
01:16:12,479 --> 01:16:19,240
Speaker 1: every day all day sales will be reading this Christmas. Yeah,

1185
01:16:21,360 --> 01:16:30,760
Speaker 1: who this Christmas everything? Christmas? Yes, but get back to

1186
01:16:31,920 --> 01:16:34,400
Speaker 1: X or Okay, you want to be out your money

1187
01:16:36,160 --> 01:16:39,240
Speaker 1: and Junior just got married, Ken, I'd rather listen to

1188
01:16:39,400 --> 01:16:48,320
Speaker 1: heavy metal all right? All right? Moving on to would

1189
01:16:48,360 --> 01:16:51,759
Speaker 1: you rather be given a million dollars? One million dollars

1190
01:16:51,960 --> 01:16:57,519
Speaker 1: tomorrow or ten million dollars ten years from now? I'll

1191
01:16:57,560 --> 01:17:01,479
Speaker 1: take the team ten years from now, so you're gonna

1192
01:17:01,479 --> 01:17:08,840
Speaker 1: wait ten years to junior. Absolutely, I ain't mad at

1193
01:17:09,320 --> 01:17:12,320
Speaker 1: but I understand that. And let me tell you something.

1194
01:17:12,520 --> 01:17:15,000
Speaker 1: The average person is gonna take that million tomorrow, and

1195
01:17:15,200 --> 01:17:19,240
Speaker 1: that is the best decision. Yeah, that is absolutely the

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01:17:19,360 --> 01:17:24,920
Speaker 1: smart decision. Take that million tomorrow. Yea. But if I

1197
01:17:24,960 --> 01:17:27,800
Speaker 1: could take that million dollars and in ten years it's

1198
01:17:27,880 --> 01:17:32,240
Speaker 1: team oh my maid? All right? Would you rather let

1199
01:17:32,320 --> 01:17:35,040
Speaker 1: a spider climb all over you? Or would you rather

1200
01:17:35,160 --> 01:17:40,439
Speaker 1: let a snake slither across you? Oh? We're gonna damn spider, spider,

1201
01:17:41,400 --> 01:17:44,000
Speaker 1: We're gonna we we know we're not doing this. That

1202
01:17:45,439 --> 01:17:51,479
Speaker 1: never slither. Yeah, I did you any understand the shaking

1203
01:17:51,520 --> 01:17:58,400
Speaker 1: and crime? I can't. I can't do this. Man, slide

1204
01:17:58,479 --> 01:18:02,680
Speaker 1: your ass crossed me? Man? You know what that feel like? No?

1205
01:18:03,000 --> 01:18:07,160
Speaker 1: I don't. All right? Would you rather swim in the

1206
01:18:07,200 --> 01:18:11,880
Speaker 1: ocean at night knowing a shot could be nearby? Yeah? Okay,

1207
01:18:11,960 --> 01:18:14,280
Speaker 1: be already, you haven't even heard it. Spend the night

1208
01:18:14,360 --> 01:18:20,200
Speaker 1: in a house that you believed was haunted by getting

1209
01:18:20,200 --> 01:18:23,920
Speaker 1: back with this ghosts. Me and this ghosts gonna work

1210
01:18:24,000 --> 01:18:26,519
Speaker 1: through some things in that black ass water with that

1211
01:18:26,640 --> 01:18:32,519
Speaker 1: sharp no, no, and I can't swim good. Hell, this

1212
01:18:32,720 --> 01:18:38,519
Speaker 1: is easier Carlin slim another dope, that's what you're Yeah,

1213
01:18:39,080 --> 01:18:41,160
Speaker 1: I do this all night. This is me all night.

1214
01:18:44,040 --> 01:19:03,759
Speaker 1: Give a damn screen. What is this stopped? That's today's rounded?

1215
01:19:03,840 --> 01:19:08,479
Speaker 1: Would you rather coming back at forty nine minutes after

1216
01:19:08,600 --> 01:19:11,360
Speaker 1: the hour with Steve Harvey's closing remarks in our last

1217
01:19:11,400 --> 01:19:14,400
Speaker 1: break of the day. Right after this, you're listening to

1218
01:19:14,840 --> 01:19:18,120
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, here we are

1219
01:19:18,200 --> 01:19:21,560
Speaker 1: our last break of the day, and it's been a

1220
01:19:21,640 --> 01:19:25,040
Speaker 1: good day, Steve. You got a little heated um when

1221
01:19:25,080 --> 01:19:29,240
Speaker 1: we had our voicemail messages to you earlier today. It

1222
01:19:29,400 --> 01:19:32,799
Speaker 1: was the first one was from this racist caller from Texas.

1223
01:19:32,880 --> 01:19:35,960
Speaker 1: He was upset about our discussion on voting. He didn't

1224
01:19:36,000 --> 01:19:38,120
Speaker 1: like it. Please you want to hear it. Here we

1225
01:19:38,200 --> 01:19:42,160
Speaker 1: go a Texas. Listen to what y'all saying about all

1226
01:19:42,200 --> 01:19:47,080
Speaker 1: you black Republicans and blah blah blah. Y'allso racist, like

1227
01:19:47,360 --> 01:19:52,160
Speaker 1: you think voting for a hairsniffing pool is gonna benefit

1228
01:19:52,320 --> 01:19:57,200
Speaker 1: your race only even if that was true, you're racist completely,

1229
01:19:57,800 --> 01:20:01,479
Speaker 1: That's all I got to say. No, he does not

1230
01:20:01,680 --> 01:20:06,200
Speaker 1: all you have to say you're It amazes me how

1231
01:20:06,360 --> 01:20:09,960
Speaker 1: people and you could tell who he was. You could

1232
01:20:10,000 --> 01:20:12,960
Speaker 1: tell he was a Texan, You could tell by his

1233
01:20:13,160 --> 01:20:17,400
Speaker 1: voice who he was. And you, you people, you know

1234
01:20:18,000 --> 01:20:21,599
Speaker 1: you got a lot of nerve calling somebody racist when

1235
01:20:21,640 --> 01:20:26,600
Speaker 1: you create an atmosphere fill with nothing but racism. But

1236
01:20:27,360 --> 01:20:30,680
Speaker 1: and if we're not all okay with it, then we

1237
01:20:30,840 --> 01:20:34,200
Speaker 1: have to become racist. And yet we talk about voting

1238
01:20:34,520 --> 01:20:40,200
Speaker 1: because you're voting has racist policies, because voter suppression feems

1239
01:20:40,439 --> 01:20:44,960
Speaker 1: from racism because you can't honor the vote the way

1240
01:20:45,040 --> 01:20:49,240
Speaker 1: it is, so you come up with voter suppression. And

1241
01:20:49,320 --> 01:20:52,879
Speaker 1: you know why you won't voter suppression, mister Texas caller,

1242
01:20:53,760 --> 01:20:59,479
Speaker 1: because you want the minority to control the majority, and

1243
01:20:59,720 --> 01:21:04,599
Speaker 1: you do it by stopping them from voting, by using

1244
01:21:04,640 --> 01:21:08,160
Speaker 1: oppressive tactics. I don't care if you think I'm racist,

1245
01:21:08,360 --> 01:21:10,800
Speaker 1: because I'm not. But I do have the right to

1246
01:21:10,920 --> 01:21:14,479
Speaker 1: respond to racism. See, if you give it to me,

1247
01:21:15,680 --> 01:21:18,439
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to take it and not say nothing about it.

1248
01:21:18,800 --> 01:21:20,960
Speaker 1: And the moment I say something about it and point

1249
01:21:21,000 --> 01:21:23,920
Speaker 1: it out, now I'm racist? Am I really? Or is

1250
01:21:23,960 --> 01:21:28,160
Speaker 1: it you that don't understand why anybody like me would

1251
01:21:28,240 --> 01:21:31,800
Speaker 1: feel the way I feel because you don't see nothing

1252
01:21:31,880 --> 01:21:34,439
Speaker 1: wrong with it. You know why, because it's just a

1253
01:21:34,520 --> 01:21:37,240
Speaker 1: regular day at the office for you. See, you get

1254
01:21:37,280 --> 01:21:38,920
Speaker 1: to live your life any kind of the way you

1255
01:21:39,000 --> 01:21:41,280
Speaker 1: want to and be anything you want to. You can

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Speaker 1: walk anywhere you want to wear. You ain't getting on

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Speaker 1: the elevator being the only one to escalate it, being

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Speaker 1: the only one. You don't even know what it feels like.

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Speaker 1: So to have any empathy or sympathy or whatever the

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Speaker 1: damn correct word is, I don't expect any for you.

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Speaker 1: But you're calling me racist. That don't hurt me at all.

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Speaker 1: And then when I give it back to you now

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Speaker 1: you want to call it out as racist. No, no, no, man,

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Speaker 1: your assist the racist. You the racist. Man. I'm reacting

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Speaker 1: to racism, So you can't call that being a racist.

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Speaker 1: My reaction to you, my reaction to your call. Even

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Speaker 1: you listening to the radio show getting mad at me

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Speaker 1: for telling people to vote and calling out black Republicans

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Speaker 1: for voting the way they vote, because I know the

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Speaker 1: trick you're using. See you the minority, trying to control

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Speaker 1: the minority. But what better flip than to make an

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Speaker 1: actual minority feel like they wanted you. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. That's the ultimate trick, master, that's the

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Speaker 1: ultimate masquerade. You the minority, convincing a real, actual racial

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Speaker 1: minority that they are now a part of you when

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Speaker 1: you don't give a damn about us nowhere history of

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Speaker 1: this country. But you want me to give the black

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Speaker 1: Republican or past or pass for what? Because that? Look, man,

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Speaker 1: I don't disagree with everything Republicans say, and I don't

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Speaker 1: agree with everything Democrats say. Let's be clear about that

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Speaker 1: if you want to know the fact. But if I

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Speaker 1: have to pick a side, I have to pick a

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Speaker 1: side that makes it better for the masses. And the

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Speaker 1: masses ain't the minority. See, brother, I know the trick

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Speaker 1: of the Republican Party. So you stand on welfare reform,

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Speaker 1: you stand on immigration, you stand on abortion, you stand

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Speaker 1: on anti gay rights. Okay, let's talk about this or

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Speaker 1: a second. That's what you stand on. Republicans are gay

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Speaker 1: people too. Herschel Walker is a proclaim a Republican does

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Speaker 1: he have any gay family members? So how solid is

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Speaker 1: his stand really? Because if you're willing to accept your

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Speaker 1: gay family member, why would you not give them rights

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Speaker 1: as a human being. Let's talk about abortion for a

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Speaker 1: second row versus Wade. Do not Republicans get abortion? Do

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Speaker 1: not women? Republicans have the right to decide what to

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Speaker 1: do with their body, just like the Democrat or the liberal.

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Speaker 1: You don't think they want that choice. I think they do.

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Speaker 1: But now we got a bunch of old ass white

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Speaker 1: men voting for it when they can't make a baby

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Speaker 1: or nothing of the sort. And then let's talk about

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Speaker 1: your immigration law. Oh, y'all want to protect the boarder.

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Speaker 1: Y'all want immigration law. Y'all a ones high them. See

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Speaker 1: these fields of picking fields with all this food in it,

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Speaker 1: all these farms, all this construction industry, all of this

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Speaker 1: labor in these restaurants that you all own, you all

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Speaker 1: on the fields to construction companies in the restaurants. If

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Speaker 1: you didn't have that labor for us, you'd have to close.

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Speaker 1: And last, but not least, let's talk about welfare. It's

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Speaker 1: more white people on welfare than anybody case closed. So now,

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Speaker 1: when you take a black person who is a minority

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Speaker 1: and you convinced them to be on your side, you

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Speaker 1: pulled the master trick. Problem me is Steve Harvey ain't

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Speaker 1: falling for the master trick, so you can miss me.

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Speaker 1: Don't ever call my show. No more with that unless

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Speaker 1: you want to get on the radio and have an

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Speaker 1: open debate, and the cussing you did on that will

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Speaker 1: be allowed in the debate. Now that's my damn closing

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Speaker 1: a bye, y'all have a good day. I will for

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