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Speaker 1: me now, one and only. Steve Harvey got a radio

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Speaker 1: show feel with nothing but joy and hope about it too.

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Speaker 1: Peace and joy. I have not always had that. I

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Speaker 1: That's pretty funny. You're listening, all right, Stephen. The guys,

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Speaker 1: Here we go. Okay, Friends in Low Places by Garth Brooks. Okay, right,

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Speaker 1: Can I tell you something about Dre? What about him? Tree?

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Speaker 1: Got me to plank phone call you? This is nephew

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Speaker 1: just got franked by your boy in the band, Dre. Damn,

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Speaker 1: What is the baddest and I mean the badest radio

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Speaker 1: Sign give him. Okay, now stupid, go ahead. Ju Hi,

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Speaker 1: Fride is sad to gon the nephew jump in this thing?

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Speaker 1: Oh did you hear me? Heat neros to come around?

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Speaker 1: What's the Yeah? I just got what? All right? Coming

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Speaker 1: You're listening to show. All right, So here's a question, guys,

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Speaker 1: left they were cheated on with another man or woman, folks,

422
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 1: always we always blame the person. Uh, we always blame

423
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:52,720
Speaker 1: that person first. Then they blame the significant other, the spouse.

424
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 1: We always blame the woman first. I mean, and that's

425
00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 1: down down through history. So so the question is who

426
00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 1: really should get the blame? I think there's enough blame

427
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 1: to go around, quite frank everybody, Yeah, but you know

428
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 1: this is crazy, but normally the woman is always the blame.

429
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 1: I mean, when you think about it, down through history,

430
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 1: people mostly blame the woman. Yeah. Yeah, so the so

431
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:18,960
Speaker 1: then the question is like, okay, so if you're in

432
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 1: a relationship and you leave that relationship to get with

433
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 1: someone else, whole fault is it Is it the new

434
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 1: person's fault, you know, the woman's fault, or is it

435
00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 1: the man's fault for leaving and hurting his significant other?

436
00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 1: You mean, but what I mean? But he had to

437
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 1: have had you're saying a relationship with this other person

438
00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:43,840
Speaker 1: before he left his significant other, right, yeah, yeah, so

439
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 1: he was cheating? Yeah yeah, Well you know, no, whoever

440
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 1: is in the supposed committed relationship is to blame for

441
00:29:55,680 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 1: breaking the commitment. That's you know, look, you don't you Look,

442
00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 1: you can't blame the other person. The other person ain't

443
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 1: promised you nothing. The other other person didn't take no vows.

444
00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 1: The other person didn't promise you nothing. You'll directed anger

445
00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:18,080
Speaker 1: should be at the person who broke the commitment to you,

446
00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:22,160
Speaker 1: who broke your trust. That's your problem now you can

447
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 1: feel now if you see her, you're gonna have problem

448
00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:27,440
Speaker 1: with it. Because she knew that you were in a relationship.

449
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 1: Why didn't she leave you alone? That that's the other argument,

450
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, that's the argument on the

451
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 1: other side, Well, she knew we were in a relationship,

452
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 1: why was she in it? And she already knew he

453
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 1: had a girl or why did he pursue It is

454
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 1: the bigger question. But because see, if it wasn't her,

455
00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:46,480
Speaker 1: it would have been somebody else. Because if he's in

456
00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 1: the pursue other women business, it doesn't matter that it's her.

457
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:53,920
Speaker 1: If it's not her, it's gonna be somebody else pursued, right, Yeah,

458
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:57,040
Speaker 1: because he in the pursue game. But the women, so

459
00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:00,520
Speaker 1: most of the time gets blamed get blamed for that.

460
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 1: Women do she knew we were in a relationship that

461
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 1: women don't usually blame the men if the men cheat,

462
00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:10,120
Speaker 1: I mean after the fact. Yeah, but and and they

463
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,040
Speaker 1: go so far as to take the man back that

464
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 1: has cheated on. Yeah, but the woman is outcast. Yeah

465
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 1: they threw Yeah, they're done. So you said, blame the

466
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 1: person that with the commitment. I agree with that. Yeah,

467
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:29,840
Speaker 1: that's how it should That's how it should go. But

468
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:33,640
Speaker 1: it doesn't often go that way. You're right though, Yeah,

469
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 1: Well I blame my best friend breaking up what he dated.

470
00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:46,640
Speaker 1: He ended up messing around with my girlfriend long long

471
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 1: time ago. But I blamed his aunts. I did, Junior. Well,

472
00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:55,240
Speaker 1: don't don't say that time. Everything gets so personal on

473
00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 1: this show. I'm sure he knows who it is to see.

474
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 1: We comedian, that's how we we. The jumps come from

475
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 1: this therapy. Jumps that come from that j Yeah, I

476
00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:13,800
Speaker 1: come back and then I catched them kissing on the couch, like,

477
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:16,600
Speaker 1: oh dog. But they looked at me like, you're gonna

478
00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:18,239
Speaker 1: put that in the kitchen. No, I'm not gonna put

479
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:24,040
Speaker 1: that in the kitchen. You you know, you know he

480
00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:31,480
Speaker 1: look like time though, looking like, ah, you gonna put

481
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 1: that down right there. No, I just caught you kissing

482
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:38,120
Speaker 1: my girl. Yeah, you went to the store and something. Yeah,

483
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:41,520
Speaker 1: and you left them alone in the house. Yeah, and

484
00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 1: you come but this is your boy. Yeah, you come

485
00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:47,240
Speaker 1: back over the door. You know that'll see. Oh man,

486
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 1: you got to be kidding me. But he looked at

487
00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 1: me and all this sudden. Man, what's up? Man, you're

488
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:53,640
Speaker 1: gonna put that in the kitchen like you're living like

489
00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 1: you gonna put that in the kitchen, like the drake

490
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 1: is going in the kitchen right now. Cocacoa. Yeah, if

491
00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:02,120
Speaker 1: you whoop back there, like I said, we wouldn't be

492
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:09,000
Speaker 1: coming everything. That's how you get paid. If I walk

493
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 1: in to my house and my pardner kissing my girl

494
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:15,880
Speaker 1: on the couch, Yeah, it's gonna be some hell up

495
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 1: in him. It's gonna be some real hell up in him,

496
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:23,240
Speaker 1: because dog, my house dog, and you think less of me.

497
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 1: You don't even have enough respect for me. You already

498
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 1: disrespected me with my girl, and so is she disrespecting

499
00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 1: me with you. But you're gonna come in my house

500
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 1: like I ain't nothing. Oh naw, dog, I promise you

501
00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 1: me and your asses at walk. But see, and that's

502
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 1: normally what happens, Steve, that's normally what happens. That's that's

503
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:48,240
Speaker 1: normally what happens. What you just said. But earlier you

504
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 1: said it's the responsibility of the one who's in the commitment. Yeah,

505
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 1: but see, no if here you see it and see's

506
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:01,320
Speaker 1: a double staf No, I get it, but I'm saying

507
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 1: it ain't no double standardship. This is what. Okay, go ahead,

508
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:09,319
Speaker 1: finish your thought. Now I'm listening to me. Now we're

509
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:13,919
Speaker 1: in this here. But now if you might, dude, yeah,

510
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:16,719
Speaker 1: and I know you see. Now we got to go

511
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:21,719
Speaker 1: into man code. Man code is you don't do your

512
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 1: boys girls. There's too many women out here that's available.

513
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:29,800
Speaker 1: So now you over here in mind, then you in

514
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:32,799
Speaker 1: my house. Yeah, that's what happened to care same thing.

515
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 1: Why wasn't that my house? It was her house? Yeah? Well, oh,

516
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:38,239
Speaker 1: I was a comedian, you know, I just thought I

517
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:40,240
Speaker 1: hand over there. I was with her just for shelter.

518
00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:43,360
Speaker 1: But it was your friend though. The don't you understand

519
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:46,239
Speaker 1: we had to stay at place with fus that this

520
00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:50,400
Speaker 1: is true? Man? Yeah, where you girl? I love her

521
00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:54,480
Speaker 1: for places when I was homeless. Man, I probably told

522
00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 1: about six girls and your im because I had to

523
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:04,040
Speaker 1: let me stay definitely, So they come home while I'll

524
00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:07,719
Speaker 1: be cooking everything, you'll be doing everything. And just just

525
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:11,280
Speaker 1: just know that Junior, we can steal. He's still around.

526
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:21,640
Speaker 1: All right, all right, we gotta go. You're listening the

527
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:25,320
Speaker 1: time now for comedy roulette fellas to come on. J

528
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:30,040
Speaker 1: All right, here we go. Here's what we do. You

529
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:32,720
Speaker 1: take four subjects, you put them on a wheel, spun

530
00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:36,680
Speaker 1: the wheel where the wheel stop. Because we're professional comedians,

531
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:41,279
Speaker 1: we will do the damn thing uh things Christians say

532
00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 1: when they cuss. M hmm. Thank you say to your

533
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:50,640
Speaker 1: banker when you're overdrawn. M m. The things you didn't

534
00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:52,480
Speaker 1: know were in the fridge that have gone bad, not

535
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:56,200
Speaker 1: until you open it. And the last one is things

536
00:35:56,400 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 1: people say at a funeral, who overdo it? Oh? Sorry,

537
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 1: let's bank, let's get that bank. Bank wasn't refrigerator though,

538
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:21,600
Speaker 1: let me go saying funeral? Who overdo it? Things people

539
00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 1: say at the funeral that overdo it? Right? Where did

540
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:35,319
Speaker 1: you gonna sit your ass down? That's right in down

541
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 1: this funeral, This funeral is so nice. I hate I'm

542
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 1: gonna miss man. You know what? He lucky he did

543
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:53,360
Speaker 1: because she can't sing with a damning People say at

544
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:57,920
Speaker 1: the funeral, who overdo it? Yeah? He show died good?

545
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:06,279
Speaker 1: How do you do so good? That little dog went

546
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 1: over there? That wasn't even his. Oh that's a black

547
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:16,360
Speaker 1: funeral right there? For real? That was fast? Well, you

548
00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:19,720
Speaker 1: know she was. She was cremated, but she always wanted

549
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:28,279
Speaker 1: a hot, smoking body. She always People say, I'm so

550
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:31,719
Speaker 1: sad you don't. I'm gonna see you later, no matter

551
00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:38,480
Speaker 1: where you go, heaven, o, hell, I see you come on.

552
00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:50,640
Speaker 1: Ain't nobody like I did? No like? I tell you

553
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:54,399
Speaker 1: what though, what I'm most interested in seeing how didn't

554
00:37:54,400 --> 00:38:00,840
Speaker 1: gonna get him to that hearse? You know what? He

555
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 1: would have wanted me to sing staying alive. He really

556
00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:07,839
Speaker 1: would have wanted me to sing he gave me. Did

557
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:14,720
Speaker 1: I just tow him yesterday? All right, thank you guys,

558
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 1: good job as always, you're listening. All right, Steve, go ahead, Well,

559
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:31,480
Speaker 1: now what you about to him? It's pure comedic genius,

560
00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 1: but I must play a disclaimer. This is going to

561
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:46,000
Speaker 1: be a little edgy. He's gonna ruffle a couple of feathers.

562
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 1: So I'm just letting you know this. This is Jay

563
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:55,960
Speaker 1: Anthony Brown. He asked me, couldn't do it? And I

564
00:38:56,719 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 1: kind of got an idea. I don't know exactly what

565
00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:05,480
Speaker 1: it is, but I'm in supportive comedy. Yeah, but I'm

566
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:09,360
Speaker 1: saying we're doing this with a disclaimer, okay, that no

567
00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:11,800
Speaker 1: one can call us and say nothing about it. I

568
00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:15,080
Speaker 1: don't know exactly what are gonna do, but he could

569
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:19,600
Speaker 1: ruffle some feathers, ladies and gentlemen. Jay Anthony Brown, all right,

570
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 1: what I'm what I'm about to do right now? Every year,

571
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:27,759
Speaker 1: a lot of people, good people, you know, meaning good

572
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 1: have quanza parties. Now, okay, let's stop right there. Yes,

573
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 1: I don't think it's a lot of people. You can

574
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:39,520
Speaker 1: go ahead. You must be trying to build this joke up,

575
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 1: and I'm trying to not a lot of quans. How

576
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:48,200
Speaker 1: about people have a quanza party and don't a lot

577
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 1: of people come, and they wonder why people don't come.

578
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:56,960
Speaker 1: What I have is suggestions to get more people to

579
00:39:57,200 --> 00:40:02,480
Speaker 1: your quanza party. Number one, offer a free die she

580
00:40:02,680 --> 00:40:13,480
Speaker 1: getting anybody who will show up one size fit all right,

581
00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:22,000
Speaker 1: everybody that shows that quansa party, you get a free

582
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 1: being power. If you don't like me, septato, if you

583
00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 1: can't everybody don't like Okay, now this one is really good.

584
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:37,880
Speaker 1: This is really really good. If you have a quanza party, Steve,

585
00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:40,360
Speaker 1: you can demonstrate what I mean by this. You not

586
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:46,440
Speaker 1: have more than two philosophying brothers or sisters at your party.

587
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:49,880
Speaker 1: Don't want it. You don't want more than two in there.

588
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:51,960
Speaker 1: You don't want to, you know, brothers. Let me say

589
00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:56,080
Speaker 1: this about this time, this period that we partake of,

590
00:40:56,400 --> 00:41:03,960
Speaker 1: in this equestrious moment. Yeah, you're defiling or the gratuitousness

591
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:09,879
Speaker 1: or the barbarousness of what these holidays are. Two. That's

592
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:13,280
Speaker 1: why we celebrate quality. But I dare say, though, brother,

593
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:21,160
Speaker 1: you don't want that. We have competulate the situation, knowing

594
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:27,360
Speaker 1: that it is far regarically not a capability of scientific split.

595
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 1: Let let me interject some sensibility into this conversation. Okay,

596
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 1: you don't want a whole bunch of them at your party. Okay,

597
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:42,360
Speaker 1: it tends up the move number five. Easer, This is

598
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:46,359
Speaker 1: very important, Easer. You know what E's up mean, right,

599
00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:57,680
Speaker 1: he's up on the incense and sage. Okay, because the

600
00:41:57,840 --> 00:42:03,600
Speaker 1: back of my nose is burning. How about shoes that

601
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:14,279
Speaker 1: like I got a headache? Noxious my green taste, like

602
00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:23,120
Speaker 1: Saint number two? You want number seven? You want to

603
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:26,200
Speaker 1: play something other than the Lion King. And this is

604
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:32,320
Speaker 1: npointant that African drummers don't have to play all night long. Okay,

605
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:43,440
Speaker 1: they Shirley and last Fornightly, Last Fornightly. Don't tell nobody

606
00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:46,440
Speaker 1: it's a quins a party. Just tell him come over, Okay,

607
00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:50,919
Speaker 1: don't have to tell him something you can. I'm having

608
00:42:50,960 --> 00:43:01,640
Speaker 1: a I'm having a party, all right. Listen, coming up

609
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:06,600
Speaker 1: for the nephew, uh with today's prank phone call. That's

610
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 1: coming up right Corpe. You're listening to the string show

611
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:17,680
Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour right about

612
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 1: four minutes after. It's today's Strawberry letter. Right now, though

613
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:23,759
Speaker 1: it is the nephew's turn to give us the prank

614
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:26,840
Speaker 1: phone call for today. What you got nef whack status?

615
00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 1: Huh wax daddy, Oh my, that's it's early. Okay, Well

616
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:41,479
Speaker 1: we gonna wha statu Turley call it gonna get you done.

617
00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:55,279
Speaker 1: But I'm just draining with you. Yes, I'm gonna say

618
00:43:55,280 --> 00:44:02,439
Speaker 1: it again. Wax dad. Here we go running. Hello. Hello,

619
00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:05,400
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Owen. Please, Yeah, this is on

620
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:08,880
Speaker 1: hi Owen. This is Ramone giving you a call, um

621
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:12,440
Speaker 1: where we're just confirming your appointment at eleven on Thursday,

622
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:14,800
Speaker 1: and I wanted to make you're a new client, so

623
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:17,040
Speaker 1: we wanted to make sure that you were Okay, wait

624
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 1: a minute of plutment. What you have a spa treatment

625
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:25,120
Speaker 1: scheduled m at eleven on Thursday. You did receive a

626
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:29,320
Speaker 1: spa treatment from your wife for Christmas, Um, but I

627
00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:32,839
Speaker 1: don't remember being set up for anything or any appointment. Well,

628
00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:36,040
Speaker 1: she's made an appointment for you for eleven o'clock on

629
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Speaker 1: this coming Thursdays. I'm just calling to confirm that you

630
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:42,319
Speaker 1: would definitely be in to the salon. Well, I thought

631
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:44,400
Speaker 1: this was like a couple's massage or something like that.

632
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 1: So what is the treatment all about what's what do

633
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:50,520
Speaker 1: you guys? I don't I understand? Um, well, she's got

634
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:54,759
Speaker 1: you signed up for let me look, she's got you

635
00:44:54,920 --> 00:45:00,360
Speaker 1: signed up for us to actually wax your back in

636
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:04,440
Speaker 1: your buttocks on Thursday. And we actually have a special

637
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:12,399
Speaker 1: that we have, um a mansillion, which is as isn't

638
00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:15,400
Speaker 1: for real? Sure we have you lined up for an appointment.

639
00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:18,200
Speaker 1: If you don't want the appointment, please let us know.

640
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 1: Wax my my back and my get that all out

641
00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:29,640
Speaker 1: of here, man's zillion. But your your wife has set

642
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:34,239
Speaker 1: you up for a back and butt hair removal, which

643
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 1: is waxing. And what I'm saying is a mansilian is

644
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:39,480
Speaker 1: if you would like that, we would remove all the

645
00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 1: hair from your private area as well. Yeah, try a

646
00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:48,160
Speaker 1: good man. There's no way I'm getting my private black.

647
00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 1: What's it like to be hairless like like that? No way,

648
00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:57,359
Speaker 1: get out of here. Evidently, if your wife has set

649
00:45:57,440 --> 00:46:00,319
Speaker 1: you up for this, maybe she's not in you. All

650
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:02,400
Speaker 1: you have you evidentitely have a lot of hair on

651
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:05,440
Speaker 1: your back. I'm gonnasume me. Yeah, I'm a hairy guy.

652
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:08,760
Speaker 1: But she's never said anything. Abattist. He likes it, Okay,

653
00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:11,439
Speaker 1: he calls me a home torill us. He loves it. Well,

654
00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:14,440
Speaker 1: maybe it's a mix of communication, because this is the

655
00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 1: thing she's asking us to do, is to remove your hair. Yeah, no,

656
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:21,440
Speaker 1: that's not happening. And if she's gonna tell me yourself,

657
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:23,560
Speaker 1: and there's no way I'm going in to have somebody

658
00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:26,160
Speaker 1: ripped the hair off my back and my hands in

659
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:30,000
Speaker 1: my private you're kidding me to get the gout of here.

660
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:33,840
Speaker 1: This is crazy. This is this is a very professional procedure.

661
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:36,520
Speaker 1: It won't take long. We'll have you in and out

662
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 1: within forty five minutes. But you're gonna forty five minutes,

663
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:44,160
Speaker 1: forty five minutes to rip off all of this hair.

664
00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:49,520
Speaker 1: That sounds like torture? Should he mean okay? Sure you know. No, No,

665
00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:52,640
Speaker 1: I think we're done. I think you know we're done.

666
00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:55,799
Speaker 1: I mean I mean I'm anna sell her to get

667
00:46:55,800 --> 00:47:00,680
Speaker 1: a refund. It's getting a refund. Okay, they're not gonna

668
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:03,640
Speaker 1: be a refund. Now you're supposed to come in and eleven.

669
00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:05,600
Speaker 1: This is something that she wants you to do. Yeah,

670
00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:09,800
Speaker 1: I'm not listen to me. I am not getting wax.

671
00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 1: That's not something a man does. There's no way I'm

672
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:15,520
Speaker 1: doing that. If this is for real. I'm gonna have

673
00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:17,120
Speaker 1: a talk with her as soon as she gets home,

674
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:21,880
Speaker 1: because no, no, no, cher, cher right now, right now,

675
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:26,239
Speaker 1: you're a disrespecting my profession. That's what you're doing. Okay. Look,

676
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:27,759
Speaker 1: I'm not saying I don't. I don't know what this

677
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:30,360
Speaker 1: is all about. I don't. I'm not trying to disrespect anybody.

678
00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 1: But stop why I'm doing this? All right? I'm not

679
00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 1: getting it back. No, there's no way. Okay. So evidently

680
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:40,319
Speaker 1: your wife wanted, or she wouldn't have purchased it from

681
00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:42,600
Speaker 1: us to have you come in and get it done. Well, yeah,

682
00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:44,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to talk to her about that. I mean,

683
00:47:44,680 --> 00:47:46,359
Speaker 1: if there's something she wants to watch, you can wax

684
00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:49,040
Speaker 1: her private that's cool. But a man has hair. I mean,

685
00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:53,720
Speaker 1: it's it's well, if she's appointment, then she's serious about

686
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:57,279
Speaker 1: getting it done. Yeah, Well I'm serious about not going. So,

687
00:47:57,520 --> 00:48:00,400
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I don't know how I explain

688
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:02,720
Speaker 1: it to you. I'm not coming in. You can reschedule

689
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 1: it for somebody else. I'll talk to her when she

690
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 1: gets home. But that's that's it. I'm justife has paid

691
00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:12,239
Speaker 1: two hundred dollars for this procedure. Did you say two

692
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:15,400
Speaker 1: hundred dollars? Your wife has paid two hundred dollars for

693
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:19,480
Speaker 1: this procedure. Yeah, no, she said, who's gonna get a refund?

694
00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:24,719
Speaker 1: You guys, this is wait, sir, Sir Owen, this is

695
00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:28,840
Speaker 1: not refundable, so there is no money coming back. I

696
00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 1: will let you know that two hundred bucks. There's no way.

697
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:37,840
Speaker 1: You gotta be kidding me to take care off on

698
00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:43,840
Speaker 1: my back and my two hundred bucks. Sir, this is

699
00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 1: not very referable. Small here, I don't, I don't do it.

700
00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:48,479
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get I'm gonna go to the dollars store

701
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:51,800
Speaker 1: and get a pack of raisers for a dollar, and

702
00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:53,920
Speaker 1: she's gonna do it herself, and I'll give her. I'll

703
00:48:53,960 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 1: give her ten bucks. This is good. I'll give her

704
00:48:56,239 --> 00:48:59,200
Speaker 1: a tip. That's the five FI food bucks. I'm done.

705
00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 1: I'm said two hundreds two bucks. There's no way, there's

706
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:06,799
Speaker 1: no way we are paying that money. And you guys

707
00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:09,360
Speaker 1: are creeping that money. There's nowhere pay. Do you understand

708
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:14,600
Speaker 1: there's no no, there's not a refund, mister Owen. There's

709
00:49:14,640 --> 00:49:18,759
Speaker 1: definitely not a refund. Mister Owen. Who are you? There's

710
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 1: now and I'm gonna Raman. I am Ramone here at

711
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:26,360
Speaker 1: the spa and your wife came in and purchases wonderful

712
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:30,799
Speaker 1: gift for you for Christmas. Remote, I don't give up. Remote. Listen, now,

713
00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 1: you're not respecting our professions. You're acting I don't look. Look,

714
00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:36,480
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to disrespect you, but I don't care

715
00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:41,120
Speaker 1: about the profession. There's no way that's actually that's robbery.

716
00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:43,960
Speaker 1: Charging somebody two hundred bucks to rip off hair off

717
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:47,360
Speaker 1: their their body. He gets just no way. I'm just

718
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 1: not doing it, and I'm gonna talk to her. She's

719
00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:52,920
Speaker 1: gonna do it herself. I cash because you're disrespecting my

720
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:55,239
Speaker 1: profession and you're not coming in an eleven. All were

721
00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:57,160
Speaker 1: you supposed to come in an eleven so we could

722
00:49:57,200 --> 00:49:59,480
Speaker 1: watch your back in your body and now you're saying no,

723
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:03,720
Speaker 1: there will be nothing. Whack. I'm not coming into eleven.

724
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:06,279
Speaker 1: I'm not coming in ever. She's gonna take care of

725
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:08,280
Speaker 1: this though. You don't have to worry about it. Ramone.

726
00:50:08,320 --> 00:50:10,880
Speaker 1: I mean respect to you, but no, I need you

727
00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:13,920
Speaker 1: to know that show and there is no refund. Okay,

728
00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:17,440
Speaker 1: I mean this is ridiculous. I don't even know why

729
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:19,960
Speaker 1: I'm talking to you. You're cousin Peter. Have you spoken

730
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:23,600
Speaker 1: to him lately? How do you know Peter? Peter got

731
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:26,520
Speaker 1: me to call you. This is nephew Tommy from the

732
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:31,680
Speaker 1: Steve Hobbin Martin Show. You just you just get out

733
00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:41,799
Speaker 1: of here because this idiot. Oh. I gotta ask you something, man.

734
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:44,480
Speaker 1: What is the badest and I mean the baddest radio

735
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:55,600
Speaker 1: show in the land, Steve Harvey Morning Show. Oh, the

736
00:50:55,680 --> 00:51:01,720
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letters coming up? The subject has lost his mind.

737
00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:06,440
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show right now.

738
00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:08,839
Speaker 1: It is time for today's Strawberry Letter. If you need

739
00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:12,319
Speaker 1: any advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more,

740
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741
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 1: click Submit Strawberry Letter. Buggal up and hold on tight.

742
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:23,879
Speaker 1: We got it for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter.

743
00:51:24,080 --> 00:51:29,320
Speaker 1: Subject my husband has lost his mind. Dear Stephen Shirley.

744
00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:32,360
Speaker 1: I am a forty seven year old female in my

745
00:51:32,600 --> 00:51:36,000
Speaker 1: third year of marriage, in my third marriage. My husband

746
00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:37,920
Speaker 1: and I have been married for five years and he

747
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:40,600
Speaker 1: treats me like a queen, but I feel like he

748
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:44,080
Speaker 1: hates my seventeen year old daughter. This is his first

749
00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:47,759
Speaker 1: marriage and he has no children, so it's shocking that

750
00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:50,520
Speaker 1: he acts like a drill sergeant with my daughter. He

751
00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:54,000
Speaker 1: calls her lazy and fusses at her constantly about her chores.

752
00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:57,040
Speaker 1: He expects her to take out the trash daily and

753
00:51:57,239 --> 00:51:59,560
Speaker 1: do a few other things that I think he should

754
00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:02,160
Speaker 1: be doing as the man of the house. My daughter

755
00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:06,160
Speaker 1: is an honor student and in extracurricular activities, so she

756
00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:09,000
Speaker 1: has a busy schedule during the week. I will admit

757
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:11,480
Speaker 1: that she can be lazy and her room is always

758
00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:15,520
Speaker 1: quite messy, but she is a typical teenager. Despite the

759
00:52:15,600 --> 00:52:18,320
Speaker 1: way he speaks to her, she is always kind and

760
00:52:18,480 --> 00:52:22,439
Speaker 1: manerable to him. Her biological father died earlier this year

761
00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:26,319
Speaker 1: and it affected her, but she's dealt with it quite well.

762
00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:30,000
Speaker 1: My husband has not stepped up into the role as

763
00:52:30,120 --> 00:52:33,080
Speaker 1: her dad. He refuses to attend any of her school

764
00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:36,719
Speaker 1: activities with me. She graduates in June and she's been

765
00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:39,560
Speaker 1: accepted to a local college that's in our city. She

766
00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:42,560
Speaker 1: plans to stay at home instead of live on campus

767
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:46,040
Speaker 1: because it's a lot less expensive. When my husband found

768
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 1: this out, he told me that she could not stay

769
00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:51,120
Speaker 1: with us anymore. He told me that we are giving

770
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:53,839
Speaker 1: her some money for graduation so she can move into

771
00:52:53,920 --> 00:52:57,399
Speaker 1: her own apartment close to the college. This really made

772
00:52:57,480 --> 00:53:00,680
Speaker 1: me mad. This is my child and will not allow

773
00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:03,759
Speaker 1: her to be mistreated like this. I told him that

774
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:07,839
Speaker 1: he needs professional help. This is causing problems in our relationship,

775
00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:10,680
Speaker 1: but my child comes first. He said, I am being

776
00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:13,319
Speaker 1: too sensitive and that she needs to be on her

777
00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:18,239
Speaker 1: own to learn more responsibility. What do you think, please help? Well,

778
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:20,960
Speaker 1: I mean I agree with most of what you had

779
00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:23,320
Speaker 1: to say in your letter. Your husband, I think is

780
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:25,759
Speaker 1: out of line and he's way too harsh. I mean

781
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:30,160
Speaker 1: there's disciplining and then there's just cruelty, just playing cruelty.

782
00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:35,279
Speaker 1: He doesn't understand obviously that when he married you he

783
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:38,560
Speaker 1: also should have taken in your child as well. I mean,

784
00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:41,520
Speaker 1: she's almost grown, but she's still at home, she's still

785
00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:44,120
Speaker 1: in school, so she's a child still. At this point,

786
00:53:45,000 --> 00:53:47,839
Speaker 1: you yourself said that your daughter is respectful, she's an

787
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:51,839
Speaker 1: honor student, she's mannerable with him, she has a busy

788
00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:55,000
Speaker 1: school schedule, and not to mention that her father just

789
00:53:55,160 --> 00:53:57,880
Speaker 1: recently passed. Okay, so you have to take all that

790
00:53:58,000 --> 00:54:01,719
Speaker 1: into consideration now, definitely should keep her room clean and

791
00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:04,040
Speaker 1: all of that. She shouldn't be lazy. But I haven't

792
00:54:04,080 --> 00:54:08,719
Speaker 1: heard anything here that says she's any different than any

793
00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:10,880
Speaker 1: other teenager. I mean, this is kind of this is

794
00:54:10,920 --> 00:54:13,279
Speaker 1: what I did as a teen. My room was a mess,

795
00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:15,440
Speaker 1: you know, I could my mom was always calling me

796
00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:18,520
Speaker 1: to do stuff. Okay, that's what we do as teenagers

797
00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:21,919
Speaker 1: as we try to figure it out. Yes, I think

798
00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:26,080
Speaker 1: your husband and your daughter, your whole family should get

799
00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:29,000
Speaker 1: some type of therapy. I agree with that. You know,

800
00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:32,200
Speaker 1: I doubt if he'll go though. You have to speak up.

801
00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:34,560
Speaker 1: You have to speak up more on your behalf, on

802
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 1: your daughter's behalf. It sounds like a situation that's only

803
00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:40,960
Speaker 1: going to get worse. I mean, I understand that he

804
00:54:41,120 --> 00:54:44,000
Speaker 1: wants her to have more responsibility and all that, and

805
00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:46,600
Speaker 1: talk to her. Maybe she will move out on her own,

806
00:54:47,160 --> 00:54:49,200
Speaker 1: but this is just not the way to handle it.

807
00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:51,839
Speaker 1: He's being mean, and I think he should take out

808
00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:56,040
Speaker 1: the trash. I do, excuse me, he should take it out, Steve.

809
00:54:57,360 --> 00:55:02,120
Speaker 1: I mean, do come on, really, bro come on, man,

810
00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:05,400
Speaker 1: Of all the things we need to tend to in

811
00:55:05,520 --> 00:55:09,040
Speaker 1: this world, of all these things we need to get right,

812
00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:13,840
Speaker 1: you've chosen her as to what's wrong in this world.

813
00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:16,880
Speaker 1: I mean, it's just now. I know this is the

814
00:55:16,960 --> 00:55:19,000
Speaker 1: one side of let her being written by this lady.

815
00:55:19,040 --> 00:55:22,719
Speaker 1: But if any of this is true, just as a man,

816
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:25,840
Speaker 1: you have to take responsibility to the side of it

817
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:29,080
Speaker 1: that we as men have to bear up under. Number one,

818
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:33,280
Speaker 1: You chose this woman to be your wife. Your wife

819
00:55:33,400 --> 00:55:37,880
Speaker 1: has a child. It's a package. You gotta understand that

820
00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:40,840
Speaker 1: going in now. If you love this woman, then you

821
00:55:40,920 --> 00:55:43,800
Speaker 1: have to love the things that she loves. Her child

822
00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:46,760
Speaker 1: happens to be something she loves. So now you gotta

823
00:55:46,800 --> 00:55:49,440
Speaker 1: get with it. You're not her father, but you can

824
00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:52,120
Speaker 1: be her daddy. This is his first marriage and he

825
00:55:52,280 --> 00:55:55,239
Speaker 1: has no children, so it's shocking that he acts like

826
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:58,800
Speaker 1: a drill sergeant with my daughter. No, it's not because

827
00:55:58,880 --> 00:56:01,560
Speaker 1: he don't know how to raise kids. So you're talking

828
00:56:01,600 --> 00:56:03,920
Speaker 1: to this girl like like a drill sergeant. Are you

829
00:56:04,120 --> 00:56:07,800
Speaker 1: kidding me? Come on, man, what's wrong with you? He

830
00:56:07,920 --> 00:56:10,880
Speaker 1: calls her lazy and fusses out of constantly about her choice.

831
00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:14,239
Speaker 1: He expects her to take out the trash daily and

832
00:56:14,400 --> 00:56:16,239
Speaker 1: do a further few things, and I think he should

833
00:56:16,280 --> 00:56:18,359
Speaker 1: be doing this. Man, It out. No, no, no, man,

834
00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:21,279
Speaker 1: I got four daughters. I've never asked him to take

835
00:56:21,280 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 1: the trash now, they damn brothers better get the ass something,

836
00:56:25,120 --> 00:56:28,120
Speaker 1: get this trash out. Let me come downstairs and a

837
00:56:28,239 --> 00:56:31,600
Speaker 1: trash can fool and y'all stay up past me. Now

838
00:56:31,840 --> 00:56:34,759
Speaker 1: that's how this worked, though, what are you asking you

839
00:56:34,960 --> 00:56:37,759
Speaker 1: the young lady to grow up to be to fend

840
00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:39,640
Speaker 1: for herself. She didn't know how to find for herself.

841
00:56:39,760 --> 00:56:41,640
Speaker 1: Let's look at the upside before we talk about what's

842
00:56:41,640 --> 00:56:43,279
Speaker 1: wrong with the girl. Let's talk about what's right with

843
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:47,319
Speaker 1: she on honor roll. She's law body, and she's respectful

844
00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:51,719
Speaker 1: of you at all times. That's a good kid. She

845
00:56:51,920 --> 00:56:56,160
Speaker 1: owned a hot a roll. She respectful that she's law body.

846
00:56:56,960 --> 00:57:00,040
Speaker 1: This is a good kid. Her room, dirty man, and

847
00:57:00,480 --> 00:57:07,680
Speaker 1: what bro you out? A line man? You gotta do

848
00:57:07,760 --> 00:57:11,200
Speaker 1: a little growing up here now, the mom says, I

849
00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:13,120
Speaker 1: will admit she could be lazy in her room is

850
00:57:13,120 --> 00:57:16,360
Speaker 1: always quite messy. She's a typical teenager, and that's true.

851
00:57:17,760 --> 00:57:19,880
Speaker 1: And despite the way he speaks to her, she's always

852
00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 1: kind amountable to him. We'll get into the rest of

853
00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:24,400
Speaker 1: the letter when I get back. I'm gonna tell you

854
00:57:24,440 --> 00:57:27,200
Speaker 1: what else is wrong with your dog, and you ain't

855
00:57:27,200 --> 00:57:29,320
Speaker 1: got to feel this for me. Therapy ain't to help

856
00:57:29,400 --> 00:57:31,479
Speaker 1: your ass. You need to change the way you treat

857
00:57:31,560 --> 00:57:33,480
Speaker 1: this girl, and you ain't got to go sit down

858
00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:36,280
Speaker 1: with nobody to do that. You gotta stop treating her

859
00:57:36,680 --> 00:57:39,480
Speaker 1: like a little boy and treat her like a princess,

860
00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:43,160
Speaker 1: because what you're teaching her now is that a man

861
00:57:43,280 --> 00:57:46,040
Speaker 1: should be yelling at her, a man should be bossing her,

862
00:57:46,240 --> 00:57:48,240
Speaker 1: and a man should be making her due. Think that's

863
00:57:48,280 --> 00:57:50,360
Speaker 1: what you're training this girl right here. That's why you

864
00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:52,440
Speaker 1: out a line. All right, we'll be back with part

865
00:57:52,520 --> 00:57:55,640
Speaker 1: two of your response to today's Strawberry Letters, subjects my

866
00:57:55,800 --> 00:58:02,240
Speaker 1: husband has lost his mind. You're listening, all right, Steve,

867
00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:05,560
Speaker 1: Come on part two of your response to today's Strawberry Letter,

868
00:58:06,000 --> 00:58:08,120
Speaker 1: My husband has lost his mind. You said you were

869
00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:09,600
Speaker 1: mad when we left for birth. Well, you know what,

870
00:58:09,600 --> 00:58:11,800
Speaker 1: I'm kind of angry. Just forty seven year old lady.

871
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:14,960
Speaker 1: She's on the third marriage. Her husband and her been

872
00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:17,600
Speaker 1: married for five years, the daughter seventeen, So he's been

873
00:58:17,640 --> 00:58:19,800
Speaker 1: in the girl's life since she toiled, and probably a

874
00:58:19,800 --> 00:58:23,479
Speaker 1: little bit before that. Because you just got married five

875
00:58:23,600 --> 00:58:26,920
Speaker 1: years ago, you probably dated for a period before that,

876
00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:29,640
Speaker 1: so he's known this girl for over five years. She

877
00:58:29,760 --> 00:58:31,920
Speaker 1: had a dad in her life, which is probably one

878
00:58:31,960 --> 00:58:34,200
Speaker 1: of the things he pissed off about, and it had

879
00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:37,840
Speaker 1: some type of relationship, but her biological father has passed

880
00:58:37,880 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 1: and it affected her. She was always respectful to this guy.

881
00:58:41,160 --> 00:58:43,360
Speaker 1: But this guy just talks to her like a drill sergeant,

882
00:58:43,960 --> 00:58:47,480
Speaker 1: call a lazy, fussed her constantly about her choice, expects

883
00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:49,560
Speaker 1: her to take out the trash daily. You got a

884
00:58:49,600 --> 00:58:51,280
Speaker 1: little girl and you want her to take the trash

885
00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:53,360
Speaker 1: out DamID, And y'all could disagree with me if you

886
00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:55,240
Speaker 1: want to, I'm cool with it. I don't really mind.

887
00:58:55,560 --> 00:58:58,120
Speaker 1: I've treated my little girls different than I treated my boys.

888
00:58:58,440 --> 00:59:01,440
Speaker 1: I've never made them girls take out trash. You know,

889
00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:03,200
Speaker 1: if you got a man in the house, why is

890
00:59:03,240 --> 00:59:06,000
Speaker 1: this girl taking this trash out? I mean period? Now,

891
00:59:06,040 --> 00:59:07,680
Speaker 1: look where you can call it what you want to

892
00:59:07,760 --> 00:59:10,000
Speaker 1: call it, but you can call it double standards. So

893
00:59:10,120 --> 00:59:11,840
Speaker 1: you can't be treating it all y'all out that time.

894
00:59:12,280 --> 00:59:14,120
Speaker 1: Women need to learn how to take care of themselves.

895
00:59:14,320 --> 00:59:16,480
Speaker 1: The girl is in school as an honor role study.

896
00:59:16,560 --> 00:59:21,080
Speaker 1: She's seventeen. She's respectful, and she laved body. She's a

897
00:59:21,160 --> 00:59:24,160
Speaker 1: great kid. She's just trying to figure it out. She's seventeen.

898
00:59:24,200 --> 00:59:26,480
Speaker 1: Her room junk is so what quit going in now?

899
00:59:26,640 --> 00:59:29,720
Speaker 1: Typical teenager? Hell, I just quit going in my kid's

900
00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:31,920
Speaker 1: role to tell you live how you want to live.

901
00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:33,880
Speaker 1: But don't bring that junk out here in the house though,

902
00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:36,680
Speaker 1: because our house stayed looking nice because Marge ain't having it.

903
00:59:37,320 --> 00:59:39,720
Speaker 1: So now you're sitting up in here. My daughter is

904
00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:42,880
Speaker 1: an honor roles TOD and extracurriculum activities. She's got a

905
00:59:42,960 --> 00:59:45,920
Speaker 1: busy schedule during the week. She's a little lazy despite

906
00:59:45,960 --> 00:59:49,920
Speaker 1: the way he speaks her. She's always kind and manerable

907
00:59:50,000 --> 00:59:53,280
Speaker 1: tim Her biological father died this year and it affected her,

908
00:59:53,280 --> 00:59:55,760
Speaker 1: but she's dealt with it quite well. My husband has

909
00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:57,960
Speaker 1: not stepped up into the role as her dad. He

910
00:59:58,120 --> 01:00:01,760
Speaker 1: refuses to attend any of her school activities with me. Yo, brother,

911
01:00:01,920 --> 01:00:06,800
Speaker 1: are you kidding me? Your wife has one child? You

912
01:00:06,960 --> 01:00:11,120
Speaker 1: won't attend none of the school events with her? Why? Now? Look, man,

913
01:00:11,240 --> 01:00:13,080
Speaker 1: if you don't want to be her daddy, you shouldn't

914
01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:16,880
Speaker 1: have signed up to be the husband because it's a

915
01:00:17,080 --> 01:00:21,080
Speaker 1: package and now more than ever, the girl could use

916
01:00:21,160 --> 01:00:23,880
Speaker 1: a dad. But now her image of a man right

917
01:00:23,960 --> 01:00:26,960
Speaker 1: now is somebody barking at, somebody making her take out

918
01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:31,000
Speaker 1: to trash, somebody constantly be degrading her. So now her

919
01:00:31,160 --> 01:00:34,840
Speaker 1: idea of a man's love is you. Are you kidding me? Man?

920
01:00:35,200 --> 01:00:38,200
Speaker 1: You're wrong on so many levels. She graduates in June.

921
01:00:38,480 --> 01:00:41,040
Speaker 1: She's been accepted at local college that's in our city.

922
01:00:41,200 --> 01:00:42,920
Speaker 1: She plans to stay at home instead of live on

923
01:00:43,040 --> 01:00:46,320
Speaker 1: campus because it's a lot less expensive. Excuse me, And

924
01:00:46,520 --> 01:00:49,880
Speaker 1: now she's got the nerd to even in spite it

925
01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:53,040
Speaker 1: the way you treat her, look out and be responsible

926
01:00:53,160 --> 01:00:55,439
Speaker 1: enough to say, hey, it would cause you all less

927
01:00:55,480 --> 01:00:59,000
Speaker 1: money if I just stayed here. Your husband found this

928
01:00:59,040 --> 01:01:00,760
Speaker 1: out and he told me that she could not stay

929
01:01:00,840 --> 01:01:05,120
Speaker 1: with us anymore. Bro, are you kidding me? You're gonna

930
01:01:05,120 --> 01:01:08,880
Speaker 1: throw the eighteen year old girl out? Dog? What's wrong

931
01:01:08,960 --> 01:01:12,520
Speaker 1: with you? Have you lost your ever loved mind? He

932
01:01:12,680 --> 01:01:15,040
Speaker 1: told me that we're giving her some money for graduation

933
01:01:15,240 --> 01:01:17,320
Speaker 1: so she can move into her own apartment close to

934
01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:20,360
Speaker 1: the college. This really made me mad. This is my

935
01:01:20,520 --> 01:01:22,600
Speaker 1: child and I will not allow her to be mistreated

936
01:01:22,640 --> 01:01:24,960
Speaker 1: like this. I told him that he needs professional help.

937
01:01:25,120 --> 01:01:27,520
Speaker 1: This is causing problems in our relationship, But my child

938
01:01:27,640 --> 01:01:30,400
Speaker 1: comes first, he says, I'm being too sensitive. She needs

939
01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:32,440
Speaker 1: to be on her own to learn more of responsibility.

940
01:01:32,440 --> 01:01:34,760
Speaker 1: What do you think seventeen ain't the time for a

941
01:01:34,800 --> 01:01:38,400
Speaker 1: girl to go learn responsibility. I'm sorry, I'm sorry. No,

942
01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:40,760
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Ain't now one of my kids had to

943
01:01:40,800 --> 01:01:44,200
Speaker 1: move out of seventeen? Not to them girls. Now, soon

944
01:01:44,240 --> 01:01:46,440
Speaker 1: as them boys get into their second year of college

945
01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:53,040
Speaker 1: and they get apartments, they asses can't come back. Don't

946
01:01:53,080 --> 01:01:56,400
Speaker 1: even look over here. You can ask Winton right now.

947
01:01:57,360 --> 01:01:59,880
Speaker 1: Damn what they're doing in my room? Excuse me? Excuse me.

948
01:02:00,360 --> 01:02:07,400
Speaker 1: That's not your room. That's your daddy's new clothes. Yeah, no,

949
01:02:07,680 --> 01:02:10,680
Speaker 1: I turned no, no, no. Winch's room is daddy's new closet.

950
01:02:11,200 --> 01:02:14,800
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. See see you're you're saying them are Laurie

951
01:02:16,120 --> 01:02:19,080
Speaker 1: just moved out? Lauren still got a rule at dad,

952
01:02:19,280 --> 01:02:22,919
Speaker 1: don't take my bed, all right, President that she still

953
01:02:23,000 --> 01:02:26,280
Speaker 1: got a rule. Winch's other room in the la had

954
01:02:26,360 --> 01:02:30,880
Speaker 1: already been converted. But it ain't your rum. Ain't none

955
01:02:30,880 --> 01:02:35,120
Speaker 1: of your stuff in him? See sir. First of all,

956
01:02:36,160 --> 01:02:38,360
Speaker 1: at eighteen is not time for her to go out

957
01:02:38,400 --> 01:02:41,760
Speaker 1: on her own and learn responsibilities You can't throw a

958
01:02:41,840 --> 01:02:45,960
Speaker 1: young girl out to the wolves like that. Uh. First

959
01:02:46,000 --> 01:02:50,520
Speaker 1: and secondly, this is the wife's your wife's daughter. It's

960
01:02:50,560 --> 01:02:53,640
Speaker 1: a package deal. You can't put the package out because

961
01:02:53,680 --> 01:02:58,880
Speaker 1: you want to be alone. Uh. First of all, women

962
01:02:58,920 --> 01:03:01,240
Speaker 1: shouldn't have to take out trash unless they have to,

963
01:03:02,360 --> 01:03:08,640
Speaker 1: So your ass takes the trash out. Sorry. Right. Secondly, sir,

964
01:03:09,080 --> 01:03:11,880
Speaker 1: you don't have any parenting skills and you need to

965
01:03:11,960 --> 01:03:15,000
Speaker 1: develop some. This is not a boy you're talking to.

966
01:03:15,600 --> 01:03:18,240
Speaker 1: It's a young lady and she needs a daddy in

967
01:03:18,360 --> 01:03:21,920
Speaker 1: her life right now. Her father passed. She needs to

968
01:03:21,960 --> 01:03:25,360
Speaker 1: see a man show some love and respect and kindness

969
01:03:25,400 --> 01:03:27,480
Speaker 1: to her. So she get an idea of what love

970
01:03:27,560 --> 01:03:30,360
Speaker 1: looks like. For now you throw her out the house.

971
01:03:30,800 --> 01:03:33,400
Speaker 1: Now her idea of a man is somebody who balks

972
01:03:33,400 --> 01:03:36,160
Speaker 1: at it, talks in like a drill. Sergeant requires that

973
01:03:36,280 --> 01:03:39,120
Speaker 1: she takes out the trash and puts her out. So

974
01:03:39,360 --> 01:03:41,280
Speaker 1: now you didn't put the little sheep out there with

975
01:03:41,360 --> 01:03:43,840
Speaker 1: the wolves. What you think gonna happen to this little

976
01:03:43,840 --> 01:03:46,440
Speaker 1: girl on her own who has no real life skills

977
01:03:47,520 --> 01:03:51,400
Speaker 1: because you won't show her what real love looking You

978
01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:57,400
Speaker 1: cannot separate a woman and her child that's not the

979
01:03:57,600 --> 01:04:02,320
Speaker 1: way it works. You are all wrong in every aspect

980
01:04:02,600 --> 01:04:04,840
Speaker 1: of this thing. All right, more on the Strawberry letter

981
01:04:04,880 --> 01:04:07,280
Speaker 1: when we come back at forty one after the hour

982
01:04:07,880 --> 01:04:12,600
Speaker 1: you're listening show. Here we are with this Strawberry letter,

983
01:04:13,440 --> 01:04:16,280
Speaker 1: the subject my husband has lost his mind. A forty

984
01:04:16,320 --> 01:04:18,560
Speaker 1: seven year old woman wrote in she's a wife in

985
01:04:18,680 --> 01:04:21,680
Speaker 1: her third marriage. She's been married for five years to

986
01:04:21,800 --> 01:04:24,160
Speaker 1: a man who, she says, treats her like a queen,

987
01:04:24,680 --> 01:04:27,840
Speaker 1: but treats her seventeen year old daughter like he hates her.

988
01:04:28,120 --> 01:04:34,960
Speaker 1: Here's the deal. He hasn't responded his child, so he

989
01:04:35,000 --> 01:04:38,920
Speaker 1: doesn't have a bond. He has no bond. But the

990
01:04:39,080 --> 01:04:44,000
Speaker 1: mistake he made was asking this woman to marry him.

991
01:04:44,480 --> 01:04:48,440
Speaker 1: Because a woman who has a child, that's a package.

992
01:04:49,680 --> 01:04:53,160
Speaker 1: You cannot expect to separate him too. A woman is

993
01:04:53,160 --> 01:04:55,440
Speaker 1: not going to forsake a child. They're not gonna do it,

994
01:04:55,600 --> 01:04:58,680
Speaker 1: not no real mother. No no no no no no no,

995
01:04:59,280 --> 01:05:01,280
Speaker 1: you can can't as a what else? Now, hold on, partner,

996
01:05:01,600 --> 01:05:04,440
Speaker 1: I love you, but you can do what did this baby?

997
01:05:05,080 --> 01:05:07,040
Speaker 1: No no, no, you're talking about the one she carried,

998
01:05:07,520 --> 01:05:10,160
Speaker 1: the one she gave birth to. No, no, you're not

999
01:05:10,200 --> 01:05:14,080
Speaker 1: gonna do no harm to her now, and don't push up,

1000
01:05:14,280 --> 01:05:17,200
Speaker 1: because you're gonna find out that if she got to

1001
01:05:17,280 --> 01:05:20,720
Speaker 1: make the choice, she, like every other animal in a while,

1002
01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:24,840
Speaker 1: is gonna protect the baby. That's her job. And I mean,

1003
01:05:25,080 --> 01:05:27,720
Speaker 1: what a great kid, Steve. I mean, she just recently

1004
01:05:27,840 --> 01:05:30,640
Speaker 1: lost her own dad. Seems like he would want to

1005
01:05:30,680 --> 01:05:33,520
Speaker 1: step in and just try to be there for her. No,

1006
01:05:33,760 --> 01:05:36,680
Speaker 1: he wants her out because this dude is a simple

1007
01:05:36,800 --> 01:05:41,600
Speaker 1: minded ass that ain't got a damn flue on what

1008
01:05:41,880 --> 01:05:46,160
Speaker 1: giving really means. And you have to learn what giving is.

1009
01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:49,920
Speaker 1: And we as fathers have to set better examples for

1010
01:05:50,040 --> 01:05:53,440
Speaker 1: our daughters as to what real men look like so

1011
01:05:53,600 --> 01:05:55,520
Speaker 1: they can have a better example of what to pick

1012
01:05:55,600 --> 01:05:58,080
Speaker 1: when they get out there. So many women are damaged

1013
01:05:58,200 --> 01:06:02,200
Speaker 1: today because of the relationship that they father did not

1014
01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:05,080
Speaker 1: have with them. Yeah, and so many women end up

1015
01:06:05,160 --> 01:06:07,680
Speaker 1: looking for love and all the wrong places because they

1016
01:06:07,720 --> 01:06:10,800
Speaker 1: don't know what love really looked like. Fathers are so important,

1017
01:06:11,200 --> 01:06:14,200
Speaker 1: right and now here you are at a very impressionable

1018
01:06:14,240 --> 01:06:16,920
Speaker 1: age of this girl's life, giving her an example of

1019
01:06:17,000 --> 01:06:19,000
Speaker 1: a man and what it looks like. And it's not

1020
01:06:19,280 --> 01:06:22,600
Speaker 1: a good view of manhood that you can talk to

1021
01:06:22,720 --> 01:06:25,600
Speaker 1: her this way, treat her this way, bark at her

1022
01:06:25,720 --> 01:06:28,280
Speaker 1: like a drill sergeant, expect her to take out treasure,

1023
01:06:28,360 --> 01:06:29,800
Speaker 1: and want to put her out the house because she

1024
01:06:30,040 --> 01:06:32,320
Speaker 1: graduated from high school. Who puts their throat out the

1025
01:06:32,400 --> 01:06:35,000
Speaker 1: house because they graduate from high school? But hell, I

1026
01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:37,280
Speaker 1: didn't get put out my daddy's house when I graduated

1027
01:06:37,320 --> 01:06:41,640
Speaker 1: from high school. And then kind and manerable to him

1028
01:06:41,680 --> 01:06:44,880
Speaker 1: and respectful to him even in spite of all of this,

1029
01:06:46,240 --> 01:06:51,040
Speaker 1: means yeah, he's just some wrong and wrong, mean, cruel guy.

1030
01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:54,480
Speaker 1: He just is something's wrong. That's why I say he

1031
01:06:54,560 --> 01:06:59,480
Speaker 1: should get some therapy. He really should know. Yeah, but see,

1032
01:06:59,520 --> 01:07:03,160
Speaker 1: I don't know what game he played to get her.

1033
01:07:03,720 --> 01:07:07,200
Speaker 1: He treats her like a queen. She says, Dog, you've

1034
01:07:07,240 --> 01:07:11,200
Speaker 1: been had his lady on her fourth man? Yeah, because

1035
01:07:11,360 --> 01:07:15,440
Speaker 1: dog you But the marriage can be saved, you know,

1036
01:07:15,520 --> 01:07:18,080
Speaker 1: because he treats a woman like a queen. But then

1037
01:07:18,120 --> 01:07:21,160
Speaker 1: you got to treat the princess like a princess. Dog,

1038
01:07:21,200 --> 01:07:24,360
Speaker 1: It's real simple. How have you treating the wife? You

1039
01:07:24,440 --> 01:07:26,840
Speaker 1: gotta treat your daughter like a version of the wife,

1040
01:07:27,240 --> 01:07:33,920
Speaker 1: comments to Steve Harvey FM dot com. You're listening now.

1041
01:07:34,000 --> 01:07:38,000
Speaker 1: According to a report published an American psychologist, people who

1042
01:07:38,120 --> 01:07:42,040
Speaker 1: listen to others without actually seeing them are better able

1043
01:07:42,120 --> 01:07:45,920
Speaker 1: to determine that person's emotional state. The tone of a

1044
01:07:46,000 --> 01:07:49,919
Speaker 1: person's voice expresses emotion more than the face, where it's

1045
01:07:50,000 --> 01:07:54,080
Speaker 1: easier to hide such emotions. Less is more when trying

1046
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Speaker 1: to figure out how people feel, because when you are

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01:07:56,640 --> 01:07:59,560
Speaker 1: just listening to a person, you are focused on just that.

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01:08:00,280 --> 01:08:05,360
Speaker 1: But if you're both listening and looking, your attention is divided. So, Steve,

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01:08:05,520 --> 01:08:09,000
Speaker 1: do you think you're a good listener? Oh? Yeah, absolutely, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, for a man, for a man, I'm a

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01:08:15,400 --> 01:08:19,680
Speaker 1: good listener. Qualify that free market. Yeah, I mean, you know,

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01:08:19,800 --> 01:08:23,360
Speaker 1: because we do listen differently. I'll admit that I think

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01:08:23,479 --> 01:08:26,559
Speaker 1: women are far superior at it. But for a man,

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01:08:26,680 --> 01:08:29,080
Speaker 1: I'm a good listener. Yeah, and you have to, you

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01:08:29,280 --> 01:08:31,360
Speaker 1: have to be in your line of work. But you

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01:08:31,439 --> 01:08:35,320
Speaker 1: know the reason women listen because there's a more of

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01:08:35,600 --> 01:08:40,080
Speaker 1: a richer and deeper exchange. We listen just to the

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01:08:40,240 --> 01:08:44,120
Speaker 1: point where we can provide a solution and then we

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01:08:44,200 --> 01:08:47,920
Speaker 1: wants to move on to something else. Women women dig

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01:08:48,080 --> 01:08:51,000
Speaker 1: into it a lot deeper, and Richard, we just try

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Speaker 1: to provide a solution. Yeah, we want all the facts,

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01:08:54,360 --> 01:08:57,719
Speaker 1: what happened? What he said? Then? What does she say? Girl?

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01:08:59,160 --> 01:09:03,720
Speaker 1: And what happened? Yeah? We don't need all that. What

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01:09:03,880 --> 01:09:07,519
Speaker 1: do you need? What we just? What you trying to

1065
01:09:07,600 --> 01:09:11,080
Speaker 1: get out of it? Listen to call him and tell

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01:09:11,160 --> 01:09:15,280
Speaker 1: him no m and do get what. I got it

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01:09:15,360 --> 01:09:17,200
Speaker 1: down to a sign. I can actually be on the

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01:09:17,280 --> 01:09:19,760
Speaker 1: phone with my wife. I know when to say uh huh,

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01:09:19,960 --> 01:09:24,160
Speaker 1: what what? Really? And not but not listening to none

1070
01:09:24,160 --> 01:09:27,080
Speaker 1: of but know how to jump in. Let me stop you, Tom,

1071
01:09:27,479 --> 01:09:30,519
Speaker 1: because she's listening right now. So we sure you want

1072
01:09:30,560 --> 01:09:35,880
Speaker 1: to huh, but he's not listening. You better fix it?

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01:09:36,400 --> 01:09:41,519
Speaker 1: Who oh my god? Okay, hey we need to go

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01:09:41,600 --> 01:09:47,400
Speaker 1: down now. Hm huh. So so your uncle listens to

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01:09:47,520 --> 01:09:51,519
Speaker 1: provide a solution. You don't listen at all. I listened

1076
01:09:51,560 --> 01:09:55,200
Speaker 1: to get through the day. What what? What? So you

1077
01:09:55,320 --> 01:10:01,920
Speaker 1: don't care? You don't care what? Where's Jordan? Who? Okay? No?

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01:10:03,360 --> 01:10:08,400
Speaker 1: Uh huh? He engaged? He makes her think she's engaging

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01:10:09,400 --> 01:10:12,320
Speaker 1: the phone that you got the phone on speaker. You

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01:10:12,640 --> 01:10:15,559
Speaker 1: lying and it's just what's sitting down there? And you're

1081
01:10:15,600 --> 01:10:22,320
Speaker 1: just are you acting? Are you acting? Are you in character? Absolutely?

1082
01:10:23,040 --> 01:10:32,719
Speaker 1: Hum say that again? Now they didn't lord ha Mercy,

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01:10:33,680 --> 01:10:35,920
Speaker 1: Well what she said? Are you listening to me? What

1084
01:10:36,040 --> 01:10:38,439
Speaker 1: do you say, babe? I'm hearing that thing you're saying.

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01:10:38,479 --> 01:10:42,040
Speaker 1: You're gonna hear that part. You're gonna hear that. Okay,

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01:10:42,080 --> 01:10:44,160
Speaker 1: Well tell me what I just said. Oh that's what

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01:10:44,280 --> 01:10:48,080
Speaker 1: I hate when they do. H okay, okay, Well tell

1088
01:10:48,160 --> 01:10:49,880
Speaker 1: me what I just said. Tell me what I just said.

1089
01:10:50,280 --> 01:10:54,920
Speaker 1: I heard you. Now you're you're trapped at that point.

1090
01:10:55,600 --> 01:10:57,519
Speaker 1: Get out of that. Tell me what I just said.

1091
01:10:57,560 --> 01:10:59,280
Speaker 1: I said, you just said, Tell you what you just say?

1092
01:11:02,000 --> 01:11:04,479
Speaker 1: What I just said? Don't get cute with it, you

1093
01:11:04,600 --> 01:11:06,800
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Well, what do you think I

1094
01:11:06,880 --> 01:11:11,200
Speaker 1: should do? But what you know? I mean? I mean

1095
01:11:11,640 --> 01:11:14,920
Speaker 1: probably really honestly, don't honestly, don't call it, y'all. Just

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01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:19,719
Speaker 1: pray about it. So should I take all the money

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Speaker 1: out of the bank. No, No, we need to pray

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01:11:26,200 --> 01:11:41,240
Speaker 1: about it, right, he said? No? Very interesting, guys. All right,

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Speaker 1: we'll be back right after this. You're listening to show,

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01:11:47,880 --> 01:11:50,959
Speaker 1: all right, guys. So there's this website called morning consult

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Speaker 1: dot com. It came out with the most loved sports

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Speaker 1: media personalities, like a list of who's the most beloved

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Speaker 1: on down the list they found the Eton Manning is

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Speaker 1: the most beloved personality in sports media right now. Now,

1105
01:12:05,240 --> 01:12:09,160
Speaker 1: would you guys beg to differ without Okay now I don't. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: well you know what it is though, his commercial commercial

1107
01:12:12,320 --> 01:12:17,760
Speaker 1: exactly right. Yeah, people really love his commercials. Yeah, the

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Speaker 1: most love is Serena. Okay, all right, I'm not mad

1109
01:12:22,520 --> 01:12:28,719
Speaker 1: at you about that media personality personality. Yeah, that's Serenata.

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Speaker 1: People love Peyton Manning's commercials, Tommy and Serena has a

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Speaker 1: couple of commercials out. That Lincoln commercial is really cute.

1112
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Speaker 1: But anyway, they love his guest appearances. Anna's shows. Now.

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Speaker 1: Rounding out the top five are Al Michael's, Dan Patrick,

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Speaker 1: Jim Nance, Charles Barkley, what yes, my man? Yes, if

1115
01:12:53,560 --> 01:12:56,000
Speaker 1: he was here, he probably say something like this. Ernie

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Speaker 1: ain't fire right now, Shack ain't making in the top five,

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Speaker 1: Henning not in there. I'm only in the top five,

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Speaker 1: That's all I need to know. Hey, what about Stephen Finish,

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Speaker 1: Steve A. Smith not in the top five. Ain't none

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Speaker 1: at him in the top five. Thank you, Charles, and congratulate,

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Speaker 1: Thank you very thank you. You're one of the most

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Speaker 1: loved sports media personalities. Okay, all right, we'll have more

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Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty

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Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour. You're listening to Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show. Hey Steve, what you got? All right, y'all?

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Speaker 1: when I say all inclusive? I mean your food is

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Speaker 1: included at all nine of the restaurants, room services included,

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Speaker 1: head over to the Hard Rock Casino and try your luck.

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Speaker 1: That's where Steve Harvey will be. Now here's the big

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Speaker 1: thing now through December thirty. First, listen to everybody. You

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Speaker 1: saying this Soul Bam ninety nine dollars, So give us

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Speaker 1: will see you Labor day out on the beach, kicking it.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go sign up right now, hard, kicking many, gigging.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna sign up right I'm talking about flex stuff

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Speaker 1: so hard catch cramps. Yeah, I love it, love it,

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Speaker 1: love it. Ninety nine dollars specially all the way to

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Speaker 1: December thirty. Put that down on it. Put some money

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Speaker 1: right now, Put some on it, baby, put some on

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Speaker 1: put some I got five on it and put it

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Speaker 1: on you. Ain't I like that? Get your brownie point

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Speaker 1: shooting weekend if you do that this week? Yeah, man,

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Speaker 1: Oh I think I love him. You got some shoes

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Speaker 1: for Christmas? Our girl. I'm going to potocon how you know,

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Speaker 1: because he put on different conversation. I like that's cute.

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Speaker 1: Oh me, I'm going all right, thank you. We will

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Speaker 1: be back with closing remarks from the one and only

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01:16:35,680 --> 01:16:38,960
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey right after this at forty nine. After you're

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Speaker 1: listening here we are last break of the day. Um, Steve,

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Speaker 1: you have some closing remarks to leave us with. Yeah,

1168
01:16:48,600 --> 01:16:52,760
Speaker 1: this is how do you get the right equipment and

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01:16:52,960 --> 01:16:56,560
Speaker 1: tools and things you need to start out on the

1170
01:16:56,680 --> 01:16:59,120
Speaker 1: road to success, because everybody could do it, but you

1171
01:16:59,200 --> 01:17:02,599
Speaker 1: have to make the decision. Well, one of the ways

1172
01:17:02,840 --> 01:17:06,120
Speaker 1: is is I mean, at one point in time, just

1173
01:17:06,280 --> 01:17:10,439
Speaker 1: on a spiritual note, we gotta make some attempt to

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01:17:10,560 --> 01:17:15,320
Speaker 1: be better. I mean, come on, man, you can't keep

1175
01:17:15,479 --> 01:17:20,240
Speaker 1: doing wrong intentionally. You can't just knowingly be on the

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01:17:20,360 --> 01:17:24,200
Speaker 1: wrong side of the law. You can't intentionally just be

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Speaker 1: out here just messing over folks and expect and expect

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Speaker 1: goodness to come your way. I mean, none of us

1179
01:17:32,120 --> 01:17:35,800
Speaker 1: can do that. What I'm wrong, I'm making mistakes. I

1180
01:17:35,920 --> 01:17:40,479
Speaker 1: can't expect, you know, things to go my way. You know,

1181
01:17:40,600 --> 01:17:42,960
Speaker 1: if you're out here and you're just messing over folks,

1182
01:17:43,360 --> 01:17:49,040
Speaker 1: you can't expect not to get messed over. You can't

1183
01:17:49,160 --> 01:17:51,640
Speaker 1: live a life for crime and then be asking for

1184
01:17:51,760 --> 01:17:55,280
Speaker 1: the blessings of God. God can't bless your mess, man.

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01:17:55,640 --> 01:17:58,360
Speaker 1: He can't put his finger on that. Lord. As I

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01:17:58,439 --> 01:18:00,840
Speaker 1: go out here, go with me heaven, as I robbed

1187
01:18:00,880 --> 01:18:04,519
Speaker 1: this bank? Whoa old partner? Partner, partner, Slow down, slowdown.

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Speaker 1: Let's think about this for a second. All of us

1189
01:18:10,439 --> 01:18:15,840
Speaker 1: has a good and a bad side. Most of us

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01:18:16,120 --> 01:18:19,040
Speaker 1: know the difference unless you're ill. Most of us know

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01:18:19,200 --> 01:18:23,920
Speaker 1: the difference between right and wrong. Most of us have

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01:18:24,800 --> 01:18:29,560
Speaker 1: some type of conscious. Most of us do. Not to

1193
01:18:29,720 --> 01:18:32,479
Speaker 1: ignore your conscious doesn't mean that you don't have one.

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01:18:33,600 --> 01:18:36,360
Speaker 1: Most of us are. If we make mistakes. You knows

1195
01:18:36,600 --> 01:18:41,040
Speaker 1: there's no remorse, no nothing. You just don't. You don't care.

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01:18:41,120 --> 01:18:43,040
Speaker 1: You're just going about your life doing what you want

1197
01:18:43,080 --> 01:18:46,400
Speaker 1: to do. It don't work. And you know why it

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01:18:46,479 --> 01:18:49,519
Speaker 1: don't work, man, because God can't putting nothing into that.

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Speaker 1: Somebody sent this to me, and I'm gonna share it

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01:18:54,400 --> 01:18:57,360
Speaker 1: with you because it's what we're talking about right now.

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01:18:58,160 --> 01:19:02,000
Speaker 1: Nobody puts money in the vending machine when it's out

1202
01:19:02,080 --> 01:19:06,639
Speaker 1: of order. Don't nobody do that. You're sitting up. It's

1203
01:19:06,680 --> 01:19:08,960
Speaker 1: got a sign on it and it says it's out

1204
01:19:09,040 --> 01:19:13,040
Speaker 1: of order. Nobody puts money in the vending machine when

1205
01:19:13,080 --> 01:19:15,719
Speaker 1: it's out of order, So why would God put something

1206
01:19:15,760 --> 01:19:22,160
Speaker 1: in you when you out of order? Nobody puts money

1207
01:19:22,400 --> 01:19:25,760
Speaker 1: in the vending machine when it's out of order, So

1208
01:19:25,960 --> 01:19:28,639
Speaker 1: why would God put something in you when you out

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01:19:28,720 --> 01:19:32,000
Speaker 1: of order? Now? I'm not saying that God won't put

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01:19:32,080 --> 01:19:35,280
Speaker 1: something into you if you make mistakes. I'm not saying

1211
01:19:35,640 --> 01:19:38,520
Speaker 1: God won't put nothing into you if you ask for forgiveness,

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01:19:38,640 --> 01:19:41,200
Speaker 1: because he will, because He's done it for me and

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01:19:41,400 --> 01:19:43,840
Speaker 1: millions of other people like me over and over and

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Speaker 1: over again. God for gils. God. God is in the

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Speaker 1: help you get it together business or wait in man,

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01:19:53,120 --> 01:19:56,960
Speaker 1: Hold up now. Nobody puts money in the vending machine

1217
01:19:57,000 --> 01:19:58,880
Speaker 1: when it's out of order. So why would God put

1218
01:19:58,960 --> 01:20:00,920
Speaker 1: something into you when you out order? When he knows

1219
01:20:00,920 --> 01:20:04,200
Speaker 1: you ain't even trying it? See, God ain't crazy, He

1220
01:20:04,400 --> 01:20:09,000
Speaker 1: knows all. He knows your heart. That are good people

1221
01:20:09,040 --> 01:20:11,800
Speaker 1: who make mistakes all the time. I'm one of them.

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01:20:11,880 --> 01:20:13,920
Speaker 1: I think I think I'm a good person, but I

1223
01:20:14,040 --> 01:20:17,280
Speaker 1: make mistakes. Man, you can be a good person and

1224
01:20:17,479 --> 01:20:22,040
Speaker 1: make mistakes. God know your heart. But if you out

1225
01:20:22,120 --> 01:20:27,799
Speaker 1: here intentionally walking around, stepping on people, messing over people,

1226
01:20:28,360 --> 01:20:32,679
Speaker 1: using people, manipulating people. But you want something from God

1227
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Speaker 1: all the time. Come on, man, you don't forgive nobody,

1228
01:20:38,040 --> 01:20:41,120
Speaker 1: but you steady asking God to forgive you. So you

1229
01:20:41,240 --> 01:20:43,679
Speaker 1: just go you don't. So he gave us the Lord's prayer.

1230
01:20:44,320 --> 01:20:46,120
Speaker 1: So he gave us the Lord's prayer. But we all

1231
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Speaker 1: ignore that, and it's two versions of it. Forgive us

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Speaker 1: our trustpasses as we forgive those who trustpass against us,

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Speaker 1: or forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors.

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01:20:58,000 --> 01:21:00,800
Speaker 1: I've heard both versions. I like trustpas assid because it

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Speaker 1: means to go over the line. So forgive us out

1236
01:21:03,760 --> 01:21:05,920
Speaker 1: you're talking to God. Now this is the Lord's prayer.

1237
01:21:06,160 --> 01:21:10,439
Speaker 1: Forgive us our trust passes as we forgive those who

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01:21:10,560 --> 01:21:14,760
Speaker 1: trust pass against us. So now you don't forgive nobody,

1239
01:21:15,760 --> 01:21:17,920
Speaker 1: can't nobody to do you wrong and ever say nothing

1240
01:21:17,960 --> 01:21:21,360
Speaker 1: to you again. I'll show you. You're gonna fix everybody

1241
01:21:21,400 --> 01:21:26,760
Speaker 1: to do something to you. Ain't no forgiveness, but then

1242
01:21:26,840 --> 01:21:29,000
Speaker 1: you do something. Now you're up in God's face telling

1243
01:21:29,000 --> 01:21:33,200
Speaker 1: about forgive me, Lord, I didn't mean. But let me

1244
01:21:33,240 --> 01:21:35,240
Speaker 1: explain to you how he gonna do it for you. Now.

1245
01:21:35,560 --> 01:21:39,080
Speaker 1: He gonna forgive you as you forgive those that need

1246
01:21:39,160 --> 01:21:44,160
Speaker 1: forgiveness from you. So give us our trust passes as

1247
01:21:44,200 --> 01:21:46,719
Speaker 1: we forgive, forgive us, our trust passes as we forgive,

1248
01:21:46,760 --> 01:21:51,439
Speaker 1: those who trust pass against us. That's clean, that's fair,

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01:21:53,000 --> 01:21:57,880
Speaker 1: that's fair. See God is fair man, He's very fair.

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Speaker 1: Ain't no loopholes in him. He's fair. If you do this,

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Speaker 1: I can do this now. If you ask for forgiveness,

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Speaker 1: he forgives you. Now, when he forgives you, the cool

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Speaker 1: thing is, he wipes the slate clean. He don't bring

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Speaker 1: it up no more. I get. Many times I've used that.

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Speaker 1: I can't even count the times I've used that. So

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Speaker 1: now I'm just asking you, why would you not try

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Speaker 1: to do better so God can do it for you.

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Speaker 1: God is going to bless you. He will if he

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Speaker 1: knows your heart is in the right place. Because good

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Speaker 1: people make bad decisions all the time. Good people make

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Speaker 1: mistakes all the time, all the time. But if you

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Speaker 1: know your heart, he'll bless you. Get just try to

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Speaker 1: do better, man, All right, let's go that's my clothes remarks.

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