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Speaker 1: Monroe and welcome to this week's episode of Laugh and
Speaker 1: Learn here with my wonderful producer, mister Aaron. Listen you guys,
Speaker 1: I missed you all last week, but I'm so glad
Speaker 1: I'm back this week. We are going to have an
Speaker 1: amazing time today. I got a conversation I want to
Speaker 1: have with somebody who who piques my interests, And y'all
Speaker 1: know I'm not interested in much, but he it's my interests. Uh.
Speaker 1: He sparks my few. He makes me think about who
Speaker 1: I am and why I am who I am in
Speaker 1: this country. And I'm not talking about my sexuality. I'm
Speaker 1: talking about this beautiful badge, a body that God bless
Speaker 1: me with, this topic of melody that I love. So
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna even go down the whole list and
Speaker 1: all of that. We're not going to do all that.
Speaker 1: I just want you, guys, all my flamemts to welcome
Speaker 1: to good brother mister Zard Islam to the show. Ladies,
Speaker 1: y'all makes a Nord. I'm a whole proud of myself.
Speaker 1: Come on, I'm you know, I'm honored to be here
Speaker 1: with you. I know you were there with me, so
Speaker 1: we were foundly. So this is a beautiful thing. And
Speaker 1: as soon as you said I need you to come
Speaker 1: on show, I'll say, and you tell me the time
Speaker 1: of the day. And I appreciate you being so so
Speaker 1: just Um, what's the word I want to say? Um? Oh,
Speaker 1: I can't think of it. I just said a brain. Well,
Speaker 1: I appreciate you being so receptive. Well, I want you
Speaker 1: my audience. I understand is that the zon is a
Speaker 1: full on Muslim, I full on train as woman. The
Speaker 1: optics are beautiful, the heart is magnificent, the color is
Speaker 1: the same. But we are Americans. Once you guys, to
Speaker 1: always remember that, then whatever your presentation you see, if
Speaker 1: you born an American, you're an American, You're an American.
Speaker 1: We had the greatest, dopest conversation yesterday on Reason's platform
Speaker 1: on um, oh, let me get a fight, let me
Speaker 1: get it right. Oh oh, I can't even think of
Speaker 1: it at all. What's the name of an intellectual extremists?
Speaker 1: My job messed up that name three times trying to
Speaker 1: sit actual uh. And it was great. It was a
Speaker 1: it was an honest It was not an interview. It
Speaker 1: was an honest conversation between two American black people in
Speaker 1: this country, which is what we're gonna do today because
Speaker 1: right now you were so instrumental and so inspirational for
Speaker 1: me during the pandemic when my mind was I was
Speaker 1: teeter tiring on the fits about if I wanted to
Speaker 1: get back toinated, and I just listened to so many
Speaker 1: different peop but when I ran across you, it really
Speaker 1: made me sit down and think of what I wanted
Speaker 1: to do, now what somebody else wanted me to do.
Speaker 1: It made me think about what I wanted to do.
Speaker 1: And I know you're a couple of years younger to me,
Speaker 1: I'm only thirty nine, but I wanted to know. And
Speaker 1: this is why I want younger people to understand what
Speaker 1: older people. It's not that we don't listen to that
Speaker 1: we don't want to learn. We just it depends on
Speaker 1: who's coming from and how you are transferring that information. Right,
Speaker 1: We're clear you were genuine and concise them in a
Speaker 1: lot to me, why was this so important for you?
Speaker 1: It's what I want to ask for you to stand
Speaker 1: your ground when it came down to the back thing. Absolutely.
Speaker 1: First thing is my mother's a naturopathic doctor, right, so
Speaker 1: she was a medical nurse first, so she knew the
Speaker 1: ins and outs of what the system was doing. She
Speaker 1: was trained by them, She understood the system. She was
Speaker 1: trained in the system, and she had a problem with
Speaker 1: the system because they started to push nothing but pharmaceut
Speaker 1: of course, so it was natural pathic remedies during no vitamins, minerals,
Speaker 1: exercise proper dive. That's how it used to be until
Speaker 1: they switched everything to take a pill. Take a pill,
Speaker 1: take a pill for everything, Take a pill. And so
Speaker 1: she saw that as a problem. So she said, you
Speaker 1: know what, I'm going to switch into naturopathing. So she
Speaker 1: started to pursue the naturopathic remedies and just stayed right there.
Speaker 1: And that's how she raised us. We were raised right
Speaker 1: here in Compton, California, probably one of the only families
Speaker 1: who didn't get sick. None of us took shots. Anytime
Speaker 1: we had any kind of sniff or anything we could
Speaker 1: golden seal Alavia like that's we went to that. So
Speaker 1: from that point, just in my childhood, I was always
Speaker 1: raised to be this way. So as a point when
Speaker 1: it came to these shots and people not learning about
Speaker 1: the history, number one, and it's not just Tuskegee. Tuskegee
Speaker 1: actually is one of the small circumstances compared to all
Speaker 1: the rest of the other circumstances. But when I started
Speaker 1: to see what they were doing to the people, I said,
Speaker 1: I can't sit here knowing that I've been involved in
Speaker 1: this topic for nearly a decade, long before this virus.
Speaker 1: In this whole process, Oh, there was there was plenty
Speaker 1: of us, please others that I personally were involved in,
Speaker 1: and I said, I can't sit here and let the
Speaker 1: people get lied to like this. I just I can't
Speaker 1: do it. I at least I'm going to give you
Speaker 1: information that we can make your own decision. That's what
Speaker 1: it's mean about from the very beginning for me. Get
Speaker 1: the right information so you can make your own decisions.
Speaker 1: That's that is. That is fantastic, And I'm telling you
Speaker 1: reason out. I was. I'm I'm not anti vaccine though
Speaker 1: I'm not even a Bac saint, but it was the
Speaker 1: way that it was presented to me. It was warp
Speaker 1: speed and then to sit outside and the sun and
Speaker 1: get to go for three days rest off. It was
Speaker 1: just made me nervous. And I'm like, I got too
Speaker 1: much foreign pronicle in my body. As it is with
Speaker 1: the black market silicone, I got breast in plants, I axios.
Speaker 1: What of them to those two different ingredients don't get along.
Speaker 1: It ain't let you. I could take a spoon and
Speaker 1: stick it in and pull one of them out, right,
Speaker 1: That's true. But the limb or lost my ability to
Speaker 1: see you. No, I just was like I was afraid
Speaker 1: everybody would like saw But I love the fact stood
Speaker 1: on that and I watched you do that because I
Speaker 1: I think for myself, I want to ask you because
Speaker 1: I got a lot of backlash right not taking the
Speaker 1: dam and did you You know what, It's not that
Speaker 1: I received backlash because people pretty much knew, like I said,
Speaker 1: they knew me for years before this about other shots,
Speaker 1: so they've already known. But the same thing, it's not
Speaker 1: that I was against shots in general period. It's that
Speaker 1: you have to be informed about everything on both ends,
Speaker 1: a good and a bad. And that's the problem that
Speaker 1: I noticed, which was, you know, doctors and medical professionals,
Speaker 1: they have something called informed consent. This is what they're
Speaker 1: supposed to give the patient. But the sad thing is
Speaker 1: if you don't tell them I want to get informed consent,
Speaker 1: then they are not necessarily going to give it to you,
Speaker 1: which means they're going to give you the good and
Speaker 1: the bad, the positives and the negatives and the alternatives.
Speaker 1: So if I want to take this shot, what are
Speaker 1: some of the other things that I could do? They're
Speaker 1: don't give you a naturopathic route, to give you the
Speaker 1: herbalist route, to give you the nutritionist route. That's what
Speaker 1: informed consent is. They're supposed to give you these things.
Speaker 1: But because they were not doing that and they were
Speaker 1: attacked and people and all that, I said, well, you
Speaker 1: can attack me, but you're gonna attack me. Just know
Speaker 1: you're gonna get all the smoke with all the facts.
Speaker 1: That's all you're gonna get coming from me. And that's
Speaker 1: what they ended up doing. That's why they didn't bring
Speaker 1: you on certain platforms. But the platforms I did go on,
Speaker 1: they got all these facts. And today it stands true
Speaker 1: everything that we said. That's that confident in you, that
Speaker 1: can I ask feel a personal question. Where you raised
Speaker 1: by mom and dad or just a single parent? Most
Speaker 1: of my mother? Let me tell I tell your mother,
Speaker 1: I'm taking my head and my wig off to her.
Speaker 1: I admire you. You let me tell what I out
Speaker 1: you the most, that you stand on, what you believe.
Speaker 1: It is so many whishy watching people out here with
Speaker 1: the masses and don't use their own brain. And I'm
Speaker 1: telling you, because it's the most popular does not always
Speaker 1: make it the most right. And it needs to feel
Speaker 1: right to you. And I love that about it. And
Speaker 1: I watched you take a lot of heat. We watch
Speaker 1: I just watched Pupid think when you get when it
Speaker 1: came out with all the foolishness at the Twitter has
Speaker 1: shut you down and we found that that you were
Speaker 1: on the list of the FBI and everything. How did
Speaker 1: that affect your career? I want to know about you
Speaker 1: know what? You you know how it feels to be
Speaker 1: black ball, to be talked about, to have jobs removed
Speaker 1: from you, to have some of your own colleagues not
Speaker 1: respond to you anymore and not pick up the fall.
Speaker 1: You know how this feels. But for me again, because
Speaker 1: I'm not necessarily in the commercial world. I'm not in
Speaker 1: the performing arts, you know, for example, and I'm not
Speaker 1: in sports and things like that. It didn't necessarily do
Speaker 1: much in that arena, but it did do certain things
Speaker 1: when it came to speaking engagements, interaction with certain platforms.
Speaker 1: People not wanting to be around me, because you know,
Speaker 1: when you hear FBI list, you hear in government watch lists,
Speaker 1: some people take that as a badge of honor, which
Speaker 1: I did. I absolutely did. I said, wait a minute,
Speaker 1: so you're attacking me because I'm speaking the truth that
Speaker 1: benefits the human family. I'm not just fighting for black folk,
Speaker 1: I'm fighting for everybody right and you attack me because
Speaker 1: of that to that as a badge of honor. Did
Speaker 1: it affect my money? Yes it did. Did they shut
Speaker 1: down my platforms absolutely, because we use social media, you know,
Speaker 1: to sell our products and to you know, make the
Speaker 1: things known that we want people to know or to
Speaker 1: promote whatever we're doing. So when they cut my Facebook
Speaker 1: at over one hundred and thirty thousand followers, they cut
Speaker 1: my YouTube at one hundred and forty nine thous subscribers,
Speaker 1: they cut my original Instagram at over half a million followers,
Speaker 1: which two and a half three years ago, I was
Speaker 1: over half a million followers back then. So if they
Speaker 1: didn't shut me down, I'll probably be upwards a four
Speaker 1: or five million, right, So all of that affected me
Speaker 1: financially absolutely, and indeed cause people to kind of shy
Speaker 1: away from me because they got nervous. They got really nervous,
Speaker 1: like wait a minute, matter of fact, I'll tell you
Speaker 1: this blame. When that happened, they announced this from the
Speaker 1: White House. From the White House, they said the list
Speaker 1: of twelve people, they said they are called that disinformation.
Speaker 1: Does you're talking about? Jen Saki, who was the former
Speaker 1: White House Press secretary, said these people are dangerous. They
Speaker 1: announced this from the White House. Once that happened, I
Speaker 1: had the first two artists. I'm not em gonna say
Speaker 1: their names, but two major artists, celebrities called me asking
Speaker 1: me was I okay, saying that they knew I was
Speaker 1: doing the work. They knew I was helping the people
Speaker 1: fighting for us, they said, but man, I didn't realize
Speaker 1: that it was to this degree that the government is
Speaker 1: really pissed off at you and eleven other people. Man,
Speaker 1: this is crazy, And I said, no, this is really
Speaker 1: what it looks like in modern time when you truly
Speaker 1: standing up on principle against this system. There are levels
Speaker 1: to this thing that says, so now y'all see what
Speaker 1: it really looks like. Who was one of those people,
Speaker 1: Nick Cannon we heard from? And I want to ask
Speaker 1: you as a black man, and it just as a man.
Speaker 1: This has nothing to do with your faith or your religion.
Speaker 1: Did you ever rethink where maybe I should not have
Speaker 1: because I have had that because just like you, I
Speaker 1: was blacklisted. I've lost money from my own community because
Speaker 1: I speak the way I speak and feel how I feel.
Speaker 1: But in my head I was like, well, maybe I
Speaker 1: should have rethought, and the maybe and then something took
Speaker 1: over me. It's like no, because then I'm lying to myself.
Speaker 1: I can Latin to other people. I can't look far
Speaker 1: and Latin me. It's hop that's right, that's right. I'll
Speaker 1: tell you know it. For I was always raised this way. See,
Speaker 1: I was never a conditioned to look up to the
Speaker 1: system in any way. I didn't believe in white Jesus,
Speaker 1: I didn't believe in sounding clause. I didn't. I'm not
Speaker 1: indoctrinated at all. Whatsoever should I say, for the most part,
Speaker 1: to my knowledge, So therefore I never had that as
Speaker 1: a mentality. But then again, my reality is different so
Speaker 1: other people like yourself who had that, Because you're like,
Speaker 1: wait a minute, this is really messing up my livelihood.
Speaker 1: It does cause you, from a responsible viewpoint, like, wait
Speaker 1: a minute, maybe I could up going about that in
Speaker 1: a more wise way. Be could I have said it differently?
Speaker 1: It's natural to think that way. For me, I said,
Speaker 1: I knew exactly what I was getting myself into. I
Speaker 1: already knew now that I think they were going to
Speaker 1: move as swiftly as they did. Hell no, I did
Speaker 1: not expect it to move so quick. But when it happened,
Speaker 1: I said, you know what, I'm not surprised. I will
Speaker 1: say the other part of it was that it did
Speaker 1: hurt slightly because people who you think really are going
Speaker 1: to stand there next to you be there for and
Speaker 1: you said they're gonna, they're gonna be right there, some
Speaker 1: of those people were not. That was the only thing
Speaker 1: I will say, you know, but outside of that, I
Speaker 1: expected everything else. With you being such a religious person,
Speaker 1: would you believe because I'm strong believer in God? Absolutely?
Speaker 1: Did it make you run to your faith more because
Speaker 1: your faith is shaken? Your faith? I ran to God
Speaker 1: on my knees, on my faith down like this didn't
Speaker 1: don't let my mouth, which you gave me as a gift,
Speaker 1: also be my confident. I don't want yes critical point.
Speaker 1: Absolutely absolutely, that's that's definitely, that's where we That's where
Speaker 1: my faith goes before and after these trials, before and after.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, we we always say, you know,
Speaker 1: I seek refuge. I seek refuge, envied all a lot
Speaker 1: from the accursed Satan, you know, I mean, I'll always
Speaker 1: seek a refuge because I know this is a battlefield
Speaker 1: we're going out too. So make sure of me, protect me,
Speaker 1: shield me, you know, give me the strength that I
Speaker 1: need the guidance, you know, the motivation to stand on integrity.
Speaker 1: A lot of people, you know, they say I'm with
Speaker 1: God and with God. But once the integrity is tested,
Speaker 1: like you said, it's a lot of people who don't
Speaker 1: make it because your faith starts to go more into money, money,
Speaker 1: money versus God. And it's like, okay, how what how
Speaker 1: much does a dollar cost? For real? For some people,
Speaker 1: like what he really willing to sacrifice to make it
Speaker 1: to that other side? Because you already know the rich man,
Speaker 1: he would give up all of his wealth to have
Speaker 1: another day of life. He tried to get into head.
Speaker 1: He tried to pay God to get into head. And
Speaker 1: it's like, yo, he really, you're not gonna that. Don't
Speaker 1: work around there. And there's certain things that we have
Speaker 1: to you know, understand, is that some of us don't
Speaker 1: have a price. And once you get to that, you know,
Speaker 1: people who get to that point, they see us and
Speaker 1: they respect us more because they have multimillion dollar companies,
Speaker 1: but they don't have no peace, They don't have people
Speaker 1: that they can trust around them, They don't have a
Speaker 1: sincere group of family members who they can love because
Speaker 1: they don't cut everybody of y'all sacrifice people. They you know,
Speaker 1: cut corners just to get to where they are, and
Speaker 1: a lot of them regret it, you know. So so
Speaker 1: making money, it's not a problem. It's how we do it,
Speaker 1: you know, It's just how we do it. Now, were
Speaker 1: you raised in the Muslim faith or did you become
Speaker 1: a Muslim after he became a grown up. I was
Speaker 1: actually raised in the nation of this Islam. And I
Speaker 1: mean everything from praying in Arabic, all of that happened.
Speaker 1: I was praying Arabic before I knew what I was
Speaker 1: saying in English. The brother, my baby brother is a
Speaker 1: practice in Muslim Now he's in there, he's been into
Speaker 1: the faith for a few years. He just breaks out
Speaker 1: in phrase three or four times a day, and it's
Speaker 1: sabbaticals and everything. And so when he knew that I
Speaker 1: was talking with you, and he's like, because my Marcus,
Speaker 1: he said, Mark, you're talking brothers. I said, he said,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, wow. Yeah. See, I've told you get
Speaker 1: a lot of love speaking to anyone else. But when
Speaker 1: he knew I was talking to you, he almost had
Speaker 1: a belt that wow, because this is what's going to
Speaker 1: blow people's mind. When I was on the Breakfast Club
Speaker 1: the last time I talked about how I listened to
Speaker 1: the teachers of the minister, Minister Rachon and teaching me,
Speaker 1: reminding me that I'm a black man, a black person
Speaker 1: in this country, and but my presentation is so different.
Speaker 1: And when I got it, I told that as an
Speaker 1: email from one of the brothers of the nation. So
Speaker 1: and when you told me what you told me yesterday,
Speaker 1: I want you to know that made my heart. My
Speaker 1: heart smile. It really made you, said ba. I told
Speaker 1: some of the brothers I was interviewing you, and they
Speaker 1: smiled and then up. You know, that is kind of
Speaker 1: a heard of to me that a would accept a
Speaker 1: person of a transgender experience like you know, not like
Speaker 1: welcome me into the fall, but just to be cool
Speaker 1: to want to listen to me. Come on, I don't
Speaker 1: know what, don't seriously risk. I'm telling you, I'm being
Speaker 1: a woman a long task. I have went over many
Speaker 1: many hurdles and heels and dealt with all types of
Speaker 1: people from even when I was in prison to politics
Speaker 1: everywhere and everybody. Just because they have don't have a
Speaker 1: religious faith, they don't open up to me because my
Speaker 1: presentation is strong, and I stand on who I am.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to eat for nobody but guy he
Speaker 1: got personally. Yeah, I can't explain these titties. I told you, brothers,
Speaker 1: because you know a lot of people think that the
Speaker 1: Muslim brothers, starting with the leader spell Hey, I never heard.
Speaker 1: How is it that you and these brothers can show
Speaker 1: this solidarity towards somebody like me? And I'm asking a
Speaker 1: very honest and genuine question. No, no, I'll said this way.
Speaker 1: And see, one thing that a lot of people get
Speaker 1: mixed up is the religious dog with the spiritual practice. See,
Speaker 1: we were spiritual people. We have a lifestyle. That's that's
Speaker 1: another thing. We don't really have a religion. We have
Speaker 1: a lifestyle, all right. So that means you don't sacrifice
Speaker 1: your people because you think they're not worthy to go
Speaker 1: along with the practice. And now that means you separate.
Speaker 1: Now it's like on the hold on. We all came
Speaker 1: about a hill. A lot of us came from families
Speaker 1: who did drugs, soul drugs, was in prison. We came
Speaker 1: out of prison, some of us ourselves that being on
Speaker 1: the street, in the street, around the street, we just
Speaker 1: come on seeing we gotta we gotta keep things real
Speaker 1: for some people out here. That's why when I talk
Speaker 1: to people and I'm like, I'm a black man from Compton.
Speaker 1: At the end of the day, you can say whatever
Speaker 1: you want to say. My family then did it at all?
Speaker 1: From like I said, drugs, game bang and I got bloods,
Speaker 1: crips my family. I just had a family gathering because
Speaker 1: you know, I lost my older brother, one of my
Speaker 1: older brothers recent so we had a going away ceremony
Speaker 1: for him. I'm talking about bloods right here, crips right here,
Speaker 1: some of them drinking over there, something the smoke it
Speaker 1: over there, and here I am. I'm an active us
Speaker 1: the nation of this law, Bony's family. I don't need
Speaker 1: to judge my family you're talking about. It's like, wait
Speaker 1: a minute, I can be in that grave in two minutes.
Speaker 1: So why am I gonna waste my time trying to
Speaker 1: judge you knowing that, like you said, you having your experience.
Speaker 1: But you know, at the end of the day, what
Speaker 1: this system sees you, as sees me, as sees us
Speaker 1: as they don't give it them. We can call ourselves
Speaker 1: with them whatever we want to call ourselves. Yeah, like
Speaker 1: you are expendable and we're gonna get rid of you
Speaker 1: as quickly as we can. That's it, you know. So
Speaker 1: we're family at the end of the day. That's all
Speaker 1: I got to say. I love that. And and first
Speaker 1: of all condos is for your brother. Excuse me, but uh,
Speaker 1: And I love that you see people. That is hard.
Speaker 1: I tell people see the people I'm seeing what they
Speaker 1: look like or what what the Nolin nations they are
Speaker 1: to see the pros to see me. I'm so fair
Speaker 1: with that, which is why I'm treated so differently. And
Speaker 1: one community it's treated so another way. In my own community,
Speaker 1: it's ly to me. But I'm i'm, I'm I'm like
Speaker 1: you were telling me that too yesterday, which um, which
Speaker 1: blew my mind because to be honest with you, like
Speaker 1: you said, Minneso Farcan doesn't spew hate. We don't spew hate.
Speaker 1: It's just the true haters who happen to control a
Speaker 1: large amount of influence in media or banking or sports
Speaker 1: and industry of you know, I perform arts, acting, etc.
Speaker 1: When we speak the truth about this system, the people
Speaker 1: who run the system don't like the fact that we're
Speaker 1: speaking the truth about the fact that they run the system.
Speaker 1: They say we're haters. And it's like, but you don't
Speaker 1: have any documented, you know, circumstance of us attacking anybody
Speaker 1: outside of self defense because we not know soft people either.
Speaker 1: All right, we do believe in self defense, but we
Speaker 1: don't go out attacking people. We don't attack you because
Speaker 1: of your agender. We don't attack it because your religion.
Speaker 1: We don't attacking because of your gang relation, your politics.
Speaker 1: That's not how we are. We do our best to
Speaker 1: be civilized and be a good example because we know
Speaker 1: we came from the same situations. That's it. So we
Speaker 1: just do our best to be a good example. Most
Speaker 1: of their lives. Muhammad said, don't condemn the dirty glass,
Speaker 1: simply put a clean glass up next to it. Just
Speaker 1: be a good example. That's all I meant so far
Speaker 1: our concept. And he said, I love my family who
Speaker 1: is LGBT and this and that. He's like that, don't
Speaker 1: that'll move me? He said, But how you treat people?
Speaker 1: Does that? Man there, and so many Muslim brothers yourself included,
Speaker 1: have just I love, you know what. I love the
Speaker 1: sense of family and community that the Muslim brothers push,
Speaker 1: especially over than their wives and their women. Because spinning
Speaker 1: me in a so disrespect. And I'm not talking about
Speaker 1: just black men. I'm just talking about me and in general,
Speaker 1: so dis to women, you know, and fair minister, fair count.
Speaker 1: I always teaches love your wife and and and watching
Speaker 1: over the black He talks about the black woman. But
Speaker 1: and I know he means women in general. But I
Speaker 1: know he he though he's part of a talks about
Speaker 1: us and that and that is you know where he's
Speaker 1: not this. He don't need to be. He wasn't raised
Speaker 1: in the white out holes. He was raised in a
Speaker 1: black house. We can only what we damn No, I
Speaker 1: was raised in a black house. I know what it
Speaker 1: is to have a black mother. But they and not
Speaker 1: admonishes women and holds women up. I wish some of
Speaker 1: these younger brothers would hear that and learn that and
Speaker 1: understand that you will never be a successful man in
Speaker 1: this life. To me, this is my opinion without good
Speaker 1: women or good woman on your side. That's a fact.
Speaker 1: I strongly believe that. You know. And and when I
Speaker 1: say that as a trans woman, they're like, well what
Speaker 1: that So if it's a fifth, if you got you
Speaker 1: a good man on your side or whatever you have,
Speaker 1: I'm looking at that too, But I'm just saying that
Speaker 1: you need a partner in life to lean on to
Speaker 1: in terms of this and that now you both hold
Speaker 1: your own equal weight. But I love that he because
Speaker 1: I'm old school, so I believe that the man is
Speaker 1: supposed to take care of the household. And I pushes
Speaker 1: that and so me if the woman got to do this.
Speaker 1: Some of these young brothers philosophy is so off to me.
Speaker 1: Reason I'm like, I can't even get it. You can't
Speaker 1: get through to him because a man is fucked up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: this left but it And they look at me like
Speaker 1: I'm an anomaly, like are you a man or you
Speaker 1: a woman? I say, I'm flaming row. I don't need
Speaker 1: to be anything else. There's no explanation I need for
Speaker 1: nobody else. But your brothers be so powerful. And you know,
Speaker 1: after haven sit down with you yesterday, came home and
Speaker 1: watch the watch in Malcolma, the police station. The point. Now,
Speaker 1: I love it. I'd love to see that. That's the
Speaker 1: reason why having the conversations are necessary, because, believe it
Speaker 1: or not, you know when you bring up the minister
Speaker 1: and then how we treat our women, et cetera. And
Speaker 1: you said you can't get through this life without having that,
Speaker 1: you know, good strong woman next to us, especially growing
Speaker 1: up in our communities. You know how this is. Our
Speaker 1: families have been destroyed and strategically divided. But you know,
Speaker 1: you you have an image of a time where you
Speaker 1: saw most of our families together or at least practicing
Speaker 1: that mentality of family being together. That that was. It
Speaker 1: was a little different now because social media, because we're
Speaker 1: looking up to these false idols in certain people in
Speaker 1: relationships that don't even really exist. They don't practice what
Speaker 1: they preach, and they're putting up a good facade for
Speaker 1: some of them, but in it's all these false standards
Speaker 1: being put up. So our generation is getting caught up
Speaker 1: in this track watching these people, and it's like, wait
Speaker 1: a minute, I'm going to first of all, not only
Speaker 1: have a woman. I'm going to be married, because we're
Speaker 1: taught that we're only fifty percent a Muslim until we
Speaker 1: get married. We're not even to reel a full man
Speaker 1: until we get married. That's what we're taught in the nation.
Speaker 1: So I'm like waiting and I'm not there handicap the
Speaker 1: whole top fifty mins. I'm at it right, So I'm like, okay.
Speaker 1: Until that happens, we can't even fully call ourselves that
Speaker 1: because that means we are completing the other half of
Speaker 1: our faith when we come together. See it's it makes
Speaker 1: it more of an obligation to have a level of discipline,
Speaker 1: build yourself up, you know, sharpen yourself as a man,
Speaker 1: so that when you finally do come in contact with
Speaker 1: the proper woman, you can treat her the way she
Speaker 1: needs to be treated, respect our she needs to be respected.
Speaker 1: And they're taught the same way as sisters, you see,
Speaker 1: because this whole world to change us into something that's
Speaker 1: crazy as hell. You know, on the base level, no morals,
Speaker 1: no ethics, don't treat nobody the way you want to
Speaker 1: be treated, just crazy, regardless to your orientation, regardless to
Speaker 1: your politics, regardless to or read any of that. We
Speaker 1: have to be able to treat others the way we
Speaker 1: want to be treated. So that's how we're taught. But
Speaker 1: when it it comes to how we treat filled, the
Speaker 1: sisters were very critical about that because of how we
Speaker 1: were manipulated and I would say reverse engineer, taking out
Speaker 1: of our manhood and all of our humanity into something
Speaker 1: that's an enement so we have to relearn that. You know,
Speaker 1: yesterday you're not we're talking politics and I brought up
Speaker 1: Biden and I know you're not a biding supporter. I'm
Speaker 1: not a politics but yeah, are you right? But we
Speaker 1: can't we can't get away from because they're always gonna
Speaker 1: keep like, take us to your leader. I wish with
Speaker 1: did the aliens to come? I wish the leader was
Speaker 1: that other one that orto because I out of took
Speaker 1: the aliens get take it with yall. But so with
Speaker 1: you not? So do do you vote? I knew im
Speaker 1: ote locally for the most part, but almost part because
Speaker 1: I know that directly can be UM obligatory meaning they
Speaker 1: have to buy by that mayor city council, school boards,
Speaker 1: all that stuff. WI. Everybody should be doing that regardless
Speaker 1: in your city because that affects directly, absolutely, exactly exactly.
Speaker 1: And then when it comes to that as far as
Speaker 1: the presidential election, UM, I haven't participated in that. I
Speaker 1: would say maybe the last two presidencies. Uh, you have it,
Speaker 1: but you did? Did you vote for president the first time?
Speaker 1: But that second time? I have to ask you why
Speaker 1: because I've absolutely Well. The first thing is, you know,
Speaker 1: we have to always remember that this system is the
Speaker 1: system it has. It does not respect any person that
Speaker 1: has its own agenda, and it has to survive. It
Speaker 1: base itself in the system of white supremacy, and it's
Speaker 1: doing its best to survive. The crazy part is that
Speaker 1: we believe that if someone who looks like us gets
Speaker 1: access to that seat, that they are now going to
Speaker 1: do things for us because they now have the seat,
Speaker 1: when the reality is the seat is the seat, no
Speaker 1: matter who sits in it. Sometimes to make it a
Speaker 1: crazier person sitting in it, a person who may care
Speaker 1: more about one demographic of people than the next, a
Speaker 1: person who may say I'm here to do this or that.
Speaker 1: But the seat is the seat, and it always has
Speaker 1: its own pre written agenda, literally before you even sit
Speaker 1: in it. So Obama, we're taught, was selected before he
Speaker 1: was elected. And okay, what I mean they really he
Speaker 1: was a good community organized in Chicago, did a lot
Speaker 1: of beautiful work in Chicago. I mean, he was really
Speaker 1: doing some good work. So the brother he's not some
Speaker 1: somebody who just popped up. No, he really was doing
Speaker 1: legit and the good work. But when they became the presidency,
Speaker 1: they already had a pre written script so that they
Speaker 1: could do certain evil things with it. His face, a
Speaker 1: black man's face on it, so that they could later
Speaker 1: on say say, look we put your guy in there.
Speaker 1: Look look what your boy did you see. So now
Speaker 1: a lot of people blabe Obama for everything bad. Was
Speaker 1: like half the stuff y'are talking about was under Bush.
Speaker 1: Some of the other stuff was under Clinton. So but
Speaker 1: you know, like, wait a minute, so you're just you're
Speaker 1: just trying to fast the black man. Wait a minute,
Speaker 1: this is the seat of the president of the United
Speaker 1: States or y'all got to remember this. So he didn't
Speaker 1: go in there and do all these different things. The
Speaker 1: system did what it did had his face in it,
Speaker 1: and some of these moves he did contribute to as well.
Speaker 1: So he has take responsibility for the good and the bad.
Speaker 1: But we always have to remember the system. The seat.
Speaker 1: This is the seat of Pharaoh. This is the seat
Speaker 1: of modern ron audomn Babylon. It's the seat. So whatever
Speaker 1: it comes with the seat is what comes with the seat.
Speaker 1: That's why we have to separate it. And that's black people.
Speaker 1: We definitely thought he was the second coming. Let me
Speaker 1: just yes, we can see. I love that he was
Speaker 1: selected before he was elected. But two things. I'm from
Speaker 1: Chicago to the reason he was successful because he married
Speaker 1: a black That's a fact, and that is a fact.
Speaker 1: And he was such a cool gent. I love his
Speaker 1: you know, he was like the male Stacey Abrams. You
Speaker 1: never see him get the temper stays the same. He's
Speaker 1: always factual. Ready, you know there was I love and
Speaker 1: I love Stacey Avons because Stacey Abons come so correct.
Speaker 1: I want to be a quick like that, but I
Speaker 1: get emotional and I'm cousin out everybody, everybody. I got.
Speaker 1: She equipped and ready to do that. We talked to
Speaker 1: him about that. Yes, that cannot wait for people to
Speaker 1: hear the interview that we conversation that we had yesterday
Speaker 1: and your your your woman was the what's her name? Again?
Speaker 1: It was nice, she's so pretty. Let me Chell something
Speaker 1: my thoughts. She was beautiful when she y'all came to
Speaker 1: the club last week. But yesterday when I got the
Speaker 1: chance to see her, and I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: this lady is. I'm like god, it looked like that
Speaker 1: is And this is why I admire and respect women.
Speaker 1: I am a female impersonator and I'm speaking for me
Speaker 1: I'm not speaking for nobody else in my community. I
Speaker 1: admire women that are beautiful like that because that is
Speaker 1: what I aspired to be when I'm working, when I
Speaker 1: am in my element, and I want to be a
Speaker 1: beautiful woman when I'm not working. I don't want even
Speaker 1: nobody to recognize me. Unfortunately they do, but um that
Speaker 1: and I will always give respect to a woman because
Speaker 1: I think of my mom. You know, I look like
Speaker 1: I act like my mother. I tried to get away
Speaker 1: from my mother as much as possible. And every time
Speaker 1: I'm gonna look into me or I see that, Wow,
Speaker 1: that's with makeup on or without. But it looks like
Speaker 1: some of my community and sisters are trying to come
Speaker 1: just completely discard that. And I don't get that, but
Speaker 1: that is there. It could be bad at me anywhere.
Speaker 1: When that interview, I call it like I see it,
Speaker 1: and that that hopefully that any disrespectful to nobody. But
Speaker 1: I'm telling you that it made me really rethink about
Speaker 1: who I was, Like, maybe I should never speak on
Speaker 1: politics as footing out to my community or what have you,
Speaker 1: but it's so baffling, and I'm telling you, the world
Speaker 1: is such such an uproar with all the foolishness and
Speaker 1: all the crime, but petrified that if we lose the
Speaker 1: White House and November, I'm not even that more afraid
Speaker 1: to Trump as I am the other one from Oh yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I understand. Yeah. See, that's that's the thing when it
Speaker 1: comes to politics here. This is something that um, a
Speaker 1: lot of people don't know actually because I don't. I
Speaker 1: don't talk about it too often. But when I went
Speaker 1: to college, I didn't graduating first off, right, I went
Speaker 1: to Compton College. My major was political science. So I
Speaker 1: was going to go into politics. This was my goal.
Speaker 1: I was going to go into politics, run for schoolboard.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I was serious too. I had the whole
Speaker 1: thing mapped out. I mean when I was running forum
Speaker 1: the associated student body president over there and comptic that
Speaker 1: I put a picture up of me next to Obama
Speaker 1: as my promo flyer to run for stuit By. I
Speaker 1: was so serious. I was eighteen to two thousand and eight,
Speaker 1: you know. So I was really serious about it because
Speaker 1: I said, you know what, the way that I could
Speaker 1: help by people is by going into politics to help
Speaker 1: to you know, do things that really impact that really
Speaker 1: changed conditions, or so I thought, and that was until
Speaker 1: my first day. I'm talking about the first class playing
Speaker 1: my teacher who was an alumni from UCLA political science teacher.
Speaker 1: I will never forget this, this short, little white man
Speaker 1: who just said the truth. He opened up the class
Speaker 1: by saying, for those of you who think you know
Speaker 1: anything about politics, just know that everything you thought you
Speaker 1: knew is a lie. So first thing this man said,
Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, I'm listening to him. He said, no,
Speaker 1: politics is not controlled by the vote. Politics is controlled
Speaker 1: by money and money interest only. And those who have
Speaker 1: the money control the vote, and those who control the
Speaker 1: vote are the ones who control the destiny of everything else.
Speaker 1: And so when he said that, it hit me because
Speaker 1: I'm like, yes, votes matter in certain instances. They do.
Speaker 1: They're not totally, you know, useless. But to vote comes
Speaker 1: from a word which means a witch. So voting is
Speaker 1: a witch right. You're praying for this, you're wishing for this.
Speaker 1: But it also has the economic side under it. That's
Speaker 1: why only certain groups of people get things done, because
Speaker 1: they have a written agenda that they present to these politicians,
Speaker 1: backed up with economic power. That's the side that we
Speaker 1: lose in because we don't put our dollars behind our passion.
Speaker 1: We have to put our dollars behind it. Then we'll
Speaker 1: get more things done. And that's the point that I
Speaker 1: started to look at and I said, damn so but
Speaker 1: you know, I said, well, man, I'll end up getting assassinated,
Speaker 1: you know, before I end up getting that position because
Speaker 1: I'm not going to compromise. And that's when I said,
Speaker 1: I can't go into politics. I have to go into activism.
Speaker 1: And I chose to go that route. Oh thank you
Speaker 1: for educating us. I never knew that. I said, the
Speaker 1: institution is so broken no reason, because I'm telling you
Speaker 1: something right now. If we would just stop looking at
Speaker 1: us and thinking that we were good enough for us
Speaker 1: and when I say, uh, but we keep looking for
Speaker 1: acceptance from another group that will never give us our
Speaker 1: full credit on who we are as just who we are,
Speaker 1: it ain't get being back. I am black, Okay, that's
Speaker 1: the elephant in the room. I'm black, and that's the
Speaker 1: elephant in But damn it, I'm talented. Forget friends, listen
Speaker 1: to my knowledge, listen to the jewels that I have,
Speaker 1: and he helped me develop who I am. Don't see
Speaker 1: what you want me to be, See who I am.
Speaker 1: I hate that we don't see right, I said at
Speaker 1: the time, which is who's in our scurs. And then
Speaker 1: we want to feel bad if we lose certain things
Speaker 1: that we shouldn't because we got to be good enough
Speaker 1: for us. I always tell you, we got to be
Speaker 1: good right, that's right. I tell people that's all the
Speaker 1: time when they start going into the topic of police brutality.
Speaker 1: For example, when they start saying that, you know it's
Speaker 1: normally one. You know, when I'm debating with people on
Speaker 1: the other side and they're like, well, the black throats
Speaker 1: who just comply, And it's like, you know, just comply,
Speaker 1: just just just do what they say. And it's like
Speaker 1: you think we don't do that. We do that all
Speaker 1: the time. I said, you do know that when a
Speaker 1: police officer polls is over, they never asked are you
Speaker 1: a Christian? Are you Muslim? When they find the gun,
Speaker 1: they don't ask you Hebrews are like, you're passing after this,
Speaker 1: you're black crap. They don't ask these questions. They see
Speaker 1: who we are, They know who we are. We need
Speaker 1: to see ourselves and know ourselves and know who we are.
Speaker 1: It's just that simple. The system is united about who
Speaker 1: we are. We need to be united about who we are.
Speaker 1: I think that one more time, please, I want that's
Speaker 1: what the name of this topic gonna be. That's gonna
Speaker 1: lead the name of this episode. And remember that you
Speaker 1: know what's some crazy reason you said something I said
Speaker 1: in my comedy, And I say all the time, if
Speaker 1: the police put me over, they see black, if they
Speaker 1: don't give a damn if I'm trans or gay or LGSNOM,
Speaker 1: they see black, And you're right, I put my hands
Speaker 1: on the dashboard, look at my purse. But you know
Speaker 1: I have learned how to work the system my hands.
Speaker 1: And when Kovid came out and age was so big,
Speaker 1: if a police come off to come at me, I
Speaker 1: ain't gonna even last said. I won't start coughing and
Speaker 1: say I'm trying to get to my medication. If you
Speaker 1: are already afraid of me because of my skin, then
Speaker 1: let me save my life and scared shit out of
Speaker 1: you to let I know I got you. I've been
Speaker 1: a tricky world, so I have to learn to tricks
Speaker 1: to manipulate the world to what to be what I
Speaker 1: wanted it to be. So if I'm pulled off about
Speaker 1: the police and or you one of them. I get
Speaker 1: the coffin. I'm sick. I'll tell you anything because the
Speaker 1: objective is to get home to my children. So why
Speaker 1: will you right? You're right, You're right, and that I
Speaker 1: have hands to learn those tricks and will teach those
Speaker 1: to my children. If it's going to say getting foster,
Speaker 1: they want to get hostile. They they push everybody they
Speaker 1: can to put their hand on your heart. Why your
Speaker 1: heart beats so fack because I'm petrified for my life.
Speaker 1: But I'll tell them you should be for yours because
Speaker 1: I'm contagious. What the hell away from me? I hope
Speaker 1: you're down all of that, right, Yeah, you know. And
Speaker 1: I'm saying to you guys and to y'all, and I'm
Speaker 1: sitting as a joke, but that is my real life reason,
Speaker 1: that is my real truth. Often I'm not stopped by
Speaker 1: the police officer thing because I'm a I'm a good
Speaker 1: driver both for the most part, I have legal right now.
Speaker 1: It's twenty twenty three, and I'm joking about this, but
Speaker 1: the situation is barbaric because you know, I still have
Speaker 1: to teach this to my children now and we're talking
Speaker 1: about that, and I hate that. I would have thought
Speaker 1: that my kids would have been able to drag without No,
Speaker 1: I would have thought George was the worst of my problems. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a reality. And that's the main thing that I
Speaker 1: think that's one of the most powerful things we discussed
Speaker 1: was people forget the children. They really forget the fact
Speaker 1: that we have an entire generation. This thing doesn't end.
Speaker 1: We have to pass this down to the next, then
Speaker 1: they have to pass it down to the next, and
Speaker 1: so on and so forth. We want to equip them
Speaker 1: with as many solutions and not problems as possible so
Speaker 1: that they can get around the problems that we went through.
Speaker 1: That's what we're supposed to do, given the wisdom and guides,
Speaker 1: so that they can go through less issues because they
Speaker 1: their arm they know exactly what to do. Yeah, Pops
Speaker 1: told me this, Moms told me this, The uncle to this.
Speaker 1: Auntie told me that, I know what that is. Yep.
Speaker 1: I see that they're getting a map on that. That's
Speaker 1: what we want to give them, you know. And so
Speaker 1: we get caught up in this individualistic I'm not trying
Speaker 1: to leave nobody. I'm gonna live my life. And it's like,
Speaker 1: you got too many people right now who feel like
Speaker 1: they haven't lived yet. But it's like, wait a minute,
Speaker 1: you have children. Now, you have an entire life that
Speaker 1: you have to look after. So you can't just be
Speaker 1: out here be irresponsible when this whole life is watching
Speaker 1: you and looking up to you. So they're gonna do
Speaker 1: what you do, say what you say, They're gonna add
Speaker 1: how you act. And that's something that a lot of
Speaker 1: people in this generation, you know, specifically I don't know,
Speaker 1: really lose sight of. So when we talked about that,
Speaker 1: I'm we covered that in almost every topic we discussed.
Speaker 1: Was the children. Yeah, too many parents nowadays allowing teachers
Speaker 1: and hentering their theories their children. That's like they're not
Speaker 1: raising their own children. And it's scary because especially these
Speaker 1: younger parents, they don't listen to the elders, the eldest
Speaker 1: you know, they oh you, oh, you don't know. You
Speaker 1: don't know. The elders no, because not because they they
Speaker 1: they heard about it, They dive through it, they survived,
Speaker 1: so they can how to go this way instead of
Speaker 1: going that way. For this reason. It's not that this
Speaker 1: is a faster way, but this is a safer way.
Speaker 1: The dunk kids A knuckle is that you do know
Speaker 1: that generation z Z is the last letter of the alphabet.
Speaker 1: So after that, I just gonna stand this high close
Speaker 1: to earth and we are that's real. No, this is real.
Speaker 1: It's real. And this thing right here is the biggest
Speaker 1: gift and the biggest curse at the same time. This
Speaker 1: right here, it's it's it's crazy. It can give you
Speaker 1: all these space feed on one hand, but it could
Speaker 1: put you in a trap and each on a situation
Speaker 1: to where you can self incriminate yourself for the rest
Speaker 1: of your life. I mean, it's just it's too many things, man.
Speaker 1: And that's why again I tell people this all the time,
Speaker 1: do not put things on social media that you do
Speaker 1: not want to come back onto you. Just don't. Just don't, Yeah,
Speaker 1: because you know now they're going after the res at
Speaker 1: really they're using your words against you. I'm like, this
Speaker 1: is right, So y'all making art imitate life. It's very real. This.
Speaker 1: I know art sometimes does imitate life and we live
Speaker 1: in fantasies. But now y'all were making art imitate life.
Speaker 1: So if I make a rap song and say I
Speaker 1: just shot up the Grandmam and blew up the train,
Speaker 1: and that happens down the line, even if it wasn't me,
Speaker 1: But y'all gonna use it at me just because I
Speaker 1: use those lyrics and I might have been in the
Speaker 1: vicinity it is, you said. The reason I wish that
Speaker 1: y'all could get to these young brothers. I wish the
Speaker 1: Muslim brothers could reach these young brothers. Y'all track, and
Speaker 1: I'm not talking about reaching back going to where they at.
Speaker 1: You got to get up in their money, but I
Speaker 1: don't know what it requires for y'all to get you'd
Speaker 1: be surprised, I know. See. The thing is it's not
Speaker 1: promoted that much. It's not promoted that much, but we
Speaker 1: talked to a lot of them, a lot going to
Speaker 1: reach out to us. And I'm talking about the artists,
Speaker 1: the rappers of course, and were always in the hood.
Speaker 1: You know that that's what we stay in the hood.
Speaker 1: So that's that's that, so they know it's in the hood.
Speaker 1: But the social media, the way it's set up is
Speaker 1: don't promote the successful moves, promote the hood, Promote the gangster,
Speaker 1: promote that, promote the drugs, the money, promote that, but
Speaker 1: don't promote your spiritual life, how you're eating properly, who's
Speaker 1: guiding how are they guiding to, you know, have more
Speaker 1: morals ethics? How you you know your manhood, your masculinity
Speaker 1: or your femininity, your womanhood. They don't want that to
Speaker 1: be promoted. I'm gonna tell you this. I was on
Speaker 1: dream Chats with Noriega, and Noriega told me, he said,
Speaker 1: the reason. Do you know that there is no artist
Speaker 1: development anymore in rap? He said, there used to be,
Speaker 1: as you know, artist developed. They would teaching about credit.
Speaker 1: They were teaching about how to you know, where to
Speaker 1: put them money, how to operate, and interviews, things like that.
Speaker 1: He said, they took that stuff out. I said, I said, well, also,
Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you this. They also make sure
Speaker 1: to keep a division between the generations of hip hop
Speaker 1: rap artists and things like that, because you will teach
Speaker 1: them the game about contracts, You'll teach them how to
Speaker 1: get their money, You'll teach them how to operate so
Speaker 1: that they don't get caught up in things. And they
Speaker 1: make sure they keep you apart. He said. He's out
Speaker 1: telling me right now. You not know how true that is.
Speaker 1: He said, they keep us divided. That's that's another thing.
Speaker 1: A lot of them are kept away from us. The activists,
Speaker 1: the researchers, those who have the knowledge, the wisden like yourself,
Speaker 1: the guidance. You've been through this comedy game long enough,
Speaker 1: you can give some real good game. But they make
Speaker 1: sure they keep people in between. They have handlers, is
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And it's it's a strategic thing to
Speaker 1: keep us away from our people. It still don't work.
Speaker 1: We're gonna get to them, you know, may take a
Speaker 1: little more time, but it's a real thing. I would
Speaker 1: love for the you brothers with men's and fairy kind
Speaker 1: of brothers like you to get a hold of some
Speaker 1: of these younger athletes. I've watched what happened with Jayon
Speaker 1: Brand just recently because he fled. They go from rags
Speaker 1: to richest, and they don't have anybody in between and say, hey,
Speaker 1: ten dollars yesterday, now you get ten million to day.
Speaker 1: Slow down, calm that it could all be taken away
Speaker 1: in a second. But they don't have strong being like
Speaker 1: you that we need, we need strongly to get right
Speaker 1: in between yesterday and tomorrow morning overnight. Hey, it's gonna
Speaker 1: look good to you. They're gonna offer you everything. Think,
Speaker 1: slow down, understand that just like you get it that
Speaker 1: fast it could be taken away that they when they
Speaker 1: went after h Irving carry Irving. I wonders he didn't
Speaker 1: put that out. He re shared something and they went
Speaker 1: after him and made him grovel it and apologize and
Speaker 1: took a takeaway. And that is the power of money
Speaker 1: and power, because when you don't have it, and then
Speaker 1: you get it and you get used to it, you
Speaker 1: don't That's true, that's true. I made my millions first
Speaker 1: because they yeah, but they don't know me. And God
Speaker 1: cool that that player loved me because I love That's real.
Speaker 1: That's where all the money really is. That's where the
Speaker 1: wealth really comes from. And again that's why I said,
Speaker 1: the rich man will pay you for your peace of mind.
Speaker 1: He will pay you to have that because he ain't
Speaker 1: got that. Most of them are living in the hell
Speaker 1: right now, billions and billions of dollars and they don't
Speaker 1: have anybody they can trust. I talked to a lot
Speaker 1: of them, A lot of them I talk to, and
Speaker 1: they tell me all the time, reason I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't have this person I can trust. I thought,
Speaker 1: I can trust this. Now that's when it's doing this
Speaker 1: to me. Man, I can't believe and we have to
Speaker 1: now go backwards, you know, how is your family life?
Speaker 1: And then teach them about certain basics. And it's like,
Speaker 1: like you said, these young brothers going from ten dollars
Speaker 1: ten million, they don't know what the hell to do.
Speaker 1: They go crazy. I mean, it's like you're like a
Speaker 1: child on the candy store, but the whole world is
Speaker 1: open to you. Now you don't know what to do,
Speaker 1: no discipline or nothing. Here's the killer reason. They keep
Speaker 1: seeing it and then they keep repeating it. The guy
Speaker 1: player in Vegas last year who had the car who
Speaker 1: lady hundred of dollar speed, you know, because he had
Speaker 1: a three hundred thousand dollars sports car and he was
Speaker 1: I got millions of us. They feel invisible, like you
Speaker 1: can do, like they can do anything. Money's gonna stop
Speaker 1: a bullet. Kobe Bryant resting pieces when his baby five
Speaker 1: hundred billion dollars world renowned that when the helicopter went down,
Speaker 1: the money true making piece. I thought Kobe was great
Speaker 1: when I couldn't believe it. But I'm telling you, I
Speaker 1: hope I never make the Simpsons cartoon because everything that
Speaker 1: is cold Simpsons, the Simpsons let me everything that came
Speaker 1: to them, been on the census like years ago. That's true.
Speaker 1: That's funny, oh Simpsons. So you say, I hope that
Speaker 1: when when people get a chance to listen to Laughing
Speaker 1: Nerd and when they get a chance to listen to
Speaker 1: us on intellectual extremists next week, that they can see
Speaker 1: we are two very different people that having a real
Speaker 1: convers This is all I want people to see. It
Speaker 1: ain't got to be this, this, this, this, It could
Speaker 1: be one level, one people, one America. But therefore, the
Speaker 1: powers that be, like you said, it's so many interferences
Speaker 1: that they follow because people don't know who they are
Speaker 1: in here and then here that they played following the leaders.
Speaker 1: So if it's not popular, then it's not worth righting.
Speaker 1: And the main thing that they are afraid of it
Speaker 1: is the unity of the people, because once the people
Speaker 1: are united, the system will fall. They know this, they
Speaker 1: know so they have to do their best to keep
Speaker 1: us the vibe. But still it didn't work, and it's
Speaker 1: not working. We will be united as a people, that's
Speaker 1: the fact. And like you said, even if it's I
Speaker 1: live on this block, you live on that block. We
Speaker 1: pass each other. We may go to the same grocery
Speaker 1: store cent We have our own areas, but we come
Speaker 1: together for things that are needed, and we don't have
Speaker 1: to attack each other. We can disagree with certain things,
Speaker 1: but we don't have to be disagreeable. We may not
Speaker 1: see eye on certain things, but we take each other's
Speaker 1: eye out. We still want each other that, you know,
Speaker 1: be ego and have justice and fairness. So no, you know,
Speaker 1: I think this is going to do a lot more
Speaker 1: good than bad. And some people may get mad at it.
Speaker 1: I really don't care because we're doing what's right regardless
Speaker 1: they ain't not really too can enough money away from
Speaker 1: me anyway, I'm glad, you know. It blows me reason
Speaker 1: that it was. You was just making a point and
Speaker 1: I wanted to about us living in the same I
Speaker 1: tell my trans sisters and brothers and LGBT community all
Speaker 1: the time. They don't. It's not that they want to
Speaker 1: hurt us all the time or they want to see us.
Speaker 1: He's not that granted. There are some people who it's
Speaker 1: just I don't know. For some reason, they want to
Speaker 1: be violent, and I think that's fear. I believe that
Speaker 1: that is fear because if you don't understand, then you
Speaker 1: go straight to fear. But if you take the time
Speaker 1: to have a too minute conversation, especially if somebody as
Speaker 1: cool as me now might tell other queens that's cool,
Speaker 1: it's me. Let me just let y'all know that. But
Speaker 1: if you you don't see that, oh my god, this
Speaker 1: is just another person. The presentation is different, the lifestyle
Speaker 1: is different, but this is another human being. And I
Speaker 1: don't they You straight people and people outside the community
Speaker 1: don't wish it. Always wish to see ill will or
Speaker 1: want to see us not eat or hurt or But
Speaker 1: when we come in with this attitude of like, oh
Speaker 1: they don't like me, or they don't they don't like
Speaker 1: what I am, it's not even always the case. I
Speaker 1: understand the misunderstandings, and a lot of time it is
Speaker 1: just I don't understand it. So it reversed me back
Speaker 1: to fear, and we, as the LGBT community or trans
Speaker 1: go straight to the defense. We go straight to the defense.
Speaker 1: Experience has taught me not to go straight to the defense.
Speaker 1: That story I told you about Kenya bears and I
Speaker 1: didn't finish that story yesday, so he saw me with
Speaker 1: one set of eyes, but by time I finished explain
Speaker 1: it to him, how much I enjoyed the movie and
Speaker 1: what the movie did for me. He looked at me
Speaker 1: with a whole different set of ads. In two minutestries,
Speaker 1: I changed his man. He put his arm around me
Speaker 1: and took the picture with me, and the body language
Speaker 1: said it all because I removed the level of fear
Speaker 1: that I'm not this, I'm just another person having a conversation.
Speaker 1: I couldn't enjoy the movie because I'm trains. I say
Speaker 1: the same thing everybody else say. It is preposterous to me,
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna. I'm it's gonna I'm gonna stand alone
Speaker 1: for a long time. I do know that takes the
Speaker 1: way that we're gonna make some changes. This will do,
Speaker 1: like I said, far more positive than negatives. Will be
Speaker 1: a lot of people looking like wow, I can't believe
Speaker 1: I just saw that, And like you said, just have
Speaker 1: an actual conversation, because the same thing with me, see mine.
Speaker 1: The extreme is deal with white people. It's that they're like, wait, okay,
Speaker 1: you in the nation this line, don't y'all hate white people?
Speaker 1: Like if we hate the white people, why am I
Speaker 1: not breaking your face right now? So? Why am I
Speaker 1: not attacking you right now? Y'all here about six staves.
Speaker 1: He got huge hands. Really, I'm like, come on, you
Speaker 1: know so, but when we have a conversation like damn,
Speaker 1: why are you? You know you have families, you you
Speaker 1: eat too, you okay, you want to be safe and
Speaker 1: have peace and you know, just have a decent life. Okay,
Speaker 1: it's the same thing. But we have to treat each
Speaker 1: other how we want to be treated. You know, it's
Speaker 1: just real simple. I'm not gonna come at you and
Speaker 1: be aggressive towards you. That's not how we do things.
Speaker 1: Have a conversation. It's just that simple. We're talking nations.
Speaker 1: Lam Yeah, communications solve que Because you put up a
Speaker 1: post recently, I don't know if it was the old
Speaker 1: post or a new post, and he says trans women
Speaker 1: are me and dressed up as women, and trans me
Speaker 1: and our women dressed up as me. I don't know
Speaker 1: if you were quoting somebody else, or if that was
Speaker 1: your feeling or what have you. But let me ask
Speaker 1: you a question at very so, whenever you have a kid,
Speaker 1: because you're going to have children one, they're cup quite
Speaker 1: a few of what if one of your children ever
Speaker 1: came to you and said that they felt like they
Speaker 1: would transgender, how would you personally? That's when I say
Speaker 1: a pregnant hypothetical. But I'll respond and I'll say, well,
Speaker 1: the first thing is, I asked them what made them
Speaker 1: come to that conclusion, as you know, is there something
Speaker 1: they watched, something they read, something they self did, something
Speaker 1: happened to them, you know, really going to the source
Speaker 1: of things, because we all know there's a source whatever
Speaker 1: it is, but there's something that caused that to click
Speaker 1: and turn on or anything. So I'd ask my child
Speaker 1: questions and I really asked them and analyze and then
Speaker 1: go into helping to educate them about what these things are.
Speaker 1: Do you even know what trans is? Do you know
Speaker 1: what that really means? Not necessarily you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: really educate them. See, like, that's the thing I loved
Speaker 1: about how I was raised. We were actually talked to
Speaker 1: and educated about this stuff. This is what that is,
Speaker 1: this is what they Because when I was younger, I
Speaker 1: had cousins who were gay. So I was four or
Speaker 1: five six years old, I saw some things up. Hell
Speaker 1: was that? And my mom would taught me and my
Speaker 1: sisters were teaching me and my brothers educated. Oh that's
Speaker 1: what that is. That's what that is. That I was like, oh, okay,
Speaker 1: so they actually taught. They taught me what this was.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to attack, going to learn, ask questions, educate,
Speaker 1: and enlighten. That's how it needs to be because, to
Speaker 1: be honest with you, in today's time, the majority of
Speaker 1: these children are falling into a trend because of what
Speaker 1: they're being promoted to and overwhelmed by and being propagated with,
Speaker 1: and they don't even know what this stuff is. I
Speaker 1: saw a video right before we got on of a
Speaker 1: child and I said, whoever the parent is of this
Speaker 1: child is extremely irresponsible and wicked because I said that
Speaker 1: ten year old didn't write what she's reading right now.
Speaker 1: This ten year old child said I'm a ten year
Speaker 1: old trans non binary and started saying, you know what
Speaker 1: about my lifestyle threatens you so much? They were reading
Speaker 1: this in front of the school. But I was like,
Speaker 1: you're ten years old? What is non bulinary transgender? Not?
Speaker 1: I said, whoever this the parent, whoever old that thing
Speaker 1: for that child is. I said that you are extremely
Speaker 1: irresponsible because if that's where the child gets to, then
Speaker 1: that means they've gone through experiences, they know what that is.
Speaker 1: They know what it means. Okay, if you can articulate
Speaker 1: it thoroughly and you genuinely have it in your mind
Speaker 1: and your heart, your spirit. Like you said, it's a
Speaker 1: thoroughld experience. It ain't a coaching put on. It's not
Speaker 1: a hate where in a pair shooes you put on.
Speaker 1: It's much deeper than that. And most of these children
Speaker 1: that they don't have none of these experiences. It is
Speaker 1: propagadat heded as a trend that they are being conditioned
Speaker 1: to jump into. For the most part, in this generation.
Speaker 1: I can't speak for other generations, but this one, I
Speaker 1: ask them, so, what does that mean? They can't even
Speaker 1: define it. I'm like, okay, it's it's a it's an
Speaker 1: a gim yeah whatever it answer is that you were
Speaker 1: still willing to work with you a child, because I
Speaker 1: hate when when I hear say, well, I'm just gonna
Speaker 1: disgregard them, I'm at my reeds or whatever you have
Speaker 1: to here is because I have some friends who have
Speaker 1: gay kids that they have just turned their background, and
Speaker 1: I always tell them, as soon as you realize that
Speaker 1: the love for your child is stronger than what your
Speaker 1: child has become, you're gonna be a whole person, because
Speaker 1: that made you a whole man to me for real reason.
Speaker 1: If I ever thought anything else, which I never did,
Speaker 1: that right, there was a bona fact. Great answer, because
Speaker 1: at least you're willing to take the tab to deal
Speaker 1: with your child doing I got I'm transgient. I had
Speaker 1: a daughter when she was fifteen or sixteen. She's like, dad,
Speaker 1: I think I like girls. I gave it no energy.
Speaker 1: I didn't feed it. I said, okay, okay. Two days
Speaker 1: later she had a boyfriend. She picked the worst ones
Speaker 1: off the bunch, but she never looked back on it.
Speaker 1: Sometimes I think when you don't feed it, it just
Speaker 1: won't grow. That's not the cases, but in this case
Speaker 1: it worked. Now I almost wish she would get up,
Speaker 1: But I love that because and I had a conversation
Speaker 1: with a young lady recently, Angela Stanton, who has a
Speaker 1: transgender daughter, and they was all in the public, all
Speaker 1: on Donna, I'm not down Hill on doctor Field and
Speaker 1: argument call each other's names, and when she and I,
Speaker 1: because nobody had listened to this woman, so when she
Speaker 1: talked to me, she thought, well, I thought, definitely, when
Speaker 1: you become transgender, they cut they can't tell y'a off.
Speaker 1: I said, no, that it's at all. So she was
Speaker 1: and nobody here there was playing to Everybody just attacked
Speaker 1: her for how she said about a child. So when
Speaker 1: she and I had a conversation, she was like, flame,
Speaker 1: you made me know that it was all right, my
Speaker 1: daughter could still have kids. And she actually started calling
Speaker 1: her her transgender child her daughter because she wouldn't address
Speaker 1: the girl that's her door. She was sided and I
Speaker 1: was telling people, you ain't got nothing to do with that.
Speaker 1: That's high kid. I told you that yesterday. When it's
Speaker 1: your kid, every tree else got to ship the hell up.
Speaker 1: Not your foster kid, not your adopted kid, not your
Speaker 1: STEMP kid. When it comes from your own Lloyds, baby,
Speaker 1: I stand it from the train for one. That's real.
Speaker 1: That's that's real. And again just just to make it
Speaker 1: real clear for anybody who's ever thought, you know, again,
Speaker 1: I have family. You know, it's LGBT and UH and
Speaker 1: whatever other ident you know, identification. And they classified themselves
Speaker 1: at BOO because I wanted to make sure you you
Speaker 1: were updated with, like you said, some of the new stuff,
Speaker 1: this younger generation and that this stem is putting in
Speaker 1: the pot now you're like, Okay, it used to be gay, bisexual,
Speaker 1: you know, maybe maybe queer a few few letters. Now
Speaker 1: this thing, this thing is blue. It's blowing up to
Speaker 1: a level now where it's like, okay, who's funding this.
Speaker 1: That's what I was, you know, putting on the table,
Speaker 1: is this system is funding the pushing of this because
Speaker 1: the majority of people that I know who are in
Speaker 1: the LGBT are not in support of most of the
Speaker 1: stuff that this government is pushing by using the LGBT
Speaker 1: that use it through that rainbow flag and they pushing
Speaker 1: stuff on the children and pushing this over here, and
Speaker 1: it's like, WHOA, wait a minute, you saying I just
Speaker 1: want to live my life. I want to live my life.
Speaker 1: I don't want to force it on you. I'm not
Speaker 1: trying to cancel you. I'm not trying to prevent you
Speaker 1: from eat, having a job. WHOA, this is different, but
Speaker 1: that's what this government is pushing. That's why I wanted
Speaker 1: to make it clear. It's no hate for nobody when
Speaker 1: it comes to that. We have family, were family. So
Speaker 1: I'm so I'm gonna hate you, but I'm gonna be
Speaker 1: cool with my brother who kills his other brother because
Speaker 1: he was wearing blue and it's wearing red. Is that?
Speaker 1: Is that how we're playing this game? Now? See I
Speaker 1: don't go in that direction. I don't. I don't agree
Speaker 1: with either thing. But I know for a fact that
Speaker 1: if I disagree with that, I gotta have the same
Speaker 1: energy over here. But I can at least love my
Speaker 1: people still and say yeah, I may not like a behavior,
Speaker 1: but I love you. You're my family. See it's real
Speaker 1: simple that and I'm telling you is if people would
Speaker 1: stop trying to make it way more than it is
Speaker 1: and look at it in a simplistic manner or look
Speaker 1: at it, it would be so difficult. When you told
Speaker 1: me that yesterday about you, Rope said that they had
Speaker 1: a hundred jigs there and I'm like, what, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: And I said this honestly, I said, this can't come
Speaker 1: from nobody but a white man, and that's where it
Speaker 1: came from. I'll just to be honest. It is. It
Speaker 1: is out of control. And I hate that they make
Speaker 1: some of our black brothers who have their finger on
Speaker 1: the parts. Because I thought Nick Cannon was about to
Speaker 1: do something great with that whole doctor Ceb thing, But
Speaker 1: I I don't know what happened on the fifth. I
Speaker 1: don't know if he's still pursuing that, but it looked
Speaker 1: like when they was trying to take everything. I'm actually
Speaker 1: in that document I'm in there. I'm in there a
Speaker 1: lot of people in that documentary. And Nick was saying
Speaker 1: because of all of what was happening, because how they
Speaker 1: came out, and I mean they came at him. People
Speaker 1: don't even know. People have no idea how heavily they
Speaker 1: came after this brother. So you know it's that it
Speaker 1: was put on the back burner for a moment. He's
Speaker 1: still pursuing it, he did say he is still pursuing
Speaker 1: it for sure. Um, they still have some more things
Speaker 1: to record. And the last time I spoke with him
Speaker 1: about that was a couple months ago. But he's still
Speaker 1: pursuing it. I don't know when the release date will be.
Speaker 1: But it was it was a lot. He had to
Speaker 1: fause it because it was a lot they were. He
Speaker 1: had to reorganize and rethink a lot of stuff because
Speaker 1: it was really big. I knew they messed this man,
Speaker 1: because this game ain't shit. I'm up. I'm dick, baby,
Speaker 1: Dick can't even look at it a vagina. They can
Speaker 1: have a two, baby three up good without doing it.
Speaker 1: I thought that was phenomena. And when I experienced what
Speaker 1: I'm experienced it through my community. But I watched my
Speaker 1: sister Tiffany Haddis with all of that foodighes that happened
Speaker 1: with her, and I watched how they tried to manipulate
Speaker 1: and break my sister. I knew in yeah, I'm built
Speaker 1: to handle it, but do I want to deal with it?
Speaker 1: And so when I wanted to be this famous comedian
Speaker 1: or this this movie star or whatever, it really made
Speaker 1: me rethink my values of what I wanted as far
Speaker 1: as success, because Tiffany always says that when we take pictures,
Speaker 1: but then people have to look at their own selves
Speaker 1: and say what level of success do I want? Because
Speaker 1: what I want to bring into my psyche the higher
Speaker 1: you get the wire to your blind. We talked about
Speaker 1: that yesterday. When you open the blind, you have put
Speaker 1: yourself on the auction slab. I don't always want to
Speaker 1: be on the auction slab because I'll tell you to
Speaker 1: go to hell. But that made me really who are
Speaker 1: back to be? Like? You know what I'm gonna I'm
Speaker 1: gonna stay who I am and stay very comfortable being
Speaker 1: who I am, because if I lose me, and I'm
Speaker 1: already a whole lot of a whole lot of everything,
Speaker 1: but if I lose me, I'm gonna lose my mind.
Speaker 1: And I don't want to lose my man. I don't
Speaker 1: because I want to make absolutely absolutely man. I'm telling you,
Speaker 1: like I said, maintain your integrity, do what you know
Speaker 1: you love. Stay right then, because a lot of people
Speaker 1: sacrifice it, did whatever to get up a little higher,
Speaker 1: just a little high, see a little more money, a
Speaker 1: little more status, and they aren't going crazy. They got
Speaker 1: to maintain it. That's why they got it. That's why
Speaker 1: they get so high, so drunk, do all it because
Speaker 1: they can't face the reality of where the hell they
Speaker 1: are now, and they are not happy with it, a
Speaker 1: lot of them, and if some of them try to
Speaker 1: maneuver and maintain but it's like this is how the
Speaker 1: game goes. The higher you go up, it's like you,
Speaker 1: this is where you want to go. And then they they,
Speaker 1: you know, prick off certain people who they know are
Speaker 1: want to help you to maintain who you are, and
Speaker 1: they find them and they pull them off. Your family members,
Speaker 1: your friends and all that, and the next thing, you know,
Speaker 1: you look around it as just you and that person
Speaker 1: who you thought you could trust, but as a person
Speaker 1: who was set up to keep you and maintain who
Speaker 1: you are outside of who you really are. It's a
Speaker 1: it's a cold game. The reason or that sounds so
Speaker 1: much like Whitney Houston's story because with the way the
Speaker 1: base they get rid of so that you know, it
Speaker 1: could just oh my god, that's so scary. Uh not go,
Speaker 1: could not go any further with I'll tell you that
Speaker 1: Tesla Tesla Figuro is the hugest fan of yours. She
Speaker 1: loves my sister right there. He loves Make sure you
Speaker 1: tell me my boy, I says, make sure I tell him.
Speaker 1: Hell up, Oh yeah, we're from the same same neighborhood. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I found out out a couple months ago when we
Speaker 1: were at the Revolt summit and we want the same stage.
Speaker 1: And yeah, she ain't no joke. Though she ain't no joke.
Speaker 1: That's that's that's a strong sister. And I appreciate all
Speaker 1: the words she does for sure. There you ask them
Speaker 1: all ask you this questions as a straight man. Do
Speaker 1: you think that men are intimidated by very strong mentally
Speaker 1: strong women, some of them are. Absolutely some of them
Speaker 1: are because they're but is they're going to take for
Speaker 1: a strong a strong woman to get a good man?
Speaker 1: Can you know? I'll say it this way. The honorable
Speaker 1: this was far con said that the nature of the
Speaker 1: woman is to equal herself up to God, constantly striving
Speaker 1: to always be better. Right. So that's this is one
Speaker 1: side of it, because we have to look at the
Speaker 1: fact that this system is in layers. How we become
Speaker 1: now is in layers. So a lot of women are
Speaker 1: being rewarded because they are looking at keeping the man down,
Speaker 1: specifically in our demographic, but keeping that man down putting
Speaker 1: that woman in the position of leadership because we still
Speaker 1: want to control her. Talking about those who run the system,
Speaker 1: then you have some of the men who want to
Speaker 1: maintain the status, but they are now feeling intimidated by
Speaker 1: these strong women. When a strong and it's not a problem.
Speaker 1: I was raised by a strong woman. We were raised
Speaker 1: by a strong woman. We were raised by strong women.
Speaker 1: But how you handle that is a sign of your
Speaker 1: immaturity or your maturity. I don't mind a strong woman
Speaker 1: being next to me, that's a beautiful bay. But how
Speaker 1: I look at myself as a strong masculine man is different.
Speaker 1: A lot of us are not mature. A lot of
Speaker 1: us are not that masculine. A lot of us are
Speaker 1: not confident in our education, our ability to articulate information,
Speaker 1: and our talents and our gifts. We don't know ourselves.
Speaker 1: We don't know where the hell we came from. We
Speaker 1: don't know our own family, we don't know our history,
Speaker 1: we don't know our culture. And because of what we
Speaker 1: don't know, we're looking at somebody who does know what
Speaker 1: they know and they walk proudly in it. And that
Speaker 1: makes us look at ourselves as inadequate, even though we
Speaker 1: may not say that to a lot of people. Right,
Speaker 1: So there are layers. Then we may not have that
Speaker 1: much money, but this one does. Or we may have money,
Speaker 1: but we don't have knowledge. See, there's layers, So always
Speaker 1: layers of this thing. So if a man starts to
Speaker 1: work on himself, as we're taught, self improvement is the
Speaker 1: basis for community development. If we want the community to
Speaker 1: get better, we have to better ourselves. If I see
Speaker 1: a strong woman, I'm gonna ask her what made you
Speaker 1: so strong? Let's just say I'm a man who's, like
Speaker 1: you know, dealing with his strength and I'm working on
Speaker 1: building it mask what made you so strong? And you
Speaker 1: know she's like, oh dang, nobody really asked me that
Speaker 1: question before. And we have a conversation. Then I can
Speaker 1: help to bring her down to me, and I go
Speaker 1: up to her. We could meet somewhere where we interact
Speaker 1: on a different level. We have to communicate with each
Speaker 1: other and stop I would say, confronting in a negative way.
Speaker 1: Stop competing. Communicate, stop competing. That's the main thing. Me
Speaker 1: being an heterosexual, masculine black man from Compton who was
Speaker 1: a six figure earner, I'm able to sit down and
Speaker 1: listen to a woman speak, not talk over her, or
Speaker 1: to sit down listen to her letter half her space
Speaker 1: because she deserves that. I have my own, she has
Speaker 1: her own. That's why we are side by side, not
Speaker 1: in the front or behind. And to be hones said
Speaker 1: you sometimes a woman does, going from sometimes she does,
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that makes us less of a man. Those
Speaker 1: it stain things. I don't mind sitting back and you shine,
Speaker 1: you shine because you deserve that, or it's some same
Speaker 1: thing you let me shine over here. That's what submission
Speaker 1: truly is. I'm gonna end it on this point because
Speaker 1: a lot of people like you said the submissive slide.
Speaker 1: People get that mixed up with being a slave. It's like,
Speaker 1: that's not what submission is, all right. People they hear that,
Speaker 1: they're like, I want a submissive woman. It's like, wait
Speaker 1: a minute. First off, you need to give her something
Speaker 1: to submit to. That's number one. What value do you
Speaker 1: bring as a man, so where she feels like you
Speaker 1: are worthy to allow you to guide her. Submission is
Speaker 1: to give power over too by your participation. If you participated,
Speaker 1: you're agreeing. Okay, brothers, all right, I'm gonna let you
Speaker 1: leave the house. I'm gonna let you do this. Why
Speaker 1: because you're worthy of it. You got the knowledge clearly,
Speaker 1: you work hard. You know you you have integrity. Oh
Speaker 1: take you, I'll work with you, vice versa. The same
Speaker 1: thing with a man. I don't mind. I submit to
Speaker 1: my woman, meaning she does what she does and I'll
Speaker 1: let her do that and we work together. We have
Speaker 1: to understand what words mean and stop competing with each other.
Speaker 1: And that's the that's the thing that will help us.
Speaker 1: Because this enemy really didn't want us to have good relationships.
Speaker 1: That's why they never wanted us to learn the science
Speaker 1: of mating. They never want us to learn that, because
Speaker 1: if we did, we wouldn't have all this gender war
Speaker 1: nonsense going on right now. Good God, thank you Jesus.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. You just educated something, and
Speaker 1: some ain't gonna get a good wife. Jips from them, jewels.
Speaker 1: You just knowledge. I hope brown with giant invisible filters
Speaker 1: all the time, and go with people head When I say,
Speaker 1: cut forward because they're controlling you, cut the court nobody,
Speaker 1: They say flame you out of control. I'm not out
Speaker 1: of control. I just don't need to be controlled. My mind,
Speaker 1: in my heart, my spirit controls me. My Lord controls me.
Speaker 1: I damn saying that. Nobody tell me what to do
Speaker 1: with my rude ass not to be well stay you
Speaker 1: know how rude that arrest. But you always maintain respect
Speaker 1: to you and you see that's the difference to people.
Speaker 1: Just don't understand people because they don't want to. Sometimes
Speaker 1: I seem to understand you. I want to understand you
Speaker 1: that way. When you do something I don't misunderstand it.
Speaker 1: Then get mad. No, I know, how does person operate?
Speaker 1: How do you know? Because I talked to him, I
Speaker 1: talked to all I went out of conction most powerful.
Speaker 1: Those two things having communicating with somebody and hearing them clearly,
Speaker 1: but listening to what they're saying to you. Boom. I
Speaker 1: could give a million dollars, but I get ten people
Speaker 1: to listen tomorrow. Hear what I'm saying to you, what
Speaker 1: I'm pouring into you, not a word that then pitched
Speaker 1: you off and you ready to go at me. Just
Speaker 1: listen to it. I'm gonna listen to you. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: let you get it all out. I'm gonna hear I
Speaker 1: gonna hear the trigger word. I'm gonna hear what you're
Speaker 1: saying to me. That must be a gift that comes
Speaker 1: with a great strong woman up ring and that's a fact.
Speaker 1: This I just want to tell you, thank you so much.
Speaker 1: And I'm telling you right now this is going to
Speaker 1: do one This for so many people in my community
Speaker 1: to see this Muslim brother is talking to this trans
Speaker 1: woman and it is a real conversation. There is no
Speaker 1: there is no this grow to an argumentative conversation. We're
Speaker 1: just talking to them the conversation. Come on now. But
Speaker 1: you're thinking to me, y'all, I wish you much success.
Speaker 1: I am so glad that you are back on social
Speaker 1: media where you belong, so that you can help reach
Speaker 1: and teach somebody. Because I'm telling you, I listened to
Speaker 1: you when I didn't even had wasn't very aware of
Speaker 1: who you were when the whole vaccine and the pandemic
Speaker 1: was going through. But it was some things that you
Speaker 1: were saying. I think I was in the kitchen making
Speaker 1: a part of grays or something. I had you on
Speaker 1: a loud speaking. I was like, wait a minute, I'm
Speaker 1: like this got it. I was like, I don't want
Speaker 1: to chase So when I looked at this, I said,
Speaker 1: oh h no shit, he only twelve years old. That
Speaker 1: was and I said that I allowed to myself. But
Speaker 1: I'm like, but I kept listening because sometimes we think
Speaker 1: that we are so old. They said, you can't teach
Speaker 1: your old dog new tricks. That's a lie, because I'm
Speaker 1: willing to receive the information that you're going to teach
Speaker 1: you to me if you talk to me and not
Speaker 1: around me. Don't talk over my head, don't talk around
Speaker 1: my back. Talk to me because I want the information transfer.
Speaker 1: Transfer your information to me, because guess what, I might
Speaker 1: have some information I want to transfer back to you.
Speaker 1: That's right, that's right. This is last reason. I want
Speaker 1: to thank you for coming to joining me. Now, where
Speaker 1: can we follow you at? Where can we find you at?
Speaker 1: Absolutely everything is under Reason Islam, Twitter, at Reason Islam,
Speaker 1: Instagram for now. They should be good by now at
Speaker 1: Reason after Monday, right true, it's a Reese Islam I X.
Speaker 1: And also for anyone who would like to schedule me
Speaker 1: for speaking engagements, whether it's in person, different events in
Speaker 1: the community, or on platforms like this, you can go
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Speaker 1: of my um I would say my content right now
Speaker 1: is on Patreon and Rumble, which are both also under
Speaker 1: Rees Islam, and they will hear our podcasts and there
Speaker 1: he'll be on your podcast. So weird on Tuesday, I believe,
Speaker 1: I'm thinking to see the Monday Night of tunes. I'm
Speaker 1: still thinking which one should I hit him with Monday
Speaker 1: night or Tuesday afternoon, but it will be It's it's
Speaker 1: gonna be heavy, It's gonna be heavy, and it will
Speaker 1: be on Rumble. So make sure y'all will follow me
Speaker 1: on Rumbo. Every is Islam because YouTube took your brother down.
Speaker 1: We'll see if we go, you know, gonna get back
Speaker 1: on there, but it will be on rumble. Every is Islam.
Speaker 1: It is such a pleasure talking to your young brother.
Speaker 1: Let me chase it from an old I'm old here,
Speaker 1: I will say I've all enough to be your parents,
Speaker 1: which I really am. But I'm not gonna say that
Speaker 1: right right? Are you young? You're definitely yum. It is
Speaker 1: the genuine conversation that you have had with me, the
Speaker 1: respect that you have shown me, the adoration of coming
Speaker 1: to the club and we're talking. You took the picture
Speaker 1: of me. You know how what that means to somebody
Speaker 1: like me. If it made me it felt abnormal for
Speaker 1: you to treat me so normal. If you understand. Wow,
Speaker 1: and this is the old queen, but it felt abnormal
Speaker 1: to be treated so normal. You made me feel like
Speaker 1: that Dave Chappelle made me feel like that Tiffany had it.
Speaker 1: And I'm telling you, if we're looking for the negative
Speaker 1: is waiting on us. But if you're looking for the positive,
Speaker 1: you might have to go over hurd or and go
Speaker 1: around through the back door. But the positive is waiting
Speaker 1: for you. Sometimes you just got to put a little
Speaker 1: bit more effort into it. Wow. Absolutely, And I'm honored
Speaker 1: again to be on and to have this relationship and
Speaker 1: to always be able to communicate because we olderly have
Speaker 1: a communication on both ends, not one side of it's
Speaker 1: two sided. That's how we're gonna bridge this world. And
Speaker 1: I appreciate you, my brother, Thank you so much. Mysterieson
Speaker 1: is Lively. We all see you. Don't hang up yet,
Speaker 1: late Jam. You can follow me on Instagram at Marrow Flame,
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Speaker 1: to know that March thirty first, April first, I will
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Speaker 1: May fourth through six, I would be at Yonker's Comedy
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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, get your tickets. Every Monday night, we
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Speaker 1: host mister Memphis. Will I appreciate I heard for giving
Speaker 1: me my third season. I appreciate laughing and learning with
Speaker 1: you all because I could not do this without such
Speaker 1: brilliant flame mats and followers. But these conversations right here
Speaker 1: are the conversations that we should have that they don't
Speaker 1: want you guys to see publicly. So we're gonna have
Speaker 1: these conversations so we can make the world a better place.
Speaker 1: Because here, laughing Larne, we are not trying to get
Speaker 1: you to change your mind. We only want to try
Speaker 1: to get you to use your mind, because the mind
Speaker 1: is a terrible thing the way, and some of y'all
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