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Speaker 1: My mother in law refuses to accommodate my allergies, so

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Speaker 1: I brought my own food.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, moms, you canna pack a lunch whatever.

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Speaker 1: I twenty seven female, have been with my fiance, twenty

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Speaker 1: eight male, for five years. I have an allergy to dairy. No,

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Speaker 1: I won't die, And no, I don't just have twenty issues.

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Speaker 2: It's beyond that.

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Speaker 1: Dary causes such bad inflammation in my body that even

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Speaker 1: a small amount can put me out of commission for

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Speaker 1: nearly a week.

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Speaker 2: Ah. Sounds like serious tummy troubles to me.

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Speaker 1: Yep, and she has zero toes. She's zero toes lactose

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Speaker 1: and tolerance A.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's funny. Wait, lack toes intolerant.

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Speaker 3: Wouldn't that imply that they have a plethora of toes?

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Speaker 2: By not kidding into this is they don't tolerate a

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Speaker 2: lack of them.

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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from Fantastic Greed ninety six

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Speaker 1: storytime saw bredd it. So I've always had back knee

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Speaker 1: in general joint issues rolling up, but I've finally narrowed

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Speaker 1: it down within the past few years. While strictly dairy

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Speaker 1: free I will go months on end without any serious

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Speaker 1: back or joint plane. Wow, the moment I have even

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Speaker 1: the smallest amount of butter, toast butter on my toast,

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Speaker 1: or toast on my butter, No butter on my toast,

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Speaker 1: depending on how much you like butter. Yeah, it might

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Speaker 1: be toast on your butter. Yeah, that's what my brothers do, dude,

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Speaker 1: They'll just eat straight up butter.

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Speaker 2: Dude, stick of butter.

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Speaker 3: People have recently I'm about to a science nerd for

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Speaker 3: a half second, but like this this story of like

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Speaker 3: dairy inflaming all of this person's joints, It's like totally real.

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Speaker 3: It's like everyone has their own little microcosm, microbiome of

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Speaker 3: like what kind of foods mess with you in which

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Speaker 3: ones don't. And we're like just starting to figure out

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Speaker 3: that every single person has like own triggers and stuff.

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Speaker 1: Like how the water makes the frogs gay too?

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Speaker 3: Exactly, Yeah exactly like that, Yeah, yeah, exactly like that.

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Speaker 2: That's I can go off on that.

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Speaker 1: Sheees on my burger. My back will literally go out

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Speaker 1: the next day and I'll be in pretty serious pain

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Speaker 1: for about a week until the inflammation goes down. There

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Speaker 1: have been too many occursions.

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Speaker 2: Occurrences, Oh, there have been.

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Speaker 1: There have been too many occurrences of missing work and

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Speaker 1: er visits before I narrowed down the allergy. Believe me,

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Speaker 1: I love cheese, but it's just not worth it anymore.

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Speaker 1: My mother in law has known of the allergy for

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Speaker 1: the past four years. My fiance continues to remind her. However,

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Speaker 1: she still somehow finds a way to add some element

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Speaker 1: of dairy to every dish.

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Speaker 2: Ah.

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Speaker 3: I mean it's not uncommon to cook with dairy, but

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Speaker 3: you should be considerate.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Steak and potatoes, well straight up potato.

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Speaker 2: Just to potato, potatoes are different. Yeah. Yeah, where you

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Speaker 2: put you can put milk in there.

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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to think of something that could should

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Speaker 1: never have dairy in it. I mean steak and eggs,

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Speaker 1: But then you can put the I put dude, So

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Speaker 1: if you put me on this, I would put almond

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Speaker 1: milk and eggs in it. And instead of almond milk,

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Speaker 1: I'd put real milk and then do the eggs. I'd

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, it's weird that you did it with almond

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Speaker 1: Well, she did it, and it tastes and made the

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Speaker 3: Really it did with with almond milk. I'd only like

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Speaker 3: my entire life growing up, I cooked milk with eggs.

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Speaker 3: I could scrambled eggs with milk.

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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, what got chat put in right now? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Anything that you can eat without dairy.

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Speaker 3: I'm curious, yes, And thanks for all the compliments on

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Speaker 3: my drip. Guys, what the heck now?

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Speaker 1: I put up with it for a few months as

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Speaker 1: cream cake which was someone's birthday. Okay, my fiance lost

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Speaker 2: He really he reiterated, he rear.

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Speaker 3: He eriterated, like that video of the guy who's like

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Speaker 1: Okay, he reiterated, Okay, my fiance lost it. He reiterated

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Speaker 2: Well, hey, you're.

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Speaker 3: Right, Maybe maybe have some more empathy about it instead

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Speaker 3: of just like saying it sucks.

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Speaker 2: Dang, that really sucks more for us. Yeah right, yikes.

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Speaker 1: I told my fiance to just I told my fiance

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Speaker 3: I bet she said that with an eye roll. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: And technically she is the problem. Op with their allergy

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Speaker 1: is the problem. Technically, okay, but we could also stand

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Speaker 1: law is a problem. We could say that we've got

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Speaker 1: two problems here. We just need someone to find a solution.

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Speaker 3: Just cook things that don't need milk or dairy, or

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Speaker 3: they're out there. I've seen so many in the chat.

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Speaker 3: They're all they're out there, they're out there.

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Speaker 2: Du spaghetti. I'm at the point spaghetti.

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Speaker 1: Whoa Charlotte. I'm gonna keep going, Wow, should we read that? No,

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Speaker 1: It's okay, that's a big comment that I'm at the point.

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Speaker 2: I'm not really sure what to do at this point.

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Speaker 1: This is more of an event, but I'm open to advice.

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Speaker 1: Edit to add, thank you everyone for your comments and

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Speaker 1: words of encouragement. That's a big edit to add. All right,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna read anyways. Yeah, yes, it would be a

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Speaker 1: She has to live in the South. And yes, I

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Speaker 2: Lol.

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Speaker 1: As of right now, I'll be eating beforehand or afterwards

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Speaker 1: and simply refusing anything I didn't see her make. I

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Speaker 1: appreciate everyone else advice and edits to add boys, what

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Speaker 2: I think that's like that's the path forward.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, is if if this person refuses to stop cooking

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Speaker 3: with dairy or like, then yeah, you just have to

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Speaker 3: But like it sounds like they're pretty dead set in

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Speaker 2: You just think you're allergic to it. I mean, like

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Speaker 2: like everyone's saying, like, why don't you just accommodate to it?

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Speaker 2: Doesn't even like change the like the menu. I don't

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Speaker 2: everybody else Spaghetti, I don't know. I spaghetti's so easy

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Speaker 2: for everyone to eat and prepare.

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Speaker 1: So my mom is gluten free and my grandmother grew

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Speaker 1: up in Louisiana learning how to like cook, so it

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Speaker 1: I can't have gluten, I can't eat your food. So

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Speaker 1: are still like altering recipes. But it's a lifestyle people make.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it really does just feel like a perspective issue

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Speaker 2: Point, especially since he's not coming over all the time.

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Speaker 2: That's the thing, Like they're not every time, like, oh,

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Speaker 2: we're having dinner every night dairy. It's like every time

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Speaker 1: Three mom of four. My family's uh, my husband's family

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Speaker 1: can't have goat milk products it's too close to dairy.

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Speaker 1: Can they have soap goats?

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Speaker 2: Milt? Dude?

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Speaker 1: Also real quick, Okay, story time over New Year's I

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Speaker 3: Hmm it be a cutie pie who's sitting right over

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Speaker 2: but how are those look?

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Speaker 1: They're not good?

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Speaker 2: How did that conversation come up?

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Speaker 1: She said she had a like a farm in San

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Speaker 1: that's all I know.

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Speaker 3: Yep, you were meant to have that discussion about goat teats.

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Speaker 2: She's like, nobody ever talks about my goats. I'm ringing

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Speaker 1: But let me talk this edits at. To be clear,

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Speaker 1: I'm not asking her to modify every dish to my knats.

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Speaker 1: I'm not asking her to bend her I'm not asking

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Speaker 1: to bend her over backwards. Setting aside some potatoes before

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Speaker 1: adding butter seems pretty simple, in my opinion. Setting aside

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Speaker 1: If someone's inviting me for dinner and insisted I just

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Speaker 2: I can eat.

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Speaker 1: My sister has even crazier sensitivities than I, and I've

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Speaker 1: done this countless of times for her.

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Speaker 2: We got an update.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I hope the update is like my mother in

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Speaker 3: law stopped being an unreasonable Meani.

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Speaker 2: I just want to know, like again, like oh like corn,

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Speaker 2: what like okay, here's corn, but everyone has butter on

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Speaker 2: the corn? Like simple? Why?

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Speaker 1: Simple?

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Speaker 2: I think she really is just like she's like one

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Speaker 3: Do you think that she's gonna eat something I made

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Speaker 1: Conspiracy theories in the chat because it's get it out

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Speaker 2: Dairyes? In't it this apology milkshake?

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Speaker 1: Then when we got there, she conveniently forgot to set

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Speaker 2: What that's not? What that's not? Why that's weird?

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Speaker 2: What are you doing?

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Speaker 1: Why are we doing this?

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Speaker 2: Don't do that.

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Speaker 1: This takes her out for a week, Like she won't

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Speaker 2: I props out for father in law. Props up.

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Speaker 1: All right, here's what happened, Here's what OPI did. I

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Speaker 2: No, she said, She said, yeah, don't worry about it.

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Speaker 3: That was my decoy pasta due.

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Speaker 2: She played her trap car. She put her trap car

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Speaker 1: Oh, my fiance stepped in. He's read through this post

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Speaker 2: Dude, what is going on here? What is this?

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Speaker 3: She's gonna break down and be like I was raised

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Speaker 2: And so do you if you're gonna be in my family.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Now she's trying to deflect, trying to make everyone just stop.

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Speaker 1: Can we get a pole insane asylum?

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Speaker 2: Or Joe? Where's she going?

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Speaker 1: We're gonna pull it, Joe, please, I wouldn't see where

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Speaker 2: Fine, fine, Riley, because you're cute you getting the pole asylum?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I'm so. I had a mouthful of

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, we say something else to me today?

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Speaker 3: That also just got me like, what you can't even

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Speaker 1: I told Dakota, we'll do that, okay, story time later.

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Speaker 1: Real quick, as I looked at himself, I'm gonna f

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Speaker 2: It's not hidden. Yeah, it's not hidden.

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Speaker 3: My goodness, Happy New Year, everybody, Welcome back, welcome back.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, it looks like we've got a healthy mix

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Speaker 3: I sitting and say, jail straight through jail, a five

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Speaker 3: hundred year of jail. Put butter on my pasta jail,

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Speaker 2: Oh you're right.

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Speaker 1: We ended up eating dinner without her. Finished my entire

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Speaker 1: It was honestly the most pleasant dinner I had with

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Speaker 1: It searchs okay, story time And we have a little

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Speaker 3: I think that would make it like, I don't think

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Speaker 1: Cassie. If we love people having boundaries, Laura Princess as

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Speaker 2: Literally how they act. They were like, who what are

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Speaker 2: you doing? What are you doing? Stops up? Why did

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's fair, And it seems like she's the

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Speaker 2: So maybe just don't like, don't have the mom host

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Speaker 1: We got it, gets work, it gets crazy, let's go. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I just went a little ahead. While walking to our car,

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Speaker 1: Oh as dramatic as it sounds, I ended up crying

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Speaker 1: Fiance ended up taking me to my favorite arcade and

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Speaker 1: She doesn't have keys to our house and we don't

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Speaker 1: and we're going no contact with mother in law and

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Speaker 1: we'll stay in touch with father in law and sister

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Speaker 1: Comment one, Your dear husband checked his mom. Good for him.

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Speaker 1: That's half the battle one there. Honestly, Op, I would

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Speaker 1: way she did not recall your allergy. She didn't care.

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Speaker 1: She just she just didn't count on her sub But

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Speaker 1: She's backpedaling now, but that won't last. And I think

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I feel like all these are just gonna reaffirm what

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Speaker 2: Just being like, well, what if you don't have the allergy?

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Speaker 3: It's like nah, for some reason, she just I don't know,

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Speaker 3: probably I'd like to see what father in law has

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Speaker 3: Well imagine if this is she's doing this with like

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Speaker 3: the daughter in law, Like, imagine what she does like to.

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Speaker 2: With the husband with the sister.

441
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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, you know, and her husband is also

442
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Speaker 3: okay with no contact, So imagine the context that he

443
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Speaker 3: has about his own mother.

444
00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:44,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, like, well yeah, because I guarantee you he's also like,

445
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Speaker 2: don't worry, I'll talk to my mom about it. Don't worry.

446
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:48,600
Speaker 2: I'm gonna fight for you. I keep fighting for you.

447
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:53,040
Speaker 2: And it's like I would be fed up with my

448
00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:56,119
Speaker 2: mom if she did that. Yeah yeah, Like you're literally poisoning,

449
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Speaker 2: you know, hurting my loved one a hundred percent. Yeah. Yeah.

450
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Speaker 1: So that's the end of that story. But we got

451
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Speaker 1: some donations we did, and keon if you don't mind

452
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:11,480
Speaker 1: sharing those and also adding those two face Josephine's.

453
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Speaker 2: I don't think they got added to the here. Just

454
00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 2: like to have Dakodo reado come up here, all right? Uh?

455
00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:25,360
Speaker 2: Also du kauto do mention that we are we are

456
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Speaker 2: extending the stream because of the New Year's stream? Oh yeah,

457
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 2: that's right.

458
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:33,000
Speaker 3: So the stream has already started with an extended time

459
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Speaker 3: from donations from our last stream that was on New

460
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Speaker 3: Year's Eve.

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Speaker 2: Uh.

462
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:39,879
Speaker 3: We had a set deadline that we were going to

463
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Speaker 3: get off, but any donations that went over that have

464
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Speaker 3: been applied to this stream now, which is why we're

465
00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:48,760
Speaker 3: already at I think five to sixty five.

466
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Speaker 1: Uh.

467
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Speaker 3: Donation from that little one in the tip link where

468
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Speaker 3: YouTube doesn't take thirty percent.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for the twenty five dollars.

470
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Speaker 3: You guys keep me sane during my vi very focus

471
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Speaker 3: heavy job. Keep spread Oh can you scroll.

472
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Speaker 2: Down a little bit?

473
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Speaker 1: Keon?

474
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Speaker 3: Another one just came in. Um again from that little one.

475
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Speaker 3: Keep spreading your positivity and I love you guys. Well,

476
00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 3: we love you too, that little one, and thanks thanks

477
00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:17,159
Speaker 3: for pulling through the stream today, Nicole n. Thank you

478
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Speaker 3: for the twenty dollars. I just wanted to. I just

479
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Speaker 3: want to thank you guys for being there for me

480
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:23,800
Speaker 3: without even knowing. I had to put down my fourteen

481
00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:26,320
Speaker 3: year old cat and watching the live streams and watching

482
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 3: the VIDs has made me feel less lonely. Hearts in

483
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Speaker 3: the chat for Nicole n Cat. Fourteen years is a

484
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:36,600
Speaker 3: good long life for cat, a life of much love

485
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Speaker 3: and joy.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure. Yeah, I remember my.

487
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Speaker 1: Dad had to like take care of our dog we

488
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Speaker 1: had for.

489
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Speaker 2: A long time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, very same situation with my dad and our cat,

491
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Speaker 1: my childhood cat.

492
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Speaker 2: Same thing. It was just like brutal arts uh and

493
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Speaker 2: I think we had some mourn on there.

494
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Speaker 3: Sassy sin LPC, thank you for the five dollars. As

495
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Speaker 3: a person with multiple food allergies, this really burns my

496
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Speaker 3: glue and dairy free biscuit.

497
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Speaker 2: By the way, Happy New Year, Happy New Year to everybody.

498
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:08,840
Speaker 3: Happy New Year to all, and to all a good year,

499
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Speaker 3: Silver Riser, thank you.

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Speaker 2: For the five dollars. Hi, guys, need.

501
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Speaker 3: Advice for my sister to get her head out of

502
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Speaker 3: her butt. Her husband crossed the line and she's still

503
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Speaker 3: giving him two months and planning a small TLDR in

504
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Speaker 3: discord before going to Reddit.

505
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, just go ahead and go to reddit. I think

506
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Speaker 1: I mean she already pulled out.

507
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 2: It's really hard when you have a family member. Yeah.

508
00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:36,879
Speaker 1: I was similarly in the same spot. What and my

509
00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 1: family just let me hit rock bottom before I knew

510
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Speaker 1: what to do.

511
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:42,440
Speaker 3: Well, it's like if you've if you've already told someone

512
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Speaker 3: how you feel and what you think they should do,

513
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 3: and they go like, no, there's really not much else

514
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Speaker 3: you can do at that point.

515
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Speaker 1: Not all.

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Speaker 3: Awesome and walmri and which I'm sure was supposed to

517
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Speaker 3: be warming, right.

518
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Speaker 1: Thank you for the twenty five dollars and absolute silence

519
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Speaker 1: pulling the Hannah and.

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00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:08,399
Speaker 2: We got up.

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Speaker 3: Yall make it a little bit big, Amber k d

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Speaker 3: I'll pull it.

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Speaker 2: Out, Amber, Amber K de Hooya, thank you for the

524
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:24,040
Speaker 2: five dollars. I finally caught alive.

525
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 3: I love you guys so much, and you get me

526
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Speaker 3: through my workday as a medical records coordinator.

527
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:31,800
Speaker 2: Oh wow, thank you for pulling through. And we're glad.

528
00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:33,280
Speaker 2: Let's got your day a little bit better.

529
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 1: That is very very like detailed work.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I hope we're not distracting you too much. Medical

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Speaker 2: Uh we're not liable. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

532
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:47,439
Speaker 1: Like, what if she puts like diabetes on someone that like,

533
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:49,120
Speaker 1: has that been like something else?

534
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:51,160
Speaker 2: Now you said diabetes? What if she just wrote that down?

535
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:52,440
Speaker 2: I don't know. Now, I'm sure.

536
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:55,119
Speaker 3: I'm sure Amber's great in her job. Jen Thompson, thank

537
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 3: you for the five gifted memberships. That's five memberships going

538
00:27:57,800 --> 00:27:59,879
Speaker 3: into the chat. If you want a membership.

539
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:02,200
Speaker 2: Message and start type and be active in the chat.

540
00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:04,880
Speaker 3: The most active chat members are the ones that get

541
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 3: the gifted memberships.

542
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:08,919
Speaker 2: And scroll a.

543
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:11,119
Speaker 1: Little bit for me, baby Pinky to Slayer, thanks for

544
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:12,639
Speaker 1: being a member for six months.

545
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:15,480
Speaker 2: Dakota giggling with a mouthful of water was the best

546
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:16,399
Speaker 2: part of my day.

547
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 1: I totally forgot what I said to h It is

548
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:23,160
Speaker 1: Britney Beach. It's my six months. I love your fit, Dakota,

549
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:26,359
Speaker 1: fantastic as always. Can you do us a favor and

550
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:28,960
Speaker 1: give us a wink and smile?

551
00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:33,200
Speaker 2: Ke and Dakota all you want to wink and a smile?

552
00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 2: Give it not for by dude, I'm good. I can't

553
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:39,440
Speaker 2: all right do it? Oh? What was that? Look at

554
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 2: it all right?

555
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 1: Key on Stern?

556
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:46,360
Speaker 2: Hey, what's up? Oh? He said, who did it better?

557
00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 2: Put it down below? I think we know who did

558
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 2: it better. That was natural, you know who did it better.

559
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:58,800
Speaker 3: It was a little, it was it was many.

560
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,240
Speaker 2: I heard it. I was I heard it?

561
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:06,920
Speaker 1: Uh Mary Mary, Andy Joe, thanks for that five bucks.

562
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 1: Mirandy Joe, thanks for the five bucks. I'm allergic to lavender.

563
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:11,800
Speaker 1: We do you have a labad on right now?

564
00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:12,880
Speaker 2: Uh?

565
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 1: And some medals so I only wear gold. And my

566
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 1: ex got me a gift basket full of lavender items

567
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 1: and silver bracelets for Christmas four years ago.

568
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:25,480
Speaker 2: And I bet you he knew that. Yeah, and that's

569
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Speaker 2: why he's in x hory.

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00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:30,000
Speaker 1: Thanks for the two bucks. Mother in law hates her.

571
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 1: That's obvious. Yep, it is now. It wasn't obvious to me,

572
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 1: but it became my money.

573
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:35,520
Speaker 2: I called it.

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Speaker 1: Josephine Murdurolo beerqueist starting twenty five with my gay conversion

575
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:45,200
Speaker 1: therapist on let's go, let's.

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Speaker 3: Go, starting off for yes, you're you're disassembling the gay

577
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:54,720
Speaker 3: agenda single handedly.

578
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 1: I've heard that that's like the best thing people go through.

579
00:29:58,360 --> 00:29:59,960
Speaker 1: They love it, they love every second of it.

580
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, as song as Kean's the guy running it again.

581
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 3: The goal go up, go up there, they're dad lining

582
00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:12,760
Speaker 3: up down the street. Josephine says, who is this and

583
00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 3: what did you do to Swedish Dakota?

584
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:19,360
Speaker 2: Grow up more? I can't I know it's Josephine, it

585
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 2: is Esphine.

586
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 3: I don't forget in my car and I carpooled with

587
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 3: Keon because we're roommates now and we live together.

588
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 2: But it'll be back. It'll be back.

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00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:34,440
Speaker 3: Amber K thanks for the gifted membership. That's a sweet

590
00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:37,120
Speaker 3: that's a real sweety pie move you uh And Nikki

591
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 3: Bordeaux thanks for being a member for four months. Just

592
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:41,960
Speaker 3: so you know, the word asylum in that context has

593
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:44,600
Speaker 3: bad connotations historically, so it might be best to avoid

594
00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:47,920
Speaker 3: in the future. Maybe psych word instead, and then a

595
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:50,080
Speaker 3: little heart. And that's why I laughed at that, Riley,

596
00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:53,240
Speaker 3: because you're just like, I don't belonging to the asylum

597
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 3: or jail.

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00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 2: I don't. I didn't. I was fighting not to put

599
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 2: that out there. But you know what, I have to

600
00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 2: listen to, Riley because superior sor right. So I didn't know.

601
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 2: I thought it was like it was like Arkham Asylum.

602
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:08,240
Speaker 2: It was like, oh, where they put the super villains. Yeah,

603
00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:09,200
Speaker 2: they put the junker in.

604
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I was thinking.

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00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:16,040
Speaker 2: It's a shame. How much like bad how.

606
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:21,800
Speaker 3: Around mental health stuff? It's yeah, it is bad. Yeah,

607
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 3: used to be bad. Electro shock anymore mix thanks to

608
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 3: the five bucks.

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00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:30,280
Speaker 1: Hello nephews, It's almost time for my O K. S. T.

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00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 1: P d H p h H four more days Let's

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Speaker 1: go and Susan Susane and by bucknos and peachye eve

612
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 1: Eve thanks for Tim bucks Hi just an extra thanks

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00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 1: for being the best entertainment sending there coding a website.

614
00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:51,800
Speaker 1: So stories are a big help for my ADHD brain.

615
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 1: Using tips instead of hype text instead for once? What

616
00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:01,840
Speaker 1: using tip instead of tippling that high pretext instead for once?

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00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 2: Thank you because we saved thirty.

618
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 1: And we appreciate that. Yes, thank you.

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Speaker 2: One more.

620
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:12,400
Speaker 1: Josephine says, uh, listen, No women find me attractive, so

621
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 1: this helps.

622
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 2: They're wrong. Yeah, what are we talking about here?

623
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 1: That's it.

624
00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 2: I don't know about that. Dakota.

625
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:24,520
Speaker 1: Please bless me, bless my ears with another one. Another story, another.

626
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 2: Another one you have, I've got it. You have my

627
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:31,680
Speaker 2: mother in law. I have. I caught my mother in law.

628
00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 2: Mother in law.

629
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Speaker 1: I can read that from here. It's you can read.

630
00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:40,160
Speaker 2: Who let you do that? Yeah? That's what I'm sorry.

631
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:41,040
Speaker 2: I taught you how to do that.

632
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:44,040
Speaker 1: You're supposed to be down in the mines.

633
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:52,720
Speaker 2: Well I'm gonna do this one. Huh uh. I don't know.

634
00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:55,320
Speaker 2: I feel like I feel like that it's kind of

635
00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 2: mother in.

636
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:58,280
Speaker 1: Law disrespecting my boundary.

637
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, my husband cut see that?

638
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 1: Uh wait, go back?

639
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:12,640
Speaker 3: Well the other one, yep, did you click on goa No, wait, no,

640
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:16,479
Speaker 3: not that one, the one, this one, I think, hold on.

641
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:19,240
Speaker 2: I think it's thirteen. That's gotta be it.

642
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:23,320
Speaker 3: It's thirteen thirteen forty one.

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00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:24,920
Speaker 2: Here. I think this is the one. I think we

644
00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 2: can use this one, all right? Okay, you sure this

645
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 2: is the one.

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00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure because the end of it is the

647
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:33,520
Speaker 3: same as this one, So I'm pretty sure this is

648
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:38,720
Speaker 3: all right. Okay, I caught my mother in law disrespecting

649
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:44,760
Speaker 3: my boundaries. My husband cut contact with her. No love

650
00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:46,840
Speaker 3: a good mother in law respecting boundaries.

651
00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 2: A little slip.

652
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 3: I posted this months ago and removed it quickly after,

653
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 3: suddenly fearing my mother in law would see it.

654
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:57,320
Speaker 2: But who cares, I guess. So here we go.

655
00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:00,960
Speaker 3: I'll start by saying that I'm sorry for any medical errors.

656
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:03,560
Speaker 3: English is my second language at their Francais.

657
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:04,239
Speaker 2: Heads up.

658
00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 3: This is a long one, but I'd appreciate the insight.

659
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:10,280
Speaker 3: By the way. This comes from user Organic Education eleven

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Speaker 3: six on the r slash. Okay storytime Subreddy so I

661
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Speaker 3: thirty year old female and my common law partner, thirty

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Speaker 3: four year old male, had our fourteen month old baby

663
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:23,440
Speaker 3: looked after for the first time by my mother in

664
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:26,440
Speaker 3: law fifty four year old female and my sister in

665
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 3: law thirty five year old female. We will call them

666
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 3: mother in law and sister in law for simplicity, okay, cool.

667
00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:34,600
Speaker 2: I like that.

668
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 3: I was very insecure about leaving our baby with mother

669
00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:41,400
Speaker 3: in law, but she was our only option and we

670
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:43,640
Speaker 3: needed to sider that evening. My family lives on the

671
00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:45,800
Speaker 3: other side of the country and we are both shift

672
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:47,760
Speaker 3: workers who couldn't.

673
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 2: Reorganize our schedules this time.

674
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 3: HCP and law enforcement child care practitioner, I think is

675
00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:55,160
Speaker 3: what that is?

676
00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:59,400
Speaker 2: Oh nice? Maybe I don't know. That's good.

677
00:34:59,440 --> 00:34:59,799
Speaker 1: That's good.

678
00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:04,240
Speaker 3: My son doesn't see his grandmother much, although she lives

679
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:07,359
Speaker 3: nine minutes away. She doesn't come over to spend time

680
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:10,080
Speaker 3: with him. When she is at our house and her

681
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:13,240
Speaker 3: other grandchildren female two and a half years and females

682
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:16,239
Speaker 3: six months, are also present. She will take care of

683
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 3: her two granddaughters, but it is but is mostly uninterested

684
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:20,279
Speaker 3: in our son.

685
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:23,240
Speaker 1: And there was a little bit that I saw before

686
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:27,960
Speaker 1: that I think we skipped over she is not married.

687
00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:29,880
Speaker 1: So I think there's a little bit of shame that

688
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 1: the mother in law has against her and her husband

689
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:35,239
Speaker 1: because they're not married out they're like common law partners.

690
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

691
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:37,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, I had a teacher who was really cool who

692
00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:40,879
Speaker 1: had that with her partner, shout out, will you will

693
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:43,480
Speaker 1: remain nameless? Remain nameless, I will not dox you.

694
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:50,160
Speaker 3: So I assumed her disinterest was related to the fact

695
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:52,759
Speaker 3: that her daughters require more help from their mother.

696
00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:54,960
Speaker 2: Both are no longer with the baby daddy.

697
00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 3: One of them works seventy plus hours a week and

698
00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:59,800
Speaker 3: the other is on welfare. To be fair, I'm okay

699
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 3: with her not interacting as much with our son because

700
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 3: some of the family patterns between mother in law and

701
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:09,759
Speaker 3: my two sister in laws seem a little toxic. Nevertheless, nevertheless,

702
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:12,040
Speaker 3: I make an effort to involve my mother in law

703
00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:15,560
Speaker 3: in our life. I send crafty cards for holidays, send pictures,

704
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:22,000
Speaker 3: messages her, send pictures, message her about important milestones, and

705
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:24,839
Speaker 3: invite her over to bond with my son. The first

706
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 3: few years of my relationship with my partner, my mother

707
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:29,840
Speaker 3: in law did not like me out of solidarity for

708
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 3: my partner's ex girlfriend, whom she adored, I would like

709
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:37,239
Speaker 3: my eyes to roll all the way back in my head.

710
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:38,879
Speaker 2: Please do it. I know I can't.

711
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 1: This is about to go.

712
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:43,480
Speaker 2: Yeah. Try it. At least try it. I think we

713
00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:46,319
Speaker 2: both do. Yeah. Yeah.

714
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:49,839
Speaker 3: At the time, I respected her grief of the relationship

715
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:52,359
Speaker 3: and thought she would eventually come around, and she did.

716
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 3: She apologized for treating me poorly. For context, my partner

717
00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:58,400
Speaker 3: and I have been together for almost five years. He

718
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 3: and his ex were together for one year, and they

719
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:03,960
Speaker 3: lived in different states for six months out of that year.

720
00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:07,399
Speaker 3: I am not the reason they separated. Well, there goes

721
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:09,520
Speaker 3: what I what I thought was gonna happen is now

722
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 3: out the window.

723
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:12,440
Speaker 2: It has to be, I assume for you as well,

724
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 2: based on your face.

725
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 1: Oh, I just think the ex is about the show

726
00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 1: up a lot more. Oh.

727
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:19,440
Speaker 3: I wasn't even thinking that at all. Oh, that'd be crazy.

728
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:24,080
Speaker 3: So in the past, my mother in law broke my trust.

729
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:26,560
Speaker 3: For example, I saw her give a bottle of formula

730
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 3: to my niece while she was helping her daughter in

731
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 3: the postpartum period. Her daughter had specifically asked to be

732
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:36,359
Speaker 3: woken up to breastfeed. I minded my own business at

733
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 3: the time, not wanting to cause a scene. A few

734
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:41,840
Speaker 3: years later, I witnessed my mother in law giving meat

735
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 3: to my vegetarian niece behind her own daughter's back.

736
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:48,759
Speaker 1: Oh, we have a common theme with these episodes.

737
00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:49,839
Speaker 2: Nice.

738
00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 3: Right At that point, I felt like I had to

739
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 3: disclose this information to the child's mother out of respect. Yep,

740
00:37:57,200 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 3: this situation got out of control. My mother in law

741
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 3: is livid and lied about the incident, stating it never happened.

742
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 3: We talked it out, and I took most of the

743
00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:13,480
Speaker 3: blame for quote not minding my own business. Hm, that's

744
00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:18,000
Speaker 3: a child's you can disagree with, like the diet of

745
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:20,360
Speaker 3: Like you're like, I don't think you should be vegetarian.

746
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 2: It's not your kid, and it's like it's their choice.

747
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:28,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, if I saw like my brother feeding my parents'

748
00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:31,279
Speaker 1: dog chocolate, I'm gonna be telling my parents.

749
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 2: If I saw my cousins vegetables.

750
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 1: Aren't poisonous for the child? Well the meat, the meat

751
00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:39,399
Speaker 1: rather not. It's also a pet, it's not a human.

752
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 1: But yeah, well it's trying to I'm even out here.

753
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:45,480
Speaker 2: To be fair folks, and people say I don't like

754
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:45,880
Speaker 2: the dogs.

755
00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you ever see people poisoning dogs with chocolate,

756
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:52,080
Speaker 1: let the owners know. Okay, So let's say, like the

757
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:57,000
Speaker 1: child is vegetarian because the parent feeds him a vegetarian diet,

758
00:38:57,040 --> 00:38:59,279
Speaker 1: and then someone feeds the meat. We're not gonna tell him.

759
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:03,000
Speaker 2: I mean, that's why I'm yeah, yeah, no, I we agree.

760
00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:04,520
Speaker 2: Did we get mixed up? I thought? Yeah? I all

761
00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:06,839
Speaker 2: you that, both of you. I definite agree with that.

762
00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 2: So confused with what you're trying to argue here?

763
00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:12,839
Speaker 3: To be clear, we are both in agreement and with

764
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:13,880
Speaker 3: what was just said.

765
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:17,080
Speaker 2: Okay, if I'm confused, chat's confused?

766
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:18,840
Speaker 1: Any who on the same page?

767
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:19,200
Speaker 2: Ye? Good.

768
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:26,200
Speaker 3: So after that whole fiasco, things were okay, or so

769
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 3: I thought. Since that incident, she has not responded to

770
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:33,360
Speaker 3: any of my text messages, but will send a response

771
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:35,480
Speaker 3: to my significant other instead.

772
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:38,040
Speaker 2: Oh that's so toxic.

773
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 3: She organizes all family events by checking in only with

774
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:44,920
Speaker 3: my significant other, knowing full well that I'm the one

775
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:47,919
Speaker 3: who manages our family calendar, and she used to come

776
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:50,879
Speaker 3: to me at family dinners and events. She acts as

777
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:54,080
Speaker 3: if she likes me very much. Going back to the

778
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:58,840
Speaker 3: babysitting story, before leaving, we gave only one instruction, do

779
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:02,160
Speaker 3: not put our on to bed. We had specified several

780
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:04,319
Speaker 3: times that we would put him to bed when we

781
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:07,440
Speaker 3: returned and made sure he napped later that day to

782
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:10,800
Speaker 3: accommodate for the one hour later bedtime. We explained that

783
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:12,680
Speaker 3: our son was going through a lot of changes with

784
00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 3: my recent return to work, and that we preferred to

785
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 3: keep his bedtime routine with dad to reduce his separation anxiety.

786
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:21,880
Speaker 2: She accepted context.

787
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 3: It took twelve months of maturnity leave and my significant

788
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 3: other works mostly evenings. I breastfed and took care of

789
00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:31,200
Speaker 3: all sleep duties. Our son was having a hard time

790
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:33,520
Speaker 3: adjusting to me being at work, as well as teething

791
00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:37,360
Speaker 3: and showing the typical fear of stranger at this age,

792
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:40,239
Speaker 3: got it, which I think is in reference to the

793
00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:41,120
Speaker 3: new kid.

794
00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:44,160
Speaker 2: Or like fear of being a stranger.

795
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 1: They have two kids, yeah, or maybe maybe it's one kid.

796
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 1: I know. No, sorry, it's one kid and they were teething.

797
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:53,520
Speaker 1: And then also it's like they're trying to get used

798
00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:53,919
Speaker 1: to the world.

799
00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 2: No, I think the world looks like I think they do.

800
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:58,480
Speaker 2: They not have two kids. They have one kid. Okay, yep,

801
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:05,920
Speaker 2: they were going through Yeah, so wait where did this go? Okay?

802
00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:10,000
Speaker 3: My partner and I had security cameras installed in the

803
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 3: house after a break and enter.

804
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:13,960
Speaker 2: Mother in law did not know this. We did not

805
00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:17,719
Speaker 2: intend on eavesdropping during the evening. The cameras are just

806
00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:20,400
Speaker 2: always on when we leave. A few hours later, I

807
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:22,279
Speaker 2: received a message from my mother in law.

808
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 1: She but my son to bed, stating that he had

809
00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:27,760
Speaker 1: not cried at all and fell asleep in eight minutes.

810
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 1: All right, that's that's great us.

811
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:33,680
Speaker 2: Wait, context, that's how long it takes me. And she

812
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:34,360
Speaker 2: knows this.

813
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:38,600
Speaker 1: Takes her eight minutes to put the sun to bed. Yeah,

814
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:43,120
Speaker 1: hmm hmmm, So it's intentional. I mean, like she knows

815
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 1: remedy it's two songs and a little story.

816
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:48,839
Speaker 2: Or is she lying? Was there a big kerfuffle? She said, Oh,

817
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:50,239
Speaker 2: he went to sleep.

818
00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:51,480
Speaker 1: No problem, took eight minutes.

819
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:53,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, And it's like, because she said that exact number,

820
00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:55,960
Speaker 3: She's like, wait, did did he really go down?

821
00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 1: And I bet you they're going to look at the

822
00:41:57,480 --> 00:41:59,040
Speaker 1: cameras and it's gonna be a nightmare.

823
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:01,160
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, conspiracy theory.

824
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:08,319
Speaker 3: So so after that message, I was frustrated at this

825
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:11,520
Speaker 3: point and felt that my boundary had not been respected.

826
00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:14,439
Speaker 2: I also had doubts that it went as well as

827
00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 2: she said.

828
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:17,400
Speaker 3: I was ashamed, But when I got home I re

829
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:19,960
Speaker 3: listened to the bedtime routine to see how it went.

830
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:22,320
Speaker 2: Shocker, she lied to me.

831
00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 3: He cried so much, he screamed for his mom, and

832
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:26,960
Speaker 3: it took her forever to put him to sleep. He

833
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 3: fell asleep from exhaustion. My heart broke. Oh yeah, no, no, no,

834
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:32,640
Speaker 3: you're done.

835
00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 2: You're done. You and me, we're done.

836
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 3: Professionally, mother in law, you're messing with my baby.

837
00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:42,560
Speaker 2: You're messing with my child. You're done.

838
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:47,520
Speaker 3: So sad with my doubts confirmed, I listened to the

839
00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 3: rest of the evening. Not only did she purposefully put

840
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 3: him to bed only to make me angry. We can

841
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:55,279
Speaker 3: hear mother in law say to sister in law, all right,

842
00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 3: I'm gonna put him to bed. She's going to be livid.

843
00:42:58,080 --> 00:43:01,320
Speaker 3: She then proceeds to laugh. Yeah, no, yeah.

844
00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:03,400
Speaker 1: You're done to done, done, done.

845
00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:06,759
Speaker 3: That's the sound of the mother in law hitting the

846
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:10,560
Speaker 3: sun after she's been catapulted there in space.

847
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:13,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, in Spain, here in space, the sun. There's no

848
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:16,480
Speaker 1: sound in space. Yeah, but I did you put oxygen

849
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:18,359
Speaker 1: around her?

850
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 2: What son? Are you? Blue? Air?

851
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:23,360
Speaker 3: I blew air through a straw in my little astronauts,

852
00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:24,839
Speaker 3: and then then we got to hear.

853
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:27,160
Speaker 2: The point is she was vaporized by the sun. Riley.

854
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:29,520
Speaker 1: Okay, good, that's the point.

855
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:34,080
Speaker 2: I just like how Riley said the sun in space. Yeah,

856
00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:36,560
Speaker 2: like if what he said sounds so, I was like,

857
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:37,719
Speaker 2: there's no sound in.

858
00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 3: Space, in space, no one can hear. You explain that

859
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:43,279
Speaker 3: there is no sound in space exactly, keep.

860
00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 2: Saying in space. It makes me think of power rangers

861
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:51,320
Speaker 2: in space. Power rangers in space. You keep breathing. Yeah, whoa, Okay, Okay.

862
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 3: So once our son is asleep, she proudly tells sister

863
00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:57,840
Speaker 3: in law that she's going to text me, and she

864
00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:01,319
Speaker 3: is impatiently waiting for my response. Then she laughs and

865
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:05,920
Speaker 3: calls me backcrap, crazy context. I responded something like, he

866
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:08,200
Speaker 3: was very tired today. That must have helped him settle.

867
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:09,479
Speaker 3: I'm glad it went well.

868
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:13,880
Speaker 2: Dude, Chira just said in the chat post the recording

869
00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 2: on social media, oh expose her. I would. I would, definitely, uh,

870
00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 2: I would.

871
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:24,439
Speaker 3: This is petty behavior, especially if you're like you're you're

872
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:28,080
Speaker 3: weaponizing the kid to try to make me upset. Dude,

873
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:32,239
Speaker 3: you're about you're gonna awaken the demon. Come on, like

874
00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:35,400
Speaker 3: come on, this is like you said, mama bear like,

875
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:37,920
Speaker 3: it's like the equivalent of like dangling like the like

876
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:40,640
Speaker 3: a black bear like cub in front of you and being.

877
00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:43,560
Speaker 2: Like, see, oh, look, see how much he's having so

878
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:44,440
Speaker 2: much bout me.

879
00:44:45,040 --> 00:44:47,800
Speaker 3: And then the mama bear is gonna just go what

880
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:51,959
Speaker 3: are you doing and swipe your head off.

881
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:57,239
Speaker 2: Okay, So she spent the evening belittling me.

882
00:44:57,320 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 3: To my sister in law, she tried to get my

883
00:44:59,800 --> 00:45:02,240
Speaker 3: son to walk so that I would miss his first

884
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 3: steps because it would hurt me.

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00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:06,120
Speaker 2: Okay, so there are two kids.

886
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 1: There are two.

887
00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:09,799
Speaker 3: I think that's why the first kid, the older kids

888
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:12,359
Speaker 3: upset because he's still adjusting to the new kid being there.

889
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:16,960
Speaker 2: Okay, wow, But she.

890
00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:19,040
Speaker 3: Tried to make me miss his first steps because it

891
00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:21,360
Speaker 3: would hurt me, and then started laughing.

892
00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:22,520
Speaker 2: My son was.

893
00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:25,359
Speaker 3: Crying and looking for me, and she never reassured him.

894
00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:28,360
Speaker 3: She tried to make him say Grandma every time he

895
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:31,239
Speaker 3: cried out for his mama. I shared this recording with

896
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 3: my partner and he was understandably angry and very hurt.

897
00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:38,000
Speaker 3: Or I would be I would be seeing red, I'd

898
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:43,240
Speaker 3: be livid. He supports me all the way. He confronted

899
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Speaker 3: his mother and chose to no longer have a relationship

900
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Speaker 3: with her.

901
00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:47,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, and she earned that.

902
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:50,920
Speaker 3: She did not deny any of it and said she

903
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:54,239
Speaker 3: wouldn't apologize since she meant all of it, and that

904
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:56,320
Speaker 3: would make her a hypocrite.

905
00:45:57,200 --> 00:45:59,840
Speaker 1: All right, At least she has some like moral standing

906
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Speaker 1: I have.

907
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:03,439
Speaker 3: At least I have the morals to just be a

908
00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:05,719
Speaker 3: piece of crap person and not lie about it.

909
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:07,600
Speaker 1: Not a hypocritical piece of person.

910
00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:10,880
Speaker 3: I'm not a hypocrite. No, I stand on my terrible behavior.

911
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:16,640
Speaker 3: Thanks God, What a weird thing to say. She also

912
00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:20,319
Speaker 3: said I was trying to take her son away. He

913
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 3: wants to move forty minutes away to the country, which

914
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 3: I can't imagine. Why I offered to hear her out

915
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:28,920
Speaker 3: and talk. I won't forgive or forget, but I'd be

916
00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:30,640
Speaker 3: willing to be civil if I needed to be in

917
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:33,799
Speaker 3: a room with her. She will never babysit or be

918
00:46:33,880 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 3: alone with our son ever again. But by the way,

919
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Speaker 3: we don't want you to be alone, which is why

920
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Speaker 3: more stories like this one.

926
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Speaker 2: Boom.

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Speaker 3: We got tons there, and we have a little bit

928
00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:04,160
Speaker 3: more left the story. I feel like we've pretty much

929
00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:07,040
Speaker 3: kicked the nail on it. I mean, after this, I

930
00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:09,080
Speaker 3: think it's black hole, not even the sun. She's earned

931
00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:10,240
Speaker 3: that spaghetti.

932
00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:15,759
Speaker 1: Bree Mama for no contact, yeah pole, Yeah, no, it's

933
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:18,399
Speaker 1: no contact or psych ward.

934
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:22,920
Speaker 2: God, yeah, really want this? She she can we not

935
00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:23,920
Speaker 2: say word now?

936
00:47:24,120 --> 00:47:26,839
Speaker 1: I think there are it's still yeah, but no, it's

937
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:30,080
Speaker 1: like a lunatic criminally insane.

938
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:34,759
Speaker 2: Those two options aren't even really they don't.

939
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:38,480
Speaker 1: But Brittany or whoever said so said I could sayde word.

940
00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:41,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, but like you said, you said, I mean, clearly

941
00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:44,879
Speaker 2: this person is just a terrible person. Yeah.

942
00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:48,440
Speaker 3: I think they just need to like be thrown into

943
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:51,800
Speaker 3: the black hole, turned into spaghetti and eaten by the pigs.

944
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 3: James Candal, let's seal a pole, low contact. Oh dude,

945
00:47:57,080 --> 00:48:00,239
Speaker 3: I advocate no contact, no contact. Nicole had an and

946
00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:05,799
Speaker 3: Nicole said I think it was up there was Yeah, Nicole, ahe.

947
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:08,240
Speaker 2: She takes joy in abusing a child.

948
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:10,680
Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, no, this this is not somebody and

949
00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:14,520
Speaker 3: it's your child and it's her grandchild. It's like she

950
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:20,640
Speaker 3: is completely Uh, she's lost any right, any privilege to

951
00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:22,440
Speaker 3: ever see this kid ever.

952
00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:26,080
Speaker 2: Again, or to see any or to see them the parents.

953
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:29,080
Speaker 2: You know, it's over. It is. Oh, there's no going

954
00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:30,239
Speaker 2: back from that. There's really not.

955
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:34,080
Speaker 1: And the kids at such an impressionable age that they're

956
00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:37,120
Speaker 1: crying and what about Like it's gonna be so hard

957
00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:39,359
Speaker 1: to leave the kid now after this.

958
00:48:39,520 --> 00:48:43,759
Speaker 3: No, it's like that's monstrous, Like no emotions behavior from

959
00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:44,440
Speaker 3: from the grandma.

960
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:47,440
Speaker 2: Everyone's saying no crazy Yeah. Yeah, so I don't even

961
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:48,080
Speaker 2: do a pull for.

962
00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:50,040
Speaker 1: No, no, no, everyone's in the same picture.

963
00:48:50,320 --> 00:48:53,600
Speaker 2: Yeah. So let's let's finish this story off.

964
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:58,520
Speaker 3: It has been five months and we haven't heard a

965
00:48:58,560 --> 00:48:59,200
Speaker 3: thing from her.

966
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 2: Should I do?

967
00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:03,799
Speaker 3: I feel like the longer we ignore this, the more

968
00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 3: she's building hate towards me. The more my significant other

969
00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:10,080
Speaker 3: has a broken family. And she's also lying to everyone

970
00:49:10,200 --> 00:49:13,360
Speaker 3: about why she hasn't seen us in months. Ah, okay,

971
00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:15,960
Speaker 3: so I'll tell you right now. You release the footage

972
00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:18,440
Speaker 3: to those who need to see it. Don't worry about

973
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 3: breaking the family. She broke the family by doing what

974
00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:24,880
Speaker 3: she did while taking.

975
00:49:24,680 --> 00:49:27,759
Speaker 2: Care of kid. Yeah.

976
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:30,920
Speaker 3: No, she needs to be completely out of the picture

977
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:32,440
Speaker 3: and you should get ahead of it. And if she

978
00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:35,359
Speaker 3: is spreading lives about you, show them the footage. Be

979
00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:37,120
Speaker 3: like I didn't want to do this, but I was

980
00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:38,680
Speaker 3: pushed to this point. And if you want to keep

981
00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:41,880
Speaker 3: it light, you know, private email everyone. You don't have

982
00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:42,680
Speaker 3: to put it on social media.

983
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:44,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, there you go. Yeah, put it, put it directly

984
00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:46,240
Speaker 2: to the inbox. Yep.

985
00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:49,719
Speaker 1: So let's see what some of these comments say. I'm

986
00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:53,600
Speaker 1: sure they're agreeing with our sentiments here. Comment number one,

987
00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:55,040
Speaker 1: you aren't ignoring anything.

988
00:49:55,120 --> 00:49:57,840
Speaker 3: Your husband made the smart choice without you having to

989
00:49:57,880 --> 00:50:00,040
Speaker 3: plead for it, the choice that will save you a

990
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:01,600
Speaker 3: great deal of grief in the long run.

991
00:50:01,840 --> 00:50:02,360
Speaker 2: Accept it.

992
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:06,440
Speaker 3: Your husband can tell his family what she did. The reply,

993
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 3: I agree you've gone no contact. And to be clear,

994
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:11,359
Speaker 3: this is the reply for another comment or not from op.

995
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:14,800
Speaker 3: I agree you've gone no contact. This isn't ignoring anything.

996
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:17,360
Speaker 3: Ignoring would be if you were still in contact while

997
00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:20,319
Speaker 3: ignoring the issue. Don't let what others think bother you.

998
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:23,200
Speaker 3: If someone reaches out, you have an opportunity to convey

999
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 3: your side. We have this as a very minor issue,

1000
00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:30,360
Speaker 3: being no contact with my husband's mother. If anyone comments,

1001
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:32,640
Speaker 3: we let them briefly know why he made the decision,

1002
00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:35,239
Speaker 3: but we don't let it take up real estate in

1003
00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:35,840
Speaker 3: our minds.

1004
00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:37,359
Speaker 2: And he's much better off for it.

1005
00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:40,560
Speaker 3: I say minor, because his family know that his mom

1006
00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 3: is kind of like that and that she won't seek

1007
00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:45,879
Speaker 3: help because everyone else is the problem and not her.

1008
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:47,879
Speaker 2: And another reply to.

1009
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:52,160
Speaker 1: That, yeah, like that, can you real quick before you

1010
00:50:52,160 --> 00:50:58,080
Speaker 1: get that reply? Pull? Okay, no contact, expose her? That's abitable,

1011
00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:01,439
Speaker 1: expose him.

1012
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:03,440
Speaker 2: I mean we were doing the no contact that's already

1013
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:04,520
Speaker 2: been no no, but put no.

1014
00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:07,040
Speaker 1: Should we either go no contact or should we expose

1015
00:51:07,080 --> 00:51:10,400
Speaker 1: her and go no contact? Just put like no contact exposer?

1016
00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:11,200
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1017
00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 3: I think, Yeah, I kind of like the thought of

1018
00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:16,440
Speaker 3: not having it live in your head and just like

1019
00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 3: if people ask, but now you might, it's hard.

1020
00:51:21,719 --> 00:51:21,919
Speaker 2: Yep.

1021
00:51:22,400 --> 00:51:24,520
Speaker 3: I think maybe you just send it out once and

1022
00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:27,680
Speaker 3: then you then it's over, right, you inform them once,

1023
00:51:27,840 --> 00:51:28,120
Speaker 3: move on?

1024
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:29,640
Speaker 2: Okay?

1025
00:51:29,760 --> 00:51:33,919
Speaker 3: Reply another reply that says, Yep, you nailed it. There's

1026
00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:35,799
Speaker 3: lots of stories on here where the spouse sides with

1027
00:51:35,840 --> 00:51:38,320
Speaker 3: their parent. Oh, pe, you're fortunate to have a husband

1028
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:40,839
Speaker 3: who did the right thing and cut off his toxic mother.

1029
00:51:41,160 --> 00:51:43,920
Speaker 2: What should what should you do? Nothing?

1030
00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:47,399
Speaker 3: A second comment, why are you even considering giving her

1031
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:50,720
Speaker 3: a second chance to abuse your child? Her own son

1032
00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 3: cut her off because of what she did. Hopefully you

1033
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:55,080
Speaker 3: saved the footage just in case she tries to spin

1034
00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:55,719
Speaker 3: the truth later.

1035
00:51:56,880 --> 00:51:57,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1036
00:51:57,080 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 3: And I feel like all the rest of these comments

1037
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:00,600
Speaker 3: are just gonna be the exact same thing, which is, yeah,

1038
00:52:00,719 --> 00:52:05,560
Speaker 3: no contact is great, and you, you know, you and every.

1039
00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:08,000
Speaker 2: Other member of your family is better off not having

1040
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:09,080
Speaker 2: this woman in their life. Agreed.

1041
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:11,759
Speaker 1: And everyone's saying both no contact and expose her.

1042
00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:15,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, both, I agree both. That makes sense.

1043
00:52:15,800 --> 00:52:19,200
Speaker 3: Well, she's gonna have a hard time doing anything after

1044
00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:21,439
Speaker 3: we shoot her with the meat.

1045
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:24,960
Speaker 1: Well send her, not send her. Said we're going to

1046
00:52:25,200 --> 00:52:28,080
Speaker 1: We're not into the into space in a cannon.

1047
00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:30,359
Speaker 2: Send her, Send her, That's what I meant. Send her.

1048
00:52:30,520 --> 00:52:35,879
Speaker 3: There are no Yeah, right, the sling shot around the moon,

1049
00:52:35,960 --> 00:52:38,239
Speaker 3: through the sun, through the orc cloud into the black hole,

1050
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:41,239
Speaker 3: turn into spaghetti, get eaten by the pigs, taken care

1051
00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:42,040
Speaker 3: of by James S.

1052
00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:47,600
Speaker 2: Gandolfini's spirit. No sound there, he is right there. No

1053
00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:50,000
Speaker 2: give me that.

1054
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:54,520
Speaker 4: That's the face you see after you gots get the

1055
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:58,359
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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna wink wink. Okay, okay, I'm gonna have

1101
00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:02,000
Speaker 1: other win lost over me whenever. I just want one

1102
00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:03,840
Speaker 1: woman to lost over me. No, I can't do that.

1103
00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:04,719
Speaker 2: I can't do that. I'm sorry.

1104
00:55:04,760 --> 00:55:05,919
Speaker 1: I'm not going to cross that line.

1105
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:07,960
Speaker 2: They just smile. Don't tell me what to do. Keon

1106
00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:10,080
Speaker 2: did this May tried to give me to kiss him in.

1107
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:12,600
Speaker 1: Front of my own girlfriend last or last night, the

1108
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:15,719
Speaker 1: night before last year, last year. Yeah, dude, and guess.

1109
00:55:15,480 --> 00:55:24,520
Speaker 2: What she She was like, yeah, yeah, in front of her. God.

1110
00:55:25,080 --> 00:55:27,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, Keon was my first kiss of the year. Yeah No,

1111
00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:28,880
Speaker 3: that was this year, Keon.

1112
00:55:28,960 --> 00:55:34,840
Speaker 1: That happened after the ball dropped. Okay, this guy, Well, sorry, Brittany, No,

1113
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:37,640
Speaker 1: you can't you you don't get it today, Try again

1114
00:55:37,719 --> 00:55:39,520
Speaker 1: next time, just next year.

1115
00:55:39,920 --> 00:55:43,160
Speaker 2: Okay, and I think all no, but we got it.

1116
00:55:43,200 --> 00:55:44,640
Speaker 1: We got two big donos.

1117
00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:46,880
Speaker 3: We got a big do Look, Brittany says, it's okay, Riley,

1118
00:55:46,960 --> 00:55:47,760
Speaker 3: just do it for Angie.

1119
00:55:47,800 --> 00:55:50,400
Speaker 2: I will I will see Yeah, don't you.

1120
00:55:50,640 --> 00:55:54,040
Speaker 1: Frank and word, thanks for the fifteen dollars and fifty

1121
00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:59,000
Speaker 1: six cents seven fifty more time, Love you boys. We

1122
00:55:59,080 --> 00:56:02,879
Speaker 1: had another freaking thirty minutes. We added another hour because

1123
00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:06,560
Speaker 1: of the donations Tuesday. We're only supposed to do forty

1124
00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:09,759
Speaker 1: five minutes, but we came to the decision that you could,

1125
00:56:09,920 --> 00:56:12,439
Speaker 1: guys deserve a full hour rather than forty five minutes.

1126
00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:15,600
Speaker 2: I'm glad that that decision was came to me too.

1127
00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:17,560
Speaker 1: We got two more donos.

1128
00:56:17,280 --> 00:56:19,799
Speaker 3: Yes, let me see zim h Lulu, thanks for the

1129
00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:21,880
Speaker 3: fifteen buck roonies.

1130
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:25,279
Speaker 2: Hey, guys, finally catching alive in months. What was the

1131
00:56:25,280 --> 00:56:29,759
Speaker 2: TLDR on the past story? A chimed in at the end.

1132
00:56:30,840 --> 00:56:34,839
Speaker 3: Basically, the TLDR for that story is that Op's mother

1133
00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:35,480
Speaker 3: in law.

1134
00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:37,839
Speaker 2: Was an absolute monster, this one right here.

1135
00:56:38,239 --> 00:56:40,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I know, I think it was this this

1136
00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:46,200
Speaker 3: previous story, okay, or yeah, the last story. Yeah, I know,

1137
00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:48,719
Speaker 3: it's the last the story we just read mother in

1138
00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:52,800
Speaker 3: law monster technically both we gave her the number fourteen.

1139
00:56:52,840 --> 00:56:54,879
Speaker 3: We centered through the Sign, through the Orc Cloud, into

1140
00:56:54,920 --> 00:56:58,600
Speaker 3: the black Hole, Spaghetti Pigs, James Gandolfini, and then the

1141
00:56:58,600 --> 00:57:04,200
Speaker 3: first story the tea you are I mean, yeah, just yeah, dairy.

1142
00:57:04,600 --> 00:57:07,480
Speaker 3: My mom was real hung up and would refuse to

1143
00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:10,280
Speaker 3: not make food with dairy even though Op was allergic

1144
00:57:10,320 --> 00:57:10,600
Speaker 3: to it.

1145
00:57:10,719 --> 00:57:11,120
Speaker 2: Crazy.

1146
00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:17,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, And then we got a Hannah Anna's here fifty

1147
00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:23,200
Speaker 1: buck runos on the tip link. Guys, putt put a

1148
00:57:23,200 --> 00:57:26,600
Speaker 1: little in the chat, all right, Those of you that haven't.

1149
00:57:26,920 --> 00:57:30,200
Speaker 1: We got one more we're gonna read and Rachel, thanks

1150
00:57:30,200 --> 00:57:32,680
Speaker 1: for tim bugs. Watch you guys, thanks for making my

1151
00:57:32,800 --> 00:57:35,720
Speaker 1: day brighter as we do. Thank you, Rachel.

1152
00:57:35,960 --> 00:57:36,280
Speaker 2: Rachel.

1153
00:57:36,560 --> 00:57:41,640
Speaker 1: Maybe, but we don't radiate photosynthesis for you to eat.

1154
00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 2: Rachel.

1155
00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:45,200
Speaker 3: I wish that'd be cool if you could just shoot

1156
00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:46,320
Speaker 3: the sun out of your hand.

1157
00:57:46,160 --> 00:57:50,120
Speaker 1: But we do shoot the power of red star my

1158
00:57:50,280 --> 00:57:52,640
Speaker 1: head out of our mouths Oh what, And I'm going

1159
00:57:52,680 --> 00:57:53,120
Speaker 1: to read.

1160
00:57:53,000 --> 00:57:55,560
Speaker 2: This you have? Did we not have one more? Though?

1161
00:57:55,920 --> 00:57:57,400
Speaker 2: I'd be sure for here?

1162
00:57:57,480 --> 00:58:01,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, scroll down one more after that, man Rose, Yeah,

1163
00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:04,360
Speaker 1: we already read that, Amanda Rose, thank you for the

1164
00:58:04,360 --> 00:58:05,000
Speaker 1: twenty five bucks.

1165
00:58:05,080 --> 00:58:08,560
Speaker 2: Let me that one. We're good. We are, we are

1166
00:58:08,640 --> 00:58:10,720
Speaker 2: so we're now, we're all caught up. Here we go, Riley,

1167
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:12,200
Speaker 2: you have my mother in law is obsessed.

1168
00:58:12,480 --> 00:58:15,240
Speaker 1: Yep, you guys ready?

1169
00:58:15,600 --> 00:58:16,520
Speaker 2: Are you ready, sir?

1170
00:58:17,120 --> 00:58:18,040
Speaker 1: Facebook edit?

1171
00:58:18,080 --> 00:58:20,280
Speaker 2: Ready? Yeah, you're good, very cool.

1172
00:58:24,560 --> 00:58:26,440
Speaker 1: I was just laving because Linda the left a comment

1173
00:58:26,560 --> 00:58:29,520
Speaker 1: that said you told us nothing, I assume in reference

1174
00:58:29,560 --> 00:58:32,080
Speaker 1: to my tld R. Yeah, I didn't get much out

1175
00:58:32,080 --> 00:58:34,280
Speaker 1: of a new story.

1176
00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:38,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, leitimately mother in laws were monsters.

1177
00:58:39,000 --> 00:58:42,760
Speaker 3: That's true, Like that's the I'm sorry, he was getting

1178
00:58:43,880 --> 00:58:45,720
Speaker 3: right here we go, giving me mad eyes.

1179
00:58:47,000 --> 00:58:50,440
Speaker 1: My mother in law is obsessed with my husband's exes.

1180
00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:52,960
Speaker 1: She just moved one in.

1181
00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:53,560
Speaker 2: Oh.

1182
00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:56,000
Speaker 3: I hope she did it on opposite day because that's

1183
00:58:56,160 --> 00:58:56,960
Speaker 3: the act.

1184
00:58:57,640 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 2: Wait, what are you doing?

1185
00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:02,840
Speaker 1: This is a crazy ride. I still can't believe that

1186
00:59:03,000 --> 00:59:06,080
Speaker 1: this has happened to this day. I was thinking. I

1187
00:59:06,200 --> 00:59:08,640
Speaker 1: was talking about it with my husband a few weeks ago,

1188
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:12,520
Speaker 1: and he was mind blowed. By the way this comes

1189
00:59:12,520 --> 00:59:22,320
Speaker 1: from Phoenix I chosen Phoenix xcell Phoenix I Chino's did

1190
00:59:22,320 --> 00:59:22,880
Speaker 1: she no say?

1191
00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:23,560
Speaker 2: Oh?

1192
00:59:24,360 --> 00:59:27,240
Speaker 1: By the way this comes from Phoenix iiciose on the

1193
00:59:27,320 --> 00:59:30,360
Speaker 1: r side show Kase story time subreddit. So even now

1194
00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:32,800
Speaker 1: I am still trying to figure out why she did this,

1195
00:59:33,400 --> 00:59:37,080
Speaker 1: but finding out more about her over the years, I

1196
00:59:37,160 --> 00:59:39,960
Speaker 1: think I get it. Note I did not tell him

1197
00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:43,080
Speaker 1: about this until years after it happened. My mother in

1198
00:59:43,200 --> 00:59:46,640
Speaker 1: law apparently had a track record for making my husband's

1199
00:59:46,680 --> 00:59:50,560
Speaker 1: girlfriends feel awful and would say things to them all

1200
00:59:50,600 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 1: the time in order to make them feel horrible. O

1201
00:59:54,360 --> 00:59:57,720
Speaker 1: KEI kind of glad I wasn't the only one, but

1202
00:59:58,040 --> 01:00:02,320
Speaker 1: I feel bad for the others because this woman is

1203
01:00:03,200 --> 01:00:08,240
Speaker 1: something else. Wolf Wolf, I have had many stories about

1204
01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:11,280
Speaker 1: things she said to me and did that still blow

1205
01:00:11,360 --> 01:00:15,840
Speaker 1: my mind? Such ass? Oh, here we go bullet points everybody.

1206
01:00:16,960 --> 01:00:20,080
Speaker 1: Within a week of getting together my boyfriend now husband,

1207
01:00:20,600 --> 01:00:23,160
Speaker 1: she told me that if I was going to date

1208
01:00:23,200 --> 01:00:26,920
Speaker 1: her son, I had to get on birth control. I

1209
01:00:27,080 --> 01:00:31,400
Speaker 1: was a virgin irony. I got pregnant on birth control

1210
01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:36,200
Speaker 1: twice with this man and two different types. Fair, I guess,

1211
01:00:36,280 --> 01:00:39,000
Speaker 1: but that's certainly a way to react to your son's

1212
01:00:39,080 --> 01:00:43,640
Speaker 1: new girlfriend. Another bullet point or a second bullet point. Yeah,

1213
01:00:43,800 --> 01:00:44,320
Speaker 1: just let's go.

1214
01:00:44,560 --> 01:00:44,960
Speaker 2: Let's go.

1215
01:00:45,200 --> 01:00:48,439
Speaker 1: Whenever he turned eighteen, I was still seventeen, and on

1216
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:51,360
Speaker 1: his birthday, she looked right at me in the car

1217
01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:54,440
Speaker 1: and said, if you two ever break up, you better

1218
01:00:54,560 --> 01:00:57,320
Speaker 1: not be going off to the police as Joe bait.

1219
01:00:58,880 --> 01:01:04,120
Speaker 1: Excuse me, I would never be comfortable around that person

1220
01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:07,000
Speaker 1: ever again. If someone said that to me, that's an

1221
01:01:07,080 --> 01:01:11,160
Speaker 1: awful thing to do. I think making false accusations just

1222
01:01:11,200 --> 01:01:15,160
Speaker 1: because you break up with someone is an absolutely endous

1223
01:01:15,200 --> 01:01:19,160
Speaker 1: thing to do, and it is life ruining if it's

1224
01:01:19,200 --> 01:01:23,760
Speaker 1: not true. Third bullet point. She once started telling me

1225
01:01:23,920 --> 01:01:26,840
Speaker 1: about the time she walked in on her son my

1226
01:01:26,920 --> 01:01:30,520
Speaker 1: husband with his first girlfriend and my husband's ex girlfriend

1227
01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:31,880
Speaker 1: that had been giving him a.

1228
01:01:32,640 --> 01:01:33,080
Speaker 2: You know what.

1229
01:01:34,360 --> 01:01:37,920
Speaker 1: Still don't know why I needed to know this, but okay.

1230
01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:42,840
Speaker 2: You know what. You know you know what this first girlfriend.

1231
01:01:42,640 --> 01:01:46,040
Speaker 1: My husband's ex girlfriend. Oh wait, so my husband this

1232
01:01:46,200 --> 01:01:48,080
Speaker 1: first girlfriend and my husband's ex girlfriend.

1233
01:01:48,120 --> 01:01:50,000
Speaker 2: Why is she talking about this stuff?

1234
01:01:50,040 --> 01:01:52,120
Speaker 3: This is so I don't know, but everyone in the

1235
01:01:52,160 --> 01:01:54,000
Speaker 3: chat who's like, is this true about monster mother in

1236
01:01:54,040 --> 01:01:56,520
Speaker 3: laws is like, yeah, this episode is monster and loss.

1237
01:01:56,840 --> 01:01:59,320
Speaker 2: These three stories are all of terrible mother in laws.

1238
01:02:00,640 --> 01:02:04,280
Speaker 1: Fourth bullet point, I think too many counts. She took

1239
01:02:04,320 --> 01:02:06,560
Speaker 1: me to the hospital once while I was pregnant and

1240
01:02:06,640 --> 01:02:09,680
Speaker 1: looked at the doctor and nurse who were talking to

1241
01:02:09,720 --> 01:02:12,440
Speaker 1: me and said, yeah, she made a dumb decision and

1242
01:02:12,480 --> 01:02:16,000
Speaker 1: had spicy sleep and got pregnant. Wait to talk about

1243
01:02:16,040 --> 01:02:19,600
Speaker 1: your grandchild, and it takes two to tango, ma'am.

1244
01:02:19,760 --> 01:02:22,280
Speaker 2: She's like, yeah, she was just stupid. She slept up

1245
01:02:22,320 --> 01:02:26,960
Speaker 2: my son. They they made baby. Ugh.

1246
01:02:27,960 --> 01:02:31,320
Speaker 1: Fifth bullet point constantly tells me that my husband's dog

1247
01:02:31,480 --> 01:02:34,160
Speaker 1: is going to turn on me and my children because

1248
01:02:34,200 --> 01:02:36,440
Speaker 1: of the breed that she is. The dog is the

1249
01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:39,720
Speaker 1: sweetest old lady. My children's puppy has more of an

1250
01:02:39,760 --> 01:02:44,040
Speaker 1: aggressive bone in his wait. My children's puppy has more

1251
01:02:44,080 --> 01:02:47,000
Speaker 1: of an aggressive bone in his pint sized body than

1252
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:50,919
Speaker 1: my old lady and six foot point many many more.

1253
01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:52,880
Speaker 1: So that's that's what we got.

1254
01:02:53,040 --> 01:02:56,760
Speaker 2: Lots of bad. I like this comment from Bali Lily

1255
01:02:56,880 --> 01:02:59,080
Speaker 2: right here, mother in law is trying to creep out

1256
01:02:59,120 --> 01:03:01,800
Speaker 2: the op tight and creep out oatp to get her

1257
01:03:01,800 --> 01:03:02,800
Speaker 2: to break up. Facts.

1258
01:03:03,080 --> 01:03:07,200
Speaker 1: Yes, facts, just like I can't deal with your mom. Yeah,

1259
01:03:07,360 --> 01:03:10,440
Speaker 1: that is crazy. Okay, for a bit of context, me

1260
01:03:10,440 --> 01:03:13,040
Speaker 1: and my husband got together whenever we were sixteen slash

1261
01:03:13,080 --> 01:03:16,520
Speaker 1: seventeen ish. He is just over eight months older than me.

1262
01:03:17,000 --> 01:03:19,440
Speaker 1: Before me, he was with another girl who happened to

1263
01:03:19,480 --> 01:03:22,440
Speaker 1: be his little sister's friend. Yeah, you read that right.

1264
01:03:22,720 --> 01:03:26,200
Speaker 1: He dated his little sister's friend. The ex girlfriend was

1265
01:03:26,240 --> 01:03:28,760
Speaker 1: a year younger than me. They were together when they're

1266
01:03:28,840 --> 01:03:32,680
Speaker 1: Whenever me and him met, we were coworkers. I had

1267
01:03:32,680 --> 01:03:35,760
Speaker 1: a boyfriend when we met, he had a girlfriend the

1268
01:03:35,800 --> 01:03:39,680
Speaker 1: ex girlfriend in the story normal for teenagers. Right, X

1269
01:03:39,720 --> 01:03:42,760
Speaker 1: amount of months later we were both single and ended

1270
01:03:42,800 --> 01:03:46,600
Speaker 1: up talking, ended up together. That's all a blur because

1271
01:03:46,640 --> 01:03:51,360
Speaker 1: now that was around seven years ago. I'm twenty five

1272
01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:54,400
Speaker 1: now and he's twenty six. So this happened seven months

1273
01:03:54,440 --> 01:04:00,920
Speaker 1: ago years years. Seven months time to twelve months equal

1274
01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:02,000
Speaker 1: seven years.

1275
01:04:02,760 --> 01:04:05,920
Speaker 2: That's wait, what did you just seven months twelve seven

1276
01:04:05,960 --> 01:04:08,640
Speaker 2: months times twelve months seven years?

1277
01:04:09,000 --> 01:04:11,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it was actually technically you're right, If you

1278
01:04:12,640 --> 01:04:16,040
Speaker 3: I guess right, seven times twelve would be seven years.

1279
01:04:16,520 --> 01:04:19,200
Speaker 2: You guys, get it? Okay? Sorry math Uh.

1280
01:04:19,480 --> 01:04:22,720
Speaker 1: During the time of the story, at eighteen, I was

1281
01:04:23,120 --> 01:04:25,560
Speaker 1: I found out I was pregnant with their first child.

1282
01:04:25,800 --> 01:04:27,160
Speaker 1: Hooray or not horay?

1283
01:04:27,200 --> 01:04:31,320
Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean yes, maybe hooray hooray child.

1284
01:04:32,280 --> 01:04:34,840
Speaker 1: Anyway to the story. For the context of the story,

1285
01:04:34,960 --> 01:04:37,760
Speaker 1: I will use the ages that we were at the time.

1286
01:04:38,040 --> 01:04:40,560
Speaker 1: I eighteen female now twenty five, was pregnant with my

1287
01:04:40,600 --> 01:04:44,280
Speaker 1: first child with my then fiance nineteen male now twenty

1288
01:04:44,320 --> 01:04:47,120
Speaker 1: six male, who we will call boyfriend for the sake

1289
01:04:47,160 --> 01:04:50,400
Speaker 1: of the story, and we were living with my mother

1290
01:04:50,440 --> 01:04:53,200
Speaker 1: in law and sister in law. I was roughly five

1291
01:04:53,280 --> 01:04:56,680
Speaker 1: or six months pregnant whenever all of this happened. One

1292
01:04:56,760 --> 01:04:59,680
Speaker 1: day I learned that ex girlfriend who will be now

1293
01:04:59,720 --> 01:05:02,640
Speaker 1: called X, was going to be moving in with us.

1294
01:05:04,720 --> 01:05:09,280
Speaker 2: What all right? So we have two we have a

1295
01:05:09,360 --> 01:05:10,640
Speaker 2: roommate and a roommate to come.

1296
01:05:11,720 --> 01:05:14,760
Speaker 1: Oh. I of course was very uncomfortable with this, but

1297
01:05:15,040 --> 01:05:17,440
Speaker 1: I put my thoughts to the sign. She was my

1298
01:05:17,520 --> 01:05:20,240
Speaker 1: sister in law's friend, okay, because they're best friends. Sister

1299
01:05:20,280 --> 01:05:23,800
Speaker 1: in law, the sister and the ex are best friends, okay,

1300
01:05:24,200 --> 01:05:27,080
Speaker 1: and she needed a place to go. It wasn't my home,

1301
01:05:27,160 --> 01:05:29,680
Speaker 1: so I didn't have a say. The one rule that

1302
01:05:29,880 --> 01:05:32,200
Speaker 1: mother in law had for X in the house was

1303
01:05:32,520 --> 01:05:36,080
Speaker 1: if you want to live here, you can't be sleeping around.

1304
01:05:36,600 --> 01:05:41,440
Speaker 1: He he he spoiler alert shited.

1305
01:05:42,400 --> 01:05:46,280
Speaker 2: I mean, like that's it's a weird thing to say.

1306
01:05:46,640 --> 01:05:48,959
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, if this it sounds like this doesn't

1307
01:05:48,960 --> 01:05:51,480
Speaker 3: have anything really to do with the boyfriend. It's like

1308
01:05:51,520 --> 01:05:54,400
Speaker 3: the sister is still friends with this girl, yeah, and

1309
01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:56,840
Speaker 3: they're like it's almost like a family friend at this point.

1310
01:05:57,320 --> 01:05:59,720
Speaker 3: But it's really weird to have anyone be brought into

1311
01:05:59,720 --> 01:06:02,360
Speaker 3: your house and be like, look, one rule you're you

1312
01:06:02,400 --> 01:06:04,439
Speaker 3: can't be sleeping around while you're sleeping here.

1313
01:06:04,560 --> 01:06:07,240
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, I understand not bringing people to the

1314
01:06:07,280 --> 01:06:10,360
Speaker 1: house and doing that, but like outside of the house.

1315
01:06:10,200 --> 01:06:12,600
Speaker 3: Like, well, yeah, don't bring strangers into my house is

1316
01:06:12,640 --> 01:06:14,760
Speaker 3: one thing, but like trying to dictate someone's love life.

1317
01:06:15,360 --> 01:06:18,480
Speaker 2: Do you guys think that maybe the mom is just

1318
01:06:18,880 --> 01:06:20,640
Speaker 2: our mother in law is like stuck up on that

1319
01:06:20,760 --> 01:06:22,960
Speaker 2: one girl, like she like really liked her and like

1320
01:06:23,040 --> 01:06:24,680
Speaker 2: that's the one that got away for her.

1321
01:06:24,960 --> 01:06:27,560
Speaker 3: I don't Oh yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah, there's something

1322
01:06:27,640 --> 01:06:28,720
Speaker 3: going on in that noodle.

1323
01:06:29,120 --> 01:06:30,840
Speaker 2: Something's going on. We'll see.

1324
01:06:31,520 --> 01:06:36,280
Speaker 1: But it made my radar go insane. Oh maybe I

1325
01:06:36,360 --> 01:06:39,280
Speaker 1: had been insecure at the time, or maybe he was

1326
01:06:39,400 --> 01:06:43,120
Speaker 1: just stupid pregnancy hormones. But I did tell boyfriend to

1327
01:06:43,160 --> 01:06:46,600
Speaker 1: please keep his distance and try to limit his interactions

1328
01:06:46,640 --> 01:06:50,840
Speaker 1: with her. From the stories I heard about X from him,

1329
01:06:51,280 --> 01:06:53,280
Speaker 1: I did not like the vibe that I had gotten.

1330
01:06:53,720 --> 01:06:56,080
Speaker 1: He agreed and told me that he didn't really want

1331
01:06:56,120 --> 01:06:58,840
Speaker 1: anything to do with her and that it was really

1332
01:06:58,880 --> 01:07:02,040
Speaker 1: awkward living on the same roof as his ex and

1333
01:07:02,080 --> 01:07:06,040
Speaker 1: his pregnant fiance. Yeah you think, but she was still

1334
01:07:06,520 --> 01:07:11,360
Speaker 1: but she was her sisters, but she was his sister's friend.

1335
01:07:11,960 --> 01:07:14,960
Speaker 1: Mother in law kept telling me that ex and boyfriend

1336
01:07:15,400 --> 01:07:18,720
Speaker 1: had been friends before they dated, and they were now

1337
01:07:18,800 --> 01:07:24,200
Speaker 1: nothing more like brother and sister. I don't believe you, okay, side,

1338
01:07:24,200 --> 01:07:27,200
Speaker 1: I this ain't Sweet Home, Alabama, and not with that

1339
01:07:27,400 --> 01:07:32,720
Speaker 1: what I heard mother in law anyway.

1340
01:07:35,640 --> 01:07:39,000
Speaker 2: Okay, that's the whole riff. That was the riff. I

1341
01:07:39,040 --> 01:07:41,960
Speaker 2: did the full riff, and we can go down me.

1342
01:07:42,040 --> 01:07:42,240
Speaker 2: We can.

1343
01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:44,360
Speaker 1: We can keep listening. Please keep listening.

1344
01:07:44,920 --> 01:07:46,520
Speaker 2: You want me to hit some lyrics, I don't. I don't.

1345
01:07:47,000 --> 01:07:49,320
Speaker 1: Don't thank you for that.

1346
01:07:50,080 --> 01:07:50,600
Speaker 2: Anyway.

1347
01:07:51,320 --> 01:07:53,960
Speaker 1: X moves in with us, and I keep getting this

1348
01:07:54,080 --> 01:07:57,520
Speaker 1: gut feeling about her. I keep telling myself that it

1349
01:07:57,600 --> 01:08:01,080
Speaker 1: had to be hormones because she was an X. I

1350
01:08:01,120 --> 01:08:05,520
Speaker 1: trusted boyfriend. I didn't think he would do anything time

1351
01:08:05,560 --> 01:08:08,400
Speaker 1: out Tom out tom. Okay, do you think he's gonna

1352
01:08:08,440 --> 01:08:10,840
Speaker 1: do something? I God, I hope not because it is

1353
01:08:10,880 --> 01:08:11,480
Speaker 1: now husband.

1354
01:08:12,280 --> 01:08:13,200
Speaker 2: What is it?

1355
01:08:13,760 --> 01:08:16,080
Speaker 1: She said? It's her now husband. Do you think he

1356
01:08:16,080 --> 01:08:16,680
Speaker 1: did something? Oh?

1357
01:08:16,840 --> 01:08:19,240
Speaker 2: Oh wait right now husband? Yes? Okay.

1358
01:08:19,240 --> 01:08:21,040
Speaker 3: I was confused because I thought that was giving away

1359
01:08:21,040 --> 01:08:23,120
Speaker 3: that they were going to break up because she was

1360
01:08:23,160 --> 01:08:24,400
Speaker 3: like boyfriend.

1361
01:08:23,960 --> 01:08:25,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, did they hook up or not?

1362
01:08:25,360 --> 01:08:26,000
Speaker 2: Not husband?

1363
01:08:26,160 --> 01:08:29,280
Speaker 3: But I yeah, no, I'm gonna say no, no, I'm

1364
01:08:29,280 --> 01:08:31,639
Speaker 3: gonna say that his sister in law tries.

1365
01:08:34,240 --> 01:08:39,880
Speaker 2: It's not that I think she's gonna try.

1366
01:08:39,960 --> 01:08:42,200
Speaker 1: She's gonna try. Yeah, I don't think he cheated. I

1367
01:08:42,200 --> 01:08:45,080
Speaker 1: think she's gonna try. Let me know what you guys think, I.

1368
01:08:44,960 --> 01:08:47,320
Speaker 2: Hope he doesn't. I guarantee you. The mom's like, yeah,

1369
01:08:48,080 --> 01:08:49,760
Speaker 2: he can't be sleeping around, but you can sleep with

1370
01:08:49,800 --> 01:08:53,479
Speaker 2: anyone around here. He he he.

1371
01:08:54,280 --> 01:08:56,719
Speaker 1: At the time, all he did was work a ton

1372
01:08:56,960 --> 01:09:00,280
Speaker 1: of overtime and worked overnights as a manager. Were at

1373
01:09:00,320 --> 01:09:02,840
Speaker 1: the same location, so I knew for a fact that

1374
01:09:02,960 --> 01:09:06,120
Speaker 1: this was all true. Plus he had no license at

1375
01:09:06,120 --> 01:09:08,559
Speaker 1: the time, so his mother had to take him to

1376
01:09:08,880 --> 01:09:12,040
Speaker 1: and from work. That man had no time and energy

1377
01:09:12,080 --> 01:09:14,840
Speaker 1: to do anything else. On the side, man is in Jane.

1378
01:09:15,479 --> 01:09:18,559
Speaker 1: He's sleeping literally from the second he got off work

1379
01:09:18,560 --> 01:09:20,240
Speaker 1: to the minute he had to go to work. If

1380
01:09:20,240 --> 01:09:23,800
Speaker 1: you have ever worked overnights, you understand this. So a

1381
01:09:23,800 --> 01:09:26,519
Speaker 1: few weeks go by and I keep getting this feeling

1382
01:09:27,000 --> 01:09:31,559
Speaker 1: that X is wanting boyfriend back. While I had no

1383
01:09:31,720 --> 01:09:36,320
Speaker 1: outred proof, my gut was screaming and blaring a bullhorn

1384
01:09:36,880 --> 01:09:39,920
Speaker 1: right in my head telling me to listen with every

1385
01:09:40,000 --> 01:09:45,120
Speaker 1: red flag possible. No, that's just your child, not her gut.

1386
01:09:45,439 --> 01:09:46,720
Speaker 1: It's a child telling me that.

1387
01:09:48,680 --> 01:09:50,760
Speaker 2: Hey, that's a good one. Yeah, it's a good one.

1388
01:09:51,200 --> 01:09:51,479
Speaker 4: Fuck.

1389
01:09:51,800 --> 01:09:54,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's in there. He's in the gut. Children are

1390
01:09:54,800 --> 01:09:58,840
Speaker 2: stored in the gut. That is true. No, they're not.

1391
01:09:59,479 --> 01:10:01,800
Speaker 2: Someone else told me that. I was like, hey, kids

1392
01:10:01,800 --> 01:10:02,320
Speaker 2: are in the gut.

1393
01:10:02,360 --> 01:10:05,799
Speaker 1: And someone's like, oh really, they're in the gut really,

1394
01:10:06,040 --> 01:10:07,360
Speaker 1: And I'm like, come on.

1395
01:10:07,640 --> 01:10:10,720
Speaker 2: Well, they're in the guts. It looks like it. I

1396
01:10:10,720 --> 01:10:13,080
Speaker 2: think a uterus would be considered gutsop. I'm gonna stop

1397
01:10:13,120 --> 01:10:15,599
Speaker 2: you right, I'm gonna stops like the guy.

1398
01:10:16,000 --> 01:10:18,639
Speaker 1: We're trying to explore and find out about the woman

1399
01:10:18,720 --> 01:10:20,920
Speaker 1: anatomy and it seems like you can't handle that.

1400
01:10:21,520 --> 01:10:26,320
Speaker 2: No, I'm making sure y'all don't do anything too purely

1401
01:10:26,400 --> 01:10:29,920
Speaker 2: scientific discussion. This is dude, Hey, what are we supposed

1402
01:10:29,920 --> 01:10:31,200
Speaker 2: to be doing right now? Reading?

1403
01:10:31,280 --> 01:10:33,240
Speaker 1: But I'm trying to need to be getting into a

1404
01:10:33,479 --> 01:10:38,880
Speaker 1: time side to be learning about how women's bodies work. Okay,

1405
01:10:39,960 --> 01:10:44,080
Speaker 1: look misogynists over here. He hates how women's body works.

1406
01:10:46,240 --> 01:10:46,680
Speaker 2: There he is?

1407
01:10:47,200 --> 01:10:49,960
Speaker 1: Everyone, excuse me, anyways.

1408
01:10:49,600 --> 01:10:51,200
Speaker 3: I like how you said there he is, look at

1409
01:10:51,280 --> 01:10:53,519
Speaker 3: him everyone, when the camera was on you, No, he

1410
01:10:54,200 --> 01:10:55,760
Speaker 3: came was on you went there he is.

1411
01:10:56,160 --> 01:10:58,840
Speaker 1: No, we all know who we're talking about. Anyways, he's

1412
01:10:58,840 --> 01:11:01,840
Speaker 1: anti women, thank you, she's anti women.

1413
01:11:02,080 --> 01:11:03,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, sorry, we'll read it. We'll read it.

1414
01:11:04,720 --> 01:11:07,000
Speaker 1: I thought, she was nice and funny, so I really

1415
01:11:07,080 --> 01:11:10,400
Speaker 1: thought that it might be actually being insecure about all that.

1416
01:11:11,080 --> 01:11:13,880
Speaker 1: She even did talk with me and seemed to try

1417
01:11:13,960 --> 01:11:16,759
Speaker 1: to make me feel comfortable with her. Well, I guess

1418
01:11:16,840 --> 01:11:22,040
Speaker 1: that's what snakes do. They slither and strike. One day,

1419
01:11:22,200 --> 01:11:25,080
Speaker 1: I eventually go outside with X and I admit to

1420
01:11:25,160 --> 01:11:28,479
Speaker 1: her that I did ask boyfriend not to really interact

1421
01:11:28,479 --> 01:11:32,000
Speaker 1: with her. She told me she completely understood. At the time,

1422
01:11:32,479 --> 01:11:35,160
Speaker 1: I thought we had a good conversation. We had been

1423
01:11:35,240 --> 01:11:38,559
Speaker 1: laughing and joking around after that, thinking we had a

1424
01:11:38,600 --> 01:11:42,760
Speaker 1: good conversation. She then goes inside the house while I

1425
01:11:42,800 --> 01:11:46,960
Speaker 1: went to work thinking, and I was finally relieved of

1426
01:11:47,000 --> 01:11:50,439
Speaker 1: all these feelings. Following this, I get home from work

1427
01:11:50,800 --> 01:11:54,040
Speaker 1: and after dropping boyfriend off at work, mother in law,

1428
01:11:54,200 --> 01:11:57,000
Speaker 1: sister in law, and X are all sitting around the

1429
01:11:57,040 --> 01:12:00,400
Speaker 1: living room and mother in law immediately tells me to

1430
01:12:00,560 --> 01:12:05,160
Speaker 1: sit my booty down and listen up. So I did,

1431
01:12:05,720 --> 01:12:08,519
Speaker 1: and this woman ripped into me. She kept telling me

1432
01:12:08,720 --> 01:12:12,360
Speaker 1: that you can't come in between X and boyfriend. They

1433
01:12:12,360 --> 01:12:18,920
Speaker 1: were friends first before anything. She came before you. Hey, hey, stupid,

1434
01:12:19,000 --> 01:12:22,960
Speaker 1: who's carrying his child? That's what I would shout back

1435
01:12:23,000 --> 01:12:24,679
Speaker 1: at her. Face knock knock.

1436
01:12:24,760 --> 01:12:27,880
Speaker 2: Oh is that the sound of your empty skull? What

1437
01:12:28,000 --> 01:12:29,120
Speaker 2: are you talking about?

1438
01:12:29,280 --> 01:12:31,400
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. Yeah, she came before me, but

1439
01:12:31,439 --> 01:12:33,600
Speaker 1: I'm the one with the ring on my finger and

1440
01:12:33,720 --> 01:12:37,200
Speaker 1: she's the X. So I think that's enough said, but

1441
01:12:37,760 --> 01:12:41,160
Speaker 1: go off, she went on. She went on to tell

1442
01:12:41,200 --> 01:12:43,240
Speaker 1: me that I was crazy and out of my mind

1443
01:12:43,280 --> 01:12:46,240
Speaker 1: for telling X how uncomfortable I was, and that I

1444
01:12:46,360 --> 01:12:49,160
Speaker 1: had no right to tell boyfriend to keep his distance.

1445
01:12:52,600 --> 01:12:56,400
Speaker 3: Ooh, I wish I could just like teleport into her

1446
01:12:56,520 --> 01:12:59,840
Speaker 3: brain at that moment, right now, So I could you

1447
01:13:01,120 --> 01:13:05,360
Speaker 3: viscerate this woman for doing this?

1448
01:13:05,920 --> 01:13:07,400
Speaker 2: That's what I would do. Oh my god.

1449
01:13:07,560 --> 01:13:09,920
Speaker 1: Mother in law also ended up telling me that I

1450
01:13:09,960 --> 01:13:13,160
Speaker 1: would always come after her. She will always be more

1451
01:13:13,200 --> 01:13:18,920
Speaker 1: important as if I was not engaged and pregnant to

1452
01:13:18,960 --> 01:13:22,800
Speaker 1: this man. She then went to say that X had

1453
01:13:22,840 --> 01:13:26,920
Speaker 1: no intentions of wanting boyfriend back and would never try

1454
01:13:26,960 --> 01:13:30,440
Speaker 1: to do anything that I should be trusting a boyfriend.

1455
01:13:31,400 --> 01:13:34,240
Speaker 1: I did trust him, I didn't trust her.

1456
01:13:34,720 --> 01:13:38,040
Speaker 3: Oh my god, this woman, this mother in law is

1457
01:13:38,760 --> 01:13:39,960
Speaker 3: I don't know what it is about.

1458
01:13:40,000 --> 01:13:43,719
Speaker 1: This in particular, is driving me so crazy. I would

1459
01:13:43,760 --> 01:13:46,760
Speaker 1: be I would be laughing. I'd be like, this is

1460
01:13:46,840 --> 01:13:49,040
Speaker 1: just mother in law's crazy way of trying to match make.

1461
01:13:49,880 --> 01:13:50,960
Speaker 1: I think she's I don't know.

1462
01:13:51,320 --> 01:13:54,880
Speaker 3: I think maybe she's trying to like force her to

1463
01:13:54,920 --> 01:13:57,200
Speaker 3: read because how could you, how could you not react.

1464
01:13:57,240 --> 01:13:58,880
Speaker 3: She's trying to get her really mad so them so

1465
01:13:58,880 --> 01:14:01,000
Speaker 3: she can go to her son and be like your

1466
01:14:01,040 --> 01:14:04,719
Speaker 3: wife was screaming at me and being like blah blah blah.

1467
01:14:04,720 --> 01:14:06,120
Speaker 2: She's still trying to split them up.

1468
01:14:06,360 --> 01:14:09,639
Speaker 1: It's crazy. It really is crazy. Rebecca says, Hey, mother

1469
01:14:09,680 --> 01:14:13,040
Speaker 1: in law, how about you let boyfriends speak for himself. Yeah,

1470
01:14:13,120 --> 01:14:15,040
Speaker 1: boyfriend has nothing to do with this boy If you

1471
01:14:15,040 --> 01:14:16,360
Speaker 1: should trust your boyfriend, I do.

1472
01:14:16,439 --> 01:14:19,400
Speaker 2: I don't trust the skank that you moved to sorry Britain.

1473
01:14:19,120 --> 01:14:21,759
Speaker 1: Do all no intentions? Right?

1474
01:14:22,520 --> 01:14:22,760
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1475
01:14:22,800 --> 01:14:25,360
Speaker 1: Also, bug, thank you for the encouragement. I love that. Also,

1476
01:14:25,439 --> 01:14:27,720
Speaker 1: when you tell the person that you're suspecting wants to

1477
01:14:27,840 --> 01:14:32,160
Speaker 1: cheat on your husband, like with your husband or whatever, like,

1478
01:14:32,840 --> 01:14:34,160
Speaker 1: don't be like, oh, yeah, I thought.

1479
01:14:34,040 --> 01:14:35,479
Speaker 2: That's what you wanted. They're gonna go no, I don't

1480
01:14:35,479 --> 01:14:38,160
Speaker 2: want to do that. Then they're gonna go do the thing.

1481
01:14:38,439 --> 01:14:39,960
Speaker 1: Yep, yep, yep, yep.

1482
01:14:40,000 --> 01:14:41,639
Speaker 2: Don't you can't trust those people.

1483
01:14:41,720 --> 01:14:44,800
Speaker 1: Don't be putting those kind of ideas and the people says, oh,

1484
01:14:45,160 --> 01:14:47,680
Speaker 1: I've learned that the hard way. I've learned that the

1485
01:14:47,680 --> 01:14:53,080
Speaker 1: hard way. Oh yep. Sometimes now, sometimes you gotta learn

1486
01:14:53,120 --> 01:14:56,240
Speaker 1: the hard way. Yeah. Uh, I admit I bowled after this.

1487
01:14:56,439 --> 01:14:59,200
Speaker 1: I really thought that maybe I was going crazy and

1488
01:14:59,240 --> 01:15:02,840
Speaker 1: so fulled moans that I was reading everything wrong. So

1489
01:15:02,960 --> 01:15:06,559
Speaker 1: after this, I took myself with my tae between my legs,

1490
01:15:06,760 --> 01:15:09,720
Speaker 1: cried my heart out in my bedroom and went on

1491
01:15:09,840 --> 01:15:13,960
Speaker 1: about my life. Then I kept noticing things. Boyfriend had

1492
01:15:14,000 --> 01:15:16,479
Speaker 1: a gym membership and could only go on certain days

1493
01:15:16,760 --> 01:15:19,639
Speaker 1: and mostly at nights. He wanted to get more healthy,

1494
01:15:19,760 --> 01:15:23,400
Speaker 1: and yes, king, you do that. I was pregnant and

1495
01:15:23,479 --> 01:15:25,960
Speaker 1: tired all the time. Anyway, I'm not going to stop

1496
01:15:26,040 --> 01:15:29,559
Speaker 1: him from going. Why is this important? If you think

1497
01:15:30,000 --> 01:15:33,200
Speaker 1: X has something to do with this, you'd be right.

1498
01:15:34,240 --> 01:15:37,200
Speaker 3: I really better not be a cheating, a cheating situation,

1499
01:15:37,320 --> 01:15:38,960
Speaker 3: I hope the situation is that he can't go to

1500
01:15:39,000 --> 01:15:41,320
Speaker 3: the gym when the X is there, so he has

1501
01:15:41,360 --> 01:15:42,000
Speaker 3: to go at nights.

1502
01:15:42,040 --> 01:15:45,160
Speaker 1: Well, he also doesn't have a car, so he probably needs.

1503
01:15:45,040 --> 01:15:45,639
Speaker 2: A ride.

1504
01:15:47,160 --> 01:15:53,720
Speaker 3: And then a ride no, ke keon, keon, we'll get

1505
01:15:53,760 --> 01:15:55,559
Speaker 3: I get well let's go.

1506
01:15:56,520 --> 01:16:00,439
Speaker 1: One night, X comes up to me and tells me

1507
01:16:01,000 --> 01:16:04,720
Speaker 1: that she will be going to the gym alone with

1508
01:16:04,840 --> 01:16:11,559
Speaker 1: boyfriend and one record screeching in head.

1509
01:16:15,080 --> 01:16:15,759
Speaker 2: What'd you say?

1510
01:16:16,439 --> 01:16:20,080
Speaker 3: You said boyfriend and alone in the same sentence, he said,

1511
01:16:22,439 --> 01:16:22,920
Speaker 3: what was that?

1512
01:16:24,400 --> 01:16:27,400
Speaker 1: And one record screeching in my mind? Later? And I

1513
01:16:28,760 --> 01:16:32,800
Speaker 1: and a what Later? I tell her that this is

1514
01:16:32,840 --> 01:16:36,040
Speaker 1: not going to happen and tell boyfriend that I'm absolutely

1515
01:16:36,200 --> 01:16:38,760
Speaker 1: not comfortable with this. It's one thing to be in

1516
01:16:38,800 --> 01:16:42,720
Speaker 1: the house together, but going to the gym alone, no

1517
01:16:43,280 --> 01:16:47,400
Speaker 1: sweating with each other, no getting gangs together.

1518
01:16:47,840 --> 01:16:51,280
Speaker 3: Well, okay, no, the one situation I think this is fine.

1519
01:16:51,360 --> 01:16:53,680
Speaker 3: He doesn't have a car. At some point she is

1520
01:16:53,720 --> 01:16:57,120
Speaker 3: going to have to trust that her like boyfriend slash

1521
01:16:57,160 --> 01:17:01,840
Speaker 3: fiance father of their child, is like okay, okay, it's

1522
01:17:01,880 --> 01:17:03,960
Speaker 3: like sturdy enough to be like I can tell her

1523
01:17:04,040 --> 01:17:06,240
Speaker 3: if she's trying to get with me, I can be like, hey.

1524
01:17:06,560 --> 01:17:08,800
Speaker 1: Stop, all right, all right, you're ready, you're ready. I'm

1525
01:17:08,800 --> 01:17:12,960
Speaker 1: about to disprove everything you said. Oh hey, boyfriend, can

1526
01:17:13,000 --> 01:17:14,639
Speaker 1: you spot me on my squad?

1527
01:17:14,880 --> 01:17:16,519
Speaker 2: Nope, you can't do that. Why are you so good

1528
01:17:16,520 --> 01:17:18,320
Speaker 2: at Nope? No, what do you you trying? To be

1529
01:17:18,400 --> 01:17:20,840
Speaker 2: like me, nope, and I'd be like, I can't. You

1530
01:17:20,840 --> 01:17:24,759
Speaker 2: should go use the smith machine? Do it? You should?

1531
01:17:24,400 --> 01:17:27,320
Speaker 2: I And here's what what's just gonna be doing? Dog,

1532
01:17:27,360 --> 01:17:28,240
Speaker 2: here's what I'd be doing.

1533
01:17:28,400 --> 01:17:33,360
Speaker 1: I'd be like, yep, and oh, my boyfriend, your muscles

1534
01:17:33,400 --> 01:17:34,479
Speaker 1: are so big?

1535
01:17:35,200 --> 01:17:36,599
Speaker 2: Are you talking? Who are you talking to me? Are

1536
01:17:36,600 --> 01:17:38,320
Speaker 2: you talking? Do not touch me? Do not touch me?

1537
01:17:38,400 --> 01:17:41,759
Speaker 1: Wench that, do not touch That's what I'd be Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.

1538
01:17:41,920 --> 01:17:43,800
Speaker 1: But then day one, that's what we're doing.

1539
01:17:44,080 --> 01:17:48,800
Speaker 2: They one day one, you're gonna be denying. You're gonna

1540
01:17:48,800 --> 01:17:49,479
Speaker 2: be like no, no, no, no no.

1541
01:17:49,840 --> 01:17:52,599
Speaker 1: But what after seven days of the gym alone, dude,

1542
01:17:52,640 --> 01:17:54,800
Speaker 1: a month after going to the gym alone.

1543
01:17:54,760 --> 01:17:57,080
Speaker 2: Three months with going to the gym alone, I don't know,

1544
01:17:57,200 --> 01:17:57,840
Speaker 2: six months?

1545
01:17:57,840 --> 01:18:03,240
Speaker 3: Will you not touch if you can't trust the boyfriend

1546
01:18:03,360 --> 01:18:04,559
Speaker 3: and you should be with him any way?

1547
01:18:04,520 --> 01:18:07,920
Speaker 1: Yea. But then again, hear me out, X is looking

1548
01:18:08,120 --> 01:18:10,160
Speaker 1: it's going to the gym working out the time. And

1549
01:18:10,160 --> 01:18:12,479
Speaker 1: then your wife that is taking care of child may

1550
01:18:12,520 --> 01:18:13,800
Speaker 1: not be one to go to the gym please, So

1551
01:18:13,840 --> 01:18:15,320
Speaker 1: who knows what that's gonna look like?

1552
01:18:15,360 --> 01:18:17,240
Speaker 3: You realize that you could go to the gym and

1553
01:18:17,320 --> 01:18:19,840
Speaker 3: be in completely different areas at the same time.

1554
01:18:19,920 --> 01:18:22,200
Speaker 1: Right, but then you don't have to do your learnouts together.

1555
01:18:22,240 --> 01:18:23,479
Speaker 1: You know, awkward to be going to the gym with

1556
01:18:23,560 --> 01:18:25,000
Speaker 1: someone not talking him.

1557
01:18:25,400 --> 01:18:29,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's my gym and place on the gym.

1558
01:18:29,560 --> 01:18:31,320
Speaker 1: I mean, ke Dakota Sark.

1559
01:18:31,640 --> 01:18:34,880
Speaker 2: Why are you called me but but but sorry? The

1560
01:18:34,920 --> 01:18:37,000
Speaker 2: gym is the gym together. Just get a poll in

1561
01:18:37,400 --> 01:18:39,640
Speaker 2: poll Is this okay or not?

1562
01:18:40,040 --> 01:18:45,200
Speaker 1: I don't know what?

1563
01:18:46,640 --> 01:18:48,680
Speaker 2: Nah, yeah, okay, I think you.

1564
01:18:48,800 --> 01:18:55,479
Speaker 3: I think that you know you. I think at this point, no,

1565
01:18:56,160 --> 01:18:57,320
Speaker 3: like you can't.

1566
01:18:57,080 --> 01:18:59,400
Speaker 2: Let her because this is again it's like the exes

1567
01:18:59,439 --> 01:19:04,200
Speaker 2: dictated your lives. You shouldn't let the ex dictate your lives.

1568
01:19:04,280 --> 01:19:07,120
Speaker 3: Also, you're to go to the gym and he needs

1569
01:19:07,120 --> 01:19:08,760
Speaker 3: a ride and the ex is the only one who

1570
01:19:08,760 --> 01:19:10,400
Speaker 3: can give it. You need to be able to trust

1571
01:19:10,479 --> 01:19:12,120
Speaker 3: him that he can go to the gym, do his

1572
01:19:12,160 --> 01:19:15,080
Speaker 3: own thing and then come back. It's not like they're

1573
01:19:15,080 --> 01:19:17,080
Speaker 3: gonna go get dinner. Then I go into the movies.

1574
01:19:17,360 --> 01:19:19,800
Speaker 3: He's going to the gym to get swollen.

1575
01:19:19,520 --> 01:19:21,880
Speaker 2: All right. Everyone is just trying to protect his queen.

1576
01:19:22,479 --> 01:19:25,719
Speaker 1: Everyone is all right, I'm reading Justina, you are getting

1577
01:19:25,720 --> 01:19:29,000
Speaker 1: onto me. I'm reading here we got.

1578
01:19:28,400 --> 01:19:30,679
Speaker 2: That go go juice is really kicking.

1579
01:19:30,880 --> 01:19:33,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm the gym after this juice.

1580
01:19:33,439 --> 01:19:35,840
Speaker 2: No, I'm showing I'm seeing caffeine right.

1581
01:19:36,439 --> 01:19:39,960
Speaker 1: Here we go. According to ax him boyfriend, it was

1582
01:19:40,120 --> 01:19:43,800
Speaker 1: her idea because boyfriend's membership allowed for someone else to

1583
01:19:43,800 --> 01:19:47,000
Speaker 1: come with him. I was pregnant and exhausted. I'm not

1584
01:19:47,080 --> 01:19:51,800
Speaker 1: going myself and at and it's his time. Boyfriends told

1585
01:19:51,880 --> 01:19:55,080
Speaker 1: me that he had been uncomfortable with a thought, but

1586
01:19:55,200 --> 01:19:58,040
Speaker 1: mother in law that kept pushing to let him take

1587
01:19:58,080 --> 01:20:02,599
Speaker 1: her with him, the cause it would be just going

1588
01:20:02,640 --> 01:20:08,840
Speaker 1: to the gym, like da Coda says, well, look at that.

1589
01:20:08,960 --> 01:20:11,880
Speaker 3: My stipulation was if he didn't have a ride, if

1590
01:20:11,920 --> 01:20:14,400
Speaker 3: he couldn't get there, if there was like just a

1591
01:20:14,439 --> 01:20:16,320
Speaker 3: car was made available, make a gym, buddy.

1592
01:20:16,360 --> 01:20:19,120
Speaker 2: If they were carpooling, make a gym buddy.

1593
01:20:19,439 --> 01:20:23,040
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, like, if this is on the ex girlfriend,

1594
01:20:23,080 --> 01:20:24,160
Speaker 3: not the boyfriend.

1595
01:20:23,800 --> 01:20:25,639
Speaker 2: Public transportation, ex girlfriend is the.

1596
01:20:25,600 --> 01:20:31,919
Speaker 1: Suss one, right, Yeah, yeah, everyone says no, mother in law, honey,

1597
01:20:32,439 --> 01:20:37,120
Speaker 1: I will say this slowly. X wanted to be alone

1598
01:20:37,479 --> 01:20:41,880
Speaker 1: with him. Boyfriend ended up siding with me. Honestly, think

1599
01:20:42,040 --> 01:20:45,200
Speaker 1: he used me as is out because he didn't want

1600
01:20:45,240 --> 01:20:48,560
Speaker 1: to fight with his mother, and that woman is exhausting

1601
01:20:49,120 --> 01:20:52,599
Speaker 1: to argue with, so I don't blame him. He stayed

1602
01:20:52,600 --> 01:20:55,360
Speaker 1: home with me and expelled it all night in the

1603
01:20:55,400 --> 01:20:59,519
Speaker 1: other room. After this, mother in law once again started

1604
01:20:59,560 --> 01:21:02,600
Speaker 1: to tell me that I was just crazy and insecure

1605
01:21:02,680 --> 01:21:07,280
Speaker 1: because they were just going to the GM, that they

1606
01:21:07,320 --> 01:21:12,120
Speaker 1: were just friends. An X isn't this person I'm going

1607
01:21:12,160 --> 01:21:15,599
Speaker 1: to make her out to be. Mm hmmm clear start,

1608
01:21:16,080 --> 01:21:19,360
Speaker 1: Then why is she trying to get and engage father

1609
01:21:19,439 --> 01:21:23,439
Speaker 1: to be who happens to be her ex alone all

1610
01:21:24,080 --> 01:21:25,280
Speaker 1: the time.

1611
01:21:29,960 --> 01:21:35,200
Speaker 3: I still maintain that this is technically not bad because

1612
01:21:35,240 --> 01:21:37,639
Speaker 3: you can just go to the gym and f off

1613
01:21:37,640 --> 01:21:40,680
Speaker 3: and do your own thing and then be at the

1614
01:21:40,720 --> 01:21:42,599
Speaker 3: front and just send a text, Hey I'm done.

1615
01:21:43,040 --> 01:21:45,479
Speaker 2: But that's a person. It's the it's with the one

1616
01:21:45,600 --> 01:21:48,360
Speaker 2: person you don't want it with that you just heard

1617
01:21:49,400 --> 01:21:50,760
Speaker 2: the this is.

1618
01:21:50,680 --> 01:21:52,960
Speaker 3: The boyfriend's chance to like if she starts to go,

1619
01:21:53,680 --> 01:21:55,360
Speaker 3: he goes, hey, stop it.

1620
01:21:55,439 --> 01:21:58,040
Speaker 2: But still this is not happening. Hey still giving her

1621
01:21:58,120 --> 01:22:01,280
Speaker 2: the opportunity to talk to him. The last thing I

1622
01:22:01,320 --> 01:22:05,519
Speaker 2: want to do is make my wife anxious, my pregnant wife,

1623
01:22:05,760 --> 01:22:09,719
Speaker 2: more anxious, more stressed out, more worried than she should

1624
01:22:09,800 --> 01:22:13,960
Speaker 2: be when she's already in that mindset. I don't know.

1625
01:22:13,960 --> 01:22:16,479
Speaker 3: I just think it's a great opportunity. It's a great

1626
01:22:16,479 --> 01:22:20,880
Speaker 3: opportunity to shoot down the X and to stop this.

1627
01:22:21,640 --> 01:22:23,880
Speaker 2: Guess what, You're shooting down the X by saying no

1628
01:22:24,360 --> 01:22:27,639
Speaker 2: by going to the gym with her. Yeah, but that's but.

1629
01:22:27,600 --> 01:22:29,000
Speaker 1: I don't think he needs a ride at this point.

1630
01:22:29,000 --> 01:22:30,599
Speaker 1: I think she's just trying to bum off.

1631
01:22:30,680 --> 01:22:32,400
Speaker 2: Yeah. The fact that he doesn't need to ride also

1632
01:22:32,520 --> 01:22:33,719
Speaker 2: is just like it's this is dumb.

1633
01:22:33,760 --> 01:22:35,400
Speaker 1: All that is just worried about the right.

1634
01:22:35,479 --> 01:22:35,880
Speaker 2: It's dumb.

1635
01:22:35,920 --> 01:22:37,719
Speaker 3: I just think that you should be able to trust

1636
01:22:37,760 --> 01:22:40,200
Speaker 3: your partner to go to the gym with anybody, because

1637
01:22:40,200 --> 01:22:43,719
Speaker 3: it's not it's not an implicitly like intimate thing or anything.

1638
01:22:43,800 --> 01:22:46,160
Speaker 3: And I think I hate being with other people at

1639
01:22:46,160 --> 01:22:47,680
Speaker 3: the gym because it distracts me. I just try to

1640
01:22:47,680 --> 01:22:51,360
Speaker 3: lock in, But everyone is you all right, here we go,

1641
01:22:51,560 --> 01:22:52,439
Speaker 3: we're getting back here too.

1642
01:22:52,479 --> 01:22:56,440
Speaker 2: You're too handsome, this same yes sing.

1643
01:22:56,600 --> 01:22:59,200
Speaker 3: Blurry though anyway, I'm a handsome.

1644
01:22:59,560 --> 01:23:01,880
Speaker 1: The same thing happened a few more times, and each

1645
01:23:01,960 --> 01:23:06,280
Speaker 1: time boyfriend kept telling me it was making him uncomfortable

1646
01:23:06,600 --> 01:23:08,479
Speaker 1: that he didn't want to go off to the gym

1647
01:23:08,479 --> 01:23:11,040
Speaker 1: with her. Mother in law kept trying to pressure him

1648
01:23:11,040 --> 01:23:13,479
Speaker 1: into taking her because she wanted to go and he

1649
01:23:13,560 --> 01:23:17,280
Speaker 1: had a membership. As time goes on, she keeps trying

1650
01:23:17,320 --> 01:23:20,360
Speaker 1: to talk to him at work she worked right across

1651
01:23:20,400 --> 01:23:22,960
Speaker 1: the street while we worked at the other place, to

1652
01:23:23,000 --> 01:23:25,280
Speaker 1: get him to go to the gym and to get

1653
01:23:25,360 --> 01:23:29,200
Speaker 1: him alone. This entire time, mother in law continually kept

1654
01:23:29,240 --> 01:23:32,400
Speaker 1: telling me that they were just friends and that X

1655
01:23:32,479 --> 01:23:35,960
Speaker 1: had no bad intentions. I foolishly continued to believe that

1656
01:23:36,120 --> 01:23:39,559
Speaker 1: I really was just being insecure at this point. Well,

1657
01:23:40,200 --> 01:23:43,520
Speaker 1: let me tell you the kicker. Remember how I said

1658
01:23:43,760 --> 01:23:46,840
Speaker 1: that me and boyfriend worked at the same place. Well,

1659
01:23:47,240 --> 01:23:51,479
Speaker 1: our coworkers at the time were gossips, and if something happened,

1660
01:23:51,760 --> 01:23:56,240
Speaker 1: everyone knew. Imagine being that one. Imagine being that person

1661
01:23:56,240 --> 01:23:58,840
Speaker 1: who pulls out popcorn and just watches the crap show

1662
01:23:58,880 --> 01:24:02,960
Speaker 1: go down. That was my workplace, great people. I knew

1663
01:24:03,040 --> 01:24:05,759
Speaker 1: ninety nine percent of the people who worked there from

1664
01:24:05,840 --> 01:24:08,000
Speaker 1: the town I grew up in, and many of them

1665
01:24:08,040 --> 01:24:12,400
Speaker 1: were my brother's friends. This is important. One day I

1666
01:24:12,560 --> 01:24:14,920
Speaker 1: just go off to work and I had sat down

1667
01:24:15,040 --> 01:24:17,559
Speaker 1: to eat something and wait for my ride to get there.

1668
01:24:17,840 --> 01:24:20,840
Speaker 1: It was my mother X walks up to me and

1669
01:24:21,000 --> 01:24:24,759
Speaker 1: tells me that boyfriend in her wall wait and tells

1670
01:24:24,800 --> 01:24:27,639
Speaker 1: me that her boyfriend kissed her right in the middle

1671
01:24:27,680 --> 01:24:31,639
Speaker 1: of my workplace. I just sat there, dumbfounded, thinking there

1672
01:24:31,720 --> 01:24:35,000
Speaker 1: was no way that she just said that, not because

1673
01:24:35,000 --> 01:24:38,439
Speaker 1: she was trying to say boyfriend cheated, but because she

1674
01:24:38,600 --> 01:24:41,639
Speaker 1: thought I would believe it. I did not believe her.

1675
01:24:41,479 --> 01:24:42,160
Speaker 2: For a second.

1676
01:24:42,560 --> 01:24:45,360
Speaker 1: Actually, I just laughed and finished my food and threw

1677
01:24:45,360 --> 01:24:48,280
Speaker 1: away my trash and walked away. She really wanted me

1678
01:24:48,360 --> 01:24:51,960
Speaker 1: to believe that would actually happen in my workplace where

1679
01:24:52,000 --> 01:24:54,120
Speaker 1: me and my boyfriend both work, in a place full

1680
01:24:54,160 --> 01:24:58,120
Speaker 1: of people who enjoy scandals, as if it was an

1681
01:24:58,120 --> 01:25:02,160
Speaker 1: episode of Jerry Springer Show. It in fact did not happen.

1682
01:25:02,840 --> 01:25:05,120
Speaker 1: She claims it happened in the middle of the place

1683
01:25:05,720 --> 01:25:08,920
Speaker 1: in a few of others. Yeah, if that happened everyone,

1684
01:25:09,080 --> 01:25:11,439
Speaker 1: she she would have known that before the girl the

1685
01:25:11,520 --> 01:25:12,479
Speaker 1: ex came up to her.

1686
01:25:13,040 --> 01:25:16,160
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, right see now, that attitude,

1687
01:25:16,240 --> 01:25:17,960
Speaker 3: I feel like should just be applied to all of

1688
01:25:18,000 --> 01:25:20,360
Speaker 3: these situations, because you already trust your husband that he

1689
01:25:20,400 --> 01:25:23,160
Speaker 3: wants nothing to do with this woman. She she literally

1690
01:25:23,200 --> 01:25:26,639
Speaker 3: lives in the same house as you guys. Like, it's

1691
01:25:26,640 --> 01:25:28,920
Speaker 3: not like it's like he's gonna be sneaking around to

1692
01:25:28,920 --> 01:25:29,240
Speaker 3: see her.

1693
01:25:29,240 --> 01:25:31,000
Speaker 2: He could see her whenever you wanted.

1694
01:25:31,120 --> 01:25:33,640
Speaker 3: If you already trust him enough, it should just be

1695
01:25:33,720 --> 01:25:36,599
Speaker 3: like a yeah, whatever, maybe take an opportunity to like, yeah,

1696
01:25:36,640 --> 01:25:40,439
Speaker 3: I don't know, tell her you literally are you.

1697
01:25:40,439 --> 01:25:42,439
Speaker 2: Think nothing of her? Nothing?

1698
01:25:42,479 --> 01:25:45,519
Speaker 1: You are to appear are on the gym thing?

1699
01:25:45,600 --> 01:25:47,560
Speaker 3: Well, I'm just it's it's part of it. Yeah, you know,

1700
01:25:47,720 --> 01:25:52,120
Speaker 3: it's just it's whatever. It's does entire story. I feel

1701
01:25:52,160 --> 01:25:56,040
Speaker 3: like the exes matters too much. It's like you should

1702
01:25:56,080 --> 01:25:58,400
Speaker 3: both sit down together and be like, hey, we know

1703
01:25:58,439 --> 01:25:59,040
Speaker 3: what you're doing.

1704
01:25:59,360 --> 01:26:00,439
Speaker 2: We would just appreciate it.

1705
01:26:00,479 --> 01:26:03,040
Speaker 3: If you stop, it would it would you would not

1706
01:26:03,080 --> 01:26:05,679
Speaker 3: be wasting your energy. You wouldn't be trying to steal

1707
01:26:05,760 --> 01:26:08,200
Speaker 3: our energy because it's not gonna happen, you know.

1708
01:26:08,560 --> 01:26:10,680
Speaker 1: And I don't think Op has told her boyfriend at

1709
01:26:10,680 --> 01:26:12,920
Speaker 1: this point, because she said she told him this years ago,

1710
01:26:12,960 --> 01:26:14,840
Speaker 1: because she's like, this isn't even a big deal. She's

1711
01:26:14,880 --> 01:26:16,360
Speaker 1: just saying, like how crazy this person?

1712
01:26:16,560 --> 01:26:19,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, so that this just all needs communication. You way

1713
01:26:19,200 --> 01:26:21,800
Speaker 3: more communication with this is going down. Y'all need to

1714
01:26:21,800 --> 01:26:24,880
Speaker 3: be completely in sync about what is happening between the

1715
01:26:25,120 --> 01:26:25,960
Speaker 3: X and everyone.

1716
01:26:26,160 --> 01:26:30,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, goa dropped the gym. Oh, I just it just

1717
01:26:30,960 --> 01:26:32,599
Speaker 2: I don't know, it's that's about the gym.

1718
01:26:32,680 --> 01:26:34,920
Speaker 3: It's more about just like how much space are we

1719
01:26:35,000 --> 01:26:38,080
Speaker 3: letting someone take up mentally in our we only have

1720
01:26:38,160 --> 01:26:38,479
Speaker 3: so much.

1721
01:26:38,560 --> 01:26:40,880
Speaker 1: Well, it is hard if you know she lives with

1722
01:26:40,960 --> 01:26:43,400
Speaker 1: you and she works across from you, and she's always

1723
01:26:43,400 --> 01:26:45,840
Speaker 1: showing up trying to call stuff, that would be hard

1724
01:26:45,840 --> 01:26:47,560
Speaker 1: to like not give space.

1725
01:26:47,320 --> 01:26:50,519
Speaker 3: To right, So it's like you don't give her anymore,

1726
01:26:51,360 --> 01:26:53,400
Speaker 3: only give her the manatory amount, which is like when

1727
01:26:53,439 --> 01:26:56,320
Speaker 3: you are forced to have to see she is right.

1728
01:26:56,680 --> 01:26:58,680
Speaker 1: Whatever, we'll keep going, sorry to go to it.

1729
01:27:00,080 --> 01:27:04,560
Speaker 2: It's great. Hey, look we have contrasting opinions. It's beautiful.

1730
01:27:04,640 --> 01:27:08,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, look at that people can disagree and not you know,

1731
01:27:08,880 --> 01:27:09,960
Speaker 3: destroy each other.

1732
01:27:10,800 --> 01:27:12,960
Speaker 2: Wonderful. Not in the moment here, but.

1733
01:27:13,800 --> 01:27:16,920
Speaker 1: Give it like like fast forward, like two minutes from now,

1734
01:27:16,960 --> 01:27:18,519
Speaker 1: We're gonna be like at each other's thros.

1735
01:27:19,080 --> 01:27:22,120
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have a ready, gentlemen cuffs.

1736
01:27:23,240 --> 01:27:26,240
Speaker 1: When I was asked what she said to me, I

1737
01:27:26,400 --> 01:27:29,360
Speaker 1: told them and They all said that he walks away

1738
01:27:29,439 --> 01:27:32,760
Speaker 1: anytime she remotely walked into the building and would put

1739
01:27:32,840 --> 01:27:36,200
Speaker 1: himself somewhere to keep her from interacting with him. They

1740
01:27:36,200 --> 01:27:39,479
Speaker 1: were also friends of mine, and we were high school students.

1741
01:27:39,920 --> 01:27:42,800
Speaker 1: We would eat that crap up and laugh about it

1742
01:27:42,840 --> 01:27:46,240
Speaker 1: for days. Not one person, even those who didn't care

1743
01:27:46,280 --> 01:27:49,759
Speaker 1: for boyfriend, said that it ever happened, and even said

1744
01:27:49,840 --> 01:27:55,360
Speaker 1: that they never saw them too remotely close enough for that. Anyway.

1745
01:27:55,400 --> 01:27:57,360
Speaker 1: My mom picked me up from work and we were

1746
01:27:57,479 --> 01:27:59,920
Speaker 1: driving home, and who do I get a call from

1747
01:28:00,439 --> 01:28:04,200
Speaker 1: boyfriend freaking out and telling me that what she said

1748
01:28:04,520 --> 01:28:07,240
Speaker 1: was not true and that it didn't happen. I just

1749
01:28:07,280 --> 01:28:11,240
Speaker 1: told him to calm down and that I believed him. Awesome, fantastic,

1750
01:28:11,360 --> 01:28:12,519
Speaker 1: that is great, Let's go.

1751
01:28:12,680 --> 01:28:13,240
Speaker 2: That is great.

1752
01:28:13,840 --> 01:28:17,200
Speaker 1: According to him, on this call, X told sister in

1753
01:28:17,320 --> 01:28:20,840
Speaker 1: law that this kiss apparently happened, and sister in law

1754
01:28:20,880 --> 01:28:23,440
Speaker 1: told mother in law, and that mother in law told boyfriend,

1755
01:28:23,760 --> 01:28:25,760
Speaker 1: and that is when boyfriend called me and I bet

1756
01:28:25,800 --> 01:28:30,040
Speaker 1: you ten million bucker. Runo's mother in law was dramaticizing

1757
01:28:30,120 --> 01:28:31,320
Speaker 1: that to the max.

1758
01:28:31,520 --> 01:28:34,360
Speaker 2: No, yeah, I bet, I bet it wasn't a kiss.

1759
01:28:34,360 --> 01:28:38,120
Speaker 2: I was doing you know what, Yeah, uh, I just

1760
01:28:38,439 --> 01:28:40,040
Speaker 2: fat call good callback.

1761
01:28:40,960 --> 01:28:43,360
Speaker 1: I just collaughed it off and told him I loved

1762
01:28:43,400 --> 01:28:46,200
Speaker 1: him and got off the phone. At that point, I

1763
01:28:46,240 --> 01:28:49,240
Speaker 1: had all the proof I needed to feel vindicated in

1764
01:28:49,320 --> 01:28:53,000
Speaker 1: my feelings. A few weeks later, X got kicked out

1765
01:28:53,080 --> 01:28:56,080
Speaker 1: for apparently sleeping around with a couple of guys, and

1766
01:28:56,160 --> 01:29:01,120
Speaker 1: mother in law lost her ever loving mind. I gladly

1767
01:29:01,240 --> 01:29:04,040
Speaker 1: packed Ex's stuff and took it to her in the

1768
01:29:04,080 --> 01:29:06,759
Speaker 1: parking lot of her job, and gave her a little

1769
01:29:06,800 --> 01:29:09,680
Speaker 1: wave and a smirk as I walked away, rubbing my

1770
01:29:09,880 --> 01:29:15,760
Speaker 1: pregnant bed. By the way, you can join us live Nope.

1771
01:29:16,120 --> 01:29:18,200
Speaker 1: By the way, you can join us on any of

1772
01:29:18,200 --> 01:29:23,880
Speaker 1: your favorite podcast platforms, Apple, Spotify, even Google podcasts, and

1773
01:29:23,960 --> 01:29:26,519
Speaker 1: we have stories there. So check us out on our

1774
01:29:26,560 --> 01:29:28,519
Speaker 1: podcast platforms.

1775
01:29:28,439 --> 01:29:30,120
Speaker 3: If you want to read morse, if you want to

1776
01:29:30,120 --> 01:29:32,519
Speaker 3: hear more stories just like this, I gotta do is search.

1777
01:29:32,560 --> 01:29:34,200
Speaker 2: Okay, storytime, and there's.

1778
01:29:34,000 --> 01:29:38,280
Speaker 1: A little bit left here, dude, that little that little

1779
01:29:38,320 --> 01:29:43,559
Speaker 1: rule we called us bs earlier came and clutch We're like,

1780
01:29:43,640 --> 01:29:47,080
Speaker 1: you shouldn't say anything about people's sex lives, and then boom,

1781
01:29:47,720 --> 01:29:50,599
Speaker 1: that was awesome as a full circle moment.

1782
01:29:50,680 --> 01:29:52,040
Speaker 2: I loved that rule. Earlier.

1783
01:29:52,920 --> 01:29:55,040
Speaker 1: I love it now that's the only way to get

1784
01:29:55,040 --> 01:29:58,800
Speaker 1: that X out of there because Op and the boyfriend couldn't.

1785
01:29:58,560 --> 01:30:02,000
Speaker 2: Kick her out. Yeah exactly, it's like you know that.

1786
01:30:02,040 --> 01:30:03,840
Speaker 3: That was the other hard part is that it wasn't

1787
01:30:03,840 --> 01:30:07,439
Speaker 3: their place, like that's why they are, that's you know.

1788
01:30:07,720 --> 01:30:10,960
Speaker 3: That was the nature of this whole situation, is that

1789
01:30:11,000 --> 01:30:12,800
Speaker 3: the mom and the mother in law was like, oh, yeah,

1790
01:30:12,840 --> 01:30:15,679
Speaker 3: you can come live here my my son's ex girlfriend.

1791
01:30:16,120 --> 01:30:17,600
Speaker 1: Like me about it.

1792
01:30:17,600 --> 01:30:21,040
Speaker 2: You're more of a sister now anyway, daughter's best friend.

1793
01:30:21,600 --> 01:30:25,360
Speaker 3: Yeah right, you're practically relative, but just letting you know

1794
01:30:25,400 --> 01:30:25,680
Speaker 3: you're not.

1795
01:30:26,479 --> 01:30:28,679
Speaker 1: But you're not, just in case you want. But hopefully

1796
01:30:28,720 --> 01:30:31,799
Speaker 1: I hope that girl got somewhere to stay. Google podcast

1797
01:30:31,840 --> 01:30:32,839
Speaker 1: doesn't exist anymore.

1798
01:30:34,880 --> 01:30:36,320
Speaker 2: That broke my heart a little bit.

1799
01:30:36,439 --> 01:30:39,280
Speaker 1: Well, actually no, Google already has a lot. Good night

1800
01:30:39,920 --> 01:30:44,120
Speaker 1: the way you were so surprised, even Google podcasts, I

1801
01:30:44,120 --> 01:30:45,040
Speaker 1: thought it was good.

1802
01:30:45,120 --> 01:30:47,479
Speaker 2: We promise if you can find it, it's on there.

1803
01:30:47,600 --> 01:30:48,920
Speaker 2: It's there, all right. No.

1804
01:30:49,479 --> 01:30:52,640
Speaker 1: Mother in law never apologized for not believing me, But

1805
01:30:53,160 --> 01:30:55,960
Speaker 1: she had a lot of a few But she had

1806
01:30:56,000 --> 01:30:58,439
Speaker 1: a lot of a few not so favorable or nice

1807
01:30:58,520 --> 01:31:01,439
Speaker 1: choice words to call X after it was all said

1808
01:31:01,479 --> 01:31:05,000
Speaker 1: and done, so I think I was right in the end,

1809
01:31:05,240 --> 01:31:08,839
Speaker 1: but she will never admit that I got my ride.

1810
01:31:09,520 --> 01:31:12,720
Speaker 1: I got. I got to my ride. I told you no,

1811
01:31:12,800 --> 01:31:14,439
Speaker 1: I got you got to ride it. You got to

1812
01:31:14,520 --> 01:31:16,800
Speaker 1: ride the train I got to ride I told you so,

1813
01:31:17,000 --> 01:31:20,240
Speaker 1: train off of the sunset, gave birth to a beautiful,

1814
01:31:20,320 --> 01:31:23,320
Speaker 1: healthy baby, and marry the love of my life. Six

1815
01:31:23,400 --> 01:31:26,160
Speaker 1: years later. I now have two children with this man

1816
01:31:26,240 --> 01:31:29,720
Speaker 1: and we are living our best lives, very low to

1817
01:31:29,880 --> 01:31:32,680
Speaker 1: no contact with mother in law after more years of

1818
01:31:32,720 --> 01:31:35,760
Speaker 1: bs from this woman, and I couldn't be happier with

1819
01:31:35,800 --> 01:31:37,719
Speaker 1: my life. Sometimes you just got to cut people off.

1820
01:31:38,000 --> 01:31:38,519
Speaker 2: Let's go.

1821
01:31:39,160 --> 01:31:41,439
Speaker 3: What a great ending to that story. I love that

1822
01:31:41,720 --> 01:31:44,920
Speaker 3: glad that you got to deal with her antics. Oh

1823
01:31:44,960 --> 01:31:47,519
Speaker 3: my god, anymore, you got two beautiful children and in

1824
01:31:47,520 --> 01:31:51,400
Speaker 3: the other six years. Yeah, that was beautiful. I love

1825
01:31:51,439 --> 01:31:53,719
Speaker 3: the chef's kiss of an ending right there.

1826
01:31:54,560 --> 01:31:56,400
Speaker 1: That's the end of that story. And I think we

1827
01:31:56,439 --> 01:31:58,839
Speaker 1: have some don't I mean, there's nothing else to say. No,

1828
01:31:58,840 --> 01:32:01,519
Speaker 1: no this textbook. Yeah, I think.

1829
01:32:02,400 --> 01:32:07,240
Speaker 2: Good for opod for also commend the husband. The husband

1830
01:32:07,520 --> 01:32:10,120
Speaker 2: was a good husband. Yep, yep, through thick and thin.

1831
01:32:10,880 --> 01:32:11,360
Speaker 2: I like this.

1832
01:32:11,840 --> 01:32:15,000
Speaker 1: Uh, uh uh there. If you ever get like tempted

1833
01:32:15,040 --> 01:32:18,280
Speaker 1: by things like that that you know would destroy your family,

1834
01:32:18,400 --> 01:32:20,639
Speaker 1: just run. And that's what he did. Anytime that stuff

1835
01:32:20,680 --> 01:32:22,800
Speaker 1: came up. He was like, no, I feel uncomfortable and

1836
01:32:22,880 --> 01:32:27,360
Speaker 1: ran away. That was his exercise, all right, Riley condones

1837
01:32:27,439 --> 01:32:29,439
Speaker 1: just running away from your problems.

1838
01:32:29,439 --> 01:32:32,400
Speaker 2: Running away from temptations like that. That's not well. I

1839
01:32:32,439 --> 01:32:33,960
Speaker 2: think I don't even think it was a tempt I

1840
01:32:34,000 --> 01:32:37,640
Speaker 2: think temptation my temptations are was it though? Because he

1841
01:32:37,680 --> 01:32:40,200
Speaker 2: clearly was like that would never happen. I think what

1842
01:32:40,240 --> 01:32:40,960
Speaker 2: they should.

1843
01:32:40,720 --> 01:32:44,200
Speaker 3: Have done communicated clearer with each other about what they

1844
01:32:44,200 --> 01:32:46,680
Speaker 3: were feeling about the X, and then sat down with

1845
01:32:46,760 --> 01:32:49,960
Speaker 3: her and been like, look, we can feel what you

1846
01:32:49,960 --> 01:32:54,360
Speaker 3: were feeling, all right, and we would like it.

1847
01:32:54,400 --> 01:32:56,040
Speaker 2: Then you go no, no, no, no, don't do that.

1848
01:32:56,360 --> 01:32:58,280
Speaker 2: No no no, no, don't do that. And if you

1849
01:32:58,320 --> 01:32:59,200
Speaker 2: want to keep.

1850
01:32:59,040 --> 01:33:01,519
Speaker 3: Doing that, fine, but we're still gonna tell you you

1851
01:33:01,600 --> 01:33:03,960
Speaker 3: need to stop. We can sense it and it will

1852
01:33:03,960 --> 01:33:05,920
Speaker 3: not be happening, so you might as well just save

1853
01:33:05,960 --> 01:33:06,439
Speaker 3: your energy.

1854
01:33:06,439 --> 01:33:10,120
Speaker 2: Well you know what, Yeah, she moved her energy to

1855
01:33:10,200 --> 01:33:12,760
Speaker 2: everyone else. It was like, yeah, it looks like it.

1856
01:33:12,840 --> 01:33:15,920
Speaker 2: And then it was like whoa all right, keep it

1857
01:33:15,920 --> 01:33:21,800
Speaker 2: in your pace, doesn't matter. That's in the past.

1858
01:33:21,840 --> 01:33:25,439
Speaker 3: For them, the future is what matters now, is what

1859
01:33:25,520 --> 01:33:29,679
Speaker 3: matters now, their kids, their health,