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Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decisions. Hey, guys,

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Speaker 1: welcome to another episode of horrible decisions. Like I'm your girl, Mandy,

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Speaker 1: and I'm with my co ho right here next to me.

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Speaker 1: Her name is Wheezy. W TF. Okay, anyways, team Juneteenth past.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's just our week. We had African American

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Speaker 1: May melanin. No, African American, No, that's February, February Black history.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm talking about. We just passed African American April,

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Speaker 1: and you got melanin May. Now you got Juneteenth June.

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Speaker 1: You you made all that up. Yeah, Okay, I was like,

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Speaker 1: I don't remember my calendares say those things. Well, maybe

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Speaker 1: you don't have the calendar. That doctor. You have a

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Speaker 1: doctor umar calendar. Bitch, you are not to be trusted

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Speaker 1: in the winter months, it says, no Snowbuddy's doctor Ubar.

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Speaker 1: Dr Ubar hates our creation, apparently because he doesn't think

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Speaker 1: interracial dating should be even be a thing. He makes people,

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Speaker 1: but we're here, we can't help. Here, we are, we

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Speaker 1: can't help. Well, here we are happen. He hates our parents.

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Speaker 1: Then no, he said, love your parents. He says mixed

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Speaker 1: people are not a real thing. This is what he said.

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Speaker 1: You're not gonna be half black. Do you think when

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Speaker 1: you get chocolate milk it's because just half chocolate. Do

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Speaker 1: they call it half chocolate milk? Noo? Maybe half chocolate

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Speaker 1: syrup half milk. It's chocolate milk. Ain't not halpy. How

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Speaker 1: do you think you gets from milk to chocolate donation.

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Speaker 1: I'm not doing this to day. I'm not doing this

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Speaker 1: one train to have Like, I just want to talk

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Speaker 1: to him about gainess. I want to talk to him, right,

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Speaker 1: he's so necessary for us, Like I know he's terribly hotep,

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Speaker 1: but at the same time I terribly hot tip. I

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Speaker 1: just also for us. Let me tell you why when

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Speaker 1: he was on the breakfast class talking about wait, wait

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Speaker 1: one moment, one moment, because a couple of weeks ago

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Speaker 1: we said the hood healers should not be a part

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Speaker 1: of our community. But now you're saying that doctor Umar

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Speaker 1: is a necessity hood healer is dumb. She'd be saying

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Speaker 1: doctor Umar a doctor. I don't know if he had

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Speaker 1: I think he a doctor like Dr Dre Is he

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Speaker 1: really he's like a real said? Does he have a doctorate?

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Speaker 1: Or is he a doctor? You need white man's paperwork,

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Speaker 1: That's what he said. But no, I do need to

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Speaker 1: know is it like a PhD? Because you know, like

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Speaker 1: a lot of people like get like honorary degrees from

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Speaker 1: like universities. You're looking it up at him. He got

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Speaker 1: a PhD? Or is he a doctor? That's the same thing,

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Speaker 1: though technically I'm processing because if he got a PhD

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Speaker 1: in sociology, I'm not counting that. According to Dr M R.

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Speaker 1: Johnson dot com, I'm not trust is a doctor of

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Speaker 1: sound like a like he got to do grow he

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Speaker 1: an expert like we se experts? School doctor? Who? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: What school do he go to? The school of hard? No,

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Speaker 1: I was just gonna say that, bitch, I took your joke.

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Speaker 1: Does that mean we're not funny? Yeah? That wasn't even

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Speaker 1: a good No, right, that was real? Oh well I

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Speaker 1: said it for us. It says Philadelphia College of pronounced

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Speaker 1: this absolutely raw. Say that again. It's because he's Nickaragua

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Speaker 1: and he can't do that. Ain't a real school. Apparently

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Speaker 1: it is method yes, certified, not certified. What's the what's

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Speaker 1: order for your credit account. Yeah, private medical school with

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Speaker 1: its main campus of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, in additional locations in Swanny,

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Speaker 1: Georgia and Moultrie, Georgia. The first off Swanny Philly. We're

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Speaker 1: not counting none of them cities Philly. We count only

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Speaker 1: count Philly work because of Meek. Are you serious? Man?

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Speaker 1: But you have a lot more grads in Philly from

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Speaker 1: the cheese Steaks. Okay, sorry, but I'm so sorry. Yes,

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Speaker 1: please continue to support the Worrible Decision show. I like

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Speaker 1: only because I like niggas with beards. So Dr Umar

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Speaker 1: I never knew this. Apparently Joe Biden passed this like

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Speaker 1: anti American Asian hate immediately. And there's a bunch of

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Speaker 1: anti lynching laws that can't get pasted in Congress or something.

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Speaker 1: They've been like two hundred something I've never heard about.

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Speaker 1: Do you know why you never heard of it? Because, bitch,

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Speaker 1: you're not up on watching television. Because I found out

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Speaker 1: And when you watch that specific movie, and I believe

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Speaker 1: or whoever approves of this ship still is not brought

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Speaker 1: there was two. Over two hundred, Yes, So that's insane,

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Speaker 1: And tell me teach me that. And I mean, you know,

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Speaker 1: granted I should be up on these things, obviously I

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Speaker 1: I don't know about ever seeing a clip like that

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Speaker 1: I feel like he is putting people onto ship and

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Speaker 1: I do think that Dr Umar is a part of

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Speaker 1: him is good for society. So real quicker, I need

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Speaker 1: to know. I'm gonna run down the list of like

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Speaker 1: we have those five people that people do view our

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Speaker 1: plight of black people. One Derrick Jackson is love and dating.

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Speaker 1: Who cares to Kevin Samuel's we don't even talk about.

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Speaker 1: saying this is a black woman show over we're a

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Speaker 1: rubbing on you when they do the bitch. I just

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00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:42,600
Speaker 1: I was shaving because I was like, oh my god,

422
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:45,639
Speaker 1: I have to tell you the story. You gotta dude.

423
00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:49,960
Speaker 1: Wait wait, according to my outline, I don't have time crazing.

424
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 1: Go ahead saying, okay, bro, let me tell you guys,

425
00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:57,880
Speaker 1: if you're a foot fetish freak, this is the thing

426
00:24:57,920 --> 00:24:59,960
Speaker 1: you need to do. You would do this while you're whole.

427
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:03,000
Speaker 1: If you're watching on YouTube, you get to see weez

428
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:08,040
Speaker 1: these full feet. No, go ahead, all right, listen. This

429
00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 1: ship like happened, like seriously was crazy. So I go

430
00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 1: every two weeks, I go to um My Nail place

431
00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:17,400
Speaker 1: and New Yes, And I saw the same guy over

432
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:19,919
Speaker 1: and over right, and I was like, why is he

433
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 1: always here? And he said through his mask in a

434
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:27,879
Speaker 1: little plastic barry kake. Last last week? He was like,

435
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:31,199
Speaker 1: didn't you get red last time? And I was like,

436
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:32,640
Speaker 1: He's like, I like the black because I do one

437
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:35,040
Speaker 1: ft black one ft white. He's like, didn't you get

438
00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:38,400
Speaker 1: red last time? I was like, he knew the color, Mandy.

439
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:42,159
Speaker 1: I realized he's just getting pedicures to fucking get his

440
00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:46,720
Speaker 1: rocks off. Did you feel violated? Yes, because I didn't.

441
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 1: He didn't pay for my pedicure. Did you tell him? No?

442
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:53,000
Speaker 1: But next time you look at my feet, nigga, I

443
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:56,320
Speaker 1: need you to cover my tap. I laughed when he

444
00:25:56,359 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 1: said that, because did you tell him? Also? Now I'm violated?

445
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:03,200
Speaker 1: It no, because it didn't hit me until like after,

446
00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:07,919
Speaker 1: but like now, I've seen him almost every time I

447
00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:10,360
Speaker 1: go in there. How often do you go? Probably every

448
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 1: ten days? You get regular polish on yourselves? Yeah, I

449
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:15,920
Speaker 1: don't do because my nails girl a lout, because I

450
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:18,600
Speaker 1: take by itson. So if I get gel, it's still

451
00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:24,920
Speaker 1: gonna show. Sorry. First off, I just really saw that

452
00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 1: that was a fetish. But just be burping on dicks,

453
00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 1: have you. I'm not going to real quick actually, speaking

454
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 1: of on Patreon, here the Patreon drop, I'm gonna drop it.

455
00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:38,280
Speaker 1: I don't know how I ended up in this. I'm

456
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I've been falling down rabbit holes, bitch.

457
00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:44,680
Speaker 1: But that is like a thing. I know. There's throw

458
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:47,440
Speaker 1: up on dick, there's gagging on dick. There's a thing

459
00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:50,440
Speaker 1: with burbs on porn hub. I'm gonna post it to

460
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:53,080
Speaker 1: the Patreon. I am going to get into porn sleepers

461
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,960
Speaker 1: on that honestly too. It's so weird. I'm meant to

462
00:26:57,000 --> 00:27:00,240
Speaker 1: like right now super amateur so it's like webcam. I

463
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 1: like amateur too, but it's like like webcam stuff I

464
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:08,399
Speaker 1: think is burping on a dick coming up during a

465
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 1: great blow. No, that's what I'm saying. And I was like,

466
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:13,880
Speaker 1: what first video burping burps on your dick? And that's

467
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:18,080
Speaker 1: on a dial dough really just want to hear burping

468
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 1: during masturbation. We'll click on that. No, we're not going

469
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:26,159
Speaker 1: to do this is not No, no, we're not, and

470
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:28,600
Speaker 1: you can't play it. Don't play this. No, we could

471
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:31,920
Speaker 1: play the sound of the fact that WTF Media Studios

472
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:34,160
Speaker 1: doesn't have free YouTube. We just have to skip an act.

473
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:38,439
Speaker 1: This is ub I need you why need you do

474
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 1: to have a porn Hub subscription? Wait? I gotta hear this,

475
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:44,119
Speaker 1: but no, it's probably pussy farts. This probably doesn't count. No,

476
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 1: it has to be asked. Oh my god, look David,

477
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 1: turn it up. No, don't turn it up. We're not

478
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 1: try it up. We're not gonna give voice this week.

479
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:56,960
Speaker 1: We're not doing this. We're not. What can't I hear it?

480
00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 1: I don't hear the burping. She just bitch, not the snake.

481
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:14,120
Speaker 1: But I just need to hear the burp. That's really

482
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:22,400
Speaker 1: all one I mean clearly is she is she gonna

483
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:27,639
Speaker 1: with a bur pat? I'm just hearing the farting. She

484
00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:29,679
Speaker 1: farting so much if I paid for this that one

485
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 1: half off? Why Because there's no where's the bitch? Full

486
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:37,200
Speaker 1: six minutes only on her only fans. I mean that's fair,

487
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 1: I guess. I mean, what's a girl on fart on toilet? No,

488
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 1: we're not gonna do that. No, And oh my god,

489
00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:46,960
Speaker 1: I didn't look at this. I love the point, like

490
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 1: how they have a drop. I think it's fun. Is

491
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 1: this all you gonna be picked up? Okay, she's constipated.

492
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 1: He first of all. If anyone looks, oh, if anyone

493
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:21,840
Speaker 1: likes story, story, he's with it. If anyone likes the story,

494
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 1: this is the story right here. Oh my god, if

495
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 1: you want to find it, it's girl fart on toilet.

496
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:32,040
Speaker 1: And I love that she got into narrative. You know

497
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:34,960
Speaker 1: what a method actress. Oh now she's wiping away the

498
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:41,200
Speaker 1: ship's well, we're done. Um, what a fun time, some

499
00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 1: great episode, you guys. I didn't really connect on ship.

500
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 1: You know how We did an episode with Charlemagne on

501
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 1: for fact sake, and he was supposed to leave at

502
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 1: the forty five minute mark, and you know what kept

503
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 1: him going? What was the context? I can't remember. I forgot.

504
00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 1: It's just somehow and the episodees got New York and

505
00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 1: then next thing, you know what's ships? I mean maybe

506
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 1: the ships. The streets be smelling like ship. I ain't

507
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 1: gonna hold you whould we just walked down canal just

508
00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 1: the fish. Oh, there is a lot of sea. There's

509
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 1: a lot of seafood sea markets down to you. Um, anyways,

510
00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 1: I want to get into real quick. Um. You know what,

511
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:24,360
Speaker 1: Let's go ahead. We'll skip whole facts. We'll just get

512
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 1: into the hor derb I didn't have a whole fact

513
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,360
Speaker 1: this week, but I'll say that for another episode. The

514
00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:32,800
Speaker 1: hoard derb Um sex stip for this week is lick

515
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:36,560
Speaker 1: his lobes. This is a little trick to try out

516
00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:40,640
Speaker 1: during a passionate kiss. Started his lips, move your way

517
00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:43,840
Speaker 1: around to his cheek and then over to his left

518
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:48,920
Speaker 1: ear below lightly on his lobes before nibbling, sucking, and

519
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:52,479
Speaker 1: licking them gently To increase the simulation, Gently move your

520
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:55,040
Speaker 1: way back to his lips and then make your way

521
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:58,360
Speaker 1: to the opposite ear. The ear lobes have hundreds of

522
00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:01,880
Speaker 1: nerve endings and are considered by some as an orogenous zone.

523
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 1: So flirty trick is near. So this forty trick is

524
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 1: near guaranteed to give him a thrill due to the

525
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 1: ear sensitivity. Increase your partner's pleasure by being as slow

526
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:17,400
Speaker 1: and gentle as possible. The ear kissing session will certainly

527
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:20,200
Speaker 1: drive him crazy. I brought them up because I recently

528
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:23,959
Speaker 1: just told you guys about my I wasn't gonna bring

529
00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:28,000
Speaker 1: up my man. It was just gonna be on the couch.

530
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:35,400
Speaker 1: Maybe that's why the couch has sustained. And that was

531
00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 1: just from him blowing in my ear. Oh you brought

532
00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:40,200
Speaker 1: me back, bitch, I ain't gonna hold you. He must

533
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 1: have saw the clip that Nigga tried to blow on

534
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 1: my ear the other morning. I say, because a bitch

535
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:49,880
Speaker 1: wanted to be in control, and I think he saw

536
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 1: how uncontrollable I was, and I was like, we're not

537
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 1: doing that this morning, sir. You have a dick in

538
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:58,640
Speaker 1: my ass, you have a dick in my pussy, you

539
00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:00,719
Speaker 1: have one in my mouth. These are all toys, by

540
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 1: the way, and you're just filling all my holes. And

541
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:05,280
Speaker 1: now you also want to make me come from my

542
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:07,720
Speaker 1: ear because she might she might have parted that damn

543
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 1: Dilda out if you know what I was just saying.

544
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:13,479
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't like the whole thing has an

545
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:16,040
Speaker 1: obsession with my ear lobes in the weirdest way. It's

546
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 1: so annoying. Probably read the article. No, it's annoying. Why

547
00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:24,000
Speaker 1: we have never laid next to each other, watched a movie,

548
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 1: taken an airplane, driven in a car, done anything where

549
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:30,320
Speaker 1: we are alone where he doesn't start doing this. Oh,

550
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 1: I rubbed my man's ears. He has to do this,

551
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 1: and I think maybe he doesn't. I think he's just

552
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 1: it's you know, but he doesn't do it to him.

553
00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:44,600
Speaker 1: He does it to mine. Then his sister when she

554
00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 1: came to Mexico. Oh my god, bitch. I was so

555
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:48,240
Speaker 1: mad because I was like, damn, I felt like I

556
00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:50,840
Speaker 1: got cheated on it. We're laying watch the TV. She's

557
00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:52,800
Speaker 1: watching him about my ears and she was like, you

558
00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 1: still do that, and I was like, oh, you thought

559
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 1: you thought you were special. And then he literally will

560
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 1: tell me take your earrings off. Take the earrings off,

561
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:05,240
Speaker 1: Take the earrings off. I'm like, oh, I mean, especially

562
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:07,480
Speaker 1: because he did the same ship. Probably don't want your

563
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 1: ear to get infected. Why would it get infected because

564
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 1: he touches it. If he's rubbing it and the ship

565
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 1: ain't like if it's an h and M area. It

566
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:20,280
Speaker 1: is so anoying first off, being your ear. Last, let

567
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:22,160
Speaker 1: me ask if basically trying to help you know, I

568
00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:25,000
Speaker 1: kind of want to ask actually right now if if

569
00:33:25,040 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 1: he if some part of it is sexual on on

570
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 1: the show. I love that no one answered when you

571
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 1: can't call him again? Double call bab, what's up? When

572
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 1: you touch my ear lobe? He's on a zoom call.

573
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 1: He ain't gonna be answer. Bit damn. Anyway, we're gonna

574
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 1: get it too, all global decision now? Will you texted

575
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:51,840
Speaker 1: me that? But he's on a zoom He's on a

576
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 1: zoom call. You can't listen to an audio. I don't

577
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 1: care about you bring I didn't. I was saying it

578
00:33:56,960 --> 00:34:03,040
Speaker 1: to the phone, all right, So y'all if you have

579
00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 1: listened to horrible decisions over the years. Not only do

580
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 1: you guys love the solo episodes, I think a lot

581
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:19,720
Speaker 1: of that comes with our storytelling. So it's thry time. Okay. However,

582
00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:24,279
Speaker 1: this bit of story to us, I mean, you think

583
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:26,680
Speaker 1: they're sick about there watching, But like, y'all gotta be

584
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 1: tired of this, tired of who you? Because I gotta

585
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 1: ni that they've been tired of me for the last

586
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:35,719
Speaker 1: six months. But man, they gave it. The first six months,

587
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:37,640
Speaker 1: they was like, this isn't gonna last. She's the hole.

588
00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:40,239
Speaker 1: And then they're like, Okay, we're a year in and

589
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:44,879
Speaker 1: she's so happy. The jig is up. The jig is up.

590
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:48,680
Speaker 1: So for this one, know, I wanted to bring out

591
00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:54,640
Speaker 1: our imperfections. I wanted to talk about some embarrassing because

592
00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:56,799
Speaker 1: this is what y'all love, this is what you love.

593
00:34:57,080 --> 00:34:59,279
Speaker 1: You love for women to talk about how dumb we are,

594
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:01,839
Speaker 1: what you should ask niggas, and how we keep going back.

595
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:06,040
Speaker 1: So here we are. So for this one, the horrible

596
00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:07,600
Speaker 1: decision for this week is why the fund did I

597
00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 1: put up with that? So I want right, I want

598
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:14,319
Speaker 1: us to get into any stories that we have regarding

599
00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:21,319
Speaker 1: three different topics. So as women, our deal breakers change

600
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:25,200
Speaker 1: over years. However, for this one, I wanted to talk

601
00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:27,360
Speaker 1: about stories where we dealt with people and for whatever

602
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:30,000
Speaker 1: reason we say. And if you have a telling story,

603
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:32,719
Speaker 1: please share with audience so they can know we two

604
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:38,399
Speaker 1: are dumbass holes. This is the only way they feel

605
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:41,240
Speaker 1: connected to us. No, I wouldn't know you got cheated

606
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:42,880
Speaker 1: on two. I wouldn't know you give up the pussy

607
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:47,719
Speaker 1: to a nigger. That's undeserving too that I probably got

608
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:51,840
Speaker 1: it by the time area. Yeah, oh are you so?

609
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:56,719
Speaker 1: For this one, let's start with let's start with the

610
00:35:56,800 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 1: small leading up to the big. We're gonna start with

611
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:05,120
Speaker 1: eyes because niggas be lying. Wheezy. Can you recall a

612
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 1: past relationship where you actually caught your partner lying? What

613
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:12,399
Speaker 1: were they lying about? And how do you know they

614
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:16,480
Speaker 1: were lying? Oh? My god, one time old day. So

615
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 1: he has a hole gass friend. I don't think he's

616
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 1: sucking her, but I just know she's like troubled, you

617
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:23,680
Speaker 1: know what I mean in terms. I don't know what

618
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:26,560
Speaker 1: you mean when she she's a home girl that is

619
00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 1: only in the friend zone because he put her there,

620
00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:30,000
Speaker 1: but she want to be more. I don't think she

621
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:32,000
Speaker 1: wants to be more, Like she likes to his homeboys,

622
00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 1: like she just she does a bird, but she's fine,

623
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 1: Like I don't I don't mind her, but but I

624
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 1: already see the vibe when I'm around, Like, I know, bitch,

625
00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 1: just like this, she is a bird now right now,

626
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 1: when she's around, it's like seven am nights, it's drugs

627
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:54,400
Speaker 1: all nights. Like she's just bad for business, right, So

628
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:57,440
Speaker 1: I told him it's someone's ontown, because you need to

629
00:36:57,480 --> 00:36:59,279
Speaker 1: tell me. I was like, because I know when you

630
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:00,719
Speaker 1: be out with that whole you'd be acting a fool

631
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:02,360
Speaker 1: because she got ho ass friends, and you need to

632
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 1: tell me if you wanted her hold as friends, because

633
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:05,440
Speaker 1: you'd be having me a friend of his bitch, and

634
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:07,440
Speaker 1: you can't be sucking her home ass friends when you

635
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:09,720
Speaker 1: know she'd be around us, like she came to Mexico

636
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:11,880
Speaker 1: and was like staying by or whatever. Like she's cool,

637
00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:14,279
Speaker 1: but I know her friends ain't shit, and he's her

638
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 1: friend first, so of course you don't let him smash friends.

639
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:19,400
Speaker 1: So he's like, babe, why would I not tell you

640
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 1: if she was around? Is this the girl that in

641
00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:25,520
Speaker 1: the beginning came by the apartment. No, okay, he's never

642
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:32,760
Speaker 1: sucked her. Okay, this girl? So uh lies this nick ship.

643
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 1: We're gonna be so mad. I told this story, but

644
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 1: I don't even So. It's a Tuesday night, and you

645
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:40,320
Speaker 1: know when you just know a niggline, he has a

646
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:43,280
Speaker 1: Tuesday night. Yes, he's built out in his own closet

647
00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 1: right now, this is you know, I'm an FBI. He's

648
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 1: built out his own closet. So the acoustics in the

649
00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:50,120
Speaker 1: closet are different. How do I know this Because I've

650
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:51,640
Speaker 1: been digging this nick almost three years and I know

651
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:54,840
Speaker 1: I know not you know the acoustics of this closet.

652
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 1: It's because I've done drops in there for horrible decisions.

653
00:37:57,680 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 1: It's so I know the acoustics of your positive nig

654
00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:03,360
Speaker 1: he is in the closet telling me he's in the

655
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 1: bed going to bed, when I know he lied because

656
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:11,200
Speaker 1: the soundproofing is totally different. Right. Maybe maybe he's a

657
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 1: wife signal, so I'm like, you're going to be okay,

658
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:20,440
Speaker 1: and it sounds so sound true because I've had to

659
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:22,920
Speaker 1: do like horrible decisionship in it. Maybe he closed his window.

660
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:26,719
Speaker 1: He's a liar. So I know she in town because

661
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:30,319
Speaker 1: I didn't see it on her story and I was like, damn, Now,

662
00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 1: it's not like I'm stalking. We're friends, but you're still

663
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 1: set it for I see her story. She's just saying

664
00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:38,680
Speaker 1: he's acoustics was different. Let me check her story. A

665
00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:40,800
Speaker 1: restaurant in Brooklyn when your whole ask be fucking niggas

666
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:42,399
Speaker 1: in the city because you ho win and you're trying

667
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:43,719
Speaker 1: to get my nigga to go home and go out

668
00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:45,920
Speaker 1: to these litt underground parties with you and bitch, you'll

669
00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 1: be playing so Jesus. So basically, she uh, okay, I said,

670
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:57,040
Speaker 1: I know he lies, so let me wait until I

671
00:38:57,080 --> 00:38:58,480
Speaker 1: need to do something. He's like, Babe, I'm just so tired.

672
00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:00,959
Speaker 1: Mind ten thirty. I know the clubs don't start eleven thirty.

673
00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:05,840
Speaker 1: So I was like, okay, babe, night girl, why I

674
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 1: click on her story? I see a plant in the background,

675
00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:11,400
Speaker 1: and I knew it was his plan. I said, how

676
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:14,400
Speaker 1: do you knowing the plants? Bitch? Bitch, what do you

677
00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:17,719
Speaker 1: that's my nigga. We all have plants. Now know I've

678
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 1: been there when the plant. I know the lighting in

679
00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:23,239
Speaker 1: the apartment. So I said, okay, now he already got

680
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:25,279
Speaker 1: a lick cribs. Everybody want to come get drunk there.

681
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:27,799
Speaker 1: I know how it goes. So then I face timing.

682
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:31,440
Speaker 1: He don't answer. I was okay, he's gonna be funny.

683
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 1: Then I face time this bitch I'll never call her.

684
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:37,200
Speaker 1: Then he calls me back talking about babe guests who

685
00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:40,800
Speaker 1: stopped by. Nigga, I know your motherfucking lie? Did she

686
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 1: popped in? How had my hair? Girl? No, fuck you,

687
00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 1: that's exactly what I said, bitch you line. I said,

688
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:48,919
Speaker 1: you need to go back in your closet and talk

689
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 1: to me. That's where you like to go, you know.

690
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 1: He was like, I don't even know where you're acting

691
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 1: like this. I was going to sleep, and then suddenly

692
00:39:55,640 --> 00:40:00,040
Speaker 1: she came by, and now we're just gonna go in

693
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:03,879
Speaker 1: the background to other little how ass friends. I said,

694
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 1: I'm doing the ship with you. But at the same time,

695
00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:07,800
Speaker 1: I love when he started to lie, because then I

696
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:10,920
Speaker 1: feel less bad about my whole ship. And at the

697
00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 1: same time, like, you know, he ain't going nowhere, but

698
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:18,640
Speaker 1: what comes with a lot a great setup. There's a

699
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:20,439
Speaker 1: lot of things on my wish list, and he knows

700
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:23,800
Speaker 1: product bags St. Laurent. I'm not mad whatever it is,

701
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:27,239
Speaker 1: and frankly, you know, I don't want to purchase it,

702
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:30,080
Speaker 1: even though I can. Man, this is a very fucked

703
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:32,200
Speaker 1: up thing. Ladies. I am not telling you by any

704
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 1: means you should accept gifts in exchange for pain? Am

705
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:37,719
Speaker 1: I really A putty? Would say you can't? But yeah,

706
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:42,280
Speaker 1: but I'm saying like, am I really mad? No? Wheezy

707
00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:45,480
Speaker 1: said I would rather cry in a rose voice. No, No,

708
00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 1: you didn't, like that's really what you're saying what That's

709
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 1: what you're saying at this very moment, is that if

710
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:54,680
Speaker 1: you're gonna cry, you want to product, bag and exchange.

711
00:40:55,280 --> 00:40:58,239
Speaker 1: That is what you're saying. That you're saying that because

712
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:02,839
Speaker 1: he didn't get scared to tell me about sucking at all,

713
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:06,279
Speaker 1: because that's where we're open about. He gets scared of

714
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:09,480
Speaker 1: the guests drinking at his He gets scared to tell

715
00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:12,640
Speaker 1: me what I've noticed. He doesn't like to tell me things.

716
00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:14,440
Speaker 1: And he's learned to be more open. And this is

717
00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:16,680
Speaker 1: a while ago, but he's learned to be more open

718
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 1: now about things that he feels like we'll make him

719
00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:22,439
Speaker 1: look bad. He does not like to be truthful about

720
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:24,000
Speaker 1: things that will make him look back. And it's never sex.

721
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 1: He'll tell me when he's sucking. I'll tell me when

722
00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:27,480
Speaker 1: he needs a bush out of town. He might send

723
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:30,400
Speaker 1: me her Instagram. He's great with that. He cannot do

724
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:32,680
Speaker 1: it when it's something that will make him look like

725
00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 1: he's less than and he knows. Hanging with some young

726
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:37,520
Speaker 1: ass fucking bird bitch on a Tuesday night when you

727
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:40,959
Speaker 1: gotta work don't make fucking sense, bro, because I'm gonna

728
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:42,719
Speaker 1: tell you you're a girln ask forty three year old man,

729
00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 1: tell the bitch another time? Why are you doing this?

730
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:47,560
Speaker 1: Like that's how I talk? And so of course he

731
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 1: wasn't gonna tell me, and so you know, anyway, that

732
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:53,440
Speaker 1: was a line asked naked that I put up with.

733
00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:55,880
Speaker 1: But I love to hold my pussy out while I

734
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:59,080
Speaker 1: getting things I want. I love. This is my outline

735
00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:01,239
Speaker 1: because we're just gonna go to the next one and

736
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:03,239
Speaker 1: we see. I hope you have another story because that

737
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 1: was great. Um, you know what, let's go. And by

738
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:12,399
Speaker 1: the way, you can be as shady as you want.

739
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:15,400
Speaker 1: I told that story because I really don't give a damn. Oh,

740
00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:17,560
Speaker 1: you know, we don't give a funk about what fans

741
00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 1: have to say about our relationships anymore. That's why you

742
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:21,960
Speaker 1: used to. But now I'm just like, I don't. Um,

743
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:28,040
Speaker 1: they're just mad that I'm so happy. UM. So here

744
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:31,919
Speaker 1: is another one. What are you looking for? But it's okay,

745
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:38,160
Speaker 1: I'll drink water. I should drink um. So the next

746
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:41,960
Speaker 1: one I actually have a story about. Um. This one

747
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:47,239
Speaker 1: is staying with a man after you found out that

748
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:50,279
Speaker 1: he fucked your friend. I wanted to know if you

749
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 1: had a story about that. If you do not, I do,

750
00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 1: and I want to take this back to the era

751
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 1: of black Berry. But but staying with a man that

752
00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:01,879
Speaker 1: means he's your man and fucked her. No, I'm talking

753
00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 1: about the nigga that I was super duper in love with.

754
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:08,320
Speaker 1: I wanted to act like I've talked about him on

755
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:13,120
Speaker 1: here here Jordan's I'll say his name. I'm so bitch

756
00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:16,799
Speaker 1: my homegirl that used to do porn and he has

757
00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 1: to the one you can't stand. No, he never sucked her,

758
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:22,440
Speaker 1: but he wanted to act like he didn't know me

759
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:24,920
Speaker 1: and this girl were friend. You don't know the girl.

760
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:31,879
Speaker 1: She she wasn't white. No, he you saw his type.

761
00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:35,800
Speaker 1: He likes thick bitches with ass um and it was

762
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:38,399
Speaker 1: just like, and I found out she was sucking him

763
00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:41,680
Speaker 1: because back then he played for the Lakers. Did she

764
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:44,239
Speaker 1: know that, y'all were? So here's the thing, when you're

765
00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:46,359
Speaker 1: friends with her as friends, they don't really know which

766
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:48,400
Speaker 1: niggas you really like because you're sucking a lot of

767
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:52,920
Speaker 1: niggas anyway. So I feel like when you're you're like,

768
00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:56,240
Speaker 1: I really liked this nigga even though I was getting

769
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:58,759
Speaker 1: fleut out by like four or five other niggas. That

770
00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:01,719
Speaker 1: was the nigga I really and when I was like,

771
00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 1: oh a bit a year in l A and so

772
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:08,080
Speaker 1: I called him out because he acted like he ain't

773
00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:10,520
Speaker 1: know we was friends. But I was like, you follow

774
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:13,800
Speaker 1: both of us on BBM. Both of our abbeys was

775
00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 1: with each other, and we'd be talking to each other

776
00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 1: through our BBM note like each other on BBM, and

777
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:22,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, you're not gonna act like you ain't know

778
00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:24,920
Speaker 1: we wasn't friends. We're in pictures together. He wanted to

779
00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:28,640
Speaker 1: act like mad people take pictures together, sir, you knew

780
00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:31,279
Speaker 1: we knew each other. We hang out. She's been in

781
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:34,440
Speaker 1: my home and she got flew up by him. It

782
00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:37,120
Speaker 1: was on my home, on my home, even though I

783
00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:38,640
Speaker 1: mean it was a shared because I had roommates at

784
00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:44,319
Speaker 1: the time. But what's crazy is this wasn't the only

785
00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:47,920
Speaker 1: friend he fucked. He sucked probably like two or three

786
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:50,360
Speaker 1: other friends. And these was not threesomes. This was just

787
00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:53,080
Speaker 1: he was a hoass nigga and he just sucked a

788
00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:54,480
Speaker 1: lot of my friends near me. It's like, what are

789
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 1: you finding in my life? Page right? And guess what?

790
00:44:57,520 --> 00:44:59,920
Speaker 1: Like a dummy. I still loved that nigga up in

791
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:03,600
Speaker 1: till a year or two ago. I think the last

792
00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 1: the last time I really talked to him and was

793
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:13,840
Speaker 1: fed up was that Shirley Hello, this is Shirley Patreon episode. Yeah, so,

794
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:17,760
Speaker 1: if y'all really want to hear the ts to how yours?

795
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:20,719
Speaker 1: Is that episode and the one where the dude, we're

796
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:23,440
Speaker 1: not gonna We're not going to let me wait for

797
00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:28,200
Speaker 1: the Honestly, no, I was so poor. I went on

798
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:30,759
Speaker 1: a date with this guy. He was cute. The ex

799
00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:37,520
Speaker 1: girlfriend showed up the college students struggling, and I was ready, like,

800
00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 1: oh nah, this is messy. I went to call it uber.

801
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:42,839
Speaker 1: It was sixty dollars, so I waited until the ex

802
00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:44,680
Speaker 1: girl for left and I said, you need to take

803
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:50,319
Speaker 1: me home now of us and she wrote one of us?

804
00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:53,279
Speaker 1: Like no, she wrote me the decision she wrote me

805
00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:56,400
Speaker 1: it was like did he pay for that? SUSI? When

806
00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 1: you all went out? And I said, do I look

807
00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:01,000
Speaker 1: like a bitch? That ain't painful? Date? Puss the home?

808
00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:02,759
Speaker 1: I mean I didn't have the money to pay from

809
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:04,520
Speaker 1: uber home, which is why I waited for you to

810
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:08,960
Speaker 1: leave so you could take me. Hump, But those now

811
00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:12,120
Speaker 1: she was part of freaking. Her name was Stephanie hephoni.

812
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:16,880
Speaker 1: Remember I thought it was head for me. Wait what

813
00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:19,080
Speaker 1: I call this step you call it he for me?

814
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:22,600
Speaker 1: What you call her Stephanie? I call her headphonie. I

815
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:27,840
Speaker 1: thought it was happoni head like she gives me hephoni,

816
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:34,520
Speaker 1: not heavy for me. Let me talk, Okay, last one. Actually,

817
00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:36,520
Speaker 1: you know what, Let's just get into the game, bro

818
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:41,400
Speaker 1: because we know I'm good for well, let's share that story.

819
00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:44,399
Speaker 1: Why don't wait? When have you dealt with a broke

820
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:46,640
Speaker 1: nigga and continue to deal with him? Because I will

821
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 1: tell you, guys, go back and search fella in bay

822
00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:54,880
Speaker 1: on this episode. I was really he was fine, but

823
00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:57,560
Speaker 1: I really like, what's crazy is I'm so glad I

824
00:46:57,640 --> 00:46:59,320
Speaker 1: met him at the time I met him because I

825
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 1: was an account in I just started seeing real money

826
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:06,680
Speaker 1: that nigga probably could have got moved in At the

827
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:08,880
Speaker 1: money I'm making now, I would have been good, but

828
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:10,719
Speaker 1: I would have deserved so much more. So I'm glad

829
00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:15,000
Speaker 1: that I have who I have now. But I want

830
00:47:15,040 --> 00:47:18,560
Speaker 1: you to share because I wanted. I want you to

831
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:20,760
Speaker 1: share because right now you've got money, you got options,

832
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:23,160
Speaker 1: and it's like you're choosing to deal with the brokenness,

833
00:47:23,520 --> 00:47:26,800
Speaker 1: and I need people to like, really like because you

834
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:29,600
Speaker 1: you didn't love on one of the niggas you really

835
00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 1: loved because he was broke and we had to cut

836
00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:34,200
Speaker 1: it out because you really liked him, and you were like,

837
00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:36,600
Speaker 1: oh my god, don't let the world know he's broken.

838
00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 1: That's why he's not my boyfriend him now. But I

839
00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:44,560
Speaker 1: have to be really grateful for that. Technically, if I

840
00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 1: wouldn't have sucked him and I wouldn't have shut up

841
00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:53,040
Speaker 1: at that bar. Friend, Wait, did you know friends? They're

842
00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:56,919
Speaker 1: not friends friends enough? What are friends enough? Dave Blink

843
00:47:57,000 --> 00:48:03,520
Speaker 1: wants of yes, twice of no. Okay. When I met

844
00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:07,759
Speaker 1: him hospital dick, Oh, I see, I wasn't gonna say

845
00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:12,480
Speaker 1: his day now. Okay, he wasn't broke. This is how

846
00:48:12,600 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 1: you know. She's like, I will talk to about you now,

847
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:21,080
Speaker 1: actually because you wanted to say because now I realized

848
00:48:21,080 --> 00:48:23,000
Speaker 1: how like funked up a lot of ship was one.

849
00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:24,880
Speaker 1: I don't know if anyone's ever loved me like that.

850
00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:32,360
Speaker 1: He's a really great man, cool, but he wasn't broke.

851
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:35,680
Speaker 1: He just wasn't at the same level as me. By level,

852
00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:37,239
Speaker 1: I mean like a lot of the things that I

853
00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:39,960
Speaker 1: would want to do may have put him in a

854
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:43,040
Speaker 1: weird position, and our lives just didn't match as much.

855
00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:44,840
Speaker 1: I need to travel, I need to move if I

856
00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:47,280
Speaker 1: want to go here. I had a felon he couldn't

857
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:49,400
Speaker 1: even go to Canada if I wanted to go to Toronto.

858
00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:52,400
Speaker 1: But like I'm the type, like even when we were touring, right,

859
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:56,400
Speaker 1: like I want to like you can't you're working or something.

860
00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:59,120
Speaker 1: They came to the tour No, but like I meant,

861
00:48:59,640 --> 00:49:01,520
Speaker 1: not just New York. That's what came to one too.

862
00:49:01,600 --> 00:49:04,239
Speaker 1: He came to Caroline, but I wasn't working. A man.

863
00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:08,440
Speaker 1: I didn't see him. Then done been what this man

864
00:49:08,520 --> 00:49:14,520
Speaker 1: looks like? I'll show you together. So we got a lot.

865
00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:17,719
Speaker 1: Oh wait, let's call it a little day back. Oh

866
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:20,520
Speaker 1: he's done. Let's see let's see this ear lobes. Shit,

867
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:27,479
Speaker 1: we don't. You don't need to put a hat on, okay,

868
00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:31,719
Speaker 1: because no one is looking at you, sir. I just

869
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:36,320
Speaker 1: came from outside anyway. We was just talking about he

870
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:40,279
Speaker 1: wasn't ship. But really, the question is, Mandy had a

871
00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:43,880
Speaker 1: horrid derve tip about ear lobes, and you are ridiculous

872
00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:47,400
Speaker 1: when it comes to my ear lobes. Is that for

873
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 1: you or is that something that you do because you

874
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 1: believe it to be comfortable to her? What is your

875
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:57,279
Speaker 1: obsession with the earlobe? It's for me. I've been doing

876
00:49:57,320 --> 00:49:59,480
Speaker 1: it since I was a kid. He didn't like it

877
00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:01,920
Speaker 1: was a kid. Hold on, that was getting uncomfortable. Wait,

878
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:03,879
Speaker 1: you did get hard when you rub her ear. Low

879
00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:10,880
Speaker 1: definitely doesn't get what happens. Relaxing comfort thing. It's like

880
00:50:11,000 --> 00:50:16,200
Speaker 1: a yoga thing or something meditation. It feels good. Yeah,

881
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 1: it feels good to me. Did you lose weight? Your

882
00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:23,400
Speaker 1: face looks slimmer, the beard is down. Okay, but so,

883
00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:25,120
Speaker 1: but did you used to do it with like every

884
00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:28,680
Speaker 1: bitch was with? No? Actually, so why your sister said that?

885
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:41,640
Speaker 1: Yes she did? She said nope. Actually we just so

886
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 1: you know, we just out here and said she actually

887
00:50:44,239 --> 00:50:47,000
Speaker 1: fucking hates when you touch her because sometimes you'll be

888
00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:51,359
Speaker 1: going too hard. You'll be pulling like like dog. Last

889
00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:56,320
Speaker 1: night last night, I was like yo, please, you know,

890
00:50:56,440 --> 00:50:58,279
Speaker 1: and like a dude bites your nipple and you like it,

891
00:50:58,400 --> 00:51:00,640
Speaker 1: but it's like whoa relax, Yeah that was hard. Put

892
00:51:00,719 --> 00:51:02,000
Speaker 1: him back on the mike. That's how you be with

893
00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:05,000
Speaker 1: the ear. I'm sorry, so other girls don't like it

894
00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:11,640
Speaker 1: now most you have tried it, Yeah, but you you

895
00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:14,520
Speaker 1: enjoy it. She just said she didn't, so she likes

896
00:51:14,560 --> 00:51:17,400
Speaker 1: a year later. Oh babe, she lied to you. She

897
00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:21,320
Speaker 1: told me before she'd be lying just apparently like you.

898
00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:24,759
Speaker 1: We just talked about how you'd be lying, all right,

899
00:51:24,800 --> 00:51:35,959
Speaker 1: by white lies and they were white women, by white

900
00:51:40,640 --> 00:51:42,720
Speaker 1: You let him run the town with a Karen. Wow,

901
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:50,960
Speaker 1: what is she? She's like she white? That's okay, so

902
00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:55,960
Speaker 1: real quick, Oh broke broke broken. Here's the issue. Because

903
00:51:56,040 --> 00:51:58,320
Speaker 1: the Dick was so good and because he was so

904
00:51:58,480 --> 00:52:00,320
Speaker 1: good at like showing up an other are he is,

905
00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:02,719
Speaker 1: like he would fix things around my house, like there

906
00:52:02,719 --> 00:52:05,800
Speaker 1: ain't one thing I'll built. If this studio while I

907
00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:09,680
Speaker 1: was still sucking hospital, Dick, we would have been opened

908
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:12,479
Speaker 1: months ago. Amazing you were dating Dick and task private. Okay,

909
00:52:12,719 --> 00:52:16,520
Speaker 1: but here's the issue. He constantly made me feel like

910
00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:18,880
Speaker 1: my money and whether he could acknowledge it or not,

911
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:21,000
Speaker 1: my money was an issue. Like he would tell me

912
00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:23,080
Speaker 1: things like I can't compete with you, and then he

913
00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:25,600
Speaker 1: was saying to me like I remember when I was

914
00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:27,239
Speaker 1: starting to get a show or TV show. We're just

915
00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:28,719
Speaker 1: talking about it, right. This has been the works for

916
00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:30,640
Speaker 1: a long time. I've been working in TV. He I

917
00:52:30,719 --> 00:52:32,719
Speaker 1: was like, you know, you get contracted for seasons. No,

918
00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:34,400
Speaker 1: you need to buy yourself out. You're not gonna be

919
00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:36,600
Speaker 1: pregnant doing TV. You can't be pregnant on tour. You

920
00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:38,239
Speaker 1: can't do this. Like I need to be with you,

921
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:39,680
Speaker 1: We need to be together. And that might be cool

922
00:52:39,760 --> 00:52:41,160
Speaker 1: for someone else, but it's not cool for me. And

923
00:52:41,200 --> 00:52:43,719
Speaker 1: he was just really intense, and it's like you had

924
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:45,840
Speaker 1: to sign a prenup with that nigger. He sounded like

925
00:52:46,040 --> 00:52:49,480
Speaker 1: he was trying to get something. He wanted nothing from me.

926
00:52:49,760 --> 00:52:52,360
Speaker 1: He wanted me, wanted to seem like he was sadman

927
00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:55,959
Speaker 1: so that he could collect your coin. No, he didn't

928
00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:59,239
Speaker 1: want me to work as hard, Like he didn't want

929
00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:01,320
Speaker 1: me to do start jobs because he wanted to be

930
00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:03,440
Speaker 1: with me and he thought his job was going to

931
00:53:03,520 --> 00:53:05,279
Speaker 1: take care of you. That's how I felt, but I

932
00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:08,200
Speaker 1: could never admit it, Like I could never admit it, bro.

933
00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:11,200
Speaker 1: But sometimes like we would have conversations about like the

934
00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:13,960
Speaker 1: life we would want and like you know, building things

935
00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 1: together in black generational wealth. And I'd be like, nig

936
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:17,600
Speaker 1: but you want me to work, But like, who's gonna

937
00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:19,719
Speaker 1: get there faster. And I didn't mind that you don't

938
00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:24,040
Speaker 1: own the place you work at. I'm just saying, like,

939
00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:28,200
Speaker 1: I just think that the expectations that I mean, it's

940
00:53:28,239 --> 00:53:29,880
Speaker 1: weird because I mean me and me and my man

941
00:53:30,120 --> 00:53:33,200
Speaker 1: have that conversation. Now he's much older, and so the

942
00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:37,520
Speaker 1: type of women he's dated before me, we're more I

943
00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:42,279
Speaker 1: guess traditional. And so when he sees he comes over

944
00:53:42,360 --> 00:53:44,799
Speaker 1: and I'm fulfilling orders, I'm doing customer service. I'm making

945
00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:46,479
Speaker 1: plans with you, I said, I gotta call it a lawyer.

946
00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:51,000
Speaker 1: I'm dealing with networkship. I'm I'm doing our outlines. This

947
00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:53,960
Speaker 1: is also new for him to see a woman in

948
00:53:54,080 --> 00:53:56,080
Speaker 1: the space. And what's crazy too is even the way

949
00:53:56,120 --> 00:53:59,399
Speaker 1: I spend as different from him. Like it was snow

950
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:01,480
Speaker 1: one day and I on my Gucci and he was like,

951
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,359
Speaker 1: it is snowing and you ring three shoes. I said

952
00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:13,600
Speaker 1: that and he three hunting. No do they slides? And

953
00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:18,359
Speaker 1: when even the amount? So for me, the only reason

954
00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:20,160
Speaker 1: I don't know, no, not even the amount. I got

955
00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:24,120
Speaker 1: so drunk at the pool party, uh Labor Day weekend.

956
00:54:24,600 --> 00:54:26,280
Speaker 1: I get really drunk and I have to tell everyone

957
00:54:26,320 --> 00:54:28,560
Speaker 1: I'm with Hey when I get drunk, if I buy

958
00:54:28,600 --> 00:54:31,800
Speaker 1: the whole table shots, it's time to go. I was

959
00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:34,879
Speaker 1: at this pool party with Bridget hurt Nigger. I got

960
00:54:34,960 --> 00:54:39,600
Speaker 1: so drunk I ordered a surfboard of sixty shots. I

961
00:54:39,680 --> 00:54:44,080
Speaker 1: don't know how much. Was yeah, okay, no, my mommy

962
00:54:44,200 --> 00:54:47,839
Speaker 1: was like. My man was like, did you just see

963
00:54:47,880 --> 00:54:49,920
Speaker 1: what you just signed? What are you like? He was

964
00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:53,640
Speaker 1: so upset that I spent that much money on just shots. Okay,

965
00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:57,960
Speaker 1: truth be told, yes, but but thought hunting shots. I'm

966
00:54:57,960 --> 00:55:02,160
Speaker 1: not gonna lie, you know what it? I mean, it

967
00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:04,800
Speaker 1: was cool, but he was likest. He needs to have

968
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:08,400
Speaker 1: discussions before we go out because this he he hated

969
00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:10,319
Speaker 1: that I spend that money because she wants to be something,

970
00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:12,920
Speaker 1: but that's also something he wouldn't spend money on. And

971
00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:15,319
Speaker 1: you have to be realistic. We talk all the time

972
00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:19,399
Speaker 1: about material things too. There's money that Wheezy may spend

973
00:55:19,440 --> 00:55:21,759
Speaker 1: money on that all look like, oh bitch, hell nah,

974
00:55:22,160 --> 00:55:25,239
Speaker 1: I'll take my fashion nova like she'll spend three hundred

975
00:55:25,280 --> 00:55:27,840
Speaker 1: dollars on jeans. But what the way these guys are.

976
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:30,320
Speaker 1: I'm a bus ride out of you fucking where the

977
00:55:30,440 --> 00:55:34,120
Speaker 1: most expensive shoes shoes? But that's where I spend my money,

978
00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:36,560
Speaker 1: you'll spend it on jeans. But when you date someone

979
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:40,799
Speaker 1: who's not materialistic at all, they're like, I could see

980
00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:42,720
Speaker 1: where you could put this money on. This is interesting

981
00:55:44,200 --> 00:55:47,680
Speaker 1: or interialistic. Like I think that's that's a really good point.

982
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:50,680
Speaker 1: There's something I get along with over really well, because

983
00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:56,279
Speaker 1: we're both materialistic bitches. Now. The difference I think with

984
00:55:56,800 --> 00:55:59,839
Speaker 1: Hospital Dick is he would like be over the top

985
00:55:59,880 --> 00:56:01,160
Speaker 1: of about how I don't need this, I don't need

986
00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:03,320
Speaker 1: that now updated niggas that make less money than me,

987
00:56:03,320 --> 00:56:04,719
Speaker 1: and I'd be like, what do you think about this? Oh,

988
00:56:04,719 --> 00:56:07,000
Speaker 1: that ship is fired right, Like get this or what

989
00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:09,200
Speaker 1: about this? Or check out this store? Like even if

990
00:56:09,200 --> 00:56:11,440
Speaker 1: they ain't spending that bread, they know about it. For me,

991
00:56:11,520 --> 00:56:13,839
Speaker 1: when I was buying my watch, granted old bays got

992
00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:15,880
Speaker 1: some watches like that, and I was talking to him

993
00:56:15,920 --> 00:56:18,279
Speaker 1: about it with him but another nigger that I hate

994
00:56:18,360 --> 00:56:20,359
Speaker 1: him up and he was like, yo, I just looked

995
00:56:20,400 --> 00:56:21,719
Speaker 1: into it. You have to get this. You have to

996
00:56:21,760 --> 00:56:23,520
Speaker 1: get that. Maybe you don't own a role lex, but

997
00:56:23,600 --> 00:56:25,879
Speaker 1: ship you're lit enough to where like I could talk

998
00:56:25,920 --> 00:56:27,160
Speaker 1: to that about you and my money doesn't make you

999
00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:32,920
Speaker 1: uncomfortable that's the one thing with a broke nigga. Everything ortable, well,

1000
00:56:33,120 --> 00:56:37,800
Speaker 1: everything that that happens makes them uncomfortable and inferior. And

1001
00:56:38,120 --> 00:56:41,640
Speaker 1: in a in a in an era where black women,

1002
00:56:41,719 --> 00:56:46,520
Speaker 1: specifically our boss as bitches, and and every every fucking

1003
00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:48,920
Speaker 1: homegirl that I have now is trying to try to

1004
00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:51,040
Speaker 1: make a business, whether it be e commerce, whether it

1005
00:56:51,080 --> 00:56:52,920
Speaker 1: be a platform like this, whether it be a service

1006
00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:56,000
Speaker 1: to sell. Every woman that I know wants to do

1007
00:56:56,160 --> 00:56:59,640
Speaker 1: so much with with themselves that it intipidates the men

1008
00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:05,400
Speaker 1: that are just cool doing nothing or cool making just

1009
00:57:06,080 --> 00:57:10,520
Speaker 1: they're nine to five. Either I could be happy making

1010
00:57:10,640 --> 00:57:14,399
Speaker 1: this money that I make forever, and you were like, ill,

1011
00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:18,720
Speaker 1: I don't think it's enough now? How inflation? What do

1012
00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 1: you think it's gonna look like in five years? I

1013
00:57:21,560 --> 00:57:26,400
Speaker 1: mean about I think that what I'm attracted to is people,

1014
00:57:26,720 --> 00:57:32,320
Speaker 1: not even men that want more. Actually, Brianda, I went

1015
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:35,000
Speaker 1: shopping with her. I didn't want to because she was like,

1016
00:57:35,440 --> 00:57:37,320
Speaker 1: I don't have money for this or that and um,

1017
00:57:37,480 --> 00:57:39,080
Speaker 1: and she was saying it while we were like on air.

1018
00:57:39,480 --> 00:57:41,080
Speaker 1: So I'm not like trying to call her out or anything,

1019
00:57:41,200 --> 00:57:43,440
Speaker 1: but I knew I had to do something real shopping

1020
00:57:43,800 --> 00:57:44,920
Speaker 1: and I was like, bro, I hate to do that

1021
00:57:45,080 --> 00:57:46,120
Speaker 1: in front of people, and you and I just had

1022
00:57:46,160 --> 00:57:49,280
Speaker 1: a conversation about how niggas do that, and we were

1023
00:57:49,320 --> 00:57:51,120
Speaker 1: in so Ho just leaving the studio. She was like, weezy,

1024
00:57:51,160 --> 00:57:52,520
Speaker 1: I want to go. I need to see this. I

1025
00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:54,320
Speaker 1: need to get inspired because I know I'm gonna be rich,

1026
00:57:54,360 --> 00:57:56,320
Speaker 1: so I'm just getting ready for it. And she was

1027
00:57:56,440 --> 00:57:59,080
Speaker 1: so adorable and so cute, and every time she talks,

1028
00:57:59,600 --> 00:58:02,400
Speaker 1: she just talking to her future self. We go into

1029
00:58:02,440 --> 00:58:04,840
Speaker 1: the real real, right, which is if anyone's never heard

1030
00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:07,800
Speaker 1: of it, they sell like love the real Real. So

1031
00:58:08,200 --> 00:58:10,760
Speaker 1: we're in there and I pick up something it's like

1032
00:58:10,800 --> 00:58:12,760
Speaker 1: three hundred bucks, and she was like, I am so

1033
00:58:12,920 --> 00:58:16,240
Speaker 1: ready to be buying my and my three hundred all this.

1034
00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:18,160
Speaker 1: And she knows it's going to happen to her because

1035
00:58:18,200 --> 00:58:20,520
Speaker 1: when I get this, like that's how she speaks, that

1036
00:58:21,400 --> 00:58:24,919
Speaker 1: is not broke. Shoot well, but then you're man ain't

1037
00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:27,480
Speaker 1: and you're ready for your growth. And I love but

1038
00:58:28,080 --> 00:58:30,480
Speaker 1: for men, for the men listening, and when we say

1039
00:58:30,560 --> 00:58:33,080
Speaker 1: broken niggas, I know it's like a blanket general statement,

1040
00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:35,600
Speaker 1: but for women, and I think you and I are

1041
00:58:35,600 --> 00:58:38,440
Speaker 1: saying the same thing when it comes to defining someone

1042
00:58:38,520 --> 00:58:41,880
Speaker 1: as someone who's broke, it's someone who may be content

1043
00:58:42,000 --> 00:58:45,480
Speaker 1: and what they're making and we see more for them

1044
00:58:45,640 --> 00:58:47,960
Speaker 1: that maybe they don't see for themselves. And if you're

1045
00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:50,840
Speaker 1: just content and don't want to grow and don't want

1046
00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:54,560
Speaker 1: to make more, that's where it's just like I know

1047
00:58:54,840 --> 00:58:58,919
Speaker 1: that I'm going to outgrow you. There's no there's no aspiration,

1048
00:58:59,000 --> 00:59:01,080
Speaker 1: there's no motivation, and like, yeah, how are we going

1049
00:59:01,120 --> 00:59:03,320
Speaker 1: to grow together? If you're just good where you're at,

1050
00:59:03,520 --> 00:59:06,360
Speaker 1: everybody could be the best version of themselves. Facts. I agree.

1051
00:59:06,560 --> 00:59:11,000
Speaker 1: So instead of um, instead of homemail, I have a

1052
00:59:11,080 --> 00:59:15,200
Speaker 1: quick game, all right, since we're being toxic here, it's

1053
00:59:15,240 --> 00:59:17,440
Speaker 1: a would you rather? And I want to run it

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00:59:17,480 --> 00:59:20,760
Speaker 1: down quickly and if you have an explanation, please add?

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00:59:21,360 --> 00:59:26,040
Speaker 1: Okay you ready? No, would you rather data man with

1056
00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:28,760
Speaker 1: two kids and two baby mamas or a man with

1057
00:59:28,920 --> 00:59:35,640
Speaker 1: five kids and one baby mama? Two kids, two baby mamas?

1058
00:59:35,640 --> 00:59:38,520
Speaker 1: I think only because five kids is a lot of

1059
00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:41,120
Speaker 1: we were getting married. That's a lot about additional income.

1060
00:59:41,760 --> 00:59:43,680
Speaker 1: I think that if you're in your forties, two baby

1061
00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:46,360
Speaker 1: mama isn't crazy, Oh it's not. You never had to

1062
00:59:46,400 --> 00:59:49,080
Speaker 1: deal with baby moms I have, but like I mean,

1063
00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:51,400
Speaker 1: you're gonna have a new relationship, but now you're dealing

1064
00:59:51,400 --> 00:59:53,840
Speaker 1: with two women in stet of one. Yeah, but five

1065
00:59:53,960 --> 00:59:58,320
Speaker 1: kids is a lot of work. Okay, Okay, two kids

1066
00:59:58,400 --> 00:59:59,840
Speaker 1: is easy. We could do our Saturday, we can do

1067
00:59:59,880 --> 01:00:02,000
Speaker 1: our fland. Bringing babies over at a weekend, it's curry.

1068
01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:04,160
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm I would be actually five kids,

1069
01:00:04,400 --> 01:00:07,840
Speaker 1: one baby mama, then two kids to baby Also think

1070
01:00:07,920 --> 01:00:10,160
Speaker 1: that for baby mamas. And I have to know, like,

1071
01:00:10,920 --> 01:00:14,680
Speaker 1: I'm not scared of women and baby mama relationships. Those

1072
01:00:14,680 --> 01:00:16,600
Speaker 1: are your kids. I want to be respectful as I can.

1073
01:00:16,640 --> 01:00:19,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna work on your pace. Like I think it's

1074
01:00:19,640 --> 01:00:21,640
Speaker 1: very unfair when you're rushing a man to meet his kids.

1075
01:00:21,680 --> 01:00:24,680
Speaker 1: Like to me, it's not what he would do as

1076
01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:29,040
Speaker 1: a father. It's the women. So that's why you know

1077
01:00:29,080 --> 01:00:31,840
Speaker 1: what I mean. I have no gripes over kids or

1078
01:00:31,920 --> 01:00:34,680
Speaker 1: being a stepmother, but to deal with two grown ass

1079
01:00:34,760 --> 01:00:38,880
Speaker 1: adult women, hello what I have no gripes of being

1080
01:00:38,920 --> 01:00:45,480
Speaker 1: a stepmother, which I'm thirty now, might I've changed? I'm

1081
01:00:45,520 --> 01:00:48,920
Speaker 1: not twenty flying out to NBA players anymore. I will

1082
01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:53,120
Speaker 1: be a stepmother. Okay, Hi, next One, since we were

1083
01:00:53,120 --> 01:00:57,200
Speaker 1: talking about Brokey's um, would you rather here we got

1084
01:00:57,280 --> 01:01:00,720
Speaker 1: this is death though, would you rather data man with

1085
01:01:00,880 --> 01:01:05,720
Speaker 1: a hundred k in student loan debt or twenty k

1086
01:01:06,120 --> 01:01:11,400
Speaker 1: in unpaid child support student London? I'm I'm with you there,

1087
01:01:12,080 --> 01:01:14,080
Speaker 1: I'm with you there. One. It might be forgivable, but

1088
01:01:14,200 --> 01:01:21,240
Speaker 1: too forgivable to me that you're not doing anything for

1089
01:01:21,320 --> 01:01:27,400
Speaker 1: you your kids. Okay, same okay? Uh Two, And this

1090
01:01:27,560 --> 01:01:31,280
Speaker 1: goes to maybe your current lover. Would you rather data

1091
01:01:31,360 --> 01:01:33,480
Speaker 1: man who lives with his mom or data man who

1092
01:01:33,520 --> 01:01:37,720
Speaker 1: lives with two roommates? First of all, that wasn't convident,

1093
01:01:40,120 --> 01:01:42,560
Speaker 1: but I will say none of the nigs I'm currently

1094
01:01:42,880 --> 01:01:46,280
Speaker 1: live with their mom or anything fucking at this point

1095
01:01:46,320 --> 01:01:49,320
Speaker 1: in time. I did meet somebody who is fine as

1096
01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:51,080
Speaker 1: hell and told me he lived with his mom, and

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01:01:51,160 --> 01:01:53,120
Speaker 1: he was He said that in the first two minutes

1098
01:01:53,240 --> 01:01:55,600
Speaker 1: of us having drinks and you still had a second drink.

1099
01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:57,160
Speaker 1: But it was just kind of funny how he said it,

1100
01:01:57,240 --> 01:01:58,760
Speaker 1: and he was like, no, this is bad, so we

1101
01:01:58,800 --> 01:02:04,000
Speaker 1: gotta go to your house. That's what you did him.

1102
01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:07,800
Speaker 1: Yet there isn't yet. I don't know anything from him

1103
01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:13,160
Speaker 1: but his penis he's local um, and then what was

1104
01:02:13,200 --> 01:02:15,720
Speaker 1: the other one? Two roommates or two roommates. Yeah, well

1105
01:02:15,800 --> 01:02:19,480
Speaker 1: I'd rather two roommates. Okay, but I'm still last one,

1106
01:02:20,080 --> 01:02:22,360
Speaker 1: the last one before we get out of here. Would

1107
01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:26,600
Speaker 1: you rather data man who constantly cheats or data man

1108
01:02:26,920 --> 01:02:29,440
Speaker 1: who constantly asks you for money? You see how I

1109
01:02:29,520 --> 01:02:33,240
Speaker 1: went down. I was gonna say anything but cheats. So

1110
01:02:33,320 --> 01:02:35,760
Speaker 1: you would want a man who constantly I guess I

1111
01:02:35,840 --> 01:02:40,080
Speaker 1: meant anything but cheats? With that? Which one? What's the

1112
01:02:40,160 --> 01:02:46,200
Speaker 1: money for? He's asking you for money for survival at

1113
01:02:46,240 --> 01:02:50,320
Speaker 1: this point? For money it could be for baby, really

1114
01:02:50,360 --> 01:02:52,040
Speaker 1: want these shoes, or Babe, I really need to pay

1115
01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:54,040
Speaker 1: this bill, or babe, you won't be able to talk

1116
01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:57,360
Speaker 1: to me if you don't pay. I hate cheaters like

1117
01:02:57,960 --> 01:03:00,440
Speaker 1: I can. I really can't handle it. I have to

1118
01:03:00,520 --> 01:03:02,680
Speaker 1: have a real thing about to see. However, let's say

1119
01:03:02,720 --> 01:03:04,880
Speaker 1: he maybe lives in I don't know, Jamaica. We got

1120
01:03:05,000 --> 01:03:08,240
Speaker 1: a night of day fiance situation. Here you go. You

1121
01:03:08,320 --> 01:03:10,400
Speaker 1: see how she take it to the extreme. It was

1122
01:03:10,480 --> 01:03:12,800
Speaker 1: do you want a cheater or a broke nigga? And

1123
01:03:12,960 --> 01:03:16,320
Speaker 1: here she go, Well, technically, if he lives here on

1124
01:03:16,400 --> 01:03:18,280
Speaker 1: a visa and have to go back to this country.

1125
01:03:18,400 --> 01:03:22,640
Speaker 1: Maybe he can't get a job. Maybe that was that

1126
01:03:22,800 --> 01:03:26,400
Speaker 1: was the problem with Felling Bay. You know what I mean?

1127
01:03:27,560 --> 01:03:31,280
Speaker 1: And how good is he sucking made? I would say,

1128
01:03:31,280 --> 01:03:34,080
Speaker 1: you would pay some bills, you would pay for dick,

1129
01:03:35,040 --> 01:03:37,320
Speaker 1: so you cool? Wouldn't you having to pay for a

1130
01:03:37,400 --> 01:03:40,760
Speaker 1: nigga over a nigga cheating on you like he ain't

1131
01:03:40,800 --> 01:03:42,880
Speaker 1: my nigga. But I'll throw nigga some money. I understand

1132
01:03:43,160 --> 01:03:46,240
Speaker 1: you would throw nigga money that isn't your nigga. I'm

1133
01:03:46,240 --> 01:03:47,800
Speaker 1: not gonna be with a nigga that needs me for money.

1134
01:03:48,720 --> 01:03:50,840
Speaker 1: You won't know until he laid a good down. Did

1135
01:03:50,920 --> 01:03:53,960
Speaker 1: he go mine? My man? I can't be the man

1136
01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:57,200
Speaker 1: that needs me to survive. But if I'm sucking, like

1137
01:03:57,280 --> 01:03:59,240
Speaker 1: let's say the dude to lud his mom, He asked

1138
01:03:59,240 --> 01:04:01,040
Speaker 1: me unt it all those and he mean you think

1139
01:04:01,040 --> 01:04:05,520
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna give it to all? Honestly, you just

1140
01:04:05,560 --> 01:04:08,720
Speaker 1: throw a hunt all it's cool? Three fifty? How long

1141
01:04:08,720 --> 01:04:14,600
Speaker 1: I've been sucking up? Seven honey? How long? She said?

1142
01:04:14,680 --> 01:04:20,600
Speaker 1: What if it's bombs? Fus thoughts she's thinking about it?

1143
01:04:21,600 --> 01:04:26,480
Speaker 1: Always asked me a trick as a bit. I say

1144
01:04:26,560 --> 01:04:28,560
Speaker 1: that because I'd give my friends money in a heartbeat

1145
01:04:28,600 --> 01:04:30,520
Speaker 1: if they need me, you know, Like now, I'm at

1146
01:04:30,520 --> 01:04:33,680
Speaker 1: a different point in my life where I can't help you. Granted,

1147
01:04:33,720 --> 01:04:36,680
Speaker 1: I do have to pay out everybody in this room first,

1148
01:04:37,120 --> 01:04:39,400
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna help you when I can. I do

1149
01:04:39,520 --> 01:04:41,520
Speaker 1: believe that we should do that for our friends. Now,

1150
01:04:41,640 --> 01:04:44,000
Speaker 1: are my friends sucking me? No? So maybe you should

1151
01:04:44,040 --> 01:04:49,480
Speaker 1: have a different proof. I'm just saying that's fair. I

1152
01:04:49,760 --> 01:04:54,280
Speaker 1: see you. Would you cheat or money? Yeah that's great? Yeah,

1153
01:04:54,320 --> 01:04:57,440
Speaker 1: what about you? As long as he ain't having a

1154
01:04:57,520 --> 01:05:00,040
Speaker 1: baby or bringing back as TV cheat on me, I

1155
01:05:00,120 --> 01:05:03,680
Speaker 1: can't give you no money. The fuck. I will buy

1156
01:05:03,720 --> 01:05:10,760
Speaker 1: you a surfboard. Shots in a group of people. The

1157
01:05:11,480 --> 01:05:16,960
Speaker 1: sixty were not just for him? How many shots sixty? Tequila?

1158
01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:20,800
Speaker 1: Regular tequila? I'm sure it was house. Oh my god,

1159
01:05:21,360 --> 01:05:23,840
Speaker 1: that's crazy for five house if you think about it.

1160
01:05:23,880 --> 01:05:27,080
Speaker 1: Ten I was a shot we had for free. Okay,

1161
01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:29,600
Speaker 1: I know it still looked like a cold. I was drunk.

1162
01:05:29,720 --> 01:05:34,520
Speaker 1: How many shots sixty? Let me do the math. I

1163
01:05:34,560 --> 01:05:36,440
Speaker 1: just did the math. No, no, you see what I mean.

1164
01:05:36,520 --> 01:05:40,360
Speaker 1: I want to include gratuity. You're not doing that, so

1165
01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:44,760
Speaker 1: probably another hunt it? So six hunt it I can't

1166
01:05:44,760 --> 01:05:49,920
Speaker 1: do it anyway, don math Anyways, guys, before we get

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Speaker 1: in here for tuning in. As always, we are going

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Speaker 1: I thought you were gonna do with me. I will

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Speaker 1: not anyways, I'm not doing it only because the last

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Speaker 1: time I filled with you. Yeah, she's gonna do with

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Speaker 1: And niggas ain't telling me some day I hate this

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Speaker 1: some of the guests that they can look forward things

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Speaker 1: I can show in the trailer so far, so it

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Speaker 1: her yet. Oh she was I think one of our

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Speaker 1: biggest guests. Okay, first episode, you've seen my mom do

1224
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Speaker 1: phone sex and drop grapes in the water with ship.

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Speaker 1: That was fun your mom doing phone sex on camera?

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Speaker 1: Well she like you like? Well, the fact that my

1227
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Speaker 1: mom had no idea what she was doing was so funny.

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Speaker 1: And then I handed her lingerie and it was just adorable.

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Speaker 1: Mama Juli about that being the first episode, it was

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Speaker 1: the first scene shot, by the way, I want you

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Speaker 1: to know, I don't think I'm a hater. I'm saying

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Speaker 1: I don't know because we've recorded this last month, so

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Speaker 1: that's why I don't know. That's why I don't know

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Speaker 1: what the episodes it to be the first scene shot,

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Speaker 1: because you know, you get your groove in the middle

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Speaker 1: is episode one has to be so young Ammy is

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Speaker 1: in the same episode, but oh no, sorry, Mistress Marley

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Speaker 1: is um. By the way, we took the assistant literally

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Speaker 1: the p A that was given by Fuse because she

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Speaker 1: was like talking about how she beats men up. I

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Speaker 1: was like, where is he at? Britianim over and I

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Speaker 1: got him on the floor a white man. Now, the assistant,

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Speaker 1: why didn't you bring one of the white men that

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Speaker 1: Mistress Marley's we didn't have any white men on? Said

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Speaker 1: it was a all black and Latino crew. She should

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Speaker 1: have brought one of them white men to be embarrassed

1248
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Speaker 1: on TV, because that's what I would have looked forward to.

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Speaker 1: It was very difficult because we had to run background

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Speaker 1: checks on the stubs. You go to sign all kinds

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Speaker 1: I would have loved it. And then even with a mask,

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Speaker 1: I was surprised we still couldn't do it. But now,

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Speaker 1: but anyway, I got on the floor for her, and

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Speaker 1: so did our sister Marlow. So that was great and

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Speaker 1: he damn sure he was all the way into back

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Speaker 1: game coffees. I'll be right there. Um well, y'all check

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Speaker 1: has been you had another episode of Harry bled. This

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Speaker 1: is your bit inside because y'all know that bitch say

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Speaker 1: fuck is she? Uh? It was her fault. We can't

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Speaker 1: deny or confirm that. But what I can tell you

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Speaker 1: is no, I would not have three some pregnant only

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Speaker 1: because I just don't want any energy, like additional energy.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't be I'd want to be monogamous, so your

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Speaker 1: baby would take the energy of the third person. I

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Speaker 1: just don't want. I just need to keep myself healthy,

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Speaker 1: like I don't want to put myself at risk to

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Speaker 1: other partners and keep my baby safe. But a but

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Speaker 1: a woman, you'll be eating pussy. That ain't got nothing

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Speaker 1: to do with your pussy or your root canal or

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Speaker 1: whatever it's down there in the baby part. I can't

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Speaker 1: it is it's the canal for your baby, and the

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Speaker 1: root canal Mandy, it's a rule. Did the baby go through?

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Speaker 1: That's a rut? Yep, So our homemail this week Molly

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Speaker 1: relationship invite but married to someone else. This is long,

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Speaker 1: but hopefully it's good. Hey. Oh, by the way, there

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Speaker 1: was a white girl that came up to me a

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Speaker 1: Melrose trading post and she like comes up to me

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Speaker 1: and she goes, oh my god, wheezy, I love you

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Speaker 1: guys so much. She's like, I sent in a homemail.

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Speaker 1: I'm one of your seven but you and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: do we give you good advice? She was like, well,

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Speaker 1: you and Mandy didn't really you read it, but she

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Speaker 1: didn't really give me advice. But it's okay, it's totally fine. Wait,

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Speaker 1: we don't be giving advice when we read homema. We'd

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Speaker 1: probably just be talking ship. Oh because she really I

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Speaker 1: was like, well, what what advice did he give? What

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Speaker 1: homemild you? She's like, he didn't really get to It's

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Speaker 1: bad she was twenty two years old. Oh she really

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Speaker 1: needed an advice. Well, sorry, okay, hey, ho. First, I

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Speaker 1: gotta say I love you both so much and I

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Speaker 1: love the podcast and there's not a single person I

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Speaker 1: run into and don't tell them about it. This is

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Speaker 1: kind of long and maybe hard to follow, but I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna try my best to condense it. A long one,

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Speaker 1: you know I can't never follow. It's not that bad

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Speaker 1: because it might be juicy. The title was good. Part

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Speaker 1: one The Husband, So I wanted to get some advice

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Speaker 1: about a situation I'm in currently. I've been married to

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Speaker 1: my husband four years and lately the vibe been off.

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Speaker 1: We've been arguing so much lately, and we spend no

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Speaker 1: time together and he doesn't take me out. I've been

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Speaker 1: depressed and just haven't been in the mood for sex. Now.

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Speaker 1: I love him to death and we've had our good times,

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Speaker 1: but the relationship isn't the same. I work two jobs.

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Speaker 1: I'm in school. He worked sixty hours a week. There's

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Speaker 1: no time for each other. We've been unkind, neither of

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Speaker 1: us feel like we're benefiting, and we've recently got into

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Speaker 1: a huge argument and it send it up ended up

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Speaker 1: into a long text, real ghetto about how we should

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Speaker 1: break up. Now we're on a break. So Part two

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Speaker 1: The Polly and Right. Three to four months ago, I

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Speaker 1: got a new job, and as soon as I got there,

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Speaker 1: I had a feeling like it was going to change

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Speaker 1: my life. And then I met a guy. They're so fine,

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Speaker 1: but I never gave him this time a day because

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Speaker 1: I was married. He's spiritual, and in the last two

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Speaker 1: years I've become more in two with my spirituality and

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Speaker 1: when I met him, I instantly knew his tea and

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Speaker 1: there was an instant connection like undeniable. I mean, the

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Speaker 1: energy we share is unbelievable. So fast forward to the

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Speaker 1: present when me and him, when me and my husband

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Speaker 1: to take a break, the dude and I started talking

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Speaker 1: more and more. I asked him, just to bait him,

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Speaker 1: if him and his girl were also spiritual. He said yes,

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Speaker 1: and I said, so basically I should have married someone

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Speaker 1: who was also spiritual. He said him and his girl

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Speaker 1: are Polly and told me he has two sister wives,

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Speaker 1: and I thought the convo would end there, but then

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Speaker 1: he basically shot his shot, bitch. He said, when I

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Speaker 1: was done, like completely done with my situation, to HOLLI

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Speaker 1: at him and his sister wives and basically laid out

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Speaker 1: with the relationship could be. And I was so shocked,

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Speaker 1: but not turned off because I've never been against the lifestyle.

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Speaker 1: My husband and I are in a space where we

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Speaker 1: still live together, but we sleep separately. We are trying

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Speaker 1: to work out our personal ship. So now the guy

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Speaker 1: and me been exchanging pat crazy, passionate energy like I'm

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Speaker 1: scared to fund because bitch, give big dick energy out

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Speaker 1: of the world. And if he's so intelligent girl, and

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Speaker 1: I can't even handle this, And he keeps saying things

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Speaker 1: like we're gonna get together soon. You can meet your sisters. Girl.

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Speaker 1: I finally broke down, gave him my number, texted me

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Speaker 1: when he was free, and I told him when it

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Speaker 1: worked to pick a date and we could link. He

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Speaker 1: basically told me he'll give me the details. He's trying

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Speaker 1: to surprise me with something, and I'm so intrigued. My

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Speaker 1: husband is nothing like this. He's absolutely against my spiritual

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Speaker 1: belief and the dude got me all in. I'm not

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Speaker 1: sure I feel about sister wives, but I don't know

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Speaker 1: where my relationship is going. There so much Gil, please

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Speaker 1: give me advice. I'm sorry this was long and unorganized,

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Speaker 1: but I really need help. I love you both so much.

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Speaker 1: It had no period. What is what is the help

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Speaker 1: asking for? Is she asking whether she should become a

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Speaker 1: sister wife or go back to her relationship I'm confused

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Speaker 1: with what she's asking. I think she is going to

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01:15:53,120 --> 01:15:56,240
Speaker 1: be so fucked up if she starts working with this

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Speaker 1: nigga who has a healthy relationship with his other wives,

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Speaker 1: because i'ming jealous that her husband can't give her that,

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Speaker 1: and then let's just say she falls all into that,

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Speaker 1: then she'll start not being able to handle coming to

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Speaker 1: second or third. Then it's gonna be a whole thing.

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Speaker 1: And he's fine, and he got a big dick. Possibly,

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01:16:12,400 --> 01:16:14,920
Speaker 1: so she just is excited about it. And it's also

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Speaker 1: super easy to get excited about it because she's going

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Speaker 1: through something with her husband.