1 00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:17,120 Speaker 1: Sure, it's hello. Welcome to the Naughty but Nice I'm 2 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:20,160 Speaker 1: your host, Rob Shooter and it is Monday. Now normally 3 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 1: on Monday. Our dear friend Garrett Vogel from Z one 4 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 1: hundred that joins us. He's off today. He's off work 5 00:00:26,040 --> 00:00:31,280 Speaker 1: today for Martin Luther King Junior Day. I was asking 6 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:35,200 Speaker 1: some friends about this. Should you say Happy Martin Luther 7 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:39,839 Speaker 1: King Day? And the answer is yes. By acknowledging the 8 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 1: significance of the day and for expressing support of the 9 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:50,920 Speaker 1: ideas of justice, equality and civil rights that doctor King 10 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 1: stood for. Wow. Remember in justice anywhere is a threat 11 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 1: to justice. Freeware Happy Martin Luther King Day. Now let's 12 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 1: jump into the gossip one time? Is it my friends? 13 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 1: It is tea time big story. At the top of 14 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 1: the show, Emily Blunt and Selena Gomez have teamed up 15 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 1: together to poke fun at the Golden Globe viral lip 16 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 1: reading gate. Remember that we talked about it on this show. 17 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 1: So after both being targeted by online lip readers during 18 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 1: last week's Golden Globes, the two actresses, both Emily and 19 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:40,000 Speaker 1: Selena have now responded in the most adorable way. They 20 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:42,760 Speaker 1: were at another award show and they got together and 21 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:46,640 Speaker 1: they covered their mouths that's right, and took a picture 22 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 1: of the two of them. We couldn't see what they 23 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 1: were saying because they covered their mouths. Selena posted it 24 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: on Instagram with we shall not speak L O L. Funny, adorable, 25 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 1: maybe a little bit silly too, but in the best 26 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 1: possible way. But when somebody say something you don't like, 27 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 1: potentially something that's not true, what's the best way of response. 28 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 1: I used to pick up the sword. I used to 29 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 1: fight if you said something that I didn't like, or 30 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 1: something to a friend of mine, Oh my goodness, I 31 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 1: couldn't help myself. I jumped up and defended myself, defended 32 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 1: my friends sometimes. So that's not the best way, is it, 33 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 1: because all it does is get you into a fight. 34 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:29,800 Speaker 1: Another way is just to ignore it. Often celebrities do 35 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 1: that when they see something they don't like, they just 36 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:36,960 Speaker 1: ignore it another way. And I think potentially this is 37 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 1: the most successful way it has been, at least in 38 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 1: my life. Is to make a joke, is to have 39 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:45,520 Speaker 1: some fun with it, to prove you're not hurt. But 40 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 1: at the same time, do prove that what is being 41 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:50,239 Speaker 1: said is silly. Now, if you don't remember, let me 42 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 1: explain what was being said. So there was a video 43 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:57,240 Speaker 1: that appeared on TikTok. It was watched hundreds of thousands 44 00:02:57,280 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 1: of times. And on the video, John Minski, who is 45 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:05,400 Speaker 1: Emma Lee's husband, appears to be talking about divorce. Now, 46 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:08,240 Speaker 1: I've watched this video for me. His lips are just moving, 47 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 1: but I'm not a lip reader. Now, that wasn't all 48 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 1: what happened at the Golden Globes. We also spotted Selena 49 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 1: Gomez and she was having a really fun time with 50 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift. She went over to her table, was gossiping, 51 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 1: was laughing, and a lipreader. We can even name him. 52 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 1: He's on the record, Jeremy Freeman. He told Page six 53 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 1: that the actress that Selena said to Taylor that she 54 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:34,640 Speaker 1: had been denied a picture with somebody. And what everybody speculating, 55 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 1: what fans believed, is that Selena was talking about Timothy Shallomeyer, 56 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 1: who is now seeing Kylie Jenna, who has beef with 57 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 1: Selena in the past. Now she clarified that what she 58 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 1: was talking to Taylor about it was actually two friends 59 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 1: who had hucked up and that was really nobody's business. 60 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 1: But then a few days later she bumped into Emily. 61 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 1: They posted this picture together. It's a funny picture. They 62 00:03:57,880 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 1: do look cute together. I think is such a good 63 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 1: way to get through life, not just problems, good good times, 64 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 1: bad times, everything in between. So I really love this picture. 65 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 1: But I want to know what you think about this, 66 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:13,480 Speaker 1: which brings us to our whole question of the day. 67 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 1: Emily Blunt and Selena Gomez unite to pack fun at 68 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: the Golden Globes lip sinking moment, the lip sinking moment? 69 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 1: Is it funny or is it best just to ignore it? 70 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 1: What would you do? Would you have a little bit 71 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 1: of fun here? Would you mock? Or would you just 72 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: ignore it? Because we are talking about it again, but 73 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:35,600 Speaker 1: we are talking about it now in a very different way, 74 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 1: aren't we. We're all having a little bit of a 75 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 1: giggle about this now, and it just all looks so ridiculous, 76 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 1: doesn't it. I mean, I'm a celebrity reporter, I'm an 77 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 1: entertainment reporter. Wouldn't you've got to start relying on lip 78 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:52,599 Speaker 1: reading experts or body language experts. You know, you don't 79 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 1: really have a story. So if ever you read a 80 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:57,600 Speaker 1: story on our website, at a blog, or even hear 81 00:04:57,640 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 1: it on a podcast, and the basis the foundation of 82 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 1: that story is a lip reading expert or a body 83 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 1: language expert. I can tell you from the industry point 84 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:12,600 Speaker 1: of view, from the point of view of people that 85 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:16,239 Speaker 1: work in the celebrity business, it's a pretty weak story. 86 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:19,840 Speaker 1: We have sources, we have people telling us what's going on, 87 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 1: we have insiders. If I gotta hire somebody to read 88 00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 1: your lips, I probably don't have the story. But what 89 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 1: do you think about this? Their response is what I 90 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:32,679 Speaker 1: care about today. Are they being adorable? Are they being funny? 91 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:36,239 Speaker 1: Or would this be better to just ignore? Go vote 92 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:38,919 Speaker 1: on our Twitter page at a too Nice Rob or 93 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 1: go to our Facebook page Nordie gozip. I'm sure to 94 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:47,040 Speaker 1: check back tomorrow to hear your results. Moving along, Taylor 95 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:50,920 Speaker 1: Swift is going to be blamed for distracting Travis Kelson 96 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:54,040 Speaker 1: if the Chiefs don't make it to the Super Bowl. 97 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:58,559 Speaker 1: So famous quarterback controversial guy too Brett farm He thinks 98 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:02,479 Speaker 1: that the Kansas City chief fans are going to turn 99 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:06,360 Speaker 1: on Taylor if their beloved NFL team does not make 100 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:09,039 Speaker 1: it to the Super Bowl this year. He said the 101 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:12,600 Speaker 1: following quote, I think it's been a distraction. If they 102 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:15,640 Speaker 1: don't make it to the super Bowl. If they don't win, 103 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:18,520 Speaker 1: or they don't get to the super Bowl, someone's gonna say, 104 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:23,279 Speaker 1: that's why blaming Taylor for this. Now, if you remember 105 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 1: a few years ago, jes Because Simpson, this happened to 106 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:28,239 Speaker 1: her too. She was ridiculed when her then boyfriend Tony 107 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 1: Rumo lost a lot of games that she attended for 108 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:35,919 Speaker 1: the Dallas Cowboys. Now at the moment, Taylor has turned 109 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:38,920 Speaker 1: up to a lot of his games to Travis's games. 110 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 1: He's won some, he's lost them. But they are expected 111 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 1: to get to the super Bowl. Are a really strong team, 112 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 1: and if they don't. If they don't, they're gonna blame Taylor. Now, 113 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 1: because we're a fabulous sort of podcast and we have 114 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 1: access to this, I hit the phones and I spoke 115 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 1: to my Taylor sources. I said, what's going on here? 116 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:58,279 Speaker 1: And they said, she's perfectly aware of this. She's one 117 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 1: of the most self aware celebrities in the world. She 118 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:05,200 Speaker 1: knows this. But also too, they did remind me, if 119 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 1: they do get to the super Bowl, then Taylor can 120 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 1: take a victory lap. If you're gonna blame her for 121 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 1: them not winning, then you have to give her credit 122 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 1: when they do it, And the truth of the batter 123 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 1: is it has nothing to do with her. She isn't playing. 124 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 1: This is blaming somebody else. No, this is about him. 125 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 1: He's on the field. She's literally in the bleachers or 126 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 1: maybe in a private box. Very nice. I see a Taylor, 127 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 1: But she had nothing to do with this. But if 128 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 1: they win, Taylor will take a victory lap. And this 129 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 1: is where it gets delicious and awkward. Usher is performing 130 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:42,560 Speaker 1: at the super Bowl. Now, a lot of people wanted 131 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:45,240 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift to perform. They've been asking for her to 132 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:47,400 Speaker 1: perform for years and years and years, and because of 133 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 1: a deal and endorsement deal with a different sponsor, she 134 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 1: couldn't do it. So if Taylor's there, if she's in 135 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 1: the audience but she's not performing, does she pull focus 136 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 1: from Usher? The person that's going to be the most 137 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 1: angry if Travis makes it to the super Bowl is Usher? 138 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 1: Because this is meant to be Usher's night, This is 139 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 1: Usher's performance. How's it gonna feel if the camera keeps 140 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 1: cutting to Taylor Swift? Oh? Delicious? Think about that? More 141 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 1: more news So, Priscilla Presley and Riley Kowa are both 142 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 1: remembering Lisa Marie Presley one year after her death. It's 143 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 1: been one year, they say, we miss you. So Lisa 144 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:31,400 Speaker 1: Marie Presley is being remembered by her family just one year. 145 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:36,679 Speaker 1: One year it's been after she died suddenly from cardiac arrest. 146 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 1: Her mommy, Priscilla. She went to Twitter now x to 147 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 1: say that she hoped her daughter was finding comfort reuniting 148 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:51,160 Speaker 1: with her father, Elvis Presley. She wrote the following quote, 149 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 1: rest in peace, Lisa, You're in the arms of your 150 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:59,679 Speaker 1: beloved father now. Only that gives me comfort now. Her 151 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 1: elder daughter Riley, took to social media too to mourn 152 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 1: her mommy by posting a picture of her and her 153 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 1: mamma throwback picture. She's a very young child in the 154 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:14,840 Speaker 1: picture and she simply captioned it with the red heart emoji. Oh. 155 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:17,959 Speaker 1: Lisa Marie was the only child of Elvis and Priscilla. 156 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 1: She died January twelfth, twenty twenty three, at the age 157 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:26,720 Speaker 1: of just fifty four fifty four. It was later revealed 158 00:09:27,080 --> 00:09:31,319 Speaker 1: that she died from a small bowel obstruction that appeared 159 00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 1: after she received weight loss surgery. It is all so heartbreaking, 160 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:42,839 Speaker 1: just fifty four years old. People are asking why didn't 161 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:47,840 Speaker 1: Priscilla and Riley issue a joint statement. I'm told that 162 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:51,280 Speaker 1: there are still tensions. If you remember, after Lisia Marie passed, 163 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:53,880 Speaker 1: there was a lot of fighting over her will, over 164 00:09:53,920 --> 00:09:58,640 Speaker 1: her estate. She owns the Elvis Presley estate. She owns Graceland, 165 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 1: and so there was a lot of Priscilla wanted to 166 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:04,360 Speaker 1: take over that ownership, but she left it to her daughter. 167 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:07,760 Speaker 1: Lots of back and forth, lots of ugliness. It gets nasty, 168 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:10,840 Speaker 1: doesn't it when money is involved and death and families. 169 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:13,520 Speaker 1: This is no difference. It got really, really ugly. I'm 170 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 1: told things are better, but they're not yet. They're not 171 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 1: yet solved. They probably never will be. Once these arguments 172 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:22,680 Speaker 1: have been had, it takes a long time, if ever, 173 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 1: to heal. So fingers fingers crossed. Okay, this story is wild. 174 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 1: So Arianna Grande is getting slammed as a home wrecker 175 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 1: by fans after she addresses dating Ethan Slater in her 176 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 1: new song. So she put out a new single, I 177 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:42,760 Speaker 1: Love It, and the song is getting a lot of backlash, 178 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:45,719 Speaker 1: primarily because of the lyrics. And she's basically telling her 179 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 1: fans to mind their own business. But she's doing that 180 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:52,319 Speaker 1: in a song. So is she using the relationship? Yes, 181 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:54,840 Speaker 1: and then we're not allowed to talk about it. No. 182 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:58,600 Speaker 1: So she says in one of her lyrics, why do 183 00:10:58,679 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 1: you care so much whose private parts? She uses a 184 00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:07,199 Speaker 1: different word, I write pretty explicit, Arianna. If you're gonna 185 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 1: go there and reduce this relationship to just that, then 186 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:13,680 Speaker 1: I think you're gonna get a wild response. And that's 187 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:17,680 Speaker 1: exactly what she got. Fans were not amused by this, 188 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:20,600 Speaker 1: and they said, we don't care who you're having sex with, 189 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 1: but don't forget what you did. What they're referring to 190 00:11:23,920 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 1: here is that he was still married. He is still married, 191 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:30,120 Speaker 1: he's getting a divorce now, and so was she. Another 192 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 1: person added quote, you ruined the life of the child 193 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:36,800 Speaker 1: and the woman, Oh, I forgot to say that Ethan 194 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:39,680 Speaker 1: has a very small child. They continued, you chose to 195 00:11:39,720 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 1: destroy a family. Truly a disgusting person. This is going 196 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:47,960 Speaker 1: to be complicated for Arianna because if she wants to 197 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:52,640 Speaker 1: sing about her new relationship, and she obviously does, then 198 00:11:52,640 --> 00:11:55,080 Speaker 1: she can't cherry pick parts of the relationship. You either 199 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:57,720 Speaker 1: talk about it or you don't. And this relationship started 200 00:11:57,760 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 1: on a really shaky ground. Insiders insist friends that are 201 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:04,680 Speaker 1: close to the couple that they didn't get together until 202 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:08,160 Speaker 1: after both their relationships were over with their other partners. 203 00:12:08,480 --> 00:12:11,360 Speaker 1: Now the timeline is fuzzy here. It always is. Remember 204 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:13,880 Speaker 1: when Brad and Angelina got together and he was still 205 00:12:13,920 --> 00:12:16,520 Speaker 1: with Jen, But then they put out, you know, hints. 206 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:18,400 Speaker 1: I don't think they ever spoke about it, but sources 207 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:20,960 Speaker 1: put out statements saying, oh no, no, he had already 208 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:24,440 Speaker 1: broken up with Jen, and that timeline didn't quite add up. 209 00:12:24,880 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 1: Ethan and Arianna's timeline doesn't quite add up, and so 210 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:32,080 Speaker 1: now she's sort of picked a scab off it. I'd 211 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 1: moved past this a little bit until this really aggressive, 212 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 1: aggressive new single came out, So I guess you only 213 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:44,079 Speaker 1: have yourself to blame. Okay, Chloe Kardashian is doing something 214 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 1: so cool and I love it. She's talking about getting 215 00:12:46,440 --> 00:12:50,719 Speaker 1: along with her ex Tristan Thompson, but she says that 216 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:55,600 Speaker 1: she still wants to be petty. I love how honest 217 00:12:55,640 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 1: she is. So she's known as a peace peacemaker, but 218 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:03,240 Speaker 1: she admits that is not easy. She makes a point 219 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:07,640 Speaker 1: to be an amicable co parent, even though there are 220 00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:10,880 Speaker 1: times when she has no patience about it at all. 221 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:14,679 Speaker 1: She said in a new interview that she had to 222 00:13:14,800 --> 00:13:18,079 Speaker 1: learn to control her feelings. I've had to learn this too, 223 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:20,840 Speaker 1: have you? She said? There are so many times when 224 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:24,200 Speaker 1: my feelings got out of control and I was impulsive, 225 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:27,199 Speaker 1: and I tweeted something or posted something and did something 226 00:13:27,320 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 1: that I went on to regret. She said. Do I 227 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:35,080 Speaker 1: have days when I want to be a pettybitch? She added, yes, 228 00:13:35,200 --> 00:13:38,640 Speaker 1: of course I do, but I sort of do that privately. 229 00:13:39,280 --> 00:13:42,040 Speaker 1: That's a really good tip, isn't it, when you want 230 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:45,200 Speaker 1: to lash out, when you want to fight back. We 231 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:47,360 Speaker 1: were talking about this at the top of the show. 232 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:50,439 Speaker 1: I don't do that on social media anymore. I do privately, 233 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:53,840 Speaker 1: and by privately, I don't meaning DMS. I call a friend, 234 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 1: I text a friend, I talked to them. If you 235 00:13:57,559 --> 00:14:01,000 Speaker 1: fight back, if you get petty, that ever helps me. 236 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:03,760 Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of an example of a time 237 00:14:04,280 --> 00:14:07,360 Speaker 1: when being petty made me feel better. Maybe for a 238 00:14:07,360 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 1: few minutes when I did it, Oh, I thought I've 239 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:13,520 Speaker 1: got you, I told you, But no longer than that. 240 00:14:13,640 --> 00:14:16,120 Speaker 1: Within ten to fifteen minutes, I start to regret it, 241 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 1: and then an hour later I really regret it, and 242 00:14:18,160 --> 00:14:22,160 Speaker 1: then by by three or four hours later and maybe tomorrow, 243 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, why did I do that? I made it worse. 244 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 1: Being petty feels good in the moment, in the instinct, 245 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:33,080 Speaker 1: but it never actually works. So I advise you to 246 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:36,840 Speaker 1: follow Cleary here and do it in private. If you 247 00:14:36,880 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 1: want to be petty, and we all do that, do 248 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:42,400 Speaker 1: it with somebody that you can trust, and then move on. Okay, 249 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 1: We're going to move on and take a quick corection. 250 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 1: I'll be right back. We knew that night. Shall I'm 251 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 1: your hostool and she said, hey, let's get it to 252 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 1: the polls. Thank you, Norty. Last year we talked about 253 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:58,240 Speaker 1: Matthew Perry's final years were much darker and isolated than 254 00:14:58,280 --> 00:15:01,720 Speaker 1: we thought. We're getting new information out that he never 255 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 1: was sober, that his book where he claimed he had 256 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:08,760 Speaker 1: recovered was just not true. He was violent, allegedly towards people. 257 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:13,280 Speaker 1: He was abusive towards friends when he was high on drugs. Oh, 258 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:19,920 Speaker 1: it's just heartbreaking. Details, really vivid, specific details are being revealed. 259 00:15:19,960 --> 00:15:22,840 Speaker 1: Our question was should all this be known? Should this 260 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:26,120 Speaker 1: be revealed or not? Should we just let him? Let 261 00:15:26,440 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 1: rest in peace? That's the expression I'm hearing, rest in peace. 262 00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:32,720 Speaker 1: There's a complicated question, isn't it Because the truth is 263 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 1: the truth. And if you pretend that people just got better, 264 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:40,080 Speaker 1: they recovered, and then they suddenly died, that story doesn't 265 00:15:40,120 --> 00:15:43,920 Speaker 1: make sense. So I don't know if it's really very helpful. 266 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:47,120 Speaker 1: But at the same time, all these details, or all 267 00:15:47,120 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 1: these really dark details, is that something that's none of 268 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:54,800 Speaker 1: our business. Let's have a look. Wow, this just goes 269 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:58,760 Speaker 1: to show you how controversial this this is. It's fifty 270 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:02,200 Speaker 1: to fifty. It's totally divided down the middle, and I 271 00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:04,600 Speaker 1: get it. I can see both sides of this argument. 272 00:16:04,640 --> 00:16:06,840 Speaker 1: Part of me is like, leave him alone. But then 273 00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:08,400 Speaker 1: part of me two is I think we do more 274 00:16:08,440 --> 00:16:11,520 Speaker 1: good if we tell the truth about people. When people pass, 275 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 1: we have the habit of turning them into saints. Nobody's 276 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:18,640 Speaker 1: a saint. We're all mixed, we're all complicated, we're all 277 00:16:18,680 --> 00:16:21,520 Speaker 1: fifty shades of gray. There I say, no one's black 278 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:25,000 Speaker 1: or white. And so I think a nuanced conversation about this, 279 00:16:25,080 --> 00:16:29,440 Speaker 1: a conversation without judging, pointing fingers, but acknowledging the reality, 280 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:33,080 Speaker 1: is going to help other people. Okay, don't forget to 281 00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:35,720 Speaker 1: vote on today's poll. Go to our Twitter page. Act 282 00:16:35,800 --> 00:16:39,320 Speaker 1: Naughty Nice Rob or our Facebook page which is Naughty Gossip, 283 00:16:39,560 --> 00:16:42,640 Speaker 1: and be sure to check back tomorrow to hear your results. 284 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:46,720 Speaker 1: And now it's time for our nicest of the Dame. 285 00:16:47,800 --> 00:16:50,320 Speaker 1: I love this part of the show. Brad Pitt and 286 00:16:50,320 --> 00:16:53,280 Speaker 1: his girlfriend were spotted on a rare date in Beverly Hills. 287 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:58,360 Speaker 1: So Brad and Inz are still going strong. The notoriously 288 00:16:58,440 --> 00:17:01,880 Speaker 1: private couple who were first linked back late in twenty 289 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 1: twenty two, so they've been together a bit of a 290 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:06,800 Speaker 1: while now. They were spotted at a date night at 291 00:17:06,800 --> 00:17:11,360 Speaker 1: a gallery in California. He was photographed leaving the gallery 292 00:17:11,560 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 1: with her. They made their wear through a parking garage. 293 00:17:15,680 --> 00:17:19,000 Speaker 1: She's a jewelry designer who was previously married to Vampire 294 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:22,119 Speaker 1: Diaries Paul Wesley, so she knows what it's like to 295 00:17:22,200 --> 00:17:25,119 Speaker 1: be around famous people. But let's be clear, hit Paul 296 00:17:25,720 --> 00:17:28,560 Speaker 1: Vampire Diary is great, not a Brad Pitt star. He's 297 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:32,119 Speaker 1: a super superstar. And so inside the exhibit, I like 298 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:35,679 Speaker 1: this too. Britney Spears' ex husband sam as Gary was 299 00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:38,400 Speaker 1: there and he even snapped a picture with Brad Pitt. 300 00:17:38,440 --> 00:17:40,960 Speaker 1: Who doesn't want a picture with Brad Pitt, I'm told 301 00:17:41,080 --> 00:17:44,880 Speaker 1: too that John Voyd was there. Ooh, I haven't confirmed 302 00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 1: it yet, but Angelina Jolie's father was apparently there too, 303 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:52,200 Speaker 1: and I'm told that they had no interaction. Well that's interesting, 304 00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:54,760 Speaker 1: but this comes after the two of them have been 305 00:17:54,800 --> 00:17:58,080 Speaker 1: spotted out and about recently respotted them in Paris. They 306 00:17:58,080 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 1: were celebrating his sixty birthday. They are the real deal. 307 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:06,920 Speaker 1: This is his first serious relationship since his divorced from 308 00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:10,960 Speaker 1: Angelina Jolie and nicest of the day now and naughty 309 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:13,960 Speaker 1: is the day, Naughty, naughty, naughty, naughty norty. Chris Gramo 310 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:17,479 Speaker 1: has been called out for humiliating Your CNN staffer. So, 311 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:21,400 Speaker 1: a former CNN contributor says that Chris put her through 312 00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 1: a quote embarrassing and humiliating experience that ultimately cost her job. 313 00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:28,200 Speaker 1: She claims she got a text from him saying Happy 314 00:18:28,240 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 1: New Year, timsel Crutch. She was shocked, she didn't reply, 315 00:18:33,119 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 1: and then after that they moved forward. Because she was 316 00:18:35,320 --> 00:18:37,359 Speaker 1: on a show a lot, this was a huge opportunity. 317 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:39,680 Speaker 1: She was getting paid to do this, so she didn't 318 00:18:39,720 --> 00:18:42,880 Speaker 1: really know what to say. But when she did finally 319 00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 1: confront Chris about the bikini comment, it was a picture 320 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:48,240 Speaker 1: of her in a bikini that she posted, and that's 321 00:18:48,240 --> 00:18:55,560 Speaker 1: what he responded to her privately, her contract suddenly ended. Ooh, now, 322 00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:57,400 Speaker 1: let me remind you that's not the first time. It's 323 00:18:57,440 --> 00:18:59,960 Speaker 1: not the first time that Chris has been in trouble 324 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:04,439 Speaker 1: for this. An ABC boss. A former boss of ABC, 325 00:19:04,680 --> 00:19:07,239 Speaker 1: Shelley Ross pend And op ed in The New York 326 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:10,680 Speaker 1: Times claiming he sexually harassed her at a going away 327 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:14,879 Speaker 1: party for an ABC colleague in two thousand and five. 328 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:20,159 Speaker 1: Oh Chris, Chris, Chris, Chris, Chris, and naughtiest of the day. 329 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:22,159 Speaker 1: Let's end with her moment of rub. You're gonna rob, 330 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:24,280 Speaker 1: you get a rub, You get a rub. The direction 331 00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:26,800 Speaker 1: you were moving in is way more important than the 332 00:19:26,840 --> 00:19:29,879 Speaker 1: speed that you are going. I have fell into the 333 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:32,560 Speaker 1: trap too many times. I've been a busy, busy person 334 00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:35,919 Speaker 1: just making myself busy, busy, busy, busy, busy, racing around 335 00:19:35,920 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 1: like an idiot, but not moving in the right direction. 336 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:42,919 Speaker 1: So today, slow down, don't speed up. Slow down and 337 00:19:43,000 --> 00:19:46,800 Speaker 1: be clear about where you want to go, and make 338 00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:52,080 Speaker 1: every single step you take today lead you in that direction. 339 00:19:52,720 --> 00:19:57,560 Speaker 1: Slow down and remember the direction you were moving in 340 00:19:57,800 --> 00:20:02,440 Speaker 1: is way way more importan sortant than the speed. I'm 341 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:06,360 Speaker 1: a big believer in small baby steps each and every day. 342 00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:11,760 Speaker 1: Be consistent, really focus, and you have got this. Hey, 343 00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:13,959 Speaker 1: that's it for today. Thank you so much for listening 344 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:16,439 Speaker 1: to the naughty but Nice with Rob and then naughty shows. 345 00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 1: I love it when you're the co hosts. We're a 346 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:22,080 Speaker 1: production of iHeartRadio. Don't forget to subscribe on the iHeartRadio app, 347 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:24,560 Speaker 1: Apple podcast. Wherever you listen, leave us a review if 348 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:28,000 Speaker 1: you can, and remember all together now, if you're going 349 00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:32,280 Speaker 1: to be nausey, you've got to be nice. Take care 350 00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 1: everybody so you can orrow. It's starting. But Nice with 351 00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 1: Bra