1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,159 Speaker 1: Okay, so we're about to give you like another crazy story, 2 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:06,080 Speaker 1: but it actually is from one of our favorite podcasts. 3 00:00:06,280 --> 00:00:07,040 Speaker 2: Read it on Wiki. 4 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:09,400 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, they recently came on the show and we 5 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:11,440 Speaker 1: came on theirs, but we wanted to share one of 6 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 1: their episodes without further ado, here's the episode. You can 7 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 1: also check the link in the description for the full episode, 8 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:17,920 Speaker 1: and let's jump into it. 9 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:21,920 Speaker 3: We can do this, guys. The perfect intro begins. Now, 10 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:26,160 Speaker 3: what's up wick Amaniacs Today? We have a wife who 11 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:31,280 Speaker 3: learned about her husband's double life, a boyfriend who lies 12 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 3: to support his fetish parents who punish their son by 13 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:43,240 Speaker 3: shaving his head, and an office Karen bullies the office baker. 14 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:48,159 Speaker 3: But that's not all. If you are a patron, you 15 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 3: get an extra bonus story on Mondays Now, and this 16 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 3: one is we're gonna do a little bit of role 17 00:00:52,840 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 3: play and we'll just have to be a patron to 18 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 3: see what that's about. But if that piques your interests 19 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 3: Patreon dot com, slash Cultivate podcast network read it on 20 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:05,640 Speaker 3: Wiki starts now. 21 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 2: But a time, it's your boys, Shaw And they said 22 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:29,399 Speaker 2: it couldn't be done. They doubted me. 23 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 3: They said, no way could Sean do a regular intro 24 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:35,640 Speaker 3: like a normal podcaster. 25 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 4: So clean, no f Bob, not yet they could have 26 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 4: believe it. Y' oh, man, what's up? 27 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 3: It's your boy Seawan hosting a Monday Reddit Readings episode 28 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 3: with my boys John and Josh. 29 00:01:57,200 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 5: Hi Hi the double J. Say Hi Double J's Double J's. 30 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 3: All right, y'all got anything to say before we go 31 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 3: ahead and hop into the very first story? 32 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 2: Save it for them? Okay, sure, I'll go ahead. Josh. 33 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:17,639 Speaker 4: I'm just congrats to Seattle for finishing half marathon, beat 34 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 4: her time from her last one, so personal best killings that. 35 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:28,400 Speaker 3: Why don't congratulating everybody? Uh, congrats to Juliet for releasing 36 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 3: her Yeah, we'll plug it at the end, but while 37 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 3: everyone's listening now, the link I'm sure will be in 38 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:40,079 Speaker 3: the show notes, so and we'll talk about it. But yes, 39 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 3: Juliet made a cookbook also, and I danced in a 40 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 3: in a we did some dance live ship like dude, Yeah, okay, 41 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 3: first brother? Yeah, who knew? The body still is like 42 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 3: riding a bike sort of? How sore were you after that? 43 00:02:55,400 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 3: My knees feel like what I imagine, so you like 44 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 3: want to die? 45 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 5: Yeah? 46 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 2: They heard bad. 47 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 3: And I took like the stairs to work this week, 48 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:10,560 Speaker 3: you know, because I always take the stairs going up. Yeah, 49 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 3: but I was like, holy moly, what a god damn mistake. 50 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, I saw you doing those moves and I was like, 51 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 4: that's gotta hurt after I know that man's body. Yeah, 52 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 4: so congrats. Al's like you, I mean you could. 53 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 2: There's dance classes. 54 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 5: I can't, Yeah, Josh, for obvious reasons. 55 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll do We'll do a TikTok dance whenever we 56 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 3: all teach us. It'll be yet again, one of our 57 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 3: lowest performing tiktoks of all time. I've got a lot 58 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 3: of work into that stupid ad, and it was everyone 59 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:50,400 Speaker 3: hated it. 60 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 2: Oh my god. If you know, you know, I'm not 61 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 2: going to get into. 62 00:03:56,240 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 5: Mil infuriating that those zeros mildly dude, Oh my god. 63 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 5: I was like, wow, we really stepped out of our covers. 64 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 2: Though. This is so this will be interesting fucking zero. Wise, 65 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 2: don't do that ship again. 66 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 5: People don't like it when we people don't like it 67 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:20,280 Speaker 5: when we try to actively like you know, Ventureaz, Yeah, 68 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:23,280 Speaker 5: you stick to the same you are under one thing, 69 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 5: that sad story, the Mamolin story. 70 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 2: Besides better not be fucking happy. 71 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 5: Don't like that's all happy ship, Give me not depressing 72 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:39,280 Speaker 5: stuff put in my faints injected. 73 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:41,600 Speaker 2: Into my life. I need that negativity. All right? 74 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:43,919 Speaker 5: Well, are you ready for the first story then, because 75 00:04:43,960 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 5: it jumps right into the negativity, let's get it. 76 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:53,120 Speaker 2: I can feel TikTok, let's go. Oh, all right, here 77 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:53,480 Speaker 2: we go. 78 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:58,719 Speaker 3: I thirty five female, discovered my husband, thirty eight male, 79 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 3: infidelit and his double life thanks to a post on Facebook. 80 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 4: Facebook Facebook. Oh god, I can only see where this 81 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 4: is gonna go. 82 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:16,839 Speaker 3: My husband and I have been married for ten years 83 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 3: and have two children together. He travels often. I also 84 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 3: want to say that about eight months ago, I discovered 85 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:27,839 Speaker 3: that I was infected with an incurable STD. 86 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:29,920 Speaker 2: Oh. 87 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:32,919 Speaker 3: He blamed me for this, saying that I was the 88 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 3: unfaithful one. 89 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 4: Well, could you imagine the balls to be, like like 90 00:05:37,600 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 4: knowing you're cheating and then being like you're the unfaithful 91 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 4: one and like pinning it on them like. 92 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:45,040 Speaker 2: Gas sliding is crazy. 93 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:48,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, he's a shitty, trifling dude, that's what he is. 94 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 2: STD baby. 95 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:56,279 Speaker 4: Wow, Like, what the fuck where'd you come? He's fucking back? Well, 96 00:05:56,600 --> 00:06:00,839 Speaker 4: I was browsing Facebook in a mother's group. In that group, 97 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 4: it is a group where mothers ask for help with children, 98 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:09,960 Speaker 4: ask for donation, share experiences, memes, et cetera. In that group, 99 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 4: a mother shared that she would give her husband a 100 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:15,799 Speaker 4: laxative tea so that he wouldn't go to a soccer 101 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 4: game the next day. It was all mockery and laughter 102 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 4: in the comments of the post and telling her to 103 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 4: update the result. I am a person who likes to 104 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:27,719 Speaker 4: read comments, and while reading comments, I unfortunately saw a 105 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 4: profile that had a photo of a woman with my 106 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:36,279 Speaker 4: husband in it. The fuck gas, The levels are crazy. 107 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:42,600 Speaker 4: I started watching. I don't know what watching means, but 108 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:47,120 Speaker 4: I guess, uh, maybe like perusing the profiles. Yeah, yeah, 109 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 4: I started watching and apparently they got married civilly. My 110 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:57,280 Speaker 4: husband created another profile, but it has a different name 111 00:06:57,560 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 4: and surname. 112 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:03,159 Speaker 5: Oh god, oh my gosh, this seems like a Todd situation. 113 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 2: A Todd. 114 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:14,720 Speaker 5: Oh, we just flamed the name Todd. Todd's just catching strays. 115 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 2: They have a child. 116 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 3: I think that child has his false last name because 117 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 3: she uploaded a post where she went to register the 118 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 3: child's birth certificate and place the full name there, as 119 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 3: if she was proud of it mmm. I posted in 120 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:36,360 Speaker 3: the same group now that they have the option to 121 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 3: post anonymously, and several gave me advice and we deduced 122 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 3: that possibly the other woman did not know because of 123 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 3: what she shared on her profile. I wrote to her 124 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 3: and was surprised that that bitch did know that he. 125 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 2: Was married, never mind quickly corrected. 126 00:07:57,320 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 4: I mean still in the order of ashole, it's your 127 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 4: husband number one, right, like, so. 128 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:06,160 Speaker 2: I think it's both. 129 00:08:06,200 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 4: If she knew. 130 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 2: Both, they're like the same level. Now at this. 131 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 4: Point, I'm just saying, like, no, they're not the same 132 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:17,120 Speaker 4: level at all. I think it's him. 133 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 3: But if you know the other person is married and 134 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 3: you have kids, you're an asshole and a horrible person. 135 00:08:24,240 --> 00:08:28,080 Speaker 4: I still think he's worse the same plane for me. No, no, no, 136 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:32,080 Speaker 4: he's worse. It's not very far in their. 137 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:35,840 Speaker 5: Levels touching skin at this point, Like they're the same plane. 138 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 2: I'm not saying. 139 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:40,959 Speaker 4: I'm not saying she's like significantly better than him. I'm 140 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:43,440 Speaker 4: saying it's close. But I'm still saying he's, you know, 141 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 4: still the one cheating and doing all that ship where 142 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:50,839 Speaker 4: I guess she's that adult cheating she's just complicit. 143 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, Well, sometimes the worst, like it's also bad. So 144 00:08:55,559 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 5: I just think they're both terrible and the same way. 145 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 4: Now, okay, well we disagree on me opinion slightly worse. Yeah, yeah, 146 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 4: they have been married for two years and their baby 147 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 4: is approximately fourteen months old, but they're not technically married 148 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 4: because we never got a divorce. 149 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 3: Their marriage is not valid. I have hired a lawyer 150 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 3: and I took all the evidence, and I am in 151 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 3: the divorce process since when I complained he preferred her, 152 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 3: he left the house to live with her. Besides this, Jesus, 153 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 3: he refuses to give alimony, claiming that he has another 154 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:38,640 Speaker 3: child to support and that if he has to give 155 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:41,880 Speaker 3: alimony to my children, he will seek to give the 156 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:45,520 Speaker 3: minimum payment even if he has to quit his job. What, 157 00:09:45,920 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 3: oh my god, how do we proceed with my life? 158 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:53,480 Speaker 3: I feel like I am very limited in rebuilding my 159 00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:56,760 Speaker 3: life because of the STD he has given me and 160 00:09:57,400 --> 00:10:00,240 Speaker 3: being a single mother. Sorry for my English, I am 161 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 3: not American. First of all, you probably wrote that better 162 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 3: than most American. You could be from other countries and 163 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 3: speak English as well. Yeah, both both funny statements are true. 164 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:16,120 Speaker 3: Oh I never give credit. I'm so sorry. This was 165 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:22,320 Speaker 3: posted in cross posted from our slash relationship ground score 166 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 3: advice from you Guessed it z Mitch eight. 167 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 2: Hey, there you go. 168 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 4: I mean, if you're going through the process, I would 169 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:33,320 Speaker 4: imagine the judge is going to side with you with 170 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:37,240 Speaker 4: all the you know, evidence provides. So I mean, hopefully 171 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:41,040 Speaker 4: he doesn't let him get away. And if he texted 172 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 4: you or said that he's trying to get the minimum, 173 00:10:43,920 --> 00:10:46,960 Speaker 4: hopefully that's somewhere where you can document that and be like, yo, hey, 174 00:10:47,280 --> 00:10:50,439 Speaker 4: here's what he's planning to do, and then hopefully. 175 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:51,960 Speaker 2: With his job to avoid paying. 176 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 5: That's absolutely insane in crazy, but fuckings comeback. Yeah, not 177 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:01,400 Speaker 5: only to you you, of course, he has just come 178 00:11:01,440 --> 00:11:05,280 Speaker 5: back to you because he cheated, but like to actually, 179 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 5: you know, fucking try to put your kids at a 180 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 5: disadvantage is fucking unhitched. Yeah, this guy is such a 181 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:14,160 Speaker 5: piece of shit just from the get go, from the 182 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 5: fucking SDD thing and then blaming it on you when he, 183 00:11:17,640 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 5: like Josh said, he knows he's he's married to somebody 184 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 5: else as well, Like, this is crazy. You know if 185 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:26,679 Speaker 5: I was the other woman in that situation too, Like 186 00:11:26,800 --> 00:11:29,560 Speaker 5: why would you be want to be with someone like that? 187 00:11:29,960 --> 00:11:33,400 Speaker 5: Purposely tank their life to not support their kids. What 188 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:35,079 Speaker 5: makes you think that he's not going to do the 189 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:37,600 Speaker 5: same thing to you now that your your marriage is 190 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:40,080 Speaker 5: not legal, he can fuck around and get another girl 191 00:11:40,120 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 5: pregnant and can ditch you on the side as well. Like, yeah, 192 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:47,320 Speaker 5: insane behavior. Why why that other partner would go along 193 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:50,000 Speaker 5: well with it? If I were I'd leave this for 194 00:11:50,640 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 5: the curb, Like both women should just leave this person. 195 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 4: But yeah, the reason I'm not like, I mean, she 196 00:11:57,280 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 4: is an asshole, like like I said, But the reason 197 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 4: and I'm less because I don't know what he's said 198 00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 4: to her to convince her that this is okay, you 199 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:07,160 Speaker 4: know what I mean, Like what he has told the 200 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:09,559 Speaker 4: other partner, Like he could be like, oh, she's crazy, 201 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 4: or like built her as this villain and in her 202 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 4: mind and so she doesn't give a fuck. That's where 203 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 4: That's where I'm like, like, you're an asshole for you know, 204 00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 4: being with a married man. But also I don't know 205 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 4: what he's painted because he's already tried gaslating opie, so. 206 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 2: He shows manipulate and yeah light, so I don't know 207 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 2: what extent he's gone to on the other. 208 00:12:32,240 --> 00:12:35,760 Speaker 3: Kind of brainwashed this other person as well. Yeah, but 209 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 3: I gotta say, you know, if you're fake married to 210 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:41,920 Speaker 3: already married, fake married is crazy. 211 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:46,160 Speaker 2: What is with a fake name? And then kid with 212 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 2: the fake name you don't feel a little. 213 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 4: Bit like betrayed or like yeah, any I'm the second 214 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:54,480 Speaker 4: family kind of thing like yeah. 215 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:56,720 Speaker 3: Nothing, fake name, you don't even get the real name, 216 00:12:56,880 --> 00:12:58,359 Speaker 3: Like that's wild. 217 00:12:58,640 --> 00:12:59,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. 218 00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:00,960 Speaker 4: I thought the twist was going to be that she 219 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:03,600 Speaker 4: finds out that that's actually his real name and she's 220 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:04,439 Speaker 4: found the fake name. 221 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 2: I thought that was twist. 222 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:07,640 Speaker 3: I mean, I thought this was going to be like 223 00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:10,240 Speaker 3: a secret agent or some ship man, like live in 224 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:14,280 Speaker 3: a double life, double double life, as in a whole 225 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:15,440 Speaker 3: other family. 226 00:13:15,760 --> 00:13:20,480 Speaker 5: My god, I'm just insane having one. 227 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:26,319 Speaker 3: I can imagine having, you know, a whole life. No, 228 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 3: I don't have to imagine. 229 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:31,360 Speaker 2: I live. I live. Having a life is exhausting. Guys, 230 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:36,679 Speaker 2: just manage life. One life. I can't even deal with 231 00:13:36,720 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 2: this one right now. Two whole lives, two whole lives, what. 232 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:44,920 Speaker 4: Do you do with I mean, you have two jobs, 233 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:47,839 Speaker 4: Sean kind of this podcast in your actual job. 234 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:52,200 Speaker 2: That's true. So it's a lot of work, I imagine. 235 00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:56,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's and I can't Yeah, two whole families dedicated, 236 00:13:56,840 --> 00:13:58,959 Speaker 3: and I assume he's just not dedicating time. 237 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 2: To either one that that well, no. 238 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 3: All, if he has zero, I gotta imagine he's not 239 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:08,120 Speaker 3: very present at home. 240 00:14:08,240 --> 00:14:11,520 Speaker 2: No know how he has a job to be honest, honest, 241 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:14,720 Speaker 2: Where you get that energy? Like you need you need 242 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:16,319 Speaker 2: to be studying just for the energy alone. 243 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:17,960 Speaker 5: I don't give a shit about you as a person, 244 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 5: but my guy, I need some of that in my 245 00:14:20,520 --> 00:14:25,360 Speaker 5: life because I'm constantly tired, Like double fire, Where where 246 00:14:25,400 --> 00:14:25,800 Speaker 5: is in. 247 00:14:25,680 --> 00:14:27,840 Speaker 2: Your What kind of gas do you put in your body? Bro? 248 00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:30,920 Speaker 2: Like unletted, like you a eighty seven ninety one? What 249 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:31,480 Speaker 2: do you have? 250 00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 3: Because I'm jealous? Fringes, All right, this is our second story. 251 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 3: This is oh it has been deleted, but we got 252 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:46,240 Speaker 3: the screenshots. Boys, there all is not lost. This second 253 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 3: story is from our slash Confessions posted from or posted 254 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:58,000 Speaker 3: by Outside ground score Flamingo ground score two four six 255 00:14:59,280 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 3: ba and not and uh they'll be back later. This 256 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 3: episode two four times in one week is pretty crazy. 257 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:10,120 Speaker 4: Crazy kudos to you. I don't know what the record is, 258 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:13,720 Speaker 4: but it's got to be up there. I guess this 259 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:16,400 Speaker 4: is equal. I don't think there's a trigger warning, but 260 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:17,520 Speaker 4: just be warned. 261 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 2: This is uh. 262 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:23,000 Speaker 3: Opie is pretty despicable, and I guess gas lighting or 263 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:26,760 Speaker 3: manipulation is also in play here. So the last guy then, 264 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 3: so essentially the last guy a comeback? 265 00:15:30,560 --> 00:15:31,320 Speaker 2: Is he worse? 266 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:40,560 Speaker 3: One could say? You know, it depends different situations. Both times, 267 00:15:40,440 --> 00:15:46,600 Speaker 3: this is a boyfriend lies to support his own fetish. 268 00:15:46,960 --> 00:15:50,560 Speaker 3: I does he suck his own dick? No, that would 269 00:15:50,560 --> 00:15:55,280 Speaker 3: be much less support. 270 00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:03,080 Speaker 2: The story. Okay, physical maybe. 271 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:08,800 Speaker 3: All right, I twenty six year old male currently live 272 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:13,400 Speaker 3: with my girlfriend, twenty four year old female, and you know, 273 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:17,840 Speaker 3: more evidence that this is uh, you know, while close 274 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 3: this does. 275 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 2: Rule of twenty six twenty four. Yeah, I mean that 276 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 2: one is fine. Yeah, that's fine, Sean. 277 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:28,240 Speaker 3: But I'm just saying where the story goes, it's just 278 00:16:28,400 --> 00:16:32,160 Speaker 3: more evidence for my rule. Okay, but but yeah, but 279 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:35,440 Speaker 3: in the grand scheme of things, that's fine. 280 00:16:35,440 --> 00:16:38,240 Speaker 2: Now, don't worry about that, don't get al Yeah one 281 00:16:39,800 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 2: like a, you're just trying to get more evidence. I'm 282 00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:43,200 Speaker 2: just trying to get more evidence from my point. 283 00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 3: Really, every story, I'm just trying to choose ones with 284 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 3: age guests, Like. 285 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:50,400 Speaker 4: Let's see, he's gonna he's got a big board in 286 00:16:50,440 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 4: the background we can't see. 287 00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 2: It's just look at. 288 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:59,320 Speaker 3: Marrying his longtime girlfriend who's aged twenty four or something 289 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:04,639 Speaker 3: like that. Yeah that's great. Yeah you day, Yeah, you 290 00:17:04,760 --> 00:17:12,320 Speaker 3: fucking joke stealer. Anyways, she has no idea the lengths 291 00:17:12,359 --> 00:17:18,639 Speaker 3: of my own fat fetish. Basically, wait what fat fetish? 292 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:23,280 Speaker 3: Basically I think that bigger is better. This is a 293 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 3: disgusting comment the way he words this, all the way 294 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:30,359 Speaker 3: up to the point of immobility, which is my personal limit. 295 00:17:30,920 --> 00:17:35,560 Speaker 3: I yeah, So he his ideal situation is him to 296 00:17:35,600 --> 00:17:38,439 Speaker 3: get a woman to not be able to move and 297 00:17:38,480 --> 00:17:40,359 Speaker 3: then to him be like, well that's too much and 298 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:43,280 Speaker 3: then dip, which is okay. 299 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:46,240 Speaker 2: I mean, you can like any kind of body type 300 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:47,520 Speaker 2: you want, I. 301 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 3: Gues, but so push them to immobility and then to 302 00:17:51,480 --> 00:17:53,600 Speaker 3: leave wants to leave them after you push them. 303 00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:56,200 Speaker 4: Oh I was I was just saying, like he's trying 304 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:58,480 Speaker 4: to find someone like that. He's not pushing anyone to that. 305 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:03,760 Speaker 5: Well, well we're about to okay, okay, maybe the story 306 00:18:03,840 --> 00:18:08,240 Speaker 5: so okay, yeah, yeah, I'm concerned now okay. 307 00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, I've had this fetish since I was a teenager. 308 00:18:11,080 --> 00:18:15,520 Speaker 3: And also I've watched what is it thousand pounds sisters 309 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:18,240 Speaker 3: or something like that. Okay, and then one of the 310 00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 3: girls always like has a boyfriend who is very much 311 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:24,119 Speaker 3: I forget the term that they have for but they 312 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:30,120 Speaker 3: they feed them because it feeds into this type of fun. 313 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:33,960 Speaker 3: So it's like they like they're trying to you know, 314 00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:36,919 Speaker 3: because for health reasons, being five hundred pounds is not 315 00:18:37,520 --> 00:18:40,480 Speaker 3: that you know what I mean. So they'll like, the 316 00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:42,520 Speaker 3: sisters are trying to lose weight, but one of them dates, 317 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:46,440 Speaker 3: like constantly dates dudes who are you know, you don't 318 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:50,840 Speaker 3: need to do that. Yeah, actively against trying their body. 319 00:18:51,160 --> 00:18:52,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, going against her health. 320 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 3: So this guy is saying he's essentially one of those guys. 321 00:18:57,080 --> 00:18:58,000 Speaker 2: Gross. Okay. 322 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:01,760 Speaker 3: My girlfriend was fat when we met and sort of 323 00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:05,920 Speaker 3: insecure about it, but also bought into the body positive 324 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 3: stuff to a certain extent. She was about two hundred 325 00:19:09,040 --> 00:19:12,119 Speaker 3: and fifteen pounds at five five two years ago. Since 326 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:14,320 Speaker 3: meeting and moving in with me, she has gained forty 327 00:19:14,320 --> 00:19:15,440 Speaker 3: five more pounds. 328 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:20,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. I was about to say me, that's me right now. 329 00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:23,440 Speaker 4: I mean it's not that's not bad. I mean, yeah, 330 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:28,439 Speaker 4: it's fine, yeah, but it hurts. I'm not fine, right, 331 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:31,040 Speaker 4: But there's other people who live healthy and be that 332 00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 4: weights well. 333 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:35,320 Speaker 3: Since meeting and moving in with me, she has gained 334 00:19:35,359 --> 00:19:38,440 Speaker 3: forty five more pounds, putting her at two hundred and 335 00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:41,639 Speaker 3: sixty pounds and considered morbidly obese. 336 00:19:42,040 --> 00:19:46,080 Speaker 2: I'm considered morbidly obese. Y'all that famous story. 337 00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:50,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, while she's definitely concerned about the health risk and everything, 338 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:54,439 Speaker 3: she simply eats too much and exercises too little for 339 00:19:54,480 --> 00:19:58,240 Speaker 3: her to stop slowly gaining weight. Nevertheless, she is very 340 00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:02,520 Speaker 3: naturally pretty and is mostly confident about her looks due 341 00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:06,760 Speaker 3: to my compliments, her naturally pretty face, body positive messaging 342 00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:09,720 Speaker 3: on social media, and a family slash friend group that 343 00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:13,040 Speaker 3: is devoid of brutally honest people. God, the way he 344 00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:17,639 Speaker 3: writes this makes me so sick. Anyways, It's just like 345 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:21,919 Speaker 3: he's he's making it sound like those good things like 346 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:25,040 Speaker 3: are are I don't know, I don't know. I just 347 00:20:25,040 --> 00:20:29,680 Speaker 3: don't like positives. Yeah, yeah, I don't know. Okay, It's 348 00:20:29,760 --> 00:20:33,160 Speaker 3: like all these positive things are working into my fevor 349 00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:38,719 Speaker 3: of Oh, it's one of those classic Reddit stories of 350 00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:41,920 Speaker 3: like in cel fantasies. Is kind of wow, I'm hearing 351 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:46,760 Speaker 3: that's written out. I put on a facade well, which 352 00:20:46,840 --> 00:20:50,000 Speaker 3: further you know, and yeah, I'm talking too much. I'll 353 00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:54,280 Speaker 3: just read the story. Yeah, I'm I hate this guy 354 00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:58,040 Speaker 3: so much that I keep commenting before the listener understands 355 00:20:58,080 --> 00:20:58,480 Speaker 3: the story. 356 00:20:58,600 --> 00:21:00,520 Speaker 2: So that's my apologies with me right now. 357 00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:03,440 Speaker 4: I'm like, Okay, he sounds maybe like a supportive boyfriend. 358 00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:06,320 Speaker 4: I have no idea. Yeah, and that's that's all without 359 00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:09,240 Speaker 4: the context you've provided. I'm like, you know, maybe he's fine, 360 00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:12,240 Speaker 4: but he sounds fine. Yeah, I guess it's. 361 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:13,640 Speaker 2: Not this next sentence. 362 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:16,160 Speaker 3: I put on a facade of a boyfriend who loves 363 00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:18,760 Speaker 3: her no matter her size. Okay, and that has just 364 00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 3: a mild preference for plus sized women. But I am 365 00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:25,480 Speaker 3: consciously aware that my attitude has caused her to deprioritize 366 00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:28,520 Speaker 3: losing weight since she already has a fit man who 367 00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:31,360 Speaker 3: loves her no matter her size. I stalk the house 368 00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:34,199 Speaker 3: with her favorite treats and occasionally joke with her that 369 00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:37,720 Speaker 3: I'm fattening her up. If she ever wants to occasionally 370 00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:40,120 Speaker 3: go to the gym or make a healthier meal choice, 371 00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:42,919 Speaker 3: I encourage her every now and again. This makes her 372 00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:45,080 Speaker 3: think that I would have no issue with her losing 373 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:49,280 Speaker 3: a substantial amount of weight. In reality, though, I know 374 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:53,679 Speaker 3: that her exercising slash dieting efforts will be intermittent at best, 375 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:55,639 Speaker 3: and that she's not going to lose a lot of 376 00:21:55,680 --> 00:22:00,159 Speaker 3: weight anytime soon without making some serious lifestyle changes that 377 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:03,080 Speaker 3: she simply isn't going to make without a wake up call. 378 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:05,880 Speaker 3: I hope no wake up call comes for a few 379 00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:10,639 Speaker 3: years and a few dozen pounds at least. Jesus, she 380 00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:14,720 Speaker 3: still acts and dresses like a conventionally attractive woman, and 381 00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:18,760 Speaker 3: for some reason, the thought of her being delusionally confident 382 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:21,639 Speaker 3: about her body in public really turns me on. 383 00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:25,680 Speaker 2: Not only confident, Yeah, what the fuck? 384 00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:28,879 Speaker 3: She still and he says she still dresses and acts 385 00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:33,720 Speaker 3: like a conventionally attractive yeah yea, which you know makes 386 00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:38,040 Speaker 3: it sound like he doesn't think she's attractive. Uh yeah, Oh, 387 00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:40,719 Speaker 3: And like calling her delusional for being confident in her 388 00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:45,240 Speaker 3: body is absolutely insane. So he doesn't really support her, 389 00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:48,159 Speaker 3: is basically what he says. He's just using it to 390 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:53,720 Speaker 3: get his fetish fetish fulfilled. Yeah, the other night she 391 00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:56,520 Speaker 3: went clubbing with some girlfriends. We live in La so 392 00:22:56,800 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 3: there's a very popular club scene with lots of sledge 393 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:03,960 Speaker 3: under conventionally attractive women, and she warn't outfit that probably 394 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:07,639 Speaker 3: would only fit properly if she was thirty pounds lighter. 395 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:11,240 Speaker 3: It was designed to be tight and revealing anyway, and 396 00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:14,640 Speaker 3: her obese body only made it more so. Her fat 397 00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:17,719 Speaker 3: was bulging out everywhere, with muffin top, fat rolls and 398 00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:21,639 Speaker 3: cellulite on full display. She shared videos and pictures of 399 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:23,960 Speaker 3: that night out on social media, and I knew what 400 00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:27,639 Speaker 3: she really looked like, a bloated, delusional, fat woman. It 401 00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:31,200 Speaker 3: turns me on so much to know that the skinny 402 00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:33,760 Speaker 3: la girls in the club and other men were likely 403 00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:36,080 Speaker 3: judging her and she was oblivious to it. 404 00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:39,280 Speaker 4: He likes that, he thinks he thinks the other people 405 00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:41,880 Speaker 4: are judging her, and he likes that. That's fucked up. 406 00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:44,600 Speaker 5: I don't think this guy has like that type. I 407 00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:49,320 Speaker 5: think he has a humiliation kink at this point kind of, 408 00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:52,879 Speaker 5: but for other people. So it's just people. Yeah, fucked 409 00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:53,280 Speaker 5: you guys. 410 00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:55,600 Speaker 3: See where I'm coming from when I say I do now. 411 00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah. The hate was coming and strong before the 412 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:01,959 Speaker 3: hate should have nonetheless deserved hate. 413 00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:04,960 Speaker 2: Just yes, yea, yeah fuck this guy. 414 00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:09,000 Speaker 3: Her friends, all much slimmer than her, all encourage her 415 00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:12,960 Speaker 3: confidence to quote unquote support other women and all that. 416 00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,359 Speaker 3: I don't really care why they do it. I just 417 00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:17,320 Speaker 3: love that no one in her life is going to 418 00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:20,800 Speaker 3: tell her the hard truth. And I'll just enjoy being 419 00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:24,520 Speaker 3: with such an attractive to me woman. 420 00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:34,320 Speaker 5: Oh dude, I I fuck yeah violence yeah, Like what 421 00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:37,440 Speaker 5: the fuck kind of shit is that? Like so many 422 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:42,000 Speaker 5: backhanded compliments and that like oh she's just she's. 423 00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:46,160 Speaker 2: So pretty she blah blah blahs. What are you talking about? Man? 424 00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:47,359 Speaker 2: This is crazy? 425 00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:50,520 Speaker 4: Well, he clearly doesn't care, like he's never in not 426 00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:53,640 Speaker 4: once in that story did he mention like personality who 427 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:56,679 Speaker 4: she is, like like other than her weight, and he 428 00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:59,520 Speaker 4: just he focused on weight in every singer, like her 429 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:00,520 Speaker 4: friends are slimmer. 430 00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:05,640 Speaker 2: It goes to a nightclub where you know, girl's conventionally pretty. 431 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:09,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, well she's not conventionally pretty or those nightclub people 432 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:13,760 Speaker 4: are conventionally pretty. Like he's very focused on, uh, just 433 00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:16,560 Speaker 4: aesthetics of people and not who they are as people. 434 00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:20,440 Speaker 4: And it's it's gross to like fetishize someone that much 435 00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:22,800 Speaker 4: where it's just it's like you clearly don't care about them, 436 00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:26,960 Speaker 4: you're just using her, uh and and probably you know 437 00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:30,520 Speaker 4: it sounds like leading her towards an unhealthy lifestyle if 438 00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:32,800 Speaker 4: you're just force feeding her or whatever he's doing, like 439 00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:35,719 Speaker 4: joking about that, Like it sounds like he probably is 440 00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:41,520 Speaker 4: feeding her unhealthier then maybe she wants to be who knows, crazy. 441 00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:45,320 Speaker 2: I'm lost for words with this guy, Like I said. 442 00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:47,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, this guy, I don't know what the first time 443 00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:50,199 Speaker 3: I read it, and then I was rereading it to 444 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:53,719 Speaker 3: you guys and the Wickhamaniacs the whole time. I'm just like, 445 00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:56,879 Speaker 3: it kind of makes my skin crawl, like the uh, 446 00:25:57,560 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 3: just like his like for him to be so comfort 447 00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:03,320 Speaker 3: trouble saying all these things to her face and then 448 00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:07,920 Speaker 3: to just be like so diabolical behind her back. And 449 00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:10,359 Speaker 3: we deal with a lot of that, I guess, you know, 450 00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:13,520 Speaker 3: there's a lot of diabolical people who you know, are 451 00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:16,640 Speaker 3: lying to people in their lives, and we we deal 452 00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:18,480 Speaker 3: with a lot of that in these stories, but I 453 00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:22,160 Speaker 3: don't know, this one just felt like it's especially calculated, 454 00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:27,719 Speaker 3: especially like like does not care about really he mentioned 455 00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:30,480 Speaker 3: that she cares about her health, but he never mentioned 456 00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:33,880 Speaker 3: his own concerns about her health. Is just the fact 457 00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:37,440 Speaker 3: that he's like, oh my kink is up into immobility 458 00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:39,720 Speaker 3: and then I'm out, which and then like, given his 459 00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:42,359 Speaker 3: actions later in the story, it just implies to me 460 00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:47,000 Speaker 3: that he would be okay, uh leaving no, Yeah, he 461 00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:50,679 Speaker 3: would be okay up to the point to where she 462 00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:55,840 Speaker 3: is immobile, and then he would just be like, well that's. 463 00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,199 Speaker 2: You know, which expect. 464 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:01,919 Speaker 4: Don't care about her as a person, and he just 465 00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:03,879 Speaker 4: sees her as a body. 466 00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:07,200 Speaker 2: And that's the part that like disturbs me the most. 467 00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:10,120 Speaker 5: You know, Like if I found out that, like if 468 00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:12,879 Speaker 5: like let's say, like Julia, like everything she does is 469 00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:15,840 Speaker 5: just a facade, right, Like you get so sucked into 470 00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:18,159 Speaker 5: having a supportive partner, and I'm like, and you you 471 00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:20,280 Speaker 5: kind of see like, oh, hey, this person is supportive 472 00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:21,399 Speaker 5: of me and all that. 473 00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:23,159 Speaker 2: Of course your confidence is going to go up. 474 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,439 Speaker 5: And and if I ever find out that that was 475 00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:28,120 Speaker 5: all a lie and I was just to satisfy some 476 00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:32,000 Speaker 5: sort of a need to feel better about themselves or 477 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,840 Speaker 5: like a kink that needs to be you know, appeased 478 00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:38,480 Speaker 5: in some way, I would be devastated, Not just like 479 00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:41,560 Speaker 5: physically because of course, like all the damage that he's 480 00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:44,119 Speaker 5: doing to her body already, like you know, doing all 481 00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:47,840 Speaker 5: this stuff, but like I would just be done with everything. 482 00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:50,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, well, just it makes you question everything 483 00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:54,000 Speaker 4: and going forward, everything exactly. She deserves a partner who's 484 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,359 Speaker 4: supportive in her body and who she is as a person, 485 00:27:57,160 --> 00:28:01,040 Speaker 4: like genuinely right and so like not just for sex, 486 00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:04,760 Speaker 4: kin yeah exactly, so going forward, it's like and. 487 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:10,000 Speaker 5: Josh, sorry for like cutting off this, like but the 488 00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:13,520 Speaker 5: thing is too is it seems like the girl in 489 00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:16,080 Speaker 5: this story she knows that she has work to do, right, Like, 490 00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,320 Speaker 5: she knows that she's aware and for a lot of 491 00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:21,439 Speaker 5: times like, uh, that's that's kind of the battle with 492 00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:23,159 Speaker 5: a lot of people is like hey, you know, like 493 00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:24,680 Speaker 5: oblivious to their situation. 494 00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:27,879 Speaker 2: But this person is very much aware and wants to try. 495 00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:31,320 Speaker 5: But the manipulation and the gas lighting of a partner 496 00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:34,560 Speaker 5: who who who just like on a surface just be 497 00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:37,480 Speaker 5: oh man, like yeah, you're okay, You're gonna be fine 498 00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 5: and all that, but really it's it's just so diabolical, 499 00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:44,440 Speaker 5: and it's easy to fall into that trap of feeling 500 00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:46,840 Speaker 5: comfortable because someone is gassing you up, you know, But 501 00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:48,760 Speaker 5: it's this is evil. 502 00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 2: This is top five evil people probably, and we say 503 00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:56,120 Speaker 2: that it changes a lot by the week, But this 504 00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:58,960 Speaker 2: is a horror move, a horror. 505 00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:01,720 Speaker 5: Movie character like This guy is just straight up the devil. 506 00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:03,960 Speaker 4: I was gonna say, at a certain point the evil 507 00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:06,080 Speaker 4: just becomes blended and they're all kind of the same. 508 00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:07,440 Speaker 2: They're all evil. 509 00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:10,560 Speaker 4: It's like the same level of of hell, you know 510 00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:10,880 Speaker 4: what I mean? 511 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:15,880 Speaker 3: We really need to have a wicked maniac just someone 512 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:18,560 Speaker 3: ten list of evil people. 513 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:20,640 Speaker 2: They will do a year end where we go for 514 00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:21,960 Speaker 2: the try and figure out the top ten. 515 00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:25,680 Speaker 3: Would yeah, we could do it for our live in 516 00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:26,560 Speaker 3: person live. 517 00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:29,360 Speaker 2: Stream m Yeah, yeah, I could do some one. We're 518 00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:33,240 Speaker 2: going to rank the top ten most evil. This is 519 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:36,120 Speaker 2: like way till March Territory. 520 00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:42,560 Speaker 3: We'll do like, we'll do a March like shots to do. 521 00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:46,840 Speaker 5: We've there's bound to have at least like what sixteen 522 00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:49,720 Speaker 5: people that we get see. 523 00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:55,440 Speaker 2: You're right, Oh my god. Number one Randy Orton from 524 00:29:55,520 --> 00:30:01,080 Speaker 2: episode with the cookies. I didn't let them have a cookie. 525 00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:04,160 Speaker 3: Sound great to you. 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