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Speaker 1: Brooking Jews. Second date update. Do you want to know

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Speaker 1: if you're absolutely terrible at dating? This is the one

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Speaker 1: way to do it. Second date updates Again. If you

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Speaker 1: go out with someone and they blow you off and

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Speaker 1: you want to find out why, I just email us.

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Speaker 1: We'll call them for you to get to the bottom

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Speaker 1: of the problem. We've got Becky on the phone right now.

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Speaker 1: She emailed us about a guy named Xavier. Hi, Becky,

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Speaker 1: what's going on? I think that elations Brook also. Thanks. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I dated a lot before I found one to get

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Speaker 1: married too, So don't you worry. I had a lot

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Speaker 1: of no callbacks in my life. Unless the issue with

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Speaker 1: Xavier was that you told him you wanted to get

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Speaker 1: married right away, then we are. We don't even need

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Speaker 1: to call him. Hey, I'm trying to make her feel

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Speaker 1: better about the situation. All right, I've been there, That's

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Speaker 1: all I'm saying, Becky, I've been there. What happened? So?

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Speaker 1: I met Xavier last last week at church and we

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Speaker 1: went out one night and we went to dinner. It

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Speaker 1: was really it was a great dinner. I mean he

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Speaker 1: was just so sweet, paid for dinner and everything, and

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Speaker 1: we went back to his house afterwards. And prayed all night. Right,

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Speaker 1: we didn't do it, but there is something that I

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Speaker 1: really didn't want to do. But we did do a

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Speaker 1: little more than kissing. And um, it was really weird

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Speaker 1: because at some point he just stopped and like kind

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Speaker 1: of stopped the whole thing and was like, I gotta go,

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Speaker 1: I gotta go. I gotta be somewhere tomorrow morning. So

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Speaker 1: I was like, okay, well, and he was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, I'll give you a call. And I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It's been like a week now, and I'm just wondering

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Speaker 1: what happened. Okay, you know, have you tried to get

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Speaker 1: a hold of him, No, because I just I mean,

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Speaker 1: if he wants to bite me, I would assume that

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Speaker 1: he would call me. I don't I kind of want

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Speaker 1: to be courted. Yeah. Yeah. Could he have had a

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Speaker 1: midnight church service that Lydia got it, didn't she? And

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Speaker 1: you're upset because you weren't invited? Okay, Becky, UM, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna call him right after this. We're gonna ask him

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Speaker 1: why he hasn't called you or anything. Okay, you'll get

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Speaker 1: your second date update next Frooking jubil in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Second Date Becky emailed us about a guy that she

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Speaker 1: went on a date with who she met at church.

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Speaker 1: His name is Xavier. They had dinner, um went back

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Speaker 1: to his place and kind of fooled around a little bit,

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Speaker 1: and then and I don't know, a certain point, he like,

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Speaker 1: you feel like he got freaked out, Becky, I don't

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Speaker 1: think he got freaked out. So he just stopped what

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Speaker 1: you guys were doing and said he had to go

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Speaker 1: right Okay, okay, and then he was a good kisser.

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Speaker 1: You'd kiss him again. Yes, he's a great kisser. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So you're into it, Becky's into it. Okay, We're gonna

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Speaker 1: call him right now. Hello, I was looking for Xavier.

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Speaker 1: This is see Hey man, how are you? This is

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Speaker 1: Jewil from brook and Jewel in the morning. I'm moving

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Speaker 1: ninety two point five. Oh yeah, I tell you man

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Speaker 1: that you're the frank guy. Yeah, I am no man,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to man. This is not how a

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Speaker 1: phone tap usually starts. I don't usually introduce myself, Rob

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Speaker 1: the bat. I'm calling about something else, Xavier. I just

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Speaker 1: want to ask you if you know a girl named Becky. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she looks good. I don't be Okay, you met Becky

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Speaker 1: at church right like us went on jail. Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: hold out once we had drinks, we had a little

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Speaker 1: bike eat to so you know that thing, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean? I like you, Xavier. There's like no

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Speaker 1: question about Like you're not even asking why we're calling.

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Speaker 1: You're just like, yeah, whatever, man. My question to you

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Speaker 1: is why haven't you called her back after you guys

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Speaker 1: went out? Oh h Now you're hesitant. Man. You know

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Speaker 1: it just wasn't it just was the right you know?

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you know, yeah, Xavier, Xavier, Sometimes you know, yeah

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Speaker 1: is not an answer. Here's the deal. Help Becky to

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Speaker 1: understand maybe what went wrong so that she can learn

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Speaker 1: from it. Ah, you know, I don't want to from

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Speaker 1: a bad about nobody. Uh. She's so sweet, okay, but

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Speaker 1: I think she got commitment issues. She might be seeing

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Speaker 1: somebody else, you know, she got you know, Xavier, Xavier,

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Speaker 1: let me stop you right there, Like what do you

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Speaker 1: mean commitment issues and attachment issues and all that? Okay,

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Speaker 1: So we like making out doing a thing, you know whatever.

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Speaker 1: I get down around you know, around her back a

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Speaker 1: little lower. She got a tattoo of this dude's name

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Speaker 1: on her back, like she's a sailor. Okay, so she

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Speaker 1: had a tattoo of another dude's name on her and

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Speaker 1: is that when you stopped making out with her when

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Speaker 1: you saw that? You know, like whose property has been?

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean? You know what I mean, Like,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry you wait, wait, wait, that's why you haven't

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Speaker 1: called me back. Hello, Xavier, that's Becky. She's on the

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Speaker 1: phone with us right now. Um, go ahead. Becky asked

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Speaker 1: him a question. So you just saw my tattoo on

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Speaker 1: my back and that's why you didn't call me back

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Speaker 1: because I had a name on there. Yeah, somebody else's name. Like,

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Speaker 1: what's that about? And that's only just what I saw?

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Speaker 1: What the Thames you got all over your body? You know,

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Speaker 1: first of all, maybe you should ask me what it meant. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's a guy's name, but it's my grandfather's name. That

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Speaker 1: meant a lot to me. Becky, did you get your

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Speaker 1: grandfather's name tattooed on your ass? It's not directly on

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Speaker 1: my ass, it is like, well, you know, it's like

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Speaker 1: was that, you know what I mean, Like, that's just

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Speaker 1: weird in itself. That's a little strange. Lower back tattoo

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Speaker 1: of a family member. Normally those are known as tramp stamps.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why you would put a family member

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Speaker 1: on your lower back. It's a little odd. Um, I

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Speaker 1: don't think I mean, I don't think it is. You know,

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Speaker 1: my grandpather me a lot to me, and that's I mean,

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Speaker 1: if it's somewhere hidden, I didn't want it to be

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Speaker 1: somewhere just blatantly out and open. Becky, how would you

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Speaker 1: feel if Xavier had his grandmother's name tattooed on his ass?

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Speaker 1: I get what you guys are saying, but it isn't

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Speaker 1: on my ass. It's not on my ass a little

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Speaker 1: bit above. It's more tasteful than that. Okay, Um, all right, Well,

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Speaker 1: the show will pay for you guys to go on

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Speaker 1: a second date if you want to. Becky, would you

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Speaker 1: want to go out on a second date with Xavier? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I would want to go out on a second date.

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Speaker 1: But I just hope that next time, if he has

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Speaker 1: an issue, he would just ask me, is that all

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Speaker 1: the tattoos you got? I mean, have one more that's

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Speaker 1: behind my neck? It's my mom. Oh, I tell that one.

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Speaker 1: That's true. Xavier knowing now that it's her grandfather's name,

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Speaker 1: and it's not completely on her ass um man. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. It's really close to ask y'all. Xavier's thinking

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Speaker 1: it this way. It says a lot that family is

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Speaker 1: important to her. Yeah, all right, whatever, Yeah, Xavier, you

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Speaker 1: play your cards right. Your name could be the next one.

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Speaker 1: Her action broken Juwil in the morning,