1
00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:05,360
Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all

2
00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:06,040
Speaker 1: don't know, y'all, but.

3
00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:23,599
Speaker 2: All at all given them black the million bus Bush Yeah.

4
00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:59,880
Speaker 3: Listening to show to Joy? Yeah, Joy, you don't use that.

5
00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:31,839
Speaker 4: Turn. You've gotta turn. I can't.

6
00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:44,080
Speaker 5: I got to turn the mouth turn. You probably got

7
00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:45,480
Speaker 5: to turn the mouth.

8
00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:59,560
Speaker 1: Water the morning up looking me? Come come on, you'll think,

9
00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:05,760
Speaker 1: uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody, y'all listening

10
00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:08,079
Speaker 1: to the voice, Come on, dig me now one and on.

11
00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:13,600
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show. Hell Man back in

12
00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:18,280
Speaker 1: business too, Man, Man, How good is God? I mean, really,

13
00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:20,240
Speaker 1: if you think about it in spite of all that's

14
00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:23,080
Speaker 1: going down in your life. First of all, it could

15
00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:26,959
Speaker 1: be worse. But secondly, sometimes you have to remember. And

16
00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:31,000
Speaker 1: I've just had to have this conversation with myself this morning.

17
00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:34,320
Speaker 1: That's how I'm fresh on this one right here. When

18
00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:39,000
Speaker 1: a challenge faces you, are you going through a difficult moment,

19
00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:41,359
Speaker 1: or you didn't hit a bump in the road in

20
00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:44,919
Speaker 1: the middle of that, if you could manage to be grateful,

21
00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:45,959
Speaker 1: it would take.

22
00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:46,679
Speaker 6: You a long way.

23
00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:52,240
Speaker 1: Gratitude is a powerful resource. If you can be grateful

24
00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:57,160
Speaker 1: in the middle of it. Gratitude is a powerful resource

25
00:02:57,639 --> 00:03:01,040
Speaker 1: when it's dim for you. And got a little bumpy

26
00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:04,200
Speaker 1: on the road, and he ran into some obstacles, and

27
00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:07,360
Speaker 1: you done ran up into some detailed signs, and your

28
00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:12,040
Speaker 1: journey ain't smooth as it was last week or last year.

29
00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:17,000
Speaker 1: You gotta be grateful for the things that are going

30
00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:20,720
Speaker 1: right and that have gone right, and for the thing

31
00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:22,799
Speaker 1: that's wrong right now to get right?

32
00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:23,440
Speaker 4: Man?

33
00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:24,600
Speaker 6: Can I share that with you?

34
00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:25,600
Speaker 4: Man?

35
00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:27,040
Speaker 1: Is that a tough one to learn?

36
00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:28,120
Speaker 6: It is for me.

37
00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:32,200
Speaker 1: It has been one of my toughest challenges is to

38
00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:36,640
Speaker 1: learn how to be grateful because it's a powerful resource,

39
00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:40,160
Speaker 1: but how to be grateful in moments of despair when

40
00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:42,920
Speaker 1: it ain't going right. See here's a mistake I would make.

41
00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:45,800
Speaker 1: See when something go wrong, I want to focus on

42
00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:49,520
Speaker 1: the wrong so much in an attempt to fix it.

43
00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:54,400
Speaker 1: But even then the focus ain't always in to fix it.

44
00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:58,640
Speaker 1: The focus becomes, Man, this is bad, man, I can't

45
00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:02,400
Speaker 1: believe this is happening. Why just keep going down? That

46
00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:07,360
Speaker 1: doesn't fix anything? You know, mealing over it, going over

47
00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:13,480
Speaker 1: what's wrong, explaining it, sharing it with your friends, you know,

48
00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:17,839
Speaker 1: making it sound worse than it is. Tell the story

49
00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:20,680
Speaker 1: for pity from other people. All of that right there,

50
00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:23,520
Speaker 1: has nothing to do with the fix. Sometimes you're just

51
00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:26,440
Speaker 1: mulling over it. You're just making it worse. You're just

52
00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:31,000
Speaker 1: making it a bigger problem. You're manifesting it into your atmosphere,

53
00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:33,480
Speaker 1: You're putting it out there in your spirit. Now, all

54
00:04:33,520 --> 00:04:36,200
Speaker 1: of a sudden, it consumes your day. Next thing, you know,

55
00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:39,200
Speaker 1: you're having a bad day. If you're having a bad day,

56
00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:42,720
Speaker 1: it's because you've been having some bad thoughts. So what

57
00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:44,520
Speaker 1: I've had to learn how to do, and what I'm

58
00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:48,240
Speaker 1: working on this morning is I'm working on the situation

59
00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:51,080
Speaker 1: that then cropped up. I was going kind of smooth

60
00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:53,600
Speaker 1: here for a minute, and now then got real bumpy

61
00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:56,040
Speaker 1: in the road, you know, and all this here. So

62
00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:58,920
Speaker 1: what I'm thinking about now, though, is even though I've

63
00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:01,560
Speaker 1: hit a bump in the road, and even though i

64
00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:05,480
Speaker 1: done ran into a detour, and even though I've hit

65
00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:09,159
Speaker 1: this lull, I'm going down into a valley, I ain't

66
00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:12,560
Speaker 1: up on the peak. Can I not still be grateful

67
00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:16,200
Speaker 1: for all the things that God has given me, for

68
00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:19,120
Speaker 1: all the things He's done for me, for all the

69
00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:23,640
Speaker 1: things He's brought me through, And realizing that even this

70
00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:27,040
Speaker 1: that's happening to me again is going to pass to

71
00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:29,760
Speaker 1: He gonna get me through that toode. Come on, man,

72
00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:32,320
Speaker 1: God is a good god man. It's a lot to

73
00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:34,880
Speaker 1: be grateful for. So while I'm tripping on this bumping

74
00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:37,200
Speaker 1: the road out and here, what I gotta remember is

75
00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:39,960
Speaker 1: all the things He's done for me. And like I say,

76
00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:43,679
Speaker 1: my saying is joint depression cannot reside in the same place.

77
00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:46,760
Speaker 1: So instead of being down about this new bumping the road,

78
00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:50,200
Speaker 1: if I'm constantly filling my mind with the thoughts of

79
00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:53,240
Speaker 1: how good he's been to me, of what all he's

80
00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:56,120
Speaker 1: done for me, of all the things he's brought me through,

81
00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:59,120
Speaker 1: of all the blessings he's presented me with. When I

82
00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:01,760
Speaker 1: go down that list, I really don't have a lot

83
00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:08,040
Speaker 1: of time to mull over the situation. Now. Do I

84
00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:10,560
Speaker 1: have to fix this bump in the row. Of course

85
00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:12,920
Speaker 1: I do. There's some things I'm going to have to

86
00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:15,760
Speaker 1: do to straighten it out, of course it is. But

87
00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:18,280
Speaker 1: Steve just going to get the business of doing it

88
00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:21,000
Speaker 1: and straighten it out. What you mulling over and worrying

89
00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:23,680
Speaker 1: about it for you know, old people. I heard old

90
00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:25,520
Speaker 1: people say something when I was growing up in the church.

91
00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:28,000
Speaker 1: They say, if you're gonna pray about it, don't worry

92
00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:30,240
Speaker 1: about it. But if you're gonna worry about it, don't

93
00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:34,360
Speaker 1: pray about it. That's an amazing thing. And prayer just

94
00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:37,400
Speaker 1: happens to be my weapon of choice now that it

95
00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:39,839
Speaker 1: ain't always been that way. I want you to understand

96
00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:42,440
Speaker 1: that my first weapon of choice was you do it

97
00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:45,000
Speaker 1: to me, I do it to you. You called me out,

98
00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:47,560
Speaker 1: I call you out. You say something bad about me.

99
00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:49,840
Speaker 1: I've tried to find you say something bad about you.

100
00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:53,320
Speaker 1: That was my weapon in the past. How did that

101
00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:56,880
Speaker 1: work out for you, Steve? Not so good? Because you

102
00:06:56,960 --> 00:07:00,680
Speaker 1: know what, I spent a lot of time fighting back,

103
00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:04,599
Speaker 1: kicking back, swinging back, when I could have spent all

104
00:07:04,680 --> 00:07:08,000
Speaker 1: that time climbing. See, all you trying to do at

105
00:07:08,040 --> 00:07:10,040
Speaker 1: the end of the day, folks, is have a better

106
00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:12,600
Speaker 1: life than the one you got. All you trying to

107
00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:15,160
Speaker 1: do is to improve your position in life. You know,

108
00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:18,200
Speaker 1: it's not my business to make sure you don't get

109
00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:20,520
Speaker 1: where you're going. I ain't got no time for that.

110
00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:23,960
Speaker 1: It's not my job to assure that you ain't as

111
00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:26,800
Speaker 1: high as me. I ain't got no time for that.

112
00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:30,720
Speaker 1: Your real mission and purpose is to have the best

113
00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:33,920
Speaker 1: life that you can have, to ascend to the highest

114
00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:37,240
Speaker 1: plateau that you can get to, to make your family

115
00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:40,520
Speaker 1: as comfortable as you can, to provide as much as

116
00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:43,760
Speaker 1: you can for your family. But legally, see, those of

117
00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:46,320
Speaker 1: us are sitting up here trying to come up with sideways.

118
00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:49,200
Speaker 1: You can ask a couple million men sitting in prison

119
00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:52,240
Speaker 1: today how they wish they hadn't done that, and they'll

120
00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:55,360
Speaker 1: tell you, Oh, man, I wish I never had did it.

121
00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:58,880
Speaker 1: I knew not to go down there. Something told me

122
00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:01,800
Speaker 1: not to go down there. Man. If I could change things,

123
00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:06,040
Speaker 1: I would. But they sitting somewhere doing some time that

124
00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:09,320
Speaker 1: had they made another decision they wouldn't have to do now.

125
00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:12,520
Speaker 1: That don't make them throw away people, nah, man, Because

126
00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:15,760
Speaker 1: everybody make mistakes, and God is in the forgiving business.

127
00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:18,559
Speaker 1: And some of us have done some things that really

128
00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:21,400
Speaker 1: broke the law, and a whole lot of other things

129
00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:23,720
Speaker 1: and deserve to do some time. But through the grace

130
00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:25,680
Speaker 1: of God, we didn't. But now we sit up here

131
00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:28,760
Speaker 1: we pass judgment on people who got to do some matter.

132
00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:31,080
Speaker 1: I don't care. I don't care what you've done. God

133
00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:35,080
Speaker 1: can forgive anything But our position, our motivation in life

134
00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:38,000
Speaker 1: is to try to have the best life we can

135
00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:40,920
Speaker 1: have and provide for those around us and make it comfortable.

136
00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:45,200
Speaker 1: If that's your ambition, you don't have time to worry

137
00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:49,720
Speaker 1: about or concern yourself with another person. And I wasted

138
00:08:49,840 --> 00:08:52,920
Speaker 1: time doing that, And that's not the way to get

139
00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:56,959
Speaker 1: it done. It's simply mine to your business. Taking care

140
00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:59,520
Speaker 1: of you and getting yourself right and tight is twenty

141
00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:02,480
Speaker 1: four seis. So that's a full time job. So what

142
00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:05,520
Speaker 1: I had to learn was and what I've the reason

143
00:09:05,559 --> 00:09:09,679
Speaker 1: I've chosen prayers as my weapon of choice now is

144
00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:13,319
Speaker 1: that now prayer helps me that I don't have to

145
00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:17,199
Speaker 1: fight back. Now, if I get cornered, I'm gonna fight you.

146
00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:20,120
Speaker 1: I ain't even gonna lie to you. And now I'm

147
00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:23,400
Speaker 1: still working on some things that trigger me. You know,

148
00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:27,440
Speaker 1: you know, you know, and and and and so I'm

149
00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:31,880
Speaker 1: I'm slowly getting better at that. But I've learned that

150
00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:36,120
Speaker 1: my weapon of choice is prayer now. So when it

151
00:09:36,320 --> 00:09:39,800
Speaker 1: happens ugly for me, I pray about it. When it

152
00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:43,079
Speaker 1: gets tight and dismal for me, I pray about it.

153
00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:48,360
Speaker 1: And the thing about prayer, man, is prayer changes things yes,

154
00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:53,440
Speaker 1: it does. Now read about it and try it. That's

155
00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:56,680
Speaker 1: the deal. Okay, come on, prayer is a wonderful weapon.

156
00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:04,280
Speaker 1: Morning show, ladies and gentlemen, we all hear the Steve

157
00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:08,000
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show is about to begin. Uh listen, it

158
00:10:08,360 --> 00:10:11,680
Speaker 1: is what it is. It's gonna be a great day today.

159
00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:16,360
Speaker 1: I predict it. I'm looking forward to it. Uh so

160
00:10:16,559 --> 00:10:19,280
Speaker 1: let us why don't we just started? Huh? Ain't no

161
00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:21,640
Speaker 1: need to delay in greatness. You know, if you know

162
00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:25,679
Speaker 1: something good about to happen, let it pop off immediately. So,

163
00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:30,280
Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, let's start. Shelley Strawbar, Hey, good morning, Steve.

164
00:10:30,360 --> 00:10:31,280
Speaker 4: How you doing.

165
00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:35,920
Speaker 1: Wonderful calling for real? Good morning, Steve, hump day? What's

166
00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:38,880
Speaker 1: up crew? Nothing with it? Junior morning.

167
00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:40,160
Speaker 7: It's gonna be a great day.

168
00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:48,160
Speaker 1: Come on, skip going to it. Come on, Steve, right there, a.

169
00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:50,400
Speaker 6: Morning like that.

170
00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:52,240
Speaker 1: That's what I'm doing it for. He told about to

171
00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:54,720
Speaker 1: do the call every morning. John Walker out of Rochester,

172
00:10:54,920 --> 00:10:57,800
Speaker 1: New York, taught me the greatest lesson I've learned. Nephew,

173
00:10:57,880 --> 00:11:02,040
Speaker 1: tell me, hey, top the morning. It's Wednesday, baby hump day?

174
00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:03,839
Speaker 5: Good Yeah, yeah, it is.

175
00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:07,760
Speaker 1: This guy named John Walker. Man, I was selling amway right,

176
00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:10,640
Speaker 1: and I'd been laid off from Ford Motor Company and

177
00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:13,959
Speaker 1: my life was just going nowhere. And he was my

178
00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:16,800
Speaker 1: direct distributor out of Rochester, New York. And he used

179
00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:21,559
Speaker 1: to call me every morning five o'clock in the morning. Hey,

180
00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:24,839
Speaker 1: Steve john Walker, how you doing, man? Gonna be a

181
00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:25,440
Speaker 1: great date.

182
00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:28,119
Speaker 6: I would answer the phone like this, Hello.

183
00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:31,880
Speaker 1: Hell, Steve john Walker, Man, have a great date. Click.

184
00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:32,560
Speaker 6: He'd hang up.

185
00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:39,480
Speaker 1: Next morning, five am. Hello, Hey Steve john Walker, how

186
00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:41,720
Speaker 1: you doing, man, Have a great day today. It's gonna

187
00:11:41,760 --> 00:11:44,679
Speaker 1: be a great date. Click. This went on, man for

188
00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:47,720
Speaker 1: two weeks in a row. I kid you not five

189
00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:52,160
Speaker 1: thirty five o'clock every morning, without fail he called me

190
00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:57,200
Speaker 1: and I answered the phone worse and worse. Hello, Steve

191
00:11:57,520 --> 00:12:01,240
Speaker 1: john Walker, how you doing, man? Be a great day today?

192
00:12:01,240 --> 00:12:03,679
Speaker 1: You have a great day. So about two weeks in

193
00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:07,400
Speaker 1: probably fourteen fifteen times I answered the phone.

194
00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:10,480
Speaker 6: I said hello. He said, hey, man, why do you

195
00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:10,800
Speaker 6: do that?

196
00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:14,040
Speaker 1: I said what? He said, Why do you answer the

197
00:12:14,160 --> 00:12:20,040
Speaker 1: phone like that? I said, because I'm sleep? He said, really,

198
00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:22,400
Speaker 1: are you where you want to be in life?

199
00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:23,440
Speaker 8: Huh?

200
00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:25,440
Speaker 1: Are you where you want to be in life?

201
00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:25,720
Speaker 4: I mean?

202
00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:26,160
Speaker 1: You good?

203
00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:27,760
Speaker 6: You straight? Right where you at?

204
00:12:27,800 --> 00:12:28,200
Speaker 9: You good?

205
00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:32,120
Speaker 1: I said, no, Man, when I'm sleep though, he said,

206
00:12:32,920 --> 00:12:33,880
Speaker 1: are you going to get there?

207
00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:36,160
Speaker 6: Sleep? I thought you were better than that.

208
00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:40,360
Speaker 1: I'm really disappointed in you, Man, Sorry to call you.

209
00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:42,839
Speaker 1: We'll try it again some other day.

210
00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:43,559
Speaker 6: Click.

211
00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:44,240
Speaker 1: He hung up.

212
00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:45,000
Speaker 6: Man.

213
00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:50,440
Speaker 1: All day long, that dude bothered me. Man, I couldn't

214
00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:54,640
Speaker 1: believe he said he was disappointed in me. The next morning,

215
00:12:56,280 --> 00:13:01,320
Speaker 1: that damn phone rang at five thirty. I said, Hey,

216
00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:03,280
Speaker 1: this is a great day. This is Steve Harvey.

217
00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:03,760
Speaker 8: Who is this?

218
00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:05,439
Speaker 7: He said, this is John Walker.

219
00:13:05,640 --> 00:13:08,000
Speaker 1: I said, hey, John, it's gonna be a great day.

220
00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:08,280
Speaker 8: Man.

221
00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:10,559
Speaker 1: Sure, hope you have a super day. Buddy, have a

222
00:13:10,640 --> 00:13:13,640
Speaker 1: great day. He said, Man, you too. Click he hung up.

223
00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:16,680
Speaker 1: I said, cool, all right, Cool. Let me tell you something.

224
00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:19,599
Speaker 1: I never knew that what he had prepared me for

225
00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:22,600
Speaker 1: was for something that God had for me. That one

226
00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:25,400
Speaker 1: day I was gonna be one of the top morning

227
00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:29,079
Speaker 1: men in America. Wow, because I know how to get

228
00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:29,880
Speaker 1: up in the morning.

229
00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:32,560
Speaker 6: I never saw that he taught me a great lesson.

230
00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:38,480
Speaker 1: Wow that like John BoNT Hey, everybody, listen, we're gonna

231
00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:39,400
Speaker 1: have a great day today.

232
00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:41,880
Speaker 7: Stay with us to see Purdy Morning Show. It's coming

233
00:13:41,960 --> 00:13:43,679
Speaker 7: right break. Don't you miss it.

234
00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:46,960
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

235
00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:49,600
Speaker 10: All right, it's time now to start your morning off

236
00:13:49,640 --> 00:13:51,599
Speaker 10: with the nephew and run that brank back what you

237
00:13:51,679 --> 00:13:52,559
Speaker 10: got for his nest?

238
00:13:53,240 --> 00:13:56,360
Speaker 6: You not graduating? Let's go get duff. Hello.

239
00:13:56,760 --> 00:13:59,640
Speaker 11: Hello, I'm trying to reach a Travonlea.

240
00:14:00,320 --> 00:14:00,959
Speaker 12: This is him?

241
00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:01,400
Speaker 10: What is this?

242
00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:05,360
Speaker 11: This is my name is Joseph work open student Affairs.

243
00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:06,120
Speaker 11: How you doing today?

244
00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:07,480
Speaker 12: I'm good? How are you?

245
00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:12,520
Speaker 11: I'm good? Listen, you're supposed to be. This is your

246
00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:16,079
Speaker 11: fifth year here at the university. You're graduating and in

247
00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:18,040
Speaker 11: the next seven eight days? Am I right?

248
00:14:18,559 --> 00:14:18,719
Speaker 10: Yes?

249
00:14:18,800 --> 00:14:18,959
Speaker 8: There?

250
00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:20,200
Speaker 12: Have you out of this joint?

251
00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:23,800
Speaker 11: Okay, listen, I'm giving you a call. We got a

252
00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:26,560
Speaker 11: bit of a problem here that we want to try

253
00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:28,680
Speaker 11: and discuss with you, and maybe we can get you

254
00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:30,520
Speaker 11: over at student Affairs and come in and have a

255
00:14:30,600 --> 00:14:32,080
Speaker 11: meeting with us. But we wanted to bring it to

256
00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:36,040
Speaker 11: your attention now. You took a one of your last

257
00:14:36,120 --> 00:14:39,680
Speaker 11: subjects was English, uh, and you had an English exam

258
00:14:40,440 --> 00:14:43,320
Speaker 11: with a You guys are writing an essay? Am I am?

259
00:14:43,360 --> 00:14:44,560
Speaker 11: I am? I correct about that?

260
00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:45,480
Speaker 1: Yeah?

261
00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:47,080
Speaker 8: Yeah, that's true.

262
00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:49,760
Speaker 11: Okay, it seems that we got some problems here that

263
00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:53,000
Speaker 11: the professor there is actually in sinulating that you may

264
00:14:53,080 --> 00:14:56,720
Speaker 11: have cheated on this, on this essay that you've actually.

265
00:14:56,520 --> 00:14:58,480
Speaker 12: Read what cheated.

266
00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:02,120
Speaker 11: I mean from what from what he's telling us here

267
00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:05,560
Speaker 11: at Student Affairs is that you may have plagiarized some

268
00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:08,680
Speaker 11: things that, uh, that were in your essay.

269
00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:09,920
Speaker 12: Dude, No, I didn't.

270
00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:12,120
Speaker 8: I didn't plagiarize nothing that was in the essay. Everything

271
00:15:12,280 --> 00:15:14,240
Speaker 8: is documented like it should be. So I don't know

272
00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:17,160
Speaker 8: what you're talking about, especially cheating on no exam or

273
00:15:17,240 --> 00:15:19,120
Speaker 8: no paper nothing like that. You must got be mixed

274
00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:19,960
Speaker 8: up with somebody else.

275
00:15:20,120 --> 00:15:23,480
Speaker 11: No, no, no, not at all. You're actually mister Trevron correct.

276
00:15:23,640 --> 00:15:24,240
Speaker 12: I mean that's me.

277
00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:26,840
Speaker 8: But I didn't cheat on no exam on no papers

278
00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:27,400
Speaker 8: for that matter.

279
00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:29,360
Speaker 11: Okay, well, let me let me try to bring you

280
00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:31,360
Speaker 11: up to speed here, Trevann. What we're gonna need is

281
00:15:31,400 --> 00:15:34,200
Speaker 11: we're gonna need you to actually come in and talk

282
00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:36,320
Speaker 11: to us over here at Student Affairs so we can

283
00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:39,120
Speaker 11: try to get this thing rectified. But I will let

284
00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:42,040
Speaker 11: you know, it's gonna take a few more days longer

285
00:15:42,160 --> 00:15:45,480
Speaker 11: than graduation. So as of right now, you're actually not

286
00:15:45,640 --> 00:15:48,760
Speaker 11: gonna be walking and graduating with the rest of the

287
00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:50,640
Speaker 11: students made.

288
00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:52,240
Speaker 12: Man, you got me messed up?

289
00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:53,000
Speaker 11: What do you mean?

290
00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:54,240
Speaker 12: I'm not gonna be walking.

291
00:15:54,240 --> 00:15:57,640
Speaker 11: Well until we get this situation rectified here. You're not

292
00:15:57,760 --> 00:16:00,280
Speaker 11: gonna be graduating with the rest of the student now.

293
00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:02,920
Speaker 8: And I don't know what y'all gotta do, but y'all

294
00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:04,320
Speaker 8: need to figure it out and find out what the

295
00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:04,680
Speaker 8: problem is.

296
00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:04,840
Speaker 6: Man.

297
00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:07,440
Speaker 8: I ain't a cheat on no exams thell you're talking about, Dude,

298
00:16:07,520 --> 00:16:09,560
Speaker 8: My family is coming down here and you're talking about

299
00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:11,640
Speaker 8: seen it on an English exam till I look like

300
00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:14,720
Speaker 8: she's on an example and I'm getting ready to graduate. Man, Now,

301
00:16:14,800 --> 00:16:17,080
Speaker 8: y'all need to fix it, like right now, like today while.

302
00:16:16,880 --> 00:16:17,560
Speaker 12: We're on the phone.

303
00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:20,480
Speaker 11: We can't do that. It's a little it's a sensitive subject,

304
00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:23,320
Speaker 11: and like I said, it seems like it's plagiarism. You know,

305
00:16:23,520 --> 00:16:25,280
Speaker 11: if we can get you to actually come over to

306
00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:29,200
Speaker 11: student affairs next wednesday, Man, you got me so.

307
00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:32,400
Speaker 8: What you mean next wednesday? Dude, I'm graduating in a

308
00:16:32,480 --> 00:16:35,280
Speaker 8: few days. Since you're talking about next wednesday. Man, why

309
00:16:35,440 --> 00:16:38,400
Speaker 8: my professor didn't give me a call? Why you calling me, sir?

310
00:16:38,880 --> 00:16:41,240
Speaker 11: This is not something that professors actually take care of.

311
00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:44,200
Speaker 11: This is a student affairs situation now, and it's a

312
00:16:44,320 --> 00:16:46,200
Speaker 11: very sensitive situation. And what we want to do is

313
00:16:46,240 --> 00:16:48,200
Speaker 11: try to get this thing taken care of. And if

314
00:16:48,240 --> 00:16:51,880
Speaker 11: you if what you're saying is actually true, then you'll

315
00:16:51,960 --> 00:16:55,440
Speaker 11: probably graduate in AUGUSTA you got me.

316
00:16:55,680 --> 00:16:58,040
Speaker 8: I'm telling you right now, this is a you got

317
00:16:58,120 --> 00:16:59,160
Speaker 8: me August.

318
00:17:00,000 --> 00:17:01,520
Speaker 13: I'm graduating this semester.

319
00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:04,119
Speaker 8: I've been here too long to go through some my

320
00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:06,679
Speaker 8: last few weeks of school and you're talking about August.

321
00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:12,040
Speaker 13: Ain't even right, man, You ain't even telling to hear

322
00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:13,960
Speaker 13: what you got to say. Man, My family is coming

323
00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:14,880
Speaker 13: down here from.

324
00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:17,080
Speaker 8: Everywhere to see me graduating. Man, I'm the first dad

325
00:17:17,119 --> 00:17:18,520
Speaker 8: to graduate from my family.

326
00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:21,040
Speaker 14: You're talking about some tut my cheating on the paper

327
00:17:21,280 --> 00:17:24,280
Speaker 14: a paper, a paper than.

328
00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:24,639
Speaker 1: You got me.

329
00:17:25,040 --> 00:17:27,440
Speaker 8: Manm I'm gonna work two and three jobs to see

330
00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:30,160
Speaker 8: me to this school and now come getting ready to graduate.

331
00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:32,359
Speaker 8: And you're talking about I had to wait till August

332
00:17:32,440 --> 00:17:32,960
Speaker 8: to graduate.

333
00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:33,360
Speaker 12: Man.

334
00:17:33,520 --> 00:17:35,359
Speaker 8: Hell now, I'm on my way.

335
00:17:35,240 --> 00:17:36,120
Speaker 13: To the office right now.

336
00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:38,440
Speaker 8: And you can tell whoever the professor is that I'm

337
00:17:38,480 --> 00:17:40,239
Speaker 8: on my way and he needs to be there too, sir.

338
00:17:40,600 --> 00:17:42,359
Speaker 11: I can really tell you is that when try and

339
00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:44,679
Speaker 11: get this thing rectified and early next.

340
00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:46,280
Speaker 13: Wednesdayay man, what's your name again?

341
00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:48,000
Speaker 12: And where's where is your office?

342
00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:49,960
Speaker 11: I'm in suiting the affairs. I'm Joseph.

343
00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:52,200
Speaker 8: Okay okay, okay, okay. So I'm about to get in

344
00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:54,239
Speaker 8: my car right now and I'm about to come over

345
00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:56,439
Speaker 8: there and we're gonna have the list today. And how

346
00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:59,560
Speaker 8: you singing the meot cheating on the exam or paper? Man?

347
00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:03,199
Speaker 11: Is that? Sir? All the thing is a profession man

348
00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:05,240
Speaker 11: that there's a possibility of plagiarism here?

349
00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:06,480
Speaker 13: Man, are you kidding me?

350
00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:10,440
Speaker 14: Dude, I've been here five he is, I'm the first

351
00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:12,359
Speaker 14: love a graduate from Commas.

352
00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:14,160
Speaker 8: Man, grandmama is eighty two.

353
00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:16,400
Speaker 14: He is, Oh that she come in here and see

354
00:18:16,440 --> 00:18:19,440
Speaker 14: me graduate. And you're telling me the somebody seeing on

355
00:18:19,520 --> 00:18:23,600
Speaker 14: the paper and I gotta wait till I'll get to graduates. Man, Man,

356
00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:27,040
Speaker 14: you tell that professor to come to your office right now, because.

357
00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:27,960
Speaker 13: I'm already in my car.

358
00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:29,800
Speaker 8: All my way that comes from your office and we're

359
00:18:29,800 --> 00:18:32,680
Speaker 8: gonna handle this today. Say man, you got me.

360
00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:35,639
Speaker 11: I don't have any more room on my schedule to

361
00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:37,560
Speaker 11: actually pull anybody in today.

362
00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:39,040
Speaker 14: Or he's gonna call me.

363
00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:40,000
Speaker 11: With like this.

364
00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:43,200
Speaker 8: You ain't got room on your schedule. Fan, Hell now,

365
00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:46,320
Speaker 8: miss Mitchell, whatever your name is. I'm on my way

366
00:18:46,359 --> 00:18:49,200
Speaker 8: to your office right now, and I'll tell you. I'll

367
00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:51,640
Speaker 8: tell you, and I'm telling you up front it's gonna

368
00:18:51,640 --> 00:18:54,640
Speaker 8: be a problem that I ain't graduating in a few days.

369
00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:55,520
Speaker 11: You have to deal with me.

370
00:18:55,760 --> 00:18:57,760
Speaker 13: You have to deal with my family, my mama.

371
00:18:58,000 --> 00:18:59,400
Speaker 8: We don't play this thing you got.

372
00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:03,440
Speaker 11: Us, aren't, sir? I understand? Is there a possibility that

373
00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:05,440
Speaker 11: maybe you plagiarized and didn't.

374
00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:08,000
Speaker 12: Know that you did that? You mean the painting was

375
00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:09,560
Speaker 12: already new?

376
00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:11,520
Speaker 11: Sir? Can I can? I? Can I tell you one

377
00:19:11,560 --> 00:19:13,480
Speaker 11: more thing and then and then I'll ask you can't.

378
00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:15,760
Speaker 13: Tell you say you're not ready to call me something.

379
00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:18,239
Speaker 8: I can't graduate with my class after I didn't been

380
00:19:18,280 --> 00:19:21,440
Speaker 8: this for five years, the seconds and setting myself, and

381
00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:24,160
Speaker 8: you're telling me I can't graduate until August. You ain't

382
00:19:24,160 --> 00:19:25,119
Speaker 8: got to tell me.

383
00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:27,399
Speaker 11: I do have one more thing I need to tell you,

384
00:19:27,480 --> 00:19:30,359
Speaker 11: and then I'll let you be on your way. Okay, man,

385
00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:32,639
Speaker 11: go ahead? Can I tell you what I want to

386
00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:32,879
Speaker 11: tell you?

387
00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:33,640
Speaker 8: Go ahead?

388
00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:34,520
Speaker 12: I'm telling you this.

389
00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:37,840
Speaker 11: It was nephew Timmy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

390
00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:42,080
Speaker 11: You just got print phone call by your best friend Brian.

391
00:19:43,200 --> 00:19:53,840
Speaker 13: What hello, man, dude, somebody gonna playing jokes like that?

392
00:19:54,040 --> 00:19:57,000
Speaker 8: Dude, Maybe you know how hard I work to get

393
00:19:57,000 --> 00:19:59,920
Speaker 8: out this five years five years.

394
00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:04,800
Speaker 11: Man, you are the first black male and your family

395
00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:07,600
Speaker 11: to graduate from college. You're doing a.

396
00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:08,760
Speaker 8: Big boy man.

397
00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:09,080
Speaker 1: I know.

398
00:20:09,200 --> 00:20:11,359
Speaker 12: Man, it's been the journey. I can say you's been

399
00:20:11,400 --> 00:20:11,760
Speaker 12: a child.

400
00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:14,800
Speaker 11: I got one more and ask you, baby, what he is?

401
00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:17,359
Speaker 11: What is the baddest that, I mean, the baddest radio

402
00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:18,560
Speaker 11: show in the land.

403
00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:21,720
Speaker 13: Man, it's at Steve Harvey Morning Show.

404
00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:23,600
Speaker 1: I'm so all right.

405
00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:25,000
Speaker 5: That's me right there.

406
00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:27,040
Speaker 7: Thank you.

407
00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:30,640
Speaker 10: Coming up next it is ask the CLO Chief Love

408
00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:32,320
Speaker 10: Officer Steve Harvey in the building.

409
00:20:32,680 --> 00:20:36,520
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

410
00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:40,160
Speaker 10: All right, guys, and it's time for us the CLO

411
00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:42,480
Speaker 10: Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building.

412
00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:43,160
Speaker 7: Steve.

413
00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:46,879
Speaker 10: This one is from Marquita in Norfolk. Marquita says, my

414
00:20:47,040 --> 00:20:49,120
Speaker 10: husband and I have a twenty five year old son

415
00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:51,520
Speaker 10: and he's been staying with my husband's mother to help

416
00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:54,160
Speaker 10: her since she had surgery five months ago.

417
00:20:54,680 --> 00:20:56,359
Speaker 1: My son is ready to move out and get on

418
00:20:56,520 --> 00:20:58,280
Speaker 1: with his life. But my mother in law.

419
00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:02,200
Speaker 10: Pitched a fit and that she can't live alone. My

420
00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:04,520
Speaker 10: husband's way of solving the problem is to tell his

421
00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:06,840
Speaker 10: mom she can move in with us so she won't

422
00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:10,600
Speaker 10: be lonely. There is no way I'm living with this

423
00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:14,960
Speaker 10: manipulative old woman. My husband and my son are under

424
00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:18,040
Speaker 10: her spell. But I'm not what should I do?

425
00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:21,760
Speaker 1: Well, she definitely can't move into your house if you

426
00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:27,440
Speaker 1: don't want her. The boy wants to go and be

427
00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:31,280
Speaker 1: on his own. He's twenty five. I mean, is she

428
00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:34,000
Speaker 1: does she need help or she just don't want to

429
00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:36,399
Speaker 1: live alone. If she don't want to live alone, we

430
00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:37,879
Speaker 1: don't have to get you. We have to get you

431
00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:42,480
Speaker 1: some company now, not to senior citizen home home. Well,

432
00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:44,320
Speaker 1: you know, we can drive you down there and let

433
00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:47,000
Speaker 1: you meet some friends or something, but you can't. You're

434
00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:51,760
Speaker 1: not living in him and she probably is manipulative, and

435
00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:54,080
Speaker 1: she has a son and a grandson on the spell.

436
00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:56,080
Speaker 1: But the boy don't want to be under the spell

437
00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:58,000
Speaker 1: no more. He wants to move and go live his life.

438
00:21:58,000 --> 00:21:59,760
Speaker 1: And you can't expect a twenty five year old boy

439
00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:03,440
Speaker 1: to care grandmama now and not her husband wants to volunteers.

440
00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:05,760
Speaker 1: She can move here with y'all, so y'all won't be alone.

441
00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:10,320
Speaker 1: But you ain't gonna be watched TV. And it's gonna

442
00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:11,760
Speaker 1: cause a problem in her marriage.

443
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:22,720
Speaker 15: You have no hell no old people hear everything, all right?

444
00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:28,359
Speaker 1: So what should she do? Set her husband down and

445
00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:31,600
Speaker 1: explain to her feelings she doesn't want to live with anybody,

446
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:36,080
Speaker 1: and can they make some other arrangements? Yeah? I like that.

447
00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:38,520
Speaker 5: Do you use the word heppa?

448
00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:42,400
Speaker 12: Mother?

449
00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:44,600
Speaker 6: Jay? I don't think you'll be able to do that?

450
00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:50,240
Speaker 1: All right? Moving on, BEV and Delaware rights.

451
00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:53,000
Speaker 10: I'm dating a guy I've known most of my life,

452
00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:55,680
Speaker 10: but I've never thought of him as my type until recently.

453
00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:58,879
Speaker 10: We haven't been intimate, but we do a lot of

454
00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:02,400
Speaker 10: kissing and touch. I noticed that he doesn't wear underwear,

455
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:06,159
Speaker 10: and it's becoming a problem because it moves all around

456
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:09,480
Speaker 10: and it's out of control most of the time. This

457
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:12,280
Speaker 10: is a turnoff for me and a possible deal breaker.

458
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:15,560
Speaker 10: How can I be honest and tell him he needs underwear?

459
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:17,719
Speaker 10: Or is this normal nowadays?

460
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:18,440
Speaker 1: Lady?

461
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:21,800
Speaker 6: Well, are you for real? Are you for real?

462
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:25,840
Speaker 1: A deal breaker is a man don't wear underwear? See

463
00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,520
Speaker 1: let me tell you something, Bell. You may not have

464
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:31,160
Speaker 1: thought of him that way, but he been thinking about

465
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:33,840
Speaker 1: you that way. That's why he ain't got no draws

466
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:37,959
Speaker 1: off what happened one more times?

467
00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:39,040
Speaker 13: See what happened?

468
00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:42,840
Speaker 1: Mail was talking about she's never thought of him that way,

469
00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:46,520
Speaker 1: but now they're getting sack romantic. They haven't had secret

470
00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:48,000
Speaker 1: to do it, but they do a lot of kitchen

471
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:51,760
Speaker 1: and kissing and touching and it is moving all around

472
00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:54,639
Speaker 1: because he don't wear underwear. And she say that's a

473
00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:58,720
Speaker 1: turnoff to her. So is that a deal breaker because

474
00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:01,680
Speaker 1: he don't wear underwear? How the hell is a man

475
00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:05,440
Speaker 1: don't wear underwear a deal breaker? How stupid is that?

476
00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 1: And what I was trying to tell Bev was you

477
00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:10,920
Speaker 1: may not have thought of him in that way while

478
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,920
Speaker 1: y'all growing up, but he been thinking about you that

479
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:17,560
Speaker 1: wait the whole time. Thus that's why he ain't got

480
00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:23,119
Speaker 1: on no damn underwear, because we one step closer to

481
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:27,880
Speaker 1: glory without this underwear command, you know, And since you're

482
00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:30,720
Speaker 1: doing all this stuff with it, you might want to,

483
00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:33,680
Speaker 1: you know, just try everything. And I don't need no

484
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:38,119
Speaker 1: you know, tidy white is and boxes all up in

485
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:42,840
Speaker 1: the way. But how is that a turn off though,

486
00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 1: and a deal breaker. Maybe she is the one that

487
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:47,359
Speaker 1: just bouncing around.

488
00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:48,960
Speaker 5: You know, everyone.

489
00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:52,680
Speaker 6: Want you to get your hands off of it.

490
00:24:56,040 --> 00:25:01,200
Speaker 1: That's exactly what it says, Yeah, she saying, read it, Shirley,

491
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:01,880
Speaker 1: read the letter.

492
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 10: I noticed that he doesn't wear underwear, and it's becoming

493
00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:08,040
Speaker 10: a problem because it moves all around and it's out

494
00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:09,680
Speaker 10: of control most of the time.

495
00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:13,320
Speaker 1: And how does she know it move unless you have this,

496
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:16,880
Speaker 1: unless you have noticed the location before, but you can

497
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 1: notice it with your eyes. You're staying with her hands.

498
00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:21,240
Speaker 6: Shirley, you didn't read the whole letter.

499
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:22,200
Speaker 8: What is this?

500
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:27,680
Speaker 1: They can touch a lot, okay, bounce, so what is

501
00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 1: a touching? Surely you can stop all this being innocent now,

502
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:42,640
Speaker 1: I could read these letters as a Christian all right, yeah,

503
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:44,359
Speaker 1: stop reading these letters like that.

504
00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:50,280
Speaker 10: Okay, it's bouncing all around and it's control most of

505
00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:50,840
Speaker 10: the time.

506
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:52,919
Speaker 6: And what is supposed to be.

507
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:58,439
Speaker 10: She's asking is this normal nowadays? Or should she tell

508
00:25:58,520 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 10: him she needs underwear?

509
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:02,880
Speaker 1: You can tell him he needs underwear, But what if

510
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:08,280
Speaker 1: you keep touching it? Fall? What do you think is

511
00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:13,399
Speaker 1: gonna happen? Is this oneman? Stupid? Don't I don't see it?

512
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:13,880
Speaker 7: That way.

513
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,680
Speaker 1: I just don't, Sureley, what do you think problem is?

514
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:17,760
Speaker 1: Did now you tell me?

515
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 10: I just think that he doesn't wear underwear period and

516
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 10: because it's out of control most of the time.

517
00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:28,840
Speaker 1: Because we want something to happen. A man don't wear

518
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 1: draws when he's anticipating something happening. Yeah, that's what wear most.

519
00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:41,080
Speaker 10: He can't wear underwear if it in cases something does happen,

520
00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 10: it's something wrong underwear.

521
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:46,359
Speaker 1: I mean taking him off whatever happened to. Excuse me,

522
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:47,680
Speaker 1: excuse me, excuse me.

523
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:49,800
Speaker 6: Let's stop this right here, let's stop.

524
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:53,480
Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on, hold on.

525
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:55,960
Speaker 6: Let me just say this that I ain't in your piousness.

526
00:26:57,440 --> 00:26:58,600
Speaker 6: Let me just make this statement.

527
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:03,400
Speaker 1: Let's go to the next y'all don't wear underwear all

528
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 1: the time either. Let's move on to the next damn questions.

529
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:10,479
Speaker 1: It's not all the time most of the time. All right,

530
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:16,600
Speaker 1: it's not about Yeah, that's your celo. I'm six. We

531
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:19,240
Speaker 1: don't have enough time for this one, Steve, because we

532
00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:22,000
Speaker 1: said it too much time with y'all in disbelief that

533
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 1: he don't have no damn underwear. Hell you, thank you,

534
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:30,200
Speaker 1: you're listening Morning show.

535
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:35,840
Speaker 10: All right, here we go as promised, this is uh,

536
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:39,359
Speaker 10: this is for the ladies. We want to help you

537
00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 10: get your get you to get your man to open

538
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 10: up because you know, they don't like to talk about stuff.

539
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:47,359
Speaker 10: You know, yeah, they don't like to talk about their

540
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:51,920
Speaker 10: feelings and all that, and women as women, we love that. Yes,

541
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:54,600
Speaker 10: so yeah, so this is how to get your man

542
00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 10: to talk about his feelings. And Steve, please see if

543
00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,000
Speaker 10: you agree with this. Guys, see if you agree with this,

544
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:01,919
Speaker 10: because they're not known to do this. So, ladies, if

545
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:04,399
Speaker 10: you're tired of guessing how your man feels, here's some

546
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 10: pointers for you to get your guy to share. All right, Steve,

547
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:10,359
Speaker 10: let's see if you agree be trustworthy? How about that

548
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:11,680
Speaker 10: for a guy to Okay?

549
00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:18,840
Speaker 1: What right there? So I didn't even hardly get it out.

550
00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:21,199
Speaker 6: I understand what you say. For a guy, it's your

551
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:22,439
Speaker 6: man to open up.

552
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:23,480
Speaker 1: What okay?

553
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:25,920
Speaker 10: Yes, okay, So if you want your guy to open

554
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 10: up and share his emotions with you, he's got to

555
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:29,399
Speaker 10: be able to trust you.

556
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:31,280
Speaker 1: Okay, he did it.

557
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:34,400
Speaker 6: That's what it means. Tommy. Okay, I got I didn't

558
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 6: ask you to be.

559
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, you didn't even let me get it out, Tommy?

560
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 10: Anything trust Yeah, all right, treat him as an equal. Okay,

561
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 10: so he's your partner, he's your husband, he's your man.

562
00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 10: You know, he's your boo whatever, So don't treat him

563
00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 10: liked No.

564
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 1: I ain't had it. What do you mean, you know,

565
00:28:58,400 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 1: treat you like an equal?

566
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 6: Uh? What happened?

567
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 1: I'm just saying.

568
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:04,200
Speaker 6: I ain't saying who it was.

569
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 1: I'm just saying we didn't say who. Yeah, you're being

570
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:13,200
Speaker 1: treated equal. Now I'm being treated equal. Now you know, Okay,

571
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 1: I've been I've actually been a slave.

572
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:25,000
Speaker 10: I mean, you know, if that's the game you're playing,

573
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:27,880
Speaker 10: that was that the game you were playing or something?

574
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:30,480
Speaker 10: You know how people roll roll rehearsal.

575
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 1: Uh, there wasn't no game. He was a slave. Give

576
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 1: me shoes. What are you talking about?

577
00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:39,360
Speaker 6: Rolling reversal? No?

578
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:41,720
Speaker 1: You know how you play with your mate?

579
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 5: You role play when you talk. Yeah, the whole talk,

580
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:46,200
Speaker 5: the whole time.

581
00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:49,480
Speaker 1: Never made eye contract. You have been in such a

582
00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:52,880
Speaker 1: bad relationship that they be sleep on your own in

583
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 1: the morning and you have a decision to make. Do

584
00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 1: I run the risk of pulling my arm out in

585
00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 1: the waking her up, or do I just chew it?

586
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:12,360
Speaker 1: Aft To tell you something, man, I damn it. I

587
00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 1: damn that had got it off. But I started crying

588
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 1: because I had been betting into my shoulder. Blood was everywhere.

589
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 1: She won't come with blood all around in my mouth?

590
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 1: What are you doing? I was trying to chew wow,

591
00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:38,920
Speaker 1: so this wouldn't happen. Yeah, but she heard me. Whipper Steve,

592
00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:45,120
Speaker 1: what are you crying?

593
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:46,040
Speaker 7: Why are the blood on.

594
00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:51,240
Speaker 1: Your trying to eat my athing, which obviously I didn't

595
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:52,080
Speaker 1: do this.

596
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 6: Blood everywhere on these sheets?

597
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:56,600
Speaker 1: You mess these sheets? And what are you doing? I'm sorry, hey,

598
00:30:58,040 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 1: just trying to leave your ass sleep.

599
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:01,560
Speaker 6: That is what I was trying to do.

600
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:06,600
Speaker 1: My bag. God, let me go to the hospital and

601
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:13,880
Speaker 1: get these eighty five stitches put in my shoulder. Bat

602
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:16,120
Speaker 1: like it I had. I had most of the meat

603
00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:17,920
Speaker 1: in my mouth, so they was able to pack it

604
00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:21,800
Speaker 1: on and restructure shoulder. Go ahead, all right.

605
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:25,280
Speaker 10: You know, like compliment with him when he does something, well,

606
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 10: that's a good way to get him to open up,

607
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:30,560
Speaker 10: like yeah, like, you know, compliment of the things he

608
00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 10: does well, you know, in case he's self conscious or something.

609
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 1: You know, oh honey, I like the way you did this,

610
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 1: or you know whatever, whatever, that's all you're gonna do.

611
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 1: That's what you've heard.

612
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 6: That's what I get.

613
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 1: That's what you get to.

614
00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:49,280
Speaker 6: Who told you to put that on? Told me one

615
00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 6: time you got on full different blacks. Them blacks, right,

616
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:54,800
Speaker 6: that's four different blacks you got on them pants. Gonna

617
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 6: go with that jacket, that shirt that's full different blacks.

618
00:31:58,440 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 1: That's ugly.

619
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 5: That's the way you want T shirts around? Where you going?

620
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:07,720
Speaker 6: Yeah?

621
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, all of a sudden, you just gonna put on

622
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 5: a clean T shirt. Now the blue.

623
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:20,360
Speaker 1: Change of behavior? All right, You got to pick the

624
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:21,160
Speaker 1: right time.

625
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 10: Okay, don't start asking him about his feelings when he's

626
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:27,200
Speaker 10: rushed or when he's distracted or watching the game and

627
00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:30,960
Speaker 10: stuff like that. You gotta ease into it. Ladies, that

628
00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 10: it is right here.

629
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 1: So you just gonna sit down and ain't gonna talk

630
00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:37,200
Speaker 1: to me. But I'm watching the damn game. Oh the

631
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 1: game is more important than me.

632
00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:45,560
Speaker 6: Yes, I know. Before you go to work, we need

633
00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:48,360
Speaker 6: to talk. Yeah, this game is pretty big. They're only

634
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 6: gonna play this once a year.

635
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 1: Did you actually say those words? But you're getting said.

636
00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:02,880
Speaker 10: Here's another one. Watch your approach, how you approach it.

637
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:05,720
Speaker 10: Don't just push it down his throat, you know. Yeah,

638
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:08,800
Speaker 10: be gentle, be non judgmental. You know you want him

639
00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 10: to open up. You don't want him to run away

640
00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:12,000
Speaker 10: from the conversation.

641
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 16: Cause you shure, don't want to put that down your throat. Yeah,

642
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 16: you don't want to do you don't put you done

643
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:22,560
Speaker 16: out right? Hello, and watch your body language, ladies.

644
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:24,520
Speaker 1: We're just moving on. We're just moving on.

645
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 10: Watch, yes, watch your body language, you know. Yeah, keep

646
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 10: yourself cool, keep your you know, don't forget. You're trying

647
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 10: to make him feel safe and not judged. Okay, so

648
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 10: you know'll be cool about it. I'll be sexy with him.

649
00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:43,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I'm learning. It's good. You got that one, Steve.

650
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 1: If you cool with that one, watch your body language,

651
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:46,880
Speaker 1: watch your body lane.

652
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 5: Do you hear me talking to you?

653
00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 1: You're listening hard morning show time for Would you rather?

654
00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 10: Would you rather live three days on the moon or

655
00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:02,040
Speaker 10: would you rather give your pass code to your mate?

656
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 6: I'm kicking it with how long it.

657
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 1: Take you get to the moon? Colding my wife? She

658
00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:11,759
Speaker 1: got it anyway? Okay, So Steve, give up his past.

659
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:14,160
Speaker 1: You're going to the moon.

660
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:17,839
Speaker 6: And leave it in the morning, in the morn.

661
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 1: You gotta be on there for three days on the

662
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:25,440
Speaker 1: moon and when I come back, I got my phone.

663
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:38,080
Speaker 6: Right, Okay, Junior, with you, I'm coopilot with Tommy crazy.

664
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 1: Give your past, that's not in your vous, all right?

665
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:52,440
Speaker 10: Would you rather eat only steak and lobster for.

666
00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:55,400
Speaker 1: A whole week? Or would you rather be vegan for

667
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:59,879
Speaker 1: a week taking lobster or a vegan? You're taking lots

668
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:02,520
Speaker 1: way more fun. I'm on my second day. Is that

669
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:05,840
Speaker 1: with talking to me about no damn steak and loft?

670
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 1: You guys, that's all I want right now.

671
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:14,800
Speaker 6: I'm gonna do that. I'm gonna do the vegan. You

672
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 6: just have to do it for a week, all right, Really,

673
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 6: probably what I need to do anyway, Right, that's true?

674
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 1: All right?

675
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:29,480
Speaker 10: Would you rather go roller skating naked? Just go roller

676
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:32,360
Speaker 10: skating naked or go bowling in dress shoes?

677
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:35,840
Speaker 1: I'm in the dress shoes. I know I'm gonna fall skating.

678
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:38,800
Speaker 1: I know I'm gonna fall, and you can fall in

679
00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:43,880
Speaker 1: your dress. Yeah, but I got that whole damn clothes on.

680
00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, it's hard to skate holding

681
00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:55,160
Speaker 1: yourself and fall to You need your arm, You need

682
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:59,920
Speaker 1: your arms. You gotta brace yourself. Yeah, you can't eat

683
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 1: got over that bott the wall and grab the rail

684
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:08,720
Speaker 1: and nothing. You're trying to cover yourself dat singing?

685
00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:13,239
Speaker 8: All right?

686
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:17,200
Speaker 10: Would you rather have your belly kissed? Or would you

687
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:18,720
Speaker 10: rather have your thigh kissed?

688
00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:19,719
Speaker 13: Thigh?

689
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 6: Either one? You down that way? I want you to

690
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:23,960
Speaker 6: be thigh you.

691
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 1: Either one? Junior?

692
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:29,120
Speaker 6: Oh no, why y'all asked these questions?

693
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:29,880
Speaker 7: I don't.

694
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:43,400
Speaker 1: Steve, Steve, Well, you kissed my thigh. Your head probably

695
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:53,160
Speaker 1: against me. That's the beginning of a wonderfully right your

696
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:54,000
Speaker 1: hair touched me.

697
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:56,879
Speaker 7: What we're ending on that note?

698
00:36:57,600 --> 00:37:02,640
Speaker 1: That's today's rounded. Would you rather you're listening morning show?

699
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:06,400
Speaker 10: All right? Steve, our very own j Anthony Brown is

700
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:09,759
Speaker 10: always here with the foolishness. Can count on him. He's

701
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:11,800
Speaker 10: got details on his brand new book, tell us about it.

702
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 5: You just finished my new book, Steve, and it's called

703
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 5: one hundred and one Ways to Start an Argument. Several

704
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:22,800
Speaker 5: chapters in the book. Chapter one, you know, laugh on

705
00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:28,399
Speaker 5: the phone for no reason, just just laugh. So, m yeah,

706
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:33,600
Speaker 5: it would start an argument is laughing? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

707
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:37,320
Speaker 5: Chapter Chapter seven is a real good chapter. Take a

708
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:40,759
Speaker 5: shower in the middle of the day, just just showering. Yeah,

709
00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:41,680
Speaker 5: what you're going on?

710
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 1: Showering.

711
00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:42,920
Speaker 6: That's a.

712
00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 5: On Sunday. This is a good one for Sunday. Say

713
00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:51,520
Speaker 5: say I'm going to a different church by myself.

714
00:37:51,719 --> 00:38:01,879
Speaker 1: That's what you say on there's gonna be well over there.

715
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:06,799
Speaker 5: Here's another way ways to start an argument. Yeah, put

716
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:09,120
Speaker 5: an empty bag in the closet and just walk away.

717
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:12,640
Speaker 5: Just put it up there and just walk away. Yeah,

718
00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:14,319
Speaker 5: once and that. Don't worry about that. Don't go up there.

719
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 1: Don't go up there.

720
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:17,600
Speaker 7: You mean, don't go up there.

721
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:20,440
Speaker 5: Don't go up there, don't go up there. All right,

722
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:23,080
Speaker 5: ways to start an argument, say this phrase right here.

723
00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:26,879
Speaker 5: This really works. Say I'll be right back and leave,

724
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:30,720
Speaker 5: just leave, just leave, I'll be right where you're going.

725
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:33,319
Speaker 5: I'll be right back. I don't worry about where I'm going.

726
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:34,120
Speaker 5: I'll be right back.

727
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 6: I mean war everybody.

728
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, just walk here. You just phrase right here on

729
00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:46,920
Speaker 5: the phone. Just really gets an argument. Say good job, Becky,

730
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:48,120
Speaker 5: I'll see you tomorrow.

731
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:51,280
Speaker 6: Up the phone, Becky.

732
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:53,160
Speaker 1: With the good hair bit.

733
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:56,360
Speaker 6: Why the hell you got to encourage Becky?

734
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:03,040
Speaker 1: What you're doing? Some damn good job, Becky. What's she

735
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:06,800
Speaker 1: doing something? But your black ass gots to be commenting

736
00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 1: on it?

737
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:10,799
Speaker 5: This my new book how to start an argument as

738
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:15,279
Speaker 5: your mate, your lady. When's the when's your friend coming

739
00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:15,759
Speaker 5: over here?

740
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 6: You know when.

741
00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:23,239
Speaker 1: She've it over here?

742
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 4: In the while?

743
00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:24,520
Speaker 6: Where is she coming here?

744
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:25,080
Speaker 10: She?

745
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:29,080
Speaker 8: Oh?

746
00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 6: No, Yeah, that starts right off the track.

747
00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:37,440
Speaker 1: He's a pretty good jay.

748
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:37,880
Speaker 6: Argument.

749
00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, here waves and started argument. No matter what movie

750
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:43,759
Speaker 5: she says you want to go to, you say, oh,

751
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:44,680
Speaker 5: I've seen it already.

752
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:50,799
Speaker 10: I sh' you're going to movies, okay, have.

753
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:51,880
Speaker 9: Time to go see it.

754
00:39:57,520 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, I've seen that one.

755
00:39:58,680 --> 00:39:59,719
Speaker 1: Listen, I've seen that.

756
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:00,600
Speaker 6: I've seen it.

757
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:05,040
Speaker 5: I've seen it. Here's another one. Here's another one. Ways

758
00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:08,600
Speaker 5: of starting argument. You on the phone and you laugh

759
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:11,880
Speaker 5: real damn loud, and then you stop whispering.

760
00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:19,400
Speaker 6: You've been married a bunch of fans.

761
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:23,400
Speaker 1: This is why he's divorced.

762
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:28,759
Speaker 6: You know how to run somebody off? Can I get

763
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 6: you one?

764
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:29,879
Speaker 1: Give me one?

765
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:31,479
Speaker 5: Give me one. I put it in the book.

766
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:47,520
Speaker 1: Buy your wife some running shoes far color.

767
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, man, yeah, buy some running shoes that do it. Yeah.

768
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:00,719
Speaker 5: All of a sudden, all all of us sitting in

769
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 5: the middle of the day, you put on a clean shirt.

770
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:07,360
Speaker 6: You woke up in one shirt and put on another.

771
00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:10,920
Speaker 1: What you change your shirts for?

772
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:13,880
Speaker 5: Can I just put on a new shirt?

773
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:16,320
Speaker 1: No, No, you cannot.

774
00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 5: What's wrong with all?

775
00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:19,920
Speaker 7: Can just go in the bookshack?

776
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 6: Can I just add one more? Last one?

777
00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 11: Yeah?

778
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 1: Ways to start an argument in your house, guaranteed. Come on,

779
00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 1: what come in from work and pull your pants off

780
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:45,360
Speaker 1: and ain't got no drawers? All right? Thanks Jay and Steve.

781
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:49,480
Speaker 1: You just command with you. I'm love you.

782
00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:51,360
Speaker 5: Up next with today's.

783
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:59,320
Speaker 1: Ain't frank phone call? Right after that, you're listening morning

784
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:02,520
Speaker 1: show coming up at the top of the hour, guys.

785
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:05,239
Speaker 10: Right about four minutes after, it's today's Strawberry letter, the

786
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:09,720
Speaker 10: subject I'm in the military and I've never enlisted. Okay,

787
00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:13,000
Speaker 10: right now, nephew in the building with today's prank phone call.

788
00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:13,799
Speaker 8: What you got for us?

789
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 6: Nev Here we go, wash and foe? What wash and foe?

790
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:27,719
Speaker 6: It's wash, that's what I see washing foe. Let's go

791
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:33,359
Speaker 6: come on, kay, washing foe, washing foe.

792
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:36,680
Speaker 12: Hello.

793
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 1: Hello, I'm trying to reach sam Our Sammy.

794
00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 6: I'm not which Sammy.

795
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:43,600
Speaker 1: What's up?

796
00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:44,759
Speaker 6: Hey Sammy? How are you?

797
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:45,400
Speaker 11: This is uh?

798
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:48,279
Speaker 6: This is Kevin. I'm the uh the manager over here

799
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:49,799
Speaker 6: at Fresh and Clean Washing Fold.

800
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:51,239
Speaker 11: Yeah, what's going on?

801
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 6: Okay? You bring your clothes here pretty much on a

802
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:56,359
Speaker 6: on a weekly basis. Is that correct? Yeah?

803
00:42:56,520 --> 00:42:58,160
Speaker 12: I stopped probably once a week.

804
00:42:58,560 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 6: Okay, and you're bringing you I mean you're pretty much

805
00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:02,719
Speaker 6: bringing a full load of clothes pretty much once a week.

806
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:05,399
Speaker 12: Right, Yeah, I just bring whatever I got.

807
00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:06,240
Speaker 6: Okay.

808
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 1: Well, we got a bit of a problem talking to

809
00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:10,440
Speaker 1: my employees here that.

810
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:11,400
Speaker 6: Have been you know.

811
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:15,160
Speaker 12: What's going on? I mean you not get your money

812
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:15,520
Speaker 12: or something?

813
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:17,839
Speaker 6: Oh no, no, no, you we have you on file.

814
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:20,320
Speaker 6: Your your your card goes through every week when you

815
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 6: when you bring your things. So no, that's that's not

816
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:23,960
Speaker 6: the issue at all.

817
00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 12: I'll write them. What kind of problem could we have?

818
00:43:27,520 --> 00:43:29,840
Speaker 6: Well, the ladies that are watching the clothes are complaining

819
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 6: that when you bring your load in. I mean, I

820
00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:33,799
Speaker 6: don't know how to really tell you this, but you're

821
00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:36,160
Speaker 6: you're saying that your underwear is too dirty. They don't

822
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:36,680
Speaker 6: want to wash it.

823
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:39,799
Speaker 12: You know you playing right?

824
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:41,720
Speaker 6: No, I'm dead serious.

825
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 12: What are you talking about? My underwear is dirty? I'm

826
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 12: not any more dirty than anybody else, sir.

827
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 6: All I can tell you is we wash quite a

828
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:53,480
Speaker 6: few people's clothes on a daily basis, weekly basis. For

829
00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:57,480
Speaker 6: my employees to complain about your load. Then I have

830
00:43:57,560 --> 00:43:58,719
Speaker 6: to give you a call and talk to you.

831
00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:02,000
Speaker 12: About it, and I feel like you my phone.

832
00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:04,800
Speaker 6: No, that's not what this is, bro. This is actually

833
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:07,680
Speaker 6: a call. And you know we have we have two options.

834
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:09,919
Speaker 12: Are you out there calling everybody else?

835
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:12,719
Speaker 6: No, I don't have it. I haven't had a complaint.

836
00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:15,239
Speaker 12: I know there's more dirty people than me going in

837
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:16,359
Speaker 12: your spot because I see them.

838
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:20,840
Speaker 6: Okay, here's a deal. We have two options here. You

839
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:23,920
Speaker 6: can scrub your underwear before you bring it in.

840
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:27,480
Speaker 12: First off, you over here raising your voice. Now, what

841
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:29,960
Speaker 12: are you talking about? Scrub my underwear? We clean, man,

842
00:44:30,040 --> 00:44:32,440
Speaker 12: I'm clean. I bring my sin, I drop it off,

843
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:33,359
Speaker 12: I pick it up.

844
00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:36,160
Speaker 6: Okay, So here's the problem once again, I'll start this off.

845
00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:39,480
Speaker 6: You have two options, sir. You can bring in your

846
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:43,239
Speaker 6: stuff scrubbed. Okay, when and when my ladies take a

847
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:44,960
Speaker 6: look at it, if they're comfortable with cleaning it, so

848
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:47,440
Speaker 6: be it. Or you know, we might not be able

849
00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:48,960
Speaker 6: to accept your your clothes anymore.

850
00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:50,839
Speaker 12: Man, I don't even got to go up there anymore. Then,

851
00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:52,919
Speaker 12: if you if you really playing around on my phone

852
00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:54,600
Speaker 12: like this, I even got to go up in anymore.

853
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:55,600
Speaker 12: Let me talk to your.

854
00:44:55,520 --> 00:44:58,439
Speaker 1: Manager man, I am the manager, Sir, I'm Kevin.

855
00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:00,720
Speaker 12: You know, don't sound like the manager.

856
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 6: How are you?

857
00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 11: What?

858
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:03,160
Speaker 10: What the what?

859
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:06,320
Speaker 6: What does a manager sound like? Then? Sammy, you know

860
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:07,520
Speaker 6: who owned the building.

861
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:08,319
Speaker 1: Let me talk to him.

862
00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:10,880
Speaker 6: Okay, here's out here right now. I'm the manager and

863
00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:13,120
Speaker 6: I'm the one taking care of this problem. My ladies

864
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 6: have a problem with watching your underwear, and I'm calling

865
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:17,480
Speaker 6: you to let you know there's a problem. I'm letting

866
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:19,279
Speaker 6: you know. The way to rectify the problem is you

867
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:21,480
Speaker 6: can scrub them before you bring them in, and then

868
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 6: we will wash them. If you do not want to

869
00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 6: do that, we will not be.

870
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:27,360
Speaker 12: Allowed to take You ain't got to rectify You just

871
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:29,320
Speaker 12: need to quit calling my phone on this boot. I

872
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 12: ain't gonna go up there no more. Then, that's fine.

873
00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:32,360
Speaker 12: I ain't got to come through your spot.

874
00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 6: That's fun Do you know how dirty, how funky your

875
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:38,000
Speaker 6: clothes got to be? Man for my for my people

876
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:39,480
Speaker 6: to be telling me they don't want to wash them

877
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:40,440
Speaker 6: the morning, you're not funky.

878
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:45,239
Speaker 12: That's got the bee, Sammy, your people, who are your ladies? Man?

879
00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:46,640
Speaker 12: I go up in there. I ain't never had a

880
00:45:46,719 --> 00:45:48,879
Speaker 12: problem with they. You know what, I ain't never even

881
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:51,839
Speaker 12: seen yourself and this mother? What are you being at

882
00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:54,280
Speaker 12: there now? It looks like I got a problem with Kevin.

883
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:55,440
Speaker 12: Who is Kevin?

884
00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:55,640
Speaker 8: Man?

885
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 14: You say you the manager?

886
00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:58,239
Speaker 12: You ain't never been there.

887
00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 6: I'm here, I'm just not here when you're here.

888
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 12: Are you in the back washing those draws? What going

889
00:46:03,080 --> 00:46:03,719
Speaker 12: on with you? Man?

890
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:05,800
Speaker 6: I'm not in I'm not in the back washing, but

891
00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:08,440
Speaker 6: i am. I am here periodically when I need to be.

892
00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 6: Don't worry about when I'm at work.

893
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:10,719
Speaker 8: Man.

894
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:12,160
Speaker 12: I ain't never seen your last and I ain't never

895
00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:13,160
Speaker 12: had a problem with your lady.

896
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:15,760
Speaker 6: Hey, well, don't worry about when I'm at work. Worry

897
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:19,360
Speaker 6: about how to scrub your underwear. That's what you worry about.

898
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:20,759
Speaker 11: Man.

899
00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:24,280
Speaker 12: I'm done with you, bro. What's you on my phone

900
00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:24,960
Speaker 12: doing this for?

901
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 6: Man?

902
00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 12: You know your ass? If everybody at that month washing phone?

903
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:30,640
Speaker 11: Bro, you know what?

904
00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:31,040
Speaker 8: You know what.

905
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 6: I'm trying to be as professional as I can. But

906
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:35,040
Speaker 6: the way that you're talking to me, you can wash

907
00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:37,560
Speaker 6: your damn close your own self, then that's what you

908
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:37,880
Speaker 6: can do.

909
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 8: That's fun, man, and you can keep on managing the

910
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 8: god sqaundering?

911
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:42,279
Speaker 1: Man?

912
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:43,839
Speaker 12: What are you doing with your life?

913
00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:44,640
Speaker 1: Okay?

914
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:46,759
Speaker 6: Well do whatever you're doing with your life. But what

915
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:49,520
Speaker 6: do the world of fable and clean your draws?

916
00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:52,160
Speaker 12: Bro, I'm gonna come through and wash your You keep

917
00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:53,640
Speaker 12: talking around on my phone.

918
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:55,759
Speaker 6: Hey man, how you want to do this. Here's what

919
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:58,320
Speaker 6: I'm gonna do. I'm just letting you know. I'm gonna

920
00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 6: double charge your credit card for the amount of work

921
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:03,400
Speaker 6: that my people had to do my clothes.

922
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:06,279
Speaker 12: I'm putting I'm putting a stop payment on my so

923
00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 12: if that goes through on your in, we're gonna have

924
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:09,000
Speaker 12: mon problem.

925
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:10,799
Speaker 6: Well, I don't know how you're gonna put a stop

926
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:13,200
Speaker 6: to it. When I'm running your card right now, there's

927
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:14,400
Speaker 6: nothing you can freaking do.

928
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:17,000
Speaker 12: Okay, Okay, that's that's fine. I'm gonna shot. I'm gonna

929
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:18,920
Speaker 12: showup with de fresh and clean there. You're a manager,

930
00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:20,719
Speaker 12: you should be there fifty hours a week. Then I'm

931
00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:21,920
Speaker 12: gonna come meet your Kevin.

932
00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:24,400
Speaker 6: Okay, Well, that's that's fine with me. You know what

933
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 6: I don't understand. Why can't you just say, you know what,

934
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:29,200
Speaker 6: let me do a better job at cleaning my underwear?

935
00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:29,719
Speaker 1: How about that?

936
00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:32,520
Speaker 12: I know I know your life ain't that good. I

937
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:36,520
Speaker 12: know you over there managing and now you're getting bored

938
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:39,000
Speaker 12: of working. But don't be calling my phone playing around

939
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:41,160
Speaker 12: in this because I know you ain't doing this nobody else.

940
00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:43,680
Speaker 6: I'm exactly doing this or something. I'm not doing this

941
00:47:43,760 --> 00:47:44,800
Speaker 6: to anybody else. I don't have to do it with

942
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:46,759
Speaker 6: anybody else because nobody's bringing their clothes in like this.

943
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:49,919
Speaker 12: Bro, I've been up there. Your employees are more dirty

944
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:50,839
Speaker 12: than my well.

945
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:54,640
Speaker 6: Sammy, evidently not. Evidently not your clothes. Why are my

946
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:56,520
Speaker 6: employees complaining about you?

947
00:47:57,080 --> 00:47:59,480
Speaker 12: I don't know. I want your employees complaining about your too.

948
00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:04,359
Speaker 6: They're not complaining about my underwear, Sammy, you're the dirty guy. Man.

949
00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:06,600
Speaker 12: You know what I'm done with your You got any

950
00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:07,839
Speaker 12: other you want to talk about?

951
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:09,200
Speaker 6: We can talk about Carlton.

952
00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 12: What you just Carlton? How do you know Carlton? I

953
00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:14,279
Speaker 12: know he doesn't bring it up there.

954
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:16,879
Speaker 6: Oh, you want to talk about your brother Carlton? Want

955
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:17,440
Speaker 6: to talk about him?

956
00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:20,680
Speaker 12: My brother Carlton. You know if he's bringing it something

957
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:23,520
Speaker 12: he just started. So yeah, what we're gonna talk about Carlton?

958
00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:24,279
Speaker 12: What Carlston doing?

959
00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:27,359
Speaker 6: Well, I'm gonna tell you what Carlton doing. Carlton has

960
00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:30,279
Speaker 6: been calling me, nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning

961
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:33,840
Speaker 6: Show to prank phone call you, Sammy Day, you just

962
00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:36,600
Speaker 6: got prank baby, You just got branked by your brother,

963
00:48:36,719 --> 00:48:38,000
Speaker 6: Carlton and the nephew.

964
00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:42,960
Speaker 12: Hey man, you you ain't told a bit about some monderwear.

965
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:43,279
Speaker 8: Brother.

966
00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:52,439
Speaker 6: We need we need a little washing scrub, baby, little

967
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:54,080
Speaker 6: washing scrub man.

968
00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:59,239
Speaker 12: You you you're good, all right, man.

969
00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:02,240
Speaker 6: Nobody's no about Your underwear is clean, Samon, Your underwear

970
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:04,200
Speaker 6: is clean. Keep dropping them off at the watching folk.

971
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:06,239
Speaker 6: Don't quit, don't quit. Take your clothes up there.

972
00:49:07,560 --> 00:49:09,400
Speaker 12: I'm good man. I don't know about Carlton as it is,

973
00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:10,399
Speaker 12: but I'm good, all.

974
00:49:10,360 --> 00:49:12,200
Speaker 6: Right, Sammy. Did you got to tell me what is

975
00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:14,719
Speaker 6: the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in

976
00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:15,600
Speaker 6: the land.

977
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 12: The Steve Harvey Show. Nephew Tommy, he was.

978
00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:23,600
Speaker 1: About to jump through that moone on you rub it

979
00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:28,000
Speaker 1: up late too. Somebody wants to underwear. It is important.

980
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:29,920
Speaker 1: But I like the way he started attacking that. You

981
00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:33,640
Speaker 1: was chesting manager at the launch. Yeah, because your life

982
00:49:33,680 --> 00:49:35,239
Speaker 1: and what it wanted to be. Now you got some

983
00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:40,280
Speaker 1: time to call me your life. I'm bringing my clothes

984
00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:43,319
Speaker 1: in for washing. Fold you down here managing the laundry man,

985
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:44,800
Speaker 1: that's all you got to do.

986
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:51,080
Speaker 6: Right up next, Uh, that will be Philadelphia, that would

987
00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:54,560
Speaker 6: be the Helium Comedy Club. That's July twenty six, twenty seven,

988
00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:57,600
Speaker 6: twenty eight, the nept You're gonna already be in town shooting,

989
00:49:57,680 --> 00:49:59,960
Speaker 6: ready to love, So come on out, get you take

990
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:03,040
Speaker 6: is the Nephew was coming to town club, the Helium

991
00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 6: Comedy Club right there in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, which is the

992
00:50:07,719 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 6: city of brother The lit sound like feeling in me

993
00:50:11,160 --> 00:50:13,360
Speaker 6: in a sound like the neph You come, what what?

994
00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:13,920
Speaker 11: What? What?

995
00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:15,920
Speaker 5: All right?

996
00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:18,440
Speaker 1: Enough? I thank you, enough, you, thank you.

997
00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:21,759
Speaker 10: Steve coming up next to my Strawberry letter subject I'm

998
00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:24,760
Speaker 10: in the military. I'm in the military and I never enlisted.

999
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:29,160
Speaker 10: We'll get into it right after this. You're listening Harvey

1000
00:50:29,239 --> 00:50:31,960
Speaker 10: Morning Show. All right, guys, it is time now for

1001
00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:37,240
Speaker 10: today's Strawberry Letter and listen. If you need advice on relationships, sex, dating, work, parenting,

1002
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:40,960
Speaker 10: and more, please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey

1003
00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:44,680
Speaker 10: FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading

1004
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:46,440
Speaker 10: your letter live on the air.

1005
00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:48,920
Speaker 1: Just like we're gonna read this one right here right now.

1006
00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:51,399
Speaker 6: Buggle up, hold on tight.

1007
00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:52,160
Speaker 1: We got it for you.

1008
00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:55,400
Speaker 10: Here it is the Strawberry letter subject I'm in the

1009
00:50:55,440 --> 00:50:59,960
Speaker 10: military and I never enlisted. Here's Stephen Shirley. I am fifty,

1010
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:03,160
Speaker 10: he's seven years old, and have been married to an intelligent,

1011
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:07,320
Speaker 10: extremely good looking sixty year old man for ten years.

1012
00:51:07,760 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 10: We're admired by friends and family because we seem to

1013
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 10: have the perfect marriage. At home and in public, we

1014
00:51:14,120 --> 00:51:17,160
Speaker 10: act like two teenagers in love. We send each other

1015
00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:21,399
Speaker 10: silly text messages all day, and we play all all

1016
00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:24,239
Speaker 10: kinds of silly games at home. But then there's the

1017
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:27,560
Speaker 10: one part of the marriage that's getting on my nerves.

1018
00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:30,760
Speaker 10: My husband works on a military base, and he brings

1019
00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:34,600
Speaker 10: his job home with him every day. I'm usually home

1020
00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:37,319
Speaker 10: from work first, so I cook dinner so he can

1021
00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:40,880
Speaker 10: relax and eat after work. Instead, he comes in and

1022
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:43,759
Speaker 10: starts looking around to see what's out of order. If

1023
00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:46,640
Speaker 10: I'm cooking, he adjusts the temperature of the pots on

1024
00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:49,680
Speaker 10: the stove. He prefers that I use the microwave as

1025
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:52,120
Speaker 10: much as possible, and a few times he has lectured

1026
00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:56,280
Speaker 10: me on how the microwave was invented to conserve energy.

1027
00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:59,680
Speaker 10: He regularly adds a little water to my perfectly good

1028
00:51:59,800 --> 00:52:03,520
Speaker 10: bottle of dishwashing liquid so it will last longer, and

1029
00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:08,360
Speaker 10: expects all silverware and glassware after I wash dishes. Whenever

1030
00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 10: I leave the house without him, he calls to tell

1031
00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:13,360
Speaker 10: me what I did wrong. I left a light on,

1032
00:52:13,520 --> 00:52:15,840
Speaker 10: the blinds were open too widely, I didn't put the

1033
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:17,160
Speaker 10: clean dishes away.

1034
00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:19,160
Speaker 1: And the list goes on and on.

1035
00:52:20,040 --> 00:52:23,640
Speaker 10: In spite of our good times together, he keeps arguing

1036
00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:26,759
Speaker 10: with me about something I am not doing right. It

1037
00:52:26,840 --> 00:52:28,800
Speaker 10: gets to the point where I find more reasons to

1038
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:31,160
Speaker 10: leave the house just for peace. I'm not one of

1039
00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:34,279
Speaker 10: his enlistees in the army? How can I get him

1040
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:34,920
Speaker 10: to stop?

1041
00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:36,080
Speaker 1: Wow?

1042
00:52:36,960 --> 00:52:41,280
Speaker 10: Pretty controlling? Your husband is hum and not to mention nagging.

1043
00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:45,360
Speaker 10: Who wants to hear this on a daily basis? You

1044
00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:48,480
Speaker 10: know it does take two people to argue. Though you said,

1045
00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:51,040
Speaker 10: he keeps arguing with you about what you're not doing right.

1046
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:53,960
Speaker 10: Just stop talking to him, don't argue with him. Okay,

1047
00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:57,279
Speaker 10: you're telling Steve and I about this, But who you

1048
00:52:57,400 --> 00:53:02,040
Speaker 10: really need to tell? Is this worrisome nitpicking husband of yours?

1049
00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:05,319
Speaker 10: I mean, you have a voice, Use your voice. Tell

1050
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:07,919
Speaker 10: him in a strong, respectful you could be nice about

1051
00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:10,440
Speaker 10: it way that you had enough of his complaining that

1052
00:53:10,840 --> 00:53:13,120
Speaker 10: you're not a child. You're not his child, you're not

1053
00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:15,440
Speaker 10: the maid, you're not one of his coworkers from a

1054
00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:16,360
Speaker 10: military base.

1055
00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:17,800
Speaker 1: You are his wife.

1056
00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:20,640
Speaker 10: He can't talk to you this way, or he shouldn't

1057
00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:22,759
Speaker 10: be talking to you this way. Why is he trying

1058
00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:26,440
Speaker 10: to control you? Tell him you know that you're grown all.

1059
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:26,920
Speaker 6: Of this stuff.

1060
00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:29,239
Speaker 10: He just needs to quit following up behind you. You

1061
00:53:29,280 --> 00:53:31,360
Speaker 10: don't need anyone to follow up behind you and.

1062
00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:32,239
Speaker 5: Check up after you.

1063
00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:36,439
Speaker 10: And if he persists, stop answering his calls. Like I said,

1064
00:53:36,520 --> 00:53:39,240
Speaker 10: stop arguing with him. It takes two people to argue.

1065
00:53:39,840 --> 00:53:42,120
Speaker 10: Stop answering his calls. When he calls you about this

1066
00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:44,440
Speaker 10: kind of stuff, send his butt to voicemail. I mean,

1067
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:45,719
Speaker 10: who does he think he is?

1068
00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:50,000
Speaker 1: Steve, I don't understand why she wrote the letter because

1069
00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:52,320
Speaker 1: I don't see what the problem is. It's this woman

1070
00:53:52,480 --> 00:53:55,799
Speaker 1: is fifty seven married to an intelligent, extremely good look

1071
00:53:55,840 --> 00:53:56,440
Speaker 1: at sixty.

1072
00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:57,640
Speaker 6: Year old man for ten years.

1073
00:53:58,120 --> 00:54:01,160
Speaker 1: You admire by friez. Y'all seem like you got a

1074
00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:04,359
Speaker 1: perfect marriage. At home and in public, y'allct like two

1075
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:08,359
Speaker 1: teenagers in love. Y'all seeing silly text messages all day,

1076
00:54:08,440 --> 00:54:11,479
Speaker 1: we play all kinds of silly games. But then here's

1077
00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:13,720
Speaker 1: the part of the marriage to get on your damn nerves.

1078
00:54:14,400 --> 00:54:17,520
Speaker 1: Your husband work at the military base and he brings

1079
00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:21,080
Speaker 1: his job home with him, so usually home first, right,

1080
00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:23,200
Speaker 1: so you cook dinner so he could relax and he'd

1081
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 1: have to work instead. He comes in and start looking

1082
00:54:25,640 --> 00:54:26,600
Speaker 1: around and see what's.

1083
00:54:26,440 --> 00:54:26,960
Speaker 6: Out of order.

1084
00:54:27,200 --> 00:54:30,799
Speaker 1: So obviously he does some type of inspection work down

1085
00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:34,880
Speaker 1: at his job. So now here his ass coming in

1086
00:54:35,000 --> 00:54:40,440
Speaker 1: the house inspected. If I'm cooking, he adjusts the temperature

1087
00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:43,680
Speaker 1: of the pots on the stove. He wants you to

1088
00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:46,839
Speaker 1: use the microwave as much as possible, and a few

1089
00:54:46,920 --> 00:54:49,759
Speaker 1: times he lectured you on how the microwaves invented to

1090
00:54:49,840 --> 00:54:52,360
Speaker 1: conserve energy. Okay, is he stupid?

1091
00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 11: Yeah?

1092
00:54:54,239 --> 00:54:58,600
Speaker 1: Who wants a microwave dish when you got a woman

1093
00:54:59,560 --> 00:55:02,680
Speaker 1: or some one that's cooking you a home cooked, fresh meal.

1094
00:55:03,080 --> 00:55:03,760
Speaker 1: He's stupid.

1095
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:04,239
Speaker 12: He fright?

1096
00:55:04,360 --> 00:55:07,879
Speaker 1: He nitpicking? But hear what, I don't understand. Why don't

1097
00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:14,280
Speaker 1: you just do, lady, what women do. All y'all capable

1098
00:55:14,440 --> 00:55:18,320
Speaker 1: of doing it. I don't understand why you're doing it. Straighten,

1099
00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:22,080
Speaker 1: here's ass out, thank you. I'm at home first, I

1100
00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:24,520
Speaker 1: cook dinner so he can relax. He come in and

1101
00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:27,400
Speaker 1: start looking round there. I'm cooking. He adjust the temperature

1102
00:55:27,400 --> 00:55:29,120
Speaker 1: of the posse on the stove. I tell you what,

1103
00:55:29,480 --> 00:55:33,200
Speaker 1: set your ass down somewhere, and then when he come

1104
00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:36,240
Speaker 1: in here right up to here, adjust the temperature. She said. Okay,

1105
00:55:36,560 --> 00:55:41,279
Speaker 1: so you cooking now, huh, thank you. Put your feet

1106
00:55:41,360 --> 00:55:44,759
Speaker 1: up and start working with watching TV. He prefers that

1107
00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:47,759
Speaker 1: you use the microwave as much as possible. And he'd

1108
00:55:47,800 --> 00:55:50,919
Speaker 1: elected me on how the microwave invented a conservant. Take

1109
00:55:51,120 --> 00:55:57,040
Speaker 1: all the food, put it in the microwave, all of it. Yes,

1110
00:55:58,280 --> 00:56:00,400
Speaker 1: Put the eggs in there with the to with with

1111
00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:03,800
Speaker 1: with with the ham. Put the ham in it, with

1112
00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:07,120
Speaker 1: the potato salad. Put that in there, with the slough.

1113
00:56:07,280 --> 00:56:09,399
Speaker 1: Put that in there. Put and put the gravy all

1114
00:56:09,480 --> 00:56:09,719
Speaker 1: of it.

1115
00:56:09,800 --> 00:56:10,440
Speaker 7: And cut it on.

1116
00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:16,600
Speaker 1: And since your lass down and go and send the microwave. Yes, steeve.

1117
00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:22,040
Speaker 1: He regularly adds a little water to my perfectly good

1118
00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:28,000
Speaker 1: bottled dish washing liquid so it would last longer. Okay, cool, now,

1119
00:56:28,480 --> 00:56:32,279
Speaker 1: hre go all the dishes. I ain't done them. You

1120
00:56:32,560 --> 00:56:36,200
Speaker 1: use that water down ass dish washing liquid, and see

1121
00:56:36,239 --> 00:56:39,640
Speaker 1: how long you gonna be scrubbing grease spots. Sit your

1122
00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:46,360
Speaker 1: ass down. He constantly inspects all the silver way and glass.

1123
00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:50,640
Speaker 6: Where after I wash the dishes, I'll.

1124
00:56:50,520 --> 00:57:03,120
Speaker 7: Spin on everything that we got spit on every God, now, what.

1125
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:08,160
Speaker 1: Are these water spots? They ain't water spots. They my spots.

1126
00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:10,120
Speaker 7: Hang on, Steve's hang on.

1127
00:57:10,239 --> 00:57:12,120
Speaker 1: I knew you were gonna work yourself up. We'll have

1128
00:57:12,239 --> 00:57:12,680
Speaker 1: part two.

1129
00:57:13,080 --> 00:57:14,320
Speaker 6: Hey tripping with me.

1130
00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:16,280
Speaker 1: Steve's response coming up.

1131
00:57:16,240 --> 00:57:18,320
Speaker 10: At twenty three after the hour, subject I'm in the

1132
00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:20,240
Speaker 10: military and I never even enlisted.

1133
00:57:20,560 --> 00:57:25,200
Speaker 1: We'll be back right after this. You're listening hard morning show.

1134
00:57:25,920 --> 00:57:28,800
Speaker 10: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letters.

1135
00:57:28,880 --> 00:57:31,920
Speaker 10: Subject I'm in the military and I never enlisted.

1136
00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:35,280
Speaker 1: And here was this man tripping every time she do something,

1137
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:38,080
Speaker 1: he got something to complain about. Want her to use

1138
00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:42,920
Speaker 1: a microwave instead of stole. He adjusting temperature on pots

1139
00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:45,720
Speaker 1: when she come in. He looking at all the glasses

1140
00:57:45,760 --> 00:57:48,000
Speaker 1: and silver. Wess see if they got spots on it,

1141
00:57:48,360 --> 00:57:52,600
Speaker 1: I'd have told you what to do. Quit cooking. He

1142
00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:56,960
Speaker 1: adjusted temperature. Sit down somewhere. He want everything in a microwave.

1143
00:57:57,040 --> 00:58:01,400
Speaker 1: Put everything y'all haveing for dinner. Don't cook now hacking

1144
00:58:01,600 --> 00:58:04,240
Speaker 1: all in that microwave as soon as he walked through

1145
00:58:04,240 --> 00:58:07,360
Speaker 1: the door. Just put it on twenty minutes and press

1146
00:58:07,520 --> 00:58:09,720
Speaker 1: in it and go sit out your dinner in the

1147
00:58:09,880 --> 00:58:15,400
Speaker 1: damn microwave like you lik it. He in there checking

1148
00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:19,840
Speaker 1: on or silver, wearing all this here, looking for water spots.

1149
00:58:20,480 --> 00:58:22,360
Speaker 7: I spin on everything in there.

1150
00:58:25,840 --> 00:58:28,440
Speaker 1: What about him telling her about the leaving the lights on?

1151
00:58:29,080 --> 00:58:31,680
Speaker 1: Now we getting to that right there. Now you leave

1152
00:58:31,720 --> 00:58:34,840
Speaker 1: a house without him, he calls to tell you what

1153
00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:37,800
Speaker 1: you did wrong. I left a light on, the blinds

1154
00:58:37,840 --> 00:58:41,400
Speaker 1: were open too widely. I didn't put the clean dishes away,

1155
00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:43,960
Speaker 1: And the list goes on and off. Ocus I hear

1156
00:58:44,000 --> 00:58:46,920
Speaker 1: what you do next time you lead a light, next

1157
00:58:47,000 --> 00:58:49,240
Speaker 1: time you leave a house, don't leave a damn light

1158
00:58:49,360 --> 00:58:54,640
Speaker 1: on in there nowhere, Let every blind shut up, drape

1159
00:58:55,360 --> 00:59:02,000
Speaker 1: shiel dough light put put blankets up to the window,

1160
00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:05,760
Speaker 1: tack them up. It's blacking. You can't look in here

1161
00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:09,720
Speaker 1: if work, you can't see a damn thing in here.

1162
00:59:11,880 --> 00:59:14,600
Speaker 1: And walk your answer in this dark cass house with

1163
00:59:14,720 --> 00:59:20,840
Speaker 1: your stupid ass matter of fact, go downstairs and click

1164
00:59:21,000 --> 00:59:25,800
Speaker 1: all the fuse box switches the other way. Make sure

1165
00:59:25,880 --> 00:59:28,480
Speaker 1: ain't no, damn. Not only is the lights not on,

1166
00:59:28,880 --> 00:59:33,920
Speaker 1: damn it dan ain't coming on since you like saving money,

1167
00:59:34,600 --> 00:59:37,080
Speaker 1: did he all man? Because you didn't put no clean

1168
00:59:37,240 --> 00:59:40,000
Speaker 1: dishes a weight. Don't worry about it. Quit doing them

1169
00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:46,720
Speaker 1: damn dishes. Do it your damn ship. This is your response.

1170
00:59:47,640 --> 00:59:53,080
Speaker 1: Do it hr damn set because this is what women

1171
00:59:53,160 --> 00:59:55,400
Speaker 1: would say. It's getting to the point where I find

1172
00:59:55,560 --> 00:59:59,360
Speaker 1: more reasons to leave the house just for peace. No, no, no, correct,

1173
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:02,280
Speaker 1: He's getting to the point where you find more reasons

1174
01:00:02,360 --> 01:00:04,920
Speaker 1: to leave this big dog ass house.

1175
01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:08,520
Speaker 6: Cut all the damn lights.

1176
01:00:08,320 --> 01:00:12,440
Speaker 1: Off, tack blankets up to the windows, and go downstairs

1177
01:00:12,520 --> 01:00:16,040
Speaker 1: with a flashlight and cut all the fuses off. So

1178
01:00:16,200 --> 01:00:19,200
Speaker 1: when he come on, ain't no lights in the house

1179
01:00:19,400 --> 01:00:22,560
Speaker 1: because you want to save extra energy. So now he

1180
01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:26,280
Speaker 1: got to feel his way down that damn. Basically, to cut.

1181
01:00:26,160 --> 01:00:27,360
Speaker 6: Them fuses back on.

1182
01:00:27,760 --> 01:00:31,600
Speaker 1: This visual is crazy, But okay, he's back to the microwave.

1183
01:00:32,040 --> 01:00:37,440
Speaker 1: So microwaves, this is what you do. Take the cabbage,

1184
01:00:38,320 --> 01:00:44,240
Speaker 1: the ham, the coal sloth, the potato salad, the yellow

1185
01:00:44,400 --> 01:00:52,080
Speaker 1: mod the cake, the yams, and the greens. Take them

1186
01:00:52,240 --> 01:00:55,760
Speaker 1: all out they container, put them in a bowl. All

1187
01:00:55,880 --> 01:00:59,760
Speaker 1: of it stick it in the microwave as soon as

1188
01:00:59,840 --> 01:01:03,000
Speaker 1: he come in the dope after he found all the

1189
01:01:03,160 --> 01:01:05,520
Speaker 1: light switches and stuff and cut the fuse back on.

1190
01:01:06,480 --> 01:01:09,760
Speaker 1: When he come upstairs, slam the microwave dough put it

1191
01:01:09,880 --> 01:01:12,520
Speaker 1: on twenty minutes and press in them and go in

1192
01:01:12,560 --> 01:01:14,480
Speaker 1: there and sit and say your your dinner, and the

1193
01:01:14,600 --> 01:01:20,800
Speaker 1: damn microwave like you like it, to desert the cake.

1194
01:01:22,240 --> 01:01:24,280
Speaker 1: It's in that like you like it.

1195
01:01:25,840 --> 01:01:28,200
Speaker 10: He's lectured to her about the microwave.

1196
01:01:28,240 --> 01:01:31,920
Speaker 1: He ain't lecturing to me about a damn thing. You

1197
01:01:32,040 --> 01:01:35,040
Speaker 1: need to find that fuse box and cut these lights off.

1198
01:01:40,960 --> 01:01:43,680
Speaker 7: This takes better with my green.

1199
01:01:44,640 --> 01:01:46,320
Speaker 6: Yes, it's in the microwaves.

1200
01:01:51,520 --> 01:01:53,520
Speaker 1: And I know you like eating all that once, so

1201
01:01:53,640 --> 01:01:55,120
Speaker 1: I had to put it all in there.

1202
01:01:55,040 --> 01:02:03,040
Speaker 17: At once, mister, one time, and then she's gonna serve

1203
01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:03,920
Speaker 17: it on the dishes that.

1204
01:02:04,000 --> 01:02:06,760
Speaker 1: She and I tell you something else to save money too,

1205
01:02:07,400 --> 01:02:13,360
Speaker 1: And took all the toilet tish out this house. Wow, yes, what, yes,

1206
01:02:13,440 --> 01:02:16,600
Speaker 1: you need say anything about that? Well, see, he complained

1207
01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:19,240
Speaker 1: about everything else we spending money in here, all these

1208
01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:22,280
Speaker 1: money saving issue. We don't need toilet tishue no more,

1209
01:02:22,440 --> 01:02:27,680
Speaker 1: use your face tile, use your face time, rint.

1210
01:02:27,520 --> 01:02:28,000
Speaker 6: It off.

1211
01:02:30,080 --> 01:02:36,080
Speaker 1: All yeah, now you and then use that same face

1212
01:02:36,200 --> 01:02:39,160
Speaker 1: time and wash them damn dishes with ha water down

1213
01:02:39,240 --> 01:02:46,680
Speaker 1: there dishwashing. Oh my god, we're saving money. We're saving

1214
01:02:46,800 --> 01:02:52,520
Speaker 1: money and we're not buying no more laundry detergive. We're

1215
01:02:52,560 --> 01:02:54,880
Speaker 1: gonna use the same dishwashing liquid.

1216
01:02:59,200 --> 01:02:59,920
Speaker 4: We're out and.

1217
01:03:00,080 --> 01:03:03,000
Speaker 1: Close no more because that's too much money too put

1218
01:03:03,120 --> 01:03:08,680
Speaker 1: all him damn closing of and if he does, they're

1219
01:03:08,840 --> 01:03:10,160
Speaker 1: making the funk out of it.

1220
01:03:12,080 --> 01:03:12,320
Speaker 7: Wow.

1221
01:03:15,400 --> 01:03:17,400
Speaker 1: All right, well I think we get the message.

1222
01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:18,120
Speaker 7: Thank you, Steve.

1223
01:03:18,760 --> 01:03:22,320
Speaker 10: Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter to Instagram and

1224
01:03:22,800 --> 01:03:25,840
Speaker 10: Facebook and Steve Harvey f M and check out the

1225
01:03:25,840 --> 01:03:27,760
Speaker 10: Strawberry Letter podcast on demand.

1226
01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:38,840
Speaker 1: This out right here, What don't say else? You're listening

1227
01:03:40,040 --> 01:03:43,160
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, here we go with something funny.

1228
01:03:43,240 --> 01:03:46,280
Speaker 1: Come on, junior, Truth be told. I'm gonna say this.

1229
01:03:46,480 --> 01:03:47,800
Speaker 1: For some churches.

1230
01:03:49,200 --> 01:03:54,760
Speaker 17: That's out here that need to have testimony, time really

1231
01:03:54,880 --> 01:03:55,360
Speaker 17: cut out.

1232
01:03:57,280 --> 01:04:00,080
Speaker 7: Truth be told. If your church don't have any.

1233
01:04:01,520 --> 01:04:04,880
Speaker 17: You don't need to be having testimony because these testimonies

1234
01:04:05,320 --> 01:04:06,280
Speaker 17: are getting too long.

1235
01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:07,760
Speaker 1: They need a screener.

1236
01:04:09,000 --> 01:04:11,680
Speaker 5: That needs somebody to step down too much time.

1237
01:04:12,640 --> 01:04:16,280
Speaker 18: Let me hear your testimony and we will decide when

1238
01:04:16,320 --> 01:04:17,040
Speaker 18: you get to see it.

1239
01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:18,080
Speaker 1: In front of everybody.

1240
01:04:18,520 --> 01:04:20,440
Speaker 18: Because you've got people who go up there and want

1241
01:04:20,480 --> 01:04:22,680
Speaker 18: to testify. You can tell the ones who Testimoni not

1242
01:04:22,720 --> 01:04:23,440
Speaker 18: gonna be good.

1243
01:04:23,360 --> 01:04:24,959
Speaker 1: Because they're too anxious to get the money.

1244
01:04:25,480 --> 01:04:25,680
Speaker 8: Yeah.

1245
01:04:25,880 --> 01:04:30,600
Speaker 18: They head shaking in line, the shoulder jumping, they jumping

1246
01:04:30,680 --> 01:04:32,480
Speaker 18: up like they got a game or something like they

1247
01:04:32,560 --> 01:04:35,360
Speaker 18: got a warm up off and then they get up

1248
01:04:35,440 --> 01:04:40,200
Speaker 18: there the testimony. I want to speak to the Lord

1249
01:04:40,240 --> 01:04:46,160
Speaker 18: about my toe. This toe had been hurting me. We

1250
01:04:46,280 --> 01:04:49,800
Speaker 18: don't really need them no more. I'm just asking, can

1251
01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:52,880
Speaker 18: we get some screeners or we have to hear your

1252
01:04:52,960 --> 01:04:54,400
Speaker 18: testimony on Sundays?

1253
01:04:54,600 --> 01:04:55,840
Speaker 6: All of us got stuff to do.

1254
01:04:57,000 --> 01:04:59,000
Speaker 17: Now were sitting up here holding up in church because

1255
01:04:59,000 --> 01:05:00,000
Speaker 17: you talking about your toe?

1256
01:05:00,560 --> 01:05:02,600
Speaker 6: Or how comebody got there one time? No?

1257
01:05:02,760 --> 01:05:03,160
Speaker 8: Lie? Sure?

1258
01:05:03,560 --> 01:05:04,080
Speaker 6: Test five.

1259
01:05:05,040 --> 01:05:08,080
Speaker 18: I've been praying for Israel, and I'm saying to myself,

1260
01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:09,320
Speaker 18: you ain't never been to Israel?

1261
01:05:10,200 --> 01:05:11,640
Speaker 1: Why hell is you up there prayer?

1262
01:05:11,920 --> 01:05:12,960
Speaker 18: How you get to Hollo?

1263
01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:18,080
Speaker 1: Lord talk to you about Israel? Where you get that from?

1264
01:05:19,040 --> 01:05:20,960
Speaker 6: I just want to go to gaming is home.

1265
01:05:23,240 --> 01:05:24,920
Speaker 18: And I don't want to just sit it here no more.

1266
01:05:25,800 --> 01:05:29,120
Speaker 18: Hear your testimonies that ain't about nothing. You ain't got

1267
01:05:29,160 --> 01:05:32,760
Speaker 18: an a man. You ain't got to go ahead let

1268
01:05:32,880 --> 01:05:33,320
Speaker 18: him use you.

1269
01:05:33,360 --> 01:05:34,439
Speaker 1: Ain't nobody saying nothing.

1270
01:05:35,440 --> 01:05:39,000
Speaker 18: You shut down three hundred eighty five people by yourself.

1271
01:05:39,040 --> 01:05:42,360
Speaker 1: You shut down an entire church pastor. Ain't saying nothing.

1272
01:05:42,520 --> 01:05:44,400
Speaker 6: We need no, we need three the testimony.

1273
01:05:44,560 --> 01:05:45,280
Speaker 1: Mike Snatches.

1274
01:05:46,560 --> 01:05:48,560
Speaker 7: I'm signing up because.

1275
01:05:48,320 --> 01:05:51,400
Speaker 18: If I don't like it, I'm coming up there. You

1276
01:05:51,440 --> 01:05:54,600
Speaker 18: know Paulo got saying, man, church just need to have

1277
01:05:54,760 --> 01:05:56,720
Speaker 18: a testimonial, Mike Snatch.

1278
01:05:57,320 --> 01:05:59,880
Speaker 6: That's all I'm saying. I'm just.

1279
01:06:04,840 --> 01:06:05,520
Speaker 1: Want to get that out.

1280
01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:10,000
Speaker 5: How long is this gonna belong?

1281
01:06:10,160 --> 01:06:16,200
Speaker 1: Huh well, Jake, we keep back like it ain't. We

1282
01:06:16,280 --> 01:06:17,360
Speaker 1: didn't took up this off.

1283
01:06:17,200 --> 01:06:17,800
Speaker 5: And we've been here.

1284
01:06:17,800 --> 01:06:20,560
Speaker 7: Since the talk.

1285
01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:21,360
Speaker 1: The game is on.

1286
01:06:21,600 --> 01:06:24,800
Speaker 18: The game is you ain't getting nobody say go ahead?

1287
01:06:25,280 --> 01:06:26,520
Speaker 8: There you go a man.

1288
01:06:26,560 --> 01:06:29,800
Speaker 18: You can't get nobody agree with you. Your testimony is

1289
01:06:29,880 --> 01:06:33,760
Speaker 18: not about anything. I'm just saying, why you get to

1290
01:06:33,840 --> 01:06:36,960
Speaker 18: talk at that long? May we need a testimony of

1291
01:06:37,040 --> 01:06:37,520
Speaker 18: Mike Snash.

1292
01:06:37,640 --> 01:06:52,320
Speaker 1: I'm telling you this you're listening Morning show. Is your

1293
01:06:52,400 --> 01:06:53,880
Speaker 1: relationship so good?

1294
01:06:54,080 --> 01:06:56,959
Speaker 10: Guys that sometimes you wish you and your spouse would

1295
01:06:57,160 --> 01:06:57,960
Speaker 10: argue more.

1296
01:07:00,120 --> 01:07:04,439
Speaker 1: If we never got that fall.

1297
01:07:09,120 --> 01:07:12,600
Speaker 10: So if one argument, just one argument, could save your marriage,

1298
01:07:13,120 --> 01:07:16,400
Speaker 10: that is it. But this husband cooked, clean, swept and

1299
01:07:16,600 --> 01:07:21,280
Speaker 10: loved his wife passionately completely. She in turn, felt choked

1300
01:07:21,360 --> 01:07:24,920
Speaker 10: by his affection and now wants to divorce him. The

1301
01:07:25,000 --> 01:07:28,440
Speaker 10: woman saw divorce from her husband in a city in

1302
01:07:28,520 --> 01:07:32,280
Speaker 10: the United Arab Emirates because his love was too much

1303
01:07:32,360 --> 01:07:35,600
Speaker 10: for her to bear. He never yelled at me or

1304
01:07:35,720 --> 01:07:38,320
Speaker 10: turned me down. The woman told the court, I was

1305
01:07:38,480 --> 01:07:40,640
Speaker 10: choked by extreme love and affection.

1306
01:07:41,080 --> 01:07:42,840
Speaker 1: He even helped me clean the house.

1307
01:07:43,280 --> 01:07:45,640
Speaker 10: The court ordered the adjournment of the case to give

1308
01:07:45,680 --> 01:07:49,920
Speaker 10: the couple a chance at reconciliation. So, guys, here's a

1309
01:07:50,000 --> 01:07:52,480
Speaker 10: question for you. Do you wish you and your spouse

1310
01:07:52,520 --> 01:07:56,600
Speaker 10: would actually argue more or have you ever ended a

1311
01:07:56,640 --> 01:07:58,680
Speaker 10: relationship because there was no conflict at all?

1312
01:07:58,720 --> 01:08:01,880
Speaker 1: It was just too much love and affection. They don't

1313
01:08:01,920 --> 01:08:08,160
Speaker 1: answer this, no, Please see they need to stay away

1314
01:08:08,200 --> 01:08:12,600
Speaker 1: from this. As soon as soon as you say something

1315
01:08:12,640 --> 01:08:16,600
Speaker 1: to him, we disagree with his ass is getting some

1316
01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:17,519
Speaker 1: papers brought.

1317
01:08:17,680 --> 01:08:18,439
Speaker 7: Are you serious?

1318
01:08:18,560 --> 01:08:19,280
Speaker 4: Are you serious?

1319
01:08:21,160 --> 01:08:26,920
Speaker 6: Out of this relationship? It's that fast can be getting that?

1320
01:08:29,600 --> 01:08:30,679
Speaker 4: Really? Yeah?

1321
01:08:32,400 --> 01:08:32,840
Speaker 17: He out?

1322
01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:36,519
Speaker 1: I'm out, he out? I don't know who want to argument.

1323
01:08:36,640 --> 01:08:38,320
Speaker 1: But this woman, what's wrong with her?

1324
01:08:38,760 --> 01:08:39,360
Speaker 17: Exactly?

1325
01:08:39,960 --> 01:08:41,200
Speaker 1: She's the problem.

1326
01:08:41,080 --> 01:08:44,920
Speaker 6: Saying what real love is. She's got a different view.

1327
01:08:45,600 --> 01:08:50,840
Speaker 1: She saw somebody getting cussed out, abused something. I want that. Yeah,

1328
01:08:50,920 --> 01:08:52,200
Speaker 1: that's totally how.

1329
01:08:52,160 --> 01:08:52,840
Speaker 7: She said that.

1330
01:08:53,760 --> 01:08:55,040
Speaker 6: I want to get cussed out.

1331
01:08:56,360 --> 01:08:57,920
Speaker 10: Too much love and affection.

1332
01:08:58,880 --> 01:09:02,120
Speaker 1: I've never heard a woman's who wants conflict? Who want that?

1333
01:09:03,720 --> 01:09:05,679
Speaker 6: Unless he's ultra clean.

1334
01:09:06,800 --> 01:09:09,880
Speaker 1: She did say she felt choked by his love. He

1335
01:09:10,040 --> 01:09:14,839
Speaker 1: felt choked by it. You'd just rather just be choked.

1336
01:09:17,720 --> 01:09:21,519
Speaker 10: He cooked clean, He cooked, he clean, He loved her

1337
01:09:21,640 --> 01:09:30,040
Speaker 10: passionately and completely. This sounds like a romance now, yeah, chowing, Yeah.

1338
01:09:30,360 --> 01:09:32,800
Speaker 10: She said he never yelled at me or turned me down.

1339
01:09:35,439 --> 01:09:37,360
Speaker 6: Yeah, baby, you need.

1340
01:09:37,320 --> 01:09:40,880
Speaker 17: To be are you He never turned you down?

1341
01:09:41,000 --> 01:09:41,639
Speaker 6: Oh my gosh.

1342
01:09:42,800 --> 01:09:47,640
Speaker 10: So this is the opposite of an abusive relationship extreme

1343
01:09:48,479 --> 01:09:49,960
Speaker 10: He cooking and cleaning?

1344
01:09:50,080 --> 01:09:59,720
Speaker 9: Girl? Please, yeah cook, I'm not going to clean. This

1345
01:09:59,880 --> 01:10:02,200
Speaker 9: is a when you threw he swept.

1346
01:10:03,240 --> 01:10:05,439
Speaker 1: Well, I'll leave the spot on the stove in the

1347
01:10:05,520 --> 01:10:08,640
Speaker 1: hot Wow. This this I mean?

1348
01:10:08,760 --> 01:10:10,639
Speaker 10: Women say all the time they want a good man.

1349
01:10:11,200 --> 01:10:13,400
Speaker 10: Women complain all the time, and he never helps me

1350
01:10:13,520 --> 01:10:16,439
Speaker 10: around the house. I don't if we never spend enough

1351
01:10:16,560 --> 01:10:30,000
Speaker 10: time together. He's not affectionate, he's not romantic. But Jay,

1352
01:10:30,640 --> 01:10:33,120
Speaker 10: not one time she says.

1353
01:10:32,960 --> 01:10:34,360
Speaker 1: Something, she's out, You're done.

1354
01:10:34,880 --> 01:10:38,040
Speaker 5: I don't take them back. I don't What is talking back.

1355
01:10:41,120 --> 01:10:41,759
Speaker 17: Her daddy?

1356
01:10:41,960 --> 01:10:43,479
Speaker 7: You're not her dad, you're her.

1357
01:10:45,160 --> 01:10:45,920
Speaker 8: You're herman?

1358
01:10:48,720 --> 01:10:51,200
Speaker 1: What your daddy say say?

1359
01:10:52,360 --> 01:10:53,280
Speaker 6: We don't do back.

1360
01:10:54,000 --> 01:10:55,120
Speaker 1: We just do folks.

1361
01:10:58,080 --> 01:10:59,640
Speaker 6: Ain't this.

1362
01:11:00,320 --> 01:11:04,240
Speaker 1: I've never heard of this, But Jay, we can't disagree.

1363
01:11:04,360 --> 01:11:05,360
Speaker 1: We can't agree.

1364
01:11:07,160 --> 01:11:08,880
Speaker 5: You talking back to me. You would have been done.

1365
01:11:09,240 --> 01:11:11,680
Speaker 1: But we don't like what you're saying. Jay, we have

1366
01:11:11,800 --> 01:11:14,600
Speaker 1: a right to say that. Mister. Yeah, you sound like

1367
01:11:14,680 --> 01:11:15,599
Speaker 1: somebody's daddy.

1368
01:11:15,800 --> 01:11:16,040
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1369
01:11:18,160 --> 01:11:19,360
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna pack you up.

1370
01:11:19,560 --> 01:11:24,639
Speaker 6: That's all. Yeah, man, Wow, all.

1371
01:11:24,600 --> 01:11:28,520
Speaker 10: Right, coming up, more more music, more fun, more chauvinism.

1372
01:11:28,720 --> 01:11:30,280
Speaker 5: Sounds like yeah.

1373
01:11:31,040 --> 01:11:33,080
Speaker 10: At twenty minutes after the hour, right here on the

1374
01:11:33,120 --> 01:11:40,120
Speaker 10: Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening Harvey Morning Show. All right,

1375
01:11:40,200 --> 01:11:43,640
Speaker 10: happy June teenth. Well, our resident poet is here with

1376
01:11:43,720 --> 01:11:46,320
Speaker 10: a gift for you guys and for us all for

1377
01:11:46,479 --> 01:11:46,960
Speaker 10: the world.

1378
01:11:47,160 --> 01:11:47,519
Speaker 1: Junior.

1379
01:11:47,760 --> 01:11:48,280
Speaker 12: Yes, it is.

1380
01:11:48,600 --> 01:11:51,960
Speaker 17: This is what I think that when June tenth happened.

1381
01:11:52,000 --> 01:11:53,559
Speaker 17: This is what I think they were thinking.

1382
01:11:54,120 --> 01:11:55,680
Speaker 1: And I had to get in that mindset. So here

1383
01:11:55,760 --> 01:11:55,920
Speaker 1: we go.

1384
01:11:56,600 --> 01:12:02,200
Speaker 17: This one is called June teenth, June tenth. June Tink,

1385
01:12:02,360 --> 01:12:07,439
Speaker 17: June tink. The secret was never told that slavery had

1386
01:12:07,600 --> 01:12:11,120
Speaker 17: ended two years before. Now to me, that's kind of bowl.

1387
01:12:11,479 --> 01:12:15,400
Speaker 17: Joe Tink, Joe tain't, Joe Tank. We're still in the

1388
01:12:15,520 --> 01:12:19,360
Speaker 17: field picking cotton when they knew, damn well we was free.

1389
01:12:19,960 --> 01:12:23,320
Speaker 17: If you think that's kind of rotten, Joe Tink, Joe Tink,

1390
01:12:23,439 --> 01:12:26,840
Speaker 17: John Tink, how the hell you keep a secret like that?

1391
01:12:27,520 --> 01:12:30,000
Speaker 17: The only reason you could hold us down because you

1392
01:12:30,120 --> 01:12:31,719
Speaker 17: were standing on our backs.

1393
01:12:31,960 --> 01:12:33,679
Speaker 5: June Tink, June tink, June tink.

1394
01:12:34,439 --> 01:12:37,320
Speaker 1: It's the day we celebrate. But it's one thing I

1395
01:12:37,520 --> 01:12:40,040
Speaker 1: know for sure. You can never get good New Years

1396
01:12:40,160 --> 01:12:43,080
Speaker 1: too late. Joe Tink, June Tink, June Tink. The end.

1397
01:12:49,560 --> 01:12:53,080
Speaker 6: I'm her and I don't even know if that was.

1398
01:12:56,040 --> 01:13:01,639
Speaker 1: Juy. They run through the city spreading the new.

1399
01:13:03,439 --> 01:13:04,160
Speaker 7: That's got.

1400
01:13:09,640 --> 01:13:10,000
Speaker 6: Listen to.

1401
01:13:11,479 --> 01:13:12,000
Speaker 9: Listen to that.

1402
01:13:13,640 --> 01:13:15,439
Speaker 6: I don't all feel free right now.

1403
01:13:17,920 --> 01:13:24,759
Speaker 1: Thank you, Jo, you're listening morning show time for would

1404
01:13:24,880 --> 01:13:25,479
Speaker 1: you rather?

1405
01:13:25,760 --> 01:13:29,760
Speaker 10: Would you rather live three days on the moon, or

1406
01:13:30,040 --> 01:13:33,320
Speaker 10: would you rather give your path code to your mate?

1407
01:13:33,840 --> 01:13:35,519
Speaker 6: I'm kicking it how long it take to get to

1408
01:13:35,560 --> 01:13:39,439
Speaker 6: the moon? Cold? My wife, she got it right.

1409
01:13:40,520 --> 01:13:43,040
Speaker 1: Okay, So Steve give up his task.

1410
01:13:44,080 --> 01:13:45,439
Speaker 8: You're going to the moon.

1411
01:13:46,760 --> 01:13:49,200
Speaker 6: And leave it in the morning. Leave in the morning.

1412
01:13:50,600 --> 01:13:53,000
Speaker 1: You gotta be on there for three days on the moon,

1413
01:13:54,080 --> 01:13:57,080
Speaker 1: and when I come back, I got my phone.

1414
01:13:57,000 --> 01:13:59,040
Speaker 6: Right, okay?

1415
01:14:00,160 --> 01:14:00,519
Speaker 11: Jr.

1416
01:14:02,360 --> 01:14:04,720
Speaker 1: With you, I'll hope with tim.

1417
01:14:08,880 --> 01:14:15,920
Speaker 10: Crazy give your past goose?

1418
01:14:16,240 --> 01:14:19,479
Speaker 1: What do you with that's not in your vows?

1419
01:14:20,000 --> 01:14:20,320
Speaker 12: All right?

1420
01:14:21,200 --> 01:14:23,840
Speaker 1: Would you rather eat only steak and lobster for a

1421
01:14:23,920 --> 01:14:27,120
Speaker 1: whole week? Or would you rather be vegan for a week?

1422
01:14:27,600 --> 01:14:32,080
Speaker 1: Taking lobster or vegan? You're taking lots of way more fun.

1423
01:14:32,200 --> 01:14:35,599
Speaker 1: I'm on my second day. Is that talking to me about?

1424
01:14:35,680 --> 01:14:35,720
Speaker 3: No?

1425
01:14:35,880 --> 01:14:40,800
Speaker 1: Damn steak and lofty?

1426
01:14:40,880 --> 01:14:43,519
Speaker 6: That's all I want right now. I'm gonna do that.

1427
01:14:43,560 --> 01:14:44,479
Speaker 6: I'm gonna do the vegan.

1428
01:14:46,000 --> 01:14:49,320
Speaker 1: You just have to do it for a week, all right. Really,

1429
01:14:50,280 --> 01:14:54,080
Speaker 1: it's probably what I need to do anyway, right, that's true?

1430
01:14:55,800 --> 01:14:56,160
Speaker 1: All right?

1431
01:14:56,240 --> 01:15:00,760
Speaker 10: Would you rather go roller skating naked? Just go roller

1432
01:15:00,840 --> 01:15:03,599
Speaker 10: skating naked or go bowling in dress shoes?

1433
01:15:04,360 --> 01:15:07,120
Speaker 1: I'm in the dress shoes. I know I'm gonna fall skating.

1434
01:15:07,320 --> 01:15:10,880
Speaker 1: I know I'm gonna fall. And you can follow your dress.

1435
01:15:12,160 --> 01:15:15,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, but I got clothes.

1436
01:15:17,240 --> 01:15:20,920
Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, it's hard to skate holding yourself.

1437
01:15:23,320 --> 01:15:25,760
Speaker 7: And fall to You need your arms.

1438
01:15:26,120 --> 01:15:27,280
Speaker 12: You need your arms.

1439
01:15:27,840 --> 01:15:31,680
Speaker 1: You gotta brace yourself. Yes, you can't even get over

1440
01:15:31,760 --> 01:15:33,760
Speaker 1: there by the wall and grab the rail and nothing.

1441
01:15:33,760 --> 01:15:40,440
Speaker 1: You're trying to cover yourself skating swinging.

1442
01:15:44,120 --> 01:15:44,479
Speaker 4: All right?

1443
01:15:44,640 --> 01:15:48,479
Speaker 10: Would you rather have your belly kissed? Or would you

1444
01:15:48,600 --> 01:15:50,000
Speaker 10: rather have your thigh kissed?

1445
01:15:50,760 --> 01:15:50,960
Speaker 5: Die?

1446
01:15:51,560 --> 01:15:52,040
Speaker 1: Either one?

1447
01:15:52,160 --> 01:15:54,920
Speaker 6: You down that way? I want you to be thie.

1448
01:15:55,160 --> 01:15:58,360
Speaker 1: You don't want to work for me either? One junior?

1449
01:15:58,600 --> 01:15:59,639
Speaker 6: Oh no, why y'all as.

1450
01:16:01,240 --> 01:16:05,599
Speaker 10: Make Steve Steve?

1451
01:16:07,520 --> 01:16:15,560
Speaker 1: Well, you kiss my thigh? Your head probably against me.

1452
01:16:17,760 --> 01:16:24,439
Speaker 1: That's the beginning of a wonderful evening, right if your

1453
01:16:24,560 --> 01:16:29,080
Speaker 1: hair touched me? What we're ending on that note? That's

1454
01:16:29,120 --> 01:16:32,200
Speaker 1: today's roundup? Would you rather all right?

1455
01:16:36,000 --> 01:16:38,120
Speaker 10: Last break of the day, and we'll close out the

1456
01:16:38,160 --> 01:16:40,479
Speaker 10: show with Steve Harvey right after that.

1457
01:16:41,120 --> 01:16:43,800
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Morning Show.

1458
01:16:44,080 --> 01:16:46,599
Speaker 10: All right, Steve, here we are last break of the day,

1459
01:16:46,760 --> 01:16:49,000
Speaker 10: and of course it is time for you to leave

1460
01:16:49,120 --> 01:16:51,000
Speaker 10: us with some closing remarks.

1461
01:16:51,640 --> 01:16:54,679
Speaker 1: I want to give you some encouragement on your road

1462
01:16:54,760 --> 01:16:58,600
Speaker 1: to success. I've often said a million times, that the

1463
01:16:58,720 --> 01:17:02,559
Speaker 1: road to success is all under construction, that you can

1464
01:17:02,680 --> 01:17:07,360
Speaker 1: expect the pitfalls, to set backs, the detools, the working

1465
01:17:07,600 --> 01:17:09,479
Speaker 1: men at work, so forth, and so on.

1466
01:17:10,600 --> 01:17:12,200
Speaker 6: But what I want to remind you of.

1467
01:17:14,040 --> 01:17:18,120
Speaker 1: Is that you can win if you can fight through

1468
01:17:18,240 --> 01:17:22,720
Speaker 1: the clutter. And one of the best ways that I

1469
01:17:22,840 --> 01:17:26,560
Speaker 1: can give you to fight through the clutter you have

1470
01:17:26,800 --> 01:17:31,080
Speaker 1: to have a relationship with God. I mean, it's just

1471
01:17:31,320 --> 01:17:34,559
Speaker 1: really the best way to fight through the clutter because

1472
01:17:34,600 --> 01:17:41,960
Speaker 1: you really don't know how exactly to become successful. You

1473
01:17:42,040 --> 01:17:43,960
Speaker 1: really don't know exactly how.

1474
01:17:44,640 --> 01:17:44,920
Speaker 6: I mean.

1475
01:17:45,240 --> 01:17:47,400
Speaker 1: And the reason I know you don't know exactly how

1476
01:17:47,520 --> 01:17:51,400
Speaker 1: is because you've probably aimed for something that in order

1477
01:17:51,479 --> 01:17:56,320
Speaker 1: to achieve it you really do need God's help. So

1478
01:17:56,600 --> 01:18:01,800
Speaker 1: is nothing wrong when you don't know exactly how you're

1479
01:18:01,880 --> 01:18:05,559
Speaker 1: going to make it, Because what that means is you've

1480
01:18:05,680 --> 01:18:09,000
Speaker 1: aspired to something so great that in order for it

1481
01:18:09,120 --> 01:18:12,639
Speaker 1: to happen, you absolutely have to have God's help. That's

1482
01:18:12,720 --> 01:18:14,880
Speaker 1: where you want to be. You want to be on

1483
01:18:14,960 --> 01:18:18,240
Speaker 1: a mission that keeps you awake at night. You want

1484
01:18:18,320 --> 01:18:20,559
Speaker 1: to be on a mission man that makes you wake

1485
01:18:20,680 --> 01:18:23,960
Speaker 1: up early. You want to be on a mission that

1486
01:18:24,120 --> 01:18:27,280
Speaker 1: requires you to pray constantly. You want to be on

1487
01:18:27,360 --> 01:18:31,000
Speaker 1: a mission man, where you seek the advice and help

1488
01:18:31,120 --> 01:18:34,639
Speaker 1: of other people. That's in a higher position. You want

1489
01:18:34,680 --> 01:18:38,160
Speaker 1: to be on a mission where not achieving it becomes

1490
01:18:38,400 --> 01:18:43,760
Speaker 1: absolutely unacceptable. But to get there, you got to fight

1491
01:18:43,960 --> 01:18:47,640
Speaker 1: through the clutter. And the biggest form of clutter in

1492
01:18:47,760 --> 01:18:54,080
Speaker 1: your mind is the actual figuring it out. Can you

1493
01:18:54,200 --> 01:18:56,880
Speaker 1: remember back on how many times you've tried to figure

1494
01:18:56,960 --> 01:18:59,920
Speaker 1: something out your life? Your next move, who to call

1495
01:19:00,120 --> 01:19:02,800
Speaker 1: or who to talk to, whether to try to sell them,

1496
01:19:02,880 --> 01:19:04,960
Speaker 1: how to sell them, what to buy, how to buy?

1497
01:19:05,640 --> 01:19:07,920
Speaker 1: If you go back over all your life of you

1498
01:19:08,120 --> 01:19:10,840
Speaker 1: figuring out my next move? Should I go to school?

1499
01:19:10,920 --> 01:19:12,800
Speaker 1: Should I not go to school? Should I get a

1500
01:19:12,880 --> 01:19:15,120
Speaker 1: degree in this? Should I not get a degree in this?

1501
01:19:15,360 --> 01:19:17,519
Speaker 1: Should I apply for that job at this job? Should

1502
01:19:17,520 --> 01:19:19,360
Speaker 1: I go over here because they pay a little bit more,

1503
01:19:19,600 --> 01:19:22,760
Speaker 1: but this has better stability? I don't know, But you've

1504
01:19:22,960 --> 01:19:26,519
Speaker 1: constantly been trying to work that out. That's exhausting and

1505
01:19:26,640 --> 01:19:29,200
Speaker 1: it keeps your mind cluttered. I was reading in my

1506
01:19:29,320 --> 01:19:32,200
Speaker 1: daily meditation, how when you clutter your mind up with

1507
01:19:32,320 --> 01:19:36,639
Speaker 1: the how to you remove God's presence in your life

1508
01:19:36,960 --> 01:19:40,439
Speaker 1: because he's always hovering and standing close by to come

1509
01:19:40,520 --> 01:19:42,720
Speaker 1: in and comfort you and be beside you and help

1510
01:19:42,800 --> 01:19:45,640
Speaker 1: you make these decisions. But if you never invite him in,

1511
01:19:46,160 --> 01:19:48,960
Speaker 1: if you never invite him to make the decisions, if

1512
01:19:49,000 --> 01:19:54,519
Speaker 1: you never allow his presence to come and calm you down. Man,

1513
01:19:54,800 --> 01:19:58,840
Speaker 1: sometimes you just need calming. You know, you could deal

1514
01:19:58,920 --> 01:20:00,720
Speaker 1: with a lot of this stuff that you're going through

1515
01:20:00,760 --> 01:20:04,040
Speaker 1: a lot better if you will have just a calming effect.

1516
01:20:04,400 --> 01:20:08,040
Speaker 1: Of the calming effect, that's the peace you get when

1517
01:20:08,080 --> 01:20:11,360
Speaker 1: you form a relationship with God. God calms you down

1518
01:20:11,439 --> 01:20:14,400
Speaker 1: because you know he got your back, you know he's

1519
01:20:14,479 --> 01:20:17,280
Speaker 1: in control, He know he got your best interest at heart,

1520
01:20:17,560 --> 01:20:20,200
Speaker 1: you know that he's behind the scenes working on your behalf.

1521
01:20:20,640 --> 01:20:24,120
Speaker 1: When you have that type of relationship, it cools you out.

1522
01:20:24,840 --> 01:20:30,960
Speaker 1: You can chill. You can't do anything about tomorrow, so

1523
01:20:31,160 --> 01:20:34,679
Speaker 1: worrying about it doesn't affect it. Now, I'm not saying

1524
01:20:34,800 --> 01:20:37,280
Speaker 1: and sitting here that you're not supposed to plan, that

1525
01:20:37,400 --> 01:20:40,320
Speaker 1: you're not supposed to have dreams and aspirations, because you do.

1526
01:20:40,720 --> 01:20:43,800
Speaker 1: But in all my dreams of aspirations, all the things

1527
01:20:43,880 --> 01:20:48,240
Speaker 1: I want, I've had to learn to be flexible because

1528
01:20:48,320 --> 01:20:51,000
Speaker 1: what I want and what God has for me is

1529
01:20:51,120 --> 01:20:55,200
Speaker 1: oftentimes two different things. But can I share something with you?

1530
01:20:55,800 --> 01:20:58,639
Speaker 1: The thing that God has for you is way better

1531
01:20:58,720 --> 01:21:04,360
Speaker 1: than anything anything you could possibly plan. You can't figure

1532
01:21:04,400 --> 01:21:08,160
Speaker 1: it the way he does. His thoughts is way up there, man,

1533
01:21:08,760 --> 01:21:12,800
Speaker 1: His ways is way up there. You can't outfigure God.

1534
01:21:13,439 --> 01:21:17,240
Speaker 1: God can take a very very dismal situation, folks, and

1535
01:21:17,439 --> 01:21:21,200
Speaker 1: turn it into pure gold for you. When they are

1536
01:21:21,320 --> 01:21:24,320
Speaker 1: lining themselves against you, If God is with you, who

1537
01:21:24,400 --> 01:21:27,519
Speaker 1: can be against you? So let them line up. If

1538
01:21:27,560 --> 01:21:29,479
Speaker 1: you know you've got a relationship with God, and you

1539
01:21:29,720 --> 01:21:32,240
Speaker 1: know you're not over there by yourself, why would you

1540
01:21:32,320 --> 01:21:35,320
Speaker 1: be afraid of someone lining up against you? Let them

1541
01:21:35,400 --> 01:21:38,360
Speaker 1: lined up. You're talking to somebody who knows it's all

1542
01:21:38,479 --> 01:21:43,160
Speaker 1: too well. They have lined up against me in numbers.

1543
01:21:44,360 --> 01:21:47,280
Speaker 1: But guess what, they can't do nothing to me. God

1544
01:21:47,400 --> 01:21:50,960
Speaker 1: don't allow And even if you do do it, it

1545
01:21:51,080 --> 01:21:53,880
Speaker 1: doesn't mean it has the effect of the desired effect

1546
01:21:53,960 --> 01:21:57,120
Speaker 1: on me that you wanted to. And so that's the

1547
01:21:57,240 --> 01:22:00,320
Speaker 1: same thing with you. Because of this relationship with God,

1548
01:22:00,680 --> 01:22:02,960
Speaker 1: you don't have to be in and react to every

1549
01:22:03,120 --> 01:22:05,679
Speaker 1: time somebody don't like a picture or make a bad

1550
01:22:05,800 --> 01:22:09,000
Speaker 1: comment or put a false falsehood out there.

1551
01:22:09,000 --> 01:22:09,360
Speaker 6: About you.

1552
01:22:09,840 --> 01:22:12,799
Speaker 1: You don't have to react to all of that because

1553
01:22:12,840 --> 01:22:15,680
Speaker 1: you have peace in the relationship with God. You got

1554
01:22:15,760 --> 01:22:19,680
Speaker 1: to form this relationship, y'all. You have to. It's imperative

1555
01:22:19,760 --> 01:22:22,960
Speaker 1: to who you are. And the thing about forming relationship,

1556
01:22:23,000 --> 01:22:25,280
Speaker 1: you don't have to clear with nobody. But you ain't

1557
01:22:25,280 --> 01:22:27,840
Speaker 1: got to even tell nobody you're doing it. You can

1558
01:22:28,200 --> 01:22:30,639
Speaker 1: show them a difference you. You don't have to make

1559
01:22:30,680 --> 01:22:34,920
Speaker 1: an admission. I'm talking to God every day trying to

1560
01:22:34,960 --> 01:22:36,960
Speaker 1: become a better person. You ain't got to tell nobody that.

1561
01:22:37,240 --> 01:22:39,280
Speaker 6: Just do it. Just do it.

1562
01:22:40,160 --> 01:22:42,680
Speaker 1: That's all you've got to do. All right, those are

1563
01:22:42,720 --> 01:22:43,639
Speaker 1: my closing remarks.

1564
01:22:43,640 --> 01:22:44,400
Speaker 10: All right, drop it.

1565
01:22:45,160 --> 01:22:50,439
Speaker 1: It's dropped, Thank you, sir. Yeah, needed that.

1566
01:23:01,320 --> 01:23:04,760
Speaker 10: For all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, voidware prohibited.

1567
01:23:04,800 --> 01:23:08,320
Speaker 10: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old,

1568
01:23:08,439 --> 01:23:13,280
Speaker 10: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit STEVEHARVEYFM dot com.

1569
01:23:13,680 --> 01:23:16,360
Speaker 10: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.