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Rain Drops on today's episode Reality 0:00:38.440 --> 0:00:42.120 with the King Alexis Jansen, I are back to recap. 0:00:42.720 --> 0:00:49.720 This is episode five, right, Alexis No. Six six six Okay, 0:00:51.720 --> 0:00:55.200 this is episode six of the Royal House, Washington, Orange County, 0:00:55.480 --> 0:00:59.600 and Alexis. Before we get started last week, we did 0:00:59.720 --> 0:01:04.319 as the rain drops right yes, yes, to let us 0:01:04.360 --> 0:01:07.039 know what their thoughts about this season so far because 0:01:08.000 --> 0:01:13.759 you and I yeah, some commentary, Brody, you can't answer 0:01:14.280 --> 0:01:20.039 the Spotify okay, Brody, Broddy wants to be everywhere. Okay, 0:01:20.240 --> 0:01:25.000 So before we recap this episode, I'm a man of 0:01:25.120 --> 0:01:30.240 my word, okay, fame here to read you the comments 0:01:30.360 --> 0:01:35.960 on Spotify, So rain Drops, please go on Spotify you 0:01:36.040 --> 0:01:40.319 can and leave a comment. Also go on our YouTube 0:01:40.360 --> 0:01:43.480 channel and you can leave a comment there too. Okay, 0:01:43.520 --> 0:01:48.280 so here we go. You ready, I'm ready. 0:01:48.760 --> 0:01:49.800 I'm kind of curious. 0:01:50.160 --> 0:01:54.560 So okay, so let me get my dog because Brody 0:01:54.960 --> 0:01:57.080 wants to let me just show you. Brody come here. 0:02:00.400 --> 0:02:05.400 Well we can't hear him barking back there, so well. 0:02:05.200 --> 0:02:07.960 That's good to know. Say hi to this is my YouTube. 0:02:09.560 --> 0:02:11.960 Say hi Roady, ooy Brody. 0:02:12.360 --> 0:02:14.240 Are you going to read the puest comments from all 0:02:14.280 --> 0:02:14.880 of our people? 0:02:19.800 --> 0:02:21.720 What does that put me down? Okay, so here we go. 0:02:26.760 --> 0:02:30.960 Queen sc says, I love the recaps and very much 0:02:31.000 --> 0:02:33.360 agree with both of you in regards to the boring 0:02:33.440 --> 0:02:38.360 and ridiculous storylines this season. I won't read the rest. 0:02:39.040 --> 0:02:43.480 Uh Nati said, hi YouTube, loving your dynamic. I take 0:02:43.520 --> 0:02:45.600 the pod to the gym, so thank you for helping 0:02:45.600 --> 0:02:52.560 me lose weight. Here, Hey, Emily Shade yeh, the show 0:02:52.720 --> 0:02:56.000 is so boring. I am in tears, like staring into 0:02:56.040 --> 0:02:57.840 an empty white refrigerator. 0:03:00.960 --> 0:03:03.120 That was a good that's a good analogy. 0:03:03.520 --> 0:03:07.280 Yes, re Sick thirteen. This season is so boring. It's 0:03:07.360 --> 0:03:10.960 just not doing it for me. Someone with the initial 0:03:11.040 --> 0:03:15.080 A said, Carlos and Alexis together equals my happy place. 0:03:15.320 --> 0:03:17.560 So look, those are a few of the comments. I 0:03:17.600 --> 0:03:20.680 want to make sure that I kept my word to 0:03:20.800 --> 0:03:24.840 read them to you first as we get into the 0:03:24.880 --> 0:03:27.760 girlies in Las Vegas. 0:03:29.280 --> 0:03:30.520 Okay, let's do it. 0:03:31.400 --> 0:03:39.840 Alexis you sick, Alexis, I'm not doing this with me 0:03:39.960 --> 0:03:44.120 for another week. You do not look at foods at all. 0:03:45.760 --> 0:03:47.640 I haven't finished my entire cup of coffee. 0:03:47.640 --> 0:03:49.160 I'm blaming it on that because usually I have a 0:03:49.200 --> 0:03:51.640 red bull something in my hand at Elani and I 0:03:51.680 --> 0:03:53.120 went to coffee today and I think it's just not 0:03:53.160 --> 0:03:59.400 doing it for me. Not enough caffeine. You gotta go 0:03:59.440 --> 0:04:01.240 back to the law a look. 0:04:01.480 --> 0:04:03.560 If it's a kaffee and not the episode, then I'll 0:04:03.600 --> 0:04:03.840 take it. 0:04:04.720 --> 0:04:05.920 Well, we'll see. Let's just keep going. 0:04:05.960 --> 0:04:09.280 Okay, we'll see, we'll see, we'll see. Okay, So in 0:04:09.400 --> 0:04:14.240 this episode, we are learning from the girls. Okay. So 0:04:14.960 --> 0:04:19.719 there was a scene that took place between Gina, Heather, 0:04:20.000 --> 0:04:26.160 and Carmela, and in this conversation, they are questioning Jen's 0:04:26.200 --> 0:04:29.440 ability to work with Carmela on this real estate venture 0:04:30.240 --> 0:04:33.320 and they sort of did like a round robin of 0:04:33.480 --> 0:04:37.880 confessional bias from Tamera to Gina. Pretty much feeling like 0:04:39.200 --> 0:04:53.000 Jin isn't prepared nor experienced enough to handle the job 0:04:53.880 --> 0:04:57.760 right that Carmela is going to offer her, and they 0:04:57.880 --> 0:05:01.120 feel like she's skipping a few steps when it comes 0:05:01.200 --> 0:05:05.680 to this. Are they warranted to feel this way or 0:05:06.000 --> 0:05:10.960 do you think, like, look, let's see what Jen does first, 0:05:11.120 --> 0:05:15.000 because who knows what she can do? And unless I 0:05:15.120 --> 0:05:20.880 miss something, Alexis, I don't think Carmela is asking Jen 0:05:21.720 --> 0:05:24.640 to like help her sell a house, Like did I 0:05:24.720 --> 0:05:26.960 miss something in this conversation Over the course of the 0:05:27.080 --> 0:05:28.760 five six episodes. 0:05:29.320 --> 0:05:32.200 No, and I'm so with you. I feel like it's 0:05:32.320 --> 0:05:34.960 not a big deal. And Jen follows her on a project, 0:05:35.360 --> 0:05:39.400 learns the ways it works, makes twenty grand, and then 0:05:39.480 --> 0:05:41.200 decides that this is something she wants to do or not. 0:05:41.320 --> 0:05:45.160 It's not like she's not offering her come apprentice, Like 0:05:47.760 --> 0:05:50.000 why am I having a blank? Not Jen? Carmela is 0:05:50.040 --> 0:05:53.120 not offering Jen the like, come be my apprentice and 0:05:53.120 --> 0:05:55.720 then I'll give you your diploma. It's like, it's not 0:05:55.880 --> 0:05:57.200 like that. It's like, how do you know if you 0:05:57.279 --> 0:05:59.600 want to be a fashion designer unless you've seen a 0:05:59.680 --> 0:06:02.440 runway show or been in a Gucci store or what 0:06:02.520 --> 0:06:04.480 you know what I mean. So it's like, how will 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:06.760 Jin know unless she follows the way the trade works 0:06:06.800 --> 0:06:08.040 to find it? To go find out. 0:06:08.120 --> 0:06:10.840 So it didn't bother me that I just don't take 0:06:10.839 --> 0:06:12.040 it as serious as these girls do. 0:06:12.120 --> 0:06:14.840 It's like, who cares? Are they bummed that they didn't 0:06:14.839 --> 0:06:17.160 get invited for the twenty grand because I am you 0:06:17.240 --> 0:06:18.320 and I said, we do it for five. 0:06:21.800 --> 0:06:24.320 Listen, Pamela, we're cheat over here. 0:06:24.760 --> 0:06:28.560 You don't just count. It's another just count Friday, Carmela, 0:06:30.680 --> 0:06:34.000 we will do it Perford scoop us up because next 0:06:34.080 --> 0:06:35.160 Friday we might say ten. 0:06:36.160 --> 0:06:41.920 Listen, yesterday's price is not today's price. I agree with you, Alexis. 0:06:42.040 --> 0:06:45.680 I don't understand the big issue with this, and again 0:06:45.880 --> 0:06:49.120 last week even said too like are the girls just 0:06:49.200 --> 0:06:51.600 picking us something to have something to talk about? And 0:06:52.200 --> 0:06:54.840 the reason why I do feel like this one thing, 0:06:55.839 --> 0:06:59.520 well one of two, because we'll get to this strange 0:07:00.200 --> 0:07:03.280 beef between Emily and Gina that isn't tracking for me, 0:07:03.960 --> 0:07:07.719 but we'll say that in a second. I am surprised 0:07:08.040 --> 0:07:13.640 that this Jin working with Carmela has become a storyline 0:07:14.680 --> 0:07:21.160 because it's known on the Housewives franchises that people work together. 0:07:21.400 --> 0:07:25.120 The housewives work together. You know, back in my days 0:07:25.200 --> 0:07:28.840 of Atlanta Housewives, you had Candy write a song for 0:07:28.920 --> 0:07:31.440 Kim Zosiak don't be tardy. Like it's a thing that 0:07:31.640 --> 0:07:36.360 happens right. She buys Chara, Chara Whitfield. We have Dwight 0:07:36.560 --> 0:07:39.120 u Banks work with her like it's sort of like 0:07:39.200 --> 0:07:41.640 a thing to where you really get a chance to 0:07:41.680 --> 0:07:45.000 see the commonality between these women. And I think what 0:07:45.160 --> 0:07:49.320 Carmela is doing, based on Jin's own admission of having 0:07:49.400 --> 0:07:53.440 financial troubles, I think it's a great thing, and I think, 0:07:53.760 --> 0:07:57.000 like there's nothing to be mad about. I just I 0:07:57.240 --> 0:07:57.960 just not buying it. 0:07:59.040 --> 0:08:01.600 Gina just start at her real estate while she's been 0:08:01.640 --> 0:08:03.760 on the show. She wasn't a real estate agent before 0:08:04.280 --> 0:08:06.800 on her first season. So what's wrong with Jen following 0:08:06.880 --> 0:08:09.640 Carmela around and then finding out, Oh I really do 0:08:09.800 --> 0:08:13.200 love this going and getting her license and starting I mean, 0:08:13.240 --> 0:08:14.200 that's the way I look at it. 0:08:15.520 --> 0:08:18.320 Alexis dances part of the show, just. 0:08:18.360 --> 0:08:20.480 Like Gina did. So why is everybody judging Jen when 0:08:20.520 --> 0:08:22.200 no one judged Gina for going out and getting a 0:08:22.240 --> 0:08:23.120 real estate license. 0:08:24.080 --> 0:08:28.040 Eureka and the word of Coprah Winfrey. I'm having a 0:08:28.120 --> 0:08:28.920 light bulb moment. 0:08:32.400 --> 0:08:34.000 I guess my coffee is hitting after all. 0:08:34.360 --> 0:08:36.920 Any So listen, all those are being like, I'm having 0:08:36.960 --> 0:08:41.000 a light bulb moment. Okay, it just dawned on me. 0:08:41.240 --> 0:08:47.880 I now get it. Gina is jealous because she had 0:08:47.960 --> 0:08:51.040 to go the long way in order to get her 0:08:51.120 --> 0:08:53.520 real estate license, which is that there's nothing wrong with it, 0:08:53.960 --> 0:08:57.400 but she definitely had to, Like, you know, listen, she 0:08:57.559 --> 0:09:01.680 got divorced on the show. First of all, her husband 0:09:01.760 --> 0:09:04.439 never appeared on the show her first season. Now, sure 0:09:04.800 --> 0:09:08.240 if you remember this, Alexis, you know the storyline her 0:09:08.320 --> 0:09:11.240 first season eight years ago was he was out of 0:09:11.320 --> 0:09:14.679 town and she was in the OC and he was 0:09:14.760 --> 0:09:17.760 working in Los Angeles, so we never saw her husband 0:09:17.800 --> 0:09:21.280 at the time. She got a divorce, she went through 0:09:21.400 --> 0:09:24.199 her sobriety, which I'm so proud of her about, and 0:09:24.320 --> 0:09:26.800 then she decided to take mathters into her own hands 0:09:26.840 --> 0:09:28.959 and get her real estate license. And she's really a 0:09:29.040 --> 0:09:32.079 good real estate agent. But to your point, no one 0:09:32.280 --> 0:09:36.000 tried to help her. And now that you have Carmela, 0:09:36.679 --> 0:09:41.120 who is really good at this, giving Jin the opportunity, 0:09:41.760 --> 0:09:46.520 Now it makes sense why Gina said Jen is missing 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:49.720 a couple of steps because she doesn't have to take 0:09:49.760 --> 0:09:54.120 the staircase to get where Gina's at. She's taken the 0:09:54.200 --> 0:09:56.920 elevator and now thanks to you. 0:09:57.240 --> 0:09:59.760 I get it, but I think you're a little bit 0:09:59.760 --> 0:10:01.760 wrong on a little bit, and just hear me out. 0:10:01.920 --> 0:10:03.200 Hear me out, because. 0:10:03.520 --> 0:10:06.600 Jen's not going just because she's getting a first twenty 0:10:06.640 --> 0:10:09.719 thousand dollars gig offer doesn't mean that Jen gets to 0:10:09.720 --> 0:10:12.559 skip all those other steps. Everybody has to do everything 0:10:12.679 --> 0:10:15.560 Gina did, so she's not really getting like a she's 0:10:15.600 --> 0:10:17.760 not getting an elevator ride, per se. She's getting a 0:10:17.840 --> 0:10:20.320 really nice perk at front, like she's getting a glass 0:10:20.360 --> 0:10:23.880 of you know, don perry on before she starts her 0:10:23.960 --> 0:10:25.040 real estate licensing. 0:10:25.120 --> 0:10:26.440 I don't know, She's still gonna have to do all 0:10:26.440 --> 0:10:26.960 those steps. 0:10:27.840 --> 0:10:30.240 So I just think out her being upset that like 0:10:30.679 --> 0:10:33.760 she got offered a twenty thousand dollars you know apprentice 0:10:34.080 --> 0:10:37.800 kind of moment, and other people haven't you know. 0:10:39.120 --> 0:10:41.920 No, I agree with you. The thing is this, I'm 0:10:42.000 --> 0:10:45.040 not saying that that's how I perceive it. I'm saying 0:10:45.120 --> 0:10:48.680 that's how Gina is perceiving it. Clearly, to me, Gina 0:10:48.800 --> 0:10:52.319 thinks that I'm with you. I think what Carmela is 0:10:52.400 --> 0:10:56.360 doing is I'm helping a woman find herself and not 0:10:56.559 --> 0:11:00.920 to be so reliant on her parents Ryan to help 0:11:00.960 --> 0:11:04.200 her out, to really say, look, look, see if there's 0:11:04.240 --> 0:11:07.920 something you can do. The bonus is you're not wasting 0:11:07.960 --> 0:11:10.360 your time. I'm gonna give you some money upwards of 0:11:10.440 --> 0:11:13.800 twenty thousand dollars and then let's see what happens. But 0:11:13.960 --> 0:11:17.920 I now get Gina's POV in terms of why, possibly, 0:11:18.520 --> 0:11:22.839 possibly there could be some jealousy there based on how 0:11:23.600 --> 0:11:27.960 Gina had to go in her mind the staircase way 0:11:28.280 --> 0:11:32.080 and in her mind Gena's getting the elevator. 0:11:32.559 --> 0:11:34.679 Well, we did a lot of fact finding just now, 0:11:34.720 --> 0:11:35.840 did ant, Carlos. 0:11:35.920 --> 0:11:40.720 There we go, there we go. Okay, this is reality 0:11:40.800 --> 0:11:43.800 with the King, and I'm Carlos King. Let's get back 0:11:44.040 --> 0:11:48.280 into the show. Speaking of Gina, there seems to be 0:11:48.440 --> 0:11:54.160 trouble in BFF Paradise between her and Emily. They have 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:57.520 been best friends for eight years. Gina says she does 0:11:57.600 --> 0:12:01.440 feel that Emily has a history, you know, getting into 0:12:01.559 --> 0:12:05.439 with people, and she doesn't think that Emily sees the 0:12:05.679 --> 0:12:10.080 error of her ways, but also feels afraid of having 0:12:10.120 --> 0:12:12.480 the conversation with her because she doesn't know where it's 0:12:12.520 --> 0:12:15.800 going to go. When it comes to their friendship, look, 0:12:17.000 --> 0:12:21.839 I believe wholeheartedly they are best friends. I don't think 0:12:21.840 --> 0:12:25.240 there's an alliance there. I think if I think if 0:12:25.280 --> 0:12:29.080 they ever God forbid for them, right, I think if 0:12:29.120 --> 0:12:31.719 they ever got removed from the show, I do think 0:12:31.760 --> 0:12:34.800 they'll still be friends. I don't think their friendship is 0:12:34.840 --> 0:12:38.199 predicated off of holding an orange. I think they really 0:12:38.240 --> 0:12:40.679 do love each other, and you definitely do. 0:12:41.280 --> 0:12:43.360 You do feel that there are friendships that are only 0:12:43.640 --> 0:12:45.800 predicated by being on the show, though, like you do 0:12:45.960 --> 0:12:47.960 think there are people that have the alliance or work 0:12:48.040 --> 0:12:50.160 on the show. You just really believe theirs is true. 0:12:50.720 --> 0:12:53.319 I think Heave of the Bro works with alliances. I 0:12:53.400 --> 0:12:56.480 think heav of the Bro has coworkers. I think Heave 0:12:56.480 --> 0:12:59.920 of the Bro's real friends are on the show now, 0:13:00.280 --> 0:13:05.800 not not for a second. I think, no Shade. I 0:13:05.880 --> 0:13:09.319 think Tamra is on a show where she looks around 0:13:09.400 --> 0:13:12.560 and she does have a real friend. I even will 0:13:12.600 --> 0:13:16.360 go and say the only friendships I think are super 0:13:16.559 --> 0:13:26.000 genuine is Vicky and Shannon's friendship and Gina and Emily's friendship. 0:13:26.120 --> 0:13:28.520 I think those are the two sets of friends that 0:13:28.720 --> 0:13:31.679 if the show ever went away, they will still hang out, 0:13:31.760 --> 0:13:34.880 keeping keeping contact with each other and go to the 0:13:34.960 --> 0:13:35.520 quiet woman. 0:13:36.000 --> 0:13:39.120 But see I I add, I add Vicky and Tamra 0:13:39.200 --> 0:13:39.640 to that too. 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:43.520 I think they You don't I saw I saw off 0:13:43.559 --> 0:13:45.319 of a Girl's Trip episode one. Did you see it? 0:13:46.120 --> 0:13:46.360 Yes? 0:13:46.880 --> 0:13:48.360 How could I not see it? By the way, don't 0:13:48.400 --> 0:13:49.559 we want to talk about something on that? 0:13:50.080 --> 0:13:53.319 Oh? Yes, by the way, thanks Sistuf. By the by 0:13:53.440 --> 0:13:58.880 the way, what a great segue. So look, you and 0:13:58.960 --> 0:14:00.840 I both watch All the Girls Trip? 0:14:01.400 --> 0:14:03.040 Yes, and we said to make sure we watched it 0:14:03.040 --> 0:14:05.480 because we might want to talk about something on our 0:14:05.520 --> 0:14:08.440 pot for this. So yes, because they relate. 0:14:09.280 --> 0:14:11.559 Okay, so why do we where do we want to 0:14:11.600 --> 0:14:12.439 pick a part on this? 0:14:12.520 --> 0:14:17.920 South? This goes perfectly because here we are on Ultimate 0:14:17.960 --> 0:14:23.440 Girls Trip episode one. Giselle Bryant one of the greatest 0:14:23.480 --> 0:14:28.120 housewives of all time, my top ten. She told Tamra 0:14:28.680 --> 0:14:33.400 what Vicky said about her her back. Vicky said it. 0:14:33.640 --> 0:14:37.360 They called the audio of it. I believe VICKI wasn't 0:14:37.400 --> 0:14:44.720 the way she's being filmed, Giselle tells Tamara. Tamara confronts 0:14:44.800 --> 0:14:49.240 Vicky about it. Vicky says, look, I do feel that way. 0:14:49.840 --> 0:14:53.440 I do feel like Giselle is stirring the pot. I 0:14:53.560 --> 0:14:55.280 don't trust her. I want her out of my life, 0:14:55.760 --> 0:14:57.560 but I do feel that way. I do feel like 0:14:57.640 --> 0:15:01.880 you was me Da Shannon. Then Vicki, with her own podcast, 0:15:02.560 --> 0:15:05.760 doubled down on it, saying that I don't like how 0:15:06.000 --> 0:15:11.080 Tamra talks to Shannon. I don't like it. So then 0:15:13.640 --> 0:15:18.680 Tamar responds, Okay, and I'm going to read to you 0:15:19.240 --> 0:15:25.600 the comment that Timer made to that video, and she says, 0:15:26.680 --> 0:15:36.440 right here, worry about your own mean behavior hashtag mom shamer. 0:15:37.440 --> 0:15:41.440 And yes, I do have a good life because I'm 0:15:41.480 --> 0:15:46.400 in control of me myself, and I I don't blame 0:15:46.520 --> 0:15:51.120 others for my misfortune. And that was what I was 0:15:51.280 --> 0:15:55.520 trying to explain. Insert eye roll emoji. 0:15:58.400 --> 0:15:59.640 Okay, So am I going first? 0:15:59.760 --> 0:16:04.280 Or do you go first? Girl? These are your friends? Well? 0:16:04.640 --> 0:16:06.240 I do, and I do love Vicky, everyone knows that, 0:16:06.280 --> 0:16:07.040 and I do love Tamara. 0:16:08.080 --> 0:16:10.000 But here's the thing, Okay, the only thing. 0:16:10.200 --> 0:16:12.240 It's very objective, and like I said, you just got 0:16:12.360 --> 0:16:12.800 to be honest. 0:16:13.960 --> 0:16:17.320 Vicky has been throwing so much dark shade at Carmela 0:16:17.520 --> 0:16:22.240 Deville this season and cracking on her career and cracking 0:16:22.320 --> 0:16:24.880 on her integrity, all of us on the show. So 0:16:25.000 --> 0:16:28.160 how is that any different Whatchamra did to Shannon than 0:16:28.200 --> 0:16:30.440 what Vicky's doing to Carmela. That was my first ding 0:16:30.560 --> 0:16:33.320 dong that went on be you know, light bulb. Second, 0:16:33.560 --> 0:16:36.320 it was like every single one of those girls. If 0:16:36.360 --> 0:16:39.360 you rewind every episode there, you will catch a time 0:16:39.400 --> 0:16:41.720 when they're all being shady and kind of a little 0:16:41.760 --> 0:16:44.680 honrie to other cast members. So I don't know. I 0:16:44.840 --> 0:16:47.880 just think Vicky's really sticking up for Shannon because it 0:16:48.000 --> 0:16:50.960 seems like that's I mean, that's the viewers. The viewers 0:16:50.960 --> 0:16:53.000 feel sorry for Shannon. The viewers want people to feel 0:16:53.040 --> 0:16:54.600 sorry for her. So I don't know, because I don't 0:16:54.600 --> 0:16:57.480 think Vicky would care if tamer had said that about 0:16:58.280 --> 0:17:02.440 anyone else me, you know, I don't know. I just 0:17:03.760 --> 0:17:05.000 I don't get the whole beef with that. 0:17:07.240 --> 0:17:10.359 I think it's what you said, Listen, I am not 0:17:11.200 --> 0:17:17.240 denouncing the legacy that Tamar and Vickie have being on 0:17:17.359 --> 0:17:20.640 the show together since Tamra debut season. 0:17:20.400 --> 0:17:24.960 Three, right, so seventeen years. 0:17:25.200 --> 0:17:31.680 Seventeen years ago, So I'm not denying their legacy. Based 0:17:31.720 --> 0:17:33.960 on what I've been seeing this season, and based on 0:17:34.080 --> 0:17:36.640 what I saw on the first episode of Automan Girls Trip, 0:17:37.080 --> 0:17:40.760 I do not believe that Vicky looks at Tamra in 0:17:40.880 --> 0:17:44.440 the same light she looks at Shannon. She doesn't. I 0:17:44.720 --> 0:17:51.720 think I think Tamar is somebody that Vicky and Shannon 0:17:52.240 --> 0:17:55.840 both feel like, maybe just not the type of friend 0:17:55.880 --> 0:17:58.000 they wanted their lives, who calls things out the way 0:17:58.080 --> 0:18:01.840 she sees it. I think Vicky and Shannon's friendship is 0:18:01.960 --> 0:18:06.639 based on they both they both leading each other in 0:18:06.720 --> 0:18:09.960 a way where they aren't in my opinion, and I'm 0:18:10.000 --> 0:18:12.440 only basing this off the show where they may not 0:18:12.600 --> 0:18:17.000 call each other out. I have never ever, ever, ever, 0:18:17.320 --> 0:18:20.200 ever seen Bicky call al Shannon. Shannon is not innocent 0:18:20.840 --> 0:18:21.760 and I've never seen her go. 0:18:22.000 --> 0:18:24.399 That's what I'm saying. But Vicky is not innocent either, because, 0:18:24.560 --> 0:18:27.320 like I said, she's showing she's not innocent from this 0:18:27.400 --> 0:18:29.520 by how she's treating Carmela this season. So that's what 0:18:29.640 --> 0:18:31.720 I'm I was just kind of like, it's pot calling 0:18:31.760 --> 0:18:34.639 kettle black because all of them have done the shade, 0:18:34.720 --> 0:18:38.440 thrown the shade, and maybe you're right, maybe Tamara. It 0:18:38.560 --> 0:18:41.800 does scare Vicky and Shannon is a little bit because 0:18:41.840 --> 0:18:47.280 Tamra does you know, I guess some people can say 0:18:47.400 --> 0:18:47.919 things in a. 0:18:47.960 --> 0:18:50.680 Kinder voice or in a lighter way. The tamer just 0:18:51.040 --> 0:18:53.000 or she just says a pit point. 0:18:52.800 --> 0:18:55.040 Blank and it's the same thing someone else might have said, 0:18:55.080 --> 0:18:57.399 but the way she says it is much more direct 0:18:57.520 --> 0:19:00.560 or just forceful. And I'm maybe that's what they're scared of. 0:19:02.240 --> 0:19:04.359 No, that's what it was. That's what it was, and 0:19:04.440 --> 0:19:07.159 that's why when it comes to Gina and Emily, I 0:19:07.240 --> 0:19:10.000 do think their friendship is real. I think this BS 0:19:10.240 --> 0:19:13.399 about Oh you are talking over me while I was 0:19:13.440 --> 0:19:16.040 trying to explain myself. I think it's BS. I think 0:19:16.040 --> 0:19:17.920 it's for the show. I don't think it has any 0:19:18.000 --> 0:19:24.000 meat to it. And that's that. When it goes to Carmela, 0:19:24.600 --> 0:19:31.760 first of all, thank the Lord Jesus for Carmela this season. 0:19:33.119 --> 0:19:35.000 I know where it's going right now, and I knew 0:19:35.000 --> 0:19:38.000 you were going to be like, I know exactly where 0:19:38.000 --> 0:19:40.280 you're going and what you're gonna say, and I probably 0:19:40.320 --> 0:19:41.400 agree on this one. 0:19:42.200 --> 0:19:46.960 Go ahead, I am going to say this and I'm 0:19:47.000 --> 0:19:49.480 not going to take it back. Thank God for Carmela 0:19:49.560 --> 0:19:53.359 this season. Carmela to me is the reason to watch 0:19:53.520 --> 0:19:59.560 season twenty. She the level of personal story she's providing. 0:20:00.080 --> 0:20:03.640 So she's at home with Danny, her boyfriend. We learn 0:20:04.320 --> 0:20:07.280 in this scene that she has this rare case of 0:20:07.320 --> 0:20:12.680 diabetes where her glue close level was really high. When 0:20:12.720 --> 0:20:14.760 she found out when she was getting breast and plants, 0:20:14.800 --> 0:20:17.639 they did blood work and all those things, and she 0:20:17.800 --> 0:20:20.360 has to prepare herself when she even wants to walk 0:20:20.440 --> 0:20:23.240 or run because of what happens to her. Like that 0:20:23.440 --> 0:20:27.720 level of honesty. And then in this scene Alexis, she 0:20:28.240 --> 0:20:32.560 is so candid about the fact that her boyfriend Danny 0:20:33.119 --> 0:20:37.200 cheated on her four years ago, but she's not over it, 0:20:38.320 --> 0:20:43.399 and she said, Alexis, she's never getting over it, but 0:20:43.680 --> 0:20:45.480 hopefully she might get through it. 0:20:47.160 --> 0:20:51.600 Yeah. I literally that is so relatable though, because I 0:20:51.760 --> 0:20:54.760 haven't been cheated on, but like I put myself in 0:20:54.840 --> 0:20:58.159 that shoe, like what if you know, John did, or 0:20:58.160 --> 0:21:00.400 what if one of my other, you know, serious boyfriend's 0:21:00.400 --> 0:21:05.240 had It's like I always have said that I respect 0:21:05.280 --> 0:21:07.560 the families that still stay together, the husbands and wives 0:21:07.600 --> 0:21:09.600 or boyfriends and girlfriends that make it through it. But 0:21:09.680 --> 0:21:11.520 I always said, I don't know how I would be. 0:21:11.600 --> 0:21:13.760 I mean, when you have children, it's another thing. You 0:21:13.840 --> 0:21:15.920 don't want to just like disrupt the whole. Like I 0:21:16.240 --> 0:21:18.040 listened to Ryan's roses all the time. And so then 0:21:18.080 --> 0:21:20.119 it's the moms that are like that know their husband's 0:21:20.160 --> 0:21:21.880 cheating and they're like, but we have three kids together, 0:21:21.960 --> 0:21:24.000 I can't just leave him, you know, And I'm like, yeah, 0:21:24.200 --> 0:21:25.840 that's kind of hard. You know, you got to see 0:21:25.880 --> 0:21:28.080 if you can work through it. Carmela was so honest 0:21:28.119 --> 0:21:29.960 about it, and it's like, I think if she just 0:21:30.000 --> 0:21:31.560 gotten a little bit of therapy, and maybe she is, 0:21:31.600 --> 0:21:33.600 because we you know, she's very honest. She would say 0:21:33.600 --> 0:21:35.879 if she was or not, but maybe they needed to 0:21:35.920 --> 0:21:38.160 get in this couple's counseling and figure out a way 0:21:38.640 --> 0:21:39.159 to get past it. 0:21:39.200 --> 0:21:40.879 And I guess her her most. 0:21:41.600 --> 0:21:44.720 Vulnerable thing that she said was the fact that she's like, yeah, 0:21:44.800 --> 0:21:46.080 I'm not going to get over it, but I love 0:21:46.160 --> 0:21:47.560 him and I want to make it work. 0:21:48.000 --> 0:21:49.920 Those all can be true at the same time. That's 0:21:50.080 --> 0:21:52.879 very true. It's just how do you move past that. 0:21:53.240 --> 0:21:56.680 How do you stop thinking about the fact that someone 0:21:56.720 --> 0:21:59.000 else was stealing his heart at the same time. 0:21:59.000 --> 0:22:03.679 You are no. No, Listen, my experience working on various 0:22:03.720 --> 0:22:07.000 reality shows. You know what what I have learned? 0:22:07.760 --> 0:22:09.280 Well, have you on first off? 0:22:10.200 --> 0:22:11.360 Yeah? Yeah? 0:22:11.960 --> 0:22:13.960 And would you be able to get past it and stay? 0:22:14.040 --> 0:22:16.879 What is different? Listen? And when I say this, I 0:22:17.320 --> 0:22:21.000 am only speaking from my live experience, right, I am 0:22:21.119 --> 0:22:26.200 not a woman. I don't have kids, you know I 0:22:26.760 --> 0:22:32.320 so I think when you are a wife with children, 0:22:33.240 --> 0:22:35.359 I don't. I can't even I can't even imagine what 0:22:35.400 --> 0:22:38.320 that feels like. I'm assuming it's the most one of 0:22:38.359 --> 0:22:42.920 the most devastated things to experience. Right. So my experience, Look, 0:22:43.000 --> 0:22:44.600 I was in my twenties, you know what I mean, 0:22:44.640 --> 0:22:46.600 Like it was, it was, it was different, Like it was. 0:22:47.440 --> 0:22:50.239 My situation with that was totally different. I forgave when 0:22:50.280 --> 0:22:50.760 we moved on. 0:22:51.040 --> 0:22:52.840 Like oh yeah, oh yeah, yeah, we've talked about this 0:22:52.960 --> 0:22:53.760 on another we have. 0:22:53.960 --> 0:22:56.600 Yeah. But so my thing is different, got it? Well, 0:22:56.720 --> 0:22:58.440 I have learned, and that's why I have to say 0:22:58.520 --> 0:23:03.439 I've learned watching married couples deal with house on various 0:23:03.440 --> 0:23:09.560 shows I produced. And one thing I have learned, and 0:23:09.680 --> 0:23:13.000 this may not sound good, but it's the truth. 0:23:13.760 --> 0:23:14.000 Say it. 0:23:14.920 --> 0:23:17.840 If you are unable to forgive your partner for cheating. 0:23:17.920 --> 0:23:19.439 You need to leave the relationship. 0:23:20.760 --> 0:23:24.680 You have to though she's not ready, you know, I know, 0:23:25.440 --> 0:23:25.720 I know. 0:23:25.960 --> 0:23:27.720 But the thing is this, and I'm gonna say this, 0:23:27.920 --> 0:23:30.040