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<v Speaker 1>and tell us about it. Happy Monday, everybody. Welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>horrible decisions. My name is Easy. What a dude? What

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<v Speaker 1>a dude puts the home? Did your girl? Mandy? I

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<v Speaker 1>actually wanted to start this episode off a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>different and I hope you guys like it. And for

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<v Speaker 1>those of you that don't, fuck you, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of us need some loving light. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how long ago though a Nipsey funeral would have

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<v Speaker 1>been from when you listen to this, but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people on the internet just seemed to

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<v Speaker 1>be more unified, and I feel like there's a chance

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<v Speaker 1>that we could have all forgotten about that now. But

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<v Speaker 1>the biggest takeaway from Nipsey's funeral I think that made me,

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<v Speaker 1>uh curious, is what will people say when I'm gone?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we all are wondering what effect we will

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<v Speaker 1>have on people when we're gone. And you may not

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<v Speaker 1>need to hear this, but if you do, there are

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<v Speaker 1>many and I just want to set like some reminders

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<v Speaker 1>for you guys to keep your spirit and your energy

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<v Speaker 1>clear so that you can have that effect on people

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<v Speaker 1>when you are gone. A one I think all of

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<v Speaker 1>us should be kind. We can talk that talk, but

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<v Speaker 1>you really have to walk the walk. It's so easy

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<v Speaker 1>to say that you know we're being good or we're

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<v Speaker 1>doing good, but doing something kind for someone you know

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<v Speaker 1>is great. Doing something kind for someone that you don't

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<v Speaker 1>know is even greater. Making sure you extend yourself, whether

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<v Speaker 1>it be small fucking things like a dollar out of

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<v Speaker 1>your pocket or giving food away when you leave a restaurant,

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<v Speaker 1>just being kind to other people that you don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a great way to just spread that energy and

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<v Speaker 1>get it back in your life. The second one I

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<v Speaker 1>have is to make amends, apologize, and I think forgive.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it just makes no sense to watch people

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<v Speaker 1>die and know that there might be something left unsaid

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<v Speaker 1>or something you wish you could have fixed. So it

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<v Speaker 1>takes a lot to humble ourselves and realize when we're wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, take those mistakes as growth and feel

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<v Speaker 1>good about them. And it takes a lot of forgive.

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<v Speaker 1>But when you do it, mean it. If you know

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<v Speaker 1>you and your boyfriend are fighting, or you and your

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<v Speaker 1>friend are fighting, or you and a family member, like

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<v Speaker 1>when you say you forgive them and you're over it,

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<v Speaker 1>let that ship go. Because it's really small. And the

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<v Speaker 1>last thing that I want to say that's really good

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<v Speaker 1>to clean and renew your spirit is staging, showering. Whatever

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<v Speaker 1>your ritual is, My ritual for cleansing my soul is

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<v Speaker 1>a gratitude journal, just putting some things down that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>grateful for, um, even when it's very hard to find

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<v Speaker 1>gratefulness in those you know like that. I remember the

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<v Speaker 1>day specifically after our therapy episode or day before the

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<v Speaker 1>therapy episode, I was so angry, UM, and I had

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<v Speaker 1>to write something down that I was grateful for in

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<v Speaker 1>Mandy or in our podcast, just to make sure that

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<v Speaker 1>I can cleanse myself from that bullshit. And and sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>we all have to do that. It's hard to find

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<v Speaker 1>something we're grateful for. But you know, even if you

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<v Speaker 1>have to say it out loud right now, make sure

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<v Speaker 1>you do that these kinds of things, these small things

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<v Speaker 1>will really help you just be a better person, get

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<v Speaker 1>that energy in the room to your friends or whoever.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that we can all then be someone

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<v Speaker 1>like a Nipsey Hu Hustle if we live ourselves, live

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<v Speaker 1>our life that way. Yeah. Something that UM Lauren London

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<v Speaker 1>did when she actually UM read the text message that

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<v Speaker 1>she sent to him while he was sleeping. Um, that

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<v Speaker 1>touched me deally. But it's when I saw that it

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<v Speaker 1>was funny because that's something that I actually do UM

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<v Speaker 1>with my friends. Um, I say it all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>I just love the people who are in my life currently. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I've had some pretty sour friendships in the past and

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<v Speaker 1>not really like I feel like everyone, Like I'm still

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<v Speaker 1>friends with so many people. UM, but there there are

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<v Speaker 1>times like It'll literally be like a Wednesday afternoon and

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be at work and I'll just text someone like

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<v Speaker 1>you really make me happy and I'm so glad to

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<v Speaker 1>have you in my life. Thank you. And my friends, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my friends. And then I call him a pussy ass

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<v Speaker 1>whole after just so they don't think, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>got soft on the asses. I mean, yeah, I definitely

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<v Speaker 1>do that with my friends from time to time. I

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<v Speaker 1>appreciated hearing I love you and like giving hugs, Like

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<v Speaker 1>hugging people is such a big deal. Like I love

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<v Speaker 1>to hug people when I first meet them, Like it's crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>when are we going to venues? And like we need

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<v Speaker 1>a house manager or someone helping us. Like I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like hugging gives a different connection, and like, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to always make sure that people feel that for me,

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<v Speaker 1>and especially when you mean it. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>So like someone who is a friend saying I love

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<v Speaker 1>you or telling them why you appreciate them. It's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Hugs to me don't. I don't know. They don't hold

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<v Speaker 1>much weight with me. So, but that's because like when

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<v Speaker 1>me and my sister used to argue growing up, my

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<v Speaker 1>mom used to be like, okay, now, hug it out,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'd be lying, all right, like it's some bullshit.

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<v Speaker 1>Eight seconds is awkward, but actually it's funny that therapist

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<v Speaker 1>made us hug. Yeah, and I like I hugs to

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<v Speaker 1>me was what you cried after the hook, during the hook,

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<v Speaker 1>so maybe you did feel something. Hugs can yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>telling you now, I don't really like hooks. That's just

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<v Speaker 1>me though. I'm not a hug person, but that's just

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<v Speaker 1>from growing up. That's Hugs to me just aren't. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I like words of affirmation, um, and I

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<v Speaker 1>like I like people to have actions. Um. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know that that's just I don't know. Hugs to me,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I think all of those things are good,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just think hugs is a forgotten form of

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<v Speaker 1>UM showing that you you care. Yeah, I guess I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to start um with a quick catchup. Um, do

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<v Speaker 1>you are you got anything that you've done this past

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<v Speaker 1>week or anything that was fun or no? Actually, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like working on spring cleaning because I've been watching Marie Condo.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you watched it yet on Netflix? Tidying up? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I have. First of all, she doesn't even speak English.

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<v Speaker 1>The whole ship is like subtitles. She's Japanese and she

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<v Speaker 1>she helps people like clean their fucking house. But I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it's dope. She has this black family and they

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<v Speaker 1>sold it and are you getting like are there certain

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<v Speaker 1>things that you're just getting rid of? And why? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so she lives on some super minimal is ship. And

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<v Speaker 1>I've also been watching or reading something talking about how

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<v Speaker 1>a hundred items is a hundred fifty items is all

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<v Speaker 1>we need? Now I can't live up date, but I

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<v Speaker 1>counted literally how many how many pieces of makeup I

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<v Speaker 1>threw out? And it was seventies six and the bin

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<v Speaker 1>was still fake up. Okay, that's so clearing out the

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<v Speaker 1>bathroom and then clothes was really hard, right, So some

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<v Speaker 1>of the clothes I threw up on Posh Mark and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, you know what, I'm gonna donate some

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<v Speaker 1>of this money and do something good with it. Why not,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not, you know, working nine to five, I should

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<v Speaker 1>do this. But it was really hard, like giving up

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<v Speaker 1>ship that I've had good memories and like thought dresses.

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<v Speaker 1>Marie Condo said, when you release something, you think it

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<v Speaker 1>for the good time that you had, and you let

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<v Speaker 1>it go. And I've legit looked at this literary ass

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<v Speaker 1>dress and I said, I haven't warned you in two years, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>we've gotten fucked in this dress together. Yeah, that's but

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<v Speaker 1>how many things do you have that like you don't

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<v Speaker 1>fit any more? It's well, I've I wouldn't call it

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<v Speaker 1>spring cleaning, but yeah, I've thrown so many not thrown away. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a clothes bend right outside my house. So I've

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<v Speaker 1>gotten I've donated pretty much all my big girl clothes. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>And then a lot of my friends who are bigger

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<v Speaker 1>than me now they all be like, oh, bitch, I

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<v Speaker 1>know you can't fit that, go ahead and throw that

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<v Speaker 1>ship over here. So um, yeah, I've gotten rid of

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of clothes. But I filed. Now. Unfortunately, my

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<v Speaker 1>shopping habit has increased with the weight loss because I

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<v Speaker 1>now am able to just go in and different stuff

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<v Speaker 1>things that I could never like fucking before, like boyfriend jeans,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm back to like the crop tops and things

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<v Speaker 1>without stretch, and like there's like these white linen pants,

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<v Speaker 1>like the idea of linen pants. My thighs were not

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<v Speaker 1>fitting in linen pants before. So there's so many things

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<v Speaker 1>that you can wear. All these things I can wear

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<v Speaker 1>that until you said you said this last year, but

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<v Speaker 1>you were like talking about boots and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>Damne boots, bitch, I got the hot boots in my closet. Lee.

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<v Speaker 1>So like all so, I feel like I've been like

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<v Speaker 1>in a in a shopping crazy lately. I haven't really

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<v Speaker 1>been that like crazy. I've been like, UM, and I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like we get to dress up. I don't really

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<v Speaker 1>go out, so I think it's fun to do that. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>The makeup has been fun on the twit I just had.

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<v Speaker 1>It's funny because one of the one of the episodes

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<v Speaker 1>we we recorded, we talked about memories, UM, and we

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<v Speaker 1>talked brought about uh sex memories. But this past weekend,

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<v Speaker 1>I had probably the time of a life. Um. I

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<v Speaker 1>went to dream Ville Fest and for anyone who knows,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all know, I'm a Duke fan, but I'm also uh

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<v Speaker 1>die Hard J Cole fan, dream Ville, j I D

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<v Speaker 1>Earth Game, blah blah, black did. Everybody was in there,

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<v Speaker 1>so yeah, let me let me, Let let me tell

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<v Speaker 1>the story so real quick. I don't want you all

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<v Speaker 1>to get excited because it's not gonna happen every city.

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<v Speaker 1>So I posted the flyer for the Dreamville UM concert

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, yo, I ain't never been to rally

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<v Speaker 1>and y'all know, I like Duke. I need someone to

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<v Speaker 1>show me the campus. So I know one of the

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<v Speaker 1>ball players, but that nigga went back home on Friday.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, nigked, do you know anybody else?

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<v Speaker 1>So he didn't know anybody like that could just like

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<v Speaker 1>give me a tour. So one of our listeners actually

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<v Speaker 1>hit me and was like, I can give you a

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<v Speaker 1>campus tour. UM. Shout out to G. She's actually a

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<v Speaker 1>PhD student there becoming a doctor. Shout out to listen Love.

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<v Speaker 1>She's been listening since almost the beginning. So G was like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'll show you the campus tour like I'm off

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<v Speaker 1>that day, like you know, I'll take you around. So

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<v Speaker 1>I was like all right, So I invited her for

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<v Speaker 1>breakfast because bich the airport food was too expensive. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I'm just star until I land, so I

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna go to Flying Biscuit and she's like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>well opposite. If I'm hungry, I'll pay anything, oh Na bro.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I'm gonna sleep anyway, like I ain't

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<v Speaker 1>gonna feel how how hungry I am on the flight.

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<v Speaker 1>So I landed and went straight to Flying Biscuit and

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<v Speaker 1>she came and picked me up from the airport too.

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<v Speaker 1>So here go my homegirl, bit you so white? Just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna hop in a stranger car baite and she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>so that I'm telling my home girl and I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, I was like, but she's about to be

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<v Speaker 1>a doctor and here go my friend. That means she'll

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<v Speaker 1>know how to drain your blood and take you apart.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm just like, what did you doing? So I

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<v Speaker 1>shared my location with her as I was walking up

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<v Speaker 1>to Jee's car, I, um, I can't let you picture

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<v Speaker 1>up from the air for from an airport, and everything

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<v Speaker 1>I gave her, um my I gave my homegirl the

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<v Speaker 1>license plate. She's like, here go my Duke bad you

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<v Speaker 1>could take a picture of it. So we went to

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<v Speaker 1>the Duke campus. Um went around, went to the to

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<v Speaker 1>the Duke Museum Basketball Museum, loved it. Spent too much

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<v Speaker 1>money on fucking Duke fucking apparel because I love Duke.

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<v Speaker 1>Um on the Krisski Senter. Sorry coach k Um. I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't get into the camera stadium. So I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna have to go back and get into mother

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<v Speaker 1>camera stadium. And I'm like, next year, bitch, you come here.

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<v Speaker 1>I need tickets and I'm gonna come with my face painted.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just want to be a dude crazy, yes

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<v Speaker 1>and go like like all of that. Why don't because

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<v Speaker 1>that's what they do in camera They're Cameron crazy. Is

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<v Speaker 1>I want to be a camera crazy? I was like

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<v Speaker 1>that's like no. They like jump up and down there.

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<v Speaker 1>They're super loud. It's like the craziest you know about

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<v Speaker 1>to be like, you know that is the Native American bullshit.

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<v Speaker 1>They just get really loud in the camera. Um, shut

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<v Speaker 1>up the camera stadium. So I want to do I

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<v Speaker 1>want to do that. So anyways, my homeboy shout out, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>real quick, shout out to Rory fucking came and got

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<v Speaker 1>me at the motherfucking door for Duce Falsa was treated

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<v Speaker 1>like motherfucker v I p in another city. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. Then went up there and was like, oh, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>we're in New York. Of course a another party outside

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<v Speaker 1>and we're in New York. All so shout out to

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<v Speaker 1>brother from the DC Show who came on stage and

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<v Speaker 1>did the position on me. It was the fucking bar

0:12:06.240 --> 0:12:10.440
<v Speaker 1>tender bitch in Rally, North Carolina. He came to the

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<v Speaker 1>d C Show. He's like, so you'all remember me, and bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>I looked at my friend and I didn't like because

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<v Speaker 1>I never know. Did I fun this nigga? Like I

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<v Speaker 1>hate when a nigga be like you'll remember me? I

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<v Speaker 1>really did? He look like some of you? He kind

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<v Speaker 1>of looked like one of them niggas from Travis Porter.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, maybe we're close to Atlanta, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't know, no, I ain't sting of the too

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<v Speaker 1>short for me, but he looked like a Transporter nigga.

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<v Speaker 1>So he was like brother, he called his brother from

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<v Speaker 1>the d C Show. Anyways, had a great time at St. Pellosa.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're able to go check out at Pellosa, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a good ass, black ass time. So anyways, the next day,

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<v Speaker 1>my homeboys Zeno gets me past this. He's in Big

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<v Speaker 1>Shawn's camp. Lit Nigga. We got our god damn bands,

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<v Speaker 1>that ship said artists. So me and my homegirl we

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<v Speaker 1>pull up and we like, bitch, let's see the access

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<v Speaker 1>that we have with this past bitch all access. We

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<v Speaker 1>got fucking everywhere artists compound on stage, backstage, in the

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<v Speaker 1>front of the stage. We wasn't it was forty people, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>I said it was about twenty. Because I ain't run back.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't getting no crowds, Bitch, I ain't sweat. We

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<v Speaker 1>ain't sunk up our shoes to the very end because

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<v Speaker 1>it was muddy because it rained the day before Super Dope.

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<v Speaker 1>I do want to give or let y'all know. Um. Nonetheless,

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<v Speaker 1>that Big Sean in person, it's god damn gorgeous. He

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<v Speaker 1>looks really huge, just tiny, bitch, but he not that

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<v Speaker 1>I had on sneakers, so he was like a little

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<v Speaker 1>He would have been an exception, And bitch the b

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<v Speaker 1>D didn't see him at one over he was sitting

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<v Speaker 1>b d E like a motherfucker beautiful. Not all of them. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't know. I don't really funk with him, and

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<v Speaker 1>shut dude. I Ben Wins had a thick dick man

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<v Speaker 1>and if y'all google Big Sharks dick, I think his

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<v Speaker 1>dick picked legs and it's like down to his knee.

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<v Speaker 1>But the energy was there. He was just so fucking

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<v Speaker 1>he was so flieshot, a boss at a great set.

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<v Speaker 1>Um shout out to black as well. They funked up

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<v Speaker 1>his mother sucking sound, but I love black um, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I got to catch up with him since I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't seen him since September, since a few people, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was just thinking, like everyone has so much fun,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was thinking, like, you know, it's sad that

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<v Speaker 1>like we support a festival like Coachella. I refused to

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<v Speaker 1>go to Coachella because I think it's been made a spectacle.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know me, I've been at festivals for years,

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<v Speaker 1>but I didn't know that that's a black aspect, black

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<v Speaker 1>wit black festival, first time festival. It was so organized.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like they had the passage just like Coachella,

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<v Speaker 1>like that you swipe and likenc man to go through

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<v Speaker 1>things it was so well organized. I think a few

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<v Speaker 1>people had a few complaints about the food lines, and

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<v Speaker 1>I know the WiFi did suck when we between the sticks, Raley,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what kind of sucks like I had a

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<v Speaker 1>WiFi complaint. I went to mister Land. I used to

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<v Speaker 1>go with Dub like three years straight. I think we win.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like, how do you expect bro We used

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<v Speaker 1>to go to fucking it's called Bethel Woods, New York

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<v Speaker 1>where Woodstock is and people would talk about the wife

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, why do you care? There was little joy.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I care if I'm buying merch. Not only that,

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<v Speaker 1>I felt a little rich. So bitch bought the goddamn

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<v Speaker 1>denim jacket. Why would you care about WiFi a music

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<v Speaker 1>festival with because when I'm paying with my card, the

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<v Speaker 1>WiFi is needed so that the band. Okay, So what

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<v Speaker 1>I marked the bands is you load the band, you

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<v Speaker 1>preload your band. That's not how they did that. There

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<v Speaker 1>was no money, like you used your cards there, um book.

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<v Speaker 1>Brooklyn Mirage actually does that. Brooklyn Mirage has a set up.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been to some stuff there too. They have a

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<v Speaker 1>set up you like load your ship And I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>well they wouldn't not the Hattic, but it were the

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<v Speaker 1>first time festival. It was a good the weather was perfect,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a good as time. UM every set paid

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<v Speaker 1>homage to um Nipsey Hustle, which was amazing. And I

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<v Speaker 1>will say if you guys have not seen her live

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<v Speaker 1>and I got the pleasure of meeting her and Tuni

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<v Speaker 1>after the show. He was chatting coolest Tiana Taylor performed

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<v Speaker 1>her like I listened to Tiana Taylor. She's downloaded ontomate music.

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<v Speaker 1>I like a couple of her songs, but seeing her

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<v Speaker 1>live because I know they could. They kicked Jeremiah off

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<v Speaker 1>the tour, and I was like, what is Tianna Taylor

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do by herself? She performed no other bitch I

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<v Speaker 1>another scene him guy, She acting like he was acting

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<v Speaker 1>like she needed. I mean, but if you look at

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<v Speaker 1>if you look like Jeremiah got some goddamn hits like

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<v Speaker 1>he was doing it like you're watching a performance with Tianna.

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<v Speaker 1>She dances. I've never seen her performance like in live

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<v Speaker 1>bit she made my pussy way. I ain't even go

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<v Speaker 1>hold her abs her but her energy, her face, how

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<v Speaker 1>she's super into the goddamn Oh my God, and then

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<v Speaker 1>she was just such a sweetheart after like we got Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>she was so made something with this funny about Tianna.

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<v Speaker 1>I always say like, oh, they're like abs on women,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's the only one because sometimes when someone's two

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<v Speaker 1>cut at gross, but she's one of the only people.

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<v Speaker 1>She was just dope, kind of dope. And then Meek

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<v Speaker 1>Mill came out for Ja Cole's performance. It was dope.

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<v Speaker 1>I got to rock on stage with one twenty one

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<v Speaker 1>like I was honestly the best goddamn time I've ever had,

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<v Speaker 1>and also ruined my experience to ever doing a festival

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<v Speaker 1>again because my nigga found not all access. I will

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<v Speaker 1>not be with the regular people in the crowd. There

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<v Speaker 1>was forty thousand people there and I was like nope,

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<v Speaker 1>but hey, I was. I was, according to forty thousand

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<v Speaker 1>people on stage, like nicking all these people, and I

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<v Speaker 1>just feel like I would never be able to do

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<v Speaker 1>the exclusive bid. I ain't even gonna lie. I felt

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<v Speaker 1>VIPs I was like I am Vip. I was in

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<v Speaker 1>the artist compound. That's actually we're talking when we were

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<v Speaker 1>talking advice about how excited I am because burning Man

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't have any of that and I was like, so like,

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<v Speaker 1>But also a lot of the festivals I've been to

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<v Speaker 1>our larger, so it's different. You. I think there's only

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<v Speaker 1>two stages at Dreamville. A lot of these have like

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<v Speaker 1>five six, So when when it's smaller with forties thousand people,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's a lot. But actually me and when we

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<v Speaker 1>did mistery Land, it was so fucking big, like you,

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<v Speaker 1>you would have to run for at least three or

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<v Speaker 1>four and five minutes to get to another stage. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm excited to do Burning Man. I wanted to, like,

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<v Speaker 1>just bring that up one more time so you guys

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<v Speaker 1>can find me. I had a black camp that wrote

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<v Speaker 1>me that's gonna be out there. And if y'all are

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<v Speaker 1>black and you're doing Burning Man, why are you laughing? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>If you're black and you're doing Burning Man, I want

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<v Speaker 1>you to hit me up because what is that? What

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<v Speaker 1>is you? It's got a condom on it? At least

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<v Speaker 1>I am not a radio guy. Just handed me his

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<v Speaker 1>phone and oh and she was playing with her clip

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<v Speaker 1>corny and her pussies a corn on Macaw. You know

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<v Speaker 1>it's a white pussy. I'd like to say that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not putting no corn it's probably what they do

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<v Speaker 1>a Burning Man. But anyway, if you're black and you

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<v Speaker 1>got to Burning Man and you've had experiences, I've never

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<v Speaker 1>been to Burning Man. Um, please hit me up. Let

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<v Speaker 1>me know. I'm going with Andrew and Alex and I

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<v Speaker 1>know Andrew gonn me and his white boy ship, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be like, I've done with you all right now,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting fight with him on like day four, but

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<v Speaker 1>then we're gonna make up because it's all about peace

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<v Speaker 1>of love. But I'm super excited about that, and I

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<v Speaker 1>already have my gifts planning. I'm also doing a lecture there,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm really excited to meet y'all and just be

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<v Speaker 1>in the dust. So I'm super excited about this episode. Guys,

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<v Speaker 1>we're doing kind of like a whole homemail rendition of

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<v Speaker 1>a podcast. So for this one, we are starting out

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<v Speaker 1>with our Vanilla ship, and the Vanilla Ship is super

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<v Speaker 1>dope because they actually Um, I looked up an article

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<v Speaker 1>based off of this wholemail we got. Hey, ladies, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a super fan of your podcast. Well, I was watching

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<v Speaker 1>a comedy show called Speechless. Funny show by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody keeps telling me, I haven't seen it. It's about

0:19:25.600 --> 0:19:28.840
<v Speaker 1>a child who is a paraplegic surviving life's challenges. In

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<v Speaker 1>the episode, he was being discriminated by his girlfriend's father,

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<v Speaker 1>so he wanted to be a bad boy. Being that

0:19:34.920 --> 0:19:38.600
<v Speaker 1>he was he has no feelings in his lower body. Anyways,

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<v Speaker 1>long story short, he called for an aid, but the

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<v Speaker 1>aid confused the call, thinking he requested a sex serio,

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<v Speaker 1>being that I know you guys do a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>research on sexual things and WPS would be an awesome

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<v Speaker 1>discussion for your show. Anyways, thanks for reading and I'll

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<v Speaker 1>keep listening. I've been looking for a sex and I

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<v Speaker 1>talked about it. I didn't even notice she's episode Ashley,

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<v Speaker 1>who is the able to be talked about. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't here for that. So for those who may

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<v Speaker 1>be like confused with maybe what a sex sier get means,

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<v Speaker 1>because when I hear Sara get, of course I'm thinking

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<v Speaker 1>of someone who holds a baby for someone else. So

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<v Speaker 1>I went um and did a little bit of research

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<v Speaker 1>and on the I believe the word represents a replacement

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<v Speaker 1>or like an alternative, like a substitute. That's why so

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<v Speaker 1>probably TV dot com um the article is sex sier

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<v Speaker 1>gets sleep with their clients to help their lives, and no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not prostitution. So sex sier gets actually worked closely

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<v Speaker 1>with sex therapists to help clients overcome sexual problems such

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<v Speaker 1>as erectile dysfunction or sex trauma through actual physical intimacy.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't say anything about them doing it for free, um,

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<v Speaker 1>because this is volunteer work. So right, the very next

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<v Speaker 1>um question is they make good money comparable to a

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<v Speaker 1>sex therapist, and the laws are strict as to how

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<v Speaker 1>sex is handled, so their career isn't confused with prostitution.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a Netflix thing, Damn, I wish I could fucking

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<v Speaker 1>remember the name with this older woman who takes people.

0:21:02.440 --> 0:21:05.040
<v Speaker 1>She does she takes people's virginities and helps them through

0:21:05.080 --> 0:21:07.600
<v Speaker 1>that experience, so she would be considered a sexy. She

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<v Speaker 1>is a sex worter and so like she walks them

0:21:10.480 --> 0:21:12.480
<v Speaker 1>to their first time in sex. And I maybe I'm

0:21:12.520 --> 0:21:15.639
<v Speaker 1>guessing it's not prostitution because there is a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>therapy involved, Like you don't just get there and you fuck.

0:21:18.000 --> 0:21:20.640
<v Speaker 1>I think it's like an option that can happen. That's

0:21:20.640 --> 0:21:23.240
<v Speaker 1>probably how to get around Here's how here's the laws. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>Sexual surrogacy has been legal since two thousand three, so

0:21:27.200 --> 0:21:31.560
<v Speaker 1>it's fairly new to being legal. UM, it's remained pretty much. Yeah,

0:21:31.960 --> 0:21:34.959
<v Speaker 1>it's been pretty much unregulated. It has been defined by

0:21:34.960 --> 0:21:39.159
<v Speaker 1>the state of California as if it's between consensual adults

0:21:39.480 --> 0:21:42.840
<v Speaker 1>and referred by licensed therapists and doesn't involve minors, then

0:21:42.880 --> 0:21:46.679
<v Speaker 1>it is not illegal. UM regulating the industry as long

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<v Speaker 1>as you would like you as long as you're sucking

0:21:48.680 --> 0:21:52.679
<v Speaker 1>someone consensual, not kids or hurting animals. And they also

0:21:53.400 --> 0:21:55.480
<v Speaker 1>have a whole association for it, so if you guys

0:21:55.520 --> 0:21:58.680
<v Speaker 1>want to do further research, UM into the industry, it's

0:21:58.680 --> 0:22:03.760
<v Speaker 1>called the International Professtional Siriguts Association. The credit that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I said, you saying sirigate, surrogate, sirigate what I have

0:22:08.080 --> 0:22:12.560
<v Speaker 1>the same ship you saying sirogate, which they credit themselves

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<v Speaker 1>with helping mostly men with physical disabilities, psychological trauma for sexuality.

0:22:17.800 --> 0:22:21.720
<v Speaker 1>And this gallon of water. You're awful. See, this is

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<v Speaker 1>why she an't working on mo y'all because she can't

0:22:23.400 --> 0:22:25.760
<v Speaker 1>do a job. She can't hold a pussy, can't hold

0:22:25.760 --> 0:22:30.760
<v Speaker 1>a pusy UM, I actually did not know anything about

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<v Speaker 1>um this sex sirigacy being a thing. UM. It is

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<v Speaker 1>important to also be working with a sex therapist though,

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<v Speaker 1>to understand what's going on mentally and what's leading someone

0:22:41.119 --> 0:22:45.120
<v Speaker 1>to certain thoughts. UM. This is important because I say

0:22:45.119 --> 0:22:48.359
<v Speaker 1>this often, UM when it comes to sex, and we

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<v Speaker 1>actually have a couple of questions relating to the psychological

0:22:52.440 --> 0:22:56.560
<v Speaker 1>aspects of sex and having sex with another person. A

0:22:56.680 --> 0:23:00.359
<v Speaker 1>lot of sex is way more psychological than physical. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>And I know that we look for the physical touch

0:23:02.720 --> 0:23:06.639
<v Speaker 1>and penetration and all of these UM terms to describe

0:23:06.680 --> 0:23:09.800
<v Speaker 1>what sex is. But in order to reach the climaxes

0:23:09.840 --> 0:23:12.800
<v Speaker 1>and orgasms and actually enjoy it to how we want to,

0:23:13.720 --> 0:23:17.439
<v Speaker 1>you really need to be in a mental state in

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<v Speaker 1>which you can allow these things to happen to your body. UM.

0:23:20.760 --> 0:23:22.720
<v Speaker 1>So this is interesting if you guys want to look

0:23:22.760 --> 0:23:26.600
<v Speaker 1>it up. UM again, they're called sex surrogates. UM. That's

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<v Speaker 1>s U R R O G A t E. S UM.

0:23:29.880 --> 0:23:34.679
<v Speaker 1>This was a great thing. So our next UM topic

0:23:34.720 --> 0:23:38.560
<v Speaker 1>that we're actually going to get into. I love it

0:23:38.720 --> 0:23:43.000
<v Speaker 1>is reference from a Vanilla ship that I found, UM,

0:23:43.080 --> 0:23:46.840
<v Speaker 1>and so I'm gonna read the Vanilla Ship and then

0:23:46.840 --> 0:23:48.800
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna get into the kink of the week. Once

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<v Speaker 1>Wheezy returns um here she goes cool. I was just

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<v Speaker 1>I was just getting us into um the kink of

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<v Speaker 1>the week and the kink of the week. I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to explain, I have been drinking a gallon a

0:24:01.320 --> 0:24:02.920
<v Speaker 1>day of water and I've only been doing it for

0:24:02.960 --> 0:24:05.200
<v Speaker 1>the last five days. Everything is so my skin is

0:24:05.240 --> 0:24:09.000
<v Speaker 1>fucking better. Everything create, but it can't stop being like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm honestly, I almost kissed myself when you were talking

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<v Speaker 1>about like how you saw the world on the last

0:24:15.000 --> 0:24:19.800
<v Speaker 1>episode we did, and it's so hard, like look at

0:24:19.800 --> 0:24:21.880
<v Speaker 1>this if you're watching on YouTube, look how far down

0:24:21.920 --> 0:24:23.720
<v Speaker 1>I am. Bro and I only started this at ten am.

0:24:24.200 --> 0:24:27.200
<v Speaker 1>I should have just sitting all my fucking bladder. It's crazy.

0:24:27.560 --> 0:24:29.680
<v Speaker 1>That's a lot. So I told him we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>get into the kink of the week and the kink

0:24:31.040 --> 0:24:32.920
<v Speaker 1>of the week this week. I actually chose from a

0:24:33.000 --> 0:24:35.960
<v Speaker 1>Vanilla Sha article that I found. Um So the Vanilla

0:24:36.000 --> 0:24:39.520
<v Speaker 1>Sha article comes from New York Post um Man with

0:24:39.720 --> 0:24:44.640
<v Speaker 1>bizarre horse fetish busted twice in twenty four hours. Cas.

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<v Speaker 1>I do also want to say a lot of the

0:24:51.200 --> 0:24:54.280
<v Speaker 1>Cassi Vanilla ship because that we find happened in the

0:24:54.359 --> 0:24:57.200
<v Speaker 1>UK and that's where the horse saying you just so, No,

0:24:57.280 --> 0:24:59.000
<v Speaker 1>he didn't suck the horse. Calm Down, I could have

0:24:59.040 --> 0:25:02.719
<v Speaker 1>cover one. You k man with a sick obception for

0:25:02.840 --> 0:25:06.720
<v Speaker 1>publicly masturbating near horses has been arrested twice within twenty

0:25:06.720 --> 0:25:10.080
<v Speaker 1>four hours for the same lute offense. What Malcolm Downs,

0:25:10.160 --> 0:25:12.560
<v Speaker 1>he's sixty one years old who has a long, long

0:25:12.640 --> 0:25:15.919
<v Speaker 1>history of pleasuring himself in front of mammals, was arrested

0:25:15.960 --> 0:25:18.439
<v Speaker 1>on February eighteenth after he was spotted touching himself in

0:25:18.440 --> 0:25:20.800
<v Speaker 1>a field in the city. It's honestly even of England,

0:25:20.960 --> 0:25:24.600
<v Speaker 1>that's even worse this activity. The horse has a whole

0:25:24.640 --> 0:25:27.479
<v Speaker 1>dick thinking this is worse. This activity went on for

0:25:27.520 --> 0:25:30.200
<v Speaker 1>three or four minutes. His penis was exposed for about

0:25:30.240 --> 0:25:32.879
<v Speaker 1>ten When police grilled Downs about the illicit act, he

0:25:32.920 --> 0:25:35.159
<v Speaker 1>told detectives, I was sat on a bench. I was

0:25:35.160 --> 0:25:39.480
<v Speaker 1>filling sexy so I started to yeah. Um but basically

0:25:39.560 --> 0:25:45.800
<v Speaker 1>yeah um. He was released. No, it'said dot dot dot um.

0:25:45.840 --> 0:25:48.920
<v Speaker 1>Downs told cops he knew what he was doing was wrong. Um.

0:25:48.920 --> 0:25:53.479
<v Speaker 1>The suspect was released on bail after saying, what for

0:25:53.800 --> 0:25:58.119
<v Speaker 1>showing like un that's indecent exposure? Someone saw him masturbating

0:25:58.119 --> 0:26:01.480
<v Speaker 1>in the field with the horses. Uh, he's done that

0:26:01.520 --> 0:26:03.280
<v Speaker 1>a million times. If you've only been to jail, this

0:26:03.320 --> 0:26:06.000
<v Speaker 1>is some ship. So I was like, okay, so the

0:26:06.080 --> 0:26:08.800
<v Speaker 1>nigga is not having sex with animals. We know that

0:26:08.880 --> 0:26:11.399
<v Speaker 1>sex with animals is b sality. So I was looking

0:26:11.440 --> 0:26:13.600
<v Speaker 1>this up because it referred to it as a fetish.

0:26:13.880 --> 0:26:18.719
<v Speaker 1>So there's actually three key terms commonly used to describe

0:26:18.840 --> 0:26:22.399
<v Speaker 1>fetishes involving animals, and I wanted to get into the three. Um.

0:26:22.440 --> 0:26:25.600
<v Speaker 1>Hopefully none of you guys are doing this, um, you know,

0:26:25.680 --> 0:26:29.280
<v Speaker 1>but maybe if you are, We're not gonna whole thing. No.

0:26:29.400 --> 0:26:31.600
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm just saying I can't believe that this

0:26:31.640 --> 0:26:33.159
<v Speaker 1>is where I draw the line, But I don't know

0:26:33.200 --> 0:26:35.080
<v Speaker 1>why this is where you draw the lot. He just so,

0:26:35.400 --> 0:26:37.600
<v Speaker 1>what's funny is this? And when Keiki talked about the

0:26:37.640 --> 0:26:40.720
<v Speaker 1>throw up in the anal bottle, you know you want

0:26:40.720 --> 0:26:43.400
<v Speaker 1>to know what's hilarious. As I'm looking for the kink

0:26:43.480 --> 0:26:47.680
<v Speaker 1>that describes this, guess what comes up mad message boards

0:26:47.720 --> 0:26:49.840
<v Speaker 1>about if it's okay to masturbate in front of your

0:26:49.840 --> 0:26:53.159
<v Speaker 1>pets and if masturbating in front of your dog or

0:26:53.240 --> 0:26:57.520
<v Speaker 1>cat should cause any type of like arousal, because I'm

0:26:57.600 --> 0:27:00.760
<v Speaker 1>kind of like you're being watched. I know, my dad

0:27:00.920 --> 0:27:02.320
<v Speaker 1>used to be in the room because he used to

0:27:02.359 --> 0:27:03.600
<v Speaker 1>be in the bed a lot, and I'd be like, Glad,

0:27:03.600 --> 0:27:05.480
<v Speaker 1>do you have to go? And I would and I

0:27:05.480 --> 0:27:10.720
<v Speaker 1>would hear this, I'm be trying to hurry and come. Yeah.

0:27:10.840 --> 0:27:14.359
<v Speaker 1>So so that was what I found. So here's the

0:27:14.359 --> 0:27:19.359
<v Speaker 1>three terms commonly used um zoophilia, b C reality of course,

0:27:19.440 --> 0:27:23.879
<v Speaker 1>and zoo sexuality. So these are often used somewhat interchangeably.

0:27:24.200 --> 0:27:29.480
<v Speaker 1>Some researchers distinguish between zoophilia and be clity because bality

0:27:29.680 --> 0:27:33.560
<v Speaker 1>is often not driven by a sexual preference for animals.

0:27:33.600 --> 0:27:36.119
<v Speaker 1>Some studies have found that a preference for animals is

0:27:36.200 --> 0:27:40.399
<v Speaker 1>rare among people who engage in sexual contact with animals. Furthermore,

0:27:40.800 --> 0:27:44.040
<v Speaker 1>some zoo files report that they have never had sexual

0:27:44.080 --> 0:27:46.679
<v Speaker 1>contact with an animal, So I assume he would be

0:27:46.680 --> 0:27:50.840
<v Speaker 1>considered a zoo file. I would assume mass master, bit masterbait.

0:27:51.240 --> 0:27:54.960
<v Speaker 1>People with zoophilia are known as zoo files, though also

0:27:55.119 --> 0:27:59.760
<v Speaker 1>sometimes as zoo sexuals or even very simply zoos. This

0:28:00.080 --> 0:28:05.280
<v Speaker 1>so WPS, zoor rosti, sodomy, and zoor rastia are other

0:28:05.440 --> 0:28:08.879
<v Speaker 1>terms closely related to the subject, but are less anonymous

0:28:08.920 --> 0:28:11.000
<v Speaker 1>with the former terms and are seldom I can't remember

0:28:11.040 --> 0:28:13.760
<v Speaker 1>where I found the acronym WPS when I started saying,

0:28:13.800 --> 0:28:15.280
<v Speaker 1>and I think it was broad City, but I had

0:28:15.320 --> 0:28:17.879
<v Speaker 1>to be because they came across this. This is super

0:28:18.119 --> 0:28:20.760
<v Speaker 1>WPS like. But I mean, what if the nigger got

0:28:20.800 --> 0:28:23.320
<v Speaker 1>a pit bull and he liked to masturbate in front

0:28:23.320 --> 0:28:24.600
<v Speaker 1>of his pitbull? Did you like to match to be

0:28:24.680 --> 0:28:26.320
<v Speaker 1>in front of your pit bull? Because maybe you like

0:28:26.480 --> 0:28:29.240
<v Speaker 1>to be watched? And that's a really I shouldn't have

0:28:29.280 --> 0:28:31.399
<v Speaker 1>said black people had pit bulls. That's really bad to

0:28:31.480 --> 0:28:34.240
<v Speaker 1>me to say. But you know, you know, maybe you

0:28:34.320 --> 0:28:37.119
<v Speaker 1>got a pit bull? Right See black ass in the room,

0:28:37.200 --> 0:28:40.760
<v Speaker 1>got it? He's like, Jesus just got one? What is it?

0:28:40.800 --> 0:28:44.760
<v Speaker 1>Red nose? Blue nose? How you? Oh? All right? So

0:28:45.360 --> 0:28:46.840
<v Speaker 1>I do want to start off. We got to start

0:28:46.880 --> 0:28:48.360
<v Speaker 1>this off with the bank. So a lot of the

0:28:48.440 --> 0:28:51.000
<v Speaker 1>questions that you guys sent in our home our horrible

0:28:51.040 --> 0:28:53.840
<v Speaker 1>decisions for this week, is just all homemail. But I

0:28:53.960 --> 0:28:55.960
<v Speaker 1>want to start off with something that was not a

0:28:56.080 --> 0:29:00.720
<v Speaker 1>question but will be unsolicited advice that we're gonna give you.

0:29:01.920 --> 0:29:08.560
<v Speaker 1>We were Patreon message that we received Wednesday night, and

0:29:08.680 --> 0:29:11.360
<v Speaker 1>here it goes. This is the unicorn from the February

0:29:11.360 --> 0:29:14.400
<v Speaker 1>Atlanta show. I wanted to give you my rundown on

0:29:14.480 --> 0:29:16.520
<v Speaker 1>the interactions thus far with the couple. If you guys

0:29:16.640 --> 0:29:18.560
<v Speaker 1>need some context on this, me and Mandy talk about

0:29:18.560 --> 0:29:20.800
<v Speaker 1>it all the time. At one of Our Lives shows,

0:29:20.840 --> 0:29:25.520
<v Speaker 1>we were so elated that a woman stood up and asked, hey, like,

0:29:25.560 --> 0:29:27.680
<v Speaker 1>where can we find unicorns? And the person that was

0:29:27.720 --> 0:29:29.720
<v Speaker 1>maybe two seats over from her was a unicorn and

0:29:29.720 --> 0:29:32.640
<v Speaker 1>they linked up. Here we go. I'm mad because I

0:29:32.720 --> 0:29:35.400
<v Speaker 1>remember what they looked like. I remember exactly what they like.

0:29:35.840 --> 0:29:39.120
<v Speaker 1>I feel bad, but I don't. Originally, they invited me

0:29:39.200 --> 0:29:40.800
<v Speaker 1>out the same night as the show. I had made

0:29:40.840 --> 0:29:43.040
<v Speaker 1>plans already, so I suggested we do brunch the next morning.

0:29:43.560 --> 0:29:46.000
<v Speaker 1>They picked the spot Milk and Honey, nice spot I

0:29:46.080 --> 0:29:48.360
<v Speaker 1>was supposed to go there. They also invited another friend.

0:29:48.720 --> 0:29:51.720
<v Speaker 1>She was cool. We all ordered food plus a picture

0:29:51.760 --> 0:29:54.400
<v Speaker 1>of Momosa smash. Cut to the bill. Mandy, I know

0:29:54.480 --> 0:29:55.920
<v Speaker 1>you got my back here, which I want to stop

0:29:55.960 --> 0:29:59.520
<v Speaker 1>you right there. Bitch, When and ever did you think

0:29:59.560 --> 0:30:01.800
<v Speaker 1>that I would think it was okay? I don't know

0:30:01.920 --> 0:30:06.080
<v Speaker 1>what I've given you, guys, what opportune you've taken by

0:30:06.120 --> 0:30:08.680
<v Speaker 1>the things that I've said about wanting to take care

0:30:08.720 --> 0:30:10.360
<v Speaker 1>of things for whether it be scissors or be a

0:30:10.400 --> 0:30:15.200
<v Speaker 1>sugar mama one day. I would never ever ever tell

0:30:15.280 --> 0:30:18.840
<v Speaker 1>you that this shop was okay. Not that I don't

0:30:18.880 --> 0:30:20.960
<v Speaker 1>have it, but y'all trying to suck me right then

0:30:21.080 --> 0:30:24.280
<v Speaker 1>court me. My tap was only about thirty dollars, and

0:30:24.320 --> 0:30:27.680
<v Speaker 1>that included the tip. Kind of turned me off on

0:30:27.840 --> 0:30:29.200
<v Speaker 1>the type that feels that any man who wants a

0:30:29.200 --> 0:30:31.160
<v Speaker 1>threesome should be able support of threesome. I eat dinner

0:30:31.160 --> 0:30:34.280
<v Speaker 1>and drinks with the women involved. So basically after sounds

0:30:34.280 --> 0:30:36.720
<v Speaker 1>a little basically if you guys, because I got a

0:30:36.760 --> 0:30:39.239
<v Speaker 1>little bit lost in the story. Basically, they all went

0:30:39.320 --> 0:30:41.920
<v Speaker 1>to brunch and when the bill came out, they split it.

0:30:42.000 --> 0:30:44.280
<v Speaker 1>The man did not. After brunch, they invited me out

0:30:44.280 --> 0:30:46.280
<v Speaker 1>to the Trap Museum. I declined because I had a

0:30:46.280 --> 0:30:49.080
<v Speaker 1>two hour drive home. So tip for Unicorn hunters, wine

0:30:49.120 --> 0:30:51.840
<v Speaker 1>and dine her. She's a damn unicorn. Asked her if

0:30:51.880 --> 0:30:54.680
<v Speaker 1>I could read this. She's like pretty Treon like yeah,

0:30:54.800 --> 0:30:57.160
<v Speaker 1>and I appreciate you for letting us read this, because

0:30:57.200 --> 0:30:59.600
<v Speaker 1>I promise you this is going to help the greater good.

0:30:59.640 --> 0:31:02.200
<v Speaker 1>I get tired of the three cent question, and I

0:31:02.280 --> 0:31:04.680
<v Speaker 1>think it's mainly because y'all know I have quite a few,

0:31:05.240 --> 0:31:06.800
<v Speaker 1>and you ask us what we should do. Go to

0:31:06.840 --> 0:31:10.280
<v Speaker 1>episode seventeen, you asked where you're going to meet these people? Whatever?

0:31:11.480 --> 0:31:15.280
<v Speaker 1>My main objective I want for this entire fucking show,

0:31:15.600 --> 0:31:17.640
<v Speaker 1>even though I had my big kind ship in the beginning.

0:31:18.200 --> 0:31:21.200
<v Speaker 1>For my fourth thing I should have said is treat

0:31:22.000 --> 0:31:26.880
<v Speaker 1>the person you're inviting to your bedroom. Asked me to

0:31:27.120 --> 0:31:30.000
<v Speaker 1>fuck you and your husband, and then even why didn't

0:31:30.040 --> 0:31:33.880
<v Speaker 1>I gotta split the bill? Which'll I really am disappointed

0:31:33.880 --> 0:31:35.440
<v Speaker 1>because this couple was so cool and we've met them

0:31:35.440 --> 0:31:37.720
<v Speaker 1>twice I technically three times, so they came to our

0:31:37.760 --> 0:31:40.440
<v Speaker 1>club shift after Opium in Atlanta that that first time.

0:31:40.800 --> 0:31:45.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm so disappointed that a couple so experienced could even

0:31:45.720 --> 0:31:47.840
<v Speaker 1>let this happen. And then I thought for a second

0:31:48.080 --> 0:31:50.800
<v Speaker 1>they weren't experienced. She said, they do it all the time.

0:31:52.040 --> 0:31:54.560
<v Speaker 1>The then the other thing I was thinking of was, um,

0:31:54.720 --> 0:31:56.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, okay, well their friend was there, so that

0:31:56.880 --> 0:32:01.480
<v Speaker 1>all couple. No, not even then, not even then, you

0:32:01.680 --> 0:32:06.040
<v Speaker 1>guys are fucking tripping my nigga. Now, as a woman,

0:32:06.400 --> 0:32:10.400
<v Speaker 1>could you have sit there and known and watched your

0:32:10.560 --> 0:32:12.800
<v Speaker 1>fucking man only pick. I don't even know if you

0:32:12.880 --> 0:32:15.120
<v Speaker 1>and your man regularly split, but you should have definitely

0:32:15.240 --> 0:32:18.560
<v Speaker 1>stung a different tune that night. How dare you? How

0:32:18.920 --> 0:32:22.360
<v Speaker 1>fucking dare you have insinuated that you wanted me to

0:32:22.520 --> 0:32:25.800
<v Speaker 1>fuck y'all and you couldn't pay for my food? You

0:32:25.880 --> 0:32:28.240
<v Speaker 1>know what, I really appreciate that she mentioned the price,

0:32:28.520 --> 0:32:32.200
<v Speaker 1>because that even you know why, that makes it worse,

0:32:32.240 --> 0:32:36.960
<v Speaker 1>because the couple definitely has. You just really cannot teach

0:32:37.080 --> 0:32:40.760
<v Speaker 1>some people to be courteous. I'm almost disgusted that, like

0:32:40.960 --> 0:32:43.320
<v Speaker 1>y'all met at our show, I also want to say

0:32:43.360 --> 0:32:46.000
<v Speaker 1>for a lot of the men who want to engage

0:32:46.040 --> 0:32:48.320
<v Speaker 1>in threesomes, like, not only is it going to be

0:32:48.320 --> 0:32:49.680
<v Speaker 1>a lot of work in the bedroom, but it is

0:32:49.720 --> 0:32:51.880
<v Speaker 1>work outside of the bedroom. And I feel like, you

0:32:52.000 --> 0:32:54.440
<v Speaker 1>definitely know you now have to court two women, and

0:32:54.520 --> 0:32:56.360
<v Speaker 1>you should make that person who's joining you in the

0:32:56.400 --> 0:32:59.840
<v Speaker 1>bedroom feel even like she's more welcome to you know,

0:33:00.320 --> 0:33:02.480
<v Speaker 1>you'll maybe don't like him. Maybe it's something a lot

0:33:02.520 --> 0:33:04.360
<v Speaker 1>of y'all love. The advice Anthony said it take take

0:33:04.400 --> 0:33:07.360
<v Speaker 1>this one fucking piece, be rich enough, for three days,

0:33:07.480 --> 0:33:09.040
<v Speaker 1>and I didn't even tell them you'all got to do that.

0:33:09.280 --> 0:33:10.960
<v Speaker 1>But if you can't get what you want by those

0:33:11.000 --> 0:33:14.480
<v Speaker 1>three days, at least show me that in three dates,

0:33:14.960 --> 0:33:18.440
<v Speaker 1>y'all had three ten dollar mills. Yeah, I shared on

0:33:18.600 --> 0:33:21.360
<v Speaker 1>a I shared on a Patriart episode of three something

0:33:21.400 --> 0:33:23.480
<v Speaker 1>that I recently just had with a homegirl of mine

0:33:23.760 --> 0:33:26.680
<v Speaker 1>and she was actually in Atlanta, UM during our live show,

0:33:26.720 --> 0:33:28.760
<v Speaker 1>and her and her her boyfriend had me in the

0:33:28.760 --> 0:33:31.360
<v Speaker 1>group chat wanting me to come over, and I was like,

0:33:31.800 --> 0:33:33.800
<v Speaker 1>you ain't flying me to Atlanta. You ain't paid for

0:33:33.880 --> 0:33:37.000
<v Speaker 1>this Airbnb. I'm here working, And I genuinely didn't even

0:33:37.000 --> 0:33:38.480
<v Speaker 1>want to give them no pussy because I'm like, you

0:33:38.840 --> 0:33:40.680
<v Speaker 1>ain't even working for it nothing right now, like at

0:33:40.760 --> 0:33:42.400
<v Speaker 1>least last time, I got to flight out the goddamn

0:33:42.440 --> 0:33:45.560
<v Speaker 1>ship and the whole goddamn trip out of it. Like now, no,

0:33:45.840 --> 0:33:47.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm not just gonna sun you because we're all in

0:33:47.280 --> 0:33:50.680
<v Speaker 1>the same city. So I think, yeah, like you need

0:33:50.760 --> 0:33:52.960
<v Speaker 1>to kind of put in some type of goddamn effort.

0:33:53.040 --> 0:33:56.160
<v Speaker 1>If I mean I'm gonna I'm gonna say for that one,

0:33:56.360 --> 0:33:58.160
<v Speaker 1>I think a little different because like, okay, I get it,

0:33:58.240 --> 0:33:59.920
<v Speaker 1>like the trip the first somebody, if you guys really clear,

0:34:00.080 --> 0:34:01.400
<v Speaker 1>then you wanted to funk. I get it. No, I'm

0:34:01.440 --> 0:34:05.120
<v Speaker 1>not just sucking you and your boyfriend your boyfriend, not

0:34:05.320 --> 0:34:08.839
<v Speaker 1>when I'm in that horny though. Yeah I wasn't that horny. Um.

0:34:09.200 --> 0:34:11.000
<v Speaker 1>But I mean, I think at least like offering to

0:34:11.080 --> 0:34:13.520
<v Speaker 1>take someone to dinner and treating him to something or something.

0:34:14.600 --> 0:34:18.560
<v Speaker 1>And I'm kind of shocked that as someone that was saying,

0:34:18.640 --> 0:34:21.480
<v Speaker 1>like they know that, this is all I'm saying is

0:34:21.520 --> 0:34:23.319
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I can't speak for how many threesomes they had.

0:34:23.320 --> 0:34:24.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't know them, but I do know that the

0:34:24.520 --> 0:34:26.080
<v Speaker 1>first time I met them they were talking about it,

0:34:26.280 --> 0:34:27.759
<v Speaker 1>and the second time they came to the show they

0:34:27.800 --> 0:34:30.200
<v Speaker 1>said it again. I cannot believe. This is like basic

0:34:30.320 --> 0:34:32.959
<v Speaker 1>step one. So I'm gonna just say it one more time.

0:34:35.120 --> 0:34:37.520
<v Speaker 1>Places to find a threesome, best advice to find a threesome,

0:34:38.280 --> 0:34:39.919
<v Speaker 1>and this will be the last. I ain't even gonna

0:34:40.600 --> 0:34:43.080
<v Speaker 1>can we stop getting the goddamn three some questions? Like

0:34:43.800 --> 0:34:46.320
<v Speaker 1>we have we have episodes with threesome in the titles,

0:34:46.680 --> 0:34:49.200
<v Speaker 1>So go up. I'm actually gonna put a note in

0:34:49.320 --> 0:34:52.200
<v Speaker 1>my phone to put this in the description threesome tips

0:34:52.280 --> 0:34:56.279
<v Speaker 1>at thirty three minutes. Yes, okay, let's start all right,

0:34:56.680 --> 0:34:59.120
<v Speaker 1>here we go. I'm gonna give you basic ones. I

0:34:59.160 --> 0:35:00.839
<v Speaker 1>gave it at the last Cargo show and I think

0:35:00.880 --> 0:35:03.719
<v Speaker 1>it was great advice. Let's say that you guys are

0:35:03.800 --> 0:35:05.440
<v Speaker 1>not the type to go out. Let's say that you

0:35:05.560 --> 0:35:08.359
<v Speaker 1>guys maybe shouldn't be showing your faces in that city.

0:35:08.800 --> 0:35:11.400
<v Speaker 1>Make a Tinder page. Start slow, whether it be just

0:35:11.520 --> 0:35:13.600
<v Speaker 1>a guy or just a girl. I think the best

0:35:13.680 --> 0:35:14.920
<v Speaker 1>thing to do if you don't make a couple of

0:35:14.920 --> 0:35:17.600
<v Speaker 1>pages just a girl, Let's say that you really can't

0:35:17.640 --> 0:35:20.279
<v Speaker 1>put your face on there. Take a picture of you

0:35:20.400 --> 0:35:23.120
<v Speaker 1>to blur it out. Take special made pictures for that

0:35:23.200 --> 0:35:25.440
<v Speaker 1>Tinder and blow your ship out right. Get in the bed,

0:35:25.560 --> 0:35:28.400
<v Speaker 1>take something cute together, do whatever. I really enjoy when

0:35:28.440 --> 0:35:30.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm swiping seeing pictures of couples having fun, I think

0:35:30.719 --> 0:35:32.440
<v Speaker 1>that's great. You gotta blow your faces, do your thing.

0:35:33.080 --> 0:35:36.680
<v Speaker 1>And you're very specific when you say something like, hey,

0:35:36.920 --> 0:35:39.319
<v Speaker 1>looking for someone to join us on dates, blah blah

0:35:39.320 --> 0:35:43.359
<v Speaker 1>blah blah blah. Don't lead women on. I hate swiping. Um,

0:35:44.000 --> 0:35:45.879
<v Speaker 1>you know a girl where in the description they say

0:35:45.920 --> 0:35:47.759
<v Speaker 1>nothing about them having a boyfriend. That wants to suck

0:35:47.800 --> 0:35:51.399
<v Speaker 1>me too. I hate that is, even if you don't

0:35:51.440 --> 0:35:53.160
<v Speaker 1>have your boyfriend in the picture, at least say hey,

0:35:53.280 --> 0:35:55.920
<v Speaker 1>this is what I'm looking for. I hate that. I

0:35:56.040 --> 0:35:58.319
<v Speaker 1>think that we all have to remember that talking about

0:35:58.400 --> 0:36:00.800
<v Speaker 1>sex kind of very upfront and word on a tinder.

0:36:01.080 --> 0:36:04.080
<v Speaker 1>It's a little too abrasive in my honest opinion, I

0:36:04.280 --> 0:36:05.840
<v Speaker 1>think that you should at least be a little more

0:36:05.960 --> 0:36:08.799
<v Speaker 1>kind when like or just be suave about the ship

0:36:09.160 --> 0:36:10.840
<v Speaker 1>and say like, hey, I would love to take you

0:36:10.920 --> 0:36:13.600
<v Speaker 1>out for drink, smoke, link up, let's have some fun together.

0:36:14.080 --> 0:36:16.680
<v Speaker 1>Also use the words like we would like to take

0:36:16.760 --> 0:36:19.960
<v Speaker 1>you out. Knowing that a couple can do that makes

0:36:20.000 --> 0:36:22.440
<v Speaker 1>it more exciting anyone I know that's played a unicorn,

0:36:22.520 --> 0:36:24.680
<v Speaker 1>even like Mandy just sitting right here saying I got

0:36:24.800 --> 0:36:26.440
<v Speaker 1>a trip out of it, Like, it is very exciting

0:36:26.480 --> 0:36:29.560
<v Speaker 1>to be treated, especially by a couple, to do not

0:36:29.800 --> 0:36:33.480
<v Speaker 1>do this ship for me if boyfriend wants it and

0:36:33.640 --> 0:36:37.600
<v Speaker 1>you don't, do not do that ship. Three, do not

0:36:37.760 --> 0:36:39.960
<v Speaker 1>do this ship if you're not attracted to women. I

0:36:40.040 --> 0:36:43.160
<v Speaker 1>don't care. I know some people say, oh whatever, maybe

0:36:43.160 --> 0:36:45.680
<v Speaker 1>you can know if you're not attracted to women. If

0:36:45.719 --> 0:36:47.960
<v Speaker 1>you're not ready to eat some vagina. It's gonna be crazy.

0:36:48.040 --> 0:36:49.600
<v Speaker 1>And I read a tweet the other day that said,

0:36:49.920 --> 0:36:52.240
<v Speaker 1>you know what I think all the time about having threesome.

0:36:52.280 --> 0:36:54.319
<v Speaker 1>It's like, okay, eating pussy, cool until it's in your mouth.

0:36:54.360 --> 0:36:56.960
<v Speaker 1>If you feel like that, don't do it unless you

0:36:57.080 --> 0:36:58.759
<v Speaker 1>and her bows are not doing it. I don't know.

0:36:58.920 --> 0:37:00.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying, i'll see why you would want to

0:37:00.840 --> 0:37:02.560
<v Speaker 1>have sex with someone you don't want to have sex with.

0:37:02.960 --> 0:37:05.920
<v Speaker 1>Don't do that. Another thing. If you really feel like

0:37:06.000 --> 0:37:07.160
<v Speaker 1>you can't do it in your city and you and

0:37:07.200 --> 0:37:09.000
<v Speaker 1>your man are taking a trip to let's just say Detroit,

0:37:09.320 --> 0:37:11.000
<v Speaker 1>pay the fucking ten dollars. If you don't have the

0:37:11.040 --> 0:37:13.160
<v Speaker 1>ten knowledge, you shouldn't be having three steps because someone

0:37:13.160 --> 0:37:15.200
<v Speaker 1>in the audience is like Leon budgets this fuck that

0:37:15.600 --> 0:37:18.480
<v Speaker 1>passport tender ten bucks white people in other cities. This

0:37:18.600 --> 0:37:21.960
<v Speaker 1>gets you very open to the idea of women together.

0:37:22.000 --> 0:37:23.759
<v Speaker 1>You get to see each other's type. Ship like that.

0:37:23.960 --> 0:37:26.080
<v Speaker 1>If you guys just want to fuck and have the experience,

0:37:26.160 --> 0:37:28.160
<v Speaker 1>go to a strip club. Maybe they'll offer some pussy

0:37:28.280 --> 0:37:29.959
<v Speaker 1>to you. I don't know what else to tell y'all.

0:37:30.160 --> 0:37:32.080
<v Speaker 1>I know that I'm sounding really annoyed, but I'm just

0:37:32.200 --> 0:37:36.080
<v Speaker 1>so tired of the threesome question. Is it just me? No?

0:37:36.239 --> 0:37:38.719
<v Speaker 1>I think you said everything. I mean, damn if you

0:37:38.840 --> 0:37:41.840
<v Speaker 1>don't want to use tender field f E E L. D.

0:37:42.440 --> 0:37:44.960
<v Speaker 1>Thrinder was the old title. Field is another way to

0:37:45.400 --> 0:37:49.759
<v Speaker 1>find someone. My Wild Lifestyle is another website, um or.

0:37:50.400 --> 0:37:53.120
<v Speaker 1>I am very pro sex work. Let's support another woman

0:37:53.160 --> 0:37:56.600
<v Speaker 1>in our community. Eros paying for escorts. If you just

0:37:56.719 --> 0:37:58.960
<v Speaker 1>want someone who's a professional B will get out of

0:37:58.960 --> 0:38:00.279
<v Speaker 1>your life when you're done with it. And see, you

0:38:00.400 --> 0:38:02.960
<v Speaker 1>just want the sexual experience, pay for it. If you

0:38:03.080 --> 0:38:05.120
<v Speaker 1>cannot pay it in they're fairly cheap. They're going for

0:38:05.200 --> 0:38:07.680
<v Speaker 1>like two hundred for the hour, and so I mean, yeah,

0:38:08.040 --> 0:38:10.920
<v Speaker 1>do it, y'all, don't be any I know that a

0:38:11.000 --> 0:38:13.400
<v Speaker 1>lot of really pay for it. But I think that

0:38:13.520 --> 0:38:15.239
<v Speaker 1>if you have a man and you're maybe a little

0:38:15.280 --> 0:38:18.239
<v Speaker 1>too apprehensive to meeting a woman together, and you know,

0:38:18.360 --> 0:38:20.400
<v Speaker 1>people say should you do with a friend or a stranger,

0:38:20.480 --> 0:38:22.319
<v Speaker 1>like y'all are too worried about what will happen after

0:38:22.840 --> 0:38:25.160
<v Speaker 1>pay for it? Because one thing I know and the

0:38:25.320 --> 0:38:27.000
<v Speaker 1>escorts I've met in their life in my life, they

0:38:27.040 --> 0:38:30.120
<v Speaker 1>are all about their money and giving a good name,

0:38:30.160 --> 0:38:32.680
<v Speaker 1>napping to catch feelings with your nigga. They just want

0:38:32.760 --> 0:38:34.719
<v Speaker 1>the money and that's it and they're going all today,

0:38:34.800 --> 0:38:39.600
<v Speaker 1>next client, Okay, exactly. Um so, yeah, I don't have any.

0:38:39.640 --> 0:38:41.400
<v Speaker 1>I think you kind of did it all for the threesomes,

0:38:41.440 --> 0:38:44.760
<v Speaker 1>and I'm glad I specifically did not pick. I didn't

0:38:44.800 --> 0:38:47.560
<v Speaker 1>I even secifically did not pick any threesome questions because

0:38:47.560 --> 0:38:49.400
<v Speaker 1>of that. Bro, when I see people send the threesome

0:38:49.440 --> 0:38:51.120
<v Speaker 1>and I don't want you, guys tend to turn. Don't

0:38:51.120 --> 0:38:52.719
<v Speaker 1>get me wrong. If you guys have a question that's

0:38:52.760 --> 0:38:55.800
<v Speaker 1>like more in depth about the threesome, sure, but asked

0:38:55.840 --> 0:38:58.840
<v Speaker 1>how to have and where to find a third person?

0:38:59.280 --> 0:39:03.000
<v Speaker 1>It's honestly a case by case um basis. So this

0:39:03.200 --> 0:39:07.680
<v Speaker 1>next one, I really like this question. Um So, hey, y'all,

0:39:07.960 --> 0:39:09.800
<v Speaker 1>I've been listening to you guys for a while and

0:39:09.880 --> 0:39:11.799
<v Speaker 1>telling all my friends. Thank you, guys, by the way,

0:39:11.880 --> 0:39:13.759
<v Speaker 1>for telling all your friends about us. I've learned so

0:39:13.880 --> 0:39:16.640
<v Speaker 1>much listening and got comfortable exploring kinks. I've been a

0:39:16.719 --> 0:39:19.160
<v Speaker 1>serial monogamous for as long as I can remember. Every

0:39:19.200 --> 0:39:22.080
<v Speaker 1>guy I've slept with, I've been dating or ended up

0:39:22.160 --> 0:39:24.719
<v Speaker 1>dating for a while I'm over that ship. I went

0:39:24.760 --> 0:39:26.600
<v Speaker 1>through a rough breakup and just want to do me

0:39:26.719 --> 0:39:29.600
<v Speaker 1>for a few years. That being said, going from constant

0:39:29.640 --> 0:39:32.760
<v Speaker 1>sex to no sex is rough. I'm trying to figure

0:39:32.760 --> 0:39:35.520
<v Speaker 1>out how to casually date while not while not leading

0:39:35.560 --> 0:39:37.640
<v Speaker 1>people on and not ending up in a relationship again.

0:39:38.040 --> 0:39:41.719
<v Speaker 1>Any tips on communication, getting comfortable and dating multiple people.

0:39:42.080 --> 0:39:44.440
<v Speaker 1>Love the show and love the positive vibes. I like

0:39:44.600 --> 0:39:48.520
<v Speaker 1>that getting comfortable dating multiple people. I think the best

0:39:48.560 --> 0:39:52.240
<v Speaker 1>advice someone gave me, because I am such an emotional person,

0:39:53.320 --> 0:39:57.560
<v Speaker 1>was being honest about expectations while dating multiple people. Like

0:39:57.840 --> 0:40:00.279
<v Speaker 1>if you just want sex and some fun, you have

0:40:00.360 --> 0:40:02.480
<v Speaker 1>to really mean it when you say it. Don't have

0:40:02.680 --> 0:40:05.480
<v Speaker 1>sex and some fun and then get upset when you

0:40:05.600 --> 0:40:08.239
<v Speaker 1>know he's doing the same thing. And just naturally we

0:40:08.360 --> 0:40:11.120
<v Speaker 1>can be possessive or jealous people, and and there's this

0:40:11.239 --> 0:40:13.479
<v Speaker 1>there's this little thing that's innate I think when dating

0:40:13.520 --> 0:40:15.880
<v Speaker 1>with competition and things like that, right, Like, for example,

0:40:16.400 --> 0:40:17.560
<v Speaker 1>you could know a man is in love with you

0:40:17.600 --> 0:40:19.120
<v Speaker 1>and you see his ex and he be like, change

0:40:19.160 --> 0:40:21.400
<v Speaker 1>it because you want to, like know you've got this

0:40:21.560 --> 0:40:23.600
<v Speaker 1>leg up, Like because we care about that person, so

0:40:23.680 --> 0:40:25.480
<v Speaker 1>we want to make sure, like we're the one they

0:40:25.600 --> 0:40:28.439
<v Speaker 1>love and they're blah blah blah about right, you gotta

0:40:28.520 --> 0:40:30.600
<v Speaker 1>let a lot of that go and when you can

0:40:30.840 --> 0:40:32.400
<v Speaker 1>let that go for real. And it took me a

0:40:32.480 --> 0:40:34.960
<v Speaker 1>long time to not have jealous feelings with you know,

0:40:35.080 --> 0:40:39.120
<v Speaker 1>my partners. I would say, don't literally to the last

0:40:39.920 --> 0:40:42.600
<v Speaker 1>like fall of last year. And I've been doing this

0:40:42.640 --> 0:40:46.120
<v Speaker 1>show two years with you just recently am I totally okay?

0:40:46.960 --> 0:40:48.920
<v Speaker 1>That ship takes a while. I said it on the

0:40:49.080 --> 0:40:54.759
<v Speaker 1>episode with UM when Andrew that men lied to us

0:40:54.920 --> 0:40:59.839
<v Speaker 1>and we lied to ourselves. And I think that I think, no, yeah,

0:41:00.080 --> 0:41:03.200
<v Speaker 1>we lie to um. We we lie to ourselves. And

0:41:03.239 --> 0:41:06.560
<v Speaker 1>I think that that's one of the biggest things and

0:41:06.640 --> 0:41:09.560
<v Speaker 1>not only communicating with someone else, but literally communicating it

0:41:09.680 --> 0:41:14.239
<v Speaker 1>with yourself and really knowing what you're going into a

0:41:14.360 --> 0:41:16.880
<v Speaker 1>relationship with somebody for. And I say relationship, but it

0:41:16.960 --> 0:41:20.840
<v Speaker 1>doesn't have to be a boyfriend girlfriend relationship, monogamous relationship.

0:41:21.080 --> 0:41:24.480
<v Speaker 1>When you're having sex with someone, you're relating with someone else,

0:41:24.520 --> 0:41:26.640
<v Speaker 1>and you have a relationship, whether it's a situation ship

0:41:26.760 --> 0:41:29.160
<v Speaker 1>or not. UM. So, I feel like in terms of

0:41:29.280 --> 0:41:32.399
<v Speaker 1>dealing with multiple people, UM, you need to be very

0:41:32.480 --> 0:41:36.360
<v Speaker 1>clear on your intentions with them and also communicate what

0:41:36.560 --> 0:41:39.000
<v Speaker 1>they're looking for, because if they are something someone who's

0:41:39.040 --> 0:41:41.080
<v Speaker 1>looking for a relationship and you just want to date

0:41:41.120 --> 0:41:44.719
<v Speaker 1>multiple people, you should probably let that person know upfront. Um.

0:41:44.880 --> 0:41:48.320
<v Speaker 1>I think that that's very important if you're someone who genuinely,

0:41:48.400 --> 0:41:50.560
<v Speaker 1>right now does not want a relationship. A lot of

0:41:50.640 --> 0:41:52.520
<v Speaker 1>men do it to us all the time. They'll tell

0:41:52.600 --> 0:41:54.760
<v Speaker 1>us up front, listen, I'm not looking for anything serious,

0:41:55.000 --> 0:41:57.000
<v Speaker 1>and I think as women it's okay for us to

0:41:57.040 --> 0:41:59.719
<v Speaker 1>say that to men as well, and honestly as a

0:41:59.760 --> 0:42:02.440
<v Speaker 1>one and a man will be happy to hear that

0:42:02.840 --> 0:42:04.600
<v Speaker 1>nine times out of ten because they like to know

0:42:04.680 --> 0:42:07.600
<v Speaker 1>that you're not gonna now stress the idea of a title,

0:42:08.000 --> 0:42:10.719
<v Speaker 1>or just the pressure of a relationship or what they

0:42:10.800 --> 0:42:13.480
<v Speaker 1>can genuinely offer to you at that time won't be

0:42:13.560 --> 0:42:15.520
<v Speaker 1>on the table. What you're literally saying just a lot

0:42:15.560 --> 0:42:18.200
<v Speaker 1>of pressure in the beginning to turn someone off. UM.

0:42:18.360 --> 0:42:21.359
<v Speaker 1>I just had a a friend of mine that lives

0:42:21.400 --> 0:42:23.520
<v Speaker 1>in l A. I went to her wedding. She recently

0:42:23.560 --> 0:42:26.759
<v Speaker 1>got married. She's been dating her husband three years, and

0:42:27.040 --> 0:42:30.279
<v Speaker 1>yesterday she posted a d M where her husband asked

0:42:30.320 --> 0:42:33.520
<v Speaker 1>her out on Instagram and he said three years ago.

0:42:33.920 --> 0:42:35.640
<v Speaker 1>She was like, you keep checking for me or something

0:42:35.719 --> 0:42:38.319
<v Speaker 1>like what's what's good Nigga? And he said, I ain't

0:42:38.360 --> 0:42:39.759
<v Speaker 1>trying to wipe you or nothing like that. I'm just

0:42:39.800 --> 0:42:42.600
<v Speaker 1>trying to chill and have some drinks. Ship And they

0:42:42.640 --> 0:42:45.520
<v Speaker 1>got married, and I thought that was so funny because

0:42:45.560 --> 0:42:48.640
<v Speaker 1>we always be like Nigga's be Italian and and you know,

0:42:48.760 --> 0:42:50.719
<v Speaker 1>even our salty little video. But I think it's dope.

0:42:50.760 --> 0:42:52.440
<v Speaker 1>And the reason I think that happened to her and

0:42:52.520 --> 0:42:55.759
<v Speaker 1>happened to him is because they both had no expectations.

0:42:56.080 --> 0:42:58.600
<v Speaker 1>So it's a lot easier when you're not putting that

0:42:58.680 --> 0:43:01.759
<v Speaker 1>pressure to fall all in love and appreciate someone. You

0:43:01.840 --> 0:43:04.239
<v Speaker 1>know why, because we're not putting up this like I

0:43:04.320 --> 0:43:06.960
<v Speaker 1>have to be this, this and this. You know, I

0:43:07.080 --> 0:43:09.000
<v Speaker 1>was out in dates with a guy I'll never forget it,

0:43:09.920 --> 0:43:11.880
<v Speaker 1>and I knew he was more into me than I

0:43:11.920 --> 0:43:13.839
<v Speaker 1>was into him, and he would start to say things

0:43:13.880 --> 0:43:16.080
<v Speaker 1>I liked, and I didn't believe him. He'd be like, yo,

0:43:16.160 --> 0:43:17.839
<v Speaker 1>I love going to the museum and blah blah blah

0:43:17.840 --> 0:43:20.160
<v Speaker 1>blah blah. Oh I love this, and and then he

0:43:20.200 --> 0:43:22.439
<v Speaker 1>would say things like yeah, man, like I just bought

0:43:22.480 --> 0:43:26.360
<v Speaker 1>my my new crystals, and I'm like that mag a lie.

0:43:26.719 --> 0:43:28.319
<v Speaker 1>But I know that. I mean girls do that too.

0:43:28.600 --> 0:43:31.080
<v Speaker 1>We we we do this people doing then the pick

0:43:31.200 --> 0:43:33.840
<v Speaker 1>me mentality where because you want to become a girlfriend

0:43:33.920 --> 0:43:35.839
<v Speaker 1>or because you want to become a wife, you start

0:43:35.920 --> 0:43:39.440
<v Speaker 1>doing things that you think our girlfriend material or that

0:43:39.560 --> 0:43:41.960
<v Speaker 1>you think this guy would like, and now you have

0:43:42.080 --> 0:43:44.799
<v Speaker 1>to be this way when in reality, I think it's

0:43:44.840 --> 0:43:47.359
<v Speaker 1>super dope to just genuinely find someone that you mesh

0:43:47.440 --> 0:43:50.120
<v Speaker 1>with because you're able to be yourself. It feels good

0:43:50.160 --> 0:43:52.640
<v Speaker 1>to have someone know exactly who you are and which

0:43:52.880 --> 0:43:55.120
<v Speaker 1>you know back even Lauren's thing like just her saying

0:43:55.760 --> 0:43:58.239
<v Speaker 1>I was completely myself without my quote unquote cool mask.

0:43:58.280 --> 0:44:02.080
<v Speaker 1>I remember, um when of the last time Jeeves came over,

0:44:03.239 --> 0:44:05.360
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, I don't even know why I

0:44:05.440 --> 0:44:07.200
<v Speaker 1>did it. It was a whole lie. We've known each

0:44:07.200 --> 0:44:10.040
<v Speaker 1>other for over a year now. He came over and

0:44:10.960 --> 0:44:13.319
<v Speaker 1>I had all these water bottles open, because I'll drink

0:44:13.320 --> 0:44:16.280
<v Speaker 1>a water bottle whatever throughout the day, and I was like, oh, normally,

0:44:16.360 --> 0:44:17.840
<v Speaker 1>I you know, I have it out of this and

0:44:17.960 --> 0:44:20.000
<v Speaker 1>like I normally recycle it and I put it away

0:44:20.000 --> 0:44:22.120
<v Speaker 1>and he was like, no, you don't, dude, And I

0:44:22.200 --> 0:44:23.320
<v Speaker 1>was like, yeah, I don't know. He was like, and

0:44:23.400 --> 0:44:24.680
<v Speaker 1>I love it, and he was like, every morning I

0:44:24.680 --> 0:44:26.279
<v Speaker 1>got to pick this ship up, like it's it's fine.

0:44:26.760 --> 0:44:29.320
<v Speaker 1>And I think that kind of accepting your flaws and

0:44:29.480 --> 0:44:31.920
<v Speaker 1>like not getting so overboard and what you think this

0:44:32.000 --> 0:44:34.320
<v Speaker 1>personal want, it's going to help. And I think that

0:44:34.400 --> 0:44:36.759
<v Speaker 1>that helps with dating multiple people at the same time,

0:44:36.840 --> 0:44:40.000
<v Speaker 1>like just genuinely being yourself, letting them know and not

0:44:40.239 --> 0:44:42.480
<v Speaker 1>sitting here feeling like you have to tie yourself into

0:44:42.480 --> 0:44:43.960
<v Speaker 1>a relationship. I think that has a lot to do

0:44:44.080 --> 0:44:47.600
<v Speaker 1>with women feeling like they're worth that's tied to being claimed. Um.

0:44:47.719 --> 0:44:50.799
<v Speaker 1>And it's okay to just date multiple people. And even

0:44:50.840 --> 0:44:52.440
<v Speaker 1>when you date, you have to realize you don't have

0:44:52.520 --> 0:44:54.600
<v Speaker 1>to be having sex with all these people. I like

0:44:54.800 --> 0:44:58.880
<v Speaker 1>to do the ideal of carp compartmentalizing. Um. The niggas

0:44:58.880 --> 0:45:00.160
<v Speaker 1>that I talked to, there's niggas that I it's like

0:45:00.239 --> 0:45:02.400
<v Speaker 1>that phone conversations with. There's some that I actually like

0:45:02.480 --> 0:45:04.960
<v Speaker 1>face timing, some I like having sex with some I don't.

0:45:05.000 --> 0:45:07.520
<v Speaker 1>Some I just like going out with some people. Okay,

0:45:07.719 --> 0:45:09.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm not great on the phone. That's crazy, Like some

0:45:10.120 --> 0:45:12.560
<v Speaker 1>aren't you know, one of the actually things that are

0:45:12.640 --> 0:45:15.240
<v Speaker 1>very vital for me is talking on the phone with lovers.

0:45:15.400 --> 0:45:18.640
<v Speaker 1>Like if men are not selling people, I genuinely don't

0:45:18.680 --> 0:45:21.560
<v Speaker 1>feel like it will work out. Like I love to

0:45:21.880 --> 0:45:23.920
<v Speaker 1>sit on the phone. I'd love to be able to

0:45:24.000 --> 0:45:26.000
<v Speaker 1>call someone when work sucks and they just listen to

0:45:26.080 --> 0:45:28.520
<v Speaker 1>me for five minutes. Actually very recently told me on

0:45:28.560 --> 0:45:31.120
<v Speaker 1>the phone, he was like, my nigga, you literally have

0:45:31.200 --> 0:45:33.160
<v Speaker 1>told me the story three times about these people at

0:45:33.160 --> 0:45:36.160
<v Speaker 1>your job, and I'm like, I know, you know, listen

0:45:36.200 --> 0:45:38.160
<v Speaker 1>to me, like it's really what I want and just

0:45:38.280 --> 0:45:40.160
<v Speaker 1>to know that, like somebody can give you what you

0:45:40.239 --> 0:45:42.120
<v Speaker 1>need those things I need. I call my friends on

0:45:42.160 --> 0:45:44.319
<v Speaker 1>the phone. I want to call my fucking man. So weird. Yeah,

0:45:44.600 --> 0:45:48.640
<v Speaker 1>it's I don't know. I talked to to ship maybe

0:45:48.680 --> 0:45:51.359
<v Speaker 1>one or two friends daily, But other than that, I'm

0:45:51.400 --> 0:45:54.920
<v Speaker 1>not a phone person. Um only because between work, being

0:45:55.000 --> 0:45:57.480
<v Speaker 1>on the phone, the podcast and talking. When I get

0:45:57.520 --> 0:45:59.640
<v Speaker 1>home it's my quiet place. I just like to sit

0:45:59.760 --> 0:46:02.200
<v Speaker 1>in and watch Mary to Medicine or Real Housewives of

0:46:02.200 --> 0:46:04.600
<v Speaker 1>Atlanta and all of my fucking shows Project from Away.

0:46:04.640 --> 0:46:06.680
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm into all of my shows and so when

0:46:06.719 --> 0:46:09.200
<v Speaker 1>I get home all texts and that's it. And when

0:46:09.200 --> 0:46:10.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm at work, I can't be on my phone. I text,

0:46:11.040 --> 0:46:14.760
<v Speaker 1>So I've become a texter and talking on the phone

0:46:15.080 --> 0:46:17.040
<v Speaker 1>does become good. Like a guy who came back from

0:46:17.080 --> 0:46:20.000
<v Speaker 1>the past. Um, I really like what he's talking about

0:46:20.120 --> 0:46:23.000
<v Speaker 1>right now. Um, he no longer plays football, but he

0:46:23.120 --> 0:46:25.799
<v Speaker 1>just does a lot of things investing wise, and he's

0:46:25.800 --> 0:46:27.440
<v Speaker 1>now in a space where he's looking for a partner.

0:46:27.480 --> 0:46:29.200
<v Speaker 1>We spent two hours on the phone the other night

0:46:29.520 --> 0:46:31.520
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, oh, this, this felt great. And

0:46:31.520 --> 0:46:33.279
<v Speaker 1>then we've been texting ever since because I'm like Nick,

0:46:33.360 --> 0:46:34.680
<v Speaker 1>I can't do that all the time. It's a nice

0:46:34.719 --> 0:46:36.960
<v Speaker 1>feeling when you can connect on the phone because it's

0:46:37.000 --> 0:46:39.400
<v Speaker 1>something that's so forgotten, you know, Like I'm just like

0:46:39.640 --> 0:46:41.040
<v Speaker 1>that book my flight, we can talk in person. I

0:46:41.080 --> 0:46:43.480
<v Speaker 1>think the three things that I love that are most forgotten,

0:46:43.520 --> 0:46:46.799
<v Speaker 1>that I used to really love was one handwritten things

0:46:47.440 --> 0:46:53.279
<v Speaker 1>to the phone, and three actual photographs that are tangible, Like, yeah,

0:46:53.560 --> 0:46:57.400
<v Speaker 1>it's funny. I was actually gonna go to Walgreens and

0:46:57.800 --> 0:47:00.920
<v Speaker 1>like the pictures from the festival and even pictures from

0:47:00.920 --> 0:47:02.920
<v Speaker 1>Our Lives show and stuff like that. I want to

0:47:03.040 --> 0:47:06.400
<v Speaker 1>start getting picture albums again, I have like five. I

0:47:06.480 --> 0:47:09.200
<v Speaker 1>did that growing up. It's crazy. Like when people come over,

0:47:09.360 --> 0:47:11.759
<v Speaker 1>like I know, they laugh at me because like I'm

0:47:11.840 --> 0:47:13.440
<v Speaker 1>so used to go onto my phone to share memory.

0:47:13.480 --> 0:47:16.080
<v Speaker 1>So if you're in my home, anyone that's listening that's

0:47:16.080 --> 0:47:17.840
<v Speaker 1>been to my house, you know, I have these albums,

0:47:17.880 --> 0:47:19.799
<v Speaker 1>Like I have binders of things, and it feels really good.

0:47:19.840 --> 0:47:22.120
<v Speaker 1>And even though I can get like a little cluttered,

0:47:22.239 --> 0:47:25.080
<v Speaker 1>it feels really good. My refrigerators covered with pictures. I

0:47:25.160 --> 0:47:28.640
<v Speaker 1>just bought a Polaroid Um tangible photos feel good. Actually,

0:47:28.719 --> 0:47:31.320
<v Speaker 1>for Christmas, I sent Christmas card to Collet with a

0:47:31.360 --> 0:47:33.360
<v Speaker 1>picture of us in there and just thank her for

0:47:33.440 --> 0:47:35.839
<v Speaker 1>being a great friend. And she said to me later,

0:47:35.960 --> 0:47:39.200
<v Speaker 1>She's like, I can't believe you suendny picture. I can't

0:47:39.280 --> 0:47:42.759
<v Speaker 1>believe you know, but how many Like how good would

0:47:42.800 --> 0:47:44.680
<v Speaker 1>that feel? And just writing with your hand I love

0:47:44.760 --> 0:47:46.120
<v Speaker 1>you or I care about you to someone is a

0:47:46.120 --> 0:47:47.560
<v Speaker 1>big deal. My friends make fun of me all the

0:47:47.640 --> 0:47:49.720
<v Speaker 1>time because I like to go into photo booths everywhere.

0:47:50.880 --> 0:47:52.720
<v Speaker 1>I love those little things. And then when we travel

0:47:52.880 --> 0:47:54.879
<v Speaker 1>I'm the one paying when we on the tour, I'm

0:47:54.880 --> 0:47:58.040
<v Speaker 1>paying for a little big picture of us standing in

0:47:58.120 --> 0:48:01.239
<v Speaker 1>front of whatever. You've got to bro that Cross makes

0:48:01.280 --> 0:48:02.800
<v Speaker 1>so much money on those photos because we don't have

0:48:02.840 --> 0:48:06.279
<v Speaker 1>a dollar. Fucking Jesse at our ship in Miami, she

0:48:06.600 --> 0:48:08.919
<v Speaker 1>got this photo boothsh it, and I'm like, I don't

0:48:08.920 --> 0:48:11.120
<v Speaker 1>know why, Like you're you're looking for a sponsor for this,

0:48:11.200 --> 0:48:12.839
<v Speaker 1>Like we don't need this, Like we should be working

0:48:12.880 --> 0:48:14.640
<v Speaker 1>on something else. I wish we could. It was such

0:48:14.640 --> 0:48:18.279
<v Speaker 1>a greater. So the next question is from one of

0:48:18.320 --> 0:48:21.439
<v Speaker 1>our young listeners. Shout out to y'all, Um, Hi, Mandy,

0:48:21.480 --> 0:48:24.040
<v Speaker 1>and Wheezy, you guys can call me gee very much,

0:48:24.120 --> 0:48:26.279
<v Speaker 1>enjoy your podcast while at work and wanted to ask

0:48:26.360 --> 0:48:28.640
<v Speaker 1>y'all what I should do about this situation. I am

0:48:28.800 --> 0:48:32.239
<v Speaker 1>nineteen dating my very committed girlfriend who has showed me

0:48:32.320 --> 0:48:35.320
<v Speaker 1>everything but love in every way for the past eleven months.

0:48:35.680 --> 0:48:39.719
<v Speaker 1>But we have a problem. I can't come on my problem. Night,

0:48:39.760 --> 0:48:42.680
<v Speaker 1>I received my first blow job, which was amazing, toe

0:48:42.760 --> 0:48:46.359
<v Speaker 1>curling and all, and there is one problem. I did

0:48:46.440 --> 0:48:48.880
<v Speaker 1>not come keeping it short and went on till her

0:48:49.000 --> 0:48:51.000
<v Speaker 1>arm and jaw hurt from doing it for over thirty

0:48:51.080 --> 0:48:53.399
<v Speaker 1>minutes and I told her to stop whenever she needs.

0:48:53.680 --> 0:48:56.320
<v Speaker 1>She did so and went on with our relationship. Also,

0:48:56.440 --> 0:48:59.120
<v Speaker 1>that was not her first rodeo, and she went through

0:48:59.280 --> 0:49:02.960
<v Speaker 1>her whole phase in high school but fell hard for me. Now,

0:49:03.440 --> 0:49:07.839
<v Speaker 1>after so many amazing blow jobs, I still haven't Yeah.

0:49:07.920 --> 0:49:10.640
<v Speaker 1>I was actually just wondering what if he said they're amazing?

0:49:10.760 --> 0:49:12.920
<v Speaker 1>He said, so curling, I still haven't came from her

0:49:12.960 --> 0:49:16.759
<v Speaker 1>blow jobs, and now whenever we fuck. Lost my V

0:49:16.920 --> 0:49:19.800
<v Speaker 1>card in October, which is also amazing, which makes this

0:49:20.000 --> 0:49:22.560
<v Speaker 1>very confusing and very concerning. So he doesn't he can't

0:49:22.560 --> 0:49:24.600
<v Speaker 1>come from sex either. No, I don't know if it's

0:49:24.640 --> 0:49:27.040
<v Speaker 1>my stamina or just my head fighting my head, since

0:49:27.080 --> 0:49:30.480
<v Speaker 1>I do suffer from anxiety. We've spoken and joked about it,

0:49:30.520 --> 0:49:33.040
<v Speaker 1>and she said it might just be that I have

0:49:33.080 --> 0:49:35.040
<v Speaker 1>a lot of stamina, since every time I masturbate it

0:49:35.080 --> 0:49:38.640
<v Speaker 1>takes about forty minutes on average. Damp. I would like

0:49:38.760 --> 0:49:40.680
<v Speaker 1>your opinion. I've listened to your podcast and applied a

0:49:40.719 --> 0:49:43.000
<v Speaker 1>lot to our relationship, to the point I gave someone

0:49:43.040 --> 0:49:46.400
<v Speaker 1>who didn't like head to her hugging and kissing me

0:49:46.560 --> 0:49:49.879
<v Speaker 1>after saying don't leave me after I'm done. So thank

0:49:49.920 --> 0:49:52.160
<v Speaker 1>you all for all the tips on treating and pleasing

0:49:52.239 --> 0:49:54.839
<v Speaker 1>my woman, and can't wait for all the future episodes. Also,

0:49:54.880 --> 0:49:57.560
<v Speaker 1>I've introduced my Girl to y'all since I love your convos.

0:49:57.800 --> 0:50:00.120
<v Speaker 1>We have been very adventurous to beach, blow jobs and

0:50:00.280 --> 0:50:02.719
<v Speaker 1>head in the dressing rooms and stores. Hope to see

0:50:02.719 --> 0:50:04.399
<v Speaker 1>you at a future live show. Keep up the tips

0:50:04.440 --> 0:50:07.080
<v Speaker 1>and good luck PS. My girl reminds me very much

0:50:07.120 --> 0:50:09.840
<v Speaker 1>of Mandy. She enjoys giving me head very dominant, and

0:50:09.920 --> 0:50:12.040
<v Speaker 1>I like the idea of pegging. I don't know about

0:50:12.120 --> 0:50:15.280
<v Speaker 1>that yet, um, but just getting freaking and just freaking

0:50:15.360 --> 0:50:18.279
<v Speaker 1>was overall from I really wish that we would have

0:50:18.320 --> 0:50:20.760
<v Speaker 1>read this question with someone better suited to answer, because

0:50:20.840 --> 0:50:23.120
<v Speaker 1>I think there's a lot more going on that we

0:50:23.320 --> 0:50:25.160
<v Speaker 1>can't really speak to. I mean, we have men in

0:50:25.200 --> 0:50:28.640
<v Speaker 1>the room. Would do you all have issues with coming

0:50:28.719 --> 0:50:30.839
<v Speaker 1>or when you guys were younger? I want to he's

0:50:30.920 --> 0:50:33.480
<v Speaker 1>nineteen and just lost his virginity, so I want to

0:50:33.480 --> 0:50:35.719
<v Speaker 1>speak to that. Well, can you come on the mic

0:50:35.840 --> 0:50:39.040
<v Speaker 1>so that they can? I want so? Yeah, well, this

0:50:39.200 --> 0:50:41.799
<v Speaker 1>is our camera guy. Guys, welcome Benson on the show.

0:50:41.880 --> 0:50:47.880
<v Speaker 1>He's not a doctor. Yeah, can we no? No, no,

0:50:48.000 --> 0:50:51.880
<v Speaker 1>come back, come back? Can you? So? I wanted to

0:50:51.960 --> 0:50:54.279
<v Speaker 1>focus more so on his age and being that he

0:50:54.400 --> 0:50:56.479
<v Speaker 1>just lost his virginia. If this is something that maybe

0:50:56.960 --> 0:50:59.960
<v Speaker 1>most men would experience, I'm about most men, but I'll

0:51:00.080 --> 0:51:02.480
<v Speaker 1>tell you firsthand is that I lost my virginia was eighteen.

0:51:02.840 --> 0:51:05.680
<v Speaker 1>And the way I lost it. First of all, I

0:51:05.719 --> 0:51:07.480
<v Speaker 1>was watching the podcast. Didn't actually lose it had a

0:51:07.480 --> 0:51:13.200
<v Speaker 1>stroke of impotence for the lip service. Okay, um. It

0:51:13.280 --> 0:51:16.240
<v Speaker 1>was actually the Mayo and Uncle Murder episode of Massivend

0:51:16.280 --> 0:51:18.600
<v Speaker 1>my my ex possession on it was so weird. But

0:51:19.320 --> 0:51:20.880
<v Speaker 1>but here's the thing. I actually didn't get hard. I

0:51:20.880 --> 0:51:23.920
<v Speaker 1>actually had impotence for the first month, and that was

0:51:24.080 --> 0:51:26.560
<v Speaker 1>like very stressful, humiliating. But after that, well wait, which

0:51:26.760 --> 0:51:29.640
<v Speaker 1>so you weren't getting hard for the first month anxiety,

0:51:29.719 --> 0:51:31.600
<v Speaker 1>it was all on my head, okay, so like him?

0:51:31.719 --> 0:51:34.920
<v Speaker 1>After that, then I was for hours straight. I mean

0:51:34.960 --> 0:51:36.680
<v Speaker 1>obviously the first time I was like five minutes. Then

0:51:36.719 --> 0:51:37.840
<v Speaker 1>I worked my way up and now I was just

0:51:37.920 --> 0:51:39.560
<v Speaker 1>working straight hours and we had to take breaks on

0:51:39.640 --> 0:51:44.759
<v Speaker 1>her pussy hurt. Um, come, I don't know. See, that's

0:51:44.800 --> 0:51:46.480
<v Speaker 1>what I was trying to put my head around. Like

0:51:47.000 --> 0:51:48.960
<v Speaker 1>happened to you too, but while you were young and

0:51:49.239 --> 0:51:52.520
<v Speaker 1>just and it was weird like my my ex crazy.

0:51:52.600 --> 0:51:54.359
<v Speaker 1>She was like, oh, he must be sucking other people

0:51:54.360 --> 0:51:55.879
<v Speaker 1>because at moment, dick wasn't working when I do because

0:51:55.880 --> 0:51:57.800
<v Speaker 1>it overworking. She was like, what the fund is the

0:51:57.880 --> 0:52:03.719
<v Speaker 1>issue now? Like, I have no clue. That's not an

0:52:03.760 --> 0:52:06.360
<v Speaker 1>issue for you now, right? Do you know what you

0:52:06.480 --> 0:52:09.319
<v Speaker 1>did for that to change? Was Was it a change

0:52:09.360 --> 0:52:12.760
<v Speaker 1>in partners? Was it a change in your thoughts around sex?

0:52:13.239 --> 0:52:14.960
<v Speaker 1>What made it to where you were then able to

0:52:15.040 --> 0:52:17.560
<v Speaker 1>have I guess regular sex? And this wasn't an issue.

0:52:17.719 --> 0:52:19.160
<v Speaker 1>I really couldn't put a pin on it. I don't

0:52:19.160 --> 0:52:22.080
<v Speaker 1>know where just started change, like uh like because me

0:52:22.200 --> 0:52:24.040
<v Speaker 1>Max were on and off, so then it became like

0:52:24.160 --> 0:52:25.960
<v Speaker 1>got down to like forty minutes, and then we had

0:52:25.960 --> 0:52:27.200
<v Speaker 1>a lot of public sex. So I was like, you know,

0:52:27.200 --> 0:52:29.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna rush right now, you know? Okay? So well

0:52:29.680 --> 0:52:32.600
<v Speaker 1>that that was an idea. So that's something that maybe

0:52:32.640 --> 0:52:35.200
<v Speaker 1>he could consider even to see maybe what's changing in

0:52:35.360 --> 0:52:37.840
<v Speaker 1>his mindset. Maybe when he's in the house he feels

0:52:37.880 --> 0:52:39.480
<v Speaker 1>like he has all the time in the world, and

0:52:39.560 --> 0:52:42.279
<v Speaker 1>maybe he can come faster if he doesn't in public more.

0:52:42.480 --> 0:52:47.600
<v Speaker 1>But what I will say, what I will say now

0:52:48.160 --> 0:52:55.960
<v Speaker 1>at a sex club? What that's probably technically not okay? Um,

0:52:56.080 --> 0:52:58.240
<v Speaker 1>what I will say is that anxiety is closely linked

0:52:58.239 --> 0:53:00.080
<v Speaker 1>to impotence and not being able to come. All you

0:53:00.120 --> 0:53:03.280
<v Speaker 1>guys know that. Right now, I want to let everybody

0:53:03.320 --> 0:53:05.560
<v Speaker 1>know that it's important to be careful. Talk to somebody,

0:53:05.600 --> 0:53:08.319
<v Speaker 1>talk to other dudes. Please talk to your other dudes

0:53:08.440 --> 0:53:10.840
<v Speaker 1>in private. Maybe just slightly bring it up, because I

0:53:10.960 --> 0:53:14.839
<v Speaker 1>don't bring up dick talk in front of the talk

0:53:15.120 --> 0:53:17.520
<v Speaker 1>because don't want to talk about that like all about

0:53:17.520 --> 0:53:19.640
<v Speaker 1>like you know, my ships on SWOW. But then I

0:53:19.680 --> 0:53:21.120
<v Speaker 1>don't know what I brought up. And then four of

0:53:21.200 --> 0:53:25.320
<v Speaker 1>my other closest dudes are like, yeah, it happened to

0:53:25.440 --> 0:53:27.319
<v Speaker 1>had an issue, And I was like, yeah, man, there's

0:53:27.320 --> 0:53:29.200
<v Speaker 1>like a close older person in your life that can

0:53:29.239 --> 0:53:31.719
<v Speaker 1>like walk you through that moment because sometimes at that

0:53:31.800 --> 0:53:37.120
<v Speaker 1>age you're so immature. How old were you? I was Okay,

0:53:37.160 --> 0:53:39.479
<v Speaker 1>he's nineteen, so yeah, about the same about the same age.

0:53:39.920 --> 0:53:43.439
<v Speaker 1>Thank you, Benthy, You're coming through we see. So here's

0:53:43.480 --> 0:53:45.279
<v Speaker 1>what I was thinking about when he was saying that. Um,

0:53:45.760 --> 0:53:47.560
<v Speaker 1>there's one of my favorite parts and it's the very

0:53:47.600 --> 0:53:51.520
<v Speaker 1>beginning of Charlottegne's last book, Shook One. Did you read it? Um,

0:53:51.640 --> 0:53:55.239
<v Speaker 1>it's on my bookshelf. I haven't read it though, so

0:53:55.800 --> 0:53:58.440
<v Speaker 1>there's an awesome There's an awesome part in the beginning

0:53:58.880 --> 0:54:01.200
<v Speaker 1>where he talks about names aiety he had attack he

0:54:01.280 --> 0:54:03.440
<v Speaker 1>had going down and his wife and he says his

0:54:03.480 --> 0:54:05.640
<v Speaker 1>wife always squirts, even together, like eighteen years and he

0:54:05.719 --> 0:54:07.400
<v Speaker 1>was going down on her and he was high, and

0:54:07.480 --> 0:54:08.920
<v Speaker 1>he's like, I thought he was going to drown, and

0:54:09.000 --> 0:54:11.960
<v Speaker 1>he's like, I kept doing it and I was wondering

0:54:11.960 --> 0:54:15.320
<v Speaker 1>why she wasn't squirting, and I fucking freaked out, and

0:54:15.480 --> 0:54:17.759
<v Speaker 1>he's like, I had so much anxiety, and she was laughing.

0:54:17.840 --> 0:54:21.279
<v Speaker 1>It was a great story, actually embarrassing as fuck. When

0:54:21.280 --> 0:54:22.960
<v Speaker 1>I met his wife, I mentioned it and she was like,

0:54:23.000 --> 0:54:27.840
<v Speaker 1>oh my god. She was like, hey, that that is

0:54:27.880 --> 0:54:30.040
<v Speaker 1>to be getting at the first chapter. And I think

0:54:30.080 --> 0:54:32.520
<v Speaker 1>that that was such a dope part of the book

0:54:32.520 --> 0:54:34.799
<v Speaker 1>because even for so long, you can get with someone

0:54:34.840 --> 0:54:36.840
<v Speaker 1>and you can get that anxiety. But I think what

0:54:37.040 --> 0:54:39.880
<v Speaker 1>it has to do with is there always feels like

0:54:39.920 --> 0:54:42.440
<v Speaker 1>there's a clock on sex, and a lot of us

0:54:42.480 --> 0:54:43.880
<v Speaker 1>have to take that out, which is why I kind

0:54:43.920 --> 0:54:45.680
<v Speaker 1>of like that thing of like talk about amazing sex

0:54:45.760 --> 0:54:48.640
<v Speaker 1>without coming, like we women feel like men have to

0:54:48.680 --> 0:54:51.480
<v Speaker 1>come for it to be over, and men feel like

0:54:51.560 --> 0:54:53.239
<v Speaker 1>they have to wait for women before they can come

0:54:53.320 --> 0:54:56.360
<v Speaker 1>sometimes and we don't really like get to enjoy it anymore.

0:54:56.400 --> 0:54:58.120
<v Speaker 1>It's like you're figuring out what position we have to

0:54:58.160 --> 0:54:59.840
<v Speaker 1>be in so we can come. And I think that

0:55:00.000 --> 0:55:02.920
<v Speaker 1>should just like explore bodies more so, like a lot

0:55:03.000 --> 0:55:05.840
<v Speaker 1>more licking and touching and like getting into your senses

0:55:05.960 --> 0:55:08.800
<v Speaker 1>to really turn you on, just like women take a

0:55:08.880 --> 0:55:11.480
<v Speaker 1>long time to get wet. Kind of remember that, like

0:55:12.400 --> 0:55:15.160
<v Speaker 1>men can sometimes take There's a thing that I almost

0:55:15.160 --> 0:55:19.239
<v Speaker 1>said his name, Jeeves does with me body worshiping, and

0:55:19.960 --> 0:55:22.040
<v Speaker 1>he would literally sit in front of my ass, on

0:55:22.160 --> 0:55:25.239
<v Speaker 1>my pussy and talk about it, talk to it, lick me,

0:55:25.840 --> 0:55:28.040
<v Speaker 1>fucking tell me how hot I am, put his fingers

0:55:28.080 --> 0:55:30.600
<v Speaker 1>in his mouth and whatever is dick take it out,

0:55:30.760 --> 0:55:32.759
<v Speaker 1>do other ship to it. And it's like it gets

0:55:32.840 --> 0:55:35.120
<v Speaker 1>me so fucking rilled up. And I don't want to

0:55:35.200 --> 0:55:37.560
<v Speaker 1>speak for their sex. But I would guess at nineteen,

0:55:38.080 --> 0:55:41.160
<v Speaker 1>maybe exploring and taking time doesn't seem like a thing

0:55:41.200 --> 0:55:43.360
<v Speaker 1>because I didn't do ship like that at nineteen, So

0:55:43.520 --> 0:55:46.160
<v Speaker 1>I think talking to an older friend that's mature enough

0:55:46.200 --> 0:55:49.280
<v Speaker 1>to not laugh at you, to looking into that anxiety

0:55:49.400 --> 0:55:52.480
<v Speaker 1>or sexual therapy or stuff like that. For insurance it's covered.

0:55:52.520 --> 0:55:55.279
<v Speaker 1>And three do some more floor four play and a

0:55:55.360 --> 0:55:58.080
<v Speaker 1>lot more four plays. I just had for the like,

0:55:58.480 --> 0:56:01.040
<v Speaker 1>and y'all know I don't like head. So I had

0:56:01.080 --> 0:56:04.680
<v Speaker 1>sex with someone um recently and it was our first

0:56:04.719 --> 0:56:07.040
<v Speaker 1>time having sex, but we've known each other for years,

0:56:07.560 --> 0:56:12.400
<v Speaker 1>and he got like he got really hard the night before,

0:56:12.480 --> 0:56:14.520
<v Speaker 1>but in the morning he wanted sex again and he

0:56:14.680 --> 0:56:17.200
<v Speaker 1>just was getting like medium hard, like but not all

0:56:17.280 --> 0:56:19.399
<v Speaker 1>the way hard to where it just it just wasn't going.

0:56:19.480 --> 0:56:23.280
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, I condom gotta stay. So finally

0:56:23.680 --> 0:56:25.759
<v Speaker 1>we we we fucked, but it just wasn't staying. He

0:56:25.800 --> 0:56:29.200
<v Speaker 1>went he got soft again, and so he like got

0:56:29.280 --> 0:56:31.840
<v Speaker 1>into this place where he literally laid in between my

0:56:31.960 --> 0:56:34.919
<v Speaker 1>legs and just put his mouth like it was head

0:56:35.000 --> 0:56:38.560
<v Speaker 1>but finger popping at the same time and literally made

0:56:38.640 --> 0:56:40.920
<v Speaker 1>me so wet, and I came that way so much,

0:56:40.960 --> 0:56:43.480
<v Speaker 1>so of course I wanted penetration after, but I was like,

0:56:43.640 --> 0:56:46.719
<v Speaker 1>Nick like got me way wetter than when we were

0:56:47.840 --> 0:56:50.359
<v Speaker 1>and it was so he literally funny because you're talking

0:56:50.360 --> 0:56:52.520
<v Speaker 1>about how you don't really like no, and he laid

0:56:52.600 --> 0:56:55.040
<v Speaker 1>between my legs and was just like looking and like

0:56:55.239 --> 0:56:57.640
<v Speaker 1>was working it like, but it wasn't allhead. It was

0:56:57.680 --> 0:57:00.319
<v Speaker 1>a lot of fingerplay. It was him looking into my eyes,

0:57:00.440 --> 0:57:02.759
<v Speaker 1>like him wanting to hear me moaning. It was just

0:57:03.160 --> 0:57:04.920
<v Speaker 1>very intense and I got so fucking white. I was like,

0:57:04.960 --> 0:57:07.400
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, that no right there. Though taking the

0:57:07.560 --> 0:57:10.200
<v Speaker 1>extra time to like please someone being a giver helps.

0:57:10.239 --> 0:57:12.600
<v Speaker 1>Actually one thing, this is really dumb, but it's true,

0:57:13.920 --> 0:57:17.840
<v Speaker 1>one of the hardest I've ever came. I can't even

0:57:18.280 --> 0:57:19.880
<v Speaker 1>it always sounds like I'm on my period with her

0:57:21.080 --> 0:57:23.640
<v Speaker 1>years ago. Okay, I'm gonna say this is like six

0:57:23.680 --> 0:57:26.640
<v Speaker 1>seven years ago, licking blood. Now, I couldn't mean I

0:57:26.760 --> 0:57:28.560
<v Speaker 1>was on my period, so I couldn't have sex right

0:57:29.080 --> 0:57:31.240
<v Speaker 1>with scissors. She came over, she was drunk. She came

0:57:31.280 --> 0:57:34.440
<v Speaker 1>over from the club, and she got on top of

0:57:34.520 --> 0:57:36.760
<v Speaker 1>me and was like rubbing on me and we were

0:57:36.800 --> 0:57:40.000
<v Speaker 1>like dry humping, and I was so fucking horny. And

0:57:40.080 --> 0:57:42.880
<v Speaker 1>I realized it's because I have never really been teased,

0:57:43.600 --> 0:57:46.520
<v Speaker 1>so like teasing like, I love it. I think y'all

0:57:46.520 --> 0:57:48.080
<v Speaker 1>should try that in your four play because if you

0:57:48.360 --> 0:57:50.000
<v Speaker 1>some people think four play is just eating pussing a

0:57:50.040 --> 0:57:52.240
<v Speaker 1>second dick, and it's not right, So we have one

0:57:52.280 --> 0:57:55.280
<v Speaker 1>more um listening to let our guys or homemail my

0:57:55.400 --> 0:57:58.520
<v Speaker 1>bit um. Hey ladies, I've been listening to your show

0:57:58.560 --> 0:58:00.439
<v Speaker 1>for a while now. Was put on by my home girl.

0:58:00.720 --> 0:58:02.560
<v Speaker 1>I love it and it opens my mind to things

0:58:03.080 --> 0:58:05.400
<v Speaker 1>um that I've never considered and fuels the questions I

0:58:05.520 --> 0:58:09.400
<v Speaker 1>bombarded my vanilla as friends with. But my purpose in

0:58:09.480 --> 0:58:11.720
<v Speaker 1>writing is that I've been having a lot more casual

0:58:11.800 --> 0:58:14.080
<v Speaker 1>sex since my last breakup. She's a complete opposite of

0:58:14.120 --> 0:58:17.160
<v Speaker 1>our first writer way back in and at first it

0:58:17.280 --> 0:58:19.960
<v Speaker 1>was Hella lit. It was exciting. I was coming pretty

0:58:20.040 --> 0:58:22.560
<v Speaker 1>much every time, learning new tricks and all. But now

0:58:22.680 --> 0:58:24.720
<v Speaker 1>it's kind of died out for me. Even sex with

0:58:24.760 --> 0:58:27.480
<v Speaker 1>the people who were also amazing before now have me

0:58:27.600 --> 0:58:30.880
<v Speaker 1>dry and disappointed. I wasted gas pulling up or allowed

0:58:30.960 --> 0:58:33.360
<v Speaker 1>their presence in my queendom. What can I do to

0:58:33.440 --> 0:58:36.640
<v Speaker 1>get that spark back and sexual interests back into my life?

0:58:36.800 --> 0:58:40.160
<v Speaker 1>Signed board and sexually Uninterested. And I picked this because

0:58:40.280 --> 0:58:44.520
<v Speaker 1>in the beginning of this year I was having quite

0:58:44.560 --> 0:58:46.640
<v Speaker 1>a bit of casual sex um with a lot of

0:58:46.720 --> 0:58:49.920
<v Speaker 1>repeating partners um. But I was winning trying to wean

0:58:50.000 --> 0:58:54.240
<v Speaker 1>myself off, which is is getting there um, and I

0:58:54.400 --> 0:58:56.960
<v Speaker 1>was telling my friends that I thought my pussy was

0:58:57.040 --> 0:58:59.560
<v Speaker 1>broke because I was having sex with like people who

0:58:59.600 --> 0:59:02.640
<v Speaker 1>worked me for seven. My pussy was the driest it

0:59:03.320 --> 0:59:05.800
<v Speaker 1>was it had been. I was mad every time I

0:59:05.880 --> 0:59:07.280
<v Speaker 1>had sex because I was like, this is why I

0:59:07.320 --> 0:59:10.560
<v Speaker 1>don't have casual sex with other people. I was frustrated

0:59:10.600 --> 0:59:12.680
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, yeah, my pussy's broke. I wasn't

0:59:12.720 --> 0:59:16.240
<v Speaker 1>interested in having sex. I went on quite a little

0:59:16.880 --> 0:59:19.880
<v Speaker 1>a dry spell. Didn't want to seven, didn't want to

0:59:19.880 --> 0:59:23.360
<v Speaker 1>suck anyone regular because I was genuinely not enjoying the sex.

0:59:23.600 --> 0:59:24.960
<v Speaker 1>So I read this and I was like, this is

0:59:25.000 --> 0:59:28.480
<v Speaker 1>what happened to me. And I feel like in a

0:59:28.680 --> 0:59:31.680
<v Speaker 1>in a bit of it, you have casual sex, and yeah,

0:59:31.720 --> 0:59:35.160
<v Speaker 1>it's fun, But when you're having casual sex with multiple partners,

0:59:35.440 --> 0:59:38.560
<v Speaker 1>you miss a lot of the things psychologically that you

0:59:38.720 --> 0:59:41.600
<v Speaker 1>like in a partner, such as the cuddling, such as

0:59:41.680 --> 0:59:45.760
<v Speaker 1>the conversation, the intimacy. Maybe they're not um doing the

0:59:45.880 --> 0:59:48.480
<v Speaker 1>things that essentially you want them to do, or maybe

0:59:49.280 --> 0:59:52.800
<v Speaker 1>you really don't want this sexual connection with someone as

0:59:52.880 --> 0:59:56.240
<v Speaker 1>much as you want a conversation with them um, And

0:59:56.360 --> 0:59:59.160
<v Speaker 1>I felt like that's kind of where I was. So

0:59:59.280 --> 1:00:01.680
<v Speaker 1>maybe you were enjoying this casual sex with all these

1:00:01.720 --> 1:00:03.760
<v Speaker 1>partners and it was fun and you were coming because

1:00:04.120 --> 1:00:06.840
<v Speaker 1>you kind of didn't want anything else. You just wanted sex.

1:00:06.920 --> 1:00:09.000
<v Speaker 1>So I just wanted to sex. Also, people say is

1:00:09.120 --> 1:00:13.040
<v Speaker 1>replacement for something else, right, But I um, so I

1:00:13.200 --> 1:00:15.640
<v Speaker 1>went through a really scary moment like towards the end

1:00:15.680 --> 1:00:18.320
<v Speaker 1>of February where like when my aunt died, I was

1:00:18.400 --> 1:00:21.120
<v Speaker 1>like scared to masturbate or have sex because I felt

1:00:21.160 --> 1:00:23.520
<v Speaker 1>like she was watching me. It's really dumb, but I

1:00:23.640 --> 1:00:27.200
<v Speaker 1>was like freaking out, like my grieving process fucked up masturbation.

1:00:27.960 --> 1:00:30.640
<v Speaker 1>And one of the things that helped me was a

1:00:30.720 --> 1:00:33.640
<v Speaker 1>little bit of time. But like erotica, I read a

1:00:33.680 --> 1:00:37.880
<v Speaker 1>lot already, Like erotica really fucking helps me. And I

1:00:37.920 --> 1:00:39.440
<v Speaker 1>don't know what it is. And I think it's because

1:00:40.040 --> 1:00:43.600
<v Speaker 1>when you're reading. And this is much why when books

1:00:43.640 --> 1:00:46.440
<v Speaker 1>turned into movies, people can't appreciate that yet because we

1:00:46.560 --> 1:00:50.720
<v Speaker 1>all imagine it in a different way. That's who I

1:00:50.840 --> 1:00:54.680
<v Speaker 1>would ever look into a movie, addicted Zane. Oh, yeah,

1:00:55.520 --> 1:00:57.360
<v Speaker 1>so like we kind of picture, you know, the book

1:00:57.400 --> 1:00:58.720
<v Speaker 1>a certain way, and then the movie comes out and

1:00:58.720 --> 1:01:00.720
<v Speaker 1>it's not what we wanted. That's what's great about books.

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<v Speaker 1>Your imagination runs so wild reading erotica or really got

1:01:04.240 --> 1:01:06.440
<v Speaker 1>my pussy to work. I really can't give any other

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<v Speaker 1>advice because I think sometimes it just takes time, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think it takes a little bit of solo time

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<v Speaker 1>to like work through that feeling. But when it's there,

1:01:13.360 --> 1:01:17.120
<v Speaker 1>you feel like it's never gonna be Overbro it sucks. Yeah, So, UM,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that honestly, you should maybe come more in

1:01:20.640 --> 1:01:24.080
<v Speaker 1>tune with yourself. Um, stop giving your energy to so

1:01:24.160 --> 1:01:26.800
<v Speaker 1>many people. UM. I believe that when you do have

1:01:26.920 --> 1:01:29.880
<v Speaker 1>sex with someone, it's a transfer of energy. So maybe

1:01:29.920 --> 1:01:31.840
<v Speaker 1>the things that are going on with your partners are

1:01:31.880 --> 1:01:34.880
<v Speaker 1>now draining into you. Whether it be something negative going

1:01:34.920 --> 1:01:37.120
<v Speaker 1>on in their lives, or maybe they're just exhausted, or

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<v Speaker 1>maybe they're not performing to to what they used to.

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<v Speaker 1>There could be so many things. But when you give

1:01:42.240 --> 1:01:45.280
<v Speaker 1>yourself to someone, specifically sex and when having casual sex,

1:01:45.840 --> 1:01:48.320
<v Speaker 1>you are draining yourself more than you know. And so

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<v Speaker 1>it may be a time to where you just need

1:01:50.600 --> 1:01:52.920
<v Speaker 1>some time for yourself something that I like to do

1:01:54.560 --> 1:01:56.600
<v Speaker 1>and something that I like to do when I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I've just given too much energy to my male

1:01:59.680 --> 1:02:01.880
<v Speaker 1>counter parts, are my sexual partners, or whatever the case

1:02:01.920 --> 1:02:04.920
<v Speaker 1>may be. I literally enjoy a trip with my friends

1:02:05.360 --> 1:02:09.160
<v Speaker 1>and I stop answering their calls and no, I don't

1:02:09.200 --> 1:02:10.960
<v Speaker 1>want to see you. I have plans with my friends.

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<v Speaker 1>I make a lot of plans with my friends, and

1:02:12.600 --> 1:02:16.480
<v Speaker 1>I get my energy back up and and being grateful

1:02:16.520 --> 1:02:18.960
<v Speaker 1>and happy for life, the people in my circle and

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on in my life before I can allow

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<v Speaker 1>myself to release energy to somebody else. So that's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of what got me over my little dry spell. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>when dealing with multiple sexual partners, just taking a break

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<v Speaker 1>and enjoying other people around me that I'm not having

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<v Speaker 1>sex with, specifically male friends, male friends that you aren't

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<v Speaker 1>having sex with, spending time around them, because then you

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<v Speaker 1>just get to appreciate men again and their energy and

1:02:42.560 --> 1:02:46.400
<v Speaker 1>the sastroone and just men for being men without having

1:02:46.480 --> 1:02:49.160
<v Speaker 1>to attach the sexual connection with them. So that would

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<v Speaker 1>be my advice. Um. Again, we want to shout out

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<v Speaker 1>know what to do now. There are over thirty fucking episodes,

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<v Speaker 1>say even more than like our episodes two, which are

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<v Speaker 1>really fun to make and really personal. Um. We have

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<v Speaker 1>such a community of people that talk like people that

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<v Speaker 1>go to the shows together, that are going alone, girls

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<v Speaker 1>that met up and got high together. It's really really fun.

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<v Speaker 1>A girl met her neighbor posted on there and realized

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<v Speaker 1>that one of the other patrons was a neighbor and

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<v Speaker 1>they came to the live show together in Chicago. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it was super dope. It's really fun. And we have

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<v Speaker 1>a thread where we really started a thread where everyone

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<v Speaker 1>says their age, their name, where they're from what they

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<v Speaker 1>do and what they'd like to do for fun, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's connected so many of our patrons to go out because,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, we like to think that the people who

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<v Speaker 1>listen to this podcast, whether you're vanilla, whether you're kinky,

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<v Speaker 1>wherever you land in the spectrum, a lot of our

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<v Speaker 1>listeners are. Like most wrote on post too, I was

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<v Speaker 1>I told my name and what I like to do

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<v Speaker 1>for fun and what I do on the weekends and

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<v Speaker 1>things that make me happy, and people just emulated the

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<v Speaker 1>same way. I actually didn't drop my age and everybody

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<v Speaker 1>was like forty two and I was like yeah, like

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<v Speaker 1>I enjoyed it. We have listeners from the ages of

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<v Speaker 1>eighteen all the way up until their fifties and sixties.

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<v Speaker 1>So shout out to everyone on Patron and thank you

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<v Speaker 1>guys again for supporting us. As always, we're gonna leave

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<v Speaker 1>you guys with a bonus clip from one of our

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<v Speaker 1>bonus episodes. And if you kind of like what you

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<v Speaker 1>hear I want to hear more, go ahead and sign

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<v Speaker 1>three bonus episodes. Once again, this has been yet another

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<v Speaker 1>episode of horrible decision. Love you by