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Speaker 1: and tell us about it. Happy Monday, everybody. Welcome to

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Speaker 1: horrible decisions. My name is Easy. What a dude? What

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Speaker 1: a dude puts the home? Did your girl? Mandy? I

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Speaker 1: actually wanted to start this episode off a little bit

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Speaker 1: different and I hope you guys like it. And for

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Speaker 1: those of you that don't, fuck you, I feel like

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Speaker 1: a lot of us need some loving light. I don't

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Speaker 1: know how long ago though a Nipsey funeral would have

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Speaker 1: been from when you listen to this, but you know,

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Speaker 1: a lot of people on the internet just seemed to

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Speaker 1: be more unified, and I feel like there's a chance

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Speaker 1: that we could have all forgotten about that now. But

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Speaker 1: the biggest takeaway from Nipsey's funeral I think that made me,

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Speaker 1: uh curious, is what will people say when I'm gone?

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Speaker 1: You know, we all are wondering what effect we will

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Speaker 1: many and I just want to set like some reminders

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Speaker 1: clear so that you can have that effect on people

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Speaker 1: when you are gone. A one I think all of

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Speaker 1: us should be kind. We can talk that talk, but

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Speaker 1: you really have to walk the walk. It's so easy

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Speaker 1: to say that you know we're being good or we're

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Speaker 1: doing good, but doing something kind for someone you know

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Speaker 1: is great. Doing something kind for someone that you don't

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Speaker 1: know is even greater. Making sure you extend yourself, whether

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Speaker 1: it be small fucking things like a dollar out of

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Speaker 1: just being kind to other people that you don't know,

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Speaker 1: it's a great way to just spread that energy and

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Speaker 1: get it back in your life. The second one I

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Speaker 1: have is to make amends, apologize, and I think forgive.

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Speaker 1: I think it just makes no sense to watch people

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Speaker 1: or something you wish you could have fixed. So it

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Speaker 1: takes a lot to humble ourselves and realize when we're wrong.

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Speaker 1: But you know, take those mistakes as growth and feel

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Speaker 1: But when you do it, mean it. If you know

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Speaker 1: you and your boyfriend are fighting, or you and your

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Speaker 1: when you say you forgive them and you're over it,

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Speaker 1: last thing that I want to say that's really good

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Speaker 1: to clean and renew your spirit is staging, showering. Whatever

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Speaker 1: day specifically after our therapy episode or day before the

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Speaker 1: our life that way. Yeah. Something that UM Lauren London

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Speaker 1: you are you got anything that you've done this past

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Speaker 1: like working on spring cleaning because I've been watching Marie Condo.

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Speaker 1: The makeup has been fun on the twit I just had.

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Speaker 1: went to dream Ville Fest and for anyone who knows,

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Speaker 1: keep listening. I've been looking for a sex and I

425
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Speaker 1: talked about it. I didn't even notice she's episode Ashley,

426
00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:01,679
Speaker 1: who is the able to be talked about. Yeah, so

427
00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:03,760
Speaker 1: I wasn't here for that. So for those who may

428
00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:06,760
Speaker 1: be like confused with maybe what a sex sier get means,

429
00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:09,040
Speaker 1: because when I hear Sara get, of course I'm thinking

430
00:20:09,040 --> 00:20:11,640
Speaker 1: of someone who holds a baby for someone else. So

431
00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:13,800
Speaker 1: I went um and did a little bit of research

432
00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:17,400
Speaker 1: and on the I believe the word represents a replacement

433
00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:20,560
Speaker 1: or like an alternative, like a substitute. That's why so

434
00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:24,640
Speaker 1: probably TV dot com um the article is sex sier

435
00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:27,320
Speaker 1: gets sleep with their clients to help their lives, and no,

436
00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:31,880
Speaker 1: it's not prostitution. So sex sier gets actually worked closely

437
00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:36,120
Speaker 1: with sex therapists to help clients overcome sexual problems such

438
00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:40,480
Speaker 1: as erectile dysfunction or sex trauma through actual physical intimacy.

439
00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:43,320
Speaker 1: Didn't say anything about them doing it for free, um,

440
00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:47,440
Speaker 1: because this is volunteer work. So right, the very next

441
00:20:47,600 --> 00:20:51,639
Speaker 1: um question is they make good money comparable to a

442
00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:54,520
Speaker 1: sex therapist, and the laws are strict as to how

443
00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:57,879
Speaker 1: sex is handled, so their career isn't confused with prostitution.

444
00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:00,320
Speaker 1: There's a Netflix thing, Damn, I wish I could fucking

445
00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:02,440
Speaker 1: remember the name with this older woman who takes people.

446
00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:05,040
Speaker 1: She does she takes people's virginities and helps them through

447
00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:07,600
Speaker 1: that experience, so she would be considered a sexy. She

448
00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:10,480
Speaker 1: is a sex worter and so like she walks them

449
00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:12,480
Speaker 1: to their first time in sex. And I maybe I'm

450
00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:15,639
Speaker 1: guessing it's not prostitution because there is a lot of

451
00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:17,840
Speaker 1: therapy involved, Like you don't just get there and you fuck.

452
00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:20,640
Speaker 1: I think it's like an option that can happen. That's

453
00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:23,240
Speaker 1: probably how to get around Here's how here's the laws. Um.

454
00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:27,159
Speaker 1: Sexual surrogacy has been legal since two thousand three, so

455
00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:31,560
Speaker 1: it's fairly new to being legal. UM, it's remained pretty much. Yeah,

456
00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:34,959
Speaker 1: it's been pretty much unregulated. It has been defined by

457
00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:39,159
Speaker 1: the state of California as if it's between consensual adults

458
00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:42,840
Speaker 1: and referred by licensed therapists and doesn't involve minors, then

459
00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:46,679
Speaker 1: it is not illegal. UM regulating the industry as long

460
00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:48,640
Speaker 1: as you would like you as long as you're sucking

461
00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:52,679
Speaker 1: someone consensual, not kids or hurting animals. And they also

462
00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:55,480
Speaker 1: have a whole association for it, so if you guys

463
00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:58,680
Speaker 1: want to do further research, UM into the industry, it's

464
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Speaker 1: called the International Professtional Siriguts Association. The credit that's what

465
00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:08,080
Speaker 1: I said, you saying sirigate, surrogate, sirigate what I have

466
00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:12,560
Speaker 1: the same ship you saying sirogate, which they credit themselves

467
00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:17,600
Speaker 1: with helping mostly men with physical disabilities, psychological trauma for sexuality.

468
00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:21,720
Speaker 1: And this gallon of water. You're awful. See, this is

469
00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:23,360
Speaker 1: why she an't working on mo y'all because she can't

470
00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:25,760
Speaker 1: do a job. She can't hold a pussy, can't hold

471
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Speaker 1: a pusy UM, I actually did not know anything about

472
00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 1: um this sex sirigacy being a thing. UM. It is

473
00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:38,520
Speaker 1: important to also be working with a sex therapist though,

474
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Speaker 1: to understand what's going on mentally and what's leading someone

475
00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:45,120
Speaker 1: to certain thoughts. UM. This is important because I say

476
00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:48,359
Speaker 1: this often, UM when it comes to sex, and we

477
00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:52,399
Speaker 1: actually have a couple of questions relating to the psychological

478
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:56,560
Speaker 1: aspects of sex and having sex with another person. A

479
00:22:56,680 --> 00:23:00,359
Speaker 1: lot of sex is way more psychological than physical. UM.

480
00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,480
Speaker 1: And I know that we look for the physical touch

481
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:06,639
Speaker 1: and penetration and all of these UM terms to describe

482
00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:09,800
Speaker 1: what sex is. But in order to reach the climaxes

483
00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:12,800
Speaker 1: and orgasms and actually enjoy it to how we want to,

484
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:17,439
Speaker 1: you really need to be in a mental state in

485
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:20,720
Speaker 1: which you can allow these things to happen to your body. UM.

486
00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:22,720
Speaker 1: So this is interesting if you guys want to look

487
00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:26,600
Speaker 1: it up. UM again, they're called sex surrogates. UM. That's

488
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Speaker 1: s U R R O G A t E. S UM.

489
00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:34,679
Speaker 1: This was a great thing. So our next UM topic

490
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Speaker 1: that we're actually going to get into. I love it

491
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:43,000
Speaker 1: is reference from a Vanilla ship that I found, UM,

492
00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:46,840
Speaker 1: and so I'm gonna read the Vanilla Ship and then

493
00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 1: we're gonna get into the kink of the week. Once

494
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Speaker 1: Wheezy returns um here she goes cool. I was just

495
00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:56,119
Speaker 1: I was just getting us into um the kink of

496
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Speaker 1: the week and the kink of the week. I just

497
00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:01,240
Speaker 1: want to explain, I have been drinking a gallon a

498
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:02,920
Speaker 1: day of water and I've only been doing it for

499
00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:05,200
Speaker 1: the last five days. Everything is so my skin is

500
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:09,000
Speaker 1: fucking better. Everything create, but it can't stop being like

501
00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:12,520
Speaker 1: I'm honestly, I almost kissed myself when you were talking

502
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:15,000
Speaker 1: about like how you saw the world on the last

503
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:19,800
Speaker 1: episode we did, and it's so hard, like look at

504
00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:21,880
Speaker 1: this if you're watching on YouTube, look how far down

505
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:23,720
Speaker 1: I am. Bro and I only started this at ten am.

506
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:27,200
Speaker 1: I should have just sitting all my fucking bladder. It's crazy.

507
00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:29,680
Speaker 1: That's a lot. So I told him we're going to

508
00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:31,040
Speaker 1: get into the kink of the week and the kink

509
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:32,920
Speaker 1: of the week this week. I actually chose from a

510
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 1: Vanilla Sha article that I found. Um So the Vanilla

511
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:39,520
Speaker 1: Sha article comes from New York Post um Man with

512
00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:44,640
Speaker 1: bizarre horse fetish busted twice in twenty four hours. Cas.

513
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:49,200
Speaker 1: I do also want to say a lot of the

514
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 1: Cassi Vanilla ship because that we find happened in the

515
00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:57,200
Speaker 1: UK and that's where the horse saying you just so, No,

516
00:24:57,280 --> 00:24:59,000
Speaker 1: he didn't suck the horse. Calm Down, I could have

517
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:02,719
Speaker 1: cover one. You k man with a sick obception for

518
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:06,720
Speaker 1: publicly masturbating near horses has been arrested twice within twenty

519
00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 1: four hours for the same lute offense. What Malcolm Downs,

520
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 1: he's sixty one years old who has a long, long

521
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:15,919
Speaker 1: history of pleasuring himself in front of mammals, was arrested

522
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:18,439
Speaker 1: on February eighteenth after he was spotted touching himself in

523
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 1: a field in the city. It's honestly even of England,

524
00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:24,600
Speaker 1: that's even worse this activity. The horse has a whole

525
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:27,479
Speaker 1: dick thinking this is worse. This activity went on for

526
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:30,200
Speaker 1: three or four minutes. His penis was exposed for about

527
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:32,879
Speaker 1: ten When police grilled Downs about the illicit act, he

528
00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:35,159
Speaker 1: told detectives, I was sat on a bench. I was

529
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:39,480
Speaker 1: filling sexy so I started to yeah. Um but basically

530
00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:45,800
Speaker 1: yeah um. He was released. No, it'said dot dot dot um.

531
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:48,920
Speaker 1: Downs told cops he knew what he was doing was wrong. Um.

532
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:53,479
Speaker 1: The suspect was released on bail after saying, what for

533
00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:58,119
Speaker 1: showing like un that's indecent exposure? Someone saw him masturbating

534
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:01,480
Speaker 1: in the field with the horses. Uh, he's done that

535
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 1: a million times. If you've only been to jail, this

536
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 1: is some ship. So I was like, okay, so the

537
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 1: nigga is not having sex with animals. We know that

538
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:11,399
Speaker 1: sex with animals is b sality. So I was looking

539
00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:13,600
Speaker 1: this up because it referred to it as a fetish.

540
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:18,719
Speaker 1: So there's actually three key terms commonly used to describe

541
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:22,399
Speaker 1: fetishes involving animals, and I wanted to get into the three. Um.

542
00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 1: Hopefully none of you guys are doing this, um, you know,

543
00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 1: but maybe if you are, We're not gonna whole thing. No.

544
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just saying I can't believe that this

545
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:33,159
Speaker 1: is where I draw the line, But I don't know

546
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 1: why this is where you draw the lot. He just so,

547
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:37,600
Speaker 1: what's funny is this? And when Keiki talked about the

548
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:40,720
Speaker 1: throw up in the anal bottle, you know you want

549
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:43,400
Speaker 1: to know what's hilarious. As I'm looking for the kink

550
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:47,680
Speaker 1: that describes this, guess what comes up mad message boards

551
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:49,840
Speaker 1: about if it's okay to masturbate in front of your

552
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:53,159
Speaker 1: pets and if masturbating in front of your dog or

553
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 1: cat should cause any type of like arousal, because I'm

554
00:26:57,600 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 1: kind of like you're being watched. I know, my dad

555
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 1: used to be in the room because he used to

556
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 1: be in the bed a lot, and I'd be like, Glad,

557
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 1: do you have to go? And I would and I

558
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 1: would hear this, I'm be trying to hurry and come. Yeah.

559
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:14,359
Speaker 1: So so that was what I found. So here's the

560
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:19,359
Speaker 1: three terms commonly used um zoophilia, b C reality of course,

561
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:23,879
Speaker 1: and zoo sexuality. So these are often used somewhat interchangeably.

562
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 1: Some researchers distinguish between zoophilia and be clity because bality

563
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 1: is often not driven by a sexual preference for animals.

564
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:36,119
Speaker 1: Some studies have found that a preference for animals is

565
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:40,399
Speaker 1: rare among people who engage in sexual contact with animals. Furthermore,

566
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:44,040
Speaker 1: some zoo files report that they have never had sexual

567
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:46,679
Speaker 1: contact with an animal, So I assume he would be

568
00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 1: considered a zoo file. I would assume mass master, bit masterbait.

569
00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 1: People with zoophilia are known as zoo files, though also

570
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 1: sometimes as zoo sexuals or even very simply zoos. This

571
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 1: so WPS, zoor rosti, sodomy, and zoor rastia are other

572
00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:08,879
Speaker 1: terms closely related to the subject, but are less anonymous

573
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 1: with the former terms and are seldom I can't remember

574
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 1: where I found the acronym WPS when I started saying,

575
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 1: and I think it was broad City, but I had

576
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:17,879
Speaker 1: to be because they came across this. This is super

577
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 1: WPS like. But I mean, what if the nigger got

578
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:23,320
Speaker 1: a pit bull and he liked to masturbate in front

579
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:24,600
Speaker 1: of his pitbull? Did you like to match to be

580
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:26,320
Speaker 1: in front of your pit bull? Because maybe you like

581
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:29,240
Speaker 1: to be watched? And that's a really I shouldn't have

582
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:31,399
Speaker 1: said black people had pit bulls. That's really bad to

583
00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 1: me to say. But you know, you know, maybe you

584
00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:37,119
Speaker 1: got a pit bull? Right See black ass in the room,

585
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 1: got it? He's like, Jesus just got one? What is it?

586
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:44,760
Speaker 1: Red nose? Blue nose? How you? Oh? All right? So

587
00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:46,840
Speaker 1: I do want to start off. We got to start

588
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 1: this off with the bank. So a lot of the

589
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 1: questions that you guys sent in our home our horrible

590
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 1: decisions for this week, is just all homemail. But I

591
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:55,960
Speaker 1: want to start off with something that was not a

592
00:28:56,080 --> 00:29:00,720
Speaker 1: question but will be unsolicited advice that we're gonna give you.

593
00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:08,560
Speaker 1: We were Patreon message that we received Wednesday night, and

594
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:11,360
Speaker 1: here it goes. This is the unicorn from the February

595
00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:14,400
Speaker 1: Atlanta show. I wanted to give you my rundown on

596
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,520
Speaker 1: the interactions thus far with the couple. If you guys

597
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 1: need some context on this, me and Mandy talk about

598
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 1: it all the time. At one of Our Lives shows,

599
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 1: we were so elated that a woman stood up and asked, hey, like,

600
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:27,680
Speaker 1: where can we find unicorns? And the person that was

601
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 1: maybe two seats over from her was a unicorn and

602
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:32,640
Speaker 1: they linked up. Here we go. I'm mad because I

603
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 1: remember what they looked like. I remember exactly what they like.

604
00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 1: I feel bad, but I don't. Originally, they invited me

605
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 1: out the same night as the show. I had made

606
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:43,040
Speaker 1: plans already, so I suggested we do brunch the next morning.

607
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 1: They picked the spot Milk and Honey, nice spot I

608
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:48,360
Speaker 1: was supposed to go there. They also invited another friend.

609
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:51,720
Speaker 1: She was cool. We all ordered food plus a picture

610
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:54,400
Speaker 1: of Momosa smash. Cut to the bill. Mandy, I know

611
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 1: you got my back here, which I want to stop

612
00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 1: you right there. Bitch, When and ever did you think

613
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:01,800
Speaker 1: that I would think it was okay? I don't know

614
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 1: what I've given you, guys, what opportune you've taken by

615
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:08,680
Speaker 1: the things that I've said about wanting to take care

616
00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:10,360
Speaker 1: of things for whether it be scissors or be a

617
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 1: sugar mama one day. I would never ever ever tell

618
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 1: you that this shop was okay. Not that I don't

619
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 1: have it, but y'all trying to suck me right then

620
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 1: court me. My tap was only about thirty dollars, and

621
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:27,680
Speaker 1: that included the tip. Kind of turned me off on

622
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:29,200
Speaker 1: the type that feels that any man who wants a

623
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:31,160
Speaker 1: threesome should be able support of threesome. I eat dinner

624
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:34,280
Speaker 1: and drinks with the women involved. So basically after sounds

625
00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:36,720
Speaker 1: a little basically if you guys, because I got a

626
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:39,239
Speaker 1: little bit lost in the story. Basically, they all went

627
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 1: to brunch and when the bill came out, they split it.

628
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:44,280
Speaker 1: The man did not. After brunch, they invited me out

629
00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 1: to the Trap Museum. I declined because I had a

630
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:49,080
Speaker 1: two hour drive home. So tip for Unicorn hunters, wine

631
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:51,840
Speaker 1: and dine her. She's a damn unicorn. Asked her if

632
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:54,680
Speaker 1: I could read this. She's like pretty Treon like yeah,

633
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 1: and I appreciate you for letting us read this, because

634
00:30:57,200 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 1: I promise you this is going to help the greater good.

635
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:02,200
Speaker 1: I get tired of the three cent question, and I

636
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:04,680
Speaker 1: think it's mainly because y'all know I have quite a few,

637
00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 1: and you ask us what we should do. Go to

638
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:10,280
Speaker 1: episode seventeen, you asked where you're going to meet these people? Whatever?

639
00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 1: My main objective I want for this entire fucking show,

640
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 1: even though I had my big kind ship in the beginning.

641
00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 1: For my fourth thing I should have said is treat

642
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 1: the person you're inviting to your bedroom. Asked me to

643
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:30,000
Speaker 1: fuck you and your husband, and then even why didn't

644
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:33,880
Speaker 1: I gotta split the bill? Which'll I really am disappointed

645
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:35,440
Speaker 1: because this couple was so cool and we've met them

646
00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 1: twice I technically three times, so they came to our

647
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 1: club shift after Opium in Atlanta that that first time.

648
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 1: I'm so disappointed that a couple so experienced could even

649
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 1: let this happen. And then I thought for a second

650
00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 1: they weren't experienced. She said, they do it all the time.

651
00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 1: The then the other thing I was thinking of was, um,

652
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 1: you know, okay, well their friend was there, so that

653
00:31:56,880 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 1: all couple. No, not even then, not even then, you

654
00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 1: guys are fucking tripping my nigga. Now, as a woman,

655
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 1: could you have sit there and known and watched your

656
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 1: fucking man only pick. I don't even know if you

657
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:15,120
Speaker 1: and your man regularly split, but you should have definitely

658
00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 1: stung a different tune that night. How dare you? How

659
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 1: fucking dare you have insinuated that you wanted me to

660
00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:25,800
Speaker 1: fuck y'all and you couldn't pay for my food? You

661
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 1: know what, I really appreciate that she mentioned the price,

662
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:32,200
Speaker 1: because that even you know why, that makes it worse,

663
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 1: because the couple definitely has. You just really cannot teach

664
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 1: some people to be courteous. I'm almost disgusted that, like

665
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 1: y'all met at our show, I also want to say

666
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 1: for a lot of the men who want to engage

667
00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:48,320
Speaker 1: in threesomes, like, not only is it going to be

668
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 1: a lot of work in the bedroom, but it is

669
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 1: work outside of the bedroom. And I feel like, you

670
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 1: definitely know you now have to court two women, and

671
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 1: you should make that person who's joining you in the

672
00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:59,840
Speaker 1: bedroom feel even like she's more welcome to you know,

673
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:02,480
Speaker 1: you'll maybe don't like him. Maybe it's something a lot

674
00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:04,360
Speaker 1: of y'all love. The advice Anthony said it take take

675
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 1: this one fucking piece, be rich enough, for three days,

676
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:09,040
Speaker 1: and I didn't even tell them you'all got to do that.

677
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:10,960
Speaker 1: But if you can't get what you want by those

678
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:14,480
Speaker 1: three days, at least show me that in three dates,

679
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 1: y'all had three ten dollar mills. Yeah, I shared on

680
00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 1: a I shared on a Patriart episode of three something

681
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:23,480
Speaker 1: that I recently just had with a homegirl of mine

682
00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 1: and she was actually in Atlanta, UM during our live show,

683
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 1: and her and her her boyfriend had me in the

684
00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 1: group chat wanting me to come over, and I was like,

685
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:33,800
Speaker 1: you ain't flying me to Atlanta. You ain't paid for

686
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 1: this Airbnb. I'm here working, And I genuinely didn't even

687
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:38,480
Speaker 1: want to give them no pussy because I'm like, you

688
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:40,680
Speaker 1: ain't even working for it nothing right now, like at

689
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:42,400
Speaker 1: least last time, I got to flight out the goddamn

690
00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:45,560
Speaker 1: ship and the whole goddamn trip out of it. Like now, no,

691
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 1: I'm not just gonna sun you because we're all in

692
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 1: the same city. So I think, yeah, like you need

693
00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:52,960
Speaker 1: to kind of put in some type of goddamn effort.

694
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 1: If I mean I'm gonna I'm gonna say for that one,

695
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:58,160
Speaker 1: I think a little different because like, okay, I get it,

696
00:33:58,240 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 1: like the trip the first somebody, if you guys really clear,

697
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 1: then you wanted to funk. I get it. No, I'm

698
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:05,120
Speaker 1: not just sucking you and your boyfriend your boyfriend, not

699
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:08,839
Speaker 1: when I'm in that horny though. Yeah I wasn't that horny. Um.

700
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 1: But I mean, I think at least like offering to

701
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:13,520
Speaker 1: take someone to dinner and treating him to something or something.

702
00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 1: And I'm kind of shocked that as someone that was saying,

703
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 1: like they know that, this is all I'm saying is

704
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:23,319
Speaker 1: I don't. I can't speak for how many threesomes they had.

705
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 1: I don't know them, but I do know that the

706
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 1: first time I met them they were talking about it,

707
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:27,759
Speaker 1: and the second time they came to the show they

708
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:30,200
Speaker 1: said it again. I cannot believe. This is like basic

709
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:32,959
Speaker 1: step one. So I'm gonna just say it one more time.

710
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 1: Places to find a threesome, best advice to find a threesome,

711
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:39,919
Speaker 1: and this will be the last. I ain't even gonna

712
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 1: can we stop getting the goddamn three some questions? Like

713
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:46,320
Speaker 1: we have we have episodes with threesome in the titles,

714
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:49,200
Speaker 1: So go up. I'm actually gonna put a note in

715
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:52,200
Speaker 1: my phone to put this in the description threesome tips

716
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:56,279
Speaker 1: at thirty three minutes. Yes, okay, let's start all right,

717
00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:59,120
Speaker 1: here we go. I'm gonna give you basic ones. I

718
00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:00,839
Speaker 1: gave it at the last Cargo show and I think

719
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:03,719
Speaker 1: it was great advice. Let's say that you guys are

720
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:05,440
Speaker 1: not the type to go out. Let's say that you

721
00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:08,359
Speaker 1: guys maybe shouldn't be showing your faces in that city.

722
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:11,400
Speaker 1: Make a Tinder page. Start slow, whether it be just

723
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:13,600
Speaker 1: a guy or just a girl. I think the best

724
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:14,920
Speaker 1: thing to do if you don't make a couple of

725
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 1: pages just a girl, Let's say that you really can't

726
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:20,279
Speaker 1: put your face on there. Take a picture of you

727
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 1: to blur it out. Take special made pictures for that

728
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:25,440
Speaker 1: Tinder and blow your ship out right. Get in the bed,

729
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:28,400
Speaker 1: take something cute together, do whatever. I really enjoy when

730
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 1: I'm swiping seeing pictures of couples having fun, I think

731
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:32,440
Speaker 1: that's great. You gotta blow your faces, do your thing.

732
00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:36,680
Speaker 1: And you're very specific when you say something like, hey,

733
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:39,319
Speaker 1: looking for someone to join us on dates, blah blah

734
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:43,359
Speaker 1: blah blah blah. Don't lead women on. I hate swiping. Um,

735
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:45,879
Speaker 1: you know a girl where in the description they say

736
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:47,759
Speaker 1: nothing about them having a boyfriend. That wants to suck

737
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:51,399
Speaker 1: me too. I hate that is, even if you don't

738
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 1: have your boyfriend in the picture, at least say hey,

739
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 1: this is what I'm looking for. I hate that. I

740
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:58,319
Speaker 1: think that we all have to remember that talking about

741
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:00,800
Speaker 1: sex kind of very upfront and word on a tinder.

742
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 1: It's a little too abrasive in my honest opinion, I

743
00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:05,840
Speaker 1: think that you should at least be a little more

744
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:08,799
Speaker 1: kind when like or just be suave about the ship

745
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:10,840
Speaker 1: and say like, hey, I would love to take you

746
00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 1: out for drink, smoke, link up, let's have some fun together.

747
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 1: Also use the words like we would like to take

748
00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:19,960
Speaker 1: you out. Knowing that a couple can do that makes

749
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:22,440
Speaker 1: it more exciting anyone I know that's played a unicorn,

750
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 1: even like Mandy just sitting right here saying I got

751
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 1: a trip out of it, Like, it is very exciting

752
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 1: to be treated, especially by a couple, to do not

753
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:33,480
Speaker 1: do this ship for me if boyfriend wants it and

754
00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:37,600
Speaker 1: you don't, do not do that ship. Three, do not

755
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:39,960
Speaker 1: do this ship if you're not attracted to women. I

756
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:43,160
Speaker 1: don't care. I know some people say, oh whatever, maybe

757
00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:45,680
Speaker 1: you can know if you're not attracted to women. If

758
00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:47,960
Speaker 1: you're not ready to eat some vagina. It's gonna be crazy.

759
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 1: And I read a tweet the other day that said,

760
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:52,240
Speaker 1: you know what I think all the time about having threesome.

761
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:54,319
Speaker 1: It's like, okay, eating pussy, cool until it's in your mouth.

762
00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 1: If you feel like that, don't do it unless you

763
00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:58,759
Speaker 1: and her bows are not doing it. I don't know.

764
00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:00,840
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, i'll see why you would want to

765
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 1: have sex with someone you don't want to have sex with.

766
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:05,920
Speaker 1: Don't do that. Another thing. If you really feel like

767
00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:07,160
Speaker 1: you can't do it in your city and you and

768
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 1: your man are taking a trip to let's just say Detroit,

769
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:11,000
Speaker 1: pay the fucking ten dollars. If you don't have the

770
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 1: ten knowledge, you shouldn't be having three steps because someone

771
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 1: in the audience is like Leon budgets this fuck that

772
00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:18,480
Speaker 1: passport tender ten bucks white people in other cities. This

773
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:21,960
Speaker 1: gets you very open to the idea of women together.

774
00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:23,759
Speaker 1: You get to see each other's type. Ship like that.

775
00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:26,080
Speaker 1: If you guys just want to fuck and have the experience,

776
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:28,160
Speaker 1: go to a strip club. Maybe they'll offer some pussy

777
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:29,959
Speaker 1: to you. I don't know what else to tell y'all.

778
00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:32,080
Speaker 1: I know that I'm sounding really annoyed, but I'm just

779
00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:36,080
Speaker 1: so tired of the threesome question. Is it just me? No?

780
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:38,719
Speaker 1: I think you said everything. I mean, damn if you

781
00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:41,840
Speaker 1: don't want to use tender field f E E L. D.

782
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 1: Thrinder was the old title. Field is another way to

783
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:49,759
Speaker 1: find someone. My Wild Lifestyle is another website, um or.

784
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 1: I am very pro sex work. Let's support another woman

785
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 1: in our community. Eros paying for escorts. If you just

786
00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 1: want someone who's a professional B will get out of

787
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:00,279
Speaker 1: your life when you're done with it. And see, you

788
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:02,960
Speaker 1: just want the sexual experience, pay for it. If you

789
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 1: cannot pay it in they're fairly cheap. They're going for

790
00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:07,680
Speaker 1: like two hundred for the hour, and so I mean, yeah,

791
00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:10,920
Speaker 1: do it, y'all, don't be any I know that a

792
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:13,400
Speaker 1: lot of really pay for it. But I think that

793
00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:15,239
Speaker 1: if you have a man and you're maybe a little

794
00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:18,239
Speaker 1: too apprehensive to meeting a woman together, and you know,

795
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:20,400
Speaker 1: people say should you do with a friend or a stranger,

796
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:22,319
Speaker 1: like y'all are too worried about what will happen after

797
00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 1: pay for it? Because one thing I know and the

798
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 1: escorts I've met in their life in my life, they

799
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:30,120
Speaker 1: are all about their money and giving a good name,

800
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 1: napping to catch feelings with your nigga. They just want

801
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:34,719
Speaker 1: the money and that's it and they're going all today,

802
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:39,600
Speaker 1: next client, Okay, exactly. Um so, yeah, I don't have any.

803
00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:41,400
Speaker 1: I think you kind of did it all for the threesomes,

804
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:44,760
Speaker 1: and I'm glad I specifically did not pick. I didn't

805
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:47,560
Speaker 1: I even secifically did not pick any threesome questions because

806
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:49,400
Speaker 1: of that. Bro, when I see people send the threesome

807
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 1: and I don't want you, guys tend to turn. Don't

808
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:52,719
Speaker 1: get me wrong. If you guys have a question that's

809
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:55,800
Speaker 1: like more in depth about the threesome, sure, but asked

810
00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:58,840
Speaker 1: how to have and where to find a third person?

811
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:03,000
Speaker 1: It's honestly a case by case um basis. So this

812
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 1: next one, I really like this question. Um So, hey, y'all,

813
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:09,800
Speaker 1: I've been listening to you guys for a while and

814
00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:11,799
Speaker 1: telling all my friends. Thank you, guys, by the way,

815
00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:13,759
Speaker 1: for telling all your friends about us. I've learned so

816
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:16,640
Speaker 1: much listening and got comfortable exploring kinks. I've been a

817
00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 1: serial monogamous for as long as I can remember. Every

818
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:22,080
Speaker 1: guy I've slept with, I've been dating or ended up

819
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:24,719
Speaker 1: dating for a while I'm over that ship. I went

820
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 1: through a rough breakup and just want to do me

821
00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:29,600
Speaker 1: for a few years. That being said, going from constant

822
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:32,760
Speaker 1: sex to no sex is rough. I'm trying to figure

823
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 1: out how to casually date while not while not leading

824
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 1: people on and not ending up in a relationship again.

825
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:41,719
Speaker 1: Any tips on communication, getting comfortable and dating multiple people.

826
00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 1: Love the show and love the positive vibes. I like

827
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 1: that getting comfortable dating multiple people. I think the best

828
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:52,240
Speaker 1: advice someone gave me, because I am such an emotional person,

829
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 1: was being honest about expectations while dating multiple people. Like

830
00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:00,279
Speaker 1: if you just want sex and some fun, you have

831
00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:02,480
Speaker 1: to really mean it when you say it. Don't have

832
00:40:02,680 --> 00:40:05,480
Speaker 1: sex and some fun and then get upset when you

833
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:08,239
Speaker 1: know he's doing the same thing. And just naturally we

834
00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 1: can be possessive or jealous people, and and there's this

835
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:13,479
Speaker 1: there's this little thing that's innate I think when dating

836
00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:15,880
Speaker 1: with competition and things like that, right, Like, for example,

837
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:17,560
Speaker 1: you could know a man is in love with you

838
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:19,120
Speaker 1: and you see his ex and he be like, change

839
00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:21,400
Speaker 1: it because you want to, like know you've got this

840
00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:23,600
Speaker 1: leg up, Like because we care about that person, so

841
00:40:23,680 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 1: we want to make sure, like we're the one they

842
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:28,439
Speaker 1: love and they're blah blah blah about right, you gotta

843
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 1: let a lot of that go and when you can

844
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:32,400
Speaker 1: let that go for real. And it took me a

845
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:34,960
Speaker 1: long time to not have jealous feelings with you know,

846
00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:39,120
Speaker 1: my partners. I would say, don't literally to the last

847
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:42,600
Speaker 1: like fall of last year. And I've been doing this

848
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 1: show two years with you just recently am I totally okay?

849
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 1: That ship takes a while. I said it on the

850
00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:54,759
Speaker 1: episode with UM when Andrew that men lied to us

851
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:59,839
Speaker 1: and we lied to ourselves. And I think that I think, no, yeah,

852
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 1: we lie to um. We we lie to ourselves. And

853
00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 1: I think that that's one of the biggest things and

854
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 1: not only communicating with someone else, but literally communicating it

855
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:14,239
Speaker 1: with yourself and really knowing what you're going into a

856
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:16,880
Speaker 1: relationship with somebody for. And I say relationship, but it

857
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:20,840
Speaker 1: doesn't have to be a boyfriend girlfriend relationship, monogamous relationship.

858
00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:24,480
Speaker 1: When you're having sex with someone, you're relating with someone else,

859
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:26,640
Speaker 1: and you have a relationship, whether it's a situation ship

860
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:29,160
Speaker 1: or not. UM. So, I feel like in terms of

861
00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:32,399
Speaker 1: dealing with multiple people, UM, you need to be very

862
00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:36,360
Speaker 1: clear on your intentions with them and also communicate what

863
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:39,000
Speaker 1: they're looking for, because if they are something someone who's

864
00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 1: looking for a relationship and you just want to date

865
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:44,719
Speaker 1: multiple people, you should probably let that person know upfront. Um.

866
00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:48,320
Speaker 1: I think that that's very important if you're someone who genuinely,

867
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:50,560
Speaker 1: right now does not want a relationship. A lot of

868
00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 1: men do it to us all the time. They'll tell

869
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:54,760
Speaker 1: us up front, listen, I'm not looking for anything serious,

870
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 1: and I think as women it's okay for us to

871
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:59,719
Speaker 1: say that to men as well, and honestly as a

872
00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:02,440
Speaker 1: one and a man will be happy to hear that

873
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:04,600
Speaker 1: nine times out of ten because they like to know

874
00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 1: that you're not gonna now stress the idea of a title,

875
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:10,719
Speaker 1: or just the pressure of a relationship or what they

876
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:13,480
Speaker 1: can genuinely offer to you at that time won't be

877
00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:15,520
Speaker 1: on the table. What you're literally saying just a lot

878
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 1: of pressure in the beginning to turn someone off. UM.

879
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:21,359
Speaker 1: I just had a a friend of mine that lives

880
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 1: in l A. I went to her wedding. She recently

881
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:26,759
Speaker 1: got married. She's been dating her husband three years, and

882
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:30,279
Speaker 1: yesterday she posted a d M where her husband asked

883
00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 1: her out on Instagram and he said three years ago.

884
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 1: She was like, you keep checking for me or something

885
00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:38,319
Speaker 1: like what's what's good Nigga? And he said, I ain't

886
00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:39,759
Speaker 1: trying to wipe you or nothing like that. I'm just

887
00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 1: trying to chill and have some drinks. Ship And they

888
00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 1: got married, and I thought that was so funny because

889
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:48,640
Speaker 1: we always be like Nigga's be Italian and and you know,

890
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:50,719
Speaker 1: even our salty little video. But I think it's dope.

891
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 1: And the reason I think that happened to her and

892
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:55,759
Speaker 1: happened to him is because they both had no expectations.

893
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:58,600
Speaker 1: So it's a lot easier when you're not putting that

894
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:01,759
Speaker 1: pressure to fall all in love and appreciate someone. You

895
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:04,239
Speaker 1: know why, because we're not putting up this like I

896
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:06,960
Speaker 1: have to be this, this and this. You know, I

897
00:43:07,080 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 1: was out in dates with a guy I'll never forget it,

898
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:11,880
Speaker 1: and I knew he was more into me than I

899
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:13,839
Speaker 1: was into him, and he would start to say things

900
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 1: I liked, and I didn't believe him. He'd be like, yo,

901
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:17,839
Speaker 1: I love going to the museum and blah blah blah

902
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:20,160
Speaker 1: blah blah. Oh I love this, and and then he

903
00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:22,439
Speaker 1: would say things like yeah, man, like I just bought

904
00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:26,360
Speaker 1: my my new crystals, and I'm like that mag a lie.

905
00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:28,319
Speaker 1: But I know that. I mean girls do that too.

906
00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:31,080
Speaker 1: We we we do this people doing then the pick

907
00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:33,840
Speaker 1: me mentality where because you want to become a girlfriend

908
00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:35,839
Speaker 1: or because you want to become a wife, you start

909
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:39,440
Speaker 1: doing things that you think our girlfriend material or that

910
00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 1: you think this guy would like, and now you have

911
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:44,799
Speaker 1: to be this way when in reality, I think it's

912
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:47,359
Speaker 1: super dope to just genuinely find someone that you mesh

913
00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:50,120
Speaker 1: with because you're able to be yourself. It feels good

914
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 1: to have someone know exactly who you are and which

915
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:55,120
Speaker 1: you know back even Lauren's thing like just her saying

916
00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:58,239
Speaker 1: I was completely myself without my quote unquote cool mask.

917
00:43:58,280 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 1: I remember, um when of the last time Jeeves came over,

918
00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:05,360
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I don't even know why I

919
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:07,200
Speaker 1: did it. It was a whole lie. We've known each

920
00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:10,040
Speaker 1: other for over a year now. He came over and

921
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:13,319
Speaker 1: I had all these water bottles open, because I'll drink

922
00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:16,280
Speaker 1: a water bottle whatever throughout the day, and I was like, oh, normally,

923
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:17,840
Speaker 1: I you know, I have it out of this and

924
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 1: like I normally recycle it and I put it away

925
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:22,120
Speaker 1: and he was like, no, you don't, dude, And I

926
00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:23,320
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, I don't know. He was like, and

927
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 1: I love it, and he was like, every morning I

928
00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:26,279
Speaker 1: got to pick this ship up, like it's it's fine.

929
00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:29,320
Speaker 1: And I think that kind of accepting your flaws and

930
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:31,920
Speaker 1: like not getting so overboard and what you think this

931
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:34,320
Speaker 1: personal want, it's going to help. And I think that

932
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:36,759
Speaker 1: that helps with dating multiple people at the same time,

933
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:40,000
Speaker 1: like just genuinely being yourself, letting them know and not

934
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:42,480
Speaker 1: sitting here feeling like you have to tie yourself into

935
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 1: a relationship. I think that has a lot to do

936
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:47,600
Speaker 1: with women feeling like they're worth that's tied to being claimed. Um.

937
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:50,799
Speaker 1: And it's okay to just date multiple people. And even

938
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:52,440
Speaker 1: when you date, you have to realize you don't have

939
00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:54,600
Speaker 1: to be having sex with all these people. I like

940
00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:58,880
Speaker 1: to do the ideal of carp compartmentalizing. Um. The niggas

941
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:00,160
Speaker 1: that I talked to, there's niggas that I it's like

942
00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:02,400
Speaker 1: that phone conversations with. There's some that I actually like

943
00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:04,960
Speaker 1: face timing, some I like having sex with some I don't.

944
00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:07,520
Speaker 1: Some I just like going out with some people. Okay,

945
00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:09,960
Speaker 1: I'm not great on the phone. That's crazy, Like some

946
00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 1: aren't you know, one of the actually things that are

947
00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:15,240
Speaker 1: very vital for me is talking on the phone with lovers.

948
00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:18,640
Speaker 1: Like if men are not selling people, I genuinely don't

949
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:21,560
Speaker 1: feel like it will work out. Like I love to

950
00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:23,920
Speaker 1: sit on the phone. I'd love to be able to

951
00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:26,000
Speaker 1: call someone when work sucks and they just listen to

952
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:28,520
Speaker 1: me for five minutes. Actually very recently told me on

953
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:31,120
Speaker 1: the phone, he was like, my nigga, you literally have

954
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:33,160
Speaker 1: told me the story three times about these people at

955
00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:36,160
Speaker 1: your job, and I'm like, I know, you know, listen

956
00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:38,160
Speaker 1: to me, like it's really what I want and just

957
00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:40,160
Speaker 1: to know that, like somebody can give you what you

958
00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:42,120
Speaker 1: need those things I need. I call my friends on

959
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:44,319
Speaker 1: the phone. I want to call my fucking man. So weird. Yeah,

960
00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 1: it's I don't know. I talked to to ship maybe

961
00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:51,359
Speaker 1: one or two friends daily, But other than that, I'm

962
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:54,920
Speaker 1: not a phone person. Um only because between work, being

963
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 1: on the phone, the podcast and talking. When I get

964
00:45:57,520 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 1: home it's my quiet place. I just like to sit

965
00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:02,200
Speaker 1: in and watch Mary to Medicine or Real Housewives of

966
00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:04,600
Speaker 1: Atlanta and all of my fucking shows Project from Away.

967
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:06,680
Speaker 1: Like I'm into all of my shows and so when

968
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 1: I get home all texts and that's it. And when

969
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:10,800
Speaker 1: I'm at work, I can't be on my phone. I text,

970
00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:14,760
Speaker 1: So I've become a texter and talking on the phone

971
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:17,040
Speaker 1: does become good. Like a guy who came back from

972
00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:20,000
Speaker 1: the past. Um, I really like what he's talking about

973
00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 1: right now. Um, he no longer plays football, but he

974
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:25,799
Speaker 1: just does a lot of things investing wise, and he's

975
00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:27,440
Speaker 1: now in a space where he's looking for a partner.

976
00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 1: We spent two hours on the phone the other night

977
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, this, this felt great. And

978
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:33,279
Speaker 1: then we've been texting ever since because I'm like Nick,

979
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:34,680
Speaker 1: I can't do that all the time. It's a nice

980
00:46:34,719 --> 00:46:36,960
Speaker 1: feeling when you can connect on the phone because it's

981
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:39,400
Speaker 1: something that's so forgotten, you know, Like I'm just like

982
00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:41,040
Speaker 1: that book my flight, we can talk in person. I

983
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:43,480
Speaker 1: think the three things that I love that are most forgotten,

984
00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:46,799
Speaker 1: that I used to really love was one handwritten things

985
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:53,279
Speaker 1: to the phone, and three actual photographs that are tangible, Like, yeah,

986
00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:57,400
Speaker 1: it's funny. I was actually gonna go to Walgreens and

987
00:46:57,800 --> 00:47:00,920
Speaker 1: like the pictures from the festival and even pictures from

988
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:02,920
Speaker 1: Our Lives show and stuff like that. I want to

989
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:06,400
Speaker 1: start getting picture albums again, I have like five. I

990
00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 1: did that growing up. It's crazy. Like when people come over,

991
00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:11,759
Speaker 1: like I know, they laugh at me because like I'm

992
00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:13,440
Speaker 1: so used to go onto my phone to share memory.

993
00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 1: So if you're in my home, anyone that's listening that's

994
00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:17,840
Speaker 1: been to my house, you know, I have these albums,

995
00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:19,799
Speaker 1: Like I have binders of things, and it feels really good.

996
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 1: And even though I can get like a little cluttered,

997
00:47:22,239 --> 00:47:25,080
Speaker 1: it feels really good. My refrigerators covered with pictures. I

998
00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:28,640
Speaker 1: just bought a Polaroid Um tangible photos feel good. Actually,

999
00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:31,320
Speaker 1: for Christmas, I sent Christmas card to Collet with a

1000
00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:33,360
Speaker 1: picture of us in there and just thank her for

1001
00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:35,839
Speaker 1: being a great friend. And she said to me later,

1002
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 1: She's like, I can't believe you suendny picture. I can't

1003
00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:42,759
Speaker 1: believe you know, but how many Like how good would

1004
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 1: that feel? And just writing with your hand I love

1005
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 1: you or I care about you to someone is a

1006
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:47,560
Speaker 1: big deal. My friends make fun of me all the

1007
00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:49,720
Speaker 1: time because I like to go into photo booths everywhere.

1008
00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:52,720
Speaker 1: I love those little things. And then when we travel

1009
00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:54,879
Speaker 1: I'm the one paying when we on the tour, I'm

1010
00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 1: paying for a little big picture of us standing in

1011
00:47:58,120 --> 00:48:01,239
Speaker 1: front of whatever. You've got to bro that Cross makes

1012
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:02,800
Speaker 1: so much money on those photos because we don't have

1013
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:06,279
Speaker 1: a dollar. Fucking Jesse at our ship in Miami, she

1014
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:08,919
Speaker 1: got this photo boothsh it, and I'm like, I don't

1015
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 1: know why, Like you're you're looking for a sponsor for this,

1016
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:12,839
Speaker 1: Like we don't need this, Like we should be working

1017
00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:14,640
Speaker 1: on something else. I wish we could. It was such

1018
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:18,279
Speaker 1: a greater. So the next question is from one of

1019
00:48:18,320 --> 00:48:21,439
Speaker 1: our young listeners. Shout out to y'all, Um, Hi, Mandy,

1020
00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 1: and Wheezy, you guys can call me gee very much,

1021
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:26,279
Speaker 1: enjoy your podcast while at work and wanted to ask

1022
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 1: y'all what I should do about this situation. I am

1023
00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:32,239
Speaker 1: nineteen dating my very committed girlfriend who has showed me

1024
00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:35,320
Speaker 1: everything but love in every way for the past eleven months.

1025
00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:39,719
Speaker 1: But we have a problem. I can't come on my problem. Night,

1026
00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 1: I received my first blow job, which was amazing, toe

1027
00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:46,359
Speaker 1: curling and all, and there is one problem. I did

1028
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:48,880
Speaker 1: not come keeping it short and went on till her

1029
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:51,000
Speaker 1: arm and jaw hurt from doing it for over thirty

1030
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:53,399
Speaker 1: minutes and I told her to stop whenever she needs.

1031
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:56,320
Speaker 1: She did so and went on with our relationship. Also,

1032
00:48:56,440 --> 00:48:59,120
Speaker 1: that was not her first rodeo, and she went through

1033
00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:02,960
Speaker 1: her whole phase in high school but fell hard for me. Now,

1034
00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:07,839
Speaker 1: after so many amazing blow jobs, I still haven't Yeah.

1035
00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:10,640
Speaker 1: I was actually just wondering what if he said they're amazing?

1036
00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:12,920
Speaker 1: He said, so curling, I still haven't came from her

1037
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:16,759
Speaker 1: blow jobs, and now whenever we fuck. Lost my V

1038
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:19,800
Speaker 1: card in October, which is also amazing, which makes this

1039
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 1: very confusing and very concerning. So he doesn't he can't

1040
00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:24,600
Speaker 1: come from sex either. No, I don't know if it's

1041
00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 1: my stamina or just my head fighting my head, since

1042
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:30,480
Speaker 1: I do suffer from anxiety. We've spoken and joked about it,

1043
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 1: and she said it might just be that I have

1044
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:35,040
Speaker 1: a lot of stamina, since every time I masturbate it

1045
00:49:35,080 --> 00:49:38,640
Speaker 1: takes about forty minutes on average. Damp. I would like

1046
00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:40,680
Speaker 1: your opinion. I've listened to your podcast and applied a

1047
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:43,000
Speaker 1: lot to our relationship, to the point I gave someone

1048
00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:46,400
Speaker 1: who didn't like head to her hugging and kissing me

1049
00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:49,879
Speaker 1: after saying don't leave me after I'm done. So thank

1050
00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:52,160
Speaker 1: you all for all the tips on treating and pleasing

1051
00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:54,839
Speaker 1: my woman, and can't wait for all the future episodes. Also,

1052
00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:57,560
Speaker 1: I've introduced my Girl to y'all since I love your convos.

1053
00:49:57,800 --> 00:50:00,120
Speaker 1: We have been very adventurous to beach, blow jobs and

1054
00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:02,719
Speaker 1: head in the dressing rooms and stores. Hope to see

1055
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:04,399
Speaker 1: you at a future live show. Keep up the tips

1056
00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:07,080
Speaker 1: and good luck PS. My girl reminds me very much

1057
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:09,840
Speaker 1: of Mandy. She enjoys giving me head very dominant, and

1058
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:12,040
Speaker 1: I like the idea of pegging. I don't know about

1059
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:15,280
Speaker 1: that yet, um, but just getting freaking and just freaking

1060
00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:18,279
Speaker 1: was overall from I really wish that we would have

1061
00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:20,760
Speaker 1: read this question with someone better suited to answer, because

1062
00:50:20,840 --> 00:50:23,120
Speaker 1: I think there's a lot more going on that we

1063
00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:25,160
Speaker 1: can't really speak to. I mean, we have men in

1064
00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:28,640
Speaker 1: the room. Would do you all have issues with coming

1065
00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:30,839
Speaker 1: or when you guys were younger? I want to he's

1066
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:33,480
Speaker 1: nineteen and just lost his virginity, so I want to

1067
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:35,719
Speaker 1: speak to that. Well, can you come on the mic

1068
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 1: so that they can? I want so? Yeah, well, this

1069
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:41,799
Speaker 1: is our camera guy. Guys, welcome Benson on the show.

1070
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:47,880
Speaker 1: He's not a doctor. Yeah, can we no? No, no,

1071
00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:51,880
Speaker 1: come back, come back? Can you? So? I wanted to

1072
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:54,279
Speaker 1: focus more so on his age and being that he

1073
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:56,479
Speaker 1: just lost his virginia. If this is something that maybe

1074
00:50:56,960 --> 00:50:59,960
Speaker 1: most men would experience, I'm about most men, but I'll

1075
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:02,480
Speaker 1: tell you firsthand is that I lost my virginia was eighteen.

1076
00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:05,680
Speaker 1: And the way I lost it. First of all, I

1077
00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:07,480
Speaker 1: was watching the podcast. Didn't actually lose it had a

1078
00:51:07,480 --> 00:51:13,200
Speaker 1: stroke of impotence for the lip service. Okay, um. It

1079
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:16,240
Speaker 1: was actually the Mayo and Uncle Murder episode of Massivend

1080
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:18,600
Speaker 1: my my ex possession on it was so weird. But

1081
00:51:19,320 --> 00:51:20,880
Speaker 1: but here's the thing. I actually didn't get hard. I

1082
00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:23,920
Speaker 1: actually had impotence for the first month, and that was

1083
00:51:24,080 --> 00:51:26,560
Speaker 1: like very stressful, humiliating. But after that, well wait, which

1084
00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:29,640
Speaker 1: so you weren't getting hard for the first month anxiety,

1085
00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 1: it was all on my head, okay, so like him?

1086
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:34,920
Speaker 1: After that, then I was for hours straight. I mean

1087
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:36,680
Speaker 1: obviously the first time I was like five minutes. Then

1088
00:51:36,719 --> 00:51:37,840
Speaker 1: I worked my way up and now I was just

1089
00:51:37,920 --> 00:51:39,560
Speaker 1: working straight hours and we had to take breaks on

1090
00:51:39,640 --> 00:51:44,759
Speaker 1: her pussy hurt. Um, come, I don't know. See, that's

1091
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:46,480
Speaker 1: what I was trying to put my head around. Like

1092
00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 1: happened to you too, but while you were young and

1093
00:51:49,239 --> 00:51:52,520
Speaker 1: just and it was weird like my my ex crazy.

1094
00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:54,359
Speaker 1: She was like, oh, he must be sucking other people

1095
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:55,879
Speaker 1: because at moment, dick wasn't working when I do because

1096
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:57,800
Speaker 1: it overworking. She was like, what the fund is the

1097
00:51:57,880 --> 00:52:03,719
Speaker 1: issue now? Like, I have no clue. That's not an

1098
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:06,360
Speaker 1: issue for you now, right? Do you know what you

1099
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:09,319
Speaker 1: did for that to change? Was Was it a change

1100
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:12,760
Speaker 1: in partners? Was it a change in your thoughts around sex?

1101
00:52:13,239 --> 00:52:14,960
Speaker 1: What made it to where you were then able to

1102
00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:17,560
Speaker 1: have I guess regular sex? And this wasn't an issue.

1103
00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:19,160
Speaker 1: I really couldn't put a pin on it. I don't

1104
00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:22,080
Speaker 1: know where just started change, like uh like because me

1105
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:24,040
Speaker 1: Max were on and off, so then it became like

1106
00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:25,960
Speaker 1: got down to like forty minutes, and then we had

1107
00:52:25,960 --> 00:52:27,200
Speaker 1: a lot of public sex. So I was like, you know,

1108
00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:29,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna rush right now, you know? Okay? So well

1109
00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:32,600
Speaker 1: that that was an idea. So that's something that maybe

1110
00:52:32,640 --> 00:52:35,200
Speaker 1: he could consider even to see maybe what's changing in

1111
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:37,840
Speaker 1: his mindset. Maybe when he's in the house he feels

1112
00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:39,480
Speaker 1: like he has all the time in the world, and

1113
00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:42,279
Speaker 1: maybe he can come faster if he doesn't in public more.

1114
00:52:42,480 --> 00:52:47,600
Speaker 1: But what I will say, what I will say now

1115
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:55,960
Speaker 1: at a sex club? What that's probably technically not okay? Um,

1116
00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:58,240
Speaker 1: what I will say is that anxiety is closely linked

1117
00:52:58,239 --> 00:53:00,080
Speaker 1: to impotence and not being able to come. All you

1118
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:03,280
Speaker 1: guys know that. Right now, I want to let everybody

1119
00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:05,560
Speaker 1: know that it's important to be careful. Talk to somebody,

1120
00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:08,319
Speaker 1: talk to other dudes. Please talk to your other dudes

1121
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:10,840
Speaker 1: in private. Maybe just slightly bring it up, because I

1122
00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:14,839
Speaker 1: don't bring up dick talk in front of the talk

1123
00:53:15,120 --> 00:53:17,520
Speaker 1: because don't want to talk about that like all about

1124
00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:19,640
Speaker 1: like you know, my ships on SWOW. But then I

1125
00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:21,120
Speaker 1: don't know what I brought up. And then four of

1126
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:25,320
Speaker 1: my other closest dudes are like, yeah, it happened to

1127
00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:27,319
Speaker 1: had an issue, And I was like, yeah, man, there's

1128
00:53:27,320 --> 00:53:29,200
Speaker 1: like a close older person in your life that can

1129
00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:31,719
Speaker 1: like walk you through that moment because sometimes at that

1130
00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:37,120
Speaker 1: age you're so immature. How old were you? I was Okay,

1131
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:39,479
Speaker 1: he's nineteen, so yeah, about the same about the same age.

1132
00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:43,439
Speaker 1: Thank you, Benthy, You're coming through we see. So here's

1133
00:53:43,480 --> 00:53:45,279
Speaker 1: what I was thinking about when he was saying that. Um,

1134
00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:47,560
Speaker 1: there's one of my favorite parts and it's the very

1135
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:51,520
Speaker 1: beginning of Charlottegne's last book, Shook One. Did you read it? Um,

1136
00:53:51,640 --> 00:53:55,239
Speaker 1: it's on my bookshelf. I haven't read it though, so

1137
00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:58,440
Speaker 1: there's an awesome There's an awesome part in the beginning

1138
00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:01,200
Speaker 1: where he talks about names aiety he had attack he

1139
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:03,440
Speaker 1: had going down and his wife and he says his

1140
00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:05,640
Speaker 1: wife always squirts, even together, like eighteen years and he

1141
00:54:05,719 --> 00:54:07,400
Speaker 1: was going down on her and he was high, and

1142
00:54:07,480 --> 00:54:08,920
Speaker 1: he's like, I thought he was going to drown, and

1143
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:11,960
Speaker 1: he's like, I kept doing it and I was wondering

1144
00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:15,320
Speaker 1: why she wasn't squirting, and I fucking freaked out, and

1145
00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:17,759
Speaker 1: he's like, I had so much anxiety, and she was laughing.

1146
00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:21,279
Speaker 1: It was a great story, actually embarrassing as fuck. When

1147
00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:22,960
Speaker 1: I met his wife, I mentioned it and she was like,

1148
00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:27,840
Speaker 1: oh my god. She was like, hey, that that is

1149
00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:30,040
Speaker 1: to be getting at the first chapter. And I think

1150
00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:32,520
Speaker 1: that that was such a dope part of the book

1151
00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:34,799
Speaker 1: because even for so long, you can get with someone

1152
00:54:34,840 --> 00:54:36,840
Speaker 1: and you can get that anxiety. But I think what

1153
00:54:37,040 --> 00:54:39,880
Speaker 1: it has to do with is there always feels like

1154
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:42,440
Speaker 1: there's a clock on sex, and a lot of us

1155
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:43,880
Speaker 1: have to take that out, which is why I kind

1156
00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:45,680
Speaker 1: of like that thing of like talk about amazing sex

1157
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:48,640
Speaker 1: without coming, like we women feel like men have to

1158
00:54:48,680 --> 00:54:51,480
Speaker 1: come for it to be over, and men feel like

1159
00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:53,239
Speaker 1: they have to wait for women before they can come

1160
00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:56,360
Speaker 1: sometimes and we don't really like get to enjoy it anymore.

1161
00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:58,120
Speaker 1: It's like you're figuring out what position we have to

1162
00:54:58,160 --> 00:54:59,840
Speaker 1: be in so we can come. And I think that

1163
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:02,920
Speaker 1: should just like explore bodies more so, like a lot

1164
00:55:03,000 --> 00:55:05,840
Speaker 1: more licking and touching and like getting into your senses

1165
00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:08,800
Speaker 1: to really turn you on, just like women take a

1166
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:11,480
Speaker 1: long time to get wet. Kind of remember that, like

1167
00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:15,160
Speaker 1: men can sometimes take There's a thing that I almost

1168
00:55:15,160 --> 00:55:19,239
Speaker 1: said his name, Jeeves does with me body worshiping, and

1169
00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:22,040
Speaker 1: he would literally sit in front of my ass, on

1170
00:55:22,160 --> 00:55:25,239
Speaker 1: my pussy and talk about it, talk to it, lick me,

1171
00:55:25,840 --> 00:55:28,040
Speaker 1: fucking tell me how hot I am, put his fingers

1172
00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:30,600
Speaker 1: in his mouth and whatever is dick take it out,

1173
00:55:30,760 --> 00:55:32,759
Speaker 1: do other ship to it. And it's like it gets

1174
00:55:32,840 --> 00:55:35,120
Speaker 1: me so fucking rilled up. And I don't want to

1175
00:55:35,200 --> 00:55:37,560
Speaker 1: speak for their sex. But I would guess at nineteen,

1176
00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:41,160
Speaker 1: maybe exploring and taking time doesn't seem like a thing

1177
00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:43,360
Speaker 1: because I didn't do ship like that at nineteen, So

1178
00:55:43,520 --> 00:55:46,160
Speaker 1: I think talking to an older friend that's mature enough

1179
00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:49,280
Speaker 1: to not laugh at you, to looking into that anxiety

1180
00:55:49,400 --> 00:55:52,480
Speaker 1: or sexual therapy or stuff like that. For insurance it's covered.

1181
00:55:52,520 --> 00:55:55,279
Speaker 1: And three do some more floor four play and a

1182
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:58,080
Speaker 1: lot more four plays. I just had for the like,

1183
00:55:58,480 --> 00:56:01,040
Speaker 1: and y'all know I don't like head. So I had

1184
00:56:01,080 --> 00:56:04,680
Speaker 1: sex with someone um recently and it was our first

1185
00:56:04,719 --> 00:56:07,040
Speaker 1: time having sex, but we've known each other for years,

1186
00:56:07,560 --> 00:56:12,400
Speaker 1: and he got like he got really hard the night before,

1187
00:56:12,480 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 1: but in the morning he wanted sex again and he

1188
00:56:14,680 --> 00:56:17,200
Speaker 1: just was getting like medium hard, like but not all

1189
00:56:17,280 --> 00:56:19,399
Speaker 1: the way hard to where it just it just wasn't going.

1190
00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:23,280
Speaker 1: And I was like, I condom gotta stay. So finally

1191
00:56:23,680 --> 00:56:25,759
Speaker 1: we we we fucked, but it just wasn't staying. He

1192
00:56:25,800 --> 00:56:29,200
Speaker 1: went he got soft again, and so he like got

1193
00:56:29,280 --> 00:56:31,840
Speaker 1: into this place where he literally laid in between my

1194
00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:34,919
Speaker 1: legs and just put his mouth like it was head

1195
00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:38,560
Speaker 1: but finger popping at the same time and literally made

1196
00:56:38,640 --> 00:56:40,920
Speaker 1: me so wet, and I came that way so much,

1197
00:56:40,960 --> 00:56:43,480
Speaker 1: so of course I wanted penetration after, but I was like,

1198
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:46,719
Speaker 1: Nick like got me way wetter than when we were

1199
00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:50,359
Speaker 1: and it was so he literally funny because you're talking

1200
00:56:50,360 --> 00:56:52,520
Speaker 1: about how you don't really like no, and he laid

1201
00:56:52,600 --> 00:56:55,040
Speaker 1: between my legs and was just like looking and like

1202
00:56:55,239 --> 00:56:57,640
Speaker 1: was working it like, but it wasn't allhead. It was

1203
00:56:57,680 --> 00:57:00,319
Speaker 1: a lot of fingerplay. It was him looking into my eyes,

1204
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:02,759
Speaker 1: like him wanting to hear me moaning. It was just

1205
00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:04,920
Speaker 1: very intense and I got so fucking white. I was like,

1206
00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:07,400
Speaker 1: oh my god, that no right there. Though taking the

1207
00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:10,200
Speaker 1: extra time to like please someone being a giver helps.

1208
00:57:10,239 --> 00:57:12,600
Speaker 1: Actually one thing, this is really dumb, but it's true,

1209
00:57:13,920 --> 00:57:17,840
Speaker 1: one of the hardest I've ever came. I can't even

1210
00:57:18,280 --> 00:57:19,880
Speaker 1: it always sounds like I'm on my period with her

1211
00:57:21,080 --> 00:57:23,640
Speaker 1: years ago. Okay, I'm gonna say this is like six

1212
00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:26,640
Speaker 1: seven years ago, licking blood. Now, I couldn't mean I

1213
00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:28,560
Speaker 1: was on my period, so I couldn't have sex right

1214
00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:31,240
Speaker 1: with scissors. She came over, she was drunk. She came

1215
00:57:31,280 --> 00:57:34,440
Speaker 1: over from the club, and she got on top of

1216
00:57:34,520 --> 00:57:36,760
Speaker 1: me and was like rubbing on me and we were

1217
00:57:36,800 --> 00:57:40,000
Speaker 1: like dry humping, and I was so fucking horny. And

1218
00:57:40,080 --> 00:57:42,880
Speaker 1: I realized it's because I have never really been teased,

1219
00:57:43,600 --> 00:57:46,520
Speaker 1: so like teasing like, I love it. I think y'all

1220
00:57:46,520 --> 00:57:48,080
Speaker 1: should try that in your four play because if you

1221
00:57:48,360 --> 00:57:50,000
Speaker 1: some people think four play is just eating pussing a

1222
00:57:50,040 --> 00:57:52,240
Speaker 1: second dick, and it's not right, So we have one

1223
00:57:52,280 --> 00:57:55,280
Speaker 1: more um listening to let our guys or homemail my

1224
00:57:55,400 --> 00:57:58,520
Speaker 1: bit um. Hey ladies, I've been listening to your show

1225
00:57:58,560 --> 00:58:00,439
Speaker 1: for a while now. Was put on by my home girl.

1226
00:58:00,720 --> 00:58:02,560
Speaker 1: I love it and it opens my mind to things

1227
00:58:03,080 --> 00:58:05,400
Speaker 1: um that I've never considered and fuels the questions I

1228
00:58:05,520 --> 00:58:09,400
Speaker 1: bombarded my vanilla as friends with. But my purpose in

1229
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:11,720
Speaker 1: writing is that I've been having a lot more casual

1230
00:58:11,800 --> 00:58:14,080
Speaker 1: sex since my last breakup. She's a complete opposite of

1231
00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:17,160
Speaker 1: our first writer way back in and at first it

1232
00:58:17,280 --> 00:58:19,960
Speaker 1: was Hella lit. It was exciting. I was coming pretty

1233
00:58:20,040 --> 00:58:22,560
Speaker 1: much every time, learning new tricks and all. But now

1234
00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:24,720
Speaker 1: it's kind of died out for me. Even sex with

1235
00:58:24,760 --> 00:58:27,480
Speaker 1: the people who were also amazing before now have me

1236
00:58:27,600 --> 00:58:30,880
Speaker 1: dry and disappointed. I wasted gas pulling up or allowed

1237
00:58:30,960 --> 00:58:33,360
Speaker 1: their presence in my queendom. What can I do to

1238
00:58:33,440 --> 00:58:36,640
Speaker 1: get that spark back and sexual interests back into my life?

1239
00:58:36,800 --> 00:58:40,160
Speaker 1: Signed board and sexually Uninterested. And I picked this because

1240
00:58:40,280 --> 00:58:44,520
Speaker 1: in the beginning of this year I was having quite

1241
00:58:44,560 --> 00:58:46,640
Speaker 1: a bit of casual sex um with a lot of

1242
00:58:46,720 --> 00:58:49,920
Speaker 1: repeating partners um. But I was winning trying to wean

1243
00:58:50,000 --> 00:58:54,240
Speaker 1: myself off, which is is getting there um, and I

1244
00:58:54,400 --> 00:58:56,960
Speaker 1: was telling my friends that I thought my pussy was

1245
00:58:57,040 --> 00:58:59,560
Speaker 1: broke because I was having sex with like people who

1246
00:58:59,600 --> 00:59:02,640
Speaker 1: worked me for seven. My pussy was the driest it

1247
00:59:03,320 --> 00:59:05,800
Speaker 1: was it had been. I was mad every time I

1248
00:59:05,880 --> 00:59:07,280
Speaker 1: had sex because I was like, this is why I

1249
00:59:07,320 --> 00:59:10,560
Speaker 1: don't have casual sex with other people. I was frustrated

1250
00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:12,680
Speaker 1: and I was like, yeah, my pussy's broke. I wasn't

1251
00:59:12,720 --> 00:59:16,240
Speaker 1: interested in having sex. I went on quite a little

1252
00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:19,880
Speaker 1: a dry spell. Didn't want to seven, didn't want to

1253
00:59:19,880 --> 00:59:23,360
Speaker 1: suck anyone regular because I was genuinely not enjoying the sex.

1254
00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:24,960
Speaker 1: So I read this and I was like, this is

1255
00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:28,480
Speaker 1: what happened to me. And I feel like in a

1256
00:59:28,680 --> 00:59:31,680
Speaker 1: in a bit of it, you have casual sex, and yeah,

1257
00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:35,160
Speaker 1: it's fun, But when you're having casual sex with multiple partners,

1258
00:59:35,440 --> 00:59:38,560
Speaker 1: you miss a lot of the things psychologically that you

1259
00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:41,600
Speaker 1: like in a partner, such as the cuddling, such as

1260
00:59:41,680 --> 00:59:45,760
Speaker 1: the conversation, the intimacy. Maybe they're not um doing the

1261
00:59:45,880 --> 00:59:48,480
Speaker 1: things that essentially you want them to do, or maybe

1262
00:59:49,280 --> 00:59:52,800
Speaker 1: you really don't want this sexual connection with someone as

1263
00:59:52,880 --> 00:59:56,240
Speaker 1: much as you want a conversation with them um, And

1264
00:59:56,360 --> 00:59:59,160
Speaker 1: I felt like that's kind of where I was. So

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Speaker 1: maybe you were enjoying this casual sex with all these

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Speaker 1: partners and it was fun and you were coming because

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Speaker 1: you kind of didn't want anything else. You just wanted sex.

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Speaker 1: So I just wanted to sex. Also, people say is

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Speaker 1: replacement for something else, right, But I um, so I

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Speaker 1: went through a really scary moment like towards the end

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Speaker 1: of February where like when my aunt died, I was

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Speaker 1: like scared to masturbate or have sex because I felt

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Speaker 1: like she was watching me. It's really dumb, but I

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Speaker 1: was like freaking out, like my grieving process fucked up masturbation.

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Speaker 1: And one of the things that helped me was a

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Speaker 1: little bit of time. But like erotica, I read a

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Speaker 1: lot already, Like erotica really fucking helps me. And I

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Speaker 1: don't know what it is. And I think it's because

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Speaker 1: when you're reading. And this is much why when books

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Speaker 1: turned into movies, people can't appreciate that yet because we

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Speaker 1: all imagine it in a different way. That's who I

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Speaker 1: would ever look into a movie, addicted Zane. Oh, yeah,

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Speaker 1: so like we kind of picture, you know, the book

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Speaker 1: a certain way, and then the movie comes out and

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Speaker 1: it's not what we wanted. That's what's great about books.

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Speaker 1: Your imagination runs so wild reading erotica or really got

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Speaker 1: my pussy to work. I really can't give any other

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Speaker 1: advice because I think sometimes it just takes time, and

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Speaker 1: I think it takes a little bit of solo time

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Speaker 1: to like work through that feeling. But when it's there,

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Speaker 1: you feel like it's never gonna be Overbro it sucks. Yeah, So, UM,

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Speaker 1: I think that honestly, you should maybe come more in

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Speaker 1: tune with yourself. Um, stop giving your energy to so

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Speaker 1: many people. UM. I believe that when you do have

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Speaker 1: sex with someone, it's a transfer of energy. So maybe

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Speaker 1: the things that are going on with your partners are

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Speaker 1: now draining into you. Whether it be something negative going

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Speaker 1: on in their lives, or maybe they're just exhausted, or

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Speaker 1: maybe they're not performing to to what they used to.

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Speaker 1: There could be so many things. But when you give

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Speaker 1: yourself to someone, specifically sex and when having casual sex,

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Speaker 1: you are draining yourself more than you know. And so

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Speaker 1: it may be a time to where you just need

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Speaker 1: some time for yourself something that I like to do

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Speaker 1: and something that I like to do when I feel

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Speaker 1: like I've just given too much energy to my male

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Speaker 1: counter parts, are my sexual partners, or whatever the case

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Speaker 1: may be. I literally enjoy a trip with my friends

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Speaker 1: and I stop answering their calls and no, I don't

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Speaker 1: want to see you. I have plans with my friends.

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Speaker 1: I make a lot of plans with my friends, and

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Speaker 1: I get my energy back up and and being grateful

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Speaker 1: and happy for life, the people in my circle and

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Speaker 1: what's going on in my life before I can allow

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Speaker 1: myself to release energy to somebody else. So that's kind

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Speaker 1: of what got me over my little dry spell. Um,

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Speaker 1: when dealing with multiple sexual partners, just taking a break

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Speaker 1: and enjoying other people around me that I'm not having

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Speaker 1: sex with, specifically male friends, male friends that you aren't

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Speaker 1: having sex with, spending time around them, because then you

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Speaker 1: just get to appreciate men again and their energy and

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Speaker 1: the sastroone and just men for being men without having

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Speaker 1: to attach the sexual connection with them. So that would

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Speaker 1: be my advice. Um. Again, we want to shout out

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Speaker 1: to everyone who came out to our live shows. They've

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Speaker 1: l A And of course we're wrapping up in Toronto. Um,

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Speaker 1: We've been getting a lot of tweets and i G

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Speaker 1: posts that y'all are all caught up and you don't

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Speaker 1: know what to do now. There are over thirty fucking episodes,

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Speaker 1: say even more than like our episodes two, which are

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Speaker 1: really fun to make and really personal. Um. We have

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Speaker 1: such a community of people that talk like people that

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Speaker 1: go to the shows together, that are going alone, girls

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Speaker 1: A girl met her neighbor posted on there and realized

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Speaker 1: they came to the live show together in Chicago. Yes,

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Speaker 1: says their age, their name, where they're from what they

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Speaker 1: do and what they'd like to do for fun, and

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Speaker 1: it's connected so many of our patrons to go out because,

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Speaker 1: of course, we like to think that the people who

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Speaker 1: wherever you land in the spectrum, a lot of our

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Speaker 1: listeners are. Like most wrote on post too, I was

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Speaker 1: I told my name and what I like to do

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Speaker 1: for fun and what I do on the weekends and

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Speaker 1: things that make me happy, and people just emulated the

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Speaker 1: same way. I actually didn't drop my age and everybody

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Speaker 1: was like forty two and I was like yeah, like

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Speaker 1: I enjoyed it. We have listeners from the ages of

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