1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: From Hollywood. See you, thank you for listening to us. 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:11,719 Speaker 1: Ryan Air with Ryan Seacrest, Good Morning, Tuesday, January tenth, 3 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:16,599 Speaker 1: How are you? Says? I'm good. I feel a little refreshed. Good. 4 00:00:16,760 --> 00:00:20,919 Speaker 1: Well by tomorrow that'll change. Why because early in the week, 5 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:24,119 Speaker 1: I guess, you know what I did last night. But 6 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 1: I have not done in like for a really long time, 7 00:00:27,240 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 1: and it's kind of disgusting. I clean my makeup brushes. 8 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 1: I was gonna say, clean your belly button. No, I 9 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 1: do that regularly, but I cleaned my makeup brushes and 10 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 1: I have not done that in so long, which really, 11 00:00:38,880 --> 00:00:42,239 Speaker 1: you use it on your face every day? Yeah, I 12 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 1: have something for after shaving that's like a powder that 13 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 1: has a like a what do you call these things? 14 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 1: That you bought your makeup with one of those? And 15 00:00:57,600 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 1: I looked at it the other day and I thought, 16 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 1: I've had this for years, this beauty blender. You need 17 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 1: to wash that every time. I just threw it out. 18 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 1: Just wash it with a little soap every time. You 19 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:08,760 Speaker 1: gotta get it wet to Can we talk about your 20 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:11,679 Speaker 1: guests of a belly BUTTONO cleaning your belly button? Yeah, 21 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 1: I realize I'm not cleaning myself well and my showers. 22 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:18,520 Speaker 1: Did you get an irritation inside your belly button? No? No, no, 23 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 1: no no, I just read some article. Do you know 24 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:23,399 Speaker 1: what's funny about cleaning yourself well in the shower? Sometimes 25 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 1: I go so fast and I have that liquid body cleanser, 26 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,120 Speaker 1: and I'm not so sure that works as well as 27 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:33,479 Speaker 1: the old school washcloth in soap bar. Huh. I bought 28 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:35,399 Speaker 1: this like rubber thing that just sticks on the wall. 29 00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:38,839 Speaker 1: I saw it on Instagram and it works great. You 30 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 1: slide your fingers on it and then it lathers and 31 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:45,320 Speaker 1: your body. You put your hand in it. It's like 32 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:48,080 Speaker 1: a lazy can we be? It does soap something. We 33 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:50,560 Speaker 1: need something to soap our hands for us. It's like 34 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: a rubber It's like it's like a flat rubber thing 35 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 1: with like these little rubber bristles on it, and then 36 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 1: you put the soap on it and then you just 37 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 1: basically it's like a rubber thing and you rub your 38 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 1: whole body on it. You rubbed all over your body. Honestly, 39 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 1: showering is a chore for me. I don't look forward 40 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: to it, so I want to do it as fast 41 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 1: and then the winter efficient it's possible. I'm the same way, 42 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:10,520 Speaker 1: and I realized I'm basically just washing my our pits 43 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 1: and like calling it a day. Wait, do you have 44 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 1: to bathe other people? I have to bathe three kids. 45 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:19,679 Speaker 1: It's like a whole thing. Just you know. Sometimes I'm 46 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:21,920 Speaker 1: so lazy in the shower and want to hurry so 47 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 1: much that even on a Friday, I don't maintain. I 48 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 1: don't shave maintenance shave, Yeah, shaves in the winter. Well, 49 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 1: I mean those who are, you know, trying to impress, right, 50 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 1: I guess on the market. Yeah, we're not on the market, 51 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 1: just trying to impress, right, we all maintained on a 52 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 1: Friday weekend? What's slick Rick like? Not Harry? Is that 53 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 1: what you call it? Is that what you call your boyfriend? 54 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:51,840 Speaker 1: You call ulick Rick? Well, no, he's more like Harry. 55 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 1: How Harry Harry? Yeah? But I like it alright? Well 56 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 1: tweets his own correct fun times while on it tubs, 57 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 1: what's going on with you, Jeffrey tubbs ourn engineer? What 58 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 1: are you doing? What's doing? He's wearing a beanie and 59 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:12,239 Speaker 1: so I know I love the beanie looks inside Yeah, 60 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 1: but then my hair would be all messed up. So 61 00:03:14,200 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 1: it's more of a fashion. Do you want your hair 62 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:18,120 Speaker 1: to look messed? Yes? I don't know that you need 63 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:20,960 Speaker 1: the beanie on in the studio you want to see 64 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 1: how No, don't make it off. So's it comfortable that 65 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 1: it's a very warm dick. It's starting to itch though. Yeah, 66 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 1: but now he's committed you to so ridiculous in a 67 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:34,560 Speaker 1: beanie because my forehead slants a different way. It does 68 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 1: not work for me a beanie. Your forehead does slant 69 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 1: a different Believe, you don't work. My fourth doesn't go up, 70 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 1: it just goes back. It does go back right. You can, 71 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 1: like I put Chaise Lounges on it and you wouldn't 72 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 1: fall out of your chair. It's a cute forehead. It's 73 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 1: definitely beanie weather outside. I'm just taking it to a 74 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 1: whole new level inside. Interesting. I've never looked at your 75 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 1: forehead now, I can never un see it. It's been 76 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 1: here for about twenty years. But then it slants back. 77 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 1: But then he puts his hair for it's like a 78 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 1: skiing down a mountaintop, a very uh not big slope. Correct. Yeah, 79 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 1: it's not the black diamond, it's like the blue You 80 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 1: really give the v effect with your hair and your forehead. 81 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 1: The money trail what you call it bunny slopes, then 82 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:34,720 Speaker 1: slap the bunny slop beforeheads with Ryan Seacrets. Today's National 83 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 1: Clean your Desk Dead. I have a thing where if 84 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:40,279 Speaker 1: my desk has you know, I like to stack, but 85 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: sometimes too many stacks are there that are too high. 86 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 1: It gives me anxiety. I can't It's like I can't 87 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 1: get things done until I get it organized on top 88 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:49,359 Speaker 1: of the desk. Oh. I can't have a messy desk. 89 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 1: It makes me crazy. Well, Today's National Clean the Top 90 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 1: of your Desk Day. Gold Gloves are back tonight on TV. 91 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:57,039 Speaker 1: It's a Tuesday night. It's a different night for the 92 00:04:57,040 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 1: Golden that's kind of just popped up. Well, I remember 93 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 1: when I used to host Elive from the Red Carpet. 94 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 1: It was the first show of the season on a Sunday. 95 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 1: Was always on a Sunday. All the award shows were 96 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:13,799 Speaker 1: on a Sunday. I wonder why now they're moving Pride 97 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 1: TV scheduling and viewership. Yeah, and where they need the 98 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 1: programming to right And tonight at eight another mega millions 99 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 1: drawing this at one point one billion dollars. So Marianna 100 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 1: is one of our newest staff members here on air, 101 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:32,560 Speaker 1: thrying sis. Marianna, what is your official job title. I'm 102 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 1: a phone screener. Phone screener, Yeah, I mean she picks 103 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 1: up the phone, screens him make sure safely carrying any weapons. 104 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:44,840 Speaker 1: As soon as they passed the screening test, they put 105 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:47,279 Speaker 1: you're back on hold and you get transferred into the 106 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 1: booth at we're in the booth um. So, Marianna understand, 107 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:53,160 Speaker 1: and it's always important that we check in with our 108 00:05:53,200 --> 00:06:00,080 Speaker 1: family members here and expose their issues and drama. So 109 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 1: what's going on. Something's happening with the guy. Yeah, so 110 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 1: this guy, he wants to take me out on a day. 111 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 1: But here's the catch. So I knew him from high 112 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:14,239 Speaker 1: school and in high school, we're really good friends, and 113 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:17,520 Speaker 1: I used to have a crush on him, but he 114 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 1: used to always tell me that my friends were pretty 115 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:21,840 Speaker 1: and everything. So I was like, okay, so he doesn't 116 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 1: like me obviously, which is cool. We're still going to 117 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 1: remain friends. And then after high school, um, well, we 118 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 1: still remain friends. And recently he was telling me that 119 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 1: he wants to date me and he wants to take 120 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:36,120 Speaker 1: me on a day. And he's been kind of like 121 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:38,240 Speaker 1: constantly been in my d M s and like he 122 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:41,039 Speaker 1: ustill have my numbers, so he'll text me here and there, 123 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 1: and I'm like, Okay, I don't know what to do 124 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 1: because I don't even because he used to like your 125 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 1: friends or you don't like him, well, I don't even 126 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 1: know if I like him like that anymore. Why. I mean, 127 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 1: it's kind of weird, don't you guys think it's already 128 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:55,839 Speaker 1: forget about the past? High school is so long ago. 129 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 1: Was like, yeah, I forget about the past. It's in 130 00:06:57,360 --> 00:06:59,680 Speaker 1: the past. Do you like him now? Are you attracted 131 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 1: to him? He's cute, but I haven't talked to him 132 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:03,360 Speaker 1: in a long time. But that's the point of going 133 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 1: out with somebody so you can actually understand it. I 134 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:07,600 Speaker 1: can't tell you how many times Tiny has gone out 135 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 1: with guys and then ended up them being just as 136 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 1: bad as they thought. But generally speaking, you got to 137 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 1: give people a shot. You gotta give people a chance. 138 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 1: Haven't you met there all those great stories about people 139 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 1: who meet that thought they'd never end up together. Turns 140 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 1: out they had so much in common and they were 141 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 1: so well connected. But you gotta give the guy a shot. 142 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 1: Forget about the past. It's in the past the words 143 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 1: of t rat right there. And if you don't try, 144 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 1: you'll never know. And if you don't know, you're always 145 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 1: gonna be questioning. And if you're always questioning and gonna 146 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 1: drive you. People change so much from high school, they're 147 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 1: really evolving change. So I would give him a shot. 148 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 1: Do you want to be in a relationship? Do you 149 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 1: want to butt on the thing? I don't know if 150 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 1: I want to be in a relationship because it's still 151 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 1: time consuming. And also we do we've always gotten along 152 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:54,559 Speaker 1: really well, like everything, you know, like taste the music. 153 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 1: So I'm like kind of scared because you might like him. 154 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:00,440 Speaker 1: If you like him, so right now you're friends and 155 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 1: you hang out as friends, and you're in the same 156 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:05,679 Speaker 1: friends circle, not exact same friendsicle, but yeah, we've always 157 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 1: just remained friends. So I like it getting a shot. 158 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:14,320 Speaker 1: I like it getting a shot, like picture, I like 159 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 1: it happening. Yeah, So yeah, my vote would be to 160 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 1: go out with him. I think so too. But you know, 161 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 1: all those great people say you regret the things you 162 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 1: don't do, vers some things you do do. And that's 163 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 1: my favorite part of the quote. You know, who said 164 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:38,720 Speaker 1: that was Tanya. Once again, thank you, But there's a 165 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 1: saying about it like, yeah, keep us posted, but I 166 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 1: think he deserves a chance. I think, okay, I'll keep 167 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 1: you and thank you for even coming to us for 168 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 1: advice on dudes. Yeah, that's what we live for, al right, 169 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:56,560 Speaker 1: this morning with a quote of the day, and also 170 00:08:57,240 --> 00:09:00,320 Speaker 1: I have got your morning hack. So have you opped 171 00:09:00,400 --> 00:09:03,040 Speaker 1: your phone in your toilet? Tisiting? I think I have 172 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 1: at one point in my life. Have you dropped it 173 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 1: post bio brake dirty water? Oh no, no, no, no, 174 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:14,880 Speaker 1: I have to tell you I have dropped it in 175 00:09:14,960 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 1: dirty water and I've gone for it. Wash your hand 176 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:21,839 Speaker 1: on number one. You wash your hand, you move on. 177 00:09:22,840 --> 00:09:25,680 Speaker 1: It's your heart drops when you drop your phone. You 178 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:27,320 Speaker 1: can pu wash your phone at these like they're like 179 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 1: waterproof these days. Right, Well you say water proof, does simming? 180 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 1: I take underwater video of the kids all the time 181 00:09:36,120 --> 00:09:39,959 Speaker 1: with your phone. Yes, I'm so afraid. Where they tell 182 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:41,640 Speaker 1: me that or not, I'll have the one that doesn't 183 00:09:41,640 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 1: do it. No, I do it all the time. Yeah. 184 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 1: I did it once and I was very scared to 185 00:09:46,880 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 1: do it. I was like, okay, here goes nothing. Oh 186 00:09:49,320 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 1: I have the cutest videos and pictures of all my kids. 187 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:53,440 Speaker 1: We're all swimming under what it's fine. Well, if you 188 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 1: don't have the waterproof version, it's not as scary as 189 00:09:56,040 --> 00:10:00,120 Speaker 1: it used to be. Since today's phones are water resistant. 190 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:02,520 Speaker 1: What a proof and resistant must be a nuance because 191 00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:06,600 Speaker 1: I think resistant and proof means like it's guaranteed resistant. 192 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:08,960 Speaker 1: They probably have to say, because it may not be guaranteed. 193 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:11,680 Speaker 1: But if your phone gets water in the charging port, 194 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 1: it won't charge until it's dry. So the best way 195 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 1: to dry it is to use a desiccant. Now, I 196 00:10:16,840 --> 00:10:19,160 Speaker 1: don't even know what a desiccant is. That's one of 197 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 1: those things in the pill It's like in your pill 198 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 1: package you find in vitamin bodes, right, like a little 199 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:31,160 Speaker 1: stuff you shake the little package looks like could be 200 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:36,439 Speaker 1: don't yeah, and shoe boxes they have them them on Amazon. Desiccands. 201 00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 1: Don't eat them. They all say, don't eat me on them. 202 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 1: Put your phone in a zip blocked back with a 203 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:45,680 Speaker 1: desiccant and apparently that will dry it out. So there's 204 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:52,199 Speaker 1: your morning, all right. Today's be miserable. Be miserable. Today's 205 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:57,200 Speaker 1: quoted be miserable, or motivate yourself. Whatever has to be done. 206 00:10:57,320 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 1: It's always your choice. This is kiss This headlines well. 207 00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 1: The rain will continue making its way across southern California today, 208 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 1: leaving in place the specter of flash flooding, mud flows, 209 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 1: and hazardous road conditions. Much of so Cal is under 210 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:18,920 Speaker 1: watches and warnings four floods, high wind, and high surf, 211 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 1: with many advisories stretching into later this evening. Be safe 212 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 1: on those freeways. L A U. S D is now 213 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:29,920 Speaker 1: offering an evening bus service for students. The program, which 214 00:11:29,960 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 1: is currently only available for Young Empowered Scholars Academy students, 215 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 1: will provide a reliable form of transportation for children who 216 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 1: have after school tutoring. The new bus service will pick 217 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 1: up students from school at either four forty pm or 218 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 1: six pm. And you know, we have new music from 219 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 1: Miley Cyrus coming this Thursday afternoon. But now, exactly two 220 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:56,840 Speaker 1: years after the arrival of her breakthrough single driver's license, 221 00:11:56,840 --> 00:12:00,720 Speaker 1: Olivia Rodrigo is che using new music as well. We 222 00:12:00,760 --> 00:12:04,320 Speaker 1: don't know much, but we do expect some music pretty soon. 223 00:12:04,360 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 1: She did post on her stories on Instagram saying that 224 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:10,200 Speaker 1: she's working on many new songs that she's excited to 225 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:15,119 Speaker 1: share with us. Pretty soon on air with Ryan Seacrest, 226 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:19,000 Speaker 1: with a second date update coming up in a couple 227 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:22,400 Speaker 1: of minutes. So if you are dating, you'll want to 228 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 1: hear this. If you're not, you're probably happy or not. 229 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:29,200 Speaker 1: He says he's never been ghosted before, but as we know, 230 00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:31,880 Speaker 1: there's a first time for everything. He's been ghosted, but 231 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:35,600 Speaker 1: he wants to know why. Again, I wouldn't just move on, 232 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:38,080 Speaker 1: but he wants to know why. So we'll try and 233 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:41,760 Speaker 1: help him with that. A second date update in just 234 00:12:41,800 --> 00:12:46,680 Speaker 1: a couple of minutes. So I remember the first time 235 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:48,720 Speaker 1: we had a hard reign when I moved into a 236 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 1: new house here in l A. And I had so 237 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:55,080 Speaker 1: many you could not believe how many leaks I had. 238 00:12:55,559 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 1: And it was bucket after bucket, towel after towel, creating 239 00:12:59,800 --> 00:13:03,480 Speaker 1: this this obstacle course through the house to try and 240 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 1: get from one place to the other, and we're seeing 241 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 1: are you seeing leaks? Is with all this rain? You know, 242 00:13:08,360 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 1: we've really I feel at this point we've been in 243 00:13:10,679 --> 00:13:14,600 Speaker 1: this house since we'll moved in officially since seen and 244 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:18,000 Speaker 1: I feel like we've really mastered the leak issue now 245 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:20,280 Speaker 1: because yes, we were like that, we had buckets all 246 00:13:20,280 --> 00:13:25,000 Speaker 1: throughout the house. We've fixed it. Year after year we 247 00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:27,439 Speaker 1: repair like and now last year I thought we did 248 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:30,559 Speaker 1: a really huge roof repair, but no, here we are 249 00:13:30,720 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 1: another league. And so last night I was making dinner 250 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 1: and I'm texting Michael. I thought he was in the 251 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 1: garage working and um, and he was just ignoring me. 252 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:40,959 Speaker 1: And so I'm getting more and more mad. And you 253 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:43,079 Speaker 1: should see like the text change or just like ready. 254 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:46,560 Speaker 1: I'm just like, dinner's ready, it's ready. Where are you? 255 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 1: And then question mark, you know the worst some says 256 00:13:51,200 --> 00:13:53,559 Speaker 1: just a question mark yeah. And then I'm like we're eating, Okay, 257 00:13:53,559 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 1: we're eating now, it's just like going yeah. And then 258 00:13:58,600 --> 00:14:03,120 Speaker 1: I'm feeling so bad because he's in the rain outside 259 00:14:03,160 --> 00:14:06,080 Speaker 1: putting sandbags on the side of the house and like 260 00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:08,400 Speaker 1: fixing like the leaks in the roof, and so like 261 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 1: now I'm out there trying to literally I am like 262 00:14:12,679 --> 00:14:14,400 Speaker 1: a horrible person. I was like, oh my gosh, I'm 263 00:14:14,440 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 1: so sorry. So do you say it like that with 264 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:20,080 Speaker 1: so much meaning? Yes? No? No, no, no, I was 265 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:21,600 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. Because 266 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:23,040 Speaker 1: he comes in and like and he's like drenched and 267 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:24,760 Speaker 1: like his little raincoat. I wasn't like, you need a 268 00:14:24,760 --> 00:14:29,000 Speaker 1: new raincoat? Like, what is that that is about the raincoat? Kama, 269 00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:32,520 Speaker 1: he has the wrong raincoat. He's like an angel out 270 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:35,760 Speaker 1: there putting sandbags against out it is you can get 271 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:37,760 Speaker 1: free sandbags at fire stations if you don't know that 272 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:39,960 Speaker 1: by now, I did not know that. Yeah, but then 273 00:14:40,000 --> 00:14:42,560 Speaker 1: you could just drop. So when you do get into 274 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 1: that text exchange like that and the other person is 275 00:14:45,400 --> 00:14:48,320 Speaker 1: not responding, know how about when they send you just 276 00:14:48,400 --> 00:14:50,640 Speaker 1: a question mark? I find that to be so annoying. 277 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 1: I always say, is this thing on tap tap? Like? 278 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 1: Cute but frustrated? I do the eye emojis like hello. 279 00:15:00,160 --> 00:15:03,560 Speaker 1: I always get told to calm down number one. Apparently 280 00:15:03,600 --> 00:15:09,520 Speaker 1: I'm too high tightly wound. Yeah, you're too tightly wound. 281 00:15:09,600 --> 00:15:13,280 Speaker 1: Calm down. I just like left the house. So, out 282 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 1: of all of our three relationships, are we the wound 283 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:20,600 Speaker 1: up ones, I'm definitely the most wound up? Okay, that 284 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:23,320 Speaker 1: makes that checks out. I said I will sit at 285 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 1: home and be like, how can you not be thinking 286 00:15:24,920 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 1: about this and losing sleep? And she says, because you 287 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:32,400 Speaker 1: are no great I can see that she seems calm, 288 00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:35,920 Speaker 1: She seems calmer of the two chiller and Michael's more 289 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:38,480 Speaker 1: chill of us too, and then Robbie's more chilling chiller. 290 00:15:39,520 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 1: Robbie is chill so like it's your boyfriend. You can't 291 00:15:44,360 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 1: wind them up. Frustrates me. I know, I don't like 292 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:51,520 Speaker 1: to see people so calm about everything. What gets you? 293 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:54,840 Speaker 1: What gets you? What gets you? Please tell me I'd 294 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:59,400 Speaker 1: like to know something gets you? Nothing? All right, we 295 00:15:59,440 --> 00:16:03,280 Speaker 1: are in into a second date update right now. So 296 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:08,800 Speaker 1: Paul lives in Venice, and he for the first time 297 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 1: in his life, he had never been ghosted before, and 298 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 1: so he was seeing this girl for a couple of weeks, 299 00:16:14,560 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 1: I guess, and he thought everything was going well. He 300 00:16:17,760 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 1: was developing what he calls feelings, what he calls yeah feelings, 301 00:16:23,760 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 1: one of those yeah he caught feels, feelings cut fields feelings. 302 00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 1: So they had so much fun together, but out of 303 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:36,120 Speaker 1: the blue, no contact, no response, nothing, Paul, thanks for 304 00:16:36,160 --> 00:16:39,840 Speaker 1: coming on. As you retrace your steps, was there any 305 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 1: event that occurred in the last time you saw this 306 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:47,040 Speaker 1: woman that maybe even maybe it's not a justifiable reason, 307 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 1: but maybe a reason that she's not contacting you anymore. 308 00:16:51,480 --> 00:16:55,440 Speaker 1: I can't think of anything honestly, you know them. I 309 00:16:55,480 --> 00:17:00,880 Speaker 1: mean we got intimate fairly quickly. Um, I just thought 310 00:17:00,960 --> 00:17:04,320 Speaker 1: we were connected. That felt very comfortable and almost felt 311 00:17:04,320 --> 00:17:07,440 Speaker 1: like I was already in kind of a relationship. But wait, 312 00:17:07,440 --> 00:17:09,199 Speaker 1: did you talk about being a relationship with her? Did 313 00:17:09,200 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 1: she talk about it with you? Or just dates? No, 314 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:15,639 Speaker 1: it was just dates. But you know, we never we 315 00:17:15,760 --> 00:17:18,200 Speaker 1: never had a reason to bring that up because we 316 00:17:18,200 --> 00:17:20,959 Speaker 1: were having so much fun, because we were just enjoying 317 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:23,280 Speaker 1: each other, so we didn't even get to that part 318 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 1: of the conversation. You know, we were getting to know 319 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:28,200 Speaker 1: each other and it just it just was making sense. 320 00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:30,640 Speaker 1: I felt in sync with her. She seemed to feel 321 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:33,080 Speaker 1: the same way. So I'm I'm shocked. I'm like, Paul, 322 00:17:33,160 --> 00:17:36,240 Speaker 1: can I ask you a question between us? Did you 323 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:42,520 Speaker 1: spend the night with her on your last date? I did, yeah, 324 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:48,399 Speaker 1: and everything went okay that night, nothing so I noticed 325 00:17:49,040 --> 00:17:52,240 Speaker 1: on the radio kissing and telling her. But um, no, 326 00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:55,639 Speaker 1: she had spent the night at my place before, and 327 00:17:55,680 --> 00:17:59,040 Speaker 1: then this last time I spent the night at her 328 00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:02,359 Speaker 1: place and pretty much the same thing has happened. So 329 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:06,040 Speaker 1: I can't think of anything that would you know, it 330 00:18:06,080 --> 00:18:09,560 Speaker 1: would give her reason to just literally drop off the 331 00:18:09,560 --> 00:18:11,760 Speaker 1: face of the earth. All right, we have her information. 332 00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:13,679 Speaker 1: Apparently they've reached out to in the phone room and 333 00:18:13,720 --> 00:18:16,199 Speaker 1: she's willing to come on. So hold on for a second. 334 00:18:16,440 --> 00:18:20,000 Speaker 1: We will find out why Rachel blew Paul off. I 335 00:18:20,040 --> 00:18:23,080 Speaker 1: would not want to know, especially after a night like that, 336 00:18:23,760 --> 00:18:26,000 Speaker 1: I feel like something happened. Then I don't want to 337 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:30,560 Speaker 1: know something happened. Thanks. This morning, I'm excited. We're in 338 00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:34,520 Speaker 1: the middle of a second date. Update. And I'm always 339 00:18:34,560 --> 00:18:37,040 Speaker 1: just curious, like when you go out with someone and 340 00:18:37,080 --> 00:18:42,880 Speaker 1: they completely blow you off, they disappear. I'm always wondering, 341 00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:45,040 Speaker 1: not for my own sake, but for people's sake, like 342 00:18:45,080 --> 00:18:47,080 Speaker 1: what makes them do that? And isn't it kind of rude? 343 00:18:47,520 --> 00:18:49,760 Speaker 1: I think it's rude. Yeah, but sometimes they have like 344 00:18:49,880 --> 00:18:52,720 Speaker 1: sometimes there's an explanation, like I know, I like have 345 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:55,160 Speaker 1: gotten ghosts in the past. And then the guy hit 346 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:56,399 Speaker 1: me up a few weeks later, and I was like, 347 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:58,879 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I was going through something i'd work 348 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:01,120 Speaker 1: and then it was just say that on the outset 349 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:03,160 Speaker 1: like at the beginning, I know, but you're not You're 350 00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:05,600 Speaker 1: not involved enough for them to like spill their guts, 351 00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:07,360 Speaker 1: you know, And so here's the deal. Paul went out 352 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 1: with her a few times. He's into her, he developed 353 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:13,560 Speaker 1: some feelings. They spent the night together the last night 354 00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:16,439 Speaker 1: before she disappeared and didn't contact him. So Paul, be 355 00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:18,600 Speaker 1: very quiet. I'm bringing Rachel and we're gonna talk to 356 00:19:18,680 --> 00:19:22,560 Speaker 1: it for a second. Rachel, thank you for holding on. 357 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:24,680 Speaker 1: It's Ryan Seacrest. Your voice is being broadcast on the 358 00:19:24,800 --> 00:19:28,120 Speaker 1: radio here at Kiss FM. How are you, hi, Ryan, 359 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:30,399 Speaker 1: I'm doing well. How about yourself doing well? Thank you 360 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:34,760 Speaker 1: for asking. So forgive the intrusion here, but we are 361 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:37,080 Speaker 1: calling about a guy named Paul that you have gone 362 00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:43,320 Speaker 1: out with a few times. Oh, um, Paul, Yeah, yeah, 363 00:19:43,440 --> 00:19:47,199 Speaker 1: I I do remember Paul. And how was Paul on 364 00:19:47,240 --> 00:19:53,760 Speaker 1: a date? Um? You know, he's a great guy. Um 365 00:19:54,040 --> 00:19:57,000 Speaker 1: you we uh. I think we went out like three 366 00:19:57,080 --> 00:20:01,160 Speaker 1: or four times and um, yeah, yeah he was fine. 367 00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:06,440 Speaker 1: He was. He's a nice guy. So just a great guy, 368 00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:08,879 Speaker 1: fine and a nice guy. Doesn't sound like you were 369 00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:15,600 Speaker 1: so excited about him. I mean it was like every 370 00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 1: date was pretty good, Um, at least up until the 371 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:27,160 Speaker 1: last one. Um, do you what happened in the last one? Well, 372 00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:31,520 Speaker 1: I don't know. How would you kind of feel about 373 00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:37,080 Speaker 1: somebody using your toothbrush, someone that I was with overnight. 374 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:43,560 Speaker 1: I'm fine, really, you, I mean I'm fine with that. 375 00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:51,480 Speaker 1: You're like, did he did he ask you? Rachel? No? No, 376 00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:54,439 Speaker 1: And that's that's kind of the other part of it 377 00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:56,920 Speaker 1: is like, if you had asked me for a tooth take, 378 00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:58,879 Speaker 1: I would have had to spare that I could have 379 00:20:58,920 --> 00:21:04,080 Speaker 1: given him. But he was in the bathroom and he's 380 00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:07,800 Speaker 1: just brushing away. He was just rushing. Yeah, And I 381 00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:10,280 Speaker 1: thought he was brushing with his own toothbrush when I 382 00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:12,960 Speaker 1: first walked in, like, it didn't really hit me. And 383 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:17,760 Speaker 1: then I realized that the cup had no other toothbrushes, 384 00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:21,800 Speaker 1: and I was like, are you using mine? And he said, yeah, 385 00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:23,399 Speaker 1: just give me a second and I'll be done and 386 00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:25,080 Speaker 1: then you can use it. And this is dating number 387 00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:29,159 Speaker 1: what at this point? This was the I believe this 388 00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:33,239 Speaker 1: was the fourth one. Yeah, getting himself real comfory. So 389 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:38,000 Speaker 1: after that you decided he's not the guy for you. Yeah, 390 00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:40,960 Speaker 1: that was pretty much it for me, Rachel. I want 391 00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:42,719 Speaker 1: to tell you, I'm gonna bring Paul in. He's on 392 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:47,600 Speaker 1: the line. Paul. Is that true? Yeah, I mean it's true. 393 00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:54,080 Speaker 1: I I'm wow, I'm shocked. Me too. I have no 394 00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:56,920 Speaker 1: idea that that that that is why I got ghosted. 395 00:21:56,960 --> 00:22:00,879 Speaker 1: That to me, that's that's not a big deal. I 396 00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:03,040 Speaker 1: mean I had an ex we would always just use 397 00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:06,360 Speaker 1: the same toothbrush, especially if we're traveling. Um, I know 398 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:09,720 Speaker 1: people that do that, and I don't get it. You're traveling, 399 00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:12,560 Speaker 1: I have done in a pinch time after time, Like 400 00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:15,280 Speaker 1: it's just one extra toothbrush. It's like, not what I'm playing. 401 00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:19,080 Speaker 1: Nice when you eat garlic, I can just food. Well 402 00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:21,000 Speaker 1: here here's the thing. So I'm going to keep this 403 00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:23,840 Speaker 1: very p g but you know when you kiss and 404 00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:29,480 Speaker 1: it's nice kiss, I mean, come on, I'm with Paul. 405 00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:33,080 Speaker 1: Like the toothbrush tooth there's mental tooth is meant to 406 00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:36,000 Speaker 1: like get like maybe some leftover stuck food in your teeth, 407 00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:39,240 Speaker 1: even like you want it's not about the toothbrush. Are 408 00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:42,280 Speaker 1: next level sick? No, No, it's not about the toothbrush. 409 00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:44,720 Speaker 1: If he's so comfy cozy to do this right away, 410 00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:47,680 Speaker 1: just violate you without permission, what's going to happen next? 411 00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:54,800 Speaker 1: What's it gonna be? Toothbrush? No, that is a violation bushbrush. 412 00:22:55,119 --> 00:23:00,399 Speaker 1: It's just it's more than that. It's in Yeah, listen, Paul. 413 00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:02,640 Speaker 1: It doesn't sound like it's going to work out with you, guys, 414 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:05,960 Speaker 1: but learn your lesson. You asked before you use someone 415 00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:11,000 Speaker 1: else's toothbrush. Yeah, I guess you know four dates down 416 00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:15,840 Speaker 1: the drain? Like? Well, I mean, Rachel, did you did 417 00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:17,760 Speaker 1: you like Paul like it? Could we get past the 418 00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 1: toothbrush thing? And maybe he's sorry, maybe this was a mistake. 419 00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 1: Maybe could we get past it? Uh? I don't know, Like, 420 00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:29,960 Speaker 1: are you willing to like he didn't mean your own toothbrush? Yeah? 421 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:32,400 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, of course, with the big deal, 422 00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:34,760 Speaker 1: I'll bring it in the holster, whip it out every time. 423 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:42,919 Speaker 1: I mean, funny, I like paul a toothbrush holster. All right, funny, Rachel, 424 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:45,800 Speaker 1: do you want to go out with Paul again? I 425 00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:49,639 Speaker 1: mean I'd be down if if we can, like really 426 00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:53,960 Speaker 1: really be on top of the hygiene situation here. Okay, 427 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:57,880 Speaker 1: Well then Paul, get on it, get to the drug 428 00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 1: store and yourself a bridy pack of tooth It's just 429 00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:04,160 Speaker 1: I think good favor could be toothbrushes for all your guests. 430 00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:11,200 Speaker 1: How cute would that be? Thank you guys still do wedding? 431 00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:14,240 Speaker 1: I don't know, I just thought it was funny. I 432 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:17,520 Speaker 1: have been in a relationship and used her toothbrush multiple 433 00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:20,360 Speaker 1: times because I forgot something. Our mind is worn out. 434 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:26,720 Speaker 1: I feel like that's out by hard. You brush brush hard. 435 00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:30,280 Speaker 1: I've been told by my dentist I pushed yours. I 436 00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:44,720 Speaker 1: know that brush your teeth with Ryan set. We are 437 00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:49,560 Speaker 1: paying your bills next kissing him dot com keyword bills. 438 00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:51,879 Speaker 1: Let's get to Monique. Al Right, guys listening on this 439 00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:55,240 Speaker 1: so cis Anitania. Monique is on the phone in Pasadena 440 00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:58,639 Speaker 1: and she says her boyfriend is hanging out with his exes. Monique, 441 00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:02,679 Speaker 1: thanks for coming on. Hi, Good morning you guys, Well 442 00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:05,040 Speaker 1: good morning to you. Tell me why is he hanging 443 00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:09,320 Speaker 1: out with his exes. Well, he's remained good friends with them, 444 00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:12,560 Speaker 1: and he just he goes out of his way to 445 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:15,399 Speaker 1: hang out with them on his free time. I'm all 446 00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:18,800 Speaker 1: about being cordial with your exes, but to me, the 447 00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:22,000 Speaker 1: issue has been how frequently he's been hanging out with 448 00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:26,600 Speaker 1: them and how close he's still remained to them in 449 00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:30,600 Speaker 1: the root of our recent arguments. So I just, um, 450 00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:33,399 Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out what to do because I 451 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:36,639 Speaker 1: do love him, but I don't I don't know if 452 00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:38,760 Speaker 1: this is going to be something that I'm going to 453 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:41,680 Speaker 1: want to continue to do. Why so he's hanging out 454 00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:47,280 Speaker 1: with different exes at different times all alone. Yes, they'll 455 00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:53,760 Speaker 1: go go get dinner or it feels very like date wise, 456 00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:58,720 Speaker 1: but or they'll go get coffee too, for example. Um 457 00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:02,239 Speaker 1: and yeah, I just it has gotten very frustrating for me. 458 00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 1: All right, So I I think you should have a 459 00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:11,720 Speaker 1: conversation with him. I can appreciate the cordialness, that's fine, 460 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,480 Speaker 1: but you have a conversation with him about the level 461 00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:18,119 Speaker 1: where he is right now. The level of understanding you 462 00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:20,480 Speaker 1: have has a line, right, there's a there's a ceiling 463 00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:24,840 Speaker 1: to the understanding. It sounds like he's broken that ceiling. Yeah, yeah, 464 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:29,080 Speaker 1: he hasn't really been respecting my side of the boundaries 465 00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:32,240 Speaker 1: as far as it goes, Well, if he is not 466 00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:35,880 Speaker 1: respecting your boundaries, then this is a bigger problem that's 467 00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:38,760 Speaker 1: showing itself now that you may want to think about. 468 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:42,360 Speaker 1: It's continuing to show itself. She's saying she's frustrated, they've 469 00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:48,320 Speaker 1: been arguing. It's repeating itself. I think it's all written 470 00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:53,320 Speaker 1: on the walls right there. He just doesn't think it's 471 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:56,399 Speaker 1: a big deal. So for me, I'm like, I don't 472 00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:59,480 Speaker 1: know what he needs to understand in a relationship. He 473 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:01,480 Speaker 1: needs to unders and for you it is a big deal. 474 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:03,720 Speaker 1: So for him it should be a big deal. And 475 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:06,640 Speaker 1: if he's not going to get there, um, we're gonna 476 00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:09,040 Speaker 1: have to make some really hard choices or maybe easy choices. 477 00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:11,520 Speaker 1: But he needs to respect that he should not be 478 00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:14,800 Speaker 1: hanging out with them all the time on his own. Monique, 479 00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:18,600 Speaker 1: good luck, thank you. I mean, she should just become 480 00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:20,160 Speaker 1: an X At this point. She can still go out 481 00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:22,120 Speaker 1: to dinner with him, she can still go have coffee 482 00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:31,240 Speaker 1: with him. She literally on air with Ryan sast Ryan Seacrest. 483 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,359 Speaker 1: Here the Golden Globes are on TV tonight five o'clock 484 00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:38,800 Speaker 1: on NBC Today's National Clean Your Desk Day. I'm seeing 485 00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:41,400 Speaker 1: in our show notes that I hosted American Top forty 486 00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:45,720 Speaker 1: for the first time nineteen years ago. Today, dang, nineteen 487 00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:47,960 Speaker 1: years ago. I could anything in my life be nineteen 488 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:52,840 Speaker 1: years ago? That's wild two thousand four, the first show 489 00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:56,879 Speaker 1: I hosted on American Top forty. All right, so we 490 00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:58,520 Speaker 1: are paying your bills. You should know that I'm a 491 00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:02,280 Speaker 1: calling on the name real soon. Here at KISS It's 492 00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:06,159 Speaker 1: gonna happen. But ty is a training report. So Haley 493 00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:09,000 Speaker 1: Bieber is in the news. Now what's up. So I 494 00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:12,160 Speaker 1: was telling you guys last week about all the conversation 495 00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 1: that's happening around NEPO babies, and it's all coming out 496 00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:20,040 Speaker 1: of New York Magazines cover spread that in depth article 497 00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:24,439 Speaker 1: that they did about nepotism in Hollywood. And some NEPO 498 00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:27,520 Speaker 1: babies are up in arms. They are like coming out 499 00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:30,479 Speaker 1: and tweeting how they earned their roles and maybe they 500 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:32,359 Speaker 1: had help getting their foot in the door, but they have, 501 00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:35,040 Speaker 1: you know, they have the talent to be in this career. 502 00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:39,400 Speaker 1: And then other NEPO babies are taking the Haley Beiver approach, 503 00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 1: which I love so much. It's kind of like, if 504 00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:44,320 Speaker 1: you can't beat them, join them. So she is a 505 00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:48,080 Speaker 1: Baldwin of the Baldwin family. Correct, So she is a 506 00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:51,040 Speaker 1: Neppo baby. And she wore a T shirt that just 507 00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:55,280 Speaker 1: said the word Nepo baby on it and while she 508 00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:58,120 Speaker 1: was running errands, so in Style post this picture of 509 00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:01,720 Speaker 1: Haley Biber wearing the Neppo baby shirt, and Gwyneth Paltrow 510 00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:04,200 Speaker 1: commented on the picture and said, I might need a 511 00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:08,360 Speaker 1: few of these, And so I I mean, even when 512 00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:11,480 Speaker 1: you act like you don't really give any fs, like 513 00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:13,680 Speaker 1: Hayley Bieber is like, look, I'm just gonna own it. Whatever. 514 00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:16,120 Speaker 1: Do you think deep down she's still like a little 515 00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:19,560 Speaker 1: bit upset about all this stuff. I don't think not 516 00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:23,760 Speaker 1: care about. I don't think she doesn't care and that 517 00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:26,280 Speaker 1: she did that, right, Yeah, I just she shows she's 518 00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:29,720 Speaker 1: like a sense of humor. She is so just like whatever, 519 00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:33,440 Speaker 1: and I love it. I never heard of a nepo baby. 520 00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:35,040 Speaker 1: I've never heard that term before. Is that a new thing? 521 00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:36,880 Speaker 1: I know. What it means is that you see the 522 00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:40,360 Speaker 1: cover of New York magazine with like all the yeah yeah, 523 00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:42,880 Speaker 1: so you didn't see it. You need to see it 524 00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:45,800 Speaker 1: because basically put like all these celebrity spaces on, like 525 00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:50,320 Speaker 1: these the images just like very um what's the word. 526 00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,320 Speaker 1: It's very like you see it and it's like it's 527 00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:54,320 Speaker 1: shocking a little bit. And so they did a whole 528 00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:59,000 Speaker 1: in depth article about nepotism in Hollywood and like really 529 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,640 Speaker 1: expose a lot of p bowl and it was really 530 00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:05,000 Speaker 1: sparked a lot of conversation on the internet. It's a 531 00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:07,360 Speaker 1: it's a different world for us, right because I mean, 532 00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:09,920 Speaker 1: I know one in my family had been to Los 533 00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:14,960 Speaker 1: Angeles ever or in the business, and even when I 534 00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:17,120 Speaker 1: moved out, my parents thought I would come back in 535 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:18,760 Speaker 1: a year. Yeah. My dad was like, what is this 536 00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:26,320 Speaker 1: radio thing? Like, that's gonna be your job, dude? That like, 537 00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:29,920 Speaker 1: are you doing mitzas that I was on the radio 538 00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:33,120 Speaker 1: broadcasting it's a big deal. Yeah, I want to give 539 00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:36,240 Speaker 1: you another year on that. You make a living just 540 00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:41,560 Speaker 1: talking over Paul ab Duel songs back in the day. Please, exactly, 541 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:45,640 Speaker 1: you watch you watch it's gonna happen. I mean it 542 00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:50,520 Speaker 1: started out with really not making There was no making 543 00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:56,360 Speaker 1: money at first nine point seven overnight now not even there. 544 00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:58,640 Speaker 1: It's all ninety eight points. But the overnight pay was 545 00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:05,600 Speaker 1: not enough until much school credit. Exactly. Nicole is on 546 00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:08,560 Speaker 1: the line. So, Nicole, thank you for reaching out to us. 547 00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:10,280 Speaker 1: Do you want to try the loyalty test we were 548 00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:13,680 Speaker 1: talking about? Yeah, so I heard about it and I 549 00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:18,680 Speaker 1: wanted to test my boyfriend. You want to test your 550 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:23,720 Speaker 1: boyfriend with the loyalty test? Yeah? Why do you feel 551 00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:26,720 Speaker 1: like you need to test him? Um, well, we've been 552 00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:30,640 Speaker 1: to that within three years. I don't have any social media, 553 00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:34,760 Speaker 1: but he does, and you know, sometimes he like takes 554 00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:37,160 Speaker 1: a little longer than he should in the restroom on 555 00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:39,880 Speaker 1: his phone, and I'm just a little concerned, you know, 556 00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:42,480 Speaker 1: you think because he's gone for a long period of time, 557 00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:48,280 Speaker 1: he's on the phone with somebody else. Maybe huh, he's 558 00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:52,640 Speaker 1: just watching reels. So that's all Michael does to this 559 00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:55,800 Speaker 1: came up Becka Moore, she was on last week and 560 00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:58,120 Speaker 1: she was saying she flirts with guys on Instagram to 561 00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:00,920 Speaker 1: test their loyalty member. Really, she just slides into their 562 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:03,400 Speaker 1: d m s and she just just like, hey, yeah 563 00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:05,719 Speaker 1: and send photo. He showed him new to town? Can 564 00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:10,760 Speaker 1: you show me around? And if they so, you basically 565 00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:16,320 Speaker 1: want to set your boyfriend up here? Right? Yeah, exactly? 566 00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:22,520 Speaker 1: All right? Well, Beckamore on TikTok on Instagram, three c'son 567 00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:26,360 Speaker 1: Becca and three oh's in more. You can check her 568 00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:28,200 Speaker 1: out there. If you want to use her services, you 569 00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:29,640 Speaker 1: can do it there. She just does it as a 570 00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:36,440 Speaker 1: basically public service. Oh okay, so should even charge you? Nice? Awesome, 571 00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:38,920 Speaker 1: thank you for your help, good luck, Thank you, Nicole, 572 00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:44,760 Speaker 1: you take care you too. By By, is that a 573 00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:50,000 Speaker 1: good idea just to do that? Um? No, Once you're 574 00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:52,600 Speaker 1: kind of going down that route, I think their relationship 575 00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:56,360 Speaker 1: is already. That's because obviously, if if they're good, he's 576 00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:58,440 Speaker 1: going to pass and I would be upset that you 577 00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:00,880 Speaker 1: didn't trust me, and how to go through that. Yeah, 578 00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:03,760 Speaker 1: she's probably never gonna tell the thing. If he passes 579 00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:05,680 Speaker 1: and she never says anything, then she has this deep, 580 00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:08,360 Speaker 1: dark secret that she's just not going to tell him. 581 00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:10,360 Speaker 1: And if he doesn't mention anything to her, then that 582 00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:13,080 Speaker 1: goes unspoken. So it's not once you were there, it's 583 00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:15,560 Speaker 1: not such a great idea, I don't think. So you 584 00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:18,240 Speaker 1: don't trust him, get out of it and the trust 585 00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:25,080 Speaker 1: is gone right on a on air with Ryan's secrets. 586 00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:29,640 Speaker 1: Calm down. Those are two words. You can go the 587 00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:34,480 Speaker 1: wrong way. Calm down. Don't have to calm down. And 588 00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:36,840 Speaker 1: then if you're thinking like that, No, not like that. 589 00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:39,200 Speaker 1: But every time I hear calm down, it just makes 590 00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:42,640 Speaker 1: my blood boil. You have no patience? Be patient? Makes 591 00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:46,040 Speaker 1: my blood boil. Okay, So we're about to pay a bill. 592 00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:49,560 Speaker 1: That's the story on the tents. Then on Thursdays, we 593 00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:52,040 Speaker 1: pay your bills all day long, starting early and going 594 00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:56,920 Speaker 1: into the evening. Julia is one or two seven. Juliet, 595 00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:59,880 Speaker 1: thanks for reaching out to us. How are you are 596 00:33:59,920 --> 00:34:03,160 Speaker 1: you Ryan? We're doing well. Thank you for asking. So 597 00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:07,640 Speaker 1: are you calling about a relationship thing or a work thing? Um, 598 00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:10,920 Speaker 1: kind of a relationship thing. Okay. Are you looking for 599 00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:15,120 Speaker 1: some guidance? Yes, I'm looking for some guidance. Well, we're 600 00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:17,160 Speaker 1: all here, sis any tiny myself, so tell us what's 601 00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:21,840 Speaker 1: going on? Awesome? Thank you. So I'm literally the only 602 00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:25,040 Speaker 1: single person left in my life. Every person I know 603 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:29,600 Speaker 1: it's in a relationship, engaged, married, having kids, And so 604 00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:32,840 Speaker 1: I feel sort of stuck at thirty years old and 605 00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:36,600 Speaker 1: being more single and alone than I've ever felt before. 606 00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:40,799 Speaker 1: And I'm trying, yes, and I'm trying my best to 607 00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:44,160 Speaker 1: not get caught in timelines and truly believing that the 608 00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:46,840 Speaker 1: right person is coming in at the right time. But 609 00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:49,839 Speaker 1: I can't really help but compare. And I recently went 610 00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:53,000 Speaker 1: into a spiral because, um, one of my friends getting 611 00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:56,279 Speaker 1: married is freezing her eggs and that's something that I 612 00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:59,839 Speaker 1: haven't gone on top of either, and she's getting there. 613 00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:03,200 Speaker 1: Um And na, I know you felt like this before. 614 00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:06,920 Speaker 1: So if you all have any any tips to get 615 00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:09,520 Speaker 1: out of this mindset, I would so appreciate. How do 616 00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:12,520 Speaker 1: you have a breakthrough in that mindset. It's funny, I've 617 00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:14,000 Speaker 1: had it like every step of the way. In my 618 00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:17,360 Speaker 1: mid twenties, all my sorority sisters were getting married and 619 00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:20,239 Speaker 1: having kids and I was like, so far from that. 620 00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:22,719 Speaker 1: And so I mean I had to make new friend 621 00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:24,279 Speaker 1: I mean I made new friends. And I was in 622 00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:25,920 Speaker 1: a different city anyways, Like I was in l A 623 00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:28,480 Speaker 1: and they were not. Um, so I had to make 624 00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:31,880 Speaker 1: all new friends. And I think I just had to 625 00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:34,040 Speaker 1: really lean in on my faith and just know that 626 00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:36,920 Speaker 1: like everybody's timing is different and every seat you have, 627 00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:40,960 Speaker 1: you're in every season for a reason. And I think that, um, 628 00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:43,319 Speaker 1: that was my season to build my career. And I 629 00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:45,799 Speaker 1: know that I probably wouldn't have made a lot of 630 00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:50,280 Speaker 1: those decisions had I been in a serious relationship. So hindsight, 631 00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:52,920 Speaker 1: obviously is is easier than in the moment. And when 632 00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:54,840 Speaker 1: it comes to freezing your eggs, I feel like everybody 633 00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:57,560 Speaker 1: has an opinion and everybody has um and it comes 634 00:35:57,600 --> 00:35:59,279 Speaker 1: from a good place. You know, people telling you to 635 00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:02,279 Speaker 1: freeze your eggs, it's coming from a good place. But 636 00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:05,920 Speaker 1: just know if you don't feel that desire to freeze 637 00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:08,040 Speaker 1: your eggs, and it's not the end all be all 638 00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:10,160 Speaker 1: I still haven't frozen my eggs. I'm thirty five, and 639 00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:12,359 Speaker 1: people tell me to do it all the time. I 640 00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:14,239 Speaker 1: went and got them checked and I had a lot 641 00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:16,719 Speaker 1: more peace of mind after I did that. So maybe 642 00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:19,759 Speaker 1: be proactive and that's in that sense, but just don't 643 00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:21,640 Speaker 1: listen to other people and just know that like it's 644 00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:23,360 Speaker 1: going to happen for you when it's meant to happen 645 00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:29,239 Speaker 1: for you. I love that. Thank you, You're welcome. I'm 646 00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:32,680 Speaker 1: just sitting back watching the advice being given, enjoying that advice. 647 00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:34,880 Speaker 1: It's great advice. Thank you. Julia. Can you hang on 648 00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:41,000 Speaker 1: the phone and give Marianna your address? Yeah, definitely, Yeah, definitely. 649 00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:46,640 Speaker 1: I'm going to send her my book. Oh when it 650 00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:48,640 Speaker 1: comes out, Yeah, when it comes out. But I feel 651 00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:50,440 Speaker 1: like everything she's thinking about is everything. A lot of 652 00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:55,320 Speaker 1: stuff I wrote about timelines and comparing yourself to other 653 00:36:55,480 --> 00:37:01,080 Speaker 1: people is a real problem. Yeah. Uh, all of us 654 00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:05,080 Speaker 1: here guilty of that because I go through those phases 655 00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:08,560 Speaker 1: where I'm like, oh my gosh, everybody around me has 656 00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:11,520 Speaker 1: done more things in terms of phases of life than 657 00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:17,279 Speaker 1: I and I've just worked and for me, I feel like, oh, 658 00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:20,160 Speaker 1: that's doll so much time but you start thinking about it. 659 00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:23,640 Speaker 1: Let's just assume I mean, I'm gonna die, you know, Okay, 660 00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:29,560 Speaker 1: we don't need to go there. I will die at 661 00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:31,799 Speaker 1: some point, right, I mean, let's let's say I wait 662 00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:34,719 Speaker 1: ten more years. We all might, I might, we all 663 00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:37,960 Speaker 1: might go tomorrow. I wait ten more years. Yeah, if 664 00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:41,560 Speaker 1: I wait ten more years, right from fifty something like 665 00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:46,200 Speaker 1: twenty years that kids in college? What am I dead? Doctor? 666 00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:49,560 Speaker 1: My doctor is telling me things like that, but I 667 00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:51,360 Speaker 1: don't know if he's just trying to make me. Can't 668 00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:54,040 Speaker 1: live in that fear of that you're going to die? Like, 669 00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:56,359 Speaker 1: what is that fear? I had a lot of time, 670 00:37:56,360 --> 00:38:00,000 Speaker 1: and the doctor keeps saying, you know, with the medicine longevit, 671 00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:03,000 Speaker 1: it's gonna be a big thing, you know. Like my 672 00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:06,280 Speaker 1: dad's about turn eighty, and he is like as strong 673 00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:09,400 Speaker 1: as I've ever seen him. I look at fifties thirty, 674 00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:11,399 Speaker 1: that's the way I look at it, and I think 675 00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:14,279 Speaker 1: I'm right. I think you're right too. But I'm gonna 676 00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:21,839 Speaker 1: stop compare myself to my friends. I'm good fifty. It's thirty, basically, right, 677 00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:29,600 Speaker 1: And when eighties and eighties fifty, I'm telling you Air 678 00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:36,359 Speaker 1: with Ryan seacrest. Sometimes, you know, you just lie by 679 00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:38,960 Speaker 1: the seat of your papers on top of my sheet. 680 00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:41,799 Speaker 1: I just saying, Sissy before that song, tell us what's 681 00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:44,200 Speaker 1: coming up next? And then I think she couldn't find 682 00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:46,759 Speaker 1: her her notes. I couldn't and it was so good. 683 00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:49,920 Speaker 1: I was so excited to the weekend only has seven 684 00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:52,960 Speaker 1: seconds before he starts singing. Able to tell you about 685 00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:57,640 Speaker 1: the lucky girl syndrome. So it's it's something that we 686 00:38:57,680 --> 00:39:01,239 Speaker 1: really should discuss because it's it's it's a manifestation that 687 00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:08,520 Speaker 1: I think we should live. Yes, it's essentially you can 688 00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:10,920 Speaker 1: say lucky boys syndrome or look at guy syndrome if 689 00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:15,360 Speaker 1: you want to exactly. So, you just tell yourself, I 690 00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,400 Speaker 1: am the luckiest girl in the world, or I am 691 00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:19,040 Speaker 1: the luckiest guy in the world, and you say this 692 00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:21,160 Speaker 1: to yourself over and over again, but you really have 693 00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:24,279 Speaker 1: to believe it. You really have to tell yourself over 694 00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:27,800 Speaker 1: and over again, and then things will just start falling 695 00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:30,720 Speaker 1: into place. Things will just start falling in your lap, 696 00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:34,040 Speaker 1: opportunities will start coming to you and it will happen. 697 00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:40,440 Speaker 1: Stop stop the table stop. I kind of live my 698 00:39:40,480 --> 00:39:44,640 Speaker 1: life this way. I've I've been I actual kind of 699 00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:46,799 Speaker 1: I am kind of lucky, but I do kind of 700 00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:49,600 Speaker 1: just and Michael always like gets at me for the 701 00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:51,480 Speaker 1: stuff like this, because I'm he is such a planner 702 00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:54,120 Speaker 1: sometimes and I'm kind of like, it'll work itself out, 703 00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:56,200 Speaker 1: you know, like it kind of just does, and he 704 00:39:56,320 --> 00:39:57,880 Speaker 1: kind of like, but we don't know if it will. 705 00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:00,319 Speaker 1: And I'm just like, let's just let's just get it 706 00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:02,640 Speaker 1: and it'll figure it out. We'll figure it out, you know. 707 00:40:02,680 --> 00:40:05,120 Speaker 1: I'm kind of that type of person. Um. So there's 708 00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:08,640 Speaker 1: this girl, Laura Gelby. I don't know if I'm seeing 709 00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:11,560 Speaker 1: her last name right. She's on TikTok. Back in December, 710 00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:15,319 Speaker 1: she posted this lucky Girl syndrome video and it's kind 711 00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:18,400 Speaker 1: of gone viral. Now take a listen. I am so lucky. 712 00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:21,160 Speaker 1: I just always expect great things to happen to me, 713 00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:23,000 Speaker 1: and so they do. And I know there's gonna be 714 00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:24,600 Speaker 1: someone in the comments it's like, well, that just opens 715 00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:27,040 Speaker 1: more room for disappointment because if something doesn't go your way, 716 00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:29,080 Speaker 1: and then like you're going to be disappointed, Well, no, 717 00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:31,680 Speaker 1: because nothing ever doesn't go my way, and like if 718 00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:33,680 Speaker 1: it doesn't go the exact way that I wanted to go, 719 00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:36,719 Speaker 1: then when something better comes up after it. The thing is, 720 00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:40,120 Speaker 1: it wasn't until like genuinely believed that great things just 721 00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:42,920 Speaker 1: happened to me out of nowhere that things literally started 722 00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:47,480 Speaker 1: flying at my face. Like I'm not kidding. I don't know, 723 00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:50,560 Speaker 1: I don't know how many life things she's been through. 724 00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:54,920 Speaker 1: I don't know anything. Believe, believe, but trust me, there 725 00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:56,560 Speaker 1: are some days where you can get up and you 726 00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:58,839 Speaker 1: can say it, and then you look at yourself and go, well, 727 00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:01,719 Speaker 1: not today. The secret is to assume and believe and 728 00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:06,319 Speaker 1: almost be delusional, like you have to you have to 729 00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:08,520 Speaker 1: go there, Tia, you have to go there. Ryan, Hello. 730 00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:10,720 Speaker 1: I used to set play settings from my fake boyfriend 731 00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:17,160 Speaker 1: and did he appear ladies and j So according to 732 00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:25,920 Speaker 1: manifestation and so, according to manifestation and success coaches, Lucky 733 00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:30,000 Speaker 1: Girl syndrome produces results because it taps into the power 734 00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:33,600 Speaker 1: of your subconscious beliefs. So there's some science behind this. 735 00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:37,839 Speaker 1: It's called law, which is if you believe and act 736 00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:41,480 Speaker 1: like you already have what you want, you will get it. 737 00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:44,080 Speaker 1: So I will tell you I do believe in that 738 00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:47,160 Speaker 1: because I was a poser and still kind of am, 739 00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:50,520 Speaker 1: but I was a reopposer when I was one and 740 00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:53,520 Speaker 1: twenty two and look at you now. Yeah, well I'm 741 00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:56,520 Speaker 1: still opposer. But I acted like I had much more 742 00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:59,640 Speaker 1: than I had going on, and I pose as I 743 00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:01,920 Speaker 1: would walk through a building or into a meeting, as 744 00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:06,360 Speaker 1: if I was something. It's true. I mean half of 745 00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:10,799 Speaker 1: l A does that. Hello, That's why we call it home. 746 00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:20,560 Speaker 1: On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Join us tomorrow when we 747 00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:23,720 Speaker 1: continue to pay your bills. First thing in the morning, 748 00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:26,719 Speaker 1: six ten, Sisten has got you till eleven. Have a 749 00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:29,480 Speaker 1: great day, take good care. Thanks for listening to On 750 00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:32,440 Speaker 1: Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe, and we'll 751 00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:33,520 Speaker 1: talk to you again tomorrow.