Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio
Speaker 1: in the Black Effects.
Speaker 2: And just like that, we're back on the air.
Speaker 1: Welcome back to yet another Canfully Reckless episode with your
Speaker 1: girl Jess Hilarious. I'm gonna be fixing mess today. We're
Speaker 1: gonna jump straight in. We got a voice memo. Y'all know,
Speaker 1: I love these, I love these. I love these real
Speaker 1: quick before we jump straight in. Listen, y'all know, y'all
Speaker 1: girl got that third spot on Breakfast Club. Right, it's
Speaker 1: not official, it's not official. It's actually an unofficial offer,
Speaker 1: but it ain't official yet. But I'm claiming it and
Speaker 1: I'm speaking it into existence because you're supposed to speak
Speaker 1: of things as though they were and I got that
Speaker 1: from the good Lord upstairs and from that good Bible.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I need for y'all to go spam whoever
Speaker 1: comments y'all feel like, y'all need to go spam Charlemagne
Speaker 1: fucking be Et, fucking Breakfast Club, DJ Envy spam everybody.
Speaker 1: Y'all need to spam. I don't give a fuck viacom
Speaker 1: VH one. I heart spam everybody shit because that's my
Speaker 1: third spot right there. Okay, that's my third spot. Now
Speaker 1: we're gonna get it pop in here we go. First person, Hey.
Speaker 3: Jess, So there's a situation with this guy that in
Speaker 3: my delusional mind I kind of want to get with him,
Speaker 3: but my realistic mind wants to just work with him
Speaker 3: because he is a successful up and coming artist. It's
Speaker 3: funny enough he was on Wilden Out he recent me.
Speaker 3: But yeah, I've been listening to him for years and
Speaker 3: for some reason. Actually, I know exactly why I caught
Speaker 3: a crush on him, because when my grandma died from
Speaker 3: cancer in January, I was listening to his music on
Speaker 3: the road trip home and it just it gave me
Speaker 3: all the vibes I needed, and so like I just
Speaker 3: really started liking him. It was like he comforted me.
Speaker 3: His music confident me, and uplifted me when I needed
Speaker 3: it the most. And I started to see him in
Speaker 3: a new light, especially like once I started watching interviews,
Speaker 3: and I think that's when I like caught feelings or whatever,
Speaker 3: just like like if I watch your interviews, I learn
Speaker 3: more about you. If I listen to your podcasts and
Speaker 3: watch your show, like I feel like I'm best friends
Speaker 3: with you in London and Prince and I feel like
Speaker 3: I'm I'm a consciousance with Rome because he's a little mean,
Speaker 3: but I love all of you guys, and so I'm
Speaker 3: just that type of person. So I get like, I
Speaker 3: understand the concept of a parasocial relationship and like I
Speaker 3: like someone they don't really know me, or they they
Speaker 3: don't know me like that, and I understand boundaries, right,
Speaker 3: But like with him, it's a little different because this artist,
Speaker 3: like he interacted with me. I found out that he
Speaker 3: liked to read, so I sent him my book and
Speaker 3: he was like thank you. And you know, at the show,
Speaker 3: he was pointing at me because he was there's only
Speaker 3: white people voiced basically at the show, and he said
Speaker 3: he's saying something about black women and pointed at me.
Speaker 3: So like, I'm not being delusional like he was. Actually
Speaker 3: I was the only one he could have been pointing
Speaker 3: at basically. So we had that moment. And then when
Speaker 3: I comment sometimes he'll like he likes a lot of comments,
Speaker 3: but like he will actually respond to mine, and he
Speaker 3: interacts with his fans in general. But you know, he
Speaker 3: made me feel really special, and so I guess my
Speaker 3: problem is I want to network with him and stay
Speaker 3: top of mind without being annoying and without being thirsty
Speaker 3: and honestly like I, like I said, like I had
Speaker 3: this huge crush on him, and I'm like, I don't
Speaker 3: want to like ruin things by just falling all over
Speaker 3: myself and not knowing how to move. So I guess
Speaker 3: my question would be, like, how do I build the
Speaker 3: raport naturally without like overthinking it? And I know that
Speaker 3: you'd understand because not only are you a successful woman
Speaker 3: who was highly sought after, I'm sure you have your
Speaker 3: fair share of interactions with fans of the opposite sex, right,
Speaker 3: but you know what it's like to deal with a
Speaker 3: guy who has clout and hos and like shit to do.
Speaker 3: And you just strike me as like you're that bitch,
Speaker 3: like you know how to move in any situation and
Speaker 3: you just have like this energy, you know, And it's like,
Speaker 3: I'm still building up my bad bitch energy.
Speaker 4: I'm still very much like.
Speaker 3: You know, trying to find myself I guess, and my
Speaker 3: confidence and my feminine power or whatever.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so Jess, please fix my mess.
Speaker 3: Thank you for your time, and that I hope to
Speaker 3: you hear from you soon. Oh and so the last
Speaker 3: part of the situation too, I WoT to mention so
Speaker 3: like it's like he was replying to my dms a
Speaker 3: lot more at first, and then it's like it kind
Speaker 3: of became like it was like my like I would
Speaker 3: DM him a few times or like reply to his story,
Speaker 3: like over the course of a few days, and then
Speaker 3: he would reply with like a few words or like
Speaker 3: an emoji, you know, just like it's just been like
Speaker 3: that for the past few weeks. And I'm like falling
Speaker 3: back now because I'm like, bro, I don't want to
Speaker 3: be annoying. And I literally told him, like listen, like
Speaker 3: the music is my life and you're one of my
Speaker 3: influences and I want to connect with you and impress you.
Speaker 3: And I just felt like radical honesty was the best
Speaker 3: way to go.
Speaker 4: So I just admitted that. But I was like, yeah,
Speaker 4: I didn't mean to be annoying, so like I unsent
Speaker 4: some stuff. I'm sorry if that's weird.
Speaker 3: And then so he hasn't really said much since then,
Speaker 3: and I feel like embarrassed, Like I just like I said,
Speaker 3: I just don't want to do too much.
Speaker 1: Hold up, hold up, I noticed shit getting good, but
Speaker 1: listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial.
Speaker 2: If you love me, you'll listen.
Speaker 1: Okay, baby girl, I just want to say thank you
Speaker 1: so much for writing me. And I did listen to
Speaker 1: your first message, but I didn't put it in here
Speaker 1: because that was the person knowing that was to me,
Speaker 1: and I won't.
Speaker 2: Let you know. I love you too.
Speaker 1: And Prince in London and Rome, I'm sure will be
Speaker 1: happy as hell to even hear that you even spoke
Speaker 1: their names, because these people they crazy, girl. They feel
Speaker 1: like don't nobody know them or remember them because we
Speaker 1: only did one season of Reckless I said, shit, that
Speaker 1: touched a lot of people. You don't know, motherfucker. That's
Speaker 1: why Reckless Discussions Season two is coming back.
Speaker 2: I just had to let y'all know that. Clap up,
Speaker 2: clap but up.
Speaker 1: Season two. Reckless Discussions is coming back, motherfucker. All right anyway,
Speaker 1: so let me tell you this also. I know you
Speaker 1: said you're still trying to find your bad bitch energy.
Speaker 1: We're gonna move out of that. You know why, I
Speaker 1: don't consider myself a bad bitch because you know what,
Speaker 1: when we really define what a bad bitch is, it's
Speaker 1: actually very harmful to the culture. And I don't want
Speaker 1: to be of that definition anymore. You know what I mean,
Speaker 1: And I'm growing into who I am as well. I'm
Speaker 1: a thirty one year old black goddess and I'm a
Speaker 1: very power woman. I am very motivated. I am ambitious
Speaker 1: the amount of tenacity that I have for my loungevity.
Speaker 1: You know, I know I'm going TI a lot. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna going TI here with the words, but I mean
Speaker 1: everything I say. We're gonna move out of that bad
Speaker 1: bitch energy because we don't need to do that. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna say to you, you're still trying to find your
Speaker 1: goddess energy. What a goddess is, by definition, a woman
Speaker 1: who is adored especially for her beauty and brains. That
Speaker 1: is equivalent to what people think a bad bitch is.
Speaker 1: That's what a bad bitch supposed to be. But the
Speaker 1: fact that the word bad and the word bitch total
Speaker 1: opposite of everything I just said to you, of everything
Speaker 1: a goddess really and truly is, you don't want to
Speaker 1: be that. So let's move out of that space. Let's
Speaker 1: move out of that space, beautiful black woman. Now, I
Speaker 1: know who you talking bad. I know, I know, I know,
Speaker 1: I know I know who you're talking about out, and
Speaker 1: yes he is. He's extremely talented. He's a newer member
Speaker 1: on wild'n Out. He's been there for like the past
Speaker 1: two or three seasons. I'm gonna say too, but yes,
Speaker 1: I do know what you're talking about. And music is
Speaker 1: also his life as well. He's actually really cool with me.
Speaker 2: And I like him too. He's cool. I mean, I
Speaker 2: don't like him like you like him, but I like
Speaker 2: him too.
Speaker 1: You know, he's definitely a strong influence on music and instruments.
Speaker 1: If I think if I'm talking about the right person,
Speaker 1: I think you're talking about the Hispanic fella. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: he plays an instrument. Or am I putting too much
Speaker 1: health here? I don't know, girl, I don't know. I
Speaker 1: don't know, but yeah, he is fine or whatever. What
Speaker 1: I want you to do is stop being scared. I
Speaker 1: want you to find that confidence. Find that confidence. I
Speaker 1: guess that was that bad bitch energy he was talking about.
Speaker 1: Now find that confidence, okay, because trust me, it's some
Speaker 1: bad bitches out here who ain't got confidence.
Speaker 2: Their confidence is shit. That's why they are bad bitches.
Speaker 1: Uh huh. They conform as low as they can go.
Speaker 1: They conform to the lowest vibrations to be accepted by men.
Speaker 1: And that's where you have, bad bitch. No, no, you're
Speaker 1: not confident. That's why you unsent messages and all that shit.
Speaker 1: That's why you got scared. When he minimized what he
Speaker 1: was saying, his responses went from you know, lengthy to
Speaker 1: a couple of words and an emoji here and there.
Speaker 2: That does not mean he does not like you.
Speaker 1: That does not mean that he ain't paying attention to you,
Speaker 1: or he can really just look at you the way
Speaker 1: he's looking at every other woman in his DM. You
Speaker 1: know why, because he's also a guy on the come up.
Speaker 1: So if that comes a lot of women cloud chasers,
Speaker 1: comes a lot of those bad bitches you was talking about.
Speaker 1: Uh huh, the comes a lot of you know, ig
Speaker 1: models and girls who just looking for either some dick,
Speaker 1: some cloud or some money.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 1: And it's probably so many of them in his DM
Speaker 1: he hasn't really had time to decipher, or he probably
Speaker 1: don't want to decipher because there's been a bad stigma
Speaker 1: put on dms. A lot of love can be found
Speaker 1: in DMS, just like it can be a lot of
Speaker 1: love found in person. It can be money found in
Speaker 1: dms like it can be a lot of money found
Speaker 1: on the streets.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, dms are not a bad thing.
Speaker 2: Look at it like this.
Speaker 1: Social media ain't nothing but a dating app. That's how
Speaker 1: motherfuckers link up, That's how motherfuckers go.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. It ain't safe, but what
Speaker 2: dating app is safe?
Speaker 1: In fact, you're safe for meeting the motherfucker on Instagram
Speaker 1: than you are on Christian mingle fuck because people can
Speaker 1: disguise who they are. You understand what I'm saying. So
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that you should give up on trying
Speaker 1: to talk to him, but I think you should really
Speaker 1: know what you want first, because you said you like him,
Speaker 1: but you also business wise, you would like to connect
Speaker 1: with him on a business level as well.
Speaker 2: You have to figure out.
Speaker 1: Which one is more important to you, though, because if
Speaker 1: I were him reading your DMS, I wouldn't know whether
Speaker 1: you like me or whether you wanted to do business.
Speaker 1: Because you're very beautiful and he's handsome, you could be
Speaker 1: a person that's just trying to use business to get
Speaker 1: close to him.
Speaker 2: You got to think from both ends of.
Speaker 1: The spectrum, you know, got to think from his perspective
Speaker 1: and then also from yours as well. I don't think
Speaker 1: you should have undersent anything, because now that is your nervousness,
Speaker 1: your anxiety, and your pride also getting it away because
Speaker 1: you don't want to seem thirsty.
Speaker 2: You don't want to see girl, what the hellever? It
Speaker 2: don't matter. Women can be thirsty just like man.
Speaker 1: Girl, I've been thirsty a few times in my day,
Speaker 1: and I'm even still thirsty right now for somebody I
Speaker 1: ain't never gonna have. But shit, it don't matter, girl,
Speaker 1: lorenz Tatus who I've been thirsty after ever since I
Speaker 1: was like fourteen years old. But whatever, he's married, and
Speaker 1: I will never ever show my thirst to this marriage. Man.
Speaker 4: That's just disrespectful as fuck.
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, like, that's somebody who I've always
Speaker 1: had a crush on, and shit like that. You seem
Speaker 1: like you have a crush on this guy. And I
Speaker 1: don't doubt at all that he was talking of you.
Speaker 1: I don't doubt at all for one second that he
Speaker 1: pointed at you and that audience.
Speaker 2: I don't think you're delusional.
Speaker 1: Stop giving me disclaimers, Stop putting out so many disclaimers.
Speaker 2: If you felt like that man was looking at you.
Speaker 2: He was fucking looking at you.
Speaker 1: If you like that nigga jumping that goddamn DM, if
Speaker 1: he say two the goddamn words back to.
Speaker 2: You, you still bet not unsind shit.
Speaker 1: Let him know, look I like you, and then if
Speaker 1: it ever comes to a point where he ain't showing you,
Speaker 1: you move on to the goddamn next. It's okay for
Speaker 1: you to like somebody and them not like you back
Speaker 1: the way that you like them. That's the world. That's
Speaker 1: not rejection. That's literally life. It's life, and it's okay.
Speaker 1: It's okay. It's okay for you to be pressed. It's
Speaker 1: okay for you to be I'm talking to a guy
Speaker 1: right now, right and he told me something that was
Speaker 1: so cute. I'd never heard a man say this shit ever.
Speaker 1: He had called me, blew my fucking phone up, and
Speaker 1: I couldn't answer.
Speaker 2: I was doing something. So when I finally called.
Speaker 1: Him back, I said, damn, your pressed ass called me
Speaker 1: four times in a row. He said, yeah, so what
Speaker 1: I'm pressed? You dang right, I'm pressed. I'm pressed because
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make you mine. If I ain't pressed, I'm
Speaker 1: a fuck around and lose you. I like that if
Speaker 1: I ain't pressed, I'm a fuck around and lose my spot.
Speaker 1: I'm like, damn, that shit made my goddamn vagina so moist.
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, like really late, you
Speaker 2: know what.
Speaker 1: I'm saying, because I'm so sick of these stigmas and
Speaker 1: these these these prideful ass people acting like they can't
Speaker 1: express how they really fucking feel. He said, shit, I
Speaker 1: guess you can call me or I'm gonna be a
Speaker 1: pressed nigga because I want you girl, and to stop
Speaker 1: playing with me what she was doing.
Speaker 2: I like that.
Speaker 1: Shit, No, that's not toxic. That's really a man letting
Speaker 1: me know how to fuck he feel, and he don't
Speaker 1: give a fuck with nobody else feel.
Speaker 2: He likes me, he wants me.
Speaker 3: Now.
Speaker 2: I don't know if this is the guy for me
Speaker 2: or whatever, but I know I like that. That's different.
Speaker 1: Nobody has ever said that to me before. Nobody has
Speaker 1: ever you know what I mean. And it's something so simple. Now,
Speaker 1: he didn't buy me no bag. He didn't say oh girl, yeah,
Speaker 1: let me take you out the dinner and alledge. I
Speaker 1: mean he already did that. But it's like the small
Speaker 1: things that matters, you know, because he's not trying to
Speaker 1: fit in with the society and what is accepted and
Speaker 1: what is not accepted, you know, and what is frowned
Speaker 1: upon or what the other niggas ain't gonna like or
Speaker 1: what niggas don't usually do and all of that. That's
Speaker 1: why it ain't no real relationships. It's hardly any real
Speaker 1: relationships that we see because everybody got pride and everybody
Speaker 1: ain't pressed, and everybody don't you know. And I ain't
Speaker 1: trying to look like no clown and I ain't trying
Speaker 1: to that's the men talking.
Speaker 2: I ain't trying.
Speaker 1: I ain't no clan, I ain't chasing no bitch, and
Speaker 1: no the only thing I chase is money and then women.
Speaker 1: I don't need a nigga for shit, and I don't
Speaker 1: want cut it the fuck out, got it the fuck out.
Speaker 1: Everybody wants to be loved everybody. I don't care what
Speaker 1: nobody say. Everybody wants that person. I don't give a
Speaker 1: fuck everybody. But my advice to you is just that
Speaker 1: don't unsend no messages. Re send that guy that goddamn message,
Speaker 1: let him know you like him, because he probably didn't
Speaker 1: even fucking see it and then also imagine how many
Speaker 1: goddamn dms he getting and he just getting tired of
Speaker 1: looking at him. So but he don't want to be rude,
Speaker 1: so he responds, and he probably responds just like, you know,
Speaker 1: just just so he won't leave nobody on sin or red,
Speaker 1: just you know, out of generosity.
Speaker 2: But I think a clothes mouth don't get fed.
Speaker 1: And even sometimes rejection, even if you do get rejected,
Speaker 1: say you hit him up and you be honest with him,
Speaker 1: and you just say, I'm not really looking for anything
Speaker 1: right now. Or he may have a fucking girlfriend, or
Speaker 1: the nigga may be gay. Girl, you up, you all
Speaker 1: in your head, psyching yourself out. You don't even know,
Speaker 1: you don't even know. Or he might just like you,
Speaker 1: he might start talking to you.
Speaker 2: You never know.
Speaker 1: But don't be scared, because I'd rather say I tried
Speaker 1: and failed than to say I was too scared to
Speaker 1: try it all.
Speaker 2: Boom. I love you. Check back in with me, girl.
Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and
Speaker 1: then we'll be right back.
Speaker 2: Moving on.
Speaker 5: Hey, Jess, I do not need you to fix my mess,
Speaker 5: because I don't have one.
Speaker 4: My life is amazing. But I just wanted to.
Speaker 5: Drop this for you and all the beautiful young women
Speaker 5: that I hear talking on your show that you know
Speaker 5: you want a health that you have advice for. I'm
Speaker 5: fifty two and I didn't get all the way up
Speaker 5: to this big age. But all picking up a few
Speaker 5: things and life and love is not meant to be
Speaker 5: a struggle. We have glamorized this sense of struggle love
Speaker 5: where you forgive him and taken back from cheating and
Speaker 5: taking back from the outside baby, and all of this
Speaker 5: is be engaged for five years why he won't marry me?
Speaker 5: Then you win and you get him, and you have
Speaker 5: to keep fighting and keep doing And no, that's not
Speaker 5: what real love is.
Speaker 4: And you don't have to do that.
Speaker 5: When a man wants you, he wants you, and you
Speaker 5: don't have to lower yourself to just be competing all
Speaker 5: the time for him. So basically what I'm saying is
Speaker 5: we have this thing about where relationships are work, yes,
Speaker 5: but they're not the hardest work ever.
Speaker 4: They're not like.
Speaker 5: Working in a coal mine where you get all dirty
Speaker 5: and you might die.
Speaker 4: Of black lung disease.
Speaker 5: It's like working out where it's good for you and
Speaker 5: it makes you stronger and it makes you a better person.
Speaker 4: That's the type of work that.
Speaker 5: Real relationships, real love should be. So I just want
Speaker 5: to encourage you young women. Don't settle for anything. Don't
Speaker 5: just settle for the mess. And I don't mean like
Speaker 5: having these high ass, ridiculous ass standards about how much
Speaker 5: money he's got a maid, what kind of mansion, what
Speaker 5: kind of may.
Speaker 4: Bok and all this stuff.
Speaker 5: No standards about what kind of quality man you want,
Speaker 5: loves God, loves.
Speaker 4: His mom, takes care of his kids, has.
Speaker 5: A sense of purpose, wants to be a good man,
Speaker 5: a father, a husband. That's what you want, okay. And
Speaker 5: I'm giving you this because I wish somebody had given
Speaker 5: it to me and I hadn't wasted so much time.
Speaker 5: But if you are wondering if a man cares about you,
Speaker 5: he doesn't. Any man that cares about you lets you know,
Speaker 5: and it is obvious to you and the world. There
Speaker 5: are no mixed messages. The message is he don't like
Speaker 5: you like that. So, like Maya Angelo often quoted, when
Speaker 5: people show you who they are, believe them. Stop wasting
Speaker 5: your time trying to.
Speaker 4: Make people better than they even.
Speaker 5: Want to be. I love you young ladies. God bless
Speaker 5: you and may you find you're happy. Oh and I
Speaker 5: meant to say this. I don't mind telling you I'm
Speaker 5: fifty two because I don't look it. So Also, I
Speaker 5: just got married last year. I got my degree in
Speaker 5: twenty ten when I was thirty nine going on forty,
Speaker 5: and at the end of this year I will be
Speaker 5: going back for a master's in data analytics.
Speaker 4: And also, as of Saturday.
Speaker 5: I just crossed Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Incorporated through my
Speaker 5: local alumni chapter. And I'm saying all that to say
Speaker 5: this as well. Stop setting timelines and acting like thirty
Speaker 5: thirty five forty is the end of your life. As
Speaker 5: long as you have breath in your body, you can
Speaker 5: keep going and accomplish whatever you want.
Speaker 4: So sisters, never give up.
Speaker 5: Ever you can be, have and do whatever you see
Speaker 5: it for yourself.
Speaker 4: It will be for yourself.
Speaker 1: Love you, Oh my god, I love you to miss woman. Listen,
Speaker 1: and now I hope all of y'all listening to that,
Speaker 1: because look I was and I am speechless, and that
Speaker 1: brings me to the end of this.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that was amazing.
Speaker 1: Look she said, I ain't got no mess, baby, I'm
Speaker 1: fifty two, and I ain't get fifty two without picking
Speaker 1: a couple things up. And I'm gonna let y'all know
Speaker 1: what I picked up, and that you can. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: drop it right here. You can pick it up if
Speaker 1: you want, or you can step over it. But somebody
Speaker 1: else gonna pick it up that needed. And like she said,
Speaker 1: she wished that somebody would have dropped these jewels and
Speaker 1: told her, if you are wondering, if you have to wonder,
Speaker 1: if you're wondering whether or not a man cares about you,
Speaker 1: he don't, because why are you wondering, They're gonna show.
Speaker 1: They're gonna tell you. They're gonna prove it. It's in
Speaker 1: their actions. It's in their words, it's in their mannerysms.
Speaker 1: It's in the movements that they make. It's in their
Speaker 1: head nods. It's in them kisses that he give you.
Speaker 1: It's in that hug, it's in that dick you ride.
Speaker 1: It's in everything, everything from the flowers he gets you,
Speaker 1: to the way he opened your door, to that good
Speaker 1: morning text to the good night all of that you
Speaker 1: should get and deserve all that you should and vice versa. Men,
Speaker 1: if you gotta wonder if a woman really really love
Speaker 1: you or not.
Speaker 2: She don't, she don't move on because it's somebody else
Speaker 2: that will.
Speaker 1: And I love y'all so much. You're beautiful people. You're
Speaker 1: beautiful Black women and men. You are beautiful white women
Speaker 1: and men, and your beautiful others. I mean, because there's
Speaker 1: so many of them, you know what, I'm gonna take
Speaker 1: that back, because I don't need the Chinese motherfuckers coming out.
Speaker 1: Just you did not say, you didn't say you love
Speaker 1: us on the air, Okay, I love y'all too. Then
Speaker 1: I the Spanish motherfucker. Oh the why you didn't say
Speaker 1: you love us? So I'm like, you know I do,
Speaker 1: or you know you're the Italian motherfucker.
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I love all of y'all answers all right,
Speaker 1: and just like that, we done, and I see y'all
Speaker 1: next week. Peace.
Speaker 2: I can't believe.
Speaker 1: Our list is a production of iHeartRadio and The Black Effect.
Speaker 1: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,
Speaker 1: or wherever you listen to your favorite shows.