1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,960 Speaker 1: Welcome to How to Money. I'm Joel, I'm Matt, and 2 00:00:02,960 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: today we're talking economic cheat codes for everyday life with 3 00:00:06,400 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 1: Darryl Fairweather. 4 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, we are joined today by Darryl Fairweather, who is 5 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:33,239 Speaker 2: the chief economist over at Redfinn. Everybody knows about Redfinn. 6 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 2: Before that, she was the senior economist at Amazon. And 7 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:40,320 Speaker 2: before that she was a researcher at the Federal Reserve 8 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:44,080 Speaker 2: Bank of Boston, and she worked with Freakonomics author Steven 9 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 2: Levitt stepping back in time there. But now she has 10 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 2: a new book that just came out, that actually came 11 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:52,960 Speaker 2: out last week, Hate the Game Economic Cheat Codes for Life, 12 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 2: Love and Work, and Man. This book is all about 13 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:59,280 Speaker 2: helping folks to use game theory and behavioral science to 14 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 2: lay out all the options as we approach these inevitable 15 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 2: forks in the road in the road of life, like 16 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 2: getting married and having kids or not doing those things, 17 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 2: going for a promotion or looking for a new job, 18 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:12,399 Speaker 2: whether or not you should move. You know, these are 19 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 2: like run of the mill, low stakes decisions we have 20 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 2: to make a Lafe Joel. Basically, Daryl is wanting to 21 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:20,680 Speaker 2: help folks to win at whatever game in life. That 22 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:22,760 Speaker 2: they're playing, and we're excited to talk about all of 23 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:25,320 Speaker 2: that and more today. Darryl, thank you for joining How 24 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:25,760 Speaker 2: to Money. 25 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 3: Thank you so much for having me. 26 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 1: Oh we're stoked for this conversation, Darryl. First question, though, 27 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:31,959 Speaker 1: we ask everybody who comes on, what do you like 28 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:33,960 Speaker 1: to suplore John? For Matt and I, it's craft beer. 29 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:35,320 Speaker 1: I mean, we got a couple of other things in our 30 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 1: arsenal that we like to spend money on too, but 31 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:39,680 Speaker 1: craft beer has been one of those mainstays. What is 32 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 1: it that you spend money on? Maybe egregiously, but you're 33 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 1: still hey, doing the smart thing, saving the investing for 34 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 1: your future too. 35 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 3: I definitely have a lot of subscriptions, Like streaming subscriptions 36 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 3: is one of those where I'm like, do I really 37 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 3: need to be subscribed to all these different services? And 38 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 3: then I even have a Whoop subscription, which is like 39 00:01:57,360 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 3: tracking my sleep and tracking my workout. And I'm a 40 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 3: data junkie, so part of you know, spending money every 41 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 3: month to collect data on myself is definitely feeding into that. 42 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 3: But yeah, I question why I spend so much money. 43 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:13,080 Speaker 3: I could be doing it by hand. I could just 44 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 3: be like paying attention more. I don't know if I 45 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 3: need really the Whoop, but yeah, I keep it. 46 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 2: I didn't know that you had to. Yeah, is that right? 47 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 2: You have to set up for a year. I was 48 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 2: talking to a buddy and he was just like, well, 49 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:24,839 Speaker 2: I did the Whoop thing, so I'm going to see 50 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 2: it to the end of the to the subscription. What 51 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:28,239 Speaker 2: is like the timeframe there? Because Joel and I both 52 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 2: have garments and it's totally free, but I'm guessing that 53 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:33,839 Speaker 2: there's additional data that you're getting with Whoop. Yeah. 54 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 3: With Woop, I think it's like I think it's like 55 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:37,360 Speaker 3: thirty dollars a month, and then they give you a 56 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 3: discount if you sign up for an entire year, and 57 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:40,960 Speaker 3: then I think they give you a discount when you're 58 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 3: first signing up and buying the device. I had friends 59 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:46,919 Speaker 3: who had them, and I got in with like their 60 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 3: little competitions, and yeah, I got roped in and now 61 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:52,079 Speaker 3: I'm locked in. I've had it for years now. 62 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 1: It's amazing how there's like a social media aspect of 63 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:56,640 Speaker 1: fitness these days. Like I feel that with the garment, 64 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 1: like my friends have garments were I'll see like the 65 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 1: stuff that they're up to, and I just never thought, 66 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:04,400 Speaker 1: I don't know, I guess I didn't suspect those going 67 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 1: to be the case. It is interesting, and then you're 68 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 1: kind of tied into this network effect of the whoop now, 69 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:12,640 Speaker 1: which I don't know. Giving that up is feels like 70 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:15,519 Speaker 1: more than just get relieving yourself of a monthly payment. 71 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's really easy for me to justify it too, 72 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 3: because it's for my health, Like I'm spending money on 73 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 3: my health. That's a good thing. But yeah, I don't 74 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 3: know when I think it's in terms of all the 75 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:27,360 Speaker 3: subscriptions I have, that's the one that costs more than 76 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 3: the others and feels kind of the most frivolous. 77 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:31,800 Speaker 4: All right, I. 78 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 2: Would have expected like the Netflix subscription or Apple Plus. 79 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 2: Now that severance is, Yeah. 80 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 3: I'm not cutting those those are mandatory. 81 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:44,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, i'volous. Must have something else. Actually, on a personal 82 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 2: note that you're into, you're an avid board gamer. Yeah, 83 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 2: like it comes up a few times in your book, 84 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 2: So I guess another small thing here, do you have 85 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 2: any favorite board games? And maybe make the link between 86 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 2: the decision making process matrix, the gaming process and economics 87 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 2: kind of bridge that for us. 88 00:04:00,480 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 3: Yes, I got into board games back in college and 89 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 3: graduate school, playing with a lot of economists all the time, 90 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 3: and we're very competitive with our board games because I 91 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 3: think that we think about the costs and benefits the 92 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 3: same way we think about a lot of things in life. 93 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 3: The games that I like the most, there's one called 94 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 3: Castles of Burgundy. If there are any Euro game fans 95 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 3: out there, you're kind of building your little, your little 96 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 3: fiefdom with tiles and you're playing against another person. I 97 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:29,159 Speaker 3: like that game because I'm good at it. Any game 98 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:29,920 Speaker 3: that I'm good at. 99 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 1: That's try to like any game I win frequently come 100 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 1: in for that. I played Castles of Burgundy once, but 101 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 1: it's been a minute, and I just don't play as 102 00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 1: many board games as I used to. But every year 103 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 1: when we take our annual How the Money family vacation, 104 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 1: we lond up a few board games we end. Lately, 105 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 1: we've been playing a lot of Acchoir. Have you ever 106 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 1: played that one? 107 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 2: Yeah? 108 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:48,719 Speaker 3: I have that board game. It's actually in my stack 109 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:49,279 Speaker 3: right behind me. 110 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 4: It's a really good one. Nice. I love that she's 111 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 4: got a stack. 112 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like most economists have nerdy textbooks, and she's got 113 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 2: those two. But yeah, the predominant feature in the bookshelf 114 00:04:59,120 --> 00:04:59,720 Speaker 2: stack of games. 115 00:04:59,760 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 4: It does. 116 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 1: I like, I got to go to bed earlier than 117 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:03,920 Speaker 1: ever before, and so late night board game sessions it's 118 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 1: very harder to come by, but I missed those days. 119 00:05:05,880 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 4: They're so fun. Daryl. 120 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 1: Let's talk about your book, and specifically a book that 121 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:13,039 Speaker 1: had an influence on you before you started writing this 122 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 1: book was Freakonomics. It feels like, as someone who you 123 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:18,679 Speaker 1: kind of write about this. At the beginning of your book, 124 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 1: you were an aspiring economist. Freakonomics pushed you further in 125 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 1: that direction, and maybe your family wasn't so thrilled about 126 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 1: that too. 127 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 4: Is that right? 128 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 3: Yes, Freakonomics came out twenty years ago, believe it or not, 129 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 3: and that was the same time that I was getting 130 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:37,240 Speaker 3: ready to go to college. I had always been interested 131 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 3: in math and science, and I thought that's what I 132 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 3: was going to pursue. That's why I applied to MIT. 133 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:45,280 Speaker 3: I was headed to MIT, but then on the way 134 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:47,680 Speaker 3: to MIT, my dad hands me the book of Freakonomics 135 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 3: and just says, like, hey, this guy, you know, he 136 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:52,359 Speaker 3: went to MIT, maybe you'd be interested in this. So 137 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 3: I read the book on the plane ride there and 138 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 3: immediately I was like, this is what I wanted to do. 139 00:05:57,240 --> 00:05:58,719 Speaker 3: I was, I felt like I was. 140 00:05:59,000 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 2: I was always. 141 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:02,560 Speaker 3: Interested in the way that people behave, but it was 142 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 3: just really hard for me to wrap my head around 143 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:06,919 Speaker 3: it without the math part, which is what I was 144 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 3: also interested in. But Economics really brings it together. It 145 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:14,280 Speaker 3: applies this mathematical framework, this analytical framework, to the way 146 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 3: that people interact with one another, and all those interactions 147 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 3: make up the economy. And that book was just the 148 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:21,160 Speaker 3: one that kind of broke it opened for me and 149 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:23,719 Speaker 3: made me realize what economics is. It's not just about 150 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 3: the stock market or GDP, It's really about human behavior. 151 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. I like how you mentioned how economists are essentially 152 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:35,720 Speaker 2: like profits and they explain human behavior and basically how 153 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 2: the world works, which I've never really thought about it 154 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 2: that way, where you're just kind of it almost allows 155 00:06:39,120 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 2: you to like peer into the future and make pretty accurate, 156 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 2: I guess predictions as to what might happen on that note. Well, 157 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:46,920 Speaker 2: I'm not going to ask you to make a prediction, 158 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 2: I guess, but maybe just the current state of the 159 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:52,600 Speaker 2: housing market. You're the chief economists over there at redfin 160 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 2: and this is a massive question. But what's going on 161 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:58,159 Speaker 2: when it comes to housing just the current state of 162 00:06:58,200 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 2: things prices? Can you touch on that for a minute. 163 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:05,640 Speaker 3: The housing market has been distorted since at least the pandemic. 164 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:07,919 Speaker 3: I mean, you can argue it goes even farther back 165 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 3: to the foreclosure crisis in the Great Recession, but I'll 166 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:14,840 Speaker 3: start with the pandemic. During the pandemic, interest rates fell 167 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 3: to record lows, which made borrowing to buy a home 168 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 3: historically cheap, and anybody who could buy a home was 169 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 3: buying a home. People were buying multiple homes, people were 170 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 3: buying vacation homes, people were moving because of remote work, 171 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:29,119 Speaker 3: and we had all us activity in the housing market. 172 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 3: But then by twenty twenty three, inflation was the problem, 173 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 3: not unemployment, and so the Federal Reserve had to raise 174 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:39,240 Speaker 3: interest rates that sent mortgage rates high. They increased by 175 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 3: like the highest percentage historically, and home buying became unaffordable. 176 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 3: Like it was a very sharp turn. And now homeowners 177 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 3: don't want to sell because they were able to refinance 178 00:07:50,520 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 3: into record loan mortgage rates during the pandemic, so their 179 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:56,000 Speaker 3: payments are still quite cheap, so they don't want to 180 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 3: give that up because if they got gave it up 181 00:07:57,840 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 3: and bought again, they would have to buy at these 182 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 3: really high ends. So nobody wants to sell. People don't 183 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:04,040 Speaker 3: want to buy because interest rates are high, and it's 184 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:08,280 Speaker 3: just more affordable to rent right now in most metro areas. 185 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:10,600 Speaker 3: So we're just stuck in this place where there's very 186 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:14,000 Speaker 3: few transactions happening. Home values are remaining high, though, because 187 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 3: it's both supply and demand that have pulled back. It's 188 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 3: not like during the Great Recession, where there was no 189 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:20,840 Speaker 3: demand but there was still lots of supply and that 190 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 3: caused values to fall. Values are still propped up by 191 00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 3: the fact that homeowners don't want to give up their homes. 192 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 3: So we're just kind of stuck right now, and it's 193 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 3: going to take interest rates falling or you know, new 194 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 3: construction really taking off in order for this to break free. 195 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 1: So you say that we're kind of stuck, and I 196 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 1: think you're right. It does feel like just everything ground 197 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 1: to a halt in the housing market. But when it 198 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:45,960 Speaker 1: comes to the and I think crisis is an overused term, 199 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 1: but maybe the affordability crisis in housing, Are there any 200 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 1: signs of relief? I'm going to look at a city 201 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:54,160 Speaker 1: like Austin and you see pretty significant declines at least 202 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 1: in the amount of rent that can be asked year 203 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:59,959 Speaker 1: over year. But then there are and that's due to 204 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:03,400 Speaker 1: it seems like a cutting back of red tape. What 205 00:09:03,480 --> 00:09:07,080 Speaker 1: do you see moving forward when it comes to rent 206 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:10,320 Speaker 1: and housing prices, and is that in a very city 207 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:10,800 Speaker 1: of the city. 208 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:13,440 Speaker 3: Austin is a great example of a place that where 209 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 3: demand increase during the pandemic, and because building is allowed there, 210 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:19,880 Speaker 3: it's just easier to build there than is in other 211 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:22,720 Speaker 3: parts of the country. We saw an increase in new construction, 212 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 3: and that increase in supply made it possible for rents 213 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 3: to come back down after they had gone up in 214 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:32,080 Speaker 3: other parts of the country, like in California, when demand 215 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:34,320 Speaker 3: goes up, it just leads to higher prices because supply 216 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 3: can't react, and that's largely due to regulations like single 217 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:42,559 Speaker 3: family zoning and the permitting processes that are there. So 218 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 3: I think the lesson from that is that you have 219 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 3: to make it easy to build because you know the 220 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 3: next time there's going to be an increase in demand, 221 00:09:49,200 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 3: either when rates fall or the economy is just doing 222 00:09:51,440 --> 00:09:54,920 Speaker 3: really well, it will inevitably lead to higher prices unless 223 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 3: we see an increase in supply reacting to it. So 224 00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:00,240 Speaker 3: I think a lot of states of like made progress there, 225 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:02,360 Speaker 3: but there's still a lot of progress to be made. 226 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:04,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, so, I mean, as you touched on supply, 227 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:07,480 Speaker 2: I think about the wildfires out in California and even 228 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:11,320 Speaker 2: Hurricane Helene damaged something like eighty I think around eighty 229 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 2: thousand homes kind of along its path of destruction. How 230 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:18,520 Speaker 2: does something like that impact the supply of homes? Obviously 231 00:10:18,800 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 2: you got homes that are completely destroyed and so they're 232 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 2: not available, But even damaged homes, I feel like, at 233 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:25,160 Speaker 2: least temporarily, it kind of takes them off the market. 234 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:28,440 Speaker 2: Is that something that feels more localized or does that 235 00:10:28,480 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 2: have larger impacts on the supply of housing across the 236 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 2: country as well? 237 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:35,920 Speaker 3: It does have large impacts. We're already in a vulnerable 238 00:10:35,960 --> 00:10:40,839 Speaker 3: position because of how unaffordable housing is. So climate change 239 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:45,720 Speaker 3: is inevitably going to make housing even less affordable because 240 00:10:45,920 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 3: the cost of maintenance is going to increase with changing 241 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 3: weather patterns. Like homes that were built for certain climates 242 00:10:53,440 --> 00:10:56,479 Speaker 3: and then the climate changes, they need to be retrofitted 243 00:10:56,880 --> 00:11:00,560 Speaker 3: and then it also makes insurance more expensive, and it 244 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 3: literally like pulls homes out of the supply of housing 245 00:11:03,240 --> 00:11:06,199 Speaker 3: if they're destroyed and then not be built. So all 246 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:09,120 Speaker 3: of that just makes housing more expensive, and we're seeing 247 00:11:09,160 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 3: that in California how insurance premiums are going up. Insurance 248 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:14,280 Speaker 3: premiums are also going up in Florida and in Texas. 249 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 3: But there are certain parts of the country where the 250 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:21,360 Speaker 3: climate could potentially become more appealing and values will go 251 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:23,880 Speaker 3: up as people decide to move to those places. So 252 00:11:24,200 --> 00:11:26,200 Speaker 3: it really is going to have an effect on the 253 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 3: entire country. There is no neighborhood that isn't going to 254 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 3: be impacted one way or the other by climate change, 255 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 3: and their housing markets are going to be impacted too. 256 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:37,079 Speaker 1: It's like if Minnesota becomes a little more balmby here, 257 00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 1: it starts to look a little more appealing. Oh, the 258 00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:41,880 Speaker 1: Great Lakes. I've never been up there, but it seems 259 00:11:41,960 --> 00:11:44,280 Speaker 1: quite nice now we're not frozen over half the year. 260 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 4: It might be interested. 261 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:48,319 Speaker 1: I'm curious too, Darrell. Something else that was proposed recently, 262 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:52,240 Speaker 1: a Trump administration proposal was to use federal lands to 263 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 1: build more housing supply, And is that going to make 264 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:57,960 Speaker 1: a dent in the housing issues that we have in 265 00:11:57,960 --> 00:12:01,240 Speaker 1: this country because obviously applying demand like we just don't 266 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:04,720 Speaker 1: have enough supply. We're millions of units short, it seems. 267 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 1: But on the other side, is the supply coming where 268 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:08,840 Speaker 1: it's most needed. 269 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:12,720 Speaker 3: Federal land tends to be in parts of the country 270 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 3: that don't have access to amenities like city amenities. They 271 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:19,200 Speaker 3: might not even have access to roads to begin with. 272 00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 3: So I think developing, yeah, that kind of land, it's 273 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:24,160 Speaker 3: not the high value land. If it was high value, 274 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:26,079 Speaker 3: it wouldn't be federal land. It would have already there 275 00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 3: would have already been a push to develop it. So 276 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:31,560 Speaker 3: I think that it's not really solving the real problem, 277 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 3: which is how expensive housing is. In the most productive 278 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 3: cities in the United States, like New York, Los Angeles, 279 00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 3: San Francisco, there is some federal land in those areas. 280 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:44,040 Speaker 3: It's like post offices and federal buildings, and I think 281 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:47,960 Speaker 3: that the idea of densifying those types of buildings and 282 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:51,840 Speaker 3: allowing there to be mixed use housing, mixed use development 283 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:53,679 Speaker 3: with like a federal building and then housing on top 284 00:12:53,720 --> 00:12:55,960 Speaker 3: of it, I think is a really interesting idea that 285 00:12:56,000 --> 00:12:58,080 Speaker 3: we should just allow. I think the default should be 286 00:12:58,120 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 3: that we allow housing on more lots of land, especially 287 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 3: if it's near places that people want to live. 288 00:13:03,400 --> 00:13:05,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, just by default say yes, and then if there's problems, 289 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:08,080 Speaker 2: we'll figure it out. That seems much more appealing to 290 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 2: me than living in an Oppenheimer like desert town that 291 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 2: gets erected in Utah or something. 292 00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:14,520 Speaker 4: Like that in New Mexico. 293 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 2: But right, yeah, which is what I pictured, beautiful hours 294 00:13:17,679 --> 00:13:18,720 Speaker 2: in the middle of nowhere. 295 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:21,000 Speaker 1: But I like the idea of the post office being 296 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 1: on the bottom floor of like a high rise. Like 297 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 1: think about that. That sounds like maybe what you're suggesting, Darryl. 298 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:29,000 Speaker 2: Right, yes, yes, talk to us about the rule of 299 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 2: thumb for a housing budget. You talk about this in 300 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:35,680 Speaker 2: chapter five of your new book. But has your advice 301 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 2: on that changed as we have seen cost rise faster 302 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:41,319 Speaker 2: than we've seen wages go up. 303 00:13:41,480 --> 00:13:43,680 Speaker 3: The rule of thumb is that you shouldn't spend more 304 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:47,720 Speaker 3: than thirty percent of your pre tax income on housing. 305 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:51,079 Speaker 3: But the reality is that the majority of renters are 306 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 3: spending more of that on their rent. So I think 307 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:57,160 Speaker 3: that that was the rule of thumb, you know, fifteen 308 00:13:57,200 --> 00:13:59,600 Speaker 3: twenty years ago, and people were able to meet that, 309 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:02,480 Speaker 3: but now a lot of people just it just feels 310 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:04,280 Speaker 3: like so out of reach for them. So what I 311 00:14:04,320 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 3: advise people to do is to go through their spending 312 00:14:08,080 --> 00:14:10,320 Speaker 3: habits on a monthly basis, like pull it up your 313 00:14:10,360 --> 00:14:13,559 Speaker 3: credit card transactions or your bank statements, or use software 314 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:15,960 Speaker 3: that's out there, and just look at how much you're 315 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:17,960 Speaker 3: spending on each category. And then when you're thinking about 316 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:21,160 Speaker 3: moving somewhere new, think about how all those categories could change, 317 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:23,840 Speaker 3: because it's not just the housing payment. If you're moving 318 00:14:23,840 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 3: somewhere with public transit, you might not be spending money 319 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:29,160 Speaker 3: on your car or on gas anymore. Or if you're 320 00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:32,560 Speaker 3: moving somewhere that's smaller, then maybe your energy bill is 321 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 3: not going to be as big compared to somewhere that's larger. 322 00:14:35,360 --> 00:14:39,040 Speaker 3: So I think every category deserves evaluation and taken in 323 00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:41,920 Speaker 3: and taken in because that thirty percent rule is really, just, 324 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 3: like I think, more something that academics use to understand 325 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:47,800 Speaker 3: how many people are struggling. But at a personal level, 326 00:14:47,800 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 3: you just have to make do with what options are 327 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:51,280 Speaker 3: available to you. 328 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I realized I'm asking this question of someone who 329 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:58,000 Speaker 1: is an economist at a real estate website. But I 330 00:14:58,000 --> 00:15:00,360 Speaker 1: think in this country, at least, home ownership like this 331 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 1: ride of passage for a lot of people, and the 332 00:15:03,160 --> 00:15:06,400 Speaker 1: majority of individual wealth is often tied to equity in 333 00:15:06,520 --> 00:15:08,840 Speaker 1: a home, which we don't think is a good thing, 334 00:15:08,920 --> 00:15:11,920 Speaker 1: but it's a reality. Have we just overly deified home 335 00:15:11,960 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 1: ownership in the US. Is that part of the problem. 336 00:15:14,040 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 1: We've made home ownership seem like it's a prerequisite to 337 00:15:17,800 --> 00:15:18,720 Speaker 1: live the American dream? 338 00:15:19,120 --> 00:15:20,840 Speaker 3: Yes, And I think it like goes back to the 339 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 3: founding of our country how people with property were the 340 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:26,800 Speaker 3: ones who are allowed to vote initially. It's it's just 341 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 3: seen as like a step into having wealth or being 342 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:32,680 Speaker 3: in the middle class when you own property, and the 343 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:35,880 Speaker 3: first piece of property that people own is typically their 344 00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 3: own home. So yeah, I think that there's really, from 345 00:15:39,960 --> 00:15:45,000 Speaker 3: an economic standpoint, no reason to glorify housing. It's actually, 346 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:48,440 Speaker 3: you know, unadvisable to put all of your money into 347 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 3: one undiversified asset. You can see that with climate risk. 348 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:54,560 Speaker 3: So if we reimagine like how we want people to 349 00:15:54,600 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 3: build wealth and look at all the different ways to 350 00:15:58,040 --> 00:16:00,320 Speaker 3: invest besides home ownership, I think we'd be a better 351 00:16:00,320 --> 00:16:02,080 Speaker 3: position as an economy. 352 00:16:02,320 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 4: Totally agree. 353 00:16:03,720 --> 00:16:06,600 Speaker 2: When you buy a home, though, like you're oftentimes doing 354 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:09,880 Speaker 2: it for personal reasons, not necessarily from like a wealth 355 00:16:09,880 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 2: building standpoint that although that is a positive proxy results. Yeah, yeah, 356 00:16:14,400 --> 00:16:16,600 Speaker 2: but I guess when you are looking at it as 357 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:19,840 Speaker 2: a primary residence, Like one of the problems when it 358 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:21,560 Speaker 2: comes to especially like when you're bidding on a house 359 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:24,760 Speaker 2: is getting emotionally attached and you say to watch out 360 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:27,520 Speaker 2: for that, which is it's easier than done. But do 361 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:31,920 Speaker 2: you have any tips for avoiding like envisioning ourselves in 362 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:34,040 Speaker 2: a home as you're going out there as your house shopping, 363 00:16:34,680 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 2: because that can lead to perhaps, yeah, maybe you overpaying 364 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:38,560 Speaker 2: for that house. Yes. 365 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:41,240 Speaker 3: My My first piece of advice is to do a 366 00:16:41,280 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 3: lot of your thinking before you even start your home search, 367 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:49,000 Speaker 3: setting your budget, talking to a mortgage lender to understand, 368 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:51,320 Speaker 3: like if you what you qualify in terms of your loan, 369 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:54,640 Speaker 3: going through whatever your must haves versus your nice to havebs, 370 00:16:54,640 --> 00:16:57,760 Speaker 3: looking at homes that are available for salor that recently sold, 371 00:16:57,760 --> 00:17:00,880 Speaker 3: an understanding if your budget makes sense given what is 372 00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 3: that you want, and then start your home search with 373 00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:05,880 Speaker 3: an idea in mind of like this is how much 374 00:17:05,920 --> 00:17:07,560 Speaker 3: I'm going to pay and these are the home features 375 00:17:07,600 --> 00:17:10,240 Speaker 3: that are most important to me. When you find the 376 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 3: home that fits all that criteria and you're starting to 377 00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 3: fall in love, I would definitely advise you to slow down, Like, 378 00:17:15,119 --> 00:17:20,680 Speaker 3: don't start imagining Thanksgiving dinners or happy family memories there 379 00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:22,480 Speaker 3: because it's not your home yet, and there are going 380 00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:24,760 Speaker 3: to be other people, yeah, making offers on this home, 381 00:17:25,040 --> 00:17:27,040 Speaker 3: and you could get in a situation where you end 382 00:17:27,119 --> 00:17:30,399 Speaker 3: up overbidding because you are already become attached to it. 383 00:17:30,440 --> 00:17:32,640 Speaker 3: And there's a lot of behavioral economics research about how 384 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:35,959 Speaker 3: once you own something, you tend to overvalue it. So 385 00:17:36,680 --> 00:17:38,800 Speaker 3: just kind of stay attached. Yeah, it's not yours yet, 386 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 3: that's my biggest advice. 387 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I think so, like a true economist, remove 388 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:47,479 Speaker 2: the emotion, remove those feelings, right, look at the numbers. 389 00:17:48,480 --> 00:17:49,920 Speaker 1: One of the things you just mentioned in there too 390 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:53,439 Speaker 1: was talking to a mortgage broker. And this is one 391 00:17:53,440 --> 00:17:56,320 Speaker 1: of those things that I feel like it's so underplayed, 392 00:17:56,960 --> 00:17:59,960 Speaker 1: is to talk to a few different lenders and get 393 00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:02,119 Speaker 1: quotes because of how much it can save you. Like, 394 00:18:02,160 --> 00:18:04,560 Speaker 1: the stakes are so high, so much higher than almost 395 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:07,080 Speaker 1: anything else we buy, than really anything else we buy. 396 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:09,399 Speaker 1: So let's say you go to a credit union to 397 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:11,879 Speaker 1: get a loan for a car instead of getting it 398 00:18:11,920 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 1: at the dealership. Sure, save a couple percentage points on 399 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 1: the APR right at the rate of the loan, But 400 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:22,240 Speaker 1: when it comes to your mortgage loan, just because of 401 00:18:22,280 --> 00:18:24,479 Speaker 1: the balance, the amount of money you're borrowing, it can 402 00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:27,280 Speaker 1: be significant. Is that something that people From everything I've read, 403 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:28,520 Speaker 1: it seems like people don't do that enough. 404 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:29,160 Speaker 4: Do you agree? 405 00:18:29,560 --> 00:18:31,680 Speaker 3: I think that everybody should shop around. I think it's 406 00:18:31,680 --> 00:18:34,000 Speaker 3: easier now than it used to be because there are 407 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:36,520 Speaker 3: so many websites and there's so much comparative shopping you 408 00:18:36,520 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 3: can do online. But I do think that there are 409 00:18:39,320 --> 00:18:42,040 Speaker 3: people who just go straight to whatever their bank is 410 00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:44,719 Speaker 3: and ask them what they can borrow, and they think that, 411 00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:46,879 Speaker 3: you know, this is my bank. They've been good to 412 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:49,320 Speaker 3: me before. Why wouldn't I not go to them for 413 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:51,600 Speaker 3: my home loan, not realizing that the bank is giving 414 00:18:51,640 --> 00:18:54,520 Speaker 3: you a much higher rate than what maybe a different 415 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:57,480 Speaker 3: lender would give you. So I definitely advise people to 416 00:18:58,080 --> 00:19:01,040 Speaker 3: shop around. It's easy to do online, get at least 417 00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:04,120 Speaker 3: three different opinions, and then the other thing to consider, 418 00:19:04,400 --> 00:19:07,760 Speaker 3: because there are some differences between lenders, is just how 419 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:10,200 Speaker 3: responsive they are. If you like the software in terms 420 00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:13,880 Speaker 3: of uploading your documents, and you know they are. They 421 00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:16,000 Speaker 3: doing a good job explaining it to you what you 422 00:19:16,040 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 3: can afford. I think if they're hitting all those criteria, 423 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:20,840 Speaker 3: then the next thing is just to focus on the 424 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:23,760 Speaker 3: price that they're giving you guys. 425 00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:24,359 Speaker 4: Yeah, the rate. 426 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:28,399 Speaker 2: You also write about being smart when you are selling 427 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:30,719 Speaker 2: at home, and you mentioned renovating, how do you think 428 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:35,160 Speaker 2: about the ROI and whether renovations that you're considering whether 429 00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:37,960 Speaker 2: they're going to pay off when it comes to a 430 00:19:38,040 --> 00:19:38,920 Speaker 2: higher sales price. 431 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:43,639 Speaker 3: Not all investments have an ROI, and I think it's 432 00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:45,280 Speaker 3: kind of unfortunate, but the things that tend to have 433 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:48,359 Speaker 3: the ROI tend to be those really visual things where 434 00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:51,120 Speaker 3: if somebody is looking at the listing online or they're 435 00:19:51,160 --> 00:19:52,720 Speaker 3: walking through the home, that are just kind of a 436 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:55,880 Speaker 3: turn off, like old paint, for example. It's really easy 437 00:19:55,920 --> 00:20:00,120 Speaker 3: to repaint your house, but can make it just look fresher, newer, 438 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:04,919 Speaker 3: and more appealing. Those hidden things like say redoing the 439 00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:10,760 Speaker 3: electrical they're really costly and they might not pay off unfortunately. 440 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:13,280 Speaker 3: So I think just talking to your agent can help 441 00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:16,520 Speaker 3: you evaluate what investments are going to be paid, are 442 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:19,600 Speaker 3: going to have a payoff. Also understanding the market and 443 00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:22,800 Speaker 3: really competitive markets it you don't really need to do 444 00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:25,040 Speaker 3: that much specialty your home to get it sold. In 445 00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:28,040 Speaker 3: weaker markets, you do have to make sure that the 446 00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:30,119 Speaker 3: home is moving ready if you want to attract a buyer. 447 00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:33,120 Speaker 1: I'm thinking putting in on your listing. At the very top, 448 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:36,000 Speaker 1: we just put new insulation in. It's It's true that 449 00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:38,880 Speaker 1: it'll be super sexy, yeah, next home, but they're trying 450 00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:42,440 Speaker 1: to imagine themselves at the thanksgaming dinner table in that home, 451 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 1: just like we don't want to imagine ourselves in that situation. 452 00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:46,720 Speaker 1: You want as a guest, as a seller, other people 453 00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:50,399 Speaker 1: thinking that about your house. And so it's when you 454 00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 1: look at kind of the annual studies that come out 455 00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:57,360 Speaker 1: about what renovations make the most, offer the most bang 456 00:20:57,400 --> 00:21:00,320 Speaker 1: for the buck. The thing and I've noticed in recent 457 00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:02,960 Speaker 1: years is that it's garage doors that tend to be 458 00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:05,200 Speaker 1: to offer the biggest bang, Like that people actually make 459 00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:08,280 Speaker 1: more than what they spend on the garage door. Is 460 00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:11,200 Speaker 1: that just because it's such a big piece of curb appeal. 461 00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:15,080 Speaker 3: Yes, I think curb appeal matters a lot in real estate. 462 00:21:15,359 --> 00:21:17,399 Speaker 3: And yeah, those newer garage doors they have, like the 463 00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:19,280 Speaker 3: windows on them, they come in different colors. I think 464 00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:22,600 Speaker 3: that they they do just make the overall home look newer, 465 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:25,680 Speaker 3: And I think new is what people tend to gravitate towards. 466 00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:28,040 Speaker 2: Which is why Joel I just got done not too 467 00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:30,360 Speaker 2: long ago, why I painted my garage door. Yeah, looks 468 00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:33,000 Speaker 2: like a brand new, gradual, cheaper way to get the bang. 469 00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:33,439 Speaker 4: Yeah. 470 00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:36,040 Speaker 2: Although, oh yeah, we won't get into this there. But 471 00:21:36,080 --> 00:21:38,800 Speaker 2: they also sell like these little window these magnet kits 472 00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:41,479 Speaker 2: where it looks like there's windows in your garage, you 473 00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:45,320 Speaker 2: like slap on it, like the fake carriage handles on there. 474 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:46,600 Speaker 2: I was just like, Babe, we're. 475 00:21:46,480 --> 00:21:47,080 Speaker 4: Not going to do that. 476 00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:50,240 Speaker 2: Come on, We're not here to create the false illusion. 477 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:53,480 Speaker 2: But Drek, we've got more to get to. We're gonna 478 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:57,640 Speaker 2: continue to discuss just the intersection of economics and everyday life. 479 00:21:57,640 --> 00:22:07,399 Speaker 4: Will get to that more. Right after this, we're back 480 00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:07,840 Speaker 4: from the break. 481 00:22:07,840 --> 00:22:10,639 Speaker 1: We're still talking with Daryl Fairweather talking about we just 482 00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:12,480 Speaker 1: got done talking about the housing market. There's so much 483 00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:15,439 Speaker 1: more to discuss, though, so much more that Daryl covers 484 00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:18,360 Speaker 1: in her new book that's really worth checking out. It's 485 00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:20,879 Speaker 1: called Hate the Game. And Daryl in this book, you 486 00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:23,520 Speaker 1: really you focus on the fact that that and you 487 00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:25,600 Speaker 1: mentioned this kind of at the very beginning of our conversation. 488 00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:28,439 Speaker 1: Do you feel like economics has something to say about 489 00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:32,160 Speaker 1: like everything we do or and does it have predictive 490 00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:34,240 Speaker 1: powers where if we were just a little more in 491 00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:39,720 Speaker 1: tune with economic realities that we would stand to gain 492 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:40,320 Speaker 1: an edge. 493 00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:44,800 Speaker 3: I think economics has a lot to do with anytime 494 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:48,320 Speaker 3: there's a limited resource and there are people who want it, 495 00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:51,320 Speaker 3: that explains that economics can explain it. And you see 496 00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:53,359 Speaker 3: that in so many different settings. You obviously see it 497 00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:56,760 Speaker 3: and say investment, you see it in the labor market, 498 00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:59,399 Speaker 3: but you also see it in romantic interactions too, that 499 00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:02,880 Speaker 3: two people want something. Maybe it's different things and there's 500 00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:05,520 Speaker 3: a conflict that happens. But I don't think it applies 501 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:07,680 Speaker 3: to like nearly everything. I do try to like stay 502 00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:10,680 Speaker 3: in my lane somewhat and not pipe up on things 503 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:13,359 Speaker 3: I'm not an expert on. But economics it touches so 504 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:15,160 Speaker 3: many things. It gives me a lot to talk about. 505 00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:15,920 Speaker 4: It's funny. 506 00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:19,760 Speaker 1: I'm reading a book by Thomas soul right now, Applied Economics, 507 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:23,399 Speaker 1: and he talks about how economics applies to healthcare, but 508 00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:26,200 Speaker 1: then also it's immigration, and he gives just like not 509 00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:28,680 Speaker 1: only first order effects, but second and third order effects. 510 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:31,360 Speaker 1: How do you think about the role that I think 511 00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:34,720 Speaker 1: sometimes people can think of an initial reality that might 512 00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:36,960 Speaker 1: happen if we change this one thing. It's like, oh, 513 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:38,199 Speaker 1: it's going to do this and it's going to be 514 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:41,320 Speaker 1: so good. But then there are oftentimes secondary and third 515 00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 1: like just cascading reality of impacts of economic decisions. But 516 00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:48,560 Speaker 1: I don't know, as humans, we tend to really only 517 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:50,840 Speaker 1: be able to visualize kind of the first set of 518 00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 1: things of consequences. 519 00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:55,760 Speaker 3: Yes, this is the law of unintended consequences. When it 520 00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:59,560 Speaker 3: comes to incentives and economics, you can bet that people 521 00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:01,680 Speaker 3: are going to respond to incentives. So if you change 522 00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:05,840 Speaker 3: the incentives, people's behaviors will change. If, for example, you 523 00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:09,199 Speaker 3: make a product illegal, it's not just that people are 524 00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:11,280 Speaker 3: no longer going to consume that product. You can expect 525 00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:13,680 Speaker 3: some of the consumption to go underground. So I think 526 00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:16,920 Speaker 3: just thinking through the way that people change their behavior 527 00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:19,080 Speaker 3: when you change a law, or change a policy, or 528 00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:23,880 Speaker 3: just change anything, can help you avoid that pitfall of 529 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:25,960 Speaker 3: not thinking through the unintended consequences. 530 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:29,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I like this higher level of thinking. Like on 531 00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:31,840 Speaker 2: that note one line that you write in your book, 532 00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:34,159 Speaker 2: the decisions you make in one game often impact your 533 00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:37,880 Speaker 2: ability to attain your objectives in other games. And that's 534 00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:40,679 Speaker 2: when you were talking about finding balance in life. Can 535 00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:43,080 Speaker 2: you talk about that, just like the trade offs of 536 00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:46,399 Speaker 2: let's say, balancing career, success and family, and how that 537 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:49,280 Speaker 2: can have an impact on some of the other areas 538 00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:51,159 Speaker 2: of life, sometimes without intending to. 539 00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:52,560 Speaker 4: Of course, Yeah, there's this. 540 00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:56,200 Speaker 3: Trope with women, right having it all means having the family, 541 00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:59,040 Speaker 3: having the career, and doing all the things at the 542 00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:01,199 Speaker 3: same time. But the reality is that you have to 543 00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:03,200 Speaker 3: make trade offs. And I think one of the most 544 00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:06,000 Speaker 3: important things you can do in your life and career 545 00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:09,000 Speaker 3: is figuring out what is that you value most and 546 00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:12,120 Speaker 3: then being okay with making a trade off to get 547 00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 3: what you really want. And I think, I mean, at 548 00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:17,840 Speaker 3: least in my life I have, I feel like struck 549 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:21,600 Speaker 3: that balance with family and career, but I have had 550 00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:24,000 Speaker 3: to have strong boundaries in both because I'm not going 551 00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:26,520 Speaker 3: to be able to like be everything to everyone all 552 00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:29,440 Speaker 3: the time. But that's again it goes back to economics. 553 00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:31,199 Speaker 3: There are constraints, there are trade offs that you have 554 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:33,760 Speaker 3: to make and you have to know what you value 555 00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:35,200 Speaker 3: to really optimize. 556 00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:38,159 Speaker 2: Small personal follow up there, So you say that you 557 00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:39,919 Speaker 2: feel like that you've found that balance yourself, do you 558 00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 2: ever doubt that, Like, like, when you're it sounds like 559 00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:45,719 Speaker 2: you know, you're incredibly successful. It sounds like you've got 560 00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:48,080 Speaker 2: nice family life as well. Do you ever look at 561 00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:49,720 Speaker 2: your life and you're like, wait a minute, it almost 562 00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:50,840 Speaker 2: seems like things are going too well. 563 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:53,119 Speaker 4: I guess I'm just curious. 564 00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:55,640 Speaker 2: They're just a little peak at your personal life and 565 00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:58,040 Speaker 2: whether or not that's a doubt that maybe comes to mind. 566 00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:02,800 Speaker 3: I think that I'm not immune to things that could 567 00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:05,679 Speaker 3: happen in the economy or just like the randomness of life. 568 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:07,800 Speaker 3: So all those things are going well for me now, 569 00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:10,120 Speaker 3: Like I could definitely get like, you know, knocked off 570 00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:12,000 Speaker 3: my horse at any moment. I feel like that's kind 571 00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:14,680 Speaker 3: of the anxiety of being in the economy that a 572 00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:16,919 Speaker 3: lot of people go through, is like you never know 573 00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:19,720 Speaker 3: if it's enough, because you could always imagine some scenario 574 00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:21,400 Speaker 3: where it's not going to be enough. Here you wish 575 00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:24,120 Speaker 3: you didn't spend that money on you know, something today 576 00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:26,280 Speaker 3: because you wish you could have saved it for that 577 00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:30,679 Speaker 3: bad scenario in the future. But you can't live your 578 00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:32,960 Speaker 3: life just only planning for bad scenarios, because then you 579 00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:35,159 Speaker 3: end up missing out on all the good, all the 580 00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:36,840 Speaker 3: on all the luck and all the good things that 581 00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:38,680 Speaker 3: could happen to you. So I think that's just another 582 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:42,080 Speaker 3: thing that requires balance and also being able to take 583 00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:45,159 Speaker 3: an l when you lose, just realizing that, like, sometimes 584 00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:47,679 Speaker 3: you're gonna lose, and as long as you're you know, 585 00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:49,919 Speaker 3: keep making choices that align with your values. In the end, 586 00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 3: you'll get to the place that is optimal for you. 587 00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:54,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's that's good advice. And also just 588 00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:58,119 Speaker 1: kind of keep tuning in because your desires and your 589 00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:00,560 Speaker 1: priorities shift and change too over time. Right, It's like 590 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:03,520 Speaker 1: once you have a two or three kids or something 591 00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:05,919 Speaker 1: like that, like your family life becomes more important than 592 00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:08,360 Speaker 1: when you were single, and you could dedicate more time 593 00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:12,160 Speaker 1: to work. I'm curious on that topic. You characterize marriage 594 00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:14,200 Speaker 1: in your book as a financial strategy, which I think 595 00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:17,240 Speaker 1: is interesting. I don't I wonder how my wife would 596 00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:18,639 Speaker 1: react to that. Quite I need asked when I get 597 00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:22,760 Speaker 1: home it was a business decision, but you say that 598 00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,560 Speaker 1: it can produce happiness and intimacy, So you put that 599 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:27,480 Speaker 1: part in there, but there's a trade off between those 600 00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:30,160 Speaker 1: two objectives. So how do you think about the mix 601 00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:35,639 Speaker 1: of love and the essential intertwined economic reality that tying 602 00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:39,640 Speaker 1: yourself to another individual for the rest of your days? 603 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:40,600 Speaker 1: Like what that entails? 604 00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:43,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, obviously marriage, there's a lot of purposes 605 00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:47,359 Speaker 3: to marriage, but I think the financial aspect shouldn't be downplayed. 606 00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:51,200 Speaker 3: I mean, you're teaming up with another person, combining your finances, 607 00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:55,280 Speaker 3: and from that point on, whatever decision you make, it's 608 00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:57,520 Speaker 3: going to impact the other person. So you have to 609 00:27:57,880 --> 00:28:00,159 Speaker 3: talk about these financial decisions or else you know, you 610 00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:04,240 Speaker 3: might end up like not not with the outcomes that 611 00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:05,600 Speaker 3: you want. I'll just put it, I guess I'll put 612 00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:08,360 Speaker 3: it that way. But one thing that's shown in economic 613 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:13,480 Speaker 3: research is that when two people have negatively correlated incomes, 614 00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:16,840 Speaker 3: like say one person they both work in real estate, 615 00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:19,440 Speaker 3: but one person focuses on luxury and one person focuses 616 00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:23,159 Speaker 3: on foreclosures, there they have better economic stability and actually 617 00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:26,879 Speaker 3: a lower chance of divorce because they don't have the 618 00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:30,159 Speaker 3: same volatility and income that you know, two people who 619 00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:34,679 Speaker 3: work on luxury real estate might feel because when housing 620 00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:37,159 Speaker 3: markets doing well, the couple's fine. With the housing markets 621 00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:40,560 Speaker 3: doing bad, the couple's fine. And it's just interesting to 622 00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:44,240 Speaker 3: see that play out like across different different industries and 623 00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:47,640 Speaker 3: different careers that couples might have. I think it's something 624 00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:50,040 Speaker 3: to be aware of because you know, if you're signing 625 00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:52,840 Speaker 3: up for more financial hardship because of the kind of 626 00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:56,560 Speaker 3: careers that you and your partner chose, that is going 627 00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:58,920 Speaker 3: to be a strain on the marriage and on your life. 628 00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,160 Speaker 1: So for how of money listeners out there in the 629 00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:03,240 Speaker 1: dating pool, what would you suggest to them? What sort 630 00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:05,800 Speaker 1: of conversations should they be having when they're kind of 631 00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:08,640 Speaker 1: getting to know somebody and they're saying, I don't know, 632 00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:11,440 Speaker 1: I think I might want to sign on the marriage 633 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:15,440 Speaker 1: certificate with you and do life together. Are there certain 634 00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:18,720 Speaker 1: kind of conversations around economics and personal finance they should 635 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:20,640 Speaker 1: be having ahead of time to make sure that's a 636 00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:21,280 Speaker 1: wise decision. 637 00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:24,800 Speaker 3: I think the most important thing to establish is whose 638 00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:29,320 Speaker 3: career is prioritized when it's it's not necessarily that one 639 00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:32,520 Speaker 3: person's career is prioritized over the other, but at different 640 00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:34,960 Speaker 3: moments you're going to have to make decisions about you know, 641 00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:37,800 Speaker 3: who picks up the kids after school, or who is 642 00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:39,640 Speaker 3: going to go on a business trip versus who's going 643 00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:42,520 Speaker 3: to stay home with the kids, And it might be 644 00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:45,000 Speaker 3: like you trade off on a weekly basis, or you 645 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,680 Speaker 3: trade off on like on the amount of years where 646 00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,080 Speaker 3: for a certain amount of time, one partner is dedicated 647 00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:52,400 Speaker 3: to kids and the other partners doing the career, but 648 00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:54,880 Speaker 3: then later it might switch. But I think just talking 649 00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:57,920 Speaker 3: through that part of it is super important and can 650 00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:01,680 Speaker 3: also help you plan for downturns in the economy, Like 651 00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:04,160 Speaker 3: you're going to prioritize your career now, but if ever 652 00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:06,440 Speaker 3: you lost your job, then that's when I would step 653 00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:09,080 Speaker 3: up or something like that. So just understanding like who 654 00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:13,000 Speaker 3: is the primary earner at any moment in time, or 655 00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:16,000 Speaker 3: not primary earner but primary career person at any moment 656 00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:18,360 Speaker 3: in time, I think can avoid a lot of hard 657 00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:19,080 Speaker 3: fights later on. 658 00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:21,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean what I hear you speaking to 659 00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:23,400 Speaker 2: and you write about this as well. It's just essentially 660 00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:26,080 Speaker 2: aligning your goals. But there are ways, I guess of 661 00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:29,640 Speaker 2: doing that as opposed to jumping straight to the negatively 662 00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:32,400 Speaker 2: correlated careers and incomes. 663 00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:34,160 Speaker 4: I guess. I mean that's a part of dating. 664 00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:36,160 Speaker 2: Right, likely you just talk about what you're looking forward 665 00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:38,160 Speaker 2: to in life, and then that's like a soft way 666 00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:40,600 Speaker 2: of aligning those goals. And if you hear somebody say 667 00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:43,840 Speaker 2: something that, oh wow, I've never thought about that and 668 00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:46,400 Speaker 2: nor do I ever want that, it's. 669 00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:48,280 Speaker 1: Like I'm looking forward to traveling every week for the 670 00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:50,560 Speaker 1: rest of my life on and maybe for work trips. 671 00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:53,000 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, And you're like, wait, no, that's not good. 672 00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:53,640 Speaker 4: It's just funny. 673 00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:56,000 Speaker 2: I guess hearing in economic terms as opposed to kind 674 00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:58,880 Speaker 2: of how that plays out in real life. But Darryl 675 00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:03,640 Speaker 2: talk about career implications, like how should economics impact our 676 00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:07,479 Speaker 2: job and career decisions the work that we decide to do. 677 00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:12,640 Speaker 3: Well understanding your strategy for earning more money within your career, 678 00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:16,200 Speaker 3: I think it's just important to like to go to 679 00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:18,760 Speaker 3: think about how you're going to advance your earnings. You 680 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,520 Speaker 3: can advance your earnings by gaining skills. You could advance 681 00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:25,320 Speaker 3: your earnings by getting promotions or changing jobs. But I 682 00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:28,200 Speaker 3: think for people just starting out their career, their biggest 683 00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:31,120 Speaker 3: anxiety is just like I'm in a job. Like the 684 00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:35,000 Speaker 3: entry level jobs aren't create jobs, they're not as enjoyable 685 00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:36,959 Speaker 3: as those higher level jobs. Of figuring out how you're 686 00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:40,240 Speaker 3: going to get there is really important, and there's so 687 00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:42,760 Speaker 3: many there's so many different ways that economics can impact that. 688 00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:46,320 Speaker 3: I talk in the book about understanding the principal agent 689 00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:49,000 Speaker 3: model in terms of understanding what your boss might want 690 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:52,000 Speaker 3: out of you as an employee. I talk about backwards 691 00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:55,800 Speaker 3: induction to understand how to get promoted, like understanding who 692 00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:59,360 Speaker 3: is in control of promotion processes. But also there's like 693 00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 3: more macro stuff, like understanding how the unemployment rate in 694 00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:07,600 Speaker 3: different industries is going to impact your own likelihood of 695 00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:11,440 Speaker 3: going through about of unemployment, Like it's both the micro 696 00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:14,440 Speaker 3: level but also this macro level is in the backdrop 697 00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:15,360 Speaker 3: at all times. 698 00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:17,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm curious. Can you talk about that just a 699 00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:20,280 Speaker 1: little more? And what should we as individuals be paying 700 00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:23,120 Speaker 1: attention to so that we can realize what we can 701 00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:26,480 Speaker 1: push for and what's not possible. I guess in a 702 00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:28,880 Speaker 1: current economic climate, when you think, is it just like 703 00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,840 Speaker 1: the headline unemployment rate, is it we even look you 704 00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:36,239 Speaker 1: look back to COVID and the there was just some 705 00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:39,160 Speaker 1: employers were willing to offer so much money for job switchers. 706 00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:42,600 Speaker 1: That has declined significantly. What should we be paying at 707 00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:45,840 Speaker 1: attention to from a macroeconomic perspective to kind of know 708 00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:49,720 Speaker 1: are what our value might be worth in the market 709 00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:51,520 Speaker 1: we're currently in as an employee. 710 00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:53,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, the kind of metrics I would pay attention to, 711 00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:58,720 Speaker 3: or how many job openings are in your career sector, 712 00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:02,719 Speaker 3: how many peopleeople are unemployed looking for work in that 713 00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:05,320 Speaker 3: career sector, because that can kind of tell you how 714 00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:08,920 Speaker 3: how much competition there is, how how many people are 715 00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:11,320 Speaker 3: going to be willing to take a lower income to 716 00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:14,520 Speaker 3: get the same job that you want. You generally want 717 00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:16,360 Speaker 3: to gravitate towards those jobs where there are lots of 718 00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:18,760 Speaker 3: openings and not that many people who have the skills 719 00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:21,200 Speaker 3: in them yet. Then you can be one of those 720 00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:23,920 Speaker 3: early people when it's still rare for you to have 721 00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:25,720 Speaker 3: those skills, and that's often when you can get the 722 00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:29,520 Speaker 3: most raises and get them like the best career trajectory. 723 00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:31,560 Speaker 3: You know everybody is going to be trying to do that, 724 00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:34,160 Speaker 3: figure out what the next big thing is, But oftentimes 725 00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:35,920 Speaker 3: you can kind of look at the data to give 726 00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:39,840 Speaker 3: you a hint. Healthcare is one where like it's good, 727 00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:41,720 Speaker 3: they're going to need to be more healthcare workers. Like 728 00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:44,840 Speaker 3: if I was advising somebody who didn't who who only 729 00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:47,040 Speaker 3: wanted job security and they were entering into college, I 730 00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:49,600 Speaker 3: would say, pick something in healthcare because you're definitely going 731 00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:52,080 Speaker 3: to be employed in the coming decades in. 732 00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:53,960 Speaker 4: That aging population. That kind of thing. 733 00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:56,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, aging population. The spending just keeps going up on it. 734 00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:00,240 Speaker 3: So yeah, and then it's a kind of job but 735 00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:03,680 Speaker 3: can't be replaced by robots at least not across the board, 736 00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:07,440 Speaker 3: because it's manual, it requires a human touch. There's bedside care. 737 00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:09,200 Speaker 3: I think that there will continue to be plenty of 738 00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:10,320 Speaker 3: healthcare jobs. 739 00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:13,200 Speaker 2: And then for folks who are so let's say they 740 00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:16,279 Speaker 2: already have a career and you mentioned this, right, just 741 00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:19,399 Speaker 2: the ability to increase your earnings either by like let's say, 742 00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:23,480 Speaker 2: upping your skills, maybe opting for a new job, or 743 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:26,080 Speaker 2: kind of angling for that promotion. How would you recommend 744 00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:29,000 Speaker 2: for someone to maybe decide between those two or even 745 00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:31,680 Speaker 2: all three of those? Right, But I guess I specifically 746 00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:33,759 Speaker 2: want to drill down on, like, Okay, I'm looking to 747 00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:37,160 Speaker 2: either get promoted internally here or when should someone know 748 00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:39,960 Speaker 2: that they should be looking just to a different company 749 00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:42,279 Speaker 2: outside of who they're currently with. 750 00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:45,719 Speaker 3: The First thing to assess is how likely are you 751 00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:47,960 Speaker 3: to get promoted? Like are you already do you already 752 00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:49,600 Speaker 3: have everything you need to get promoted, and it's a 753 00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:53,920 Speaker 3: matter of pushing your promotion documents through and getting them approved, 754 00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:56,719 Speaker 3: or are there more skills that you need and more 755 00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:59,120 Speaker 3: evidence that you need to provide in order to get promoted. 756 00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:01,680 Speaker 3: If it's in the latter category, there's more that you 757 00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:04,440 Speaker 3: need to do. I think looking around at your peers 758 00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:08,279 Speaker 3: and looking at how they have gotten promoted. And then 759 00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:10,080 Speaker 3: if you're already at that stage where you have all 760 00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:12,080 Speaker 3: the skills, I think the stage to go to is 761 00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:15,200 Speaker 3: who is actually in charge of the promotion decision. Your 762 00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:18,080 Speaker 3: manager probably has some control of it, but your manager's 763 00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:20,320 Speaker 3: manager probably has to say and maybe even the executives 764 00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:20,839 Speaker 3: have a say. 765 00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:21,120 Speaker 1: So. 766 00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:24,440 Speaker 3: Making sure that people who are making these decisions know 767 00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:27,120 Speaker 3: who you are and know the value you bring is 768 00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:29,720 Speaker 3: going to be really important to getting a promotion approved. 769 00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:33,279 Speaker 1: Do you feel like people like great jobs have become 770 00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:36,720 Speaker 1: more widely geographically available given work from home. It seems 771 00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:38,839 Speaker 1: like some of the some employers are calling back work 772 00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:41,719 Speaker 1: from home a little bit, and other employers are saying, 773 00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:43,560 Speaker 1: oh cool, well you lived in Silicon valley and you 774 00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:45,759 Speaker 1: made a ridiculously high salary, But if you're going to 775 00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:47,640 Speaker 1: move to the middle part of the country, we're going 776 00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:50,520 Speaker 1: to pay you less. Is there still an opportunity for 777 00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:53,040 Speaker 1: people to live in a lower cost area of living 778 00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:56,279 Speaker 1: and benefit from a higher paying job that might be 779 00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:59,160 Speaker 1: headquartered in a more expensive place to live. 780 00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:01,719 Speaker 3: I think that's definitely a lot easier to find those 781 00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:05,000 Speaker 3: remote opportunities now than it was before the pandemic. But 782 00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:07,280 Speaker 3: there is starting to be a bit of a reversal 783 00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:11,120 Speaker 3: on the trend where more corporations are wanting their employees 784 00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:15,320 Speaker 3: in office. We've seen that at Amazon. I think Apple 785 00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:17,600 Speaker 3: and Facebook have also done this, and the federal government 786 00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:21,479 Speaker 3: has called people back into work too. So I think 787 00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:25,560 Speaker 3: that if you are trying to cast that y net, 788 00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:29,080 Speaker 3: I wouldn't rule out in office for you, because that 789 00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:31,680 Speaker 3: if you're still in that early part of your career, 790 00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:34,720 Speaker 3: it could be detrimental to completely rule out in office work. 791 00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:37,400 Speaker 3: But I think it is something that is worth aspiring 792 00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:40,000 Speaker 3: to if that's how you feel most comfortable working, it's 793 00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:42,719 Speaker 3: something that you value. I've set up a situation where 794 00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:45,160 Speaker 3: I can work remotely, but you know, earlier in my 795 00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:47,160 Speaker 3: career I didn't have the ability to do that. I'm 796 00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:48,680 Speaker 3: lucky that I have it now. But I think it 797 00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:51,640 Speaker 3: is something similar to your salary or similar to your 798 00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:54,680 Speaker 3: vacation time or your healthcare. It's one of these features 799 00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:57,000 Speaker 3: of your job that is going to impact your well being. 800 00:36:57,400 --> 00:36:58,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, for sure. 801 00:36:58,480 --> 00:36:59,600 Speaker 1: Or we've got more to get to, just a few 802 00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:03,240 Speaker 1: more questions. Is with Darryl Fairwell. Featherwa with Darryl Fairweather 803 00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:07,680 Speaker 1: about how economics impacts every area of our lives. We'll 804 00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:08,520 Speaker 1: get to that right after this. 805 00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:18,640 Speaker 2: All right, we are back from the break with Darryl Fairweather, 806 00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:21,799 Speaker 2: her book Hate the Game Economic cheat Codes for Life, 807 00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:25,240 Speaker 2: Love and Work. And I will say they're not necessarily 808 00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:27,279 Speaker 2: cheat codes. Like what you're doing in the book is 809 00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:30,480 Speaker 2: you're essentially you're like laying out the rules of these 810 00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:33,839 Speaker 2: different games so that we can quite clearly identify how 811 00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:35,520 Speaker 2: to actually win in these games. So it's not like 812 00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:39,120 Speaker 2: I don't know, sometimes folks here cheat code no game Genie, Yeah, yeah, 813 00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:41,279 Speaker 2: game Genie is like totally cheating, like you're not playing 814 00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:45,000 Speaker 2: the game at all. You've like short not shortcut, like yeah, 815 00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:48,600 Speaker 2: like hot wired the game, as opposed to clearly focusing 816 00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:51,359 Speaker 2: on the pieces of data that are going to move 817 00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:53,960 Speaker 2: the needle of the most Daryl. But in the book 818 00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:58,120 Speaker 2: you discuss obviously these different major life changes like moving 819 00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:01,880 Speaker 2: to a new city, and and essentially it seems like 820 00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:03,759 Speaker 2: you're saying that folks on the fence are typically better 821 00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:06,520 Speaker 2: off getting off the fence making the change. Can you 822 00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:07,440 Speaker 2: explain why that is. 823 00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:10,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, there's a bias in behavioral economics called the status 824 00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:13,480 Speaker 3: quo bias, which is that it's been well documented that 825 00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:17,319 Speaker 3: people tend to stick with whatever situation they're in. I 826 00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:19,440 Speaker 3: talked about this a little bit before. How when you 827 00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:22,560 Speaker 3: feel like you own something, you value it more. Well, 828 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:25,000 Speaker 3: the same is kind of true for the neighborhood that 829 00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:27,200 Speaker 3: you live in. If you grew up in a certain neighborhood, 830 00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:29,120 Speaker 3: you live in a certain neighborhood, you might think it's 831 00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:31,879 Speaker 3: better than other neighborhoods out there, but you wouldn't really 832 00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:34,480 Speaker 3: know unless you make the leap of faith and make 833 00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:37,560 Speaker 3: a change. So I think if you're even if you're 834 00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:41,880 Speaker 3: even contemplating moving cities, it's definitely worth exploring. And if 835 00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:45,160 Speaker 3: you're on the fence, just go for it, because for 836 00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:50,959 Speaker 3: most people, they are subconsciously holding themselves back from better 837 00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:53,520 Speaker 3: opportunities because of that fear of the unknown and the 838 00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:54,520 Speaker 3: status quo bias. 839 00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:58,280 Speaker 2: So not just moving, but would you say that applies 840 00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:00,719 Speaker 2: to I guess a lot of the diferent decisions in 841 00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:02,920 Speaker 2: our life, the fact that status quo or the endowment 842 00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:05,960 Speaker 2: effect that that is maybe weighing heavier on people's decision 843 00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:07,759 Speaker 2: making processes than to even realize. 844 00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:10,080 Speaker 3: I think for the average person, yes, you know, I 845 00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:11,760 Speaker 3: know that there are people out there who maybe struggle 846 00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:15,240 Speaker 3: with impulsivity and they feel like this is the exact opposite. 847 00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:17,880 Speaker 3: They need to stop making so many changes. But I 848 00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:21,680 Speaker 3: think the average person is resistant to change and it's 849 00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:25,080 Speaker 3: holding them back from better opportunities. 850 00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:29,480 Speaker 1: You also highlight in the book the concept of permanent income, 851 00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:32,680 Speaker 1: which is the assumption of future earnings, and you say 852 00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:37,040 Speaker 1: that that also impacts our money decisions how so well. 853 00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:40,400 Speaker 3: The permanent income hypothesis is this idea that if you 854 00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:43,719 Speaker 3: knew how much income you're going to live over your life, 855 00:39:43,760 --> 00:39:45,760 Speaker 3: then you would be able to borrow against your future 856 00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:49,320 Speaker 3: income and smooth out your consumption. So instead of eating 857 00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:52,719 Speaker 3: ramen noodles as a poor college student, you would recognize 858 00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:54,640 Speaker 3: that in the future you're going to be making more money, 859 00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:58,040 Speaker 3: so why not you know, spend money on an actual 860 00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:02,120 Speaker 3: meal instead of like making things harder for yourself. The 861 00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:04,759 Speaker 3: part about the permanent income hypothesis is that I think 862 00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:08,120 Speaker 3: people are afraid of that worst case scenario where they 863 00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:10,440 Speaker 3: didn't end up, you know, getting the job after college 864 00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:12,759 Speaker 3: that led to higher earnings, and they wish they really 865 00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:16,560 Speaker 3: didn't spend or go into debt earlier on. But the 866 00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:19,480 Speaker 3: idea is that you know, on average, people do earn 867 00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:21,759 Speaker 3: more money over their lifetimes, and they should spend more 868 00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:24,480 Speaker 3: when they're young, they should save when they're older, and 869 00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:27,560 Speaker 3: then they have to spend down that retirement savings when 870 00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:30,200 Speaker 3: they're in their later years. 871 00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:32,600 Speaker 1: You just don't know, though. It was only we knew 872 00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:35,800 Speaker 1: knew the future? Was it the white paper from Yale? 873 00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:38,520 Speaker 1: Was it James Troy? Maybe they wrote that about kind 874 00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:42,520 Speaker 1: of how how he was advocating for people to spend 875 00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:44,279 Speaker 1: more early on and be willing to take on more 876 00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:47,719 Speaker 1: debt because of this kind of permanent income hypothesis, saying 877 00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:49,640 Speaker 1: that like hey, no, no, no, you just smooth out the 878 00:40:49,680 --> 00:40:52,480 Speaker 1: ride a little bit in your living standard and it's 879 00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:54,840 Speaker 1: it's all going to be okay. But yeah, when you 880 00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:59,480 Speaker 1: factor in the realities of life that layoffs happen, or 881 00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:03,520 Speaker 1: you know, even something like a hike in interest rates happen, 882 00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:07,880 Speaker 1: and your credit card debt now is worse than it was, 883 00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:11,239 Speaker 1: or your home equity line of credit payment has gone up. 884 00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:12,920 Speaker 1: Like those are the kind of things that are harder 885 00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:15,279 Speaker 1: to predict. So there, I think there are second order 886 00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:19,880 Speaker 1: consequences to just assuming future income too, or assuming future races, right. 887 00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that the downsides can be quite severe, 888 00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:27,400 Speaker 3: especially for people who don't have good safety nets. If 889 00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:31,480 Speaker 3: you know, losing income would mean that you're out, you 890 00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:33,160 Speaker 3: can't pay your rent, and you have nowhere to go, 891 00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:35,600 Speaker 3: then like you have a different risk tolerance and somebody 892 00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:38,399 Speaker 3: who can rely on their parents or can move back home. 893 00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:41,920 Speaker 3: So I think for people who are worried about spending 894 00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:45,040 Speaker 3: a lot when they're young, those those fears can be founded. 895 00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:47,160 Speaker 3: And if it's having the psychological toll on you not 896 00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:49,520 Speaker 3: having enough in savings, then I think that in and 897 00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:52,719 Speaker 3: of itself is justified. Like if if you just feel 898 00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:55,160 Speaker 3: better having money in your savings account, then like, go 899 00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:56,920 Speaker 3: for it. You don't know, nobody should be telling you 900 00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:57,439 Speaker 3: to spend more. 901 00:41:57,800 --> 00:42:00,359 Speaker 2: Well, that feeling in your gut like that in and 902 00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:02,440 Speaker 2: of itself should be a data point that you pay 903 00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:04,960 Speaker 2: attention to. It's not just about like these external factors. 904 00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:07,840 Speaker 2: It's just also and it's hard to quantify. But how 905 00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:09,880 Speaker 2: how do you feel about this asision? 906 00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:10,160 Speaker 4: Yeah? 907 00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:12,200 Speaker 2: Because if you constantly are at feel like you're at 908 00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:14,319 Speaker 2: odds with what your gut's telling you, then I don't 909 00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:17,600 Speaker 2: think that's necessarily any way to live either, Darrel. You 910 00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:20,279 Speaker 2: also admit, like you're talking about spending or saving up 911 00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:23,800 Speaker 2: for retirement, you talk about stock picking, and you basically 912 00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:26,600 Speaker 2: compare it to like a beauty like a beauty contest game. 913 00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:29,319 Speaker 2: Can you share the correlation here between the two. 914 00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:32,160 Speaker 3: Yeah. So there was this old game that used to 915 00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:35,560 Speaker 3: appear in newspapers like kind of like just a fun thing, 916 00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:37,200 Speaker 3: like a lottery kind of game, where you'd write in 917 00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:39,720 Speaker 3: your answer and maybe win a prize. And the idea 918 00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:43,839 Speaker 3: was to pick the picture of the woman that everybody 919 00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:47,719 Speaker 3: else was going to select as the most beautiful. So 920 00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:50,759 Speaker 3: instead of picking the picture that you personally thought was 921 00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:52,279 Speaker 3: the most beautiful, you're trying to pick the one that 922 00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:54,440 Speaker 3: everybody else is going to pick. But everybody else is 923 00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:57,440 Speaker 3: also going through that same exercise of what else is 924 00:42:57,440 --> 00:42:59,879 Speaker 3: everybody going to pick? I want to align on that. 925 00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:02,239 Speaker 3: And it's very similar to the stock market because you're 926 00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:04,640 Speaker 3: not necessarily picking the stock that you like the best. 927 00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:06,880 Speaker 3: You're picking in the stock that you think everybody else 928 00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:09,160 Speaker 3: is going to like in the future, and it's going 929 00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:11,720 Speaker 3: to go up in value. What happens in the actual 930 00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:16,040 Speaker 3: beauty contest game is that you know people the best 931 00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:18,399 Speaker 3: answer is not like the one that kind of goes 932 00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:22,000 Speaker 3: through too many lines of logic. If you reduce the 933 00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:23,719 Speaker 3: there's a way to reduce the problem to like something 934 00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:27,960 Speaker 3: mathematical and basically economists have shown that ideally, you just 935 00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:31,040 Speaker 3: want to think about like two degrees of separation, like 936 00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:33,960 Speaker 3: what does my opponent think about me, and then just 937 00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:35,600 Speaker 3: end it there. You don't want to keep going on 938 00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:37,880 Speaker 3: and on forever, like well, if this happens, or if 939 00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:42,920 Speaker 3: that happens, or what are they think exactly? Sometimes overthinking 940 00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:44,520 Speaker 3: can be too much, and I think that's also just 941 00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:46,800 Speaker 3: a great reason to maybe not play the stock market 942 00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:50,040 Speaker 3: because it's just requires too much thinking and just kind 943 00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:52,960 Speaker 3: of play the averages and pick an index fund instead. 944 00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:56,920 Speaker 1: With you on that, Darryl on that Wise notes, we'll 945 00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:58,840 Speaker 1: lend this conversation. Thank you so much for taking the 946 00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:01,120 Speaker 1: time to join us work in how to money listeners 947 00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:03,319 Speaker 1: find out more about you and find out more about 948 00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:03,839 Speaker 1: your new book. 949 00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:06,799 Speaker 3: Well, you can buy my book in any bookstore or 950 00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:08,640 Speaker 3: on any of the online platforms, and you can find 951 00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:11,520 Speaker 3: me on all the social media. I'm at Fairweather PhD 952 00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:14,840 Speaker 3: on Instagram and that's my handle pretty much everywhere. 953 00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:17,000 Speaker 2: Nice, we'll link to all of that, Darryl, Thanks so 954 00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:18,960 Speaker 2: much for making the time for us today. Thank you 955 00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:21,839 Speaker 2: all right, man, that was a good combo with old 956 00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:24,359 Speaker 2: Darryl Fairweather. Yeah, it was. And she's not old. She's 957 00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:25,000 Speaker 2: younger than us. 958 00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:29,120 Speaker 1: Man, She's young, she's smarter, and I thought I thought 959 00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:30,320 Speaker 1: her book was really insightful. 960 00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:33,000 Speaker 4: What was your big takeaway from this conversation. 961 00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:35,279 Speaker 2: It said, the whole first segment or first section, we 962 00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:38,279 Speaker 2: talked about housing and when it comes to first time 963 00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:40,279 Speaker 2: home buyers and how it is that they should be 964 00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:43,360 Speaker 2: thinking about buying a home. She put the two parts 965 00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:45,560 Speaker 2: of home buying in the right order, which is that 966 00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:47,560 Speaker 2: what needs to happen first is you need to be 967 00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:50,439 Speaker 2: thinking about it a whole lot before you get out there, 968 00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:53,480 Speaker 2: before you go shopping. Then you can start looking. But 969 00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:56,080 Speaker 2: the problem is most people start because of the ease 970 00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:59,160 Speaker 2: that the apps make it. Unfortunately, and just like the 971 00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:02,040 Speaker 2: wander lust that takes place with just oh, let's go 972 00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:04,480 Speaker 2: let's see what houses are for sales browse first. Yeah, 973 00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:05,920 Speaker 2: and I think there is a lot less of that 974 00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:07,960 Speaker 2: going on than obviously there was over the past four 975 00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:10,080 Speaker 2: years during the pandemic, but there does seem to be 976 00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:13,319 Speaker 2: this sort of holdover, this kind of carryover effect of 977 00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:15,279 Speaker 2: that where folks are looking, they're falling in love with 978 00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:18,319 Speaker 2: a property with a house before they even know what 979 00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:21,600 Speaker 2: it is that they can afford. They haven't looked at rates, 980 00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:24,000 Speaker 2: they haven't decided how long that they're going to actually 981 00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:24,560 Speaker 2: stay in that house. 982 00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:26,200 Speaker 4: I don't know what the average price per square foot 983 00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:27,640 Speaker 4: is for a house in an oh No. 984 00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:31,839 Speaker 2: And so she is trying to deemotionalize the conversation from 985 00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:34,680 Speaker 2: square one. Let's get analytical about it and then let's 986 00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:36,000 Speaker 2: get out there and start looking. And I think that 987 00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:38,919 Speaker 2: that can be just a helpful matrix and decision making 988 00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:42,040 Speaker 2: process when it comes to especially for some home buyers 989 00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:44,200 Speaker 2: who are getting out there for the first time looking 990 00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:44,760 Speaker 2: at housing. 991 00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:46,520 Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, that was my big takeaway how about you. 992 00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:48,960 Speaker 1: Okay, so that was potentially gonna be mine, so oh sorry, 993 00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:51,760 Speaker 1: ill here. And I like when she was talking about 994 00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:55,720 Speaker 1: marriage and kind of the the economic reality of marriage 995 00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:57,480 Speaker 1: and how you have to kind of talk about the 996 00:45:57,520 --> 00:45:59,880 Speaker 1: things planned for those things ahead of time, and that 997 00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:02,560 Speaker 1: is something as someone who's very interested in personal finance 998 00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:06,400 Speaker 1: and saw personal finance as an issue in my parents' marriage, 999 00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:08,480 Speaker 1: that was something I was a little more proactive about, 1000 00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:10,760 Speaker 1: largely just because I'd seen the way I can bite 1001 00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:13,759 Speaker 1: you in the butt if you're not. And also, let's 1002 00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:17,239 Speaker 1: be honest, even if your plans, you can't always. Sometimes 1003 00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:19,800 Speaker 1: things that are worse than your plans come to pass 1004 00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:23,960 Speaker 1: and you can't necessarily prevent that. But I was just 1005 00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:26,439 Speaker 1: thinking too about the prioritization of careers. I think that's 1006 00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:30,279 Speaker 1: a really especially in today's environment, a lot of two 1007 00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:33,600 Speaker 1: income households. You have to talk about that with your partner. Hey, 1008 00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:35,760 Speaker 1: for right now, like my job's on the front burner, 1009 00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:39,240 Speaker 1: yours is on the back. You're dealing with more house duties. 1010 00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:41,320 Speaker 1: And right now Emily and I are in this position 1011 00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:44,240 Speaker 1: of flip flopping where her career is kind of taking 1012 00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:47,160 Speaker 1: front and center role in our family. And that's a 1013 00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:48,960 Speaker 1: good thing. And I'm glad we've been able to have 1014 00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:51,440 Speaker 1: this conversation. And it's not that I'm bowing out of 1015 00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:53,520 Speaker 1: how to money or I'm completely uninterested in doing this 1016 00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:56,160 Speaker 1: podcast anymore, but it's just I love that I get 1017 00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:58,400 Speaker 1: to be in a little bit more of a hands 1018 00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:02,040 Speaker 1: on supportive role at the house too, and so that 1019 00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:03,840 Speaker 1: that will be something that I think ebbs and flows 1020 00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:07,040 Speaker 1: for a lot of couples over their career lifetime, in 1021 00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:09,799 Speaker 1: their marriage lifetime. Yeah, but it's something that having I 1022 00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:13,719 Speaker 1: think those conversations proactively and saying, hey, what whose era 1023 00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:16,279 Speaker 1: is this right now? And then when does my era 1024 00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:17,759 Speaker 1: kick in? Where I get to kind of put the 1025 00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:19,680 Speaker 1: pedal to the metal. I think I can prevent a 1026 00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:21,440 Speaker 1: lot of arguments or hard feelings. 1027 00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:22,960 Speaker 2: I love it, dude. Yeah, I feel like y'all have 1028 00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:27,160 Speaker 2: demonstrated that well. The beer that you and I enjoyed 1029 00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:30,320 Speaker 2: during this episode was an argyle. This is the Raspberry 1030 00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:34,480 Speaker 2: Key Lime Sour by Contrast Artists and Ales. What your thoughts, buddy, 1031 00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:36,279 Speaker 2: So still get a little more in here on a port. 1032 00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:39,200 Speaker 1: I think this is my favorite beer I've had from 1033 00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:41,520 Speaker 1: Contrast to this point. Oh yeah, I really like this one. 1034 00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:42,560 Speaker 1: It's because it's raspberry. 1035 00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:45,840 Speaker 2: It's because it's raspberry. So I pick this one's up specifically. 1036 00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:47,520 Speaker 2: And I saw that I had raspberry, I was just like, 1037 00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:49,880 Speaker 2: there's no way that Joel's not gonna enjoy it. 1038 00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:53,600 Speaker 1: I mean, I love love raspberry beers and raspberry key lime. 1039 00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:56,680 Speaker 1: I gotta say it's my jam, Like I dig this 1040 00:47:56,719 --> 00:48:00,040 Speaker 1: so I like the combo of flavors in this one, 1041 00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:03,919 Speaker 1: and it's it's pretty tart, not overly tart, but very 1042 00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:04,720 Speaker 1: very fruity. 1043 00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:05,920 Speaker 4: I dug it. 1044 00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:08,000 Speaker 2: It's got the I think more beers need to have 1045 00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:12,560 Speaker 2: lime in them. Lime, I think is a highly underrated citrus. Lately, 1046 00:48:12,600 --> 00:48:14,960 Speaker 2: I've been putting more lime in my cocktails. You know. 1047 00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:16,920 Speaker 4: The that beach Fire cocktail that. 1048 00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:20,080 Speaker 2: I created started out as made his own cocktail people. 1049 00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:22,480 Speaker 2: Started out as a whiskey sour, but which is typically 1050 00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:24,040 Speaker 2: you make that with a lemon, and I'm like, I 1051 00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:26,800 Speaker 2: don't like the lemon sour though, and that you start tweaking, 1052 00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:28,040 Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh, wait a minute, what if I 1053 00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:29,839 Speaker 2: switch it to lime? All of a sudden, I love 1054 00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:32,279 Speaker 2: it so much more. Make some other changes, as some 1055 00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:35,520 Speaker 2: smoky scotch and boom. You know, you get yourself a 1056 00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:40,040 Speaker 2: own signature cocktail. Yeah, but no that the raspberry in 1057 00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:42,480 Speaker 2: this actually kind of remind me of Cantitione. And I 1058 00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:45,960 Speaker 2: know that you're gonna cry. Here's the that this is 1059 00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:48,240 Speaker 2: not something that should ever be said. But something about 1060 00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:50,719 Speaker 2: that funky raspberry, man, it makes me think of those 1061 00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:52,920 Speaker 2: some of the greatest beers in the world. I'm not 1062 00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:55,080 Speaker 2: going to say it's I'm not your friend anymore. You 1063 00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:58,200 Speaker 2: can't compare any beer to Canti because it's its own. 1064 00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:00,080 Speaker 2: I guess I think of that anytime I have a 1065 00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:02,560 Speaker 2: raspberry sour because of the fact that so many of 1066 00:49:02,640 --> 00:49:04,680 Speaker 2: the beers that you've shared with me that were either 1067 00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:09,040 Speaker 2: Trefontaine or Katie Yone, they were raspberry. 1068 00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:11,520 Speaker 4: That was the fruit, raspberry, cherry. 1069 00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:14,799 Speaker 1: Gosh, any fruited sours that those guys make, they're literally 1070 00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:15,680 Speaker 1: the best beers in the world. 1071 00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:16,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean quite literally. 1072 00:49:17,080 --> 00:49:19,480 Speaker 1: I throw down the collin to the American Brewery to 1073 00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:20,360 Speaker 1: do better than those guys do. 1074 00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:23,520 Speaker 2: But this is great, a total summertime sour kind of 1075 00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:25,239 Speaker 2: style beer that's super easy to drink. 1076 00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:26,759 Speaker 4: Most stuff really delicious. Right. 1077 00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:29,440 Speaker 1: We'll put links to Daryl's book and a few of 1078 00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:32,799 Speaker 1: the other resources we mentioned in this conversation up on 1079 00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:34,719 Speaker 1: our website at how tomoney dot com. You can find 1080 00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:36,680 Speaker 1: them in the show notes there, along with some other 1081 00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:39,520 Speaker 1: helpful resources to give you advice and encouragement in your 1082 00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:42,399 Speaker 1: money journey. They all live there all the time on our. 1083 00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:44,480 Speaker 2: Website, you know what. So until next time, buddy, best 1084 00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:46,479 Speaker 2: friends out, Best Friends Out.