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Speaker 1: Brooking Jewels. Second date Update. All right, it's time for

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Speaker 1: the second date update. You go out on a date

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Speaker 1: with someone, they don't get back to you. We call

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Speaker 1: them to find out why. We've got Nicole on the phone. Nicole, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: how are you? I'm okay? Okay, So you went out

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Speaker 1: on a date with a guy and he didn't get

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Speaker 1: back to you. What's the story? Well, um d I

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Speaker 1: met this guy, Benjamin um Uh through mutual friends at

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Speaker 1: a birthday party. Okay. I had never met him before,

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Speaker 1: so we like really hit it off and he asked

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Speaker 1: for my number and then he called an he asked

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Speaker 1: me at dinner. Okay, so did you go to dinner?

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Speaker 1: We did. He took me to um El Gaucho in Seattle. Yeah. Nice,

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Speaker 1: especially for a first date. It was really really nice

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Speaker 1: and like we were like laughing and having such a

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Speaker 1: good time. And afterwards, I was like, oh, do you

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Speaker 1: want to come over to my house to hang out

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Speaker 1: for a little bit and he said, he said totally.

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Speaker 1: And then after after being there like ten minutes, he

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Speaker 1: like he got kind of awkward and like like started

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Speaker 1: like mumbling from random excuses and then he like and

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Speaker 1: then he left. Wait, so he just boned out, like

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Speaker 1: he left kind of awkwardly. Yeah, did he check his

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Speaker 1: phone before he left? He sort of was like, oh time,

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Speaker 1: Oh I gotta go, like it was all right, and

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Speaker 1: then he just bounced on you and you tried to

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Speaker 1: get a hold of him after he left. Yeah, he

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Speaker 1: didn't call me, but um, but I called him and

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Speaker 1: like left a voicemail saying like I had such a

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Speaker 1: nice time and like wanted to hang out again soon,

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Speaker 1: But he never called me back. And it's been like

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Speaker 1: a week and a half. Do you have a week?

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Speaker 1: Do you have like weird stuff in your house or something? Like?

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Speaker 1: Is there is there some way he would have been

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Speaker 1: creeped out by anything you have. I've gone over it

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Speaker 1: in my head, Like I can't think of anything, And

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Speaker 1: I like wanted to think, like did I did I

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Speaker 1: say something? But I don't think I did. Do you

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Speaker 1: have a collection of angel figure eights or satanical picture everyone?

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Speaker 1: Did you leave your valtruck's prescription out on the kitchen counter?

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Speaker 1: So you can't think of any reason why he would

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Speaker 1: just get weird and leave your place? No? I really can't.

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Speaker 1: All Right, Well, we're gonna call him and see if

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Speaker 1: he'll answer. And we're gonna ask him why. All right. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I've been listening to you do all these second date updates.

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Speaker 1: I think I hope that you can help me. I

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Speaker 1: ask everybody this, You're prepared to hear what he has

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Speaker 1: to say if it's not good. Yeah, all right, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna call him right after Katy Perry, it's moving looking

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Speaker 1: Jubil in the Morning second updates? All right, Nicole went

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Speaker 1: out on a date with Benjamin. After going to dinner,

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Speaker 1: they went back to her place. He proceeded to kind

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Speaker 1: of get weird after a little while, and then just

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Speaker 1: left with no explanation. Nicole, are you ready for us

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Speaker 1: to call Benjamin and ask him why he left your

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Speaker 1: place and hasn't gotten back to you? Yeah? Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: need some closure around that. Okay, Hello, Hey, may I

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Speaker 1: speak to Benjamin? This is Benjamin. Hey, how are you?

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Speaker 1: This is Jewil from brook and Jewil in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: I'm moving ninety two point five. Hey, how's it going?

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Speaker 1: You know? Nicole? Uh? Yeah, I don't call all right? Well,

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Speaker 1: according to Nicole, you two went on a date and

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Speaker 1: after dinner went to her place, and then you proceeded

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Speaker 1: to kind of get skittish and leave. Uh yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, I'm just curious to see why. First of all,

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Speaker 1: how do you know, Nicole? To be completely honest, it's

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Speaker 1: a segment we do on our show where someone emails

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Speaker 1: us and asks why a person didn't call him back

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Speaker 1: after a first date. We have her permission to ask you,

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Speaker 1: and we just want to know why you haven't gotten

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Speaker 1: back to were Well. Uh, I mean, I have no

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Speaker 1: problem telling you why I left, but I uh, well,

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Speaker 1: so what's the deal? Then? Why did you leave her apartment? Well?

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Speaker 1: Did she tell you that this is our first day?

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Speaker 1: She did? Yeah? Okay, so uh yeah. We went back

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Speaker 1: to her place and things were fine, and uh she

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Speaker 1: got up to use the restroom and a short while

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Speaker 1: after I went up to use the rest room myself

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Speaker 1: and realized that she had not flushed the toilet. No,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but that's my worst fear. Are you serious?

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Speaker 1: Come on, dude, that's an accident. An an accident. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she didn't mean forget. She was just thinking maybe she

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Speaker 1: was so nervous hanging out with you, Benjamin, that she

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Speaker 1: forgot to flush the toilet. Now that that I listen,

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Speaker 1: I've I've gone through this in my head over and

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Speaker 1: over and over again. She wasn't nervous. She was totally

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Speaker 1: cool and relaxed. The whole evening. Everything was going great.

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Speaker 1: And then I go into her bathroom and there is

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Speaker 1: a hurricane deuce. Nicole, Yeah, did you? Did you hear

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Speaker 1: what Benjamin just said? Who whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa

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Speaker 1: whoa whoa? What's going on? Hey? I then Nicole's actually

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Speaker 1: on the other line Benjamin, Um, well, all right, well listen, Benjamin.

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Speaker 1: It's like, I'm sorry, Like it's listen, It's happened to

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Speaker 1: the best of us, and like, I don't know, I

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Speaker 1: gotta tell you, if I walked into your bathroom and

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Speaker 1: you'd dropped like a major deuce and forgot, I'd probably

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Speaker 1: just like stick my head back out and be like, hey, forgot, Nicole.

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Speaker 1: You wouldn't have been embarrassed if Benjamin did that. Though, No,

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Speaker 1: I'm not embarrassed. I just thought it was weird. I

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Speaker 1: think it's because, I mean, who forgets to flush the

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Speaker 1: toilet out from etiquette cannot make you not call a

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Speaker 1: girl back. I don't know. I kind of take Benjamin's

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Speaker 1: side on this bend, Like if I were to walk

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Speaker 1: into it and a girl hadn't done that, I might

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Speaker 1: be kind of weirded out and leave too. I don't.

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Speaker 1: First of all, in my mind, women are magical fairies

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Speaker 1: who don't do that at all. Yes, so it would

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Speaker 1: creep me out. I totally agree with you, Jubils. You'll

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Speaker 1: never get that vision out of your head. Brother, Nicole,

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Speaker 1: You're not embarrassed at all. Sorry, I mean, everybody poops,

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Speaker 1: there's a book about it. You give it the kids, Nicole,

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Speaker 1: Why are you doing this to me? You've you've already

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Speaker 1: scarred Benjamin for life, now you're scarring me. I'm not scarred.

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Speaker 1: I just thought it was weird. Weird, that's all. I mean.

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Speaker 1: I know that everybody poops, I get it, but like,

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Speaker 1: come on, it was a red flag. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: it was a red flag. Like, I mean, it was

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Speaker 1: a brown flag. Dude, Nicole, does it make you mad

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Speaker 1: at Benjamin that he that he left because of that?

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Speaker 1: I mean it makes I mean, I think that's kind

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Speaker 1: of like someone who's like not cool enough to like

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Speaker 1: like handle that, like make a joke about I'm not

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Speaker 1: going to pick up I'm not handling it. Okay, Okay,

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Speaker 1: before you guys, get off the phone, here, Nicole, I'm

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Speaker 1: sure you've got to go to the bathroom or something.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to offer you because you came on the

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Speaker 1: show a second date. If you guys want to go out,

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Speaker 1: we'll pay for your second date. You guys interested, I mean,

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Speaker 1: uh yeah, I'm willing to give I mean will a

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Speaker 1: second chance. It's the wrong word, but Nicole, you seem

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Speaker 1: to have a sense of humor about it. Um okay,

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Speaker 1: So Nicole, will you guys go out on a second date?

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Speaker 1: Then we'll pay for it. I would love to. That's awesome.

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Speaker 1: Whatever you do, just don't make it Mexican