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Speaker 1: It's time for Ryan's roses. So Angie and long Beach

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Speaker 1: reaching out here. Angie, thanks for coming on. As I

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Speaker 1: understand it, your husband who was married before and now

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Speaker 2: Still, yes, that is correct.

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Speaker 3: And what's the dynamics?

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Speaker 1: So the two of them travel as the two adults

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, okay, so that's a little bit of background.

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Speaker 2: My husband and I have been married for four years,

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Speaker 2: and they have three kids, and so every other year

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Speaker 2: they go on, you know, kind of a big family

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Speaker 2: But you know, these aren't just small trips to Santa

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Speaker 4: They.

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Speaker 2: You know, well they came back from this trip, you know,

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Speaker 2: sally like they really had a blast, which made me

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Speaker 2: But the kids actually were telling a hilarious story about

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Speaker 1: And I'm just seezing no sod as if as if

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's correct.

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Speaker 3: How old was the child that said that?

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Speaker 2: Ten?

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Speaker 3: What they see?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Exactly.

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Speaker 3: Did you ask her husband about this?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I did.

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Speaker 2: I asked them, you know, did you and Hillary share

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Speaker 1: So okay, I mean, all right, yeah, all right, hold

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Speaker 1: We're gonna get the number to call her husband and

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Speaker 3: I don't like this. No mom and dad's bed, even

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Speaker 5: These are like great memories being made.

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Speaker 1: All right, we are about to call Angie's husband. He

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Speaker 1: So you think, clearly they're still together while they're on

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Speaker 5: What does he tell you before the trip is going

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean generally there's separate accommodation. Sometimes he's sleeping

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm not I'm not checking the.

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Speaker 3: Let him do this.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you know, I know that the divorce is

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Speaker 5: These sounds like incredible trips, like I would love to

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Speaker 3: What's the ex wife's name, Hilary. Okay, we are going

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Speaker 1: Your husband now and find out who's top of mind

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Speaker 1: for sure, who he sends these roses to the good luck?

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Speaker 3: Be very quiet. Need you to say Ryan, you have

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Speaker 2: Go ahead, Ryan, you have my permission to call my husband.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna do that right now. Let's see we can

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Speaker 3: find out good luck Kanjie.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: Hello.

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Speaker 5: Hi, can I speak to Doug please?

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Speaker 4: Oh? This sure is Doug.

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Speaker 5: Hi Doug, good morning.

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Speaker 3: My name is Gloria.

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Speaker 5: I'm calling from Long Beach Blue.

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Speaker 1: Hi.

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Speaker 5: You doing this morning?

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Speaker 4: Oh? Well, I'm doing just fine.

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Speaker 5: Great. So you know, we're actually new to the area,

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Speaker 5: right on Second Street, and we're offering a promotion for

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Speaker 5: local residents. It's a free dozen red roses that you

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Speaker 5: can send to anybody.

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Speaker 4: That you'd like. Wow, I don't understand.

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Speaker 5: They're absolutely free. You wouldn't have to do anything. I

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Speaker 5: anything like that. It's a promotion that we do about

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Speaker 5: once a month, just trying to promote our new business.

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Speaker 5: And all we ask is that if you're pleased with

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Speaker 5: or come back as a returning customer.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: That sounds like a fine deal, But I just don't

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Speaker 3: If you get my number, it's just a dozen.

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Speaker 5: You may have purach to something online in the last

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Speaker 5: six to eighteen months and selected to receive promotional offers

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Speaker 4: Well, I saw, I'd buy something on Amazon and you

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Speaker 4: just get my celle over. I mean, it seems a

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Speaker 5: That's how we get our database, and I don't know

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Speaker 5: how the backend works truly, But is there anybody in

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Speaker 5: your life that you would want to send the flowers to?

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, yeah, that's fine. You can just send them

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Speaker 4: to Hillary And if you have a note, I would

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Speaker 4: love it to say to Hillary, Avery, Harper and Elijah

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Speaker 5: But you can just hang on one second, Harper and

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Speaker 5: Elijah Love Dad.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Doug, Doug, your voice is being broadcast on the radio.

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Speaker 1: My name is Ryan and I've got your wife, Angie

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Speaker 1: here in your world, Doug, So just hear that your

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Speaker 1: respond to what Doug just did there? Does that concern

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Speaker 2: Yes, absolutely, Doug, you thought of Hillary first. You thought

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Speaker 5: That's the bottom line.

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Speaker 2: I always think of Hillary first. This is why I'm

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Speaker 4: Oh no, I didn't think of Hillary first. She's my

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Speaker 3: I did hear you say the name Hillary first?

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Speaker 1: And when red roses were being offered, Doug, we're going

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Speaker 1: to go down the path here. Angie was told by

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Speaker 3: Is there any truth to that.

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Speaker 4: No, I was sleeping on the couch and the kids

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Speaker 4: There was a very large bed. We were very far

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Speaker 2: Sent the roses to your wife or to your ex wife,

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Speaker 2: and not your wife you always you always think of her.

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Speaker 4: Friends, a doul't No, it was my adult getting the meal.

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Speaker 2: With Hillary and Arizona.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely not.

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Speaker 2: Did you share a bed with her?

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Speaker 4: Not with her, only with my children?

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Speaker 3: And hear me have a problem, Doug.

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Speaker 1: First of all, these trips are a little too close

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Speaker 3: Dog, Why can't Angie come on these trips?

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Speaker 4: Yes, well, you know it's just not that simple.

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Speaker 1: This is not that simple either, But this is making

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Speaker 4: Well, I definitely want to compliment their lives. These are

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Speaker 3: Here, but this is not what it seems. But you

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Speaker 3: Is that true?

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Speaker 4: Oh, we shared a little bit of wine, but it

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Speaker 4: had nothing to do with anything. Wow. I spent the

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Speaker 3: Did you do?

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Speaker 2: Did you and Hilary drink wine and go to bed together?

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Speaker 4: When you say it like that, it doesn't sound good

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Speaker 4: at all. I see your point, But oh my gosh, Okay, well,

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Speaker 4: it is not exactly what happened, Angie.

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Speaker 3: I don't know this.

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Speaker 1: I'm uncomfortable with the whole situation here. I don't know

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Speaker 1: a bad situation with his ex wife that, if I'm you,

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Speaker 1: I'm very uncomfortable with.

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Speaker 3: So we're gonna do you want anything else?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I want to know, Doug. Do you wish you

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Speaker 2: were still married to her? I mean, yeah, do you

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Speaker 5: Valid question?

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Speaker 4: Absolutely not? Absolutely not No. If she hadn't done what

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Speaker 3: This is all getting worse.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. I don't know how you. I don't

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Speaker 5: That one Yeah, it sounds like you're not you.

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Speaker 3: He's not. He's like one foot in each room like

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Speaker 4: So. My children, of course, are very important, and you

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Speaker 4: are very don't You keep.

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Speaker 1: Saying that that's your ex wife having wine. It's all

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Speaker 1: wrong to me, Doug, Angie. We're gonna let you both go,

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Speaker 1: and I think you have all the information you need.

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Speaker 1: Wishould uh best of luck with this situation.

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Speaker 4: But