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Speaker 1: Wine Down with Janet Kramer and I Heart Radio podcast.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm being tested Kristen. Kristen's here, Kristen Breast, Hi, Hi,

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Speaker 1: how much are we going to share today? Um? How

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Speaker 1: much you're going to share today? I just feel like

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Speaker 1: the Lord is testing me. Are we passing? What? Are

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Speaker 1: we passing? The desk? No? You know, I think you

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Speaker 1: are really well. I got a spray tan. I did too. Really,

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Speaker 1: it makes me feel ten pounds later every time. Can

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Speaker 1: one do two spray tans in a row because I

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Speaker 1: could use still lose twenty I was. I texted my

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Speaker 1: spray tan girler to day and I I don't really

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Speaker 1: get spray tanned a lot. I mean maybe like once

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Speaker 1: every like I mean in the wintertime, maybe like once

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Speaker 1: every three months. Well, you're naturally like golden. I have

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Speaker 1: like a little all of yeah, a little, but I

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Speaker 1: kind of wanted to look like the filter I usually use,

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Speaker 1: which is red dro gamly me tap twice, tap twice.

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Speaker 1: So I um, I basically texted her. But yesterday was

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Speaker 1: like this like crazy insane monsoon in in Nashville with

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Speaker 1: like seventy mile winds, and she texted me and she's like, hey,

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Speaker 1: you know, I means school got off early. I had

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Speaker 1: to pick up Jace early from school. And she's write

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Speaker 1: you here or away here, Okay, I'm here. So she

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Speaker 1: works at Gilpin but then she like dis bratain on

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Speaker 1: the side, so she um she came over here. But

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Speaker 1: it was funny because I'm like she texted me, She's like, hey,

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Speaker 1: I'm getting off work early, like I can come to

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Speaker 1: you earlier. And I'm like looking out the window and

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Speaker 1: it was like the scene in Devil Worse brought uct

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Speaker 1: like my boat or and where it's like, oh, it's

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Speaker 1: just a little drizzle, fine, everything's fine. So I was like, okay,

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Speaker 1: I kind of wanted to do the Devil Worse product

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Speaker 1: where I'm like it's no big deal, it's just a

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Speaker 1: little drizzle cut too, and I'm like no, like I'll

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Speaker 1: be like hey girl, and I said, I said, hey girl,

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Speaker 1: like it's all fine, Like don't worry about it. I'll

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Speaker 1: just you know, let's just reschedule like to next week

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Speaker 1: or whatever. When you saw her parking in your driveway

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Speaker 1: looking kind but also come on inside, go ahead quick.

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Speaker 1: But she texts and she's like, no, seriously, no worries

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Speaker 1: at all, So I was like, okay there, and then

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Speaker 1: when she came in, it was like the door like swung.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it was like at the heat of like

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Speaker 1: the eye of the storm. It's like her freaking like

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Speaker 1: her spray tand like she come in like a bear

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Speaker 1: shoe literally, and I was just like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. She goes it's fine, just a little drizzle,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh my god, devil worse brought up.

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Speaker 1: So she felt it, I know. I was like, why

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Speaker 1: can't you just get out? But fun fact, we spray

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Speaker 1: tan each other at my house. You and your husband.

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Speaker 1: We bought the whole set up, like the tent and everything.

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Speaker 1: Tell me you're married to an artist without telling me

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Speaker 1: you're married to an artist. Christ And is married to

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Speaker 1: Um one of the low cash boys Preston and stop

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Speaker 1: he does not the one with the least amount of

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Speaker 1: pigment that needs a spray tan often spray together. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know why. I think that's so funny. Everybody does.

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Speaker 1: I already got for a second ago, do I ever

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Speaker 1: just stop for a second? I do. Actually, Um, I

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Speaker 1: like to call it no tan line lion tan and

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Speaker 1: oh my god, wait, he does it again. Oh that's right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: because most guys wear like a sock or something. Actually,

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Speaker 1: I want to make him start wearing it because Mike

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Speaker 1: would always like when he would get spray tanned by Lacy,

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Speaker 1: he would wear his boxers or so I thought. Dramatic

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Speaker 1: clause dramatic was he wearing a sock? But Lacy said that,

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Speaker 1: She's like, oh, I've seen balls, and I'm like really,

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Speaker 1: I was like, what do you like. She's like, I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's like, you know, it is what it is whatever.

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Speaker 1: But I'm like that would be weird, like spray tanning

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Speaker 1: like an elephant trunk. Anyways, I got tired of making

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Speaker 1: a call to our girl all the time and saying like, hey,

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Speaker 1: can you come over tonight? Last minute? Because Preston is

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Speaker 1: a little last minute It's part of his sweet So

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Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, We're just gonna pop

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Speaker 1: a ten up in the bathroom whenever you need it.

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Speaker 1: And I feel like I'm mastering it. It's like, if

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Speaker 1: you can spray paint something, you can spray paint a person.

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Speaker 1: And how does he do for you? Well? Tv D

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Speaker 1: in about eight hours. But my feet are a little aggressive.

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Speaker 1: Look at my hands right now working out the kinks. Um, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's interesting. So if you ever an emergency and not

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Speaker 1: in a monsoon, I can bring my business to your bathroom.

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Speaker 1: How that's good to know. You should start like a

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Speaker 1: little mobile service. Hard past socks included a logo tube sock,

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Speaker 1: a logo tooth sock, a logo a logo tubes. Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, I can't god, you're so good for my soul. Christen. However,

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Speaker 1: I need to laugh. You're just really good for my

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Speaker 1: soul because I love you so aggressively. I had quite

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Speaker 1: the morning. Co Parenting is so hard, especially when they

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Speaker 1: text you and say and by day, we mean to socmgate,

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Speaker 1: go ahead, what time you dropping the kids off? What

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Speaker 1: it's your day? Huh? Like It's what's hard is when

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Speaker 1: your oldest kid is the one text you knew about

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Speaker 1: what time you're you're dropping the kids off. It's like

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Speaker 1: the control and the power. But I'm just like we're

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Speaker 1: like you can ask for help. I can, absolutely, but

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Speaker 1: like like it's just it's a so I just loathe

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Speaker 1: co parenting. It's very hard right now. If he was

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Speaker 1: good at asking for help, though, we wouldn't be in

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Speaker 1: this situation. I mean he hasn't times right, but for

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Speaker 1: some reason something must be going on or needed control

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Speaker 1: or needed to supply and whatever they call it. And

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Speaker 1: I read a quote that said, you don't like all

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Speaker 1: my narcissist uh posts, Well, I became educated, educated, enjoy

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Speaker 1: my educated as when we're gonna protest, when we're going

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Speaker 1: to use the word educator, enjoying my That's why I

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Speaker 1: keep you around. So we actually have Teddy Mellencamp today,

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Speaker 1: which I'm really excited about. Um, so we're going to

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Speaker 1: take a break and then get her on. Hell she's

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Speaker 1: so hot, isn't she? How are you just so pretty? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: You know, I got straight straight back from walking the

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Speaker 1: kids to the bus right now. So really crushing? Do

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Speaker 1: you have we have? Do you have? We're talking about

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Speaker 1: self tanner? You see the self tanner on my hands.

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Speaker 1: Do you do you spray tan as well? And would

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Speaker 1: you ever spray tan your husband? Um? I don't personally

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Speaker 1: spray tan myself, but I do get sprayed tan and

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Speaker 1: my husband has as well. No, it's okay, I mean

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Speaker 1: so have both of my exit and so didn't And

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Speaker 1: she she were talking about like she spray tans her husband.

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Speaker 1: You guys. My husband is so alabaster that like, and

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Speaker 1: he fooled me for the first two years with a

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Speaker 1: And then he took a shower and and all my dreams,

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Speaker 1: hopes and dreams went down the window. Ye, the window

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Speaker 1: were down the dream we're today, Yeah we are because

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Speaker 1: I couldn't even say educated. So there's that. It happens. Um,

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Speaker 1: what's up girl? How's l A? L A is fine?

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's a little bit bizarre, but it'll be

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Speaker 1: like a hundred degrees and then the next day it's forty.

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Speaker 1: So we're just you know, we're going through it. But

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Speaker 1: I feel happy about it. Are the kids still mess?

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Speaker 1: They just yesterday was the first day that they don't

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Speaker 1: have to wear masks outside and the playground. What I

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Speaker 1: thought it was inside to know that I don't think

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Speaker 1: that will be for a while. Unfortunately, my kids didn't

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Speaker 1: even believe me. They're like, are you sure, mom, we

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Speaker 1: If you're outside you don't have the map. They're like,

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Speaker 1: what is your thoughts on it? I mean at this point,

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Speaker 1: I was at the super Bowl and nobody had a

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Speaker 1: mask on at the entire super Bowl. So now that

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Speaker 1: the people that can actually really get sick from it,

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Speaker 1: aren't wearing masks, then why are we making our kids

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Speaker 1: like if the super Bowl can look like this, and

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Speaker 1: we're two years into it, which is crazy. How old

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Speaker 1: are your babies? So I have a baby that's almost two,

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Speaker 1: then I have a stepdaughter that is thirteen. You're busy, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're busy. We are. We are in it. But my

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Speaker 1: it's just different than when she'll come to us. It's

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Speaker 1: like we have to we can't even get into a restaurant. Yeah, all,

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Speaker 1: we just all want a little consistency for everything. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Like I will follow the rule if it's make the

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Speaker 1: rule the rule, the rule, the rule, the rule goes

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Speaker 1: for everyone. Okay, that makes sense. I'm not going to

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Speaker 1: this point, I'm like, you know, my kids have been

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Speaker 1: pandemic hal and like how many times has they have

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Speaker 1: their friends been able to see there, you know, below

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Speaker 1: their eyes? It makes me sad. Yeah, I don't even

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Speaker 1: talk about anymore. We're done. Next topic, Uh, what's the

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Speaker 1: what's the like a not like a boundary, but like

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Speaker 1: a what's the thing that, like you say in your

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Speaker 1: then like you might be you might slide from it

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Speaker 1: a little bit, but like you expect your husband to be.

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Speaker 1: Does that make sense what I'm trying to say right now?

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Speaker 1: I will be somebody that's like, you know, it's not

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Speaker 1: I'll make these standards like boundaries, and then I'll go

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Speaker 1: on them sometimes because well I get desperate. We're super

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Speaker 1: drive through a taco bell and that's the place to go.

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Speaker 1: I actually never really watched, so ultimately you're told, um,

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Speaker 1: and sisters? I should know that, but I don't. There's

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00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:46,360
Speaker 1: five of us, holy cow, five of us, three wives,

422
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:50,159
Speaker 1: so I have one full and then three halfs. So

423
00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:54,480
Speaker 1: does anybody have that kind of musical talent? My brother

424
00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:58,679
Speaker 1: Spec had the musical talent, but he went more in

425
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:01,480
Speaker 1: the art way, so he is like a beautiful painter.

426
00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:08,160
Speaker 1: That's his and then all the rest of us. No. No. I.

427
00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:11,200
Speaker 1: When I moved out to l A, I wanted to um.

428
00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 1: I wanted to be the first Taylor Swift. But weirdly

429
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:21,120
Speaker 1: I don't agreed with Did you try? Do you think

430
00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:24,560
Speaker 1: you can sing? Should we hit it? I have one

431
00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:29,640
Speaker 1: demo guys from stock Are you serious? Have you put

432
00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:32,879
Speaker 1: it on Instagram? I think I put it on once,

433
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:34,560
Speaker 1: but I mean it's do you want to repost it

434
00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:37,840
Speaker 1: and tag us? I need? I'll send it to you

435
00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 1: guys and you can laugh about it later. Maybe you

436
00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:42,600
Speaker 1: can do it since you have a nice voice. Only

437
00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:46,200
Speaker 1: one of us has a nice voice. What? Um? Wait,

438
00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 1: so your dad was married? How many times? Three? Is

439
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:54,320
Speaker 1: he still married? No? He was married three times. My

440
00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:57,080
Speaker 1: mom was the second wife. She was Diane from Jack

441
00:24:57,119 --> 00:25:01,439
Speaker 1: and Diane Video. And then um he married Elane or

442
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 1: when he was with her for twenty years, and he

443
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:06,919
Speaker 1: was with Meg Ryan for eight years. And now he's

444
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 1: I mean I think as of today, I think he's single. Really, um,

445
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 1: do you how old is dad? How is dead? He

446
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 1: just turned seventy. I'm here for seventy year olds? Do it?

447
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:25,639
Speaker 1: Can I be here some mommy money with your track record? You?

448
00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:30,400
Speaker 1: It could? It could potentially work, you know, never say never?

449
00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:33,880
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's so funny. Do you ever get like, hey, dad,

450
00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:38,240
Speaker 1: like she's my age? Stop? Um? Well, everybody's always like

451
00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:40,400
Speaker 1: are you his matchmaker? Because it was like all over

452
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 1: the press that I would like set him up with people.

453
00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:45,159
Speaker 1: I'm like, listen the way I handle it is if

454
00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 1: somebody's interested in him, I say like, don't hold me accountable.

455
00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 1: Ice doesn't work out. So here's the info, y'all? Do you?

456
00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:56,520
Speaker 1: But no? But really, how does it feel? A podcast

457
00:25:56,520 --> 00:26:01,120
Speaker 1: with your new mom? Janet Creamer? I have so much

458
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:05,160
Speaker 1: to teach you. Teddy. I have a question. We're all

459
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:09,679
Speaker 1: doing family football games, Um over Christmas. Are you gonna

460
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 1: cry if you're on the losing team, Because that's really

461
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:14,720
Speaker 1: how I get how it decides how I get along

462
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:17,480
Speaker 1: with that trick question. Jana is never on the losing team.

463
00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 1: I'm very comp We're going to call each other's eyes out.

464
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:22,439
Speaker 1: So I mean that's what I have to be on

465
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:24,679
Speaker 1: a certain team because there are certain people that I

466
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 1: will like, Can I be on your team? Though? Yeah,

467
00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:30,400
Speaker 1: we can be. Well, if we're picked, I never get

468
00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:33,640
Speaker 1: to be team captain. My dad's one team captain, which

469
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 1: I cannot be on his team. We'll just tell him.

470
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 1: He'll love me. He'll I'll be like, baby, don't let

471
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 1: me be on your team. I don't know this is

472
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:45,640
Speaker 1: funny or fasting this. I'm like frightened. I'm like, this

473
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:49,120
Speaker 1: is now probably going to happen. Oh my god, it

474
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:52,880
Speaker 1: made me for life. You're just as type. By the way,

475
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:59,280
Speaker 1: It's gonna make an awesome new Lifetime movie. Oh my goodness. Well, Teddy,

476
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:01,600
Speaker 1: I love you, and um, I'll see you soon at

477
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:06,400
Speaker 1: at Thanksgiving. See what the holidays. I'll just send him

478
00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 1: over your number. He'll text you in all caps but

479
00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 1: it's not yelling. Doesn't realize we just went through this

480
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:16,359
Speaker 1: with my father in law and like, you're really screaming

481
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:18,560
Speaker 1: at me that you love me, and I appreciate it,

482
00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:21,280
Speaker 1: but it's aggressive and I think can't see, Like my

483
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 1: grandma does it too, and I think it's just capsock

484
00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:26,720
Speaker 1: because they can't see. But it really takes some effort.

485
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:31,760
Speaker 1: Capsuck would call me is aggressive, like I'm like hi, Hi,

486
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 1: or he'll he'll say like I just called you called

487
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 1: me back and I'm like sorry, what He's like, I

488
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:40,239
Speaker 1: just you know nothing. I just was calling to Chatam, like, well,

489
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:42,720
Speaker 1: you don't need to alert me. I saw them. Don't

490
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 1: yell at me. You're yelling at me dad, speaking of

491
00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:53,880
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift. You need to calm down. You're being too loud. Yeah,

492
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:59,200
Speaker 1: I can't see. She feels it. Still feels it blood. No,

493
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:02,479
Speaker 1: definitely not. I didn't get better at age forty. But

494
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 1: thanks you guys so much. I love you. You're the sweetest.

495
00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:08,880
Speaker 1: Thanks for the girl chat of course. Okay, I hope

496
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 1: I see you soon, honey daughter, Okay, my daughter, I

497
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:31,200
Speaker 1: love you. Sorry, guys, just come back from the break.

498
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:37,399
Speaker 1: Nothing to see here, nothing to see here? Because it

499
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 1: it's so good. I don't want to think about it.

500
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 1: I don't Okay, fine, it's just that I grew up

501
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 1: in a you're doing really well with that feel like

502
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 1: I'm on a musical adventure. Honey, get familiar with the holidays.

503
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 1: She's great. I love her so much. Oh, she's a riot.

504
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 1: She's so great. And the Housewives because she's just like,

505
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:12,080
Speaker 1: she's so cool. I've never watched an episode of Housewives ever,

506
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:21,520
Speaker 1: no seasons, no cities, no nothing. I have to agree. Really, Yeah,

507
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:27,640
Speaker 1: do you think it's because we live I say, yeah, Well,

508
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:33,120
Speaker 1: they're all gifts. I use a lot of their gifts. Um,

509
00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 1: I think it's because we live in that kind of

510
00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:38,560
Speaker 1: feeling we don't need to be. It gives me anxiety.

511
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 1: I don't like it. It doesn't make me feel good. Um.

512
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:46,720
Speaker 1: But also then at the same point, I loved watching

513
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 1: the Kardashians, and I will watch their new Hulu show.

514
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 1: I love the Kardashians, but it's the same thing they

515
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 1: do people yell and but I mean not really. But

516
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 1: I also just say family, I'll say this, they're so

517
00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 1: like out of my reach, like you could meet a housewife.

518
00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 1: I feel like we could meet a housewife. But I'm like,

519
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:08,960
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm still twenty people away from ever

520
00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 1: getting to a Kardashian. Oh my god, That's how I felt.

521
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 1: When I was on the carpet at the God What

522
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:17,280
Speaker 1: Shows Up? I was interviewing. I was interviewing freaking Pink

523
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 1: and I see Courtney and Chloe and I was like, like,

524
00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 1: I was Pink, you just like stiff arm Pink. Like.

525
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:30,400
Speaker 1: I was like, that's what's wrong with this generation? Yeah,

526
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 1: But I mean I love them. I think they're amazing

527
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 1: and I'm still obsessed with them and I want to

528
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:38,800
Speaker 1: be their friend because they're like they're boss babes. Yeah,

529
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:41,480
Speaker 1: they're just making it happen and they're hot and their

530
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 1: makeup is amazing. Hey, how was therapy there? And then

531
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 1: I almost took because I was like, she's like, well,

532
00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:50,760
Speaker 1: you could have my therapy appointment. I did. I was like,

533
00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:52,760
Speaker 1: you can have my one o'clock appointment if you're interested.

534
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:56,720
Speaker 1: It was incredible, incredible. We're doing E M. D R.

535
00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 1: And it's intense, but it's really good. Could I ask

536
00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 1: which topic you're doing? Um, we're in death. We have

537
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:07,840
Speaker 1: a lot. I had a lot of death last year,

538
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 1: so we're just we're just going through them one at

539
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:15,719
Speaker 1: a time. And it was really good. Um. I had

540
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 1: been missing pam my dellous mom because it was one

541
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 1: year on Valentine's Day that she had passed away, So

542
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 1: I was just really missing I've been missing her extra

543
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 1: and it was good because I felt like we This

544
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 1: is gonna sound really crazy, but um, I felt like

545
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:34,680
Speaker 1: I got to like visit with her when I was

546
00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:39,040
Speaker 1: in that room, and it was really good, really good.

547
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:45,680
Speaker 1: Amy is just beyond She's the best. Really ohe you well,

548
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:47,400
Speaker 1: it's the least I can do for everything that you've

549
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 1: given to me. So what have I done? Um? Yeah,

550
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 1: no E M d R is incredible and his hopefully

551
00:31:55,560 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I love you. That's so intense. It's interesting.

552
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:02,960
Speaker 1: She so if anybody hasn't done a M d are

553
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 1: you like sit with headphones and you have these little

554
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 1: like what do you call those things? Your hand buzz Yeah,

555
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 1: And when she hands me the buzzers, I just feel

556
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:15,960
Speaker 1: so calm, and I'm like, can I have this at home?

557
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 1: Or does that like cheapen the experience if I'm just

558
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 1: like buzzing at home, like holding the buzzers. I mean,

559
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:23,080
Speaker 1: if that's what calms you, there is an actual um

560
00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 1: she can give you the information because when I was

561
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:28,920
Speaker 1: in l A, we had done some UM over the

562
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 1: whatever computer m d R doesn't work as well. But

563
00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 1: I think it's like if something that that's what calms you,

564
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 1: it means people have those little remember those ball Chinese

565
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:39,840
Speaker 1: things that like our dad's used to have back in

566
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 1: the day. I'm gonna need you to you don't know

567
00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:48,440
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. Our Asian dad's Chinese lit the

568
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:51,479
Speaker 1: little thing when you like you could hear them like

569
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 1: like that. There were like two balls. I wish people

570
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:57,840
Speaker 1: could see your hand. Come on, you know what I'm

571
00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 1: talking about, like metal Yeah, they were like someone please

572
00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:04,720
Speaker 1: pull us up for me right now? The metal balls boy,

573
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:10,240
Speaker 1: here we go gets you on like creditor list or

574
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 1: see these these ones are here too, like yes, right,

575
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 1: you've never seen these. I feel like this is my

576
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 1: childhood and our childhoods were drastically different. And that's why

577
00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 1: I'm doing e. M D is my spray tan is

578
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:33,080
Speaker 1: my look at this right now? Ball? Do you guys

579
00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:37,160
Speaker 1: remember this? Someone just please? Easton Riley Jacqueline, does anybody

580
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:40,239
Speaker 1: remember the balls? Everybody? Can you show your faces? Jan

581
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:42,160
Speaker 1: wants to show you a picture of She says, yes,

582
00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:46,360
Speaker 1: I remember. Yes. Okay, good, so clearly, clearly I know

583
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 1: what I'm getting for Christmas, the balls, the balls. Thank you. Okay.

584
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:51,280
Speaker 1: I don't know how we got on the topic, but

585
00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:58,360
Speaker 1: let's just go back to Oh it's good, all right.

586
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 1: Anything else you want to talk about that's been brewing lately? Oh,

587
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 1: there's a lot brewing. But what do we what do

588
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:12,360
Speaker 1: we sing? I'm a steeper. Um, I don't know, I

589
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:15,719
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm then are really you're coming up into

590
00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:21,280
Speaker 1: this place? But like, forty feels different. And there's something

591
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:24,400
Speaker 1: that happens between like thirty eight and thirty nine that

592
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 1: feels like and it's not This is not like midlife crisis,

593
00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:33,080
Speaker 1: I don't think. But there's a shift that's happening, for sure.

594
00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 1: And I don't know if it's because like everybody I

595
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:38,719
Speaker 1: know died last year minus the present people, or if

596
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 1: it's forty or what, but I feel different. And I'm

597
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:46,160
Speaker 1: just feeling like I'm trying to pay attention and break

598
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:53,960
Speaker 1: my old patterns. Boy, do I feel that breaking patterns? Yeah.

599
00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:55,960
Speaker 1: I'm really proud of you though, because I think you

600
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:59,880
Speaker 1: are breaking patterns. Actually I'm trying even in your response

601
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:04,279
Speaker 1: is two things, thank you mm hmm. I really mean it.

602
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:06,000
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say it if I didn't mean it. You

603
00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 1: know that. I just feel like you're really assertive, but

604
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:13,799
Speaker 1: you're also just really calm. There's an empowerment you have.

605
00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:17,920
Speaker 1: You just don't see it yet. You know what um

606
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 1: Amy said in therapy the other day to me because

607
00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:28,120
Speaker 1: we were talking about love. I love us, um because

608
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:31,600
Speaker 1: someone said something to me that really like shook me

609
00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:37,320
Speaker 1: about abuse and I brought it into therapy And is

610
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:40,400
Speaker 1: this someone like a friend or like an instagrammer? Um,

611
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:45,279
Speaker 1: it's someone like a friend, not me. Okay, um they

612
00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:48,520
Speaker 1: said something about it and it just made me feel

613
00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 1: really icky. And can I know what the common is?

614
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:55,680
Speaker 1: If a girl can hit a guy, so if a

615
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 1: girl can hit a guy, so can a guy? A

616
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:03,799
Speaker 1: guy can do it back? No, did you punch her

617
00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:10,920
Speaker 1: in the face? Don't forget we're both from Michigan. Sometimes

618
00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:14,959
Speaker 1: it sneaks out. I'm pretty aggressive on our group chat,

619
00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:17,080
Speaker 1: on the queendom chat. I'm the one that's always like,

620
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:23,080
Speaker 1: you're gonna beat his ass and the right too much

621
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:26,879
Speaker 1: do soon. But I remember, and that is a really

622
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:29,600
Speaker 1: horrible comment though, but I remember I was with someone

623
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:36,560
Speaker 1: I won't name which relationship this was, but they said equality.

624
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:41,319
Speaker 1: That doesn't that's not the same, that's not what equality is.

625
00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:44,359
Speaker 1: But how can a girl so so this is like

626
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:46,400
Speaker 1: so then she was basically saying, was, well, so a

627
00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:50,200
Speaker 1: girl can hit a guy, but a guy can't. And

628
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:55,000
Speaker 1: so what I struggled with is that person in that

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Speaker 1: not dark, but like we're going I think it's we're

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Speaker 1: going realistic, like, no matter what, physical violence is not

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Speaker 1: where like I was, like, I battle with myself sometimes

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Speaker 1: fighting for herself and for protection, and so if she

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Speaker 1: other person and they should just walk away. But then

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Speaker 1: the man says, well, equality, you came at me. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so I just and I just took a therapy and I

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Speaker 1: I don't know, it's just like really mess with me.

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Speaker 1: But a circle back. Why I brought that up is

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Speaker 1: because in my thirty eight where I'm at thirty eight,

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Speaker 1: I have two very different voices in my head. One

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Speaker 1: where I'm like, well I did and it was my

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Speaker 1: fault and like he I should have stayed and because

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Speaker 1: like yeah, I technically did and you know, get in

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Speaker 1: he's right or so that's the one voice, the like

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Speaker 1: the abused woman. And another part is the boss babe.

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Speaker 1: We named her boss Babe in therapy there I like

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Speaker 1: her and Amy's like, what does boss Babe say? Boss

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Speaker 1: Babe is like no man should ever well, first of all,

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Speaker 1: violence never, but like never and like red flags, you'll

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Speaker 1: leave you, you know, like you don't stick around, you

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Speaker 1: like listen. So it's like I want to listen to

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Speaker 1: more to boss Babe. So word to the wise, listen

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Speaker 1: to your boss babe in you like bb v B baby.

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Speaker 1: Unfortunately the other ones I it allout her know, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna cheering her, we're gonna grow her, we're gonna give

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Speaker 1: her a U whole, and she's going to head on out.

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Speaker 1: Christen Breast, um, let our listeners know where we can

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Speaker 1: find you, Kristen dot Brast, I'm a ten, not a ten.

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Speaker 1: tags me a lot and I like it. Um anything else. No,

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Speaker 1: I love your friend, thank you. Oh, I love you.

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Speaker 1: I love you to the bone. We will cut you

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