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Subject he had dinner at 11 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 1: her house. Dear Stephen Shirley, My husband and I have 12 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 1: a blended family, but my side has blended and his 13 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 1: has not. His twelve year old child said she didn't 14 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 1: feel comfortable in our home, and we understand it because 15 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:45,520 Speaker 1: I have two sons. For the past year, she's done 16 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:47,839 Speaker 1: activities with us, and we pick her up and take 17 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 1: her back home. Most of the time, my husband does 18 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:53,559 Speaker 1: things with her by himself, and he doesn't ask me 19 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 1: and my sons to join them. My husband said he 20 00:00:57,120 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 1: has to go the extra mile to make his daughter 21 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 1: feel included, and that's fine with me. I always assumed 22 00:01:03,360 --> 00:01:05,760 Speaker 1: when he said he was spending time with his daughter. 23 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 1: They were out doing things together, not at his ex 24 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 1: wife's house. I called him one day while he was 25 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:15,080 Speaker 1: with his daughter, and she answered his phone. I could 26 00:01:15,120 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 1: hear him in the background saying to give him the phone. 27 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 1: He got the phone and quickly said he'd called me back, 28 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 1: and he hung up in my face. I called back 29 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:27,119 Speaker 1: and it went straight to voicemail. I texted and asked 30 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:30,320 Speaker 1: and asked if he was all right. He texted back 31 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 1: that he was fine. I called his daughter's phone to 32 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 1: see if everything was really okay, and she said she 33 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:37,800 Speaker 1: couldn't talk to me because her daddy got mad when 34 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:41,400 Speaker 1: she answered his phone. She assured me that everything was fine. 35 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 1: It's just that her dad didn't want me to know 36 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 1: he was eating dinner at their house. She told me 37 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 1: not to tell her dad that she talked to me, 38 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 1: and I told her that I couldn't promise her that 39 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:55,160 Speaker 1: my husband was over there playing house with his ex 40 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 1: wife and his daughter. But he sweared it was swears 41 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:01,000 Speaker 1: it was a one time thing and it will happen again. 42 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 1: If that's true, why couldn't he talk to me and 43 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 1: why did he tell his daughter not to talk to me? 44 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 1: Does he think it is proper co parenting or does 45 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 1: he take me for a fool? Uh? Yeah, he was 46 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 1: wrong for that, he was. I mean most dads do 47 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 1: like you guys were doing, picking the kids up from 48 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 1: their mom's house and then dropping them back off. But no, 49 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 1: not your husband. He's all inside at the dinner table 50 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:33,799 Speaker 1: eating with them and everything wrong. Move dad. And if 51 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 1: everything is fine and he was just spending time with 52 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:38,960 Speaker 1: his daughter, why didn't he answer his phone when you called. 53 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 1: He could have told you himself that everything was okay 54 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 1: on the phone. He panicked and made this way worse 55 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:48,359 Speaker 1: than it had to be by his guilty behavior. Now 56 00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:51,399 Speaker 1: he's busted and is in trouble with you, and he 57 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:54,239 Speaker 1: lives with you, not his ex wife. You're going to 58 00:02:54,320 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 1: be calling him even more now, asking him more questions. 59 00:02:57,639 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 1: When he takes his daughter out, you're gonna want to 60 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 1: go with them all of the above. I do want 61 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 1: to say this though. By his daughter talking to you 62 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 1: and explaining to you what was going on and everything, 63 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: that says the two of you have a pretty good relationship, 64 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:14,960 Speaker 1: So please try to keep that going because it's not 65 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 1: her fault. Your husband knew better than to be over 66 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:20,360 Speaker 1: there eating dinner he knew you wouldn't like it, didn't 67 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:22,800 Speaker 1: he think you might call or something. I mean, there's 68 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:24,400 Speaker 1: always that possibility. 69 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 2: There's that. 70 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 1: So now he's got to fix it, and I hope 71 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:30,120 Speaker 1: he does right by you and stop going over to 72 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 1: his exes to eat dinner. 73 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 3: Steve, Well, now you know, I kind of see both 74 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 3: sides of this. See he had dinner at her house. 75 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:49,760 Speaker 3: That right there, I can't do. I'm not having dinner 76 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 3: at my exit house under no damn circumstance. I'd be 77 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 3: scared eat food because I think she kill me. 78 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 2: This is not about nobody. 79 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 3: I'm just saying, wow, I can't go none of my 80 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 3: ex house trying to house. Still think they trying to 81 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 3: kill me? You know, I mean, I mean, I mean, 82 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 3: you know, but you're better safe than sorry. It's it's 83 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 3: what you need to start operating under. Oh here's a deal. 84 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:22,360 Speaker 3: Y'all got a blended family. But my side has blended 85 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:26,719 Speaker 3: and his has not. See, I don't think you understand 86 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:30,279 Speaker 3: what that means. See, his twelve year old child says, 87 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 3: she didn't feel comfortable in our home, and we understand 88 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 3: it because we have two sons. Okay, so now if 89 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:41,360 Speaker 3: you understand that she don't feel comfortable because your boys 90 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 3: is giving her the side eye for a number of reasons. 91 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:51,280 Speaker 3: So now this little girl just don't feel comfortable. For 92 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:54,719 Speaker 3: the past year, she's done activities with us, we pick 93 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:58,279 Speaker 3: her up and take her back home. Well, she don't 94 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 3: live there, so you pick her up and take her 95 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 3: back home. 96 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 2: So he's co parenting with this woman. Most of the time. 97 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:09,720 Speaker 3: My husband does things with her by himself and doesn't 98 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 3: ask me and my son to join them. My husband 99 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:15,280 Speaker 3: said he has to go to extra mile to make 100 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:17,719 Speaker 3: his daughter feel included, and that's fine with me. 101 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 2: Okay, all this is good so far. 102 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:24,279 Speaker 3: Always assumed that when he was going to spend time 103 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 3: with his daughter, they were all doing things together, not 104 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 3: at his. 105 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:30,719 Speaker 2: Ex wife's house. Well, I would assume the same thing too. 106 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:33,279 Speaker 3: I wouldn't assume that he'd be over his ex wife's 107 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:35,280 Speaker 3: house because, like I said, I. 108 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 2: Can't go to mind. 109 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:38,880 Speaker 1: Stop saying that. 110 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 2: I know, I know, I'm I'm not gonna do that. 111 00:05:44,920 --> 00:05:46,040 Speaker 1: Finish your answer. 112 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 3: Please, If they did welcome me over there, I think 113 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:50,159 Speaker 3: it would be to kill me. 114 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 2: So why would I go? 115 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 1: Would you stop? 116 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 2: I'm just saying please. 117 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:56,600 Speaker 3: I called him one day while he was at his 118 00:05:56,680 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 3: daughter with his daughter, and she answered his phone. I 119 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:01,920 Speaker 3: can hear him in the background saying give him the phone. 120 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 3: He got the phone and quickly said he'd called me back, 121 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 3: and he hung up in my face. I called back 122 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 3: and it went straight to voicemail. I text asked for you, 123 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 3: all right. He texted me back, said he was fine. 124 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:15,600 Speaker 3: So I called his daughter phone to see if everything 125 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 3: was really okay. Now, you ain't really call to see 126 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:22,840 Speaker 3: if everything's really okay. You was doing your investigative duty. 127 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:25,919 Speaker 3: And I called his daughter phone and see if everything's 128 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 3: really okay. She says she couldn't talk to me because 129 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 3: her daddy got mad with you. 130 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 2: Answers O, Hell, Yes, it's her phone. 131 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:34,159 Speaker 1: Fall I love the daughter. 132 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 2: She told it all dain's your phone. 133 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 1: Hello, Lauren. Hang on, Steve, we'll have parts Hello Hell 134 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:47,039 Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour, Today's 135 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:49,600 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. Subject he had dinner at her house. We'll 136 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening hard 137 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: Morning show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's 138 00:06:56,760 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. The subject is he had dinner at her 139 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 1: her house. 140 00:07:02,680 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 3: This man, he's got a daughter, that's twelve. He's remarried. 141 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 3: The woman he married has two boys. His daughter twelve. 142 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 3: She lives with his ex wife. When when she's time 143 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 3: for him to get visitations, she comes to the house. Now, 144 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 3: she then told everybody she don't really feel comfortable at 145 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 3: the house cause them two young boys who you ain't 146 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 3: telling me their age is going. Okay, what's that, I'll 147 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 3: see you so little girl now she uncomfortable. So now 148 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 3: they do spend some activities together, but he spends a 149 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 3: lot of time with her by herself, and he says 150 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 3: he's got to go to extra mile and make her 151 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 3: feel special. You said you understood that. So sometimes they 152 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 3: do stuff alone that don't include her and her sons. 153 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 3: You got to understand that too. I called him one 154 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 3: time while he was with his daughter, and she answered 155 00:07:57,360 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 3: the phone. I could hear him in the back saying 156 00:08:00,600 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 3: give me the phone. He got the phone and quickly 157 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 3: said that I call you back, and he hung up 158 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 3: in my face. I called it back and went straight 159 00:08:06,880 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 3: to voicemail. So I called his daughter's phone to see 160 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 3: if everything was really okay. That ain't why you call. 161 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 3: He was doing some investigation. 162 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 2: She says she couldn't talk to me because her daddy 163 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 2: got mad. 164 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 3: When she answered the phone, she assured me that everything 165 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 3: is fine. Everything okay, mama jay or whatever she called 166 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:37,320 Speaker 3: or dissilted. It's just that her dad didn't want me 167 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 3: to know to eat and dinner at her house. And 168 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 3: I told her that I couldn't promise her that. And 169 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:45,679 Speaker 3: my husband was over there playing house with his ex 170 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 3: wife and his daughter. But he swe as it was 171 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 3: a one time thing. It never happened again. If that's true, 172 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 3: why couldn't he talk to me? And why he tell 173 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 3: his daughter not talk to me? Does he think this 174 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 3: proper cold parenting? Or does he take me for a food? So, 175 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:00,840 Speaker 3: now here's the problem we have, and this that I've 176 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 3: read the whole thing to you, here's a problem. The 177 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:08,840 Speaker 3: man has a daughter that's uncomfortable at the house. She 178 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:12,560 Speaker 3: has said this, so he spends some time alone. Now 179 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:15,880 Speaker 3: the time alone, the wife is assuming they going somewhere 180 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 3: in the activity. 181 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:19,200 Speaker 2: But she called his phone. 182 00:09:21,080 --> 00:09:26,480 Speaker 3: The little girl answered the phone and said, no, hold on, 183 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:31,559 Speaker 3: get give me the phone pick upon Hello, babies, everything okay, 184 00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:32,559 Speaker 3: everything fine? 185 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:32,880 Speaker 2: Click? 186 00:09:34,320 --> 00:09:36,960 Speaker 3: So she called right back it go the voicemail. He 187 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:42,440 Speaker 3: turned the phone off because he don't need this information out. 188 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:47,559 Speaker 3: She called the little girl's phone and say, is everything okay? Yes, 189 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:50,280 Speaker 3: mama Jay, everything is just fine. You don't have to 190 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 3: worry about it. So she said she couldn't talk to 191 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:58,959 Speaker 3: me because her daddy got mad. She assured me everything 192 00:09:59,120 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 3: was fine. It's just her daddy didn't want me to know. 193 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 3: He was eating dinner at they house. 194 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 1: She told everything. 195 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:13,520 Speaker 3: Now, like Shirley said, you got a really cool relationship 196 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:17,440 Speaker 3: with the girl. But then she is a girl. Now 197 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:22,319 Speaker 3: what was she telling you this to make you feel reassured? 198 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 3: All what she'd do being. 199 00:10:25,480 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 2: A little girl and going, I got some information for 200 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 2: you though she's just twelve. H twelve year olds is slick. Now. 201 00:10:33,520 --> 00:10:36,600 Speaker 3: These kids nowadays, they know what trouble is. They watch 202 00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:39,599 Speaker 3: all the housewives shows. They know how to start stuff. 203 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:43,720 Speaker 3: She told me not to tell her dad. She talked 204 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:45,960 Speaker 3: to me and told her I couldn't. I told her 205 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:48,320 Speaker 3: I couldn't promise that. See, that's women for you right there. 206 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:53,080 Speaker 3: The little girl told you a secret and asked you 207 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 3: please don't tell my daddy that I talked to you. 208 00:10:57,440 --> 00:10:58,440 Speaker 2: I told her I. 209 00:10:58,360 --> 00:11:04,080 Speaker 3: Can't promise you nothing because I'm a girl too, and 210 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:07,560 Speaker 3: damn it. Since we telling stuff, we gonna all be 211 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:12,440 Speaker 3: telling stuff. See that's why. That's why, man, she should 212 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 3: see she should have said, okay, I'm not gonna tell 213 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 3: her and then just found a slick way to bring 214 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 3: it up to your husband. So, baby, when I called 215 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:22,680 Speaker 3: you and you hung up, what were you? You didn't 216 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:25,440 Speaker 3: even have to involve the little girl anymore. I can't 217 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 3: promise you I won't say nothing. Nah, Yes, you should have. See, 218 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 3: that's how you have trust with your kids. You got 219 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:34,719 Speaker 3: to create trust. But if if they think they can 220 00:11:34,760 --> 00:11:37,000 Speaker 3: tell you something, you gonna run and tell it. How 221 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:38,840 Speaker 3: many times you think she's gonna be honest with you? 222 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 2: Now? So? 223 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:41,920 Speaker 1: So? 224 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 2: Yeah? 225 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 3: And and then, like Bishop Bronna said, you have to 226 00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 3: be careful with a person who is playing a victim 227 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:59,440 Speaker 3: of a circumstance they created themselves. So ain't no need 228 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:01,200 Speaker 3: of your dad addy talking about? 229 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:01,319 Speaker 1: No? 230 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 2: What you what? You give her the phone for? What 231 00:12:04,280 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 2: you do that for? Dog? 232 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 3: Why you got this twelve year old involved in your mess? 233 00:12:10,480 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 3: You know your wife would not approve of you having 234 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:16,200 Speaker 3: dinner over your ex's house, But you're gonna go over 235 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:18,599 Speaker 3: there and then let your luga and then answer the 236 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:20,240 Speaker 3: phone talking about I call you right back. 237 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:25,800 Speaker 2: You should have stepped outside and started your life. Where 238 00:12:25,840 --> 00:12:27,960 Speaker 2: y'all at? We a chunky cheese. 239 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:33,080 Speaker 3: And why are you outside? Because his noise is hell 240 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:36,679 Speaker 3: in there? Let me talk to her. 241 00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 2: She playing with some friends. 242 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:46,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, he messed that up for himself. 243 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 2: He did. So. It was that the second half of 244 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 2: my letter. 245 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:57,880 Speaker 1: Uh huh yes yes. Poster comments on today's Steve ran 246 00:12:57,960 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 1: out of Gas Damn Dog on Instagram and Facebook, and 247 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:06,839 Speaker 1: check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on a free iHeartRadio 248 00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 1: app Free Never Sounded So good? Downloaded today. Coming up 249 00:13:10,400 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 1: at forty six minutes after the hour, it's Junior and 250 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:17,440 Speaker 1: Sports Talk. Right after this, you're listening to Dave Harvey 251 00:13:17,480 --> 00:13:18,079 Speaker 1: Morning Show