WEBVTT - Clare Hornby, Founder and CEO of ME+EM 

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<v Speaker 1>Who is He's table for It's now a book. Paul McCartney,

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<v Speaker 1>Michael Kaine, Kamala Harris, David Beckham, Tina fey Elton John

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<v Speaker 1>and many more. It's full of stories, beautifully designed, and

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<v Speaker 1>a celebration of the way food connects us all. It's

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<v Speaker 1>available now wherever you buy your books.

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<v Speaker 2>I bought this black Armani suit.

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<v Speaker 1>Bal you a eleven thousand pounds.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah on eleven thousand pounds seventy discount in the sale.

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<v Speaker 2>So I did it. Yeah, and then probably and then

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<v Speaker 2>probably were in.

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<v Speaker 1>What did that? What did that feel like? Buying an

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<v Speaker 1>Umi suit? It? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>That was That was a big moment, and that got

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<v Speaker 3>me my next job, which was.

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<v Speaker 2>Was in advertising.

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<v Speaker 3>This wonderful woman called me a Dixon, who gave me

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<v Speaker 3>my first job in advertising.

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<v Speaker 2>And she I don't need to listen to word I said.

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<v Speaker 2>She just loved my suit.

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<v Speaker 1>My mother used to tell me, Ruthie, always seek out

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<v Speaker 1>the quietest person in the room. It's advice I've carried

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<v Speaker 1>with me as so often those who have the most

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<v Speaker 1>interesting things to say about themselves are also the ones

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<v Speaker 1>least inclined to tell you. This is true of my

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<v Speaker 1>friend Claire Hornby, the founder and CEO of ME and M,

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<v Speaker 1>one of the most successful international fashion companies in Britain.

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<v Speaker 1>As a designer, Claire wants women to feel confident, comfortable,

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<v Speaker 1>and at ease in the clothes they wear. Going into

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<v Speaker 1>her stores, seeing the skirts and the sweaters, the trousers

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<v Speaker 1>and the shoes, it's as if she anticipates what her

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<v Speaker 1>customers might need before they even ask. Today, Claire and

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<v Speaker 1>I are here to talk about food and fashion, food

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<v Speaker 1>and family, the ingredients of her life, the ingredients of

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<v Speaker 1>mine and the recipe of her success. So of all

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<v Speaker 1>the recipes and all the books and all the times

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<v Speaker 1>you've eaten here, are you chose well?

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<v Speaker 3>I've been practicing how to say this with my Italian

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<v Speaker 3>one of my Italian friends at work.

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<v Speaker 1>Zucchinie Brilliants, that right.

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<v Speaker 3>So you need five hundred grams of zucchini, one liter

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<v Speaker 3>of sunflower oil, and then for the batter, one hundred

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<v Speaker 3>and fifty grams of plain flour, three tablespoons of extra

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<v Speaker 3>virgin olive oil, three tablespoons of warm.

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<v Speaker 1>Water, and three egg whites.

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<v Speaker 3>You cut the zucchini into match sticks, place in a colunder,

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<v Speaker 3>sprinkle with salt and leave for half an hour for

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<v Speaker 3>the batter. Sift the flour into a bowl, make a

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<v Speaker 3>well in the center, Pour in the olive oil and

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<v Speaker 3>stir to combine. Add enough warm water to make a

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<v Speaker 3>batter the consistency of double cream, and leave for half

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<v Speaker 3>an hour. Beat the egg whites until stiff and fold

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<v Speaker 3>into the batter. Pat the zucchi me dry, dip them

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<v Speaker 3>in the batter, then frying batches in the hot oil

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<v Speaker 3>until golden and crisp. Serve immediately, so dutifully read why

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<v Speaker 3>did you choose this recipe?

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<v Speaker 1>Of all? Do you make it?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you eat it?

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<v Speaker 3>It's always when we eat regularly and every that's what

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<v Speaker 3>everybody wants. They're they're just delicious, and they're so hard

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<v Speaker 3>to do well.

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't want them from anywhere else.

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<v Speaker 1>Just here it is. It's a really nice recipe. I

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<v Speaker 1>think simple. It's so simple. Again, you can do it.

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<v Speaker 1>You can make the batter and then put the egg

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<v Speaker 1>whites in at the end, and you know, dip the

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<v Speaker 1>dip the zucchina. I really like starting a meal. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>I was here last night and there were four people

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't really know that well. And then everybody has

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit you know, and you take it or

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<v Speaker 1>some people put it on their Are you the sort

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<v Speaker 1>of put it on your plate and take it off

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<v Speaker 1>your own plate.

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<v Speaker 3>We've got to be quite quick because otherwise my husband

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<v Speaker 3>and Johnny he so we're always quite quick. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 3>we do again on our plate and from there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, did you grow up in a fact? Well, tell me,

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<v Speaker 1>let's start at the beginning. Tell me about Oldham? Where

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<v Speaker 1>did you grow up? Where was it?

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<v Speaker 2>So?

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<v Speaker 3>I grew up in a place called Saddleworth, which has

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<v Speaker 3>the highest concentration of pubs in the country. It's just

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<v Speaker 3>above a place called Oldham, which is in the north

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<v Speaker 3>north of Manchester.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I was on I grew up on the Pennines.

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<v Speaker 2>It rained all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>And what was it like? Was your family? Tell me

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<v Speaker 1>about your parents and your.

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<v Speaker 3>So very very normal. My mum was a teacher. My

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<v Speaker 3>dad ran a small joinery company. They made doors and

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<v Speaker 3>windows and cabinets. They did a lot of work for

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<v Speaker 3>the university. But I remember going because they both worked

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<v Speaker 3>in our school holidays.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I tagged. I tagged along with my dad

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<v Speaker 2>a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>So that sort of smell of would shaking with making things?

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<v Speaker 3>Did it potentially?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, I spent a lot of time in a

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<v Speaker 3>joinery shop. We're a very very close family. They were

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<v Speaker 3>phenomenal parents, endlessly proud, very normal, just very salt of

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<v Speaker 3>the earth family upbringing.

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<v Speaker 1>When you were if your mother was working, would you

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<v Speaker 1>always sit down to dinner in the evening? Yeah it was.

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<v Speaker 3>It was tea in the north those days, it was tea.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we ate at six.

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<v Speaker 3>I was very sporty, so I would always I'd come

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<v Speaker 3>home late from school and then I was always starving,

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<v Speaker 3>always starving, played so much sport, so then would always

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<v Speaker 3>sit down at sex and have Mum cooked. Did you

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<v Speaker 3>have the very wholesome food shepherds pies, meat pies, lots

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<v Speaker 3>of fish and chips.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you go abroad? Did they take you to other countries?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you go to France or Space?

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<v Speaker 3>My first trip abroad was when I was seven years old.

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<v Speaker 3>It was the summer of nineteen seventy six, so it

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<v Speaker 3>was hotter and you went in England in nineteen seventy six,

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<v Speaker 3>it was the hottest summer on record. We had a

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<v Speaker 3>host pipe band and we went on our first trip

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<v Speaker 3>to abroad to forment Terra, which makes it sound like.

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<v Speaker 1>We were really cool. They found out actually.

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<v Speaker 3>There was one apartment block just being built and we

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<v Speaker 3>arrived just because it wasn't quite finished, so it was

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<v Speaker 3>very cost effective way to go on holiday.

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<v Speaker 2>So we went to Formantera, which yourself, what did.

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<v Speaker 1>You love about it?

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<v Speaker 3>It was the first time I'd been anywhere like that,

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<v Speaker 3>so it was very exciting because it was the first

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<v Speaker 3>time I'd ever.

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<v Speaker 2>Got on a plane.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know, the water and Formentara is mind blowing.

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<v Speaker 2>It still blows my mind now. It's so blue and clean.

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<v Speaker 3>And the salt marshes and lots of cycling. We cycled

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<v Speaker 3>ever it can cycle around the Pole Island. It's quite small.

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<v Speaker 3>It was the first time I seen live lobsters in

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<v Speaker 3>a tank, but then I didn't like that they were killed,

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<v Speaker 3>so I didn't like that. Those remember crying over the lobsters.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think that the focus, your focus and the

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<v Speaker 1>work ethic from your parents did that form you in

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<v Speaker 1>your early years? I'm sure.

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<v Speaker 2>And they made me work for every single school holiday.

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<v Speaker 2>They made me work for my holiday money. So from

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<v Speaker 2>the age of fourteen I worked. It's on older market.

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<v Speaker 3>My dad found me a friend who had some damaged

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<v Speaker 3>shoes Italian shoes so I set up market stalls and

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<v Speaker 3>sole shoes on older market.

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<v Speaker 2>That was my first job Q fourteen.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and then I worked in and then as I

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<v Speaker 3>got bit older, I worked in denh in factories. So

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<v Speaker 3>it's lankash Is it was Lancashire. No, No, probably about sixteen.

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<v Speaker 2>I worked in factories and.

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<v Speaker 1>These weren't school holidays school holidays.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I worked in shops. I was a waitress,

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<v Speaker 3>I sold double glazing. I mean I worked and worked

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<v Speaker 3>and worked so they they I wasn't allowed to go

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<v Speaker 3>on holiday unless I'd earned my holiday money.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so there was a stayed with you do you

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<v Speaker 1>think as an adult?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was also needs musk, like we didn't have money. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you know it wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think they did it to be to form you.

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<v Speaker 3>It was they needed the money. So and you know

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<v Speaker 3>that carried on when I came to London. I had

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<v Speaker 3>to work. I mean I worked all through my degree

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<v Speaker 3>at Manchester.

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<v Speaker 2>I worked. I got worked in the tyraq, I worked

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<v Speaker 2>in pizza restaurants. I worked where it worked. I mean

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<v Speaker 2>there was no there was no option. I didn't. I

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<v Speaker 2>had to make ends meet.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and so what was it like leaving home when

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<v Speaker 1>you got to Manchester. Let's see what's that.

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<v Speaker 3>I was going to stay living at home, but then

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<v Speaker 3>I met these two great girls and we actually and

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<v Speaker 3>so we lived together for my final three years, which

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<v Speaker 3>was good for me because I needed to break the

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<v Speaker 3>umbilical cord. So I didn't go away to school or

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<v Speaker 3>you know. It was a very poseted upbringing. But I

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<v Speaker 3>was very bullied at school.

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<v Speaker 1>How did that affect you?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, it's funny. You just did you really just

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<v Speaker 3>deal with it. I didn't want my mum to know

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<v Speaker 3>because I knew she get involved. So the first time

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<v Speaker 3>it happened, I actually ended up in hospital.

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<v Speaker 1>What did they do?

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<v Speaker 2>They tripped me?

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<v Speaker 1>They physically.

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<v Speaker 3>I was running down a hill and some boys tripped

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<v Speaker 3>me up and I skidded across the playground and smashed

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<v Speaker 3>into the sport the science block and knocked myself out.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think I then put.

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<v Speaker 3>Texted my mom from it because I was worried that

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<v Speaker 3>it get worse if my mum knew so, and then

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<v Speaker 3>I had this hero friend who stopped it all.

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<v Speaker 1>You did you have food isshoes at all? Growing up?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ever have anything that you thought about eating

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<v Speaker 1>in a certain way to Did you eat anything you

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<v Speaker 1>wanted and never felt?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Love food, yeah, love food. And if you play a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of sports.

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<v Speaker 2>You need a lot of food.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so with the sports and sport was great. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and what about fashion in those early years? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>know that because you were saying that you made things

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<v Speaker 1>you watched.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we forgot the most important.

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<v Speaker 1>How did your mother dress? Did she? Did you think

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<v Speaker 1>clothes were important to her? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>We shopped a lot together. We used to sneak it

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<v Speaker 3>in so my dad didn't say, but we made clothes together,

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<v Speaker 3>and trousers, and I do remember standing in front of

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<v Speaker 3>the mirror thinking about pocket position and length and shape.

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<v Speaker 1>And so it's amazing what you do with your children.

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<v Speaker 3>How it can you can become you know those it's

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<v Speaker 3>the small things that matter.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like cooking, like or you know, many many things

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<v Speaker 1>that you you know when you and they you know

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<v Speaker 1>you might not have been interested at all, but that

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<v Speaker 1>you were interested and that she could do it. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Formed do you have any of the clothes that you

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<v Speaker 1>made with her? Did you get Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I remember this one pair of trousers which we got

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<v Speaker 3>horribly wrong. Whereas when I got to school, everyone teas

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<v Speaker 3>me that I look like at the Bear, and I.

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<v Speaker 1>Have this kind of lens out now where.

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<v Speaker 3>When the design teams present me with things, I have

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<v Speaker 3>a list of characters that you might look like if

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<v Speaker 3>you wore those, because if it's a bit overly, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>there's like bo Peep, there's Dennis the Menace, there's bupe

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<v Speaker 3>at the Bear, There's I can't remember them all, but

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<v Speaker 3>there's no, no, no, we can't make that. They'll look

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<v Speaker 3>like this, or I've got a very visual sort of

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<v Speaker 3>no no no, that's a bit milk Madi.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no no. But it's a great big trend and

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<v Speaker 2>like we're leaving that trend behind.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there's plenty of others. I really wanted to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you about how because you know, I started a

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant very small. You started something that is now very big.

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<v Speaker 1>And we went to La together and when I was

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<v Speaker 1>in New York, I went shopping at me. Are you

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<v Speaker 1>in other cities in America? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>We have started.

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<v Speaker 3>So we're now in what will be the next one, Stanford,

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<v Speaker 3>Palo Alto, we're in Atlanto, Dallas, we're close to signing

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<v Speaker 3>in Washington, and we're looking at the cargo and Miami

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<v Speaker 3>and yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And also so so again looking back, this trajectory of

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<v Speaker 1>going from making close at home was Manchester Fashion School

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<v Speaker 1>when you went there, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Well I wanted to be a fashion buyer, so studied

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<v Speaker 3>fashion marketing. Retail marketing was called Manchester and that segue

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<v Speaker 3>to me getting a job at Harold's. So I was

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<v Speaker 3>on the graduate training scheme at Harrods. And I wanted

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<v Speaker 3>to become a fashion buyer.

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<v Speaker 1>So you didn't necessarily want to design, you're not trained.

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<v Speaker 3>Still, my role at ME and M is really customer strategy, product,

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<v Speaker 3>product strategy, brand strategy. Yeah, you know, growth strategy, locations.

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<v Speaker 3>But I wanted to be a fashion buyer, which is

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<v Speaker 3>why I did that degree, and then why I ended

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<v Speaker 3>up on the graduate training scheme at Harold's. One of

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<v Speaker 3>the girls that I lived with at Manchester, her father

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<v Speaker 3>had an apartment in London, so that's how I afforded

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<v Speaker 3>to live in London. So I was very lucky because

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't have any money at all. And you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, if you remember those first salaries there nineteen

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<v Speaker 3>ninety two, ninety two, the salary for working in eleven

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<v Speaker 3>thousand pounds, so and you know you had to decide

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<v Speaker 3>whether you were going to go on the tube or

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<v Speaker 3>buy a sandwich or by newspaper. You know, there were

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<v Speaker 3>decisions around the very basics in life. But then what

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<v Speaker 3>I used to do was use my staff discount in

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<v Speaker 3>the sale to go and buy.

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<v Speaker 2>Beautiful things.

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<v Speaker 3>When Georgia Emani died, I did think back and think, well,

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<v Speaker 3>you know you helped me a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think about that when you're when you're choosing

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<v Speaker 1>clothes for your for women to wear to interviews to it.

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<v Speaker 3>Really matters that first impression. It shouldn't matter, but it

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<v Speaker 3>still does.

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<v Speaker 1>What is your experience of being on the other side

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<v Speaker 1>of the table when you're interviewing. What do you look

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<v Speaker 1>for someone who comes for a job interview do obviously

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<v Speaker 1>the way they dress, so they mostly wear me and

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<v Speaker 1>them when they come for an interview with you, No,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like? That doesn't matter?

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<v Speaker 3>It matters that they've been into a store and bothered.

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<v Speaker 3>That really understands. It depends what job they're going for.

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<v Speaker 3>Normally you're looking for you're really wanting to see whether

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<v Speaker 3>they really are passionate about what you're doing, because passion

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<v Speaker 3>counts that absolutely everything.

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<v Speaker 1>When you interview people who're just talking about interviews. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you ever go with them to a restaurant because a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people that I've talked to say that they

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<v Speaker 1>would always at some point I want to take somebody

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<v Speaker 1>they were working closely with to a restaurant, because you what,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like a date, isn't it. You know, if you

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<v Speaker 1>go on a date you discovered are they coming to

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<v Speaker 1>the waiter? Do they get impatient if the food is laid?

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<v Speaker 1>Do they share? You know, you learn, you learn about someone.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you feel that, Yeah, I've done that a couple

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<v Speaker 3>of times and what did you learn?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>You learn a lot, you really do. I do a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of customer research in restaurants.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, tell me about that.

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<v Speaker 3>So when I chose Madison Avenue in New York eight

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<v Speaker 3>in all, you know, I went and had breakfast in

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<v Speaker 3>the right places and supper in the right places in London.

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<v Speaker 3>You're seeing the customers and what they're wearing.

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<v Speaker 1>And when you in terms of your business about how

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<v Speaker 1>many you say that five about five hundred people work

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<v Speaker 1>for you and you're doing for five hundred, how have

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<v Speaker 1>you grown? I know how I've grown. You know, we've

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<v Speaker 1>grown slowly. We've grown from well originally two chefs. It

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<v Speaker 1>was myself in rows, the two people. One of us

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<v Speaker 1>would make sandwiches, one of us would make a pasta,

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<v Speaker 1>and we had nine tables. But in a way for me,

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<v Speaker 1>those restrictions were so helpful. If I had just come

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<v Speaker 1>into this space and said we're going to open a restaurant,

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<v Speaker 1>it would have been a disaster. But you also started.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know what I was doing. I mean I didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I literally I was clueless. I mean I know I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>You must have known, because you succeeded.

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<v Speaker 3>Very much like you, though started incredibly small, definitely started

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<v Speaker 3>a business that taught me a lot, which was the wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>Business, yarmor room.

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<v Speaker 3>So we went, I know there's a gap in because

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<v Speaker 3>I'd worked in advertising for twelve years, so oh, you

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<v Speaker 3>have to look for a gap in the market. So

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<v Speaker 3>I looked for the gap in the market and there was.

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<v Speaker 3>There were the land where sort of revolution hadn't really

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<v Speaker 3>started then, so everything was a bit nothing. There was

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<v Speaker 3>nothing beautiful to wear at home. So we made really

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<v Speaker 3>beautiful landwear, as you as you know, and you bought

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<v Speaker 3>it for Rose when she was poorly, but it was

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<v Speaker 3>too niche an idea.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't going to grow.

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<v Speaker 3>So we changed very quickly to me and em and

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<v Speaker 3>that was a combination of me and my business partner, Emma,

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<v Speaker 3>and then Emma left the business quite early on. We're

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<v Speaker 3>still very good friends. We're still in book club together.

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<v Speaker 3>We're going to book club tonight. But that was the

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<v Speaker 3>start of the growth because we could there was no

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<v Speaker 3>shortage of ideas. But because we started online, we suddenly

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<v Speaker 3>realized that we were to consumer business, which meant that

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<v Speaker 3>we weren't selling through wholesale, which meant we were only

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<v Speaker 3>looking after one margin, which meant that we could make

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<v Speaker 3>beautiful clothes for less. And then I remembered all my

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<v Speaker 3>love of luxury through my days at Harold's. So a

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<v Speaker 3>combination of my love of trousers, my from making clothes

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<v Speaker 3>with my mum, my sort of consumer insight from advertising,

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<v Speaker 3>my love of luxury from horsf I think if you

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<v Speaker 3>melt it all together, you get me an m And

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<v Speaker 3>because of our because we stuck to one route to market,

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<v Speaker 3>we were able to make the clothes for less. So

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<v Speaker 3>we suddenly had this and then we grew into this

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<v Speaker 3>modern luxury positioning. And then we added British because we've

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<v Speaker 3>realized people didn't know we were British, so we now

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<v Speaker 3>position ourselves as British modern luxury and that was very

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<v Speaker 3>important going into America to have that positioning. So and

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<v Speaker 3>you know when we became famous for trousers, and there

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<v Speaker 3>are very few businesses trousers are the most difficult things,

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<v Speaker 3>are they because the fit of them is very technical

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<v Speaker 3>and they fit on you know, women are very different

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<v Speaker 3>around the bottom area, so you've got to be very patient.

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<v Speaker 3>And we built up lots of DNA around our fit,

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<v Speaker 3>which I actually did myself in the early days with

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<v Speaker 3>this incredible fit technician from she was She's German, she

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<v Speaker 3>called Ursula, and we created lots of different trouser shapes

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<v Speaker 3>and I'd say, I don't like it like that. I

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<v Speaker 3>think it should fit like this, and she was very patient.

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<v Speaker 3>She go okay, well let's adapt it like this, and

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<v Speaker 3>she was like a scientist. And then we started to

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<v Speaker 3>get talked about in the press as the trouser whisperers

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<v Speaker 3>and the trouser geeks, and that was when the thing

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<v Speaker 3>started to get going.

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<v Speaker 2>So those foundation pieces. I was thinking about. My favorite

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<v Speaker 2>dish with.

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<v Speaker 3>You outside of zucchini wish, is that how you do

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<v Speaker 3>mozzarella because for some reason it's just the right giving

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<v Speaker 3>us about how you can respin mozzarella endlessly. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 3>I always have it so good, like no one can

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<v Speaker 3>make it like you, and how you design all the

0:20:22.240 --> 0:20:24.800
<v Speaker 3>ingredients that go with it, but are always different.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the same with a pair of trousers.

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<v Speaker 3>You have to start with the beautiful bass fabric and

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<v Speaker 3>then you can put lots of different ingredients with it

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<v Speaker 3>and you can wear that trouser every single day looking

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<v Speaker 3>completely different.

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<v Speaker 1>I think there is a parallel between, but you do,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I've been thinking a lot about ingredients lately,

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<v Speaker 1>whether I'm interviewing a writer and his ingredients or her

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<v Speaker 1>ingredients or words, or you know, interview a business person

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<v Speaker 1>and their ingredients are financial equations, but you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>yours are fabric and yours are designed, and yours is technical.

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<v Speaker 1>But if we don't have right ingredients and they don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to be the most expensive ingredient, but the quality

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<v Speaker 1>of the ingredient is where you start from, whether it

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<v Speaker 1>is a word, or it is a tomato or it

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<v Speaker 1>is a cotton, And then the technique that that then

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<v Speaker 1>that you create doesn't it makes it, you know, very

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<v Speaker 1>if you have that basis, then you can move forward.

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<v Speaker 3>Sounds really simple, actually incredibly difficult to deliver.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, unless you put on of course, you can't hide yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and you can't Yeah. You can't hide behind a bad fabric.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, can't hide behind it.

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<v Speaker 3>If you're going to do perfect simplicity ingredients, each one

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<v Speaker 3>has to be perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>For women who are working and doing what we do

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<v Speaker 1>and also have a family that we care about and

0:21:46.440 --> 0:21:49.639
<v Speaker 1>iry members coming to see you with Johnny, coming to

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<v Speaker 1>see you with your children, have incredible lunches. So what

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<v Speaker 1>how is that with your children and your dogs and

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<v Speaker 1>your horses.

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<v Speaker 3>Life for children is a marathon, not a sprint. And

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<v Speaker 3>I think if you can remember that, and actually listening

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<v Speaker 3>to Anya Heimach once on a podcast was very important

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<v Speaker 3>because she's similar to me. She's got five children to juggle.

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<v Speaker 3>I think she's got two of her own. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>she's a working, juggling juggernaut of a mother. I remember

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<v Speaker 3>her saying that it's the really important things that matter,

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<v Speaker 3>you don't remember the bits in between. So just always

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<v Speaker 3>making sure that you're at the right things. You can't

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<v Speaker 3>be at everything, but you can be at you can

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<v Speaker 3>be at the you know all of the things that

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<v Speaker 3>they'll remember, the holidays, the weekends, the cooking, the shows,

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<v Speaker 3>the sports matches, and I mean, I have been known

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<v Speaker 3>to have meetings on the sidelines.

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<v Speaker 1>I've heard.

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<v Speaker 2>I've heard, yeah, but it doesn't last forever.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just it's twenty year sprint, right, But it's you've

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<v Speaker 3>got to make sure you hit all the key moments.

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<v Speaker 1>The other day, I was coming back in the taxi

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<v Speaker 1>to home and I said to the driver, could you

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<v Speaker 1>just go a bit faster because my son's at home

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<v Speaker 1>and I really want to see him. And he said, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll try, But you know, why didn't you get somebody

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<v Speaker 1>else to pick him up from school? And I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to say, he's fifty watch it's not a storable. I

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<v Speaker 1>rather planner that I thought I had a child that

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<v Speaker 1>could just be picked up from school. So I would say.

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<v Speaker 4>To all of you parents, not only is it a

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<v Speaker 4>it's a marathon, but it never ends, you know, I

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<v Speaker 4>think they you know, you kind of show him to

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<v Speaker 4>see your child, but no matter what age they are,

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<v Speaker 4>and you're divided because you also were supposed to be

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<v Speaker 4>somewhere else and you change directions.

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<v Speaker 1>So but I think that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think that's so true, and you remember back

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<v Speaker 3>to all of the moments where you were really super

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<v Speaker 3>stressed because you were late for a round match or something,

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<v Speaker 3>and you realize, really, you know, something just happened.

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<v Speaker 2>But it all aggregates happy childhood, I think.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, I love that, still racing home to see

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<v Speaker 3>you're fifty on your.

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<v Speaker 1>Old I started the River Cafe in nineteen eighty seven

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<v Speaker 1>with Rose Gray, and she died in twenty and ten,

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<v Speaker 1>and so there was a change and a loss and

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<v Speaker 1>a direction that we had to sort of go in.

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<v Speaker 1>And when you went to just said that you change

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<v Speaker 1>for being me and m almost to me, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and didn't. It wasn't through a loss of me, me,

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<v Speaker 1>me and me. It wasn't through the loss of final

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<v Speaker 1>loss of death. And in fact you're saying that you

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<v Speaker 1>are going to a book club tonight. But it must

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<v Speaker 1>have been a big change for you to go from

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<v Speaker 1>having somebody started work with to going to being on

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<v Speaker 1>your own. Can you tell me what that was like.

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<v Speaker 3>We've both got some resilience built in there, I think really,

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<v Speaker 3>because losing your business partner is scary, and obviously yours

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<v Speaker 3>was a tragedy, but.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it was the making of.

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<v Speaker 3>Me, to be honest, because I had to learn the numbers,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'd let Emma do the numbers, and I was

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<v Speaker 3>doing the products and the brand and the customer stuff,

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<v Speaker 3>and I think I'd become lazy around the numbers.

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<v Speaker 2>And actually the numbers really matter.

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<v Speaker 3>And I study the numbers like you do daily, in

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<v Speaker 3>fact sometimes hourly.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And.

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<v Speaker 3>If you don't understand the numbers, you can't make the

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<v Speaker 3>right things because the numbers are telling you one thing,

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<v Speaker 3>and then you need a large dollarp of intuition to

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<v Speaker 3>go with it.

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<v Speaker 1>Every day, I wake up in the morning and I

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<v Speaker 1>get a text saying this is how many covers you had,

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<v Speaker 1>this was the average spend, and this is the total.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I look at I have what you know.

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<v Speaker 1>At the end of the month, I know what we did.

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<v Speaker 1>Although then I see what we did at the same

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<v Speaker 1>time this week. If this is, if this is May,

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<v Speaker 1>what was in April? April? And then a year ago,

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<v Speaker 1>you know this is we all just look at where

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<v Speaker 1>we are. I get results very fast. Richard, who as

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<v Speaker 1>an architect or friends of ours who make movies take

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<v Speaker 1>a lot longer to understand where they are in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>I see it every day and it's crucial for me,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, whether I need it every single day, but

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<v Speaker 1>I do. And I think if we had fewer covers

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<v Speaker 1>but we made more money, or we made more money

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<v Speaker 1>but we had let you know, more covers, or or

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<v Speaker 1>who was in and what what the what the average

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<v Speaker 1>spend is? I can tell much health, how much? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the same, how much wine is being drunk? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>because that always listenings up. So all that knowledge is crucial,

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<v Speaker 1>I think, is it Stunstan?

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<v Speaker 2>Who you know?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, who's one of our early investors. One said to me,

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<v Speaker 3>you can run your business off seven numbers and every

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<v Speaker 3>day know those seven numbers and you'll be able to

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<v Speaker 3>run a business.

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<v Speaker 2>And it was the one of the best bits of

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<v Speaker 2>business advice I ever had.

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<v Speaker 3>So stay being data obsessed and customer obsessed gets you

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<v Speaker 3>a long way.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but do you know the seven yes? What are they? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>Average order value? Average order value? Yes, So that's the

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<v Speaker 1>one you mentioned.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely critical.

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<v Speaker 3>If you don't, if that doesn't stay stable, then you've

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<v Speaker 3>got to.

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<v Speaker 2>Get more customers. So how many customers are you acquiring?

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<v Speaker 2>How many customers are you losing?

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<v Speaker 3>So acquisition retention, the cost of acquisition, the lifetime value,

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<v Speaker 3>and your three margins. Really, so I've probably done more

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<v Speaker 3>than seven there. But are you hitting your worry less

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<v Speaker 3>about intate margin now, but your exit margin, which.

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<v Speaker 2>Is your margin after discounting.

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<v Speaker 3>And then obviously profit profit critical, so sometimes you can

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<v Speaker 3>be missing your revenue but hitting your profit.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's just so interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>I just love it.

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<v Speaker 2>Because it keeps your clothes.

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<v Speaker 3>People go your board always learning.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, when you said you had a global best seller,

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<v Speaker 1>what would be your global best sellers?

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<v Speaker 3>Varies all through the year, so you know right now,

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<v Speaker 3>I would say, if you looked at our top twenty

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<v Speaker 3>best sellers, eighteen.

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<v Speaker 2>Of them will be dresses and you'll have it.

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<v Speaker 3>But in September it will all shift to jackets and

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<v Speaker 3>trousers and it were so it varies through the year.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's why because you base your business on ingreek.

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<v Speaker 3>I was, I'm appointing to you the River Cafe, but

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<v Speaker 3>you're you work on seasonality of ingredients. We do, and

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<v Speaker 3>actually we do a similar thing, which is we work

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<v Speaker 3>on the seasonallys of how people feel and how they

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<v Speaker 3>want to wear. So we'll see a big shift to

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<v Speaker 3>trousers and suiting in September October and then they'll move

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<v Speaker 3>to coats and if you bring we find if you

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<v Speaker 3>bring your coats in in August, no one really wants them,

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<v Speaker 3>and then they're bored.

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<v Speaker 2>By October at your ingredients will have gone off.

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<v Speaker 1>I has to say, you know, we love Yeah, there's

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<v Speaker 1>so many similarities and so many but I was wondering

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<v Speaker 1>back to your going full circle to your parents and

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<v Speaker 1>your family. I know you had a tragedy in that

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<v Speaker 1>both your parents died within half an hour of each other,

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<v Speaker 1>but did they understand they see your success?

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<v Speaker 3>So I always say that me and m starts with

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<v Speaker 3>my mom. Yeah, And of course my dad was large

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<v Speaker 3>part of it. It was him that made me q on

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<v Speaker 3>older market at six am in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was the love of clothes.

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<v Speaker 2>That I did with my mom, you know, made clothes

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<v Speaker 2>with my mum.

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<v Speaker 3>And yes, my father had been very ill for two

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<v Speaker 3>years and my mom had been clearing the house out

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<v Speaker 3>and she had put memory boxes together for my brother

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<v Speaker 3>and I because when my dad died, my mom and

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<v Speaker 3>I were going to do the house up and we

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<v Speaker 3>had all these plans and anyway, the tragedy struck, my

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<v Speaker 3>mom was on the phone to me and she had

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<v Speaker 3>a brain hemorrhage, and she died, and they died with him,

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<v Speaker 3>as you say, within half an hour of vation.

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to tell you that your father had died.

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<v Speaker 4>She was.

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<v Speaker 3>I was supposed to be coming back. I was supposed

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<v Speaker 3>to be getting to my father. So we were making

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<v Speaker 3>plans for me to get to my father to say

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<v Speaker 3>my final goodbye, and weirdly, she died actually a couple

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<v Speaker 3>of minutes before him, and I had to go on

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<v Speaker 3>a plane. So it was I'll love forget the British

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<v Speaker 3>Airway staff. They were so kind, they were unbelievable. But

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<v Speaker 3>I then had to go back to their house, and

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<v Speaker 3>of course I'd always planned to go back to that house.

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<v Speaker 2>With my mum.

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<v Speaker 3>And remember they'd never moved, so the house that I

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<v Speaker 3>was born in was where they died. And I went

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<v Speaker 3>to look for her passport, and I found all our

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<v Speaker 3>old patterns and needlework cases and the sewing machine, and

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<v Speaker 3>it was all there, and she'd put it in this

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<v Speaker 3>place as the memory of what we did.

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<v Speaker 2>And at that moment the doorbell ran and it was

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<v Speaker 2>a me and m package.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that is a that is a full all down

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<v Speaker 1>to mumbles circle down to your mom. Well, you can cry,

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<v Speaker 1>we can try. I would cry. Brought chas to my eyes.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you think that the tragedies you've been through,

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<v Speaker 1>the joys you've been through, the children you've raised, the

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<v Speaker 1>life you've led, and all you've done from you know,

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<v Speaker 1>with with the control, with the rigor with the ingredients,

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<v Speaker 1>with the demands, there's also times when you need comfort,

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<v Speaker 1>and so we go to food for joy, We go

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<v Speaker 1>for sharing. Your mother taught you, you teach your children.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a way of being together. We appreciate the zucchini

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<v Speaker 1>fretty and there is a sense of the way food

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<v Speaker 1>is in our lives, so it can be for sharing

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<v Speaker 1>and excitement and as for comfort. Before I say goodbye

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<v Speaker 1>to you on this rating now day, if you do

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<v Speaker 1>reach for food for comfort, is there food that you

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<v Speaker 1>would reach for? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>My mum Shepherd's pie made her style.

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<v Speaker 1>With peas and ketchup. Hm hmm, okay, not very real.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell me describe it, tell me about it.

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<v Speaker 3>She put lots of hidden vegetables in so lots and

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<v Speaker 3>lots of vegetables with the mince and red wine and

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<v Speaker 3>lots of tomatoes.

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<v Speaker 2>But it was the mash.

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<v Speaker 1>Then lay it up with lots of cheese.

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<v Speaker 2>And sliced tomatoes, so.

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<v Speaker 1>You would just eat it with ketchup. She didn't put

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<v Speaker 1>it in the recipes. She didn't put it in the

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<v Speaker 1>ketch up on the side.

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<v Speaker 3>Peas yeah, heinds ketchup.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, Claire, beautiful, Thank you. Ruthie's Table for was

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<v Speaker 1>produced by Alex Bell, Robbie Hamilton and Sad Rogers with

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<v Speaker 1>Andrew Sang and Bella Cillian. This has been an atomized

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