1
00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:06,040
Speaker 1: The second day. Sometimes with a bad first date, there's

2
00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:08,800
Speaker 1: one moment that you can look back on and say

3
00:00:09,119 --> 00:00:12,879
Speaker 1: that was it, That was where I missed everything up? Yeah? Yeah,

4
00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:17,840
Speaker 1: For me, each date has about fourteen of those. Is

5
00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:19,520
Speaker 1: it when I did the full re enactment of the

6
00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:22,639
Speaker 1: movie Garden State? Was that it's you? Or was it

7
00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:25,680
Speaker 1: when my zipper got caught in the sushi conveyor belt? How?

8
00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:35,279
Speaker 1: I still don't? Why were you too much? Well? One

9
00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:38,680
Speaker 1: of our listeners says that she knows that she made

10
00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:42,920
Speaker 1: a huge mistake in one moment and she's regretting it today.

11
00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:46,680
Speaker 1: That's why she's asking for our help. Her name's Jessica. Jessica,

12
00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:51,279
Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. Hey guys, Jica. Before you let

13
00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:53,120
Speaker 1: us know, I just want to say, sometimes it's good

14
00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:55,600
Speaker 1: to only have one giant bad thing go wrong, because

15
00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:58,200
Speaker 1: at least you can when wrong. Yeah. Did you have

16
00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:02,520
Speaker 1: a sushi conveyor belt incident? There was no sushi involved.

17
00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:09,120
Speaker 1: Good tragedy avoided. What happened with this guy what's his name? Oh?

18
00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:11,920
Speaker 1: I went out with Vince? Okay, and how do you

19
00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:14,560
Speaker 1: know Vince? How'd you guys meet? It was online so

20
00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:17,039
Speaker 1: it was kind of you know, like a first sort

21
00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:20,720
Speaker 1: of blind date online and it was good. It was

22
00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:22,880
Speaker 1: it was it was nice. We had a really good

23
00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:26,119
Speaker 1: vibe and all right, well we'll play a song, we'll

24
00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:29,360
Speaker 1: come back. Oh we should hear more about it. Huh.

25
00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:31,760
Speaker 1: I mean were you were you shocked that it was

26
00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:34,280
Speaker 1: going that well? I totally was. I I you know,

27
00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:36,920
Speaker 1: I had kind of low expectations, but I don't know.

28
00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:39,400
Speaker 1: He was just it was humble and cool and fun

29
00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:42,399
Speaker 1: and we're having a good time. The problem is, so

30
00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:45,800
Speaker 1: because I have these low expectations, I kind of sort

31
00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:50,680
Speaker 1: of accidentally double booked myself that night. Oh like with

32
00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:53,800
Speaker 1: another day or with a party or something. No, it

33
00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:59,000
Speaker 1: was another date. Oh girl, So I like options, Okay,

34
00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:02,160
Speaker 1: why too in the same night. I just figured we'd

35
00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:04,640
Speaker 1: we'd eat and you're like, okay, thanks, that was fine

36
00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:06,160
Speaker 1: by and then that would be it because that's kind

37
00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:09,280
Speaker 1: of been my experience. Was Vince aware that you had

38
00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:12,920
Speaker 1: two dates going on that night? He was not. He

39
00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:15,640
Speaker 1: was nut And you know, looking back, I mean that's

40
00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:18,399
Speaker 1: the moment like I should have canceled because I lost

41
00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:20,880
Speaker 1: track of time and when I realized I was like

42
00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:22,800
Speaker 1: twenty minutes away from the second date, and I was like,

43
00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:25,359
Speaker 1: oh shoot, so I had to wrap things up really fast.

44
00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:28,040
Speaker 1: He was like, oh, we're done, and I was like, yeah,

45
00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:32,720
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, I gotta go. And I then mote

46
00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:35,040
Speaker 1: him some money for the like half a bill, you know,

47
00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:37,200
Speaker 1: because I didn't want it to be like thank good bye.

48
00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:40,560
Speaker 1: Why did you actually leave before the bill came well,

49
00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:42,600
Speaker 1: like it had just gotten there. Yeah, but like you

50
00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:44,560
Speaker 1: didn't let him like walk you back to your car

51
00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:48,480
Speaker 1: or anything like that. No, I had to run. Oh man,

52
00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:52,239
Speaker 1: oh yeah, just as a guy having to sit there

53
00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:54,800
Speaker 1: and watch your date like bolt on you yeah, before

54
00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:56,720
Speaker 1: you were even finished, like totally paying the bill and

55
00:02:56,760 --> 00:02:59,720
Speaker 1: then they vendo you, which is feels it like business

56
00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:02,160
Speaker 1: trains insactioning, right. Yeah. And I think, I mean, I

57
00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:04,360
Speaker 1: think he could tell that something was going on because

58
00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:07,480
Speaker 1: he was asking me, are you okay? Like did I

59
00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:10,320
Speaker 1: did I do something? Or oh you know, when I

60
00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:11,760
Speaker 1: was trying to tell no, no no, no, it's not you,

61
00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:14,600
Speaker 1: You're great, this is good. I just becoming personal came up.

62
00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:18,080
Speaker 1: I gotta I gotta run. I feel like I would

63
00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:21,480
Speaker 1: almost prefer a girl to sneak out on me, yeah,

64
00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:25,040
Speaker 1: rather than like collect herself frantically be like Okay, sorry,

65
00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:28,200
Speaker 1: I gotta go. By, No, you just reschedule. You should

66
00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:29,520
Speaker 1: have been honest and you said the look, I have

67
00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:31,840
Speaker 1: something going on. I want to give you my full attention.

68
00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:33,360
Speaker 1: You know, it's like a job interview. You don't want

69
00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:35,240
Speaker 1: the person interviewing and being like, Okay, just tell me

70
00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:37,400
Speaker 1: about yourself real quick. I gotta go. I gotta go. Yeah.

71
00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:39,840
Speaker 1: Based on your profile picture and your interest, I had

72
00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:44,640
Speaker 1: very very low expectations. I never ever thought this was

73
00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:48,120
Speaker 1: gonna go like this. But yeah, sorry, By. And the

74
00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:51,960
Speaker 1: thing is, I'm guessing the second date went terribly because

75
00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:54,920
Speaker 1: we're not calling the second date for a second date update,

76
00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:56,840
Speaker 1: we're calling the first dude. Oh yeah, what happened with

77
00:03:56,880 --> 00:04:00,840
Speaker 1: guy number two? Yeah? Guy number two was a no show? Oh?

78
00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:06,760
Speaker 1: I bet you, I bet you. I would feel so

79
00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:09,680
Speaker 1: foolish at that point, Oh I did. I waited an

80
00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:11,480
Speaker 1: hour at the bar for this guy, and I just

81
00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:14,160
Speaker 1: felt like a bigots full. And so after my hour

82
00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:19,280
Speaker 1: of waiting, I texted Vince and I was like, hey,

83
00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:22,440
Speaker 1: so I cleared that up. If you're still out, I'd

84
00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:24,320
Speaker 1: love to hang out some more, kind of try to

85
00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:29,520
Speaker 1: smooth it over. And he texted me back l oh yeah, yeah,

86
00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:34,960
Speaker 1: oh hell yeah, and that's all you guys have talked since. Yeah.

87
00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:37,159
Speaker 1: I tried texting him one other time and he didn't respond,

88
00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:38,800
Speaker 1: so I was just like, Okay, I'm gonna leave it alone.

89
00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:41,839
Speaker 1: I don't want to picture him, but I'm feeling really

90
00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:44,680
Speaker 1: really bad about it, and I you know, I'm hoping

91
00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:46,720
Speaker 1: it's something that I could kind of come back from.

92
00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:49,760
Speaker 1: I don't know. If you tell him the truth, it

93
00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:52,640
Speaker 1: makes you sound bad, like, hey, I'm only calling you

94
00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:58,200
Speaker 1: back because this guy stood me up, I think. But

95
00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:01,000
Speaker 1: you can explain it as like you made a mistake.

96
00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:04,200
Speaker 1: He's dating, like he gets it, like it's hard, it's

97
00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:06,680
Speaker 1: hard to make decisions. It always feels like the more

98
00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:09,320
Speaker 1: you date, the more options you'll have or something I

99
00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:12,679
Speaker 1: don't want to date to leave me for another day. Yeah,

100
00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:15,200
Speaker 1: nobody would. But do we have to tell him that part? No,

101
00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:18,279
Speaker 1: that's why. Okay, Well, I think we're gonna go in

102
00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:20,839
Speaker 1: planning to not tell him. Yes, But you know what,

103
00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:25,160
Speaker 1: if it slips out, then it slips out. You do

104
00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:29,080
Speaker 1: this every once in a while, somebody wants what they

105
00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:31,440
Speaker 1: can't have. Yeah, and if he thinks that she's wanted

106
00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:33,600
Speaker 1: by a lot of other people. That's not necessarily we're

107
00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:37,440
Speaker 1: going to play some games. I don't know. Maybe we

108
00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:39,480
Speaker 1: should say it wasn't just one extra date. Maybe it

109
00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:43,320
Speaker 1: was twenty extra dance and the other guys could match

110
00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:45,480
Speaker 1: up to Vince. They were all rich and famous, that's right,

111
00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:47,240
Speaker 1: and Vince was better than all of them. We're gonna

112
00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:49,360
Speaker 1: play a song, we'll come back, we'll call Vince, and

113
00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:51,560
Speaker 1: we'll try and get your second date update. Okay, Jessica,

114
00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:55,320
Speaker 1: all right, all right, hold on. You know the saying

115
00:05:55,480 --> 00:05:59,279
Speaker 1: is nice guys finished last. Yeah, but that's not always true.

116
00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:02,360
Speaker 1: Sometimes times they don't even get to finish dinner before

117
00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:06,640
Speaker 1: the date ducks out on you for a hotter guy out.

118
00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:09,400
Speaker 1: Sorry for the low glow there, Jessica, but that is

119
00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:11,720
Speaker 1: what she did to a great dude that she was

120
00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:14,760
Speaker 1: with named Vince. She had to leave early to go

121
00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:19,080
Speaker 1: meet up with another guy, and what happened other guy

122
00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:24,800
Speaker 1: no showed. Yeah, anything is Jeffrey. If you liked Vince Moore,

123
00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:27,960
Speaker 1: you would have booked his date second. Yeah, you know

124
00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:33,719
Speaker 1: what I mean, initial like, you wouldn't have put him first.

125
00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:37,440
Speaker 1: She went in with those low expectations. So, Jessica, I

126
00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:39,560
Speaker 1: want you to know we are going to try our

127
00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:43,120
Speaker 1: very best here, but even though we're enjoying ourselves, we

128
00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:45,880
Speaker 1: have another phone call book with a possibly better hotter

129
00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:48,560
Speaker 1: listener in ten minutes, so we're gonna try and make

130
00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:51,720
Speaker 1: this quick. Okay, all right, well really really please if

131
00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:55,239
Speaker 1: we can not tell him about the other date, okay, okay,

132
00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:57,040
Speaker 1: so why did you leave? Then? I mean we're going

133
00:06:57,080 --> 00:07:00,159
Speaker 1: to have to tell him something family emergency, right like

134
00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:02,160
Speaker 1: it made it a family emergency and we just met.

135
00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:04,760
Speaker 1: He doesn't have to know those details. Yeah, okay, well

136
00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:07,800
Speaker 1: what's the detail grandpa's sick? Like she said she didn't

137
00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:09,520
Speaker 1: have to know the details. He doesn't need to do

138
00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:11,720
Speaker 1: what if he asks like, oh my god, family emergency?

139
00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:15,040
Speaker 1: Is everyone? Okay? What are we saying? Your business? Okay,

140
00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:19,960
Speaker 1: talk about my family? Yeah, all right, all right, get

141
00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:29,880
Speaker 1: aggressive and vague aggressive Jessica. Alright, we're ready. We're gonna

142
00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:32,560
Speaker 1: dial Vince's phone number, try and get your second day update.

143
00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:45,640
Speaker 1: Here we go, Hello, Hey is this Vince? This is him?

144
00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:48,640
Speaker 1: Who's this Evans? My name is jeff from a morning

145
00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:54,360
Speaker 1: radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. What's up? Okay?

146
00:07:57,360 --> 00:08:01,440
Speaker 1: There was awkward silence. I freaked out. Just say, okay,

147
00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:07,040
Speaker 1: we're all here, what's going on. Great, it's a segment, yea,

148
00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:10,040
Speaker 1: it is an awkward segment that we do. It's called

149
00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:12,760
Speaker 1: a second date Update. We're calling on behalf of one

150
00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:14,960
Speaker 1: of our listeners who went out on a date with you.

151
00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:20,760
Speaker 1: Her name's Jessica. Oh yeah, Jessica. Okay, she really liked

152
00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:25,760
Speaker 1: you really. Yeah, I know it doesn't seem like she

153
00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:28,520
Speaker 1: liked you because she left the date in such a hurry.

154
00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:31,200
Speaker 1: But that's just one of the things that she does

155
00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:35,280
Speaker 1: when she really likes the guy us, she gets nervous

156
00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:39,400
Speaker 1: and panics and leaves. It's a problem. Oh so, so

157
00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:42,200
Speaker 1: she told you guys what happened. Yeah, she gave us

158
00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:44,960
Speaker 1: a little recap of it, and and she actually felt

159
00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:47,679
Speaker 1: bad about it. Yeah, I mean, she she's old. She

160
00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:50,319
Speaker 1: didn't want to have to leave, but she didn't really

161
00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:56,400
Speaker 1: have a choice family emergency. Um okay, yeah, I don't know.

162
00:08:56,440 --> 00:08:59,640
Speaker 1: I just kind of doubt that's really the case. I mean,

163
00:08:59,679 --> 00:09:02,480
Speaker 1: shee you later, she said, just to let you know

164
00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:05,520
Speaker 1: that she was like still interested. Yeah, yeah, yeah she did.

165
00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:07,719
Speaker 1: She did texting me later. She wanted to like meet

166
00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:11,120
Speaker 1: back up right, And we heard you texted back kind

167
00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:14,600
Speaker 1: of snarky, just lol. Yeah, I mean I said that

168
00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:17,440
Speaker 1: because she really seemed like she had better things to

169
00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:19,880
Speaker 1: do and she had somewhere else more important to be. Like,

170
00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:22,040
Speaker 1: we were having a great time, we were eating, and

171
00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:24,600
Speaker 1: she pretty much ended it in the middle of us

172
00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:27,560
Speaker 1: eating and left. But that's not really fair to her

173
00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:29,600
Speaker 1: because it could have been something that was totally out

174
00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:32,360
Speaker 1: of her control. Oh really, So, I mean, you guys

175
00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:34,760
Speaker 1: talk to her. So what did she say was out

176
00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:38,760
Speaker 1: of her control? She know, she made a commitment that

177
00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:43,920
Speaker 1: she had to follow through on. Yeah, okay, yeah, this

178
00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:46,960
Speaker 1: sounds really general and vague, but yeah, do you have

179
00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:53,280
Speaker 1: a problem with that? Yeah, Vagan aggressive, I don't know.

180
00:09:53,320 --> 00:09:55,480
Speaker 1: I just mean it's it's kind of hard to believe

181
00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:58,599
Speaker 1: considering the way that it sort of ended. Like, I

182
00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:00,520
Speaker 1: don't know, I just feel like so that you think

183
00:10:00,520 --> 00:10:05,200
Speaker 1: she's lying. Yeah, well, I mean this is the thing, Like,

184
00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:08,000
Speaker 1: and you know, I'll be completely honest with you guys,

185
00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:11,760
Speaker 1: but I've had some trust issues from the past, and

186
00:10:12,080 --> 00:10:16,160
Speaker 1: everything when we were talking seemed pretty good, the way

187
00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:19,679
Speaker 1: that everything sounded, and she seemed pretty straightforward, but my

188
00:10:19,720 --> 00:10:22,840
Speaker 1: trust issues kind of came into play and I just

189
00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:27,000
Speaker 1: wanted to sort of see like where her head was at.

190
00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:32,480
Speaker 1: So I actually had one of my closest friends who

191
00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:35,079
Speaker 1: is you know, he's basically a model when he is

192
00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:37,559
Speaker 1: a model and looks, you know, really good looking dude,

193
00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:42,400
Speaker 1: and so he actually matched with her, and I had

194
00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:46,480
Speaker 1: asked him, like, you know, why don't you schedule sort

195
00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:52,400
Speaker 1: of like a date for the same day. I know

196
00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:54,880
Speaker 1: this is crazy, and you know, it's like putting it

197
00:10:54,920 --> 00:10:57,160
Speaker 1: all out there, but this is kind of why I feel.

198
00:10:57,200 --> 00:11:01,480
Speaker 1: So this is really disappointing. Hold on, you already knew

199
00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:04,360
Speaker 1: about the other date that she had scheduled. Yeah, so

200
00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:07,920
Speaker 1: he reached out and she already had a date scheduled

201
00:11:07,960 --> 00:11:12,720
Speaker 1: with me. Kid, dude, you set a trap for her. Well,

202
00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:14,680
Speaker 1: I didn't know that, to be honest, she would be

203
00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:18,600
Speaker 1: that thirsty to hop on it. Come on, if you

204
00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:21,440
Speaker 1: had a model that matched with you and wanted to

205
00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:23,200
Speaker 1: go out the same night, you're not telling me that

206
00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:25,720
Speaker 1: you wouldn't book her. Still, I actually would have just

207
00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:27,600
Speaker 1: canceled the other date and gone out with the model.

208
00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:32,520
Speaker 1: Ye are you two dates? You don't want to? Like? Yeah,

209
00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:34,640
Speaker 1: because then it kind of just felt like a pity date,

210
00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:37,200
Speaker 1: you know, Yeah, I don't like this. That's low, man.

211
00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:39,920
Speaker 1: I just think that you're missing an opportunity, like if

212
00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:42,800
Speaker 1: you could give her some grace here, like you may

213
00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:45,360
Speaker 1: actually find somebody who you really connect with. And like,

214
00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:48,280
Speaker 1: the reason why I put the test out there was

215
00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:52,000
Speaker 1: because she put on her profile. She's tired of the game,

216
00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:55,920
Speaker 1: she's looking for something really meaningful, and I felt like

217
00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:58,720
Speaker 1: we were aligning really well. I did, and that was

218
00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:01,600
Speaker 1: why I was like before I even how serious are you?

219
00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:03,920
Speaker 1: Or are you just another girl who puts it on

220
00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:06,840
Speaker 1: her profile but really just wants to you know, I

221
00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:09,120
Speaker 1: feel like maybe there is some truth to what she's

222
00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:12,280
Speaker 1: saying there, because she clearly wants to connect with you,

223
00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:14,880
Speaker 1: because she's actually on the other line listening this entire time.

224
00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:18,640
Speaker 1: That doesn't help. Trust is shoes. She wants to talk

225
00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:22,160
Speaker 1: to you right now. Man, Wait, she's listening to this

226
00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:31,080
Speaker 1: whole thing. Yeah, don't you trust her now? She's right there, Jessica, Hi, awkward? Yeah,

227
00:12:31,200 --> 00:12:37,800
Speaker 1: how's it going, Jessica? Not great. I feel really bad

228
00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:41,240
Speaker 1: that I couldn't figure out like what I needed to

229
00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:42,920
Speaker 1: do in that moment and make a better choice. But

230
00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:44,520
Speaker 1: I feel really bad for you and those trust is

231
00:12:44,559 --> 00:12:48,680
Speaker 1: shoes and the mind games and that's wow, that's a lot.

232
00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:52,440
Speaker 1: There's so much on both sides. Like I think you

233
00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:54,599
Speaker 1: both just hang up before we even get into this.

234
00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:59,000
Speaker 1: I'm just too much. I'm not embarrassed at all when

235
00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:01,000
Speaker 1: I did. If anything, I feel like it gave me

236
00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:03,880
Speaker 1: clarity on sort of what you're where you stand, on

237
00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:07,040
Speaker 1: what you're looking for. And I mean, I get it,

238
00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:10,280
Speaker 1: I get why you're you're feeling bad, but like at

239
00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:13,040
Speaker 1: the end of the day, like you could have easily

240
00:13:13,120 --> 00:13:15,120
Speaker 1: just not gone on that date, or you could have

241
00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:17,600
Speaker 1: canceled it, whatever you chose to do that that's totally fine.

242
00:13:17,960 --> 00:13:20,400
Speaker 1: You were set up. I know that's a little embarrassing,

243
00:13:20,520 --> 00:13:24,720
Speaker 1: but I just like you don't have to waste I

244
00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:27,280
Speaker 1: don't think that you can gauge in one date like

245
00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:30,200
Speaker 1: what someone's all about and if they're really serious, Like

246
00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:34,559
Speaker 1: I owed you nothing, And I feel bad that I

247
00:13:34,559 --> 00:13:37,480
Speaker 1: couldn't make the choice because I don't know. I wish

248
00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:40,280
Speaker 1: i'd been more decisive. But I can be decisive right

249
00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:42,480
Speaker 1: now and tell you that absolutely we don't need to

250
00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:45,280
Speaker 1: bother with it because that's my games. I'm not interested.

251
00:13:46,559 --> 00:13:49,240
Speaker 1: You're already cutting it off now. I can totally appreciate that,

252
00:13:49,320 --> 00:13:51,440
Speaker 1: And to be honest, if it wasn't for the fact

253
00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:53,680
Speaker 1: that you texted me back after you were stood up

254
00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:56,920
Speaker 1: asking to hang out again like that same night, I

255
00:13:57,000 --> 00:13:59,000
Speaker 1: totally would have met up for a second date, because

256
00:13:59,280 --> 00:14:01,840
Speaker 1: you know, I just feel little about it, But the

257
00:14:01,920 --> 00:14:04,400
Speaker 1: fact that you text me back right away just kind

258
00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:08,079
Speaker 1: of showed, like how it felt I was into you.

259
00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:11,080
Speaker 1: It says that I was into you. I mean, I

260
00:14:11,120 --> 00:14:13,040
Speaker 1: didn't want to be the one not showing up. I

261
00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:14,920
Speaker 1: didn't want to be the no show because that sucks

262
00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:16,960
Speaker 1: that I know what that feels like. So for whoever

263
00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:19,320
Speaker 1: the other guy was, I didn't want to be that person.

264
00:14:19,640 --> 00:14:21,520
Speaker 1: And when he didn't show up, I was relieved and

265
00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:24,080
Speaker 1: I was like, cool, maybe Vince is still down. Maybe

266
00:14:24,120 --> 00:14:27,640
Speaker 1: I can fix this. You guys are both making it.

267
00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:30,960
Speaker 1: That's a valid point on Jessica's part. I can see

268
00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:33,400
Speaker 1: where she's coming from, and she's probably obviously like, like

269
00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:36,400
Speaker 1: she said, not interested, which is totally fine. I honestly

270
00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:38,640
Speaker 1: don't have any hard feelings toward her. If I saw

271
00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:41,840
Speaker 1: Jessica in the street and we said hello and talk great,

272
00:14:41,960 --> 00:14:44,920
Speaker 1: you just sound a little aggressive, like I should just

273
00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:47,400
Speaker 1: go out and like let your guards down a little bit. Jessica,

274
00:14:47,440 --> 00:14:50,240
Speaker 1: are you not going to apologize to Vince for ditching

275
00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:54,440
Speaker 1: out in the middle of the date? Well, the end

276
00:14:54,480 --> 00:14:57,240
Speaker 1: of the date, paid for half the dinner, like it

277
00:14:57,280 --> 00:14:58,720
Speaker 1: was the end of it. It's not like she'd left

278
00:14:58,760 --> 00:15:01,000
Speaker 1: in the middle, like he should have ologize for Hernce

279
00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:02,840
Speaker 1: did apologize. He was like, I'm sorry if I set

280
00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:04,440
Speaker 1: you up for the trap, but you were the one

281
00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:07,640
Speaker 1: that scheduled another date right after me. Oh, it's not

282
00:15:07,680 --> 00:15:10,880
Speaker 1: a real enough bolz. He none at all. He said,

283
00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:13,320
Speaker 1: I'm proud of what I did. Was this male model

284
00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:18,400
Speaker 1: friend up to anyway? I haven't heard of Jessica apologize once.

285
00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:22,000
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I need to apologize. I did

286
00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:23,840
Speaker 1: not lie to him. I told him I needed to go.

287
00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:26,640
Speaker 1: I didn't owe him anything. Yeah, and it's not your

288
00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:29,920
Speaker 1: it's not your fault, Jessica that his friend was hotter. Yeah,

289
00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:32,600
Speaker 1: and it wasn't about that friend being a hotter you guys, kitty.

290
00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:34,240
Speaker 1: It sounds like we're not going to be able to

291
00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:36,600
Speaker 1: get another date out of this for anybody, But did

292
00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:40,120
Speaker 1: we at least learn an important life lesson from it all? Yeah?

293
00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:45,560
Speaker 1: Online dating is a waste of time. Oh close, this

294
00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:49,640
Speaker 1: show is a waste of time, but you know, thanks

295
00:15:49,640 --> 00:15:53,080
Speaker 1: for playing broken Jeffrey in the morning.