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Speaker 2: But I have reasons.

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Speaker 3: I want to hear those reasons. I want them to

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Speaker 3: be on record. Is it a home birth if it's

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Speaker 3: at your sister's home and at her baby shower, it's a.

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Speaker 2: Shower, Berth, I say, well, let's go. You know what

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Speaker 2: I mean, baby shower.

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Speaker 3: A baby shower is actually because your water breaks at

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Speaker 3: the shower, right exactly?

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Speaker 2: They get I'm trying to I don't know the true

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Speaker 1: If I wasn't there, I twenty three female, am currently

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Speaker 3: Yo, that's Hella pregnant, bro Hella pregnant.

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Speaker 2: You are pregnant. Now.

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Speaker 1: We had been keeping it a secret and plan to

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Speaker 1: my pregnancy, my sister in law twenty six female, found

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Speaker 1: out that she was pregnant, and then it just felt

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Speaker 2: I have to think about that one.

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Speaker 3: I feel like it's you know, wait a week and

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Speaker 3: then announce it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like that's it.

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Speaker 1: It's not like sister announces pregnancy. I could never announce

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I've also never been pregnant, so I don't really

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Speaker 2: You are no birther. We just wanted to wait for

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Speaker 1: So I've been married to my husband for only six months,

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Speaker 3: Wow, dang, bro, that's a wild bro. I guess that's

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Speaker 3: still high school sweethearts. But that's like right at the

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Speaker 1: And when we were seventeen, I found out I was pregnant,

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Speaker 3: I understand that something I didn't know is like often

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Speaker 3: I understand that. I understand wanting to be a little

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Speaker 1: Yeah, many, so many people have multiple miscarriages, so it's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I've been wearing hoodies and loose clothing. I'm assuming you're

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Speaker 3: That's crazy. How long was your mom pregyed it with you?

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Speaker 1: No way, pregned it with you for eleven months. She

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Speaker 1: we were hesitant on me going. I was just going

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Speaker 3: like you should what are you going to tell your family?

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Speaker 1: Ultimately the family is the clear a hole here where

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Speaker 3: But ultimately, like it's not her fault that she had,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, Like there's there's nothing you can do.

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Speaker 1: It's like I don't know if I call Opie the

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Speaker 3: But I also don't know about like like does another

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Speaker 3: My mom won't leave me alone in the shower. Okayop,

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Speaker 3: this is Okayop. I'm saving with honor and I'm John

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Speaker 3: Fry and we tell the funniest stories on the Internet.

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Speaker 3: And John, I don't know if, like when you were

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, my mom won't leave me alone in the shower.

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Speaker 3: So oh my god, Mom's got that strap on, ready

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Speaker 3: And we're not talking like snowed in privacy making sure

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Speaker 3: We're talking about she's just all up in your business.

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Speaker 3: There was none. I was not safe to be alone

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Speaker 2: Five clearance were anywhere in the house anytime she wants.

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Speaker 1: It's like, what do you just barge into a room

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like, hey, this is my house. I can call

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