WEBVTT - The Breakfast Club REWIND (Master P, Gia Casey and H.E.R)

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<v Speaker 1>What you're doing. This is your time to get it

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<v Speaker 1>off your chest, whether you're mad or blest eight five

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<v Speaker 1>one five one. We want to hear from you on

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<v Speaker 1>the breakfast club this man, it's black, Mike gotta doll man,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, black lighter, blake black. Oh what's happening now?

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<v Speaker 1>What's haying? Man? I want to get off with chance

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<v Speaker 1>this morning. Man. Okay, the baby mama's man, they always

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<v Speaker 1>did baby daddy. I'll try to did these baby mama's

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<v Speaker 1>man who don't want to let the dead again? They

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<v Speaker 1>started like the relationships hill man, y'all hear about that

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, which I think is whack's whacking. Very selfish man.

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<v Speaker 1>There's more than white man. There's a lot of what

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<v Speaker 1>Chalomy say, trauma, man, hurt, hurt, that's right. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry you're going through that. But they shouldn't hurt

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<v Speaker 1>the child. But they shouldn't hurt the child behind that,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's that's the only person they hurt in the

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<v Speaker 1>situation like that by not letting both parents be in

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<v Speaker 1>their life. Absolutely, Hello, who's this good morning? This is

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<v Speaker 1>smart for us? Heyma, see you get it off your chests. Mama,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I just want to give a shout out

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<v Speaker 1>to my son tray Vine. Today's is to a birthday.

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<v Speaker 1>He just said twelve out of here and day twelve

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<v Speaker 1>out of here and say twelve. Whappy birthday to Trayvon.

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<v Speaker 1>All Right, mama, Hello, who's this? This is Jennifer. How

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<v Speaker 1>are you? Good morning? Getting off your chests. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>kind of upset because my boyfriend broke up with me

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<v Speaker 1>because I took his cell phone. Watch took your cell phones?

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<v Speaker 1>And Patty, I don't know, I don't, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what happened. I just grabbed the phone and I got

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<v Speaker 1>in my car and I just drove off, and then

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<v Speaker 1>like at the red light, he was there like keeping

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<v Speaker 1>my phone on the question, but why didn't I don't

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean you don't know why you took

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<v Speaker 1>his cell phone? You know why you took it? I

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<v Speaker 1>took it because I just felt like he was not

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<v Speaker 1>being trustful, like truthful. You just weren't too fun to us.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I know. I'm just saying like he was

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<v Speaker 1>always texting and stuff at night and looks like why

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<v Speaker 1>are you like who you calling? Who you text it?

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<v Speaker 1>So what you're finding? The phone got you? A simple

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<v Speaker 1>question exactly. Ask you a simple question. Why didn't you

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<v Speaker 1>just wait till he go to sleep and didn't go

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<v Speaker 1>through his phone? Like why would you snatch it and

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<v Speaker 1>didn't drive off? She had a passport. Y'all watch too

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<v Speaker 1>many videos online now, you you know you see these

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<v Speaker 1>videos online when people chasing the girls outside at the

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<v Speaker 1>hospital and all the stupid stuff. Me right away, he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even know. I took you like it was sitting

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<v Speaker 1>there and I grabbed it. I feel in my pocket.

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<v Speaker 1>We talked and I was like, all right, I'm leaving.

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<v Speaker 1>I left, and then by the time I got to

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<v Speaker 1>the red like he was right behind you. Question, you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get to look at it? No, I didn't. You

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<v Speaker 1>you're just lying because first you just said you found nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you said you don't even get to look at it.

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<v Speaker 1>You just a liar. I'm like, no, I'm just how

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<v Speaker 1>you found nothing if you didn't even get to look

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<v Speaker 1>at it, you liar. People go to jail during the interrogation.

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<v Speaker 1>You know you didn't have stuff. Right now, if you

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<v Speaker 1>found something, would you leave him? Okay, So this is okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be truthful. I took his phone. You're going

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<v Speaker 1>to jail. So you didn't find something what you find

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<v Speaker 1>to jail. No, the first time I took this phone,

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<v Speaker 1>I found something, okay, and you stayed. Yes, he was

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<v Speaker 1>texting some girl telling about they missed each other. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's way more messed up because that's more emotional. Then

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<v Speaker 1>I really just didn't talk about how you miss it.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you don't, but you can still miss the pole

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<v Speaker 1>and let me ask you this. Okay, So you stayed

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<v Speaker 1>with him, He's still doing the same things he was

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<v Speaker 1>doing before. That made you not trust him, So then

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<v Speaker 1>you wanted to go find out again what he was doing.

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<v Speaker 1>And then what And then he broke up with me.

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<v Speaker 1>He should I think he made the right decision. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't trust somebody and you got to grab

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<v Speaker 1>their phone, it's probably not the best relationship for you

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<v Speaker 1>to be in. And you had his password too. I

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<v Speaker 1>had it the first time. The second time I was

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get into it. I ain't fine enough about

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<v Speaker 1>to see. You know, the I phone, you can see

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<v Speaker 1>like you can see who called, but you really can't

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<v Speaker 1>get in there. So I've seen people calling him. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell you, some man, that's why. This is

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<v Speaker 1>why the first thing the police officers tell you is

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<v Speaker 1>you have the right to remain silent. You know what

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<v Speaker 1>told us about five or six different inconsistencies in this story. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie. This sounds like a very unpeaceful relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Have a good day before you get locked up. If

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<v Speaker 1>I was, if I was the officer, you'd be going

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<v Speaker 1>to jail with no bel Get it off your chests.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the breakfast club, the morning, the breakfast club. This

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<v Speaker 1>is your time to get it off your chest. Whether

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<v Speaker 1>you're man from you on the breakfast club, but you

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<v Speaker 1>got something on your mind. Love this okay, easy talk

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<v Speaker 1>to us. Get it off your chests, ye'all. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to know why you want to trying to make you

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<v Speaker 1>thron on the radio every morning? Man, who's flirting? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't flirt with that man. No talking about if we

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<v Speaker 1>did it behind the scenes, that would be actually gay

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<v Speaker 1>and cheating on our wives. Huh. It's getting to be

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<v Speaker 1>doing it on every morning. No, it's not. You show

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<v Speaker 1>our kids don't want to hear it. Hear what two

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<v Speaker 1>men flirting with each other every day? Who flat with you?

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<v Speaker 1>And both of y'all marriage? Yeah, we flirt this morning, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all women don't care about it. When do we have

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<v Speaker 1>you had breakfast this morning? Huh? You know, I just

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<v Speaker 1>got to eat what you ask some sausage, little be sausage,

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<v Speaker 1>turkey sausage. How long was the link pork sausage? What

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<v Speaker 1>are you talking breakfast? He just asked what you have

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<v Speaker 1>for breakfast? He has maybe like a hot dog in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. We just asked it this morning. No, not yet,

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<v Speaker 1>not yet. I'm gonna have me a nice hard listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm having a nice hard boiled egg breakfast. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>you just ask me what I'm happy for breakfast. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have a problem with it. I think I am

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have some sausage in a little bit as eat it.

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<v Speaker 1>We're not flirting on the air. Why are you calling

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<v Speaker 1>up here flirting with us right now? You sound jealous.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to your kids, man. My kids don't listen

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. But I'm not flirting with no man anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>What about a salad? You you feel like you want

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<v Speaker 1>to toy salar? How do you kids teachers feel about

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<v Speaker 1>you trying with another man? Your kids teach feeling about you?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I gotta ask him, but I don't

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<v Speaker 1>flirt with enough man. Man, that's ship, man, that's ship

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<v Speaker 1>for y'all to be doing it this morning. We love you, brother,

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<v Speaker 1>have a great day. Well he kissed, You're not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>kissim back. I'm trying Hello, Hello, who's this yo? What's up?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Kyler calling back? Tyler, good morning, calling back

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<v Speaker 1>from when good morning? I called it in yesterday? Man,

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<v Speaker 1>Charlottage cut me off because I didn't appreciate his attitude.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't cut you off. How I cut you off?

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<v Speaker 1>You cut no? No, no, you cut me off? Bro?

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<v Speaker 1>Whoever did read? I was up there trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>it off my chest. I was having a rough hell

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<v Speaker 1>of a weekend, you would like to say, Charlotte mane

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<v Speaker 1>and all I was trying to do with this. But

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<v Speaker 1>the world know, y'all. I was like, all you have

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<v Speaker 1>to say was many, I'm gradual, alive, king, That's it.

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<v Speaker 1>That was not me that cut you half brother. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't and whatever whatever cut you off. I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>control the phone, dad, Tyler good like I'm said, right. Hey.

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<v Speaker 1>All I'm saying is I got a clothing brand man,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'd appreciate the support because I did lose my

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<v Speaker 1>job a couple of weeks ago, and I'm just trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get my brand off the ground so I can

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<v Speaker 1>eat out here. You feel me? What's the name of

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<v Speaker 1>the brand where it is called Dingo? Dan goes here

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<v Speaker 1>on nine two five. I remember that you got his

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<v Speaker 1>car shows Y's what I'm saying. I know you remember.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone knows it right now? He said, everybody knows it,

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<v Speaker 1>and a lot of people know it. A lot of people,

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<v Speaker 1>don't you feel me? But We're gonna be worldwide real stone,

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<v Speaker 1>and I would appreciate the all support. Our website is

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<v Speaker 1>dnngos do you on nine two five dot com. I'd

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate any and all support, man for real. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to do my thing out here, trying to beat

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<v Speaker 1>and start my own legacy and build something from my family.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all I'm trying to do, man, Yes, sir, get

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<v Speaker 1>it off here chest the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the

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<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club. If you missed the Breakfast Club, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>come from my world. It's dangerous. Check out this rewind morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody is d d j Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy.

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<v Speaker 1>We are the Breakfast Club. We got a special guests

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<v Speaker 1>in the building, the living Legend Master p Yes, sir,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up? Y'all came up with sneakers Now, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>sneak de Zions. That's what we're doing. This is man.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. Zion might have Nike or dealers,

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<v Speaker 1>but guess what I got these let the print, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the that's that's the leper, that's the high end fashion

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<v Speaker 1>design ever replied for the twenty million dollar I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>saying asking, you know what if that's on him? Though? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I tell you all the time, you

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<v Speaker 1>got to make product. We're not Nike, we don't own

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<v Speaker 1>none of that stuff. While we can't do this, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's what this about us creating away an opportunity for us. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>Essence must have felt amazing for you this year because

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<v Speaker 1>you guys did the screening for I Got the Hook

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<v Speaker 1>Up too, and it's sold out. Yes, So what was

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<v Speaker 1>it like screening that movie? There? Did he call you?

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<v Speaker 1>I was call I ain't get a call. He was

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<v Speaker 1>down there too. Juju hit me and she was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all know y'all was invited, y'all. I bumped into Tyler

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<v Speaker 1>pair right, that's what I'm thinking, like, I don't really know, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, man, get out your feelings. Like I was

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<v Speaker 1>thinking like we had a run into something. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even like it's just the spirits wasn't right, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like you're from all of you think now I'm doing movies.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess maybe like, man, now you're doing movies now

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<v Speaker 1>with up. But I've been doing movies. So I bumped

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<v Speaker 1>into him, and I'm thinking, gonna be Yeah, big brothers,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm proud of you. The movie that the hook up to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the big screening was big. The whole city

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<v Speaker 1>showed up. You know, it was just like awkward, like

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<v Speaker 1>like it was scared or something like like Bro, you know, like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm happy for you know, it's enough opportune it for

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<v Speaker 1>all us because really I tell people all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>it's really not that much money for us to make

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<v Speaker 1>and filmmaking because we don't own that. I heard the

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<v Speaker 1>speech he said on BT and all that, man, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's what we talked maybe because seven years ago we

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<v Speaker 1>talked like, look, many let's hook up and do something.

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<v Speaker 1>But then you don't show up. But that's my first

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<v Speaker 1>time I'm seeing them. I forgot about it all that.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm just like, man, look, I'm thinking it's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be you know, like we took the city over like

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<v Speaker 1>you said. Yeah, But it was like, I don't know, dog,

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<v Speaker 1>like you invite him. See he was, man, he ain't

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<v Speaker 1>get invited. Y'all know, y'all could just show up. He know,

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<v Speaker 1>he could just show up. But I'm sure it was packed.

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<v Speaker 1>It was crazy, to be honest with you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>brought Hollywood to New Orleans and we did something that

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<v Speaker 1>is history because you know, this movie is owned by

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<v Speaker 1>me and Romano as a fading son of starring this

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<v Speaker 1>film and also financing. Like I say, it's only five percent.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you know this five percent of all the

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<v Speaker 1>production owned, but African America ninety five percent. We don't

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<v Speaker 1>that mean we don't own nothing. So you see us

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<v Speaker 1>on all these big films and all these big projects,

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<v Speaker 1>but real money is in the production. You know. Even

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<v Speaker 1>with me, I watched something like they don't really want

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<v Speaker 1>us to own the production part. They want us to

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<v Speaker 1>be in front of the camera. I had to really go,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, take one. I just wanted to check it out.

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<v Speaker 1>So I took a project like a no limit project,

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<v Speaker 1>even to like a BT like man, it was just

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<v Speaker 1>hard to get it through the system. Even though I

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<v Speaker 1>got the money and every that don't matter. It was

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<v Speaker 1>like and I when got another person of another color

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<v Speaker 1>to goal and went right through, I'm like, that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>That's crazy to me, you know. And I'm just like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like you. I seen when you are when you

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<v Speaker 1>had Connie on me because I talked to Conny too,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm telling I'll be telling, like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>you really have to get involved in this and really

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<v Speaker 1>be about to change, because I see when you asked

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<v Speaker 1>about the Nipsey husing, you didn't go to in detail whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I like what you said, like was Nipsey up for

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<v Speaker 1>that before he passed? And she told you no, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like that was crazy because a humanitarian

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<v Speaker 1>or what like, we've been in the community for years

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<v Speaker 1>over twenties something years, you know, Snoop Dog and y'all

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<v Speaker 1>know Nipsy and my dog like that's my boy. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, man, give people they flowers, why they're here.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't just get caught up into the hype thing.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know what you remember Nipsey Daddy was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to say that, why y'all didn't get that up to

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<v Speaker 1>my son while he was Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think that everybody get caught up whatever hot

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<v Speaker 1>instead of doing what's right. And that's my thing with

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<v Speaker 1>Connie that I'm gonna talk to him about if she

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to talk. Not as cool, but it's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta be real, you gotta be real, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>do this. This man deserved a lot of this stuff

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<v Speaker 1>while he was here. And I just think that for

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<v Speaker 1>the Humanitarian Award, that was a big thing for you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, Like last year that last year, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even think they knew who he was last

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<v Speaker 1>year and he got into it with the guy at

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<v Speaker 1>the thing. They was acting like they ain't no slam Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So that was me and fifty cent. We wasn't even

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<v Speaker 1>ben to get into the BT Award this year. Think

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<v Speaker 1>about it. And then his music, but was crazy. His

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<v Speaker 1>music was incredible last year. The year before that, it

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<v Speaker 1>was the best rapper album. Yeah, I said that numerous

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<v Speaker 1>and guess what why you get it this year because

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<v Speaker 1>that was already pass the same album that's sold fifty

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<v Speaker 1>two thousand copies when he first came out two years

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<v Speaker 1>ago and not going to million. So I just I

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<v Speaker 1>just feel like man us as people, we gotta be real.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you said, we've seen the thing with Tyler Perry

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<v Speaker 1>talk about ownership. But man, look, we gotta be real

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<v Speaker 1>with each other. We gotta come together, we gotta stop.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we can't be faking with each other. I

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<v Speaker 1>think maybe I remember I said in an interview one time,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't put no dresses on. That's the truth. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't care who it is. I ain't putting no dresser

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<v Speaker 1>on and make no money. That's just me. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>not meaning to nobody. So I don't know if people

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<v Speaker 1>take that the wrong way or whatever. That's just me

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<v Speaker 1>as a man. All Right, we got more when we

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<v Speaker 1>come back. This's the Breakfast Club. The Lord taking you

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<v Speaker 1>back back with the classic. It's the Breakfast Club. Was

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<v Speaker 1>a podcast, The Breakfast Club. If you missed The Breakfast Club,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't come from my world. It's dangerous. Check out

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<v Speaker 1>this rewe Morning. Everybody's DJ mvy Angela Yee. Charlemagne, the

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<v Speaker 1>guy we are. The Breakfast Club was still kicking it

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<v Speaker 1>with Master P. Charlemagne. Now what about when you own

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<v Speaker 1>your own stuff the way Tyler does. Because I used

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<v Speaker 1>to think that way about Tyler. But I was like

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<v Speaker 1>that he was putting the dress on because he wanted to,

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<v Speaker 1>not because somebody made him too. That's what I don't

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<v Speaker 1>care about that, That's what I'm saying. So I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like we all got out piures like I Got to

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<v Speaker 1>Hook Up Too. I mean, this is a big movie

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<v Speaker 1>for us. This is a movement. This is not just

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<v Speaker 1>a movie like they don't own this because you gotta.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta realize, man, why it's so important when we

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<v Speaker 1>do a project like Black Panther. We didn't benefit off

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<v Speaker 1>of that man like people, we look at us. Black

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<v Speaker 1>people was in the movie. We was hal being excited,

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<v Speaker 1>but it wasn't us. Yeah, so this is even though

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<v Speaker 1>a movie like this, So think about this a movie

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<v Speaker 1>like I Got to Hook Up Too. We did this

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<v Speaker 1>for the budget we did it for and we did

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<v Speaker 1>it for millions of dollars. But imagine if we had

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<v Speaker 1>hundreds of millions of dollars to make a project, how

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<v Speaker 1>would it look. So this is the growth. This is

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<v Speaker 1>why this is important because we're coming back into the

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<v Speaker 1>community that putting money back into the community. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>a process. We got to grow with it, just like

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<v Speaker 1>I did with music. I just didn't jump straight out

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<v Speaker 1>it made hundreds of millions of dollars. It was a

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<v Speaker 1>process because the production has to get bigger and bigger.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's why I was saying, we have to support

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<v Speaker 1>us because this is only one A few words about

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<v Speaker 1>to go at. You spoke about Nipsey. He got a

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<v Speaker 1>song on the soundtrack and he said recorded it two

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<v Speaker 1>days before his death. Yeah. So one thing about Nipsey Man,

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<v Speaker 1>he was always a stand up guy. It's probably one

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<v Speaker 1>of the one of the most uh realist guys. I

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<v Speaker 1>meant that if I asked him for something, he gonna

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<v Speaker 1>sit it, he gonna get it done. He gonna going

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<v Speaker 1>no question, no talk, and uh he looked up to

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<v Speaker 1>you though. Yeah, he used to say no used to

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<v Speaker 1>call his label No Limit of the West. Yeah you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, And let me tell you how med him.

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<v Speaker 1>I met him with this uh with with with low

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<v Speaker 1>from Chicago. He moved out there in the in the

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<v Speaker 1>calory with fifteen hundred. He hooked us up. Say, man,

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<v Speaker 1>look you know you out in La Man, you're Nipsey

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<v Speaker 1>to get together and when we got to the studio, Maddie,

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<v Speaker 1>we just started making songs. I think we made like

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<v Speaker 1>over seventeen eighteen songs just just just dropping him. So

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we had we had remixed that that rapping

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<v Speaker 1>up soon too. We had remix supposed to be me

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<v Speaker 1>Jeezy Boosey and jay Z. So they get done, it's done.

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<v Speaker 1>It's done, So they're probably gonna put that out. But

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm saying, man, these record companies, we gotta stop.

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<v Speaker 1>We gotta stop all these people from controlling what we had,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, because even right now, look all the money

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<v Speaker 1>they're making off of them. It's his kids really gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get that. How long the process? How do how do

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<v Speaker 1>that take? You know, because now you're dealing with a

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<v Speaker 1>state that you're dealing with record companies. So that's why

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<v Speaker 1>I was saying, we have to take control because I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he was with Atlantic Records at the same time, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>So those are the type of things I was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to show him when he was alive, like look man,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was doing it. But it's just sad tragic

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<v Speaker 1>to where you know, you come from somewhere and you

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<v Speaker 1>die in that same hood, and that's my thing to

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<v Speaker 1>educate the next generation that we have to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>how can we you know, educate ourselves even about the

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<v Speaker 1>environments that we're in, because it's about putting putting things

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<v Speaker 1>in our community, but it's also about surviving and living

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<v Speaker 1>to be able to you know, to be there to

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<v Speaker 1>mix show. I mean his kids, you know, his girl

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<v Speaker 1>as mom is dad. I mean, this is a tray.

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<v Speaker 1>Just man, this guy should still be here today. You

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<v Speaker 1>told page six you would get more respect if you're

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<v Speaker 1>a white business man. Well you've been speaking on that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what the sad thing about it, I was

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<v Speaker 1>saying that for like even after least and entertainers like,

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<v Speaker 1>well we'll talk. We don't want to give us what

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<v Speaker 1>we do because our skin color and which it's sad

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<v Speaker 1>or either like like what we were talking about when

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<v Speaker 1>we talked about Kodak will give this guy ten or

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen percent not even thinking about it. But with us,

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<v Speaker 1>we gotta or well what this fun? I mean, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm gonna get you a deal, I deserve a percentage.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's just business. Yeah, you don't even ask the

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<v Speaker 1>white man no question nothing, just like right now, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean just like you're saying it's like I think even

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<v Speaker 1>with him, I think after he get out of jailist time,

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<v Speaker 1>he's gonna wake up and see that these lawyers are

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<v Speaker 1>ribbing them. They are taking this money. I mean he

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<v Speaker 1>even posts it up. It's like, so those are type

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<v Speaker 1>of things, but you know the law. You're gonna come

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<v Speaker 1>back and say, well, man, he was talking about the

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<v Speaker 1>lip now man that man. No, after a while, you

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<v Speaker 1>will see sometimes guard gonna put you through something and

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna see maybe you at the stage and you're

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<v Speaker 1>like where you don't want to see that, But you

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<v Speaker 1>will eventually grow up and start saying, man, well how

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<v Speaker 1>much this because they're not doing it for free, any

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<v Speaker 1>of those lawyers. I mean, whether NBA, Young Boy and

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<v Speaker 1>Jail whoever in jail right now. Those lawyers are not

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<v Speaker 1>working for free. They're gonna get their money off top.

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<v Speaker 1>They're gonna suck every quarter you got until you donna

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<v Speaker 1>have them them more than they're gonna forget about you.

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<v Speaker 1>pre ordered. Now all right, well it's master Pete. We

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate you for joining us. Yes, it's the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, taking you back back with the classic we Want,

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<v Speaker 1>We Wore. It's the Breakfast Club. Was a podcast called

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<v Speaker 1>eight hundred and five eight five one oh five. Wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to join it to the discussion with the Breakfast Club,

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<v Speaker 1>talk about it morning. Everybody is dcha Envy Angela, yee.

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<v Speaker 1>Charlomagne the guy we are the Breakfast Club. Now if

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<v Speaker 1>you're just joining us, we're talking about ye saying that

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<v Speaker 1>male enhancements have been going up from plastic surgeons. Right, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>they're getting their abs done and little LiPo, and they're

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<v Speaker 1>also getting penis enlargements with fillers. As a guy like,

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<v Speaker 1>what can you really do? Right? Are you there? God?

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<v Speaker 1>It's me I would like a bigger penis and nothing happened,

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<v Speaker 1>So I must, I must, I must increase my thrust.

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<v Speaker 1>But let's go to the full lines. Eight hundred five

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<v Speaker 1>eight five one oh five one. Hello, who's this Melanie?

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<v Speaker 1>It's Melanie Hie. How are you? I'm good? How are

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<v Speaker 1>you blessed black and Hilly favorite said he wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>increase his penis eyes. Would you get that for him?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe for Christmas? Absolutely? Well made you say that with

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<v Speaker 1>no hesitation. You wait, she's waiting for Christmas right now? Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I mean, I don't have a man currently,

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<v Speaker 1>but I've had men in the past that I felt

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<v Speaker 1>like they could have benefited from some enhancement, Like they

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<v Speaker 1>were perfect in all other areas, but they lacked there.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just feel like the same way a man

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<v Speaker 1>is picked to be like here, baby, go get your

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<v Speaker 1>BBL and they'll pay for it. Um, a woman should

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<v Speaker 1>be able to say that too, or suggest that he

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<v Speaker 1>gets enhanced without him feeling offended, because then a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of times they get offended and it's like they're different

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<v Speaker 1>options for you to take for for yourself. Oh I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta hurt you telling me he need a pen hiss

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<v Speaker 1>enhancement that he don't have the money for it. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god. Right, He's like, well, you gonna pay for it,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's like, yes, geez, because I will be benefiting

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<v Speaker 1>from it, thank you very much. Yea, I might have

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<v Speaker 1>to have some kind of agrievance sign so I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I mean, if I'm at the point where

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<v Speaker 1>I will pay for a man's enhancement, my relationship to

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<v Speaker 1>be pretty solid. Imagine a man leaving you the gold

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<v Speaker 1>another girl, then you have to run down on the

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<v Speaker 1>other girl and say I bought that d I paid

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<v Speaker 1>for those inches wownes. Hello, who's this shit? Boy? Lily? See? Man?

0:21:22.320 --> 0:21:25.160
<v Speaker 1>That joll actually sound crazy though. I actually just watched

0:21:25.200 --> 0:21:27.480
<v Speaker 1>the video the other day or some dude talking about

0:21:27.480 --> 0:21:30.800
<v Speaker 1>it on on some other podcasts, and I was just like, man,

0:21:30.920 --> 0:21:33.159
<v Speaker 1>just love yourself, man, like for real, for real. You

0:21:33.200 --> 0:21:36.200
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't get nothing in your abs done on nothing, nah

0:21:36.440 --> 0:21:38.960
<v Speaker 1>dog nah. I mean you got to maintain it, you

0:21:38.960 --> 0:21:40.480
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. So it's not even just like

0:21:41.320 --> 0:21:43.080
<v Speaker 1>getting it done, you know what I'm saying, Because I mean,

0:21:43.119 --> 0:21:44.719
<v Speaker 1>if you get it done, then you ain't gonna work

0:21:44.760 --> 0:21:46.760
<v Speaker 1>out every day and you know, do your thing for real,

0:21:47.359 --> 0:21:49.399
<v Speaker 1>eat healthy. You know what I'm saying. All that stuff,

0:21:49.400 --> 0:21:54.280
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's gonna be pointless. That's real, true healthy.

0:21:54.800 --> 0:21:57.320
<v Speaker 1>And I mean, hello, who's this crazy? Like you said,

0:21:57.359 --> 0:22:02.159
<v Speaker 1>what's your name? Hello? Who's this hey? Good morning? Oh

0:22:02.320 --> 0:22:06.400
<v Speaker 1>what's your name? Bro? My name is real one? One. Now,

0:22:06.640 --> 0:22:09.240
<v Speaker 1>if you had the opportunity, would you would you add

0:22:09.680 --> 0:22:12.080
<v Speaker 1>to your penis real one? Um? Nah, I wouldn't do it.

0:22:12.119 --> 0:22:14.119
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't add any inches or nothing like that. Like

0:22:14.200 --> 0:22:17.639
<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty good while I'm at It's like, yeah, I'm

0:22:17.680 --> 0:22:20.399
<v Speaker 1>definitely sure. I'm definitely say that until you get to

0:22:20.440 --> 0:22:24.919
<v Speaker 1>get certificate for five free inches. Nah, because what if

0:22:24.920 --> 0:22:27.119
<v Speaker 1>it starts some mess with how you feel? Like I

0:22:27.240 --> 0:22:31.119
<v Speaker 1>can't feel it anymore, like it won't make names and

0:22:31.280 --> 0:22:34.959
<v Speaker 1>that's a nerving the exactly like it's I don't think

0:22:34.960 --> 0:22:36.600
<v Speaker 1>it's worth it. I don't think it's worth it at all.

0:22:36.960 --> 0:22:38.840
<v Speaker 1>And then the whole act thing, it don't make no

0:22:38.920 --> 0:22:41.440
<v Speaker 1>sense either, because if you're not eating right, you're gonna

0:22:41.520 --> 0:22:45.080
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna lose it anyway. That's right, eating McDonald loosing everything,

0:22:45.119 --> 0:22:48.080
<v Speaker 1>you don't make no sense, Rick whatsoever. You're not gonna

0:22:48.160 --> 0:22:50.399
<v Speaker 1>change your habits in your lifestyle after you get that,

0:22:50.480 --> 0:22:53.960
<v Speaker 1>it's pointless. Yeah, you waste some money, all right, thank you? Okay,

0:22:54.040 --> 0:22:56.680
<v Speaker 1>so it's a hard note for you. Let's go to

0:22:56.720 --> 0:23:00.600
<v Speaker 1>another called the last one. Hello, who's this calling from

0:23:00.640 --> 0:23:04.119
<v Speaker 1>out of Peter's bird game? Okay, Jake, your girl just

0:23:04.240 --> 0:23:06.440
<v Speaker 1>called and she said that she she thinks that you

0:23:06.520 --> 0:23:08.000
<v Speaker 1>need a couple of inches, So would you do it?

0:23:09.160 --> 0:23:12.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm not doing that. I'm not doing that. You gotta

0:23:12.760 --> 0:23:14.840
<v Speaker 1>work with what you've got. Man, you gotta be girl

0:23:14.960 --> 0:23:18.760
<v Speaker 1>what you've got, I will say. Women always getting you know,

0:23:18.880 --> 0:23:21.400
<v Speaker 1>they tell me tucked and a couple of inchest cut

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<v Speaker 1>off and they ain't doing the work we're doing in

0:23:23.000 --> 0:23:25.359
<v Speaker 1>the gym. So I would do that. But as far

0:23:25.440 --> 0:23:27.840
<v Speaker 1>as with with my manhood, I'm just going to just

0:23:27.960 --> 0:23:30.040
<v Speaker 1>be the best of what I got. All right, You're

0:23:30.040 --> 0:23:35.240
<v Speaker 1>gonna have some abs with a little penis. Everybody not

0:23:35.440 --> 0:23:42.120
<v Speaker 1>not not blessed down there, So okay, I'm sorry. Yeah,

0:23:42.200 --> 0:23:45.080
<v Speaker 1>every everybody you're good at you're good at other things. Man,

0:23:45.160 --> 0:23:48.320
<v Speaker 1>you're good at other things. I'm gread at everything. You

0:23:48.400 --> 0:23:50.280
<v Speaker 1>know what's sad about this? Man? You know? You know

0:23:50.359 --> 0:23:52.359
<v Speaker 1>how they say if you appreciate what you got, you

0:23:52.400 --> 0:23:55.040
<v Speaker 1>will get blessed with more. That doesn't apply to penis us.

0:23:56.359 --> 0:23:58.920
<v Speaker 1>All goodness, great, what's the ball of the story. I

0:23:59.080 --> 0:24:03.640
<v Speaker 1>just said it. That's it, And you sounded really sad

0:24:03.800 --> 0:24:09.960
<v Speaker 1>saying it. Definitely, I thank God for I thank God

0:24:10.040 --> 0:24:12.480
<v Speaker 1>for it. All. All right, it's the breakfast club, good morning,

0:24:13.640 --> 0:24:19.080
<v Speaker 1>the breakfast clubs. And it wasn't my ass, it was

0:24:19.119 --> 0:24:21.600
<v Speaker 1>the mode of a ass. Yes, I thought it was

0:24:21.640 --> 0:24:25.960
<v Speaker 1>the mold of your actual No. No, And then what

0:24:26.040 --> 0:24:28.080
<v Speaker 1>about when they touch each other and stuff that's never

0:24:28.119 --> 0:24:30.479
<v Speaker 1>happened that we don't touch me, don't touch You've never

0:24:30.560 --> 0:24:32.600
<v Speaker 1>seen them touch that hasn't happened. No, you want to

0:24:32.640 --> 0:24:34.080
<v Speaker 1>tell me something I need to know. No, they like

0:24:34.160 --> 0:24:36.160
<v Speaker 1>rub up, brush against each other. If they're walking out

0:24:36.160 --> 0:24:38.840
<v Speaker 1>the door trying to rub up against each other, we

0:24:38.880 --> 0:24:41.840
<v Speaker 1>don't ever do it. They're going the revolving door together.

0:24:41.840 --> 0:24:47.399
<v Speaker 1>That happened one time. Explain that it was stupid. I

0:24:47.440 --> 0:24:50.439
<v Speaker 1>don't even know how that happens. Really, it was really stupid.

0:24:50.960 --> 0:24:52.920
<v Speaker 1>It was really that it had to be very intentional.

0:24:53.359 --> 0:24:57.000
<v Speaker 1>It wasn't. I don't even know how. And then one

0:24:57.080 --> 0:25:03.560
<v Speaker 1>makes his way walking around was so stupid. Giggle all

0:25:03.560 --> 0:25:06.400
<v Speaker 1>the way through it. You just added insulting you sitting

0:25:06.440 --> 0:25:14.560
<v Speaker 1>there in the one slot giggling together. Oh man, anyway

0:25:14.840 --> 0:25:17.640
<v Speaker 1>back to the matter at hand, real life, real love.

0:25:18.359 --> 0:25:20.920
<v Speaker 1>What is that magic that holds y'all together? You think

0:25:21.560 --> 0:25:25.560
<v Speaker 1>you know? Um? Whenever I find that people come to

0:25:25.640 --> 0:25:29.119
<v Speaker 1>our house or are around us. I think they're kind

0:25:29.119 --> 0:25:32.040
<v Speaker 1>of surprised at how much fun we have together. I

0:25:32.160 --> 0:25:35.879
<v Speaker 1>find him to be very charming and charismatic um and

0:25:36.040 --> 0:25:37.840
<v Speaker 1>one of the things that I love most about him

0:25:38.000 --> 0:25:40.679
<v Speaker 1>is his boyish nature. So we really have a lot

0:25:40.720 --> 0:25:43.920
<v Speaker 1>of fun together, and we always have since we first met.

0:25:44.080 --> 0:25:46.600
<v Speaker 1>The first week we spent together, I thought to myself, Wow,

0:25:46.840 --> 0:25:49.639
<v Speaker 1>he's a lot of fun. Like he's he's like a friend,

0:25:50.040 --> 0:25:52.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, And that's part of the magic. You knew

0:25:52.640 --> 0:25:53.879
<v Speaker 1>that this was the person that you can spend the

0:25:53.920 --> 0:25:55.960
<v Speaker 1>rest of your life with. After about two weeks of

0:25:56.080 --> 0:25:59.119
<v Speaker 1>knowing him, Yes, before you even spent a day together,

0:26:00.680 --> 0:26:04.480
<v Speaker 1>I explain, before before we even spent a day together.

0:26:04.800 --> 0:26:06.479
<v Speaker 1>When I first when I first seen you, I mean

0:26:06.560 --> 0:26:08.359
<v Speaker 1>I wrote in a book that I thought you were

0:26:08.359 --> 0:26:10.080
<v Speaker 1>beautiful and amazing. In the first time I saw you

0:26:10.160 --> 0:26:12.840
<v Speaker 1>were actually running track and for people I don't know,

0:26:13.000 --> 0:26:20.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, tracks track like that the Outfit and you

0:26:20.119 --> 0:26:22.240
<v Speaker 1>know GA had you know, big double ds, and I

0:26:22.280 --> 0:26:25.400
<v Speaker 1>would stop basically stalker outside and just watch a run

0:26:25.480 --> 0:26:28.280
<v Speaker 1>track and watch a breast bottle like that word don't

0:26:28.280 --> 0:26:30.440
<v Speaker 1>say stalk, you know, wasn't stalking. Yeah, but that's actually

0:26:30.440 --> 0:26:33.760
<v Speaker 1>what he was doing. It was actually stalking. And I

0:26:33.800 --> 0:26:37.359
<v Speaker 1>would see him. I would see him this bitting with

0:26:37.560 --> 0:26:41.520
<v Speaker 1>his friends in this bright blue con Edison van because

0:26:41.560 --> 0:26:44.160
<v Speaker 1>that's what his parents bought him to trans to transfer

0:26:44.240 --> 0:26:50.639
<v Speaker 1>his DJ equipment from Sweet sixteen to See sixteen. And

0:26:50.640 --> 0:26:54.080
<v Speaker 1>I would see it parked behind the fence. I'm thinking myself, like, Yo,

0:26:54.280 --> 0:27:04.440
<v Speaker 1>why is this van there every day? Yeah? It was

0:27:04.560 --> 0:27:10.480
<v Speaker 1>black blue. He wasn't low, he was not low. And

0:27:11.280 --> 0:27:14.399
<v Speaker 1>he emerged Actually, babe, do you remember one day, like

0:27:14.480 --> 0:27:17.800
<v Speaker 1>he emerged from the van and approached me and kicked

0:27:17.840 --> 0:27:19.480
<v Speaker 1>it and I was like, oh, so you're that weird

0:27:19.520 --> 0:27:24.480
<v Speaker 1>though we both kids. Yeah, she was fifteen, I was sixteen.

0:27:24.480 --> 0:27:26.200
<v Speaker 1>We went to the same high school. So so. And

0:27:26.320 --> 0:27:28.240
<v Speaker 1>but you say that you knew that she was going

0:27:28.320 --> 0:27:29.920
<v Speaker 1>to be your wife, like right away? You think it

0:27:30.000 --> 0:27:32.840
<v Speaker 1>was before y'all even spoke, when he was just stalking her.

0:27:32.960 --> 0:27:35.520
<v Speaker 1>We actually know when we actually spoke, and you know,

0:27:35.680 --> 0:27:38.520
<v Speaker 1>I found out how you know, beautiful she was inside

0:27:38.600 --> 0:27:41.879
<v Speaker 1>and outside, and how smart she was and caring and

0:27:42.280 --> 0:27:44.040
<v Speaker 1>she was just that she was the one. She was

0:27:44.080 --> 0:27:45.920
<v Speaker 1>the most beautiful thing I've ever seen in my life,

0:27:45.960 --> 0:27:47.720
<v Speaker 1>and the most precious things. So I was like, this

0:27:47.880 --> 0:27:50.440
<v Speaker 1>is going to be my wife. I want people to

0:27:50.520 --> 0:27:52.359
<v Speaker 1>get the book, but I do want, you know, to

0:27:52.520 --> 0:27:56.119
<v Speaker 1>explain how do you keep reinventing the relationship when you

0:27:56.200 --> 0:27:59.359
<v Speaker 1>start that young? Now interviews fifty something, you know what

0:27:59.359 --> 0:28:02.040
<v Speaker 1>I mean, you're much much younger, But how how do

0:28:02.119 --> 0:28:04.919
<v Speaker 1>you keep how do you reinvent? How do you keep reinventing?

0:28:05.000 --> 0:28:07.200
<v Speaker 1>And I think that that's part of the magic. We

0:28:07.240 --> 0:28:11.000
<v Speaker 1>don't have to try. We don't intentionally. We do a

0:28:11.080 --> 0:28:15.000
<v Speaker 1>lot of things intentionally and deliberately, but we don't intentionally

0:28:15.560 --> 0:28:18.560
<v Speaker 1>reimagine the relationship and act on that. The only thing

0:28:18.640 --> 0:28:21.840
<v Speaker 1>that I would say that we're um good about is

0:28:21.960 --> 0:28:24.560
<v Speaker 1>keeping it sexy and making sure that that part of

0:28:25.000 --> 0:28:28.280
<v Speaker 1>our relationship doesn't get too monotonous and doesn't get stale.

0:28:28.640 --> 0:28:31.800
<v Speaker 1>So we have a lot of fun in that space. Um,

0:28:31.960 --> 0:28:33.840
<v Speaker 1>but we don't have to think, like, God, how am

0:28:33.880 --> 0:28:36.560
<v Speaker 1>I gonna stop being bored of you? Or how am

0:28:36.600 --> 0:28:37.640
<v Speaker 1>I going to get to a point where you don't

0:28:37.680 --> 0:28:40.720
<v Speaker 1>annoy me anymore? He legitimately does not annoy me. I

0:28:40.920 --> 0:28:44.360
<v Speaker 1>look forward to his phone calls every day and we

0:28:44.560 --> 0:28:46.920
<v Speaker 1>probably speak on the phone about maybe eight or nine

0:28:47.000 --> 0:28:49.800
<v Speaker 1>ten times a day because he's away a lot, you know.

0:28:49.880 --> 0:28:51.600
<v Speaker 1>So he calls me on his way to the breakfast club.

0:28:51.600 --> 0:28:53.240
<v Speaker 1>He calls me in his way home from the breakfast club.

0:28:53.400 --> 0:28:56.400
<v Speaker 1>He calls me. If something happens, he calls me incessantly

0:28:56.600 --> 0:28:58.800
<v Speaker 1>it's and I'm never like, oh you again. I'm like,

0:28:58.840 --> 0:29:02.120
<v Speaker 1>oh it's him again. You know. It's just that feeling

0:29:02.280 --> 0:29:05.040
<v Speaker 1>that I've always had, that no matter what ups or

0:29:05.120 --> 0:29:07.760
<v Speaker 1>downs we were going through, that never left me. Now,

0:29:07.840 --> 0:29:10.760
<v Speaker 1>he told us a story about the cowboy outfit. He

0:29:10.840 --> 0:29:14.640
<v Speaker 1>told you about that. Wait wait, wait the cowboy outfit

0:29:14.680 --> 0:29:19.320
<v Speaker 1>in college? The asses chats that no ass chat. They were, Yeah,

0:29:19.520 --> 0:29:21.120
<v Speaker 1>you tell this about Oh wait, we're showing Did you

0:29:21.160 --> 0:29:25.920
<v Speaker 1>actually tell him like on error private? He did? Because

0:29:26.040 --> 0:29:28.800
<v Speaker 1>if it was in private, this is a whole double cross, right,

0:29:29.480 --> 0:29:34.280
<v Speaker 1>dressed as a cowboy and his he had Okay, I

0:29:34.320 --> 0:29:38.200
<v Speaker 1>remember that. After he told the story, he goes, not

0:29:38.360 --> 0:29:43.360
<v Speaker 1>like when we were in college. Yeah, we went through

0:29:43.360 --> 0:29:44.920
<v Speaker 1>a stage where we were doing like a lot of

0:29:46.120 --> 0:29:49.200
<v Speaker 1>role play and one night I dared him to be

0:29:49.240 --> 0:29:51.600
<v Speaker 1>a cowboy. So we went and got to cowboy half.

0:29:52.440 --> 0:29:54.840
<v Speaker 1>It had like the big brown hat and then he

0:29:54.960 --> 0:29:58.240
<v Speaker 1>had like the little holsters and everything and big. Do

0:29:58.280 --> 0:30:00.880
<v Speaker 1>you remember I took pictures? Where are those? Are they

0:30:00.920 --> 0:30:04.800
<v Speaker 1>in the book? He about maybe, um, three years after

0:30:05.000 --> 0:30:07.480
<v Speaker 1>he made me physically burn them on the grill. Wow,

0:30:08.440 --> 0:30:10.080
<v Speaker 1>he put them on the grill and told me how

0:30:10.120 --> 0:30:11.960
<v Speaker 1>to light it. Yeah, they don't exist. Don't you wish

0:30:11.960 --> 0:30:14.120
<v Speaker 1>you still had that? No, but y'all talk about role

0:30:14.160 --> 0:30:15.440
<v Speaker 1>play in the book. You said he likes to put

0:30:15.480 --> 0:30:17.880
<v Speaker 1>on the rock nation paper plane heat and he goes,

0:30:17.920 --> 0:30:19.440
<v Speaker 1>what's my name? And he wants you to say jiggle.

0:30:19.520 --> 0:30:23.160
<v Speaker 1>I didn't contribute to that chapter. Okay, that wasn't my work. No,

0:30:23.240 --> 0:30:25.440
<v Speaker 1>I didn't do it. Okay, So wait they really so

0:30:25.560 --> 0:30:28.280
<v Speaker 1>he wasn't lying they were askless chaps. Yeah, yeah, he

0:30:28.360 --> 0:30:29.760
<v Speaker 1>had a whole. It was a whole thing. I just

0:30:29.800 --> 0:30:31.960
<v Speaker 1>pulled the ua Yugia. He did not tell us that.

0:30:32.200 --> 0:30:35.360
<v Speaker 1>Damn it. To get my book and you will learn

0:30:35.680 --> 0:30:40.320
<v Speaker 1>a slew of tactics how to get what you want

0:30:40.400 --> 0:30:43.280
<v Speaker 1>out of life. Okay, it was a holster by the way,

0:30:43.280 --> 0:30:44.840
<v Speaker 1>they were holsters. Yeah it was. It was a whole,

0:30:45.120 --> 0:30:48.120
<v Speaker 1>but it was some other dress up things. You go right, Um,

0:30:48.280 --> 0:30:51.080
<v Speaker 1>it was more so me, okay, dressing up and he

0:30:51.200 --> 0:30:52.840
<v Speaker 1>was just like the recipient of that that that was

0:30:52.920 --> 0:30:54.960
<v Speaker 1>a one little and that's why it was a dare

0:30:54.960 --> 0:30:56.400
<v Speaker 1>because it was kind of supposed to be a joke.

0:30:56.640 --> 0:30:59.600
<v Speaker 1>But he never really dressed up one time I was nursing.

0:30:59.680 --> 0:31:01.800
<v Speaker 1>He was a doctor. That was one. Did you really

0:31:01.840 --> 0:31:04.640
<v Speaker 1>burn the pictures? I really did, really in front of him. Wow,

0:31:04.920 --> 0:31:11.680
<v Speaker 1>you didn't have negatives? Were going to share that goes

0:31:12.040 --> 0:31:14.240
<v Speaker 1>left in our relationships? I had that I will ruin

0:31:14.320 --> 0:31:19.080
<v Speaker 1>this entire reputation. I would never be able to work again.

0:31:19.160 --> 0:31:23.239
<v Speaker 1>And I question over to a new audience. All right,

0:31:23.280 --> 0:31:25.800
<v Speaker 1>we got more with my wife's Guia Casey. When we

0:31:25.960 --> 0:31:28.160
<v Speaker 1>come back. We're talking out new book that's out right now,

0:31:28.360 --> 0:31:30.280
<v Speaker 1>Real Life, Real Love. So don't go anywhere as the

0:31:30.320 --> 0:31:34.880
<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee,

0:31:35.000 --> 0:31:37.880
<v Speaker 1>Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got

0:31:37.920 --> 0:31:40.600
<v Speaker 1>a special guest stealing the building, my wife, Gia Casey.

0:31:40.720 --> 0:31:43.600
<v Speaker 1>We're talking about our new book, Real Life, Real Love,

0:31:43.760 --> 0:31:46.240
<v Speaker 1>Life Lessons on Joy, Pain and the Magic that holds

0:31:46.320 --> 0:31:48.480
<v Speaker 1>us together. You could pick it up today, or you

0:31:48.520 --> 0:31:50.120
<v Speaker 1>can get it on an audible and kin doing or

0:31:50.120 --> 0:31:52.720
<v Speaker 1>wherever you get your books. Yee. How is it for

0:31:52.760 --> 0:31:54.880
<v Speaker 1>both of you reading this book together. Some of it

0:31:55.000 --> 0:31:57.080
<v Speaker 1>was fun, It was nice to be creative and get

0:31:57.160 --> 0:32:01.280
<v Speaker 1>your thoughts down on paper. It was work, but a

0:32:01.480 --> 0:32:05.800
<v Speaker 1>lot of it was difficult. I'm a very open person. Rashaan,

0:32:06.520 --> 0:32:08.760
<v Speaker 1>I think had a difficult time because he had to

0:32:08.920 --> 0:32:13.120
<v Speaker 1>relive a lot of the negative things that transpired in

0:32:13.160 --> 0:32:18.240
<v Speaker 1>our relationship. And he can tend to be surface in

0:32:18.360 --> 0:32:20.720
<v Speaker 1>some respects where you ask him a question, he gives

0:32:20.760 --> 0:32:22.640
<v Speaker 1>you an answer. I'm a lot more of an in

0:32:22.760 --> 0:32:25.720
<v Speaker 1>depth person, you know. I think critically about things, and

0:32:26.560 --> 0:32:28.880
<v Speaker 1>when we would go over these chapters that he's assigned

0:32:28.920 --> 0:32:32.040
<v Speaker 1>to write, I would ask him questions like Okay, you

0:32:32.120 --> 0:32:34.360
<v Speaker 1>can't just answer it with a yes or a no

0:32:34.560 --> 0:32:37.880
<v Speaker 1>or a simple blanket like one question would mean ten

0:32:37.960 --> 0:32:40.720
<v Speaker 1>more questions to really get to the meet. And you know,

0:32:40.720 --> 0:32:42.720
<v Speaker 1>I had to keep reiterating, we're writing this book so

0:32:42.880 --> 0:32:46.640
<v Speaker 1>that people have something tangible, a reference point for them

0:32:47.160 --> 0:32:50.040
<v Speaker 1>to make changes in their lives if necessary, or to

0:32:50.160 --> 0:32:52.000
<v Speaker 1>recognize that the person that you're with needs to make

0:32:52.120 --> 0:32:56.400
<v Speaker 1>changes in their lives. And it was a journey. It

0:32:56.560 --> 0:32:59.520
<v Speaker 1>was a journey, but I think it was difficult. I

0:32:59.520 --> 0:33:01.600
<v Speaker 1>had to relive a lot of the f boy I

0:33:01.680 --> 0:33:04.200
<v Speaker 1>put you through, and you don't. You forget about a

0:33:04.240 --> 0:33:05.960
<v Speaker 1>lot of it because you don't have to relive it.

0:33:06.040 --> 0:33:08.760
<v Speaker 1>But then when you start, no, you forget about I

0:33:08.840 --> 0:33:12.760
<v Speaker 1>forget nothing. I think that's the point though, right, because

0:33:12.800 --> 0:33:15.160
<v Speaker 1>it's like, we don't realize how much we do hurt

0:33:15.520 --> 0:33:19.360
<v Speaker 1>are women when we do? Yeah? I think so. I

0:33:19.640 --> 0:33:21.760
<v Speaker 1>don't think we realize how deep that. That sounds like

0:33:21.840 --> 0:33:23.760
<v Speaker 1>an oaky doke to me. No, I don't think we

0:33:23.880 --> 0:33:26.160
<v Speaker 1>until you actually sit down and have those you know,

0:33:26.720 --> 0:33:30.600
<v Speaker 1>uncomfortable conversations. You don't realize how much you your wife

0:33:30.720 --> 0:33:34.200
<v Speaker 1>cheated on you and told you that she would have

0:33:34.360 --> 0:33:37.520
<v Speaker 1>no idea how much that it stood to hurt you.

0:33:38.000 --> 0:33:40.440
<v Speaker 1>Would that makes sense to you? Probably not? But I

0:33:40.520 --> 0:33:44.760
<v Speaker 1>mean men don't make sense. You believe that you believe

0:33:44.760 --> 0:33:47.480
<v Speaker 1>that you're born inherently with like a deficit, not a deficit.

0:33:47.560 --> 0:33:49.120
<v Speaker 1>But I just don't comment sense. I don't think we.

0:33:49.200 --> 0:33:50.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't think we're thinking about it, you know what

0:33:50.720 --> 0:33:52.880
<v Speaker 1>I mean, Like we like that's the sad part. It's

0:33:52.920 --> 0:33:55.360
<v Speaker 1>selfish and that's what that's what keeps you from doing

0:33:55.440 --> 0:33:57.200
<v Speaker 1>it in the future. You know what I mean? Because

0:33:57.240 --> 0:33:59.320
<v Speaker 1>you do not want to hurt the woman that you love.

0:33:59.400 --> 0:34:01.320
<v Speaker 1>And it's so because I saw that with my pops,

0:34:01.360 --> 0:34:03.760
<v Speaker 1>like I saw the pain that that caused my mom

0:34:04.080 --> 0:34:06.560
<v Speaker 1>with his infidelity, So in my mind, I was like, damn,

0:34:06.560 --> 0:34:08.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm about to do make the same mistake. So I

0:34:08.640 --> 0:34:10.160
<v Speaker 1>think it is difficult when you got to relive it

0:34:10.200 --> 0:34:12.080
<v Speaker 1>because you don't want to talk about it because you

0:34:12.080 --> 0:34:14.560
<v Speaker 1>don't want to trigger you. You know some people if

0:34:14.600 --> 0:34:26.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't get triggered though, Yeah, but that s no.

0:34:26.800 --> 0:34:28.840
<v Speaker 1>Once I got to a point, and it was a process.

0:34:29.400 --> 0:34:32.960
<v Speaker 1>Once I got to a point where I accepted that

0:34:33.680 --> 0:34:37.640
<v Speaker 1>it was my job to move on because I decided

0:34:37.680 --> 0:34:42.399
<v Speaker 1>to forgive him, and because because he had done all

0:34:42.600 --> 0:34:46.880
<v Speaker 1>of the work and then some to regain my trust

0:34:47.360 --> 0:34:50.800
<v Speaker 1>to earn grace from me. Um, I got to a

0:34:50.840 --> 0:34:53.640
<v Speaker 1>point where I no longer wanted to punish and I

0:34:53.840 --> 0:34:58.440
<v Speaker 1>didn't have that you to hurt. And any time that

0:34:58.520 --> 0:35:00.840
<v Speaker 1>I felt any type of way, I'm aide sure that

0:35:00.960 --> 0:35:03.279
<v Speaker 1>he felt some type of way. So once I learned

0:35:03.280 --> 0:35:05.440
<v Speaker 1>how to forgive, and that was a process because I

0:35:05.480 --> 0:35:08.839
<v Speaker 1>wasn't necessarily a forgiving person before everything was very black

0:35:08.880 --> 0:35:11.520
<v Speaker 1>and white to me, not very much gray, but once

0:35:11.600 --> 0:35:16.200
<v Speaker 1>I learned and I understood that that's what was expected

0:35:16.480 --> 0:35:18.960
<v Speaker 1>from me of God, I had to commit to that

0:35:19.800 --> 0:35:23.040
<v Speaker 1>and do my best to live up to what forgiveness meant.

0:35:23.440 --> 0:35:26.200
<v Speaker 1>And that's what set me free. Because when you forgive,

0:35:26.280 --> 0:35:29.040
<v Speaker 1>you don't forgive to ease the burden from the other person.

0:35:29.120 --> 0:35:32.239
<v Speaker 1>You forgive to ease the burden from you. Well, the

0:35:32.320 --> 0:35:34.759
<v Speaker 1>work you guys did together, like you had to work

0:35:34.800 --> 0:35:38.640
<v Speaker 1>on forgiveness and when you said, Okay, I'm gonna, you know,

0:35:39.000 --> 0:35:41.520
<v Speaker 1>have to move on from this. But what was the

0:35:41.560 --> 0:35:44.960
<v Speaker 1>work that he did that let you know, Okay, he's serious,

0:35:45.320 --> 0:35:49.040
<v Speaker 1>and you know I can finally just say I'm not

0:35:49.120 --> 0:35:51.759
<v Speaker 1>getting triggered anymore. I'm going to let this go. One

0:35:51.800 --> 0:35:56.080
<v Speaker 1>of the first things was I realized that he understood

0:35:56.400 --> 0:36:00.400
<v Speaker 1>the impact of what had happened. What he did, He

0:36:00.600 --> 0:36:04.880
<v Speaker 1>understood it. He didn't just accept it and was accountable

0:36:04.920 --> 0:36:08.960
<v Speaker 1>for it, but he actually understood. He would do things

0:36:09.040 --> 0:36:11.160
<v Speaker 1>that a lot of men wouldn't do. He would sit

0:36:11.280 --> 0:36:14.239
<v Speaker 1>there through those eight hour conversations locked in a room.

0:36:14.719 --> 0:36:18.120
<v Speaker 1>He answered every question that I had, and I had

0:36:18.120 --> 0:36:21.719
<v Speaker 1>a lot of questions, and he answered them all truthfully.

0:36:22.239 --> 0:36:24.920
<v Speaker 1>And you know, when you ask somebody a question and

0:36:25.560 --> 0:36:28.040
<v Speaker 1>you can tell by their answer, because I mean, the

0:36:28.120 --> 0:36:30.520
<v Speaker 1>answers weren't pretty. There weren't things that I would have

0:36:30.560 --> 0:36:34.440
<v Speaker 1>wanted to hear. He went through all of the sufferation,

0:36:34.560 --> 0:36:38.400
<v Speaker 1>as I call it, and he did it until because

0:36:38.400 --> 0:36:41.400
<v Speaker 1>a lot of guys, when they mess up, and I

0:36:41.480 --> 0:36:43.000
<v Speaker 1>mean a lot of them have told me. I have

0:36:43.160 --> 0:36:45.320
<v Speaker 1>friends and that have gone through it. It's like, listen,

0:36:46.239 --> 0:36:48.640
<v Speaker 1>I did it. I apologize. I said I was never

0:36:48.680 --> 0:36:51.920
<v Speaker 1>going to do it again. I mean that ish, but

0:36:52.120 --> 0:36:54.760
<v Speaker 1>it's like every day I'm being punished, I'm being punished,

0:36:54.760 --> 0:36:56.839
<v Speaker 1>I'm being reminded. It's like, let it go, I apologize,

0:36:56.960 --> 0:36:58.719
<v Speaker 1>Like what more do you want from me? Blood? He

0:36:58.880 --> 0:37:03.400
<v Speaker 1>never took that approach with me. It was the until

0:37:04.200 --> 0:37:07.320
<v Speaker 1>until you are good, until you are healed. If I

0:37:07.400 --> 0:37:08.960
<v Speaker 1>have to be a punching bag, I will be that.

0:37:09.080 --> 0:37:10.880
<v Speaker 1>If I have to be a doormat, I will be that.

0:37:11.200 --> 0:37:14.080
<v Speaker 1>I will do anything that it makes to survive this

0:37:14.360 --> 0:37:18.040
<v Speaker 1>because I cannot be without you. And he proved it

0:37:18.440 --> 0:37:21.120
<v Speaker 1>every single day. It was as though and he was

0:37:21.200 --> 0:37:23.319
<v Speaker 1>like this before, but it was even more so during

0:37:23.400 --> 0:37:25.920
<v Speaker 1>this time. It was as though he communicated to me

0:37:26.120 --> 0:37:28.920
<v Speaker 1>that the only thing that he wanted was to make

0:37:29.000 --> 0:37:31.600
<v Speaker 1>me happy. And that's pretty much how he lives his life.

0:37:31.760 --> 0:37:34.879
<v Speaker 1>He lives his life every day waking up thinking like, damn,

0:37:34.920 --> 0:37:36.920
<v Speaker 1>how can I make ge his life easier today? How

0:37:36.960 --> 0:37:39.240
<v Speaker 1>can I make g a happier today? But to answer

0:37:39.239 --> 0:37:42.040
<v Speaker 1>your question, it was the until. It was the indefinite,

0:37:42.239 --> 0:37:44.440
<v Speaker 1>and it was the willingness to do any and everything

0:37:44.840 --> 0:37:47.359
<v Speaker 1>to earn what he lost back. And he was there

0:37:47.400 --> 0:37:49.480
<v Speaker 1>ever a question in your mind. I know there was

0:37:49.520 --> 0:37:51.920
<v Speaker 1>a point when you thought, no matter what I do,

0:37:52.120 --> 0:37:54.560
<v Speaker 1>she's never gonna take me back. There ever a time

0:37:54.600 --> 0:38:01.360
<v Speaker 1>when you were like, if you cry in front of

0:38:01.440 --> 0:38:10.200
<v Speaker 1>your wife, catch that little field. At that point, you know,

0:38:10.200 --> 0:38:11.520
<v Speaker 1>I didn't know what was going to happen, but I

0:38:11.719 --> 0:38:13.560
<v Speaker 1>was like, I have to be honest or at least

0:38:13.840 --> 0:38:17.480
<v Speaker 1>get my friend back, you know. Um. And at that point,

0:38:17.560 --> 0:38:19.120
<v Speaker 1>I you know, I didn't know what GEAR was gonna do.

0:38:19.160 --> 0:38:20.360
<v Speaker 1>I thought it was a rap. But I was like,

0:38:20.400 --> 0:38:22.239
<v Speaker 1>I still wanted my friend. I still wanted somebody I

0:38:22.280 --> 0:38:24.960
<v Speaker 1>can talk to, you know, I still wanted a relationship,

0:38:25.000 --> 0:38:26.799
<v Speaker 1>whether that we can bounce me like that. She's all

0:38:26.840 --> 0:38:29.279
<v Speaker 1>I knew since I was sixteen. So I still wanted

0:38:29.360 --> 0:38:31.960
<v Speaker 1>my friend back, and that could have been forever beef.

0:38:33.440 --> 0:38:35.239
<v Speaker 1>But you know, it's interesting that you didn't kick him

0:38:35.239 --> 0:38:37.279
<v Speaker 1>out of the house. You were still polite to him,

0:38:37.360 --> 0:38:41.560
<v Speaker 1>you still wanted to maintain a co parenting friendship. I

0:38:41.640 --> 0:38:44.000
<v Speaker 1>feel like that hurts more when you're like, we're not

0:38:44.120 --> 0:38:47.200
<v Speaker 1>having sex and I might end up with somebody else

0:38:47.320 --> 0:38:51.000
<v Speaker 1>one day, but you know we're cool. That hurts more

0:38:51.040 --> 0:38:54.040
<v Speaker 1>that I think sometimes in just completely like being nasty

0:38:54.080 --> 0:38:57.400
<v Speaker 1>to somebody and cutting them off. Yes, well, when I

0:38:57.520 --> 0:39:00.840
<v Speaker 1>found out divorce was imminent, it was never a question.

0:39:01.200 --> 0:39:06.200
<v Speaker 1>I was raised by a very strong mother who taught

0:39:06.280 --> 0:39:10.080
<v Speaker 1>me that if a man ever disrespects you to that degree,

0:39:10.640 --> 0:39:14.080
<v Speaker 1>then you walk. So it didn't matter how much I

0:39:14.200 --> 0:39:16.560
<v Speaker 1>loved Rashaan and how much I would have missed him,

0:39:16.680 --> 0:39:19.160
<v Speaker 1>and it didn't matter if I cried every night. It

0:39:19.440 --> 0:39:23.320
<v Speaker 1>did not matter one iota how I felt. The only

0:39:23.480 --> 0:39:26.160
<v Speaker 1>thing that was important to me was that I operated

0:39:26.239 --> 0:39:28.880
<v Speaker 1>with my head and not my heart, and that I

0:39:29.040 --> 0:39:31.480
<v Speaker 1>did what I always said that I was going to do.

0:39:31.960 --> 0:39:34.800
<v Speaker 1>So when I found out, when it was confirmed for me,

0:39:34.960 --> 0:39:37.880
<v Speaker 1>and you can read the book and see the entire

0:39:38.360 --> 0:39:42.200
<v Speaker 1>want to get the entire story, but when he confirmed it.

0:39:42.280 --> 0:39:44.600
<v Speaker 1>We were in a parking lot, and when I drove

0:39:44.640 --> 0:39:47.200
<v Speaker 1>away from that parking lot, it was a few days

0:39:47.239 --> 0:39:49.959
<v Speaker 1>before Christmas, and his mother was at the house helping

0:39:49.960 --> 0:39:52.160
<v Speaker 1>me decorate because we were hosting that year. But I

0:39:52.320 --> 0:39:54.080
<v Speaker 1>walked into the house and I told her, I said,

0:39:54.120 --> 0:40:00.040
<v Speaker 1>Christmas is canceled. And she said Christmas is canceled. And

0:40:00.120 --> 0:40:03.480
<v Speaker 1>I said, well, I just found out that Rashawn cheated

0:40:03.560 --> 0:40:06.080
<v Speaker 1>on me and we're getting a divorce, so there's not

0:40:06.120 --> 0:40:08.880
<v Speaker 1>gonna be any Christmas this year, at least I'm not hosting.

0:40:09.239 --> 0:40:11.200
<v Speaker 1>It's wild that people actually canceled Christmas. I thought that

0:40:11.239 --> 0:40:13.960
<v Speaker 1>was just a fig speech. No, No, I happened we

0:40:14.000 --> 0:40:20.360
<v Speaker 1>canceling Christmas. Yeah, Christmas, well, in the sense of us hosting.

0:40:20.520 --> 0:40:22.560
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't going to cancel it for our children, but

0:40:23.080 --> 0:40:25.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, we didn't have to decorate for thirty people

0:40:25.040 --> 0:40:30.759
<v Speaker 1>to come over. And my lovely mother in law, my mama, UM,

0:40:30.840 --> 0:40:34.480
<v Speaker 1>she defended her beautiful son with everything that she could

0:40:34.520 --> 0:40:39.200
<v Speaker 1>because pretty much um. And when she said something to

0:40:39.320 --> 0:40:41.360
<v Speaker 1>that effect, I said, but for the fact that he

0:40:41.520 --> 0:40:45.160
<v Speaker 1>just told me that it was true. And he came

0:40:45.239 --> 0:40:50.239
<v Speaker 1>home maybe twenty or thirty minutes later, and it was

0:40:50.280 --> 0:40:54.600
<v Speaker 1>a whole thing right. But I was adamant that we

0:40:54.680 --> 0:40:58.560
<v Speaker 1>were getting a divorce, that contacted an attorney, had an attorney.

0:40:59.080 --> 0:41:05.799
<v Speaker 1>It was decided. But thankfully there were a whole host

0:41:05.880 --> 0:41:12.000
<v Speaker 1>of things that happened that that convinced me that God

0:41:12.040 --> 0:41:15.200
<v Speaker 1>had other plans. I wellttle movie got more with Gia Casey,

0:41:15.239 --> 0:41:17.120
<v Speaker 1>we're talking out a new book, Real Life, Real Love.

0:41:17.400 --> 0:41:20.040
<v Speaker 1>Let's get into Mary J. Blige joint. Here's Real Love

0:41:20.200 --> 0:41:22.840
<v Speaker 1>is the Breakfast Club, Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ

0:41:23.320 --> 0:41:26.200
<v Speaker 1>Envy Angela Yee. Charlomagne, the guy we are to Breakfast

0:41:26.239 --> 0:41:28.440
<v Speaker 1>Club was still kicking in with Gia Casey. We're here

0:41:28.520 --> 0:41:32.080
<v Speaker 1>talking about our new book, Real Life, Real Love. Charlomagne,

0:41:32.120 --> 0:41:34.600
<v Speaker 1>what did God say to you? You know, I wasn't

0:41:35.320 --> 0:41:40.560
<v Speaker 1>raised with this um deeply instilled faith where I felt

0:41:40.600 --> 0:41:43.800
<v Speaker 1>as though I knew God and I lived differently because

0:41:44.000 --> 0:41:47.719
<v Speaker 1>I didn't know God in that way. So when God

0:41:47.880 --> 0:41:51.240
<v Speaker 1>revealed himself to me, and he may have tried for years,

0:41:51.800 --> 0:41:54.840
<v Speaker 1>you see, but I wouldn't have I didn't speak his language.

0:41:54.880 --> 0:41:57.000
<v Speaker 1>I would have never been able to interpret God trying

0:41:57.040 --> 0:41:59.640
<v Speaker 1>to reach out to me. So I really believe that

0:42:00.200 --> 0:42:03.960
<v Speaker 1>this happened so that me, particularly, not even Rashawn, so

0:42:04.120 --> 0:42:08.359
<v Speaker 1>that I could be humbled. When God spoke, he spoke

0:42:08.400 --> 0:42:11.280
<v Speaker 1>through other people, and when he found when I found

0:42:11.280 --> 0:42:14.600
<v Speaker 1>out what happened. It's funny we were being approached for

0:42:15.440 --> 0:42:21.759
<v Speaker 1>reality shows at the time, and when he took someone's

0:42:22.000 --> 0:42:31.600
<v Speaker 1>terrible advice to apologize to me on the radio and

0:42:31.840 --> 0:42:36.160
<v Speaker 1>make our personal woes private. Yeah, our personal woes public.

0:42:37.320 --> 0:42:39.520
<v Speaker 1>I didn't know though. I didn't know what he was

0:42:39.560 --> 0:42:43.000
<v Speaker 1>going through. He bed being in laying on the I

0:42:43.040 --> 0:42:44.960
<v Speaker 1>didn't know what he'd be like out of it. I'm like, know,

0:42:45.000 --> 0:42:46.880
<v Speaker 1>what the is your problem? I didn't know what it was.

0:42:47.400 --> 0:42:49.400
<v Speaker 1>So as I'm proud of him, like, what the hell

0:42:49.520 --> 0:42:52.399
<v Speaker 1>is going on? I didn't know that was coming. Oh okay, Yeah,

0:42:52.440 --> 0:42:54.400
<v Speaker 1>I didn't know that I was the one to apologize.

0:42:54.400 --> 0:42:56.759
<v Speaker 1>You didn't know what apologize. You would literally coming here

0:42:56.800 --> 0:42:58.759
<v Speaker 1>and be like laid out on the floor in the

0:42:58.840 --> 0:43:01.600
<v Speaker 1>fetal position the whole show, Like he would not be

0:43:01.760 --> 0:43:03.520
<v Speaker 1>here with us, he wouldn't be present, and I just

0:43:03.640 --> 0:43:06.920
<v Speaker 1>knew something was wrong. So no, I was like, when

0:43:06.960 --> 0:43:08.319
<v Speaker 1>he gets on the air, I'm going to ask him

0:43:08.320 --> 0:43:10.120
<v Speaker 1>on the air with the because his problem because I

0:43:10.160 --> 0:43:12.279
<v Speaker 1>was tired of asking him behind the scenes, and so

0:43:12.360 --> 0:43:13.800
<v Speaker 1>I asked him on the air. I didn't know that

0:43:14.040 --> 0:43:16.640
<v Speaker 1>was coming though. It's terrible idea, but maybe it was

0:43:16.680 --> 0:43:18.759
<v Speaker 1>the same dose of common sense that you guys are

0:43:18.840 --> 0:43:27.080
<v Speaker 1>talking about. Men man think differently. Yes, But when it

0:43:27.160 --> 0:43:29.840
<v Speaker 1>was made public, my one of my best friends, his

0:43:29.960 --> 0:43:32.200
<v Speaker 1>name is Rashid. He's the husband of my other best friend,

0:43:32.200 --> 0:43:36.080
<v Speaker 1>her name is Sasha. He called to see if what

0:43:36.440 --> 0:43:38.520
<v Speaker 1>he had heard was true because he thought that maybe

0:43:38.560 --> 0:43:41.560
<v Speaker 1>it was just something being drummed up because we're supposed

0:43:41.600 --> 0:43:43.239
<v Speaker 1>to be on a reality show or something like that.

0:43:43.280 --> 0:43:44.759
<v Speaker 1>And when he called us said, no, everything that you

0:43:44.880 --> 0:43:48.239
<v Speaker 1>heard is absolutely true. It's it's a terrible story. Um,

0:43:48.360 --> 0:43:50.799
<v Speaker 1>as you said. You know, Rashawn was circling the drain

0:43:51.160 --> 0:43:56.560
<v Speaker 1>at that time, and Rashid decided to come to New

0:43:56.680 --> 0:44:01.759
<v Speaker 1>York from California because he in LA. But we had

0:44:01.800 --> 0:44:06.200
<v Speaker 1>a very a horrible event happened at our home and

0:44:06.640 --> 0:44:09.880
<v Speaker 1>you can read about it in above. Rushi didn't like me. Rushi,

0:44:10.000 --> 0:44:11.960
<v Speaker 1>you know, he always thought our relationship with toxic, which

0:44:12.000 --> 0:44:13.880
<v Speaker 1>you were too controlling. He thought I was too controlling,

0:44:13.920 --> 0:44:15.960
<v Speaker 1>which I was at so he didn't like me. So

0:44:16.239 --> 0:44:19.200
<v Speaker 1>the fact that he flew in to try to save

0:44:19.320 --> 0:44:21.719
<v Speaker 1>this relationship meant a lot, because he already didn't like me.

0:44:21.840 --> 0:44:27.440
<v Speaker 1>I thought, you said, Tarisse saved the relationship. Well, well

0:44:27.480 --> 0:44:30.680
<v Speaker 1>what happened was he flew in and I didn't want

0:44:30.760 --> 0:44:33.759
<v Speaker 1>him there because our marriage was ending and I just

0:44:33.840 --> 0:44:36.560
<v Speaker 1>wanted to be by myself. But he insisted. He said,

0:44:36.600 --> 0:44:39.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm pulling into I'm applying into New York New York

0:44:39.760 --> 0:44:42.360
<v Speaker 1>International Airport at such and such a time, coming at me.

0:44:42.520 --> 0:44:45.920
<v Speaker 1>I went and I got him, and that was the

0:44:46.120 --> 0:44:49.200
<v Speaker 1>start of the biggest change that we that we needed

0:44:49.200 --> 0:44:51.480
<v Speaker 1>to go to go through. He came to our house

0:44:51.680 --> 0:44:54.680
<v Speaker 1>and um, I said, why are you here? And he said,

0:44:55.000 --> 0:44:57.840
<v Speaker 1>God sent me here. I said, of all people, you,

0:44:58.280 --> 0:45:01.440
<v Speaker 1>you're the only person in our lives that didn't champion

0:45:01.680 --> 0:45:04.680
<v Speaker 1>our marriage. You're the only one that ever told me

0:45:04.800 --> 0:45:08.160
<v Speaker 1>that maybe he's not the right person for me. Why you,

0:45:08.680 --> 0:45:11.520
<v Speaker 1>he said, Gia, I don't know. I've been praying since,

0:45:11.680 --> 0:45:14.440
<v Speaker 1>like out a phone with you. After that, terrible thing happened,

0:45:14.760 --> 0:45:17.000
<v Speaker 1>and I walked into my boss's office, told him I

0:45:17.040 --> 0:45:19.080
<v Speaker 1>had to take a leave of absence, went home, packed

0:45:19.080 --> 0:45:21.239
<v Speaker 1>a bag and got on a plane and headed here,

0:45:21.640 --> 0:45:24.359
<v Speaker 1>and it's only through the assignment of God. God spoke

0:45:24.440 --> 0:45:27.160
<v Speaker 1>to me. I said, so, what does that mean, Like,

0:45:27.840 --> 0:45:30.759
<v Speaker 1>are you hearing voices? Like, what do you mean God

0:45:30.840 --> 0:45:33.480
<v Speaker 1>spoke to you? And he said to me, when God

0:45:33.560 --> 0:45:35.719
<v Speaker 1>speaks to you, it's as though he puts an overwhelming

0:45:35.800 --> 0:45:37.800
<v Speaker 1>feeling on your heart. And when he tells you to

0:45:37.880 --> 0:45:40.640
<v Speaker 1>do something, you don't ask any questions. You just do it.

0:45:41.840 --> 0:45:44.799
<v Speaker 1>I said, well, basically, I'm have to wrap my mind

0:45:44.840 --> 0:45:48.040
<v Speaker 1>around that because I didn't have the tools to really

0:45:48.120 --> 0:45:52.719
<v Speaker 1>understand that. And he stayed with us for about maybe

0:45:52.800 --> 0:45:56.920
<v Speaker 1>ten twelve days, and he taught us a lot about

0:45:57.040 --> 0:46:02.120
<v Speaker 1>God and faith and spirituality and what assignment was. And

0:46:02.320 --> 0:46:04.480
<v Speaker 1>he brought in his past or. Her name is Sister Nancy.

0:46:04.800 --> 0:46:08.000
<v Speaker 1>She had the same feedback from God when she prayed.

0:46:08.080 --> 0:46:09.680
<v Speaker 1>And this was all new to me, and I was

0:46:09.680 --> 0:46:12.480
<v Speaker 1>actually very angry because now I have people in my

0:46:12.560 --> 0:46:15.040
<v Speaker 1>life that I respect and love that are telling me

0:46:15.120 --> 0:46:16.960
<v Speaker 1>that I have to stay in a relationship that I'm

0:46:17.040 --> 0:46:21.919
<v Speaker 1>adamant on getting out of. And it was very, very heavy.

0:46:21.960 --> 0:46:23.719
<v Speaker 1>I can't describe to you how heavy it was and

0:46:23.800 --> 0:46:28.120
<v Speaker 1>how insistent he was in his assurance of what God

0:46:28.239 --> 0:46:31.719
<v Speaker 1>communicated to him in the Fast Boy Tyrese same thing.

0:46:31.760 --> 0:46:33.200
<v Speaker 1>I didn't know. You know, we knew Tyres for coming

0:46:33.280 --> 0:46:34.720
<v Speaker 1>up here do an interview, but I didn't know tyresead

0:46:34.719 --> 0:46:37.000
<v Speaker 1>I have his number. He didn't have a new song.

0:46:37.480 --> 0:46:39.239
<v Speaker 1>But when he heard me on the radio that day,

0:46:39.360 --> 0:46:42.279
<v Speaker 1>he called and wanted to speak to Gia, and you

0:46:42.360 --> 0:46:44.040
<v Speaker 1>can read in the book because he got us together.

0:46:44.280 --> 0:46:46.960
<v Speaker 1>But he said the exact same thing, like Tyres and

0:46:47.040 --> 0:46:50.000
<v Speaker 1>Rashid was speaking to each other, and it was kind

0:46:50.040 --> 0:46:53.120
<v Speaker 1>of like those two were the ones to really save

0:46:53.239 --> 0:46:54.919
<v Speaker 1>my marriage and they didn't know it. To the Gia,

0:46:55.000 --> 0:46:56.719
<v Speaker 1>you had asked where a sign? Well, that was the thing,

0:46:57.000 --> 0:46:59.600
<v Speaker 1>because I was so angered by what I was hearing, like, oh,

0:46:59.640 --> 0:47:02.600
<v Speaker 1>i was victim being cheated on. Now I'm being victimized

0:47:02.760 --> 0:47:05.319
<v Speaker 1>again by God telling me that I have to stay

0:47:05.320 --> 0:47:08.160
<v Speaker 1>in a relationship that I'm adamant about leaving. I don't

0:47:08.280 --> 0:47:11.520
<v Speaker 1>understand this, and and I'm not a big crier, but

0:47:12.480 --> 0:47:14.959
<v Speaker 1>one day I was taking a shower and I began

0:47:15.080 --> 0:47:17.200
<v Speaker 1>to cry, and I began to pray in the way

0:47:17.280 --> 0:47:19.640
<v Speaker 1>that I was learning how to pray, and I asked

0:47:19.719 --> 0:47:22.760
<v Speaker 1>God for a sign that I can interpret for myself.

0:47:22.800 --> 0:47:24.320
<v Speaker 1>So at least it would feel as though I was

0:47:24.440 --> 0:47:27.359
<v Speaker 1>making my own decision and a decision wasn't being made

0:47:27.400 --> 0:47:30.280
<v Speaker 1>for me. So I damn near begged for a sign.

0:47:30.680 --> 0:47:35.560
<v Speaker 1>And then shortly after tyrese cold Rashwan and asked for

0:47:35.680 --> 0:47:38.880
<v Speaker 1>him to set something up and we went to Phelipe Chaw's.

0:47:39.239 --> 0:47:42.400
<v Speaker 1>He came in with a backup singer and a guitarist.

0:47:42.560 --> 0:47:45.200
<v Speaker 1>He performed Stay just for Rashaan and I. Then he

0:47:45.280 --> 0:47:47.600
<v Speaker 1>sat down for about four hours and we had a

0:47:47.680 --> 0:47:51.400
<v Speaker 1>conversation and he tried to explain to me how a

0:47:51.480 --> 0:47:53.960
<v Speaker 1>man can love you and still cheat at the same time,

0:47:54.120 --> 0:47:56.560
<v Speaker 1>because I didn't really understand that. But at the end

0:47:56.600 --> 0:47:58.520
<v Speaker 1>of the conversation I asked him, I said, you know,

0:47:58.880 --> 0:48:01.279
<v Speaker 1>why are you here? Didn't You don't even know if

0:48:01.280 --> 0:48:03.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm a good person. You don't know if this relationship

0:48:03.400 --> 0:48:06.400
<v Speaker 1>is even worth salvaging. Why would you do that? You

0:48:06.480 --> 0:48:08.560
<v Speaker 1>didn't know, Rashwan, you have no dog in this fight.

0:48:08.760 --> 0:48:10.960
<v Speaker 1>You have nothing to gain or lose. You're supposed to

0:48:10.960 --> 0:48:13.920
<v Speaker 1>be at a wedding somewhere else. You change your flights

0:48:14.000 --> 0:48:17.680
<v Speaker 1>to be here. Why, he said, God sent me here

0:48:17.719 --> 0:48:20.359
<v Speaker 1>to do this? I said, what do you mean God?

0:48:20.440 --> 0:48:23.960
<v Speaker 1>Sent you here to do this. He said, God sent me.

0:48:24.000 --> 0:48:27.040
<v Speaker 1>I said, are you hearing voices? He said no, and

0:48:27.160 --> 0:48:32.120
<v Speaker 1>then he reiterated verbatim exactly what Rashid said to me

0:48:32.239 --> 0:48:35.720
<v Speaker 1>in my kitchen that day, and I had to ask him, tires,

0:48:35.800 --> 0:48:37.480
<v Speaker 1>I said, is that like in the Bible? Is what

0:48:37.560 --> 0:48:40.040
<v Speaker 1>you just said? Is that like a thing that people know?

0:48:40.440 --> 0:48:43.120
<v Speaker 1>And he said no, I'm just telling you how I feel. Like,

0:48:43.200 --> 0:48:45.000
<v Speaker 1>what do you mean? And at that moment, I just

0:48:45.160 --> 0:48:49.840
<v Speaker 1>like threw my hands up and I said, like, okay,

0:48:50.200 --> 0:48:52.560
<v Speaker 1>and I looked at Rashawn and I said, I forgive you.

0:48:53.800 --> 0:48:56.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what that means. I will work on

0:48:56.760 --> 0:48:59.200
<v Speaker 1>this with you. I don't know how long that will take.

0:48:59.520 --> 0:49:02.239
<v Speaker 1>I will you what I'm now believing is required of me.

0:49:02.920 --> 0:49:06.520
<v Speaker 1>But We're going to be in for a ride because

0:49:06.920 --> 0:49:09.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm not really there. But I can commit to you

0:49:09.520 --> 0:49:12.359
<v Speaker 1>in this moment because there is not that much coincidence

0:49:12.440 --> 0:49:16.440
<v Speaker 1>in the world for what just happened. Thank you, got Yes,

0:49:17.080 --> 0:49:19.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I'm sorry to my wife too. I just

0:49:19.840 --> 0:49:26.680
<v Speaker 1>feel like apologize. I'm sorry. We got more with my

0:49:26.800 --> 0:49:29.440
<v Speaker 1>wife's Guia Casey. When we come back, we're talking out

0:49:29.480 --> 0:49:31.759
<v Speaker 1>new book that's out right now, Real Life, Real Love,

0:49:31.840 --> 0:49:34.520
<v Speaker 1>So don't go anywhere. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning Morning.

0:49:34.600 --> 0:49:38.600
<v Speaker 1>Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the Guy. We

0:49:38.719 --> 0:49:41.359
<v Speaker 1>are the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest Steal

0:49:41.400 --> 0:49:44.040
<v Speaker 1>in the building, my wife Gia Casey. We're talking about

0:49:44.080 --> 0:49:47.359
<v Speaker 1>our new book, Real Life, Real Love, Life Lessons on Joy,

0:49:47.480 --> 0:49:49.719
<v Speaker 1>Pain and the Magic that holds Us Together. You could

0:49:50.080 --> 0:49:51.600
<v Speaker 1>pick it up today, or you can get it on

0:49:51.600 --> 0:49:53.319
<v Speaker 1>an audible and kin do it or wherever you get

0:49:53.360 --> 0:49:56.320
<v Speaker 1>your books. Yee, And let me ask you, because you know,

0:49:56.520 --> 0:49:58.560
<v Speaker 1>for women we always are like and like you said,

0:49:58.600 --> 0:50:00.960
<v Speaker 1>Tyres was having a conversation, O, man can't cheat on

0:50:01.040 --> 0:50:05.560
<v Speaker 1>you but still love you. Yeah, but why, Like you know,

0:50:05.719 --> 0:50:07.840
<v Speaker 1>that's something that for women we always want to know.

0:50:07.960 --> 0:50:11.439
<v Speaker 1>And I'm sure you had so many conversations. I still

0:50:11.440 --> 0:50:13.360
<v Speaker 1>don't like his answer. I don't necessarily agree with what

0:50:13.480 --> 0:50:16.920
<v Speaker 1>Tyre said. I really feel that until you know the

0:50:17.000 --> 0:50:19.719
<v Speaker 1>definition of what love really means. I think a lot

0:50:19.760 --> 0:50:21.440
<v Speaker 1>of times people just say I love you, and oh,

0:50:21.520 --> 0:50:23.920
<v Speaker 1>it's oh, I love you. But until you understand the

0:50:24.000 --> 0:50:26.560
<v Speaker 1>definition of what love means, then you realize I don't

0:50:26.600 --> 0:50:28.879
<v Speaker 1>if I love somebody like I say, you don't want

0:50:28.880 --> 0:50:30.200
<v Speaker 1>to hurt them. You don't want to cheat on them,

0:50:30.239 --> 0:50:31.719
<v Speaker 1>you don't want to disrespect them, you don't want to

0:50:31.719 --> 0:50:34.400
<v Speaker 1>have them looking crazy because you love that person. And

0:50:34.600 --> 0:50:36.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't think I knew the definition of love. But

0:50:36.920 --> 0:50:39.440
<v Speaker 1>when I figured that definition of what love is and

0:50:39.560 --> 0:50:41.719
<v Speaker 1>what gear meant to me, you know, you realize I

0:50:41.719 --> 0:50:43.040
<v Speaker 1>don't want to hurt her. I don't want to see

0:50:43.080 --> 0:50:44.440
<v Speaker 1>her cry, I don't want to see her feel a way.

0:50:44.440 --> 0:50:45.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to disrespect that. I don't want to

0:50:45.800 --> 0:50:47.839
<v Speaker 1>be controlling. I don't want to be any of those things.

0:50:48.160 --> 0:50:50.480
<v Speaker 1>And when you realize what that definition is, you your

0:50:50.719 --> 0:50:52.800
<v Speaker 1>outlook of life changes. I agree with it me and

0:50:52.880 --> 0:50:55.000
<v Speaker 1>I'll add on because I've explored this in therapy to

0:50:55.520 --> 0:50:58.680
<v Speaker 1>when you say, oh, you can cheat and still love

0:50:58.719 --> 0:51:01.399
<v Speaker 1>a person, you might, but you don't really love yourself. Yeah,

0:51:01.719 --> 0:51:03.399
<v Speaker 1>I think a lot of times and not a lot

0:51:03.440 --> 0:51:05.600
<v Speaker 1>of times. All the time men cheat for ego. Oh

0:51:05.840 --> 0:51:08.640
<v Speaker 1>like that's it. It's wounded ego. It's something that we're lacking.

0:51:08.680 --> 0:51:10.239
<v Speaker 1>It has nothing to do with all wives, nothing to

0:51:10.280 --> 0:51:12.640
<v Speaker 1>do with our girlfriends. It's something that we feel like

0:51:13.320 --> 0:51:16.040
<v Speaker 1>we're lacking for whatever reason, and that's what we go

0:51:16.160 --> 0:51:18.520
<v Speaker 1>and do. It's literally just to feed all ego. Nothing

0:51:18.960 --> 0:51:20.880
<v Speaker 1>like you think cheat for the same reason as men,

0:51:21.000 --> 0:51:23.759
<v Speaker 1>or you think it's different, Like when women cheat, you

0:51:23.840 --> 0:51:26.759
<v Speaker 1>think they cheat for different reasons. I think women also

0:51:26.880 --> 0:51:31.640
<v Speaker 1>cheat for ego. Who doesn't like to have the attention

0:51:32.000 --> 0:51:35.640
<v Speaker 1>of the opposite sex, you know, especially when you are

0:51:35.760 --> 0:51:38.200
<v Speaker 1>at a deficit and you do have holes and you

0:51:38.360 --> 0:51:42.560
<v Speaker 1>need those holes filled and most people have slight holes,

0:51:42.760 --> 0:51:44.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, not that you're out there thirsty for the

0:51:44.600 --> 0:51:47.759
<v Speaker 1>attention of the opposite sex, but even if it's of

0:51:47.800 --> 0:51:50.040
<v Speaker 1>the same sex, when someone pays you a compliment, like

0:51:50.680 --> 0:51:53.959
<v Speaker 1>it's nice to be wanted, is essentially what I'm saying.

0:51:54.120 --> 0:51:57.560
<v Speaker 1>So for women, yeah, I mean I think that if

0:51:57.600 --> 0:52:00.719
<v Speaker 1>you're with someone and you cheat, I think a big

0:52:00.800 --> 0:52:02.839
<v Speaker 1>part of it is ego. But then you know, you'll

0:52:02.880 --> 0:52:04.879
<v Speaker 1>have people that say that they cheat because the person

0:52:04.960 --> 0:52:08.000
<v Speaker 1>at home isn't doing what they're supposed to do, you know.

0:52:08.200 --> 0:52:11.080
<v Speaker 1>And we have a son, Logan, he's eighteen, so he's

0:52:11.080 --> 0:52:13.840
<v Speaker 1>starting to date seriously and whatnot now. And I had

0:52:13.840 --> 0:52:16.240
<v Speaker 1>a conversation with him the other day and I said, listen,

0:52:16.760 --> 0:52:19.480
<v Speaker 1>if you commit to a girl and you make her

0:52:19.520 --> 0:52:22.160
<v Speaker 1>your girlfriend. One thing I do not want you to

0:52:22.280 --> 0:52:25.319
<v Speaker 1>do is cheat. Do not come to me and tell

0:52:25.360 --> 0:52:27.400
<v Speaker 1>me that you guys broke up because you cheated on her,

0:52:27.600 --> 0:52:30.280
<v Speaker 1>Because I've raised you better than that. If you decide

0:52:30.360 --> 0:52:34.000
<v Speaker 1>that you want something else or she's not satisfying whatever

0:52:34.080 --> 0:52:36.759
<v Speaker 1>needs you have, break up with her and move on

0:52:36.880 --> 0:52:39.080
<v Speaker 1>to the next. And if within a week you feel

0:52:39.080 --> 0:52:41.040
<v Speaker 1>the same way about that girl, break up with her

0:52:41.200 --> 0:52:43.520
<v Speaker 1>and move on to the next. Do not cheat, because

0:52:43.520 --> 0:52:47.120
<v Speaker 1>you're sacrificing your own integrity when you do that, and

0:52:47.680 --> 0:52:50.719
<v Speaker 1>that's pretty much a sign of really not loving yourself.

0:52:50.800 --> 0:52:53.759
<v Speaker 1>When you love yourself, you want to be self actualized.

0:52:53.760 --> 0:52:55.880
<v Speaker 1>You want to be your best self. You want to

0:52:55.920 --> 0:52:58.520
<v Speaker 1>reach your highest potential. You want to be a kind,

0:52:58.640 --> 0:53:00.880
<v Speaker 1>a good person, and you owe that to yourself. You

0:53:00.920 --> 0:53:02.920
<v Speaker 1>don't necessarily owe it to the other person. You owe

0:53:02.920 --> 0:53:04.960
<v Speaker 1>it to yourself to do those things. And that's what

0:53:05.040 --> 0:53:08.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to instill in him as my oldest male child.

0:53:08.719 --> 0:53:10.880
<v Speaker 1>You know, one of the biggest things I think that

0:53:10.920 --> 0:53:12.440
<v Speaker 1>came out of this was all the work that he

0:53:12.560 --> 0:53:15.560
<v Speaker 1>did do on himself, and he was suicidal at a point.

0:53:15.600 --> 0:53:18.520
<v Speaker 1>That's that's that's what we know that right. Yes, I

0:53:18.600 --> 0:53:20.319
<v Speaker 1>don't think that was all because of what we were

0:53:20.360 --> 0:53:21.759
<v Speaker 1>going on with you. I think it was, like I said,

0:53:21.760 --> 0:53:23.920
<v Speaker 1>it was other things that he was dealing with inside

0:53:23.960 --> 0:53:26.160
<v Speaker 1>of him that probably got him to that point. Yes,

0:53:26.239 --> 0:53:30.160
<v Speaker 1>we would have to ask him, because we've never had

0:53:30.200 --> 0:53:35.000
<v Speaker 1>a conversation of it being about anything besides the threat

0:53:35.080 --> 0:53:38.879
<v Speaker 1>of losing our relationship. I would say this. I would say,

0:53:39.040 --> 0:53:40.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, I used to look at people who committed

0:53:40.560 --> 0:53:43.719
<v Speaker 1>suicide as so often sucker, like that's because that's what

0:53:43.880 --> 0:53:46.440
<v Speaker 1>society made you think. Until I got into that predicament

0:53:46.480 --> 0:53:50.040
<v Speaker 1>where I felt like my life, well everybody's life around me,

0:53:50.120 --> 0:53:53.120
<v Speaker 1>would be better if I wasn't here, and I couldn't

0:53:53.120 --> 0:53:56.399
<v Speaker 1>shake it. And the majority of it was losing my wife,

0:53:56.480 --> 0:53:59.600
<v Speaker 1>losing my family, losing the thing that I knew when

0:53:59.640 --> 0:54:01.880
<v Speaker 1>that I love UM, and I really feel like I

0:54:01.960 --> 0:54:04.440
<v Speaker 1>didn't want to be there, and and I guess it

0:54:04.640 --> 0:54:07.160
<v Speaker 1>was everything else that we said, like the insecurities that

0:54:07.280 --> 0:54:09.719
<v Speaker 1>made me do it, the insecurities around me, and I

0:54:09.840 --> 0:54:11.799
<v Speaker 1>just didn't know who I was as a person who

0:54:12.120 --> 0:54:16.520
<v Speaker 1>that's powerful. UM. I will say during all of that

0:54:17.480 --> 0:54:20.160
<v Speaker 1>and all those conversations and all those late night talks

0:54:20.280 --> 0:54:23.600
<v Speaker 1>and with praying, you feel like you realize who you

0:54:23.719 --> 0:54:25.839
<v Speaker 1>are as a person. And once you figure that out,

0:54:25.960 --> 0:54:27.719
<v Speaker 1>you figure out who you want to be, who you

0:54:27.800 --> 0:54:29.200
<v Speaker 1>want to who you want to live like, and you

0:54:29.239 --> 0:54:31.400
<v Speaker 1>don't care about anything else. You know, at one time

0:54:31.440 --> 0:54:33.640
<v Speaker 1>I used to care what people thought. Now I don't care.

0:54:33.760 --> 0:54:36.800
<v Speaker 1>As long as my wife and my family's happy. Everything

0:54:36.840 --> 0:54:39.439
<v Speaker 1>else is just white noise behind it. Just think about

0:54:39.480 --> 0:54:41.719
<v Speaker 1>how much stronger you guys are as individuals, and your

0:54:41.760 --> 0:54:44.000
<v Speaker 1>marriage is so much stronger after everything you've been through.

0:54:44.000 --> 0:54:46.840
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, oh yeah, yeah if he said something powerful

0:54:46.840 --> 0:54:49.040
<v Speaker 1>to because this business, this business will have you living

0:54:49.080 --> 0:54:52.359
<v Speaker 1>a lie. Because we're characters, right, So we create these

0:54:52.760 --> 0:54:55.160
<v Speaker 1>characters that kind of protect their Sean and protect the

0:54:55.320 --> 0:54:57.799
<v Speaker 1>Lenard and we're going we go home and we're one way,

0:54:57.840 --> 0:54:59.759
<v Speaker 1>but then we're out in the street being another way.

0:55:00.040 --> 0:55:03.879
<v Speaker 1>You can't do both. Eventually that negative is gonna catch up. Yeah,

0:55:04.080 --> 0:55:06.320
<v Speaker 1>So that's that's why I think he was going through, like,

0:55:06.400 --> 0:55:08.520
<v Speaker 1>not only just the thread of losing you, but just like,

0:55:08.880 --> 0:55:12.200
<v Speaker 1>who am I? What's that hard for you? Having this

0:55:12.520 --> 0:55:17.000
<v Speaker 1>dual personality? Almost absolutely, because I mean, like, nothing's better

0:55:17.080 --> 0:55:18.800
<v Speaker 1>now than to not care what people think. You know,

0:55:18.800 --> 0:55:20.800
<v Speaker 1>I would have to free the freedom. I would have

0:55:20.840 --> 0:55:22.120
<v Speaker 1>to think about what I was saying in a radio

0:55:22.160 --> 0:55:23.840
<v Speaker 1>and how would affect me, how people would look at me.

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<v Speaker 1>I would have to think about this or think about

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<v Speaker 1>that instead of just being free and say, hey, it

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<v Speaker 1>is what it is taking. How you like it. If

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<v Speaker 1>you like me, like me, If you love me, you

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<v Speaker 1>love me. If you hate me, you hate me. And

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<v Speaker 1>once I got to that that place, life became a

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<v Speaker 1>whole lot better. See a lot of gems in this

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<v Speaker 1>Fuck you guys, I was thoroughly entertaining. Like I said,

0:55:41.880 --> 0:55:45.960
<v Speaker 1>I look stressed. I think he's been nervous all morning

0:55:46.040 --> 0:55:50.239
<v Speaker 1>before you got The book is out today, Go get

0:55:50.280 --> 0:55:52.359
<v Speaker 1>it man. Make sure you pick it up. Real life,

0:55:52.480 --> 0:55:55.400
<v Speaker 1>real love, Getting today life lessons on joy, pain, and

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<v Speaker 1>the magic that holds us together. That's right, Amazon, Barns

0:55:58.520 --> 0:56:01.680
<v Speaker 1>and Nobles, wherever you buy books, your local bookstores. Please

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<v Speaker 1>pick it up today, and when you do read it,

0:56:04.239 --> 0:56:05.800
<v Speaker 1>you read it please. What we want you to do

0:56:06.000 --> 0:56:07.719
<v Speaker 1>is we want you to tell us what you think

0:56:07.719 --> 0:56:10.360
<v Speaker 1>about the book, whether it's a thirty second video taggy

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<v Speaker 1>and now we want to repost it, whether you love it,

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<v Speaker 1>whether you hate it. We're going to repost all of

0:56:14.239 --> 0:56:16.360
<v Speaker 1>them because we'd love to get you guys' feedback. And

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<v Speaker 1>I think there's y'all gonna help a lot of couples.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's clear that y'all two are meant to be

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<v Speaker 1>with each other, you know what I'm saying. One of

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<v Speaker 1>my favorite chapters is called the New Deal, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much about reparations that the offender has to make

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<v Speaker 1>after offending their partner. And it's those things that will

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<v Speaker 1>help to let to signal to your partner that you

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<v Speaker 1>just may be worthy of forgiveness and being extended grace.

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<v Speaker 1>So what are those reparations? The first thing people will say, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why he does the Twelve Days of Christmas. You

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<v Speaker 1>know that's right. A lot of people do say. But

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<v Speaker 1>you know what's funny, and that's the funny thing. We've

0:56:53.840 --> 0:56:57.960
<v Speaker 1>always done twelve Days of Christmas. We just never made

0:56:58.000 --> 0:57:00.279
<v Speaker 1>it public. And it's not the type of thing that

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<v Speaker 1>at first I ever wanted to make public because it

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<v Speaker 1>is grand. But I decided to start posting it because

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<v Speaker 1>it's not about the material items that he gives me

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<v Speaker 1>for Christmas. It's about the intention behind it. It's about

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<v Speaker 1>the thought. You know, he starts shopping almost a year

0:57:22.320 --> 0:57:26.000
<v Speaker 1>in advance for that, and every gift comes with something special,

0:57:26.520 --> 0:57:29.360
<v Speaker 1>a little note, a little treasure hunt to find the gift,

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<v Speaker 1>a prayer, a poem, something that is giving of his heart,

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<v Speaker 1>not giving of his pocket. And that's why when you,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you read the book and you hear y'all talk,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why you understand why he got so upset at

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<v Speaker 1>these and merrow correct, you know what I'm saying, because

0:57:43.720 --> 0:57:46.680
<v Speaker 1>y'all relationship is so much deeper. Of course, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because with their comment, it almost to me suggests as

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<v Speaker 1>though there's nothing else worthy about him that would signal

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<v Speaker 1>me to stay aside from what he has to offer financially.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's a joke, right, but we all know that

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<v Speaker 1>all jokes are rooted in some truth. And that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I think their truth was. Looking at it from an outsider,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't some jackie complately and met somebody with money

0:58:17.800 --> 0:58:20.840
<v Speaker 1>and was like, oh, come up. We ground it out

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<v Speaker 1>from day one. I was always there and supporting him

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<v Speaker 1>and loving him. And if he failed and wound up

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<v Speaker 1>being a secretary or anything followed another path, I would

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<v Speaker 1>still be there yet it took a beat to get that.

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<v Speaker 1>I just can't believe what are you talking. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>suggesting other career options that I can't believe it with me.

0:58:54.040 --> 0:58:56.680
<v Speaker 1>My wife had he like, you're disrespectful real life. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for having me, guys pick it up today.

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<v Speaker 1>And uh, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. No, you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta tell this guest I love you before you sign off. Yes, Casey,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for joining us. I love you. I love

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<v Speaker 1>you way more. To Charlava, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>It's time for Donkey of the Day. So being Donkey

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<v Speaker 1>of the day a little bit of a mixture, so

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<v Speaker 1>like a donkey the other day club bitches. Now I've

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<v Speaker 1>been called a lot of my twenty three years. That

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<v Speaker 1>Donkey of the day is a new wife. Donkey of

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<v Speaker 1>the Day goes to a twenty nine year old woman

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<v Speaker 1>in Louisiana named Jenna Lisa Lawrence now Genna Lisa Lawrence's

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<v Speaker 1>wanted for attempted second degree murder. Her bond is one

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<v Speaker 1>hundred and fifty thousand dollars, and police believe she fled

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<v Speaker 1>from Louisiana to Dallas because that's where she's from, or

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<v Speaker 1>that that's what they thought. She's actually turned herself instance,

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<v Speaker 1>then uh, second degree murder. Well what did this young

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<v Speaker 1>queen do to catch that charge? Well, Genna Lisa is

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<v Speaker 1>what I like to call a peace disruptor, an agitator

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<v Speaker 1>of auras, the type that cannot allow a spirit to

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<v Speaker 1>just be still. Oh yes, we all have those kinds

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<v Speaker 1>of people in our lives. Do you understand that? Forty

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<v Speaker 1>two years old, all I want to do is protect

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<v Speaker 1>my peace by any means necessary. My mental health diet

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<v Speaker 1>is very important. If what I'm taking in does not

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<v Speaker 1>nourish my mental health, I don't allow it. In my space.

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<v Speaker 1>My peace is non negotiable. I'm not going anywhere I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to be. I'm not doing anything I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to do, and I'm damn sure not going to

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<v Speaker 1>talk or be around anyone I don't want to be with. See,

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<v Speaker 1>some people like Genna Lisa just want to argue. I

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<v Speaker 1>know the type. They into your space and can't wait

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<v Speaker 1>to get into a back and forth with you. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>I love me a good debate, okay that, but sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, I don't. And that's why

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes when people text you certain things looking for a debate,

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<v Speaker 1>an argument, a backing forth, whatever you want to call it.

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<v Speaker 1>If I don't ignore it completely, I just reply back. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's growth. But see that's not enough for a piece

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<v Speaker 1>disruptor like Genna Lisa. No, no, no, people like that

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<v Speaker 1>will not stop until you go back and forth with them.

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<v Speaker 1>And as a wise man named Little Duval once told us,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm living my best life. Ain't going back and forth

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<v Speaker 1>with you? That ain't going back and fourth part is

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<v Speaker 1>very important. But once again, an agitator of ours like

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<v Speaker 1>Genna Lisa, she's not having it. She won't stop until

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<v Speaker 1>she transfers that negative energy that exists within her into you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the law of energy, kids, Sir Isaac Newton said

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<v Speaker 1>it best. The law of energy is energy is never

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<v Speaker 1>lost and destroyed, just merely transfer from one party to

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<v Speaker 1>the next. And that's exactly what Jenna Lisa was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to do. See according to Action News Too in Atlanta,

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<v Speaker 1>Genna Lisa was upset because her boyfriend refused to argue

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<v Speaker 1>with her. Did you hear me? Jenna Lisa was upset

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<v Speaker 1>because her boyfriend refused to argue with her. Jenna Lisa,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know how many women would love to have

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<v Speaker 1>a man who doesn't argue with them. Do you know

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<v Speaker 1>how many women would love to have a man who

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<v Speaker 1>didn't pick a fight about every little thing. There's some

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<v Speaker 1>women driving the work right now listening to Donkey at

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<v Speaker 1>the day, angry because then man picked a fight with

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<v Speaker 1>them last night, our first thing this morning, they was

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<v Speaker 1>arguing about something stupid. I promise you, this quarantine has

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<v Speaker 1>tested the strength of so many relationships, has tested the

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<v Speaker 1>patience and so many relationships, and so many people have

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<v Speaker 1>sat around and asked themselves repeatedly, what are we arguing

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<v Speaker 1>about now? Because they have a significant other who absolutely

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<v Speaker 1>positively always has to find something to argue about. Meanwhile, Jenna, Lisa,

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<v Speaker 1>you have a man who doesn't want to argue with you.

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<v Speaker 1>He's probably chanting to himself, spiritually disciplined brother who's trying

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<v Speaker 1>to be the best version of himself, Okay, attempting to

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<v Speaker 1>have heightened energy and more sensitivity towards us. This nice,

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<v Speaker 1>compassionate boot a chance, just listen. Oh yes, just protecting

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<v Speaker 1>his space, okay, protecting his true protecting his peace and

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<v Speaker 1>then bound this happens. Let's go to kas La News

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<v Speaker 1>twelve for the report police. A man is fighting for

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<v Speaker 1>his life tonight, and the woman police believer is responsible.

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<v Speaker 1>It is twenty nine year old Gina Alicia Lawrence. She

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<v Speaker 1>is allegedly the strange girlfriend of a thirty four year

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<v Speaker 1>old man that was shot. Lawrence allegedly shot him following

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<v Speaker 1>a dispute. She left the area and a green Honda

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<v Speaker 1>Accord with primer on the left passenger side front door.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, police have a warrant charging Lawrence with attempted

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<v Speaker 1>second degree murder. That's right. Gena Lisa shot her boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>simply because her boyfriend didn't want to argue with her.

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<v Speaker 1>You see how negativity works. Do you see how negative

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<v Speaker 1>energy works? Genner, Lisa's boyfriend didn't do anything to her.

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<v Speaker 1>She wasn't mad at him, She was mad at herself.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever hurt she had inside of her, she passed on

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<v Speaker 1>to him, because that's what hurt people do. Hurt people,

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<v Speaker 1>healed people. Healed people, hurt people, hurt other people. I

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<v Speaker 1>respect the boyfriend because clearly he's father along in his

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<v Speaker 1>journey of healing than she is. Because she likes discomfort

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<v Speaker 1>so much, she likes disruption so much that she was

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<v Speaker 1>upset her boyfriend wouldn't give her back what she was

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<v Speaker 1>trying to serve him. Oh, you're just gonna walk around

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<v Speaker 1>hit peaceful. You just gonna be happy in my presence.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going so good in your life that you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to argue with me? What is this hakunam a

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<v Speaker 1>tide of thing you talking about? Let me tell you

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<v Speaker 1>what that is, Genna Lisa. It's called making a choice.

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<v Speaker 1>And when you are protecting your piece, you have to

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<v Speaker 1>make the choice to not allow anybody to make you angry.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't let them disturb your peace of mind or upset.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't give your power away to another king or queen.

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<v Speaker 1>You decide your mood, not them. Jenna Lisa, you tried it,

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<v Speaker 1>and every other piece disrupt that out there. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>pray for you. I want you to get healing. And

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<v Speaker 1>to all my brothers and sisters out there that are

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<v Speaker 1>attempting to be the best versions of themselves, living their

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<v Speaker 1>best lives, protecting their peace, I want to tell you, please, please,

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<v Speaker 1>please protect your peace today and every day. Rise above

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<v Speaker 1>any ignorance and don't allow someone else's misery to steal

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<v Speaker 1>your joy. Please give Jenna Lisa Lawrence the sweet sounds

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<v Speaker 1>of the Hamletones. Oh now you are gee da gee

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<v Speaker 1>oh the day? Ye all right, well, thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>that down key today Charlo Mane. That's right. The breakfast

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<v Speaker 1>Club up in the morning. Check out this breakfast club.

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<v Speaker 1>We want morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela yee. Charlemagne

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<v Speaker 1>the guy. We are the breakfast Club. We got a

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<v Speaker 1>special guest in the building, sir her. What's up? Good morning,

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<v Speaker 1>her morning? How are you? I'm good. It's bright and early.

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<v Speaker 1>It is early. You know, I'm not a morning person,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just came back from the UK, so I'm good. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So congratulations to you because you've been having a phenomenal

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<v Speaker 1>pass Yeah, thank you, thank you. Yeah, it's been crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>honestly to how many instruments do you play? Um? I

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<v Speaker 1>play mainly guitar, keys, bass, and drums. Damn, let's let's

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<v Speaker 1>talk in again. A lot of people don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>did you get into the music industry. I know you

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<v Speaker 1>were signed at like the age of fourteen. How do

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<v Speaker 1>you start? How did you get into the industry? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's a long story, but I've been doing

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<v Speaker 1>music for a really long time. My dad was a musician,

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<v Speaker 1>just for fun and and um, I was singing as

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<v Speaker 1>a as a young kid, and things just happened the

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<v Speaker 1>way they were supposed to happen. The stars kind of

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<v Speaker 1>aligned for me, and I was doing meetings and stuff

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<v Speaker 1>at a very young age. People saw me, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>singing playing Alicia Keys songs as a young girl, like

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<v Speaker 1>on YouTube and stuff, and um, eventually I got signed

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<v Speaker 1>RCA when I was fourteen, and you know, I had

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<v Speaker 1>the time to develop and figure out who I was

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<v Speaker 1>as a person growing too. Yeah, absolutely, drop, oh pretty much.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know, when you're fourteen, you don't know

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<v Speaker 1>who you are yet, you don't know even who you

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<v Speaker 1>want to be. So I've seen the talent that early. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, my parents number one, but there were so

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<v Speaker 1>many people MBIK Entertainment, you know, they built Alicia Keys's career.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff Robinson as my manager. He kind of gave me

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<v Speaker 1>that creative space, and we were kind of like like

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<v Speaker 1>going against you know what, what our cia. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it was like it was like a push and pull

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<v Speaker 1>as far as what was going to happen for me,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. It was like I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure that I was in complete control of

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<v Speaker 1>my situation as it, you know, my management team, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I had the creative space to just figure out

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<v Speaker 1>myself and figure out my sound and who who and

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<v Speaker 1>what I was going to represent. Can you really grow

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<v Speaker 1>as a human at at fourteen with a record deal? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>can you really grow? And I mean I did because

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to regular school, you know, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I would I would come to New York for like

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<v Speaker 1>a week or two weeks and record and and work

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<v Speaker 1>with people, and then go back to school. You know

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<v Speaker 1>what you're thinking, you know, it's so funny. I just

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<v Speaker 1>I wrote a song called Curious. I wrote about people

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<v Speaker 1>being in my business, like my parents, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like that, right exactly, No, No, my boyfriends stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>So you wrote all your own music? Absolutely? Absolutely. I

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<v Speaker 1>was been a writer. I'm a poet you know, as

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<v Speaker 1>well as a writer, and I kind of you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they go hand in hand. And you never got discouraged

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<v Speaker 1>being signed so early and not really take it off

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<v Speaker 1>to No. Absolutely, I mean, you know, after a few years,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, Okay, when am I going to put out music?

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<v Speaker 1>When am I going to figure this out? Who am I?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, what what am I? What am I gonna do?

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<v Speaker 1>As far as my career is concerned. And so when

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<v Speaker 1>I graduated high school, or before I graduated high school,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, am I going to go to college? Or

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<v Speaker 1>am I going to be in this music thing? One

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<v Speaker 1>hundred percent? So there were frustrations there, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>watching everybody else that was signed to my management company.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it was Kim Michelle and Brand and Alicia

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<v Speaker 1>Keys and el Varner and all these people, and Justine

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<v Speaker 1>Sky like all these great artists doing their thing and

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<v Speaker 1>me kind of like sitting on the sideline, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>at their shows, kind of like waiting my turn, Like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>pretty soon, i'm gonna have music out, I'm gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>doing shows. I'm gonna be doing this, And uh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was just I was being patient, and I finally

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<v Speaker 1>decided like all right, I'm gonna just be in this

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred percent. What your parents supported me? So what

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<v Speaker 1>does a teenager know about patients? Right? What did I

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<v Speaker 1>know about patients? I don't know, man, I just I

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<v Speaker 1>love music so much and there was nothing else I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to do. I feel I feel like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>as a young child with the label telling you you

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<v Speaker 1>should be like this and you should be like that,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that would be hard in your formidable years because

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<v Speaker 1>everybody's trying to tell you what to be instead of

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<v Speaker 1>just letting you be. Man, it is definitely definitely difficult.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I always preach to people like, no matter

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<v Speaker 1>what anybody tells you, surround yourself with people that are

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<v Speaker 1>going to embrace who you are and see the potential

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<v Speaker 1>in what you can be and not what you should

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<v Speaker 1>be or something that is modeled, you know, like something

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<v Speaker 1>that you should be modeled after, you know, or or

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<v Speaker 1>uh manufactured into you know. That was my whole thing,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm gonna just find my voice and figure out

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<v Speaker 1>my truth and and you know, presented that what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't so much of a hiding my identity. It

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<v Speaker 1>was more so like focusing on the music. Like I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want people to know how old I am. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want people to know my you know, ethnicity, and

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want people to like see my face, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>or or have any assumption. You know, we focus on

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<v Speaker 1>all the superficial things and what's happening now, and I

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted people to focus on the music and the message.

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<v Speaker 1>And now people of all ages have kind of taken

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<v Speaker 1>my music and made it their diary, you know, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>they feel connected to it because they don't know anything

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<v Speaker 1>about me. You know, all right, we got more with

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<v Speaker 1>her when we come back, don't move. It's a fast club.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, taking you back back with the classic work.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the Breakfast Club. This was a podcast. If you

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<v Speaker 1>missed the Breakfast Club, you don't come from my world.

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<v Speaker 1>It's dangerous. Check out this rewind morning. Everybody is DJ Envy,

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<v Speaker 1>Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>We have R and B recording artists, Hearth now Charlemagne,

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<v Speaker 1>How did your career change when you revealed yourn I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't really reveal it. They were speculating, oh you know

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<v Speaker 1>who that is? Right right? Yes? But I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>never was like, hey, turn out, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Like here, I am right right exactly. I mean, you

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<v Speaker 1>see me a lot more. And at this point, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think it even matters who I am, what my

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<v Speaker 1>name is, or anything, because people are in love with

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<v Speaker 1>the music. That was the point to begin with it.

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<v Speaker 1>We are still falling in love with it, regardless of

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<v Speaker 1>knowing what I look like or anything. So so nobody

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<v Speaker 1>can slide in your dams. Huh. No, you know you

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<v Speaker 1>can get the little requests. Sometimes you be checking them

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes depends. You know, why why don't you follow nobody?

1:11:59.200 --> 1:12:01.920
<v Speaker 1>Because I'm not really like a you know, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really be on social media like that mess on her timeline, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I still keep up, you know a little bit. It's

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<v Speaker 1>on the explore page, but I don't really you know,

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<v Speaker 1>people start getting salty, like why I don't follow me back?

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<v Speaker 1>Or why you know you can't follow Daniel Caesar or

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<v Speaker 1>nobody here? No, I'm not following anybody. Do you miss that?

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<v Speaker 1>What's the word? Amen? What's the word? And there you go?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm talking about. Sometimes sometimes, um, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I expected this, you know, I kind of mentally

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<v Speaker 1>prepared for whatever would happen. I'm just happy to do music,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like it doesn't doesn't matter. I think sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>I do, like I try to be lottle key, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I take the glasses off because if I have them on,

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<v Speaker 1>then you recognize me and put my hair back walk

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<v Speaker 1>around like wait a minute, that's and I'm like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like my cover is blown. So how do you deal

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<v Speaker 1>with relationships? Now? You know, because it's different now now

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<v Speaker 1>they know who you are, they know you're I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's hard to know if somebody really loves

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<v Speaker 1>you for you, you know what, not anymore? You know what,

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<v Speaker 1>there are people out there. Listen that is so negative. True, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>be very very careful, honestly, whatever it is, whatever situation

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<v Speaker 1>I get into, love takes time. When people show you

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<v Speaker 1>who they are, you pay attention corny lines like hey, her,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to be your him. Yeah, they always do that. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>and artist did come out to her all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>all the time thinking about his corny lines that he

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<v Speaker 1>would have had. What the corny is one? That is,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you respond to that? I don't respond, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I can't hear out of the side of

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<v Speaker 1>my head. What made you name yourself after a whole

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<v Speaker 1>pronoun um? So it's kind of a long story. But um,

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<v Speaker 1>when I was, you know, fifteen sixteen, I used to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, look at the women my high school or

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<v Speaker 1>my big people I would consider my big sisters, and

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<v Speaker 1>I would say, I'm never gonna, you know, make the

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<v Speaker 1>mistakes that they're making. I'm never gonna fall in love

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<v Speaker 1>with this guy and fall for the wrong guy and

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<v Speaker 1>and all this stuff right, and I became her. I

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<v Speaker 1>became that girl. But we have to go through things

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<v Speaker 1>on our own. Sometime. Absolutely, watch people make mistakes, and

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<v Speaker 1>you would wish we could learn from the mistakes to

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<v Speaker 1>other people. But sometimes to find her in something and

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't, You're like, how did I get here? Exactly here?

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<v Speaker 1>It's like you got a little bit of other women

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<v Speaker 1>in you, so to speak. I mean I would say

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<v Speaker 1>her right. So we all as women when we're you know,

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<v Speaker 1>even from high school to adulthood, we experienced similar changes,

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<v Speaker 1>shared experiences. Right, we have feelings. We've all felt for

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<v Speaker 1>that wrong guy or that guy that was no good

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<v Speaker 1>and we knew it was no good. So it's just

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<v Speaker 1>it's just that connection that all women have. Well, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>from the Bay Area. Bay Area, see people people in

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<v Speaker 1>New York. I always think California is just La. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>had it wrong. I didn't know you from the Bay Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Valeo forty sly Yeah Yeah. How to nipsies death impact

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<v Speaker 1>you being from the West. Um, it's really sad because

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<v Speaker 1>when you see somebody doing really good for the community

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<v Speaker 1>and they're gone, it's just like you feel like it's

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<v Speaker 1>a missing peace. That's kind of how I felt. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel weird right like this one. This one hits

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<v Speaker 1>a little different. Yeah, this is a bit different. It

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<v Speaker 1>affected everybody in some way, just the energy kind of

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<v Speaker 1>change we all found out. Her got to get up

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<v Speaker 1>out of here. Guy, she's leading him, intes a guy've

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<v Speaker 1>been ignoring the label little bit? What what white? You

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<v Speaker 1>know what? I don't know where are we going? They

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<v Speaker 1>want you to be on time for the white out,

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<v Speaker 1>but just breeze you through the black ones. No, I've

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<v Speaker 1>always made time. That's why I'm still here right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Just think about that. When you go to the next

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<v Speaker 1>out letting you and there with all those white people,

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<v Speaker 1>you'd be like, damn, they really did rush me out

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<v Speaker 1>of the black out let the damn all right? For her,

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for join, Thank you everything. Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a pleasure. We're so had. And thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for your donation that you made the change for change.

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<v Speaker 1>You were actually the first person to call up and

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<v Speaker 1>make a donation when we did our fundraisers. Wow, that

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<v Speaker 1>was crazy. Yeah, yeah, thank you, Thank you. Guys, appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the breakfast club. Is her taking you back back

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<v Speaker 1>back with the classic we one we Ward. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club was a podcast. It's topic time called eight

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<v Speaker 1>hundred and five eight five one oh five one to

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<v Speaker 1>join it to the discussion with the Breakfast Club, talk

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<v Speaker 1>about it morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne

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<v Speaker 1>the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now ifew just

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<v Speaker 1>joining us, we're talking about ye saying that male enhancements

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<v Speaker 1>have been going up from plastic surgeons. Right. Yes, they're

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<v Speaker 1>getting their abs done and little LiPo, and they're also

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<v Speaker 1>getting penis enlargements with fillers. As a guy like, what

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<v Speaker 1>can you really do? Right? Are you there? God? It's

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<v Speaker 1>me I would like a bigger penis and nothing happened,

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<v Speaker 1>So I must, I must, I must increase my thrust.

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<v Speaker 1>But let's go to the full lines. Eight hundred five

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<v Speaker 1>five one oh five one. Hello, who's this Melanie? It's

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<v Speaker 1>this Melanie Hie. How are you? I'm good? How are you? Blessed?

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<v Speaker 1>Black and Holly Favorite said he wanted to increase his

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<v Speaker 1>penis eyes? Would you get that for him? Maybe for Christmas? Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 1>What made you say that? With no hesitation? She wait,

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<v Speaker 1>she's waiting for Christmas right now? Absolutely. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I don't have a man currently, but I've had

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<v Speaker 1>men in the past that I felt like they could

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<v Speaker 1>have benefited from some enhancement, Like they were perfect in

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<v Speaker 1>all other areas, but they lacked there. And I just

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<v Speaker 1>feel like the same way a man is quick to

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<v Speaker 1>be like here, baby, go get your b beyond there. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>fred um, a woman should be able to say that too,

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<v Speaker 1>or suggest that he gets enhanced without him feeling offended,

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<v Speaker 1>because then a lot of times they get offended and

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<v Speaker 1>it's like they're different options for you too. Take four

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<v Speaker 1>for yourself. I gotta hurt. You tell the man he

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<v Speaker 1>needs a penis enhancement that he don't got the money

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<v Speaker 1>for it. Oh my god? Right. He like, well, you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna pay for it, and she's like, yes, geez, I

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<v Speaker 1>will be benefiting from it, thank you very much. About

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<v Speaker 1>break up, I might have to have some kind of

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<v Speaker 1>aggrieving sign. No, I don't. I mean, I mean, if

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<v Speaker 1>I'm at the point where I will pay for a

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<v Speaker 1>man's enhancement my relationship, that better be pretty solid. Imagine

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<v Speaker 1>a man leaving you the golden mother girl, then you

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<v Speaker 1>have to run down on the other girl and say

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<v Speaker 1>I bought that d I paid for those inches. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, it's hello, who's this should boy? Wally ze

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<v Speaker 1>man thinking, an, that's all actually sound crazy that. I

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<v Speaker 1>actually just watched the video the other day of some

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<v Speaker 1>dude talking about it on on some other podcasts, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was just like, man, just love yourself, man, like,

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<v Speaker 1>for real, for real. You wouldn't get nothing you as

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<v Speaker 1>done on nothing? Nah dog nah? I mean you got

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<v Speaker 1>to maintain it, you know what I'm saying. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>not even just like getting it done, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, Because I mean if you get it done,

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<v Speaker 1>then you ain't gonna work out every day and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>do your thing for real, eat healthy. You know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. All that stuff, I mean it's gonna be pointless.

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<v Speaker 1>That's real, true healthy. And I mean, hello, who's this crazy?

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<v Speaker 1>Like he said, what's your name? Hello? Who's this? Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning? Good? What's your name? Bro? My name is

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<v Speaker 1>real one? What's up? One? Now? If you had the opportunity,

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<v Speaker 1>would you would you add some inches to your penis

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<v Speaker 1>real one? Um Nah, I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>add any injines or none of the like that. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty good while I'm at it, Like, yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>definitely sure. I'm definitely say until you get to get

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<v Speaker 1>certificate for fire free inches, nah, because what if it

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<v Speaker 1>starts the mess with how you feel? Like I can't

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<v Speaker 1>feel it anymore, Like it won't make me laugh, that's true,

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<v Speaker 1>and that isn't nerving the exactly like it's I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think it's worth it. I don't think it's worth it

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<v Speaker 1>at all. And then the whole acting it don't make

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<v Speaker 1>no sense either, because if you're not eating right, you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna you're gonna lose it anyway. That's right. Eating McDonalds

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<v Speaker 1>and everything you don't make no sense whatsoever. You're not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna change your habits and your lifestyle after you get that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's pointless. Yeah, you waste some money, all right, thank you? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's a hard no for you. Let's go to

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<v Speaker 1>another call of the last one. Hello, who's this yo?

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<v Speaker 1>Drey and call if I'm not a Peter's bird. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>d your girl just called and she said that she

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<v Speaker 1>she thinks that you need a couple of inches, So

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<v Speaker 1>would you do it? I'm not doing that. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>doing that. You gotta work with what you've got. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta be girl what you've got, I will say.

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<v Speaker 1>Women always getting you know, they tell me talk and

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of inchest cut off and they ain't doing

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<v Speaker 1>the work we're doing in the gym. So I would

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<v Speaker 1>do that. But as far as with with my manhood,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just going to be the best of what I got.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, You're gonna have some abs with a little penis.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody not not not blessed down there. So okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, you mean every everybody you're good at You're

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<v Speaker 1>good at other things, right, you're good at other things.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gread at everything. You know what's sad about this? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? You know how they say if you appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>what you got, you will get blessed with more. That

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't apply to penis to us. Goodness great? What's the

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<v Speaker 1>ball of the story. I just said it. That's it,

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<v Speaker 1>And you sounded really sad saying it. Definitely. I thank

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<v Speaker 1>God for I thank God for it all. All right?

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<v Speaker 1>This the Breakfast Club. Good morning,