Speaker 1: What you're doing. This is your time to get it
Speaker 1: off your chest, whether you're mad or blest eight five
Speaker 1: one five one. We want to hear from you on
Speaker 1: the breakfast club this man, it's black, Mike gotta doll man,
Speaker 1: I said, black lighter, blake black. Oh what's happening now?
Speaker 1: What's haying? Man? I want to get off with chance
Speaker 1: this morning. Man. Okay, the baby mama's man, they always
Speaker 1: did baby daddy. I'll try to did these baby mama's
Speaker 1: man who don't want to let the dead again? They
Speaker 1: started like the relationships hill man, y'all hear about that
Speaker 1: a lot, which I think is whack's whacking. Very selfish man.
Speaker 1: There's more than white man. There's a lot of what
Speaker 1: Chalomy say, trauma, man, hurt, hurt, that's right. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry you're going through that. But they shouldn't hurt
Speaker 1: the child. But they shouldn't hurt the child behind that,
Speaker 1: because that's that's the only person they hurt in the
Speaker 1: situation like that by not letting both parents be in
Speaker 1: their life. Absolutely, Hello, who's this good morning? This is
Speaker 1: smart for us? Heyma, see you get it off your chests. Mama,
Speaker 1: all right, I just want to give a shout out
Speaker 1: to my son tray Vine. Today's is to a birthday.
Speaker 1: He just said twelve out of here and day twelve
Speaker 1: out of here and say twelve. Whappy birthday to Trayvon.
Speaker 1: All Right, mama, Hello, who's this? This is Jennifer. How
Speaker 1: are you? Good morning? Getting off your chests. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: kind of upset because my boyfriend broke up with me
Speaker 1: because I took his cell phone. Watch took your cell phones?
Speaker 1: And Patty, I don't know, I don't, I don't know
Speaker 1: what happened. I just grabbed the phone and I got
Speaker 1: in my car and I just drove off, and then
Speaker 1: like at the red light, he was there like keeping
Speaker 1: my phone on the question, but why didn't I don't
Speaker 1: What do you mean you don't know why you took
Speaker 1: his cell phone? You know why you took it? I
Speaker 1: took it because I just felt like he was not
Speaker 1: being trustful, like truthful. You just weren't too fun to us.
Speaker 1: I know, I know. I'm just saying like he was
Speaker 1: always texting and stuff at night and looks like why
Speaker 1: are you like who you calling? Who you text it?
Speaker 1: So what you're finding? The phone got you? A simple
Speaker 1: question exactly. Ask you a simple question. Why didn't you
Speaker 1: just wait till he go to sleep and didn't go
Speaker 1: through his phone? Like why would you snatch it and
Speaker 1: didn't drive off? She had a passport. Y'all watch too
Speaker 1: many videos online now, you you know you see these
Speaker 1: videos online when people chasing the girls outside at the
Speaker 1: hospital and all the stupid stuff. Me right away, he
Speaker 1: didn't even know. I took you like it was sitting
Speaker 1: there and I grabbed it. I feel in my pocket.
Speaker 1: We talked and I was like, all right, I'm leaving.
Speaker 1: I left, and then by the time I got to
Speaker 1: the red like he was right behind you. Question, you
Speaker 1: didn't get to look at it? No, I didn't. You
Speaker 1: you're just lying because first you just said you found nothing.
Speaker 1: Now you said you don't even get to look at it.
Speaker 1: You just a liar. I'm like, no, I'm just how
Speaker 1: you found nothing if you didn't even get to look
Speaker 1: at it, you liar. People go to jail during the interrogation.
Speaker 1: You know you didn't have stuff. Right now, if you
Speaker 1: found something, would you leave him? Okay, So this is okay,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be truthful. I took his phone. You're going
Speaker 1: to jail. So you didn't find something what you find
Speaker 1: to jail. No, the first time I took this phone,
Speaker 1: I found something, okay, and you stayed. Yes, he was
Speaker 1: texting some girl telling about they missed each other. And
Speaker 1: that's way more messed up because that's more emotional. Then
Speaker 1: I really just didn't talk about how you miss it.
Speaker 1: Now you don't, but you can still miss the pole
Speaker 1: and let me ask you this. Okay, So you stayed
Speaker 1: with him, He's still doing the same things he was
Speaker 1: doing before. That made you not trust him, So then
Speaker 1: you wanted to go find out again what he was doing.
Speaker 1: And then what And then he broke up with me.
Speaker 1: He should I think he made the right decision. Well,
Speaker 1: if you don't trust somebody and you got to grab
Speaker 1: their phone, it's probably not the best relationship for you
Speaker 1: to be in. And you had his password too. I
Speaker 1: had it the first time. The second time I was
Speaker 1: trying to get into it. I ain't fine enough about
Speaker 1: to see. You know, the I phone, you can see
Speaker 1: like you can see who called, but you really can't
Speaker 1: get in there. So I've seen people calling him. But
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you, some man, that's why. This is
Speaker 1: why the first thing the police officers tell you is
Speaker 1: you have the right to remain silent. You know what
Speaker 1: told us about five or six different inconsistencies in this story. Man,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. This sounds like a very unpeaceful relationship.
Speaker 1: Have a good day before you get locked up. If
Speaker 1: I was, if I was the officer, you'd be going
Speaker 1: to jail with no bel Get it off your chests.
Speaker 1: It's the breakfast club, the morning, the breakfast club. This
Speaker 1: is your time to get it off your chest. Whether
Speaker 1: you're man from you on the breakfast club, but you
Speaker 1: got something on your mind. Love this okay, easy talk
Speaker 1: to us. Get it off your chests, ye'all. I want
Speaker 1: to know why you want to trying to make you
Speaker 1: thron on the radio every morning? Man, who's flirting? I
Speaker 1: don't flirt with that man. No talking about if we
Speaker 1: did it behind the scenes, that would be actually gay
Speaker 1: and cheating on our wives. Huh. It's getting to be
Speaker 1: doing it on every morning. No, it's not. You show
Speaker 1: our kids don't want to hear it. Hear what two
Speaker 1: men flirting with each other every day? Who flat with you?
Speaker 1: And both of y'all marriage? Yeah, we flirt this morning, bro,
Speaker 1: y'all women don't care about it. When do we have
Speaker 1: you had breakfast this morning? Huh? You know, I just
Speaker 1: got to eat what you ask some sausage, little be sausage,
Speaker 1: turkey sausage. How long was the link pork sausage? What
Speaker 1: are you talking breakfast? He just asked what you have
Speaker 1: for breakfast? He has maybe like a hot dog in
Speaker 1: the morning. We just asked it this morning. No, not yet,
Speaker 1: not yet. I'm gonna have me a nice hard listen,
Speaker 1: I'm having a nice hard boiled egg breakfast. I don't
Speaker 1: you just ask me what I'm happy for breakfast. I
Speaker 1: don't have a problem with it. I think I am
Speaker 1: gonna have some sausage in a little bit as eat it.
Speaker 1: We're not flirting on the air. Why are you calling
Speaker 1: up here flirting with us right now? You sound jealous.
Speaker 1: You have to your kids, man. My kids don't listen
Speaker 1: in the morning. But I'm not flirting with no man anyway.
Speaker 1: What about a salad? You you feel like you want
Speaker 1: to toy salar? How do you kids teachers feel about
Speaker 1: you trying with another man? Your kids teach feeling about you?
Speaker 1: I don't know. I gotta ask him, but I don't
Speaker 1: flirt with enough man. Man, that's ship, man, that's ship
Speaker 1: for y'all to be doing it this morning. We love you, brother,
Speaker 1: have a great day. Well he kissed, You're not gonna
Speaker 1: kissim back. I'm trying Hello, Hello, who's this yo? What's up?
Speaker 1: This is Kyler calling back? Tyler, good morning, calling back
Speaker 1: from when good morning? I called it in yesterday? Man,
Speaker 1: Charlottage cut me off because I didn't appreciate his attitude.
Speaker 1: I didn't cut you off. How I cut you off?
Speaker 1: You cut no? No, no, you cut me off? Bro?
Speaker 1: Whoever did read? I was up there trying to get
Speaker 1: it off my chest. I was having a rough hell
Speaker 1: of a weekend, you would like to say, Charlotte mane
Speaker 1: and all I was trying to do with this. But
Speaker 1: the world know, y'all. I was like, all you have
Speaker 1: to say was many, I'm gradual, alive, king, That's it.
Speaker 1: That was not me that cut you half brother. I
Speaker 1: don't and whatever whatever cut you off. I don't even
Speaker 1: control the phone, dad, Tyler good like I'm said, right. Hey.
Speaker 1: All I'm saying is I got a clothing brand man,
Speaker 1: and I'd appreciate the support because I did lose my
Speaker 1: job a couple of weeks ago, and I'm just trying
Speaker 1: to get my brand off the ground so I can
Speaker 1: eat out here. You feel me? What's the name of
Speaker 1: the brand where it is called Dingo? Dan goes here
Speaker 1: on nine two five. I remember that you got his
Speaker 1: car shows Y's what I'm saying. I know you remember.
Speaker 1: Everyone knows it right now? He said, everybody knows it,
Speaker 1: and a lot of people know it. A lot of people,
Speaker 1: don't you feel me? But We're gonna be worldwide real stone,
Speaker 1: and I would appreciate the all support. Our website is
Speaker 1: dnngos do you on nine two five dot com. I'd
Speaker 1: appreciate any and all support, man for real. I'm just
Speaker 1: trying to do my thing out here, trying to beat
Speaker 1: and start my own legacy and build something from my family.
Speaker 1: That's all I'm trying to do, man, Yes, sir, get
Speaker 1: it off here chest the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. If you missed the Breakfast Club, you don't
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Speaker 1: Everybody is d d j Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy.
Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. We got a special guests
Speaker 1: in the building, the living Legend Master p Yes, sir,
Speaker 1: what's up? Y'all came up with sneakers Now, I don't
Speaker 1: sneak de Zions. That's what we're doing. This is man.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Zion might have Nike or dealers,
Speaker 1: but guess what I got these let the print, that's
Speaker 1: the that's that's the leper, that's the high end fashion
Speaker 1: design ever replied for the twenty million dollar I'm just
Speaker 1: saying asking, you know what if that's on him? Though? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what I tell you all the time, you
Speaker 1: got to make product. We're not Nike, we don't own
Speaker 1: none of that stuff. While we can't do this, and
Speaker 1: that's what this about us creating away an opportunity for us. Now,
Speaker 1: Essence must have felt amazing for you this year because
Speaker 1: you guys did the screening for I Got the Hook
Speaker 1: Up too, and it's sold out. Yes, So what was
Speaker 1: it like screening that movie? There? Did he call you?
Speaker 1: I was call I ain't get a call. He was
Speaker 1: down there too. Juju hit me and she was like, hey,
Speaker 1: y'all know y'all was invited, y'all. I bumped into Tyler
Speaker 1: pair right, that's what I'm thinking, like, I don't really know, bro,
Speaker 1: I'm like, man, get out your feelings. Like I was
Speaker 1: thinking like we had a run into something. No, I
Speaker 1: don't even like it's just the spirits wasn't right, you know,
Speaker 1: like you're from all of you think now I'm doing movies.
Speaker 1: I guess maybe like, man, now you're doing movies now
Speaker 1: with up. But I've been doing movies. So I bumped
Speaker 1: into him, and I'm thinking, gonna be Yeah, big brothers,
Speaker 1: I'm proud of you. The movie that the hook up to,
Speaker 1: you know, the big screening was big. The whole city
Speaker 1: showed up. You know, it was just like awkward, like
Speaker 1: like it was scared or something like like Bro, you know, like, man,
Speaker 1: I'm happy for you know, it's enough opportune it for
Speaker 1: all us because really I tell people all the time,
Speaker 1: it's really not that much money for us to make
Speaker 1: and filmmaking because we don't own that. I heard the
Speaker 1: speech he said on BT and all that, man, but
Speaker 1: that's what we talked maybe because seven years ago we
Speaker 1: talked like, look, many let's hook up and do something.
Speaker 1: But then you don't show up. But that's my first
Speaker 1: time I'm seeing them. I forgot about it all that.
Speaker 1: So I'm just like, man, look, I'm thinking it's gonna
Speaker 1: be you know, like we took the city over like
Speaker 1: you said. Yeah, But it was like, I don't know, dog,
Speaker 1: like you invite him. See he was, man, he ain't
Speaker 1: get invited. Y'all know, y'all could just show up. He know,
Speaker 1: he could just show up. But I'm sure it was packed.
Speaker 1: It was crazy, to be honest with you know, we
Speaker 1: brought Hollywood to New Orleans and we did something that
Speaker 1: is history because you know, this movie is owned by
Speaker 1: me and Romano as a fading son of starring this
Speaker 1: film and also financing. Like I say, it's only five percent.
Speaker 1: I mean you know this five percent of all the
Speaker 1: production owned, but African America ninety five percent. We don't
Speaker 1: that mean we don't own nothing. So you see us
Speaker 1: on all these big films and all these big projects,
Speaker 1: but real money is in the production. You know. Even
Speaker 1: with me, I watched something like they don't really want
Speaker 1: us to own the production part. They want us to
Speaker 1: be in front of the camera. I had to really go,
Speaker 1: you know, take one. I just wanted to check it out.
Speaker 1: So I took a project like a no limit project,
Speaker 1: even to like a BT like man, it was just
Speaker 1: hard to get it through the system. Even though I
Speaker 1: got the money and every that don't matter. It was
Speaker 1: like and I when got another person of another color
Speaker 1: to goal and went right through, I'm like, that's crazy.
Speaker 1: That's crazy to me, you know. And I'm just like,
Speaker 1: it's like you. I seen when you are when you
Speaker 1: had Connie on me because I talked to Conny too,
Speaker 1: and I'm telling I'll be telling, like, you know what,
Speaker 1: you really have to get involved in this and really
Speaker 1: be about to change, because I see when you asked
Speaker 1: about the Nipsey husing, you didn't go to in detail whatever.
Speaker 1: I like what you said, like was Nipsey up for
Speaker 1: that before he passed? And she told you no, you know,
Speaker 1: And I was like that was crazy because a humanitarian
Speaker 1: or what like, we've been in the community for years
Speaker 1: over twenties something years, you know, Snoop Dog and y'all
Speaker 1: know Nipsy and my dog like that's my boy. But
Speaker 1: I'm like, man, give people they flowers, why they're here.
Speaker 1: You don't just get caught up into the hype thing.
Speaker 1: But you know what you remember Nipsey Daddy was trying
Speaker 1: to say that, why y'all didn't get that up to
Speaker 1: my son while he was Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I just think that everybody get caught up whatever hot
Speaker 1: instead of doing what's right. And that's my thing with
Speaker 1: Connie that I'm gonna talk to him about if she
Speaker 1: wanted to talk. Not as cool, but it's like, you know,
Speaker 1: you gotta be real, you gotta be real, you can't
Speaker 1: do this. This man deserved a lot of this stuff
Speaker 1: while he was here. And I just think that for
Speaker 1: the Humanitarian Award, that was a big thing for you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like last year that last year, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't even think they knew who he was last
Speaker 1: year and he got into it with the guy at
Speaker 1: the thing. They was acting like they ain't no slam Okay.
Speaker 1: So that was me and fifty cent. We wasn't even
Speaker 1: ben to get into the BT Award this year. Think
Speaker 1: about it. And then his music, but was crazy. His
Speaker 1: music was incredible last year. The year before that, it
Speaker 1: was the best rapper album. Yeah, I said that numerous
Speaker 1: and guess what why you get it this year because
Speaker 1: that was already pass the same album that's sold fifty
Speaker 1: two thousand copies when he first came out two years
Speaker 1: ago and not going to million. So I just I
Speaker 1: just feel like man us as people, we gotta be real.
Speaker 1: Like you said, we've seen the thing with Tyler Perry
Speaker 1: talk about ownership. But man, look, we gotta be real
Speaker 1: with each other. We gotta come together, we gotta stop.
Speaker 1: You know, we can't be faking with each other. I
Speaker 1: think maybe I remember I said in an interview one time,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't put no dresses on. That's the truth. I
Speaker 1: don't care who it is. I ain't putting no dresser
Speaker 1: on and make no money. That's just me. But it's
Speaker 1: not meaning to nobody. So I don't know if people
Speaker 1: take that the wrong way or whatever. That's just me
Speaker 1: as a man. All Right, we got more when we
Speaker 1: come back. This's the Breakfast Club. The Lord taking you
Speaker 1: back back with the classic. It's the Breakfast Club. Was
Speaker 1: a podcast, The Breakfast Club. If you missed The Breakfast Club,
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Speaker 1: this rewe Morning. Everybody's DJ mvy Angela Yee. Charlemagne, the
Speaker 1: guy we are. The Breakfast Club was still kicking it
Speaker 1: with Master P. Charlemagne. Now what about when you own
Speaker 1: your own stuff the way Tyler does. Because I used
Speaker 1: to think that way about Tyler. But I was like
Speaker 1: that he was putting the dress on because he wanted to,
Speaker 1: not because somebody made him too. That's what I don't
Speaker 1: care about that, That's what I'm saying. So I feel
Speaker 1: like we all got out piures like I Got to
Speaker 1: Hook Up Too. I mean, this is a big movie
Speaker 1: for us. This is a movement. This is not just
Speaker 1: a movie like they don't own this because you gotta.
Speaker 1: You gotta realize, man, why it's so important when we
Speaker 1: do a project like Black Panther. We didn't benefit off
Speaker 1: of that man like people, we look at us. Black
Speaker 1: people was in the movie. We was hal being excited,
Speaker 1: but it wasn't us. Yeah, so this is even though
Speaker 1: a movie like this, So think about this a movie
Speaker 1: like I Got to Hook Up Too. We did this
Speaker 1: for the budget we did it for and we did
Speaker 1: it for millions of dollars. But imagine if we had
Speaker 1: hundreds of millions of dollars to make a project, how
Speaker 1: would it look. So this is the growth. This is
Speaker 1: why this is important because we're coming back into the
Speaker 1: community that putting money back into the community. But it's
Speaker 1: a process. We got to grow with it, just like
Speaker 1: I did with music. I just didn't jump straight out
Speaker 1: it made hundreds of millions of dollars. It was a
Speaker 1: process because the production has to get bigger and bigger.
Speaker 1: So that's why I was saying, we have to support
Speaker 1: us because this is only one A few words about
Speaker 1: to go at. You spoke about Nipsey. He got a
Speaker 1: song on the soundtrack and he said recorded it two
Speaker 1: days before his death. Yeah. So one thing about Nipsey Man,
Speaker 1: he was always a stand up guy. It's probably one
Speaker 1: of the one of the most uh realist guys. I
Speaker 1: meant that if I asked him for something, he gonna
Speaker 1: sit it, he gonna get it done. He gonna going
Speaker 1: no question, no talk, and uh he looked up to
Speaker 1: you though. Yeah, he used to say no used to
Speaker 1: call his label No Limit of the West. Yeah you
Speaker 1: know what, And let me tell you how med him.
Speaker 1: I met him with this uh with with with low
Speaker 1: from Chicago. He moved out there in the in the
Speaker 1: calory with fifteen hundred. He hooked us up. Say, man,
Speaker 1: look you know you out in La Man, you're Nipsey
Speaker 1: to get together and when we got to the studio, Maddie,
Speaker 1: we just started making songs. I think we made like
Speaker 1: over seventeen eighteen songs just just just dropping him. So
Speaker 1: you know, we had we had remixed that that rapping
Speaker 1: up soon too. We had remix supposed to be me
Speaker 1: Jeezy Boosey and jay Z. So they get done, it's done.
Speaker 1: It's done, So they're probably gonna put that out. But
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying, man, these record companies, we gotta stop.
Speaker 1: We gotta stop all these people from controlling what we had,
Speaker 1: you know, because even right now, look all the money
Speaker 1: they're making off of them. It's his kids really gonna
Speaker 1: get that. How long the process? How do how do
Speaker 1: that take? You know, because now you're dealing with a
Speaker 1: state that you're dealing with record companies. So that's why
Speaker 1: I was saying, we have to take control because I mean,
Speaker 1: he was with Atlantic Records at the same time, you know,
Speaker 1: So those are the type of things I was trying
Speaker 1: to show him when he was alive, like look man,
Speaker 1: and he was doing it. But it's just sad tragic
Speaker 1: to where you know, you come from somewhere and you
Speaker 1: die in that same hood, and that's my thing to
Speaker 1: educate the next generation that we have to figure out
Speaker 1: how can we you know, educate ourselves even about the
Speaker 1: environments that we're in, because it's about putting putting things
Speaker 1: in our community, but it's also about surviving and living
Speaker 1: to be able to you know, to be there to
Speaker 1: mix show. I mean his kids, you know, his girl
Speaker 1: as mom is dad. I mean, this is a tray.
Speaker 1: Just man, this guy should still be here today. You
Speaker 1: told page six you would get more respect if you're
Speaker 1: a white business man. Well you've been speaking on that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what the sad thing about it, I was
Speaker 1: saying that for like even after least and entertainers like,
Speaker 1: well we'll talk. We don't want to give us what
Speaker 1: we do because our skin color and which it's sad
Speaker 1: or either like like what we were talking about when
Speaker 1: we talked about Kodak will give this guy ten or
Speaker 1: fifteen percent not even thinking about it. But with us,
Speaker 1: we gotta or well what this fun? I mean, I mean,
Speaker 1: if I'm gonna get you a deal, I deserve a percentage.
Speaker 1: Yeah that's just business. Yeah, you don't even ask the
Speaker 1: white man no question nothing, just like right now, I
Speaker 1: mean just like you're saying it's like I think even
Speaker 1: with him, I think after he get out of jailist time,
Speaker 1: he's gonna wake up and see that these lawyers are
Speaker 1: ribbing them. They are taking this money. I mean he
Speaker 1: even posts it up. It's like, so those are type
Speaker 1: of things, but you know the law. You're gonna come
Speaker 1: back and say, well, man, he was talking about the
Speaker 1: lip now man that man. No, after a while, you
Speaker 1: will see sometimes guard gonna put you through something and
Speaker 1: you're gonna see maybe you at the stage and you're
Speaker 1: like where you don't want to see that, But you
Speaker 1: will eventually grow up and start saying, man, well how
Speaker 1: much this because they're not doing it for free, any
Speaker 1: of those lawyers. I mean, whether NBA, Young Boy and
Speaker 1: Jail whoever in jail right now. Those lawyers are not
Speaker 1: working for free. They're gonna get their money off top.
Speaker 1: They're gonna suck every quarter you got until you donna
Speaker 1: have them them more than they're gonna forget about you.
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Speaker 1: and she's like, yes, geez, because I will be benefiting
Speaker 1: from it, thank you very much. Yea, I might have
Speaker 1: to have some kind of agrievance sign so I don't.
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, if I'm at the point where
Speaker 1: I will pay for a man's enhancement, my relationship to
Speaker 1: be pretty solid. Imagine a man leaving you the gold
Speaker 1: another girl, then you have to run down on the
Speaker 1: other girl and say I bought that d I paid
Speaker 1: for those inches wownes. Hello, who's this shit? Boy? Lily? See? Man?
Speaker 1: That joll actually sound crazy though. I actually just watched
Speaker 1: the video the other day or some dude talking about
Speaker 1: it on on some other podcasts, and I was just like, man,
Speaker 1: just love yourself, man, like for real, for real. You
Speaker 1: wouldn't get nothing in your abs done on nothing, nah
Speaker 1: dog nah. I mean you got to maintain it, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So it's not even just like
Speaker 1: getting it done, you know what I'm saying, Because I mean,
Speaker 1: if you get it done, then you ain't gonna work
Speaker 1: out every day and you know, do your thing for real,
Speaker 1: eat healthy. You know what I'm saying. All that stuff,
Speaker 1: I mean, it's gonna be pointless. That's real, true healthy.
Speaker 1: And I mean, hello, who's this crazy? Like you said,
Speaker 1: what's your name? Hello? Who's this hey? Good morning? Oh
Speaker 1: what's your name? Bro? My name is real one? One. Now,
Speaker 1: if you had the opportunity, would you would you add
Speaker 1: to your penis real one? Um? Nah, I wouldn't do it.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't add any inches or nothing like that. Like
Speaker 1: I'm pretty good while I'm at It's like, yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: definitely sure. I'm definitely say that until you get to
Speaker 1: get certificate for five free inches. Nah, because what if
Speaker 1: it starts some mess with how you feel? Like I
Speaker 1: can't feel it anymore, like it won't make names and
Speaker 1: that's a nerving the exactly like it's I don't think
Speaker 1: it's worth it. I don't think it's worth it at all.
Speaker 1: And then the whole act thing, it don't make no
Speaker 1: sense either, because if you're not eating right, you're gonna
Speaker 1: you're gonna lose it anyway. That's right, eating McDonald loosing everything,
Speaker 1: you don't make no sense, Rick whatsoever. You're not gonna
Speaker 1: change your habits in your lifestyle after you get that,
Speaker 1: it's pointless. Yeah, you waste some money, all right, thank you? Okay,
Speaker 1: so it's a hard note for you. Let's go to
Speaker 1: another called the last one. Hello, who's this calling from
Speaker 1: out of Peter's bird game? Okay, Jake, your girl just
Speaker 1: called and she said that she she thinks that you
Speaker 1: need a couple of inches, So would you do it?
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that. I'm not doing that. You gotta
Speaker 1: work with what you've got. Man, you gotta be girl
Speaker 1: what you've got, I will say. Women always getting you know,
Speaker 1: they tell me tucked and a couple of inchest cut
Speaker 1: off and they ain't doing the work we're doing in
Speaker 1: the gym. So I would do that. But as far
Speaker 1: as with with my manhood, I'm just going to just
Speaker 1: be the best of what I got. All right, You're
Speaker 1: gonna have some abs with a little penis. Everybody not
Speaker 1: not not blessed down there, So okay, I'm sorry. Yeah,
Speaker 1: every everybody you're good at you're good at other things. Man,
Speaker 1: you're good at other things. I'm gread at everything. You
Speaker 1: know what's sad about this? Man? You know? You know
Speaker 1: how they say if you appreciate what you got, you
Speaker 1: will get blessed with more. That doesn't apply to penis us.
Speaker 1: All goodness, great, what's the ball of the story. I
Speaker 1: just said it. That's it, And you sounded really sad
Speaker 1: saying it. Definitely, I thank God for I thank God
Speaker 1: for it. All. All right, it's the breakfast club, good morning,
Speaker 1: the breakfast clubs. And it wasn't my ass, it was
Speaker 1: the mode of a ass. Yes, I thought it was
Speaker 1: the mold of your actual No. No, And then what
Speaker 1: about when they touch each other and stuff that's never
Speaker 1: happened that we don't touch me, don't touch You've never
Speaker 1: seen them touch that hasn't happened. No, you want to
Speaker 1: tell me something I need to know. No, they like
Speaker 1: rub up, brush against each other. If they're walking out
Speaker 1: the door trying to rub up against each other, we
Speaker 1: don't ever do it. They're going the revolving door together.
Speaker 1: That happened one time. Explain that it was stupid. I
Speaker 1: don't even know how that happens. Really, it was really stupid.
Speaker 1: It was really that it had to be very intentional.
Speaker 1: It wasn't. I don't even know how. And then one
Speaker 1: makes his way walking around was so stupid. Giggle all
Speaker 1: the way through it. You just added insulting you sitting
Speaker 1: there in the one slot giggling together. Oh man, anyway
Speaker 1: back to the matter at hand, real life, real love.
Speaker 1: What is that magic that holds y'all together? You think
Speaker 1: you know? Um? Whenever I find that people come to
Speaker 1: our house or are around us. I think they're kind
Speaker 1: of surprised at how much fun we have together. I
Speaker 1: find him to be very charming and charismatic um and
Speaker 1: one of the things that I love most about him
Speaker 1: is his boyish nature. So we really have a lot
Speaker 1: of fun together, and we always have since we first met.
Speaker 1: The first week we spent together, I thought to myself, Wow,
Speaker 1: he's a lot of fun. Like he's he's like a friend,
Speaker 1: you know, And that's part of the magic. You knew
Speaker 1: that this was the person that you can spend the
Speaker 1: rest of your life with. After about two weeks of
Speaker 1: knowing him, Yes, before you even spent a day together,
Speaker 1: I explain, before before we even spent a day together.
Speaker 1: When I first when I first seen you, I mean
Speaker 1: I wrote in a book that I thought you were
Speaker 1: beautiful and amazing. In the first time I saw you
Speaker 1: were actually running track and for people I don't know,
Speaker 1: you know, tracks track like that the Outfit and you
Speaker 1: know GA had you know, big double ds, and I
Speaker 1: would stop basically stalker outside and just watch a run
Speaker 1: track and watch a breast bottle like that word don't
Speaker 1: say stalk, you know, wasn't stalking. Yeah, but that's actually
Speaker 1: what he was doing. It was actually stalking. And I
Speaker 1: would see him. I would see him this bitting with
Speaker 1: his friends in this bright blue con Edison van because
Speaker 1: that's what his parents bought him to trans to transfer
Speaker 1: his DJ equipment from Sweet sixteen to See sixteen. And
Speaker 1: I would see it parked behind the fence. I'm thinking myself, like, Yo,
Speaker 1: why is this van there every day? Yeah? It was
Speaker 1: black blue. He wasn't low, he was not low. And
Speaker 1: he emerged Actually, babe, do you remember one day, like
Speaker 1: he emerged from the van and approached me and kicked
Speaker 1: it and I was like, oh, so you're that weird
Speaker 1: though we both kids. Yeah, she was fifteen, I was sixteen.
Speaker 1: We went to the same high school. So so. And
Speaker 1: but you say that you knew that she was going
Speaker 1: to be your wife, like right away? You think it
Speaker 1: was before y'all even spoke, when he was just stalking her.
Speaker 1: We actually know when we actually spoke, and you know,
Speaker 1: I found out how you know, beautiful she was inside
Speaker 1: and outside, and how smart she was and caring and
Speaker 1: she was just that she was the one. She was
Speaker 1: the most beautiful thing I've ever seen in my life,
Speaker 1: and the most precious things. So I was like, this
Speaker 1: is going to be my wife. I want people to
Speaker 1: get the book, but I do want, you know, to
Speaker 1: explain how do you keep reinventing the relationship when you
Speaker 1: start that young? Now interviews fifty something, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, you're much much younger, But how how do
Speaker 1: you keep how do you reinvent? How do you keep reinventing?
Speaker 1: And I think that that's part of the magic. We
Speaker 1: don't have to try. We don't intentionally. We do a
Speaker 1: lot of things intentionally and deliberately, but we don't intentionally
Speaker 1: reimagine the relationship and act on that. The only thing
Speaker 1: that I would say that we're um good about is
Speaker 1: keeping it sexy and making sure that that part of
Speaker 1: our relationship doesn't get too monotonous and doesn't get stale.
Speaker 1: So we have a lot of fun in that space. Um,
Speaker 1: but we don't have to think, like, God, how am
Speaker 1: I gonna stop being bored of you? Or how am
Speaker 1: I going to get to a point where you don't
Speaker 1: annoy me anymore? He legitimately does not annoy me. I
Speaker 1: look forward to his phone calls every day and we
Speaker 1: probably speak on the phone about maybe eight or nine
Speaker 1: ten times a day because he's away a lot, you know.
Speaker 1: So he calls me on his way to the breakfast club.
Speaker 1: He calls me in his way home from the breakfast club.
Speaker 1: He calls me. If something happens, he calls me incessantly
Speaker 1: it's and I'm never like, oh you again. I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh it's him again. You know. It's just that feeling
Speaker 1: that I've always had, that no matter what ups or
Speaker 1: downs we were going through, that never left me. Now,
Speaker 1: he told us a story about the cowboy outfit. He
Speaker 1: told you about that. Wait wait, wait the cowboy outfit
Speaker 1: in college? The asses chats that no ass chat. They were, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you tell this about Oh wait, we're showing Did you
Speaker 1: actually tell him like on error private? He did? Because
Speaker 1: if it was in private, this is a whole double cross, right,
Speaker 1: dressed as a cowboy and his he had Okay, I
Speaker 1: remember that. After he told the story, he goes, not
Speaker 1: like when we were in college. Yeah, we went through
Speaker 1: a stage where we were doing like a lot of
Speaker 1: role play and one night I dared him to be
Speaker 1: a cowboy. So we went and got to cowboy half.
Speaker 1: It had like the big brown hat and then he
Speaker 1: had like the little holsters and everything and big. Do
Speaker 1: you remember I took pictures? Where are those? Are they
Speaker 1: in the book? He about maybe, um, three years after
Speaker 1: he made me physically burn them on the grill. Wow,
Speaker 1: he put them on the grill and told me how
Speaker 1: to light it. Yeah, they don't exist. Don't you wish
Speaker 1: you still had that? No, but y'all talk about role
Speaker 1: play in the book. You said he likes to put
Speaker 1: on the rock nation paper plane heat and he goes,
Speaker 1: what's my name? And he wants you to say jiggle.
Speaker 1: I didn't contribute to that chapter. Okay, that wasn't my work. No,
Speaker 1: I didn't do it. Okay, So wait they really so
Speaker 1: he wasn't lying they were askless chaps. Yeah, yeah, he
Speaker 1: had a whole. It was a whole thing. I just
Speaker 1: pulled the ua Yugia. He did not tell us that.
Speaker 1: Damn it. To get my book and you will learn
Speaker 1: a slew of tactics how to get what you want
Speaker 1: out of life. Okay, it was a holster by the way,
Speaker 1: they were holsters. Yeah it was. It was a whole,
Speaker 1: but it was some other dress up things. You go right, Um,
Speaker 1: it was more so me, okay, dressing up and he
Speaker 1: was just like the recipient of that that that was
Speaker 1: a one little and that's why it was a dare
Speaker 1: because it was kind of supposed to be a joke.
Speaker 1: But he never really dressed up one time I was nursing.
Speaker 1: He was a doctor. That was one. Did you really
Speaker 1: burn the pictures? I really did, really in front of him. Wow,
Speaker 1: you didn't have negatives? Were going to share that goes
Speaker 1: left in our relationships? I had that I will ruin
Speaker 1: this entire reputation. I would never be able to work again.
Speaker 1: And I question over to a new audience. All right,
Speaker 1: we got more with my wife's Guia Casey. When we
Speaker 1: come back. We're talking out new book that's out right now,
Speaker 1: Real Life, Real Love. So don't go anywhere as the
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee,
Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got
Speaker 1: a special guest stealing the building, my wife, Gia Casey.
Speaker 1: We're talking about our new book, Real Life, Real Love,
Speaker 1: Life Lessons on Joy, Pain and the Magic that holds
Speaker 1: us together. You could pick it up today, or you
Speaker 1: can get it on an audible and kin doing or
Speaker 1: wherever you get your books. Yee. How is it for
Speaker 1: both of you reading this book together. Some of it
Speaker 1: was fun, It was nice to be creative and get
Speaker 1: your thoughts down on paper. It was work, but a
Speaker 1: lot of it was difficult. I'm a very open person. Rashaan,
Speaker 1: I think had a difficult time because he had to
Speaker 1: relive a lot of the negative things that transpired in
Speaker 1: our relationship. And he can tend to be surface in
Speaker 1: some respects where you ask him a question, he gives
Speaker 1: you an answer. I'm a lot more of an in
Speaker 1: depth person, you know. I think critically about things, and
Speaker 1: when we would go over these chapters that he's assigned
Speaker 1: to write, I would ask him questions like Okay, you
Speaker 1: can't just answer it with a yes or a no
Speaker 1: or a simple blanket like one question would mean ten
Speaker 1: more questions to really get to the meet. And you know,
Speaker 1: I had to keep reiterating, we're writing this book so
Speaker 1: that people have something tangible, a reference point for them
Speaker 1: to make changes in their lives if necessary, or to
Speaker 1: recognize that the person that you're with needs to make
Speaker 1: changes in their lives. And it was a journey. It
Speaker 1: was a journey, but I think it was difficult. I
Speaker 1: had to relive a lot of the f boy I
Speaker 1: put you through, and you don't. You forget about a
Speaker 1: lot of it because you don't have to relive it.
Speaker 1: But then when you start, no, you forget about I
Speaker 1: forget nothing. I think that's the point though, right, because
Speaker 1: it's like, we don't realize how much we do hurt
Speaker 1: are women when we do? Yeah? I think so. I
Speaker 1: don't think we realize how deep that. That sounds like
Speaker 1: an oaky doke to me. No, I don't think we
Speaker 1: until you actually sit down and have those you know,
Speaker 1: uncomfortable conversations. You don't realize how much you your wife
Speaker 1: cheated on you and told you that she would have
Speaker 1: no idea how much that it stood to hurt you.
Speaker 1: Would that makes sense to you? Probably not? But I
Speaker 1: mean men don't make sense. You believe that you believe
Speaker 1: that you're born inherently with like a deficit, not a deficit.
Speaker 1: But I just don't comment sense. I don't think we.
Speaker 1: I don't think we're thinking about it, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Like we like that's the sad part. It's
Speaker 1: selfish and that's what that's what keeps you from doing
Speaker 1: it in the future. You know what I mean? Because
Speaker 1: you do not want to hurt the woman that you love.
Speaker 1: And it's so because I saw that with my pops,
Speaker 1: like I saw the pain that that caused my mom
Speaker 1: with his infidelity, So in my mind, I was like, damn,
Speaker 1: I'm about to do make the same mistake. So I
Speaker 1: think it is difficult when you got to relive it
Speaker 1: because you don't want to talk about it because you
Speaker 1: don't want to trigger you. You know some people if
Speaker 1: I don't get triggered though, Yeah, but that s no.
Speaker 1: Once I got to a point, and it was a process.
Speaker 1: Once I got to a point where I accepted that
Speaker 1: it was my job to move on because I decided
Speaker 1: to forgive him, and because because he had done all
Speaker 1: of the work and then some to regain my trust
Speaker 1: to earn grace from me. Um, I got to a
Speaker 1: point where I no longer wanted to punish and I
Speaker 1: didn't have that you to hurt. And any time that
Speaker 1: I felt any type of way, I'm aide sure that
Speaker 1: he felt some type of way. So once I learned
Speaker 1: how to forgive, and that was a process because I
Speaker 1: wasn't necessarily a forgiving person before everything was very black
Speaker 1: and white to me, not very much gray, but once
Speaker 1: I learned and I understood that that's what was expected
Speaker 1: from me of God, I had to commit to that
Speaker 1: and do my best to live up to what forgiveness meant.
Speaker 1: And that's what set me free. Because when you forgive,
Speaker 1: you don't forgive to ease the burden from the other person.
Speaker 1: You forgive to ease the burden from you. Well, the
Speaker 1: work you guys did together, like you had to work
Speaker 1: on forgiveness and when you said, Okay, I'm gonna, you know,
Speaker 1: have to move on from this. But what was the
Speaker 1: work that he did that let you know, Okay, he's serious,
Speaker 1: and you know I can finally just say I'm not
Speaker 1: getting triggered anymore. I'm going to let this go. One
Speaker 1: of the first things was I realized that he understood
Speaker 1: the impact of what had happened. What he did, He
Speaker 1: understood it. He didn't just accept it and was accountable
Speaker 1: for it, but he actually understood. He would do things
Speaker 1: that a lot of men wouldn't do. He would sit
Speaker 1: there through those eight hour conversations locked in a room.
Speaker 1: He answered every question that I had, and I had
Speaker 1: a lot of questions, and he answered them all truthfully.
Speaker 1: And you know, when you ask somebody a question and
Speaker 1: you can tell by their answer, because I mean, the
Speaker 1: answers weren't pretty. There weren't things that I would have
Speaker 1: wanted to hear. He went through all of the sufferation,
Speaker 1: as I call it, and he did it until because
Speaker 1: a lot of guys, when they mess up, and I
Speaker 1: mean a lot of them have told me. I have
Speaker 1: friends and that have gone through it. It's like, listen,
Speaker 1: I did it. I apologize. I said I was never
Speaker 1: going to do it again. I mean that ish, but
Speaker 1: it's like every day I'm being punished, I'm being punished,
Speaker 1: I'm being reminded. It's like, let it go, I apologize,
Speaker 1: Like what more do you want from me? Blood? He
Speaker 1: never took that approach with me. It was the until
Speaker 1: until you are good, until you are healed. If I
Speaker 1: have to be a punching bag, I will be that.
Speaker 1: If I have to be a doormat, I will be that.
Speaker 1: I will do anything that it makes to survive this
Speaker 1: because I cannot be without you. And he proved it
Speaker 1: every single day. It was as though and he was
Speaker 1: like this before, but it was even more so during
Speaker 1: this time. It was as though he communicated to me
Speaker 1: that the only thing that he wanted was to make
Speaker 1: me happy. And that's pretty much how he lives his life.
Speaker 1: He lives his life every day waking up thinking like, damn,
Speaker 1: how can I make ge his life easier today? How
Speaker 1: can I make g a happier today? But to answer
Speaker 1: your question, it was the until. It was the indefinite,
Speaker 1: and it was the willingness to do any and everything
Speaker 1: to earn what he lost back. And he was there
Speaker 1: ever a question in your mind. I know there was
Speaker 1: a point when you thought, no matter what I do,
Speaker 1: she's never gonna take me back. There ever a time
Speaker 1: when you were like, if you cry in front of
Speaker 1: your wife, catch that little field. At that point, you know,
Speaker 1: I didn't know what was going to happen, but I
Speaker 1: was like, I have to be honest or at least
Speaker 1: get my friend back, you know. Um. And at that point,
Speaker 1: I you know, I didn't know what GEAR was gonna do.
Speaker 1: I thought it was a rap. But I was like,
Speaker 1: I still wanted my friend. I still wanted somebody I
Speaker 1: can talk to, you know, I still wanted a relationship,
Speaker 1: whether that we can bounce me like that. She's all
Speaker 1: I knew since I was sixteen. So I still wanted
Speaker 1: my friend back, and that could have been forever beef.
Speaker 1: But you know, it's interesting that you didn't kick him
Speaker 1: out of the house. You were still polite to him,
Speaker 1: you still wanted to maintain a co parenting friendship. I
Speaker 1: feel like that hurts more when you're like, we're not
Speaker 1: having sex and I might end up with somebody else
Speaker 1: one day, but you know we're cool. That hurts more
Speaker 1: that I think sometimes in just completely like being nasty
Speaker 1: to somebody and cutting them off. Yes, well, when I
Speaker 1: found out divorce was imminent, it was never a question.
Speaker 1: I was raised by a very strong mother who taught
Speaker 1: me that if a man ever disrespects you to that degree,
Speaker 1: then you walk. So it didn't matter how much I
Speaker 1: loved Rashaan and how much I would have missed him,
Speaker 1: and it didn't matter if I cried every night. It
Speaker 1: did not matter one iota how I felt. The only
Speaker 1: thing that was important to me was that I operated
Speaker 1: with my head and not my heart, and that I
Speaker 1: did what I always said that I was going to do.
Speaker 1: So when I found out, when it was confirmed for me,
Speaker 1: and you can read the book and see the entire
Speaker 1: want to get the entire story, but when he confirmed it.
Speaker 1: We were in a parking lot, and when I drove
Speaker 1: away from that parking lot, it was a few days
Speaker 1: before Christmas, and his mother was at the house helping
Speaker 1: me decorate because we were hosting that year. But I
Speaker 1: walked into the house and I told her, I said,
Speaker 1: Christmas is canceled. And she said Christmas is canceled. And
Speaker 1: I said, well, I just found out that Rashawn cheated
Speaker 1: on me and we're getting a divorce, so there's not
Speaker 1: gonna be any Christmas this year, at least I'm not hosting.
Speaker 1: It's wild that people actually canceled Christmas. I thought that
Speaker 1: was just a fig speech. No, No, I happened we
Speaker 1: canceling Christmas. Yeah, Christmas, well, in the sense of us hosting.
Speaker 1: I wasn't going to cancel it for our children, but
Speaker 1: you know, we didn't have to decorate for thirty people
Speaker 1: to come over. And my lovely mother in law, my mama, UM,
Speaker 1: she defended her beautiful son with everything that she could
Speaker 1: because pretty much um. And when she said something to
Speaker 1: that effect, I said, but for the fact that he
Speaker 1: just told me that it was true. And he came
Speaker 1: home maybe twenty or thirty minutes later, and it was
Speaker 1: a whole thing right. But I was adamant that we
Speaker 1: were getting a divorce, that contacted an attorney, had an attorney.
Speaker 1: It was decided. But thankfully there were a whole host
Speaker 1: of things that happened that that convinced me that God
Speaker 1: had other plans. I wellttle movie got more with Gia Casey,
Speaker 1: we're talking out a new book, Real Life, Real Love.
Speaker 1: Let's get into Mary J. Blige joint. Here's Real Love
Speaker 1: is the Breakfast Club, Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ
Speaker 1: Envy Angela Yee. Charlomagne, the guy we are to Breakfast
Speaker 1: Club was still kicking in with Gia Casey. We're here
Speaker 1: talking about our new book, Real Life, Real Love. Charlomagne,
Speaker 1: what did God say to you? You know, I wasn't
Speaker 1: raised with this um deeply instilled faith where I felt
Speaker 1: as though I knew God and I lived differently because
Speaker 1: I didn't know God in that way. So when God
Speaker 1: revealed himself to me, and he may have tried for years,
Speaker 1: you see, but I wouldn't have I didn't speak his language.
Speaker 1: I would have never been able to interpret God trying
Speaker 1: to reach out to me. So I really believe that
Speaker 1: this happened so that me, particularly, not even Rashawn, so
Speaker 1: that I could be humbled. When God spoke, he spoke
Speaker 1: through other people, and when he found when I found
Speaker 1: out what happened. It's funny we were being approached for
Speaker 1: reality shows at the time, and when he took someone's
Speaker 1: terrible advice to apologize to me on the radio and
Speaker 1: make our personal woes private. Yeah, our personal woes public.
Speaker 1: I didn't know though. I didn't know what he was
Speaker 1: going through. He bed being in laying on the I
Speaker 1: didn't know what he'd be like out of it. I'm like, know,
Speaker 1: what the is your problem? I didn't know what it was.
Speaker 1: So as I'm proud of him, like, what the hell
Speaker 1: is going on? I didn't know that was coming. Oh okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I didn't know that I was the one to apologize.
Speaker 1: You didn't know what apologize. You would literally coming here
Speaker 1: and be like laid out on the floor in the
Speaker 1: fetal position the whole show, Like he would not be
Speaker 1: here with us, he wouldn't be present, and I just
Speaker 1: knew something was wrong. So no, I was like, when
Speaker 1: he gets on the air, I'm going to ask him
Speaker 1: on the air with the because his problem because I
Speaker 1: was tired of asking him behind the scenes, and so
Speaker 1: I asked him on the air. I didn't know that
Speaker 1: was coming though. It's terrible idea, but maybe it was
Speaker 1: the same dose of common sense that you guys are
Speaker 1: talking about. Men man think differently. Yes, But when it
Speaker 1: was made public, my one of my best friends, his
Speaker 1: name is Rashid. He's the husband of my other best friend,
Speaker 1: her name is Sasha. He called to see if what
Speaker 1: he had heard was true because he thought that maybe
Speaker 1: it was just something being drummed up because we're supposed
Speaker 1: to be on a reality show or something like that.
Speaker 1: And when he called us said, no, everything that you
Speaker 1: heard is absolutely true. It's it's a terrible story. Um,
Speaker 1: as you said. You know, Rashawn was circling the drain
Speaker 1: at that time, and Rashid decided to come to New
Speaker 1: York from California because he in LA. But we had
Speaker 1: a very a horrible event happened at our home and
Speaker 1: you can read about it in above. Rushi didn't like me. Rushi,
Speaker 1: you know, he always thought our relationship with toxic, which
Speaker 1: you were too controlling. He thought I was too controlling,
Speaker 1: which I was at so he didn't like me. So
Speaker 1: the fact that he flew in to try to save
Speaker 1: this relationship meant a lot, because he already didn't like me.
Speaker 1: I thought, you said, Tarisse saved the relationship. Well, well
Speaker 1: what happened was he flew in and I didn't want
Speaker 1: him there because our marriage was ending and I just
Speaker 1: wanted to be by myself. But he insisted. He said,
Speaker 1: I'm pulling into I'm applying into New York New York
Speaker 1: International Airport at such and such a time, coming at me.
Speaker 1: I went and I got him, and that was the
Speaker 1: start of the biggest change that we that we needed
Speaker 1: to go to go through. He came to our house
Speaker 1: and um, I said, why are you here? And he said,
Speaker 1: God sent me here. I said, of all people, you,
Speaker 1: you're the only person in our lives that didn't champion
Speaker 1: our marriage. You're the only one that ever told me
Speaker 1: that maybe he's not the right person for me. Why you,
Speaker 1: he said, Gia, I don't know. I've been praying since,
Speaker 1: like out a phone with you. After that, terrible thing happened,
Speaker 1: and I walked into my boss's office, told him I
Speaker 1: had to take a leave of absence, went home, packed
Speaker 1: a bag and got on a plane and headed here,
Speaker 1: and it's only through the assignment of God. God spoke
Speaker 1: to me. I said, so, what does that mean, Like,
Speaker 1: are you hearing voices? Like, what do you mean God
Speaker 1: spoke to you? And he said to me, when God
Speaker 1: speaks to you, it's as though he puts an overwhelming
Speaker 1: feeling on your heart. And when he tells you to
Speaker 1: do something, you don't ask any questions. You just do it.
Speaker 1: I said, well, basically, I'm have to wrap my mind
Speaker 1: around that because I didn't have the tools to really
Speaker 1: understand that. And he stayed with us for about maybe
Speaker 1: ten twelve days, and he taught us a lot about
Speaker 1: God and faith and spirituality and what assignment was. And
Speaker 1: he brought in his past or. Her name is Sister Nancy.
Speaker 1: She had the same feedback from God when she prayed.
Speaker 1: And this was all new to me, and I was
Speaker 1: actually very angry because now I have people in my
Speaker 1: life that I respect and love that are telling me
Speaker 1: that I have to stay in a relationship that I'm
Speaker 1: adamant on getting out of. And it was very, very heavy.
Speaker 1: I can't describe to you how heavy it was and
Speaker 1: how insistent he was in his assurance of what God
Speaker 1: communicated to him in the Fast Boy Tyrese same thing.
Speaker 1: I didn't know. You know, we knew Tyres for coming
Speaker 1: up here do an interview, but I didn't know tyresead
Speaker 1: I have his number. He didn't have a new song.
Speaker 1: But when he heard me on the radio that day,
Speaker 1: he called and wanted to speak to Gia, and you
Speaker 1: can read in the book because he got us together.
Speaker 1: But he said the exact same thing, like Tyres and
Speaker 1: Rashid was speaking to each other, and it was kind
Speaker 1: of like those two were the ones to really save
Speaker 1: my marriage and they didn't know it. To the Gia,
Speaker 1: you had asked where a sign? Well, that was the thing,
Speaker 1: because I was so angered by what I was hearing, like, oh,
Speaker 1: i was victim being cheated on. Now I'm being victimized
Speaker 1: again by God telling me that I have to stay
Speaker 1: in a relationship that I'm adamant about leaving. I don't
Speaker 1: understand this, and and I'm not a big crier, but
Speaker 1: one day I was taking a shower and I began
Speaker 1: to cry, and I began to pray in the way
Speaker 1: that I was learning how to pray, and I asked
Speaker 1: God for a sign that I can interpret for myself.
Speaker 1: So at least it would feel as though I was
Speaker 1: making my own decision and a decision wasn't being made
Speaker 1: for me. So I damn near begged for a sign.
Speaker 1: And then shortly after tyrese cold Rashwan and asked for
Speaker 1: him to set something up and we went to Phelipe Chaw's.
Speaker 1: He came in with a backup singer and a guitarist.
Speaker 1: He performed Stay just for Rashaan and I. Then he
Speaker 1: sat down for about four hours and we had a
Speaker 1: conversation and he tried to explain to me how a
Speaker 1: man can love you and still cheat at the same time,
Speaker 1: because I didn't really understand that. But at the end
Speaker 1: of the conversation I asked him, I said, you know,
Speaker 1: why are you here? Didn't You don't even know if
Speaker 1: I'm a good person. You don't know if this relationship
Speaker 1: is even worth salvaging. Why would you do that? You
Speaker 1: didn't know, Rashwan, you have no dog in this fight.
Speaker 1: You have nothing to gain or lose. You're supposed to
Speaker 1: be at a wedding somewhere else. You change your flights
Speaker 1: to be here. Why, he said, God sent me here
Speaker 1: to do this? I said, what do you mean God?
Speaker 1: Sent you here to do this. He said, God sent me.
Speaker 1: I said, are you hearing voices? He said no, and
Speaker 1: then he reiterated verbatim exactly what Rashid said to me
Speaker 1: in my kitchen that day, and I had to ask him, tires,
Speaker 1: I said, is that like in the Bible? Is what
Speaker 1: you just said? Is that like a thing that people know?
Speaker 1: And he said no, I'm just telling you how I feel. Like,
Speaker 1: what do you mean? And at that moment, I just
Speaker 1: like threw my hands up and I said, like, okay,
Speaker 1: and I looked at Rashawn and I said, I forgive you.
Speaker 1: I don't know what that means. I will work on
Speaker 1: this with you. I don't know how long that will take.
Speaker 1: I will you what I'm now believing is required of me.
Speaker 1: But We're going to be in for a ride because
Speaker 1: I'm not really there. But I can commit to you
Speaker 1: in this moment because there is not that much coincidence
Speaker 1: in the world for what just happened. Thank you, got Yes,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm sorry to my wife too. I just
Speaker 1: feel like apologize. I'm sorry. We got more with my
Speaker 1: wife's Guia Casey. When we come back, we're talking out
Speaker 1: new book that's out right now, Real Life, Real Love,
Speaker 1: So don't go anywhere. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning Morning.
Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the Guy. We
Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest Steal
Speaker 1: in the building, my wife Gia Casey. We're talking about
Speaker 1: our new book, Real Life, Real Love, Life Lessons on Joy,
Speaker 1: Pain and the Magic that holds Us Together. You could
Speaker 1: pick it up today, or you can get it on
Speaker 1: an audible and kin do it or wherever you get
Speaker 1: your books. Yee, And let me ask you, because you know,
Speaker 1: for women we always are like and like you said,
Speaker 1: Tyres was having a conversation, O, man can't cheat on
Speaker 1: you but still love you. Yeah, but why, Like you know,
Speaker 1: that's something that for women we always want to know.
Speaker 1: And I'm sure you had so many conversations. I still
Speaker 1: don't like his answer. I don't necessarily agree with what
Speaker 1: Tyre said. I really feel that until you know the
Speaker 1: definition of what love really means. I think a lot
Speaker 1: of times people just say I love you, and oh,
Speaker 1: it's oh, I love you. But until you understand the
Speaker 1: definition of what love means, then you realize I don't
Speaker 1: if I love somebody like I say, you don't want
Speaker 1: to hurt them. You don't want to cheat on them,
Speaker 1: you don't want to disrespect them, you don't want to
Speaker 1: have them looking crazy because you love that person. And
Speaker 1: I don't think I knew the definition of love. But
Speaker 1: when I figured that definition of what love is and
Speaker 1: what gear meant to me, you know, you realize I
Speaker 1: don't want to hurt her. I don't want to see
Speaker 1: her cry, I don't want to see her feel a way.
Speaker 1: I don't want to disrespect that. I don't want to
Speaker 1: be controlling. I don't want to be any of those things.
Speaker 1: And when you realize what that definition is, you your
Speaker 1: outlook of life changes. I agree with it me and
Speaker 1: I'll add on because I've explored this in therapy to
Speaker 1: when you say, oh, you can cheat and still love
Speaker 1: a person, you might, but you don't really love yourself. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think a lot of times and not a lot
Speaker 1: of times. All the time men cheat for ego. Oh
Speaker 1: like that's it. It's wounded ego. It's something that we're lacking.
Speaker 1: It has nothing to do with all wives, nothing to
Speaker 1: do with our girlfriends. It's something that we feel like
Speaker 1: we're lacking for whatever reason, and that's what we go
Speaker 1: and do. It's literally just to feed all ego. Nothing
Speaker 1: like you think cheat for the same reason as men,
Speaker 1: or you think it's different, Like when women cheat, you
Speaker 1: think they cheat for different reasons. I think women also
Speaker 1: cheat for ego. Who doesn't like to have the attention
Speaker 1: of the opposite sex, you know, especially when you are
Speaker 1: at a deficit and you do have holes and you
Speaker 1: need those holes filled and most people have slight holes,
Speaker 1: you know, not that you're out there thirsty for the
Speaker 1: attention of the opposite sex, but even if it's of
Speaker 1: the same sex, when someone pays you a compliment, like
Speaker 1: it's nice to be wanted, is essentially what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So for women, yeah, I mean I think that if
Speaker 1: you're with someone and you cheat, I think a big
Speaker 1: part of it is ego. But then you know, you'll
Speaker 1: have people that say that they cheat because the person
Speaker 1: at home isn't doing what they're supposed to do, you know.
Speaker 1: And we have a son, Logan, he's eighteen, so he's
Speaker 1: starting to date seriously and whatnot now. And I had
Speaker 1: a conversation with him the other day and I said, listen,
Speaker 1: if you commit to a girl and you make her
Speaker 1: your girlfriend. One thing I do not want you to
Speaker 1: do is cheat. Do not come to me and tell
Speaker 1: me that you guys broke up because you cheated on her,
Speaker 1: Because I've raised you better than that. If you decide
Speaker 1: that you want something else or she's not satisfying whatever
Speaker 1: needs you have, break up with her and move on
Speaker 1: to the next. And if within a week you feel
Speaker 1: the same way about that girl, break up with her
Speaker 1: and move on to the next. Do not cheat, because
Speaker 1: you're sacrificing your own integrity when you do that, and
Speaker 1: that's pretty much a sign of really not loving yourself.
Speaker 1: When you love yourself, you want to be self actualized.
Speaker 1: You want to be your best self. You want to
Speaker 1: reach your highest potential. You want to be a kind,
Speaker 1: a good person, and you owe that to yourself. You
Speaker 1: don't necessarily owe it to the other person. You owe
Speaker 1: it to yourself to do those things. And that's what
Speaker 1: I'm trying to instill in him as my oldest male child.
Speaker 1: You know, one of the biggest things I think that
Speaker 1: came out of this was all the work that he
Speaker 1: did do on himself, and he was suicidal at a point.
Speaker 1: That's that's that's what we know that right. Yes, I
Speaker 1: don't think that was all because of what we were
Speaker 1: going on with you. I think it was, like I said,
Speaker 1: it was other things that he was dealing with inside
Speaker 1: of him that probably got him to that point. Yes,
Speaker 1: we would have to ask him, because we've never had
Speaker 1: a conversation of it being about anything besides the threat
Speaker 1: of losing our relationship. I would say this. I would say,
Speaker 1: you know, I used to look at people who committed
Speaker 1: suicide as so often sucker, like that's because that's what
Speaker 1: society made you think. Until I got into that predicament
Speaker 1: where I felt like my life, well everybody's life around me,
Speaker 1: would be better if I wasn't here, and I couldn't
Speaker 1: shake it. And the majority of it was losing my wife,
Speaker 1: losing my family, losing the thing that I knew when
Speaker 1: that I love UM, and I really feel like I
Speaker 1: didn't want to be there, and and I guess it
Speaker 1: was everything else that we said, like the insecurities that
Speaker 1: made me do it, the insecurities around me, and I
Speaker 1: just didn't know who I was as a person who
Speaker 1: that's powerful. UM. I will say during all of that
Speaker 1: and all those conversations and all those late night talks
Speaker 1: and with praying, you feel like you realize who you
Speaker 1: are as a person. And once you figure that out,
Speaker 1: you figure out who you want to be, who you
Speaker 1: want to who you want to live like, and you
Speaker 1: don't care about anything else. You know, at one time
Speaker 1: I used to care what people thought. Now I don't care.
Speaker 1: As long as my wife and my family's happy. Everything
Speaker 1: else is just white noise behind it. Just think about
Speaker 1: how much stronger you guys are as individuals, and your
Speaker 1: marriage is so much stronger after everything you've been through.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah, yeah if he said something powerful
Speaker 1: to because this business, this business will have you living
Speaker 1: a lie. Because we're characters, right, So we create these
Speaker 1: characters that kind of protect their Sean and protect the
Speaker 1: Lenard and we're going we go home and we're one way,
Speaker 1: but then we're out in the street being another way.
Speaker 1: You can't do both. Eventually that negative is gonna catch up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So that's that's why I think he was going through, like,
Speaker 1: not only just the thread of losing you, but just like,
Speaker 1: who am I? What's that hard for you? Having this
Speaker 1: dual personality? Almost absolutely, because I mean, like, nothing's better
Speaker 1: now than to not care what people think. You know,
Speaker 1: I would have to free the freedom. I would have
Speaker 1: to think about what I was saying in a radio
Speaker 1: and how would affect me, how people would look at me.
Speaker 1: I would have to think about this or think about
Speaker 1: that instead of just being free and say, hey, it
Speaker 1: is what it is taking. How you like it. If
Speaker 1: you like me, like me, If you love me, you
Speaker 1: love me. If you hate me, you hate me. And
Speaker 1: once I got to that that place, life became a
Speaker 1: whole lot better. See a lot of gems in this
Speaker 1: Fuck you guys, I was thoroughly entertaining. Like I said,
Speaker 1: I look stressed. I think he's been nervous all morning
Speaker 1: before you got The book is out today, Go get
Speaker 1: it man. Make sure you pick it up. Real life,
Speaker 1: real love, Getting today life lessons on joy, pain, and
Speaker 1: the magic that holds us together. That's right, Amazon, Barns
Speaker 1: and Nobles, wherever you buy books, your local bookstores. Please
Speaker 1: pick it up today, and when you do read it,
Speaker 1: you read it please. What we want you to do
Speaker 1: is we want you to tell us what you think
Speaker 1: about the book, whether it's a thirty second video taggy
Speaker 1: and now we want to repost it, whether you love it,
Speaker 1: whether you hate it. We're going to repost all of
Speaker 1: them because we'd love to get you guys' feedback. And
Speaker 1: I think there's y'all gonna help a lot of couples.
Speaker 1: And it's clear that y'all two are meant to be
Speaker 1: with each other, you know what I'm saying. One of
Speaker 1: my favorite chapters is called the New Deal, and it's
Speaker 1: pretty much about reparations that the offender has to make
Speaker 1: after offending their partner. And it's those things that will
Speaker 1: help to let to signal to your partner that you
Speaker 1: just may be worthy of forgiveness and being extended grace.
Speaker 1: So what are those reparations? The first thing people will say, Oh,
Speaker 1: that's why he does the Twelve Days of Christmas. You
Speaker 1: know that's right. A lot of people do say. But
Speaker 1: you know what's funny, and that's the funny thing. We've
Speaker 1: always done twelve Days of Christmas. We just never made
Speaker 1: it public. And it's not the type of thing that
Speaker 1: at first I ever wanted to make public because it
Speaker 1: is grand. But I decided to start posting it because
Speaker 1: it's not about the material items that he gives me
Speaker 1: for Christmas. It's about the intention behind it. It's about
Speaker 1: the thought. You know, he starts shopping almost a year
Speaker 1: in advance for that, and every gift comes with something special,
Speaker 1: a little note, a little treasure hunt to find the gift,
Speaker 1: a prayer, a poem, something that is giving of his heart,
Speaker 1: not giving of his pocket. And that's why when you,
Speaker 1: you know, you read the book and you hear y'all talk,
Speaker 1: that's why you understand why he got so upset at
Speaker 1: these and merrow correct, you know what I'm saying, because
Speaker 1: y'all relationship is so much deeper. Of course, you know,
Speaker 1: because with their comment, it almost to me suggests as
Speaker 1: though there's nothing else worthy about him that would signal
Speaker 1: me to stay aside from what he has to offer financially.
Speaker 1: And it's a joke, right, but we all know that
Speaker 1: all jokes are rooted in some truth. And that's what
Speaker 1: I think their truth was. Looking at it from an outsider,
Speaker 1: I wasn't some jackie complately and met somebody with money
Speaker 1: and was like, oh, come up. We ground it out
Speaker 1: from day one. I was always there and supporting him
Speaker 1: and loving him. And if he failed and wound up
Speaker 1: being a secretary or anything followed another path, I would
Speaker 1: still be there yet it took a beat to get that.
Speaker 1: I just can't believe what are you talking. I'm just
Speaker 1: suggesting other career options that I can't believe it with me.
Speaker 1: My wife had he like, you're disrespectful real life. Really,
Speaker 1: thank you for having me, guys pick it up today.
Speaker 1: And uh, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. No, you
Speaker 1: gotta tell this guest I love you before you sign off. Yes, Casey,
Speaker 1: thank you for joining us. I love you. I love
Speaker 1: you way more. To Charlava, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning.
Speaker 1: It's time for Donkey of the Day. So being Donkey
Speaker 1: of the day a little bit of a mixture, so
Speaker 1: like a donkey the other day club bitches. Now I've
Speaker 1: been called a lot of my twenty three years. That
Speaker 1: Donkey of the day is a new wife. Donkey of
Speaker 1: the Day goes to a twenty nine year old woman
Speaker 1: in Louisiana named Jenna Lisa Lawrence now Genna Lisa Lawrence's
Speaker 1: wanted for attempted second degree murder. Her bond is one
Speaker 1: hundred and fifty thousand dollars, and police believe she fled
Speaker 1: from Louisiana to Dallas because that's where she's from, or
Speaker 1: that that's what they thought. She's actually turned herself instance,
Speaker 1: then uh, second degree murder. Well what did this young
Speaker 1: queen do to catch that charge? Well, Genna Lisa is
Speaker 1: what I like to call a peace disruptor, an agitator
Speaker 1: of auras, the type that cannot allow a spirit to
Speaker 1: just be still. Oh yes, we all have those kinds
Speaker 1: of people in our lives. Do you understand that? Forty
Speaker 1: two years old, all I want to do is protect
Speaker 1: my peace by any means necessary. My mental health diet
Speaker 1: is very important. If what I'm taking in does not
Speaker 1: nourish my mental health, I don't allow it. In my space.
Speaker 1: My peace is non negotiable. I'm not going anywhere I
Speaker 1: don't want to be. I'm not doing anything I don't
Speaker 1: want to do, and I'm damn sure not going to
Speaker 1: talk or be around anyone I don't want to be with. See,
Speaker 1: some people like Genna Lisa just want to argue. I
Speaker 1: know the type. They into your space and can't wait
Speaker 1: to get into a back and forth with you. Now,
Speaker 1: I love me a good debate, okay that, but sometimes
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, I don't. And that's why
Speaker 1: sometimes when people text you certain things looking for a debate,
Speaker 1: an argument, a backing forth, whatever you want to call it.
Speaker 1: If I don't ignore it completely, I just reply back. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's growth. But see that's not enough for a piece
Speaker 1: disruptor like Genna Lisa. No, no, no, people like that
Speaker 1: will not stop until you go back and forth with them.
Speaker 1: And as a wise man named Little Duval once told us,
Speaker 1: I'm living my best life. Ain't going back and forth
Speaker 1: with you? That ain't going back and fourth part is
Speaker 1: very important. But once again, an agitator of ours like
Speaker 1: Genna Lisa, she's not having it. She won't stop until
Speaker 1: she transfers that negative energy that exists within her into you.
Speaker 1: That's the law of energy, kids, Sir Isaac Newton said
Speaker 1: it best. The law of energy is energy is never
Speaker 1: lost and destroyed, just merely transfer from one party to
Speaker 1: the next. And that's exactly what Jenna Lisa was trying
Speaker 1: to do. See according to Action News Too in Atlanta,
Speaker 1: Genna Lisa was upset because her boyfriend refused to argue
Speaker 1: with her. Did you hear me? Jenna Lisa was upset
Speaker 1: because her boyfriend refused to argue with her. Jenna Lisa,
Speaker 1: do you know how many women would love to have
Speaker 1: a man who doesn't argue with them. Do you know
Speaker 1: how many women would love to have a man who
Speaker 1: didn't pick a fight about every little thing. There's some
Speaker 1: women driving the work right now listening to Donkey at
Speaker 1: the day, angry because then man picked a fight with
Speaker 1: them last night, our first thing this morning, they was
Speaker 1: arguing about something stupid. I promise you, this quarantine has
Speaker 1: tested the strength of so many relationships, has tested the
Speaker 1: patience and so many relationships, and so many people have
Speaker 1: sat around and asked themselves repeatedly, what are we arguing
Speaker 1: about now? Because they have a significant other who absolutely
Speaker 1: positively always has to find something to argue about. Meanwhile, Jenna, Lisa,
Speaker 1: you have a man who doesn't want to argue with you.
Speaker 1: He's probably chanting to himself, spiritually disciplined brother who's trying
Speaker 1: to be the best version of himself, Okay, attempting to
Speaker 1: have heightened energy and more sensitivity towards us. This nice,
Speaker 1: compassionate boot a chance, just listen. Oh yes, just protecting
Speaker 1: his space, okay, protecting his true protecting his peace and
Speaker 1: then bound this happens. Let's go to kas La News
Speaker 1: twelve for the report police. A man is fighting for
Speaker 1: his life tonight, and the woman police believer is responsible.
Speaker 1: It is twenty nine year old Gina Alicia Lawrence. She
Speaker 1: is allegedly the strange girlfriend of a thirty four year
Speaker 1: old man that was shot. Lawrence allegedly shot him following
Speaker 1: a dispute. She left the area and a green Honda
Speaker 1: Accord with primer on the left passenger side front door.
Speaker 1: Right now, police have a warrant charging Lawrence with attempted
Speaker 1: second degree murder. That's right. Gena Lisa shot her boyfriend
Speaker 1: simply because her boyfriend didn't want to argue with her.
Speaker 1: You see how negativity works. Do you see how negative
Speaker 1: energy works? Genner, Lisa's boyfriend didn't do anything to her.
Speaker 1: She wasn't mad at him, She was mad at herself.
Speaker 1: Whatever hurt she had inside of her, she passed on
Speaker 1: to him, because that's what hurt people do. Hurt people,
Speaker 1: healed people. Healed people, hurt people, hurt other people. I
Speaker 1: respect the boyfriend because clearly he's father along in his
Speaker 1: journey of healing than she is. Because she likes discomfort
Speaker 1: so much, she likes disruption so much that she was
Speaker 1: upset her boyfriend wouldn't give her back what she was
Speaker 1: trying to serve him. Oh, you're just gonna walk around
Speaker 1: hit peaceful. You just gonna be happy in my presence.
Speaker 1: What's going so good in your life that you don't
Speaker 1: want to argue with me? What is this hakunam a
Speaker 1: tide of thing you talking about? Let me tell you
Speaker 1: what that is, Genna Lisa. It's called making a choice.
Speaker 1: And when you are protecting your piece, you have to
Speaker 1: make the choice to not allow anybody to make you angry.
Speaker 1: Don't let them disturb your peace of mind or upset.
Speaker 1: You don't give your power away to another king or queen.
Speaker 1: You decide your mood, not them. Jenna Lisa, you tried it,
Speaker 1: and every other piece disrupt that out there. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: pray for you. I want you to get healing. And
Speaker 1: to all my brothers and sisters out there that are
Speaker 1: attempting to be the best versions of themselves, living their
Speaker 1: best lives, protecting their peace, I want to tell you, please, please,
Speaker 1: please protect your peace today and every day. Rise above
Speaker 1: any ignorance and don't allow someone else's misery to steal
Speaker 1: your joy. Please give Jenna Lisa Lawrence the sweet sounds
Speaker 1: of the Hamletones. Oh now you are gee da gee
Speaker 1: oh the day? Ye all right, well, thank you for
Speaker 1: that down key today Charlo Mane. That's right. The breakfast
Speaker 1: Club up in the morning. Check out this breakfast club.
Speaker 1: We want morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela yee. Charlemagne
Speaker 1: the guy. We are the breakfast Club. We got a
Speaker 1: special guest in the building, sir her. What's up? Good morning,
Speaker 1: her morning? How are you? I'm good. It's bright and early.
Speaker 1: It is early. You know, I'm not a morning person,
Speaker 1: but I just came back from the UK, so I'm good. Okay,
Speaker 1: So congratulations to you because you've been having a phenomenal
Speaker 1: pass Yeah, thank you, thank you. Yeah, it's been crazy,
Speaker 1: honestly to how many instruments do you play? Um? I
Speaker 1: play mainly guitar, keys, bass, and drums. Damn, let's let's
Speaker 1: talk in again. A lot of people don't know how
Speaker 1: did you get into the music industry. I know you
Speaker 1: were signed at like the age of fourteen. How do
Speaker 1: you start? How did you get into the industry? Man?
Speaker 1: I mean, it's a long story, but I've been doing
Speaker 1: music for a really long time. My dad was a musician,
Speaker 1: just for fun and and um, I was singing as
Speaker 1: a as a young kid, and things just happened the
Speaker 1: way they were supposed to happen. The stars kind of
Speaker 1: aligned for me, and I was doing meetings and stuff
Speaker 1: at a very young age. People saw me, you know,
Speaker 1: singing playing Alicia Keys songs as a young girl, like
Speaker 1: on YouTube and stuff, and um, eventually I got signed
Speaker 1: RCA when I was fourteen, and you know, I had
Speaker 1: the time to develop and figure out who I was
Speaker 1: as a person growing too. Yeah, absolutely, drop, oh pretty much.
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, when you're fourteen, you don't know
Speaker 1: who you are yet, you don't know even who you
Speaker 1: want to be. So I've seen the talent that early. Man.
Speaker 1: I mean, my parents number one, but there were so
Speaker 1: many people MBIK Entertainment, you know, they built Alicia Keys's career.
Speaker 1: Jeff Robinson as my manager. He kind of gave me
Speaker 1: that creative space, and we were kind of like like
Speaker 1: going against you know what, what our cia. You know,
Speaker 1: it was like it was like a push and pull
Speaker 1: as far as what was going to happen for me,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It was like I wanted
Speaker 1: to make sure that I was in complete control of
Speaker 1: my situation as it, you know, my management team, and
Speaker 1: so I had the creative space to just figure out
Speaker 1: myself and figure out my sound and who who and
Speaker 1: what I was going to represent. Can you really grow
Speaker 1: as a human at at fourteen with a record deal? Like,
Speaker 1: can you really grow? And I mean I did because
Speaker 1: I was going to regular school, you know, and then
Speaker 1: I would I would come to New York for like
Speaker 1: a week or two weeks and record and and work
Speaker 1: with people, and then go back to school. You know
Speaker 1: what you're thinking, you know, it's so funny. I just
Speaker 1: I wrote a song called Curious. I wrote about people
Speaker 1: being in my business, like my parents, you know, like
Speaker 1: stuff like that, right exactly, No, No, my boyfriends stuff.
Speaker 1: So you wrote all your own music? Absolutely? Absolutely. I
Speaker 1: was been a writer. I'm a poet you know, as
Speaker 1: well as a writer, and I kind of you know,
Speaker 1: they go hand in hand. And you never got discouraged
Speaker 1: being signed so early and not really take it off
Speaker 1: to No. Absolutely, I mean, you know, after a few years,
Speaker 1: it's like, Okay, when am I going to put out music?
Speaker 1: When am I going to figure this out? Who am I?
Speaker 1: You know, what what am I? What am I gonna do?
Speaker 1: As far as my career is concerned. And so when
Speaker 1: I graduated high school, or before I graduated high school,
Speaker 1: I'm like, am I going to go to college? Or
Speaker 1: am I going to be in this music thing? One
Speaker 1: hundred percent? So there were frustrations there, you know, and
Speaker 1: watching everybody else that was signed to my management company.
Speaker 1: You know, it was Kim Michelle and Brand and Alicia
Speaker 1: Keys and el Varner and all these people, and Justine
Speaker 1: Sky like all these great artists doing their thing and
Speaker 1: me kind of like sitting on the sideline, you know,
Speaker 1: at their shows, kind of like waiting my turn, Like, Okay,
Speaker 1: pretty soon, i'm gonna have music out, I'm gonna be
Speaker 1: doing shows. I'm gonna be doing this, And uh yeah,
Speaker 1: I was just I was being patient, and I finally
Speaker 1: decided like all right, I'm gonna just be in this
Speaker 1: one hundred percent. What your parents supported me? So what
Speaker 1: does a teenager know about patients? Right? What did I
Speaker 1: know about patients? I don't know, man, I just I
Speaker 1: love music so much and there was nothing else I
Speaker 1: wanted to do. I feel I feel like, you know,
Speaker 1: as a young child with the label telling you you
Speaker 1: should be like this and you should be like that,
Speaker 1: Like that would be hard in your formidable years because
Speaker 1: everybody's trying to tell you what to be instead of
Speaker 1: just letting you be. Man, it is definitely definitely difficult.
Speaker 1: That's why I always preach to people like, no matter
Speaker 1: what anybody tells you, surround yourself with people that are
Speaker 1: going to embrace who you are and see the potential
Speaker 1: in what you can be and not what you should
Speaker 1: be or something that is modeled, you know, like something
Speaker 1: that you should be modeled after, you know, or or
Speaker 1: uh manufactured into you know. That was my whole thing,
Speaker 1: Like I'm gonna just find my voice and figure out
Speaker 1: my truth and and you know, presented that what I mean,
Speaker 1: I wasn't so much of a hiding my identity. It
Speaker 1: was more so like focusing on the music. Like I
Speaker 1: didn't want people to know how old I am. I
Speaker 1: didn't want people to know my you know, ethnicity, and
Speaker 1: I didn't want people to like see my face, you know,
Speaker 1: or or have any assumption. You know, we focus on
Speaker 1: all the superficial things and what's happening now, and I
Speaker 1: just wanted people to focus on the music and the message.
Speaker 1: And now people of all ages have kind of taken
Speaker 1: my music and made it their diary, you know, like, oh,
Speaker 1: they feel connected to it because they don't know anything
Speaker 1: about me. You know, all right, we got more with
Speaker 1: her when we come back, don't move. It's a fast club.
Speaker 1: Good morning, taking you back back with the classic work.
Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. This was a podcast. If you
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Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 1: We have R and B recording artists, Hearth now Charlemagne,
Speaker 1: How did your career change when you revealed yourn I
Speaker 1: didn't really reveal it. They were speculating, oh you know
Speaker 1: who that is? Right right? Yes? But I mean I
Speaker 1: never was like, hey, turn out, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Like here, I am right right exactly. I mean, you
Speaker 1: see me a lot more. And at this point, I
Speaker 1: don't think it even matters who I am, what my
Speaker 1: name is, or anything, because people are in love with
Speaker 1: the music. That was the point to begin with it.
Speaker 1: We are still falling in love with it, regardless of
Speaker 1: knowing what I look like or anything. So so nobody
Speaker 1: can slide in your dams. Huh. No, you know you
Speaker 1: can get the little requests. Sometimes you be checking them
Speaker 1: sometimes depends. You know, why why don't you follow nobody?
Speaker 1: Because I'm not really like a you know, I don't
Speaker 1: really be on social media like that mess on her timeline, right.
Speaker 1: I still keep up, you know a little bit. It's
Speaker 1: on the explore page, but I don't really you know,
Speaker 1: people start getting salty, like why I don't follow me back?
Speaker 1: Or why you know you can't follow Daniel Caesar or
Speaker 1: nobody here? No, I'm not following anybody. Do you miss that?
Speaker 1: What's the word? Amen? What's the word? And there you go?
Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about. Sometimes sometimes, um, I
Speaker 1: guess I expected this, you know, I kind of mentally
Speaker 1: prepared for whatever would happen. I'm just happy to do music,
Speaker 1: you know, like it doesn't doesn't matter. I think sometimes
Speaker 1: I do, like I try to be lottle key, you know,
Speaker 1: I take the glasses off because if I have them on,
Speaker 1: then you recognize me and put my hair back walk
Speaker 1: around like wait a minute, that's and I'm like, you know,
Speaker 1: like my cover is blown. So how do you deal
Speaker 1: with relationships? Now? You know, because it's different now now
Speaker 1: they know who you are, they know you're I don't know,
Speaker 1: you know, it's hard to know if somebody really loves
Speaker 1: you for you, you know what, not anymore? You know what,
Speaker 1: there are people out there. Listen that is so negative. True, listen,
Speaker 1: be very very careful, honestly, whatever it is, whatever situation
Speaker 1: I get into, love takes time. When people show you
Speaker 1: who they are, you pay attention corny lines like hey, her,
Speaker 1: I want to be your him. Yeah, they always do that. Actually,
Speaker 1: and artist did come out to her all the time,
Speaker 1: all the time thinking about his corny lines that he
Speaker 1: would have had. What the corny is one? That is,
Speaker 1: how do you respond to that? I don't respond, Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, I can't hear out of the side of
Speaker 1: my head. What made you name yourself after a whole
Speaker 1: pronoun um? So it's kind of a long story. But um,
Speaker 1: when I was, you know, fifteen sixteen, I used to,
Speaker 1: you know, look at the women my high school or
Speaker 1: my big people I would consider my big sisters, and
Speaker 1: I would say, I'm never gonna, you know, make the
Speaker 1: mistakes that they're making. I'm never gonna fall in love
Speaker 1: with this guy and fall for the wrong guy and
Speaker 1: and all this stuff right, and I became her. I
Speaker 1: became that girl. But we have to go through things
Speaker 1: on our own. Sometime. Absolutely, watch people make mistakes, and
Speaker 1: you would wish we could learn from the mistakes to
Speaker 1: other people. But sometimes to find her in something and
Speaker 1: it doesn't, You're like, how did I get here? Exactly here?
Speaker 1: It's like you got a little bit of other women
Speaker 1: in you, so to speak. I mean I would say
Speaker 1: her right. So we all as women when we're you know,
Speaker 1: even from high school to adulthood, we experienced similar changes,
Speaker 1: shared experiences. Right, we have feelings. We've all felt for
Speaker 1: that wrong guy or that guy that was no good
Speaker 1: and we knew it was no good. So it's just
Speaker 1: it's just that connection that all women have. Well, I'm
Speaker 1: from the Bay Area. Bay Area, see people people in
Speaker 1: New York. I always think California is just La. You know,
Speaker 1: had it wrong. I didn't know you from the Bay Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: Valeo forty sly Yeah Yeah. How to nipsies death impact
Speaker 1: you being from the West. Um, it's really sad because
Speaker 1: when you see somebody doing really good for the community
Speaker 1: and they're gone, it's just like you feel like it's
Speaker 1: a missing peace. That's kind of how I felt. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel weird right like this one. This one hits
Speaker 1: a little different. Yeah, this is a bit different. It
Speaker 1: affected everybody in some way, just the energy kind of
Speaker 1: change we all found out. Her got to get up
Speaker 1: out of here. Guy, she's leading him, intes a guy've
Speaker 1: been ignoring the label little bit? What what white? You
Speaker 1: know what? I don't know where are we going? They
Speaker 1: want you to be on time for the white out,
Speaker 1: but just breeze you through the black ones. No, I've
Speaker 1: always made time. That's why I'm still here right now.
Speaker 1: Just think about that. When you go to the next
Speaker 1: out letting you and there with all those white people,
Speaker 1: you'd be like, damn, they really did rush me out
Speaker 1: of the black out let the damn all right? For her,
Speaker 1: Thank you for join, Thank you everything. Thank you so much.
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Speaker 1: What made you say that? With no hesitation? She wait,
Speaker 1: she's waiting for Christmas right now? Absolutely. I mean, I
Speaker 1: mean I don't have a man currently, but I've had
Speaker 1: men in the past that I felt like they could
Speaker 1: have benefited from some enhancement, Like they were perfect in
Speaker 1: all other areas, but they lacked there. And I just
Speaker 1: feel like the same way a man is quick to
Speaker 1: be like here, baby, go get your b beyond there. Hey,
Speaker 1: fred um, a woman should be able to say that too,
Speaker 1: or suggest that he gets enhanced without him feeling offended,
Speaker 1: because then a lot of times they get offended and
Speaker 1: it's like they're different options for you too. Take four
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Speaker 1: needs a penis enhancement that he don't got the money
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Speaker 1: gonna pay for it, and she's like, yes, geez, I
Speaker 1: will be benefiting from it, thank you very much. About
Speaker 1: break up, I might have to have some kind of
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Speaker 1: I'm at the point where I will pay for a
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Speaker 1: a man leaving you the golden mother girl, then you
Speaker 1: have to run down on the other girl and say
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Speaker 1: actually just watched the video the other day of some
Speaker 1: dude talking about it on on some other podcasts, and
Speaker 1: I was just like, man, just love yourself, man, like,
Speaker 1: for real, for real. You wouldn't get nothing you as
Speaker 1: done on nothing? Nah dog nah? I mean you got
Speaker 1: to maintain it, you know what I'm saying. So it's
Speaker 1: not even just like getting it done, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Because I mean if you get it done,
Speaker 1: then you ain't gonna work out every day and you know,
Speaker 1: do your thing for real, eat healthy. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. All that stuff, I mean it's gonna be pointless.
Speaker 1: That's real, true healthy. And I mean, hello, who's this crazy?
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Speaker 1: real one? What's up? One? Now? If you had the opportunity,
Speaker 1: would you would you add some inches to your penis
Speaker 1: real one? Um Nah, I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't
Speaker 1: add any injines or none of the like that. Like
Speaker 1: I'm pretty good while I'm at it, Like, yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: definitely sure. I'm definitely say until you get to get
Speaker 1: certificate for fire free inches, nah, because what if it
Speaker 1: starts the mess with how you feel? Like I can't
Speaker 1: feel it anymore, Like it won't make me laugh, that's true,
Speaker 1: and that isn't nerving the exactly like it's I don't
Speaker 1: think it's worth it. I don't think it's worth it
Speaker 1: at all. And then the whole acting it don't make
Speaker 1: no sense either, because if you're not eating right, you're
Speaker 1: gonna you're gonna lose it anyway. That's right. Eating McDonalds
Speaker 1: and everything you don't make no sense whatsoever. You're not
Speaker 1: gonna change your habits and your lifestyle after you get that.
Speaker 1: It's pointless. Yeah, you waste some money, all right, thank you? Okay,
Speaker 1: so it's a hard no for you. Let's go to
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Speaker 1: Drey and call if I'm not a Peter's bird. Okay,
Speaker 1: d your girl just called and she said that she
Speaker 1: she thinks that you need a couple of inches, So
Speaker 1: would you do it? I'm not doing that. I'm not
Speaker 1: doing that. You gotta work with what you've got. Man,
Speaker 1: you gotta be girl what you've got, I will say.
Speaker 1: Women always getting you know, they tell me talk and
Speaker 1: a couple of inchest cut off and they ain't doing
Speaker 1: the work we're doing in the gym. So I would
Speaker 1: do that. But as far as with with my manhood,
Speaker 1: I'm just going to be the best of what I got.
Speaker 1: All right, You're gonna have some abs with a little penis.
Speaker 1: Everybody not not not blessed down there. So okay, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you mean every everybody you're good at You're
Speaker 1: good at other things, right, you're good at other things.
Speaker 1: I'm gread at everything. You know what's sad about this? Man?
Speaker 1: You know? You know how they say if you appreciate
Speaker 1: what you got, you will get blessed with more. That
Speaker 1: doesn't apply to penis to us. Goodness great? What's the
Speaker 1: ball of the story. I just said it. That's it,
Speaker 1: And you sounded really sad saying it. Definitely. I thank
Speaker 1: God for I thank God for it all. All right?
Speaker 1: This the Breakfast Club. Good morning,