1 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:06,920 Speaker 1: What you're doing. This is your time to get it 2 00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 1: off your chest, whether you're mad or blest eight five 3 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:12,400 Speaker 1: one five one. We want to hear from you on 4 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 1: the breakfast club this man, it's black, Mike gotta doll man, 5 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 1: I said, black lighter, blake black. Oh what's happening now? 6 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:25,799 Speaker 1: What's haying? Man? I want to get off with chance 7 00:00:25,880 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: this morning. Man. Okay, the baby mama's man, they always 8 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 1: did baby daddy. I'll try to did these baby mama's 9 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 1: man who don't want to let the dead again? They 10 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:39,080 Speaker 1: started like the relationships hill man, y'all hear about that 11 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 1: a lot, which I think is whack's whacking. Very selfish man. 12 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 1: There's more than white man. There's a lot of what 13 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:49,560 Speaker 1: Chalomy say, trauma, man, hurt, hurt, that's right. I'm sorry. 14 00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: I'm sorry you're going through that. But they shouldn't hurt 15 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 1: the child. But they shouldn't hurt the child behind that, 16 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 1: because that's that's the only person they hurt in the 17 00:00:57,240 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 1: situation like that by not letting both parents be in 18 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:02,600 Speaker 1: their life. Absolutely, Hello, who's this good morning? This is 19 00:01:02,640 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 1: smart for us? Heyma, see you get it off your chests. Mama, 20 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:07,040 Speaker 1: all right, I just want to give a shout out 21 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:09,480 Speaker 1: to my son tray Vine. Today's is to a birthday. 22 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: He just said twelve out of here and day twelve 23 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:18,120 Speaker 1: out of here and say twelve. Whappy birthday to Trayvon. 24 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 1: All Right, mama, Hello, who's this? This is Jennifer. How 25 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 1: are you? Good morning? Getting off your chests. Yeah, I'm 26 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 1: kind of upset because my boyfriend broke up with me 27 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:32,119 Speaker 1: because I took his cell phone. Watch took your cell phones? 28 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 1: And Patty, I don't know, I don't, I don't know 29 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 1: what happened. I just grabbed the phone and I got 30 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 1: in my car and I just drove off, and then 31 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 1: like at the red light, he was there like keeping 32 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 1: my phone on the question, but why didn't I don't 33 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 1: What do you mean you don't know why you took 34 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 1: his cell phone? You know why you took it? I 35 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 1: took it because I just felt like he was not 36 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 1: being trustful, like truthful. You just weren't too fun to us. 37 00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:58,560 Speaker 1: I know, I know. I'm just saying like he was 38 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 1: always texting and stuff at night and looks like why 39 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 1: are you like who you calling? Who you text it? 40 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 1: So what you're finding? The phone got you? A simple 41 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 1: question exactly. Ask you a simple question. Why didn't you 42 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 1: just wait till he go to sleep and didn't go 43 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:12,239 Speaker 1: through his phone? Like why would you snatch it and 44 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 1: didn't drive off? She had a passport. Y'all watch too 45 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 1: many videos online now, you you know you see these 46 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: videos online when people chasing the girls outside at the 47 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 1: hospital and all the stupid stuff. Me right away, he 48 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 1: didn't even know. I took you like it was sitting 49 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 1: there and I grabbed it. I feel in my pocket. 50 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 1: We talked and I was like, all right, I'm leaving. 51 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 1: I left, and then by the time I got to 52 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 1: the red like he was right behind you. Question, you 53 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:38,359 Speaker 1: didn't get to look at it? No, I didn't. You 54 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 1: you're just lying because first you just said you found nothing. 55 00:02:40,639 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 1: Now you said you don't even get to look at it. 56 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 1: You just a liar. I'm like, no, I'm just how 57 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 1: you found nothing if you didn't even get to look 58 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 1: at it, you liar. People go to jail during the interrogation. 59 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:50,799 Speaker 1: You know you didn't have stuff. Right now, if you 60 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 1: found something, would you leave him? Okay, So this is okay, 61 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be truthful. I took his phone. You're going 62 00:02:57,320 --> 00:02:59,359 Speaker 1: to jail. So you didn't find something what you find 63 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 1: to jail. No, the first time I took this phone, 64 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:07,079 Speaker 1: I found something, okay, and you stayed. Yes, he was 65 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:09,239 Speaker 1: texting some girl telling about they missed each other. And 66 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:11,919 Speaker 1: that's way more messed up because that's more emotional. Then 67 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 1: I really just didn't talk about how you miss it. 68 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:16,959 Speaker 1: Now you don't, but you can still miss the pole 69 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 1: and let me ask you this. Okay, So you stayed 70 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:21,959 Speaker 1: with him, He's still doing the same things he was 71 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 1: doing before. That made you not trust him, So then 72 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 1: you wanted to go find out again what he was doing. 73 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 1: And then what And then he broke up with me. 74 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:32,920 Speaker 1: He should I think he made the right decision. Well, 75 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 1: if you don't trust somebody and you got to grab 76 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 1: their phone, it's probably not the best relationship for you 77 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 1: to be in. And you had his password too. I 78 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 1: had it the first time. The second time I was 79 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 1: trying to get into it. I ain't fine enough about 80 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 1: to see. You know, the I phone, you can see 81 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 1: like you can see who called, but you really can't 82 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 1: get in there. So I've seen people calling him. But 83 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you, some man, that's why. This is 84 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 1: why the first thing the police officers tell you is 85 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 1: you have the right to remain silent. You know what 86 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 1: told us about five or six different inconsistencies in this story. Man, 87 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. This sounds like a very unpeaceful relationship. 88 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 1: Have a good day before you get locked up. If 89 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:07,280 Speaker 1: I was, if I was the officer, you'd be going 90 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 1: to jail with no bel Get it off your chests. 91 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 1: It's the breakfast club, the morning, the breakfast club. This 92 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:18,000 Speaker 1: is your time to get it off your chest. Whether 93 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:22,360 Speaker 1: you're man from you on the breakfast club, but you 94 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 1: got something on your mind. Love this okay, easy talk 95 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 1: to us. Get it off your chests, ye'all. I want 96 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:33,840 Speaker 1: to know why you want to trying to make you 97 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:36,720 Speaker 1: thron on the radio every morning? Man, who's flirting? I 98 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:42,600 Speaker 1: don't flirt with that man. No talking about if we 99 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 1: did it behind the scenes, that would be actually gay 100 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 1: and cheating on our wives. Huh. It's getting to be 101 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 1: doing it on every morning. No, it's not. You show 102 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 1: our kids don't want to hear it. Hear what two 103 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 1: men flirting with each other every day? Who flat with you? 104 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:05,920 Speaker 1: And both of y'all marriage? Yeah, we flirt this morning, bro, 105 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:08,480 Speaker 1: y'all women don't care about it. When do we have 106 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:12,160 Speaker 1: you had breakfast this morning? Huh? You know, I just 107 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 1: got to eat what you ask some sausage, little be sausage, 108 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:21,840 Speaker 1: turkey sausage. How long was the link pork sausage? What 109 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:24,680 Speaker 1: are you talking breakfast? He just asked what you have 110 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 1: for breakfast? He has maybe like a hot dog in 111 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:33,160 Speaker 1: the morning. We just asked it this morning. No, not yet, 112 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 1: not yet. I'm gonna have me a nice hard listen, 113 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 1: I'm having a nice hard boiled egg breakfast. I don't 114 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 1: you just ask me what I'm happy for breakfast. I 115 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 1: don't have a problem with it. I think I am 116 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 1: gonna have some sausage in a little bit as eat it. 117 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 1: We're not flirting on the air. Why are you calling 118 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:53,239 Speaker 1: up here flirting with us right now? You sound jealous. 119 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 1: You have to your kids, man. My kids don't listen 120 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 1: in the morning. But I'm not flirting with no man anyway. 121 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:00,640 Speaker 1: What about a salad? You you feel like you want 122 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 1: to toy salar? How do you kids teachers feel about 123 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 1: you trying with another man? Your kids teach feeling about you? 124 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:08,600 Speaker 1: I don't know. I gotta ask him, but I don't 125 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:12,280 Speaker 1: flirt with enough man. Man, that's ship, man, that's ship 126 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:15,000 Speaker 1: for y'all to be doing it this morning. We love you, brother, 127 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 1: have a great day. Well he kissed, You're not gonna 128 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 1: kissim back. I'm trying Hello, Hello, who's this yo? What's up? 129 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:33,360 Speaker 1: This is Kyler calling back? Tyler, good morning, calling back 130 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 1: from when good morning? I called it in yesterday? Man, 131 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 1: Charlottage cut me off because I didn't appreciate his attitude. 132 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 1: I didn't cut you off. How I cut you off? 133 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 1: You cut no? No, no, you cut me off? Bro? 134 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:45,840 Speaker 1: Whoever did read? I was up there trying to get 135 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:47,840 Speaker 1: it off my chest. I was having a rough hell 136 00:06:47,880 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 1: of a weekend, you would like to say, Charlotte mane 137 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 1: and all I was trying to do with this. But 138 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 1: the world know, y'all. I was like, all you have 139 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:56,720 Speaker 1: to say was many, I'm gradual, alive, king, That's it. 140 00:06:57,600 --> 00:06:59,680 Speaker 1: That was not me that cut you half brother. I 141 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:02,880 Speaker 1: don't and whatever whatever cut you off. I don't even 142 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:06,120 Speaker 1: control the phone, dad, Tyler good like I'm said, right. Hey. 143 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:09,160 Speaker 1: All I'm saying is I got a clothing brand man, 144 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 1: and I'd appreciate the support because I did lose my 145 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:13,320 Speaker 1: job a couple of weeks ago, and I'm just trying 146 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:14,840 Speaker 1: to get my brand off the ground so I can 147 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 1: eat out here. You feel me? What's the name of 148 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 1: the brand where it is called Dingo? Dan goes here 149 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:21,400 Speaker 1: on nine two five. I remember that you got his 150 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:23,239 Speaker 1: car shows Y's what I'm saying. I know you remember. 151 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 1: Everyone knows it right now? He said, everybody knows it, 152 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 1: and a lot of people know it. A lot of people, 153 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 1: don't you feel me? But We're gonna be worldwide real stone, 154 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 1: and I would appreciate the all support. Our website is 155 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 1: dnngos do you on nine two five dot com. I'd 156 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 1: appreciate any and all support, man for real. I'm just 157 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 1: trying to do my thing out here, trying to beat 158 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 1: and start my own legacy and build something from my family. 159 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 1: That's all I'm trying to do, man, Yes, sir, get 160 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 1: it off here chest the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the 161 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. If you missed the Breakfast Club, you don't 162 00:07:55,560 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 1: come from my world. It's dangerous. Check out this rewind morning. 163 00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:03,040 Speaker 1: Everybody is d d j Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. 164 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:05,120 Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. We got a special guests 165 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 1: in the building, the living Legend Master p Yes, sir, 166 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 1: what's up? Y'all came up with sneakers Now, I don't 167 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:15,360 Speaker 1: sneak de Zions. That's what we're doing. This is man. 168 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Zion might have Nike or dealers, 169 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:21,600 Speaker 1: but guess what I got these let the print, that's 170 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 1: the that's that's the leper, that's the high end fashion 171 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 1: design ever replied for the twenty million dollar I'm just 172 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 1: saying asking, you know what if that's on him? Though? Yeah, 173 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 1: you know what I tell you all the time, you 174 00:08:33,040 --> 00:08:35,719 Speaker 1: got to make product. We're not Nike, we don't own 175 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:37,559 Speaker 1: none of that stuff. While we can't do this, and 176 00:08:37,640 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 1: that's what this about us creating away an opportunity for us. Now, 177 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:43,440 Speaker 1: Essence must have felt amazing for you this year because 178 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 1: you guys did the screening for I Got the Hook 179 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:46,959 Speaker 1: Up too, and it's sold out. Yes, So what was 180 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:48,839 Speaker 1: it like screening that movie? There? Did he call you? 181 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:52,199 Speaker 1: I was call I ain't get a call. He was 182 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 1: down there too. Juju hit me and she was like, hey, 183 00:08:54,840 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 1: y'all know y'all was invited, y'all. I bumped into Tyler 184 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 1: pair right, that's what I'm thinking, like, I don't really know, bro, 185 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:14,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, man, get out your feelings. Like I was 186 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:16,959 Speaker 1: thinking like we had a run into something. No, I 187 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 1: don't even like it's just the spirits wasn't right, you know, 188 00:09:19,320 --> 00:09:21,320 Speaker 1: like you're from all of you think now I'm doing movies. 189 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 1: I guess maybe like, man, now you're doing movies now 190 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 1: with up. But I've been doing movies. So I bumped 191 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 1: into him, and I'm thinking, gonna be Yeah, big brothers, 192 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 1: I'm proud of you. The movie that the hook up to, 193 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:33,679 Speaker 1: you know, the big screening was big. The whole city 194 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 1: showed up. You know, it was just like awkward, like 195 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:40,200 Speaker 1: like it was scared or something like like Bro, you know, like, man, 196 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:42,719 Speaker 1: I'm happy for you know, it's enough opportune it for 197 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:44,440 Speaker 1: all us because really I tell people all the time, 198 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 1: it's really not that much money for us to make 199 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 1: and filmmaking because we don't own that. I heard the 200 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 1: speech he said on BT and all that, man, but 201 00:09:53,160 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 1: that's what we talked maybe because seven years ago we 202 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:57,680 Speaker 1: talked like, look, many let's hook up and do something. 203 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:00,160 Speaker 1: But then you don't show up. But that's my first 204 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:02,679 Speaker 1: time I'm seeing them. I forgot about it all that. 205 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:05,680 Speaker 1: So I'm just like, man, look, I'm thinking it's gonna 206 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:07,679 Speaker 1: be you know, like we took the city over like 207 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:10,840 Speaker 1: you said. Yeah, But it was like, I don't know, dog, 208 00:10:10,960 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 1: like you invite him. See he was, man, he ain't 209 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:16,839 Speaker 1: get invited. Y'all know, y'all could just show up. He know, 210 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:21,120 Speaker 1: he could just show up. But I'm sure it was packed. 211 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 1: It was crazy, to be honest with you know, we 212 00:10:23,080 --> 00:10:26,599 Speaker 1: brought Hollywood to New Orleans and we did something that 213 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:30,520 Speaker 1: is history because you know, this movie is owned by 214 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:32,920 Speaker 1: me and Romano as a fading son of starring this 215 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:36,360 Speaker 1: film and also financing. Like I say, it's only five percent. 216 00:10:36,600 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 1: I mean you know this five percent of all the 217 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 1: production owned, but African America ninety five percent. We don't 218 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 1: that mean we don't own nothing. So you see us 219 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:47,319 Speaker 1: on all these big films and all these big projects, 220 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:49,960 Speaker 1: but real money is in the production. You know. Even 221 00:10:50,040 --> 00:10:52,680 Speaker 1: with me, I watched something like they don't really want 222 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 1: us to own the production part. They want us to 223 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:56,679 Speaker 1: be in front of the camera. I had to really go, 224 00:10:57,240 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 1: you know, take one. I just wanted to check it out. 225 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 1: So I took a project like a no limit project, 226 00:11:01,559 --> 00:11:03,959 Speaker 1: even to like a BT like man, it was just 227 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:06,319 Speaker 1: hard to get it through the system. Even though I 228 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 1: got the money and every that don't matter. It was 229 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 1: like and I when got another person of another color 230 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 1: to goal and went right through, I'm like, that's crazy. 231 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 1: That's crazy to me, you know. And I'm just like, 232 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:20,199 Speaker 1: it's like you. I seen when you are when you 233 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:22,200 Speaker 1: had Connie on me because I talked to Conny too, 234 00:11:22,200 --> 00:11:23,679 Speaker 1: and I'm telling I'll be telling, like, you know what, 235 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:26,679 Speaker 1: you really have to get involved in this and really 236 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 1: be about to change, because I see when you asked 237 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 1: about the Nipsey husing, you didn't go to in detail whatever. 238 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 1: I like what you said, like was Nipsey up for 239 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:37,679 Speaker 1: that before he passed? And she told you no, you know, 240 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:41,319 Speaker 1: And I was like that was crazy because a humanitarian 241 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 1: or what like, we've been in the community for years 242 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:46,680 Speaker 1: over twenties something years, you know, Snoop Dog and y'all 243 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:48,679 Speaker 1: know Nipsy and my dog like that's my boy. But 244 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, man, give people they flowers, why they're here. 245 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 1: You don't just get caught up into the hype thing. 246 00:11:55,280 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 1: But you know what you remember Nipsey Daddy was trying 247 00:11:57,760 --> 00:11:59,079 Speaker 1: to say that, why y'all didn't get that up to 248 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 1: my son while he was Yeah, you know what I'm saying. 249 00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:03,719 Speaker 1: I just think that everybody get caught up whatever hot 250 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:06,360 Speaker 1: instead of doing what's right. And that's my thing with 251 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 1: Connie that I'm gonna talk to him about if she 252 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 1: wanted to talk. Not as cool, but it's like, you know, 253 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 1: you gotta be real, you gotta be real, you can't 254 00:12:12,520 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 1: do this. This man deserved a lot of this stuff 255 00:12:14,880 --> 00:12:17,040 Speaker 1: while he was here. And I just think that for 256 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 1: the Humanitarian Award, that was a big thing for you 257 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like last year that last year, Yeah, 258 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 1: I don't even think they knew who he was last 259 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:27,679 Speaker 1: year and he got into it with the guy at 260 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:33,079 Speaker 1: the thing. They was acting like they ain't no slam Okay. 261 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:34,960 Speaker 1: So that was me and fifty cent. We wasn't even 262 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 1: ben to get into the BT Award this year. Think 263 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 1: about it. And then his music, but was crazy. His 264 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:45,920 Speaker 1: music was incredible last year. The year before that, it 265 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:47,880 Speaker 1: was the best rapper album. Yeah, I said that numerous 266 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 1: and guess what why you get it this year because 267 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 1: that was already pass the same album that's sold fifty 268 00:12:54,880 --> 00:12:57,560 Speaker 1: two thousand copies when he first came out two years 269 00:12:57,600 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 1: ago and not going to million. So I just I 270 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:02,679 Speaker 1: just feel like man us as people, we gotta be real. 271 00:13:02,800 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 1: Like you said, we've seen the thing with Tyler Perry 272 00:13:04,679 --> 00:13:06,920 Speaker 1: talk about ownership. But man, look, we gotta be real 273 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:09,720 Speaker 1: with each other. We gotta come together, we gotta stop. 274 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:11,920 Speaker 1: You know, we can't be faking with each other. I 275 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:15,760 Speaker 1: think maybe I remember I said in an interview one time, 276 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 1: I wouldn't put no dresses on. That's the truth. I 277 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:20,720 Speaker 1: don't care who it is. I ain't putting no dresser 278 00:13:20,720 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 1: on and make no money. That's just me. But it's 279 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:25,920 Speaker 1: not meaning to nobody. So I don't know if people 280 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 1: take that the wrong way or whatever. That's just me 281 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 1: as a man. All Right, we got more when we 282 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:31,520 Speaker 1: come back. This's the Breakfast Club. The Lord taking you 283 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:35,559 Speaker 1: back back with the classic. It's the Breakfast Club. Was 284 00:13:35,600 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 1: a podcast, The Breakfast Club. If you missed The Breakfast Club, 285 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 1: you don't come from my world. It's dangerous. Check out 286 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 1: this rewe Morning. Everybody's DJ mvy Angela Yee. Charlemagne, the 287 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:53,959 Speaker 1: guy we are. The Breakfast Club was still kicking it 288 00:13:54,040 --> 00:13:56,520 Speaker 1: with Master P. Charlemagne. Now what about when you own 289 00:13:56,600 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 1: your own stuff the way Tyler does. Because I used 290 00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 1: to think that way about Tyler. But I was like 291 00:14:00,360 --> 00:14:01,800 Speaker 1: that he was putting the dress on because he wanted to, 292 00:14:01,920 --> 00:14:05,160 Speaker 1: not because somebody made him too. That's what I don't 293 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:07,760 Speaker 1: care about that, That's what I'm saying. So I feel 294 00:14:07,800 --> 00:14:09,160 Speaker 1: like we all got out piures like I Got to 295 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:11,920 Speaker 1: Hook Up Too. I mean, this is a big movie 296 00:14:12,040 --> 00:14:14,240 Speaker 1: for us. This is a movement. This is not just 297 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:16,680 Speaker 1: a movie like they don't own this because you gotta. 298 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:19,680 Speaker 1: You gotta realize, man, why it's so important when we 299 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:23,440 Speaker 1: do a project like Black Panther. We didn't benefit off 300 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 1: of that man like people, we look at us. Black 301 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:27,440 Speaker 1: people was in the movie. We was hal being excited, 302 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 1: but it wasn't us. Yeah, so this is even though 303 00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 1: a movie like this, So think about this a movie 304 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 1: like I Got to Hook Up Too. We did this 305 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:38,280 Speaker 1: for the budget we did it for and we did 306 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 1: it for millions of dollars. But imagine if we had 307 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:42,960 Speaker 1: hundreds of millions of dollars to make a project, how 308 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:45,000 Speaker 1: would it look. So this is the growth. This is 309 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 1: why this is important because we're coming back into the 310 00:14:47,520 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 1: community that putting money back into the community. But it's 311 00:14:49,960 --> 00:14:52,040 Speaker 1: a process. We got to grow with it, just like 312 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 1: I did with music. I just didn't jump straight out 313 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:57,640 Speaker 1: it made hundreds of millions of dollars. It was a 314 00:14:57,760 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 1: process because the production has to get bigger and bigger. 315 00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:02,480 Speaker 1: So that's why I was saying, we have to support 316 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 1: us because this is only one A few words about 317 00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:07,840 Speaker 1: to go at. You spoke about Nipsey. He got a 318 00:15:07,880 --> 00:15:09,720 Speaker 1: song on the soundtrack and he said recorded it two 319 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:13,440 Speaker 1: days before his death. Yeah. So one thing about Nipsey Man, 320 00:15:13,480 --> 00:15:16,360 Speaker 1: he was always a stand up guy. It's probably one 321 00:15:16,400 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 1: of the one of the most uh realist guys. I 322 00:15:20,560 --> 00:15:22,840 Speaker 1: meant that if I asked him for something, he gonna 323 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 1: sit it, he gonna get it done. He gonna going 324 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:27,680 Speaker 1: no question, no talk, and uh he looked up to 325 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:29,320 Speaker 1: you though. Yeah, he used to say no used to 326 00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 1: call his label No Limit of the West. Yeah you 327 00:15:31,120 --> 00:15:32,720 Speaker 1: know what, And let me tell you how med him. 328 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 1: I met him with this uh with with with low 329 00:15:37,040 --> 00:15:39,720 Speaker 1: from Chicago. He moved out there in the in the 330 00:15:39,800 --> 00:15:42,440 Speaker 1: calory with fifteen hundred. He hooked us up. Say, man, 331 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:45,520 Speaker 1: look you know you out in La Man, you're Nipsey 332 00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:47,720 Speaker 1: to get together and when we got to the studio, Maddie, 333 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:49,640 Speaker 1: we just started making songs. I think we made like 334 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:54,120 Speaker 1: over seventeen eighteen songs just just just dropping him. So 335 00:15:54,400 --> 00:15:57,640 Speaker 1: you know, we had we had remixed that that rapping 336 00:15:57,720 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 1: up soon too. We had remix supposed to be me 337 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 1: Jeezy Boosey and jay Z. So they get done, it's done. 338 00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:07,280 Speaker 1: It's done, So they're probably gonna put that out. But 339 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying, man, these record companies, we gotta stop. 340 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:12,400 Speaker 1: We gotta stop all these people from controlling what we had, 341 00:16:12,760 --> 00:16:14,320 Speaker 1: you know, because even right now, look all the money 342 00:16:14,320 --> 00:16:16,440 Speaker 1: they're making off of them. It's his kids really gonna 343 00:16:16,480 --> 00:16:19,400 Speaker 1: get that. How long the process? How do how do 344 00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:21,280 Speaker 1: that take? You know, because now you're dealing with a 345 00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:23,400 Speaker 1: state that you're dealing with record companies. So that's why 346 00:16:23,400 --> 00:16:26,560 Speaker 1: I was saying, we have to take control because I mean, 347 00:16:27,160 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 1: he was with Atlantic Records at the same time, you know, 348 00:16:30,600 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 1: So those are the type of things I was trying 349 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 1: to show him when he was alive, like look man, 350 00:16:34,360 --> 00:16:36,840 Speaker 1: and he was doing it. But it's just sad tragic 351 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:38,880 Speaker 1: to where you know, you come from somewhere and you 352 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:40,720 Speaker 1: die in that same hood, and that's my thing to 353 00:16:40,920 --> 00:16:43,560 Speaker 1: educate the next generation that we have to figure out 354 00:16:43,840 --> 00:16:47,280 Speaker 1: how can we you know, educate ourselves even about the 355 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:50,560 Speaker 1: environments that we're in, because it's about putting putting things 356 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:53,280 Speaker 1: in our community, but it's also about surviving and living 357 00:16:53,320 --> 00:16:54,840 Speaker 1: to be able to you know, to be there to 358 00:16:54,920 --> 00:16:57,480 Speaker 1: mix show. I mean his kids, you know, his girl 359 00:16:57,600 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 1: as mom is dad. I mean, this is a tray. 360 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:03,280 Speaker 1: Just man, this guy should still be here today. You 361 00:17:03,560 --> 00:17:05,440 Speaker 1: told page six you would get more respect if you're 362 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:08,120 Speaker 1: a white business man. Well you've been speaking on that. Yeah, 363 00:17:08,119 --> 00:17:10,119 Speaker 1: you know what the sad thing about it, I was 364 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:13,680 Speaker 1: saying that for like even after least and entertainers like, 365 00:17:13,840 --> 00:17:16,200 Speaker 1: well we'll talk. We don't want to give us what 366 00:17:16,400 --> 00:17:18,840 Speaker 1: we do because our skin color and which it's sad 367 00:17:19,320 --> 00:17:22,280 Speaker 1: or either like like what we were talking about when 368 00:17:22,320 --> 00:17:25,040 Speaker 1: we talked about Kodak will give this guy ten or 369 00:17:25,080 --> 00:17:29,600 Speaker 1: fifteen percent not even thinking about it. But with us, 370 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:33,439 Speaker 1: we gotta or well what this fun? I mean, I mean, 371 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:36,560 Speaker 1: if I'm gonna get you a deal, I deserve a percentage. 372 00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:38,480 Speaker 1: Yeah that's just business. Yeah, you don't even ask the 373 00:17:38,480 --> 00:17:40,639 Speaker 1: white man no question nothing, just like right now, I 374 00:17:40,680 --> 00:17:43,160 Speaker 1: mean just like you're saying it's like I think even 375 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:45,360 Speaker 1: with him, I think after he get out of jailist time, 376 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:48,040 Speaker 1: he's gonna wake up and see that these lawyers are 377 00:17:48,200 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 1: ribbing them. They are taking this money. I mean he 378 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:52,680 Speaker 1: even posts it up. It's like, so those are type 379 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:54,040 Speaker 1: of things, but you know the law. You're gonna come 380 00:17:54,080 --> 00:17:55,840 Speaker 1: back and say, well, man, he was talking about the 381 00:17:55,920 --> 00:17:58,480 Speaker 1: lip now man that man. No, after a while, you 382 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:01,399 Speaker 1: will see sometimes guard gonna put you through something and 383 00:18:01,440 --> 00:18:03,399 Speaker 1: you're gonna see maybe you at the stage and you're 384 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:05,359 Speaker 1: like where you don't want to see that, But you 385 00:18:05,520 --> 00:18:08,399 Speaker 1: will eventually grow up and start saying, man, well how 386 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:10,960 Speaker 1: much this because they're not doing it for free, any 387 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:13,480 Speaker 1: of those lawyers. I mean, whether NBA, Young Boy and 388 00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:16,480 Speaker 1: Jail whoever in jail right now. Those lawyers are not 389 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:19,239 Speaker 1: working for free. They're gonna get their money off top. 390 00:18:19,240 --> 00:18:22,160 Speaker 1: They're gonna suck every quarter you got until you donna 391 00:18:22,160 --> 00:18:23,760 Speaker 1: have them them more than they're gonna forget about you. 392 00:18:24,040 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 1: I Got The hook Up Too, comes out July twelve, 393 00:18:26,440 --> 00:18:29,359 Speaker 1: and theater's definitely go check it out, purchase your tickets 394 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 1: if it's not in your area, buy tickets anyway in 395 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:33,960 Speaker 1: support and you said, they can stream it as well. Right, yeah, 396 00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:37,159 Speaker 1: go to iTunes and you can download it from them 397 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:39,920 Speaker 1: pre ordered. Now all right, well it's master Pete. We 398 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:42,480 Speaker 1: appreciate you for joining us. Yes, it's the Breakfast Club. 399 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:45,280 Speaker 1: Good morning, taking you back back with the classic we Want, 400 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 1: We Wore. It's the Breakfast Club. Was a podcast called 401 00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:53,600 Speaker 1: eight hundred and five eight five one oh five. Wanted 402 00:18:53,600 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 1: to join it to the discussion with the Breakfast Club, 403 00:18:55,880 --> 00:19:00,840 Speaker 1: talk about it morning. Everybody is dcha Envy Angela, yee. 404 00:19:00,960 --> 00:19:03,600 Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy we are the Breakfast Club. Now if 405 00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:06,200 Speaker 1: you're just joining us, we're talking about ye saying that 406 00:19:06,359 --> 00:19:09,800 Speaker 1: male enhancements have been going up from plastic surgeons. Right, Yes, 407 00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:12,680 Speaker 1: they're getting their abs done and little LiPo, and they're 408 00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:17,240 Speaker 1: also getting penis enlargements with fillers. As a guy like, 409 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:19,320 Speaker 1: what can you really do? Right? Are you there? God? 410 00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:22,240 Speaker 1: It's me I would like a bigger penis and nothing happened, 411 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:25,639 Speaker 1: So I must, I must, I must increase my thrust. 412 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:28,000 Speaker 1: But let's go to the full lines. Eight hundred five 413 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:31,200 Speaker 1: eight five one oh five one. Hello, who's this Melanie? 414 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:36,600 Speaker 1: It's Melanie Hie. How are you? I'm good? How are 415 00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:41,600 Speaker 1: you blessed black and Hilly favorite said he wanted to 416 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:44,199 Speaker 1: increase his penis eyes. Would you get that for him? 417 00:19:44,240 --> 00:19:51,320 Speaker 1: Maybe for Christmas? Absolutely? Well made you say that with 418 00:19:51,480 --> 00:19:56,639 Speaker 1: no hesitation. You wait, she's waiting for Christmas right now? Absolutely? 419 00:19:57,040 --> 00:19:59,800 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, I don't have a man currently, 420 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:02,639 Speaker 1: but I've had men in the past that I felt 421 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 1: like they could have benefited from some enhancement, Like they 422 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:08,640 Speaker 1: were perfect in all other areas, but they lacked there. 423 00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:11,040 Speaker 1: And I just feel like the same way a man 424 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:12,959 Speaker 1: is picked to be like here, baby, go get your 425 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:16,800 Speaker 1: BBL and they'll pay for it. Um, a woman should 426 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 1: be able to say that too, or suggest that he 427 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:22,199 Speaker 1: gets enhanced without him feeling offended, because then a lot 428 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:25,080 Speaker 1: of times they get offended and it's like they're different 429 00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:30,240 Speaker 1: options for you to take for for yourself. Oh I 430 00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:32,040 Speaker 1: gotta hurt you telling me he need a pen hiss 431 00:20:32,119 --> 00:20:33,920 Speaker 1: enhancement that he don't have the money for it. Oh 432 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:36,600 Speaker 1: my god. Right, He's like, well, you gonna pay for it, 433 00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 1: and she's like, yes, geez, because I will be benefiting 434 00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:49,520 Speaker 1: from it, thank you very much. Yea, I might have 435 00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:54,040 Speaker 1: to have some kind of agrievance sign so I don't. 436 00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:56,200 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, if I'm at the point where 437 00:20:56,200 --> 00:21:00,040 Speaker 1: I will pay for a man's enhancement, my relationship to 438 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 1: be pretty solid. Imagine a man leaving you the gold 439 00:21:03,359 --> 00:21:05,080 Speaker 1: another girl, then you have to run down on the 440 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:07,840 Speaker 1: other girl and say I bought that d I paid 441 00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:15,760 Speaker 1: for those inches wownes. Hello, who's this shit? Boy? Lily? See? Man? 442 00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:25,160 Speaker 1: That joll actually sound crazy though. I actually just watched 443 00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:27,480 Speaker 1: the video the other day or some dude talking about 444 00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:30,800 Speaker 1: it on on some other podcasts, and I was just like, man, 445 00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:33,159 Speaker 1: just love yourself, man, like for real, for real. You 446 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:36,200 Speaker 1: wouldn't get nothing in your abs done on nothing, nah 447 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:38,960 Speaker 1: dog nah. I mean you got to maintain it, you 448 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:40,480 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So it's not even just like 449 00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:43,080 Speaker 1: getting it done, you know what I'm saying, Because I mean, 450 00:21:43,119 --> 00:21:44,719 Speaker 1: if you get it done, then you ain't gonna work 451 00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:46,760 Speaker 1: out every day and you know, do your thing for real, 452 00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:49,399 Speaker 1: eat healthy. You know what I'm saying. All that stuff, 453 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:54,280 Speaker 1: I mean, it's gonna be pointless. That's real, true healthy. 454 00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:57,320 Speaker 1: And I mean, hello, who's this crazy? Like you said, 455 00:21:57,359 --> 00:22:02,159 Speaker 1: what's your name? Hello? Who's this hey? Good morning? Oh 456 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:06,400 Speaker 1: what's your name? Bro? My name is real one? One. Now, 457 00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:09,240 Speaker 1: if you had the opportunity, would you would you add 458 00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:12,080 Speaker 1: to your penis real one? Um? Nah, I wouldn't do it. 459 00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:14,119 Speaker 1: I wouldn't add any inches or nothing like that. Like 460 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:17,639 Speaker 1: I'm pretty good while I'm at It's like, yeah, I'm 461 00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:20,399 Speaker 1: definitely sure. I'm definitely say that until you get to 462 00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:24,919 Speaker 1: get certificate for five free inches. Nah, because what if 463 00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:27,119 Speaker 1: it starts some mess with how you feel? Like I 464 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:31,119 Speaker 1: can't feel it anymore, like it won't make names and 465 00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:34,959 Speaker 1: that's a nerving the exactly like it's I don't think 466 00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:36,600 Speaker 1: it's worth it. I don't think it's worth it at all. 467 00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:38,840 Speaker 1: And then the whole act thing, it don't make no 468 00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:41,440 Speaker 1: sense either, because if you're not eating right, you're gonna 469 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:45,080 Speaker 1: you're gonna lose it anyway. That's right, eating McDonald loosing everything, 470 00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:48,080 Speaker 1: you don't make no sense, Rick whatsoever. You're not gonna 471 00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:50,399 Speaker 1: change your habits in your lifestyle after you get that, 472 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:53,960 Speaker 1: it's pointless. Yeah, you waste some money, all right, thank you? Okay, 473 00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:56,680 Speaker 1: so it's a hard note for you. Let's go to 474 00:22:56,720 --> 00:23:00,600 Speaker 1: another called the last one. Hello, who's this calling from 475 00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:04,119 Speaker 1: out of Peter's bird game? Okay, Jake, your girl just 476 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:06,440 Speaker 1: called and she said that she she thinks that you 477 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:08,000 Speaker 1: need a couple of inches, So would you do it? 478 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:12,720 Speaker 1: I'm not doing that. I'm not doing that. You gotta 479 00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:14,840 Speaker 1: work with what you've got. Man, you gotta be girl 480 00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:18,760 Speaker 1: what you've got, I will say. Women always getting you know, 481 00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:21,400 Speaker 1: they tell me tucked and a couple of inchest cut 482 00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:22,920 Speaker 1: off and they ain't doing the work we're doing in 483 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:25,359 Speaker 1: the gym. So I would do that. But as far 484 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:27,840 Speaker 1: as with with my manhood, I'm just going to just 485 00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:30,040 Speaker 1: be the best of what I got. All right, You're 486 00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:35,240 Speaker 1: gonna have some abs with a little penis. Everybody not 487 00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:42,120 Speaker 1: not not blessed down there, So okay, I'm sorry. Yeah, 488 00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:45,080 Speaker 1: every everybody you're good at you're good at other things. Man, 489 00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:48,320 Speaker 1: you're good at other things. I'm gread at everything. You 490 00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:50,280 Speaker 1: know what's sad about this? Man? You know? You know 491 00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:52,359 Speaker 1: how they say if you appreciate what you got, you 492 00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:55,040 Speaker 1: will get blessed with more. That doesn't apply to penis us. 493 00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:58,920 Speaker 1: All goodness, great, what's the ball of the story. I 494 00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:03,640 Speaker 1: just said it. That's it, And you sounded really sad 495 00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:09,960 Speaker 1: saying it. Definitely, I thank God for I thank God 496 00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 1: for it. All. All right, it's the breakfast club, good morning, 497 00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:19,080 Speaker 1: the breakfast clubs. And it wasn't my ass, it was 498 00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 1: the mode of a ass. Yes, I thought it was 499 00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:25,960 Speaker 1: the mold of your actual No. No, And then what 500 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:28,080 Speaker 1: about when they touch each other and stuff that's never 501 00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:30,479 Speaker 1: happened that we don't touch me, don't touch You've never 502 00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:32,600 Speaker 1: seen them touch that hasn't happened. No, you want to 503 00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:34,080 Speaker 1: tell me something I need to know. No, they like 504 00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:36,160 Speaker 1: rub up, brush against each other. If they're walking out 505 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:38,840 Speaker 1: the door trying to rub up against each other, we 506 00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:41,840 Speaker 1: don't ever do it. They're going the revolving door together. 507 00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:47,399 Speaker 1: That happened one time. Explain that it was stupid. I 508 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:50,439 Speaker 1: don't even know how that happens. Really, it was really stupid. 509 00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:52,920 Speaker 1: It was really that it had to be very intentional. 510 00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:57,000 Speaker 1: It wasn't. I don't even know how. And then one 511 00:24:57,080 --> 00:25:03,560 Speaker 1: makes his way walking around was so stupid. Giggle all 512 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:06,400 Speaker 1: the way through it. You just added insulting you sitting 513 00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:14,560 Speaker 1: there in the one slot giggling together. Oh man, anyway 514 00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:17,640 Speaker 1: back to the matter at hand, real life, real love. 515 00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:20,920 Speaker 1: What is that magic that holds y'all together? You think 516 00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:25,560 Speaker 1: you know? Um? Whenever I find that people come to 517 00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:29,119 Speaker 1: our house or are around us. I think they're kind 518 00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:32,040 Speaker 1: of surprised at how much fun we have together. I 519 00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:35,879 Speaker 1: find him to be very charming and charismatic um and 520 00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:37,840 Speaker 1: one of the things that I love most about him 521 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,679 Speaker 1: is his boyish nature. So we really have a lot 522 00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:43,920 Speaker 1: of fun together, and we always have since we first met. 523 00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,600 Speaker 1: The first week we spent together, I thought to myself, Wow, 524 00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:49,639 Speaker 1: he's a lot of fun. Like he's he's like a friend, 525 00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:52,520 Speaker 1: you know, And that's part of the magic. You knew 526 00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:53,879 Speaker 1: that this was the person that you can spend the 527 00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:55,960 Speaker 1: rest of your life with. After about two weeks of 528 00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:59,119 Speaker 1: knowing him, Yes, before you even spent a day together, 529 00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:04,480 Speaker 1: I explain, before before we even spent a day together. 530 00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:06,479 Speaker 1: When I first when I first seen you, I mean 531 00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:08,359 Speaker 1: I wrote in a book that I thought you were 532 00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:10,080 Speaker 1: beautiful and amazing. In the first time I saw you 533 00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:12,840 Speaker 1: were actually running track and for people I don't know, 534 00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:20,080 Speaker 1: you know, tracks track like that the Outfit and you 535 00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:22,240 Speaker 1: know GA had you know, big double ds, and I 536 00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:25,400 Speaker 1: would stop basically stalker outside and just watch a run 537 00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:28,280 Speaker 1: track and watch a breast bottle like that word don't 538 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:30,440 Speaker 1: say stalk, you know, wasn't stalking. Yeah, but that's actually 539 00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:33,760 Speaker 1: what he was doing. It was actually stalking. And I 540 00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:37,359 Speaker 1: would see him. I would see him this bitting with 541 00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:41,520 Speaker 1: his friends in this bright blue con Edison van because 542 00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,160 Speaker 1: that's what his parents bought him to trans to transfer 543 00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:50,639 Speaker 1: his DJ equipment from Sweet sixteen to See sixteen. And 544 00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:54,080 Speaker 1: I would see it parked behind the fence. I'm thinking myself, like, Yo, 545 00:26:54,280 --> 00:27:04,440 Speaker 1: why is this van there every day? Yeah? It was 546 00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:10,480 Speaker 1: black blue. He wasn't low, he was not low. And 547 00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:14,399 Speaker 1: he emerged Actually, babe, do you remember one day, like 548 00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:17,800 Speaker 1: he emerged from the van and approached me and kicked 549 00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:19,480 Speaker 1: it and I was like, oh, so you're that weird 550 00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:24,480 Speaker 1: though we both kids. Yeah, she was fifteen, I was sixteen. 551 00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:26,200 Speaker 1: We went to the same high school. So so. And 552 00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:28,240 Speaker 1: but you say that you knew that she was going 553 00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:29,920 Speaker 1: to be your wife, like right away? You think it 554 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,840 Speaker 1: was before y'all even spoke, when he was just stalking her. 555 00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:35,520 Speaker 1: We actually know when we actually spoke, and you know, 556 00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:38,520 Speaker 1: I found out how you know, beautiful she was inside 557 00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:41,879 Speaker 1: and outside, and how smart she was and caring and 558 00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:44,040 Speaker 1: she was just that she was the one. She was 559 00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:45,920 Speaker 1: the most beautiful thing I've ever seen in my life, 560 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:47,720 Speaker 1: and the most precious things. So I was like, this 561 00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:50,440 Speaker 1: is going to be my wife. I want people to 562 00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:52,359 Speaker 1: get the book, but I do want, you know, to 563 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:56,119 Speaker 1: explain how do you keep reinventing the relationship when you 564 00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:59,359 Speaker 1: start that young? Now interviews fifty something, you know what 565 00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:02,040 Speaker 1: I mean, you're much much younger, But how how do 566 00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:04,919 Speaker 1: you keep how do you reinvent? How do you keep reinventing? 567 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:07,200 Speaker 1: And I think that that's part of the magic. We 568 00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:11,000 Speaker 1: don't have to try. We don't intentionally. We do a 569 00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:15,000 Speaker 1: lot of things intentionally and deliberately, but we don't intentionally 570 00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:18,560 Speaker 1: reimagine the relationship and act on that. The only thing 571 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:21,840 Speaker 1: that I would say that we're um good about is 572 00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:24,560 Speaker 1: keeping it sexy and making sure that that part of 573 00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:28,280 Speaker 1: our relationship doesn't get too monotonous and doesn't get stale. 574 00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:31,800 Speaker 1: So we have a lot of fun in that space. Um, 575 00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:33,840 Speaker 1: but we don't have to think, like, God, how am 576 00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,560 Speaker 1: I gonna stop being bored of you? Or how am 577 00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:37,640 Speaker 1: I going to get to a point where you don't 578 00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:40,720 Speaker 1: annoy me anymore? He legitimately does not annoy me. I 579 00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:44,360 Speaker 1: look forward to his phone calls every day and we 580 00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:46,920 Speaker 1: probably speak on the phone about maybe eight or nine 581 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:49,800 Speaker 1: ten times a day because he's away a lot, you know. 582 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:51,600 Speaker 1: So he calls me on his way to the breakfast club. 583 00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:53,240 Speaker 1: He calls me in his way home from the breakfast club. 584 00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:56,400 Speaker 1: He calls me. If something happens, he calls me incessantly 585 00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:58,800 Speaker 1: it's and I'm never like, oh you again. I'm like, 586 00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:02,120 Speaker 1: oh it's him again. You know. It's just that feeling 587 00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:05,040 Speaker 1: that I've always had, that no matter what ups or 588 00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:07,760 Speaker 1: downs we were going through, that never left me. Now, 589 00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:10,760 Speaker 1: he told us a story about the cowboy outfit. He 590 00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:14,640 Speaker 1: told you about that. Wait wait, wait the cowboy outfit 591 00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:19,320 Speaker 1: in college? The asses chats that no ass chat. They were, Yeah, 592 00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:21,120 Speaker 1: you tell this about Oh wait, we're showing Did you 593 00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:25,920 Speaker 1: actually tell him like on error private? He did? Because 594 00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:28,800 Speaker 1: if it was in private, this is a whole double cross, right, 595 00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:34,280 Speaker 1: dressed as a cowboy and his he had Okay, I 596 00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:38,200 Speaker 1: remember that. After he told the story, he goes, not 597 00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:43,360 Speaker 1: like when we were in college. Yeah, we went through 598 00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:44,920 Speaker 1: a stage where we were doing like a lot of 599 00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:49,200 Speaker 1: role play and one night I dared him to be 600 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:51,600 Speaker 1: a cowboy. So we went and got to cowboy half. 601 00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:54,840 Speaker 1: It had like the big brown hat and then he 602 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:58,240 Speaker 1: had like the little holsters and everything and big. Do 603 00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:00,880 Speaker 1: you remember I took pictures? Where are those? Are they 604 00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:04,800 Speaker 1: in the book? He about maybe, um, three years after 605 00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:07,480 Speaker 1: he made me physically burn them on the grill. Wow, 606 00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:10,080 Speaker 1: he put them on the grill and told me how 607 00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:11,960 Speaker 1: to light it. Yeah, they don't exist. Don't you wish 608 00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:14,120 Speaker 1: you still had that? No, but y'all talk about role 609 00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:15,440 Speaker 1: play in the book. You said he likes to put 610 00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:17,880 Speaker 1: on the rock nation paper plane heat and he goes, 611 00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:19,440 Speaker 1: what's my name? And he wants you to say jiggle. 612 00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:23,160 Speaker 1: I didn't contribute to that chapter. Okay, that wasn't my work. No, 613 00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:25,440 Speaker 1: I didn't do it. Okay, So wait they really so 614 00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:28,280 Speaker 1: he wasn't lying they were askless chaps. Yeah, yeah, he 615 00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:29,760 Speaker 1: had a whole. It was a whole thing. I just 616 00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:31,960 Speaker 1: pulled the ua Yugia. He did not tell us that. 617 00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:35,360 Speaker 1: Damn it. To get my book and you will learn 618 00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:40,320 Speaker 1: a slew of tactics how to get what you want 619 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:43,280 Speaker 1: out of life. Okay, it was a holster by the way, 620 00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:44,840 Speaker 1: they were holsters. Yeah it was. It was a whole, 621 00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:48,120 Speaker 1: but it was some other dress up things. You go right, Um, 622 00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:51,080 Speaker 1: it was more so me, okay, dressing up and he 623 00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:52,840 Speaker 1: was just like the recipient of that that that was 624 00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:54,960 Speaker 1: a one little and that's why it was a dare 625 00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:56,400 Speaker 1: because it was kind of supposed to be a joke. 626 00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:59,600 Speaker 1: But he never really dressed up one time I was nursing. 627 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:01,800 Speaker 1: He was a doctor. That was one. Did you really 628 00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:04,640 Speaker 1: burn the pictures? I really did, really in front of him. Wow, 629 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:11,680 Speaker 1: you didn't have negatives? Were going to share that goes 630 00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:14,240 Speaker 1: left in our relationships? I had that I will ruin 631 00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:19,080 Speaker 1: this entire reputation. I would never be able to work again. 632 00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:23,239 Speaker 1: And I question over to a new audience. All right, 633 00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:25,800 Speaker 1: we got more with my wife's Guia Casey. When we 634 00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,160 Speaker 1: come back. We're talking out new book that's out right now, 635 00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:30,280 Speaker 1: Real Life, Real Love. So don't go anywhere as the 636 00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:34,880 Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, 637 00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:37,880 Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got 638 00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:40,600 Speaker 1: a special guest stealing the building, my wife, Gia Casey. 639 00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:43,600 Speaker 1: We're talking about our new book, Real Life, Real Love, 640 00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:46,240 Speaker 1: Life Lessons on Joy, Pain and the Magic that holds 641 00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:48,480 Speaker 1: us together. You could pick it up today, or you 642 00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:50,120 Speaker 1: can get it on an audible and kin doing or 643 00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:52,720 Speaker 1: wherever you get your books. Yee. How is it for 644 00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:54,880 Speaker 1: both of you reading this book together. Some of it 645 00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:57,080 Speaker 1: was fun, It was nice to be creative and get 646 00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:01,280 Speaker 1: your thoughts down on paper. It was work, but a 647 00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:05,800 Speaker 1: lot of it was difficult. I'm a very open person. Rashaan, 648 00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:08,760 Speaker 1: I think had a difficult time because he had to 649 00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:13,120 Speaker 1: relive a lot of the negative things that transpired in 650 00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:18,240 Speaker 1: our relationship. And he can tend to be surface in 651 00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:20,720 Speaker 1: some respects where you ask him a question, he gives 652 00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:22,640 Speaker 1: you an answer. I'm a lot more of an in 653 00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:25,720 Speaker 1: depth person, you know. I think critically about things, and 654 00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:28,880 Speaker 1: when we would go over these chapters that he's assigned 655 00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:32,040 Speaker 1: to write, I would ask him questions like Okay, you 656 00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:34,360 Speaker 1: can't just answer it with a yes or a no 657 00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:37,880 Speaker 1: or a simple blanket like one question would mean ten 658 00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:40,720 Speaker 1: more questions to really get to the meet. And you know, 659 00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:42,720 Speaker 1: I had to keep reiterating, we're writing this book so 660 00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:46,640 Speaker 1: that people have something tangible, a reference point for them 661 00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:50,040 Speaker 1: to make changes in their lives if necessary, or to 662 00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:52,000 Speaker 1: recognize that the person that you're with needs to make 663 00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:56,400 Speaker 1: changes in their lives. And it was a journey. It 664 00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:59,520 Speaker 1: was a journey, but I think it was difficult. I 665 00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:01,600 Speaker 1: had to relive a lot of the f boy I 666 00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:04,200 Speaker 1: put you through, and you don't. You forget about a 667 00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:05,960 Speaker 1: lot of it because you don't have to relive it. 668 00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:08,760 Speaker 1: But then when you start, no, you forget about I 669 00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:12,760 Speaker 1: forget nothing. I think that's the point though, right, because 670 00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:15,160 Speaker 1: it's like, we don't realize how much we do hurt 671 00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:19,360 Speaker 1: are women when we do? Yeah? I think so. I 672 00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:21,760 Speaker 1: don't think we realize how deep that. That sounds like 673 00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:23,760 Speaker 1: an oaky doke to me. No, I don't think we 674 00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:26,160 Speaker 1: until you actually sit down and have those you know, 675 00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:30,600 Speaker 1: uncomfortable conversations. You don't realize how much you your wife 676 00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:34,200 Speaker 1: cheated on you and told you that she would have 677 00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:37,520 Speaker 1: no idea how much that it stood to hurt you. 678 00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:40,440 Speaker 1: Would that makes sense to you? Probably not? But I 679 00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:44,760 Speaker 1: mean men don't make sense. You believe that you believe 680 00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:47,480 Speaker 1: that you're born inherently with like a deficit, not a deficit. 681 00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:49,120 Speaker 1: But I just don't comment sense. I don't think we. 682 00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:50,640 Speaker 1: I don't think we're thinking about it, you know what 683 00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:52,880 Speaker 1: I mean, Like we like that's the sad part. It's 684 00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:55,360 Speaker 1: selfish and that's what that's what keeps you from doing 685 00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:57,200 Speaker 1: it in the future. You know what I mean? Because 686 00:33:57,240 --> 00:33:59,320 Speaker 1: you do not want to hurt the woman that you love. 687 00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:01,320 Speaker 1: And it's so because I saw that with my pops, 688 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:03,760 Speaker 1: like I saw the pain that that caused my mom 689 00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:06,560 Speaker 1: with his infidelity, So in my mind, I was like, damn, 690 00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:08,600 Speaker 1: I'm about to do make the same mistake. So I 691 00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:10,160 Speaker 1: think it is difficult when you got to relive it 692 00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:12,080 Speaker 1: because you don't want to talk about it because you 693 00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:14,560 Speaker 1: don't want to trigger you. You know some people if 694 00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:26,560 Speaker 1: I don't get triggered though, Yeah, but that s no. 695 00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:28,840 Speaker 1: Once I got to a point, and it was a process. 696 00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:32,960 Speaker 1: Once I got to a point where I accepted that 697 00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:37,640 Speaker 1: it was my job to move on because I decided 698 00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:42,399 Speaker 1: to forgive him, and because because he had done all 699 00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:46,880 Speaker 1: of the work and then some to regain my trust 700 00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:50,800 Speaker 1: to earn grace from me. Um, I got to a 701 00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:53,640 Speaker 1: point where I no longer wanted to punish and I 702 00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:58,440 Speaker 1: didn't have that you to hurt. And any time that 703 00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:00,840 Speaker 1: I felt any type of way, I'm aide sure that 704 00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:03,279 Speaker 1: he felt some type of way. So once I learned 705 00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:05,440 Speaker 1: how to forgive, and that was a process because I 706 00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:08,839 Speaker 1: wasn't necessarily a forgiving person before everything was very black 707 00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,520 Speaker 1: and white to me, not very much gray, but once 708 00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:16,200 Speaker 1: I learned and I understood that that's what was expected 709 00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:18,960 Speaker 1: from me of God, I had to commit to that 710 00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:23,040 Speaker 1: and do my best to live up to what forgiveness meant. 711 00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:26,200 Speaker 1: And that's what set me free. Because when you forgive, 712 00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:29,040 Speaker 1: you don't forgive to ease the burden from the other person. 713 00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:32,239 Speaker 1: You forgive to ease the burden from you. Well, the 714 00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:34,759 Speaker 1: work you guys did together, like you had to work 715 00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:38,640 Speaker 1: on forgiveness and when you said, Okay, I'm gonna, you know, 716 00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:41,520 Speaker 1: have to move on from this. But what was the 717 00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:44,960 Speaker 1: work that he did that let you know, Okay, he's serious, 718 00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:49,040 Speaker 1: and you know I can finally just say I'm not 719 00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:51,759 Speaker 1: getting triggered anymore. I'm going to let this go. One 720 00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:56,080 Speaker 1: of the first things was I realized that he understood 721 00:35:56,400 --> 00:36:00,400 Speaker 1: the impact of what had happened. What he did, He 722 00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:04,880 Speaker 1: understood it. He didn't just accept it and was accountable 723 00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:08,960 Speaker 1: for it, but he actually understood. He would do things 724 00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:11,160 Speaker 1: that a lot of men wouldn't do. He would sit 725 00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:14,239 Speaker 1: there through those eight hour conversations locked in a room. 726 00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:18,120 Speaker 1: He answered every question that I had, and I had 727 00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:21,719 Speaker 1: a lot of questions, and he answered them all truthfully. 728 00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,920 Speaker 1: And you know, when you ask somebody a question and 729 00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:28,040 Speaker 1: you can tell by their answer, because I mean, the 730 00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:30,520 Speaker 1: answers weren't pretty. There weren't things that I would have 731 00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:34,440 Speaker 1: wanted to hear. He went through all of the sufferation, 732 00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:38,400 Speaker 1: as I call it, and he did it until because 733 00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:41,400 Speaker 1: a lot of guys, when they mess up, and I 734 00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:43,000 Speaker 1: mean a lot of them have told me. I have 735 00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:45,320 Speaker 1: friends and that have gone through it. It's like, listen, 736 00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:48,640 Speaker 1: I did it. I apologize. I said I was never 737 00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:51,920 Speaker 1: going to do it again. I mean that ish, but 738 00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:54,760 Speaker 1: it's like every day I'm being punished, I'm being punished, 739 00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:56,839 Speaker 1: I'm being reminded. It's like, let it go, I apologize, 740 00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:58,719 Speaker 1: Like what more do you want from me? Blood? He 741 00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:03,400 Speaker 1: never took that approach with me. It was the until 742 00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:07,320 Speaker 1: until you are good, until you are healed. If I 743 00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:08,960 Speaker 1: have to be a punching bag, I will be that. 744 00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:10,880 Speaker 1: If I have to be a doormat, I will be that. 745 00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:14,080 Speaker 1: I will do anything that it makes to survive this 746 00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:18,040 Speaker 1: because I cannot be without you. And he proved it 747 00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:21,120 Speaker 1: every single day. It was as though and he was 748 00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:23,319 Speaker 1: like this before, but it was even more so during 749 00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:25,920 Speaker 1: this time. It was as though he communicated to me 750 00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:28,920 Speaker 1: that the only thing that he wanted was to make 751 00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:31,600 Speaker 1: me happy. And that's pretty much how he lives his life. 752 00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:34,879 Speaker 1: He lives his life every day waking up thinking like, damn, 753 00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:36,920 Speaker 1: how can I make ge his life easier today? How 754 00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:39,240 Speaker 1: can I make g a happier today? But to answer 755 00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:42,040 Speaker 1: your question, it was the until. It was the indefinite, 756 00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:44,440 Speaker 1: and it was the willingness to do any and everything 757 00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:47,359 Speaker 1: to earn what he lost back. And he was there 758 00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,480 Speaker 1: ever a question in your mind. I know there was 759 00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:51,920 Speaker 1: a point when you thought, no matter what I do, 760 00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:54,560 Speaker 1: she's never gonna take me back. There ever a time 761 00:37:54,600 --> 00:38:01,360 Speaker 1: when you were like, if you cry in front of 762 00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:10,200 Speaker 1: your wife, catch that little field. At that point, you know, 763 00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:11,520 Speaker 1: I didn't know what was going to happen, but I 764 00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:13,560 Speaker 1: was like, I have to be honest or at least 765 00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:17,480 Speaker 1: get my friend back, you know. Um. And at that point, 766 00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:19,120 Speaker 1: I you know, I didn't know what GEAR was gonna do. 767 00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:20,360 Speaker 1: I thought it was a rap. But I was like, 768 00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:22,239 Speaker 1: I still wanted my friend. I still wanted somebody I 769 00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:24,960 Speaker 1: can talk to, you know, I still wanted a relationship, 770 00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:26,799 Speaker 1: whether that we can bounce me like that. She's all 771 00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:29,279 Speaker 1: I knew since I was sixteen. So I still wanted 772 00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:31,960 Speaker 1: my friend back, and that could have been forever beef. 773 00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:35,239 Speaker 1: But you know, it's interesting that you didn't kick him 774 00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:37,279 Speaker 1: out of the house. You were still polite to him, 775 00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:41,560 Speaker 1: you still wanted to maintain a co parenting friendship. I 776 00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:44,000 Speaker 1: feel like that hurts more when you're like, we're not 777 00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:47,200 Speaker 1: having sex and I might end up with somebody else 778 00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:51,000 Speaker 1: one day, but you know we're cool. That hurts more 779 00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:54,040 Speaker 1: that I think sometimes in just completely like being nasty 780 00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:57,400 Speaker 1: to somebody and cutting them off. Yes, well, when I 781 00:38:57,520 --> 00:39:00,840 Speaker 1: found out divorce was imminent, it was never a question. 782 00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:06,200 Speaker 1: I was raised by a very strong mother who taught 783 00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:10,080 Speaker 1: me that if a man ever disrespects you to that degree, 784 00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:14,080 Speaker 1: then you walk. So it didn't matter how much I 785 00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:16,560 Speaker 1: loved Rashaan and how much I would have missed him, 786 00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:19,160 Speaker 1: and it didn't matter if I cried every night. It 787 00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:23,320 Speaker 1: did not matter one iota how I felt. The only 788 00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:26,160 Speaker 1: thing that was important to me was that I operated 789 00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:28,880 Speaker 1: with my head and not my heart, and that I 790 00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:31,480 Speaker 1: did what I always said that I was going to do. 791 00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:34,800 Speaker 1: So when I found out, when it was confirmed for me, 792 00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:37,880 Speaker 1: and you can read the book and see the entire 793 00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:42,200 Speaker 1: want to get the entire story, but when he confirmed it. 794 00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:44,600 Speaker 1: We were in a parking lot, and when I drove 795 00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:47,200 Speaker 1: away from that parking lot, it was a few days 796 00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:49,959 Speaker 1: before Christmas, and his mother was at the house helping 797 00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:52,160 Speaker 1: me decorate because we were hosting that year. But I 798 00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:54,080 Speaker 1: walked into the house and I told her, I said, 799 00:39:54,120 --> 00:40:00,040 Speaker 1: Christmas is canceled. And she said Christmas is canceled. And 800 00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:03,480 Speaker 1: I said, well, I just found out that Rashawn cheated 801 00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:06,080 Speaker 1: on me and we're getting a divorce, so there's not 802 00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:08,880 Speaker 1: gonna be any Christmas this year, at least I'm not hosting. 803 00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:11,200 Speaker 1: It's wild that people actually canceled Christmas. I thought that 804 00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:13,960 Speaker 1: was just a fig speech. No, No, I happened we 805 00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:20,360 Speaker 1: canceling Christmas. Yeah, Christmas, well, in the sense of us hosting. 806 00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:22,560 Speaker 1: I wasn't going to cancel it for our children, but 807 00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:25,000 Speaker 1: you know, we didn't have to decorate for thirty people 808 00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:30,759 Speaker 1: to come over. And my lovely mother in law, my mama, UM, 809 00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:34,480 Speaker 1: she defended her beautiful son with everything that she could 810 00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:39,200 Speaker 1: because pretty much um. And when she said something to 811 00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:41,360 Speaker 1: that effect, I said, but for the fact that he 812 00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:45,160 Speaker 1: just told me that it was true. And he came 813 00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:50,239 Speaker 1: home maybe twenty or thirty minutes later, and it was 814 00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:54,600 Speaker 1: a whole thing right. But I was adamant that we 815 00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:58,560 Speaker 1: were getting a divorce, that contacted an attorney, had an attorney. 816 00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:05,799 Speaker 1: It was decided. But thankfully there were a whole host 817 00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:12,000 Speaker 1: of things that happened that that convinced me that God 818 00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:15,200 Speaker 1: had other plans. I wellttle movie got more with Gia Casey, 819 00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:17,120 Speaker 1: we're talking out a new book, Real Life, Real Love. 820 00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:20,040 Speaker 1: Let's get into Mary J. Blige joint. Here's Real Love 821 00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:22,840 Speaker 1: is the Breakfast Club, Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ 822 00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:26,200 Speaker 1: Envy Angela Yee. Charlomagne, the guy we are to Breakfast 823 00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:28,440 Speaker 1: Club was still kicking in with Gia Casey. We're here 824 00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:32,080 Speaker 1: talking about our new book, Real Life, Real Love. Charlomagne, 825 00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:34,600 Speaker 1: what did God say to you? You know, I wasn't 826 00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:40,560 Speaker 1: raised with this um deeply instilled faith where I felt 827 00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:43,800 Speaker 1: as though I knew God and I lived differently because 828 00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:47,719 Speaker 1: I didn't know God in that way. So when God 829 00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:51,240 Speaker 1: revealed himself to me, and he may have tried for years, 830 00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:54,840 Speaker 1: you see, but I wouldn't have I didn't speak his language. 831 00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:57,000 Speaker 1: I would have never been able to interpret God trying 832 00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:59,640 Speaker 1: to reach out to me. So I really believe that 833 00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:03,960 Speaker 1: this happened so that me, particularly, not even Rashawn, so 834 00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:08,359 Speaker 1: that I could be humbled. When God spoke, he spoke 835 00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:11,280 Speaker 1: through other people, and when he found when I found 836 00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:14,600 Speaker 1: out what happened. It's funny we were being approached for 837 00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:21,759 Speaker 1: reality shows at the time, and when he took someone's 838 00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:31,600 Speaker 1: terrible advice to apologize to me on the radio and 839 00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:36,160 Speaker 1: make our personal woes private. Yeah, our personal woes public. 840 00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:39,520 Speaker 1: I didn't know though. I didn't know what he was 841 00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:43,000 Speaker 1: going through. He bed being in laying on the I 842 00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:44,960 Speaker 1: didn't know what he'd be like out of it. I'm like, know, 843 00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:46,880 Speaker 1: what the is your problem? I didn't know what it was. 844 00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:49,400 Speaker 1: So as I'm proud of him, like, what the hell 845 00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:52,399 Speaker 1: is going on? I didn't know that was coming. Oh okay, Yeah, 846 00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:54,400 Speaker 1: I didn't know that I was the one to apologize. 847 00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:56,759 Speaker 1: You didn't know what apologize. You would literally coming here 848 00:42:56,800 --> 00:42:58,759 Speaker 1: and be like laid out on the floor in the 849 00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:01,600 Speaker 1: fetal position the whole show, Like he would not be 850 00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:03,520 Speaker 1: here with us, he wouldn't be present, and I just 851 00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:06,920 Speaker 1: knew something was wrong. So no, I was like, when 852 00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:08,319 Speaker 1: he gets on the air, I'm going to ask him 853 00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:10,120 Speaker 1: on the air with the because his problem because I 854 00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:12,279 Speaker 1: was tired of asking him behind the scenes, and so 855 00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:13,800 Speaker 1: I asked him on the air. I didn't know that 856 00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:16,640 Speaker 1: was coming though. It's terrible idea, but maybe it was 857 00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:18,759 Speaker 1: the same dose of common sense that you guys are 858 00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:27,080 Speaker 1: talking about. Men man think differently. Yes, But when it 859 00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:29,840 Speaker 1: was made public, my one of my best friends, his 860 00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:32,200 Speaker 1: name is Rashid. He's the husband of my other best friend, 861 00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:36,080 Speaker 1: her name is Sasha. He called to see if what 862 00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:38,520 Speaker 1: he had heard was true because he thought that maybe 863 00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:41,560 Speaker 1: it was just something being drummed up because we're supposed 864 00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:43,239 Speaker 1: to be on a reality show or something like that. 865 00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:44,759 Speaker 1: And when he called us said, no, everything that you 866 00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:48,239 Speaker 1: heard is absolutely true. It's it's a terrible story. Um, 867 00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:50,799 Speaker 1: as you said. You know, Rashawn was circling the drain 868 00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:56,560 Speaker 1: at that time, and Rashid decided to come to New 869 00:43:56,680 --> 00:44:01,759 Speaker 1: York from California because he in LA. But we had 870 00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:06,200 Speaker 1: a very a horrible event happened at our home and 871 00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:09,880 Speaker 1: you can read about it in above. Rushi didn't like me. Rushi, 872 00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:11,960 Speaker 1: you know, he always thought our relationship with toxic, which 873 00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:13,880 Speaker 1: you were too controlling. He thought I was too controlling, 874 00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:15,960 Speaker 1: which I was at so he didn't like me. So 875 00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:19,200 Speaker 1: the fact that he flew in to try to save 876 00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:21,719 Speaker 1: this relationship meant a lot, because he already didn't like me. 877 00:44:21,840 --> 00:44:27,440 Speaker 1: I thought, you said, Tarisse saved the relationship. Well, well 878 00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:30,680 Speaker 1: what happened was he flew in and I didn't want 879 00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:33,759 Speaker 1: him there because our marriage was ending and I just 880 00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:36,560 Speaker 1: wanted to be by myself. But he insisted. He said, 881 00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:39,719 Speaker 1: I'm pulling into I'm applying into New York New York 882 00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:42,360 Speaker 1: International Airport at such and such a time, coming at me. 883 00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:45,920 Speaker 1: I went and I got him, and that was the 884 00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:49,200 Speaker 1: start of the biggest change that we that we needed 885 00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:51,480 Speaker 1: to go to go through. He came to our house 886 00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:54,680 Speaker 1: and um, I said, why are you here? And he said, 887 00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:57,840 Speaker 1: God sent me here. I said, of all people, you, 888 00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:01,440 Speaker 1: you're the only person in our lives that didn't champion 889 00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:04,680 Speaker 1: our marriage. You're the only one that ever told me 890 00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:08,160 Speaker 1: that maybe he's not the right person for me. Why you, 891 00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:11,520 Speaker 1: he said, Gia, I don't know. I've been praying since, 892 00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:14,440 Speaker 1: like out a phone with you. After that, terrible thing happened, 893 00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:17,000 Speaker 1: and I walked into my boss's office, told him I 894 00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:19,080 Speaker 1: had to take a leave of absence, went home, packed 895 00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:21,239 Speaker 1: a bag and got on a plane and headed here, 896 00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:24,359 Speaker 1: and it's only through the assignment of God. God spoke 897 00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:27,160 Speaker 1: to me. I said, so, what does that mean, Like, 898 00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:30,759 Speaker 1: are you hearing voices? Like, what do you mean God 899 00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:33,480 Speaker 1: spoke to you? And he said to me, when God 900 00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:35,719 Speaker 1: speaks to you, it's as though he puts an overwhelming 901 00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:37,800 Speaker 1: feeling on your heart. And when he tells you to 902 00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:40,640 Speaker 1: do something, you don't ask any questions. You just do it. 903 00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:44,799 Speaker 1: I said, well, basically, I'm have to wrap my mind 904 00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:48,040 Speaker 1: around that because I didn't have the tools to really 905 00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:52,719 Speaker 1: understand that. And he stayed with us for about maybe 906 00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:56,920 Speaker 1: ten twelve days, and he taught us a lot about 907 00:45:57,040 --> 00:46:02,120 Speaker 1: God and faith and spirituality and what assignment was. And 908 00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:04,480 Speaker 1: he brought in his past or. Her name is Sister Nancy. 909 00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:08,000 Speaker 1: She had the same feedback from God when she prayed. 910 00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:09,680 Speaker 1: And this was all new to me, and I was 911 00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:12,480 Speaker 1: actually very angry because now I have people in my 912 00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:15,040 Speaker 1: life that I respect and love that are telling me 913 00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:16,960 Speaker 1: that I have to stay in a relationship that I'm 914 00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:21,919 Speaker 1: adamant on getting out of. And it was very, very heavy. 915 00:46:21,960 --> 00:46:23,719 Speaker 1: I can't describe to you how heavy it was and 916 00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:28,120 Speaker 1: how insistent he was in his assurance of what God 917 00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:31,719 Speaker 1: communicated to him in the Fast Boy Tyrese same thing. 918 00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:33,200 Speaker 1: I didn't know. You know, we knew Tyres for coming 919 00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:34,720 Speaker 1: up here do an interview, but I didn't know tyresead 920 00:46:34,719 --> 00:46:37,000 Speaker 1: I have his number. He didn't have a new song. 921 00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:39,239 Speaker 1: But when he heard me on the radio that day, 922 00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:42,279 Speaker 1: he called and wanted to speak to Gia, and you 923 00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:44,040 Speaker 1: can read in the book because he got us together. 924 00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:46,960 Speaker 1: But he said the exact same thing, like Tyres and 925 00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:50,000 Speaker 1: Rashid was speaking to each other, and it was kind 926 00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:53,120 Speaker 1: of like those two were the ones to really save 927 00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:54,919 Speaker 1: my marriage and they didn't know it. To the Gia, 928 00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:56,719 Speaker 1: you had asked where a sign? Well, that was the thing, 929 00:46:57,000 --> 00:46:59,600 Speaker 1: because I was so angered by what I was hearing, like, oh, 930 00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:02,600 Speaker 1: i was victim being cheated on. Now I'm being victimized 931 00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:05,319 Speaker 1: again by God telling me that I have to stay 932 00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:08,160 Speaker 1: in a relationship that I'm adamant about leaving. I don't 933 00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:11,520 Speaker 1: understand this, and and I'm not a big crier, but 934 00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:14,959 Speaker 1: one day I was taking a shower and I began 935 00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:17,200 Speaker 1: to cry, and I began to pray in the way 936 00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:19,640 Speaker 1: that I was learning how to pray, and I asked 937 00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:22,760 Speaker 1: God for a sign that I can interpret for myself. 938 00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:24,320 Speaker 1: So at least it would feel as though I was 939 00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:27,359 Speaker 1: making my own decision and a decision wasn't being made 940 00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:30,280 Speaker 1: for me. So I damn near begged for a sign. 941 00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:35,560 Speaker 1: And then shortly after tyrese cold Rashwan and asked for 942 00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:38,880 Speaker 1: him to set something up and we went to Phelipe Chaw's. 943 00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:42,400 Speaker 1: He came in with a backup singer and a guitarist. 944 00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:45,200 Speaker 1: He performed Stay just for Rashaan and I. Then he 945 00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:47,600 Speaker 1: sat down for about four hours and we had a 946 00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:51,400 Speaker 1: conversation and he tried to explain to me how a 947 00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:53,960 Speaker 1: man can love you and still cheat at the same time, 948 00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:56,560 Speaker 1: because I didn't really understand that. But at the end 949 00:47:56,600 --> 00:47:58,520 Speaker 1: of the conversation I asked him, I said, you know, 950 00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:01,279 Speaker 1: why are you here? Didn't You don't even know if 951 00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:03,239 Speaker 1: I'm a good person. You don't know if this relationship 952 00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:06,400 Speaker 1: is even worth salvaging. Why would you do that? You 953 00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:08,560 Speaker 1: didn't know, Rashwan, you have no dog in this fight. 954 00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:10,960 Speaker 1: You have nothing to gain or lose. You're supposed to 955 00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:13,920 Speaker 1: be at a wedding somewhere else. You change your flights 956 00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:17,680 Speaker 1: to be here. Why, he said, God sent me here 957 00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:20,359 Speaker 1: to do this? I said, what do you mean God? 958 00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:23,960 Speaker 1: Sent you here to do this. He said, God sent me. 959 00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:27,040 Speaker 1: I said, are you hearing voices? He said no, and 960 00:48:27,160 --> 00:48:32,120 Speaker 1: then he reiterated verbatim exactly what Rashid said to me 961 00:48:32,239 --> 00:48:35,720 Speaker 1: in my kitchen that day, and I had to ask him, tires, 962 00:48:35,800 --> 00:48:37,480 Speaker 1: I said, is that like in the Bible? Is what 963 00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:40,040 Speaker 1: you just said? Is that like a thing that people know? 964 00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:43,120 Speaker 1: And he said no, I'm just telling you how I feel. Like, 965 00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:45,000 Speaker 1: what do you mean? And at that moment, I just 966 00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:49,840 Speaker 1: like threw my hands up and I said, like, okay, 967 00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:52,560 Speaker 1: and I looked at Rashawn and I said, I forgive you. 968 00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:56,600 Speaker 1: I don't know what that means. I will work on 969 00:48:56,760 --> 00:48:59,200 Speaker 1: this with you. I don't know how long that will take. 970 00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:02,239 Speaker 1: I will you what I'm now believing is required of me. 971 00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:06,520 Speaker 1: But We're going to be in for a ride because 972 00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:09,440 Speaker 1: I'm not really there. But I can commit to you 973 00:49:09,520 --> 00:49:12,359 Speaker 1: in this moment because there is not that much coincidence 974 00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:16,440 Speaker 1: in the world for what just happened. Thank you, got Yes, 975 00:49:17,080 --> 00:49:19,800 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm sorry to my wife too. I just 976 00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:26,680 Speaker 1: feel like apologize. I'm sorry. We got more with my 977 00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:29,440 Speaker 1: wife's Guia Casey. When we come back, we're talking out 978 00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:31,759 Speaker 1: new book that's out right now, Real Life, Real Love, 979 00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:34,520 Speaker 1: So don't go anywhere. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning Morning. 980 00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:38,600 Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the Guy. We 981 00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:41,359 Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest Steal 982 00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:44,040 Speaker 1: in the building, my wife Gia Casey. We're talking about 983 00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:47,359 Speaker 1: our new book, Real Life, Real Love, Life Lessons on Joy, 984 00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:49,719 Speaker 1: Pain and the Magic that holds Us Together. You could 985 00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:51,600 Speaker 1: pick it up today, or you can get it on 986 00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:53,319 Speaker 1: an audible and kin do it or wherever you get 987 00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:56,320 Speaker 1: your books. Yee, And let me ask you, because you know, 988 00:49:56,520 --> 00:49:58,560 Speaker 1: for women we always are like and like you said, 989 00:49:58,600 --> 00:50:00,960 Speaker 1: Tyres was having a conversation, O, man can't cheat on 990 00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:05,560 Speaker 1: you but still love you. Yeah, but why, Like you know, 991 00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:07,840 Speaker 1: that's something that for women we always want to know. 992 00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:11,439 Speaker 1: And I'm sure you had so many conversations. I still 993 00:50:11,440 --> 00:50:13,360 Speaker 1: don't like his answer. I don't necessarily agree with what 994 00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:16,920 Speaker 1: Tyre said. I really feel that until you know the 995 00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:19,719 Speaker 1: definition of what love really means. I think a lot 996 00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:21,440 Speaker 1: of times people just say I love you, and oh, 997 00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:23,920 Speaker 1: it's oh, I love you. But until you understand the 998 00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:26,560 Speaker 1: definition of what love means, then you realize I don't 999 00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:28,879 Speaker 1: if I love somebody like I say, you don't want 1000 00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:30,200 Speaker 1: to hurt them. You don't want to cheat on them, 1001 00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:31,719 Speaker 1: you don't want to disrespect them, you don't want to 1002 00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:34,400 Speaker 1: have them looking crazy because you love that person. And 1003 00:50:34,600 --> 00:50:36,800 Speaker 1: I don't think I knew the definition of love. But 1004 00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:39,440 Speaker 1: when I figured that definition of what love is and 1005 00:50:39,560 --> 00:50:41,719 Speaker 1: what gear meant to me, you know, you realize I 1006 00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:43,040 Speaker 1: don't want to hurt her. I don't want to see 1007 00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:44,440 Speaker 1: her cry, I don't want to see her feel a way. 1008 00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:45,800 Speaker 1: I don't want to disrespect that. I don't want to 1009 00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:47,839 Speaker 1: be controlling. I don't want to be any of those things. 1010 00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:50,480 Speaker 1: And when you realize what that definition is, you your 1011 00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:52,800 Speaker 1: outlook of life changes. I agree with it me and 1012 00:50:52,880 --> 00:50:55,000 Speaker 1: I'll add on because I've explored this in therapy to 1013 00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:58,680 Speaker 1: when you say, oh, you can cheat and still love 1014 00:50:58,719 --> 00:51:01,399 Speaker 1: a person, you might, but you don't really love yourself. Yeah, 1015 00:51:01,719 --> 00:51:03,399 Speaker 1: I think a lot of times and not a lot 1016 00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:05,600 Speaker 1: of times. All the time men cheat for ego. Oh 1017 00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:08,640 Speaker 1: like that's it. It's wounded ego. It's something that we're lacking. 1018 00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:10,239 Speaker 1: It has nothing to do with all wives, nothing to 1019 00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:12,640 Speaker 1: do with our girlfriends. It's something that we feel like 1020 00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:16,040 Speaker 1: we're lacking for whatever reason, and that's what we go 1021 00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:18,520 Speaker 1: and do. It's literally just to feed all ego. Nothing 1022 00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:20,880 Speaker 1: like you think cheat for the same reason as men, 1023 00:51:21,000 --> 00:51:23,759 Speaker 1: or you think it's different, Like when women cheat, you 1024 00:51:23,840 --> 00:51:26,759 Speaker 1: think they cheat for different reasons. I think women also 1025 00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:31,640 Speaker 1: cheat for ego. Who doesn't like to have the attention 1026 00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:35,640 Speaker 1: of the opposite sex, you know, especially when you are 1027 00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:38,200 Speaker 1: at a deficit and you do have holes and you 1028 00:51:38,360 --> 00:51:42,560 Speaker 1: need those holes filled and most people have slight holes, 1029 00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:44,520 Speaker 1: you know, not that you're out there thirsty for the 1030 00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:47,759 Speaker 1: attention of the opposite sex, but even if it's of 1031 00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:50,040 Speaker 1: the same sex, when someone pays you a compliment, like 1032 00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:53,959 Speaker 1: it's nice to be wanted, is essentially what I'm saying. 1033 00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:57,560 Speaker 1: So for women, yeah, I mean I think that if 1034 00:51:57,600 --> 00:52:00,719 Speaker 1: you're with someone and you cheat, I think a big 1035 00:52:00,800 --> 00:52:02,839 Speaker 1: part of it is ego. But then you know, you'll 1036 00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:04,879 Speaker 1: have people that say that they cheat because the person 1037 00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:08,000 Speaker 1: at home isn't doing what they're supposed to do, you know. 1038 00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:11,080 Speaker 1: And we have a son, Logan, he's eighteen, so he's 1039 00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:13,840 Speaker 1: starting to date seriously and whatnot now. And I had 1040 00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:16,240 Speaker 1: a conversation with him the other day and I said, listen, 1041 00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:19,480 Speaker 1: if you commit to a girl and you make her 1042 00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:22,160 Speaker 1: your girlfriend. One thing I do not want you to 1043 00:52:22,280 --> 00:52:25,319 Speaker 1: do is cheat. Do not come to me and tell 1044 00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:27,400 Speaker 1: me that you guys broke up because you cheated on her, 1045 00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:30,280 Speaker 1: Because I've raised you better than that. If you decide 1046 00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:34,000 Speaker 1: that you want something else or she's not satisfying whatever 1047 00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:36,759 Speaker 1: needs you have, break up with her and move on 1048 00:52:36,880 --> 00:52:39,080 Speaker 1: to the next. And if within a week you feel 1049 00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:41,040 Speaker 1: the same way about that girl, break up with her 1050 00:52:41,200 --> 00:52:43,520 Speaker 1: and move on to the next. Do not cheat, because 1051 00:52:43,520 --> 00:52:47,120 Speaker 1: you're sacrificing your own integrity when you do that, and 1052 00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:50,719 Speaker 1: that's pretty much a sign of really not loving yourself. 1053 00:52:50,800 --> 00:52:53,759 Speaker 1: When you love yourself, you want to be self actualized. 1054 00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:55,880 Speaker 1: You want to be your best self. You want to 1055 00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:58,520 Speaker 1: reach your highest potential. You want to be a kind, 1056 00:52:58,640 --> 00:53:00,880 Speaker 1: a good person, and you owe that to yourself. You 1057 00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:02,920 Speaker 1: don't necessarily owe it to the other person. You owe 1058 00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:04,960 Speaker 1: it to yourself to do those things. And that's what 1059 00:53:05,040 --> 00:53:08,280 Speaker 1: I'm trying to instill in him as my oldest male child. 1060 00:53:08,719 --> 00:53:10,880 Speaker 1: You know, one of the biggest things I think that 1061 00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:12,440 Speaker 1: came out of this was all the work that he 1062 00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:15,560 Speaker 1: did do on himself, and he was suicidal at a point. 1063 00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:18,520 Speaker 1: That's that's that's what we know that right. Yes, I 1064 00:53:18,600 --> 00:53:20,319 Speaker 1: don't think that was all because of what we were 1065 00:53:20,360 --> 00:53:21,759 Speaker 1: going on with you. I think it was, like I said, 1066 00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:23,920 Speaker 1: it was other things that he was dealing with inside 1067 00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:26,160 Speaker 1: of him that probably got him to that point. Yes, 1068 00:53:26,239 --> 00:53:30,160 Speaker 1: we would have to ask him, because we've never had 1069 00:53:30,200 --> 00:53:35,000 Speaker 1: a conversation of it being about anything besides the threat 1070 00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:38,879 Speaker 1: of losing our relationship. I would say this. I would say, 1071 00:53:39,040 --> 00:53:40,560 Speaker 1: you know, I used to look at people who committed 1072 00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:43,719 Speaker 1: suicide as so often sucker, like that's because that's what 1073 00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:46,440 Speaker 1: society made you think. Until I got into that predicament 1074 00:53:46,480 --> 00:53:50,040 Speaker 1: where I felt like my life, well everybody's life around me, 1075 00:53:50,120 --> 00:53:53,120 Speaker 1: would be better if I wasn't here, and I couldn't 1076 00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:56,399 Speaker 1: shake it. And the majority of it was losing my wife, 1077 00:53:56,480 --> 00:53:59,600 Speaker 1: losing my family, losing the thing that I knew when 1078 00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:01,880 Speaker 1: that I love UM, and I really feel like I 1079 00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:04,440 Speaker 1: didn't want to be there, and and I guess it 1080 00:54:04,640 --> 00:54:07,160 Speaker 1: was everything else that we said, like the insecurities that 1081 00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:09,719 Speaker 1: made me do it, the insecurities around me, and I 1082 00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:11,799 Speaker 1: just didn't know who I was as a person who 1083 00:54:12,120 --> 00:54:16,520 Speaker 1: that's powerful. UM. I will say during all of that 1084 00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:20,160 Speaker 1: and all those conversations and all those late night talks 1085 00:54:20,280 --> 00:54:23,600 Speaker 1: and with praying, you feel like you realize who you 1086 00:54:23,719 --> 00:54:25,839 Speaker 1: are as a person. And once you figure that out, 1087 00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:27,719 Speaker 1: you figure out who you want to be, who you 1088 00:54:27,800 --> 00:54:29,200 Speaker 1: want to who you want to live like, and you 1089 00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:31,400 Speaker 1: don't care about anything else. You know, at one time 1090 00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:33,640 Speaker 1: I used to care what people thought. Now I don't care. 1091 00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:36,800 Speaker 1: As long as my wife and my family's happy. Everything 1092 00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:39,439 Speaker 1: else is just white noise behind it. Just think about 1093 00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:41,719 Speaker 1: how much stronger you guys are as individuals, and your 1094 00:54:41,760 --> 00:54:44,000 Speaker 1: marriage is so much stronger after everything you've been through. 1095 00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:46,840 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah, yeah if he said something powerful 1096 00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:49,040 Speaker 1: to because this business, this business will have you living 1097 00:54:49,080 --> 00:54:52,359 Speaker 1: a lie. Because we're characters, right, So we create these 1098 00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:55,160 Speaker 1: characters that kind of protect their Sean and protect the 1099 00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:57,799 Speaker 1: Lenard and we're going we go home and we're one way, 1100 00:54:57,840 --> 00:54:59,759 Speaker 1: but then we're out in the street being another way. 1101 00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:03,879 Speaker 1: You can't do both. Eventually that negative is gonna catch up. Yeah, 1102 00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:06,320 Speaker 1: So that's that's why I think he was going through, like, 1103 00:55:06,400 --> 00:55:08,520 Speaker 1: not only just the thread of losing you, but just like, 1104 00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:12,200 Speaker 1: who am I? What's that hard for you? Having this 1105 00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:17,000 Speaker 1: dual personality? Almost absolutely, because I mean, like, nothing's better 1106 00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:18,800 Speaker 1: now than to not care what people think. You know, 1107 00:55:18,800 --> 00:55:20,800 Speaker 1: I would have to free the freedom. I would have 1108 00:55:20,840 --> 00:55:22,120 Speaker 1: to think about what I was saying in a radio 1109 00:55:22,160 --> 00:55:23,840 Speaker 1: and how would affect me, how people would look at me. 1110 00:55:24,000 --> 00:55:25,760 Speaker 1: I would have to think about this or think about 1111 00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:28,040 Speaker 1: that instead of just being free and say, hey, it 1112 00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:29,600 Speaker 1: is what it is taking. How you like it. If 1113 00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:31,120 Speaker 1: you like me, like me, If you love me, you 1114 00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:32,600 Speaker 1: love me. If you hate me, you hate me. And 1115 00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:35,800 Speaker 1: once I got to that that place, life became a 1116 00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:38,840 Speaker 1: whole lot better. See a lot of gems in this 1117 00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:41,799 Speaker 1: Fuck you guys, I was thoroughly entertaining. Like I said, 1118 00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:45,960 Speaker 1: I look stressed. I think he's been nervous all morning 1119 00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:50,239 Speaker 1: before you got The book is out today, Go get 1120 00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:52,359 Speaker 1: it man. Make sure you pick it up. Real life, 1121 00:55:52,480 --> 00:55:55,400 Speaker 1: real love, Getting today life lessons on joy, pain, and 1122 00:55:55,440 --> 00:55:58,480 Speaker 1: the magic that holds us together. That's right, Amazon, Barns 1123 00:55:58,520 --> 00:56:01,680 Speaker 1: and Nobles, wherever you buy books, your local bookstores. Please 1124 00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:03,840 Speaker 1: pick it up today, and when you do read it, 1125 00:56:04,239 --> 00:56:05,800 Speaker 1: you read it please. What we want you to do 1126 00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:07,719 Speaker 1: is we want you to tell us what you think 1127 00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:10,360 Speaker 1: about the book, whether it's a thirty second video taggy 1128 00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:12,440 Speaker 1: and now we want to repost it, whether you love it, 1129 00:56:12,520 --> 00:56:14,160 Speaker 1: whether you hate it. We're going to repost all of 1130 00:56:14,239 --> 00:56:16,360 Speaker 1: them because we'd love to get you guys' feedback. And 1131 00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:17,960 Speaker 1: I think there's y'all gonna help a lot of couples. 1132 00:56:17,960 --> 00:56:19,840 Speaker 1: And it's clear that y'all two are meant to be 1133 00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:22,080 Speaker 1: with each other, you know what I'm saying. One of 1134 00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:24,879 Speaker 1: my favorite chapters is called the New Deal, and it's 1135 00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:29,359 Speaker 1: pretty much about reparations that the offender has to make 1136 00:56:29,960 --> 00:56:34,120 Speaker 1: after offending their partner. And it's those things that will 1137 00:56:34,200 --> 00:56:37,719 Speaker 1: help to let to signal to your partner that you 1138 00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:41,759 Speaker 1: just may be worthy of forgiveness and being extended grace. 1139 00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:44,200 Speaker 1: So what are those reparations? The first thing people will say, Oh, 1140 00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:46,200 Speaker 1: that's why he does the Twelve Days of Christmas. You 1141 00:56:46,280 --> 00:56:51,080 Speaker 1: know that's right. A lot of people do say. But 1142 00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:53,759 Speaker 1: you know what's funny, and that's the funny thing. We've 1143 00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:57,960 Speaker 1: always done twelve Days of Christmas. We just never made 1144 00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:00,279 Speaker 1: it public. And it's not the type of thing that 1145 00:57:00,719 --> 00:57:05,000 Speaker 1: at first I ever wanted to make public because it 1146 00:57:05,400 --> 00:57:09,720 Speaker 1: is grand. But I decided to start posting it because 1147 00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:13,880 Speaker 1: it's not about the material items that he gives me 1148 00:57:14,239 --> 00:57:18,760 Speaker 1: for Christmas. It's about the intention behind it. It's about 1149 00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:22,200 Speaker 1: the thought. You know, he starts shopping almost a year 1150 00:57:22,320 --> 00:57:26,000 Speaker 1: in advance for that, and every gift comes with something special, 1151 00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:29,360 Speaker 1: a little note, a little treasure hunt to find the gift, 1152 00:57:30,040 --> 00:57:34,560 Speaker 1: a prayer, a poem, something that is giving of his heart, 1153 00:57:34,760 --> 00:57:37,160 Speaker 1: not giving of his pocket. And that's why when you, 1154 00:57:37,400 --> 00:57:39,040 Speaker 1: you know, you read the book and you hear y'all talk, 1155 00:57:39,240 --> 00:57:41,160 Speaker 1: that's why you understand why he got so upset at 1156 00:57:41,200 --> 00:57:43,680 Speaker 1: these and merrow correct, you know what I'm saying, because 1157 00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:46,680 Speaker 1: y'all relationship is so much deeper. Of course, you know, 1158 00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:50,880 Speaker 1: because with their comment, it almost to me suggests as 1159 00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:57,520 Speaker 1: though there's nothing else worthy about him that would signal 1160 00:57:57,600 --> 00:58:01,880 Speaker 1: me to stay aside from what he has to offer financially. 1161 00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:05,440 Speaker 1: And it's a joke, right, but we all know that 1162 00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:10,360 Speaker 1: all jokes are rooted in some truth. And that's what 1163 00:58:10,560 --> 00:58:13,200 Speaker 1: I think their truth was. Looking at it from an outsider, 1164 00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:17,760 Speaker 1: I wasn't some jackie complately and met somebody with money 1165 00:58:17,800 --> 00:58:20,840 Speaker 1: and was like, oh, come up. We ground it out 1166 00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:25,760 Speaker 1: from day one. I was always there and supporting him 1167 00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:30,080 Speaker 1: and loving him. And if he failed and wound up 1168 00:58:30,120 --> 00:58:35,120 Speaker 1: being a secretary or anything followed another path, I would 1169 00:58:35,160 --> 00:58:42,920 Speaker 1: still be there yet it took a beat to get that. 1170 00:58:46,320 --> 00:58:49,720 Speaker 1: I just can't believe what are you talking. I'm just 1171 00:58:49,880 --> 00:58:53,800 Speaker 1: suggesting other career options that I can't believe it with me. 1172 00:58:54,040 --> 00:58:56,680 Speaker 1: My wife had he like, you're disrespectful real life. Really, 1173 00:58:56,840 --> 00:58:59,880 Speaker 1: thank you for having me, guys pick it up today. 1174 00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:02,600 Speaker 1: And uh, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. No, you 1175 00:59:02,640 --> 00:59:06,680 Speaker 1: gotta tell this guest I love you before you sign off. Yes, Casey, 1176 00:59:06,800 --> 00:59:08,640 Speaker 1: thank you for joining us. I love you. I love 1177 00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:13,320 Speaker 1: you way more. To Charlava, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. 1178 00:59:17,440 --> 00:59:22,840 Speaker 1: It's time for Donkey of the Day. So being Donkey 1179 00:59:22,840 --> 00:59:25,040 Speaker 1: of the day a little bit of a mixture, so 1180 00:59:25,200 --> 00:59:32,200 Speaker 1: like a donkey the other day club bitches. Now I've 1181 00:59:32,240 --> 00:59:34,160 Speaker 1: been called a lot of my twenty three years. That 1182 00:59:34,280 --> 00:59:38,280 Speaker 1: Donkey of the day is a new wife. Donkey of 1183 00:59:38,360 --> 00:59:40,280 Speaker 1: the Day goes to a twenty nine year old woman 1184 00:59:40,360 --> 00:59:44,440 Speaker 1: in Louisiana named Jenna Lisa Lawrence now Genna Lisa Lawrence's 1185 00:59:44,520 --> 00:59:48,200 Speaker 1: wanted for attempted second degree murder. Her bond is one 1186 00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:51,280 Speaker 1: hundred and fifty thousand dollars, and police believe she fled 1187 00:59:51,360 --> 00:59:54,240 Speaker 1: from Louisiana to Dallas because that's where she's from, or 1188 00:59:54,320 --> 00:59:56,520 Speaker 1: that that's what they thought. She's actually turned herself instance, 1189 00:59:56,560 --> 00:59:59,640 Speaker 1: then uh, second degree murder. Well what did this young 1190 00:59:59,720 --> 01:00:03,240 Speaker 1: queen do to catch that charge? Well, Genna Lisa is 1191 01:00:03,280 --> 01:00:06,880 Speaker 1: what I like to call a peace disruptor, an agitator 1192 01:00:06,960 --> 01:00:10,400 Speaker 1: of auras, the type that cannot allow a spirit to 1193 01:00:10,600 --> 01:00:14,120 Speaker 1: just be still. Oh yes, we all have those kinds 1194 01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:17,360 Speaker 1: of people in our lives. Do you understand that? Forty 1195 01:00:17,400 --> 01:00:19,680 Speaker 1: two years old, all I want to do is protect 1196 01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:23,480 Speaker 1: my peace by any means necessary. My mental health diet 1197 01:00:23,680 --> 01:00:27,080 Speaker 1: is very important. If what I'm taking in does not 1198 01:00:27,320 --> 01:00:29,920 Speaker 1: nourish my mental health, I don't allow it. In my space. 1199 01:00:30,280 --> 01:00:34,120 Speaker 1: My peace is non negotiable. I'm not going anywhere I 1200 01:00:34,200 --> 01:00:36,840 Speaker 1: don't want to be. I'm not doing anything I don't 1201 01:00:36,880 --> 01:00:38,840 Speaker 1: want to do, and I'm damn sure not going to 1202 01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:42,040 Speaker 1: talk or be around anyone I don't want to be with. See, 1203 01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:44,920 Speaker 1: some people like Genna Lisa just want to argue. I 1204 01:00:45,080 --> 01:00:47,760 Speaker 1: know the type. They into your space and can't wait 1205 01:00:47,840 --> 01:00:49,720 Speaker 1: to get into a back and forth with you. Now, 1206 01:00:49,760 --> 01:00:53,360 Speaker 1: I love me a good debate, okay that, but sometimes 1207 01:00:53,480 --> 01:00:55,520 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, I don't. And that's why 1208 01:00:55,640 --> 01:00:58,520 Speaker 1: sometimes when people text you certain things looking for a debate, 1209 01:00:58,760 --> 01:01:01,320 Speaker 1: an argument, a backing forth, whatever you want to call it. 1210 01:01:01,960 --> 01:01:05,760 Speaker 1: If I don't ignore it completely, I just reply back. Okay, 1211 01:01:06,760 --> 01:01:09,120 Speaker 1: that's growth. But see that's not enough for a piece 1212 01:01:09,200 --> 01:01:12,360 Speaker 1: disruptor like Genna Lisa. No, no, no, people like that 1213 01:01:12,480 --> 01:01:15,560 Speaker 1: will not stop until you go back and forth with them. 1214 01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:18,920 Speaker 1: And as a wise man named Little Duval once told us, 1215 01:01:19,320 --> 01:01:22,240 Speaker 1: I'm living my best life. Ain't going back and forth 1216 01:01:22,320 --> 01:01:27,320 Speaker 1: with you? That ain't going back and fourth part is 1217 01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:31,000 Speaker 1: very important. But once again, an agitator of ours like 1218 01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:34,400 Speaker 1: Genna Lisa, she's not having it. She won't stop until 1219 01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:38,200 Speaker 1: she transfers that negative energy that exists within her into you. 1220 01:01:38,600 --> 01:01:41,560 Speaker 1: That's the law of energy, kids, Sir Isaac Newton said 1221 01:01:41,560 --> 01:01:44,000 Speaker 1: it best. The law of energy is energy is never 1222 01:01:44,160 --> 01:01:46,960 Speaker 1: lost and destroyed, just merely transfer from one party to 1223 01:01:47,040 --> 01:01:49,600 Speaker 1: the next. And that's exactly what Jenna Lisa was trying 1224 01:01:49,640 --> 01:01:52,600 Speaker 1: to do. See according to Action News Too in Atlanta, 1225 01:01:52,920 --> 01:01:57,720 Speaker 1: Genna Lisa was upset because her boyfriend refused to argue 1226 01:01:57,760 --> 01:02:01,280 Speaker 1: with her. Did you hear me? Jenna Lisa was upset 1227 01:02:01,480 --> 01:02:05,760 Speaker 1: because her boyfriend refused to argue with her. Jenna Lisa, 1228 01:02:06,040 --> 01:02:08,520 Speaker 1: do you know how many women would love to have 1229 01:02:08,640 --> 01:02:11,040 Speaker 1: a man who doesn't argue with them. Do you know 1230 01:02:11,240 --> 01:02:13,320 Speaker 1: how many women would love to have a man who 1231 01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:15,800 Speaker 1: didn't pick a fight about every little thing. There's some 1232 01:02:15,960 --> 01:02:19,440 Speaker 1: women driving the work right now listening to Donkey at 1233 01:02:19,480 --> 01:02:23,320 Speaker 1: the day, angry because then man picked a fight with 1234 01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:26,080 Speaker 1: them last night, our first thing this morning, they was 1235 01:02:26,520 --> 01:02:32,040 Speaker 1: arguing about something stupid. I promise you, this quarantine has 1236 01:02:32,120 --> 01:02:35,240 Speaker 1: tested the strength of so many relationships, has tested the 1237 01:02:35,360 --> 01:02:38,720 Speaker 1: patience and so many relationships, and so many people have 1238 01:02:38,880 --> 01:02:43,120 Speaker 1: sat around and asked themselves repeatedly, what are we arguing 1239 01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:47,480 Speaker 1: about now? Because they have a significant other who absolutely 1240 01:02:47,560 --> 01:02:52,440 Speaker 1: positively always has to find something to argue about. Meanwhile, Jenna, Lisa, 1241 01:02:52,960 --> 01:02:54,880 Speaker 1: you have a man who doesn't want to argue with you. 1242 01:02:55,240 --> 01:03:00,200 Speaker 1: He's probably chanting to himself, spiritually disciplined brother who's trying 1243 01:03:00,200 --> 01:03:03,640 Speaker 1: to be the best version of himself, Okay, attempting to 1244 01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:07,840 Speaker 1: have heightened energy and more sensitivity towards us. This nice, 1245 01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:23,480 Speaker 1: compassionate boot a chance, just listen. Oh yes, just protecting 1246 01:03:23,600 --> 01:03:28,080 Speaker 1: his space, okay, protecting his true protecting his peace and 1247 01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:32,520 Speaker 1: then bound this happens. Let's go to kas La News 1248 01:03:32,560 --> 01:03:34,840 Speaker 1: twelve for the report police. A man is fighting for 1249 01:03:34,960 --> 01:03:38,000 Speaker 1: his life tonight, and the woman police believer is responsible. 1250 01:03:38,040 --> 01:03:40,920 Speaker 1: It is twenty nine year old Gina Alicia Lawrence. She 1251 01:03:41,080 --> 01:03:43,560 Speaker 1: is allegedly the strange girlfriend of a thirty four year 1252 01:03:43,560 --> 01:03:46,560 Speaker 1: old man that was shot. Lawrence allegedly shot him following 1253 01:03:46,600 --> 01:03:49,320 Speaker 1: a dispute. She left the area and a green Honda 1254 01:03:49,360 --> 01:03:52,560 Speaker 1: Accord with primer on the left passenger side front door. 1255 01:03:52,960 --> 01:03:56,400 Speaker 1: Right now, police have a warrant charging Lawrence with attempted 1256 01:03:56,440 --> 01:04:01,320 Speaker 1: second degree murder. That's right. Gena Lisa shot her boyfriend 1257 01:04:01,880 --> 01:04:04,800 Speaker 1: simply because her boyfriend didn't want to argue with her. 1258 01:04:05,480 --> 01:04:08,840 Speaker 1: You see how negativity works. Do you see how negative 1259 01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:12,040 Speaker 1: energy works? Genner, Lisa's boyfriend didn't do anything to her. 1260 01:04:12,720 --> 01:04:15,800 Speaker 1: She wasn't mad at him, She was mad at herself. 1261 01:04:16,600 --> 01:04:19,800 Speaker 1: Whatever hurt she had inside of her, she passed on 1262 01:04:20,000 --> 01:04:23,480 Speaker 1: to him, because that's what hurt people do. Hurt people, 1263 01:04:24,240 --> 01:04:27,280 Speaker 1: healed people. Healed people, hurt people, hurt other people. I 1264 01:04:27,440 --> 01:04:30,720 Speaker 1: respect the boyfriend because clearly he's father along in his 1265 01:04:30,880 --> 01:04:34,880 Speaker 1: journey of healing than she is. Because she likes discomfort 1266 01:04:35,080 --> 01:04:39,160 Speaker 1: so much, she likes disruption so much that she was 1267 01:04:39,320 --> 01:04:43,160 Speaker 1: upset her boyfriend wouldn't give her back what she was 1268 01:04:43,240 --> 01:04:45,880 Speaker 1: trying to serve him. Oh, you're just gonna walk around 1269 01:04:45,960 --> 01:04:48,840 Speaker 1: hit peaceful. You just gonna be happy in my presence. 1270 01:04:49,080 --> 01:04:51,439 Speaker 1: What's going so good in your life that you don't 1271 01:04:51,480 --> 01:04:53,640 Speaker 1: want to argue with me? What is this hakunam a 1272 01:04:53,680 --> 01:04:55,840 Speaker 1: tide of thing you talking about? Let me tell you 1273 01:04:55,920 --> 01:04:58,760 Speaker 1: what that is, Genna Lisa. It's called making a choice. 1274 01:04:59,320 --> 01:05:01,360 Speaker 1: And when you are protecting your piece, you have to 1275 01:05:01,440 --> 01:05:05,400 Speaker 1: make the choice to not allow anybody to make you angry. 1276 01:05:05,880 --> 01:05:08,800 Speaker 1: Don't let them disturb your peace of mind or upset. 1277 01:05:08,920 --> 01:05:12,439 Speaker 1: You don't give your power away to another king or queen. 1278 01:05:13,320 --> 01:05:16,480 Speaker 1: You decide your mood, not them. Jenna Lisa, you tried it, 1279 01:05:17,000 --> 01:05:19,640 Speaker 1: and every other piece disrupt that out there. I'm gonna 1280 01:05:19,640 --> 01:05:22,240 Speaker 1: pray for you. I want you to get healing. And 1281 01:05:22,320 --> 01:05:24,440 Speaker 1: to all my brothers and sisters out there that are 1282 01:05:24,440 --> 01:05:27,480 Speaker 1: attempting to be the best versions of themselves, living their 1283 01:05:27,600 --> 01:05:31,920 Speaker 1: best lives, protecting their peace, I want to tell you, please, please, 1284 01:05:32,000 --> 01:05:36,160 Speaker 1: please protect your peace today and every day. Rise above 1285 01:05:36,240 --> 01:05:40,360 Speaker 1: any ignorance and don't allow someone else's misery to steal 1286 01:05:40,480 --> 01:05:43,840 Speaker 1: your joy. Please give Jenna Lisa Lawrence the sweet sounds 1287 01:05:43,840 --> 01:05:54,800 Speaker 1: of the Hamletones. Oh now you are gee da gee 1288 01:05:56,200 --> 01:06:04,120 Speaker 1: oh the day? Ye all right, well, thank you for 1289 01:06:04,200 --> 01:06:07,680 Speaker 1: that down key today Charlo Mane. That's right. The breakfast 1290 01:06:07,760 --> 01:06:14,200 Speaker 1: Club up in the morning. Check out this breakfast club. 1291 01:06:14,320 --> 01:06:18,960 Speaker 1: We want morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela yee. Charlemagne 1292 01:06:18,960 --> 01:06:20,640 Speaker 1: the guy. We are the breakfast Club. We got a 1293 01:06:20,680 --> 01:06:24,760 Speaker 1: special guest in the building, sir her. What's up? Good morning, 1294 01:06:24,880 --> 01:06:28,000 Speaker 1: her morning? How are you? I'm good. It's bright and early. 1295 01:06:28,240 --> 01:06:31,400 Speaker 1: It is early. You know, I'm not a morning person, 1296 01:06:31,480 --> 01:06:33,480 Speaker 1: but I just came back from the UK, so I'm good. Okay, 1297 01:06:33,600 --> 01:06:37,040 Speaker 1: So congratulations to you because you've been having a phenomenal 1298 01:06:37,120 --> 01:06:40,320 Speaker 1: pass Yeah, thank you, thank you. Yeah, it's been crazy, 1299 01:06:40,440 --> 01:06:42,760 Speaker 1: honestly to how many instruments do you play? Um? I 1300 01:06:42,880 --> 01:06:48,200 Speaker 1: play mainly guitar, keys, bass, and drums. Damn, let's let's 1301 01:06:48,200 --> 01:06:49,440 Speaker 1: talk in again. A lot of people don't know how 1302 01:06:49,440 --> 01:06:50,880 Speaker 1: did you get into the music industry. I know you 1303 01:06:50,960 --> 01:06:52,640 Speaker 1: were signed at like the age of fourteen. How do 1304 01:06:52,720 --> 01:06:54,800 Speaker 1: you start? How did you get into the industry? Man? 1305 01:06:54,920 --> 01:06:56,480 Speaker 1: I mean, it's a long story, but I've been doing 1306 01:06:56,520 --> 01:06:58,840 Speaker 1: music for a really long time. My dad was a musician, 1307 01:06:59,000 --> 01:07:02,800 Speaker 1: just for fun and and um, I was singing as 1308 01:07:02,920 --> 01:07:06,120 Speaker 1: a as a young kid, and things just happened the 1309 01:07:06,160 --> 01:07:08,240 Speaker 1: way they were supposed to happen. The stars kind of 1310 01:07:08,240 --> 01:07:10,400 Speaker 1: aligned for me, and I was doing meetings and stuff 1311 01:07:10,400 --> 01:07:12,440 Speaker 1: at a very young age. People saw me, you know, 1312 01:07:12,560 --> 01:07:15,120 Speaker 1: singing playing Alicia Keys songs as a young girl, like 1313 01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:17,959 Speaker 1: on YouTube and stuff, and um, eventually I got signed 1314 01:07:18,120 --> 01:07:20,000 Speaker 1: RCA when I was fourteen, and you know, I had 1315 01:07:20,040 --> 01:07:22,160 Speaker 1: the time to develop and figure out who I was 1316 01:07:22,480 --> 01:07:27,560 Speaker 1: as a person growing too. Yeah, absolutely, drop, oh pretty much. 1317 01:07:27,640 --> 01:07:29,720 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, when you're fourteen, you don't know 1318 01:07:29,840 --> 01:07:31,760 Speaker 1: who you are yet, you don't know even who you 1319 01:07:31,840 --> 01:07:34,560 Speaker 1: want to be. So I've seen the talent that early. Man. 1320 01:07:34,680 --> 01:07:37,360 Speaker 1: I mean, my parents number one, but there were so 1321 01:07:37,440 --> 01:07:40,520 Speaker 1: many people MBIK Entertainment, you know, they built Alicia Keys's career. 1322 01:07:41,160 --> 01:07:43,280 Speaker 1: Jeff Robinson as my manager. He kind of gave me 1323 01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:46,160 Speaker 1: that creative space, and we were kind of like like 1324 01:07:46,400 --> 01:07:49,960 Speaker 1: going against you know what, what our cia. You know, 1325 01:07:50,080 --> 01:07:52,800 Speaker 1: it was like it was like a push and pull 1326 01:07:52,920 --> 01:07:54,760 Speaker 1: as far as what was going to happen for me, 1327 01:07:54,960 --> 01:07:56,800 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It was like I wanted 1328 01:07:56,880 --> 01:07:59,400 Speaker 1: to make sure that I was in complete control of 1329 01:07:59,480 --> 01:08:02,640 Speaker 1: my situation as it, you know, my management team, and 1330 01:08:02,920 --> 01:08:05,360 Speaker 1: so I had the creative space to just figure out 1331 01:08:05,400 --> 01:08:07,800 Speaker 1: myself and figure out my sound and who who and 1332 01:08:07,880 --> 01:08:10,080 Speaker 1: what I was going to represent. Can you really grow 1333 01:08:10,480 --> 01:08:13,400 Speaker 1: as a human at at fourteen with a record deal? Like, 1334 01:08:13,480 --> 01:08:15,480 Speaker 1: can you really grow? And I mean I did because 1335 01:08:15,520 --> 01:08:17,599 Speaker 1: I was going to regular school, you know, and then 1336 01:08:17,600 --> 01:08:19,160 Speaker 1: I would I would come to New York for like 1337 01:08:19,240 --> 01:08:21,760 Speaker 1: a week or two weeks and record and and work 1338 01:08:21,800 --> 01:08:23,920 Speaker 1: with people, and then go back to school. You know 1339 01:08:23,960 --> 01:08:27,880 Speaker 1: what you're thinking, you know, it's so funny. I just 1340 01:08:28,320 --> 01:08:30,320 Speaker 1: I wrote a song called Curious. I wrote about people 1341 01:08:30,320 --> 01:08:32,360 Speaker 1: being in my business, like my parents, you know, like 1342 01:08:32,439 --> 01:08:39,479 Speaker 1: stuff like that, right exactly, No, No, my boyfriends stuff. 1343 01:08:39,520 --> 01:08:42,400 Speaker 1: So you wrote all your own music? Absolutely? Absolutely. I 1344 01:08:42,520 --> 01:08:45,479 Speaker 1: was been a writer. I'm a poet you know, as 1345 01:08:45,560 --> 01:08:47,200 Speaker 1: well as a writer, and I kind of you know, 1346 01:08:47,479 --> 01:08:49,479 Speaker 1: they go hand in hand. And you never got discouraged 1347 01:08:49,520 --> 01:08:52,120 Speaker 1: being signed so early and not really take it off 1348 01:08:52,160 --> 01:08:55,519 Speaker 1: to No. Absolutely, I mean, you know, after a few years, 1349 01:08:55,560 --> 01:08:57,040 Speaker 1: it's like, Okay, when am I going to put out music? 1350 01:08:57,080 --> 01:08:58,760 Speaker 1: When am I going to figure this out? Who am I? 1351 01:08:59,040 --> 01:09:00,760 Speaker 1: You know, what what am I? What am I gonna do? 1352 01:09:01,040 --> 01:09:03,760 Speaker 1: As far as my career is concerned. And so when 1353 01:09:03,760 --> 01:09:06,519 Speaker 1: I graduated high school, or before I graduated high school, 1354 01:09:06,520 --> 01:09:07,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, am I going to go to college? Or 1355 01:09:07,920 --> 01:09:09,240 Speaker 1: am I going to be in this music thing? One 1356 01:09:09,280 --> 01:09:11,720 Speaker 1: hundred percent? So there were frustrations there, you know, and 1357 01:09:11,840 --> 01:09:15,320 Speaker 1: watching everybody else that was signed to my management company. 1358 01:09:15,640 --> 01:09:19,120 Speaker 1: You know, it was Kim Michelle and Brand and Alicia 1359 01:09:19,200 --> 01:09:21,799 Speaker 1: Keys and el Varner and all these people, and Justine 1360 01:09:21,840 --> 01:09:24,680 Speaker 1: Sky like all these great artists doing their thing and 1361 01:09:24,800 --> 01:09:26,600 Speaker 1: me kind of like sitting on the sideline, you know, 1362 01:09:26,680 --> 01:09:29,160 Speaker 1: at their shows, kind of like waiting my turn, Like, Okay, 1363 01:09:29,439 --> 01:09:31,360 Speaker 1: pretty soon, i'm gonna have music out, I'm gonna be 1364 01:09:31,439 --> 01:09:33,960 Speaker 1: doing shows. I'm gonna be doing this, And uh yeah, 1365 01:09:34,000 --> 01:09:36,479 Speaker 1: I was just I was being patient, and I finally 1366 01:09:36,560 --> 01:09:38,000 Speaker 1: decided like all right, I'm gonna just be in this 1367 01:09:38,040 --> 01:09:40,160 Speaker 1: one hundred percent. What your parents supported me? So what 1368 01:09:40,280 --> 01:09:43,120 Speaker 1: does a teenager know about patients? Right? What did I 1369 01:09:43,200 --> 01:09:45,479 Speaker 1: know about patients? I don't know, man, I just I 1370 01:09:45,640 --> 01:09:47,400 Speaker 1: love music so much and there was nothing else I 1371 01:09:47,479 --> 01:09:49,560 Speaker 1: wanted to do. I feel I feel like, you know, 1372 01:09:50,000 --> 01:09:52,680 Speaker 1: as a young child with the label telling you you 1373 01:09:52,680 --> 01:09:54,320 Speaker 1: should be like this and you should be like that, 1374 01:09:54,439 --> 01:09:56,320 Speaker 1: Like that would be hard in your formidable years because 1375 01:09:56,360 --> 01:09:58,120 Speaker 1: everybody's trying to tell you what to be instead of 1376 01:09:58,200 --> 01:10:01,280 Speaker 1: just letting you be. Man, it is definitely definitely difficult. 1377 01:10:01,320 --> 01:10:03,479 Speaker 1: That's why I always preach to people like, no matter 1378 01:10:03,640 --> 01:10:06,040 Speaker 1: what anybody tells you, surround yourself with people that are 1379 01:10:06,080 --> 01:10:08,599 Speaker 1: going to embrace who you are and see the potential 1380 01:10:08,680 --> 01:10:11,439 Speaker 1: in what you can be and not what you should 1381 01:10:11,479 --> 01:10:14,679 Speaker 1: be or something that is modeled, you know, like something 1382 01:10:14,720 --> 01:10:16,840 Speaker 1: that you should be modeled after, you know, or or 1383 01:10:17,560 --> 01:10:20,800 Speaker 1: uh manufactured into you know. That was my whole thing, 1384 01:10:20,920 --> 01:10:23,400 Speaker 1: Like I'm gonna just find my voice and figure out 1385 01:10:23,479 --> 01:10:28,559 Speaker 1: my truth and and you know, presented that what I mean, 1386 01:10:28,880 --> 01:10:31,040 Speaker 1: I wasn't so much of a hiding my identity. It 1387 01:10:31,160 --> 01:10:33,080 Speaker 1: was more so like focusing on the music. Like I 1388 01:10:33,120 --> 01:10:34,800 Speaker 1: didn't want people to know how old I am. I 1389 01:10:34,840 --> 01:10:38,080 Speaker 1: didn't want people to know my you know, ethnicity, and 1390 01:10:38,200 --> 01:10:40,439 Speaker 1: I didn't want people to like see my face, you know, 1391 01:10:40,680 --> 01:10:44,120 Speaker 1: or or have any assumption. You know, we focus on 1392 01:10:44,200 --> 01:10:46,880 Speaker 1: all the superficial things and what's happening now, and I 1393 01:10:46,960 --> 01:10:49,040 Speaker 1: just wanted people to focus on the music and the message. 1394 01:10:49,040 --> 01:10:51,719 Speaker 1: And now people of all ages have kind of taken 1395 01:10:51,760 --> 01:10:53,960 Speaker 1: my music and made it their diary, you know, like, oh, 1396 01:10:54,000 --> 01:10:55,960 Speaker 1: they feel connected to it because they don't know anything 1397 01:10:56,040 --> 01:10:58,080 Speaker 1: about me. You know, all right, we got more with 1398 01:10:58,280 --> 01:11:00,479 Speaker 1: her when we come back, don't move. It's a fast club. 1399 01:11:00,520 --> 01:11:03,680 Speaker 1: Good morning, taking you back back with the classic work. 1400 01:11:03,800 --> 01:11:07,640 Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. This was a podcast. If you 1401 01:11:07,760 --> 01:11:09,840 Speaker 1: missed the Breakfast Club, you don't come from my world. 1402 01:11:09,960 --> 01:11:14,280 Speaker 1: It's dangerous. Check out this rewind morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, 1403 01:11:14,479 --> 01:11:17,559 Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. 1404 01:11:17,600 --> 01:11:20,040 Speaker 1: We have R and B recording artists, Hearth now Charlemagne, 1405 01:11:20,080 --> 01:11:22,519 Speaker 1: How did your career change when you revealed yourn I 1406 01:11:22,560 --> 01:11:25,240 Speaker 1: didn't really reveal it. They were speculating, oh you know 1407 01:11:25,280 --> 01:11:27,400 Speaker 1: who that is? Right right? Yes? But I mean I 1408 01:11:27,520 --> 01:11:29,320 Speaker 1: never was like, hey, turn out, you know what I mean? 1409 01:11:29,479 --> 01:11:32,840 Speaker 1: Like here, I am right right exactly. I mean, you 1410 01:11:32,920 --> 01:11:35,320 Speaker 1: see me a lot more. And at this point, I 1411 01:11:35,360 --> 01:11:37,240 Speaker 1: don't think it even matters who I am, what my 1412 01:11:37,320 --> 01:11:39,320 Speaker 1: name is, or anything, because people are in love with 1413 01:11:39,360 --> 01:11:41,040 Speaker 1: the music. That was the point to begin with it. 1414 01:11:41,200 --> 01:11:43,479 Speaker 1: We are still falling in love with it, regardless of 1415 01:11:43,840 --> 01:11:46,120 Speaker 1: knowing what I look like or anything. So so nobody 1416 01:11:46,160 --> 01:11:52,160 Speaker 1: can slide in your dams. Huh. No, you know you 1417 01:11:52,200 --> 01:11:54,840 Speaker 1: can get the little requests. Sometimes you be checking them 1418 01:11:55,000 --> 01:11:59,040 Speaker 1: sometimes depends. You know, why why don't you follow nobody? 1419 01:11:59,200 --> 01:12:01,920 Speaker 1: Because I'm not really like a you know, I don't 1420 01:12:01,960 --> 01:12:05,320 Speaker 1: really be on social media like that mess on her timeline, right. 1421 01:12:06,040 --> 01:12:07,760 Speaker 1: I still keep up, you know a little bit. It's 1422 01:12:07,800 --> 01:12:10,080 Speaker 1: on the explore page, but I don't really you know, 1423 01:12:10,680 --> 01:12:13,160 Speaker 1: people start getting salty, like why I don't follow me back? 1424 01:12:13,400 --> 01:12:16,000 Speaker 1: Or why you know you can't follow Daniel Caesar or 1425 01:12:16,080 --> 01:12:20,280 Speaker 1: nobody here? No, I'm not following anybody. Do you miss that? 1426 01:12:20,479 --> 01:12:24,040 Speaker 1: What's the word? Amen? What's the word? And there you go? 1427 01:12:24,160 --> 01:12:34,600 Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about. Sometimes sometimes, um, I 1428 01:12:34,720 --> 01:12:37,080 Speaker 1: guess I expected this, you know, I kind of mentally 1429 01:12:37,160 --> 01:12:40,320 Speaker 1: prepared for whatever would happen. I'm just happy to do music, 1430 01:12:40,560 --> 01:12:43,320 Speaker 1: you know, like it doesn't doesn't matter. I think sometimes 1431 01:12:43,400 --> 01:12:45,560 Speaker 1: I do, like I try to be lottle key, you know, 1432 01:12:45,680 --> 01:12:48,040 Speaker 1: I take the glasses off because if I have them on, 1433 01:12:48,280 --> 01:12:50,280 Speaker 1: then you recognize me and put my hair back walk 1434 01:12:50,360 --> 01:12:53,720 Speaker 1: around like wait a minute, that's and I'm like, you know, 1435 01:12:53,840 --> 01:12:55,880 Speaker 1: like my cover is blown. So how do you deal 1436 01:12:55,960 --> 01:12:58,680 Speaker 1: with relationships? Now? You know, because it's different now now 1437 01:12:58,760 --> 01:13:00,920 Speaker 1: they know who you are, they know you're I don't know, 1438 01:13:01,600 --> 01:13:03,719 Speaker 1: you know, it's hard to know if somebody really loves 1439 01:13:03,760 --> 01:13:08,439 Speaker 1: you for you, you know what, not anymore? You know what, 1440 01:13:08,680 --> 01:13:14,559 Speaker 1: there are people out there. Listen that is so negative. True, listen, 1441 01:13:15,040 --> 01:13:18,200 Speaker 1: be very very careful, honestly, whatever it is, whatever situation 1442 01:13:18,280 --> 01:13:20,760 Speaker 1: I get into, love takes time. When people show you 1443 01:13:20,920 --> 01:13:24,680 Speaker 1: who they are, you pay attention corny lines like hey, her, 1444 01:13:24,720 --> 01:13:28,280 Speaker 1: I want to be your him. Yeah, they always do that. Actually, 1445 01:13:28,479 --> 01:13:32,400 Speaker 1: and artist did come out to her all the time, 1446 01:13:32,840 --> 01:13:34,880 Speaker 1: all the time thinking about his corny lines that he 1447 01:13:34,920 --> 01:13:37,880 Speaker 1: would have had. What the corny is one? That is, 1448 01:13:43,560 --> 01:13:46,960 Speaker 1: how do you respond to that? I don't respond, Okay, 1449 01:13:47,120 --> 01:13:49,240 Speaker 1: all right, I can't hear out of the side of 1450 01:13:49,280 --> 01:13:51,439 Speaker 1: my head. What made you name yourself after a whole 1451 01:13:51,479 --> 01:13:55,080 Speaker 1: pronoun um? So it's kind of a long story. But um, 1452 01:13:55,320 --> 01:13:58,519 Speaker 1: when I was, you know, fifteen sixteen, I used to, 1453 01:13:58,800 --> 01:14:01,800 Speaker 1: you know, look at the women my high school or 1454 01:14:02,080 --> 01:14:04,200 Speaker 1: my big people I would consider my big sisters, and 1455 01:14:04,200 --> 01:14:06,080 Speaker 1: I would say, I'm never gonna, you know, make the 1456 01:14:06,160 --> 01:14:09,000 Speaker 1: mistakes that they're making. I'm never gonna fall in love 1457 01:14:09,040 --> 01:14:11,200 Speaker 1: with this guy and fall for the wrong guy and 1458 01:14:11,520 --> 01:14:14,120 Speaker 1: and all this stuff right, and I became her. I 1459 01:14:14,200 --> 01:14:16,760 Speaker 1: became that girl. But we have to go through things 1460 01:14:16,800 --> 01:14:19,400 Speaker 1: on our own. Sometime. Absolutely, watch people make mistakes, and 1461 01:14:19,439 --> 01:14:21,280 Speaker 1: you would wish we could learn from the mistakes to 1462 01:14:21,360 --> 01:14:24,120 Speaker 1: other people. But sometimes to find her in something and 1463 01:14:24,240 --> 01:14:27,439 Speaker 1: it doesn't, You're like, how did I get here? Exactly here? 1464 01:14:27,960 --> 01:14:30,840 Speaker 1: It's like you got a little bit of other women 1465 01:14:30,880 --> 01:14:33,400 Speaker 1: in you, so to speak. I mean I would say 1466 01:14:33,800 --> 01:14:37,640 Speaker 1: her right. So we all as women when we're you know, 1467 01:14:37,920 --> 01:14:44,040 Speaker 1: even from high school to adulthood, we experienced similar changes, 1468 01:14:44,320 --> 01:14:47,640 Speaker 1: shared experiences. Right, we have feelings. We've all felt for 1469 01:14:47,720 --> 01:14:51,200 Speaker 1: that wrong guy or that guy that was no good 1470 01:14:51,280 --> 01:14:53,120 Speaker 1: and we knew it was no good. So it's just 1471 01:14:53,720 --> 01:14:57,639 Speaker 1: it's just that connection that all women have. Well, I'm 1472 01:14:57,680 --> 01:14:59,880 Speaker 1: from the Bay Area. Bay Area, see people people in 1473 01:15:00,000 --> 01:15:02,760 Speaker 1: New York. I always think California is just La. You know, 1474 01:15:04,200 --> 01:15:07,960 Speaker 1: had it wrong. I didn't know you from the Bay Yeah, okay, 1475 01:15:08,160 --> 01:15:13,120 Speaker 1: Valeo forty sly Yeah Yeah. How to nipsies death impact 1476 01:15:13,200 --> 01:15:16,000 Speaker 1: you being from the West. Um, it's really sad because 1477 01:15:16,120 --> 01:15:18,280 Speaker 1: when you see somebody doing really good for the community 1478 01:15:18,560 --> 01:15:21,760 Speaker 1: and they're gone, it's just like you feel like it's 1479 01:15:21,760 --> 01:15:24,679 Speaker 1: a missing peace. That's kind of how I felt. Yeah, 1480 01:15:24,720 --> 01:15:27,000 Speaker 1: I feel weird right like this one. This one hits 1481 01:15:27,040 --> 01:15:29,400 Speaker 1: a little different. Yeah, this is a bit different. It 1482 01:15:29,479 --> 01:15:32,200 Speaker 1: affected everybody in some way, just the energy kind of 1483 01:15:32,320 --> 01:15:34,960 Speaker 1: change we all found out. Her got to get up 1484 01:15:34,960 --> 01:15:36,519 Speaker 1: out of here. Guy, she's leading him, intes a guy've 1485 01:15:36,520 --> 01:15:41,640 Speaker 1: been ignoring the label little bit? What what white? You 1486 01:15:41,760 --> 01:15:44,439 Speaker 1: know what? I don't know where are we going? They 1487 01:15:44,479 --> 01:15:45,760 Speaker 1: want you to be on time for the white out, 1488 01:15:46,040 --> 01:15:49,120 Speaker 1: but just breeze you through the black ones. No, I've 1489 01:15:49,160 --> 01:15:51,040 Speaker 1: always made time. That's why I'm still here right now. 1490 01:15:51,360 --> 01:15:52,639 Speaker 1: Just think about that. When you go to the next 1491 01:15:52,640 --> 01:15:54,080 Speaker 1: out letting you and there with all those white people, 1492 01:15:54,080 --> 01:15:56,000 Speaker 1: you'd be like, damn, they really did rush me out 1493 01:15:56,040 --> 01:16:03,519 Speaker 1: of the black out let the damn all right? For her, 1494 01:16:03,600 --> 01:16:06,800 Speaker 1: Thank you for join, Thank you everything. Thank you so much. 1495 01:16:07,320 --> 01:16:09,160 Speaker 1: It was a pleasure. We're so had. And thank you 1496 01:16:09,240 --> 01:16:11,320 Speaker 1: for your donation that you made the change for change. 1497 01:16:11,479 --> 01:16:13,720 Speaker 1: You were actually the first person to call up and 1498 01:16:13,880 --> 01:16:16,760 Speaker 1: make a donation when we did our fundraisers. Wow, that 1499 01:16:16,920 --> 01:16:22,920 Speaker 1: was crazy. Yeah, yeah, thank you, Thank you. Guys, appreciate it. 1500 01:16:23,040 --> 01:16:25,720 Speaker 1: It's the breakfast club. Is her taking you back back 1501 01:16:25,760 --> 01:16:27,720 Speaker 1: back with the classic we one we Ward. It's the 1502 01:16:27,800 --> 01:16:38,080 Speaker 1: Breakfast Club was a podcast. It's topic time called eight 1503 01:16:38,200 --> 01:16:39,760 Speaker 1: hundred and five eight five one oh five one to 1504 01:16:39,840 --> 01:16:42,240 Speaker 1: join it to the discussion with the Breakfast Club, talk 1505 01:16:42,280 --> 01:16:47,719 Speaker 1: about it morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne 1506 01:16:47,760 --> 01:16:50,080 Speaker 1: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now ifew just 1507 01:16:50,240 --> 01:16:53,480 Speaker 1: joining us, we're talking about ye saying that male enhancements 1508 01:16:53,560 --> 01:16:56,280 Speaker 1: have been going up from plastic surgeons. Right. Yes, they're 1509 01:16:56,320 --> 01:16:59,200 Speaker 1: getting their abs done and little LiPo, and they're also 1510 01:16:59,280 --> 01:17:03,640 Speaker 1: getting penis enlargements with fillers. As a guy like, what 1511 01:17:03,760 --> 01:17:05,840 Speaker 1: can you really do? Right? Are you there? God? It's 1512 01:17:05,920 --> 01:17:08,479 Speaker 1: me I would like a bigger penis and nothing happened, 1513 01:17:08,840 --> 01:17:11,880 Speaker 1: So I must, I must, I must increase my thrust. 1514 01:17:12,040 --> 01:17:14,240 Speaker 1: But let's go to the full lines. Eight hundred five 1515 01:17:14,560 --> 01:17:17,680 Speaker 1: five one oh five one. Hello, who's this Melanie? It's 1516 01:17:17,760 --> 01:17:24,000 Speaker 1: this Melanie Hie. How are you? I'm good? How are you? Blessed? 1517 01:17:24,040 --> 01:17:28,439 Speaker 1: Black and Holly Favorite said he wanted to increase his 1518 01:17:28,520 --> 01:17:32,360 Speaker 1: penis eyes? Would you get that for him? Maybe for Christmas? Absolutely? 1519 01:17:36,560 --> 01:17:39,200 Speaker 1: What made you say that? With no hesitation? She wait, 1520 01:17:39,320 --> 01:17:44,000 Speaker 1: she's waiting for Christmas right now? Absolutely. I mean, I 1521 01:17:44,479 --> 01:17:46,840 Speaker 1: mean I don't have a man currently, but I've had 1522 01:17:47,000 --> 01:17:49,439 Speaker 1: men in the past that I felt like they could 1523 01:17:49,479 --> 01:17:52,840 Speaker 1: have benefited from some enhancement, Like they were perfect in 1524 01:17:52,960 --> 01:17:55,800 Speaker 1: all other areas, but they lacked there. And I just 1525 01:17:55,960 --> 01:17:57,920 Speaker 1: feel like the same way a man is quick to 1526 01:17:58,000 --> 01:18:00,200 Speaker 1: be like here, baby, go get your b beyond there. Hey, 1527 01:18:00,280 --> 01:18:04,080 Speaker 1: fred um, a woman should be able to say that too, 1528 01:18:04,840 --> 01:18:07,759 Speaker 1: or suggest that he gets enhanced without him feeling offended, 1529 01:18:07,760 --> 01:18:09,880 Speaker 1: because then a lot of times they get offended and 1530 01:18:09,960 --> 01:18:13,599 Speaker 1: it's like they're different options for you too. Take four 1531 01:18:13,720 --> 01:18:17,680 Speaker 1: for yourself. I gotta hurt. You tell the man he 1532 01:18:17,760 --> 01:18:19,639 Speaker 1: needs a penis enhancement that he don't got the money 1533 01:18:19,680 --> 01:18:22,280 Speaker 1: for it. Oh my god? Right. He like, well, you're 1534 01:18:22,280 --> 01:18:26,040 Speaker 1: gonna pay for it, and she's like, yes, geez, I 1535 01:18:26,120 --> 01:18:29,439 Speaker 1: will be benefiting from it, thank you very much. About 1536 01:18:29,720 --> 01:18:36,880 Speaker 1: break up, I might have to have some kind of 1537 01:18:36,960 --> 01:18:41,400 Speaker 1: aggrieving sign. No, I don't. I mean, I mean, if 1538 01:18:41,479 --> 01:18:43,120 Speaker 1: I'm at the point where I will pay for a 1539 01:18:43,200 --> 01:18:48,360 Speaker 1: man's enhancement my relationship, that better be pretty solid. Imagine 1540 01:18:48,400 --> 01:18:50,439 Speaker 1: a man leaving you the golden mother girl, then you 1541 01:18:50,560 --> 01:18:52,120 Speaker 1: have to run down on the other girl and say 1542 01:18:52,200 --> 01:18:56,280 Speaker 1: I bought that d I paid for those inches. Wow, 1543 01:18:56,560 --> 01:19:01,640 Speaker 1: She's like, it's hello, who's this should boy? Wally ze 1544 01:19:01,880 --> 01:19:10,519 Speaker 1: man thinking, an, that's all actually sound crazy that. I 1545 01:19:10,560 --> 01:19:12,680 Speaker 1: actually just watched the video the other day of some 1546 01:19:12,880 --> 01:19:16,080 Speaker 1: dude talking about it on on some other podcasts, and 1547 01:19:16,240 --> 01:19:18,439 Speaker 1: I was just like, man, just love yourself, man, like, 1548 01:19:18,520 --> 01:19:21,120 Speaker 1: for real, for real. You wouldn't get nothing you as 1549 01:19:21,120 --> 01:19:24,439 Speaker 1: done on nothing? Nah dog nah? I mean you got 1550 01:19:24,520 --> 01:19:26,040 Speaker 1: to maintain it, you know what I'm saying. So it's 1551 01:19:26,080 --> 01:19:28,519 Speaker 1: not even just like getting it done, you know what 1552 01:19:28,560 --> 01:19:30,120 Speaker 1: I'm saying, Because I mean if you get it done, 1553 01:19:30,160 --> 01:19:31,960 Speaker 1: then you ain't gonna work out every day and you know, 1554 01:19:32,120 --> 01:19:34,600 Speaker 1: do your thing for real, eat healthy. You know what 1555 01:19:34,640 --> 01:19:36,839 Speaker 1: I'm saying. All that stuff, I mean it's gonna be pointless. 1556 01:19:37,479 --> 01:19:42,799 Speaker 1: That's real, true healthy. And I mean, hello, who's this crazy? 1557 01:19:42,920 --> 01:19:46,559 Speaker 1: Like he said, what's your name? Hello? Who's this? Hey? 1558 01:19:46,680 --> 01:19:49,680 Speaker 1: Good morning? Good? What's your name? Bro? My name is 1559 01:19:49,720 --> 01:19:54,000 Speaker 1: real one? What's up? One? Now? If you had the opportunity, 1560 01:19:54,040 --> 01:19:56,439 Speaker 1: would you would you add some inches to your penis 1561 01:19:56,479 --> 01:19:58,799 Speaker 1: real one? Um Nah, I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't 1562 01:19:58,800 --> 01:20:00,400 Speaker 1: add any injines or none of the like that. Like 1563 01:20:00,479 --> 01:20:03,920 Speaker 1: I'm pretty good while I'm at it, Like, yeah, I'm 1564 01:20:03,960 --> 01:20:06,840 Speaker 1: definitely sure. I'm definitely say until you get to get 1565 01:20:06,880 --> 01:20:11,200 Speaker 1: certificate for fire free inches, nah, because what if it 1566 01:20:11,280 --> 01:20:13,720 Speaker 1: starts the mess with how you feel? Like I can't 1567 01:20:13,800 --> 01:20:17,040 Speaker 1: feel it anymore, Like it won't make me laugh, that's true, 1568 01:20:17,360 --> 01:20:21,080 Speaker 1: and that isn't nerving the exactly like it's I don't 1569 01:20:21,080 --> 01:20:22,479 Speaker 1: think it's worth it. I don't think it's worth it 1570 01:20:22,560 --> 01:20:25,000 Speaker 1: at all. And then the whole acting it don't make 1571 01:20:25,040 --> 01:20:27,439 Speaker 1: no sense either, because if you're not eating right, you're 1572 01:20:27,439 --> 01:20:30,960 Speaker 1: gonna you're gonna lose it anyway. That's right. Eating McDonalds 1573 01:20:31,000 --> 01:20:34,080 Speaker 1: and everything you don't make no sense whatsoever. You're not 1574 01:20:34,120 --> 01:20:36,680 Speaker 1: gonna change your habits and your lifestyle after you get that. 1575 01:20:36,720 --> 01:20:40,200 Speaker 1: It's pointless. Yeah, you waste some money, all right, thank you? Okay, 1576 01:20:40,280 --> 01:20:42,920 Speaker 1: so it's a hard no for you. Let's go to 1577 01:20:42,960 --> 01:20:45,400 Speaker 1: another call of the last one. Hello, who's this yo? 1578 01:20:45,960 --> 01:20:49,080 Speaker 1: Drey and call if I'm not a Peter's bird. Okay, 1579 01:20:49,680 --> 01:20:51,560 Speaker 1: d your girl just called and she said that she 1580 01:20:52,080 --> 01:20:53,680 Speaker 1: she thinks that you need a couple of inches, So 1581 01:20:53,720 --> 01:20:57,880 Speaker 1: would you do it? I'm not doing that. I'm not 1582 01:20:58,000 --> 01:21:00,160 Speaker 1: doing that. You gotta work with what you've got. Man, 1583 01:21:00,320 --> 01:21:02,880 Speaker 1: you gotta be girl what you've got, I will say. 1584 01:21:03,800 --> 01:21:06,479 Speaker 1: Women always getting you know, they tell me talk and 1585 01:21:06,800 --> 01:21:08,439 Speaker 1: a couple of inchest cut off and they ain't doing 1586 01:21:08,479 --> 01:21:10,360 Speaker 1: the work we're doing in the gym. So I would 1587 01:21:10,439 --> 01:21:13,120 Speaker 1: do that. But as far as with with my manhood, 1588 01:21:13,400 --> 01:21:15,240 Speaker 1: I'm just going to be the best of what I got. 1589 01:21:15,800 --> 01:21:17,920 Speaker 1: All right, You're gonna have some abs with a little penis. 1590 01:21:20,760 --> 01:21:25,240 Speaker 1: Everybody not not not blessed down there. So okay, okay, 1591 01:21:25,280 --> 01:21:30,120 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you mean every everybody you're good at You're 1592 01:21:30,120 --> 01:21:32,360 Speaker 1: good at other things, right, you're good at other things. 1593 01:21:33,000 --> 01:21:35,920 Speaker 1: I'm gread at everything. You know what's sad about this? Man? 1594 01:21:36,120 --> 01:21:37,920 Speaker 1: You know? You know how they say if you appreciate 1595 01:21:38,000 --> 01:21:39,960 Speaker 1: what you got, you will get blessed with more. That 1596 01:21:40,080 --> 01:21:43,880 Speaker 1: doesn't apply to penis to us. Goodness great? What's the 1597 01:21:43,920 --> 01:21:47,040 Speaker 1: ball of the story. I just said it. That's it, 1598 01:21:48,800 --> 01:21:53,880 Speaker 1: And you sounded really sad saying it. Definitely. I thank 1599 01:21:54,040 --> 01:21:57,439 Speaker 1: God for I thank God for it all. All right? 1600 01:21:57,520 --> 01:21:58,719 Speaker 1: This the Breakfast Club. Good morning,