1 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 1: Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, 2 00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:12,680 Speaker 1: but grievous. Nevertheless, afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of 3 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 1: righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby Hebrews twelve eleven. 4 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:24,800 Speaker 1: Dear Lord, I pray for a heavenly perspective of discipline, 5 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 1: when in the moment the discipline I give my children 6 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:33,839 Speaker 1: seems miserable for both of us. But I am certain 7 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 1: that loving guidance and godly discipline will yield joyful fruit 8 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 1: in time. Give me patience to be consistent even when 9 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:51,440 Speaker 1: it's easier to compromise. Give me stamina to endure tantrums, 10 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 1: slamming doors, and circular conversations. I want to be a 11 00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:02,760 Speaker 1: parent that leans solely on the pillar of peace. Jesus Christ. 12 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:10,319 Speaker 1: I trust you and rely on you in Jesus' name. Amen, 13 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 1: Thank you for joining me in prayer. Stay tuned for 14 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 1: today's free podcast Meditative Prayers with Doctor Tim Clinton, where 15 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 1: you can draw clothes to God and find strength in him. 16 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 2: Welcome to your meditative prayer on Great Parenting. To get 17 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:37,679 Speaker 2: the most out of your spiritual journey, usepray dot com 18 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 2: every day. Make prayer priority in your life. Our goal 19 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:46,640 Speaker 2: for today's meditative prayer is great parenting. Hope you'll take 20 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 2: a second to slow down. Maybe sit in your favorite 21 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 2: spot on your bed where you feel most at ease. Hey, 22 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 2: wrap yourself up in a warm blanket, maybe grab a 23 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 2: pillow or something. And once you feel yourself start to relax, 24 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 2: turn your thoughts toward the teaching that God has. And 25 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:10,680 Speaker 2: once you feel yourself start to relax, turn your thoughts 26 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 2: toward the teaching that God has for you. Today we're 27 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:19,360 Speaker 2: going to be meditating on Hebrews chapter twelve, verse eleven 28 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 2: from the King James version, the Bible says, now no 29 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 2: chastening or correction, for the present seems to be joyous, 30 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 2: but rather grievous. Nevertheless, afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit 31 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 2: of righteousness under them which are exercised. Thereby, take a 32 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:47,640 Speaker 2: moment right now to pour out your adoration to God 33 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:55,519 Speaker 2: for his continuous correction. God, I worship you for who 34 00:02:55,560 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 2: you are. God. Your correction, your wisdom brings peace and 35 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:08,520 Speaker 2: joy to my life. I adore you for your patience 36 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 2: is eternal. I worship you for you call me your child, 37 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 2: and out of love you correct me. I praise you 38 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 2: for your corrections. You'll peace and righteousness. You alone, God 39 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 2: are worthy of all praise. Disciplining your child can be 40 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 2: difficult and painful. No one wants to be the heavy. 41 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 2: Your child is your cherished love. However, when your child 42 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 2: misbehaves or does something wrong, it's your obligation as a 43 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 2: parent to teach them and love what's right. Disciplining Correcting 44 00:03:56,640 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 2: your child won't be easy. Child may resist, cry, or 45 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 2: say awful things to you, and protest. In the moment, 46 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 2: it can feel pretty heartbreaking, but stay strong as God 47 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 2: corrects you because He loves you so too. You and 48 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:22,359 Speaker 2: love need to correct your child. Think for a moment 49 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 2: on situations where your actions were wrong and God corrected 50 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 2: you out of love. It might have been uncomfortable during 51 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:38,279 Speaker 2: the process, but the result was worthwhile. It meant something. 52 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 2: Perhaps you've been struggling to discipline your child in love, 53 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 2: Maybe take a moment to think of some pretty stressful 54 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:53,599 Speaker 2: situations in your relationship with your child. Confess your troubles, 55 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:56,600 Speaker 2: your faults to your Father above, so that he may 56 00:04:56,640 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 2: be able to aid and assist you. Think for a 57 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 2: moment of all the times God had to discipline you, 58 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 2: those times when you were headed for disaster but God 59 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:16,480 Speaker 2: pulled you out of the muck and mire. Times where 60 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 2: God's discipline hurt but brought amazing results in your life. 61 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:26,839 Speaker 2: Thank Him for all the past peace and righteousness his 62 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 2: discipline actually produced. Thank Him for the areas of growth 63 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 2: and understanding and maturity that have come your way. Now 64 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 2: think of all the areas you lack discipline in, and 65 00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 2: thank God for the learning yet to come. You know 66 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 2: what I love. I love that God's present and that 67 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 2: He's listening to you. Never forget. God's discipline may temporarily 68 00:05:56,839 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 2: be challenging, but he does it for a good reason. 69 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 2: He wants you to grow as a person and to 70 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 2: experience peace and righteousness as your heavenly Father loves and 71 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 2: disciplines you for your benefit and the same likeness, you 72 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:17,039 Speaker 2: should parent your child. Reach out to God for his 73 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:21,479 Speaker 2: guidance so that when you discipline your child, you do 74 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 2: so from a place of love. Ask the Holy Spirit 75 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 2: to help you be a better parent. Ask him to 76 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 2: help you to be patient and kind when engaging in 77 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 2: disciplinary action. Remember, disciplining your child is difficult, but correction 78 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 2: produces peace and righteousness. That's what the Bible says. That's 79 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 2: what the Bible says. You are to accomplish this through love, gentleness, 80 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 2: and patience. Be encouraged. You're not alone in this journey. 81 00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:01,159 Speaker 2: You have God's Holy Spirit to help. God. He will 82 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 2: never leave you nor abandon you. Through faith in Christ, 83 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 2: you can and you will be an amazing parent. Thank 84 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 2: you for completing today's meditative prayer on pray dot com. 85 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:18,920 Speaker 2: By incorporating this healthy habit as a daily practice, you're 86 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 2: making prayer priority and strengthening your walk with God. Thank 87 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 2: you for completing today's meditative prayer on pray dot com. 88 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:29,720 Speaker 2: By incorporating this healthy habits a daily practice, You're making 89 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 2: prayer priority and strengthening your walk with God. I'm doctor 90 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 2: Tim Clinton, President of the American Association of Christian Counselors, 91 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:41,680 Speaker 2: and we'd love being a part of your life.