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Speaker 1: So, looking back on it in hindsight, what would you

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Speaker 3: I would have never let a person have that much

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Speaker 3: power over my money, my life, over anything ever again,

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Speaker 3: So I would. I would Now I'm learning, I'm in

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Speaker 3: control of my business, I'm in control of my life,

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Speaker 3: and it's mandatory that I learn more about finance business,

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Speaker 3: you know, so I don't ever have to be robbed

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Speaker 3: again by you know, maybe somebody you think you can trust,

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: So do you think that it was more so just

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Speaker 1: a lack of education somebody playing on you not knowing things.

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Speaker 3: And then perfectly, yes, it was a lack of education,

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Speaker 3: and it also was just trusting people to help you

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Speaker 3: to you, and and and and and just trying to

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Speaker 3: take control over your life. So yeah, exactly. You hope

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Speaker 3: that people would help you when you don't know, and

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Speaker 3: a lot of times what happened to me, They rob you,

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Speaker 3: or to help you, you know, you know, to to

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Keeping your I mean, we spoke about this a little

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Speaker 2: but it's more important to keep the money. Yeah, And

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Speaker 2: so we've had plenty of conversations and people in entertainment

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Speaker 2: and the one thing that they always talk about. In fact,

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Speaker 2: It's paying taxes.

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Speaker 1: Yes, so so check it out.

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Speaker 3: Speaking of taxes, I owe so much money. I never

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Speaker 3: thought I was ever going to get out of debt.

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Speaker 3: I'm out of debt now.

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Speaker 4: But I mean I owed millions, millions, like hundreds of

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I lost my train of.

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Speaker 2: Thought, go back to it. So I was right, we

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Speaker 2: around that. Right as you're getting this large sum of

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Speaker 2: Surrounding ourselves to protect ourselves to make sure that we

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Speaker 3: So I'm like, pay my pay pay my business, pay

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Speaker 3: my payroll, pay my taxes, pay my times, any all

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Speaker 3: nobody listened to me. When I was married. I was like,

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Speaker 3: but you know that's that's how I do. Those things

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Speaker 3: It's not always so much about you know, people vendors

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Speaker 3: So if you don't call people back, you know, it

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Speaker 1: So this is strength of a Woman's Festival. And a

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Speaker 1: lot of times when we think about pre numps, it's

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Speaker 3: Get a pre nump. Because I didn't have one, and

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Speaker 3: that's why I was in I ended up having to

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Speaker 3: it's so whack right now that men, you know, can

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Speaker 3: come at you and get and you know, I'm young,

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Speaker 3: and get alimony. So when I was getting a divorce,

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Speaker 3: I was like, you mean to tell me I got

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm telling you men this crazy. My wife has here,

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Speaker 5: Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christy nom the United States

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Speaker 5: Secretary of Homeland Security. Under President Trump, attempted illegal border

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Speaker 5: border and families will be protected.

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