WEBVTT - Bad at Breaking Up 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.680 Hell I Suck At Dating with Denglert and Dared Haven 0:00:04.920 --> 0:00:11.600 and I Heart Radio podcast. What is going on? Everyone? 0:00:11.840 --> 0:00:14.920 Welcome to an all new episode of Help I Suck 0:00:15.080 --> 0:00:18.799 At Dating. I am recording from the passenger seat of 0:00:18.840 --> 0:00:22.720 my brother's truck in Hamilton, Montana. Jared, where the heck 0:00:22.760 --> 0:00:26.520 are you? I'm in my man cave, which I think 0:00:26.520 --> 0:00:29.080 it's gonna be a possible baby room in the future. 0:00:29.120 --> 0:00:31.080 We're not really sure what we're doing right now, but 0:00:31.240 --> 0:00:34.720 right now it is surrounded by Tom Brady, Patriots, Buccaneers, 0:00:35.120 --> 0:00:38.360 Red Sox paraphernalia. It's pretty awesome. I love being in here. 0:00:38.400 --> 0:00:40.199 This is the first time I think I'm ever recording 0:00:40.200 --> 0:00:44.360 my our podcast from this room, so I'm pretty excited. 0:00:44.880 --> 0:00:46.800 I think that we can finally say cats out of 0:00:46.800 --> 0:00:49.960 the bag. Right You're having a baby boy, baby boy? Yes, 0:00:50.000 --> 0:00:53.599 we are, so we're very excited. We have the name 0:00:53.600 --> 0:00:55.360 picked out. Ashley has had this name picked out for 0:00:55.400 --> 0:00:58.000 twenty years. She's loved it and when she told me, 0:00:58.480 --> 0:01:00.640 I loved it. So we're do you have a name 0:01:00.680 --> 0:01:04.000 picked out? So pretty much everything's good to go. We 0:01:04.080 --> 0:01:06.319 have a baby boy. You guys gonna do another Amazon 0:01:06.440 --> 0:01:10.320 Live video of telling everyone the name of the baby. 0:01:10.600 --> 0:01:13.200 I mean, fingers crossed. One can only hope, my friend, 0:01:15.560 --> 0:01:18.280 this baby is gonna be have more money than me 0:01:18.319 --> 0:01:21.200 before it even comes out of the freaking womb. Well, 0:01:21.240 --> 0:01:24.160 you know, college tuition ain't cheap. Paying for a coffee 0:01:24.160 --> 0:01:25.640 shop down here, you know, we gotta do what we 0:01:25.720 --> 0:01:27.440 gotta do. But it was actually really fun. So we 0:01:27.440 --> 0:01:29.560 announced on Amazon Live yesterday the same thing we did 0:01:29.560 --> 0:01:31.800 with our pregnancy. And it's actually a lot of fun 0:01:31.840 --> 0:01:35.040 announcing on there because it's a live platform, so it's 0:01:35.040 --> 0:01:38.240 fun interacting with everybody in the live chat with us. 0:01:38.920 --> 0:01:41.800 Uh and you know, just having it live in the 0:01:41.840 --> 0:01:44.240 moment and not prerecorded. There's something to be said about that. 0:01:44.280 --> 0:01:46.880 And it was like a built up like moment. We're like, okay, 0:01:46.880 --> 0:01:50.440 here we go. It's a boy, and everybody's saying congratulations. 0:01:50.480 --> 0:01:52.360 It was It was a fun moment for Ashley and I, 0:01:52.400 --> 0:01:54.840 So I'm really glad we did it that way. Nice man, 0:01:54.920 --> 0:01:58.840 We'll congratulations baby boy. Baby Dean's on the way. Um, 0:01:59.640 --> 0:02:02.640 baby Deanie, Deanie babies you want to I just found 0:02:02.680 --> 0:02:04.840 out too. Yes, they're like three days ago when I 0:02:04.880 --> 0:02:07.559 ever got Spontana is my brother is having a baby 0:02:07.600 --> 0:02:11.919 with his wife. Congratulations. Yeah, it was the weirdest thing. 0:02:12.080 --> 0:02:14.560 They were like, yeah, we just bought a house together. 0:02:14.720 --> 0:02:16.440 I was like, great, an extra room for me to 0:02:16.480 --> 0:02:18.040 sleep in and they're like, yeah, we're gonna need all 0:02:18.040 --> 0:02:20.400 the rooms we can get. And I was like, okay, 0:02:20.440 --> 0:02:21.600 I guess it's kind of a weird thing to say. 0:02:21.639 --> 0:02:23.920 What you're talking about gonna be sleeping there all the time, guys. 0:02:23.919 --> 0:02:26.320 And then his wife looks at me and she like 0:02:26.360 --> 0:02:27.960 kind of like, you know, like smiles a little bit. 0:02:28.000 --> 0:02:29.560 I'm like, okay, are you guys like trying to tell 0:02:29.560 --> 0:02:32.120 me something? And then they were like, we're pregnant. And 0:02:32.120 --> 0:02:34.440 I was like, this is the weirdest possible way to 0:02:34.520 --> 0:02:37.440 tell someone that you're pregnant. Just freaking tell me. I 0:02:37.440 --> 0:02:40.359 don't know, pregnant. That's so cute. So you're gonna be 0:02:40.400 --> 0:02:42.440 an uncle? Is that you're gonna be an uncle? Well, 0:02:42.440 --> 0:02:44.680 I Alred was gonna be an uncle with baby ha 0:02:44.800 --> 0:02:46.679 been on the way. But I'm gonna be an official 0:02:46.800 --> 0:02:48.760 real uncle with baby Bell on the way. It who 0:02:48.760 --> 0:02:53.639 would be nice? Oh so it's it's a girl. Bell 0:02:53.800 --> 0:02:57.440 is their last name? Oh okay. I was like Bell 0:02:57.440 --> 0:02:59.239 it's a beautiful name. We already know the gender in 0:02:59.280 --> 0:03:01.960 the name. That's great. But it is a girl, so 0:03:02.040 --> 0:03:03.639 that is going to be a girl because I think 0:03:03.720 --> 0:03:09.360 what is actually do Ashley's do February? February tenth or eleventh, 0:03:09.400 --> 0:03:12.960 I think is the official day their baby is do February. 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:16.800 So that you guys, oh, you guys had sex like 0:03:16.960 --> 0:03:20.120 right around the same time. Yeah, tight, tight, Tell to 0:03:20.240 --> 0:03:24.079 tell your brother, I said, nicely done, sir, Yeah done. 0:03:24.280 --> 0:03:28.360 There's just something in the air. And may I guess right? Apparently, dude, 0:03:28.400 --> 0:03:30.760 Valentine's Day baby, that'd be pretty cool. Rob Thomas was 0:03:30.800 --> 0:03:34.160 born on the Valentine's Day. It's a great birthday. Yeah. Nice. 0:03:34.240 --> 0:03:37.200 Maybe maybe your baby and his baby could get married 0:03:37.320 --> 0:03:41.320 in years Yeah, I mean, who knows. On Bachelor in 0:03:41.320 --> 0:03:45.800 Paradise that would be. That would be something special. That's 0:03:45.800 --> 0:03:48.720 something horribly went wrong. Um. So we do have some 0:03:48.720 --> 0:03:50.480 hot tops coming in. We don't have any guests for 0:03:50.520 --> 0:03:52.640 you today, which is always the best because we're just 0:03:52.640 --> 0:03:55.240 gonna host chatt It. We're gonna talk about hot topics. 0:03:55.280 --> 0:03:58.400 We also have some questions that we pose to you 0:03:59.120 --> 0:04:01.120 on our help. I start a dating instagram, which if 0:04:01.120 --> 0:04:04.400 you're not following already, please do so. Uh, And so 0:04:04.400 --> 0:04:05.960 we're gonna answer some of that, and of course we're 0:04:05.960 --> 0:04:08.040 gonna answer your emails. But the first topic of the 0:04:08.160 --> 0:04:14.400 day is about Alex Rodriguez. This freaking guy, Alex. Uh, 0:04:14.680 --> 0:04:18.640 this guy stinks. Alex Rodriguez shares photo of himself posing 0:04:18.680 --> 0:04:23.400 with Porsche that he gifted Jennifer Lopez. Obviously his ex. 0:04:23.440 --> 0:04:26.160 Alex Rodriguez is certainly enjoying the finer things in life, 0:04:26.200 --> 0:04:29.040 which includes what some fans have pointed out looks like 0:04:29.080 --> 0:04:31.560 a red Porsche that was once a birthday gift to 0:04:31.640 --> 0:04:35.000 his ex Jennifer Lopez. Alex Rodriguez is uh, I guess, 0:04:35.000 --> 0:04:37.679 crushing into his new chapter in life. The former Yankee 0:04:38.160 --> 0:04:40.760 was seen grinning from ear to ear while posing in 0:04:40.800 --> 0:04:43.600 front of a red Porsche in his latest Instagram post, 0:04:43.680 --> 0:04:46.240 which on August eighteenth, is when he posted the caption 0:04:46.279 --> 0:04:50.080 said I'm super down to earth. Real funny Alex. However, 0:04:50.200 --> 0:04:52.359 that wasn't the most noteworthy part of the post, with 0:04:52.400 --> 0:04:56.000 fans immediately noticing that his car that he has seen 0:04:56.240 --> 0:04:59.920 leaning on looked awfully similar to the lavish birthday gift 0:05:00.080 --> 0:05:02.360 he gave to Jennifer Lopez back in two thousand nineteen. 0:05:02.400 --> 0:05:05.200 One person even commented asking, isn't that the red car 0:05:05.360 --> 0:05:08.760 he bought j Lo. Another fan amongst many, obviously also 0:05:08.839 --> 0:05:12.559 hinted the uh at the return gift, writing I thought 0:05:12.600 --> 0:05:17.359 you gave that red Porsche to never mind when the 0:05:17.520 --> 0:05:20.680 quote I'm real swift singer turned fifty. Obviously, Jennifer Lopez 0:05:20.720 --> 0:05:23.400 just turned fift nineteen, and Insider revealed to Eat News 0:05:23.440 --> 0:05:26.200 at the time that Alex gifted the red Heart commodity 0:05:26.279 --> 0:05:30.200 to his then fiance at an estimated cost of buckle 0:05:30.279 --> 0:05:34.919 up a hundred and forty thousand dollars. Holy crap, what 0:05:35.080 --> 0:05:38.360 a I hate this guy. You know, he's a Yankee. 0:05:38.760 --> 0:05:41.560 I've never liked the way he played and he I 0:05:41.600 --> 0:05:44.320 just feel like he's such a faker. That's what I 0:05:44.360 --> 0:05:47.320 think of Alex Rodriguez. And maybe I'm biased because I 0:05:47.360 --> 0:05:51.200 hate the Yankees and he played for the Yankees, and 0:05:51.400 --> 0:05:55.320 he just like was just a I didn't just how 0:05:55.360 --> 0:05:58.680 do I say this without swearing? He was a pansy 0:05:59.000 --> 0:06:02.240 Like I don't know if you were into Intel four alcs, 0:06:02.279 --> 0:06:04.320 but he likes slapped the ball out of the first 0:06:04.360 --> 0:06:06.680 baseman's hand. To try to get on first base. It 0:06:06.800 --> 0:06:09.440 was just like, this guy stinks, and now he's taking 0:06:09.480 --> 0:06:12.040 pictures and smiling from ear to ear in front of 0:06:12.080 --> 0:06:14.880 a gift that he once gave his exten Philipez. Like, bro, 0:06:15.160 --> 0:06:18.960 move on, she's happy with ben Affleck, she's upgraded. Why 0:06:19.000 --> 0:06:22.000 don't you focus on your own life? God forbid the 0:06:22.080 --> 0:06:25.480 guy takes a picture where he's happy. Jared, calm down, man, 0:06:26.080 --> 0:06:28.880 Your disdain for the Yankees can only go so far. 0:06:29.360 --> 0:06:31.680 First of all, the Yankees are great, and the Red 0:06:31.720 --> 0:06:36.480 Sox suck, especially after two thousand seven, but we've won 0:06:36.560 --> 0:06:40.240 two World Series since then. You have the Red Sox. Well, 0:06:40.480 --> 0:06:43.680 I'm including myself in that statement. I'm saying two seven 0:06:43.800 --> 0:06:45.520 was the year that I really don't like because you 0:06:45.560 --> 0:06:49.520 guys swept us in the World Series the Rockies, That's right, Yeah, 0:06:49.520 --> 0:06:51.400 you guys were on fire. You guys were like eighteen 0:06:51.480 --> 0:06:52.840 and one in the players or something like that, and 0:06:52.880 --> 0:06:54.320 then you got to the World Series and we kicked 0:06:54.360 --> 0:06:58.320 your ass. Anyway, move on. Um My point is I personally, 0:06:58.839 --> 0:07:02.320 if I bought someone a hundred Porsche and then we 0:07:02.400 --> 0:07:05.920 broke up, I would a thousand percent take the Porsche back. Well, 0:07:06.000 --> 0:07:10.360 My question is is this the actual Porsche or is 0:07:10.440 --> 0:07:13.760 he just trying to like get a rise out of 0:07:13.840 --> 0:07:17.440 j Lo, Because that's my question. I don't think he's 0:07:17.480 --> 0:07:19.480 doing that, man. I think that people are being a 0:07:19.600 --> 0:07:23.640 little too soft with that, Like, Okay, he's a grown man. Yeah, sure, 0:07:23.760 --> 0:07:26.720 Jlo moved on. But what he's not allowed to take 0:07:26.760 --> 0:07:29.520 the freaking picture in front of a sweet red car? 0:07:30.400 --> 0:07:32.480 What's his name? Guy? I'm gonna look him up on 0:07:32.480 --> 0:07:34.120 Instagram here real quick because I want to get some 0:07:34.200 --> 0:07:37.400 more perspective to this. First of all, he's caption I'm 0:07:37.480 --> 0:07:44.760 super down to earth, not funny, it's sarcasm. His sarcasm 0:07:44.920 --> 0:07:48.160 is not my tuppy humor anyway. And this guy is 0:07:48.280 --> 0:07:52.640 leaning against the red Porsche that he apparently famously gifted 0:07:52.720 --> 0:07:56.240 Jennifer Lopez on her fiftieth birthday. He knew when he 0:07:56.320 --> 0:07:59.320 posted this picture that that's what everybody would be talking 0:07:59.400 --> 0:08:02.280 about in including the host of this podcast. And he's 0:08:02.320 --> 0:08:04.600 getting what he wants because we're all discussing it. So 0:08:04.720 --> 0:08:08.560 it worked. So you know what, Clap to you, Alex Rodriguez. 0:08:08.680 --> 0:08:10.280 He got us all to talk about it. Here we 0:08:10.400 --> 0:08:12.440 are talking about you on the podcast today but you 0:08:12.520 --> 0:08:14.320 know what, doesn't mean I have to like it. I 0:08:14.360 --> 0:08:15.800 don't like him one bit because I think he's trying 0:08:15.800 --> 0:08:18.040 to get a rise out of my boy's girlfriend A K. 0:08:18.280 --> 0:08:20.360 Ben Affleck. And you know what, I don't dig it. 0:08:21.120 --> 0:08:23.760 Maybe Jay Look gave it back to a Rod and 0:08:24.120 --> 0:08:26.680 now he's just happy to have his car back. Hey, 0:08:26.760 --> 0:08:28.560 he can have the car back. Yeah, And don't get 0:08:28.600 --> 0:08:30.280 me wrong, sure if you want to take the car back, 0:08:30.360 --> 0:08:32.440 take the car back, like whatever, it's your money, bro, 0:08:32.600 --> 0:08:36.400 But to lean on it, post about it, grinning from 0:08:36.520 --> 0:08:39.360 ear to ear. He knew, he knew everybody, like he 0:08:39.440 --> 0:08:42.280 knew exactly what he was doing. You're just being too 0:08:42.360 --> 0:08:44.480 hard on a Rod. Have you ever kept anything from 0:08:45.520 --> 0:08:49.000 being a hater? Right now you are being a hater? Um. Yeah, 0:08:49.160 --> 0:08:51.360 Like we talked about this before in the podcast, like 0:08:51.480 --> 0:08:55.079 certain sentimental things I kept and then like stored away 0:08:55.160 --> 0:08:58.280 because we couldn't. Like I was like I remember finding 0:08:58.280 --> 0:08:59.599 a couple of years ago and be like, oh do 0:08:59.679 --> 0:09:02.079 I throw rowed away? Like it feels I feel terrible 0:09:02.160 --> 0:09:05.920 throwing away. But like in terms of like anything of value, No, 0:09:06.120 --> 0:09:08.160 I've never taken anything back from an next That would 0:09:08.160 --> 0:09:10.920 be kind of messed up even like a Rod. You 0:09:11.000 --> 0:09:15.400 want to take your porscheback? Bro, Why you really need 0:09:15.440 --> 0:09:17.640 the money that badly? Something tells me that you don't. 0:09:18.000 --> 0:09:20.079 So if he did take the gift back from j Lo, 0:09:20.559 --> 0:09:22.640 what are you doing? Just let her have it, dude, 0:09:22.679 --> 0:09:24.839 I think you're looking at this all wrong. Maybe Jayla 0:09:24.880 --> 0:09:26.719 didn't want it anymore. Maybe Jlo was like, look, dude, 0:09:26.760 --> 0:09:29.400 I don't need this. I'm the freaking richest, hottest girl 0:09:29.440 --> 0:09:31.400 in the world. Why would I need your stupid, ugly 0:09:31.480 --> 0:09:34.120 red Porsche. Take it back? And now a Rod is 0:09:34.200 --> 0:09:35.760 happy he got his car back. He's super down to 0:09:35.840 --> 0:09:37.160 earth and he wants everyone to know it, so he 0:09:37.240 --> 0:09:39.719 takes a picture and post on Instagram. I just I 0:09:39.760 --> 0:09:41.079 think you're being a little too hard on the guy 0:09:41.160 --> 0:09:45.680 you know well as you can tell not a fan. Alright, 0:09:45.880 --> 0:09:49.280 well we agree to disagree. Our next hot topic is 0:09:49.280 --> 0:09:51.800 about a man who breaks up with his girlfriend via 0:09:52.320 --> 0:09:55.920 the Jumpo Tron, which, if if you guys don't know, 0:09:56.120 --> 0:09:59.760 a jumbo tron is, it's the huge television screen that 0:10:00.440 --> 0:10:05.360 is in every stadium of any professional sports league anywhere. 0:10:05.800 --> 0:10:11.240 So apparently this guy on the JumboTron put alyssa. This 0:10:11.440 --> 0:10:16.960 relationship is over from Tim. Uh. Tim, this guy went 0:10:17.040 --> 0:10:19.040 to a place very few are willing to go and 0:10:19.160 --> 0:10:23.640 breaking up with a partner. Recently at Akron Rubber Ducks game, 0:10:25.200 --> 0:10:30.520 which is the double affiliate of Cleveland which, uh, Cleveland 0:10:30.600 --> 0:10:33.400 is no longer there the Cleveland Guardians, right are they 0:10:33.400 --> 0:10:35.439 the Cleveland Guardians this year? They just changed their name? 0:10:36.160 --> 0:10:39.760 I think so right now, so they're the double a 0:10:39.800 --> 0:10:44.240 affiliate of Cleveland Indians. The Akron Rubber tell X what 0:10:44.400 --> 0:10:48.040 a name? Anyway, this is in Cleveland. Tim broke up 0:10:48.120 --> 0:10:51.000 with his girlfriend, Alyssa now ex girlfriend in one of 0:10:51.040 --> 0:10:55.839 the most savage, disrespectful ways possible. Alyssa, this relationship is 0:10:56.280 --> 0:10:59.160 over by the way, the overs and all capital letters 0:10:59.200 --> 0:11:01.760 talk about twisting knife. That's what the L A D 0:11:02.200 --> 0:11:05.880 L E D sign read at Canal Park. Alyssa, needless 0:11:05.920 --> 0:11:08.360 to say, has every right to be infuriated with Tim 0:11:08.440 --> 0:11:11.760 over this classless breakup without knowing the full story. However, 0:11:11.840 --> 0:11:14.240 I can't really cast judgment. This is obviously from the 0:11:14.280 --> 0:11:16.520 author of the article, not me, Because on help I 0:11:16.559 --> 0:11:20.000 suck a dating we cast judgment. Generally speaking, there are 0:11:20.080 --> 0:11:24.320 only really two explanations as to why Tim would decide 0:11:24.360 --> 0:11:27.360 to go to these lengths to break up with a Lissa. First, 0:11:27.800 --> 0:11:31.880 Alyssa is deeply has deeply hurt Tim dealing with these 0:11:31.960 --> 0:11:35.839 feelings Tim right or wrong, So retribution by contacting the 0:11:35.920 --> 0:11:39.560 good people within the Rubber Ducks organization and likely paid 0:11:39.640 --> 0:11:42.679 to have this message displayed for all three thousand one 0:11:43.120 --> 0:11:46.320 and sixty fans to see at Canal Park. The second 0:11:46.360 --> 0:11:50.200 explanation pretty simple. Tim is a scumbag. He's a scumbag 0:11:50.240 --> 0:11:52.240 guy who couldn't muster the courage to break up with 0:11:52.280 --> 0:11:55.240 a Lissa literally any other way. Either way, it sounds 0:11:55.320 --> 0:11:57.840 like it maybe for the best that these two are 0:11:57.920 --> 0:12:01.080 going their separate ways. So what are your overall thoughts 0:12:01.120 --> 0:12:03.520 about this? I think it's a joke and I think 0:12:03.520 --> 0:12:07.440 people misunderstood it. I agree, what kind of douche bag? 0:12:07.920 --> 0:12:11.360 Unless she cheated on him, that's the only explanation. If 0:12:11.400 --> 0:12:15.679 Alyssa cheated on Tim, then maybe he went to these 0:12:15.760 --> 0:12:17.280 lengths to break up with her. But if he, if 0:12:17.320 --> 0:12:19.839 she did cheat on him, wouldn't like he also put 0:12:19.920 --> 0:12:22.400 that in the message, be like, Alyssa, I caught you cheating. 0:12:22.480 --> 0:12:25.559 It's over. It's definitely. It's definitely like they're still dating, 0:12:25.679 --> 0:12:28.839 and he's like playing a prank on her if that's 0:12:29.040 --> 0:12:32.559 if that that's at all? Yeah, it's like, I I 0:12:33.640 --> 0:12:35.959 am even angry to talk about this right now. I 0:12:36.000 --> 0:12:37.679 think it's hilarious. I kind of want to go to 0:12:37.720 --> 0:12:39.400 a Rubber Ducks game with Kaylin and do the same 0:12:39.480 --> 0:12:41.600 thing to her, just to get a rise out of her. 0:12:41.800 --> 0:12:44.679 Just hilarious. All right, Yeah, let's play this out. So 0:12:44.840 --> 0:12:51.120 you go to the Akron Rubber Ducks game in Cleveland, Ohio, 0:12:51.840 --> 0:12:54.280 and you guys go and there's three thousand people there, 0:12:54.320 --> 0:12:56.840 and you get some popcorn. You're watching a baseball game, 0:12:56.920 --> 0:13:00.600 and then in the seventh inning stretch, you go, Caitlin, look, 0:13:00.720 --> 0:13:03.400 I put a message for you up on the JumboTron 0:13:03.600 --> 0:13:09.719 and it says, Klin, it's over from Dean. How do 0:13:09.800 --> 0:13:12.720 you think she'd react, Well, first of all, it would 0:13:12.720 --> 0:13:15.880 be in the Las Vegas Ballpark where the Aviators play, 0:13:16.200 --> 0:13:18.760 because that's a greater street from our house in Las Vegas. 0:13:19.080 --> 0:13:21.720 But yes, let's let's say we find ourselves an Acron 0:13:21.800 --> 0:13:24.320 one day rubber Ducks are playing, we gotta go big 0:13:24.440 --> 0:13:28.200 game in the a c pcl UH tournament with something 0:13:28.280 --> 0:13:33.280 like that, and you know, It's like I and I 0:13:33.360 --> 0:13:37.120 did that to Klin. I think that she would get 0:13:37.240 --> 0:13:40.120 uncomfortable and she would laugh and she would get very 0:13:40.160 --> 0:13:43.680 angry at me, But in hindsight it would be hilarious 0:13:43.760 --> 0:13:45.760 and she would laugh about off. I think, yeah, I'm 0:13:45.800 --> 0:13:48.760 curious how Alyssa would react if this was a giant joke. 0:13:48.960 --> 0:13:51.959 If because then like, what's the point? It's like, oh 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:54.480 a good, It's a like a two second laugh for 0:13:54.559 --> 0:13:57.320 all that hard work, and now everybody in the ballpark 0:13:57.360 --> 0:13:59.280 thinks that you guys broke up. Who cares? What the 0:14:00.120 --> 0:14:06.040 there's thans there and fifty six of those people will 0:14:06.120 --> 0:14:08.480 never know who they're talking about, you know what I mean? 0:14:08.559 --> 0:14:10.559 Fair point. So this brings up a question. Do you 0:14:10.640 --> 0:14:13.719 think it's ever acceptable to break up with someone not 0:14:13.920 --> 0:14:17.280 in person? I mean I've done it before. I've done 0:14:17.320 --> 0:14:21.560 like the FaceTime breakup, uh, probably a couple of times 0:14:21.640 --> 0:14:23.680 over were you guys in a long distance relationship? I 0:14:23.720 --> 0:14:25.440 feel like that's the only acceptable way to do a 0:14:25.480 --> 0:14:28.920 FaceTime breakup. We were in a long relationship. Have you 0:14:29.080 --> 0:14:31.000 ever done that or are you a face to face guy? 0:14:31.920 --> 0:14:35.760 I've never done that. No, I've never broken up with 0:14:35.840 --> 0:14:39.800 somebody unless like somebody thinks that broke up with them. 0:14:39.880 --> 0:14:41.480 I don't think so. Okay, p s A. If you're 0:14:41.480 --> 0:14:43.200 listening to this and Jared has broken up with you, 0:14:43.960 --> 0:14:45.480 please call in and let us know how he did it. 0:14:46.080 --> 0:14:48.880 No no, no no no no no no no. But 0:14:49.080 --> 0:14:51.520 I do think for a long distance relationship, it is 0:14:51.560 --> 0:14:54.880 acceptable to do a FaceTime breakup. I've had friends go 0:14:54.960 --> 0:14:59.280 through similar situations and like the relationship is dissolving, they 0:14:59.320 --> 0:15:01.840 went to just go visit one another. It didn't go well, 0:15:01.920 --> 0:15:04.000 they didn't break up over there, and then they were 0:15:04.000 --> 0:15:06.360 going to meet up like again and fly to like 0:15:06.440 --> 0:15:10.160 a central location, and all the while, one person knew 0:15:10.160 --> 0:15:11.360 that they were going to break up with the other, 0:15:11.440 --> 0:15:13.040 and it was like what am I doing? Like, I 0:15:13.120 --> 0:15:15.720 know it sucks getting broken up with via FaceTime, but 0:15:16.160 --> 0:15:20.000 what's better breaking up with someone over FaceTime or spending hundreds, 0:15:20.080 --> 0:15:23.000 if not thousands of dollars to travel, stay at a 0:15:23.080 --> 0:15:26.320 hotel all just to break up in person. I think 0:15:26.360 --> 0:15:31.600 the FaceTime breakup is acceptable when in a long distance relationship. Now, listen, 0:15:31.600 --> 0:15:33.280 if you guys live down the street and you don't 0:15:33.280 --> 0:15:35.920 have the balls to break up with them in person, Okay, 0:15:36.240 --> 0:15:38.400 that's a different story. I'm tring to think the last 0:15:38.400 --> 0:15:40.400 time I broke up with someone, I like him really bad. 0:15:40.440 --> 0:15:43.680 At breakups, I my method, Like, let's say I'm dating 0:15:43.720 --> 0:15:45.640 someone and I want to break up with them, I 0:15:45.880 --> 0:15:48.920 just like find ways to make them want to break 0:15:48.960 --> 0:15:50.560 up with me because I'm too scared for them to 0:15:50.640 --> 0:15:52.400 break up with to break up with them. You know 0:15:52.440 --> 0:15:56.280 what I mean? Is that what happened on the First Paradise? Uh? Yeah, 0:15:56.360 --> 0:15:58.320 you know that. I don't think that's too far off. Honestly, 0:15:58.520 --> 0:16:00.880 I like this was like, I'm I'm gonna be a 0:16:01.000 --> 0:16:04.600 jerk and hopefully you come to your senses and you 0:16:04.720 --> 0:16:06.240 break it off with me, so that way I don't 0:16:06.240 --> 0:16:08.040 have to feel guilty for breaking off with you, but 0:16:08.120 --> 0:16:10.840 then I feel guilty for being a jerk for wanting 0:16:11.480 --> 0:16:13.400 you to do that. I don't know. It's not definitely 0:16:13.440 --> 0:16:16.080 not the best method, and honestly, it's the root of 0:16:16.160 --> 0:16:20.600 this podcast. It is the genesis that drove this podcast 0:16:20.720 --> 0:16:24.000 into creation. So um, I think we can all agree 0:16:24.040 --> 0:16:26.880 that that's definitely not the best way to approach breakups. Uh, 0:16:27.000 --> 0:16:29.280 if you want to break up with someone, tell them 0:16:29.720 --> 0:16:31.520 why you want to break up with them, face to 0:16:31.600 --> 0:16:34.240 face if you can, or on the phone if you can't, 0:16:34.800 --> 0:16:38.600 and just be an adult about it, right, Could you 0:16:38.640 --> 0:16:41.760 agree with that? Yeah? I mean it's too bad that 0:16:42.280 --> 0:16:44.560 there are no adults on this podcast to really give 0:16:44.760 --> 0:16:48.280 more advice on that. Just to man childs Uh. Last 0:16:48.320 --> 0:16:51.040 hot topic before we take quick break, Jake Cutlor speaking 0:16:51.080 --> 0:16:53.960 of guys that stink. Oh my gosh, let's go from 0:16:54.000 --> 0:16:56.600 a Rod to Jake Cutler. Oh I hate j Cutler. 0:16:57.440 --> 0:17:00.800 Oh it's the worst man. We're also Uh, you're a 0:17:00.840 --> 0:17:03.240 Broncos fan, so norder you hate this guy. J Cutler 0:17:03.360 --> 0:17:06.639 says dating is quote hard as hell. Oh, poor baby. 0:17:07.119 --> 0:17:12.160 After Kristen cavaliery divorce, priorities have changed, he said, getting 0:17:12.200 --> 0:17:14.520 back out there, j Culor's attempt to rejoin in the 0:17:14.600 --> 0:17:17.480 dating world since it's split with Christen Cavaliery has come 0:17:17.560 --> 0:17:20.920 with their fair share of lessons thus far. Quote it's 0:17:21.000 --> 0:17:23.560 hard as hell. Really, Color, who's thirty eight years old, 0:17:23.600 --> 0:17:26.920 said on the podcast Uncut with Jay Cutler. Uh, meeting 0:17:27.000 --> 0:17:29.480 people as hard. I think finding out what people really 0:17:29.520 --> 0:17:32.960 want from you. I think that's probably an issue. Jay Cutler, 0:17:33.040 --> 0:17:37.840 who shares a son, Uh, Camden, two sons, excuse me 0:17:37.880 --> 0:17:40.399 two sons and a daughter uh with Kristen explained the 0:17:40.400 --> 0:17:42.120 struggle to connect with people that are on the same 0:17:42.160 --> 0:17:45.040 page with him, especially as a parent. Now, listen before 0:17:45.040 --> 0:17:47.439 I go further into this article, totally get that as 0:17:47.480 --> 0:17:49.880 a parent, that makes dating harder because you're not only 0:17:50.400 --> 0:17:53.080 you know, introducing someone into your own life, you're introducing 0:17:53.119 --> 0:17:56.679 someone into your kid's life, which is a bigger, bigger deal. Quote. 0:17:56.920 --> 0:17:58.560 I'm at a different phase of my life right now 0:17:58.640 --> 0:18:01.600 with kids. Priorities have changed. Noted during this episode. It 0:18:01.760 --> 0:18:05.359 isn't just a purely selfish play on my part. The 0:18:05.400 --> 0:18:08.640 whole landscape has changed. There are apps, there's Twitter, there's Instagram. 0:18:08.680 --> 0:18:11.080 It's a whole different ball game. You're not just walking 0:18:11.119 --> 0:18:13.480 into a restaurant or bar and talking to somebody that 0:18:13.560 --> 0:18:17.040 doesn't exist anymore. Well, it kind of still exists anyway. 0:18:17.800 --> 0:18:19.840 He goes on to say, we have nothing but love 0:18:19.880 --> 0:18:22.119 and respect for one another and are deeply grateful for 0:18:22.160 --> 0:18:24.280 the years that we shared memories and the children we 0:18:24.359 --> 0:18:26.439 are so proud of, he said, and enjoyed statement. When 0:18:26.440 --> 0:18:29.080 they broke up years ago. This is just a situation 0:18:29.160 --> 0:18:32.320 of two people growing apart. So Jay Cutler talks about 0:18:32.359 --> 0:18:36.240 how difficult dating is out in the world now, Like 0:18:36.400 --> 0:18:39.879 I said, as a parent, as someone who has kids 0:18:40.080 --> 0:18:43.600 with his ex, totally get that that would be very difficult. 0:18:44.000 --> 0:18:47.440 Having said that, you're also Jay Cutler, you're a multi millionaire. 0:18:48.280 --> 0:18:51.040 You're doing okay. Now he could say that, oh, I 0:18:51.119 --> 0:18:53.920 don't know if someone's dating me for quote the right reasons. 0:18:54.880 --> 0:18:57.200 I feel like that excuses a little dramatic and a 0:18:57.320 --> 0:19:01.080 blown out of proportion, Like if you're a good reader 0:19:01.200 --> 0:19:05.360 of people, you'll know if someone really likes you for you. Yeah, 0:19:05.800 --> 0:19:07.840 I mean to to just comment on that real quick. 0:19:07.960 --> 0:19:10.000 There were times when I was an insecure little boy 0:19:10.640 --> 0:19:14.160 and I felt that sometimes a little bit. And I'm 0:19:14.200 --> 0:19:15.720 not even I don't even hold the candle to the 0:19:15.960 --> 0:19:18.439 level of celebrity that j Color is, So I kind 0:19:18.480 --> 0:19:20.560 of see where he's coming from. But Color, he's like 0:19:20.600 --> 0:19:22.639 a cocky dish back. He probably eats that crap up 0:19:22.680 --> 0:19:25.919 he like. I mean, I if you don't tell, if 0:19:25.920 --> 0:19:27.439 you can tell I don't like this guy, I bet 0:19:27.520 --> 0:19:31.320 you he probably He probably like gets weirdly turned on 0:19:31.600 --> 0:19:33.760 by knowing that people want to cook up with him 0:19:33.800 --> 0:19:35.600 just because he's Jay Cutler, you know, like he's like 0:19:35.680 --> 0:19:37.560 he seems like that kind of person to me. I 0:19:37.680 --> 0:19:40.520 love how our sports hatred is really just like oozing 0:19:40.600 --> 0:19:43.880 through this podcast my hatred for a rod for the Yankees, 0:19:44.119 --> 0:19:46.879 your j color because of what he did to the Broncos. 0:19:47.000 --> 0:19:49.280 I love it, No, don't I love this? And he 0:19:49.320 --> 0:19:52.560 did a Christen Cavaliery too. Christ And Cavaliery arguably the 0:19:52.640 --> 0:19:56.399 second hottest woman in America behind Calin obviously, and he 0:19:56.560 --> 0:20:00.600 had he had to go out and ruin that relationship. Hey, 0:20:00.600 --> 0:20:02.159 I don't understand how they were even together in the 0:20:02.160 --> 0:20:04.159 first place. I never watched any of those reality shows 0:20:04.320 --> 0:20:06.720 or anything that they were on, But just knowing what 0:20:06.760 --> 0:20:10.000 I knew about Jay Cutler and knowing what little I 0:20:10.080 --> 0:20:12.320 knew about Kristin Cavaliery, it didn't make sense to me. 0:20:12.440 --> 0:20:15.040 But obviously they had three beautiful kids, so I would 0:20:15.080 --> 0:20:19.159 still consider that relationship with success. I suppose. I just 0:20:19.600 --> 0:20:23.720 don't like Jay Cutler and dating as a single parent, 0:20:24.200 --> 0:20:27.080 I'm assuming is very difficult because for the reasons that 0:20:27.119 --> 0:20:31.080 we stated before, But it is easier for certain people 0:20:31.119 --> 0:20:33.720