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Speaker 1: Back to back classics that time where you just get

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Speaker 1: double the dose.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for being here.

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Speaker 1: It's Brick and Jeffrey in the morning, and this is

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Speaker 1: your second Date Update podcast. Before we just jump right in,

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Speaker 1: I love to start. Alexis especially loves to start with comments.

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Speaker 2: I do. I love this. This part is my favorite.

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Speaker 2: Getting a whole list of them.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, I feel like I'm making some little

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Speaker 3: investigative work. Absolutely, And but Kenya Kenneth said, am I

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Speaker 3: the only listener in Uganda? I felt sad after missing

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Speaker 3: a full week of episodes due to internet shutdown.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, well look at this.

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Speaker 1: I just looked it up and there's actually four of

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Speaker 1: you and Uganda.

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Speaker 2: Hey, look at that. You guys have to find each other.

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Speaker 2: The odds are like, yeah, you need someone to talk

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Speaker 2: about it absolutely, like you're the other one.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so let us know when you guys are

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Speaker 3: all together and you find each other.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely. Absolutely.

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Speaker 1: He thank you for being here wherever you are in

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Speaker 1: the world. He shout out your country if you want to. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we love love to see where you're listening from. It's

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Speaker 1: Brick and Jeffrey and your second eight podcast starts right now.

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Speaker 4: The great thing about dating rock stars is their famously

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Speaker 4: low drama. What particularly drummers Tommy Lee, Travis Barker, animal

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Speaker 4: from the Muppets, notoriously stable, even Keel.

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Speaker 2: Dude, he was a walking red flag.

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Speaker 4: Jeff Well, that's why we were shocked when we heard

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Speaker 4: a local musician was on a first hangout with a

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Speaker 4: lady and a tense situation went down involving an unexpected visitor.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm laughing because we were playing a guitar

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Speaker 1: solo and talking about drummers.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we didn't have a lot of drums. System have

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Speaker 4: what we worked with, But this guy needs our help.

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Speaker 4: You're gonna hear it. A second date update right after.

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Speaker 5: This, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update.

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Speaker 4: Who is the worst person that could randomly show up

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Speaker 4: and surprise you on your date? Your dad?

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Speaker 6: I love it if my dad showed up.

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Speaker 2: He everybody loves my dad too. Ye would suck because

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Speaker 2: my day would be like.

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Speaker 4: Who was go hang on with? Whom happens a lot?

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Speaker 4: Maybe your grandma because she made you a hand sandwich

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Speaker 4: so you'd have enough energy to last the entire night.

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Speaker 6: Okay, are so cute? Is really old. I don't think

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Charlie.

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Speaker 4: Apparently it got a little awkward for our listener Jack

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Speaker 4: because he says somebody from his past kind of crashed

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Speaker 4: his date the other night. And Jack, I've not read

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Speaker 4: your email yet, so I'm just gonna assume it was

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Speaker 4: your third grade teacher who gave you a C in handwriting,

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Speaker 4: Miss mccrowsky.

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Speaker 7: No, it's even worse than that.

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Speaker 2: Wow, Yeah, my.

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Speaker 7: Ex showed up?

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Speaker 2: Shut up?

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Speaker 1: Is it one of those drama things where it's an

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Speaker 1: ex who's been following you around and can't get over

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Speaker 2: Is that it?

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Speaker 7: Well, it hasn't really happened before, but it is't. Starting

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Speaker 7: to kind of feel that way after that.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Well it was natural, like it just happened kind

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Speaker 4: I guess we have to hear the story, tell us

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Speaker 7: So I'm a I'm a musician. I played drums in

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Speaker 7: the band. Wow.

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Speaker 4: Is that have anything to do with the story or

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Speaker 4: is that just a flex you wanted to tell us

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Speaker 2: I mean it's a good flex.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Okay, what's the setup?

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Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, that has to do with the story.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so where did you meet the girl that you

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Speaker 7: So we've actually been talking through Instagram and I've been

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Speaker 2: Now that's a flex. Yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 6: I love having a comedy show because girls are like,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's why I invited miss mccruff's to my concert. Beside, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: You're great handwriting, it worked.

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Speaker 6: You're flexing on the wrong women, I.

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Speaker 8: Know.

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Speaker 4: Sorry, Jack, tell us how it went with you and

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Speaker 7: Well, so before the show started, I was chatting with

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Speaker 7: this girl. Her name is Andrea. We were having a

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Speaker 7: good time, and right before the gig starts and I'm

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Speaker 1: This makes more sense though, because it's like a public venue,

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Speaker 1: you're obviously going to be playing. I thought she was

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Speaker 1: going to be like crashing your dinner danger Yeah, like she.

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Speaker 6: Didn't know you were going to be there. She knows

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Speaker 6: you're in a band. Yeah, she's doing this on purpose.

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Speaker 4: Your band's probably like advertising it on social media, so

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Speaker 4: it's everywhere.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, how long ago did you guys break up?

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Speaker 7: Well, it's been like a year or so, so it's

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Speaker 2: So you're shocked to see her then.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I've like seen her around, but I hadn't really

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Speaker 7: biggest problem was she was wearing the jersey that she

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Speaker 7: stole from me when we broke up.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, this girl's friends need to get her other plans.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what is she doing?

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Speaker 4: Well, clearly I think she knows exactly what she's trying

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Speaker 4: to do at least, and yeah, clearly he's she's getting

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Speaker 1: Dude, Wait, we're not doing this second date because we're

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Speaker 1: calling your ex, are we?

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Speaker 7: Oh no?

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Speaker 4: No, okay, because I was about to feel really bad

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Speaker 4: about talking so much trash about Yeah.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 7: Okay, Well, so at the end of the day, like

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Speaker 7: talk to you guys about Andrea.

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Speaker 2: Andrea that you met on Instagram.

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Speaker 6: I thought it was Andrea?

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Speaker 7: Did it was?

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Speaker 6: And I remembered it?

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Speaker 7: No, no, Andrea?

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Speaker 1: All right, Oh so that is wrong. He's drumming a

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah syllables. There's three beats to it, so yeah, yeah, okay.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you did get someone on one time with her?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? Before the show we were chatting a little bit,

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Speaker 7: but then afterwards we were going to have our meet

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Speaker 7: come around. I spent about fifteen minutes. It took way

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I have fun on a date like that.

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Speaker 6: No, it's not fun. I have my experience. The girls

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Speaker 2: But it's not only that. You start to feel lame,

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Speaker 2: like you start to feel like, what am I doing?

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Speaker 1: Why am I by myself while this guy is talking

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Speaker 2: I feel really pathetic right now.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and I mean it just continues to get worse.

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Speaker 7: During the meet and greet, I had to introduce my

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Speaker 6: What they were together?

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Speaker 2: Like, wait, did you introduce her as your ex.

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Speaker 7: Well, no, but it just sort of came up because

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Speaker 1: I bet your ex just ruined your chances. I mean

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Speaker 1: told her something about you that true or not?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I mean I didn't see them talking a lot,

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Speaker 7: each other? And I'm not trying to lie on their day.

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Speaker 4: But at no point after the show, you were never

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Speaker 2: Andrea not more than that.

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Speaker 7: For her, because she was like, hey, I just got

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Speaker 7: to go, and she just bounced. And then on top

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Speaker 7: of that all like just to cherry on top, then

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Speaker 7: my jersey back, and it's bragging about how that's all

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Speaker 7: she's whare.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, I'm really trying to get back or she's

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Speaker 4: just trying to mess with you.

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Speaker 2: Do we have to ask did you take the jersey back?

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Speaker 2: Did you hook up? With her that night.

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Speaker 7: I did not not that night. No, that's good.

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Speaker 4: Well, let's make this phone call and we'll reassure Andaria

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Speaker 4: that she is one hundred percent.

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Speaker 2: How do you say it different? Every single time?

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Speaker 4: What I'm saying, what he said, Andrea almost called her diarrhea. Whatever.

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Speaker 4: We'll call this lady, and we'll try and get you

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Speaker 4: your second date update right after this.

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Speaker 5: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, Second date Update.

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Speaker 4: We're just joining us our listener. Jack was on a

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Speaker 4: first date that just kept going from bad to worse

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Speaker 4: to Florida bad as it could get. First, his ex

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Speaker 4: girlfriend randomly shows up to the concert where his band

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Speaker 4: was performing. She was wearing his jersey, which she stole

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Speaker 4: after their breakup, and ended up speaking to his date.

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Speaker 4: And who knows what she said to her during that interaction.

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Speaker 2: I know it was a short interaction, but I bet

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Speaker 2: she got some damage.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, yeah, you know.

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Speaker 4: Because it's definitely not a good sign that Andrea decided

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Speaker 1: I am so glad you practiced her name eighty times

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Speaker 1: before we win it.

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Speaker 4: I wrote it out phonetically. That's good, so make sure

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Speaker 4: I got it right. But Jack, You just want to redo,

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Speaker 4: like a start over on your date, right.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and not at a concert. We're gonna go get

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Speaker 7: drinks or do something a little bit more normal.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Yes, at the bar where your ex bar test

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Speaker 4: show up where she works.

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Speaker 2: Definitely start bartending that night.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's what sucks is you were trying to

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Speaker 1: kind of not show off, but like show her something

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Speaker 1: you're really interested in, and then it totally backfired.

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I just felt like a Murphy's Law night. Everything

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Speaker 4: Okay, one of those. Well, everybody hits rock bottom at

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Speaker 4: some point, and for a lot of people, that's when

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Speaker 4: you're on this show. So only places up from here.

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Speaker 4: Let's give Andrea call and see if she picks up.

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Speaker 7: You ready, Yeah, let's give it a go.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Hello, Hi is this Andrea?

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Speaker 10: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Hey, you're on the radio right now with a show

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Speaker 6: Hello.

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Speaker 4: Why Why I like it?

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Speaker 2: Are you right to the point?

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Speaker 4: You sound a little scared, But you don't have to

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Speaker 4: We do call the second Date Update, and we're trying

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Speaker 9: Okay, but if I'm not answering, why would I want

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you may not want to. I think it's

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Speaker 4: Because the guy is really confused after your hangout. His

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Speaker 4: name's Jack. You went to his concert, well, and I

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Speaker 4: guess confused his interviews doesn't necessarily the right word. I

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Speaker 8: Well, yeah, no, it was super awkward.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we'd love to hear. I mean, your side of it, right.

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Speaker 9: I mean, I don't really know why I tell you that.

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Speaker 7: It just seems that's valid.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, here's what we know from Jack. He says

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Speaker 9: I mean, I don't know it was I was really

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Speaker 9: it just seemed like it got more awkward as the

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Speaker 2: I mean, wouldn't he have to be polite? What do

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Speaker 6: Women.

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Speaker 4: And I mean he is working at the same time too,

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Speaker 6: He's a rock star. I don't know how polite. It's

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Speaker 4: They'd be like, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you mean?

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Speaker 9: He was flirting?

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Speaker 6: What flirting?

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Speaker 1: Wait, flirting with you his ex?

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Speaker 9: Yes, Like he introduced me to her and like it

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Speaker 4: Really, are you sure?

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Speaker 1: I mean, okay, I don't think that you were overreacting,

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Speaker 9: I mean maybe, but I don't think so. Like she

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Speaker 1: I could totally see why you wouldn't want to see

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Speaker 1: like that is definitely not not it.

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Speaker 9: I mean, I was actually thinking that, like, maybe she's

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Speaker 9: worst part in this whole thing, and really what makes

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Speaker 9: what she was telling me about his nickname for her

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Speaker 9: or I don't know some songbirds and he was calling

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Speaker 9: me that during our Instagram like messages.

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Speaker 1: No, no, it's like his babe.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, cool dude.

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Speaker 2: It's also just weird to give you a name before

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Speaker 9: I mean, I thought it was cute because it's a

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Speaker 9: songbird and he totally played it off. But he obviously

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Speaker 1: That's okay, I mean, but that doesn't mean that he's

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Speaker 2: It just means that he's uncreative.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, before this gets any more awkward, I should just

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Speaker 4: tell you this, Andrea, that Jack is listening on the

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Speaker 9: You're joking, right, like he's not really on the phone.

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Speaker 4: No, No, that's kind of how this whole thing works.

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Speaker 7: Jack.

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Speaker 4: Are you are you there?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? Hey, hi, Andrea?

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Speaker 9: Oh why would you embarrass me twice? Like that night

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Speaker 7: Well, first of all, I wanted to apologize for the

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Speaker 7: calls to let me do that, So obviously that mad. Sorry.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think they start with the apology Jack instead of.

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Speaker 7: Well I thought that obviously she just showed up, right,

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Speaker 7: and she's telling you things that aren't true.

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Speaker 9: And yeah, but she didn't lie about the nick name.

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Speaker 9: You called me that from like our third day of

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Speaker 9: talking and made it seem like it was so special

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Speaker 9: to me. That's like major ick man.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean, but out of all of the cockatials

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Speaker 4: Wow, that's got to feel good.

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Speaker 9: I'm not buying it.

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Speaker 1: Sweet, Are you buying that he isn't interested in his exo?

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Speaker 2: Does it that part? Do you buy?

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Speaker 9: I mean, I totally believe she was a psycho because

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Speaker 9: she was giving me crazy eyes. Honestly, but psychos attracts

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Speaker 9: psycho so it just doesn't give me a good bbe.

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Speaker 7: So look, I was listening when she told you that

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Speaker 7: I gave her that jersey. She stole it from me

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Speaker 7: when she broke up with me. I mean, I'm trying

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Speaker 7: to be play with her because she's crazy. She's gonna

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Speaker 7: keey my car and light it on fire if I'm.

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Speaker 9: Eating to keep my car or light it on fire,

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Speaker 9: I don't want to deal with that. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: Some people could see it as like Jack is such

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Speaker 4: how strong and wonderful the relationship is, she's unwilling to

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Speaker 1: Okay, But honestly, though, like there's psychos don't always attract psychos.

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Speaker 1: Like there's people that want to see the best in

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Speaker 1: others and they run past the red flags. I mean,

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Speaker 1: we've all been in relationships with somebody that was some

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Speaker 4: Right, We're definitely not just talking about ourselves here, right.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm just.

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Speaker 1: Saying like he can't be labeled psycho just because he

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Speaker 2: That's all I'm saying. I don't think that's fair.

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Speaker 7: Well, thank you.

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Speaker 9: Well he has bad judgment then, because why would he

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's a rock star. He doesn't have time to

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Speaker 2: You know, the good psychos aren't psycho at first.

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Speaker 6: It's slowly yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a slow burn into psychosis.

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Speaker 9: I don't I don't want to go out with him.

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Speaker 4: You didn't even give me a chance to offer a

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Speaker 9: But well I should tell you that I don't really

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're here, I think too, Jack.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I feel like that's my out. Guys.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you can make like.

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Speaker 1: A sad rock drum song out of it, you know,

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Speaker 1: use it as fire for your next kid.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I need a thirty second solo and maybe alert

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Speaker 4: I don't know, it sounds like she's still into it.

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Speaker 4: You always have another option.

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Speaker 7: I mean, at this point, if she just keeps showing up,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the sign. If you love a bird, you

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Speaker 4: have to let the cockatile fly free, and if it

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Speaker 2: And cockati is a terrible pet name. Think of something else.

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Speaker 4: I kind of agree. You got to work shop that one, Jack.

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Speaker 7: I mean, guys, I've got two cockatiels in my life

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Speaker 7: and one's just blown away and I don't even know

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you're in a cockatil mess.

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Speaker 4: Two cockaile heels in the hand is worth one in

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you're the statue, sometimes a bird sitting.

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: You're a rock star. You don't have these kinds of problems.

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Speaker 7: You're right, guys. I'm just gonna get back out there.

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Speaker 6: There to meet girls after show.

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Speaker 4: Jeffrey in the morning, Man, when are we going to

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Speaker 4: get people on this show that say, you know what,

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Speaker 4: I like the drama.

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Speaker 5: I need more.

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Speaker 4: Chaos and excitement in my life. Bring the X back

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Speaker 4: for our second date.

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Speaker 2: Let's get three x's in here.

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Speaker 4: Where are those people? Because everybody these days is so

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Speaker 2: Like stability. Who wants that?

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Speaker 4: You know?

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Speaker 6: This is literally why reality TV dating shows thrive. Yes,

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Speaker 6: we got a rock star and then random women. One

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Speaker 2: How you noticed on those it's all the same people

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Speaker 4: It really I mean, look, I'm excited for all like

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Speaker 4: the happy, stable people out there, but we need drama

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, maybe he really will get back with his

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Speaker 1: X and then they'll be an awkward Tuesday phone call about maybe.

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Speaker 2: The Jersey like that. I mean, there's still potential with

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Speaker 4: That's right, we can dream. Hopefully he'll be back to

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Speaker 4: be on our podcast, which is available online wherever you

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Speaker 4: get yours at Brook and.

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Speaker 5: Jeffrey Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 4: Everyone deals with nerves in different ways. Yeah, Jose bites

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Speaker 4: his fingernails, Brook twirls her hair and scratches her armpits.

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Speaker 4: And a lot of people don't know this, but when

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Speaker 4: In Spanish.

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Speaker 2: You fall asleep in the middle of whatever you're doing

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Speaker 2: because you're a.

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Speaker 4: Little nervous day anytime of day, even in my thirties.

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Speaker 4: It is still soothing and healthy.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, very healthy.

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Speaker 4: Our listener Kyle wished he he had a loose What

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Speaker 4: happened on the way to his first meet up with

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Speaker 4: a woman? You're gonna find out no second date update

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Speaker 4: right after this.

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Speaker 5: Broken Jeffrey in the Morning second date update.

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Speaker 4: This is not a new thing. It's a broken Jeffrey

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Speaker 4: in the Morning.

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Speaker 2: We've been doing this segment for a long time.

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Speaker 4: Jeff Well, not in that segment. I mean, it's not

453
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Speaker 4: new that we've talked about. When you're more than five

454
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Speaker 4: to ten minutes late to a first date, I think

455
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Speaker 4: we can all agree at least a text is needed

456
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Speaker 4: to give them an update.

457
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeahntes, I even think five five yeah.

458
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Speaker 10: Five.

459
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Speaker 2: Sitting there alone feels like a.

460
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Speaker 4: Long But the thing is, what do you say to

461
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Speaker 4: keep it light and fun? Still? Do you go with

462
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Speaker 4: like a sorry, I'm late. I just needed some extra

463
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Speaker 4: time to emotionally prepare myself for how hot you are?

464
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Speaker 1: Did that take you five minutes to come up with it?

465
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Speaker 1: I feel like you're sitting on the door.

466
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Speaker 4: You can just walk, I mean, use the wasted time

467
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Speaker 4: the right way again? Or do you go with my

468
00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:04,720
Speaker 4: personal favorite, Sorry, I'm late. My pants were fighting me

469
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Speaker 4: and frankly they lost what.

470
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Speaker 2: Because you don't have pants exactly?

471
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Speaker 4: Keep it mysterious and clarty, so that she's wondering the

472
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Speaker 4: whole time, regretfully have them all.

473
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know that. I'm glad we're not doing

474
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Speaker 2: textual healing right now.

475
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Speaker 4: The reason that I bring it all up, all this

476
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Speaker 4: lateness is because our buddy Kyle says he was late

477
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Speaker 4: for his date the other day, and I want to

478
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Speaker 4: know what he texted to her. Kyle, what was your

479
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Speaker 4: line when you were late?

480
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Speaker 10: I didn't really have a line. I kind of was

481
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Speaker 10: just like, hey, sorry, I'm going to late.

482
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Speaker 2: That's solid, is great.

483
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Speaker 4: I don't want to use the fighting pants line the

484
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Speaker 4: next time, because I will to use it.

485
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Speaker 2: Next time.

486
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Speaker 4: I don't like a lot of communication apparently.

487
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Speaker 6: But also, if you think about it, you don't want

488
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Speaker 6: to make a big deal. You're already late. You want

489
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Speaker 6: to make it quick.

490
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Speaker 4: I'll be right there. Okay, you're done with questions. Question

491
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Speaker 4: those questions for you. Tell us about your date. Oh,

492
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Speaker 4: what was this lady's name that you met the other day?

493
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Speaker 10: So her name is Ashley?

494
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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I would ask where you met her, but

495
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Speaker 1: I apparently am just really Upsetod.

496
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Speaker 4: That's a terrible question. Go back to the date, Kyle.

497
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Speaker 10: So I kind of introduced her through some mutual friends.

498
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Speaker 10: I haven't met her yet. This is going to be

499
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Speaker 10: our first time.

500
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Speaker 2: Meeting, so it's like an old fashioned blind date.

501
00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:26,920
Speaker 4: Yeah.

502
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Speaker 10: So we were supposed to go to dinner and then

503
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Speaker 10: you know, maybe it's like a movie. We didn't really

504
00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:33,080
Speaker 10: have a clear plan. But it was Friday night and

505
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Speaker 10: traffic was extremely bad.

506
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Speaker 1: But wait, she devoted a Friday night date to you.

507
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Speaker 1: That is already a good side.

508
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Speaker 4: Wait, why is Friday a good sign you.

509
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Speaker 2: Don't give up weekend nights?

510
00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:45,400
Speaker 4: Friday Friday is a weekend.

511
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Speaker 2: No, Well, if.

512
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Speaker 6: It's a Tuesday afternoon date, Jeff, it's.

513
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Speaker 4: Not hot, gotcha. So Friday night, you're saying traffic on

514
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Speaker 4: the way was terrible.

515
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Speaker 10: You know how some people when they get nervous, they

516
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Speaker 10: like shape their knee like they're like bumping.

517
00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:56,360
Speaker 7: It up and down.

518
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Speaker 10: Yeah, I was doing that a lot, to the point

519
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Speaker 10: where my shoe came off. I was driving like I

520
00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:03,280
Speaker 10: was extremely nervous.

521
00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:06,720
Speaker 2: Panic attack while you were driving in a shoe came off.

522
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Speaker 7: I was freaking out. I didn't.

523
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Speaker 10: I didn't want to be late, so I had to

524
00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:12,200
Speaker 10: pull over to fix it. But when I pulled over,

525
00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:14,400
Speaker 10: I guess my car was sticking out in the road

526
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:16,679
Speaker 10: too much, and this guy that was talking at me,

527
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Speaker 10: and you know, I'm not the most patient person. So

528
00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 10: we got into a little bit of I would call

529
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Speaker 10: it a little bit of road range.

530
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Speaker 4: This is all before you arrived to the date. This

531
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Speaker 4: is explaining, this.

532
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Speaker 10: Is leading up to the date.

533
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Speaker 1: Why you're not in a good mindset, My friend, you're

534
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Speaker 1: a road rage guy.

535
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Speaker 10: Yeah, I wouldn't say I'm I'm a road rage guys.

536
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Speaker 10: Point why I galloped the car on, screaming, but you know,

537
00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:40,720
Speaker 10: like I'm young and I'm lifting up my shoe being like, hey,

538
00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:42,920
Speaker 10: all I'm trying to do is what this all I'm trying.

539
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Speaker 4: To Okay, now it looks like you're threatening the other day.

540
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Speaker 1: Now, I'm really glad all you said to your date

541
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Speaker 1: was sorry, I'm late. Yeah, any more explanation of what

542
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:53,600
Speaker 1: just went down could have been.

543
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Speaker 2: A red fla.

544
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Speaker 10: I'm trying. Okay, I'm trying. I'm really sorry, my best

545
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Speaker 10: That's why I tried to keep a simple but I

546
00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:03,159
Speaker 10: was getting close to the restaurant, and I realized that

547
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:05,440
Speaker 10: my breath though I had a little bit of garlic

548
00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:05,919
Speaker 10: for lunch.

549
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:08,399
Speaker 1: So wait, now you have sticky breadth are late and

550
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:10,120
Speaker 1: you were just in a road range incident.

551
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:13,520
Speaker 10: Yeah, it had been a very long, long day.

552
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Speaker 4: His date doesn't know any of that.

553
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:17,560
Speaker 2: Well, I understand. I'm just thinking of his mental state.

554
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:20,400
Speaker 1: Walking into the restaurant seems great.

555
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 2: I'm thinking, dishoveled. Did you stop to get gum?

556
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:24,800
Speaker 1: Then?

557
00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:25,760
Speaker 7: Yeah?

558
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:28,120
Speaker 10: So I told her that I stopped at the drug

559
00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:30,160
Speaker 10: store to get something. I didn't tell it was umb.

560
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:30,920
Speaker 10: I didn't want her to know.

561
00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:34,000
Speaker 4: Oh, she probably thinks you're stopping to get prophylactics for

562
00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:34,679
Speaker 4: the end of the day.

563
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Speaker 2: I'm thinking something worse, like an antibiotic for Oh.

564
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Speaker 10: Oh yeah, No, I didn't tell her, but I let

565
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Speaker 10: her know. So I got there around like twenty five

566
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Speaker 10: to thirty minutes late.

567
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Speaker 4: Ooh, that's too late.

568
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 2: And it sounds like you're doing errands instead.

569
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Speaker 6: You say, I'm stopping at the store.

570
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Speaker 2: Yeap, What was it like you?

571
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Speaker 10: You could tell that she was a little annoyed, and

572
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Speaker 10: I understand that because I would be, But you know,

573
00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:01,480
Speaker 10: I apologize.

574
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Speaker 7: She eventually kind of.

575
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:05,119
Speaker 10: Just like rolled her eyes, made a joke about it,

576
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 10: and we moved on.

577
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:10,200
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, so it sounds like things are getting back

578
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:10,600
Speaker 1: on track.

579
00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 7: Yeah.

580
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Speaker 10: I mean I ordered those both doubles when we got

581
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:16,959
Speaker 10: there because we both had a rough day. Everything seemed

582
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:19,720
Speaker 10: like it was gonna be okay. But as dinner started ending,

583
00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 10: like I started realizing, like she definitely brought up going

584
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,359
Speaker 10: back to her place anymore, and we talked about that

585
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:27,199
Speaker 10: a lot in the text, so I was like, oh,

586
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 10: I tried to hint at it a little bit. I

587
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:30,720
Speaker 10: had a couple of drinks, so you know, I wasn't

588
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:33,200
Speaker 10: like in my best date of mind, so I tried

589
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Speaker 10: to hint at it. I was like, wow, you know,

590
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:36,720
Speaker 10: it's so early, we could go and do.

591
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Speaker 4: Whatever, trying to get her to take the lead to

592
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:41,960
Speaker 4: be like, oh, let's do movies now.

593
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,679
Speaker 10: Yeah yeah exactly. I was like I'll go, Yeah, we

594
00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 10: could like go back to your place and watch a

595
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Speaker 10: movie or you.

596
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Speaker 6: Know, this is why you plany Friday night meals. Last

597
00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 6: Friday night date was like, we'll have the date and

598
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Speaker 6: if things go well, then maybe we can hang out

599
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:54,760
Speaker 6: after two.

600
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Speaker 10: Because it's Friday exactly. Man, we had that whole conversation.

601
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Speaker 10: Everything seemed like it was leading to that point, and

602
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 10: then she hits me with, oh, you know, I'm a

603
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:05,400
Speaker 10: school teacher, so I have to grade capers.

604
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:10,720
Speaker 1: Oh you know, it's Friday night, late night paper graded

605
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Speaker 1: after a couple of drinks.

606
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Speaker 2: Did you believe that?

607
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:21,120
Speaker 7: No, I didn't believe that. Yeah, it is a Friday night.

608
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:23,439
Speaker 10: You are here with me getting drinks on a Friday night.

609
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 10: There's no way you're gonna go home and go Yeah

610
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:26,840
Speaker 10: you know, I'm just gonna grade some of you.

611
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:30,879
Speaker 6: I'm just pretty funking before the real party starts.

612
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:30,400
Speaker 7: Rain.

613
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Speaker 4: You're not a dedicated school teacher, though, are you?

614
00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:36,359
Speaker 1: Like you're actually, I'm wondering if she decided before she

615
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 1: even saw you, just because you're half an hour late.

616
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 1: You come in, you do a bunch of apologies.

617
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Speaker 4: Like missing your shoe, you order a double shot the second.

618
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Speaker 4: I don't know why she wouldn't want to go out.

619
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Speaker 1: I'm just wondering if she didn't give you the chance

620
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Speaker 1: that maybe you were hoping for.

621
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Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, and I mean again, like I understand, but

622
00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:56,400
Speaker 10: I feel like I tried my best to like bring

623
00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:59,239
Speaker 10: the conversations back on conversations there weren't weren't bad like

624
00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:01,280
Speaker 10: it seems like everything was going well.

625
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 6: But yeah, but when you're that late, you're starting in

626
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 6: the hole.

627
00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:06,280
Speaker 4: The good news is we live in that hole, so

628
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:08,119
Speaker 4: we can help. We know all the ways to get

629
00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 4: out of it. We're gonna try and help you. We're

630
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 4: gonna call, We're gonna try and get you your second

631
00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 4: date update with Ashley right after this.

632
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:16,960
Speaker 5: Hold on brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

633
00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 4: If you're just joining us for the second date update.

634
00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:23,880
Speaker 4: We've been talking to Kyle and here's the unfortunate thing

635
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:26,480
Speaker 4: that happened to him, without any fault of his own.

636
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:31,399
Speaker 4: He was late. Yeah, I mean I I would really

637
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:33,200
Speaker 4: like a bunch of Yeah.

638
00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:36,119
Speaker 1: Well, the shoe came off because he was nervous and

639
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:36,920
Speaker 1: he couldn't control it.

640
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:38,720
Speaker 2: That he got in a fight with the guy.

641
00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:42,120
Speaker 4: A few people in our studio do assume that he

642
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 4: walked in looking disheveled and bloody and angry and immediately

643
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 4: ordered himself a double shot.

644
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:50,000
Speaker 2: I don't know where he got bloody either. Je blooded

645
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:50,920
Speaker 2: him up the way.

646
00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:53,040
Speaker 6: How bad is rush hour for you?

647
00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:57,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, so it's not a great look. But let's remember

648
00:27:57,080 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 4: he did order her a double shot too. Yeah, let's

649
00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 4: get him a little bit of credit.

650
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 2: It was a double shot. I thought it was just

651
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:10,400
Speaker 2: a double drink. It is so impressive come with shot

652
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 2: glasses compared to coming with it.

653
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, fair point. You guys are right. But apparently there

654
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 4: was some texting before the date about possibly hanging out afterwards,

655
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:23,920
Speaker 4: maybe even to watch a movie at her place, which

656
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 4: is something that she never brought up. So was she

657
00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:30,440
Speaker 4: turned off by his lateness or was it something else.

658
00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:32,520
Speaker 4: That's our job to figure out and do whatever we

659
00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:34,920
Speaker 4: can to help Kyle get another hang out.

660
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:37,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, we never even heard Kyle. Have you talked to

661
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 2: her since the date?

662
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:43,720
Speaker 10: No? No, I haven't. I've been trying to get it. Yeah,

663
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 10: so I had, I had reached out. I didn't hear anything.

664
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:49,720
Speaker 10: So so my friends said, had asked, how did they go?

665
00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 10: I kind of told them what happened that they could,

666
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 10: like see if they could do any digging for me,

667
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 10: And I never really heard anything back.

668
00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 4: Man, you never talked to your friends about your dating life?

669
00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 2: If you set them up.

670
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:04,520
Speaker 4: No, always come to us first. We'll give you an

671
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 4: honest opinion whether or not you're gonna like it at all.

672
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:11,160
Speaker 2: Maybe she's still grading papers. It's just been really busy school.

673
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:14,719
Speaker 6: You don't want her because she's boring.

674
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Speaker 2: She's a great.

675
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 1: Teacher, boring exactly.

676
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Speaker 4: So let's just call her. We'll see if she picks

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Speaker 4: up and hopefully has some answers for us. But I'm

678
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Speaker 4: going to dial her number right now. It's Ashley, right, yeah, okay,

679
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:29,160
Speaker 4: miss Ashley. Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 2: Hello.

681
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Speaker 4: Hi is this Ashley?

682
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Speaker 8: Yeah?

683
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Speaker 4: How you doing today?

684
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Speaker 7: H Who is?

685
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,320
Speaker 4: This is a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey

686
00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 4: in the Morning.

687
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:54,000
Speaker 6: Your favorite students.

688
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 1: What is it?

689
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 4: No, you're on the radio right now. Okay, we're Brooking

690
00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:03,640
Speaker 4: Jeffrey in the Morning and we're doing a segment called

691
00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 4: a second Date Update.

692
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:08,160
Speaker 1: I wish it was that Teacher of the Year segment

693
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 1: that we do, but okay, so what is it?

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Speaker 4: Uh? See? This is a dating segment where we try

695
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 4: to help out our listeners who have gone out with

696
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:21,400
Speaker 4: somebody and afterwards, if they're not getting a call back,

697
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Speaker 4: we try to help figure out the reason why.

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Speaker 7: Okay, and you.

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Speaker 4: According to our sources, went out with one of our

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Speaker 4: listeners named Kyle recently.

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Speaker 2: Our source is Kyle.

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Speaker 8: Just so you know, well, don't give away, Yeah, what

703
00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 8: about it?

704
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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, Kyle had some really nice things to say

705
00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:41,760
Speaker 4: about you and about your date.

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Speaker 8: That's surprising.

707
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Speaker 2: Okay, Oh, it's surprising that he enjoyed.

708
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:50,040
Speaker 8: It, that he was talking about me and not himself.

709
00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 4: Oh, because the thing is, Kyle isn't one hundred percent

710
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:02,560
Speaker 4: sure why you aren't meeting up a second time. He

711
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 4: does acknowledge that he was late to the date, and

712
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:06,840
Speaker 4: he okay, he.

713
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:09,800
Speaker 8: Did tell you that. Okay, So yeah, he's still on that. Okay, Yes,

714
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:11,120
Speaker 8: he was late. He was very late.

715
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Speaker 2: Wait, he's still on that? What do you mean by that?

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00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:15,800
Speaker 8: I mean, before I even see this guy, I get

717
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 8: three separate texts within like the forty five minutes late.

718
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 8: He was, Oh, I think I'm gonna be late. Sorry,

719
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:24,600
Speaker 8: I'm gonna be late. Looks like I'm going to be late.

720
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Speaker 8: I was like, for the love of god.

721
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Speaker 4: Well hold on, don't you like the communication to let

722
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 4: you know?

723
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Speaker 8: I mean, you can just say it once and give

724
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 8: me an eta and then like I can chill. It's

725
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 8: just like play by play was like not native and

726
00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 8: I can see.

727
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:39,040
Speaker 1: It sounded like he was really nervous before the date

728
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:41,320
Speaker 1: and that he was really looking forward to it. So

729
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 1: maybe he just overdid the communication because he felt bad.

730
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Speaker 4: So was it already over even by the time that

731
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Speaker 4: he just arrived at the restaurant?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

733
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Speaker 8: Not necessarily, but I mean it's like all we talked about.

734
00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 8: He's like, Okay, so this happened in my shoe and.

735
00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:58,880
Speaker 2: Then the god like shoot the.

736
00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 8: Drug store and I'm I'm like, oh my god. I'm like, okay, okay,

737
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 8: are we gonna like are we going to go on

738
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Speaker 8: a date? Are we just going to like recap the

739
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:07,840
Speaker 8: reason you relate to this date in the first place.

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Speaker 6: So already trying to move on though that's a good song.

741
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Speaker 8: No, one hundred percent. I understand things happen. You can

742
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Speaker 8: be late. But then that's like all he's I mean, guys,

743
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 8: he was like stopping the waiter. I was like, finally,

744
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 8: I'm freaking starving, like with or something. He said, no, no,

745
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:22,320
Speaker 8: I'll give us fifty minutes. I got to talk to

746
00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:24,520
Speaker 8: her and then just like went on and on about

747
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:27,240
Speaker 8: the lateness and I'm like, can I get a taco?

748
00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 8: Like please?

749
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:31,160
Speaker 2: Okay, wait?

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00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 6: Wait?

751
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Speaker 1: Like what if he was just nervous, you know, like

752
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:36,440
Speaker 1: he messed up and he knows it.

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Speaker 8: It almost feels like he planned this to have like

754
00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 8: subject matter to talk about on this date.

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Speaker 1: Well, he planned to be late and the shoe just

756
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Speaker 1: so he had conversation.

757
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 8: He was like, this could be interesting. It made him

758
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:50,000
Speaker 8: feel like I felt crazy. I was like, can we

759
00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 8: do can you talk about anything else?

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00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:54,400
Speaker 6: Oh my god, he's creating a date story.

761
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 2: He did tell us the whole story, but only once. Yeah,

762
00:32:57,440 --> 00:32:58,840
Speaker 2: he told us once.

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Speaker 8: He loved the story. It's his favorite story. And I

764
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 8: can't believe he called the radio to tell it again.

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Speaker 4: You maybe we can hear one more time when we

766
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:07,160
Speaker 4: bring him on right now, because he is on the

767
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 4: other line. He really is. He's there listening and hoping

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Speaker 4: to talk to you. Kyle.

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00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 10: Hi, Actually, what's up?

770
00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:17,560
Speaker 8: Kyle?

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00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 7: All right? You know you do.

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00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 10: I totally understand what you're saying, Like I get it.

773
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 7: I didn't really mean to, but I.

774
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 10: Just wanted you to know, like it really was a

775
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 10: crazy situation. Like I was driving, I really didn't know

776
00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 10: like what else to do because I was I was

777
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:35,440
Speaker 10: just nervous. My shoe fell off.

778
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 8: Like you guys, you get that part yea wait wait

779
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:40,080
Speaker 8: wait wait wait wait?

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00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 4: Which foot? Which foot was the shoe on?

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Speaker 8: Don't encourage him, Kyle, don't tell the story again.

782
00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:49,720
Speaker 10: Okay, okay, okay, yeah, yes, absolutely, I get I repeated

783
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:52,720
Speaker 10: a lot of times, but like, do you understand how

784
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 10: crazy of the story.

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00:33:54,240 --> 00:34:00,560
Speaker 8: It is, though, Like you, I don't want you to

786
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:02,280
Speaker 8: the lady.

787
00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:09,600
Speaker 10: At the stores, she's okay, you guys, let's call time

788
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:10,680
Speaker 10: out on the conversation.

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00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:12,840
Speaker 4: There's a lot going on here, and I want to

790
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 4: save some of Kyle's story for the side podcast that

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00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 4: we do with Brook, Alexis and Jose.

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00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's just the shoe story. Yeah, we just do

793
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:21,880
Speaker 2: a shoe story podcast.

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00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:26,040
Speaker 4: Clearly, Clearly, Ashley, he was very, very flustered by the

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00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:28,160
Speaker 4: journey over to meet up with you on the date,

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00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 4: and he felt like it was important to at least

797
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:31,800
Speaker 4: get it out there to explain himself.

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00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 8: He's literally still doing it, I know, but I.

799
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:36,800
Speaker 2: Think it's because he's defensive, and more.

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00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:38,440
Speaker 4: Importantly, it's because he likes you.

801
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:40,840
Speaker 10: Yeah, and you know, I was really looking forward to

802
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:43,040
Speaker 10: going back to your house, you know, watching that movie,

803
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:44,759
Speaker 10: and you know, maybe we could have ended up doing

804
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:50,200
Speaker 10: something like later on that night. Like I was really

805
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:53,480
Speaker 10: just how could we even dot all?

806
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:56,719
Speaker 8: You're gonna keep doing is talking about this. I'm swear,

807
00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 8: I'm flustering, dude, like it's a wrap, Like, what are

808
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 8: we doing on the radio?

809
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:02,640
Speaker 4: Okay, what we're doing is we're going to offer to

810
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 4: send you out on another date with Kyle. But I'm

811
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 4: assuming you're probably too busy grading like school papers and

812
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:10,440
Speaker 4: you don't have a lot of free time in your schedule.

813
00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 2: By the way, Oh no.

814
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:14,640
Speaker 8: No, no, I'm I'm good. I'm completely free. But I

815
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:16,160
Speaker 8: just don't want to talk about too.

816
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:19,480
Speaker 2: That was such a cold excuse not to hang out

817
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:20,040
Speaker 2: with him again.

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00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,239
Speaker 8: Yeah, you know, what else was I supposed to do?

819
00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 7: Who was killing me?

820
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:25,279
Speaker 8: Like at least like I have, like I have an

821
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:27,160
Speaker 8: actual thing to do, that's like a job. Maybe he

822
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 8: would like release me from the torture.

823
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:33,520
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I didn't need to laugh. It's just she

824
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:34,240
Speaker 2: has very.

825
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:37,399
Speaker 1: Clear boundaries of yes, she wants and that's that's respectable.

826
00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:38,120
Speaker 4: But I don't.

827
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:39,920
Speaker 8: I just want to have a meal. I don't like.

828
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 8: That's not a huge boundary.

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00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:43,920
Speaker 10: Okay, Okay, as I get it, I get it, I

830
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:45,440
Speaker 10: get it. You don't want me to recap, but you're

831
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 10: talking about this meal. The meal, the meal, the meal,

832
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:48,319
Speaker 10: the meal, all the time.

833
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:52,480
Speaker 8: That's are you out of your mind?

834
00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 4: I mean, does have a point.

835
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:55,680
Speaker 10: I'm just saying you were talking about recapping and then

836
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:57,759
Speaker 10: now we're recapping this whole thing about how I.

837
00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:00,120
Speaker 8: Didn't talk about like.

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00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 5: Reverb.

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00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:07,600
Speaker 1: Let's end this, yes, right now, so we send you

840
00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 1: out one more time, last chance, I think, end the story.

841
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:11,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, this story is over.

842
00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 8: Hey, goodbye radio people.

843
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:20,240
Speaker 4: Oh man, Kyle, I'm sorry, man.

844
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 10: Well to be honest, good because I need I need

845
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:25,440
Speaker 10: someone with a wat attention man who can at least

846
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:27,280
Speaker 10: like entertain what's.

847
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:27,680
Speaker 7: Going on here.

848
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:30,600
Speaker 10: You know, I'm being I'm being told that I'm just

849
00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:32,759
Speaker 10: doing too much, and she's doing the exact same thing.

850
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think you picked up what she was

851
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:35,919
Speaker 2: saying the story.

852
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:38,440
Speaker 8: Maybe she's like what he was saying.

853
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:44,480
Speaker 4: But okay, so much, Okay, but take us back to

854
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:46,959
Speaker 4: this traffic light. Okay, go back to the show because

855
00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 4: I'm still curious.

856
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 10: I mean, if you actually want to know, I can.

857
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 5: Keep going Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

858
00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:58,759
Speaker 4: You know, I felt bad for Kyle because he definitely

859
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:01,760
Speaker 4: wanted the whole world to hear about his harrowing story

860
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:03,920
Speaker 4: on the way to the date, and in his defense,

861
00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 4: a lot of dating is talking about things that happened

862
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 4: to you in your life, and.

863
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:11,320
Speaker 2: She's different things and then asking about their things.

864
00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:14,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, but I can also understand his date's perspective.

865
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:17,359
Speaker 4: She doesn't want to rehash the details over and over

866
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 4: and hear how the sausage was made. She just literally

867
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:21,400
Speaker 4: wants to eat sausage.

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00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:24,759
Speaker 1: We were set up for failure from the beginning. We

869
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 1: rehash what happened. I mean, that's the whole point of

870
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:30,200
Speaker 1: the segment is to rehash what happened on the date,

871
00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:32,040
Speaker 1: which is exactly the last thing.

872
00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:35,560
Speaker 4: She wanted to here, you feel against it. So man,

873
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:36,240
Speaker 4: still don't.

874
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:37,480
Speaker 2: Really understand the sausage thing.

875
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:39,719
Speaker 4: But yeah, but she didn't want to hear why he

876
00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 4: was late.

877
00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:41,920
Speaker 2: She wanted a jeff Yeah exactly.

878
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:47,400
Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah that's just me. But whatever food you like

879
00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:49,600
Speaker 4: to eat or talk about, we can help you in

880
00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:51,560
Speaker 4: your dating life. You can always email the show and

881
00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 4: we can help call that person who hasn't calling you back.

882
00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 4: And go check out our Second Dates wherever you get

883
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,760
Speaker 4: your podcasts. They're available online at Brook and Jeffrey