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Speaker 1: Hi, Hi, how are you. It's been so long.

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Speaker 2: I know, I was excited. I feel so big time.

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Speaker 2: When I have certain people on, it's weird. I can't

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Speaker 2: explain it because usually I'm just like ranting talking about

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Speaker 2: like excited about because I only swear in my life.

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Speaker 2: I only have people on when i'm excited about them.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm excited to talk to you. I'm excited to

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Speaker 1: have a big talk. I feel like so much has

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Speaker 1: changed for both of us and to be last met

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Speaker 1: and like you are like now the TikToker, the TikToker,

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Speaker 1: Like you're moving and you're just like in this amazing

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Speaker 1: era and you're just like killing it and you're so

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Speaker 1: I mean, I know social media doesn't tell the whole truth,

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Speaker 1: but you seem very inflow and very happy right.

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Speaker 3: Now in the pocket.

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Speaker 1: It's very cool to see.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: No, let's do our perspectives about each other and then

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Speaker 2: let's correct them.

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Speaker 3: Let's do that. That's fun.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So okay, first of all, I don't think I

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Speaker 2: knew last time it was Christina Najar that that's your name.

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Speaker 1: That's my real name. Yes, and I gave myself to

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Speaker 1: Tanks the nickname when I was like twelve long sto oh, I.

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Speaker 2: Did know that.

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Speaker 3: I do remember that. I actually do remember. I forgot that.

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Speaker 2: Wait a second, So who calls you Christina? Like my

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Speaker 2: parents and that's kind of it.

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Speaker 1: My parents and a few friends maybe from from high school,

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Speaker 1: but mostly everybody calls me thinks.

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Speaker 2: Right, and also like you kind of don't have a

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Speaker 2: last name, which is like me, and that's very cool.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of cool. Yeah, it's easy, and it's like,

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Speaker 1: you know, it works. It's easy. It's four letters, you know,

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Speaker 1: one and done.

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Speaker 3: So that's a good question.

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Speaker 2: If someone meets you on an airplane, all right, so

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Speaker 2: you meet like a really successful like mobil baller guy

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Speaker 2: who's like a big player but doesn't know anything about

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Speaker 2: this world, and like you're smart in your.

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Speaker 1: Edge Justina all the way, I'm like, Hi, I'm Christina.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but like then, even more, what do you do

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Speaker 2: for a living? Now You're gonna be like.

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Speaker 3: I'm an influencause he's gonna think you're some thought dope.

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Speaker 1: It's tough and I don't know at me, I'm in.

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Speaker 3: My fifties, can you imagine me.

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Speaker 1: Because you're like, I'm a TikToker. They're like what And

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Speaker 1: by the way, I'm not ashamed, and I know you

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Speaker 1: aren't either of being an influencer whatsoever. I love it

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Speaker 1: and I think it's amazing, but there is some judgment

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Speaker 1: if people don't live in this world and they don't know,

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Speaker 1: there are preconceived notions. So I say, like, I have

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Speaker 1: go in. And then I'm like, and I do a

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Speaker 1: edge them into it, versus just come out and be

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Speaker 1: like I talked to my phone for eight hours a day.

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Speaker 3: Well no, but it's more that, like saying influencer.

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Speaker 2: It's even worse at your age because it sounds very like,

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Speaker 2: of course you are you want to buy like anel bag? Yes,

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Speaker 2: thirty something years old, you want me to take you

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Speaker 2: to for me? It sounds insane, But it's different.

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Speaker 1: It's not like it's interesting. It's like, why what do

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Speaker 1: you mean you're a TikToker? Like that's so cool, very weird. Yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: it's cool, but it's Christina to guys. Okay, so Christina,

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Speaker 1: two guys. So how has it evolved since last time?

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Speaker 2: So you've had ebbs, You've had flows, You've had cancelations,

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Speaker 2: you've popped off, you know, like what's real, what's not real? Like,

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Speaker 2: tell me about the state of the union, address of

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Speaker 2: this career where you are, what you've learned, and.

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Speaker 3: Like how it's going.

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Speaker 1: It's funny. It's really a different job than I thought

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Speaker 1: it was. And there's so much more ebbing and flowing

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Speaker 1: I didn't die. Like it was bad, but I didn't die,

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Speaker 1: and I'm still here and I still you know, I'm

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Speaker 1: still creating things and it's okay. So I've been an

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Speaker 1: influencer for five years now. I started in COVID. It's

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty five, coming up. Five years. I think that

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Speaker 1: I'm sort of ready to start a new era of

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I wish that I was more business minded

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Speaker 1: like you, like, trust me, I think for thirty minutes

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Speaker 1: but I'm not. It's just not like that natural to

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Speaker 1: So that's what I'm leaning into. I'm trying to lean

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Speaker 1: How old are you thirty four?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's still very very I mean I didn't become

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Speaker 3: It's case law and so like.

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Speaker 2: You're just like sort of I took a bartending class

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Speaker 2: after college, and I went to acting and I then

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Speaker 2: produced large scale events where like the Emmys the Grammys,

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Speaker 3: My ability to pull things to together.

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Speaker 2: I produce things like it's sort of all like converges

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Speaker 2: be nimble and shift it. Like I wasn't planning any

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Speaker 2: I was planning towards sort of semi retiring, just doing

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Speaker 3: I'm like, is that not me? In twenty years?

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Speaker 2: So I'm gonna be in a rollers voice, like negotiating

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Speaker 1: No, you're doing it because it's working. It's fun and

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Speaker 1: That's why it keeps working is because you're like you

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Speaker 1: So I think that's why it's worked and it's very cool.

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Speaker 1: Like I think about you all the time. I think

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Speaker 2: No beyond beyond time. But also I feel like you

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Speaker 2: are there's a more relaxedness about you too. It feels

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Speaker 3: You had like a rough moment which I messaged you about.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it seems like you're more comfortable in your skin.

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Speaker 2: Like you're just like this is what this is and

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Speaker 2: it doesn't have to I don't know if they hit

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Speaker 2: and I could be totally wrong. You're just like, this

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, totally. It just takes some time. And like, honestly,

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Speaker 1: and it's like it is a job at the end

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Speaker 2: I just thought that you said that it leveled you

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Speaker 2: I was talking to Tim dill in the Comedian about

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Speaker 2: It's nothing to do with fear. It's just like it

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Speaker 2: wasn't my hill to die, who cared? But the thing

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Speaker 2: And I fly very close to the sun, Like there's

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Speaker 2: something about politics I want to talk about today, and

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Speaker 2: like I'm thinking my team and be like, what the

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Speaker 2: I try to fly close. But I don't need to

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Speaker 2: be on the sun. But if things are going too well,

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Speaker 2: and it's not that I'm like negative or bet against myself,

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Speaker 2: I don't. I get uncomfortable the way that you described

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Speaker 2: like being on a very dangerous role, Clausch, I don't

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Speaker 2: and the TV show and wow.

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Speaker 2: But it totally tracks and it's a perfect trajectory for you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, when we announced the book, we sent it to

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Speaker 2: How many episodes? And did it start shooting? And where's

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Speaker 1: We're talking to writers now. I'm loving every second because

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Speaker 2: But it's early, very on brand for you. It's very

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Speaker 2: use the shitty things that happen in the in the

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Speaker 3: Everything is content like Norah Efron.

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Speaker 1: Like of course that she gets canceled in the book obviously, So.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's I got.

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Speaker 2: Now. I got to read it when I'm hot in

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, we have to hang out this summer at

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Speaker 2: I'm back on but not crazy and I'm mean during

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Speaker 2: my saki era.

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Speaker 3: We could talk about it later. The Lord's work.

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Speaker 1: I love saki.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to make saki mainstream.

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Speaker 1: Just wait, I love that. Just wait.

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Speaker 3: I've decided, and if I decided, it's going to happen.

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Speaker 1: If you decide, then it's going to happen.

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Speaker 2: If I decide that it's going to be the new

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Speaker 2: chicken salad, then it's going to be the new chicken salad,