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I 18 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 1: am honor in the court. 19 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 2: Kiki is precise well no, not today, not today, Judge 20 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 2: fred Now Keicky did not share with me any of 21 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 2: the hold on on the formica. 22 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 1: She did not share with me any of her cases. 23 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:07,920 Speaker 2: So I went to the natural place to find, you know, 24 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 2: people's problems, Reddit, and I'll have you know it's It 25 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 2: took me about an hour and I've got about four 26 00:01:12,480 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 2: in front of me here, but I chose this one. 27 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:15,679 Speaker 2: So you know, for the people who are like, oh, 28 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 2: you go to rend, I do go to Reddit, You're right. 29 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 2: I look at Reddit every day and I go through 30 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:21,839 Speaker 2: page after page we give for stuff to talk about 31 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 2: on this program. So it's true. Then again, that's what 32 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 2: people are asking for on There is advice, and I'm 33 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 2: here to give it to you. 34 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:31,960 Speaker 1: Okay, this is complicated, guys. 35 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 2: So here's the case eight five, five, five, nine one 36 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 2: three five. 37 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:38,679 Speaker 1: You guys are the jury. The person here. 38 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:41,320 Speaker 2: This is a woman saying this has been messing with 39 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 2: my head and I need some honest outside opinions. 40 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: We this is she and her and her husband. 41 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 2: We have another home that my husband has been saying 42 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 2: in recently because we're in the process of separating due 43 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 2: to infidelity. 44 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 1: I assume his infidelity only. 45 00:01:57,280 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 2: I checked the Digital Scales memory out of cureuriosity, and 46 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 2: it showed two unassigned weigh ends at exactly one hundred 47 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 2: and twenty pounds logged at twelve twenty five am and 48 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:11,520 Speaker 2: twelve twenty six am, back to back for context, I 49 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:13,960 Speaker 2: don't weigh one hundred and twenty pounds and I was 50 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:17,079 Speaker 2: not there on that date, just my husband. Needless to say, 51 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 2: I'm shaken. I'm in the middle of a separation from 52 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 2: my husband due to his past cheating. He's been staying 53 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:23,959 Speaker 2: at the condo, and well, I don't want to jump 54 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 2: to conclusions. This feels more like just more like than 55 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:30,679 Speaker 2: just a glitch. I didn't say anything to him because 56 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 2: in the past he's never taken accountability for the for 57 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 2: the infidelities I found. I also want to protect my 58 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 2: peace and not jump at conclusions, but deep down, I 59 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:41,960 Speaker 2: can't shake the feeling that someone else was there. The 60 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 2: scale doesn't automatically store numbers, and neither one of us 61 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:49,680 Speaker 2: weigh one hundred and twenty pounds. It only logs a 62 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 2: reading when someone actually steps on it. 63 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:56,079 Speaker 1: So what do you do here? 64 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:56,800 Speaker 2: Like? 65 00:02:56,840 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: What are you doing this city? Okay? 66 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 2: First of all, do we give this kind of benefit 67 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 2: of the doubt and they're separated? I assume that she 68 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:05,679 Speaker 2: wants to work on it, or that she sees the 69 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 2: world where they get back together, because otherwise she wouldn't 70 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 2: care if they were separated pending divorce. Well, then I 71 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:13,239 Speaker 2: think you can probably assume that someone who you think 72 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 2: was cheating on you before, now that you're getting divorced, 73 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 2: is probably going to hook up with someone, right, or 74 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:19,280 Speaker 2: even I don't even think you have to be cheated 75 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 2: on if you're separated with the intent of getting a divorce. 76 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:26,400 Speaker 2: I don't necessarily think it's unreasonable to expect someone to 77 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 2: see someone else, right. 78 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:31,240 Speaker 1: I think that's another level of disrespect. Like it's the 79 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 1: house you guys share. 80 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 3: You could wait, you can wait and put things on 81 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 3: pause until we get you know, you get your own house, 82 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 3: or we figure yourself out. 83 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 2: Well that's her second house. Well and he owns it too. 84 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 2: And then but here's the thing. They're separated because she 85 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 2: thinks that he's been cheating, But clearly she saw a 86 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:52,680 Speaker 2: world where they reconciled because again she I don't know 87 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 2: that she would be too concerned about infidelity if she 88 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:56,000 Speaker 2: was leaving him. 89 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 1: I would still be upset either way. 90 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 2: So we're gonna go with this us into glitch now 91 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 2: at twelve thirty in the morning. We're also going to 92 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 2: go with this probably being a house guest. 93 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 1: You know. 94 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 2: The scenario that I'm thinking is she spent the night. 95 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 2: I don't know what happened, you know, whatever happened. She 96 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 2: went to the bathroom, was like I wonder how much 97 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 2: I weigh and then jumped on it and then like 98 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:19,200 Speaker 2: like all of us, looked at the number and was 99 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 2: like no, and then got on it again, like it's 100 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:23,160 Speaker 2: going to change. So I can relate to that. That's 101 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 2: very human. But what is this woman supposed to do? 102 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 1: Right? 103 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:31,720 Speaker 2: So more than likely this was a woman with her 104 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:34,839 Speaker 2: husband in the middle of the night, which I there's 105 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 2: you know, I think we all know what she spent 106 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 2: the night like that. You know, it's not like it 107 00:04:40,240 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 2: was lunchtime. I don't I don't even know why somebody 108 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:45,560 Speaker 2: else would be in the house. This wasn't a glitch, right. 109 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 2: He's never admitted to cheating in the past, so it's 110 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 2: not like calling him and being like are you cheating 111 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:54,839 Speaker 2: is going to do any good. It's also not as though, 112 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:58,719 Speaker 2: I mean, they're separated, so I guess maybe that could 113 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 2: be expected and he got caught. But part of me 114 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 2: is like, you think he's cheating on you? And then 115 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:08,599 Speaker 2: you find this and you're is he's cheating on you 116 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:12,040 Speaker 2: like he's or at least now he is, or he's 117 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 2: with another woman. So whatever the case may be, you 118 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:16,360 Speaker 2: thought he was cheating before, he's probably with another woman. 119 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 1: Now. 120 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 2: I don't know what are we hanging on to here. 121 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 2: My thing would be, leave the guy, because you're already separated, right, well, 122 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:25,280 Speaker 2: but again I think she's separated. I think I think 123 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 2: this was more of like a break than it was 124 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:29,799 Speaker 2: because again she didn't say, right here, we're getting divorced. 125 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:33,480 Speaker 2: Because again, if you're separated, I think there's a difference 126 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:37,240 Speaker 2: between being a part and being legally separated, right, because 127 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:40,159 Speaker 2: legally separated means we're getting a divorce, is penda, right, 128 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 2: But they're just a part because she needed a break 129 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 2: because she thought he was cheating, and then she finds 130 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 2: this more than likely he's cheating, and we're done. 131 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 1: So I don't even know what there is to debate. 132 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 2: My thing would be, I think, you know, I think 133 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:54,839 Speaker 2: you now have confirmation of what he would and there's 134 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 2: no point asking him because you'll lie because he's lied 135 00:05:57,080 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 2: in the past, and just divorce him. 136 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 4: Hit again. 137 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 1: That's case closed, guys, anything. 138 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:06,919 Speaker 5: I mean, is it really cheating, like if you're on 139 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:09,719 Speaker 5: a break but like, okay, so you guys aren't together, 140 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:12,279 Speaker 5: and I'm just supposed to like sit and like twiddle 141 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 5: my thumbs until you. 142 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 1: Figure it out. 143 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:18,320 Speaker 5: If yes, you are, but it's like, okay, at that point, 144 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 5: it's over anyway. So if there's a scale or not, 145 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 5: you could have been, you know, his luggage. You could 146 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:24,359 Speaker 5: have been trying to weigh his luggage. I've done that 147 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:26,200 Speaker 5: before to make sure, you know. 148 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 2: But he's upset because he's acting like someone who's having 149 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 2: an affair, So she asks for some distance, He goes 150 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 2: somewhere else and then probably has an affair. So I 151 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 2: guess for me, it's like I don't know what you're 152 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 2: hanging on to, right, like your mind's already done made up. 153 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:43,720 Speaker 1: Like this would have been a grantity. 154 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:45,719 Speaker 2: I don't know that. I never would have thought of 155 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:47,560 Speaker 2: the scale. In fact, I didn't. I didn't even know 156 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 2: there was a scale that linked like that. Why do 157 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:51,920 Speaker 2: they have a scale? It's not the eighties. Hey, that's 158 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:55,360 Speaker 2: my biggest no. See, I don't scales are bad news, 159 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:56,920 Speaker 2: but but. 160 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 6: Eah, no, I mean if we are separated, because I 161 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 6: think that you are cheating on me, I expect you 162 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:08,120 Speaker 6: to be begging for me back, and if you're not 163 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 6: doing that, that's the bare minimum, then I'm going to 164 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:10,880 Speaker 6: end this. 165 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:11,520 Speaker 3: You know what I mean? 166 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 6: I personally wouldn't probably take a cheater back. That's my 167 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 6: hot take before someone comes at me on my high horse. 168 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 2: No, I wouldn't. 169 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 1: That's like the one thing I have. It's called the boundary. 170 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:21,360 Speaker 1: But I just like people act like that's crazy. 171 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 2: But the only thing I I don't think anybody acts 172 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 2: that it's crazy not to take a cheater back. 173 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 1: Oh, I got called one time. 174 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 6: I got called the text line I'll get off my 175 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:30,400 Speaker 6: high horse because I went off on a cheater. 176 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:32,280 Speaker 2: I think if you don't want to take a cheater back, 177 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 2: you don't have to take a cheater back. 178 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 1: And that's okay. 179 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 2: And again she says that she's not with him for infidelity, 180 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 2: but she also says he's never admitted to his past infidelity, 181 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 2: so it's one of those things where she suspected it 182 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:46,800 Speaker 2: he won't admit it. Because she said both of those things. Now, 183 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 2: I think she's got proof. I think she knows what 184 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 2: she needs to know it. I think you move on. 185 00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 3: I understand though it is hard in that position to 186 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 3: not have like hard proof. And I know that this 187 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:00,760 Speaker 3: is quote unquote proof, but I think some some people really, 188 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:03,560 Speaker 3: I mean, you're definitely owed the person to be honest 189 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 3: with you, and I think that's probably what she's looking for, 190 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 3: although I don't know if she's ever gonna get that. 191 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:09,960 Speaker 3: It is easier said than done to leave someone when 192 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 3: you don't have like them telling you, yes, I cheated. 193 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:13,560 Speaker 1: Now, I guess you. 194 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 2: Could argue, he could say, Devil's Advocate, Well, I was 195 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:19,760 Speaker 2: never cheating on you to begin with. 196 00:08:19,800 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 1: You kick me out of the. 197 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 2: House, so so you know we're not together right now. 198 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna do what I'm gonna do. And sorry 199 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 1: you found out. 200 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 2: I mean, but again, now I think that's gaslighting because 201 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:32,839 Speaker 2: Oddsari's been doing it before and he never thought he 202 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:35,440 Speaker 2: would get caught this way, because honest, this is a 203 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 2: new one for me too. 204 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:37,360 Speaker 1: I'm not a cheater. 205 00:08:37,520 --> 00:08:39,440 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm very really in a relationship, and when 206 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 2: I am, I don't cheat. I'm very transparent about what 207 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:44,079 Speaker 2: I'm looking for, what I want, and I have been 208 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 2: for a very long time. But when i'm when i'm 209 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:48,200 Speaker 2: committed to someone all the more reason why when I 210 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:50,000 Speaker 2: get into a relationship, I don't do any of this 211 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 2: kind of stuff you're not supposed to, So I don't 212 00:08:52,520 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 2: expect a pat on the back like that's just the 213 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:57,200 Speaker 2: right thing to do. But the news flash, guys, you 214 00:08:57,200 --> 00:08:59,840 Speaker 2: can you can now get caught thanks. 215 00:08:59,640 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 1: To the scape scales. Yeah, I don't. Hey, don't we 216 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:04,520 Speaker 1: hoping on the scale? 217 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 2: You know? But I will say when I'm in a 218 00:09:06,800 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 2: when I'm in a bathroom, if there's a scale, I 219 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:09,840 Speaker 2: usually jump on the same. 220 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:10,440 Speaker 1: I don't care what. 221 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 2: I'm a massacres I myself and then I'll cry about it. 222 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:20,920 Speaker 2: Three five Hi Gabby, Gabby. Hey, So Kiki's court with 223 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:23,160 Speaker 2: Judge Fred presiding in for Kiki. 224 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:25,960 Speaker 1: You you heard the scenario. What do you do here? 225 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:31,120 Speaker 7: I'm not gonna say what Kiki will say? Girl probably 226 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:31,960 Speaker 7: talking about. 227 00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:33,719 Speaker 1: Here right right? 228 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 7: I mean, okay, bo, give me move on. It's on 229 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 7: with it. She knows she's kitty, so girls come on. 230 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. 231 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:47,439 Speaker 2: This strikes me as she's looking for validation because she 232 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 2: maybe maybe still loves him here. 233 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 7: I mean he has a chiming history with her. 234 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 2: Well, I agree, but I mean she's she's going to 235 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:58,320 Speaker 2: a public forum, because I think she probably still loves 236 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:00,320 Speaker 2: him and doesn't want to believe it's true, and it's 237 00:10:00,360 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 2: hoping that someone out there is going to say to her, 238 00:10:02,440 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 2: oh no, there was a glitch in that in the 239 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:06,200 Speaker 2: scale system and it was registered. 240 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:09,920 Speaker 1: You didn't hear about that, you believe me or the 241 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 1: scale bab. Yes, you know. 242 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 7: The shadd thing about it is that in these case, 243 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:21,680 Speaker 7: in these cases, you know that you're good, feel it, 244 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:25,520 Speaker 7: you know you know that is true, and you still 245 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:27,120 Speaker 7: tell have spaces and how do we she. 246 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:31,319 Speaker 2: Look to me, Yeah, thank you, Gaby, I'm glad you called. 247 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 2: Have a good day. I'll tell you what though, Like 248 00:10:35,040 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 2: I've been in a situation where I'm maybe not being 249 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 2: cheated on per se, but I'm being actively lied to 250 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:45,080 Speaker 2: about the nature of a relationship with another another person 251 00:10:45,160 --> 00:10:47,600 Speaker 2: or multiple people, and I'm being actively gas lit and 252 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 2: lied to about it, and yet I stay. I stayed 253 00:10:50,040 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 2: involved in that situation because I guess what I needed 254 00:10:52,920 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 2: was I needed the hard proof, like I needed to know, 255 00:10:57,400 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 2: I needed to see it. I needed I needed to 256 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:01,760 Speaker 2: catch that person ready and then and then in many 257 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:04,200 Speaker 2: ways I was catching that person, But then I stayed 258 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 2: still because it was like no, maybe not, or maybe 259 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:11,480 Speaker 2: it'll stop or whatever. It's like, but you want you 260 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:14,680 Speaker 2: want to, Like it's almost like even though you know 261 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 2: you're right, and first your gut tells you, and then 262 00:11:17,520 --> 00:11:19,960 Speaker 2: maybe you see emails or text messages or other people 263 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:22,720 Speaker 2: tell you things or worse, but it's almost like you 264 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:24,560 Speaker 2: want to walk in on them, like p and the 265 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:26,840 Speaker 2: V like it's like I gotta see. And then even 266 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:32,079 Speaker 2: then I've heard of people who somehow that has happened 267 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:34,560 Speaker 2: to me before though, like I've been walking and then 268 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:36,560 Speaker 2: all of a sudden, I'm like, WHOA, sorry, I fell 269 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:39,880 Speaker 2: into a married person. But it happens from time to time. 270 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:44,120 Speaker 2: But I can relate to the idea of like there's 271 00:11:44,600 --> 00:11:47,080 Speaker 2: no one's gonna treat me this way, like no one, no, 272 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:49,960 Speaker 2: come on, like no, no, no, I know, like I'm gonna 273 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:51,760 Speaker 2: stick around because I'm going to get exactly what I 274 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:54,320 Speaker 2: need so that I'm the one who leaves with the 275 00:11:54,360 --> 00:11:56,960 Speaker 2: closure that I need and all the information that I need. 276 00:11:57,160 --> 00:11:58,520 Speaker 2: And that can be a vicious cycle. 277 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 5: And it seems counterproductive to me for her to be 278 00:12:01,240 --> 00:12:03,439 Speaker 5: like I think you're cheating on me. I'm going to 279 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:05,120 Speaker 5: try to find out, so I'm going to leave you 280 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:06,560 Speaker 5: for a while like that. 281 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 2: I don't. She's just like protect she said, pretecting her peace. 282 00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 2: So I don't know if leaving was to catch him. 283 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 2: I think leaving was like I don't know what to 284 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:15,959 Speaker 2: do here, right, Yeah, but I can tell you that's 285 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:17,440 Speaker 2: not going to and that's only going to open the 286 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:19,560 Speaker 2: door for him to act up and then try and 287 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 2: act justified in it, because it's like, well, we're separated. 288 00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 1: I mean, we're not together. We were he was waiting 289 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:25,960 Speaker 1: for this moment. 290 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:28,160 Speaker 6: Also, somebody on YouTube live said, if there's a big 291 00:12:28,160 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 6: dog in the mix, because maybe they weighed the dog, 292 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:32,040 Speaker 6: but if you're wearing a dog at twelve thirty in 293 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:32,800 Speaker 6: the morning. 294 00:12:32,600 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 2: Or at night, right, the dog got on the scale 295 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:38,640 Speaker 2: twice consecutively and stood there and then read its own way, I. 296 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:40,640 Speaker 1: Wait, my dog in the middle of the night. IgA, Well, 297 00:12:40,679 --> 00:12:41,679 Speaker 1: please don't believe. 298 00:12:41,440 --> 00:12:43,880 Speaker 2: This person getting a dog to stand on a scale 299 00:12:43,880 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 2: from her. 300 00:12:45,520 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 1: You have to do it twice. 301 00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:49,520 Speaker 2: Just but that, by the way, the most relatable part 302 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 2: of this story is getting on the scale, looking and 303 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 2: then getting off and then getting back on thinking that 304 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:55,320 Speaker 2: somehow the number will change. 305 00:12:56,080 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 1: Hey, Mikayla, hi, Hi, good morning. 306 00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 2: So this woman, and you know, she's upset because she 307 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 2: suspected her husband of cheating. They separated, the living in 308 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:07,840 Speaker 2: two different places, and she has access to the scale, 309 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:11,440 Speaker 2: sees that a one hundred and twenty pound way in 310 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:14,280 Speaker 2: was registered twice the middle of the night. He's not 311 00:13:14,400 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 2: that she's not that she wasn't there. So he's so 312 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:19,480 Speaker 2: there was a house guest. 313 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 1: What I mean? 314 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:23,560 Speaker 2: I suppose it's possible that somebody was there and he 315 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:25,600 Speaker 2: was Andrew. There's a lot of scenarios that you could 316 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:27,400 Speaker 2: come up with, but more than likely that was a 317 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 2: woman on the scale in the middle of the night. 318 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:29,160 Speaker 1: What do you do? 319 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:33,440 Speaker 8: So I had actually seen I did a deep dive 320 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:36,240 Speaker 8: because I couldn't sleep that she somebody had commented that 321 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 8: she had already seen that or known that he had cheated, 322 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:41,199 Speaker 8: and that's why they were separated. 323 00:13:41,960 --> 00:13:43,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, but he's right, and I had mentioned that. But 324 00:13:43,760 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 2: except she, he apparently has never admitted to it. So again, 325 00:13:47,600 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 2: for a person who doesn't have that confirmation, I think 326 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:53,360 Speaker 2: when you're reaching out to a public forum or a 327 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 2: radio show or wherever trying to get you're trying to 328 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:58,439 Speaker 2: get people to tell you that it's okay or you're 329 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 2: trying to get people to tell you it's not, but 330 00:14:00,679 --> 00:14:04,400 Speaker 2: like you yourself don't have enough somehow, is what I'm 331 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:05,080 Speaker 2: guessing from her. 332 00:14:05,160 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 8: No, yeah, but I think it's in her gut and 333 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:11,680 Speaker 8: she does want people to try to tell her that's 334 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:13,080 Speaker 8: not what's happening, but she knows. 335 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:14,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, and how can you go? 336 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:14,679 Speaker 7: No? 337 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:16,360 Speaker 2: I think you're right, And thank you for calling. Have 338 00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:18,760 Speaker 2: a great day. Thank you, Love you guys, I love 339 00:14:18,760 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 2: you too, and thank you for listening. Rona, Hi, good morning, thy, 340 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 2: good morning. 341 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:22,840 Speaker 8: Hey. 342 00:14:23,160 --> 00:14:24,480 Speaker 2: What do you think when you hear this? I mean, 343 00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 2: is it cut and dry? Is it just open and shut? 344 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:30,600 Speaker 4: I don't think it's cut and dry. So you have 345 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:33,120 Speaker 4: to get all the facts in the information at first 346 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 4: before you start accusing someone of cheating. So maybe just 347 00:14:36,760 --> 00:14:39,040 Speaker 4: ask is there anybody coming to clean the house? Is 348 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 4: anybody coming to do the laundry, cook clean anything like that? 349 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:44,480 Speaker 4: At first I thought house cleaner, but I wasn't sure 350 00:14:44,480 --> 00:14:46,440 Speaker 4: if this was like tell thirty at night, you're tell thirty. 351 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, if it were twelve thirty in the afternoon, I 352 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 2: suppose there might be an explanation, But no, it was 353 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:50,960 Speaker 2: at night. 354 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:53,760 Speaker 4: Oh okay, Well, so I think he needs to get 355 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:56,080 Speaker 4: all the facts before because he's going to just deny, tony, deny, 356 00:14:56,520 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 4: So she needs to make sure to get all the 357 00:14:57,720 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 4: facts and ask all the questions. 358 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 1: Do you know what she did? 359 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:02,960 Speaker 2: She also relatable, She got on the scale because it 360 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 2: was about a minute apart. I guess she got on 361 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 2: the scale, didn't like the number, Peede got back on 362 00:15:07,520 --> 00:15:10,480 Speaker 2: the scale, hoping the number would go down. No, trust me, 363 00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:14,200 Speaker 2: been there, done this one. Tale's so old as time. 364 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:19,920 Speaker 2: So this is absolutely a human being based on the 365 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 2: way to. 366 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 1: See woman, unless he's into very small man a whole 367 00:15:24,680 --> 00:15:25,280 Speaker 1: different twist. 368 00:15:25,480 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 2: I'm surprised nobody's called up here and said that he's, 369 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 2: you know, gay, just because I mean, that's usually where 370 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:31,480 Speaker 2: this goes. 371 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:33,720 Speaker 1: Okay, thank you, Ron, I have a good day. 372 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 2: Well, I mean people call up here with the most 373 00:15:36,160 --> 00:15:40,240 Speaker 2: wild possible scenarios. Oh no, he's totally gay. What's a 374 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 2: small man on the scale in the middle of the night. Oh, 375 00:15:42,920 --> 00:15:44,640 Speaker 2: I mean it could be. 376 00:15:44,160 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 1: There, it could be you wait, a small man. 377 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:50,840 Speaker 2: But you thought he was cheating, you got separated, he 378 00:15:50,880 --> 00:15:52,960 Speaker 2: won't admit it. And then this, I think that's as 379 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:54,720 Speaker 2: good of a confirmation as you're going to get. 380 00:15:54,880 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 1: Girl, like you're already one, put out the door, just get. 381 00:15:57,080 --> 00:15:58,920 Speaker 2: And the problem is she's gonna gas like this woman 382 00:15:58,960 --> 00:16:01,280 Speaker 2: and say, well, we're not together. So but if I'm 383 00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 2: accused of if I'm getting kicked out of my house 384 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:06,600 Speaker 2: for cheating, I'm and I want to get back with 385 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:09,360 Speaker 2: my wife and I'm not cheating, then I'm not going 386 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:11,440 Speaker 2: to have anybody over in the middle of the night. 387 00:16:11,520 --> 00:16:11,920 Speaker 1: That's the thing. 388 00:16:11,960 --> 00:16:14,080 Speaker 5: It seems like he's done too, like okay 389 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 2: It's like, let's be on my best behavior, you know 390 00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:18,640 Speaker 2: what I mean, Like now would not be the time.