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Speaker 1: Hi, my love. It is La La Kent. Welcome back

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Speaker 1: to the bonus episode of Give Them La La, I

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Speaker 1: Have my Brain and Have My Heart. Easton Birmingham and

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Speaker 1: Jessica Walter. Hell, I'm excited about today's podcast. But before

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Speaker 1: we jump into it, I just got word from producer

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Speaker 1: John that Lamar Odom and Caitlin Jenner have started a

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Speaker 1: podcast together about sports. What an odd pairing, but a

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Speaker 2: Didn't they get along pretty well when he was with Chloe? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Did they? I don't know because I didn't really watch

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Speaker 2: I think they did it. Immediately I gasped. I was like, WHOA,

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Speaker 2: that's wild. But now that I think about it, I'm like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure they were closer.

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Speaker 3: I think it's just weird that they're both talking about sports.

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Speaker 1: I think I find it weird why Caitlyn Jenner is

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, gold medal winner.

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Speaker 1: Be like, I feel like it's the perfect pairing. Oh,

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Speaker 3: Odam talking about sports.

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Speaker 4: It's just crazy that the only thing that I've ever

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Speaker 1: I feel like Caitlyn Jenner just was running around like

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Speaker 3: It makes sense.

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Speaker 1: You're like the ultimate athlete if you've won Olympic gold medals.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I wonder the sports they're going Are they to

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Speaker 1: Covering the Olympics that are coming up soon? Right, aren't

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Speaker 4: Probably the reason why they maybe started it. That's a

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Speaker 1: That's a great kick off.

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Speaker 2: I wonder how the Kardashian family feels about it.

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Speaker 3: I don't think they give a shit.

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Speaker 1: They're never gonna tell us. No, they're so buttoned up, we'll.

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Speaker 2: Never know or you know what. More importantly, and is

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Speaker 3: Listen now, when we leave here, I won't be there.

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Speaker 1: I'm interested in the fact that it's happening. Will I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a very interesting writing. So our prompt for

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Speaker 2: the bonus episode. It is how will you know when

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Speaker 2: you have quote made it?

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Speaker 1: Oh? This is such a good question, also so hard

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Speaker 1: Okay? So Stossey has this app My Human Design, and

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Speaker 4: And that's and that's where I'm getting is I am

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Speaker 4: I'm living, what it is. I'm not saying I need

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Speaker 4: make it. Yeah, homies on Payroll, that's amaking.

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Speaker 3: Adam did the parable, So that's make it.

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Speaker 2: We're at the end of the day. The overall is

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Speaker 3: And not have to worry about any anything else.

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Speaker 1: So I don't know, it's weird, but I think making

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's a very weird thing, but let me move

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Speaker 3: Yes, I'll be hoofing it. Yes, I'll be hoofing it.

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Speaker 3: Yes, real quick.

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Speaker 1: We're all in the same boat and everyone's on equal

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Speaker 2: It's just going to be different problems, I think.

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Speaker 4: Very different problems waking up like this fucking guy, not

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's interesting.

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Speaker 1: from Ocean because I posted this video where she was

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Speaker 1: spinning at dance class and then she ate ship. I

441
00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:57,159
Speaker 1: saw that hard, like rolled like a potato, and I

442
00:20:57,320 --> 00:20:59,400
Speaker 1: was such a bad mom. I felt such a bad

443
00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:01,120
Speaker 1: mom for life, laughing my ass off.

444
00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:03,600
Speaker 3: And by the way, by the way.

445
00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:07,000
Speaker 1: The rest of the class it was raining, so it

446
00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:09,199
Speaker 1: was just her that day. But I was watching the

447
00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:12,560
Speaker 1: video over and over again, laughing so hard. I can

448
00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:14,760
Speaker 1: only imagine what the woman who was working in the

449
00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:19,919
Speaker 1: front desk thought of me cackling in this. But as

450
00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:23,720
Speaker 1: I watched the video again, I'm like, wait, I didn't

451
00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:26,600
Speaker 1: even give it a moment to watch my kid get

452
00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:30,639
Speaker 1: back up and start spinning. Again. I mean she was

453
00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:35,239
Speaker 1: a little bit service, but I'm like, wow, you just

454
00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:38,920
Speaker 1: taught me like this literally is when you fall get

455
00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:44,040
Speaker 1: back up again like this, you are a five star kid. Yes,

456
00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:46,960
Speaker 1: but again, she's Pisces and Pisces so she knows who

457
00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:50,160
Speaker 1: she is already. She ain't got nothing to figure out. Yeah,

458
00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:53,000
Speaker 1: but we'll see what the next one. She's wild. But

459
00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:55,560
Speaker 1: my kids, my kid's happy right now.

460
00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:58,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, the next one is not. I mean, we know

461
00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:00,520
Speaker 2: what it it might be, but it's not going to

462
00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:03,000
Speaker 2: be a Pisces. We know that to be true.

463
00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:04,640
Speaker 1: We know that to be true. But I've already said

464
00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:06,399
Speaker 1: we're either going to have a Leo or a Virgo

465
00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:08,760
Speaker 1: and people are like, well, that's such a big The

466
00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:11,320
Speaker 1: thing is Ocean was supposed to be in Aries and

467
00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:14,040
Speaker 1: they induced me three weeks early. So she's a Pisces. Yea,

468
00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:16,960
Speaker 1: So I say that because I don't really know. They're

469
00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:21,200
Speaker 1: clearly not going to let me go into Libra season. Yes, yes,

470
00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:24,360
Speaker 1: but early happens all the time. Yeah.

471
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Speaker 2: Okay, this person says, which we kind of touched on,

472
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Speaker 2: when someone tells me if and how I've impacted their life,

473
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Speaker 2: so that's when they know that they've made it. Do

474
00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:38,080
Speaker 2: you feel that, Do you feel like you need before

475
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Speaker 2: you die someone or you already know someone to tell you, like,

476
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Speaker 2: this is how you've changed my life and for the better.

477
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Speaker 1: I think that's one of the reasons why I love

478
00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:50,119
Speaker 1: what I do in the position that I'm in is

479
00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:52,520
Speaker 1: I get a lot of people. I'm sure there's a

480
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Speaker 1: lot of people that send me hate mail. I don't

481
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Speaker 1: ever see that shit, but I get a lot of

482
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Speaker 1: people who send emails to like you or my ms, yeah,

483
00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 1: dms to the podcast or like my agent will send

484
00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:11,880
Speaker 1: me really kind emails from people of how I've changed them,

485
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:15,199
Speaker 1: whether it's sobriety or taking on the role of a

486
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:17,320
Speaker 1: single mom, just having your life kind of go a

487
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:22,400
Speaker 1: different direction and choosing to handle it a certain way,

488
00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:27,800
Speaker 1: and that always makes you feel amazing, right Yeah, yeah,

489
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Speaker 1: So I can relate to this person saying like that's

490
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Speaker 1: when they know they've made it, as they've made a

491
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Speaker 1: positive impact on somebody.

492
00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:37,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, because if you if that was your thing, you

493
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 2: would have you would have made it a million times

494
00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:43,040
Speaker 2: over because all of the a lot of sobriety people,

495
00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:45,719
Speaker 2: which you know, but I mean with the dms and

496
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:49,440
Speaker 2: like La LA's changed my life, and yeah, I.

497
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Speaker 1: Feel like that. But back to because I don't want

498
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 1: everyone to think I'm this bit who just like is

499
00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:57,520
Speaker 1: money hungry. I am very money hungry, and I crave

500
00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:01,080
Speaker 1: success in that form, and luckily I get to do

501
00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:06,880
Speaker 1: what I love while experiencing those successes. And I'm very

502
00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:10,479
Speaker 1: goal oriented and nothing. You know, once we accomplish one thing,

503
00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 1: it's on to the next. But truly, I feel like

504
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:17,520
Speaker 1: I can talk this way because I have a tremendous

505
00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:20,080
Speaker 1: amount of fulfillment now. And I always say that there

506
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:22,680
Speaker 1: are gonna be dark days that loom for all of us.

507
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:26,240
Speaker 1: You know, I've had my dad die and the only

508
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:29,160
Speaker 1: thing I want, and in that moment, it's like I've

509
00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:32,679
Speaker 1: made it and we'll be so happy when I have

510
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:36,399
Speaker 1: processed this and I can and I feel like I

511
00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:39,480
Speaker 1: can go on with my life. When my life kind

512
00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:42,959
Speaker 1: of went in a different direction, it was like I

513
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:46,640
Speaker 1: literally would have been happy living if someone said I'll

514
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:49,240
Speaker 1: make all of this go away. Here's your child, but

515
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:51,800
Speaker 1: I'm sorry you have to live in a box. You

516
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 1: guys will be healthy. I would have taken that. I

517
00:24:56,920 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 1: would have said, just make this go away. I don't

518
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:02,399
Speaker 1: want to deal with it anymore. So I think the

519
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:04,600
Speaker 1: reason I can talk and say I've made it in

520
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:08,520
Speaker 1: this way is because right now I'm feeling very happy

521
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:11,320
Speaker 1: in my life and fulfilled in many areas. So what

522
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:12,919
Speaker 1: do you fixate on. You're like, well, a lot of

523
00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:16,320
Speaker 1: money would be very nice, right, But when you're in

524
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:19,439
Speaker 1: the shit, You're like, I just want this to be

525
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:22,160
Speaker 1: over right. I don't need money, I don't need any

526
00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:24,440
Speaker 1: of it. I just want this gone.

527
00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:26,920
Speaker 2: Yea, you know, one hundred percent, if we had if

528
00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 2: we were told today, knock on wood, there is something

529
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 2: coming and human life will cease to exist in twenty

530
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:36,800
Speaker 2: four hours, if we all made it through that, I

531
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:39,320
Speaker 2: think we would all have a different perspective of what

532
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:42,240
Speaker 2: we've made it you've made it.

533
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Speaker 1: It depends on where you are in your life, what

534
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Speaker 1: you're dealing with.

535
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:50,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, this person said, when my toddler girl grows up

536
00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:52,680
Speaker 2: and considers me her best.

537
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 1: Friend, I gave me chills.

538
00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:57,720
Speaker 2: All see. That makes me a little nervous though, because

539
00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:01,320
Speaker 2: I'm a bitch and I'm a daughter, and no matter

540
00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:03,719
Speaker 2: if my mom treated me like a queen or like

541
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:06,679
Speaker 2: the worst person on earth, there were times in my

542
00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 2: life where I wouldn't have considered my best friend. So

543
00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:11,880
Speaker 2: it makes me a little nervous when people put their

544
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:15,320
Speaker 2: making it in someone else because you can't really control.

545
00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:17,600
Speaker 2: You can only control people to a certain extent, you know.

546
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:20,120
Speaker 2: And I'm gonna I'm a daughter, and if my mom

547
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 2: was like, are you my best friend? Yeah, at sixteen,

548
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 2: I'd be like no, Like it'd be a little bitch, right.

549
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:28,239
Speaker 1: You have no control over that. Yeah, And you go

550
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:31,480
Speaker 1: through phases. One moment they're your best friend, the next

551
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:37,080
Speaker 1: moment they've discovered friends and pot. Yeah, the weed, they

552
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:41,480
Speaker 1: and you are not the best friend unless you're willing

553
00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 1: to smoke with them, which I am not willing to be.

554
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:49,520
Speaker 2: You're not willing to smoke even though weed is legal,

555
00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:50,240
Speaker 2: all of it.

556
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:51,200
Speaker 1: No, I'm sober?

557
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:53,679
Speaker 2: Oh duh. I was like, Malla, why not?

558
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:58,520
Speaker 1: That would be considered a relapse for me and I

559
00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 1: am not giving up my five five years and some change.

560
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:06,560
Speaker 2: Would you smoke weed with your child's because we all

561
00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:08,919
Speaker 2: knew the kids whose parents did it, right, guys.

562
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:10,600
Speaker 3: Like, I'd smoke with my kid?

563
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:12,640
Speaker 1: Is there an age though?

564
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:13,919
Speaker 3: That's why I would do it?

565
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:15,359
Speaker 4: Like I know, like if I were to smoke with

566
00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 4: my kid, it would be doing it at the best

567
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 4: point in his.

568
00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:19,600
Speaker 1: Life, which is what which is what would you.

569
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 3: Say after graduation?

570
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:22,200
Speaker 1: Oh, eighteen?

571
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like eighteen is a good Like you

572
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:27,160
Speaker 4: can smoke at eighteen, but like I'm not, like, let's

573
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:29,119
Speaker 4: get through school then once you do that.

574
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:31,520
Speaker 3: If this is something, then yeah, I would.

575
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,119
Speaker 4: Obviously I know that they're going to smoke before that,

576
00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:36,080
Speaker 4: but I would smoke with my kids, and that's the

577
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 4: point I would do it.

578
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 1: Okay.

579
00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 2: I like that my friends whose parents did it, they

580
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:41,760
Speaker 2: didn't really think it was that big of a deal.

581
00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:44,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think with Ocean, I'm going to have to

582
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:47,359
Speaker 1: break it down for her, like, this is why mom

583
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:51,640
Speaker 1: doesn't drink, X, Y, and Z happened. I'm not saying

584
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 1: that my experience will be yours. If you decide to

585
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:59,280
Speaker 1: go out and have a drink, I would really appreciate it.

586
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:01,520
Speaker 1: If you would not get in the car with anybody

587
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 1: or drive yourself home, please just call me. I will

588
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:06,480
Speaker 1: not ask any fucking questions.

589
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 3: Yep, I'll be there.

590
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:09,359
Speaker 1: Yeah.

591
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:12,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so important too, because that allowed me to

592
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:15,879
Speaker 2: be safe. I called my mom so many Yeah, you

593
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:17,440
Speaker 2: guys say that, Yeah, Oh, I.

594
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 3: Called my mom.

595
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 4: I mean I was sixteen even or even I was

596
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:23,399
Speaker 4: leaving the house like in ninth grade, walking to friend's houses,

597
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 4: and it would be like three in the morning. No,

598
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 4: just like I can't drink fifth grade but no, like

599
00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:31,119
Speaker 4: fifth tall no, but like I could do whatever, Like

600
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:33,359
Speaker 4: even if I didn't want to walk, there were no rules.

601
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 3: There was no rules.

602
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:35,359
Speaker 4: I could call my mom at three and be like, hey,

603
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:36,879
Speaker 4: I'm five minutes away, would you come get me?

604
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:39,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll be there. So there was just little things

605
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 3: like that.

606
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 4: But like even when I did get drunk, my dad

607
00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 4: picked me up a couple of times from three twenty

608
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 4: two just like ubers cause.

609
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:46,360
Speaker 1: You're old enough.

610
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:48,440
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, you're old enough. Yeah. Here's the thing.

611
00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 4: I never really drank. The first time I ever drank

612
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 4: was nineteen and then twenty one.

613
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:53,680
Speaker 1: Yeah I got it anyway.

614
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:55,840
Speaker 2: Yeah I drank under age and my mom picked me up,

615
00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 2: yelled at me, but she picked me up. Oka read

616
00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:02,160
Speaker 2: one more, Okay, so I'm gonna read this one and

617
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 2: that this one is just really good because it covers everything.

618
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:07,080
Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh, yeah, she said it. When I

619
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:10,640
Speaker 2: feel secure in my life financially, physically, mentally, and in

620
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:12,880
Speaker 2: my relationships. She covered it, so I wanted to read

621
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 2: that because that was great. But this one is interesting

622
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 2: because we've talked about this and we can end on this.

623
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 2: When she said, when I don't feel the need to

624
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:23,120
Speaker 2: tell everyone about it, it's when she feels she's made.

625
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:26,959
Speaker 1: It, or he tell everything about what what?

626
00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:28,960
Speaker 2: When I she said, when I don't feel the need

627
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:31,280
Speaker 2: to go I've made it everyone, like, when I can

628
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:33,960
Speaker 2: just keep it to myself and carry on with life.

629
00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 1: Does that mean she's telling people she's made it now?

630
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 2: No, she's basically.

631
00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:40,000
Speaker 4: Saying, Oh, I get what she's saying. It's like people

632
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:41,960
Speaker 4: see that, like, yeah, you don't even have to say

633
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 4: I made it. They look at you and they're like, damn,

634
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:44,400
Speaker 4: she made it, Like she.

635
00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:46,920
Speaker 2: Doesn't you know those people out there who are like

636
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:51,240
Speaker 2: big things coming everything God, And I'm like, oh, you

637
00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 2: guys have no idea what I just did. I killed it.

638
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 2: It's like, okay, shut up, what are you talking about.

639
00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:01,760
Speaker 2: It's like you've made it when you just can you

640
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:04,600
Speaker 2: do it? You don't like there are things happening behind

641
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 2: the scenes where it's like you don't have to sit

642
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 2: there and be like, guys, you have no idea what's

643
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 2: going to come.

644
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 3: Next, So like you're walking up going well, God said

645
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 3: it to Daryld. That's so trashy. I'm on this. It's like, no,

646
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:15,760
Speaker 3: when you see you, you don't have to say it.

647
00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:17,680
Speaker 3: You've made it. They know it, So I get where

648
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:18,040
Speaker 3: she's coming.

649
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:20,120
Speaker 1: But also, I don't like to count my chickens before

650
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 1: they hatch. So it's like, let's not talk about it

651
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:25,040
Speaker 1: because it could not even happen, right.

652
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:27,959
Speaker 3: That's why we counted the chickens that hatch exactly.

653
00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 1: Okay, that makes sense now. I was like, she's screaming

654
00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 1: to everybody. Now that she's made it, she doesn't have

655
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:35,960
Speaker 1: to do that anymore.

656
00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:37,720
Speaker 3: I'm sick of screaming this.

657
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 2: I'm sick of telling everyone I've made it.

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Speaker 1: That's funny. I love it. Well, you guys, I hope

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Speaker 1: you enjoyed this bonus episode. I wish you all happy.

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Speaker 1: I've made it.

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Speaker 3: Moments, bigger paychecks for all of us.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, inner peace, piece happiness, love and health. I like

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Speaker 1: to say I wish for health, wealth and happiness, and

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Speaker 1: my mum always goes, we are wealthy and the things

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Speaker 1: that matter, and I'm like, I love it. He doesn't

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Speaker 1: say it exactly don't worry anyway. I love you guys.

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Speaker 1: Remember the regular episode airs on Wednesday. I hope you

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Speaker 1: enjoy that as well. The video of this episode is

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Speaker 1: up on YouTube. Now make sure you follow us at

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Speaker 1: Give Them La La Pod on the Gram. I love

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Speaker 1: you guys. Happy Monday. Oh we got a full week

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Speaker 1: ahead of us.

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Speaker 2: We sure do.

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Speaker 1: I hope you slay it. Bye guys,