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Speaker 1: I've ever been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: It's the French show, Tanya, Good morning, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 3: How are you hi, guys, I'm doing good.

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Speaker 2: How about you doing okay? So what's going on with

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Speaker 2: this guy Connor? I want to kind of understand here.

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Speaker 2: How did you guys meet? Tell us about any dates

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Speaker 2: that you've been on, and then where things are now?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: So I met Connor, super cute by the way. We

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Speaker 4: met on an app.

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Speaker 3: He asked me out for drinks. We went.

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Speaker 4: I think we had a pretty good time. I will

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Speaker 4: say we even went back to my.

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Speaker 3: Place, okay, and we did oh gosh, it's the radio,

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Speaker 3: so I don't know. We did some fun things, some

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Speaker 3: adult activities.

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Speaker 2: Rice you played like scrabble and you know maybe like

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Speaker 2: did you play?

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Speaker 3: How'd you know?

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Speaker 1: I will tell you something.

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Speaker 2: You really need to get to the bottom of how

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Speaker 2: someone feels about the UNO rules before you date them,

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Speaker 2: because people have different definitions about rules, and I follow

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Speaker 2: the rules. I follow the actual rules. Have you know

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Speaker 2: that I'm very rarely a rule follower. But don't you

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Speaker 2: come around and you're trying to stack a bunch of

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Speaker 2: action cards on me all at once. You can't do

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Speaker 2: that anyway, thanks to you. So you thought everything went well,

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Speaker 2: you know, and I would think so too. If a

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Speaker 2: date kind of winds up back at somebody's place, that's

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Speaker 2: usually a pretty good sign.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I thought all signs would go.

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Speaker 3: We play a little uno. I wanted to see him again.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, literally as soon as he left my place,

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Speaker 4: the text stopped. Like he hasn't responded a single time,

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Speaker 4: so I'm totally in the dark. I thought we had

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Speaker 4: a great time and I would just love to know

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Speaker 4: what happened.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that makes sense.

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Speaker 2: I mean we hear it several times a week, and

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Speaker 2: many of us have been through it, where Caitlin and

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Speaker 2: Keiki have not, But some of us, you know, have

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Speaker 2: had that happen where you think everything went really well

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Speaker 2: and then the person you know doesn't respond to you

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Speaker 2: when you're like, well, was I on a different date

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Speaker 2: or what. So we're gonna call this guy Connor. We're

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Speaker 2: gonna ask these questions. You'll be on the phone at

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Speaker 2: the same time, and the hope is that we get

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Speaker 2: straighten this out and set you.

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Speaker 1: Up on another day to be paid for.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So I'm good.

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Speaker 2: Let's find out what's going on part two of waiting

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Speaker 2: by the phone after Gaga, We're back in two minutes

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Speaker 2: on the Fred Show. Lady gog got the Fred Show.

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Speaker 2: He's not welcome to Friday. Hey, Tatia, Yep, welcome back.

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Speaker 2: Let's call this guy Connor. You met out one of

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Speaker 2: the apps. You went on a date. The date went well,

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Speaker 2: well enough that you wind up back at your place

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Speaker 2: right and then some stuff happens and then you haven't

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Speaker 2: heard from the guy since then, and it's like, wait

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Speaker 2: a minute, the date went well enough that it ended

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Speaker 2: that way. I would think i'd hear from this guy again.

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Speaker 2: There was chemistry, I guess, and yet nothing, no response

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Speaker 2: is to anything that's correct.

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Speaker 3: Feeling pretty feeling pretty lame.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I get it. Let's you're not lame. But

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Speaker 2: let's see what Connor has to say. We'll call him now.

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Speaker 2: Good luck.

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Speaker 5: Thanks, Hello, Hi is this Connor?

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Speaker 1: This is Connor. Good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 2: I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning Radio Show,

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Speaker 2: and I have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 2: the radio right now, and I would need your permission

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Speaker 2: to continue with the call. I said, Okay, wit chat

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Speaker 2: for just a second.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fine.

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Speaker 2: Thank you very much. We're calling on behalf of a

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Speaker 2: woman who said she recently went out with you. Her

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Speaker 2: name is Tanya. Do you remember meeting Tanya on the

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Speaker 2: apps and you guys went on a date.

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Speaker 6: Oh I remember Tanya man? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well she reached out to us and told us

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Speaker 2: that she had met you and enjoyed going out with

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Speaker 2: you and thought the date went really well and expected

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Speaker 2: to hear from you for another date and says that

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Speaker 2: she hasn't, and so she feels like you're ghosting her.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like maybe you are. What's your version of

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Speaker 2: the story. Well, what happened?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, look, I got no problem talking to you about

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Speaker 6: this because she's bogus.

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Speaker 1: She's absolutely bogus. How is she?

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Speaker 6: I'll tell you right now. We went back to her

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Speaker 6: place after the date. You know, things went well and I.

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Speaker 3: Did stuff to her, you know, good stuff, and she

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Speaker 3: did not do anything to me.

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Speaker 6: In fact, when I was done doing all that delightful

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Speaker 6: stuff to her this time, but I okay, she asked.

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Speaker 6: She told me she was tired and asked me to leave.

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Speaker 2: You didn't play no persona only one person getting anything?

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Speaker 1: Wow?

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Speaker 2: Okay, So you like a good gentleman, would you you

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Speaker 2: handled business first for your crver, right, and then it

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Speaker 2: was like okay, well that was fun, so yeah no

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Speaker 2: and then she's like, no, that's good, you can leave now.

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Speaker 6: That was exactly what happens. And that's why it's bogus.

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Speaker 6: It's ridiculous while.

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Speaker 2: You're smiling, because I know this happens the other way around,

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Speaker 2: and nobody's happy about it. So nobody should be happy

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Speaker 2: about this because sometimes sometimes you could, you could be

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Speaker 2: so delightful that it's like, let's just let it be this.

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Speaker 1: Oh so I'm being penalized for being so delightful. You know,

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Speaker 1: you're too good for your own good?

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Speaker 6: Is that?

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Speaker 5: I say?

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Speaker 2: So?

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Speaker 1: Why she just do a worst job?

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Speaker 4: Well no, no, are you doing it only to get

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Speaker 4: something in return?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 2: Actually no, but it does feel kind of like, and

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Speaker 2: I get it, it happens to get the way around, but

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Speaker 2: it's like, oh.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, many a time, so you don't care that vision.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, well, I forgot to mention Connor that Tanya

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Speaker 2: is here with us on the phone. I'm very forgetful, Tanya.

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Speaker 2: You left the part out where you know it was

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Speaker 2: a one person game, was not a two player game.

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Speaker 1: Well played.

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Speaker 4: I mean maybe, But first of all, delightful is an

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Speaker 4: interesting word to use in Connor. Hey, yeah, I would

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Speaker 4: just echo what was already said. You only do stuff

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Speaker 4: to women if you know you'll get something back in return.

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Speaker 4: That's pretty gross.

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Speaker 2: What was wrong with delightful? Are you suggesting that it

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Speaker 4: I mean, look, it was good for two people who

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Speaker 4: just met, but it wasn't Delightful's like a bit much,

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Speaker 4: I think, really.

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Speaker 2: And forget you called us trying to figure out where

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Speaker 2: he is, so you obviously liked him, so what's that.

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Speaker 2: Let's just be fair here and not minimize his efforts.

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Speaker 4: Look, I think it's safe to say that we just

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Speaker 4: probably aren't a match if this is how you're going

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Speaker 4: to play things, Connor, but like happy to have an answers,

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Speaker 4: I think more so I just wanted answers, and so

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Speaker 4: now I've definitely got them.

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Speaker 6: Very ridiculous.

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Speaker 3: You know how I'm going to play things.

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Speaker 6: You did nothing for me and you used me, and

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Speaker 6: you know what, I'm not interested in seeing you again.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, okay, well whatever. Men do that to women

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Speaker 3: all the time, So glad to be rid of you.

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Speaker 1: I mean that may be true, but everything here apparently

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Speaker 1: was good enough. I've been tell you.

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Speaker 2: I want to remind you you called us, asked us

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Speaker 2: to find this guys, and link you back up. I mean,

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Speaker 2: he's disappointed that he felt like you didn't care about

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Speaker 2: how he felt. And again, I think a lot of

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Speaker 2: there that are very, uh, inconsiderate in this regard. So

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying this only happens one way, but it's

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Speaker 2: for you to be like, oh whatever now.

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Speaker 1: I mean, the guy wanted to he wanted some delightful.

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Speaker 3: Too, and that's fair. And maybe we would have gotten

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Speaker 3: there if we would have hung out a second time.

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Speaker 4: But I don't think you can expect like perfect like

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Speaker 4: reciprocity every single time.

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Speaker 3: So well, here any women listening who are interested, connor available.

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Speaker 2: If it had been the other way around, Tanya and

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Speaker 2: to him and then he gets up and leaves, you

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Speaker 2: would be irked about it too. You probably wouldn't be

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Speaker 2: calling us asking us to find him.

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Speaker 3: Yes, maybe, but like I feel kind of like most

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Speaker 3: of I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I think a lot of women can relate like, that's

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Speaker 4: most of dating for women, like doing.

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Speaker 3: That and then waiting.

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Speaker 1: To see So I don't know, Connor, anything else you want.

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Speaker 5: To say, yeah, goodbye, he's not interested, and now she's

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Speaker 5: saying she's not either, even though we okay whatever, So Connor,

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Speaker 5: thank you for answering.

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Speaker 2: I wish you the best, and Tanya, good luck out

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Speaker 2: there to you as well.

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Speaker 3: Thanks.

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Speaker 2: Caitlin has the Entertainment Report next. In two minutes. She'll

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