1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:05,440 Speaker 1: It's time to catch a cheater. Only on the Jubile Show, 2 00:00:05,640 --> 00:00:08,720 Speaker 1: Jason is on the phone today and he thinks that 3 00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:11,720 Speaker 1: his wife of four years named Kat might be messing around. 4 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 1: So we'll see if we can help him out. Jason, Sorry, 5 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:16,639 Speaker 1: you're in this position, but what's going on? Why do 6 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:18,120 Speaker 1: you think that Kat might be cheating? 7 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 2: You know, we've we've been we've been together since we 8 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 2: were in college. We were college sweethearts and you know, 9 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:28,160 Speaker 2: in college, we were we were partiers. 10 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 3: We enjoyed it. It was a fun time. 11 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 2: But then we we found out that we were pregnant 12 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 2: and we settled down a little bit. We have a daughter, Jenna, 13 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:46,160 Speaker 2: she said, and now she's just a lot of our lives. 14 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:51,320 Speaker 2: And Kat wanted to stay home with Jenna for a 15 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 2: few years after she was born, and I didn't have any. 16 00:00:53,479 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 3: Problem with that. 17 00:00:54,600 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 2: But now Vi, Jena's going to school, has the opportunity to, 18 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 2: you know, to find what makes her happy other than 19 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 2: just being a mom. I never pushed her to get 20 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 2: out in the world or anything. I just want her 21 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 2: to be happy. But I think she might be a 22 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 2: little bored with being a housewife being with me. 23 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 1: So you think she's cheating to fill the boredom. 24 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 4: She's a little different in the bedroom these days, Like 25 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:35,320 Speaker 4: how so the techniques, the the the attitude, it's different. 26 00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 1: It's like new stuff happening that okay, Yeah, that can 27 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 1: be a sign of things. Sometimes it's like, okay, where'd 28 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:44,040 Speaker 1: you learn that? Not a good thing? 29 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:44,399 Speaker 2: Could it? 30 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 5: Also, because I think her being bored is a great point, 31 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 5: because she probably is if your daughter is at school 32 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 5: and stuff. Now, maybe she just did some research, you know, 33 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 5: maybe she was just trying to spice up her life 34 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:59,160 Speaker 5: and took it into her own hands, you know, like 35 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 5: was she honed her in the day? Do you know 36 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 5: what she's doing? Like is she going places? 37 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 3: I don't really know. I guess what she's doing during 38 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 3: the day. 39 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 5: You haven't asked her. 40 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 3: I mean she said that she she. 41 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 2: Stays home, she takes care of the house. Obviously she 42 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 2: takes care of Donna once she gets home. 43 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 6: But I don't want to press I. 44 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 3: Haven't had the nerve to press the issue. 45 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 2: If there's nothing going on, then it'll sound weird, you 46 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 2: know what I mean? 47 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:30,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, you sound super nervous, Like do you have like 48 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 5: a gut feeling about this that's making you freak out. 49 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 2: A little bit. 50 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 3: I just don't want to lose her. 51 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 5: Well, have you asked her like where she's been learning 52 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:39,960 Speaker 5: the new moves y'or like, hey that's new. 53 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:41,840 Speaker 1: Where did you get that from? Kind of like I 54 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 1: feel like you can say it in like a funny, 55 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 1: cute way. 56 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:48,359 Speaker 3: No, it's awkward. I mean you don't want to ruin 57 00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 3: a good time. 58 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, she just seems distracted a lot, and I just 59 00:02:56,160 --> 00:03:00,639 Speaker 2: have this nagging little feeling that she might be cheating 60 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:00,920 Speaker 2: on me. 61 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:04,119 Speaker 1: All right, well, you already told us what grocery store 62 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:06,679 Speaker 1: you guys are rewards card members at. So we'll play 63 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 1: a song come back, and then call her and pretend 64 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 1: to be from the grocery store and say that every 65 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 1: single month, we choose one lucky rewards member who gets 66 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:15,919 Speaker 1: free flowers delivered from our floral apartment, and we'll see 67 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:17,519 Speaker 1: if she sends those to you or to somebody else. 68 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, thank you? 69 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 5: All right? 70 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:22,240 Speaker 1: To Catch Cheater is next. Right in the middle of 71 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 1: To Catch a Cheater And if you're just joining us, 72 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 1: Jason is on the phone and he thinks that his 73 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:29,560 Speaker 1: wife of four years named Kat might be missing around. 74 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:32,360 Speaker 1: So we're about to call her and see if we 75 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 1: can catch her before we do that. Jason, why don't 76 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 1: you break down your situation for us again real quick. 77 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 2: We've been married for four years, we have a lovely 78 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 2: little girl together. Now that she doesn't have to be 79 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 2: around the house a whole time with her, with a 80 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 2: little girl going to school, Cat's getting a little bit 81 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 2: more adventurous in bed. And I'm wondering where she picked 82 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 2: up those tricks. 83 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 5: It's a fair concern, but also good for you. 84 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:56,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, and you said that she wouldn't probably send flowers 85 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 1: to you. So I'm going to call her and say 86 00:03:57,440 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 1: that it's a his and hers package, flowers for her 87 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 1: and like a bottle of alcohol and some grooming stuff 88 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 1: for dudes. Oh hey, let's see if she'll send that 89 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 1: to you, okay, or to somebody else. All right, here 90 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 1: we go. Hello, Hi, this is Corble calling from I 91 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 1: was looking for our rewards card member named Kat. 92 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:26,240 Speaker 6: This is she. 93 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 1: Hi, Kat, Please don't hang up. This is not a 94 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 1: marketing phone call. I'm actually calling with a big congratulations. 95 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:31,719 Speaker 1: Here this month's winner. 96 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 6: What did I win? How did I win? 97 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 1: Every single month, we choose one Rewards card member who 98 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 1: gets a free gift from us, and this month it's 99 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:41,360 Speaker 1: actually his and hers package. So you've won thirty six 100 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 1: long stem red roses to be delivered to you and 101 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:47,040 Speaker 1: then for a special someone in your life who might 102 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 1: be a dude or somebody who's into that kind of thing, 103 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 1: a bottle of alcohol of your choosing, and a little 104 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 1: grooming package. Really, it's just our way of saying thank 105 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 1: you for shopping with us. 106 00:04:57,240 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, awesome. Can I actually send to somebody else? 107 00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:01,479 Speaker 6: Is that? 108 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 1: Okay? Sure? And the grooming kit as well, same person 109 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 1: or no, no. 110 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:13,279 Speaker 6: To people at the same address, but different names like 111 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 6: flowers for one and the grooming stuff for the other person. 112 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:20,479 Speaker 1: We can definitely do that. I would need the first 113 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 1: and last names of the people that you want to 114 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 1: send them to, and then if you'd like to put 115 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 1: anything on a card, and then I'll get the address 116 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 1: and that's it. 117 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 6: Okay, I mean it's going to be the same address, 118 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:35,839 Speaker 6: but I would like the flowers and to Emily and 119 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 6: the male things to Tyson tyso in. 120 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:43,279 Speaker 1: Okay, great? Yeah, And do you want to put anything 121 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:43,839 Speaker 1: on a card? 122 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 6: Uh? Yeah? Can you say thank you guys for being 123 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 6: so amazing. Here's to our little secret yes. 124 00:05:56,800 --> 00:05:59,599 Speaker 1: I can definitely do that for you. And also now 125 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:01,279 Speaker 1: I can let you know that this is not the 126 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 1: grocery store. This is actually a radio show. It's called 127 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:04,040 Speaker 1: the Jubil Show. 128 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 5: Hi Nina, Hi Victoria. 129 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 1: And my name is Jubel And we do a segment 130 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:10,320 Speaker 1: on the show that's called to Catch a Cheeta where 131 00:06:10,360 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 1: if you think your significant other might be messing around, 132 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:16,719 Speaker 1: you see who they send flowers to. And your husband. 133 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 6: Jason, is that the radio right now? 134 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yes, And your husband Jason is on the phone. 135 00:06:25,120 --> 00:06:27,279 Speaker 3: Going on with Emily and Tyson. 136 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:28,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. 137 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 6: What did you call the radio when they called me? 138 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 6: Did you set this up? You're going on right now? 139 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 2: Yes? I did. 140 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:36,560 Speaker 3: And you know what, Thank god I did. 141 00:06:36,720 --> 00:06:39,040 Speaker 2: Thank god I did, because apparently you're doing something. 142 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 3: But two people. 143 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 6: You couldn't, Oh my god, you couldn't just ask me 144 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 6: a question. You had to. 145 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:50,840 Speaker 3: High ground here. This is crazy. 146 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:54,719 Speaker 6: I'm not cheating on you. Where are you getting this from? 147 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 6: What is this coming from? 148 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:57,839 Speaker 1: What are you doing? 149 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:00,359 Speaker 3: What are you doing with with tit in. 150 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:01,360 Speaker 2: Are you doing? 151 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:04,359 Speaker 6: Why are you accusing me of cheating? Where is this 152 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:05,279 Speaker 6: coming from? 153 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:08,480 Speaker 3: Here's to keeping our secret? What secret? What are you 154 00:07:08,680 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 3: three up to? 155 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 5: It's confusing. 156 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:15,440 Speaker 6: We can talk about this later if you don't mind. 157 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 6: I'm not cheating on you. 158 00:07:17,160 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 3: That's the one thing. Now. You have been board at home. 159 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 2: You've been doing some quite frankly crazy stuff in the bedroom, 160 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 2: and I think that you got it from some place. 161 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 6: I am not cheating on you. I have never cheated. 162 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 6: But you definitely don't want to be talking about this 163 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 6: right now. This is not because. 164 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 3: There's the place. 165 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 6: This is how you want to do this. This right 166 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 6: now is how you want to do this. I really 167 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:44,240 Speaker 6: want you to think about that. 168 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 3: I mean, what have you been doing? 169 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 6: Okay? Wow, I can't believe you didn't just want to 170 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 6: take the win and realize that I was better at 171 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 6: some stuff than I used to be. But what really 172 00:07:58,000 --> 00:08:02,720 Speaker 6: happened and why I wanted to involve Emily in Tysons 173 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 6: is because I was over at Emily's. I brought over 174 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 6: Jenna to play with Cynthia and Emily and I got 175 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 6: into like a girl's talk. I don't know if this 176 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 6: is something you can even comprehend because you're a man, 177 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 6: But all talked to each other about things in their lives. 178 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:23,880 Speaker 6: We talk about what's working, we talk about what's not 179 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 6: working the one area of our life that didn't feel 180 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:30,040 Speaker 6: like it was up to scratch. Everything else was great. 181 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 6: I love our child, I love you, I love our 182 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 6: lives together. I am so pissy you right now. But 183 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 6: I felt like I might be boring you a little 184 00:08:38,679 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 6: bit in bed, and I was really insecure about that, 185 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:44,040 Speaker 6: and I've been having some feelings about that. So I 186 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 6: talked to Emily, who, as you know, is one of 187 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:50,280 Speaker 6: my closest friends. It's not weird, it's not overstepping. We 188 00:08:50,280 --> 00:08:53,439 Speaker 6: were just discussing life, and I was telling her that 189 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:55,960 Speaker 6: I felt like I didn't have a lot of confidence 190 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 6: in myself in the bedroom. And while we were talking 191 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 6: and she was commiserated with me, Tyson walked in, and 192 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 6: you know, he wasn't trying to be weird or disrespectful 193 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:07,440 Speaker 6: in any way. He was like, oh, maybe I shouldn't 194 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 6: be here for this or whatever, and Emily's like, no, 195 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 6: it's fine. You know, they're just dealing with normal married 196 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 6: people stuff. And we got into this conversations and they 197 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:17,800 Speaker 6: were actually really helpful, and they talked to me about 198 00:09:17,800 --> 00:09:19,679 Speaker 6: some of the things that they have overcome and some 199 00:09:19,720 --> 00:09:22,720 Speaker 6: of the things that have worked for them. So I 200 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 6: took it upon myself to use their inspiration and do 201 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 6: a little research of my own and figure out some 202 00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:31,960 Speaker 6: things that I thought might be nice for you and 203 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 6: nice for us, And instead you excuse me of cheating 204 00:09:36,160 --> 00:09:40,880 Speaker 6: on the radio and Tyson, this maybe, Tami, but you've 205 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:43,079 Speaker 6: decided you want to have this conversation right now. He 206 00:09:43,200 --> 00:09:45,439 Speaker 6: showed me how to use you so that I could 207 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:47,920 Speaker 6: look at videos and see things that looked fun and 208 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:50,000 Speaker 6: like I might want to try them and you might 209 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:53,360 Speaker 6: like them, which apparently you have. Apparently has worked so well, 210 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:55,680 Speaker 6: and now you're here excusing me of cheating on the radio. 211 00:09:56,360 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 1: Wow. Whoa Wow. Didn't expect that. 212 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:06,160 Speaker 5: This is good news, Jason, right. 213 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 3: Uh, okay, feel a little stupid right now. 214 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 5: Oh, if you think about it, this is really cute 215 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:20,719 Speaker 5: because now we know how much he loves her and 216 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 5: how excited he is now because of all the changes. 217 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:30,360 Speaker 2: Honey, I am so grateful that you wanted to try 218 00:10:30,679 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 2: those sorts of things, but it's not I was never 219 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 2: bored with you. 220 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 3: Please, please don't ever think that I was bored with you. 221 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:37,960 Speaker 3: I'm never bored with you. 222 00:10:40,520 --> 00:10:42,720 Speaker 6: I'm really mad at you right now because you accuse 223 00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:45,719 Speaker 6: me of cheating in front of strangers. But like, I've 224 00:10:45,760 --> 00:10:49,040 Speaker 6: really been upset about this and worried that you were 225 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 6: getting bored with me. And now everybody knows that my 226 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:57,920 Speaker 6: friends have been teaching me things embarrassing kat. 227 00:10:57,960 --> 00:10:58,720 Speaker 1: Everybody does it? 228 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:02,440 Speaker 6: Do they is normal? This doesn't feel normal right now. 229 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:03,520 Speaker 5: I think it's normal. 230 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:08,080 Speaker 3: No, Honey, it's fine. I'm not mad. 231 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:11,440 Speaker 2: I'm just so happy that you're that neither of us are. 232 00:11:11,360 --> 00:11:12,360 Speaker 3: Unhappy with each other. 233 00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:16,600 Speaker 6: I am kind of mad right now, but I'm really 234 00:11:16,600 --> 00:11:21,160 Speaker 6: glad we talked. I'm I can we please keep talking, not. 235 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 2: On the phone, And the next time that Emily and 236 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 2: Tyson come over, we will well, it'll be something. 237 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:34,679 Speaker 6: They don't listen to this 238 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:40,240 Speaker 3: The Jewble shows to Catch a Cheater