WEBVTT - Gary Owen Opens Up About His Divorce From Kenya Duke, Falling Out With His Kids, Healing + More 0:00:00.360 --> 0:00:04.760 Wait that answer in the morning Breakfast Club. Morning to 0:00:04.880 --> 0:00:09.000 everybody is dch Envy Angela Yee Charlottage and the guy. 0:00:09.039 --> 0:00:11.000 We are to breakfast Club. We got a special guest 0:00:11.080 --> 0:00:14.680 in the building who's coming as himself today. What do 0:00:14.720 --> 0:00:16.960 you mean remember last time he came a six nine. 0:00:17.040 --> 0:00:19.480 That's a long time ago that he came with somebody 0:00:19.480 --> 0:00:21.880 else before alone. But that was a long time ago, 0:00:21.960 --> 0:00:23.759 and this last time we see him. No, it's not 0:00:23.920 --> 0:00:28.120 just he had been up here at this once. Yeah, yeah, once, 0:00:28.640 --> 0:00:31.440 old ladies and gentlemen, thank you. Man came. When did 0:00:31.440 --> 0:00:35.960 I come last time? Married? I was getting married, get married? 0:00:36.040 --> 0:00:40.159 Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you were time. That was 0:00:40.200 --> 0:00:46.400 a costume. That was a costume. That were you saying? Why? Kid? 0:00:48.280 --> 0:00:49.559 We were going to say, ask how you were doing? 0:00:50.080 --> 0:00:51.959 Was good? I was asking it before I got here, 0:00:52.000 --> 0:00:56.960 Like how much longer are you here? I'm not absolutely 0:00:57.080 --> 0:00:59.680 sure at the date, but they said fall so in 0:00:59.720 --> 0:01:01.200 the aw sometimes I feel like you said that to 0:01:01.240 --> 0:01:06.119 a black woman before in your life. Boy, but don't 0:01:06.120 --> 0:01:11.200 have a date. I quit today. You know. They gotta 0:01:11.240 --> 0:01:13.800 find replacements, so that takes a little time. I gotta 0:01:13.840 --> 0:01:17.160 find my co host sot too much though, Yeah, in 0:01:17.240 --> 0:01:19.080 order for us to throw that out there, we have 0:01:19.160 --> 0:01:21.800 to announce it. I think it's better you just weren't here, 0:01:22.560 --> 0:01:28.680 shut up, got a new show out, like like when 0:01:28.720 --> 0:01:31.560 she got married, like nobody knew and it was just married. Yeah, 0:01:31.640 --> 0:01:32.840 you know what I mean? Is that how you're going 0:01:32.920 --> 0:01:34.920 to go about your life from that one? You know it? 0:01:38.720 --> 0:01:42.280 What the hell happened? What? What do you okay? Let 0:01:42.280 --> 0:01:44.080 they say what do you think happened? Well, according to 0:01:44.120 --> 0:01:46.200 be to you last year, good job your wife at 0:01:46.240 --> 0:01:47.960 the time, Ken your duke was slamming a woman she 0:01:48.160 --> 0:01:50.160 believes to be your mistress. She said, you definitely know 0:01:50.240 --> 0:01:52.960 who I am. You didn't care at Gary on Comedy 0:01:53.360 --> 0:01:55.040 was is married and you don't seem the kid. He 0:01:55.120 --> 0:01:57.400 still hasn't seen his kids, which is weird because you 0:01:57.520 --> 0:01:59.320 are a baby mama. You read it like with it 0:01:59.400 --> 0:02:02.440 at a time. That was the first was the fourth 0:02:02.600 --> 0:02:05.680 thing that came out right, the first that was a 0:02:05.720 --> 0:02:08.639 good one. Though. Know why because me and Duall and 0:02:08.720 --> 0:02:10.840 Carlos Miller we always say black men don't cheat because 0:02:10.880 --> 0:02:14.359 we don't. You know, so you was, you was out 0:02:14.400 --> 0:02:16.760 here doing that and you know you've proven us right. No, 0:02:16.880 --> 0:02:19.440 don't cheat. But and you spent a lot of money 0:02:19.480 --> 0:02:21.840 too on the mistress. Because I saw that was part 0:02:21.880 --> 0:02:24.919 of the story. What is did you cheat? Did you 0:02:24.960 --> 0:02:28.400 have a mistress? Here's the thing. No good marriage ever 0:02:28.560 --> 0:02:31.280 ended because of cheating. I'll put it that way. No 0:02:31.560 --> 0:02:34.160 good marriage ever ended because of cheating. Bad marriages have, 0:02:34.840 --> 0:02:37.200 but no good marriage. Now that's debatable. But that's a 0:02:37.280 --> 0:02:39.079 great talking point, Gary, that's a good like that could 0:02:39.080 --> 0:02:44.400 start a great conversation. But also, like I I left, 0:02:45.240 --> 0:02:47.720 This whole narrative was like she left me because I 0:02:47.840 --> 0:02:52.280 got caught cheating. Correct, I left. Really I filed first. 0:02:52.600 --> 0:02:54.480 I made the phone call saying I don't want to 0:02:54.480 --> 0:02:57.560 be divorced. I don't want to be married, so I 0:02:57.639 --> 0:03:00.320 want to divorce. So when everything came out, I just 0:03:00.400 --> 0:03:04.160 stayed quiet. But this whole narrative was I got caught 0:03:04.200 --> 0:03:06.760 out there, she left me. That's not what happened. Okay, 0:03:06.760 --> 0:03:09.280 I thought she filed for a divorce. No, I filed first, 0:03:10.080 --> 0:03:13.400 she filed after me. What was it working? You just 0:03:14.120 --> 0:03:15.799 you can get into all kinds of reasons, but the 0:03:15.919 --> 0:03:18.280 end of the day is you're unhappy, and then you 0:03:18.520 --> 0:03:20.280 you sit here and you stay in it for the 0:03:20.400 --> 0:03:23.400 kids and everything else, and then you're like, God, I'm miserable. 0:03:23.800 --> 0:03:26.600 And it's weird because you feel selfish for choosing your 0:03:26.639 --> 0:03:29.760 own happiness. It's weird how that happens, because women always 0:03:29.800 --> 0:03:31.639 say you're gonna be out there and you're gonna be 0:03:31.720 --> 0:03:34.679 doing dirt and do this, do this? Leave? So what 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:37.160 I did, That's what I do. You try to make 0:03:37.200 --> 0:03:39.640 it work at least we Yeah, a couple times, like 0:03:40.080 --> 0:03:42.560 there was a I left a couple times we were 0:03:42.560 --> 0:03:44.680 together twenty three years. There were a couple of times 0:03:44.680 --> 0:03:47.640 that I left, but nobody knew. Wow. But this last time, 0:03:47.680 --> 0:03:50.600 we're just like, I'm just just unhappy. So how is 0:03:50.640 --> 0:03:53.720 it filming a show? The reality? Yeah? The reality said, 0:03:53.720 --> 0:03:55.360 were you guys okay then? Or were you like, I'm 0:03:55.360 --> 0:03:57.200 gonna try to stick it through? And we were. We 0:03:57.240 --> 0:03:59.280 were in a good place during during the reality show, 0:03:59.680 --> 0:04:02.760 but it was it was after that. I left once 0:04:02.880 --> 0:04:05.320 after that, and then I left again. This last time, 0:04:05.360 --> 0:04:09.080 I just went, I'm just I'm miserable. How should why 0:04:09.080 --> 0:04:11.080 should we believe you? She said, you're a lying narcissist. 0:04:11.120 --> 0:04:14.440 Gary isn't there to go to though? The narcissist part. 0:04:14.480 --> 0:04:16.160 As soon as the guy leaves, he's a narcissist. A 0:04:16.240 --> 0:04:19.960 narcissis would have made a comment, what do you mean 0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:26.159 you said, I mean, come on now, but it's it's 0:04:26.279 --> 0:04:29.560 that's that's always to go to the nurses. Um. The 0:04:29.680 --> 0:04:31.600 one that got me that that you read it so 0:04:31.680 --> 0:04:33.760 much about you, Like I was reading about myself, like Dany, 0:04:33.760 --> 0:04:35.200 this dude's violent, and I was like, well, I'm reading 0:04:35.240 --> 0:04:40.080 about myself the debat because I was. I was, I 0:04:40.200 --> 0:04:42.720 was there, I was present. I liked being a dad. 0:04:43.040 --> 0:04:45.760 I mean, there wasn't a time my kids never ruled 0:04:45.800 --> 0:04:48.160 the bus, Like if I'm home, I'm taking him to 0:04:48.200 --> 0:04:51.279 school picking them up, and if not home, she's doing ith, 0:04:51.480 --> 0:04:55.440 going to practice, whether it was volleyball, basketball, going to games. 0:04:55.480 --> 0:04:57.600 I didn't miss nothing. I didn't miss a birthday, you know. 0:04:57.720 --> 0:05:01.240 I remember we think like a man too. July third, 0:05:01.560 --> 0:05:04.480 twenty thirteen, and I caught we got off for like 0:05:04.600 --> 0:05:06.280 five I got on the plane so I could make 0:05:06.320 --> 0:05:08.840 sure I've made my daughter's birthday or eleventh birthday, to 0:05:08.920 --> 0:05:10.960 make it back. I didn't go to sleep. Wow. I mean, 0:05:11.040 --> 0:05:13.440 it's not like I deserve kudos for that. That's what 0:05:13.520 --> 0:05:16.640 you're supposed to dad. Yeah, so I liked being a dad, 0:05:16.760 --> 0:05:19.599 so now to be called a debbut one, you can't 0:05:19.600 --> 0:05:22.360 be a debbut to adults. I've said that before, but 0:05:22.800 --> 0:05:25.159 right now, like you can't be a debut. Okay they're grown. Okay, okay, 0:05:25.160 --> 0:05:28.000 they're grown. Yeah you know, but um, it's also like 0:05:28.480 --> 0:05:29.680 I haven't talked to him like a year and a 0:05:29.680 --> 0:05:33.160 half or two kids. Yeah you haven't. Yeah, like I 0:05:33.279 --> 0:05:36.560 just are mad at you. They're mad because I left 0:05:36.560 --> 0:05:38.360 their mom though, so I left their mom. So what 0:05:38.600 --> 0:05:40.680 so for people want to say, like what happened? Most marriages, right, 0:05:40.720 --> 0:05:46.920 they don't work because of infidelity, money abuse, mental abuse. 0:05:47.160 --> 0:05:48.640 So what was the reason why I didn't work? Why 0:05:48.680 --> 0:05:50.400 couldn't y'all hold it together? What was the reason you 0:05:50.480 --> 0:05:53.640 said you weren't happy? Why weren't you happy? Trump? I'm 0:05:53.680 --> 0:06:11.120 just kidding for everything. No, I don't know that there's 0:06:11.160 --> 0:06:14.239 a there's a lot of reasons. I mean, what's important 0:06:14.279 --> 0:06:15.960 to me is like not to throw her to the 0:06:16.000 --> 0:06:19.240 bus because I want my kids and her to still 0:06:19.279 --> 0:06:21.679 have a good relationship and always have a good relationship. 0:06:21.720 --> 0:06:24.400 So it doesn't mean no good to like get into 0:06:24.640 --> 0:06:28.280 what she did, you know, but you know, I just 0:06:28.760 --> 0:06:31.799 do you feel that she's lashing out because her feelings 0:06:31.839 --> 0:06:34.960 are hurt, without question, and I know that. Does that 0:06:35.080 --> 0:06:37.920 make you feel bad that obviously she's destroyed over that. 0:06:37.960 --> 0:06:40.680 You guy've been together for twenty three years, long time. 0:06:43.760 --> 0:06:45.640 That's why I don't go in on her. I get it. 0:06:45.720 --> 0:06:48.240 I heard it. I heard her. I broke up the 0:06:48.279 --> 0:06:52.080 family dynamic and everything. But even when I called. I 0:06:52.120 --> 0:06:55.440 remember when I called, I didn't I said, hey, I'm 0:06:55.480 --> 0:07:00.160 just not happy. I'm gonna file. You didn't do face 0:07:00.200 --> 0:07:02.560 to face. I tried it the first time. I tried 0:07:02.600 --> 0:07:05.360 it face to face. Okay, I want not doing that again. 0:07:05.800 --> 0:07:08.960 So this one's going over. Let's just say I'm not 0:07:09.040 --> 0:07:12.120 doing that again. Okay. I was like, we just went 0:07:12.160 --> 0:07:15.000 over the phone. So when I called her and we 0:07:15.200 --> 0:07:17.000 were talking, we talked for like five hours, and I 0:07:17.120 --> 0:07:19.640 thought we were going to keep it quiet. We would 0:07:19.640 --> 0:07:21.760 just be like and even she said we were a 0:07:21.800 --> 0:07:23.880 good example of a married couple. Let's show how people 0:07:23.920 --> 0:07:27.800 can get divorced with dignity and everything. And I don't 0:07:27.800 --> 0:07:30.080 know what happened. TMZ got ahold of it, and I 0:07:30.160 --> 0:07:33.080 don't know, but you know, I I filed in Ohio. 0:07:33.320 --> 0:07:35.760 We had two residences. We had one in Ohio, one 0:07:35.800 --> 0:07:39.200 in California. I filed for divorce in Ohio. She filed 0:07:39.240 --> 0:07:42.440 in California. So I when I found it, when I 0:07:42.440 --> 0:07:44.680 saw a TMZ, my lawyer callings, like, we think of 0:07:44.760 --> 0:07:46.840 process servers on the way trying to serve you, because 0:07:46.880 --> 0:07:49.440 that's a big deal. Hey, getting served, that's the whole 0:07:49.440 --> 0:07:53.560 story itself. Me on the run. Oh my god. We 0:07:53.640 --> 0:07:55.760 didn't want in h I mean, you didn't want to 0:07:55.760 --> 0:07:59.480 get No, I didn't want to divorce in California, Ohio. 0:08:00.040 --> 0:08:01.880 She filed in California. You get a half. They take 0:08:01.960 --> 0:08:04.400 half in California or something like that. On board. No, 0:08:04.720 --> 0:08:08.680 it's in Ohio. I don't want to know, but you know, 0:08:08.960 --> 0:08:11.640 the process server. When my lawyer called is like, dude, 0:08:11.720 --> 0:08:13.840 because I remember I was in Naples, Florida. It was 0:08:13.840 --> 0:08:16.640 a Friday night. I had two shows. I get off 0:08:16.720 --> 0:08:20.640 stage and I'm like, ah shit, because I'm getting text 0:08:20.680 --> 0:08:23.080 messages and everybody sent me the links to BT and 0:08:23.520 --> 0:08:26.000 people and all that. I'm like this, how this happened? 0:08:26.320 --> 0:08:28.920 My lawyer said, you got a show? Say yeah, she goes, 0:08:29.320 --> 0:08:30.800 you got cancel it. I said, what he means? She 0:08:30.840 --> 0:08:33.440 was word you're gonna get served. What's that. I didn't 0:08:33.480 --> 0:08:35.760 know what a process server was. She was, no, you understand, 0:08:35.840 --> 0:08:38.880 she goes, the process server serves you. Chances are the 0:08:38.960 --> 0:08:41.280 divorce could go down in California. That happens, That's what 0:08:41.400 --> 0:08:44.240 she said. California is fifty fifty state between she can 0:08:44.280 --> 0:08:45.920 get half of everything for the rest of your life. 0:08:46.000 --> 0:08:51.720 I said, say, lest this show's over hundred people that night, 0:08:52.080 --> 0:08:54.840 lest a run. If you look at my social media, 0:08:55.040 --> 0:08:57.000 I don't make a post for like three months. I 0:08:57.160 --> 0:09:00.439 switched my sale number my cell carrier because I'd be 0:09:00.480 --> 0:09:01.920 watching the first four d eight. They'd be pinging them 0:09:02.040 --> 0:09:04.640 until they kissed the killers. How did they ever catch you? No, 0:09:04.920 --> 0:09:06.360 I was on the run, bro, Now I'm just going 0:09:06.440 --> 0:09:10.240 to really. I went to Maine for a week. I 0:09:10.320 --> 0:09:14.360 had the Appleachian Trail on West Virginia. I went to Montana. 0:09:14.840 --> 0:09:16.640 I went to North South because I mean it was 0:09:16.679 --> 0:09:19.040 I was rainy, mall straight cash on me. I canceled 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:21.280 on my credit cards. I was on the run, bro. 0:09:21.440 --> 0:09:24.760 They almost got me. Colardo Springs almost got me. Springs, No, 0:09:27.040 --> 0:09:29.840 calrad Springs almost got me. The guy chased me. I said, 0:09:29.840 --> 0:09:31.800 I'm the last special. I said, I turned into Morris 0:09:31.880 --> 0:09:34.240 chestnup from Boys in the Hood. I'm just chasing me down. 0:09:34.360 --> 0:09:36.520 He tried to throw the paper. Mars got caught. Yeah, 0:09:36.720 --> 0:09:43.280 Mars got caught. No I didn't. You didn't have a 0:09:43.320 --> 0:09:45.880 pre nup. Then we didn't have done. We got married. 0:09:47.000 --> 0:09:49.200 I mean still, I'm just asking because people who are 0:09:49.240 --> 0:09:52.160 getting married now there's talk about pre nups. Yeah, you 0:09:52.160 --> 0:09:54.959 should get one. No I didn't get No. Does she 0:09:55.080 --> 0:09:59.160 work yeah, I mean she flips houses and she had 0:09:59.200 --> 0:10:02.240 the travel company and stuff. So people will say, is 0:10:02.280 --> 0:10:05.240 that you know, she sacrificed raising the kids while you 0:10:05.320 --> 0:10:11.160 had your career. She deserves We we sacrificed. We raised 0:10:11.200 --> 0:10:14.000 the kids together, you know what I mean. But if 0:10:14.040 --> 0:10:16.000 you were there, because you were on the road, you 0:10:16.000 --> 0:10:17.880 would travel and do it. Shows people would say, well, 0:10:17.960 --> 0:10:20.640 doesn't she deserve she deserves half. No, no, no, she don't. 0:10:23.800 --> 0:10:26.640 Twenty three years. That's a long time I've been with 0:10:26.720 --> 0:10:29.520 my wife. That's what I'm getting at. I'm not gonna 0:10:29.520 --> 0:10:31.360 say nothing bad about her, but you don't know the 0:10:31.400 --> 0:10:37.440 whole story. Okay, don't ken to them for a year 0:10:37.480 --> 0:10:40.480 and kids, Yeah that sucks. That ain't gonna lie because 0:10:41.360 --> 0:10:43.440 did you try to call them? Oh, I've done everything. 0:10:43.840 --> 0:10:48.440 I've done everything I have. I've gone to Greensboro because 0:10:48.440 --> 0:10:50.719 my daughter's a day and t knocked on her door. 0:10:50.800 --> 0:10:53.480 She wouldn't answer. I just I tried to see her 0:10:53.520 --> 0:10:57.160 the airport one time, try to catch her. Then you know, 0:10:58.360 --> 0:11:01.079 it's just it is what I I don't know what 0:11:01.160 --> 0:11:02.719 to do at this point because I'm like blocked on 0:11:02.880 --> 0:11:05.920 social media. I've gone to every outlet to try to 0:11:05.920 --> 0:11:08.000 get ahold of my daughter. I went to Venmo, I 0:11:08.120 --> 0:11:11.360 went to WhatsApp, and every time I reach out it's 0:11:11.400 --> 0:11:14.959 like then I'm blocked. So it's like dang when you 0:11:15.000 --> 0:11:19.160 send money, no no, no no Venmo, just say hi. Oh, 0:11:20.640 --> 0:11:23.319 don't say hid I know money attached to it? Dad? Okay, 0:11:23.640 --> 0:11:26.120 what did that go back? Because yore yo were doing 0:11:26.160 --> 0:11:28.000 this together, like y'o were getting a divorce together. You 0:11:28.040 --> 0:11:30.000 said you had a five hour conversation. You told the 0:11:30.080 --> 0:11:31.560 kids and then wanted to go left with the kids 0:11:31.559 --> 0:11:33.880 because we didn't tell the kids we were gonna like 0:11:34.040 --> 0:11:36.199 wait and like do it together. And they had to 0:11:36.240 --> 0:11:39.520 hear the TMZ that I found out, and then I 0:11:39.640 --> 0:11:41.400 had to I had to lie to my daughter one 0:11:41.480 --> 0:11:45.559 time because the processor was coming and I didn't know, 0:11:46.040 --> 0:11:48.360 and she was supposed to come to Baltimore after it 0:11:48.480 --> 0:11:50.920 hit the fan, and I was like, come to Baltimore 0:11:51.640 --> 0:11:53.640 and we sit down and we just have a weekend 0:11:53.679 --> 0:11:56.800 together and we could talk. And then I couldn't because 0:11:56.960 --> 0:11:59.920 I wasn't she wasn't served yet and I wasn't serve. 0:12:00.320 --> 0:12:01.760 So I had to tell my daughter. I said, you 0:12:01.880 --> 0:12:05.040 can't come, because if if she's with me and she 0:12:05.200 --> 0:12:08.880 gets served, I'm served. So it got like loving war 0:12:09.040 --> 0:12:10.760 type deal, and it sucked because I had the lighter 0:12:10.800 --> 0:12:12.280 and be like I had came out. I came up 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:13.400 with some reason. I don't know if I'm going to 0:12:13.480 --> 0:12:15.640 the show in Baltimore, but I still I flew or 0:12:15.720 --> 0:12:18.360 to um Arizona to hang out with her cousin, because 0:12:18.360 --> 0:12:19.920 like it's important to be with somebody this weekend. So 0:12:19.960 --> 0:12:21.800 I said, go go hang out with your cousin Arizona. 0:12:21.840 --> 0:12:24.319 I got it, but I had that was that was 0:12:24.320 --> 0:12:25.839 the one thing I lied about. I'm not sure you 0:12:25.920 --> 0:12:28.160 can say you was ducking the process server. I don't 0:12:28.200 --> 0:12:29.760 know what do you mean. I don't know if you 0:12:29.760 --> 0:12:32.520 should get on the radio and it's already done. Though, 0:12:32.600 --> 0:12:34.800 like that's done. Like we're we're in core right now. 0:12:34.880 --> 0:12:37.599 We're going with the divorce is happening. Okay, Okay, it's not. 0:12:37.800 --> 0:12:43.839 It's not final yet, but we're still hashing out stuff. No, 0:12:44.000 --> 0:12:47.640 the process servers, they're unreal. They're unreal. Boogey man man, 0:12:47.679 --> 0:12:49.160 you just make me scared of the process. But you 0:12:49.280 --> 0:12:52.760 don't you don't know who it is and who wasn't. 0:12:52.800 --> 0:12:54.599 Because I would never fly into a city I was 0:12:54.679 --> 0:12:56.360 performing at because she kind of had a leg up 0:12:56.440 --> 0:12:59.920 because my schedule's online. Right when I tell you I 0:13:00.120 --> 0:13:10.680 stayed in the she's got served like this, she gets 0:13:10.679 --> 0:13:15.200 this water. No, one time I was in I would 0:13:15.200 --> 0:13:16.800 never fly into a city I was going to. So 0:13:16.920 --> 0:13:18.720 one time I was in Baltimore. I flew into Pittsburgh 0:13:18.880 --> 0:13:21.760 and drove to Baltimore and I stopped at like a 0:13:21.840 --> 0:13:24.160 Bob Evans because I was in like an Amish country. 0:13:24.200 --> 0:13:26.640 I'm like, I'm safe here. Also, one black dude walks in. 0:13:26.760 --> 0:13:29.880 I go, what's he doing here? Dad? And he goes, yo, 0:13:30.000 --> 0:13:32.640 carry I said, not today, not today. He came to me. 0:13:32.679 --> 0:13:35.560 I'm throwing banana bread at the brother Grady chasing around. 0:13:35.600 --> 0:13:40.599 Bob Evans said, bro stop chasing me. No, I don't know. 0:13:40.679 --> 0:13:43.280 I ran away from him. I don't know. The other 0:13:43.280 --> 0:13:45.120 white people in the restaurant gets scared when he starts 0:13:45.160 --> 0:13:47.360 like what Yeah, They was like, what is going on? Dude? 0:13:47.520 --> 0:13:49.280 I ain't that dude today. I'm like, you didn't scream 0:13:49.320 --> 0:13:52.800 for help. I told my open I go start the car, 0:13:53.480 --> 0:14:01.560 start the car. I got it in like duke boys. Ohio, Hio, okay, Ohio. Yeah. 0:14:01.600 --> 0:14:03.920 It took took a lot, but we finally got she 0:14:04.120 --> 0:14:08.079 got she got served before I did. And uh, you know, 0:14:08.600 --> 0:14:12.000 it's just but what do you think is fair? Um? 0:14:13.240 --> 0:14:14.960 I don't know. There's a lot of kids talk about 0:14:15.440 --> 0:14:18.800 still because it's not final, but I mean, m I 0:14:18.840 --> 0:14:20.400 don't want to want to say anything because it could 0:14:20.640 --> 0:14:24.920 be using. So, you know, anyway, I think about twelve 0:14:24.960 --> 0:14:29.120 dollars laughing. How did they catch her though? How did 0:14:29.160 --> 0:14:33.080 they catch oh? Got her? We got her at a 0:14:33.160 --> 0:14:37.560 Panera bread drive through. Stop paying somebody at the drive through. 0:14:37.600 --> 0:14:39.880 It's like in the drive through games blocked in with 0:14:39.960 --> 0:14:43.040 two cars and then the process servers like, let's go time, 0:14:43.080 --> 0:14:44.800 And I was like, dude, this is not the born 0:14:44.880 --> 0:14:49.880 identity he was with him had to be blue. No, no, 0:14:50.040 --> 0:14:54.480 it was I didn't. Here's what happened. I hired a 0:14:54.560 --> 0:14:58.240 process server and I paid twenty four seven surveillance. Like 0:14:59.160 --> 0:15:01.600 would would not she would not come out the house. 0:15:01.800 --> 0:15:03.560 She was like not coming out there like and the 0:15:03.600 --> 0:15:06.080 process was like, she won't come out, nobel come out. 0:15:06.440 --> 0:15:08.720 I said, act like you door dash. My son's always 0:15:08.760 --> 0:15:11.000 ordering food. And then she was like. They was like 0:15:11.160 --> 0:15:13.560 drop it at the door. Like we got the ring camera, 0:15:13.640 --> 0:15:15.360 she goes, they just say drop it at the door. 0:15:15.400 --> 0:15:17.400 I was like, dang it. So I had to hire 0:15:17.680 --> 0:15:21.160 a different person, and me and her flew. We flew 0:15:21.200 --> 0:15:24.160 in the Sacramento and so we don't want to fly 0:15:24.240 --> 0:15:26.240 in to San Francisco, Oakland because we don't know she 0:15:26.360 --> 0:15:28.120 got a lot of cousins in the bay. So we 0:15:28.240 --> 0:15:30.280 went in the sack, got a rental car and drove 0:15:30.920 --> 0:15:34.000 and I said, yo, she shops a lot and she 0:15:34.080 --> 0:15:36.440 grocer shops a lot. I said. We pulled into a 0:15:36.520 --> 0:15:39.200 safe way. She was pulling out. I said, no way, 0:15:39.680 --> 0:15:41.720 and the processor was like, should get her now? I said, noah, 0:15:42.040 --> 0:15:43.760 we can't. We can't block her in. We had a 0:15:43.840 --> 0:15:46.800 follower like twenty minutes on the highway and I'm in 0:15:46.880 --> 0:15:49.520 the back seat hiding because I didn't want to see 0:15:49.560 --> 0:15:51.400 her in the passenger seats. Now I'm back and keep 0:15:51.480 --> 0:15:53.560 ducking up and she goes. I think she knows this us, 0:15:53.600 --> 0:15:56.080 like she has no clue. Come on, so we got her. 0:15:56.120 --> 0:15:58.560 She went into Panera and she got blocked in and 0:15:58.600 --> 0:16:01.080 then we got her. I hope you're telling the truth, 0:16:01.160 --> 0:16:04.360 because man, if not, you are about the unleash of 0:16:04.520 --> 0:16:06.920 black woman's going on your ass. I ain't saying nothing 0:16:06.960 --> 0:16:09.800 bad about her, but you're saying something. You're talking period. 0:16:10.080 --> 0:16:13.720 She's gonna have something to say, I know, but I'm 0:16:13.760 --> 0:16:17.320 wondering why now. But I never said I'm not and 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:19.360 I won't say anything bad about it. This is just 0:16:19.480 --> 0:16:22.600 what happened. Yeah, yeah, it happened like she got served 0:16:22.680 --> 0:16:26.160 up Panera bread. I did file first. Nothing I said 0:16:26.920 --> 0:16:29.480 didn't happen. But why why now, though, Like, why talk 0:16:29.480 --> 0:16:32.760 about it now? Because it went quiet? It was quiet. Uh, 0:16:33.600 --> 0:16:35.040 I don't know what. Everybody kept telling me, like you 0:16:35.040 --> 0:16:39.040 should tell your side, and I'm honestly it's probably also 0:16:39.200 --> 0:16:42.160 this is another effort for my kids to hear it. Yeah, 0:16:42.880 --> 0:16:47.280 it's the road to you and Kenya being civil. Like 0:16:47.360 --> 0:16:50.080 what do you think has to happen. I don't know. 0:16:50.200 --> 0:16:52.680 I think the divorce has to become final first, and 0:16:52.880 --> 0:16:56.440 then then we can start the healing process. Uh. But 0:16:56.640 --> 0:16:59.560 right now it's like geez acaus other as. They can't 0:16:59.560 --> 0:17:01.640 get you worried about her exposing your N word tape. 0:17:02.080 --> 0:17:10.240 Oh god, that's ever happened? Nebraska. I'm an O House 0:17:10.240 --> 0:17:13.800 state fan bro with your kids. So how do you like? 0:17:14.000 --> 0:17:16.200 Because you're dad, so you gotta pay for ish? So 0:17:16.320 --> 0:17:18.160 how does that work? Because you paid for college, paid 0:17:18.200 --> 0:17:20.480 for this, paid for that. I'll be honest, I paid 0:17:20.560 --> 0:17:22.359 for the first year and a half at A and T. 0:17:22.880 --> 0:17:25.920 And then my daughter got really upset at me and 0:17:26.400 --> 0:17:29.240 she said, I don't want you paying anything else. Stop. 0:17:29.440 --> 0:17:31.520 But they really man man they mad man, Yeah yeah, 0:17:32.040 --> 0:17:34.040 And so I was just but like you know, we 0:17:34.080 --> 0:17:36.800 always talk about the betrayal part. The stuff that got 0:17:36.880 --> 0:17:40.240 me was like my circle, like I had to completely 0:17:40.359 --> 0:17:43.440 change it, like my my openers. They did some dirty 0:17:43.480 --> 0:17:46.040 stuff with the divorce, was like telling my kids stuff 0:17:46.040 --> 0:17:48.440 about me and things like that. And then my dad 0:17:48.560 --> 0:17:51.800 was the worst. My dad, Dad all that dad whole 0:17:51.840 --> 0:17:56.800 back bitch, Oh my dad did the bitch, bitch shit 0:17:56.880 --> 0:17:58.720 of bitches. You gotta ed us out probably right. No 0:17:58.920 --> 0:18:04.440 cousin this motherfucker. So when when a divorce hit the 0:18:04.440 --> 0:18:06.840 fan of the process of my dad kept calling, texting, man, 0:18:06.920 --> 0:18:08.440 call me, call me. I got your back, did it? 0:18:08.640 --> 0:18:10.119 And keep mind this is the dad that went around 0:18:10.119 --> 0:18:11.720 when I was growing up, and it kind of came 0:18:11.760 --> 0:18:13.760 back when I got in TV and movies. Weird how 0:18:13.760 --> 0:18:17.639 that happens this. So one of the weeks I was 0:18:17.800 --> 0:18:21.640 hiding out, I went to Sedona with um. This girl 0:18:21.720 --> 0:18:24.600 that I'm seeing right at this point, it's not missus 0:18:24.640 --> 0:18:26.480 side chick. This is June. We have been said. We 0:18:26.560 --> 0:18:28.680 had been separated since January. It hit the fan in 0:18:28.760 --> 0:18:30.680 March to them twenty one, that's that's who she was. 0:18:30.720 --> 0:18:32.800 Probably ken you was probably talking about. She's upset, Yeah, 0:18:32.840 --> 0:18:37.280 yeah about her. So, um, we were in Sedona and 0:18:37.359 --> 0:18:39.399 we went to Grand Canyon and I took a picture 0:18:39.640 --> 0:18:41.800 and I sent it to like five six people in 0:18:42.119 --> 0:18:44.320 my inner circle that letting people know I'm okay, keeping 0:18:44.320 --> 0:18:45.800 people up there and where I was. My dad was 0:18:45.880 --> 0:18:50.520 part of that, right, So my dad, I go to Cincinnati, 0:18:50.800 --> 0:18:53.160 like in July fourth last year, I go to Red's 0:18:53.240 --> 0:18:57.000 game and I got a suite and I'm still nobody's 0:18:57.040 --> 0:18:59.480 been served. I'm still being careful, you know. So I 0:18:59.520 --> 0:19:01.120 had to get a sweet because I didn't want somebody 0:19:01.160 --> 0:19:03.439 be like, here's peanuts and papers, you know what I mean? 0:19:03.600 --> 0:19:07.080 So I, uh, my dad got win, got mad. Then 0:19:07.080 --> 0:19:09.080 I ain't take him to the Reds game. Sends me 0:19:09.160 --> 0:19:11.359 a voicemail, cusses me out and everything. This sends in 0:19:11.400 --> 0:19:13.399 a long tech so I don't include him and stuff. 0:19:13.520 --> 0:19:15.239 And he's come to expect this from me, And I'm going, 0:19:15.440 --> 0:19:17.680 is he mad about a Reds game? I called him 0:19:18.080 --> 0:19:19.600 and we've done this before. We cussed his other We 0:19:19.640 --> 0:19:22.120 got an argument, cussed him out, he cussed me out. 0:19:22.160 --> 0:19:26.320 I cussed him out. Hung up this bitch. That picture 0:19:26.880 --> 0:19:29.160 of me and the girl he sent it to my ex. Wow, 0:19:29.520 --> 0:19:31.480 then that's how she found out. That's where that all 0:19:31.520 --> 0:19:34.280 came from. Then he posted the picture I sent on 0:19:34.400 --> 0:19:37.080 his Facebook page with the middle finger EMOE in front 0:19:37.080 --> 0:19:39.640 of it. Then he posted a picture of my ex 0:19:39.720 --> 0:19:41.480 wife on his Facebook page and said, I got you 0:19:41.560 --> 0:19:43.840 back to this divorce. You've always been like a daughter 0:19:43.880 --> 0:19:45.760 to me. I respect him. He don't like black people 0:19:45.800 --> 0:19:49.600 to poor black women. Don't like this mugg is a Trump. 0:19:50.440 --> 0:19:52.320 He's a Trump or Sumper. Like I ain't saying he 0:19:52.359 --> 0:19:54.680 was at the Capitol. He's at the monument when they rushed. 0:19:54.880 --> 0:19:56.800 He made a trip. I think he just got cool 0:19:56.840 --> 0:20:01.440 feet the last minute. Who does that? Today's son though 0:20:02.000 --> 0:20:06.000 that you went around though, oh my god, man post 0:20:06.160 --> 0:20:09.480