1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,760 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. 3 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 3: Y'all don't know y'all at all, so. 4 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 4: Don't given them. 5 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 2: Back. 6 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 4: A million bus busy. 7 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 1: Listening to show. 8 00:00:38,600 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 5: I don't Joy, yeah, Joy, you know you love you? 9 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 5: Turn turn. 10 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 6: I got to turn the mouth turn. 11 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 4: Probably got to turn mouth out the water the money, 12 00:01:49,600 --> 00:02:00,080 Speaker 4: look me. Come come on, you'll think. 13 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:05,920 Speaker 7: Aha, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You all listening 14 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:08,080 Speaker 7: to the voice, Come on, dig me now. One and 15 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 7: only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Hell Man back 16 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 7: in business too, Man Man, How good is God? I mean, really, 17 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:20,359 Speaker 7: if you think about it in spite of all that's 18 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 7: going down in your life. 19 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:25,800 Speaker 8: First of all, it could be worse. But secondly, sometimes 20 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 8: you have to remember. And I've just had to have 21 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 8: this conversation with myself this morning. That's how I'm fresh 22 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 8: on this one right here. When a challenge faces you, 23 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 8: are you going through a difficult moment, or you didn't 24 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 8: hit a bump in the road in the middle of that, 25 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:45,919 Speaker 8: If you could manage to be grateful, it would take 26 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 8: you a long way. Gratitude is a powerful resource if 27 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:54,919 Speaker 8: you can be grateful in the middle of it. Gratitude 28 00:02:55,320 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 8: is a powerful resource when it's dim for you and 29 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 8: got a little bumpy on the road, and he ran 30 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 8: into some obstacles. And you done ran up into some 31 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:09,840 Speaker 8: detailed signs, and your journey ain't smooth as it was. 32 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 2: Last week or last year. 33 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 8: You gotta be grateful for the things that are going 34 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:20,839 Speaker 8: right and that have gone right, and for the thing 35 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:22,919 Speaker 8: that's wrong right now to get right? 36 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 9: Man? 37 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:24,720 Speaker 2: Can I share that with you? 38 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 9: Man? 39 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:28,240 Speaker 8: Is that a tough one to learn? It is for me. 40 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 8: It has been one of my toughest challenges is to 41 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 8: learn how to be grateful, because it's a powerful resource, 42 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 8: but how to be grateful in moments of despair when 43 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 8: it ain't going right. See here's a mistake I would make. 44 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 8: See when something go wrong, I want to focus on 45 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 8: the wrong so much in an. 46 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 2: Attempt to fix it. 47 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 8: But even then the focus ain't always in to fix it. 48 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 8: The focus becomes, Man, this is bad, man, I can't 49 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 8: believe this is happening. Why just keep going down? That 50 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 8: doesn't fix anything, you know, mealing over it, going over what's. 51 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 10: Wrong, explaining it, sharing it with your friends, you know, 52 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 10: making it sound worse than it is, tell the story 53 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:20,719 Speaker 10: for pity from other people. All of that right there, 54 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 10: has nothing to do with the fix. Sometimes you're just 55 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:26,600 Speaker 10: mulling over it. You're just making it worse. You're just 56 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:31,159 Speaker 10: making it a bigger problem. You're manifesting it into your atmosphere, 57 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:33,599 Speaker 10: You're putting it out there in your spirit. Now all 58 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 10: of a sudden, it consumes your day. Next thing, you know, 59 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:39,280 Speaker 10: you're having a bad day. If you're having a bad day, 60 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,840 Speaker 10: it's because you've been having some bad thoughts. So what 61 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:44,600 Speaker 10: I've had to learn how to do, and what I'm 62 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:48,359 Speaker 10: working on this morning is I'm working on the situation 63 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 10: that Ben cropped up. I was going kind of smooth 64 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:53,680 Speaker 10: here for a minute, and now then got real bumpy 65 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:56,159 Speaker 10: in the road, you know, and all this here. So 66 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 10: what I'm thinking about now, though, is even though I've 67 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:01,600 Speaker 10: hit a bump in the road, and even though I 68 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:05,600 Speaker 10: done ran into a detour, and even though I've hit 69 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 10: this lull, I'm going down into a valley, I ain't 70 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:10,040 Speaker 10: up on the peak. 71 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:11,159 Speaker 2: Can I not. 72 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 8: Still be grateful for all the things that God has 73 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:18,159 Speaker 8: given me, for all the things He's done for me, 74 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 8: for all the things He's bought me through, And realizing 75 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 8: that even this that's happening to me again is going 76 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 8: to pass to He gonna get me through that too. 77 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:32,000 Speaker 8: Come on, man, God is a good god man. It's 78 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 8: a lot to be grateful for. So while I'm tripping 79 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 8: on this bumping the road out in here, what I 80 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 8: got to remember is all the things He's done for me. 81 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 8: And like I say, my saying is join depression cannot 82 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 8: reside in the same place. So instead of being down 83 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:48,920 Speaker 8: about this new bumping the road, if I'm constantly filling 84 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 8: my mind with the thoughts of how good He's been 85 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 8: to me, of what all he's done for me, of 86 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 8: all the things he's brought me through, of all the 87 00:05:57,160 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 8: blessings he's presented me with, when I go down that, 88 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:04,279 Speaker 8: I really don't have a lot of time to mull 89 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:06,920 Speaker 8: over the situation. 90 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 2: Now. 91 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:09,839 Speaker 8: Do I have to fix this bump in the row? 92 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 8: Of course I do. Are There's some things I'm going 93 00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:15,000 Speaker 8: to have to do to straighten it out, of course 94 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:17,839 Speaker 8: it is. But Steve just going to get the business 95 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:20,360 Speaker 8: of doing it and straighten it out. What you mulling 96 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 8: over and worrying about it for you know. 97 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 2: Old people. 98 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 8: I heard old people say something when I was growing 99 00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:27,039 Speaker 8: up in the church. They say, if you're gonna pray 100 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:29,360 Speaker 8: about it, don't worry about it. But if you're gonna 101 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 8: worry about it, don't pray about it. That's an amazing thing. 102 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:37,359 Speaker 8: And prayer just happens to be my weapon of choice. Now, 103 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 8: it ain't always been that way. I want you to 104 00:06:39,480 --> 00:06:42,359 Speaker 8: understand that my first weapon of choice was you do 105 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 8: it to me, I do it to you. You called 106 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:47,240 Speaker 8: me out, I call you out. You say something bad 107 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:49,480 Speaker 8: about me. I've tried to find you say something bad 108 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 8: about you. That was my weapon in the past. How 109 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 8: did that work out for you, Steve? Not so good? 110 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 8: Because you know what, I spend a lot of time 111 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:04,040 Speaker 8: fighting back, kicking back, swinging back, when I could have 112 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:07,839 Speaker 8: spent all that time climbing. See all you trying to 113 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:09,680 Speaker 8: do at the end of the day, folks, is have 114 00:07:09,760 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 8: a better life than the one you got. All you 115 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 8: trying to do is to improve your position in life. 116 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 8: You know, it's not my business to make sure you 117 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 8: don't get where you're going. I ain't got no time 118 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 8: for that. It's not my job to assure that you 119 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 8: ain't as high as me. I ain't got no time 120 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 8: for that. Your real mission and purpose is to have 121 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:33,440 Speaker 8: the best life that you can have to ascend to 122 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 8: the highest plateau that you can get to to make 123 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 8: your family as comfortable as you can, to provide as 124 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 8: much as you can for your family. 125 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 2: But legally, see, those. 126 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 8: Of us are sitting up here trying to come up 127 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:48,840 Speaker 8: with sideways. You can ask a couple million men sitting 128 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 8: in prison today how they wish they hadn't have done that, 129 00:07:51,920 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 8: and they'll tell you, Oh, man, I wish I never 130 00:07:55,040 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 8: had did it. I knew not to go down there. 131 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:00,800 Speaker 8: Something told me not to go down there. Man, if 132 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:04,080 Speaker 8: I could change things, I would. But they sitting somewhere 133 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 8: doing some time that had they made another decision, they 134 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 8: wouldn't have to do now. That don't make them throw 135 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 8: away people, nah, man, Because everybody make mistakes, and God 136 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 8: is in the forgiving business. And some of us have 137 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 8: done some things that really broke the law, and a 138 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 8: whole lot of other things and deserve to do some time, 139 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 8: But through the grace of God, we didn't. But now 140 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 8: we sit up here we pass judgment on people who 141 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 8: got to do some matter. I don't care. I don't 142 00:08:29,720 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 8: care what you've done. God can forgive anything. But our position, 143 00:08:33,880 --> 00:08:37,200 Speaker 8: our motivation in life is to try to have the 144 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 8: best life we can have and provide for those around 145 00:08:39,880 --> 00:08:43,080 Speaker 8: us and make it comfortable. If that's your ambition, you 146 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 8: don't have time to worry about or concern yourself with 147 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:51,960 Speaker 8: another person. And I wasted time doing that, And that's 148 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:55,200 Speaker 8: not the way to get it done. It's simply mine 149 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 8: to your business. Taking care of you and getting yourself 150 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 8: right and tight is twenty four sais it? 151 00:09:00,400 --> 00:09:01,720 Speaker 2: So that's a full time job. 152 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:04,840 Speaker 8: So what I had to learn was and what I've 153 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 8: the reason I've chosen prayers as my weapon of choice 154 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 8: now is that now prayer helps me that I don't 155 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:16,679 Speaker 8: have to fight back. Now, if I get cornered, I'm 156 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:19,360 Speaker 8: gonna fight you. I ain't even gonna lie to you. 157 00:09:19,720 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 8: And now I'm still working on some things that trigger me. 158 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:27,679 Speaker 8: You know, you know, you know, and and so I'm 159 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:31,960 Speaker 8: I'm slowly getting better at that. But I've learned that 160 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 8: my weapon of choice is prayer now. So when it 161 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 8: happens ugly for me, I pray about it. When it 162 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 8: gets tight and dismal for me, I pray about it. 163 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:48,440 Speaker 8: And the thing about prayer, man, is prayer changes things. Yes, 164 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:53,520 Speaker 8: it does. Now read about it and try it. That's 165 00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 8: the deal. Okay, come on, Prayer is a wonderful weapon. 166 00:09:57,040 --> 00:10:02,320 Speaker 11: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 167 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:06,319 Speaker 8: Ladies and gentlemen, let me have you undivided attention. Another 168 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 8: day is upon us, another opportunity, another blessing. God is good, 169 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 8: always has been, always will be. 170 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 9: You know. 171 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 8: Please please recognize and honor the fact that waking up 172 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 8: is not a giving y'all. It really is a blessing. Man, 173 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 8: It's really special. It really is special to get up 174 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 8: every day. And when you wake up, man, that's the 175 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:31,240 Speaker 8: first thing you should do. Just say God, I really 176 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 8: do appreciate you waking me up this morning. Cool way 177 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:35,719 Speaker 8: to start your day. And then I go down to 178 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:38,280 Speaker 8: everything else. I think it for my health, I think 179 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 8: it for my lifestyle. I think it for my family, 180 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:43,920 Speaker 8: especially thinking for my wife or thinking for all the blessing. 181 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:46,679 Speaker 8: And I'm thinking for everything that he's working on behind 182 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:47,560 Speaker 8: the scenes. 183 00:10:47,240 --> 00:10:50,920 Speaker 2: That I don't know what is going on, and Buddy. 184 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 8: I expect great things to happen. I'm looking for a 185 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:58,480 Speaker 8: blessing today, y'all. Already gave me one. Already gave me one. 186 00:10:58,559 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 8: He woke me up. Once he wakes me up, I 187 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:04,000 Speaker 8: know something good can happen because he ain't through with 188 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 8: me yet and my request list is strong. 189 00:11:07,440 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 2: So let's get it and that's how we do it. 190 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:12,600 Speaker 8: Steve Robert Martinshaw, Shirley Strawberry calling for real Mississippi, Monica 191 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 8: Junior and the legend that is Nephew Tommy Junior. 192 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 2: What's on your mind today? 193 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 11: Man? 194 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 12: Let me let me ask you something you know you've 195 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:24,160 Speaker 12: been You've been rich a long time. 196 00:11:26,160 --> 00:11:27,840 Speaker 1: It changes you know, it changes you. 197 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:30,080 Speaker 12: But do you have a do you have an issue 198 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 12: with regular living? Do you have like regular stuff is 199 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:34,199 Speaker 12: not exciting? 200 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 8: Well, let's talk about two things. First of all, money 201 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:40,120 Speaker 8: does not change you. That's what the one thing. 202 00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:42,079 Speaker 1: After it doesn't Okay. 203 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:44,480 Speaker 8: It doesn't change your Money allows you to be more 204 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:50,000 Speaker 8: of who you really are. If you are a kind person, 205 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:52,400 Speaker 8: when you get a lot of money, you'll be kinder. 206 00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 8: If you're a generous person, when you get money, you'll 207 00:11:55,880 --> 00:11:59,040 Speaker 8: become more generous. If you're a stingy person, when you 208 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:02,719 Speaker 8: get a lot of money, you become extra strategy. If 209 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 8: you're a butthole, when you get a lot of money 210 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:08,160 Speaker 8: you get you. 211 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:09,079 Speaker 2: Graduate to a hole. 212 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:15,400 Speaker 8: Yeah, so when you see people with money, that's Buttholes 213 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:18,559 Speaker 8: is because that's who they really are. Okay, they with 214 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:21,199 Speaker 8: that before, they just needed that money to bring it out. 215 00:12:21,520 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 8: Now the next part of your question, you do I 216 00:12:23,280 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 8: have trouble with regular living? Yeah, pretty much. 217 00:12:28,400 --> 00:12:28,880 Speaker 2: Pretty much? 218 00:12:28,960 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 1: What regular to you? 219 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:32,440 Speaker 2: I don't know like y'all. 220 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:34,600 Speaker 8: Y'all would have to ask me, because it's a lot. 221 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 8: I fire man could be a little bit out of 222 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:40,400 Speaker 8: touch with stuff like I ain't been to the gas station, 223 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 8: the grocery store and stuff like that, so I'm kind. 224 00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:47,000 Speaker 1: Of you're out of touch or going to the grocery store. 225 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:49,400 Speaker 2: It ain't no regular trip When I go to the 226 00:12:49,440 --> 00:12:50,160 Speaker 2: grocery store. 227 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:53,600 Speaker 1: You ain't gotta worry about it all the time. 228 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:55,640 Speaker 8: I go grocery store. I got problem. I gotta take 229 00:12:55,720 --> 00:12:57,839 Speaker 8: pictures down in the grocery store. I don't know what 230 00:12:58,080 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 8: nothing that in grocery store no more. I don't know 231 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:02,800 Speaker 8: where they keep the bread? I mean in there? 232 00:13:02,920 --> 00:13:03,560 Speaker 1: Just lost? 233 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 11: Do they know? 234 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:06,400 Speaker 1: I know they know you Steve? What do they do 235 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 1: with you? 236 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 13: Man? 237 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:08,800 Speaker 1: And I got mobbed. 238 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:12,959 Speaker 8: The only store I go to consistently is Bass Pro Shop. 239 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 8: That's the only store I go to consistently. And I 240 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:18,200 Speaker 8: know what's gonna happen when I get in. But when 241 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 8: I get in the fishing section, there's all these men 242 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:23,480 Speaker 8: in here that fishing. We exchange ideas, then when they 243 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:25,080 Speaker 8: find out who I am, they get excited. 244 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:25,960 Speaker 2: I gotta take a picture. 245 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:28,559 Speaker 8: But vans Pro is usually good people because they're in 246 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:31,199 Speaker 8: there for the same thing we trying to read these packages. 247 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:36,600 Speaker 11: All right, thanks, guys, coming up at thirty two minutes 248 00:13:36,679 --> 00:13:38,240 Speaker 11: after the hour, I ain't. 249 00:13:38,040 --> 00:13:40,440 Speaker 2: Gonna get no fbnb. I'll tell you that. 250 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 1: For the right now as we run that prank back 251 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:45,280 Speaker 1: right after this. 252 00:13:45,880 --> 00:13:51,440 Speaker 11: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 253 00:13:52,640 --> 00:13:55,280 Speaker 2: Do you think astronauts fight over elbow room? 254 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:59,440 Speaker 8: Probably because the dvanced tech doesn't always mean more space. 255 00:13:59,640 --> 00:14:03,679 Speaker 8: Until now introduce it the Hondai Ionic nine, a three 256 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:07,680 Speaker 8: row electric suv with over three hundred miles of range, 257 00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:10,959 Speaker 8: ultra fast charging capability, and lots of space. 258 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:14,240 Speaker 13: The all new Hondai Ionic nine face in an EV. 259 00:14:14,480 --> 00:14:17,760 Speaker 13: Visit Hondai USA dot com for more details. 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Jor, 264 00:14:32,920 --> 00:14:34,120 Speaker 11: you're gonna run that prank back. 265 00:14:34,160 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 12: What you got the prank today is problem at the valet? 266 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:39,720 Speaker 2: Yeah you have it. 267 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 12: You have a park and had a problem with the valet. 268 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:45,000 Speaker 12: Well I have So here we go cat problem at 269 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:45,520 Speaker 12: the valet. 270 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:47,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 271 00:14:47,120 --> 00:14:49,400 Speaker 14: Hello, hey, hold on, go hey Tommy? 272 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:51,480 Speaker 9: How's it going? Hey man, what's going on? You're doing 273 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 9: all right? 274 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:53,120 Speaker 14: I'm doing good, doing good? 275 00:14:53,560 --> 00:14:54,000 Speaker 2: What's up? 276 00:14:54,120 --> 00:14:56,160 Speaker 9: Hey? Listen, I need you to do something for me. 277 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:59,400 Speaker 9: Do you need your your your car details? 278 00:14:59,640 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 14: No? 279 00:14:59,800 --> 00:15:02,240 Speaker 9: No, no, no, no, no no not this. Wait listen, I got something 280 00:15:02,240 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 9: I want you to do for me. I'm doing a 281 00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 9: plank phone call and I want you to call this 282 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 9: guy and tell him you're the valet downstairs, ask him 283 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 9: for his ticket number, and tell him, hey, we got 284 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 9: a little bit of an issue. But my manager's going 285 00:15:14,040 --> 00:15:15,360 Speaker 9: to call you back. Uh. 286 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:17,240 Speaker 15: Are you sure you want me to do it? 287 00:15:17,520 --> 00:15:20,200 Speaker 9: You're the valet guy. That's all you gotta do, all right? 288 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:23,320 Speaker 14: What does the Megican guy gotta be at the valet guy? 289 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 14: And you get to be the Manager's up with that? 290 00:15:25,800 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 9: Just I'll put that click over, make the call. All 291 00:15:28,680 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 9: I want you to do is just tell him you 292 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:32,080 Speaker 9: you're the valet guy. Will you do that for me? 293 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 9: All right? Man? I got you? 294 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:34,200 Speaker 2: All right? 295 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:37,560 Speaker 9: All right, all right, hang on, just hang on Hello. 296 00:15:38,320 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 2: Hello? 297 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:39,640 Speaker 14: Is this mister Franklin? 298 00:15:40,160 --> 00:15:41,480 Speaker 9: Yes calling? 299 00:15:41,920 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 14: Oh yes, I'm I'm Orlando with Ballet. Did you park 300 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:47,880 Speaker 14: a lectus with us about thirty minutes ago? 301 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:48,720 Speaker 2: Yeah? 302 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:49,480 Speaker 9: I did. 303 00:15:49,680 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 1: What's what's going on? 304 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 9: What's just about? 305 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:53,920 Speaker 14: I'm just gonna need your ticket number real quick. There's 306 00:15:53,960 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 14: a small issue and I want to be at the 307 00:15:56,400 --> 00:15:56,960 Speaker 14: ticket number. 308 00:15:57,360 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 15: I could have a manager just call you back five 309 00:16:00,640 --> 00:16:03,040 Speaker 15: three four six. But why do you Why do you 310 00:16:03,160 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 15: need my ticket number? Is there something wrong with my car? 311 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:08,000 Speaker 14: If something happens, my manager will call you back and 312 00:16:08,080 --> 00:16:09,160 Speaker 14: you'll give you all the details. 313 00:16:09,640 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 15: Oh okay, so so something did happen to my car? 314 00:16:14,440 --> 00:16:16,920 Speaker 14: Once I give him my manager your ticket number, he'll 315 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 14: call you back shortly and he'll tell you everything. 316 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:21,640 Speaker 15: Okay, Well, can you have him give me a call 317 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:23,680 Speaker 15: as soon as possible because I would like to know 318 00:16:23,960 --> 00:16:26,880 Speaker 15: what happened to my car if something happens. This is 319 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:29,320 Speaker 15: I don't I don't really understand what's going on here. 320 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:32,440 Speaker 14: I'm sorry I have to go, but you can't tell. 321 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:34,160 Speaker 15: Me anything else before you leave. I mean, there's no 322 00:16:34,240 --> 00:16:35,840 Speaker 15: details that you can give me, a boy, anything. 323 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 16: With my car. 324 00:16:36,640 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 14: Like I said, my manager won't handle it. I have 325 00:16:39,040 --> 00:16:39,720 Speaker 14: to keep going. 326 00:16:41,840 --> 00:16:44,560 Speaker 9: Hard for Orlando. That's perfect. I got it from you, up, bro, 327 00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 9: I appreciate it. Let's call him back. 328 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:48,120 Speaker 15: Hello. 329 00:16:48,680 --> 00:16:50,680 Speaker 9: Hello, Is this is this mister Franklin? 330 00:16:51,160 --> 00:16:51,360 Speaker 13: Yeah? 331 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 15: This is he can ask his calling. 332 00:16:53,200 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 9: This is tough man. I'm the manager down at the vallet. 333 00:16:56,360 --> 00:16:58,480 Speaker 15: Oh great, thank you. I've been waiting to hear from you. 334 00:16:58,560 --> 00:17:01,280 Speaker 9: Oh my god, thirty minutes to go. You you pulled 335 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 9: in with a they're telling me a silver or a 336 00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 9: light great lexus? 337 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:07,800 Speaker 15: Yeah, that's that's yeah, that's my car. What what's going 338 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:08,520 Speaker 15: on with my car here? 339 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:11,280 Speaker 9: Okay? And what's your numbers? It? Five three, four six? 340 00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:14,080 Speaker 15: Yeah, that's that's my number. I mean, I already went 341 00:17:14,080 --> 00:17:15,440 Speaker 15: through this with the other guy. Can you just tell 342 00:17:15,520 --> 00:17:17,040 Speaker 15: me what the hell is going on with my car? 343 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:17,640 Speaker 2: Okay? 344 00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:19,439 Speaker 9: Are you able to come downstairs right now? 345 00:17:19,960 --> 00:17:20,000 Speaker 3: No? 346 00:17:20,320 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 17: I can't. 347 00:17:20,920 --> 00:17:23,040 Speaker 15: I valate over there. I'm at a I'm at a 348 00:17:23,440 --> 00:17:26,239 Speaker 15: lunch with a client somewhere else. I'm not there right now? 349 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:27,760 Speaker 15: Why do I need to come down right now? 350 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:29,639 Speaker 16: He just what is happening? 351 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:33,159 Speaker 9: Okay? So here's the deal, sir. We have a we 352 00:17:33,359 --> 00:17:37,119 Speaker 9: have a one of the valet workers here have gotten 353 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:41,000 Speaker 9: that and he left, he quit the job, and he's 354 00:17:41,320 --> 00:17:44,359 Speaker 9: he's gone, he's left the premise. The problem we're having 355 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:46,960 Speaker 9: right now is we don't see. 356 00:17:46,840 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 16: Your car, you know, and you don't see what do 357 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:50,200 Speaker 16: you what? 358 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:50,840 Speaker 17: I'm sorry? 359 00:17:50,960 --> 00:17:51,000 Speaker 9: What? 360 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:55,240 Speaker 17: Well, I'm okay, okay, okay, wow, all right, so my 361 00:17:55,359 --> 00:17:56,080 Speaker 17: car is gone? 362 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:57,200 Speaker 14: My car is gone? 363 00:17:57,280 --> 00:17:58,199 Speaker 9: Is that what you're telling me right now? 364 00:17:58,320 --> 00:18:01,440 Speaker 14: Somebody walk comes to want to work my car? 365 00:18:01,920 --> 00:18:04,959 Speaker 9: Well, well, well we're looking on every flour and we're 366 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:08,000 Speaker 9: trying to figure out if it got parked somewhere else. 367 00:18:08,080 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 9: But he's gone and we're we're that's why we called 368 00:18:10,840 --> 00:18:12,880 Speaker 9: to get your number on the car somewhere else. 369 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:14,399 Speaker 17: Man, what the do you mean? 370 00:18:14,560 --> 00:18:16,239 Speaker 15: Do I have a car or not? That my car? 371 00:18:16,400 --> 00:18:18,520 Speaker 9: Just so with honey force do you have I wanted 372 00:18:18,560 --> 00:18:19,040 Speaker 9: to say. 373 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:22,160 Speaker 16: I just bought that car. That is a brand new car. 374 00:18:22,280 --> 00:18:23,000 Speaker 14: And now it's just. 375 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:25,200 Speaker 9: Man, are you kidding me? Right now? Well hold on, 376 00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:28,120 Speaker 9: hold on, I understand, I understand. Let me ask you something. 377 00:18:28,640 --> 00:18:31,280 Speaker 16: Is there a way? Is there a way? 378 00:18:31,359 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 9: Maybe you can come by tomorrow and we can try 379 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:34,960 Speaker 9: to work some now and just see it. 380 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:38,440 Speaker 17: You know, No, there is no way I'm coming by 381 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 17: tomorrow for a call us. 382 00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:40,720 Speaker 9: This is today. 383 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:43,000 Speaker 15: First of all, we need to get the police involved 384 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:43,159 Speaker 15: in this. 385 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:49,920 Speaker 9: Police right now, mister Frank, we don't want to get 386 00:18:50,359 --> 00:18:52,760 Speaker 9: the police involved in this week, Willie. 387 00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:53,680 Speaker 2: Who is we? 388 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:55,720 Speaker 17: Because I'm sure where to get the police involved. 389 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:58,720 Speaker 9: So who is I'm just saying, I'm listen, I don't 390 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:00,800 Speaker 9: want to lose my job because we lost the car. 391 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:02,960 Speaker 9: If you just give me some time to find a car, 392 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:04,760 Speaker 9: That's all I want you to do, is give me 393 00:19:04,840 --> 00:19:06,680 Speaker 9: some time. Let me go by this guy's house where 394 00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:08,280 Speaker 9: he lives and see if the car is there. 395 00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:12,760 Speaker 17: You should already be in a car driving. Don't ask 396 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:15,400 Speaker 17: to this man's house talking to me right now, Okay. 397 00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:17,640 Speaker 17: The fact that you're not there, it's not practice. I'm 398 00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:20,639 Speaker 17: calling the police. I'm sewing the building on, I'm sewing 399 00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 17: the manager, I'm seeing the who made the valet box. 400 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:26,360 Speaker 17: I'm sure what everybody affiliated with your business. You under 401 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:29,000 Speaker 17: stand me right now, okaying, But that's a fank. 402 00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:31,360 Speaker 9: Listen, why Why are you? Why are you gonna sit 403 00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:33,880 Speaker 9: with me? I didn't do nothing, I didn't take the car. 404 00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 17: Are you responsible for this parking lot? 405 00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:38,639 Speaker 16: Are you a manager? 406 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:39,560 Speaker 9: What's your occupy? 407 00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:41,679 Speaker 8: The manager? 408 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:46,080 Speaker 9: I'm the manager here, and Orlando called you earlier, okay, 409 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 9: and we're trying to find out where the car is. 410 00:19:48,920 --> 00:19:50,679 Speaker 17: We I really feel like if you don't even want 411 00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:53,280 Speaker 17: the police involved, man, you're not trying to finch trying 412 00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:53,840 Speaker 17: to come again. 413 00:19:53,960 --> 00:19:54,399 Speaker 15: It's right now. 414 00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:57,080 Speaker 17: I'm mad at Orlando, I'm mad at you, I'm mad 415 00:19:57,119 --> 00:19:57,800 Speaker 17: at your company. 416 00:19:57,920 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 9: I'm at the man. 417 00:19:58,600 --> 00:20:00,760 Speaker 17: Who put this asphalt down in the parking line. I'm 418 00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:03,520 Speaker 17: not at everybody right now. Okay, Cliff, Okay. 419 00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:05,480 Speaker 9: Okay, okay, we can down, Okay, but let me ask 420 00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:06,399 Speaker 9: you this are you? 421 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:06,760 Speaker 8: Are you? 422 00:20:06,960 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 9: Are you mad at Are you mad at your wife? 423 00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:12,000 Speaker 18: What is not of my wife? 424 00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:13,160 Speaker 16: But what does still a car? 425 00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:14,679 Speaker 14: That's your wife name, Carrie? 426 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:16,320 Speaker 16: How the hell do you know my wife's name? 427 00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:18,760 Speaker 9: You know how I know your wife's name because your 428 00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:21,200 Speaker 9: wife got me to call you. This is nephew Tommy 429 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:28,080 Speaker 9: from the Steve Harby More. Frankly, you just gonna play 430 00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:31,160 Speaker 9: by everybody us. 431 00:20:31,359 --> 00:20:32,720 Speaker 17: Oh boy, we're going to marriage counsel. 432 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:39,320 Speaker 9: This This is y'all. You have this boy, she said, 433 00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:42,960 Speaker 9: he just bought this car. He loves this car outside, 434 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:44,800 Speaker 9: sitting in it when he ain't going nowhere. 435 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:46,760 Speaker 14: I can't believe anyone. 436 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:48,920 Speaker 15: It's always it's always the closest people. 437 00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:50,639 Speaker 9: It's all aye. I tell you what I tell you. 438 00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:52,159 Speaker 17: Who is not getting to ride this car for a 439 00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:52,680 Speaker 17: long time? 440 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:53,080 Speaker 2: You know what. 441 00:20:56,760 --> 00:20:58,800 Speaker 9: Hey man, I mean is what is the baddest that 442 00:20:58,840 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 9: I'm talking about? The baddest radio show in the land. 443 00:21:02,680 --> 00:21:04,600 Speaker 15: It's the Steve Harvey Morton. 444 00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:15,600 Speaker 1: There you go, sure, problem at the vallet. You're like, yeah, 445 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:17,280 Speaker 1: he's what do you do? 446 00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:17,960 Speaker 15: What do you do? 447 00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:23,119 Speaker 2: Next hour? You know it's you know, it's you know, 448 00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:24,440 Speaker 2: last year the Game of the Glove. 449 00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:25,159 Speaker 1: That's next year. 450 00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:29,960 Speaker 11: All right, thank you Junior as Tommy and in for 451 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:32,680 Speaker 11: Tommy coming up next as the CELO D Chief Love 452 00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:34,159 Speaker 11: Officer Steve Harvey in the building. 453 00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:37,720 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 454 00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:45,280 Speaker 3: This broadcast is sponsored by PayPal. I want to take 455 00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:47,520 Speaker 3: a second to talk to you about something I think 456 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:50,960 Speaker 3: it's pretty cool. PayPal lets you pay your own way 457 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:55,240 Speaker 3: with just a click. 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We got you, We got you. 467 00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:26,120 Speaker 1: That's all coming up at the top of the hour. 468 00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:29,360 Speaker 11: But right now it is time to ask the CLO 469 00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:33,000 Speaker 11: our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This is from AMR 470 00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:37,160 Speaker 11: in Pensacola, a mere rights. My youngest sister is twenty two, 471 00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:39,960 Speaker 11: and I found out that my forty year old friend 472 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:43,480 Speaker 11: has been out with her a few times. I told 473 00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:46,320 Speaker 11: him I didn't appreciate it, and he told my sister. 474 00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:49,600 Speaker 11: She called and went off on me. I hate that 475 00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:53,000 Speaker 11: she's mad at me. Should I mind my business? 476 00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:57,560 Speaker 8: You should mind your own business, but she is your business? 477 00:22:58,040 --> 00:22:58,200 Speaker 9: Yeah? 478 00:22:58,240 --> 00:22:58,680 Speaker 1: Interesting? 479 00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:01,280 Speaker 8: And if you know and official sister, and if you 480 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:05,600 Speaker 8: know something about this man that she don't know, which 481 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:09,320 Speaker 8: is probably one of your problems, and she just gonna 482 00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 8: have to be mad. See if I know you ain't 483 00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:16,359 Speaker 8: about nothing, and you after my sister or my daughter, 484 00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:18,760 Speaker 8: I'm gonna have something to say about it. 485 00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:22,280 Speaker 2: I'm push this side. Yeah yeah, but I'm not gonna 486 00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:24,440 Speaker 2: let it go. I'm just not gonna do that. I 487 00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:26,320 Speaker 2: have never done and I never will. 488 00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:32,920 Speaker 1: Okay, So yeah, yeah, I love it. His sister is 489 00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:36,280 Speaker 1: your business. Your sister is your business, like you said, Colo, 490 00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:38,720 Speaker 1: all right. Moving on to Felicia, I mean she could 491 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:41,000 Speaker 1: be mad at me. I'm gonna say, look, Sis, I'm 492 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:43,159 Speaker 1: just doing this because I know him. Now you know 493 00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:45,720 Speaker 1: what you want to do because you're grown. But I 494 00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:48,280 Speaker 1: know him. She's twenty two, he's forty. 495 00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:51,080 Speaker 2: Come on them. Yeah, all right. 496 00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:55,120 Speaker 11: Moving on to Felicia and Newark. Felicia writes, I haven't 497 00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:57,560 Speaker 11: seen one of my old friends in years, and I 498 00:23:57,720 --> 00:24:01,400 Speaker 11: ran into her recently. She was acting funny and said 499 00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:03,320 Speaker 11: she can see I'm a superstar. 500 00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:03,679 Speaker 14: Now. 501 00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:06,760 Speaker 11: Yes, I have a great job and a nice car. 502 00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:10,879 Speaker 11: What do some friends hate on you instead of celebrating you? 503 00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:11,480 Speaker 9: Why? 504 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:12,639 Speaker 2: Okay? 505 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:20,440 Speaker 8: Because and and and let me tell you something, some 506 00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:24,520 Speaker 8: people that's from your past need to stay right there. Yes, 507 00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:28,920 Speaker 8: that part, and people who can see that you're doing 508 00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:31,720 Speaker 8: better and are envious of it and say that to 509 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:35,520 Speaker 8: you right now, that's okay, Hey, God bless you. I'm 510 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:38,360 Speaker 8: gonna pray for you, hope all is well, and never 511 00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:42,480 Speaker 8: look back. I get that all the time. You thank 512 00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:44,600 Speaker 8: you something now. No, I don't think nothing is You 513 00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:45,760 Speaker 8: think I'm something? 514 00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:46,160 Speaker 11: Yeah? 515 00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:49,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I came up to you and spoke, my man, 516 00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:50,399 Speaker 2: what's going on? 517 00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:55,080 Speaker 1: Okay, we're out the gate with the hate. 518 00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:59,399 Speaker 8: Hey man, you don't even come to Cleveland no more. Bro, 519 00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:04,159 Speaker 8: I'm busy. They don't tape shows in Cleveland. I don't No, 520 00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:07,320 Speaker 8: I don't make it. So how come you don't never come? 521 00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:09,040 Speaker 8: I had to tell this one due, I said, Look, man, 522 00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:11,720 Speaker 8: going to Cleven's a little bit hard for me. Yeah, 523 00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:14,440 Speaker 8: because every time I go to Cleveland somebody out. I 524 00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:19,000 Speaker 8: buried somebody and said everybody I love, a lot of 525 00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:20,800 Speaker 8: people I love is gone. And the people that I 526 00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:23,320 Speaker 8: do love in Cleveland, they I've sent for them. 527 00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:29,200 Speaker 1: Right there, you go, all right, I think you explained 528 00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:29,960 Speaker 1: that quite well. 529 00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:30,520 Speaker 2: Colo. 530 00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:35,560 Speaker 11: Moving on to Tunisia in Atlanta, Tanisia writes, I'm thirty 531 00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:38,639 Speaker 11: eight and I just had my breath and. 532 00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:41,080 Speaker 1: My butt done. 533 00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:46,440 Speaker 11: Come on, girl, my husband paid for it and I 534 00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:49,560 Speaker 11: wanted to do the surgery because he cheated on me. 535 00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 11: I'm still healing and he has started staying out all 536 00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:57,639 Speaker 11: night again. Should I take my new butt and find 537 00:25:57,680 --> 00:25:58,439 Speaker 11: a new man. 538 00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:09,080 Speaker 8: Put the booty on somebody. Well, I would put this 539 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 8: new meat to good use. Listen, I know you healing 540 00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 8: and everything, and you try to do that because he cheated. Yeah, 541 00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:23,520 Speaker 8: but you getting your body together might not be the 542 00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:27,440 Speaker 8: cause of it. He could just be going through it 543 00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:30,800 Speaker 8: and that's what he is right now. Now, you can 544 00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 8: cheat and get your life together. I want women to 545 00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:37,200 Speaker 8: stop thinking that once a cheater, always a CHEATERA That's 546 00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:40,240 Speaker 8: not true. It doesn't work that way. Men get to 547 00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:42,480 Speaker 8: get it together and make a lot of mistakes and 548 00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:45,600 Speaker 8: can get it together and become a better person. So 549 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:51,200 Speaker 8: that's not always the case. And he's out now, Why 550 00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:55,640 Speaker 8: you healing staying out all night? When a man stay 551 00:26:55,680 --> 00:27:00,880 Speaker 8: out all night, I can't help him. I can't help you, dog, 552 00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:04,600 Speaker 8: because there's nothing out there all night. 553 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:05,280 Speaker 2: But trouble. 554 00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:09,480 Speaker 8: Once you stay out all night is trouble. You have 555 00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:15,920 Speaker 8: got You've got to go home. It's only a way. 556 00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:19,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, you have to fix this. You've got to go home. 557 00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:22,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right, that's right. 558 00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:25,200 Speaker 2: Do you understand that's the most important lesson I learned 559 00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:31,639 Speaker 2: in my life. To go home, Go home, frum and 560 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,399 Speaker 2: if you got a cool one to go to, that's 561 00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:35,160 Speaker 2: what you want. 562 00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:37,440 Speaker 14: Now. 563 00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:39,800 Speaker 8: Now, if it's trouble at the house, ain't nobody gonna 564 00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:42,760 Speaker 8: keep driving up to that because they're sitting out in 565 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:44,920 Speaker 8: the driveway looking at the door, not wanting to go 566 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:45,600 Speaker 8: in your house. 567 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:47,000 Speaker 2: That ain't where you want to be. 568 00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:53,159 Speaker 11: And women, Steve, women have to stop doing things for 569 00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:57,600 Speaker 11: other people, like getting classic surgery, you know, for her husband. 570 00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:00,720 Speaker 11: If you want plastic surgery, get it for yourself, not 571 00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:02,480 Speaker 11: because you're trying to keep your manner. 572 00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:05,720 Speaker 8: In the words of the late Great Frankie Beverly, maids, 573 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:08,120 Speaker 8: do it for yourself. 574 00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:10,280 Speaker 2: Joy and pain. 575 00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:14,360 Speaker 1: Come on now, sunshine, yeah. 576 00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:18,320 Speaker 8: And a ray, do it for yourself. Just do it, 577 00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:27,719 Speaker 8: do it for yourself. Listen and follow your instincts, I mean, 578 00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:30,560 Speaker 8: and your intuition. Women have a built in thing that 579 00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:33,960 Speaker 8: God provided you would call intuition is to protect you 580 00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:38,200 Speaker 8: from the predatory hunter that we are as men. If 581 00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:44,240 Speaker 8: you if your intuition tells you something, it's probably true. Yeah, 582 00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:47,600 Speaker 8: because you have that, because how many times have you 583 00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:50,880 Speaker 8: stopped seeing the guy went, I knew he wasn't no good. 584 00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:54,600 Speaker 2: Well, when you knew it, you should have stopped. 585 00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:56,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, right, that's right. 586 00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:59,760 Speaker 8: They don't need to fighting that intuition because it's real. 587 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:03,400 Speaker 8: Wish I had. I wish I had that thing women have, 588 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:07,680 Speaker 8: man called intuition. I could save myself a. 589 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:13,880 Speaker 1: Whole lot of pains we be knowing well and this poor. 590 00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:16,880 Speaker 3: Woman that had classic for this man and he still 591 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:21,200 Speaker 3: needs to kill the women he said, yeah, come. 592 00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:26,040 Speaker 1: On, yeah. But this is from Johnson and Tulsa. Last one. 593 00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:29,640 Speaker 11: Steve Johnson writes, my wife had started wearing short shorts 594 00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:32,680 Speaker 11: and I love it. I love it, but it bothers 595 00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:35,720 Speaker 11: our sons, who are ages eighteen and twenty. I told 596 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:38,640 Speaker 11: them to talk to her if it really bothers them. 597 00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:42,080 Speaker 11: And they think I should talk to her. Should I 598 00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:46,080 Speaker 11: entertain the boys or tell them to leave their mom alone? 599 00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:51,800 Speaker 8: Well, you know, man, listen, sure some stuff is age appropriate. 600 00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:55,960 Speaker 8: This is the first woman that the boys have ever loved, 601 00:29:57,400 --> 00:30:00,040 Speaker 8: and they see her as her mother. They don't I 602 00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:03,400 Speaker 8: want to see her as a Huci MoMA. You're enjoying 603 00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:05,720 Speaker 8: the Uchi mama stuff because it looks great to you. 604 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:10,400 Speaker 8: She just shouldn't dress that way around her children, her sons. 605 00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:12,880 Speaker 8: And then y'all can go out and wear whatever you 606 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,200 Speaker 8: want to wear. But it is only your job to 607 00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:17,800 Speaker 8: talk to them, not the boys. And that's why they 608 00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:20,760 Speaker 8: came to you. I try to be the father what 609 00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:22,760 Speaker 8: they say, let me call my day. 610 00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:23,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I got it. 611 00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:26,880 Speaker 1: I like that today from you. Okay, all right, thank you. Colo. 612 00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:28,680 Speaker 11: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have 613 00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:32,520 Speaker 11: some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening 614 00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:40,680 Speaker 11: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Todd Christly from the chrisly Knows 615 00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:44,000 Speaker 11: Best reality show was part in last week by President Trump, 616 00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:48,800 Speaker 11: and so is tod wife Julie. Afters release, he did 617 00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:51,160 Speaker 11: a press conference in Nashville where he spoke on the 618 00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:55,240 Speaker 11: racial equality inequality that exists in the prison system. 619 00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:56,880 Speaker 1: Take a listen being. 620 00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:57,719 Speaker 2: In the prison system. 621 00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:00,840 Speaker 4: Anyone that says that it's fair, shake. 622 00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:00,960 Speaker 2: It's not. 623 00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:04,560 Speaker 18: Because I dealt with young African American males in the 624 00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:06,920 Speaker 18: prison that I was in that were not treated the same. 625 00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:11,720 Speaker 18: They were denied programming, they were denied access to certain things. 626 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:14,520 Speaker 18: I was not denied that, but we know why I 627 00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:16,920 Speaker 18: wasn't denied that, And so I think that that is 628 00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:20,240 Speaker 18: a much bigger picture that we all as a society as. 629 00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:21,920 Speaker 1: A whole need to look at. 630 00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:26,080 Speaker 18: That we are one and whether you're a Republican, Democrat 631 00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:27,720 Speaker 18: or whatever, at the end of the day, when you're 632 00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:30,080 Speaker 18: in that hospital, you don't care if it's a Democrat 633 00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:32,600 Speaker 18: treating you or Republican. Now some of you may, but 634 00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:35,320 Speaker 18: I want whoever's going to be the best person to 635 00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:35,680 Speaker 18: do that. 636 00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:37,400 Speaker 2: Wow, we know that. 637 00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:42,000 Speaker 8: Yeah, you know, there could be some good come at 638 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:45,280 Speaker 8: this now. You know, I know people, well how Trump 639 00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:49,160 Speaker 8: pardoned him, Well he out, you know, he wasn't in 640 00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:52,400 Speaker 8: for murder, physical things against other human being. 641 00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:52,880 Speaker 2: He's out. 642 00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:55,680 Speaker 8: I happen to like him as a person. We've always 643 00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:57,680 Speaker 8: gotten a long, dumb and show. So I thought he's 644 00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:00,320 Speaker 8: a nice guy. But what he said just now, it 645 00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:03,840 Speaker 8: could begin to move the needle. Because the lady that 646 00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:07,240 Speaker 8: Trump pardoned because of Kim Kardashian. 647 00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:08,320 Speaker 1: Alice Alice Johnson. 648 00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:12,640 Speaker 8: Yeah, who works in that department now, who looks at 649 00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:16,080 Speaker 8: these cases, can bring about some special light on this. 650 00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:19,720 Speaker 8: So you know, while I know the majority of people 651 00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:24,160 Speaker 8: are hating on Trump. We have to find some lining 652 00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:27,600 Speaker 8: in this that some good can come out. And his 653 00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:30,600 Speaker 8: pardoning him and getting him out here to say that, 654 00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:32,719 Speaker 8: and then he said him and is what he's going 655 00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:36,080 Speaker 8: to be an advocate to help people who are in 656 00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:37,000 Speaker 8: the system like that. 657 00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:40,840 Speaker 2: So this could be a blessing in this guy, right. Yeah. 658 00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:44,320 Speaker 3: Alice Marie Johnson, she's a reform advocate herself. 659 00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:46,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's a lar now. 660 00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:49,479 Speaker 11: She was named as the prisons are all right then 661 00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:52,680 Speaker 11: since Todd and Julie were pardon Since there, there has 662 00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:55,880 Speaker 11: been an outpouring of supportive and loyal fans of chrisly 663 00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:59,280 Speaker 11: Knows Best who want them to return to reality TV. 664 00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:02,840 Speaker 11: Todd and Jew's daughter Savannah has confirmed that they're already 665 00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:06,360 Speaker 11: filming a new reality show that will include footage of Todd. 666 00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:09,960 Speaker 1: And Julie's releases from prison. So there you go, back 667 00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:13,000 Speaker 1: to work. So moving on. This was the best thing 668 00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:15,479 Speaker 1: on IG over the weekend. I'm sure you guys all 669 00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:15,880 Speaker 1: saw it. 670 00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:20,040 Speaker 11: The videos from Johnny Gill's Memorial Day cookout slash birthday 671 00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:23,080 Speaker 11: party popped up all over social media. 672 00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:26,000 Speaker 1: I loved it. He could not stop talking about how 673 00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:27,840 Speaker 1: much fun everyone was having. 674 00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:31,800 Speaker 11: I was a star studded outdoor, old school type of party. 675 00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:36,200 Speaker 11: Flex Alexander was a DJ, and Johnny Gill, Shanie, Jeffrey 676 00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:41,320 Speaker 11: oz Bourne and Kenny Latimore all took turns singing throughout 677 00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:44,200 Speaker 11: the party. Anthony Anderson was there, of course, Judge Greg 678 00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:45,479 Speaker 11: Mathis got some moves. 679 00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:46,960 Speaker 1: You saw Greg, Judge. 680 00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:50,600 Speaker 11: Matthis, Cedric the entertainer, Steve was there and even Stevie Wonder. 681 00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:53,840 Speaker 11: Did you guys see Stevie Wonder sitting there? It looked 682 00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:55,480 Speaker 11: like the most fun ever? 683 00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:56,760 Speaker 1: Did you see it, Steve? 684 00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:00,479 Speaker 2: I just saw a couple of clips. I didn't know who. 685 00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:02,680 Speaker 8: I didn't know it was Johnny Gill's party, though I 686 00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:06,400 Speaker 8: saw Jeffrey Osbore singing, and I saw Kenny Lattimore in 687 00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:06,880 Speaker 8: the video. 688 00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:09,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought it was a Magic's party. 689 00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:12,800 Speaker 9: It was. 690 00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:15,200 Speaker 1: It looked like so much fun though. I wanted to 691 00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:19,480 Speaker 1: be at that one. Yeah, Anthony, nice clean party, the 692 00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:21,800 Speaker 1: old school school. 693 00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:23,960 Speaker 4: Anthony Anderson, I saw him. 694 00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:27,239 Speaker 2: You saw that at a certain time, did you did 695 00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:27,640 Speaker 2: you see that? 696 00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:27,880 Speaker 9: Did? 697 00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:30,640 Speaker 3: Nobody got kicked out by the hole. So you referring 698 00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:35,040 Speaker 3: to you about when he throw a party. We'd be 699 00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:37,879 Speaker 3: playing cards and then we'd be like all right, there 700 00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:38,920 Speaker 3: he got some foil. 701 00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:42,000 Speaker 1: Yeah home, but. 702 00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:47,960 Speaker 2: Like we just we call all right, look at the time. No, no, no, 703 00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:50,160 Speaker 2: you've played cards. 704 00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:55,040 Speaker 1: Why don't you do it again? Why don't you do 705 00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:57,359 Speaker 1: it again? Throw a party for us and we can 706 00:34:57,440 --> 00:34:57,920 Speaker 1: hang out. 707 00:34:58,560 --> 00:34:59,960 Speaker 2: Why don't you all go to Johnny Gear? 708 00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:02,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, I think we should. 709 00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:05,040 Speaker 1: Great suggestion. 710 00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:11,680 Speaker 2: Steve already set up his nice people. Now would you 711 00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:12,719 Speaker 2: really hand people for you? 712 00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:16,200 Speaker 1: You would hand people for you and their coats. 713 00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:20,040 Speaker 8: You know, cause you know they taken out. That's it's 714 00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:22,759 Speaker 8: New York man. You gotta get your food wrapped up. 715 00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:27,000 Speaker 8: So if I hand you some fall in your coat, 716 00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:29,799 Speaker 8: that's pretty much a good sign we need to be doing. 717 00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:32,839 Speaker 2: But this, though, you need to put both of them 718 00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:33,560 Speaker 2: on something. 719 00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:43,560 Speaker 11: But it was so much fun though, Oh my god, 720 00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:47,000 Speaker 11: Johnny gil still has his moves. He was singing, and 721 00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:51,880 Speaker 11: Jeffrey Osborne's voice is still golden when he sang Love Ballad. 722 00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:55,040 Speaker 11: It was it was really good. I wish I was 723 00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:58,120 Speaker 11: at that party that looked like a fun, fun party. 724 00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:03,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, ye all drama, you know none of that. 725 00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:07,040 Speaker 1: It wasn't a freak off. It's just a birthday party. 726 00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:17,640 Speaker 2: Nobody, lot of people coming in and let they had 727 00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:18,680 Speaker 2: to put the keys out. 728 00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:22,640 Speaker 8: Huh he didn't have Nobody had to put their keys out. Yeah, 729 00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:25,920 Speaker 8: as to turn off for the grown folks. 730 00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:33,279 Speaker 11: Okay, the after party, it was a lot, a lot 731 00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:35,880 Speaker 11: of fun that was enjoyable. It made you feel like 732 00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:39,280 Speaker 11: you were there, you wanted to be there. And happy birthday, 733 00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:43,400 Speaker 11: Johnny gil. Finally it is official. Eddie Murphy and Martin 734 00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:47,759 Speaker 11: Lawrence are in laws. Eddie revealed on Jay Hudd's talk 735 00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:51,120 Speaker 11: show last week that his son Eric married Jasmine Lawrence 736 00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:54,040 Speaker 11: in a private ceremony with just the two of them. 737 00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:57,680 Speaker 11: Eddie said, they went off everybody was making big wedding plans. 738 00:36:57,760 --> 00:36:59,960 Speaker 11: They decided to do something quiet with just the two 739 00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:04,320 Speaker 11: of them. So congratulations to Eric and Jasmine Murphy. Yeah, beautiful, 740 00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:07,399 Speaker 11: all right. Coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, Steve, 741 00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:09,480 Speaker 11: I don't know if you knew this, but your annual 742 00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:13,360 Speaker 11: charity golf tournament was listed on threads as an event 743 00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:15,720 Speaker 11: that single ladies in Atlanta should attend. 744 00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:20,680 Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. Get her you're listening, 745 00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:22,799 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. 746 00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:31,000 Speaker 3: This broadcast is sponsored by PayPal. I want to take 747 00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:33,279 Speaker 3: a second to talk to you about something. I think 748 00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:36,719 Speaker 3: it's pretty cool. PayPal lets you pay your own way 749 00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:40,960 Speaker 3: with just a click. PayPal offers people flexibility on how 750 00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:44,040 Speaker 3: they can pay. Once you click the PayPal button, you 751 00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:47,280 Speaker 3: can choose from a bunch of payment options like paying 752 00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:51,480 Speaker 3: later with PayPal at millions of online stores, pay in store, 753 00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:54,040 Speaker 3: pay online, pay overtime. 754 00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:57,839 Speaker 1: Don't just pay PayPal. Learn more at PayPal dot com. 755 00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:02,000 Speaker 11: So Steve Threads is a new social media app that 756 00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:04,360 Speaker 11: has tons of followers and there's a page on it 757 00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:06,960 Speaker 11: called the Date Better Network that has a list of 758 00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:10,160 Speaker 11: events for single ladies to add to their calendars. Now, 759 00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:13,799 Speaker 11: your annual charity golf tournament was added to the list 760 00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:17,520 Speaker 11: of events that single women in Atlanta should attend. You 761 00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:20,759 Speaker 11: do the golf tournament annually. The proceeds benefit, of course, 762 00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:24,160 Speaker 11: the Stephen Marjorie Harvey Foundation's mentoring programs for young men 763 00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:27,279 Speaker 11: and women. There's a fee to play, and it's at 764 00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:32,279 Speaker 11: an undisclosed location location for a reason. So here's my 765 00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:34,040 Speaker 11: question to you, what do you want to say to 766 00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:35,960 Speaker 11: all of the single women that are planning to get 767 00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:39,240 Speaker 11: a cute golf outfit and show up next weekend looking 768 00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:40,719 Speaker 11: for single male golfers. 769 00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:45,320 Speaker 8: Well, first of all, you need to be registered because 770 00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:47,840 Speaker 8: you will be stopped at the front gate of this 771 00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:49,640 Speaker 8: golf establishment. 772 00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:50,759 Speaker 1: Stay shore up. 773 00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:56,319 Speaker 8: So yeah, don't just show up. Ladies, register, register, pay 774 00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:59,920 Speaker 8: the fee, and then you can come. But you have 775 00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:04,160 Speaker 8: to register. That's the most important thing. And then they're 776 00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:07,880 Speaker 8: in there, some nice single guys in there. If you 777 00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:10,800 Speaker 8: do register and come and you're not a golfer, but 778 00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:13,759 Speaker 8: you register because we need the money for the foundation, 779 00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:19,759 Speaker 8: then and that will allow you to eat and sit 780 00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:22,560 Speaker 8: there at the war ceremony and you know, help somebody 781 00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:23,440 Speaker 8: make their plate and. 782 00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:24,080 Speaker 2: Stuff like that. 783 00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:30,920 Speaker 1: When he said. 784 00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:32,560 Speaker 2: No, listen to me. 785 00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:34,960 Speaker 8: I mean it's a cute little thing, you know, you 786 00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:36,799 Speaker 8: sitting up there saying are. 787 00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:38,480 Speaker 2: You eating today? Hey, let me help you out a 788 00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:41,360 Speaker 2: little bit. What did you want? Did you plate? You 789 00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:45,160 Speaker 2: gotta be tired? Oh my god, why don't you see that. Listen, 790 00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:47,160 Speaker 2: I'm gonna go up to the buffet. Tell me what 791 00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:47,560 Speaker 2: you want. 792 00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:51,319 Speaker 8: Let me grab you something for you. Oh wow, yeah, 793 00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:54,359 Speaker 8: I just want some greens and some chicken. And now 794 00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:58,880 Speaker 8: I'm not saying women have to make plates, but you know, 795 00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:04,160 Speaker 8: good got I like I would love a woman up 796 00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:06,160 Speaker 8: to make me a plate of food like I don't 797 00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:09,440 Speaker 8: let guys like if Monica's there and I'm sitting at 798 00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:12,400 Speaker 8: the table, Monica say, uh, mistakes, what you what you 799 00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:12,879 Speaker 8: want to eat? 800 00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:15,680 Speaker 2: And she'll she'll make me a plate. She will just 801 00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:16,960 Speaker 2: go out of kindness. 802 00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:20,000 Speaker 8: I've had a dude make me a plate, and I went, 803 00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:22,560 Speaker 8: you know, my man, where where you get this from? 804 00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:24,960 Speaker 2: So I was up there, man, I saw you ain't 805 00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:27,080 Speaker 2: had nothing that made you a plate. No, no, you 806 00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:27,680 Speaker 2: go eat that. 807 00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:29,839 Speaker 14: I don't. 808 00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:32,200 Speaker 8: I don't accept food from me. And that don't work 809 00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:38,960 Speaker 8: at the restaurant. Very very sexist when. 810 00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:39,400 Speaker 2: You come to that. 811 00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:47,319 Speaker 1: There's something you know though about that that we don't. 812 00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:49,520 Speaker 2: I guess, hell, you mean you made me a plate? 813 00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:52,279 Speaker 9: What you know what. 814 00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:57,279 Speaker 2: He did to is that you don't work there? 815 00:40:57,320 --> 00:41:00,080 Speaker 8: What you make me a play first fifty saying he 816 00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:03,799 Speaker 8: told him to take him shopping, take me really? 817 00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:11,439 Speaker 11: Yeah, that Shaw go to exact exactly. I don't see 818 00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:13,560 Speaker 11: the correlation, but okay, coming up next. 819 00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:14,239 Speaker 1: Thank you, guys. 820 00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:18,480 Speaker 11: Sister Odel in the building right after this, you're listening 821 00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:26,800 Speaker 11: Steve Hardy Morning Show. All right, as promised, ladies and gentlemen, 822 00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:34,520 Speaker 11: she lee, mister Odel whooa lo. 823 00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:40,480 Speaker 4: And did he fine. 824 00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:43,920 Speaker 11: Me? 825 00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:48,359 Speaker 1: Jeezz touches me every time? 826 00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:54,800 Speaker 2: Good morning is everyone? Wow? What's going on today? 827 00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:58,360 Speaker 11: Well, there's a lot of stuff going on, but I 828 00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:01,880 Speaker 11: just wanted to ask you this specifically, Sister Odell, about 829 00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:03,040 Speaker 11: this Queen's tour. 830 00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:05,319 Speaker 1: Have you seen the Queen's Tour yet? 831 00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:09,560 Speaker 11: With Gladys Knight, Shaka Khan, Patti LaBelle, and Stephanie Mills. 832 00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:13,320 Speaker 1: It's secularly there's some voices on that thing. 833 00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:16,520 Speaker 2: Ain't it. Yes, ma'am man, they don't make them like 834 00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:18,160 Speaker 2: that anymore, you know now? 835 00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:23,120 Speaker 8: No Forday Steve had on his show Fantasia Jennifer Hudson. 836 00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:28,239 Speaker 1: Yeah to hell, they can't. 837 00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:32,200 Speaker 8: Oh good lord, they're gonna be the future Queen's cause 838 00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:36,960 Speaker 8: they now that's right on their way. Now, outside of that, 839 00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:39,960 Speaker 8: they don't have. It's some Vivian Green. I likes her 840 00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:46,280 Speaker 8: that union Leilah half away, Lord never got her all hord. 841 00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:50,280 Speaker 1: Dude, that's right, she can sing, sing, sang. 842 00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:50,560 Speaker 16: Oh. 843 00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:58,000 Speaker 8: But anyways, you even have had a Queen's you know, yeah, 844 00:42:58,080 --> 00:42:59,680 Speaker 8: you can't have the King's because ain't. 845 00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:00,760 Speaker 2: No, they don't. 846 00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:04,080 Speaker 1: Oh wow, so you do like only kids. 847 00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:08,560 Speaker 8: Left, well, only kid y'all listen, six, I listen. Why 848 00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:10,279 Speaker 8: have Seffler music all the time? 849 00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:11,279 Speaker 9: What is it? 850 00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:12,840 Speaker 2: Scheffler? 851 00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:19,000 Speaker 1: Well, okay, secular, yeah, but okay what I said, yes, ma'am. 852 00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:21,600 Speaker 8: But you know the only one's left is Al Green 853 00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:24,560 Speaker 8: and then he preaching, and then you know pee Bow 854 00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:28,279 Speaker 8: is still out there, and then or the old j 855 00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:32,800 Speaker 8: Boy or Eddie Eddie Eddie and ron Isley. 856 00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:34,080 Speaker 1: Yes, ma'am. 857 00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:37,600 Speaker 11: Now they say the new kid who just won American Idol, 858 00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:39,360 Speaker 11: Sister Odell Jamal Roberts. 859 00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:42,719 Speaker 1: They say he's gonna save R and B or well 860 00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:43,200 Speaker 1: he should. 861 00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:45,279 Speaker 2: He don't have no hits yet, so we don't need 862 00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:49,120 Speaker 2: to discuss. He comes up with a hit we need. 863 00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:50,680 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, ma'am. 864 00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:53,160 Speaker 2: Blow it's one, Yes, Cary. 865 00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:56,759 Speaker 3: So have you ever been to a secular concert? All 866 00:43:56,840 --> 00:44:00,200 Speaker 3: these people you name it, Peebow, Eddie Lavert. You been 867 00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:01,600 Speaker 3: to see Shaker Pass. 868 00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:03,719 Speaker 2: Well, I didn't have. I wasn't going to see them. 869 00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:06,080 Speaker 2: I knew who they was. I just listened to her. 870 00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:07,280 Speaker 2: But I went to see. 871 00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:09,080 Speaker 4: Girl. 872 00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:15,120 Speaker 8: I was at the first Louis Armstrong show and I 873 00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:16,840 Speaker 8: saw count Basic. 874 00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:20,320 Speaker 2: Duke Ellington. 875 00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:22,680 Speaker 1: And I was bored. 876 00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:25,560 Speaker 8: I saw Mozart, but I was bored at the Mozart 877 00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:29,200 Speaker 8: Sir and Beethoven. When he came out, I went, he 878 00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:31,640 Speaker 8: need a half cut, you know, when I was just 879 00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:34,919 Speaker 8: sitting there looking at him, cause you know, they didn't 880 00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:37,320 Speaker 8: have black peoples they would allow to be on stage. 881 00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:39,960 Speaker 2: And so you know all the people I've seen was 882 00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:41,080 Speaker 2: on the chit lit circle. 883 00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:47,279 Speaker 8: Okay, Amerson Andy had an opening that uh uh, they 884 00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:52,520 Speaker 8: had an opening that. Oh oh sephas oh sefer Greenland, 885 00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:56,200 Speaker 8: what girl girl Pannis was in the air on. 886 00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:57,440 Speaker 2: Their way to that stage. 887 00:44:58,400 --> 00:44:59,640 Speaker 1: They did that back then. 888 00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:02,600 Speaker 8: Well they was gloomers back then, so you know you 889 00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:04,360 Speaker 8: could throw it up there and then we'd had to 890 00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:06,399 Speaker 8: stop the show because we had to take him down. 891 00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:07,640 Speaker 9: It was like a like. 892 00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:16,360 Speaker 8: My girlfriend Pearl threw her threw her bloomers up on 893 00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:17,680 Speaker 8: stage one time. 894 00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:19,399 Speaker 2: And then knocked the drum set down. 895 00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:25,160 Speaker 8: The stop the oh drum set going there to set 896 00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:28,400 Speaker 8: it back up, and everything draw was heavy and you 897 00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:30,440 Speaker 8: know they hadn't to come out with silk yet. 898 00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:31,200 Speaker 16: Right. 899 00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:35,080 Speaker 2: She was real because she was a rough girl too. 900 00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:36,960 Speaker 2: She woke off bar lap bloomers. 901 00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:40,720 Speaker 1: Wow it she itchy, itchy. 902 00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:43,760 Speaker 2: Oh, I didn't understand that. You know, she kept infection 903 00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:44,799 Speaker 2: if you know what I mean. 904 00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:53,920 Speaker 1: Okay, she fum on and huh it is uh miss 905 00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:55,719 Speaker 1: Pearls still here? Your girlfriend? 906 00:45:56,520 --> 00:46:04,080 Speaker 2: No, she died in sixty one sixty Where has she 907 00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:05,120 Speaker 2: been going to last? 908 00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:12,680 Speaker 11: Coming up next, your nephew is here, and we's got 909 00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:17,760 Speaker 11: the prank phone call for today right after you're listening 910 00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:25,359 Speaker 11: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, coming up at about 911 00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:28,400 Speaker 11: four minutes after the hour. It's my strawberry letter for 912 00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:32,719 Speaker 11: today and the subject is what's the rush? What's the rush? 913 00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:34,640 Speaker 11: We'll get into that find out what that's all about 914 00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:37,439 Speaker 11: in just a few because right now it is time 915 00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:40,719 Speaker 11: for the nephew and today's prank phone call. 916 00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:42,200 Speaker 1: Good morning, nephew. 917 00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:50,400 Speaker 2: Uh huh, hey, hey, hey, hey, listen, listen. When I 918 00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:52,320 Speaker 2: was growing up, you don't have grown folks. 919 00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:57,000 Speaker 1: By the horse. 920 00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:00,400 Speaker 13: I went to see a man by the horse. What 921 00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:01,919 Speaker 13: do y'all want? What do you want to know about 922 00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:03,480 Speaker 13: where I've been? Why is this bothering you? 923 00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:06,600 Speaker 3: I've been somewhere because there for a little while, and 924 00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:08,520 Speaker 3: you just say nothing earlier and. 925 00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:10,879 Speaker 2: Y'all can't hold it down till I get here. 926 00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:13,560 Speaker 1: Come on, I guess we should be grateful. It is 927 00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:14,960 Speaker 1: Monday after all. 928 00:47:18,040 --> 00:47:20,400 Speaker 13: Better late than never. I mean, I'm here. I mean 929 00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:22,120 Speaker 13: I'm finished telling what the frank is? 930 00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:27,040 Speaker 2: What morning? What do y'all want? What is it? I 931 00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:29,640 Speaker 2: wouldn't hear when y'all call my name is my folks? 932 00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:30,520 Speaker 2: Still got to work? 933 00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:31,080 Speaker 9: What is it? 934 00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:33,120 Speaker 1: What but to work on time? 935 00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:35,560 Speaker 2: Sir? What is the prank? 936 00:47:38,120 --> 00:47:38,440 Speaker 1: Okay? 937 00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:40,400 Speaker 2: Can I go on? 938 00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:45,279 Speaker 13: Tell him the prank? Y'all want to Yes? All right, 939 00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:51,279 Speaker 13: your trash stinks. Your trash stinks. That's the name of 940 00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:51,680 Speaker 13: the prank. 941 00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:57,239 Speaker 1: Your trash trash. 942 00:47:56,280 --> 00:48:02,200 Speaker 2: And it stank s t A n K stank. All right, 943 00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:04,080 Speaker 2: let's go get Hello. 944 00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:08,520 Speaker 16: Hello, Hey, I'm trying to uh, I'm trying to reach swerve. 945 00:48:09,160 --> 00:48:12,400 Speaker 16: Yeah this hey, how you doing, man, I'm wanting I'm 946 00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:14,400 Speaker 16: one of your neighbors, but i'm I'm I'm one street 947 00:48:14,480 --> 00:48:19,879 Speaker 16: over from you. You over the off uh you River drive? Yeah, 948 00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:21,560 Speaker 16: that's right, this Rico. 949 00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:21,839 Speaker 9: Man. 950 00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:23,719 Speaker 16: How you doing? I'm one of your neighbors on the 951 00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:24,960 Speaker 16: next street over. How you doing? 952 00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:26,080 Speaker 12: Okay, I'm doing good? 953 00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:27,680 Speaker 9: But how how you get my number? 954 00:48:28,120 --> 00:48:30,000 Speaker 16: One of the neighbors on your block gave me the number. 955 00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:30,200 Speaker 2: Man. 956 00:48:30,239 --> 00:48:32,840 Speaker 16: We was we were having a little situation, wanted to 957 00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:35,400 Speaker 16: reach out to you, uh, some stuff going on in 958 00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:37,320 Speaker 16: the neighborhood, man, and wanted to try to make you 959 00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:37,960 Speaker 16: aware of it. 960 00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:39,200 Speaker 17: Man, what what's going on? 961 00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:40,080 Speaker 9: Uh? 962 00:48:40,360 --> 00:48:43,359 Speaker 16: It seemed like, well, you know the trash man run 963 00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:49,160 Speaker 16: on on Tuesday, okay and Saturday right now. The problem 964 00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:51,400 Speaker 16: is that that that that a lot of people, I 965 00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:53,239 Speaker 16: guess since the holiday just passed, you know a lot 966 00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:55,360 Speaker 16: of people got the stuff out on the on the 967 00:48:55,440 --> 00:49:00,400 Speaker 16: curve already right right now. The proud of mean is 968 00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:02,719 Speaker 16: that that that they're saying, man, is that your your 969 00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:07,320 Speaker 16: trash is actually really really foul and smelling and smelling 970 00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:09,759 Speaker 16: pretty bad. And we wanted to call you, man and 971 00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:10,160 Speaker 16: see if you. 972 00:49:10,160 --> 00:49:11,840 Speaker 1: Do hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. 973 00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:15,760 Speaker 2: You say you calling me because you smell my trash? 974 00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:19,279 Speaker 16: Well yeah, they say, yours is the one that's really thinking, man, 975 00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:21,319 Speaker 16: And if you could actually maybe put it in, put 976 00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:24,080 Speaker 16: it back in the in the in the garage until tuesday, you. 977 00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:27,480 Speaker 17: Know, put trash and no garage. That's why I put 978 00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:28,000 Speaker 17: it outside. 979 00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:30,440 Speaker 16: I didn't have enough room in the garage. Okay, Well 980 00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:34,040 Speaker 16: see that, And who is everybody saying my trash? He 981 00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:36,759 Speaker 16: he Hey, listen, I'm not. 982 00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:38,480 Speaker 17: Saying you know what I want to tell you. 983 00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:42,000 Speaker 9: If everybody in the hood gotta fly with my trash. 984 00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:44,920 Speaker 16: Sast you tell them because okay, what what what? 985 00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:45,160 Speaker 9: What? 986 00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:48,040 Speaker 16: We we we discussed that too, But listen, listen, we 987 00:49:48,080 --> 00:49:48,840 Speaker 16: don't want no trouble. 988 00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:49,000 Speaker 9: Man. 989 00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:50,680 Speaker 16: If we could just get you to put your trash 990 00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:51,920 Speaker 16: back in, I'm not. 991 00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:53,400 Speaker 14: Moving no trash. 992 00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:54,760 Speaker 9: I pay rent over here. 993 00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:55,040 Speaker 8: My brother. 994 00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:57,719 Speaker 16: Hey, we're not gonna go back, and I'm not gonna 995 00:49:57,719 --> 00:49:57,960 Speaker 16: go back. 996 00:49:57,960 --> 00:49:59,360 Speaker 17: I don't know what you're gonna do. 997 00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:01,279 Speaker 1: I'm telling you where I pay rent at. 998 00:50:01,360 --> 00:50:03,239 Speaker 14: Don't tell me to just go over here. 999 00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:06,440 Speaker 16: Okay, Well, listen, man, aren't you concerned that your trash 1000 00:50:06,560 --> 00:50:08,360 Speaker 16: is thinking and reaking through the whole neighborhood. 1001 00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:09,200 Speaker 1: I don't give it. 1002 00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:12,480 Speaker 17: Who smelled my chances they got a problem with it? 1003 00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:14,240 Speaker 17: Tell them come take it out still. 1004 00:50:14,120 --> 00:50:16,840 Speaker 16: Then and say it out there, okay, whether that's the problem, 1005 00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:18,680 Speaker 16: The problem is is that you took it out, and 1006 00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:21,160 Speaker 16: you took it out too early. You shouldn't put out 1007 00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:25,200 Speaker 16: till Tuesday morning. And that's who that money find it. 1008 00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:27,200 Speaker 17: If I put it out there and say it out 1009 00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:27,840 Speaker 17: there today. 1010 00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:28,239 Speaker 9: Come get it. 1011 00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:30,279 Speaker 16: I'm not gonna go back and forth with you, man. 1012 00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:32,279 Speaker 9: Okay, what you gonna do. 1013 00:50:32,440 --> 00:50:34,919 Speaker 14: You ain't gonna call me telling me take my chance? 1014 00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:36,200 Speaker 17: Yea, I pay rent over here? 1015 00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:39,680 Speaker 6: Okay, Well, how is everybody smelling my trash? 1016 00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:40,160 Speaker 9: Out? 1017 00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:41,840 Speaker 17: Of everybody on the street. 1018 00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:44,520 Speaker 16: I don't know from my understanding. It's just a couple 1019 00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:46,960 Speaker 16: of holes in it. There's some food or something must 1020 00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:48,360 Speaker 16: have got out. I don't know if if one of 1021 00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:50,239 Speaker 16: the roads or dog got in it, or what the 1022 00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:52,920 Speaker 16: case may be. But you know, we need to try 1023 00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:54,440 Speaker 16: to get your trash in the backyard. 1024 00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:58,040 Speaker 17: My chass ain't going no, well, and how come you 1025 00:50:58,160 --> 00:50:58,880 Speaker 17: the one you? 1026 00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:02,480 Speaker 14: How come my next old neighbor ain't called? 1027 00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:05,120 Speaker 17: How come yo around the corner and you call? Who 1028 00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:05,960 Speaker 17: put you up to this? 1029 00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:08,960 Speaker 16: What everybody's smelling it? I was just fortunate enough to 1030 00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:10,360 Speaker 16: get your phone number, and I said, well, look I 1031 00:51:10,600 --> 00:51:11,279 Speaker 16: just gone and call it. 1032 00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:15,279 Speaker 9: I'll tell you this. You and hey, you my phone number. 1033 00:51:15,360 --> 00:51:16,960 Speaker 14: Take hook come take it out? 1034 00:51:17,040 --> 00:51:18,640 Speaker 11: Still then it ain't going nowhere, sir? 1035 00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:22,000 Speaker 16: Okay, Well, listen, let's swerve this what we designed on 1036 00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:24,600 Speaker 16: the case we got to this situation with you, I'll 1037 00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:27,160 Speaker 16: put that. I'll just come over there and put the 1038 00:51:27,239 --> 00:51:30,799 Speaker 16: trash in your backyard. And just Tuesday morning and Tuesday morning. 1039 00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:32,879 Speaker 16: I'll come back over there and take it out that way. 1040 00:51:33,000 --> 00:51:34,880 Speaker 16: All the smell of be in your backyard in the 1041 00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:37,960 Speaker 16: you say, you go, what I'm gonna come over there 1042 00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:41,080 Speaker 16: and put the trash in your backyard? So the so 1043 00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:43,360 Speaker 16: the smell that falcon, I mean, that's that. 1044 00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:45,560 Speaker 9: Let me say, let me take it this say, if 1045 00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:47,720 Speaker 9: you come over here, you might well call. 1046 00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:49,279 Speaker 17: Ponice that that's who you gonna need. 1047 00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:50,040 Speaker 9: You come over here. 1048 00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:53,359 Speaker 11: Bring all they had a problem saying my trash team 1049 00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:54,879 Speaker 11: to come over here and take it out. 1050 00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:57,439 Speaker 16: Well you you, I mean you, you're trying. You're trying 1051 00:51:57,480 --> 00:51:59,280 Speaker 16: to You're trying to act like it don't smell. 1052 00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:01,279 Speaker 17: Man, you don't give if it's mell. I'll tell you 1053 00:52:01,360 --> 00:52:03,480 Speaker 17: what I do. I'll go out to pot for myself. 1054 00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:05,320 Speaker 17: Where that where that where that helped you out to 1055 00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:05,640 Speaker 17: look at? 1056 00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:08,920 Speaker 16: Okay, but see that's not what the people in the 1057 00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:10,319 Speaker 16: neighborhood want. We want you to say. 1058 00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:12,040 Speaker 9: Don't give us but what they want. 1059 00:52:12,320 --> 00:52:15,040 Speaker 17: I'm telling you what I'm gonna do. And how did 1060 00:52:15,080 --> 00:52:15,799 Speaker 17: you get my phone? 1061 00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:16,320 Speaker 15: I'm in it. 1062 00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:19,160 Speaker 16: I've already told you, man, I got your number from 1063 00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:21,160 Speaker 16: one of the neighbors on your street that said. 1064 00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:23,600 Speaker 9: They don't want to get Tell me the left one 1065 00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:24,799 Speaker 9: to the right, Tell me which one. 1066 00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:28,920 Speaker 16: Listen, listen, listen, swear. Once you get to the meat 1067 00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:31,040 Speaker 16: of the problem, the problem is your trash. 1068 00:52:31,160 --> 00:52:33,080 Speaker 17: Think, don't how is my change? 1069 00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:35,320 Speaker 1: How the hell y'all pit point my change out of 1070 00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:37,200 Speaker 1: everybody else change on the block? 1071 00:52:37,400 --> 00:52:38,520 Speaker 17: And how the hell you smell? 1072 00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:38,680 Speaker 13: Man? 1073 00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:40,320 Speaker 16: I don't know, man, I don't know one of it. 1074 00:52:40,360 --> 00:52:42,239 Speaker 16: I don't know if you're trans busted open or what 1075 00:52:42,360 --> 00:52:46,280 Speaker 16: the deal is for everybody saying everybody's saying it swerve traans. 1076 00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:47,080 Speaker 16: That's that's think. 1077 00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:49,960 Speaker 3: That's too much chance for me to be going through 1078 00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:53,160 Speaker 3: trying to see what think it's dye fast change out 1079 00:52:53,200 --> 00:52:54,759 Speaker 3: there and it's gonna stay out there. 1080 00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:56,399 Speaker 11: I said it ain't come get it, and you ain't 1081 00:52:56,440 --> 00:52:57,000 Speaker 11: coming over there. 1082 00:52:57,440 --> 00:52:59,120 Speaker 16: Okay, Now see that's where you're wrong. 1083 00:52:59,280 --> 00:52:59,759 Speaker 9: Swam out. 1084 00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:01,960 Speaker 16: I'm ming over there. I'm coming over there, and I'm 1085 00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:03,800 Speaker 16: gonna take that trash and put it in the backyard. 1086 00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:05,600 Speaker 16: Just too Now you're gonna try to get in my 1087 00:53:05,719 --> 00:53:08,399 Speaker 16: way whatever, But I got to go on hitty chands 1088 00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:08,640 Speaker 16: and the. 1089 00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:10,359 Speaker 9: Back Tell you what pring your over here? 1090 00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:12,480 Speaker 17: Right now, I'll put on my shoes I'm standing on 1091 00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:14,600 Speaker 17: ports right now. Bring fight a corse. 1092 00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:18,640 Speaker 16: Come on, whatever your name, Rico, I'll recover one street 1093 00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:21,239 Speaker 16: over and I'm smelling your nash, trash. 1094 00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:24,960 Speaker 17: Man, take your chance out, make small. But you ain't 1095 00:53:25,000 --> 00:53:25,839 Speaker 17: saying to come take it out. 1096 00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:30,080 Speaker 16: I'm fitting that he listen, swar. I'm gonna say this word. Man, 1097 00:53:30,160 --> 00:53:33,160 Speaker 16: I call him like excuse me, call. 1098 00:53:33,080 --> 00:53:33,400 Speaker 2: Him like that. 1099 00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:35,080 Speaker 17: Who would have have told you called me swear? 1100 00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:36,560 Speaker 9: I'll call me by that? 1101 00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:39,680 Speaker 16: Okay, Well that's what they call you. What's wrong? We 1102 00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:41,920 Speaker 16: called what's wrong? We called you you're no. 1103 00:53:42,120 --> 00:53:45,080 Speaker 17: Coffee that name. Now you saying my chat thing? 1104 00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:46,839 Speaker 14: Come over here and take the chance out. 1105 00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:49,000 Speaker 16: Hey man, I ain't. I ain't nobody sitting there scatter 1106 00:53:49,040 --> 00:53:50,839 Speaker 16: you swim. I'm trying to get I had to get 1107 00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:51,080 Speaker 16: the name. 1108 00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:52,759 Speaker 9: It's not just say you talk part of my name. 1109 00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:53,919 Speaker 9: Ain't swear. 1110 00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:54,799 Speaker 16: Come over here. 1111 00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:56,000 Speaker 9: I'm gonna show you what I'm gonna do. 1112 00:53:56,160 --> 00:53:58,880 Speaker 16: Okay, way then it is what it is? Bytom Man, 1113 00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:01,080 Speaker 16: I'm on my way over there on that trash. 1114 00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:03,399 Speaker 17: Come on, come over here, come over here, moving. I'm 1115 00:54:03,440 --> 00:54:04,399 Speaker 17: on the point right now. 1116 00:54:04,560 --> 00:54:07,800 Speaker 16: Come on over there, meet me by the nast thank it, trash. 1117 00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:10,319 Speaker 12: You got I'm standing right doing now. 1118 00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:12,879 Speaker 16: Okay, well, I tell you what. I'm on my way now. 1119 00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:15,520 Speaker 16: And guess what I'm gonna do when I get over there. 1120 00:54:16,040 --> 00:54:18,000 Speaker 17: You ain't gonna do what you gonna do. 1121 00:54:18,080 --> 00:54:20,680 Speaker 16: I'm gonna tell you my name when I get over there. 1122 00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:24,520 Speaker 16: My name is nephew Timmy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1123 00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:27,640 Speaker 16: You just got pranked by your cousin all Reese. 1124 00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:31,279 Speaker 17: Oh man, out of here. 1125 00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:39,600 Speaker 16: Hey man, I gotta ask you something, dog, what is 1126 00:54:39,800 --> 00:54:42,480 Speaker 16: what is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio 1127 00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:44,040 Speaker 16: show in the land. 1128 00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:54,399 Speaker 2: And there you have it, ladies and gentlemen, all right, 1129 00:54:54,840 --> 00:54:55,759 Speaker 2: there you have it. 1130 00:54:56,680 --> 00:54:58,960 Speaker 13: You already know about the June teen comedy exploding and 1131 00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:01,080 Speaker 13: told you about that and f work, y'all already know 1132 00:55:01,120 --> 00:55:03,640 Speaker 13: about that, told you about what Dukes and boots going 1133 00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:06,640 Speaker 13: down to below Mississippi. 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We could be 1160 00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:38,680 Speaker 11: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 1161 00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:40,759 Speaker 11: going to read this one right here, right now, it 1162 00:56:40,800 --> 00:56:41,439 Speaker 11: could be yours. 1163 00:56:41,480 --> 00:56:44,319 Speaker 2: You never know, You never know. Buckle up and hold 1164 00:56:44,400 --> 00:56:46,279 Speaker 2: on tight. We got it fight you here. 1165 00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:52,520 Speaker 11: It is strawberry letter, subject, what's the rush? Dear Stephen Shirley. 1166 00:56:53,120 --> 00:56:55,520 Speaker 11: I've been with the same man for eleven years, and 1167 00:56:55,640 --> 00:56:58,680 Speaker 11: he asked me to marry him four years ago. Now, 1168 00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:01,359 Speaker 11: all of a sudden, he wants to set a wedding date, 1169 00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:04,760 Speaker 11: but I do not want to. I met him in college, 1170 00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:07,000 Speaker 11: and I thought we were destined to have a great 1171 00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:10,399 Speaker 11: love story. I was twenty and he was twenty two, 1172 00:57:10,800 --> 00:57:14,560 Speaker 11: and our chemistry was amazing. When I was twenty two, 1173 00:57:14,840 --> 00:57:16,960 Speaker 11: I got pregnant and we moved in together. 1174 00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:18,320 Speaker 1: I got a job. 1175 00:57:18,280 --> 00:57:21,280 Speaker 11: While he got his master's degree, and he told me 1176 00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:24,880 Speaker 11: soon as he finished his degree he was going to 1177 00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:28,680 Speaker 11: make me his wife. On his graduation night. I got 1178 00:57:28,760 --> 00:57:32,640 Speaker 11: pregnant again. He got a really good job, and I 1179 00:57:32,800 --> 00:57:35,720 Speaker 11: started teaching school. I fell in love with my job 1180 00:57:35,920 --> 00:57:39,160 Speaker 11: and raising our children, so I didn't really realize that 1181 00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:40,600 Speaker 11: I was playing house. 1182 00:57:40,440 --> 00:57:43,440 Speaker 1: And this man did not plan to marry me. I 1183 00:57:43,520 --> 00:57:45,400 Speaker 1: went to stay with my mother for a while so 1184 00:57:45,520 --> 00:57:48,240 Speaker 1: I could clear my head. He begged me to come 1185 00:57:48,320 --> 00:57:51,440 Speaker 1: back home and he promised that he was about to propose. 1186 00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:54,160 Speaker 1: Years passed by and he didn't. 1187 00:57:54,640 --> 00:57:58,000 Speaker 11: His father overheard us fussing one day and he advised 1188 00:57:58,040 --> 00:58:00,800 Speaker 11: his son to either marry me or let me go. 1189 00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:04,480 Speaker 1: A few weeks later, he asked me to be his wife. 1190 00:58:05,080 --> 00:58:07,520 Speaker 11: That was four years ago, and I was ready to 1191 00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:11,240 Speaker 11: do it right then he kept stalling and asking me, 1192 00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:16,240 Speaker 11: what's the rush by? And move past it now for 1193 00:58:16,400 --> 00:58:19,800 Speaker 11: the marriage? And I don't want him anymore. I don't 1194 00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:23,120 Speaker 11: even wear my ring and he hasn't noticed. He invited 1195 00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:25,920 Speaker 11: my mother over last weekend to talk about wedding dates 1196 00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:28,960 Speaker 11: and I was checked out of the conversation. When my 1197 00:58:29,080 --> 00:58:33,320 Speaker 11: mother left, I asked him, what's the rush? He hasn't 1198 00:58:33,360 --> 00:58:36,400 Speaker 11: spoken to me in over a week because of my attitude? 1199 00:58:36,800 --> 00:58:39,680 Speaker 11: How can I not be allowed to have an attitude? 1200 00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:41,720 Speaker 11: Should I give the ring back or move on? 1201 00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:42,560 Speaker 2: Or should I. 1202 00:58:42,640 --> 00:58:45,560 Speaker 11: Marry an old friend and baby day that I don't 1203 00:58:45,600 --> 00:58:49,880 Speaker 11: love anymore? M Please don't do that if that's the truth, 1204 00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:52,840 Speaker 11: I mean, why would you marry someone that you don't 1205 00:58:53,000 --> 00:58:56,720 Speaker 11: love anymore? That makes about as much sense as him 1206 00:58:56,800 --> 00:58:59,560 Speaker 11: walking around for more than a week not talking to 1207 00:58:59,680 --> 00:59:02,800 Speaker 11: you because you said to him what's the rush? 1208 00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:07,320 Speaker 1: The man is too immature for you. I think you 1209 00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:08,200 Speaker 1: have to let him. 1210 00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:10,240 Speaker 11: You know, I kind of blame it on you a 1211 00:59:10,280 --> 00:59:13,240 Speaker 11: little bit, because you've let him get away with too 1212 00:59:13,320 --> 00:59:16,479 Speaker 11: much stuff in this relationship. He's not kept his word 1213 00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:21,160 Speaker 11: on anything. And where does he think you got what's 1214 00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:23,160 Speaker 11: the rush from? You got it from him. He said 1215 00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:26,320 Speaker 11: it to you first, I mean to the real red flag, 1216 00:59:26,760 --> 00:59:29,880 Speaker 11: and it's a glimpse into what marriage might be like 1217 00:59:30,000 --> 00:59:32,440 Speaker 11: with this man. I mean, this entire letter is about 1218 00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:36,040 Speaker 11: your lives together. Since you were twenty and twenty two 1219 00:59:36,200 --> 00:59:39,320 Speaker 11: years old, the main thing you wanted was to marry 1220 00:59:39,400 --> 00:59:42,200 Speaker 11: this man. He kept putting it off because there was 1221 00:59:42,280 --> 00:59:45,880 Speaker 11: no incentive to marry you. You already had the babies 1222 00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:49,000 Speaker 11: early on, you were living together. He had what he 1223 00:59:49,080 --> 00:59:52,720 Speaker 11: wanted right there without the benefit of marriage. And now 1224 00:59:52,800 --> 00:59:55,360 Speaker 11: he sees you've changed, so he's trying to step up. 1225 00:59:56,080 --> 00:59:58,960 Speaker 11: But it's too late. You're over it, you say, at 1226 00:59:59,040 --> 00:59:59,920 Speaker 11: least the marriage part. 1227 01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:00,440 Speaker 12: I mean. 1228 01:00:00,520 --> 01:00:03,080 Speaker 11: The sad thing is you guys do have two children, 1229 01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:06,600 Speaker 11: so you have to talk to each other. You gotta communicate. 1230 01:00:06,720 --> 01:00:09,360 Speaker 11: I mean, I think this fairy tale you have of 1231 01:00:09,440 --> 01:00:11,200 Speaker 11: this great love story you want it. 1232 01:00:11,280 --> 01:00:12,280 Speaker 1: I think that's over. 1233 01:00:13,040 --> 01:00:17,400 Speaker 11: The reality is eleven years later, you're miserable, you're ready 1234 01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:21,160 Speaker 11: to walk, and you're writing us. I say, go in peace, 1235 01:00:21,400 --> 01:00:23,320 Speaker 11: knowing that you dodged a bullet from. 1236 01:00:23,200 --> 01:00:24,160 Speaker 1: Not marrying this guy. 1237 01:00:24,280 --> 01:00:26,360 Speaker 11: After all these years, I think you should get your 1238 01:00:26,440 --> 01:00:29,040 Speaker 11: child support and move on. When you do fall in 1239 01:00:29,120 --> 01:00:32,280 Speaker 11: love again with the right man the next time. When 1240 01:00:32,320 --> 01:00:35,560 Speaker 11: he proposed a set of date, start planning immediately. Okay, 1241 01:00:35,680 --> 01:00:37,240 Speaker 11: don't waste time, Steve. 1242 01:00:38,000 --> 01:00:40,080 Speaker 8: I'm in two and a half minutes. This is what 1243 01:00:40,120 --> 01:00:42,200 Speaker 8: I'm gonna do. And then the second half I'm gonna 1244 01:00:42,240 --> 01:00:44,760 Speaker 8: show you how this works. I'm gonna show you about 1245 01:00:44,920 --> 01:00:47,240 Speaker 8: thirteen questionable statements in this letter. 1246 01:00:47,760 --> 01:00:50,320 Speaker 2: He asked me to marry him four years ago. That's one. 1247 01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:53,760 Speaker 2: He wants to set a wedding date, but I do not. 1248 01:00:54,080 --> 01:00:57,400 Speaker 8: That's two. When I was twenty two, I got pregnant 1249 01:00:57,400 --> 01:01:00,600 Speaker 8: and we moved in together. That's three. I got a 1250 01:01:00,720 --> 01:01:02,600 Speaker 8: job while he got his master's degree and told me 1251 01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:04,360 Speaker 8: as soon as he finished his degree, he was gonna 1252 01:01:04,400 --> 01:01:05,200 Speaker 8: make me his wife. 1253 01:01:05,560 --> 01:01:06,160 Speaker 2: That's four. 1254 01:01:07,200 --> 01:01:09,240 Speaker 8: The fifth statement was I fell in love with my 1255 01:01:09,360 --> 01:01:11,520 Speaker 8: job and raising our children, so I didn't realize I 1256 01:01:11,640 --> 01:01:14,880 Speaker 8: was playing house, and this man did not plan to 1257 01:01:14,960 --> 01:01:15,320 Speaker 8: marry me. 1258 01:01:15,520 --> 01:01:16,200 Speaker 2: That's five. 1259 01:01:16,800 --> 01:01:19,880 Speaker 8: The next statement was, I tried to want it to 1260 01:01:19,920 --> 01:01:21,840 Speaker 8: clear my head, so I went to stay with my mama. 1261 01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:24,120 Speaker 8: He begged me to come back, and now he promised 1262 01:01:24,120 --> 01:01:26,840 Speaker 8: that he was going to about to propose. That's six 1263 01:01:27,360 --> 01:01:31,000 Speaker 8: years go buying. His father overheard us fussing one day 1264 01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:32,880 Speaker 8: and he advised his son either married me or let 1265 01:01:32,960 --> 01:01:37,440 Speaker 8: me go. That's seven. That was four years ago. A 1266 01:01:37,520 --> 01:01:39,400 Speaker 8: week later, he asked me to be his wife. 1267 01:01:39,640 --> 01:01:40,120 Speaker 2: That's eight. 1268 01:01:40,560 --> 01:01:42,200 Speaker 8: That was four years ago, and I was ready to 1269 01:01:42,240 --> 01:01:44,200 Speaker 8: do it right there. He kept starting and asking me 1270 01:01:44,320 --> 01:01:44,959 Speaker 8: what's to rush? 1271 01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:46,000 Speaker 2: That's nine. 1272 01:01:46,640 --> 01:01:48,640 Speaker 8: I cried and moved past it. Now I'm over the 1273 01:01:48,680 --> 01:01:50,320 Speaker 8: marriage and I don't want him anymore. 1274 01:01:50,480 --> 01:01:52,920 Speaker 2: That's ten. I don't wear my ring and he has 1275 01:01:53,000 --> 01:01:54,440 Speaker 2: a notice. That's eleven. 1276 01:01:54,920 --> 01:01:57,520 Speaker 8: He invited his mother over to my mother over last 1277 01:01:57,520 --> 01:01:59,560 Speaker 8: weekend to discuss wedding dates. I was checked out of 1278 01:01:59,600 --> 01:02:01,800 Speaker 8: the commerce when my mother left, I asked him what 1279 01:02:01,960 --> 01:02:05,840 Speaker 8: was the rush? That's twelve. He hasn't spoken to me 1280 01:02:05,920 --> 01:02:08,240 Speaker 8: in over a week because of my attitude. So how 1281 01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:10,320 Speaker 8: can I not be allowed to have an attitude? Should 1282 01:02:10,320 --> 01:02:12,840 Speaker 8: I give the read back and move on? Or should 1283 01:02:12,880 --> 01:02:15,640 Speaker 8: I marry an old friend and baby daddy that I 1284 01:02:15,720 --> 01:02:21,240 Speaker 8: don't love anymore? That's thirteen in a one page letter 1285 01:02:22,560 --> 01:02:27,880 Speaker 8: I just read to you, thirteen very questionable statements. 1286 01:02:28,920 --> 01:02:30,760 Speaker 2: Do this sound like marriage to you? 1287 01:02:32,160 --> 01:02:32,720 Speaker 1: Not at all? 1288 01:02:33,560 --> 01:02:36,600 Speaker 8: If you don't love somebody, I can promise you marriage 1289 01:02:36,840 --> 01:02:40,360 Speaker 8: is out of the question, right, because you gonna need 1290 01:02:40,560 --> 01:02:45,680 Speaker 8: that mode. And money, because I'm telling you, man, money 1291 01:02:45,960 --> 01:02:52,240 Speaker 8: don't keep a relationship together. Love can overcome a multitude 1292 01:02:52,320 --> 01:02:56,080 Speaker 8: of sins, but if you ain't in love, it's no 1293 01:02:56,520 --> 01:02:59,320 Speaker 8: way you can get married and stay married. 1294 01:03:00,120 --> 01:03:02,960 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, hang on, we're waiting for part two 1295 01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:05,880 Speaker 1: of your response. Come on after hour. 1296 01:03:07,120 --> 01:03:11,200 Speaker 11: All right, title this strawberry letter? What's the rush? We'll 1297 01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:12,800 Speaker 11: find out more when we come. 1298 01:03:12,760 --> 01:03:17,120 Speaker 1: Back right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1299 01:03:21,720 --> 01:03:24,320 Speaker 2: Do you think astronauts fight over elbow room? 1300 01:03:24,520 --> 01:03:29,280 Speaker 8: Probably because advanced tech doesn't always mean more space. 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Actual rings will vary based on several factors. 1308 01:03:53,200 --> 01:03:55,800 Speaker 11: All right, come on, Steve, Let's recap today's strawberry letter, 1309 01:03:55,880 --> 01:03:57,480 Speaker 11: the subject what's the rush? 1310 01:03:58,520 --> 01:04:01,120 Speaker 8: We just went through this letter, all these reasons that 1311 01:04:01,280 --> 01:04:03,600 Speaker 8: this woman don't need to marry this man. I gave 1312 01:04:03,640 --> 01:04:07,520 Speaker 8: you thirteen questionable statements at the end of the letter. 1313 01:04:07,640 --> 01:04:10,600 Speaker 8: This lady just said, should I marry an old friend 1314 01:04:10,640 --> 01:04:14,320 Speaker 8: and baby daddy that I don't love anymore? They've been 1315 01:04:14,400 --> 01:04:20,680 Speaker 8: together for eleven years, and he been lying about getting married, stalling, 1316 01:04:20,920 --> 01:04:25,120 Speaker 8: putting it off, making false promises, over and over and 1317 01:04:25,240 --> 01:04:29,120 Speaker 8: over and over. This man. You realize, after you had 1318 01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:32,120 Speaker 8: two children and found a school teaching job you love, 1319 01:04:32,640 --> 01:04:35,120 Speaker 8: that this man was just playing house and did not 1320 01:04:35,360 --> 01:04:37,000 Speaker 8: pretend he ain't even want to get married. 1321 01:04:37,040 --> 01:04:38,840 Speaker 2: Because I've told you all ladies about this. 1322 01:04:40,000 --> 01:04:42,440 Speaker 8: The wedding day may be the day of your dream, 1323 01:04:42,640 --> 01:04:45,120 Speaker 8: but the man does not have a wedding day as 1324 01:04:45,160 --> 01:04:47,120 Speaker 8: the day of his dream. We only dream of the 1325 01:04:47,200 --> 01:04:49,280 Speaker 8: chick of our dream. And if he can get you 1326 01:04:49,360 --> 01:04:52,120 Speaker 8: without the day, what's to rush? And He just proved 1327 01:04:52,200 --> 01:04:53,439 Speaker 8: what I've been saying for years. 1328 01:04:53,520 --> 01:04:54,200 Speaker 2: So he has you. 1329 01:04:54,360 --> 01:04:56,800 Speaker 8: What's to rush, Ladies, This is what I want to do. 1330 01:04:56,960 --> 01:04:59,600 Speaker 8: Call him surely. Let me have you undivided attention. Please, 1331 01:05:00,880 --> 01:05:04,200 Speaker 8: we're going to do a reenactment. I am gonna be 1332 01:05:04,440 --> 01:05:07,880 Speaker 8: mister Housta Rush. I don't care what you asked me. 1333 01:05:08,560 --> 01:05:11,720 Speaker 8: I'm gonna find a way not to get married. You 1334 01:05:11,800 --> 01:05:14,240 Speaker 8: can make it sound as wonderful as you like. Just 1335 01:05:14,600 --> 01:05:18,080 Speaker 8: make a statement, and I am the person that don't 1336 01:05:18,120 --> 01:05:21,040 Speaker 8: want to get married, and I would give you reasons 1337 01:05:21,560 --> 01:05:23,760 Speaker 8: why we can't get married. You don't have to worry 1338 01:05:23,760 --> 01:05:26,520 Speaker 8: about this letter, Shirley and Caler. You can ask me 1339 01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:30,000 Speaker 8: anything you want, any happy remark about a wedding day, 1340 01:05:30,480 --> 01:05:33,520 Speaker 8: about what your plans are. You can do anything, and 1341 01:05:33,760 --> 01:05:36,120 Speaker 8: I'll just tell you why we can't do it. Ready 1342 01:05:36,200 --> 01:05:36,960 Speaker 8: said here it is. 1343 01:05:37,920 --> 01:05:41,040 Speaker 1: Honey, I just got my wedding dress. I'm so excited. 1344 01:05:42,280 --> 01:05:45,840 Speaker 2: Oh man, that's real nice man, wedding dresses? Is they 1345 01:05:46,000 --> 01:05:48,800 Speaker 2: so nice? You know? But you know spending all that 1346 01:05:49,000 --> 01:05:52,680 Speaker 2: money for what you know what I mean a dress? 1347 01:05:53,920 --> 01:05:55,080 Speaker 2: You ain't got no dresses? 1348 01:05:58,960 --> 01:05:59,320 Speaker 1: Guess what? 1349 01:05:59,600 --> 01:06:02,720 Speaker 3: My friend just getting married and I just got first 1350 01:06:02,920 --> 01:06:04,800 Speaker 3: save the date in the mail. 1351 01:06:05,080 --> 01:06:07,960 Speaker 1: I'm so exciting wait to go to her wedding. 1352 01:06:08,200 --> 01:06:10,080 Speaker 2: That's cool. I can't wait to go to her way 1353 01:06:10,120 --> 01:06:11,840 Speaker 2: in either say that date? 1354 01:06:12,040 --> 01:06:12,240 Speaker 9: So what? 1355 01:06:13,040 --> 01:06:16,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, let's say that date. That's beautiful. Man, that's good. 1356 01:06:16,720 --> 01:06:20,919 Speaker 1: I'm with that man, Baby, mark this date down? 1357 01:06:21,440 --> 01:06:22,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I got it? 1358 01:06:22,200 --> 01:06:24,439 Speaker 1: Her sixteen, Yeah it down? 1359 01:06:24,640 --> 01:06:26,760 Speaker 2: Got it? December sixteenth, Special day? 1360 01:06:27,320 --> 01:06:30,360 Speaker 1: Okay, when are we gonna go shopping and get what 1361 01:06:30,440 --> 01:06:31,120 Speaker 1: we gonna wear? 1362 01:06:31,440 --> 01:06:31,480 Speaker 9: Like? 1363 01:06:32,000 --> 01:06:32,120 Speaker 13: Oh? 1364 01:06:32,200 --> 01:06:35,080 Speaker 2: We wear all that? Baby? What babebe what you want 1365 01:06:35,120 --> 01:06:35,360 Speaker 2: to wear? 1366 01:06:36,920 --> 01:06:37,160 Speaker 4: Love? 1367 01:06:37,760 --> 01:06:40,360 Speaker 2: Are you wear anything you want? To separate wedding dress? 1368 01:06:40,680 --> 01:06:42,360 Speaker 2: You know you wear anything you want? 1369 01:06:43,560 --> 01:06:49,000 Speaker 1: Honey, you better not. I'm pregnant again. Man, as well, 1370 01:06:49,080 --> 01:06:52,280 Speaker 1: make an honest woman out of me. Marry me, babe. 1371 01:06:53,040 --> 01:06:56,240 Speaker 2: Baby. One of their main characteristics that I love about 1372 01:06:56,280 --> 01:06:57,280 Speaker 2: you is your honesty. 1373 01:06:58,080 --> 01:06:58,880 Speaker 1: I don't you know? 1374 01:06:59,200 --> 01:07:02,000 Speaker 8: You've been honest with me the whole time, with how 1375 01:07:02,080 --> 01:07:04,160 Speaker 8: you are. That's the beautiful thing. But you already an 1376 01:07:04,160 --> 01:07:04,760 Speaker 8: honest person. 1377 01:07:04,840 --> 01:07:04,960 Speaker 11: Man. 1378 01:07:05,400 --> 01:07:07,520 Speaker 8: You need all that to prove to somebody you an 1379 01:07:07,560 --> 01:07:11,000 Speaker 8: honest woman. You know you've already had the baby. You 1380 01:07:11,040 --> 01:07:13,560 Speaker 8: don't done all the tricky stuff anyway. Everybody said to 1381 01:07:13,560 --> 01:07:16,640 Speaker 8: believe you honestly, don't you know you know you can 1382 01:07:16,760 --> 01:07:18,200 Speaker 8: set up here and done all this here. Now you 1383 01:07:18,280 --> 01:07:21,120 Speaker 8: want somebody to believe you honest, you know, like you're honest. 1384 01:07:21,200 --> 01:07:22,880 Speaker 8: What you know we'd have done to do now? You 1385 01:07:22,960 --> 01:07:26,000 Speaker 8: know baby coming, everybody know you and all that, honestly, 1386 01:07:26,200 --> 01:07:29,680 Speaker 8: you know, you know me, you know you know you know. 1387 01:07:30,080 --> 01:07:31,280 Speaker 1: But let's seal the deal. 1388 01:07:32,000 --> 01:07:36,040 Speaker 8: Let's see seal the deal. Seeing that right there? See 1389 01:07:36,080 --> 01:07:38,840 Speaker 8: that sounds like stealing. Don't you don't be talking and 1390 01:07:38,920 --> 01:07:41,280 Speaker 8: talking to Lord about stuff like that. You know we're 1391 01:07:41,280 --> 01:07:42,240 Speaker 8: gonna seal the deal. 1392 01:07:42,360 --> 01:07:44,440 Speaker 2: That's what. That's why I love the church I go to, 1393 01:07:44,560 --> 01:07:46,880 Speaker 2: you know, because they try to keep us seeing free. 1394 01:07:46,960 --> 01:07:47,120 Speaker 2: You know. 1395 01:07:47,280 --> 01:07:50,320 Speaker 8: Now we done already been in sining, been made, you know, 1396 01:07:50,480 --> 01:07:54,560 Speaker 8: have come you know, you know, cobotulating in all this before. 1397 01:07:54,680 --> 01:07:57,080 Speaker 8: Mad Now all of a sudden, you know you wanna 1398 01:07:57,080 --> 01:07:59,320 Speaker 8: gonna seal the deal, you know, just like go to hell, 1399 01:07:59,560 --> 01:08:00,600 Speaker 8: you know, make no sense? 1400 01:08:00,680 --> 01:08:04,880 Speaker 3: Call all right, So we've been talking all this stuff 1401 01:08:04,920 --> 01:08:07,760 Speaker 3: about wedding. When are we gonna set our day? Because 1402 01:08:07,760 --> 01:08:10,280 Speaker 3: I have some dates in mind? So do you want 1403 01:08:10,360 --> 01:08:13,800 Speaker 3: a summer wedding, Christmas winter wedding? 1404 01:08:14,200 --> 01:08:16,519 Speaker 2: Yeah? I was thinking more like a leap year wedding. 1405 01:08:21,720 --> 01:08:22,200 Speaker 1: I love it. 1406 01:08:22,720 --> 01:08:23,200 Speaker 2: I love it. 1407 01:08:23,280 --> 01:08:25,719 Speaker 1: I want to wait that long leap. 1408 01:08:26,920 --> 01:08:29,120 Speaker 8: Well, but see that'd be good then, you know, could 1409 01:08:29,760 --> 01:08:32,200 Speaker 8: you give us time to plan and everything like that? 1410 01:08:32,640 --> 01:08:34,920 Speaker 8: So that's the date I'm looking forward to next time 1411 01:08:34,960 --> 01:08:36,880 Speaker 8: we have leap yet he'll go ahead. 1412 01:08:37,160 --> 01:08:41,160 Speaker 11: Well, honey, I talked to the pastor and he said 1413 01:08:41,200 --> 01:08:43,840 Speaker 11: he's ready, and all we have to do is get 1414 01:08:43,920 --> 01:08:46,160 Speaker 11: back with him and let him know when we're ready. 1415 01:08:46,280 --> 01:08:51,599 Speaker 11: So he's he's set to officiate our ceremony, and I'm 1416 01:08:51,680 --> 01:08:52,519 Speaker 11: just so excited. 1417 01:08:52,640 --> 01:08:52,800 Speaker 9: You know. 1418 01:08:54,760 --> 01:09:01,800 Speaker 8: That's all good. But I just changed churches last week. There, Yeah, 1419 01:09:01,840 --> 01:09:03,599 Speaker 8: so we don't even go there no more. That ain't 1420 01:09:03,640 --> 01:09:06,160 Speaker 8: even my pastor no more. So we gotta line. We 1421 01:09:06,200 --> 01:09:10,680 Speaker 8: gotta get on this new past this list. Go ahead, Yeah, 1422 01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:11,759 Speaker 8: we gotta start this process. 1423 01:09:11,800 --> 01:09:13,559 Speaker 2: Old bag. We don't even go there, no more. Go ahead. 1424 01:09:14,280 --> 01:09:16,120 Speaker 1: You want to go to Vegas? We could just go 1425 01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:16,679 Speaker 1: to Vegas. 1426 01:09:17,080 --> 01:09:19,040 Speaker 2: Get hell, yeah, I want to go to Vegas. 1427 01:09:19,160 --> 01:09:21,679 Speaker 1: Man, Okay, let's go to Vegas. 1428 01:09:21,760 --> 01:09:24,559 Speaker 8: But you know what they say, what happens in Vegas 1429 01:09:24,960 --> 01:09:26,920 Speaker 8: stays in Vegas, So ain't no need us trying to 1430 01:09:26,960 --> 01:09:28,240 Speaker 8: come back with no happy news. 1431 01:09:32,920 --> 01:09:36,600 Speaker 1: Honey, honey, I'm so happy. Dad was ill. You know, 1432 01:09:36,720 --> 01:09:38,639 Speaker 1: he was sick, but he's better now. And he said 1433 01:09:38,680 --> 01:09:41,439 Speaker 1: he will wear down the aisle. He's ready. Yeah, he's 1434 01:09:41,479 --> 01:09:44,400 Speaker 1: gonna walk me down. Dad, My dad, our dad. 1435 01:09:45,760 --> 01:09:49,120 Speaker 2: Maybe you're sick, Daddy, he's no longer sick. 1436 01:09:49,200 --> 01:09:49,760 Speaker 1: He's well. 1437 01:09:49,920 --> 01:09:51,840 Speaker 8: You think I'm gonna be standing up there and watch 1438 01:09:51,920 --> 01:09:55,439 Speaker 8: something happen to him on his way down the eyes we. 1439 01:09:56,360 --> 01:09:57,840 Speaker 2: Call out, but I can do that. 1440 01:09:59,040 --> 01:10:02,559 Speaker 11: Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM, 1441 01:10:02,640 --> 01:10:05,280 Speaker 11: on Instagram and on Facebook, and check. 1442 01:10:05,120 --> 01:10:07,280 Speaker 1: Out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. 1443 01:10:09,000 --> 01:10:11,360 Speaker 11: Coming up in forty six minutes after the hour is 1444 01:10:11,479 --> 01:10:12,679 Speaker 11: Junior and Sports Talk. 1445 01:10:13,080 --> 01:10:16,719 Speaker 1: Right, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1446 01:10:20,840 --> 01:10:24,240 Speaker 3: This broadcast is sponsored by PayPal. 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What 1456 01:10:55,360 --> 01:10:56,040 Speaker 1: you got Junior? 1457 01:10:56,120 --> 01:10:58,120 Speaker 12: All right, sure, let's talk about it. It is over 1458 01:10:58,240 --> 01:11:00,519 Speaker 12: in the Eastern Conference, man, that pays the knock off 1459 01:11:00,560 --> 01:11:02,679 Speaker 12: the Knicks one twenty five to one oh eight. Close 1460 01:11:02,720 --> 01:11:05,719 Speaker 12: it out forty two. Now we have the NBA Finals. 1461 01:11:05,840 --> 01:11:09,320 Speaker 12: It is the Oklahoma City Thunder and the Indiana Pacers. 1462 01:11:09,600 --> 01:11:10,800 Speaker 12: How we feeling about this one? 1463 01:11:10,920 --> 01:11:14,120 Speaker 2: Is this one? This is gonna be Nobody saw that coming. 1464 01:11:14,680 --> 01:11:16,880 Speaker 4: Nobody. 1465 01:11:17,080 --> 01:11:20,080 Speaker 8: They're not the biggest TV markets in the country, though, 1466 01:11:20,240 --> 01:11:23,680 Speaker 8: I will say that Oklahoma and Indiana and. 1467 01:11:23,800 --> 01:11:30,439 Speaker 2: We gotta watch it. It's not sexy, it's not lost. Yeah, 1468 01:11:30,520 --> 01:11:33,160 Speaker 2: we got before we go through this drought. Don't have 1469 01:11:33,360 --> 01:11:38,280 Speaker 2: no Yeah in Miami. It ain't Chicago, it ain't. 1470 01:11:40,479 --> 01:11:40,639 Speaker 8: Man. 1471 01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:42,680 Speaker 2: They're just saying, what. 1472 01:11:42,760 --> 01:11:43,200 Speaker 9: Are we doing? 1473 01:11:43,600 --> 01:11:46,120 Speaker 2: The boys can ball? Oklahoma? What are we doing that? 1474 01:11:46,479 --> 01:11:46,679 Speaker 14: Yeah? 1475 01:11:47,240 --> 01:11:53,040 Speaker 2: Try to turn around? What happened? What happened in Oklahoma? 1476 01:11:53,880 --> 01:11:55,960 Speaker 2: When I go to Oklahoma, turn it around. 1477 01:11:56,479 --> 01:11:57,800 Speaker 1: I've never been Oklahoma. 1478 01:11:59,360 --> 01:11:59,600 Speaker 9: I have. 1479 01:12:01,400 --> 01:12:05,080 Speaker 2: Nice people, nice people, but it's not they don't have 1480 01:12:05,240 --> 01:12:06,000 Speaker 2: a lot of stuff. 1481 01:12:06,080 --> 01:12:09,040 Speaker 8: Man, Like if you want, like really really great food 1482 01:12:09,120 --> 01:12:12,280 Speaker 8: and stuff like that because it's so many fast food 1483 01:12:12,320 --> 01:12:13,920 Speaker 8: restaurants across Oklahoma. 1484 01:12:14,400 --> 01:12:18,800 Speaker 2: It dominates, man, it dominates. What about in Indianapolis? Have 1485 01:12:18,880 --> 01:12:20,880 Speaker 2: you been in Nianapolis? What do we do in Indianapolis? 1486 01:12:22,520 --> 01:12:22,680 Speaker 9: Yeah? 1487 01:12:22,720 --> 01:12:25,280 Speaker 8: I mean Indianapolis is a lot more of urban more 1488 01:12:25,960 --> 01:12:28,080 Speaker 8: you know, I guess we say city five. You know, 1489 01:12:28,160 --> 01:12:32,440 Speaker 8: it's a lot more to the downtown, is more sprawling. Yeah, cosmopolitan, 1490 01:12:32,479 --> 01:12:34,880 Speaker 8: that's the good word for it. Yeah, Indiana's much more. 1491 01:12:35,240 --> 01:12:37,760 Speaker 2: But my guess from Indianapolis. 1492 01:12:40,280 --> 01:12:44,200 Speaker 8: Yeah, they got good restaurants up there, you know, the 1493 01:12:44,600 --> 01:12:45,679 Speaker 8: Keystone's Crossing. 1494 01:12:45,880 --> 01:12:47,960 Speaker 2: They got any gambling in Indianapolis? 1495 01:12:47,960 --> 01:12:49,200 Speaker 1: Is any gaming off, isn't? 1496 01:12:49,479 --> 01:12:49,920 Speaker 4: I don't know. 1497 01:12:50,000 --> 01:12:50,720 Speaker 2: I'm sure it is. 1498 01:12:50,800 --> 01:12:53,640 Speaker 8: I think it is gambling in Indiana. It's gambling everywhere. Now, 1499 01:12:55,640 --> 01:12:58,439 Speaker 8: this ain't nothing like Vegas, though, Don't it doesn't. 1500 01:12:58,479 --> 01:12:59,439 Speaker 2: Don't you really. 1501 01:13:00,760 --> 01:13:02,759 Speaker 1: Don't go there Vegas. 1502 01:13:03,000 --> 01:13:07,840 Speaker 2: It's Vegas, baby, it's Vegas. Yeah. Yeah, it can't beat it. 1503 01:13:08,720 --> 01:13:14,360 Speaker 2: Watch got I got Oklahoma. I got Oklahoma. Yeah, I 1504 01:13:14,400 --> 01:13:15,080 Speaker 2: got Oklahoma. 1505 01:13:15,720 --> 01:13:18,280 Speaker 1: Why why not in Dinna? 1506 01:13:19,960 --> 01:13:23,840 Speaker 2: I just think they're better. M h. It's the battle 1507 01:13:23,840 --> 01:13:25,080 Speaker 2: of the threes, That's all it is. 1508 01:13:25,160 --> 01:13:25,680 Speaker 1: That's all it is. 1509 01:13:26,320 --> 01:13:26,479 Speaker 15: Yeah. 1510 01:13:26,720 --> 01:13:30,599 Speaker 8: Man, me personally, I can care less because it's since 1511 01:13:30,720 --> 01:13:33,800 Speaker 8: the game is so different, man, and I'm really watching it. 1512 01:13:34,240 --> 01:13:37,000 Speaker 2: I like the players, I like the skills that they have. 1513 01:13:37,920 --> 01:13:40,080 Speaker 8: But you know, it's crazy to me to watch a 1514 01:13:40,120 --> 01:13:43,120 Speaker 8: guy drive to the basket instead of fighting for the 1515 01:13:43,200 --> 01:13:44,640 Speaker 8: two for one, he get all the way to the 1516 01:13:44,720 --> 01:13:47,360 Speaker 8: hole to throw it back out and there's some seven 1517 01:13:47,640 --> 01:13:52,280 Speaker 8: dudes shooting thirty miss Thank you, guys, thank you. 1518 01:13:52,360 --> 01:13:55,040 Speaker 11: You coming up at the top of the hour of Man. 1519 01:13:55,120 --> 01:13:58,200 Speaker 11: It's hurt Steve because the side chick is getting married. 1520 01:13:58,720 --> 01:14:01,600 Speaker 11: He needs some advice. We'll talk about it right after this. 1521 01:14:04,360 --> 01:14:11,360 Speaker 11: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. This one 1522 01:14:11,479 --> 01:14:12,879 Speaker 11: is from Charles and Arlington. 1523 01:14:12,960 --> 01:14:13,200 Speaker 8: Steve. 1524 01:14:13,280 --> 01:14:15,360 Speaker 11: He says, I've been with my side chick for about 1525 01:14:15,400 --> 01:14:18,840 Speaker 11: five years, and she surprised me by telling me she's 1526 01:14:18,920 --> 01:14:22,040 Speaker 11: getting married. I've invested a lot into her and she 1527 01:14:22,240 --> 01:14:25,000 Speaker 11: knows if I could be with her I would. I 1528 01:14:25,080 --> 01:14:26,960 Speaker 11: thought she would have at least told me she was 1529 01:14:27,120 --> 01:14:30,080 Speaker 11: dating someone on the side. I really do love her, 1530 01:14:30,360 --> 01:14:33,840 Speaker 11: I just needed more time. Am I being selfish to be? 1531 01:14:34,000 --> 01:14:35,160 Speaker 1: This upsets. 1532 01:14:36,280 --> 01:14:40,240 Speaker 8: Well, yeah, dog, because when you say she's your side chick, 1533 01:14:40,320 --> 01:14:43,880 Speaker 8: that means you have a wife or fiance or somebody 1534 01:14:44,000 --> 01:14:44,519 Speaker 8: you live with. 1535 01:14:46,200 --> 01:14:48,560 Speaker 2: She'd have made a move. She saw no future in it, 1536 01:14:49,800 --> 01:14:53,840 Speaker 2: you know, dog, you can't, hey. 1537 01:14:53,760 --> 01:14:57,000 Speaker 8: Man, Look, once a woman learns the rules and starts 1538 01:14:57,040 --> 01:14:58,080 Speaker 8: applying the rules. 1539 01:14:58,479 --> 01:14:59,360 Speaker 2: Why you mad. 1540 01:15:01,600 --> 01:15:03,760 Speaker 8: You wanted her to stay number two when she had 1541 01:15:03,800 --> 01:15:05,160 Speaker 8: an opportunity to be number one? 1542 01:15:06,439 --> 01:15:08,320 Speaker 1: Boy, man, come on for five? 1543 01:15:08,439 --> 01:15:12,479 Speaker 2: Ye no, it's a town. No, no, hey, don't go 1544 01:15:12,840 --> 01:15:15,960 Speaker 2: go live your life, Go go do something now. Yeah, 1545 01:15:16,000 --> 01:15:16,720 Speaker 2: she don't want to be there? 1546 01:15:16,800 --> 01:15:22,120 Speaker 11: No, right, she had a man? All right, we do 1547 01:15:22,240 --> 01:15:24,719 Speaker 11: have time for another one, Steve. This is from Brie 1548 01:15:24,920 --> 01:15:28,479 Speaker 11: and Tampa. Brie says, my kids spent the weekend with 1549 01:15:28,600 --> 01:15:31,599 Speaker 11: their dad and I had company come in town. Their 1550 01:15:31,720 --> 01:15:33,960 Speaker 11: dad had a work emergency and had to go out 1551 01:15:34,000 --> 01:15:36,519 Speaker 11: of town, so I told him to take the kids 1552 01:15:36,600 --> 01:15:38,840 Speaker 11: to his parents' house. He didn't want to do that, 1553 01:15:39,080 --> 01:15:42,120 Speaker 11: and he insisted that I take the kids. I have 1554 01:15:42,320 --> 01:15:45,559 Speaker 11: them full time, So why can't he be a parent 1555 01:15:45,960 --> 01:15:49,160 Speaker 11: when it's his weekend? Was I wrong for not allowing 1556 01:15:49,240 --> 01:15:51,719 Speaker 11: the kids to come back home while I had a visitor? 1557 01:15:53,800 --> 01:15:56,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, jee was his turn. It was his turn. 1558 01:15:58,400 --> 01:16:01,679 Speaker 8: You know, you got them full time, It was his turn. 1559 01:16:01,880 --> 01:16:04,640 Speaker 8: Let him take the parents over there? Make him have 1560 01:16:04,760 --> 01:16:07,080 Speaker 8: the parents come pick up the kids. There's something y'all 1561 01:16:07,160 --> 01:16:10,040 Speaker 8: work it out. It's your week kid though, you gotta 1562 01:16:10,120 --> 01:16:10,920 Speaker 8: work emergency. 1563 01:16:12,080 --> 01:16:12,360 Speaker 9: You do that. 1564 01:16:12,560 --> 01:16:19,519 Speaker 2: Them kids tran to see something. Yeah, no, mama, who 1565 01:16:19,720 --> 01:16:21,360 Speaker 2: is this your new daddy? Be quiet? 1566 01:16:25,200 --> 01:16:26,200 Speaker 5: You ain't my daddy. 1567 01:16:27,880 --> 01:16:28,839 Speaker 2: I am this weekend? 1568 01:16:32,720 --> 01:16:34,679 Speaker 1: Wow, she had company come in town. 1569 01:16:35,400 --> 01:16:36,960 Speaker 2: Okay, all right? 1570 01:16:37,400 --> 01:16:41,360 Speaker 1: Ye depends on how bad these kids is. 1571 01:16:41,439 --> 01:16:43,280 Speaker 2: Then when the father won't come back and get them. 1572 01:16:47,160 --> 01:16:54,320 Speaker 1: Or the grandparents they don't want to be bothered. Yeah, yeah, 1573 01:16:54,360 --> 01:16:55,880 Speaker 1: I can't let the new friends he this. 1574 01:16:56,400 --> 01:16:59,200 Speaker 11: Yeah, so Steve, what are you saying he's defaulting on 1575 01:16:59,400 --> 01:17:01,320 Speaker 11: his duty by nuts? 1576 01:17:01,600 --> 01:17:03,800 Speaker 8: I mean, look, man, it's your weekend now, you want 1577 01:17:03,840 --> 01:17:07,920 Speaker 8: to bring them back? She got planned. Everybody need a break, man, Yeah, 1578 01:17:08,320 --> 01:17:10,439 Speaker 8: these mothers has got full custody the kids. 1579 01:17:10,479 --> 01:17:12,160 Speaker 2: When it's your weekend, it's your weekend. 1580 01:17:13,160 --> 01:17:13,360 Speaker 16: Rush. 1581 01:17:13,479 --> 01:17:14,840 Speaker 2: Everybody need a break. 1582 01:17:18,920 --> 01:17:24,080 Speaker 1: On the air. Really, Tommy, he's done it done worse? 1583 01:17:27,600 --> 01:17:30,439 Speaker 1: Is he jealous? Stevie think that she had company? 1584 01:17:30,560 --> 01:17:35,240 Speaker 2: Well he doesn't know why, and she's not telling him why. 1585 01:17:36,120 --> 01:17:40,360 Speaker 3: It's just nod a work emergency. 1586 01:17:41,320 --> 01:17:42,720 Speaker 2: Everybody got work emergency. 1587 01:17:43,439 --> 01:17:43,960 Speaker 1: Work it out. 1588 01:17:44,400 --> 01:17:45,280 Speaker 2: We all got them. 1589 01:17:46,280 --> 01:17:48,439 Speaker 8: Tell your job Hey, look, I got to drop my 1590 01:17:48,560 --> 01:17:50,000 Speaker 8: kids off at my parents house. 1591 01:17:50,280 --> 01:17:55,200 Speaker 2: I'll be there right away. Yeah, that's all. It ain't 1592 01:17:55,240 --> 01:17:58,240 Speaker 2: that big emergency down at your job. You ain't the police. 1593 01:18:00,240 --> 01:18:00,320 Speaker 9: Now. 1594 01:18:00,360 --> 01:18:02,519 Speaker 8: If you're a homicide you gotta get out there because 1595 01:18:02,520 --> 01:18:04,120 Speaker 8: you got to get all this as much as information 1596 01:18:04,160 --> 01:18:05,800 Speaker 8: as you can before forty eight hours. 1597 01:18:05,840 --> 01:18:11,160 Speaker 1: Forty eight hours because chances lesson see chances is. 1598 01:18:11,240 --> 01:18:13,639 Speaker 2: Lesson solving your crime. If you don't get a lead 1599 01:18:13,720 --> 01:18:16,160 Speaker 2: in the first forty eight hours, y'all need to notice. 1600 01:18:15,960 --> 01:18:20,400 Speaker 11: That could you have been a police police officer, Steve, 1601 01:18:20,600 --> 01:18:22,360 Speaker 11: you think so in another life? 1602 01:18:22,720 --> 01:18:25,200 Speaker 2: No, because I don't care what. 1603 01:18:26,479 --> 01:18:30,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't care enough first forty eight hours. 1604 01:18:30,240 --> 01:18:33,560 Speaker 8: Hey, all I do is learn how many ways you 1605 01:18:33,600 --> 01:18:35,720 Speaker 8: can get busted. So when I'm intring my kids, I 1606 01:18:35,800 --> 01:18:36,639 Speaker 8: know what I'm talking about. 1607 01:18:37,040 --> 01:18:45,519 Speaker 1: No, it's research for you, just purely research. All right. 1608 01:18:46,640 --> 01:18:48,920 Speaker 11: Coming up next, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey 1609 01:18:48,960 --> 01:18:52,360 Speaker 11: Morning Show. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve 1610 01:18:52,520 --> 01:18:59,040 Speaker 11: Harvey Morning Show. Well, we got to say congratulations to 1611 01:18:59,200 --> 01:19:01,920 Speaker 11: Carti B. Cardi B will be honored this month at 1612 01:19:01,960 --> 01:19:05,640 Speaker 11: a private ceremony hosted by ASCAP that is the Association 1613 01:19:05,800 --> 01:19:10,080 Speaker 11: for songwriters, composers, and music publishers. Carti will receive as 1614 01:19:10,200 --> 01:19:14,120 Speaker 11: CAP's Voice of a Culture Award, celebrating her influence and 1615 01:19:14,240 --> 01:19:18,679 Speaker 11: impact on hip hop music and culture. As CAPS chairman says, 1616 01:19:18,760 --> 01:19:21,880 Speaker 11: Cardi B has left an indelible mark on the culture 1617 01:19:21,920 --> 01:19:25,960 Speaker 11: of hip hop by redefining and challenging the norms for women, 1618 01:19:26,400 --> 01:19:32,000 Speaker 11: having broken through countless barriers with her unapologetic authenticity, authenticity 1619 01:19:32,160 --> 01:19:35,160 Speaker 11: and talent, and she continues to use her voice to 1620 01:19:35,320 --> 01:19:40,040 Speaker 11: advocate for and inspire others. So congratulations to Cardi B. 1621 01:19:40,920 --> 01:19:43,439 Speaker 11: Do you guys think that Cardi B is the voice 1622 01:19:43,520 --> 01:19:44,519 Speaker 11: of today's culture? 1623 01:19:44,640 --> 01:19:46,080 Speaker 1: Steve, I don't know. 1624 01:19:46,240 --> 01:19:48,479 Speaker 2: I'm not in the one of them for sure. 1625 01:19:49,120 --> 01:19:50,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm pretty sure she is. 1626 01:19:52,320 --> 01:19:54,920 Speaker 2: I like her man, she says, she speak her mind, 1627 01:19:55,040 --> 01:19:57,760 Speaker 2: She's innovative. I like Cardi B. I ain't got a 1628 01:19:57,800 --> 01:19:58,639 Speaker 2: part she dresses. 1629 01:19:58,800 --> 01:20:01,639 Speaker 1: You know, I ain't got a pro active mother. 1630 01:20:01,960 --> 01:20:02,120 Speaker 9: You know. 1631 01:20:03,920 --> 01:20:06,200 Speaker 8: You know, they tell a lot of their business, but 1632 01:20:06,320 --> 01:20:09,040 Speaker 8: that's that's the world. They in their social media. 1633 01:20:10,000 --> 01:20:11,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, female MC. 1634 01:20:12,720 --> 01:20:16,000 Speaker 3: She goes with us Stefan Diggs, now the NFL player 1635 01:20:16,080 --> 01:20:16,639 Speaker 3: they're dating. 1636 01:20:17,560 --> 01:20:22,600 Speaker 13: Okay, what was that? 1637 01:20:22,800 --> 01:20:28,760 Speaker 2: C need to get. 1638 01:20:31,240 --> 01:20:35,960 Speaker 11: Congratulations Agandy, Cardi b voice of Today's culture. All right, 1639 01:20:36,040 --> 01:20:38,240 Speaker 11: coming up next, we'll play around it. Would you rather 1640 01:20:38,600 --> 01:20:42,280 Speaker 11: right after this? You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1641 01:20:47,560 --> 01:20:50,160 Speaker 2: Do you think astronauts fight over elbow room? 1642 01:20:50,400 --> 01:20:55,120 Speaker 8: Probably because advanced tech doesn't always mean more space. Until now, 1643 01:20:55,320 --> 01:20:59,439 Speaker 8: introduce it the Handai Ionic nine, a three row electric 1644 01:20:59,600 --> 01:21:03,400 Speaker 8: suv with over three hundred miles of rage, ultra fast 1645 01:21:03,560 --> 01:21:05,799 Speaker 8: charging capability, and lots of space. 1646 01:21:05,960 --> 01:21:09,160 Speaker 13: The all new Hondai Ionic nine face in an ev 1647 01:21:09,360 --> 01:21:12,679 Speaker 13: Visit Hondai USA dot com for more details. EPA estimated 1648 01:21:12,720 --> 01:21:14,960 Speaker 13: rings for owning nine based on fully charged batteries for 1649 01:21:15,040 --> 01:21:18,400 Speaker 13: comparison purpose only. Actual rings will vary based on several factors. 1650 01:21:19,240 --> 01:21:20,920 Speaker 1: Time now for a round of would you rather? 1651 01:21:21,040 --> 01:21:21,280 Speaker 9: Guys? 1652 01:21:21,320 --> 01:21:25,280 Speaker 1: Would you rather jumping jacks or jumping rope? Which one? 1653 01:21:26,439 --> 01:21:29,360 Speaker 2: Jumping jack? I'm I'm a fall in that rope? 1654 01:21:30,479 --> 01:21:33,400 Speaker 8: Uh huh yeah, I'm not gonna fall in the rope, 1655 01:21:33,400 --> 01:21:35,600 Speaker 8: but I'm gonna whip my legs. 1656 01:21:35,280 --> 01:21:35,960 Speaker 2: Half to them. 1657 01:21:39,600 --> 01:21:43,640 Speaker 1: All right? Moving on? Would you rather sausage biscuit with 1658 01:21:43,920 --> 01:21:47,679 Speaker 1: gravy for breakfast? Or would you rather oatmeal and fruit? 1659 01:21:48,280 --> 01:21:50,559 Speaker 2: I'll take it well, the latter would be better. 1660 01:21:51,760 --> 01:21:57,439 Speaker 1: Healthier, saying that first one shows sound good? Sausage biscuit 1661 01:21:57,600 --> 01:22:01,840 Speaker 1: with gravy. Yeah, yeah, that's stage busy. 1662 01:22:02,800 --> 01:22:06,920 Speaker 13: Okay, I'm gonna get this old bal to keep my 1663 01:22:07,160 --> 01:22:07,880 Speaker 13: left row down. 1664 01:22:07,920 --> 01:22:08,560 Speaker 2: That's what I'm gonna do. 1665 01:22:09,040 --> 01:22:11,479 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, you are going to stay healthy? 1666 01:22:12,439 --> 01:22:12,800 Speaker 2: All right? 1667 01:22:13,040 --> 01:22:15,880 Speaker 11: Would you rather a vacation this is interesting, a vacation 1668 01:22:16,080 --> 01:22:19,080 Speaker 11: with your co workers? Or would you rather a vacation 1669 01:22:19,320 --> 01:22:21,000 Speaker 11: with your extended family? 1670 01:22:21,400 --> 01:22:21,880 Speaker 1: Which one? 1671 01:22:23,520 --> 01:22:25,519 Speaker 2: What is extended family? What does mean? 1672 01:22:25,640 --> 01:22:31,320 Speaker 11: Who are these people you know, like uncles, aunts, cousin 1673 01:22:32,200 --> 01:22:34,880 Speaker 11: besides your your children and your immediate family? 1674 01:22:36,040 --> 01:22:38,080 Speaker 2: Caribbean? Are we going to Cancun? Where we're going? 1675 01:22:38,920 --> 01:22:40,240 Speaker 1: Well, it's just always vacation. 1676 01:22:41,160 --> 01:22:43,120 Speaker 2: I take y'all, I'll take you. 1677 01:22:44,600 --> 01:22:46,520 Speaker 1: Sound happy about that thought? 1678 01:22:46,680 --> 01:22:48,760 Speaker 2: Happy? Where y'all want to go? 1679 01:22:49,320 --> 01:22:51,160 Speaker 1: Okay, we gotta. 1680 01:22:51,000 --> 01:22:53,439 Speaker 13: Do with Sureley getting on the plane. You don't know 1681 01:22:53,560 --> 01:22:59,080 Speaker 13: how to get a lot of back in because she ain't. 1682 01:22:58,920 --> 01:22:59,400 Speaker 2: Ready to go. 1683 01:23:02,240 --> 01:23:02,760 Speaker 1: Yesterday? 1684 01:23:05,080 --> 01:23:08,680 Speaker 11: All right, guys, would you rather surround yourself with intelligent 1685 01:23:08,800 --> 01:23:13,799 Speaker 11: people or funny people? Oh? Funny people? You're a comedian, 1686 01:23:14,040 --> 01:23:18,040 Speaker 11: you want them funny? Okay, come on, guys, tell me yeah, 1687 01:23:18,200 --> 01:23:19,240 Speaker 11: funny or intelligent? 1688 01:23:20,439 --> 01:23:22,719 Speaker 2: I ain't really been around a lot of intelligence people. 1689 01:23:22,760 --> 01:23:24,080 Speaker 2: I just go around funny people. 1690 01:23:24,160 --> 01:23:29,160 Speaker 8: So yeah, it shows because there ain't nothing rubbed off, 1691 01:23:29,280 --> 01:23:32,600 Speaker 8: so right, it definitely shows. 1692 01:23:36,120 --> 01:23:39,599 Speaker 2: You probably have been around some intelligent people. You didn't 1693 01:23:39,600 --> 01:23:40,320 Speaker 2: know what they know. 1694 01:23:43,400 --> 01:23:51,720 Speaker 8: What they showed me thinking all the time. All right, 1695 01:23:51,840 --> 01:23:55,320 Speaker 8: I wonder why they had that conversation in that exact order. 1696 01:23:55,439 --> 01:23:56,520 Speaker 2: That's crazy. 1697 01:23:58,640 --> 01:23:59,519 Speaker 1: Exact order. 1698 01:24:02,320 --> 01:24:05,800 Speaker 11: Would you rather have an X say an X say 1699 01:24:05,840 --> 01:24:08,880 Speaker 11: you're a bad lover or you always smell bad? 1700 01:24:09,439 --> 01:24:12,600 Speaker 2: I don't care. I wish what the hell what she 1701 01:24:12,760 --> 01:24:23,280 Speaker 2: don't say? Oh that's true? Yes, yes, by still get. 1702 01:24:24,960 --> 01:24:25,160 Speaker 12: Yes. 1703 01:24:25,600 --> 01:24:25,840 Speaker 9: Bye. 1704 01:24:28,520 --> 01:24:31,080 Speaker 1: That's today's rounded. Would you rather coming up next? 1705 01:24:31,680 --> 01:24:34,559 Speaker 11: It is our last break of the day, and we'll 1706 01:24:34,600 --> 01:24:36,519 Speaker 11: close out the show with the one and only, the Man, 1707 01:24:36,600 --> 01:24:39,320 Speaker 11: the Myth, the Legend, Steve Harvey. Right after this, you're 1708 01:24:39,400 --> 01:24:41,599 Speaker 11: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1709 01:24:45,720 --> 01:24:46,799 Speaker 1: Say it's Carla Ferrol. 1710 01:24:46,960 --> 01:24:49,640 Speaker 3: Kick that old mopping bucket aside? Are you ready for 1711 01:24:49,880 --> 01:24:52,639 Speaker 3: a mop and bucket clean and half the time make 1712 01:24:52,720 --> 01:24:55,960 Speaker 3: the swamp to swipper Power Mop, the only one cleaning 1713 01:24:56,080 --> 01:24:58,599 Speaker 3: hero has a built in solution that breaks down dirt 1714 01:24:58,720 --> 01:25:02,240 Speaker 3: and grime like mad with hundreds of scrubbing strips on 1715 01:25:02,400 --> 01:25:06,320 Speaker 3: the pad. It absorbs sticky messays with ease. Plus it'll 1716 01:25:06,360 --> 01:25:09,360 Speaker 3: leave your home smelling great for hours after cleaning. Get 1717 01:25:09,439 --> 01:25:12,320 Speaker 3: yours today and mop smarter with the Swiffer Power. 1718 01:25:12,479 --> 01:25:16,120 Speaker 11: Mom. Here we are, last break of the day and 1719 01:25:16,600 --> 01:25:19,679 Speaker 11: time for some closing remarks from the wonderful, the one 1720 01:25:19,760 --> 01:25:22,360 Speaker 11: and only, our fearless leader, Steve Harvey. 1721 01:25:22,400 --> 01:25:23,200 Speaker 1: What you got, Steve? 1722 01:25:23,760 --> 01:25:32,720 Speaker 8: You know, I was just thinking about encouragement and the 1723 01:25:32,840 --> 01:25:37,080 Speaker 8: things that have happened in my life to greatly encourage me. 1724 01:25:38,479 --> 01:25:40,640 Speaker 8: And kind of, like I said this morning, you know, 1725 01:25:40,680 --> 01:25:42,840 Speaker 8: I kind of woke up this morning. I just wasn't 1726 01:25:43,360 --> 01:25:47,559 Speaker 8: myself this morning. I wasn't my usual and I found 1727 01:25:47,640 --> 01:25:50,720 Speaker 8: myself thinking, you know, some thoughts that I shouldn't have 1728 01:25:50,760 --> 01:25:54,800 Speaker 8: allowed to get into my head. But I quickly reversed that. 1729 01:25:55,680 --> 01:25:59,320 Speaker 8: And I'm gonna tell you something that I do because 1730 01:25:59,800 --> 01:26:03,960 Speaker 8: I was taught a long time ago that your feelings 1731 01:26:04,360 --> 01:26:09,000 Speaker 8: are a barometer of your thoughts. Your feelings are a 1732 01:26:09,080 --> 01:26:11,439 Speaker 8: barometer of your thoughts. And what that simply means is 1733 01:26:12,439 --> 01:26:17,160 Speaker 8: what your feeling is actually like just a thermometer of 1734 01:26:17,280 --> 01:26:21,360 Speaker 8: what you've been thinking over the past twenty thirty minutes. 1735 01:26:22,479 --> 01:26:26,320 Speaker 8: If you think, if you catch yourself feeling out of 1736 01:26:26,479 --> 01:26:29,360 Speaker 8: sorts or getting to a little funk, or feeling a 1737 01:26:29,400 --> 01:26:32,439 Speaker 8: little depressed, all you have to do is trace back 1738 01:26:32,560 --> 01:26:36,000 Speaker 8: what you've been thinking for the past fifteen to thirty minutes, 1739 01:26:37,200 --> 01:26:42,240 Speaker 8: because all your feelings are are simply a barometer. 1740 01:26:43,479 --> 01:26:44,600 Speaker 2: Or however you want to look at it. 1741 01:26:44,680 --> 01:26:46,519 Speaker 8: You might want to say a thermometer, so you can 1742 01:26:46,560 --> 01:26:49,320 Speaker 8: say it tells the temperature of what you've been thinking. 1743 01:26:50,640 --> 01:26:52,439 Speaker 2: And so I had to go back and do that, 1744 01:26:52,560 --> 01:26:54,000 Speaker 2: and I realized. 1745 01:26:55,240 --> 01:26:57,000 Speaker 8: The reason I kind of woke up on the wrong 1746 01:26:57,120 --> 01:26:59,880 Speaker 8: side of the bed was because I was laying at thinking. 1747 01:27:01,400 --> 01:27:02,519 Speaker 2: Some negative thoughts. 1748 01:27:02,880 --> 01:27:04,960 Speaker 8: I was thinking about all the stuff I had to do, 1749 01:27:05,960 --> 01:27:09,760 Speaker 8: all the stuff I needed to accomplish, and then I 1750 01:27:09,920 --> 01:27:13,719 Speaker 8: was realizing that there was no way I was gonna 1751 01:27:13,720 --> 01:27:16,679 Speaker 8: get it all done today, no matter how hard I try. 1752 01:27:19,080 --> 01:27:21,800 Speaker 8: And as I was sitting there man beating myself up 1753 01:27:21,920 --> 01:27:24,840 Speaker 8: for knowing all that I had to do and knowing 1754 01:27:24,920 --> 01:27:26,720 Speaker 8: I didn't have enough time in the day to get 1755 01:27:26,800 --> 01:27:30,599 Speaker 8: it done, I started feeling sort of out of sorts 1756 01:27:30,640 --> 01:27:32,760 Speaker 8: and like, man, this is I want this to move 1757 01:27:32,760 --> 01:27:33,800 Speaker 8: blah blah blah blah blah. 1758 01:27:33,920 --> 01:27:34,439 Speaker 2: Well, I had to. 1759 01:27:34,479 --> 01:27:37,760 Speaker 8: Catch myself because I had to be reminded of the 1760 01:27:37,880 --> 01:27:40,760 Speaker 8: Lord's prayer, the line that says, give us this day 1761 01:27:40,880 --> 01:27:45,720 Speaker 8: our daily bread, which God has mentally equipped us to 1762 01:27:45,800 --> 01:27:50,360 Speaker 8: handle today. God didn't set our brain up to handle tomorrow. 1763 01:27:50,560 --> 01:27:53,200 Speaker 8: To worry about it anyway. You can think about it 1764 01:27:53,360 --> 01:27:56,200 Speaker 8: and aspire about it and dream about it, but you're 1765 01:27:56,360 --> 01:27:59,519 Speaker 8: surely not to worry about it because there's nothing you 1766 01:27:59,600 --> 01:28:00,400 Speaker 8: can do about it. 1767 01:28:00,920 --> 01:28:01,720 Speaker 2: But I was sitting there. 1768 01:28:01,640 --> 01:28:04,160 Speaker 8: About worrying about today and all I had to do 1769 01:28:04,240 --> 01:28:05,600 Speaker 8: and how I was gonna fit it in today and 1770 01:28:05,680 --> 01:28:08,200 Speaker 8: knowing I couldn't and how I was gonna affect my tomorrow. 1771 01:28:08,760 --> 01:28:11,519 Speaker 2: Bad mistake, Steve Harvey and you know better. 1772 01:28:12,160 --> 01:28:14,280 Speaker 8: And so I'm trying to help you all understand that 1773 01:28:14,400 --> 01:28:17,120 Speaker 8: when you get into that funk like that, know better, 1774 01:28:17,280 --> 01:28:19,760 Speaker 8: like I had to know better. God has equipped us 1775 01:28:19,800 --> 01:28:22,960 Speaker 8: to handle today. Give us this day our daily bread. 1776 01:28:23,280 --> 01:28:25,439 Speaker 8: He don't want you tripping on what that already happened 1777 01:28:25,439 --> 01:28:27,920 Speaker 8: in the past. You can't go back, you don't get 1778 01:28:28,000 --> 01:28:29,960 Speaker 8: do overs, and ain't no need to worry about the 1779 01:28:30,000 --> 01:28:33,320 Speaker 8: future because you have no control over it. So I 1780 01:28:33,439 --> 01:28:36,800 Speaker 8: had to get focused and I had to think about Wow, 1781 01:28:37,880 --> 01:28:43,240 Speaker 8: all I need is today. I need enough to make 1782 01:28:43,360 --> 01:28:47,280 Speaker 8: it today. And so as I was sitting there shaving, 1783 01:28:47,360 --> 01:28:49,760 Speaker 8: I was sitting up here thinking, I said, wow, I'm up, 1784 01:28:49,840 --> 01:28:54,160 Speaker 8: I have a measure of help. I'm shaving. I'm actually okay. 1785 01:28:54,400 --> 01:28:59,160 Speaker 8: I'm order some room service. I'm okay. I get to 1786 01:28:59,320 --> 01:29:03,120 Speaker 8: go to work today. That's a blessing. Not I gotta 1787 01:29:03,160 --> 01:29:05,759 Speaker 8: go to work. I get to go to work today, 1788 01:29:06,320 --> 01:29:10,520 Speaker 8: because that's a blessing. It's a blessing to have that opportunity. 1789 01:29:10,760 --> 01:29:13,559 Speaker 8: It's people looking for a job today wishing they would 1790 01:29:13,600 --> 01:29:15,240 Speaker 8: work anywhere, and I just need to get a check 1791 01:29:15,320 --> 01:29:18,720 Speaker 8: coming in here. I actually get to go to work 1792 01:29:18,760 --> 01:29:23,240 Speaker 8: to a job I enjoy. Steve Harvey, are you kidding me? 1793 01:29:25,080 --> 01:29:27,599 Speaker 8: You got the nerve to wake up on the wrong 1794 01:29:27,800 --> 01:29:30,840 Speaker 8: side of the bed because you was worrying about what 1795 01:29:30,960 --> 01:29:34,680 Speaker 8: you might not accomplish. Have you taken a moment, sir, 1796 01:29:35,520 --> 01:29:40,320 Speaker 8: to just realize what you have. That my children are healthy, 1797 01:29:41,880 --> 01:29:47,160 Speaker 8: that they all still with me, that I got loving family. 1798 01:29:48,960 --> 01:29:52,160 Speaker 8: Oh they had a dysfunctional moments. Oh you can believe that, 1799 01:29:53,240 --> 01:29:54,559 Speaker 8: But at the end of the day, I bet they 1800 01:29:54,640 --> 01:30:01,920 Speaker 8: love each other. Hey man, you have options. Hey man, 1801 01:30:02,680 --> 01:30:06,160 Speaker 8: you're able to walk to see, to talk, to think, 1802 01:30:06,320 --> 01:30:09,680 Speaker 8: to rhyme, to reason. It's just so many little things. 1803 01:30:10,560 --> 01:30:14,720 Speaker 8: I'm looking out the window right now, and I'm realizing 1804 01:30:15,720 --> 01:30:18,720 Speaker 8: the sun is up and I'm free while I can 1805 01:30:18,840 --> 01:30:19,760 Speaker 8: go out there and enjoy it. 1806 01:30:20,760 --> 01:30:21,920 Speaker 2: Man, get out of here. 1807 01:30:22,720 --> 01:30:25,800 Speaker 8: You don't have the right, sir, to wake up on 1808 01:30:25,880 --> 01:30:29,439 Speaker 8: the wrong side of the bed when the joy and 1809 01:30:29,560 --> 01:30:32,160 Speaker 8: the gratitude ought to be that you woke up on 1810 01:30:32,360 --> 01:30:32,760 Speaker 8: the bed. 1811 01:30:33,160 --> 01:30:34,880 Speaker 2: How about that? Cause don't you. 1812 01:30:34,960 --> 01:30:37,839 Speaker 8: Remember Steve Harvey when you didn't have no bed partner? 1813 01:30:38,560 --> 01:30:40,639 Speaker 8: Now you're worrying about getting up on the wrong side. 1814 01:30:40,920 --> 01:30:43,679 Speaker 8: How about them three years when you ain't had no bed? 1815 01:30:44,479 --> 01:30:48,160 Speaker 8: What about that? Are you kidding me? Man? So you 1816 01:30:48,240 --> 01:30:50,120 Speaker 8: gonna lay up here stuck on stupid because you're on 1817 01:30:50,160 --> 01:30:53,120 Speaker 8: the wrong side of the bed. You frustrated you ain't 1818 01:30:53,160 --> 01:30:55,800 Speaker 8: got enough time any day. But did you ever really 1819 01:30:55,840 --> 01:30:57,760 Speaker 8: think about why you don't have enough time in the day? 1820 01:30:58,080 --> 01:31:00,800 Speaker 8: Because you got stuff to do? Why you got stuff 1821 01:31:00,840 --> 01:31:03,600 Speaker 8: to do? Because God created you to be busy. You 1822 01:31:03,680 --> 01:31:05,360 Speaker 8: know why He created you to be busy so you 1823 01:31:05,439 --> 01:31:08,599 Speaker 8: can have the life you asked for. You can't complain 1824 01:31:08,680 --> 01:31:11,240 Speaker 8: about what's all on your plate when your whole goal 1825 01:31:11,479 --> 01:31:17,120 Speaker 8: was to eat. Sitting up in here tripping about how 1826 01:31:17,200 --> 01:31:20,760 Speaker 8: much is on my plate when my whole goal was 1827 01:31:20,960 --> 01:31:23,960 Speaker 8: to eat. Now he got plenty on the plate, And 1828 01:31:24,120 --> 01:31:28,439 Speaker 8: you tripping about that? Are you stupid, Steve Harvey? I 1829 01:31:28,600 --> 01:31:33,120 Speaker 8: don't think so. So I pulled my big lip wide 1830 01:31:33,280 --> 01:31:38,639 Speaker 8: nose self together and focused and got grateful and got 1831 01:31:38,720 --> 01:31:41,120 Speaker 8: my day started. And now as I say goodbye to 1832 01:31:41,240 --> 01:31:44,040 Speaker 8: y'all this morning, I get to go to work and 1833 01:31:44,240 --> 01:31:45,240 Speaker 8: do it all over again. 1834 01:31:46,160 --> 01:31:50,599 Speaker 2: Let the sure say, man, Amen, Amen again, ain't man again? 1835 01:31:52,080 --> 01:31:53,400 Speaker 2: Holler et your boy. 1836 01:31:58,280 --> 01:31:58,599 Speaker 9: For all. 1837 01:31:58,640 --> 01:32:01,760 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Contest is necessary. Voidware prohibited. 1838 01:32:01,800 --> 01:32:05,280 Speaker 11: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1839 01:32:05,439 --> 01:32:09,640 Speaker 11: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve HARVEYFM 1840 01:32:09,800 --> 01:32:13,360 Speaker 11: dot com. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.