1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 1: Hi everyone, It's Sophia. Welcome to Work in Progress. Welcome 2 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:18,319 Speaker 1: back to this week's work in progress. Friends. I know 3 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:21,319 Speaker 1: twenty twenty six is off to a hell of a 4 00:00:21,320 --> 00:00:25,320 Speaker 1: start and a lot of us are wondering where to turn. 5 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 1: Today's guest is someone I often turn to to help 6 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:30,640 Speaker 1: me make sense of what's going on in the world. 7 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 1: Her coverage is incredible. There's few journalists that have operated 8 00:00:36,479 --> 00:00:40,160 Speaker 1: at the crossroads of influenced scrutiny and national crisis quite 9 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:43,920 Speaker 1: like Mika Brazenski, co host of Morning Joe, the long 10 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:48,240 Speaker 1: running news program that is ripe with opinions about politics, policy, 11 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 1: and people in power. Mika has been at the heart 12 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:55,000 Speaker 1: of the story for decades, from reporting at Ground zero 13 00:00:55,080 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 1: on September eleventh, to navigating a high profile professional personal 14 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 1: partnership to facing very intense scrutiny over engagement with certain 15 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 1: powerful political figures. But she consistently sticks to her principles. 16 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 1: She shows up and does the work to defend democracy 17 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 1: and to demonstrate her professional integrity while focusing on the 18 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:23,039 Speaker 1: issues she is most passionate about. One of her most 19 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 1: impactful contributions, in my mind and many others, happens to 20 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 1: be that she's turned her own battle with self doubt 21 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 1: into a movement for women called Know Your Value. Know 22 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:40,120 Speaker 1: Your Value helps women reclaim power, redefine career timelines, and 23 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 1: thrive on their own terms. And today I'm going to 24 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 1: ask Mika how she thinks we can do that as 25 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 1: we hunker down for twenty twenty six for the fight 26 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 1: ahead out in the world and the battles we might 27 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 1: be fighting at home. Let's dive in with Mika Brazenski. 28 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 2: Hi, how are you. 29 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 1: It's such a weird question these days, right. 30 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:16,799 Speaker 2: I know, it really is. I guess my answer is 31 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 2: I feel blessed and I'm very concerned about everybody. 32 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, it's a very interesting duality to live in. 33 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 2: It is, it is. 34 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 1: Well, let us dive in, Mika. It's so lovely to 35 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 1: see you. Thank you for taking the time to come 36 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 1: on the show today. 37 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 2: Thank you for having me. It's great to be here. 38 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 1: I'm thrilled. I always have the best time when I 39 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 1: get to come on your show, and it's. 40 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:45,919 Speaker 2: Fun to have you in my space. Now, Yes, here 41 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 2: I am. I'm a little nervous, but well I'm ready. 42 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:55,359 Speaker 1: We're easy peasy over here, obviously, there's a million wild 43 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:59,239 Speaker 1: things to talk about that have happened over the last week. 44 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 1: But before we sort of dive into the present and 45 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 1: purpose and the good, the bad. 46 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 2: And the ugly. 47 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 1: I actually really like to go backwards with people, because 48 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 1: you know, millions of people sit and watch you every 49 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 1: day and have for years, and they know about your 50 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:19,960 Speaker 1: life and your career. But I always really wonder when 51 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 1: I sit down with people, I admire if if you 52 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 1: got to go back in time and interact with your 53 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 1: younger self at eight or nine years old, would you 54 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 1: see aspects of Mica as a little girl that are 55 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 1: still present in you today. 56 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I do, and I see some aspects that I 57 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 2: wish I could have changed in my younger self. Maybe 58 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 2: that was a little little girl. Absolutely. I was the 59 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 2: daughter of refugee, these two older brothers, and we were 60 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 2: brought up to have goals and to contribute back to society, 61 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 2: to this great country that we are in. And I 62 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 2: feel like I overcorrected on some of those things and 63 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 2: would go back and tell myself to slow down, to 64 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:22,479 Speaker 2: do all those things, but much more slowly, and to 65 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 2: know what I know now, and that is that there's 66 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:30,479 Speaker 2: such a long runway in your life and career that 67 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 2: rushing actually it destroys the process and it creates. 68 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:41,839 Speaker 3: It. 69 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 2: Actually you missed the moment. And so I look back 70 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 2: at my younger self and I wish I could say, hey, 71 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 2: you know what, you got to slow down and feel 72 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 2: this and be here and take it all in and 73 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 2: be more mindful. It's sort of why one of the 74 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 2: major components of the messages on my women's platform, know 75 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:11,239 Speaker 2: your value is slow down. It's a long runway, and 76 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:17,600 Speaker 2: like the building blocks are are really important. You can't 77 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 2: like jump over three. So woe Nelly, is what I 78 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:26,720 Speaker 2: would have said. Because I'm sort of born, uh, sort 79 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:35,839 Speaker 2: of wired to be always accomplishing, and I think you 80 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 2: can get in the way of yourself. When you're constantly 81 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 2: focused on accomplishing, you. 82 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 1: Can get in the way of your joy or or 83 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:46,599 Speaker 1: this sort of spontaneity that co or. 84 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 2: Other people's joy. My daughter's I tell you that, they 85 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:56,040 Speaker 2: would be like whoa, yeah, yeah, a lot. 86 00:05:56,080 --> 00:06:00,600 Speaker 1: That's really interesting, but you know, I understand standard. It's 87 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 1: it's something I think when your parents come to a country, 88 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 1: you know, you speak about your family being refugees. My 89 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 1: dad immigrated here to go to university. And my mom's 90 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 1: mother immigrated here when she was a young child, and 91 00:06:19,600 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 1: the lore of coming here for the American dream is 92 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:27,279 Speaker 1: so strong, and I think what it gives you is 93 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 1: such incredible grit and determination, and it makes you a 94 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 1: service minded person and all of these wonderful things. But 95 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 1: when you when you achieve or meet a goal and 96 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 1: then the immediate question is what's next. Yeah, sometimes you 97 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:46,600 Speaker 1: miss the moment to go, wow, I did this, or 98 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 1: I saw this, or I can stop for coffee with 99 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 1: a friend today. 100 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:52,839 Speaker 2: You know, right right, And I know how it happened 101 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 2: because when my parents came here, I mean the family 102 00:06:56,920 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 2: grew up in Da out of my mom' speaking of 103 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 2: Prasinski and Emily Benish Prasinski blinging the worst of the 104 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 2: worst and coming to America with nothing, and so everything 105 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 2: they did, everything was on the line every time, and 106 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 2: there was no safety net and there was no little 107 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 2: bit extra saved here or someone here to help you out. 108 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:29,240 Speaker 2: There was nobody. So their attitude was like all hands 109 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 2: on deck, let's keep going. We're so lucky to be here. 110 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 2: But we've got to we've got to build, we've got 111 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 2: to create, we've got to make sure we build a 112 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 2: framework for this, and so it was built into me 113 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:44,400 Speaker 2: that everything is on the line at all times, and 114 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 2: actually in this time, that is actually an important mindset 115 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 2: to keep when you're looking at what is happening politically, 116 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 2: which trust me, i'd love a break from talking about. 117 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 2: So I'm not veering into politics and less you want to. 118 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 2: But my point is everything that happened really is happening 119 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 2: right now, really matters, and it's really serious in a 120 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 2: way that I think many are still immune to or 121 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 2: avoidant of. We're in it, and my parents taught me 122 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 2: this is dead serious democracy. It's fragile, and it's serious, 123 00:08:27,000 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 2: and it's based on values, it's based on beliefs, and 124 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:37,959 Speaker 2: it's based on everybody working toward the same thing. And 125 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 2: we're not there anymore. So they'd be heartbroken. But when 126 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 2: they came here and as they were bringing up me 127 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:47,079 Speaker 2: and my brothers, it was an all hands on deck 128 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 2: moment every day. And I get that. I get that, 129 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 2: and I know it even more now. 130 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 1: I mean, it must, in a strange way, make you 131 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:02,840 Speaker 1: feel for better or worse, like you know what you're 132 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:05,040 Speaker 1: in for it right now. I think a lot of 133 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:09,599 Speaker 1: people to your point about the disengagement or people that 134 00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:12,680 Speaker 1: are still for some reason, I can't make sense of saying, oh, well, 135 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:16,199 Speaker 1: it couldn't happen here. You know, it's happening here. And 136 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 1: I think maybe because people have luckily known such relative 137 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 1: safety or prosperity in America for so long, they don't 138 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:33,559 Speaker 1: really remember where we come from. 139 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:34,400 Speaker 2: Correct. 140 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 1: The ones that are still alive and old enough who 141 00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:41,720 Speaker 1: say this is exactly how it happened in the nineteen thirties, 142 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:45,480 Speaker 1: they started with the stories, they started with the terminology, 143 00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 1: then they started with the deportations. It's happening, And I 144 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:53,320 Speaker 1: think for a lot of people it's very hard to 145 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:56,440 Speaker 1: register that the Boogeyman isn't a villain who walks in 146 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:59,960 Speaker 1: the door. It's a whole system that builds on itself. 147 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:04,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree with that, except us just writing down 148 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:07,760 Speaker 2: a chronology here for you that is mixed into this. 149 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:13,560 Speaker 2: So we have people my age and older I'm fifty eight, 150 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:18,160 Speaker 2: my parents, for example, and obviously they grew up and 151 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:27,199 Speaker 2: came here fleeing Hitler, understanding Soviet aggression and really seeing 152 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:32,560 Speaker 2: how difficult it is to build what it is that 153 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:36,079 Speaker 2: we have, this democracy, and to value it and contribute 154 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 2: to it my kids. Perhaps you you're younger than me. 155 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:46,319 Speaker 2: So as you talk about the loss of a sense 156 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:51,439 Speaker 2: of history in the younger generation, whether it's what's happening 157 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 2: in our schools or technology delivering stuff to us in 158 00:10:56,280 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 2: morsels instead of complete books, that sense that loss of 159 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 2: our stories mixed with a generation that started their life 160 00:11:08,360 --> 00:11:16,400 Speaker 2: at nine to eleven, financial crisis, school shootings becoming daily ritual, 161 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:23,199 Speaker 2: and COVID lockdowns, and now where we are today, this 162 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:26,600 Speaker 2: is a young population that has its own set of 163 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:30,440 Speaker 2: anxieties that we as parents who are saying, don't forget 164 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 2: our history. Please, don't forget our history. Our lives depend 165 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:39,080 Speaker 2: on it, our republic, our country depends on it. We're 166 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 2: speaking to a young generation that's very anxious and has 167 00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:49,840 Speaker 2: their own set of experiences that I think lay into 168 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:54,600 Speaker 2: this very difficult landscape that we are in right now. 169 00:11:55,080 --> 00:11:57,440 Speaker 1: I agree with that. That's an excellent point, thank you, 170 00:11:57,559 --> 00:12:03,200 Speaker 1: because saw, of course a meme yesterday that said, oh, look, 171 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 1: millennials are on their five hundredth once in a lifetime event, 172 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:10,400 Speaker 1: and when you think about what that is for many 173 00:12:10,440 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 1: of us, and then you think about the youth that 174 00:12:12,160 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 1: are growing up after us, this is almost all they 175 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:20,959 Speaker 1: know in a way, and they've been told they have 176 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 1: to just tamp the anxiety down and keep going. So 177 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:29,319 Speaker 1: I think it can be hard to imagine that this 178 00:12:29,440 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 1: is a time to ring the alarm bells because weren't 179 00:12:33,440 --> 00:12:36,440 Speaker 1: so many other times that they've lived through as well. 180 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:40,360 Speaker 1: And I don't know if it's a desensitization, It might 181 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:44,120 Speaker 1: be a a combination an equation of all these things. 182 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:47,559 Speaker 1: But it really is fascinating to me, and I think 183 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:52,120 Speaker 1: about your perspective in particular. You know, a parent of teenagers, 184 00:12:53,120 --> 00:12:57,080 Speaker 1: a refugee, you know, your dad becoming among all of 185 00:12:57,120 --> 00:13:00,679 Speaker 1: the other incredible things that he did it in Carter's 186 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 1: National Security Advisor. I mean, I can't imagine what the 187 00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:11,319 Speaker 1: dinner table conversations in your house were like as a child, 188 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:15,720 Speaker 1: and I wish I could be a fly on the 189 00:13:15,760 --> 00:13:18,440 Speaker 1: wall for the conversations you're having now with your own children. 190 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:23,200 Speaker 1: Do you think about that, the things you learned from 191 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:26,520 Speaker 1: your parents in that role, and then the things you're 192 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:29,760 Speaker 1: now trying to teach your children from your own role 193 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 1: as a trusted voice for the nation. 194 00:13:33,240 --> 00:13:38,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, the household I grew up and was absolutely fascinating. 195 00:13:38,600 --> 00:13:42,680 Speaker 2: I mean, not only was my dad a national security advisor. 196 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 2: But my mom was a world renowned sculptor and she 197 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:53,760 Speaker 2: did these two ton pieces using a chainsaw and massive 198 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 2: tree trunks, and they were shown around the world, and 199 00:13:57,240 --> 00:14:00,520 Speaker 2: she had this massive studio in our house in mcclaim, Virginia. 200 00:14:00,640 --> 00:14:05,320 Speaker 2: So it was always like art, politics, foreign policy, let's debate, 201 00:14:05,480 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 2: go at thecred and multi lingual. By the way, both 202 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:15,840 Speaker 2: my parents spoke three to four languages. My mother's mother 203 00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 2: spoke eleven. She served as a translator during World War Two, 204 00:14:20,800 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 2: so very kind of I always kind of consider myself 205 00:14:25,280 --> 00:14:29,800 Speaker 2: there was the runt of the pack where my two 206 00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 2: brothers were very deep intellectuals, and I was one's a Republican, 207 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:37,880 Speaker 2: one's a Democrat. So I was always the mediator in 208 00:14:38,000 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 2: these family dinners. I'd find myself like cracking a joke 209 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:44,320 Speaker 2: at the right time to cut the tension or what 210 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:48,600 Speaker 2: was and then like, look at Morning Joe. Here I am, 211 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:53,360 Speaker 2: it's perfect. Yeah, the morning table discussions we have feel 212 00:14:53,440 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 2: like my family dinner table discussions. And I felt when 213 00:14:57,080 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 2: Morning Joe started twenty years ago, almost believe it. I 214 00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:06,360 Speaker 2: felt very at home day one. Five minutes in, I 215 00:15:06,440 --> 00:15:10,280 Speaker 2: was like, huh, I found my home because this works 216 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 2: for me. This is like what I've done, and. 217 00:15:13,760 --> 00:15:16,280 Speaker 1: Now a word from our sponsors that I really enjoy 218 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:25,960 Speaker 1: and I think you will too. And when you think 219 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:32,120 Speaker 1: about those things, that the kind of middle middleman middle 220 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 1: woman you had to play in certain debates with family, 221 00:15:35,360 --> 00:15:38,800 Speaker 1: you know how it makes you comfortable on your show. 222 00:15:40,240 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 1: I would be failing as if I didn't acknowledge the 223 00:15:43,720 --> 00:15:46,360 Speaker 1: fact that not only did you learn to listen to 224 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:51,120 Speaker 1: all people's perspectives, but you have traversed this role across 225 00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:55,680 Speaker 1: a generation where things have really changed and then also 226 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:58,840 Speaker 1: not changed a lot for women like us. 227 00:15:58,960 --> 00:16:00,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think about when you. 228 00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:04,800 Speaker 1: Began your career, you know, the more overt barriers for 229 00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:09,720 Speaker 1: women in your industry and certainly in politics, and the 230 00:16:09,760 --> 00:16:12,640 Speaker 1: ways that we've seen a kind of expansion of access 231 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 1: for us and now an immense backlash to that, and 232 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:20,560 Speaker 1: you know these attempts at at a retraction. How did 233 00:16:20,600 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 1: you begin then, when so many women were told no, 234 00:16:25,280 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 1: asserting your authority in those spaces that men thought they 235 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:29,520 Speaker 1: should dominate. 236 00:16:30,320 --> 00:16:34,240 Speaker 2: Well, I didn't do it or I didn't do it well, 237 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 2: And it is exactly the reason I started to know 238 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:45,520 Speaker 2: your value about eighteen years ago because I worked my 239 00:16:45,720 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 2: butt off to make it in this business. Started in 240 00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 2: local news, working overnights, working crazy hours. I've worked every 241 00:16:55,920 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 2: job in this business that one can have on camera, reporting, radio, 242 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 2: TV correspondent, local news anchor, local news reporter, magazine, show, 243 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:17,680 Speaker 2: you name it, I've done it. And I noticed that 244 00:17:18,320 --> 00:17:20,720 Speaker 2: every time I got a new job, or sign a 245 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:24,120 Speaker 2: new contract, or got fired and then started again somewhere, 246 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:30,040 Speaker 2: I didn't cut a very good deal for myself. I 247 00:17:30,080 --> 00:17:33,480 Speaker 2: didn't even know my value. I had no idea how 248 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 2: to argue it. I hired agents and that was not productive. Actually, 249 00:17:39,840 --> 00:17:42,760 Speaker 2: to have someone else speak for you. It's one of 250 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:45,160 Speaker 2: the biggest pieces of advice I give to women now 251 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:48,120 Speaker 2: is speak for yourself. No one is going to care 252 00:17:48,200 --> 00:17:51,560 Speaker 2: more about you and your value and the value you 253 00:17:51,600 --> 00:17:53,959 Speaker 2: need to bring home for your family than you. No 254 00:17:53,960 --> 00:17:57,520 Speaker 2: one's going to articulate it better, no one but you, 255 00:17:57,960 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 2: and if you can't, you need to learn. And I 256 00:18:02,040 --> 00:18:04,600 Speaker 2: struggled with this, and I cut so many bad deals. 257 00:18:05,320 --> 00:18:08,040 Speaker 2: I even cut a really bad deal for myself from 258 00:18:08,080 --> 00:18:13,160 Speaker 2: Morning Joe and Wow, I realized if I we were 259 00:18:13,200 --> 00:18:15,720 Speaker 2: just talking about my family and how incredible they are, 260 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:20,080 Speaker 2: multi lingual. I mean, they pushed us to educate ourselves 261 00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:23,160 Speaker 2: and to go to the finest institutions and to try 262 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:26,600 Speaker 2: and get the best grades. My brothers did me not 263 00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:29,760 Speaker 2: so much, but they pushed us to learn so much. 264 00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:32,639 Speaker 2: And yet I couldn't speak for myself. And yet I 265 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:36,760 Speaker 2: kept doing the same thing. I kept not being able 266 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:41,720 Speaker 2: to do what the guys did. And so my answer 267 00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:43,480 Speaker 2: to you is I did not do a good job 268 00:18:43,520 --> 00:18:46,439 Speaker 2: at this. And it was frustrating to me because I 269 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:49,480 Speaker 2: said to myself, my gosh, with all the support and 270 00:18:50,119 --> 00:18:54,879 Speaker 2: education and incredible family legacy that I am so blessed 271 00:18:54,880 --> 00:18:57,280 Speaker 2: to have, I can't do this for myself. My god, 272 00:18:57,440 --> 00:19:00,959 Speaker 2: what is a woman who doesn't live in a major 273 00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:05,000 Speaker 2: like New York or DC or LA or whatever, or 274 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 2: even does, but it doesn't have the skills, doesn't have 275 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:10,800 Speaker 2: the education, maybe doesn't have the confidence, maybe doesn't have 276 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:14,520 Speaker 2: the support of the people, like a group that loves 277 00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:16,520 Speaker 2: her and then supports here and loves her no matter what. 278 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:19,639 Speaker 2: You know, all those things that kind of build you, 279 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:22,679 Speaker 2: how do they do it? And the answer was that don't. 280 00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:26,720 Speaker 2: And so I created know your value to start talking 281 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:29,959 Speaker 2: about how you advocate for yourself. What that looks like, 282 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:33,440 Speaker 2: what that feels like, what that dress is like, what 283 00:19:33,480 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 2: that eye contact is like? What those words are about you? 284 00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:41,679 Speaker 2: And why you should use them all the time. And 285 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:44,119 Speaker 2: I remember when I first created this and I started 286 00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:48,200 Speaker 2: doing events, I noticed it honestly looked like a light 287 00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 2: bulb was going off in the women's minds and the 288 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:54,280 Speaker 2: audiences around me. And they were young women, older women, 289 00:19:54,720 --> 00:20:00,360 Speaker 2: women who were very successful, women who had not had 290 00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:02,920 Speaker 2: a job yet, women who were trying to get back 291 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:09,280 Speaker 2: in women's of all shape, sizes, backgrounds, and they all 292 00:20:09,320 --> 00:20:13,160 Speaker 2: were like, yes, I need to know this, even despite 293 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:15,639 Speaker 2: that some of them had actually made it to a 294 00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:19,080 Speaker 2: certain level in their career like I had. And it 295 00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:24,320 Speaker 2: started a conversation that's really grown into a global network 296 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:31,199 Speaker 2: of events, conversations and sort of mutual support in the 297 00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:34,320 Speaker 2: Know your Value community so that we can kind of 298 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:37,480 Speaker 2: empower each other to step up for ourselves. 299 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:43,280 Speaker 1: Yes, it's so important and in every industry and every vertical. 300 00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:48,399 Speaker 1: I spoke about this recently with Vivian two, who you 301 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:51,240 Speaker 1: probably know from Instagram as your rich bff. She's giving 302 00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:54,320 Speaker 1: all the young women financial advice, and I said, listen, 303 00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:57,480 Speaker 1: you know you talk about these zones of privilege, right 304 00:20:57,520 --> 00:21:00,800 Speaker 1: these cities where you can pursue a big career. I'd 305 00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:05,119 Speaker 1: been on TV for twenty years before I was paid 306 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:08,880 Speaker 1: equally to my male co star, twenty. 307 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:10,920 Speaker 2: Years a long time Sophia, and it was. 308 00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:15,359 Speaker 1: A fight to get what I was worth. And I 309 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:20,639 Speaker 1: had to have the conversation to shocked faces of people 310 00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:23,760 Speaker 1: in power that said, if you're going to reserve twice 311 00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:28,280 Speaker 1: the salary for a yet unpicked man to. 312 00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:33,400 Speaker 2: Play my co star, well it's a problem. Why aren't our. 313 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:37,120 Speaker 1: Salaries going to be the same. And because it wasn't oh, 314 00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:39,200 Speaker 1: well we got so and so and he's I don't 315 00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:42,240 Speaker 1: know one, an Oscar or something like. It wasn't that conversation. 316 00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:44,320 Speaker 1: It was, well, we don't know who he is, but 317 00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:49,800 Speaker 1: he's a man so and it really taught me, you know, 318 00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:52,840 Speaker 1: Ever since that experience, as much as all the women 319 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:55,720 Speaker 1: in my life have advocated for each other and tried 320 00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:58,520 Speaker 1: to advise each other, that experience for me made me 321 00:21:58,600 --> 00:22:01,400 Speaker 1: the person that says, let me print my contract out 322 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 1: for you, let me get you the points in my 323 00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:06,679 Speaker 1: deal memo, let's figure out. And now every woman I 324 00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:10,239 Speaker 1: know shares where I'm at, what I'm getting how I 325 00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:10,680 Speaker 1: got there? 326 00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:11,600 Speaker 2: What should I be asked? 327 00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 1: I love it, and it really it changes our lives. 328 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:18,040 Speaker 1: And the men have always been encouraged to do this. 329 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:22,639 Speaker 1: But there's something I think that's so societal, and I 330 00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:24,800 Speaker 1: want to I don't want to tread lightly, but I 331 00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:27,920 Speaker 1: want to be careful because my fear is that if 332 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:31,160 Speaker 1: you undo certain aspects that I think are good for us, 333 00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 1: you know, prioritizing others, dedicating yourself to service, we don't 334 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:39,200 Speaker 1: need a society where we care about each other less. 335 00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:43,439 Speaker 1: Just look at us now. But women. You know, an 336 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:45,800 Speaker 1: author that I know wrote this in a book and 337 00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:48,320 Speaker 1: said the greatest compliment we give women as we say, 338 00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:53,280 Speaker 1: she's so selfless, so she is without self. And I 339 00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:56,760 Speaker 1: will never forget reading it and thinking, oh, I will 340 00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:59,480 Speaker 1: never again compliment a woman I admire and say, God, 341 00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:03,440 Speaker 1: she's just so selfless in x Arena, I say, I 342 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:06,800 Speaker 1: really admire her commitment to service in x Arena, I 343 00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:10,879 Speaker 1: really admire her fight for justice in x Arena. I 344 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 1: will never call a woman selfless again, because I don't 345 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:18,800 Speaker 1: want us to be encouraged, even subconsciously, to erase ourselves. 346 00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:23,440 Speaker 2: Yes I do, and I'm trying to think of I've 347 00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:26,199 Speaker 2: ever heard of a man being described as selfless. So 348 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:28,240 Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, it's really interesting. 349 00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:34,359 Speaker 4: Yeah, he's powerful, he's tenacious, right, and not to undermine. 350 00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:38,480 Speaker 2: Like I I learned some of my best skills on 351 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:43,479 Speaker 2: self advocating from men. They're encouraged to do it and 352 00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:47,280 Speaker 2: they naturally do it, and I want us to naturally 353 00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:49,959 Speaker 2: understand how to do it too and not you know, 354 00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:54,679 Speaker 2: I have found that this my industry is full of 355 00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:58,919 Speaker 2: really supportive men who also got really good deals for themselves, 356 00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:03,720 Speaker 2: and there's things to be learned from. So I again, 357 00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:08,639 Speaker 2: in the community that I've built, I try and talk 358 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:12,840 Speaker 2: about the part of the equation that we can control, 359 00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:16,040 Speaker 2: you know, the part where we need to come to 360 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:20,840 Speaker 2: the table for ourselves, step up and say it, and 361 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:23,960 Speaker 2: how do you practice that, lift up other women, help them. 362 00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:26,800 Speaker 2: I mean, there are tons, tons of different situations I 363 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:30,760 Speaker 2: can think of in the past twenty years where there 364 00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:34,399 Speaker 2: was maybe a woman I worked with who was struggling 365 00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:36,480 Speaker 2: with getting a new contract and I would pick up 366 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:39,320 Speaker 2: the phone and negotiate for her in front of her 367 00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:43,480 Speaker 2: and like show her how it's done, and it's good practice. 368 00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:45,720 Speaker 2: I'm like, I'll do it for you because I want 369 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:48,160 Speaker 2: to show you, first of all, how naturally it needs 370 00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:50,879 Speaker 2: to come. I want to show you your value that 371 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:54,040 Speaker 2: I would do this for you. I will, I'll find 372 00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:56,760 Speaker 2: a way to invest in you if necessary. Let me 373 00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:59,520 Speaker 2: show you in any way I can, and you find 374 00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:02,000 Speaker 2: that you can use these opportunities when you're lifting up 375 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:05,520 Speaker 2: other women to practice your own skills on self advocating, 376 00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:09,840 Speaker 2: like I get very irate on behalf of other women. Yes, 377 00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:14,719 Speaker 2: and really get in there and get my hands. No 378 00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:17,840 Speaker 2: one's you know, going to fire me for sticking up 379 00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:19,680 Speaker 2: for someone, and if you are, and I want to 380 00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:23,360 Speaker 2: work for you, but that part, you know, we've done it, 381 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:27,680 Speaker 2: like both Joe and I for people on our team, 382 00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:34,080 Speaker 2: like we just get in there and we don't give 383 00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:37,600 Speaker 2: up on people, and then that sort of makes them 384 00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:44,679 Speaker 2: spread and pay it forward. And for me, especially with 385 00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:48,080 Speaker 2: younger women, it's about showing how it's done. In the 386 00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:50,199 Speaker 2: beginning of Know Your Value, it was almost like a 387 00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:55,119 Speaker 2: permission structure. Women were so shocked to hear that this 388 00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:58,160 Speaker 2: was something they could do and should do. I mean 389 00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:02,800 Speaker 2: I literally I was like light bulbs going off and 390 00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:04,960 Speaker 2: we were in bad shape. I think we're in better 391 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:09,280 Speaker 2: shape now and now the setbacks are coming from our 392 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:14,439 Speaker 2: political situation, yes, and you know, on the legal front, 393 00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 2: I think where women are practically under attack and so 394 00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:21,919 Speaker 2: we have different challenges. 395 00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:23,600 Speaker 5: But in. 396 00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:29,600 Speaker 2: Terms of professional development, we were making some really good headway. 397 00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:32,879 Speaker 1: Yes, well, I think that's part of the reason that 398 00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:35,600 Speaker 1: you see the backlash in the political system. You know, 399 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:40,240 Speaker 1: it's not lost on me that we're talking about major 400 00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:43,080 Speaker 1: gains for women in nineteen seventy three, nineteen seventy four, 401 00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:47,160 Speaker 1: the nineteen eighties in terms of reproductive autonomy, being able 402 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:49,560 Speaker 1: to sign a lease without a man, being able to 403 00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:52,159 Speaker 1: get a small business loan without a man. You know, 404 00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:56,920 Speaker 1: these are within one generation. And I think this momentum 405 00:26:56,960 --> 00:27:00,919 Speaker 1: women have chosen to build with each other organizations like yours, 406 00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:04,119 Speaker 1: advocacy like we all do, is very scary to the 407 00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:06,800 Speaker 1: old power structures, and they go, uh oh, we've let 408 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:09,640 Speaker 1: them in and look what they're doing, and they're moving 409 00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:12,359 Speaker 1: very quickly, and so they want to take away from 410 00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:16,800 Speaker 1: us anywhere they can. And my my sincerest hope is 411 00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:21,280 Speaker 1: that to your point, the good guys among us help 412 00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:25,520 Speaker 1: us fight that fight too, not just in our negotiations 413 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,600 Speaker 1: but also in our voting booths. You know, also in 414 00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:33,200 Speaker 1: our legislative systems. We need that so so much. 415 00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:33,640 Speaker 5: Yeah. 416 00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:39,240 Speaker 2: No, I'm very concerned about my daughter's futures, their lives, 417 00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:42,720 Speaker 2: their children Someday, I am. You know, they don't have 418 00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:46,040 Speaker 2: the rights that I grew up with. That's crazy. It's 419 00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:47,600 Speaker 2: crazy where we are. 420 00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:57,360 Speaker 1: And now for our sponsors, I think about how relevant 421 00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:00,960 Speaker 1: all of this is, you know, to both work and 422 00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:07,200 Speaker 1: home for you because you and Joe have been doing 423 00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:09,840 Speaker 1: this show together since two thousand and seven. You know, 424 00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:14,119 Speaker 1: in the course of this career a personal relationship blossomed. 425 00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:16,120 Speaker 1: This is your life, this is your family. 426 00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:17,040 Speaker 2: You know. 427 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:22,600 Speaker 1: He is clearly a wonderful support system for you. As 428 00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:24,720 Speaker 1: you've said, he's a great ally for other women in 429 00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:28,679 Speaker 1: your workplace. But I'm really curious in this big life 430 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:33,600 Speaker 1: you've built, when you reflect on it so far, what 431 00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:36,879 Speaker 1: do you think made him and makes him such a 432 00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:40,120 Speaker 1: great match for you on and off their. 433 00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:46,400 Speaker 2: Wow. Well, first of all, I think he's just on 434 00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:51,000 Speaker 2: a professional This is the easier part. I think he's 435 00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:56,880 Speaker 2: literally the most talented man on television in the world 436 00:28:56,960 --> 00:29:01,160 Speaker 2: the political analysis and news. Name one who comes close. 437 00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:04,560 Speaker 2: And I've always felt that way, and I felt like 438 00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:09,680 Speaker 2: when we met and when the show started, we both 439 00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:13,960 Speaker 2: sort of were better together than we were doing our 440 00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:20,120 Speaker 2: separate shows that we did alone. And it was a 441 00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:23,040 Speaker 2: lot of people said to me, oh, how long have 442 00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:24,920 Speaker 2: you guys known each other? And I was like, I 443 00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:28,240 Speaker 2: met him an hour ago or yesterday. I mean, I 444 00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:31,880 Speaker 2: don't know what you're talking about. And so that came 445 00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:34,680 Speaker 2: first where everyone was sort of like having this reaction 446 00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:37,800 Speaker 2: to how we were. We were so natural together on 447 00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:46,760 Speaker 2: the air, and he is literally the kindest person I 448 00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:51,880 Speaker 2: will ever know. He comes across so confident, and people 449 00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:57,920 Speaker 2: I think tend to think things come easy for him, 450 00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:04,000 Speaker 2: and I see what he does to lift people up, 451 00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 2: every single person on our show when we started Mourning Joe, 452 00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:11,320 Speaker 2: and this reflects in his life as well. He is 453 00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 2: always making sure that he puts the person he's speaking with, 454 00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:18,920 Speaker 2: or the people he has on the show, or the 455 00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:23,320 Speaker 2: person he's introducing to or someone in is above himself. 456 00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:28,240 Speaker 2: And he's always in service of others, and he does 457 00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:31,520 Speaker 2: it so well that people don't even know it's happening. 458 00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:36,640 Speaker 2: I can't tell you how many careers he's revived, including 459 00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:41,400 Speaker 2: quite frankly, when we started our show, a lot of 460 00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:43,520 Speaker 2: us were like, where do we all come from. We 461 00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:47,480 Speaker 2: all well had all left or been moved out of 462 00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:53,400 Speaker 2: different slots and different jobs, and we all ended up. 463 00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:57,240 Speaker 2: If you look at like Mourning Joe nineteen twenty years ago, 464 00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:01,320 Speaker 2: it was like Joe knew how to make a symphony work, 465 00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:10,120 Speaker 2: and this symphony of conversation, of positive, sivil, idealistic, hopeful 466 00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:16,640 Speaker 2: conversation that also includes political prognostication. And he's able to 467 00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:21,040 Speaker 2: move everyone forward, challenging them every step of the way 468 00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:24,840 Speaker 2: in a gentle enough way that their best comes out. 469 00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:27,680 Speaker 2: And he does that in his personal life and is 470 00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:30,520 Speaker 2: with his family as well. He's always bringing the best 471 00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:35,040 Speaker 2: out in people. And the only thing I'll say is 472 00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,920 Speaker 2: the part that I can explain is that we're together 473 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:41,160 Speaker 2: twenty four hours a day and we're just so happy. 474 00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:45,000 Speaker 2: And that's I don't really know what that's about. But 475 00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:50,280 Speaker 2: when you find that, you know, you you cherish it. 476 00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:55,200 Speaker 2: And of course it's not I can't really say, like 477 00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:57,000 Speaker 2: he brings me ice cream. I don't know what it is, 478 00:31:57,080 --> 00:32:00,640 Speaker 2: but it's just always together. I can. I'll have him 479 00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:04,840 Speaker 2: come in and say hi. Oh wait but he won't 480 00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:07,800 Speaker 2: Oh but he won't have headphones, come say hi to 481 00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:10,760 Speaker 2: Sophia behind that wall. 482 00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:12,120 Speaker 1: Oh I love it. 483 00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:15,760 Speaker 2: You know, I think after a couple of years or 484 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:18,600 Speaker 2: twenty you might be like, I need a little space. 485 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:22,360 Speaker 2: That's just not how we are. It's a little weird. 486 00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:25,320 Speaker 2: We'll say. People are like, oh, you do this, so 487 00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:30,880 Speaker 2: you together twenty four to seven, and we're both like, yeah, okay, that's. 488 00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:31,440 Speaker 1: How we like it. 489 00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:33,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. 490 00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:38,280 Speaker 1: I think there's something really incredible about that sort of 491 00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:43,160 Speaker 1: lightning rod experience when you are an adult and suddenly 492 00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:48,680 Speaker 1: you realize like, oh, it's it's you wait what And 493 00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:53,520 Speaker 1: I don't know. I've now come across enough couples who've 494 00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:58,000 Speaker 1: had the experience and you just go, oh, this is something, 495 00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:00,400 Speaker 1: and then yeah, you don't you don't want to waste 496 00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:04,520 Speaker 1: a minute. And I think that's very cool. I am 497 00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:08,400 Speaker 1: curious for you too, because I mean, you just, you know, 498 00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:10,640 Speaker 1: waxed poetically about your connection. 499 00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:13,160 Speaker 2: How do you. 500 00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:19,120 Speaker 1: Figure out did you have to set ground rules for 501 00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:23,600 Speaker 1: how you would manage disagreements or differences of opinion over 502 00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:26,480 Speaker 1: stories or at work or has it always just felt 503 00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:30,360 Speaker 1: like even when you don't agree, you can understand each other. 504 00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:36,640 Speaker 2: So Sophia's asking how we manage disagreements, especially on the show, 505 00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:39,640 Speaker 2: or does it just I'm going to give them an headphone? 506 00:33:39,680 --> 00:33:40,160 Speaker 2: Can I do that? 507 00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:40,440 Speaker 5: Yeah? 508 00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:42,920 Speaker 2: Give him an airplod I love it and say hi, 509 00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:45,920 Speaker 2: I was just talking about how we're together twenty four seven. 510 00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:47,600 Speaker 2: This is so fun. 511 00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:51,040 Speaker 1: By the way, you just got a belated holiday gift. 512 00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:53,760 Speaker 1: In the way that this woman is talking about you too, 513 00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:55,560 Speaker 1: it's so sweet. It makes me want to cry. 514 00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:57,240 Speaker 5: It's really something. 515 00:33:57,280 --> 00:34:03,360 Speaker 3: And we do spend so much time together and we 516 00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:06,920 Speaker 3: do manage disagreements pretty well. But the way we manage 517 00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:10,120 Speaker 3: our disagreements are by being. 518 00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:15,400 Speaker 5: Very straightforward with each other. Yeah, very safety, and I 519 00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:17,680 Speaker 5: let her win rest of the time. 520 00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:22,560 Speaker 1: Heavy wife, happy life, honey. 521 00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:23,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, happy wife, happy life. 522 00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:24,239 Speaker 2: No. You know. 523 00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:27,239 Speaker 3: The funny thing is that we balance each other out 524 00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:30,760 Speaker 3: very well. I think in the past we were both 525 00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:35,080 Speaker 3: a bit more passive aggressive before we met each other, 526 00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:39,160 Speaker 3: and that we'd say, let's just keep the peace and 527 00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:40,480 Speaker 3: let's sweep. 528 00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:41,880 Speaker 5: Everything under the carpet. 529 00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:44,480 Speaker 3: And so when we met each other, we were just 530 00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:50,000 Speaker 3: very straightforward and it's very easy to say, you know, hey, 531 00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:51,600 Speaker 3: we never go to bed. 532 00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:54,319 Speaker 5: Angry when you fight all day. We don't fight all 533 00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:55,200 Speaker 5: day now. 534 00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:59,640 Speaker 3: But if there are any problems we get it right 535 00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:03,600 Speaker 3: out of the but we have such a trust in 536 00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:08,720 Speaker 3: each other that we we have each other's best interest 537 00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:12,000 Speaker 3: in heart. That helps, But sometimes it hurts. Sometimes it 538 00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:15,360 Speaker 3: hurts really bad. I'm a musician and I write songs. 539 00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:17,399 Speaker 3: I've been doing it since I was fourteen years old. 540 00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:18,319 Speaker 3: You didn't tell her this. 541 00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:18,560 Speaker 5: Did you. 542 00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:19,960 Speaker 1: I did not know that. 543 00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:23,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, and so good. You'd just go on Spotify and 544 00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:27,600 Speaker 2: look up Joe Scarborough. I'm so good, Sophia. I have 545 00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:28,960 Speaker 2: been living under a rock. 546 00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:34,120 Speaker 3: So Mika is my biggest fan and biggest supporter, and 547 00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:39,239 Speaker 3: she pushes me. But sometimes, very rarely, like this past weekend. 548 00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:42,040 Speaker 3: I'll play a song for it, go what do you think? 549 00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:45,160 Speaker 3: And this line I think it was Sunday. She listened 550 00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:47,680 Speaker 3: to the song and I'm thinking she's gonna really love 551 00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:48,320 Speaker 3: this one. 552 00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:51,200 Speaker 5: Head and hands. At the end, she goes, what am 553 00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:52,120 Speaker 5: I supposed to do? 554 00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:55,360 Speaker 6: I said, just tell the truth, sweetie, just tell the 555 00:35:55,360 --> 00:36:02,319 Speaker 6: truth like you always do. She goes, it's awful, but 556 00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:06,120 Speaker 6: you know, like you're like what, she doesn't know what 557 00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:06,919 Speaker 6: she's talking about. 558 00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:10,560 Speaker 3: But then again, because we trust each other so much, 559 00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:13,000 Speaker 3: when I'm spending the rest of the day going okay, 560 00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:14,719 Speaker 3: how do I need to rearrange that? 561 00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:17,120 Speaker 5: And that's that. It helps. 562 00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:20,359 Speaker 3: It always helps to have that person that can tell 563 00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:23,160 Speaker 3: you no, that you know is in your corner. 564 00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:24,760 Speaker 2: You know well. 565 00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:27,840 Speaker 1: And I was saying this to Mika before you came in. 566 00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:32,600 Speaker 1: I think there's something really there's something so special about 567 00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:35,319 Speaker 1: your your life and the future it sets up for 568 00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:39,680 Speaker 1: you when you have that, you know, settled adult experience 569 00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:42,560 Speaker 1: and suddenly this person who sits in front of you 570 00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:44,279 Speaker 1: all day you go like, wait a second, it's you, 571 00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:48,040 Speaker 1: Oh my god, and there's I don't know you. You 572 00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:51,480 Speaker 1: already had so much under your belt, in your in 573 00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:54,320 Speaker 1: your rhythm, and it's it's really cool to see you guys. 574 00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:55,359 Speaker 2: And I like. 575 00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:57,520 Speaker 1: Getting this moment with you too, because I love coming 576 00:36:57,560 --> 00:37:00,399 Speaker 1: on the show and being like, well, the thing about democracy, 577 00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:01,960 Speaker 1: but this is also really fun. 578 00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:02,880 Speaker 5: Yeah. 579 00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:06,879 Speaker 3: Now we're we are extraordinarily blessed and we know it. 580 00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:08,120 Speaker 5: Every day we wake up. 581 00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:10,520 Speaker 3: I will tell you, we wake up at four thirty 582 00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:14,120 Speaker 3: every morning, and at forty four thirty every morning we go. 583 00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:16,120 Speaker 5: Oh my god. 584 00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:20,280 Speaker 3: And then at four thirty one we're like, Okay, we're grateful, 585 00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:22,720 Speaker 3: we have a job, we're together. 586 00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:25,960 Speaker 5: And yeah, so we have We're blessed, very very pleased. 587 00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:32,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, great, guys, I'll give you all right, thank. 588 00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:35,839 Speaker 4: You sweeting, all right, so sweet, he is sweet, So 589 00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:41,040 Speaker 4: good to see you, she said, sweet, I love I 590 00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:43,200 Speaker 4: love a little a little drive by drop in. 591 00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:50,040 Speaker 1: It's so lovely. You know something I'm really curious about 592 00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:53,279 Speaker 1: sort of expanding on this, and I know people want 593 00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:56,040 Speaker 1: to know about it now. And I think about it 594 00:37:56,080 --> 00:38:01,480 Speaker 1: in terms of you have commitments as journal lists, you 595 00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:07,279 Speaker 1: have personal opinions. You have a sometimes a requirement that 596 00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:09,560 Speaker 1: you leave your opinions at the door to do your jobs. 597 00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:14,960 Speaker 1: You know each other's opinions more intimately than most because 598 00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:19,360 Speaker 1: you're married. When you come up against a moment like 599 00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:24,719 Speaker 1: the big explosive thing where you know, you've both been 600 00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:28,520 Speaker 1: incredibly vocal critics of our current president and his administration, 601 00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:33,480 Speaker 1: rightfully so. But in twenty twenty four you went tomorrow 602 00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:39,000 Speaker 1: lago to meet with him. People were very upset. I 603 00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,560 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, you know, as your friend, and 604 00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:43,799 Speaker 1: sometimes guessed. I was like, what are they doing? And 605 00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:47,640 Speaker 1: then I was like, oh, right, journalism, that's yeah, calm down, 606 00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:50,840 Speaker 1: Sophia and I and I've thought about you guys a 607 00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:56,560 Speaker 1: lot since then, because you signed up to inform the public, 608 00:38:57,200 --> 00:39:00,920 Speaker 1: and sometimes that means putting your personal opinion aside. And 609 00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:04,600 Speaker 1: the Internet is hot and angry all the time. But 610 00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:06,799 Speaker 1: you know, now it's twenty twenty six and I think 611 00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:10,240 Speaker 1: we're far enough past it. I'm curious how it felt 612 00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:14,400 Speaker 1: for you. You know, everybody wants to know if you 613 00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:18,400 Speaker 1: were chastised enough, or some people will say, well, what 614 00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:21,960 Speaker 1: did you expect? But I'm less curious about the internet's 615 00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:27,120 Speaker 1: opinions and more curious about how you figure out how 616 00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:29,800 Speaker 1: to be a human with feelings and also do your job. 617 00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:30,600 Speaker 5: Well. 618 00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:35,200 Speaker 2: That's kind of a daily challenge because every day there's 619 00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:38,920 Speaker 2: a new challenge and something new that is that we 620 00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:47,480 Speaker 2: have to address. It's such a difficult time, and the 621 00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:55,240 Speaker 2: reaction to the meeting that we had and quite frankly 622 00:39:55,320 --> 00:40:02,200 Speaker 2: ongoing conversations that we're having is I guess painful because 623 00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:05,440 Speaker 2: I don't know what you know. I don't think the 624 00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:10,880 Speaker 2: solution is not talking, So that will never be a 625 00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:18,040 Speaker 2: Morning Joe solution to like cut off yourself from people 626 00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:20,600 Speaker 2: who are in power to try and understand what's going 627 00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:27,600 Speaker 2: on to help move the conversation in any way we 628 00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:35,000 Speaker 2: can in a positive direction that brings smart voices to 629 00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:40,840 Speaker 2: the table that help understand what's happening, but also say 630 00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:41,400 Speaker 2: what it is. 631 00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:42,640 Speaker 5: Right. 632 00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:47,240 Speaker 2: All of that involves doing your job and making calls 633 00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:53,000 Speaker 2: and meeting with people and so you know it is. 634 00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:57,120 Speaker 2: It is something that would do again, and I would 635 00:40:57,120 --> 00:41:01,600 Speaker 2: do again tomorrow. Right. The one thing that I think 636 00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:07,360 Speaker 2: that we and me especially I realized when this past 637 00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:11,120 Speaker 2: election and Trump won. I don't know how many times 638 00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:14,879 Speaker 2: I can line my hair on fire and tell people that, 639 00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:17,160 Speaker 2: you know, when he says he's going to do something, 640 00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:21,879 Speaker 2: he means it. And it's been very frustrating and hard 641 00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:25,719 Speaker 2: to communicate and hard to sort of distill, which is, 642 00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:27,759 Speaker 2: you know, our job. It's sort of like help people 643 00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:31,880 Speaker 2: understand what is going on. Joe is really good at 644 00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:36,280 Speaker 2: prognosticating in politics. We'd all bring different expertise to the table. 645 00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:40,080 Speaker 2: But the one part that has been frustrating is the 646 00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:47,000 Speaker 2: and this people on all political backgrounds, all sides of 647 00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:49,359 Speaker 2: the aisle, both sides of the aisle, are I think 648 00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:54,839 Speaker 2: guilty of saying, well, he doesn't really mean it. I mean, 649 00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:56,960 Speaker 2: I can't tell you how many people I spoke to 650 00:41:57,600 --> 00:42:05,520 Speaker 2: who definitely understood the concerns of another Trump presidency, who 651 00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:09,319 Speaker 2: were experts on our show and off our show with 652 00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:13,080 Speaker 2: deep knowledge of history, and this is what they do. 653 00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:16,920 Speaker 2: They study this. Who did not think that he was 654 00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:21,480 Speaker 2: serious about retribution, who did not think he was serious 655 00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:25,000 Speaker 2: about tariffs. I know there are a lot of Trump 656 00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:28,480 Speaker 2: voters that I spoke to myself in the state of Florida, 657 00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:34,520 Speaker 2: for example, when prices for a service jumped sixty percent, 658 00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:37,360 Speaker 2: and you'd ask why, and they'd say, well, you know, 659 00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:42,200 Speaker 2: the tariffs. And I'd be like, you voted for him, 660 00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:45,880 Speaker 2: and now this is happening to your business. And the 661 00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:47,759 Speaker 2: Trump voter would say, well, I didn't think he was 662 00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:51,120 Speaker 2: serious about it. And I'm just thinking to myself, this 663 00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:53,399 Speaker 2: is the part of this that I'm still working through, 664 00:42:53,440 --> 00:43:00,839 Speaker 2: and I I invite help on understanding because I grew 665 00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:04,000 Speaker 2: up in a very realistic family that is like thinks 666 00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:08,560 Speaker 2: the worst first and you know, and prepares for the worst. 667 00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:13,640 Speaker 2: And when someone tells you who they are, my job 668 00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:14,479 Speaker 2: is to believe them. 669 00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:18,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll be back in just a minute after a 670 00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:29,799 Speaker 1: few words from our favorite sponsors. It's really interesting, you know, 671 00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:32,400 Speaker 1: the entirety of what you just said gives me a 672 00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:34,520 Speaker 1: few thoughts. So I'm going to try to make sure 673 00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:37,680 Speaker 1: I get them all out one being. I really thought 674 00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:41,479 Speaker 1: about this for the two of you, and it did 675 00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:46,480 Speaker 1: shape and shift, you know, even some of my maybe 676 00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:50,480 Speaker 1: unconscious thoughts about journalists. When I saw him starting to 677 00:43:50,600 --> 00:43:54,320 Speaker 1: ban journalists from the White House, ban the AP, welcome 678 00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:58,680 Speaker 1: conspiracy theorist bloggers, and I was going, oh my god, 679 00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:02,360 Speaker 1: we have to have journalists. Are real, true journalists there 680 00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:06,280 Speaker 1: everywhere all the time. You know, thank you for doing 681 00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:09,280 Speaker 1: your job no matter what. And then when you say 682 00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:12,640 Speaker 1: the second piece about why people don't take him seriously, 683 00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:17,080 Speaker 1: I feel the same way as Yumika. It makes me crazy. 684 00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:21,200 Speaker 1: For a decade, so many of us feel like we've 685 00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:25,279 Speaker 1: been screaming into the void warning about what's coming. And 686 00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:29,920 Speaker 1: the sort of duality I sit with, and the way 687 00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:32,560 Speaker 1: I try to talk to people who might be coming 688 00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:35,240 Speaker 1: around to reality or who also want to talk about 689 00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:39,840 Speaker 1: it is, you know, I think we're in a strange 690 00:44:40,600 --> 00:44:41,960 Speaker 1: It's like riding a seesaw. 691 00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:45,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, because so many of the. 692 00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:47,280 Speaker 1: Things he says are so unhinged that you think someone's 693 00:44:47,320 --> 00:44:49,000 Speaker 1: going to stop him, but no one knows. 694 00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:53,120 Speaker 2: No, it's no one's coming, No one's coming, No one's 695 00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:54,960 Speaker 2: coming because. 696 00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:59,000 Speaker 1: He loves retribution, and everyone's afraid. And it's this the 697 00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:01,400 Speaker 1: duality I see is, on one. 698 00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:05,720 Speaker 2: Hand, you can't be afraid. Yes, I will never be afraid. 699 00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:07,399 Speaker 2: I will, and me. 700 00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:10,400 Speaker 1: Neither, and me neither. And I think that's why so 701 00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:12,600 Speaker 1: many women, and you see women in leadership in Congress, 702 00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:14,440 Speaker 1: in the Senate who aren't afraid. But a lot of 703 00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:16,239 Speaker 1: these men are running with their tails between their. 704 00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:16,920 Speaker 2: Legs, I know. 705 00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:21,160 Speaker 1: But what strikes me is, on the one hand, he 706 00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:26,040 Speaker 1: runs his company, his companies, his failing companies, his fraudulent companies, 707 00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:31,479 Speaker 1: like organized crime syndicates. He always has has always said 708 00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:34,160 Speaker 1: what do he means, said disgusting things about people, barred 709 00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:38,000 Speaker 1: black people from his buildings. He has always done these 710 00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:41,120 Speaker 1: things out in the open, by the way, you know, 711 00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:44,040 Speaker 1: been charged over and over again, had to pay settlements 712 00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:47,319 Speaker 1: over and over again. He's the most indicted I mean, 713 00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:50,840 Speaker 1: political leader I think ever. And on the other hand, 714 00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:58,160 Speaker 1: he's this gruff, not well spoken, sort of blubbering guy 715 00:45:58,200 --> 00:46:01,640 Speaker 1: from a reality show. And I think people think of 716 00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:06,600 Speaker 1: him like a cartoon villain more than they think of 717 00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:09,839 Speaker 1: him as a serious person. So everyone assumes, like, ah, 718 00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:13,360 Speaker 1: that guy's kind of joking. He talks a big talk, 719 00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:17,399 Speaker 1: but it makes me think of what President Obama said 720 00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:22,359 Speaker 1: years ago. The presidency does not make you the man 721 00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:26,200 Speaker 1: or person you are. It reveals what kind of person 722 00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:26,640 Speaker 1: you are. 723 00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:28,279 Speaker 2: And so we've. 724 00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:34,879 Speaker 1: Given someone with these mafioso tendencies keys. 725 00:46:34,719 --> 00:46:35,680 Speaker 2: To the castle. 726 00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:38,319 Speaker 1: And now we're watching him and his friend's pillage the 727 00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:43,560 Speaker 1: world and the economies and our resources and destroy the 728 00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:45,919 Speaker 1: rights of women because we stand up to him. 729 00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:50,080 Speaker 2: And it's tough. Yeah, I will say that I think 730 00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:53,279 Speaker 2: of me before the election, this past presidential election, and 731 00:46:53,360 --> 00:47:00,359 Speaker 2: me after I was like on late shows on the view, 732 00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:05,320 Speaker 2: I was going out everywhere. I think I was screaming, 733 00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:11,680 Speaker 2: actually warning people about this. I mean, I put myself 734 00:47:11,680 --> 00:47:17,320 Speaker 2: out there and felt as invalidated, I guess as anyone 735 00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:20,440 Speaker 2: else who who who you know does what we do 736 00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:25,520 Speaker 2: felt when he won the election. And but I also 737 00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:31,440 Speaker 2: I never didn't take him seriously. I knew what was coming. 738 00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:37,880 Speaker 2: And it is painful to be covering some of the 739 00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:41,480 Speaker 2: things that we are witnessing that is happening to our 740 00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:45,960 Speaker 2: fellow people. Uh, these ice raids and different ways that 741 00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:53,960 Speaker 2: people are being marginalized and hurt in these deportations, how 742 00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:59,840 Speaker 2: it's impacting the media, my former employer, CBS and other places. 743 00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:02,759 Speaker 2: I mean, this is all incredibly painful to watch, and 744 00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:07,720 Speaker 2: I've been realizing that this is a whole new beginning. 745 00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:11,120 Speaker 2: I got a gird up, and there's no there's no 746 00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:14,719 Speaker 2: like pulling back and resting or going part time or 747 00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:16,720 Speaker 2: doing anything like that. At this point in my life. 748 00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:18,800 Speaker 2: The only thing I can do is go to work 749 00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:25,200 Speaker 2: and stay centered and stay focused and try not to 750 00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:31,600 Speaker 2: lose it, because that's losing. Not going to be afraid, 751 00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:35,080 Speaker 2: not going to be afraid to use my voice, not 752 00:48:35,120 --> 00:48:38,320 Speaker 2: going to be afraid to engage at the same time, 753 00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:42,040 Speaker 2: to learn as much as I can, and to try 754 00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:45,680 Speaker 2: and bring the best information I can to anyone who 755 00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:50,880 Speaker 2: wants to hear it in a very polarized media landscape. 756 00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:56,960 Speaker 2: It is a daily set of decisions. 757 00:48:57,480 --> 00:49:01,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, in a daily practice, I imagine every day 758 00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:01,560 Speaker 1: is different. 759 00:49:02,239 --> 00:49:04,160 Speaker 2: Yes, But listening to you talk and. 760 00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:07,799 Speaker 1: Get impassioned, it's it's the same sort of passion I 761 00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:10,960 Speaker 1: heard in your voice talking about encouraging women to know 762 00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:14,000 Speaker 1: their worth, And in a way, it strikes me that 763 00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:16,279 Speaker 1: what you're saying is you know your worth and you 764 00:49:16,360 --> 00:49:21,000 Speaker 1: know the value of good, honest communication that speaks truth 765 00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:23,640 Speaker 1: to power in a moment like this. And I know 766 00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:25,120 Speaker 1: I speak for a lot of us when I say, 767 00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:28,480 Speaker 1: we're very, very grateful that we have you in the fight. 768 00:49:28,640 --> 00:49:33,040 Speaker 1: And you know that you that you don't succumb to 769 00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:37,080 Speaker 1: the pressure or the fear that they are trying to 770 00:49:37,120 --> 00:49:38,440 Speaker 1: instill in so many people. 771 00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:41,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, well it's hard. I'm not going to say, you know, 772 00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:46,120 Speaker 2: it's not. This is hard. This is hard, but it's 773 00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:49,080 Speaker 2: not impossible because this is the United States of America 774 00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:50,560 Speaker 2: that part. 775 00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:54,000 Speaker 1: And you know, it's interesting it that's not funny, but 776 00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:57,800 Speaker 1: it almost the passion for it charms me in a 777 00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:02,200 Speaker 1: way because you made me giggle. Recently. You were asked about, 778 00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:04,160 Speaker 1: you know, the things you get to do as a 779 00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:06,160 Speaker 1: professional in your fifties, and you said, well, now I 780 00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:09,120 Speaker 1: get to save it. I couldn't say that before. And 781 00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:12,399 Speaker 1: do you feel a little bit of free energy right now? 782 00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:14,840 Speaker 1: Like I think you have to to stay in the fight, right. 783 00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:18,879 Speaker 2: I will say that that is the only way to go. 784 00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:22,920 Speaker 2: It's the only way to go. You absolutely. Let me 785 00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:26,520 Speaker 2: just say that. We talk a lot about the Republicans 786 00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:28,680 Speaker 2: who won't hold the line, and I feel like one 787 00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:31,640 Speaker 2: of the major lines where they could have held it 788 00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:37,640 Speaker 2: was January sixth, and they the bed because that was, 789 00:50:37,880 --> 00:50:42,719 Speaker 2: honestly the opportunity to draw the line. And everything else 790 00:50:42,760 --> 00:50:46,840 Speaker 2: that has happened since it is because they didn't on that. 791 00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:50,640 Speaker 2: That was simple, that was simple, and they failed us. 792 00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:55,799 Speaker 2: And for me, it's like now none of us have 793 00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:59,840 Speaker 2: a choice but to hold the line, to have the kids, 794 00:50:59,880 --> 00:51:03,520 Speaker 2: like you said, and to drive forward and to not 795 00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:07,640 Speaker 2: be afraid. Let me tell you, being afraid or what 796 00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:10,560 Speaker 2: these Republicans are doing, it will not serve them well, 797 00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:14,760 Speaker 2: it will. It will be horrible for them in history, 798 00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:18,279 Speaker 2: in the history books, but probably before. One thing we 799 00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:22,440 Speaker 2: know about Donald Trump is if if he senses that 800 00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:28,160 Speaker 2: you're afraid, you're done, You're done. So you have no 801 00:51:28,280 --> 00:51:31,520 Speaker 2: choice but to have that. And that's what I mean 802 00:51:31,560 --> 00:51:34,560 Speaker 2: by a sort of every day is different because you 803 00:51:34,600 --> 00:51:37,560 Speaker 2: don't know what's going to happen. It's very unpredictable, but 804 00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:41,360 Speaker 2: that we all knew was coming when he won. Anyone 805 00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:44,880 Speaker 2: who's surprised about what is going on now was not 806 00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:49,319 Speaker 2: listening during the election. During his first term, during his 807 00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:53,760 Speaker 2: he campaigned out in the open and everything that is happening, 808 00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:57,080 Speaker 2: he absolutely told us what was going to happen, So 809 00:51:57,160 --> 00:52:00,200 Speaker 2: don't I know, you're not going to see me being shocked. 810 00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:04,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, Ever, how do you how do you think about 811 00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:08,839 Speaker 1: the midterms coming up this year? Are there stories you're 812 00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:13,440 Speaker 1: paying attention to? Are you watching what the posters are saying? 813 00:52:13,640 --> 00:52:16,880 Speaker 1: Or are you just head down doing the work, not 814 00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:18,480 Speaker 1: paying attention to any of the noise. 815 00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:22,520 Speaker 2: I'm very concerned about the midterms on a number of levels, 816 00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:32,279 Speaker 2: and I'm watching everything around election security, claims of fraud, 817 00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:36,359 Speaker 2: how potentially this could be dragged out. So there's you know, 818 00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:45,799 Speaker 2: uncertainty what different ways Republicans with nefarious intentions could take 819 00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:51,600 Speaker 2: advantage of our great country and our system of laws 820 00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:59,040 Speaker 2: and elections. And I'm hopeful, but I am eyes wide 821 00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:06,120 Speaker 2: open about how we move forward. And I urge everybody 822 00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:11,240 Speaker 2: to plan their vote and to think about their vote, 823 00:53:11,520 --> 00:53:15,080 Speaker 2: and to think about the midterms now, and don't forget 824 00:53:15,480 --> 00:53:18,440 Speaker 2: and spread the word and do what you think is 825 00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:20,400 Speaker 2: right for this country. If you don't like what you 826 00:53:20,520 --> 00:53:23,840 Speaker 2: see is happening, this is it is our last best 827 00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:29,040 Speaker 2: hope at expressing ourselves. And I hope that Americans are 828 00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:35,799 Speaker 2: inspired by their opportunity to cast their vote and say 829 00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:38,919 Speaker 2: how they feel me too, me too. 830 00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:40,719 Speaker 1: Well, I should say thank you so much for being 831 00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:43,239 Speaker 1: such an amazing supporter. I am a voter all these years. 832 00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:44,160 Speaker 1: It means a lot to us. 833 00:53:44,160 --> 00:53:46,080 Speaker 2: Oh, I love I am a voter and I have 834 00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:50,840 Speaker 2: my I am a voter's suitcase, a voter boots. I 835 00:53:51,360 --> 00:53:53,440 Speaker 2: love you. Thank you. 836 00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:55,680 Speaker 1: You know I agree with you. I think it's important 837 00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:58,400 Speaker 1: to remind people that that is a great way to mobilize. 838 00:53:58,440 --> 00:54:00,319 Speaker 1: You know, if I had it my way, we would 839 00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:02,799 Speaker 1: even know Kings March every Saturday until that man was 840 00:54:02,800 --> 00:54:05,520 Speaker 1: out of office. But I also know that a lot 841 00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:08,200 Speaker 1: of people don't have the time or resources to stop 842 00:54:08,239 --> 00:54:14,359 Speaker 1: their lives every week, but to plan the day, the 843 00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:17,000 Speaker 1: stoppage that you go and make your voice heard in 844 00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:19,280 Speaker 1: the in the booth is one of the most important 845 00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:20,239 Speaker 1: things a person can do. 846 00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:23,399 Speaker 2: And also a lot of people voted for him, And 847 00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:32,000 Speaker 2: don't close yourself off from connecting and don't judge. I 848 00:54:32,040 --> 00:54:34,399 Speaker 2: think that you know, the way we come together as 849 00:54:34,400 --> 00:54:37,080 Speaker 2: a country and as a people, and the way that 850 00:54:37,120 --> 00:54:42,120 Speaker 2: we perhaps spark positive change is you know, have an 851 00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:45,240 Speaker 2: open mind. A lot of people who voted for Donald 852 00:54:45,239 --> 00:54:50,120 Speaker 2: Trump had their reasons, and I think there's always the 853 00:54:50,239 --> 00:54:57,200 Speaker 2: danger in judging people. And I urge people to try 854 00:54:57,239 --> 00:55:00,759 Speaker 2: and understand each other, to really let and you don't 855 00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:04,319 Speaker 2: have to agree, just listen, hear each other out. That 856 00:55:04,360 --> 00:55:07,400 Speaker 2: will help. We don't have to fight, but we I 857 00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:10,480 Speaker 2: think not talking is just as bad as fighting. 858 00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:15,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, And you know, I understand that everyone has their 859 00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:18,800 Speaker 1: own experiences and their own thresholds, but I will say, 860 00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:23,080 Speaker 1: I've got an old friend. We don't see eye to eye. 861 00:55:23,719 --> 00:55:26,960 Speaker 1: We've taken breaks over some of the knockdown drag outs 862 00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:29,000 Speaker 1: we've had over where we don't see eye to eye. 863 00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:32,799 Speaker 1: And when a lot of people said like, let it go, 864 00:55:33,680 --> 00:55:36,400 Speaker 1: just let it go, I said, I don't if I 865 00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:39,040 Speaker 1: give up on someone I've known for twenty years, how 866 00:55:39,040 --> 00:55:41,520 Speaker 1: I'm ever going to get along with a stranger. 867 00:55:41,360 --> 00:55:43,799 Speaker 2: You know exactly? Yes, don't give up on each other. 868 00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:46,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I said it to her, and we've done 869 00:55:46,280 --> 00:55:51,719 Speaker 1: a lot of work and it's been really formative for 870 00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:57,400 Speaker 1: us both, and recently she has said some things that 871 00:55:57,440 --> 00:56:01,040 Speaker 1: have meant the world to me and really made me say, like, 872 00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:04,720 Speaker 1: this is why I didn't want to give up. And 873 00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:08,240 Speaker 1: I think, at your own pace, in your own time, 874 00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:12,080 Speaker 1: But the only way we're going to get through this 875 00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:15,719 Speaker 1: is if we start to remember that what goes on 876 00:56:15,760 --> 00:56:17,120 Speaker 1: in your house doesn't have to go on in your 877 00:56:17,120 --> 00:56:19,840 Speaker 1: neighbor's house, but your neighbors and you better start. 878 00:56:19,640 --> 00:56:20,319 Speaker 6: Acting like it. 879 00:56:20,760 --> 00:56:24,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm curious for you. 880 00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:26,680 Speaker 1: You know, it's a big year, and I know it's 881 00:56:27,080 --> 00:56:32,359 Speaker 1: an enormous sort of world and timeline to look out 882 00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:35,160 Speaker 1: on for all of us, certainly, but especially for you 883 00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:39,799 Speaker 1: as a journalist. So it doesn't have to be professional. 884 00:56:39,880 --> 00:56:42,400 Speaker 1: You know, we've talked about a lot of that, but 885 00:56:42,640 --> 00:56:45,160 Speaker 1: maybe it is. I just wonder, as you look to 886 00:56:45,200 --> 00:56:50,080 Speaker 1: twenty twenty six, what for you, professional or personal, feels 887 00:56:50,120 --> 00:56:51,720 Speaker 1: like your work in progress. 888 00:56:52,320 --> 00:56:56,800 Speaker 2: Oh, that would hands down be the thirty fifty summit 889 00:56:56,880 --> 00:57:01,080 Speaker 2: in Abu Dhabi on International Women's Day. It's so it's 890 00:57:01,160 --> 00:57:08,040 Speaker 2: so cool. This summit is absolutely remarkable. On every year 891 00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:12,960 Speaker 2: it gets, it enriches and it becomes more multi dimensional, 892 00:57:13,239 --> 00:57:19,000 Speaker 2: and I am blown away by it. I literally just 893 00:57:19,160 --> 00:57:22,280 Speaker 2: find myself at a loss, gasping, at a loss of 894 00:57:22,320 --> 00:57:28,640 Speaker 2: words when it comes to the energy, the feedback and 895 00:57:28,680 --> 00:57:33,200 Speaker 2: the value that women from around the world are getting 896 00:57:33,280 --> 00:57:36,920 Speaker 2: out of this event. And this is the partnership I 897 00:57:36,960 --> 00:57:40,560 Speaker 2: have with Forbes and my platform Know Your Value. We 898 00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:44,640 Speaker 2: start in New York celebrating the fifty over fifty honorees 899 00:57:44,680 --> 00:57:47,320 Speaker 2: from the United States, but then the thirty fifty summit 900 00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:50,600 Speaker 2: in Abu Dhabi every International Women's Day. It's a three 901 00:57:50,680 --> 00:57:54,480 Speaker 2: day event, three and a half day event, and it's 902 00:57:54,880 --> 00:57:58,800 Speaker 2: in our fifth year. It is a cross cultural, multi 903 00:57:58,840 --> 00:58:03,479 Speaker 2: generational mentoring summit and we had women from forty nine 904 00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:06,120 Speaker 2: countries last year. Every year it grows. We have the 905 00:58:06,160 --> 00:58:12,960 Speaker 2: most incredible connections made, the most incredible messages and lessons 906 00:58:12,960 --> 00:58:15,400 Speaker 2: that we teach women in the region and women from 907 00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:18,800 Speaker 2: around the world, and we share ideas and experiences and 908 00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:22,920 Speaker 2: we invest in one another. And I have found that 909 00:58:23,080 --> 00:58:27,880 Speaker 2: every year there are several blow my mind stories of 910 00:58:28,120 --> 00:58:32,400 Speaker 2: what happens there. Whether it's it's Billy Jean King, Glorious 911 00:58:32,480 --> 00:58:37,880 Speaker 2: dynam Hillary Clinton, and Olenna Zelenska on stage together talking 912 00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:41,240 Speaker 2: about soft and hard power in women in the world, 913 00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:47,080 Speaker 2: or it's two women who I gave just by surprise 914 00:58:47,320 --> 00:58:52,360 Speaker 2: free tickets on the Kellig Larkson's show with certain eyeglass 915 00:58:52,360 --> 00:58:57,600 Speaker 2: company who started Vontel Eyewear, and they brought their selfie 916 00:58:57,600 --> 00:59:01,160 Speaker 2: sticks and were dancing on stage at the Louver in 917 00:59:01,240 --> 00:59:05,160 Speaker 2: Abu Dhabi, and they are telling me that they just 918 00:59:05,240 --> 00:59:07,880 Speaker 2: got a major investment because of who they met at 919 00:59:07,920 --> 00:59:11,240 Speaker 2: the summit at one of the networking sessions. And I'll 920 00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:16,360 Speaker 2: end by saying I knew I was onto something two 921 00:59:16,400 --> 00:59:19,400 Speaker 2: events ago where I was in the elevator and there 922 00:59:19,440 --> 00:59:22,200 Speaker 2: was like a twenty two year old young woman in 923 00:59:22,240 --> 00:59:24,880 Speaker 2: the elevator and she was like, this elevator has to 924 00:59:24,920 --> 00:59:27,840 Speaker 2: go faster. And I was like, are you okay. She's like, 925 00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:29,680 Speaker 2: I just I have to get to networking. I have 926 00:59:29,760 --> 00:59:33,240 Speaker 2: to get to the networking session. And I'm thinking, oh 927 00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:36,919 Speaker 2: my god, that's amazing, because networking is like a bad word, 928 00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:39,840 Speaker 2: like nobody wants to go to a networking thing. And 929 00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:42,400 Speaker 2: she was like, I have to be there. But the 930 00:59:42,440 --> 00:59:46,520 Speaker 2: networking is amazing and it's fun, and it's like very 931 00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:51,160 Speaker 2: the payoff is incredible. Everybody walks away, if not with 932 00:59:51,320 --> 00:59:54,880 Speaker 2: like an actual job or an investment, with like such 933 00:59:55,240 --> 00:59:57,640 Speaker 2: an incredible new lease on their life as to how 934 00:59:57,680 --> 01:00:02,440 Speaker 2: they're going to drive forward. So I'm always working toward that. 935 01:00:02,440 --> 01:00:07,120 Speaker 2: That is my sort of work in progress. Every year. 936 01:00:07,680 --> 01:00:11,440 Speaker 2: I want to build it, not necessarily bigger, but deeper 937 01:00:11,920 --> 01:00:17,280 Speaker 2: and more valuable and more special and add more value 938 01:00:17,520 --> 01:00:20,800 Speaker 2: for the region where we visit and bring together this 939 01:00:20,880 --> 01:00:26,960 Speaker 2: incredible collection of ideas, voices, shapes, sizes, ages. 940 01:00:28,240 --> 01:00:30,440 Speaker 1: I love that it's beautiful. That's what we need more 941 01:00:30,440 --> 01:00:32,160 Speaker 1: of in the world for sure. I just I'm ready 942 01:00:32,160 --> 01:00:33,880 Speaker 1: for the women to be in charge of everything. So 943 01:00:35,040 --> 01:00:37,120 Speaker 1: tell me where you tell me where and win to be. 944 01:00:37,240 --> 01:00:42,360 Speaker 2: I'm in You should come again. I want you there. Well. 945 01:00:42,360 --> 01:00:45,040 Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Thank you for taking your time today. 946 01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:49,120 Speaker 1: I just adore you, and I really appreciate all of 947 01:00:49,160 --> 01:00:51,960 Speaker 1: your thoughts and insight and everything that you're doing for 948 01:00:52,080 --> 01:00:53,120 Speaker 1: us out there in the world. 949 01:00:54,080 --> 01:00:56,240 Speaker 2: Thanks for having me, I really appreciate it.