1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,880 Speaker 1: If you have your own story of being in a 2 00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: cult or a high control group, or if. 3 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:07,040 Speaker 2: You've had experience with manipulation or abusive power that you'd 4 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:07,760 Speaker 2: like to share. 5 00:00:07,640 --> 00:00:10,040 Speaker 1: Leave us a message on our hotline number at three 6 00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:12,320 Speaker 1: four seven eight six trust. 7 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 2: That's three four seven eight six eight seven eight seven eight. 8 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:19,919 Speaker 1: Or shoot us an email at trustmepod at gmail dot com. 9 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:23,239 Speaker 3: Trust me, trust for trust me. 10 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 4: I'm like a swat person. I've never lived to you, 11 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:28,280 Speaker 4: and we never have a live. 12 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 2: If you think that one person has all the answers, 13 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 2: don't welcome to trust Me. The podcast about cults, extreme 14 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 2: belief and manipulation from two non gurus who've actually experienced it. 15 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 3: I am low Lablanc and I'm Megan Elizabeth. 16 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:45,520 Speaker 2: Today our guests are hosts of the podcast Decoding the Gurus, 17 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:49,839 Speaker 2: cognitive anthropologist Christopher Kavanaugh and psychologist Matthew Brown. They have 18 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 2: come to talk to us about all things Guru. There's 19 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 2: my voice being. 20 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 3: Six, excuse me. 21 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 2: They'll share how they define a guru, some of the 22 00:00:56,640 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 2: classic guru tricks on their garrometer, including when someone markets 23 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 2: themselves as possessing some kind of hidden knowledge, and why 24 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:05,959 Speaker 2: it can be hard to navigate trusting experts without lending 25 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 2: gurus with academic credentials in one area too much credence. 26 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 1: We'll talk about why the biggest Internet gurus tend to 27 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 1: skew more mail, some of the gurus the guys have covered, 28 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 1: including Elon Musk, Jordan Peterson, Joe Rogan, and many more, 29 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 1: and why we need more. 30 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:22,400 Speaker 3: Scientists with mass appeal. 31 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 2: That's right, baby, So before we dive in with them, 32 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:27,040 Speaker 2: and I love this episode. 33 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:28,119 Speaker 3: I really really like these guys. 34 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:29,319 Speaker 2: I want to be their friends and I wish they 35 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:32,200 Speaker 2: lived in LA But before we dive in with them, Megan, 36 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:33,960 Speaker 2: tell me your culties thing this week. 37 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 1: Well, you know, gurus come in all shapes and sizes, 38 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 1: even the shape and size of Chad day Bell. Right, 39 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 1: remember Chad, Well, she's back in the news. 40 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 3: Her trial is trying. 41 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 1: To pick up, but she keeps asking for unhinged things. 42 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 1: She just asks to go meet with them so they 43 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: could go over their case, because what the. 44 00:01:55,800 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 3: Family is saying is she's trying. 45 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 1: To see if he's still her par or if he's 46 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: about to turn on her at trial. 47 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 3: So she I can't even imagine what's. 48 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 1: Going on in this woman's mind right now, she's just 49 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:10,800 Speaker 1: killed her two kids, but she still believes in this guru. 50 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 1: But she's being told he's about to turn on you 51 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 1: in court. He's not who you think he is. So 52 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 1: lots of stuff going on over Oh. 53 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 2: My god, that is so crazy. I cannot imagine. Everything 54 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 2: about that is insane. 55 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, what about you? What's the cultiest thing that happened 56 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 3: to you? 57 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:30,920 Speaker 2: So for people who don't know that much about OCD 58 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:33,240 Speaker 2: or whatever, you can have different themes, like it doesn't 59 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 2: really matter. It can latch onto different themes and it 60 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 2: obsesses over that thing and it can completely change. One 61 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:43,519 Speaker 2: of my themes is existential OCD. But I just couldn't 62 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 2: stop thinking about time and the linear nature of time 63 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 2: and how we're all going to die and I don't 64 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 2: believe in an afterlife, and it was just like, I mean, listen, 65 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 2: this is I will probably continue to think about it 66 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 2: for the rest of my life. Obviously, because I am 67 00:02:56,360 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 2: not a religious person, it can be hard to tell 68 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:00,040 Speaker 2: the difference between like how much of this is like 69 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 2: the normal amount of thinking about something versus ruminating. And 70 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, I'm going to just try to 71 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 2: actually explore this topic and like do a little dive 72 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:13,960 Speaker 2: and like, see if there's anything out there that I 73 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:16,760 Speaker 2: can connect with that will I'll feel some way about. 74 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 2: So I started reading. So I asked Jack for some 75 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 2: books on existentialism for Christmas, which he got me. 76 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:26,080 Speaker 3: That is so funny. 77 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:30,080 Speaker 1: It's the most wonderful time you're gonna die. 78 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 2: It's basically my brain. Yes, I'm like another Christmas. I'm 79 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 2: thirty five, I'm definitely dying like tomorrow. 80 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 3: So I start. 81 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 2: I'm recurrently reading The Myth of Sisyphus by Albert Camu, 82 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 2: which I was resistant to reading because my ex loved 83 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 2: this book. But I'll tell you, reading it is so helpful, 84 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 2: even though I'm not even to the meat of the 85 00:03:54,960 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 2: philosophy yet, because just because he's like going through different philosophers, 86 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 2: you know, in the history of existentialism or whatever, and 87 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 2: they're different approaches and their different ways of dealing with 88 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 2: the like harsh reality of death or whatever, and just 89 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 2: that alone has unlocked something for me where I'm like, oh, 90 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:17,280 Speaker 2: I'm not like alone floating in the universe dealing with 91 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 2: this like angst. There is a long history and a 92 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 2: long tradition of people being like, oh my god, I'm 93 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 2: going to die, What do I do? 94 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 3: I'm going to die? What do I do? 95 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 2: And something about like just connecting to these like dead 96 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:32,479 Speaker 2: white men or whatever who had ideas on how to 97 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 2: deal with the reality of death has been really helpful. 98 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:38,520 Speaker 2: And it I'm bringing this back to cultiness because I 99 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 2: feel like so much of what I experience, like why 100 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:44,279 Speaker 2: it's difficult is that I feel alone in it, is 101 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 2: that I don't feel like I have a community in it. 102 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 2: And even like old dudes on a page can make 103 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:51,280 Speaker 2: a difference because I'm like, I'm not the only one 104 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:52,880 Speaker 2: having these thoughts. I'm not the only one who doesn't 105 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:55,160 Speaker 2: believe in God. I'm not, you know, like who's trying 106 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 2: to figure out a way to like have meaning in 107 00:04:57,800 --> 00:05:00,120 Speaker 2: my life without some kind of religious beliefs. 108 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 1: So anyway, well you seem perfectly primed to join a 109 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 1: cult about existentialism totally. I will just say too, Like 110 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 1: I was talking to somebody the other day and she 111 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:13,279 Speaker 1: was like, yeah. 112 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:13,599 Speaker 3: It's so weird. 113 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 1: I was raised religious and my boyfriend was talking to 114 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:17,359 Speaker 1: me and he was like, yeah, you know, I've never 115 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:19,479 Speaker 1: even really thought about dying. 116 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:21,280 Speaker 3: And she was like, what are you talking about. 117 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 1: I had to do that now I lay me down 118 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 1: to sleep, if I die, these blah blah blah every 119 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 1: night when I went to bed, and there is just 120 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:30,719 Speaker 1: this like weird discrepancy between people who are raised religious. 121 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 1: And obviously that's not across the board, but I do 122 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 1: feel like it's easier to obsess on if you're super 123 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:39,039 Speaker 1: focused on it when you're little. 124 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:41,480 Speaker 3: And to be clear, I think. 125 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:44,279 Speaker 1: Our society deals with death horribly and the people who 126 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:47,160 Speaker 1: never think about it are so blindsided and they're like, totally, 127 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 1: my grandma died and I'm like, right, what did you 128 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 1: think she was gonna do? 129 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 3: No, like it's not happening. 130 00:05:57,520 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 1: And then I will just also say that interview yesterday 131 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 1: that's coming out next week, the guy says something interesting 132 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:06,480 Speaker 1: where he was just like, yeah, maybe this conspiracy theory 133 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 1: is real. Maybe it's not, But what the hell can 134 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:11,360 Speaker 1: I do about it? Because mine, if nothing happens after 135 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:12,919 Speaker 1: you die, that's great to me. 136 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:17,279 Speaker 3: I would love just a long map, but I'm scared 137 00:06:17,400 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 3: of hell. 138 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 1: And it's like it's something about that spoke to me 139 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 1: where it's like, all right, what are you gonna do 140 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 1: about it? 141 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 3: Like now isn't the time to focus on? 142 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 5: That? 143 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:26,160 Speaker 3: Is the time to focus on. 144 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 1: Living and that'll do what it will do when when 145 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:33,599 Speaker 1: you die. But for now, like you got to figure 146 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:36,600 Speaker 1: out your meaning and your shit to do. 147 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 3: I love that. 148 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:39,720 Speaker 2: I mean it's so interesting. I feel like so much 149 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 2: of that come is related to the therapy that you 150 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 2: have to do with OCD, where it's like, Okay, what 151 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:47,359 Speaker 2: if it is worst case scenario, how how will you 152 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:49,360 Speaker 2: then live your life? Let's say it is the worst 153 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 2: thing happens, Okay, then what right? 154 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 3: Then what? 155 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 2: And obviously I don't believe I'm not going to die, 156 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 2: but there is like my body is like fighting against 157 00:06:58,160 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 2: the fact that I'm getting older and fighting against the 158 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:02,279 Speaker 2: fact that every day is the same even when it's different. 159 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 2: You know. 160 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:05,320 Speaker 3: So I'm super Chell. 161 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 2: But to your point about the way that America or 162 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:12,800 Speaker 2: Western culture in general deals with death, I think that's 163 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:15,440 Speaker 2: such a big thing that I've noticed in my life 164 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 2: is just like I've always just been taught avoid death, 165 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:20,000 Speaker 2: don't think about it, don't think about it, like we'll 166 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:21,680 Speaker 2: just go to heaven and it'll be fine, and then well, 167 00:07:21,720 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 2: but what happens when you don't believe in heaven anymore? 168 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 2: Just don't don't look at the dead body, don't deal 169 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 2: with it, you know, And I would love if there 170 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:31,760 Speaker 2: were a paradigm shift culturally where it was something we 171 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:35,160 Speaker 2: talked about more and tried to accept and like integrate 172 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:36,000 Speaker 2: into our lives. 173 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 1: You know, as a child who is constantly around death 174 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 1: and dead bodies and people dying. 175 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:42,560 Speaker 3: Don't do it to kids. 176 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 1: But as adults, it's time to like face the music 177 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 1: and deal with it and maybe talk about it and 178 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 1: help people who are dying and you know whatever. Yeah, totally, 179 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 1: But I think kids too too wrapped up in death. 180 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:00,200 Speaker 3: And again, I'm sure there's some death. 181 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 1: To duel out there with her five kids, and they 182 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 1: love death, and that's like for them. I'm just saying, 183 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 1: I'm definitely not better for having been to fifty open 184 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 1: casket funerals a year. Why so many because the people 185 00:08:14,920 --> 00:08:16,559 Speaker 1: in our religion were so fucking old. 186 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 2: Oh and you have to go. 187 00:08:18,840 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 3: To everyone's funeral. 188 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:24,200 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. Yeah, yeah, well that's that's too much. Yeah, 189 00:08:24,240 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 2: it was a little too much, But I don't know. 190 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 2: Watching Cocoa, for example, I was like, oh my god, 191 00:08:29,400 --> 00:08:33,439 Speaker 2: there's so many better ways to like deal with death, 192 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 2: and even like the Jewish death rituals, which it's just 193 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:39,960 Speaker 2: like longer. It's not like you have a funeral and 194 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:41,560 Speaker 2: then you bring a castle and then that's it and 195 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 2: no one talks to you again. You know, there's like 196 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 2: a community around it. Like I don't know, I just 197 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:48,840 Speaker 2: think there are better ways than what we're used to. 198 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:50,079 Speaker 3: But love it. 199 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 2: Maybe an episode for another day, Charlie, all right, should 200 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:55,560 Speaker 2: we talk about gurus now? 201 00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 3: Let's do it? Okay. 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For anyone who is not familiar with 230 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 2: your podcast, can you guys just tell us a little 231 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 2: bit about your background, your focus of research, and what 232 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:22,760 Speaker 2: led you to start the podcast. 233 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:27,880 Speaker 4: Age First, Seniority Killing inspired at Kevanagh. 234 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:32,719 Speaker 5: Chris, there's an anthropologist and he's got a bit of 235 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 5: a background in religion and ritual and that kind of thing. 236 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 5: It touches on stuff to do with shaman's and the 237 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:43,800 Speaker 5: way that those ideas flirter around. Anyway, I'm not doing 238 00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:46,719 Speaker 5: a very good job anyway. My background is psychology. I'm 239 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:49,720 Speaker 5: a professor at a university in Australia and I've looked 240 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 5: at you know, why people believe strange things, anti vaccination, 241 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 5: believes complementary alternative medicines, that kind of thing. And we're 242 00:10:58,360 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 5: both terminally online, so we via Twitter and the infosphere, 243 00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 5: we became more and more aware of these figures like 244 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:11,800 Speaker 5: Jordan Peterson, less well known people like Brett Weinstein. We 245 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 5: realized that they sort of are a bit like the 246 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:18,600 Speaker 5: old fashioned gurus, like spiritual gurus, in the sense that 247 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 5: they provide people with like an entire worldview to be 248 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:25,160 Speaker 5: members of a club. I guess provide meaning for people 249 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:28,680 Speaker 5: as well. So we started calling them like secular gurus, 250 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:32,280 Speaker 5: and we were going to write about it like academics do, 251 00:11:32,440 --> 00:11:34,720 Speaker 5: but we thought, no, look, let's talk about it for 252 00:11:34,760 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 5: a bit first, and so we haven't written about it 253 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 5: and we've just been doing this podcast instead. 254 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:44,719 Speaker 4: I didn't expect him to introduce me, but I appreciate it. 255 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:47,079 Speaker 2: For him. 256 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, it's very old the sometimes, but yeah, I'm 257 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 6: a cognitive anthropologist by teaching the psychology department in Japan, 258 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:01,880 Speaker 6: I'm a researcher and Oxford at the same time, but 259 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:06,560 Speaker 6: I specialize in like ritual psychology and the cognitive science 260 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 6: of religion, So the gurus and. 261 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:13,719 Speaker 4: Conspiracy theory, communities and stuff are tangential interest but are 262 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:17,880 Speaker 4: becoming increasingly a mean focus. But a lot of the 263 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:19,719 Speaker 4: same psychology applies. 264 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 2: Why is Japan where you have landed? 265 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 4: Oh, for a variety of reasons, but merely my research 266 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 4: for my PhD was on psychology, and Japan is a 267 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:37,800 Speaker 4: very good environment for ritual activity without very intense feelings 268 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:41,439 Speaker 4: of belief or commitment to doctrines, so it's kind of 269 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 4: a nice environment for that. And then this was not 270 00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:47,720 Speaker 4: the primary reason for coming here, but my wife is 271 00:12:47,720 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 4: also Japanese and like we now live here and have 272 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 4: children here, so that helps as well. 273 00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 2: Cool. So how do y'all define a guru? I think 274 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:01,640 Speaker 2: I read that you have a gurun? Can you tell 275 00:13:01,679 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 2: us about that? 276 00:13:02,960 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 5: Yes, we have very scientific, very rigorous thing called the garometer. 277 00:13:07,520 --> 00:13:10,000 Speaker 5: We didn't want to just be throwing around this word 278 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 5: or label or category, Willie Nelly. We also feel like 279 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:17,520 Speaker 5: there are grades, there are degrees of gurunus as well, 280 00:13:17,679 --> 00:13:20,120 Speaker 5: so we thought we'd be clear about what we mean 281 00:13:20,360 --> 00:13:23,440 Speaker 5: by it. So the grandmother is like a helpful framework 282 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:26,920 Speaker 5: for us to organize these features. And we also score 283 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:31,400 Speaker 5: how gurusm quantify this because a psychologists like to do 284 00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 5: that whenever we can't. So there's about ten different dimensions, domains, 285 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:41,160 Speaker 5: whatever you call them, but certainly cultishness, galaxy brainness. 286 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:41,640 Speaker 2: What does that mean? 287 00:13:41,720 --> 00:13:41,880 Speaker 4: Yeah? 288 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 3: What is that? 289 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:44,880 Speaker 5: That's that's from this meme. I don't know if you've 290 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:45,800 Speaker 5: seen it with Oh yeah. 291 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:47,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah kind of thing. 292 00:13:47,720 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 2: Oh I love it. 293 00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 5: Okay, it's so good, isn't it? And you know you 294 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:54,120 Speaker 5: saw people like Steve Jobs, you know, I think that's 295 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:56,960 Speaker 5: what that character was based on, who is kind of 296 00:13:56,960 --> 00:14:00,280 Speaker 5: like a tech guru. But it's that they're into with 297 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:03,760 Speaker 5: ideas that are like too profound, too deep, too complex 298 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:07,679 Speaker 5: for the average mind to comprehend. Also, they have like 299 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:12,400 Speaker 5: kind of a polymathic ability to apply their wisdom across 300 00:14:12,520 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 5: multiple different domains. They're that good. So you know, Elon 301 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 5: Musk is a good example of this, right, He's according 302 00:14:18,520 --> 00:14:22,600 Speaker 5: to his fans and himself, he's capable of literally brain 303 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:28,320 Speaker 5: surgery and rocket science. So so yeah, like there's lots 304 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:30,600 Speaker 5: of different features there. We could list them off and 305 00:14:30,600 --> 00:14:32,240 Speaker 5: you could pick out the ones that you're interested in. 306 00:14:32,320 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 5: But the self aggrandizement and we feel like a bit 307 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:38,160 Speaker 5: of narcissism goes along there too, is pretty important, I 308 00:14:38,200 --> 00:14:41,120 Speaker 5: think for the glue that holds the gurus together. 309 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:44,360 Speaker 4: In terms of core dimensions. Those the fact that people 310 00:14:44,440 --> 00:14:48,640 Speaker 4: are offering a way of understanding the world or a 311 00:14:48,640 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 4: way to interpret things. And then when you have these 312 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:55,600 Speaker 4: constellation and factors and they're not always there, you know, 313 00:14:55,680 --> 00:14:57,560 Speaker 4: for all of the figures that we look at, they 314 00:14:57,600 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 4: can be there in different degrees, but when you have 315 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 4: them together, you have like charismatic figures offering interpretations for 316 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:09,600 Speaker 4: across a wide array of domains and claiming kind of 317 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:13,720 Speaker 4: hidden knowledge that you can gain, you know, by basically 318 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:16,400 Speaker 4: becoming a part of their community, listening to what they 319 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:21,040 Speaker 4: say or in long form podcasts. The traditional concept of 320 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 4: like guru from the I think Sanskrit or that kind 321 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:29,360 Speaker 4: of thing, the religious guru. We aren't focused so much 322 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:32,240 Speaker 4: on that, but in the way that people are applying 323 00:15:32,280 --> 00:15:37,240 Speaker 4: that in the modern environment to like claim authority, well 324 00:15:37,560 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 4: or not they actually can provide what they claim, like 325 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:46,160 Speaker 4: generally answers no, but it's kind of incidental to people 326 00:15:46,200 --> 00:15:49,200 Speaker 4: being guru. So we have tried to look at like 327 00:15:49,240 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 4: figures like Cardsig and Robert Wright, people that we don't 328 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:56,920 Speaker 4: think are actually trying to like exploit people, and instead 329 00:15:57,160 --> 00:16:01,960 Speaker 4: just see what kind of dynamic are consistent and recurrent 330 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 4: in which ones are like specific two particular figures you guys. 331 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:09,720 Speaker 2: Have covered the Weinstein's Brett Weinstein and Eric Weinstein. I 332 00:16:09,760 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 2: should clarify, not Harvey Jordan Peterson, Joe Rogan, I. 333 00:16:13,520 --> 00:16:14,840 Speaker 4: Wrote the Robin Bangelo. 334 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:16,720 Speaker 2: Yes, and there are a lot of names that I 335 00:16:16,760 --> 00:16:18,880 Speaker 2: wasn't familiar with, and I'd be very curious to hear 336 00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:20,960 Speaker 2: about some of those at some point. But have either 337 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:24,440 Speaker 2: of you followed a guru to any extent in your life? 338 00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:25,960 Speaker 2: Is that part of it let you on this journey 339 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:27,800 Speaker 2: or it was just more a fascination of watching other 340 00:16:27,840 --> 00:16:28,360 Speaker 2: people do it. 341 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 4: We did do two episodes where Matt and I picked 342 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:36,640 Speaker 4: people that we regarded as like guru ish figures to us. 343 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:39,480 Speaker 4: But in my case it was a Jesuit priest who 344 00:16:39,560 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 4: was popular in the nineties and eighties, Anthony de Mello, 345 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:46,400 Speaker 4: who kind of did a Christian mystic kind of thing. 346 00:16:46,480 --> 00:16:48,400 Speaker 4: But I mean, as far as I was involved with him, 347 00:16:48,520 --> 00:16:50,880 Speaker 4: was just I listened to some of us talks and 348 00:16:50,920 --> 00:16:54,840 Speaker 4: thought they were good, so I didn't follow it particularly well. 349 00:16:55,080 --> 00:16:59,080 Speaker 4: That's why we did Carl Sagan because Matt regarded him 350 00:16:59,080 --> 00:17:03,280 Speaker 4: as a form of adventure. Maybe you can speak well 351 00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:06,560 Speaker 4: or that's happened, But in my case, I was interested 352 00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:11,200 Speaker 4: in like introspective practices and Meddititian tradition. So that's part 353 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:13,639 Speaker 4: of the reason I ended up studying Buddhism and the 354 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:19,920 Speaker 4: history of Buddhism and university, but not so much gurus particularly. 355 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:23,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, I think Carl Sagan's a good example of how 356 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:25,720 Speaker 5: someone can be a guru, but not really a toxic guru. 357 00:17:26,119 --> 00:17:29,359 Speaker 5: So Carl Sagan, you know, he wears the turtlelegs. He 358 00:17:29,560 --> 00:17:32,280 Speaker 5: talks about the wonder of space and so on, and 359 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:35,399 Speaker 5: encourages you to think about these cosmic things and so on. 360 00:17:35,520 --> 00:17:38,720 Speaker 5: But I think where he is kind of what it's 361 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:42,199 Speaker 5: really being healthy and not toxic is that he doesn't 362 00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 5: claim special revolutionary wisdom that you can't get anywhere else. 363 00:17:46,320 --> 00:17:47,960 Speaker 5: He's not saying you have to follow him and you 364 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:50,960 Speaker 5: should forget about all those other scientists. The kind of 365 00:17:50,960 --> 00:17:54,240 Speaker 5: stuff that he's talking about or was talking about, was 366 00:17:54,320 --> 00:18:00,080 Speaker 5: very much based on the orthodox scientific knowledge and. 367 00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:02,040 Speaker 2: Actually just a expertise. 368 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:05,879 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, he had actual expertise, and you know 369 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:09,480 Speaker 5: that there are a lot of specialities within astronomy and physics, 370 00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 5: of course, and he would certainly refer to literature and 371 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:16,919 Speaker 5: that that's different from what more toxic gurus do. What 372 00:18:16,960 --> 00:18:21,000 Speaker 5: they tend to do is they diminish other sources of knowledge, 373 00:18:21,160 --> 00:18:25,159 Speaker 5: other sources of authority, and encourage you to So we 374 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:28,879 Speaker 5: have this feature in the Gorometer called anti establishmentarianism. We 375 00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 5: really love the awkward, awkward names, but you know that 376 00:18:33,600 --> 00:18:36,679 Speaker 5: really does capture what they do. They set themselves up 377 00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:42,360 Speaker 5: as an alternative epistemic essentially, which is closed, I suppose, 378 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:47,199 Speaker 5: and the conspiracy theorizing provides part of the rationale for 379 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 5: why people shouldn't trust the institutions like everyone else out there, 380 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:55,920 Speaker 5: the universities, the experts. That the people you can really 381 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:56,640 Speaker 5: trust is them. 382 00:18:57,000 --> 00:18:57,200 Speaker 4: Right. 383 00:18:57,960 --> 00:18:59,879 Speaker 1: It's interesting that you've said that because I was just 384 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:03,040 Speaker 1: watching a documentary on black Holes and I was like, 385 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:05,760 Speaker 1: whoa These people worship Stephen Hawking. 386 00:19:05,880 --> 00:19:07,760 Speaker 3: He you know, they would just be like, here's. 387 00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:10,840 Speaker 1: Some tea, here's everything, like Steven Stephen Stephen, And I 388 00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 1: was like, holy shit, this is like a religion. But 389 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:15,840 Speaker 1: then they would ask him stuff and sometimes he'd be like, 390 00:19:15,880 --> 00:19:18,119 Speaker 1: I don't know, or ask them or whatever, and then 391 00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:20,960 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, so that's why he's not bad. 392 00:19:21,080 --> 00:19:22,640 Speaker 3: So it's very interesting. 393 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:24,840 Speaker 2: He has he need in some questionable behavior. 394 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:28,360 Speaker 1: Well, he definitely cheated on his wife and got remarried, 395 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:31,320 Speaker 1: which is just such an amazing feat to do when 396 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:32,680 Speaker 1: you can't talk. 397 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:35,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think about it a lot. 398 00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:38,520 Speaker 1: But you know, as far as as being their guru, 399 00:19:38,600 --> 00:19:40,399 Speaker 1: I do think that he didn't pretend to have all 400 00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:41,119 Speaker 1: the answers. 401 00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 2: What do you guys think of him? 402 00:19:43,440 --> 00:19:46,160 Speaker 5: Well, I think i'veerad his books and I think he's 403 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:48,280 Speaker 5: pretty good. He's not like Calsak, and I guess I mean, 404 00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:51,680 Speaker 5: he is even more so than Calsak, and he did 405 00:19:52,200 --> 00:19:55,159 Speaker 5: quite important work around black holes and stuff. As to 406 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:58,480 Speaker 5: his character, I don't really know, but I think it's 407 00:19:58,520 --> 00:20:02,840 Speaker 5: the case that he and when someone is perfectly non toxic, 408 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:07,159 Speaker 5: if they genuinely are pretty special, it's or famous in 409 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:10,240 Speaker 5: some way, shape or form, then they're naturally going to 410 00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:15,679 Speaker 5: attract to kind of groupies and like fans who and 411 00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 5: the dynamic may not always be particularly healthy, even when 412 00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:25,520 Speaker 5: the guru themselves perhaps isn't deliberately driving it. Yeah. 413 00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:27,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like once you get to the point 414 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:30,639 Speaker 2: where you have fans and you have that adoration, it 415 00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:34,880 Speaker 2: just almost inherently becomes a little bit toxic because you're like, wow, 416 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:37,240 Speaker 2: people are listening to me, I'm important, and I feel 417 00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:39,159 Speaker 2: like it's really it would be very difficult to resist. 418 00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:41,399 Speaker 5: Chris has been get doing this ever since we started 419 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:41,960 Speaker 5: the podcast. 420 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:49,119 Speaker 4: It's difficult to manage. And you know, I actually I did. 421 00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:54,280 Speaker 4: I did remember that the in in Northern Ireland, whenever 422 00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:58,520 Speaker 4: I was attending meditation sessions for the first time, there 423 00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:01,560 Speaker 4: weren't that many in and it wasn't a big thing strangely, 424 00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:06,640 Speaker 4: but the group that organized them were a group called 425 00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:11,240 Speaker 4: the Friends of the Western Buddhist Order, and after moving 426 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:14,119 Speaker 4: over to London and later I subsequently found out that 427 00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:18,720 Speaker 4: they have been quite quite legitimately accused of having culpish 428 00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:24,680 Speaker 4: tendencies and the founder is a like a very guruish 429 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:28,280 Speaker 4: guy who has you know, a palagem and all that 430 00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:33,600 Speaker 4: kind of thing. And there was also sexual abuse scandals, 431 00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 4: including by the guy that taught me the meditation, so 432 00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:40,800 Speaker 4: that is true. Although I didn't experience any of that, 433 00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:45,200 Speaker 4: I kind of second time got that and I didn't 434 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:49,440 Speaker 4: really get strongly involved with that except from attending meditation sessions, 435 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:52,119 Speaker 4: but I guess I did have first had the experience 436 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:56,320 Speaker 4: because of that. I just, yeah, it such that these. 437 00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:58,840 Speaker 1: People have such good information, you know a lot of 438 00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:02,120 Speaker 1: them do. They have really cool tools and stuff to share, 439 00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:05,360 Speaker 1: but then it gets so wrapped up in this guru 440 00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:07,200 Speaker 1: meter where the other stuff comes in. 441 00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:13,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I do remember, like as a teenager, that 442 00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:17,000 Speaker 4: the guy who was leading the meditation sessions, who was 443 00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:20,200 Speaker 4: one of the main people accused of like sexual abuse leader, 444 00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:24,680 Speaker 4: he had a very charismatic personality. You know that maybe 445 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 4: the first time I properly encountered charisma in person, and 446 00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:34,439 Speaker 4: that that's definitely something that I think it helps to 447 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:38,840 Speaker 4: experience firsthand. You know that you can meet someone and 448 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 4: they seem so magnetic and they you want to spend 449 00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:45,800 Speaker 4: time and you want to listen to them, but it 450 00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:49,280 Speaker 4: doesn't actually mean what they're saying or what they're doing 451 00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:52,800 Speaker 4: is good in any sense totally. 452 00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:55,080 Speaker 2: I mean, we talk about how if somebody is charismatic, 453 00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:56,200 Speaker 2: it's a red flag. 454 00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:57,360 Speaker 3: We push them away. 455 00:22:57,440 --> 00:23:02,119 Speaker 2: We go no, no charisma, We're pushing ourselves a y 456 00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:09,240 Speaker 2: I'm interested in this idea of like academic credentialism, and 457 00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:12,639 Speaker 2: this idea that like Jordan Peterson can have an area 458 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:16,040 Speaker 2: that he actually does know about, he actually does study 459 00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 2: or teach about, and then we'll speak to all of 460 00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:21,320 Speaker 2: these other areas and people will take him seriously even 461 00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:24,040 Speaker 2: though he knows he knows jack shit about those other 462 00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:26,719 Speaker 2: areas of life. Is that a thing that you see commonly. 463 00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:28,239 Speaker 2: I mean you kind of touched on it earlier, but 464 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:30,439 Speaker 2: I would love to hear a little more about that. 465 00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:34,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, I think credentialism is a is a tricky thing 466 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:38,719 Speaker 5: because how to put this, a lot of people with 467 00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:43,960 Speaker 5: PhDs or with jobs as an academic I'm not very 468 00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:45,600 Speaker 5: good even in their own field. 469 00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:49,080 Speaker 4: Right, not just the gurus. 470 00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:51,040 Speaker 5: And whereas you have me and Chris that you know 471 00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:55,959 Speaker 5: we have solidly media, We are not showing off, not 472 00:23:56,000 --> 00:24:00,080 Speaker 5: falling behind. But I do make a point of hitting 473 00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:05,520 Speaker 5: up Google scholar and checking out the actual research backgrounds 474 00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:09,800 Speaker 5: of our gurus that come from academia or people with 475 00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:13,879 Speaker 5: PhDs anyway, and it's often pretty thin. It's often pretty thin. 476 00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:16,240 Speaker 5: So I'm not saying like someone like Jordan Peterson is 477 00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:22,000 Speaker 5: doesn't everything about psychology. He certainly does, but he's not 478 00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:24,879 Speaker 5: one of the leading lights in the field. He doesn't 479 00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:27,720 Speaker 5: have a strong research background, and he actually has a 480 00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:30,439 Speaker 5: genuine research background. It's pretty thin. But then you have 481 00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:34,600 Speaker 5: people with PhDs with like really no research background, like 482 00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:38,720 Speaker 5: Brett Weinstein or his partner Heather Haying, who though they 483 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:46,600 Speaker 5: frequently make reference to their deep evolutionary biology knowledge which 484 00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:52,360 Speaker 5: informs their entire worldview, they actually have no track record 485 00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:56,560 Speaker 5: in that area to speak of, and actually demonstrate many 486 00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:58,760 Speaker 5: times that they don't really understand the topic that they're 487 00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:01,959 Speaker 5: trained in. One the dirty secrets in academia is that 488 00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:05,280 Speaker 5: if you hang around long enough, you will be given 489 00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:11,840 Speaker 5: your PhD. It is actually not the high bar that 490 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:14,360 Speaker 5: that we think of it, So I guess the issue there. 491 00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:17,600 Speaker 5: So to get to your question, the credentialism is a 492 00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:21,080 Speaker 5: tricky thing, like there isn't like a hard category of 493 00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:24,160 Speaker 5: someone's an expert someone's not an expert. That there are 494 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:28,840 Speaker 5: lots of people who who don't have formal backgrounds in 495 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:32,080 Speaker 5: a particular area and are really fantastic on it. Chris 496 00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:33,760 Speaker 5: is going to hate this because I've mentioned it like 497 00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:39,080 Speaker 5: five times, but a good example another is this, like 498 00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:41,560 Speaker 5: you know, we've listened to a history podcast with the 499 00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:43,359 Speaker 5: guy who did history at Rome and he's doing a 500 00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:44,360 Speaker 5: revolutions podcast. 501 00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:45,640 Speaker 4: He doesn't have any foul. 502 00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:52,880 Speaker 5: But it's a good it's a good illustration. Whereas someone 503 00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:56,520 Speaker 5: he's an excellent popularizer of history. I don't think he's 504 00:25:56,560 --> 00:25:58,639 Speaker 5: got relevant background in it, but he certainly knows a 505 00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:01,399 Speaker 5: lot about history. So yeah, it's a tricky. It's a 506 00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:04,280 Speaker 5: tricky one, and I think people do struggle in terms 507 00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:07,600 Speaker 5: of the popular discourse, and there's all this arguments about 508 00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:11,920 Speaker 5: trusting the experts or not trusting the experts. I think 509 00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:15,680 Speaker 5: it's hard for people to calibrate or gauge the degree 510 00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:18,280 Speaker 5: of trust they should be assigning different figures. 511 00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:22,399 Speaker 4: There's also the I would note that like Matt is 512 00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:25,639 Speaker 4: talking about people that are over inflating the credentials, but 513 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:29,440 Speaker 4: there are people who win Nobel prizes, right, there's the 514 00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:33,640 Speaker 4: so called Nobel disease because it's so common that later 515 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,119 Speaker 4: in life Nobel Prize when its go on to endorse 516 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:40,600 Speaker 4: like pseudoscience or crank all time. The theories and those 517 00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:44,800 Speaker 4: figures that we've colored covered like Peter McCulloch and Robert Malone, 518 00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:47,280 Speaker 4: who are two doctors that went on Joe Rogan and 519 00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:51,960 Speaker 4: kind of advocated in different ways anti vaccine things. And 520 00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:56,200 Speaker 4: Peter McCulloch has an extremely impressive research career, like he's 521 00:26:56,240 --> 00:27:00,679 Speaker 4: a huge amounts of vapor, huge amount of citations. Robert 522 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:04,240 Speaker 4: Malone is kind of inflating his history, like Matt said, 523 00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:07,199 Speaker 4: but he also does have a legitimate history in like 524 00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:12,840 Speaker 4: mainstream research. But in that case it's actually I think 525 00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:16,600 Speaker 4: one of the issues is that people can have credentials 526 00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:20,000 Speaker 4: and they can be legitimate experts, and it can still 527 00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:23,800 Speaker 4: be talking absolute nonsense. And you pointed out, Lola that 528 00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:29,040 Speaker 4: like with Jordan Peterson, like I remember I went to 529 00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:34,960 Speaker 4: watch one of his lectures about the psychologist, Oh God Frankel, 530 00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:39,440 Speaker 4: about just you know, the who was involved in in Yeah, 531 00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:42,000 Speaker 4: Victor Frankel, because I was I was teaching a course 532 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:43,880 Speaker 4: in him, and there was like a lecture from Jordan 533 00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:46,280 Speaker 4: Peterson and Victor Frankel, and was like, yeah, okay, you know, 534 00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:49,159 Speaker 4: let's let's see what he said. And he said so 535 00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:53,520 Speaker 4: little about Frankel. It would maybe like seven minutes about 536 00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:57,880 Speaker 4: Frankel and an R fifty of just going into the 537 00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:00,280 Speaker 4: you know, Jordan Peterson's. 538 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:03,440 Speaker 2: In my way things yeah, yeah, are saying we need 539 00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:04,120 Speaker 2: to define things. 540 00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:09,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, And that tendency to like not differentiate between your 541 00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:15,639 Speaker 4: much less well established like ideas and and kind of 542 00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:19,480 Speaker 4: speculation versus established psychology theories or that kind of thing. 543 00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:22,399 Speaker 4: I think that's a hallmark that like gurus like to 544 00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:26,000 Speaker 4: mix them together and relying on therefore they that they 545 00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:30,600 Speaker 4: gain from association to like legitimate bodies of knowledge. 546 00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:32,359 Speaker 3: Tills one loves to do that. 547 00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:34,760 Speaker 2: What legitimate bodies of knowledge is she doing? 548 00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:37,320 Speaker 1: I mean she says that she whatever, we can go 549 00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:39,960 Speaker 1: into it later, but she acts like she's an expert 550 00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:40,920 Speaker 1: on every subject. 551 00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:43,920 Speaker 2: Idea, Yeah, well they all that is. Yeah, that's the thing. 552 00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:47,320 Speaker 2: It's crazy, Yeah, I mean it seems so hard to 553 00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:49,840 Speaker 2: parse for just the average person who maybe doesn't have 554 00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:54,240 Speaker 2: like a discerning eye for valid research and how current 555 00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:56,840 Speaker 2: it is and what specific topic it's on. It's like 556 00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:00,400 Speaker 2: our kind of rule of them we talk about it 557 00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:02,640 Speaker 2: is like, don't go to one person or like one 558 00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:05,360 Speaker 2: type of person for all of your information or all 559 00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:08,000 Speaker 2: of your worldview, because generally that's going to be unhealthy 560 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:09,520 Speaker 2: if it's all coming from the same source. 561 00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:12,320 Speaker 5: It is the challenge of the modern world to like 562 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:14,640 Speaker 5: how to cultivate like I think they call it an 563 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:19,120 Speaker 5: epistemic network, like how to cultivate your sources. For heaven's sake, 564 00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:21,680 Speaker 5: don't like do your own research in the sense of 565 00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:25,400 Speaker 5: going and pouring over the raw data, doing your own 566 00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:29,800 Speaker 5: kind of basic research, because honestly, the modern world is 567 00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:32,600 Speaker 5: too complicated for that kind of thing. If you're if 568 00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:35,200 Speaker 5: you're trying to trying to look at spike proteins and 569 00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:38,200 Speaker 5: things like that yourself, then you're you're doing it wrong. 570 00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:43,560 Speaker 5: What you need to do is find people who are 571 00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:47,479 Speaker 5: good sources of knowledge on the particular topic that that 572 00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:52,440 Speaker 5: is relevant. So I think that there's a bunch of 573 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:55,880 Speaker 5: heuristics people can use and red flags to apply, but 574 00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:59,360 Speaker 5: a really good one is avoid the people that have 575 00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:02,400 Speaker 5: just power shoot it into this topic. Now it's become 576 00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:05,400 Speaker 5: a big thing. Like if you've just did in climate science, 577 00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:08,000 Speaker 5: then listen to people that have been working on climate 578 00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:13,360 Speaker 5: science for twenty years perhaps and yeah, actually have a 579 00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:16,680 Speaker 5: track record. So Jordan Peterson, I think is claimed Chris, 580 00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:18,520 Speaker 5: how many books has he read on climate science? 581 00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:19,800 Speaker 4: Over two hundred? 582 00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:23,760 Speaker 5: Over two hundred, he says, But don't go to him 583 00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:28,520 Speaker 5: if you're interested in worried about vaccines. Then you can 584 00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:32,320 Speaker 5: go to someone who's been working on viruses and vaccines 585 00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:35,840 Speaker 5: long before COVID came along, and they'll give you the 586 00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:36,480 Speaker 5: good information. 587 00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:39,240 Speaker 3: But the problem is that person isn't going to be entertaining. 588 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:44,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, the problem, Yeah, yeah, you guys said that. You know, 589 00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:49,200 Speaker 4: charisma is a warning sign, right, But that's that's a 590 00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:52,160 Speaker 4: problem because like for most people, it isn't like charisma 591 00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:54,520 Speaker 4: is a sign that you know, the person is entertaining 592 00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:58,320 Speaker 4: and giving good information. And Matt has often talked about 593 00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:03,640 Speaker 4: how the gurus that we cover they're better at appearing 594 00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:08,400 Speaker 4: scientific than the scientists. They sound more and they often 595 00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:13,320 Speaker 4: look more like the stereotypical image of a scientist, and 596 00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:16,880 Speaker 4: it is hard to compete because you know, if you talk, 597 00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:19,960 Speaker 4: of course, there's exceptions. You know, there are science popularizers, 598 00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:22,760 Speaker 4: there's need the Grass Tyson and stuff who people who 599 00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:27,880 Speaker 4: can are cardsagan for that matter, But lots of normal scientists, 600 00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:30,240 Speaker 4: the kind of people who would be able to respond 601 00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:35,840 Speaker 4: to anti vaccine claims, they're not media trained and they're 602 00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:39,480 Speaker 4: not particularly charismatic, and they add caveats to the things 603 00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:42,200 Speaker 4: that they're saying, which meet them sound uncertain and it 604 00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:46,600 Speaker 4: is really hard. And Matt and I are very cynical people, 605 00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:52,200 Speaker 4: very like critical, black and hearted academics, and we find 606 00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:55,680 Speaker 4: when we're listening to the people that we know are gurus, 607 00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:59,840 Speaker 4: if we just listen to them and just like absorbed 608 00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:02,400 Speaker 4: the spiel of like you know, stopping down and trying 609 00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:06,640 Speaker 4: to work, it's convincing because it sounds really good. And 610 00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:09,920 Speaker 4: I think, like we're all social primates, so you know, 611 00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:13,040 Speaker 4: there's just cues that we pick up on that if 612 00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:16,280 Speaker 4: somebody is confident, if somebody appears to be talking in 613 00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:21,560 Speaker 4: like specialist language and to have a legitimate history, that 614 00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:24,480 Speaker 4: those are cues that you should pay attention. And they're 615 00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:27,840 Speaker 4: kind of like I think, it's really hard to overcome them. 616 00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:32,840 Speaker 4: So that's why we don't look down on people who who, 617 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:37,040 Speaker 4: like you know, fall for guru figures, because they're really 618 00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:41,040 Speaker 4: anybody could and in the right circumstances. 619 00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:45,480 Speaker 1: Amen, yep, that's absolutely also believe we need a cult 620 00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:46,200 Speaker 1: a meter. 621 00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:55,440 Speaker 2: And we do. Yeah, yeah, talk about it. A lot 622 00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:58,120 Speaker 2: of these figures that we're talking about are men, and 623 00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:02,040 Speaker 2: a lot of their audience, sizable portion of the majority 624 00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:06,640 Speaker 2: of their audience is men or are men? Why do 625 00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:09,920 Speaker 2: you think that is what is the need that is 626 00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:11,640 Speaker 2: being filled? Like what is happening? 627 00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:16,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, we're not really sure. We've talked about this before 628 00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:20,120 Speaker 5: with some of our guests, so Helen Lewis for instance, 629 00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:22,240 Speaker 5: and we had a bit of a chat about this. 630 00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:27,120 Speaker 5: I think podcast is people who are big figures in 631 00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:30,400 Speaker 5: this you know, infosphere generally this that there would be 632 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:33,640 Speaker 5: a gender waiting towards men? Would I be right in 633 00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:34,240 Speaker 5: thinking that? 634 00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:36,880 Speaker 4: Do you think depends on the topic. 635 00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:43,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, gone, your audience is certainly. Yeah, I'm just thinking 636 00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:46,520 Speaker 5: of the you know, it's like a cliche that the 637 00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:50,800 Speaker 5: sort of the male podcast bro. But but I was 638 00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:53,400 Speaker 5: I was gonna add that caveat that when you get 639 00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:57,760 Speaker 5: to specific topics like complementary, alternative medicine, you know, alternative 640 00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:00,719 Speaker 5: health and well being, that kind of thing, then you 641 00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:04,320 Speaker 5: see the waiting and in fact, the gurus tend to 642 00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:08,880 Speaker 5: be women. So I don't I'm not really sure. Maybe 643 00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:11,560 Speaker 5: maybe it's just purely a bit of a cultural thing 644 00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:18,279 Speaker 5: where in terms of the males tending to predominate, it 645 00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:21,480 Speaker 5: could possibly be. I mean, there are some sort of 646 00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:26,080 Speaker 5: behavioral sex differences when it comes to ration, pulsivity, and 647 00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:30,560 Speaker 5: risk taking in terms of you know, some of those 648 00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 5: cliches about you know, like ned are so confident even 649 00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:39,600 Speaker 5: when their opinions are stupid. That's that's like the stereotypes. 650 00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:41,520 Speaker 5: And I think, you know, part of that is grounded 651 00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:46,080 Speaker 5: in a very well established psychological traders, which is impulsivity 652 00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:48,319 Speaker 5: and risk taking. It's the same reason men tend to 653 00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:50,760 Speaker 5: have more car accidents, they tend to commit more crimes, 654 00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:53,680 Speaker 5: they tend to do a bunch of things, drink too much. 655 00:34:54,400 --> 00:35:00,160 Speaker 4: Just remember, I remember the objection which the journalists hel 656 00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:02,480 Speaker 4: Lewis brought up with real as that point last time, 657 00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:05,920 Speaker 4: that it's young that that tria is well established but 658 00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:09,680 Speaker 4: often associated with young men, where most of the people 659 00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:13,840 Speaker 4: we cover our middle aged. Like the gender disparity thing it, 660 00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:17,440 Speaker 4: like Matt says, it depends on which realm you look to. 661 00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:21,319 Speaker 4: The conspiratuality guys who have a podcast focused on like 662 00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:26,920 Speaker 4: the spirituality spheres and the kind of collapsing into conspiracy rhetoric, 663 00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:31,280 Speaker 4: that that does seem more to have a greater gender 664 00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:34,560 Speaker 4: parody or maybe even the waiting towards women. But in 665 00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:42,200 Speaker 4: our case it could be that there's like I think 666 00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:49,759 Speaker 4: this falls into the debate bro new ifeist potential area, right, 667 00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:52,880 Speaker 4: the id W when you look at the characters and 668 00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:55,880 Speaker 4: that you do have people like Christina Hoff Summers and 669 00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:59,680 Speaker 4: Debra So, but they also tend to be talking primarily 670 00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:05,480 Speaker 4: about gender issues, whereas the gurus that we cover are 671 00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:09,560 Speaker 4: either mostly cultural war or they're startling themselves as like 672 00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:15,120 Speaker 4: science science figures. And yeah, I think the fact that 673 00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:20,440 Speaker 4: they do tend to pick up young male audiences, you know, 674 00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:24,400 Speaker 4: might be to do with the whole supposed meaning crisis 675 00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:27,320 Speaker 4: and that kind of thing. But I don't I don't 676 00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:30,200 Speaker 4: have I don't think we have a good theory. Has 677 00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:33,640 Speaker 4: the like why there's so many men that are willing 678 00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:35,720 Speaker 4: to talk like that probably talk more. 679 00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:38,120 Speaker 1: With each other and get their answers from like emotionally 680 00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:40,879 Speaker 1: connecting with each other. And then men are like, I've 681 00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:43,799 Speaker 1: got a voice of God in my head. Yeah, like 682 00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:44,720 Speaker 1: a guy. 683 00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:46,440 Speaker 3: That looks like me saying this shit I believe. I 684 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:46,759 Speaker 3: don't know. 685 00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:49,960 Speaker 2: Also, I just want to define IDW if anyone doesn't know, 686 00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:54,840 Speaker 2: intellectual dark Web that includes Jordan Peterson, Dave Rubin, Benhapiro, 687 00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:58,719 Speaker 2: these kinds of guys. Yeah, Sam Harris, but then he 688 00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:02,279 Speaker 2: sort of removed himself from it because everyone was losing 689 00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:05,239 Speaker 2: their minds. So these are the types of figures I'm 690 00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:07,879 Speaker 2: talking about, obviously, Like you know, that's also we've also 691 00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:12,560 Speaker 2: discussed how like the sort of more spirituality new age 692 00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:15,279 Speaker 2: stuff tends to be more women. But in this particular case, 693 00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:21,480 Speaker 2: like Bloop, I love it like her, but in this case, 694 00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:23,640 Speaker 2: I can't think of a figure and correct me if 695 00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:26,160 Speaker 2: I'm wrong, because you guys would know better because you're 696 00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:28,279 Speaker 2: thinking about this all the time. But I can't think 697 00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:30,440 Speaker 2: of a figure like a Joe Rogan or a Jordan 698 00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:33,040 Speaker 2: Peterson or a Ben Shapiro who is a woman who 699 00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:36,439 Speaker 2: has that level of following. Yeah. 700 00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:40,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, we struggled as well. I mean we covered Gwyneth 701 00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:44,200 Speaker 5: Paltrow and Mikhaela Peterson is Jordan Peterson's daughter now has 702 00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:47,240 Speaker 5: her own Brene Brown. 703 00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:52,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh, Bernie Brown. How much of what was her 704 00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:53,640 Speaker 2: score on the guometer? 705 00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:58,080 Speaker 4: She didn't do too badly in terms of she didn't 706 00:37:58,120 --> 00:37:59,320 Speaker 4: score that highly. 707 00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:00,600 Speaker 3: It's a good thing. 708 00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:06,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah. She she straddles the kind of Ted talk 709 00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:10,760 Speaker 4: like space more and that that is like a prime 710 00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:14,279 Speaker 4: retail space for people that would be gurus. But it's 711 00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:17,120 Speaker 4: like the same kind of space that you find Rucker 712 00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:22,040 Speaker 4: Bragman or like public intellectuals, you know, and there isn't. 713 00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:24,959 Speaker 4: We are not saying nobody can be a public intellectual 714 00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:29,680 Speaker 4: or have any you know, their own theories on things 715 00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:34,920 Speaker 4: without being toxic gurus. But yeah, Brittnee fell when we 716 00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:39,120 Speaker 4: covered her more into like the self help kind of space, 717 00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:41,840 Speaker 4: and that's not particularly appealing to me and map, but 718 00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:44,360 Speaker 4: that might be cultural and personal. 719 00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:46,160 Speaker 3: She's great. 720 00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:49,680 Speaker 2: Yeah. I think of the men in my life and 721 00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:53,279 Speaker 2: kind of like observing them and their feelings about the 722 00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:55,640 Speaker 2: culture wars in the past few years. And I do 723 00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:59,040 Speaker 2: think a lot of people, even when they're you know, 724 00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:01,400 Speaker 2: their heart is in the right places and their values 725 00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:05,520 Speaker 2: are like in theory, aligned with mine. There is this 726 00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:09,239 Speaker 2: sense of like I don't like no one wants me, 727 00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:11,919 Speaker 2: Like I don't belong in a group where like I'm 728 00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:15,840 Speaker 2: unwanted because of this like deep division that's been happening. 729 00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:20,240 Speaker 2: And I guess I just like I see, like Elon Musk, 730 00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:26,600 Speaker 2: who's the next Oh, I can't wait to listen to 731 00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:29,640 Speaker 2: that one. He's It stresses me so out out so 732 00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:33,120 Speaker 2: much to go on Twitter rado. But I it's just 733 00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:35,879 Speaker 2: seems like there there aren't really any voices. I mean, 734 00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:38,759 Speaker 2: there's you guys, and there are few, but there aren't 735 00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:40,920 Speaker 2: really any voices for people who are like sort of 736 00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:43,880 Speaker 2: disillusioned with feeling attacked all the time, whether or not 737 00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:49,799 Speaker 2: that's real, That aren't this total opposite like, oh well, 738 00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:54,240 Speaker 2: fuck woke is a fuck canceled culture, Fuck the left, 739 00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:56,479 Speaker 2: let's own the Libs. You know, it just doesn't seem 740 00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:58,960 Speaker 2: like there's really a figure in between who's reached critical 741 00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:01,080 Speaker 2: masks at all. I mean, am I wrong? 742 00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:04,160 Speaker 5: No? I think I think that's the appeal of being, 743 00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:08,600 Speaker 5: I guess anti institutional being, being a rebel. You know, 744 00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:13,080 Speaker 5: these these figures present themselves as these lone wolves that 745 00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:15,640 Speaker 5: are speaking to other people that like to think of 746 00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:22,680 Speaker 5: themselves as lone wolves, right, they'd like to think of 747 00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:24,480 Speaker 5: themselves as that the best way to be a lone 748 00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:27,640 Speaker 5: wolf is obviously to follow follow another bigger wolf and 749 00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:31,480 Speaker 5: do exactly exactly what they do. Yes, I think that 750 00:40:31,760 --> 00:40:33,920 Speaker 5: there's a component of that to it, and maybe men 751 00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:37,080 Speaker 5: are a bit more susceptible to that kind of thing. 752 00:40:38,280 --> 00:40:41,279 Speaker 5: But I mean maybe another reason too is just you know, 753 00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:45,640 Speaker 5: straight up patriarchy, right, I mean, like most politicians are men, 754 00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:49,760 Speaker 5: and maybe the reason most gurusm and is the same 755 00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:50,640 Speaker 5: same reason. 756 00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:56,680 Speaker 4: I think more moderate messages as well, Like there are 757 00:40:56,800 --> 00:41:00,640 Speaker 4: divisions and the ad w s spearce right like for example, 758 00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:04,320 Speaker 4: Sam Harris or various other people Claire Layman, the Collette 759 00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:09,640 Speaker 4: were critical of the people promoting COVID conspiracies, but people 760 00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:13,799 Speaker 4: advocating like we often get accused of this as well. 761 00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:18,759 Speaker 4: Like if you are saying that you know, fundamentally, like 762 00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:23,080 Speaker 4: the vaccines were very effective and good and like by 763 00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:25,880 Speaker 4: and large you would have done well to follow public 764 00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:30,080 Speaker 4: health advice, It's not a very sexy message for people. 765 00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:33,640 Speaker 4: It's not forbidden knowledge. It's just saying, yeah, you know, 766 00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:38,439 Speaker 4: like the the normy kind of take was actually right 767 00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:43,520 Speaker 4: in this in this situation, and I think that has 768 00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:46,920 Speaker 4: Like there are people who promote that message, but they 769 00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:49,560 Speaker 4: tend to be they tend to not attract the same 770 00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:52,439 Speaker 4: level of following, like you know, Stephen Pink or Jonathan Hyde. 771 00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:55,239 Speaker 4: Those are people that get in the same kind of 772 00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:58,000 Speaker 4: heterodox sphere, but they don't attract the same level of 773 00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:01,839 Speaker 4: devotion as like figures like Ela Musk or you know 774 00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:06,520 Speaker 4: somebody or the Weinstein brothers, like willing to say that 775 00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:09,719 Speaker 4: the entire institution. They all need to be burnt down, 776 00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:12,440 Speaker 4: and you know talk about UFOs. 777 00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:15,320 Speaker 2: So yeah, I mean it reminds me of a conversation 778 00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:17,760 Speaker 2: we have with Chris Baial, the director of the Polarization 779 00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:20,359 Speaker 2: labb At Duke, just talking about how it's just there's 780 00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:23,319 Speaker 2: no there's no real incentive to be loud with a 781 00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:26,600 Speaker 2: moderate voice. It's not really worth it. Like you're going 782 00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:29,040 Speaker 2: to get a lot of hate, You're gonna get yelled 783 00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:31,359 Speaker 2: at a lot. I mean, scientists have been getting yelled 784 00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:33,000 Speaker 2: at like crazy on Twitter. 785 00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:37,080 Speaker 4: I mean, thanks the Musk, thanks. Yeah. 786 00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:41,399 Speaker 2: God, the anti science sentiment freaks me out, man. But yeah, 787 00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:43,799 Speaker 2: Like some days I wake up and I'm like, I'm 788 00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:45,879 Speaker 2: gonna be the moderate voice we need, and then two 789 00:42:45,880 --> 00:42:48,040 Speaker 2: hours later I'm like, fuck no, I'm not. 790 00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:51,520 Speaker 4: Now there's no reason too. 791 00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:54,120 Speaker 1: And it's not easy to swallow for anyone. It's not exciting, 792 00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:57,239 Speaker 1: it's not sexy, it's not no, it's there's no, there's no. 793 00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:00,200 Speaker 2: I woke up in the middle of the night last night, 794 00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:04,400 Speaker 2: like just ruminating as I do for two full hours 795 00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:08,960 Speaker 2: about how I could make it cool to be into nuance, 796 00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:10,920 Speaker 2: and so I was like, Okay, I'm gonna make a TikTok. 797 00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:13,480 Speaker 2: I'm going to do a song about the importance of 798 00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:17,799 Speaker 2: like listening, pausing and thinking more deeply, you know, but 799 00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:19,520 Speaker 2: it's just not that sexy. It sucks. 800 00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:23,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Anyone who's used Twitter knows this. Like 801 00:43:23,600 --> 00:43:27,600 Speaker 5: it's always your worst tweets that are the most popular. 802 00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:28,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, the only. 803 00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:33,839 Speaker 5: One Like that's because it has to be inflammatory in 804 00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:38,200 Speaker 5: some way, shape or form. It has. There's a I 805 00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:41,920 Speaker 5: think it was Baumeister Chris who had the idea of 806 00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:43,320 Speaker 5: bad is stronger than good. 807 00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:44,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. 808 00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:49,200 Speaker 5: Basically, people respond just psychologically more strongly to averse of 809 00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:54,279 Speaker 5: negative simular things that elicit negative emotions than things that 810 00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:58,040 Speaker 5: are fine. And you know, this precedes social media by 811 00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:02,359 Speaker 5: a long way. You know, our normal mainstream media news 812 00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:06,359 Speaker 5: is full of the bad things that happened today. Yeah, 813 00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:10,160 Speaker 5: it doesn't. It doesn't include the all the boring stuff 814 00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:14,920 Speaker 5: that was totally fine. So it's kind of just how 815 00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:19,840 Speaker 5: human attention works and where we focus on these negative things. 816 00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:22,880 Speaker 5: And we live in an attention economy and you have 817 00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:26,080 Speaker 5: people who emote an awful lot of negative stuff. And 818 00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:29,640 Speaker 5: have a look at Jordan Peterson's Twitter feed and it's 819 00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:34,520 Speaker 5: it's full of just bile, spewing bile, and you know 820 00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:36,920 Speaker 5: that's that's attention getting for a reason. 821 00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:40,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, that video that he posted recently when you came 822 00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:43,440 Speaker 2: back on Twitter, where he looks like a literal batman villain. 823 00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:44,760 Speaker 2: He's talking like a batman. 824 00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:50,680 Speaker 4: We covered some of his videos and it's like he's 825 00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:55,480 Speaker 4: even leaned into the delivery of you know, like dramatic 826 00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:59,239 Speaker 4: pausas and Stone looks into the camera. He's like he's 827 00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:05,400 Speaker 4: become a caricature of himself and that, you know, the 828 00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:09,160 Speaker 4: one of the things that struck me is like, if 829 00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:12,880 Speaker 4: you you know, I can feel it as well, if 830 00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:16,400 Speaker 4: you're telling someone the message that like, you can't actually 831 00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:19,360 Speaker 4: become an expert in virology by just reading a couple 832 00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:22,560 Speaker 4: of pre prints or you know, listening to like I 833 00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:25,560 Speaker 4: listened to the podcast about virologists, and the main thing 834 00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:29,279 Speaker 4: it teaches me is I'm not a virologist. I can like, 835 00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:33,400 Speaker 4: I cannot follow the and they talk with such a 836 00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:37,200 Speaker 4: fluency about the research literature, but that those conversations are 837 00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:39,440 Speaker 4: actually very different from what the gurus do when they 838 00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:41,880 Speaker 4: talk about it. Because when the gurus talk about it, 839 00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:46,960 Speaker 4: it is understandable, and their message is you can know 840 00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:50,839 Speaker 4: better than the other people. And I think this might 841 00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:55,720 Speaker 4: be ferentiated a little bit unwanted, unwarranted in America's direction, 842 00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:59,680 Speaker 4: but that that notion that is prevalent in America that 843 00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:03,000 Speaker 4: you you can be anything you want to be in 844 00:46:03,160 --> 00:46:06,799 Speaker 4: you know, like individual empowerment. It's a it's a good 845 00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:12,040 Speaker 4: message and lots of occasions, but it's also it leads 846 00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:16,040 Speaker 4: to people overestimating the capacity and like. 847 00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:17,680 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I was like, I'm going to be the 848 00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:18,879 Speaker 3: president when I was ten. 849 00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:22,640 Speaker 2: Why would I think that when you're ten? 850 00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:34,680 Speaker 1: I mean, but still, come on, if you. 851 00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:32,040 Speaker 4: Couldn't, you couldn't be worse. 852 00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:38,080 Speaker 2: True, it's actually the easiest job. Like all you got 853 00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:41,560 Speaker 2: to do is be really loud and simplistic. 854 00:46:42,760 --> 00:46:43,680 Speaker 3: Trump showed us that. 855 00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:46,719 Speaker 4: I guess if you if you are like I know 856 00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:49,480 Speaker 4: as well, I'm sure you do that. Like if you 857 00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:52,799 Speaker 4: tell your audience that, like you guys listening to us, 858 00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:55,440 Speaker 4: you know you're getting nuanced. You are the people that 859 00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:59,640 Speaker 4: cant you can see that that would be psychologically appealing 860 00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:03,800 Speaker 4: to people. And there's kind of just an intuitive or 861 00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:07,520 Speaker 4: like an appeal to do that to prease your audience. 862 00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:09,680 Speaker 4: And it's like a natural thing to do because you 863 00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:13,560 Speaker 4: appreciate the people watching, but there's a fine line, and 864 00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:19,040 Speaker 4: like you said, it's a spectrum between promoting powasociality in 865 00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:22,480 Speaker 4: an unhealthy way. I'd like there are ways to engage 866 00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:24,880 Speaker 4: in it. They're perfectly fine. You know, people are just 867 00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:28,279 Speaker 4: content creators. People like them and that's okay. It does 868 00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:31,720 Speaker 4: not have to be exploitative, but I think the incentives 869 00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:36,040 Speaker 4: lean towards the bombastic and like exploitative, which is just 870 00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:39,280 Speaker 4: straight depressing. But it's the key. 871 00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:43,600 Speaker 2: Is Yeah, that's part of my resistance to TikTok is 872 00:47:43,600 --> 00:47:46,319 Speaker 2: that I know the videos that would do really well 873 00:47:46,360 --> 00:47:48,440 Speaker 2: on there, and I don't want to get big for 874 00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:49,880 Speaker 2: that reason, if that makes sense. 875 00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:52,200 Speaker 1: What I've noticed from people that are in my life 876 00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:54,200 Speaker 1: who do TikTok, who get really big on it is 877 00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:56,400 Speaker 1: they just start doing stuff that gets a lot of 878 00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:59,720 Speaker 1: negative attention. And if you can withstand the negative attention, 879 00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:02,200 Speaker 1: then you're going to get the positive attention. But there's 880 00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:04,480 Speaker 1: this huge gap where you just have to be like, 881 00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:07,280 Speaker 1: everybody's like you suck, I hate you, And that's because 882 00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:10,239 Speaker 1: they're doing stuff that's a little bit like edgy and 883 00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:11,600 Speaker 1: yeah it's awful. 884 00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:19,960 Speaker 4: I had a question for you too, because like you, 885 00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:23,200 Speaker 4: you both seemed, you know, in the podcast and in 886 00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:27,279 Speaker 4: general like upbeat right, But weekend and week A you're 887 00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:33,560 Speaker 4: talking with people avoid like relative relatively exploitative traumatic experiences. 888 00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:37,360 Speaker 4: And I'm just curious because, like Matt and I also 889 00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:40,640 Speaker 4: look at often terrible people and have ways to deal 890 00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:45,200 Speaker 4: with it. But how do you avoid like not becoming 891 00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:49,440 Speaker 4: extremely cynical whenever you're dealing with the kind of topic 892 00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:51,640 Speaker 4: that you are or very cynical. 893 00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:55,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, yeah, I'm cheerfully. 894 00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:58,319 Speaker 2: I just sent a long email being like I am. 895 00:48:58,560 --> 00:49:02,799 Speaker 2: I'm experienced abuse burnout and I need to do some 896 00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:05,279 Speaker 2: episodes not about abuse for a while because it is 897 00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:08,080 Speaker 2: like destroying my mental health. So that is a real 898 00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:09,880 Speaker 2: thing that that we are dealing with. I also think 899 00:49:09,920 --> 00:49:12,920 Speaker 2: we are both really good at like making light of 900 00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:16,840 Speaker 2: how bad we feel. Yeah, that doesn't mean we don't 901 00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:18,719 Speaker 2: all the time. 902 00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:20,439 Speaker 3: It doesn't mean we don't feel awful all the time. 903 00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:28,320 Speaker 4: I think that's similar to met like both the feeling 904 00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:33,160 Speaker 4: awful and not just because of being middle aged funcy 905 00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:37,320 Speaker 4: that we I think one of the reasons like people 906 00:49:38,400 --> 00:49:42,319 Speaker 4: like our content a bit is that even though we are, 907 00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:46,200 Speaker 4: you know, trying to do like a look at rhetorical 908 00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:48,600 Speaker 4: techniques and that kind of thing that like it is 909 00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:53,279 Speaker 4: funny at times, like the self like Jordan Peterson. I'm 910 00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:55,760 Speaker 4: not saying he doesn't do harm in the world and stuff, 911 00:49:55,800 --> 00:50:02,359 Speaker 4: but like he's also kind of funny, and I think 912 00:50:02,400 --> 00:50:05,240 Speaker 4: you have to be a lied to do that because 913 00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:08,399 Speaker 4: otherwise it is just like it's just depressing how much 914 00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:11,080 Speaker 4: money people are making and all that kind of thing. 915 00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:15,200 Speaker 2: So yeah, oh yeah, I fall into the dark hole 916 00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:17,839 Speaker 2: a lot. But part of what I like about this 917 00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:20,239 Speaker 2: and the fact that we have that we're not just 918 00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:23,000 Speaker 2: limited to cults, is that we can explore, like we 919 00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:25,360 Speaker 2: can kind of do deep dives into trying to understand 920 00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:27,560 Speaker 2: why it happens and try to make a difference in 921 00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:29,400 Speaker 2: the small way that we can, and so that, you know, 922 00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:34,120 Speaker 2: feels like it's constructive at least. Yeah, absolutely So. In 923 00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:37,480 Speaker 2: your research or just doing your podcast, have you guys 924 00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:41,120 Speaker 2: noticed any common threads among people who are drawn to gurus. 925 00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:45,600 Speaker 5: Ah, that's a good question. We've been focusing on the 926 00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:50,319 Speaker 5: gurus rather than their audiences. I guess it's always been 927 00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:54,600 Speaker 5: my assumption that the audience has probably had the same 928 00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:58,640 Speaker 5: kind of characteristics as like I say, people who are 929 00:50:58,640 --> 00:51:01,799 Speaker 5: attracted to conspiracy theory is and that kind of thing. 930 00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:04,799 Speaker 5: So the stuff that we know about that now you've 931 00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:08,440 Speaker 5: been talking to your guests about conspiracy theories recently, so 932 00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:13,880 Speaker 5: stuff like like feeling feeling like you're underappreciated, feeling like 933 00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:16,160 Speaker 5: you haven't you know, you don't have the opportunities and 934 00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:18,719 Speaker 5: someone you have that have been given to you to 935 00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:21,200 Speaker 5: have that sort of feeling of resentment, but you know, 936 00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:24,520 Speaker 5: having a high opinion of yourself and feeling that it's 937 00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:27,600 Speaker 5: not being recognized. And I guess the gurus one of 938 00:51:27,680 --> 00:51:29,840 Speaker 5: the things, as Chris said, is that they flatter the 939 00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:34,080 Speaker 5: egos of the of their audience really at every extent. 940 00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:38,000 Speaker 2: So you're super logical, You're like the most logical man. 941 00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:41,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, exactly, You're not ideological. You just it's just truth 942 00:51:42,000 --> 00:51:47,920 Speaker 5: and logic and facts. So that's that's a risk factor 943 00:51:48,080 --> 00:51:53,520 Speaker 5: for a known psychological attractor for conspiracy theories because it's 944 00:51:53,680 --> 00:51:55,960 Speaker 5: one thing that about them is that it makes you 945 00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:59,480 Speaker 5: feel good that you're one of the people that have 946 00:51:59,600 --> 00:52:02,080 Speaker 5: a have a clear you know, one of the people 947 00:52:02,680 --> 00:52:05,400 Speaker 5: you have a clear view of the world. Can you 948 00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:06,319 Speaker 5: think of anything else there? 949 00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:10,319 Speaker 4: Chris Well, one thing is that, Like, on a positive note, 950 00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:12,400 Speaker 4: I think a lot of the people that are drawn 951 00:52:12,520 --> 00:52:17,120 Speaker 4: to that have a genuine interest in you know, like 952 00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:22,600 Speaker 4: science or alternative like journalism or that kind of thing, right, Like, 953 00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:29,520 Speaker 4: they often are inquisitive people, but they they kind of 954 00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:33,120 Speaker 4: get like what I sometimes refer to it as like 955 00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:37,319 Speaker 4: the intellectual junk food, right, because there is all of 956 00:52:37,360 --> 00:52:42,960 Speaker 4: these avenues for you to consume actual information now freely online. 957 00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:47,279 Speaker 4: Like there's really good university level courses that you can 958 00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:49,920 Speaker 4: do for free on all these platforms. So you can 959 00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:52,879 Speaker 4: just watch YouTube tutorials. Like when I when I want 960 00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:56,600 Speaker 4: to understand some statistical technique, I usually watch a YouTube 961 00:52:56,600 --> 00:53:03,040 Speaker 4: tutorial they understand and like. But those things are inherently 962 00:53:03,400 --> 00:53:06,920 Speaker 4: less satisfying and less sexy. They're just like, if you 963 00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:08,600 Speaker 4: work at this for a couple of months, you will 964 00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:11,480 Speaker 4: get a better understanding of statistics. 965 00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:12,160 Speaker 2: The worrying, right. 966 00:53:12,280 --> 00:53:13,120 Speaker 4: Yeah. 967 00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:15,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, but I think sorry to drop, but I think 968 00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:18,920 Speaker 5: that's a really important point that And there's a parallel 969 00:53:18,960 --> 00:53:22,399 Speaker 5: to the cults and the spiritual type gurus there as well, 970 00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:24,640 Speaker 5: which is that often people are attracted to them for 971 00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:25,680 Speaker 5: the best of reasons. 972 00:53:26,160 --> 00:53:26,759 Speaker 2: Yep. 973 00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:29,920 Speaker 5: Chris talked about doing meditation. A lot of people are 974 00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:32,759 Speaker 5: attracted to you know, Buddhism or something like that for 975 00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:39,920 Speaker 5: very wholesome, healthy reasons. They might be psychologically more open, 976 00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:42,839 Speaker 5: be high on openness to experience one of the big 977 00:53:42,880 --> 00:53:46,480 Speaker 5: five personality dimensions. They kind of that sort of seeker mindset, 978 00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:54,280 Speaker 5: you know, looking for stimulating information, and it's been instructive. Actually, 979 00:53:54,600 --> 00:53:57,000 Speaker 5: I was reminded of that. We've spoken to a bunch 980 00:53:57,080 --> 00:54:00,279 Speaker 5: of people through on social media, Hay Kris, who were 981 00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:07,200 Speaker 5: former fans of various yeah, you know, and and they 982 00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:10,719 Speaker 5: are people who, yeah, I think you can describe them 983 00:54:10,760 --> 00:54:13,760 Speaker 5: as they were originally attracted to them because they wanted 984 00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:16,440 Speaker 5: something a bit deeper, a bit more interesting than just 985 00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:19,640 Speaker 5: like a superficial kind of article or you know, just 986 00:54:19,800 --> 00:54:24,400 Speaker 5: saying the same kind of you know, whatever institutionally approved, 987 00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:27,320 Speaker 5: politically correct kind of take. They weren't, they weren't necessarily 988 00:54:27,360 --> 00:54:29,280 Speaker 5: right wing or left wing. They just wanted they wanted 989 00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:34,719 Speaker 5: some some more more deeper, more critical sort of dives. 990 00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:39,920 Speaker 5: And they sometimes would find some good stuff, refreshing stuff, 991 00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:44,600 Speaker 5: I suppose, with these alternative figures. But then hopefully they 992 00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:48,320 Speaker 5: they eventually noticed that there's some downsides there. 993 00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:52,279 Speaker 4: Too, and being disgruntled with like to some extent, with 994 00:54:52,560 --> 00:54:56,400 Speaker 4: like experiences maybe you know, the bad side of academia 995 00:54:56,560 --> 00:54:59,120 Speaker 4: or like finance or that kind of thing, Like they're 996 00:54:59,239 --> 00:55:03,200 Speaker 4: legitimate thing to be upset about with pharmaceutical companies and 997 00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:07,160 Speaker 4: with the way that academia is run if you're involved 998 00:55:07,200 --> 00:55:09,560 Speaker 4: with it, Like acadects could just talk all day about 999 00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:13,200 Speaker 4: their complaints about academia. But so it's not that when 1000 00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:17,719 Speaker 4: people are using criticisms that there's no there there there is, 1001 00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:20,799 Speaker 4: But the unfortunate thing is like a lot of the 1002 00:55:20,840 --> 00:55:24,439 Speaker 4: stuff which would actually, you know, which would be productively 1003 00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:30,120 Speaker 4: helpful and potentially solve issues, they're they're not what's being 1004 00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:34,680 Speaker 4: offered by those figures. And the flip side of the 1005 00:55:34,680 --> 00:55:39,200 Speaker 4: people who get out of those communities and become like 1006 00:55:39,320 --> 00:55:43,439 Speaker 4: maybe critical or you know, more critical, is that we've 1007 00:55:43,480 --> 00:55:49,520 Speaker 4: also noticed this tendency amongst audiences for like minor gurus 1008 00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:55,440 Speaker 4: to spin off from the major gurus, Like they become 1009 00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:59,520 Speaker 4: very like passionate defenders of them online and then they 1010 00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:05,240 Speaker 4: get their own small following, and then they they also 1011 00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:08,279 Speaker 4: the kind of bigger guru will shut them out or 1012 00:56:08,320 --> 00:56:12,120 Speaker 4: you know, encourage them, and then over time they can 1013 00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:16,200 Speaker 4: become like almost as big or like at least kind 1014 00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:19,840 Speaker 4: of approaching at the same levels as those figures. So 1015 00:56:19,880 --> 00:56:22,680 Speaker 4: it's like they're like gremlins, you know, you put water 1016 00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:28,280 Speaker 4: on them and they just they're spawning more girls. 1017 00:56:28,480 --> 00:56:31,719 Speaker 2: Yes, So what I'm hearing is that we need more 1018 00:56:31,800 --> 00:56:32,839 Speaker 2: hot scientists. 1019 00:56:33,080 --> 00:56:38,319 Speaker 6: Yes, and that's that's the unfortunate thing. 1020 00:56:38,520 --> 00:56:41,080 Speaker 2: And we need to be a class, like a required 1021 00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:44,239 Speaker 2: class that you take when you're getting your PhD that 1022 00:56:44,400 --> 00:56:49,840 Speaker 2: is public speaking and how to be charismatic on the internet. 1023 00:56:49,920 --> 00:56:51,880 Speaker 1: That's what I heard too. Yeah, I think that's the 1024 00:56:52,040 --> 00:56:53,360 Speaker 1: those are the facts of this interview. 1025 00:56:53,600 --> 00:56:54,839 Speaker 4: That's that's our recommendation. 1026 00:56:55,040 --> 00:56:58,920 Speaker 6: More hot scientists, scientic courage. 1027 00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:01,960 Speaker 4: My classes university. 1028 00:57:03,080 --> 00:57:05,120 Speaker 3: Get Butler style the scientists. 1029 00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:08,040 Speaker 5: But it's very true, like I mean, part of the 1030 00:57:08,080 --> 00:57:11,520 Speaker 5: problem for all of this, and the blame lies with academia, right, 1031 00:57:11,640 --> 00:57:14,680 Speaker 5: because we've been really bad. None of the metrics that 1032 00:57:14,920 --> 00:57:20,560 Speaker 5: academics get rewarded for are aligned with public understanding of 1033 00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:26,200 Speaker 5: science and public engagement. It's it's starting to change. I 1034 00:57:26,200 --> 00:57:30,800 Speaker 5: think my university, Thanksual actually does has sort of tried 1035 00:57:30,840 --> 00:57:32,600 Speaker 5: to incorporate that a little bit, but it's really not 1036 00:57:32,800 --> 00:57:37,920 Speaker 5: rewarded in academia, and as a result, there is this big, 1037 00:57:38,280 --> 00:57:42,720 Speaker 5: wide open space that you have science journalists you know who, 1038 00:57:43,400 --> 00:57:46,760 Speaker 5: but their track record isn't so great, like we've seen, 1039 00:57:46,840 --> 00:57:52,080 Speaker 5: for instance on the lablique issue with with with COVID, 1040 00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:56,520 Speaker 5: that if you were reading the popular science or journal 1041 00:57:56,640 --> 00:58:00,600 Speaker 5: journalism on that topic, you would think that the sort 1042 00:58:00,640 --> 00:58:04,680 Speaker 5: of narrative of evidence was flip flopping between oh now 1043 00:58:04,760 --> 00:58:07,960 Speaker 5: it's now we've discovered it was a lablig Oh no, 1044 00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:13,000 Speaker 5: it's definitely zoonotic, backwards and forwards. And that's of course 1045 00:58:13,080 --> 00:58:17,040 Speaker 5: journalists looking for a good story when actually the evidence 1046 00:58:17,200 --> 00:58:20,400 Speaker 5: has been it started off relatively ambiguous, I suppose, and 1047 00:58:20,480 --> 00:58:24,120 Speaker 5: has just been boringly progressively coming down more and more 1048 00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:27,440 Speaker 5: on the side of a natural origin there has, so, 1049 00:58:28,240 --> 00:58:31,320 Speaker 5: you know, unfortunately, again the incentives even just for regular 1050 00:58:31,480 --> 00:58:34,600 Speaker 5: journalists working for the Washington Post or some other outlet. 1051 00:58:35,040 --> 00:58:39,240 Speaker 5: And I'm not that healthy either, So yeah, that's a 1052 00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:40,200 Speaker 5: positive note, Mak. 1053 00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:46,640 Speaker 1: You guys said it well, with attention currency, that's the problem, 1054 00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:47,880 Speaker 1: huh yeah. 1055 00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:53,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah. And then we talked very recently with coffee Zella, 1056 00:58:53,600 --> 00:58:58,439 Speaker 4: the YouTuber who is doing like kind of deep daves 1057 00:58:58,480 --> 00:59:02,760 Speaker 4: and exposes on like Phane, actual gurus and crypto currency 1058 00:59:02,840 --> 00:59:06,040 Speaker 4: people and that, and it just really struck home to 1059 00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:09,280 Speaker 4: me that like, you know, you guys are are looking 1060 00:59:09,320 --> 00:59:14,680 Speaker 4: at like actual, actual cults and like exploitative guru figures. 1061 00:59:15,120 --> 00:59:19,240 Speaker 4: We are looking at this particular like online secular guru 1062 00:59:19,320 --> 00:59:22,200 Speaker 4: spiece and the coffee cilla guy is dealing with like 1063 00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:26,520 Speaker 4: crypto gurus and and like online and there's just so 1064 00:59:26,640 --> 00:59:32,280 Speaker 4: many avenues and like niches that that you know, a 1065 00:59:32,320 --> 00:59:35,280 Speaker 4: lot of the techniques kind of overlap. But it just 1066 00:59:35,400 --> 00:59:39,600 Speaker 4: makes you realize, like if you want to spend your 1067 00:59:39,640 --> 00:59:44,320 Speaker 4: time looking at like twitch streamers and the dynamics there, 1068 00:59:44,680 --> 00:59:48,520 Speaker 4: it's it's it would be like a whole career right 1069 00:59:48,560 --> 00:59:52,120 Speaker 4: to like a handle around it. So there's like it's 1070 00:59:52,240 --> 00:59:56,560 Speaker 4: kind of depressing. The online egos system just creates all 1071 00:59:56,600 --> 01:00:02,400 Speaker 4: these different areas for guru types the flourish, and that 1072 01:00:02,520 --> 01:00:05,280 Speaker 4: means that we will constantly have like people that we 1073 01:00:05,320 --> 01:00:05,800 Speaker 4: can cover. 1074 01:00:07,080 --> 01:00:10,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you for the content. 1075 01:00:11,760 --> 01:00:14,600 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I mean it kind of always comes back 1076 01:00:14,640 --> 01:00:16,280 Speaker 2: to the same thing for me, which is that like 1077 01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:19,880 Speaker 2: if people felt secure in their life, if they felt 1078 01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:21,680 Speaker 2: like they had a community that they could turn to, 1079 01:00:21,880 --> 01:00:24,720 Speaker 2: it wouldn't be as necessary, they wouldn't feel so much 1080 01:00:24,760 --> 01:00:27,120 Speaker 2: of a void, and so it just feels it. But 1081 01:00:27,160 --> 01:00:29,280 Speaker 2: then you know that can also feel like, well, how 1082 01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:32,120 Speaker 2: the fuck to be like on a societal scale make 1083 01:00:32,200 --> 01:00:35,600 Speaker 2: people feel more comfortable in their lives that they don't 1084 01:00:35,600 --> 01:00:37,560 Speaker 2: need this, you know. So I don't know what the 1085 01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:38,680 Speaker 2: answer is you guys. 1086 01:00:39,600 --> 01:00:43,280 Speaker 3: No, I'll reach out to your friends. 1087 01:00:43,280 --> 01:00:47,120 Speaker 2: That's my touch grass, touch grass. 1088 01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:50,360 Speaker 3: Absolutely. Can I ask you guys if you guys think 1089 01:00:50,440 --> 01:00:51,920 Speaker 3: Alex Jones is a guru? 1090 01:00:52,600 --> 01:00:56,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, he's a guru. Yeah, he's not in the 1091 01:00:56,560 --> 01:00:59,400 Speaker 5: center of our focus because he's just he's so obviously 1092 01:01:00,240 --> 01:01:04,200 Speaker 5: conspiracy faries. We're in conspiracy theorists, We're we're more interested 1093 01:01:04,200 --> 01:01:06,919 Speaker 5: in those in those edu cases, I suppose, but yeah, 1094 01:01:06,960 --> 01:01:07,640 Speaker 5: sure would be. 1095 01:01:07,720 --> 01:01:08,000 Speaker 1: Yes. 1096 01:01:08,320 --> 01:01:11,160 Speaker 4: There's a there's a good podcast, you probably know, Knowledge 1097 01:01:11,160 --> 01:01:15,440 Speaker 4: Fight that like analyzes Alex jones content. It releases an 1098 01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:20,560 Speaker 4: episode three times a week because so much and they 1099 01:01:20,560 --> 01:01:23,000 Speaker 4: do a deep dive. But one thing about that that 1100 01:01:23,040 --> 01:01:26,240 Speaker 4: it makes very clear is like Alex Jones' is you know, 1101 01:01:27,160 --> 01:01:31,640 Speaker 4: kind of very dramatic, bombastic figure, but actually he's like 1102 01:01:32,240 --> 01:01:34,680 Speaker 4: he's presented a little bit, you know, by Joe Rogan 1103 01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:37,840 Speaker 4: and stuff. As like, oh this cookie conspiracy fearist through 1104 01:01:37,920 --> 01:01:40,960 Speaker 4: like believes in fourth dimensional aliens and all this. But 1105 01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:43,960 Speaker 4: like a lot of what he does is just hard 1106 01:01:44,080 --> 01:01:51,080 Speaker 4: right partisan, anti immigrant, misogynistic content. And it's so it 1107 01:01:51,160 --> 01:01:56,240 Speaker 4: isn't like it's not a completely unknown, you know, like 1108 01:01:56,680 --> 01:01:59,560 Speaker 4: little area of conspiracism on its own. It's like it's 1109 01:01:59,600 --> 01:02:04,720 Speaker 4: right when partisanship, and that's just that that will obviously 1110 01:02:04,760 --> 01:02:07,280 Speaker 4: appeal because right. 1111 01:02:07,200 --> 01:02:09,640 Speaker 5: Wing, extreme right wing partisanship. 1112 01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:13,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Milaysia stuff. 1113 01:02:14,120 --> 01:02:18,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, are there any final things you would like 1114 01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:20,480 Speaker 2: to say about Gurus. 1115 01:02:21,800 --> 01:02:33,520 Speaker 4: Mate? Anyone charismatic or it seems interesting, just avoid. 1116 01:02:34,040 --> 01:02:34,640 Speaker 2: Turn them off? 1117 01:02:34,800 --> 01:02:40,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, borrowing people, that's that's the people that you focus 1118 01:02:40,960 --> 01:02:41,920 Speaker 6: on that don't speak. 1119 01:02:41,960 --> 01:02:43,400 Speaker 4: Well, that's that's what you are. 1120 01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:47,120 Speaker 2: Perfect Decoding the Gurus is your podcast and where can 1121 01:02:47,160 --> 01:02:48,480 Speaker 2: people find you on social media? 1122 01:02:49,880 --> 01:02:55,320 Speaker 4: We're on Twitter still for night see You Underscore Kavna 1123 01:02:55,520 --> 01:02:58,880 Speaker 4: and and Matt is our for Sea Dan after the 1124 01:02:58,960 --> 01:03:02,640 Speaker 4: hit Checkers to the Galaxy character and then our podcast 1125 01:03:02,760 --> 01:03:05,840 Speaker 4: is Guru's Poets, but we're easy to find just like googling. 1126 01:03:06,280 --> 01:03:06,640 Speaker 3: Perfect. 1127 01:03:06,680 --> 01:03:09,960 Speaker 2: Great, Thank you guys, so much, Thank you, this is awesome. 1128 01:03:10,080 --> 01:03:11,640 Speaker 4: Thanks for inviting us Okay. 1129 01:03:11,680 --> 01:03:15,400 Speaker 2: So, Megan, now that we've had that discussion, i'd be 1130 01:03:15,520 --> 01:03:18,880 Speaker 2: curious to know, have you ever followed someone who might 1131 01:03:19,040 --> 01:03:21,600 Speaker 2: fall under the guru category? Uh? 1132 01:03:22,080 --> 01:03:23,120 Speaker 3: Sure, and no. 1133 01:03:23,760 --> 01:03:27,080 Speaker 1: You know, like, I'm obsessed with Deepak Chopra at cart 1134 01:03:27,160 --> 01:03:30,560 Speaker 1: Toole all those people, but I don't think that they're 1135 01:03:30,840 --> 01:03:34,160 Speaker 1: necessarily across the board gurus, like I think that they're 1136 01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:35,640 Speaker 1: also cool dudes. 1137 01:03:35,840 --> 01:03:38,960 Speaker 3: But maybe that's me being under a guru spell. 1138 01:03:40,240 --> 01:03:43,240 Speaker 2: I feel like there might be some guru overlap there, 1139 01:03:43,360 --> 01:03:45,880 Speaker 2: but as long as you're not yeah, I'm meeting them 1140 01:03:45,920 --> 01:03:46,720 Speaker 2: as your guru. 1141 01:03:46,880 --> 01:03:50,520 Speaker 1: No, I'm not like going to their expensive conferences or 1142 01:03:50,600 --> 01:03:53,479 Speaker 1: doing any of that stuff. But I'm obsessed with them 1143 01:03:53,680 --> 01:03:56,920 Speaker 1: and mostly at Kart, Like, let's be real, he's the 1144 01:03:56,960 --> 01:04:00,280 Speaker 1: closest thing I have to Uh yeah. 1145 01:04:00,240 --> 01:04:04,840 Speaker 2: Oh interesting. I feel like there's more I could say 1146 01:04:04,880 --> 01:04:06,800 Speaker 2: on that, but I don't know enough to say it. 1147 01:04:07,360 --> 01:04:13,440 Speaker 3: So that's it's so crazy instinct. I love it. What 1148 01:04:13,520 --> 01:04:15,000 Speaker 3: about you? Do you have any gurus? 1149 01:04:15,360 --> 01:04:17,680 Speaker 2: I think my gurus in my life have been like 1150 01:04:17,800 --> 01:04:20,520 Speaker 2: very many gurus where I'm just like, oh, this person 1151 01:04:20,520 --> 01:04:24,120 Speaker 2: has really interesting ideas. I like this, one of them 1152 01:04:24,160 --> 01:04:28,720 Speaker 2: probably being Tara Brock. Uh mindfulness teacher or whatever. But 1153 01:04:28,800 --> 01:04:31,439 Speaker 2: she's she incorporates psychology. She's like, she has a degree 1154 01:04:31,440 --> 01:04:34,160 Speaker 2: in psychology. So it's like not too new agy, which 1155 01:04:34,200 --> 01:04:37,720 Speaker 2: I really like. And then yeah, honestly, her book Radical 1156 01:04:37,720 --> 01:04:39,840 Speaker 2: Acceptance was like game changing for me because it was 1157 01:04:39,880 --> 01:04:42,440 Speaker 2: the first time I ever realized that I don't have 1158 01:04:42,440 --> 01:04:46,600 Speaker 2: to identify with my thoughts. Who else I mean, well, 1159 01:04:46,640 --> 01:04:51,680 Speaker 2: clearly now Albert Kemu, obviously I knew guru. Yeah, I 1160 01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:55,000 Speaker 2: don't know no one, no one in any major way, 1161 01:04:55,000 --> 01:04:58,160 Speaker 2: though I would say, just like various thinkers or authors 1162 01:04:58,280 --> 01:04:59,800 Speaker 2: in my journey. 1163 01:04:59,480 --> 01:05:02,720 Speaker 3: Would you consider your original cult leader a guru? 1164 01:05:03,200 --> 01:05:07,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah for sure, but not you know, in 1165 01:05:07,520 --> 01:05:10,520 Speaker 2: like the religious way, not in like yeah, he wasn't 1166 01:05:10,520 --> 01:05:13,600 Speaker 2: purporting to like help us, help anyone, like be more 1167 01:05:13,680 --> 01:05:17,240 Speaker 2: enlightened or productive so much as just like spring about 1168 01:05:17,360 --> 01:05:20,400 Speaker 2: Jesus's second coming and make sure you were. 1169 01:05:20,280 --> 01:05:22,960 Speaker 3: Saved right right right? 1170 01:05:23,120 --> 01:05:25,680 Speaker 1: So yeah, I feel like gurus and this is just 1171 01:05:25,720 --> 01:05:27,800 Speaker 1: me making sit up, but are more like here's how 1172 01:05:27,840 --> 01:05:30,600 Speaker 1: to have a happier existence, and maybe more how we 1173 01:05:30,640 --> 01:05:32,720 Speaker 1: grew up was just like here's how to avoid making 1174 01:05:32,840 --> 01:05:33,520 Speaker 1: Jesus mad. 1175 01:05:33,680 --> 01:05:34,120 Speaker 3: I don't know. 1176 01:05:34,480 --> 01:05:36,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, well I feel like mine was more like Harry 1177 01:05:36,600 --> 01:05:39,560 Speaker 2: Potter or something where it's like you were chosen to 1178 01:05:39,720 --> 01:05:44,720 Speaker 2: do this, you know, life, this world saving task or whatever. 1179 01:05:45,000 --> 01:05:47,800 Speaker 2: Right right, it's like, oh my god, I'm fucking Luke Skywalker. 1180 01:05:47,920 --> 01:05:51,480 Speaker 2: I'm like the one chosen my mom and I or whatever. 1181 01:05:52,160 --> 01:05:54,720 Speaker 2: So that does feel like a slightly different thing. I 1182 01:05:54,720 --> 01:05:56,760 Speaker 2: feel like there's gurus and then there's prophets. 1183 01:05:57,000 --> 01:05:59,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe we can It's a fun episode. Maybe we 1184 01:05:59,320 --> 01:06:02,200 Speaker 1: can do that someday. Yeah, all right, all right, good 1185 01:06:02,640 --> 01:06:04,840 Speaker 1: you guys, Thank you so much for joining us here 1186 01:06:04,880 --> 01:06:05,520 Speaker 1: another week. 1187 01:06:05,600 --> 01:06:07,800 Speaker 3: We can't wait to see you again next time. 1188 01:06:08,120 --> 01:06:11,160 Speaker 1: And this always remember to follow your gut, watch out 1189 01:06:11,160 --> 01:06:11,720 Speaker 1: for red. 1190 01:06:11,560 --> 01:06:19,440 Speaker 3: Flags, and never ever trust me. 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